2012 - Devotion Wedding Show
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2012 - Devotion Wedding Show
2012 Contents Things to do before I do..........Page 6 Love & Strength: True Story..Page 8 Vein of love.............................Page 11 Love: A bride’s story...............Page 14 Dream cakes............................Page 17 Photography 101.....................Page 18 Simple elegance......................Page 22 Music: Elite’s top 10...............Page 25 DEVOTION Newfoundland and Labrador’s Wedding Magazine Published by: Devotion Wedding Managing Editor / Art Director: Crystal McLellan Copy Editor: Vicki Barbour Advertising Sales: Shirley Parsons 709-579-7406 Here we are in 2012 and another wedding season is starting to take shape. If this is your year to say “I do”, congratulations. You have a very exciting and busy few months ahead of you. Within the pages of this year’s issue of Devotion (our 8th edition!) you will find some advice, ideas and help that will ensure you get hitched without a glitch. This year we made sure we had articles on lots of things that are of interest to today’s modern Newfoundland and Labrador bride: cakes, flowers, colours, decor, photography, honeymooning and more. Also this year we have a very special story from one woman who shared what it was like to plan a wedding while her mother was fighting breast cancer. We hope you enjoy this year’s Devotion Magazine and we wish you all the best in your planning. Contributing Writers: Vicki Barbour Wendy Squires-Ennis Elizabeth Janes Pam Picco Jonathan Connors Margaret Coward Devotion Magazine is published once a year by Devotion Wedding. All material (written, photographic or otherwise) is sole property of Devotion Wedding and may not be used or reproduced without written permission from the publisher. For information on contributing, advertising or to request a copy please call 709-364-9559 or email crystal@ crystalclearimages.ca Devotion Wedding 27 Green Acre Drive St. John’s, NL A1H 1C3 Cover Photo: Crystal Clear Images Inc. 5 12-24 months 3-6 months • Announce your engagement • Select a wedding date • Set your budget amount • Start your guest list • Select your bridal party • Book the ceremony • Book the reception site • Hire a caterer • Book photographer • Book videographer • Book DJ / live Music • Order wedding cake • Hire a florist • Hire a decorator • Start looking for your dress • Attend bridal shows • Start honeymoon plans • Send out invitations • Order favour supplies • Plan the reception menu • Get engagement pictures taken • Confirm delivery dates on all dresses • Book and confirm tuxes • Purchase candles, sand, guest book, pens, etc • Finalize honeymoon arrangements • Arrange seating chart • Confirm all appointments • Hire transportation • Get jewelry, garter, shoes • See seamstress and start fittings • Take your mother dress shopping • Buy gifts for bridal party and your partner 6-9 months • Finalize guest list • Look for bridesmaid dresses • Reserve wedding night suite • Schedule rehearsal dinner • Order invitations • Order wedding dress • Arrange hair and makeup • Pick out wedding rings • Create a gift registry 6 1-3 months • Select song list for dances • Check into wedding license • Final fitting for dress and tuxes • Send copies of ceremony readings to participants • Contact guest who have not yet RSVP • Plan rehearsal dinner & location 1-2 weeks • Check on final payments • Confirm times with vendors • Finalize guest count for caterer • Discuss final details with wedding party • Relax, go to the spa! The Big Day • Trust the people you’ve hired • Eat during the day • Give final payments and your rings to best man • Don’t stress out. A piece of advice from us: you are the only one that will know if something goes wrong. Let it be and enjoy your day. Rings Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Stationery Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Engagement Wedding Bands SUBTOTAL Announcements Invitations Thank You Notes Reception Napkins Church Programs Postage Guest Book Other SUBTOTAL Photography Engagement Shoot Wedding Package Wedding Album Extra Prints SUBTOTAL Videography Wedding Package Extra Videos SUBTOTAL Ceremony Marriage License Ceremony Site Fee Officiant’s Fee Organist & Soloist Decorating SUBTOTAL Gifts Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Bride & Groom Bridesmaid Groomsmen Table Favours Other SUBTOTAL Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Transportation Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Limousine Car Rental SUBTOTAL Special Parties Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Accommodation Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Wedding Night Other SUBTOTAL Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Wedding Cake Cake Knife Cake Topper SUBTOTAL Beauty & Hair Wedding Dress Garter & Lingerie Veil & Headpiece Shoes Accessories Formal Wear (groom) SUBTOTAL Ceremony Site Reception Site Cake Table Bride’s Bouquet Bridesmaid Bouquets Groom’s Boutonniere Boutonniere(s) Corsages Others SUBTOTAL Catering Site Fee Decorations Beverages Gratuities Music SUBTOTAL Wedding Cake Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Personal Effects Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Flowers Reception Engagement Party Rehearsal Dinner Bridesmaid Party Bachelor Party SUBTOTAL Honeymoon Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Grand Total Budgeted Total Deposit Balance Passport Fee Travel Insurance Honeymoon Other SUBTOTAL Lori Greene planned to get married in the fall of 2010. She had plenty of time to pick out locations with her mom, and was in no rush. Then the unthinkable happened. Her mother, Donna Howell, had fought breast cancer and was even one of the main voices for victims during the Cameron Inquiry into hormone receptor testing. She was accustomed to fighting cancer. However, in May 2009 Donna’s battle with cancer, which had spread from her breasts to her bones to her liver, became serious. Lori realized that if she wanted her mother to be at her wedding she was going to have to make some quick changes. “I talked to her doctor and asked if I was to get married in September, would that be too late?” The doctor felt it was. And so was August. “How about June 19th?” Lori asked. The doctor told her it might be too late, but she should go for it. That gave Lori a month to plan her wedding. Lori set about making it happen with the belief that it would all come together in time for her mom to be a part of it. The day they 8 received the news of the cancer’s progression, Lori called her vendor and explained the situation. “The lady at the venue was wonderful,” Lori said. “As soon as I told her the situation, she took care of it.” The next day she went shopping for her wedding dress with her mom and bridesmaids. The girls found their dresses the same day, in under an hour. The next day Lori put together a wedding invitation-making assembly line and by then it was clear that with the help of friends and family, pulling off a wedding in a month was more than possible. Lori and her fiancé Sheldon were married at Holy Family Church in Paradise on June 19, 2009 with her mother there to watch her walk down the aisle. Even though Lori was a nurse, she was on Continued on page 20 By: Vicki Barbour Photo shoot: Crystal Clear Images Inc. Hair and makeup courtesy of The Signature Salon 3. Do they cause trouble between you and your partner? 18.0 % Yes 82.0 % No 4. Do they over-stay their welcome? We often hear stories of epic wedding woes between brides, grooms and their respective parents. It got us here at Devotion wondering what kind of relationship our brides and grooms right here in Newfoundland and Labrador have with their partner’s families. We sent out a survey to 50 people and the results are in. Turns out for the most part, we love them. They’re more helpful than not. And most importantly, they don’t overstay their welcome. Of course, not everyone has it perfect. But isn’t it good to know the majority of in-law relationships are not nearly as bad as we sometimes think? 40.0 % 2.0 % 58.0 % Hardly. We rarely see them. Always. They should just move in. They know when to come, and when to go home. 5. Did your in-laws make your wedding planning Income......................................................0 more difficult? (Married respondents only) Total Package........................................3 25.0 % Did they ever. Let me tell you! 45.0 % No. They were a big help. 30.0 % No more than my own parents. Certain body part................................3 Dancing skills.......................................5 1. Do you get along with your in-laws? Sexy............................................................6 74.0 % Yes 6.0 % No 20.0 % That depends on the day. 6. Are you worried your in-laws will make Funny.........................................................6 planning your wedding more difficult? (Non-married respondents only) Personality..............................................6 2. Do you think your in-laws like you? 60.6 % Not really. I think they’ll be helpful. Yes. It keeps me up at night. 36.4 % I’m going to do what I want, so let them try. Swept you off your feet....................7 3.0 % 77.5 % Of course they do. 14.3 % I doubt it. 8.2 % I could care less. Love at first sight................................10 Around Newfoundland and Labrador it’s pretty uncommon to see people wearing their wedding rings on any finger other than the third finger on the left hand. Many other cultures and regions of the world have different wedding ring traditions when it comes to ring placement, but did you ever wonder what the tradition is behind our custom? The most common reason for this tradition comes from ancient Rome. The Roman’s believed that a vein stretched from the third finger of the left hand to the heart. This vein was called vena amoris, or vein of love. The belief was that by placing the ring above the vein, you were linked with the heart. Like many traditions the real reasons are lost to time. However, next time you look down at your ring, you can think back to our ancient ancestors in Rome and thank them for this little piece of romantic folklore. Love on the High Seas By: Vicki Barbour In last year’s Devotion we introduced you to Catherine Fleming and Justin Warren. They were in the middle of planning their cruise ship wedding. They were married May 19th, 2011 at Divi Little Beach in Phillipsburg, St. Maarten. The entire wedding was arranged by their wedding coordinator on Royal Caribbean’s Allure of the Seas. We wanted to know how things turned out and what advice Catherine Warren had for those of you considering a cruise ship wedding. By all accounts, the wedding was the stuff of dreams. 26 of their closest family and friends joined them, and while there was rain while they were docking, the sun came out in time for their beach wedding and everything was fresh and bright. Catherine says one thing brides should keep in mind is that a destination wedding doesn’t mean you can’t have the dress you always wanted. She chose a stunning Mori Lee gown. She was driven from the ship to the beach in a jaguar and was made to feel like a local celebrity. Catherine’s bouquet was made of tropical flowers from the island, and her only disappointment was that she wasn’t Submitted photos allowed to take them with her when they returned to the US. Catherine stresses that while her wedding was spectacular, you do need to do your research, especially when it comes to getting your marriage licence. One of her biggest stresses came in getting her marriage licence. “Some destinations (like St. Maarten) can take months to process a marriage licence. Make sure you send it in plenty of time so you aren’t under a time crunch!”, she warns. You also want to find out what language the ceremony will be conducted in. If the country has an official language other than English, you may need to get your documents translated. This can create an extra cost that you might not be expecting. Other bits of practical advice include not wearing heels on your beach wedding. She wore wedge heels and had no trouble walking up the sandy aisle. Also, Catherine advises you carry your wedding gown as your carry on baggage when flying to your cruise ship departure port. This not only allows you to keep an eye on your dress, but can let people know you’re on your way to your wedding which may result in extra perks and attention. And what new bride doesn’t want that? Finally, don’t sweat the small stuff. You don’t have a lot of control over what things may change so just go with it. In Catherine and Justin’s case, they’d requested a harpist to play during the ceremony. However, they ended up with Steel Drums. Instead of being disappointed, they were thrilled with the unexpected surprise. If you’re the kind of person who needs to control every detail of your wedding, a cruise ship wedding may not be for you. But if you’re willing to place your faith in professionals with experience, and go with the flow, you can end up having a truly once-in-a-lifetime experience. Love By: Elizabeth Janes between a bride and her groom “Today I marry my best friend”. Truer words have never been spoken. August 20th, 2011 was a dream. The whole day went by in a blink of an eye. Every aspect of our wedding was perfect, from the engagement to the final dance of the night. I wouldn’t change a single thing. You always hear about the girl that married her high school sweetheart...that was me! Steve and I met many years ago, all the way back in grade five! Who would have thought then that a mere five years later he would be by boyfriend? We started seeing each other in grade 10 and have been together ever since. 17 years later, and I still get butterflies when he kisses me. 14 Steve’s proposal was perfect. It was close to 11p.m. one evening and he was scheduled to go away for work in the early a.m. I was upstairs, calling out for him to come to bed. He was calling back, for me to come downstairs. After about 20 minutes of this going back and forth, I finally came down to see what he was doing. All the lights were off, except for a flicker of light on the patio table that I could see through the open back patio door. As I went out to see where he was, all I could see were numerous candles laid everywhere. He turned the corner holding a little black box. He took my hand, got down on one knee and said I was his best friend, his one and only and he wanted me to become his wife. Of course, through tears and kisses, I said yes. Our wedding was a fairytale come true. We were married at Holy Family Church in front of our friends and family. The Party Bus was our chauffeur, and took us to get our pictures taken. Our photographer, Crystal Clear Images, was amazing. She snapped our pictures at Glendenning Golf course (where our reception was held), downtown St. John’s and Signal Hill. The staff at Glendenning Golf Course worked their magic and did everything they could to ensure our night was spectacular. One of our best memories was of our bridal party. We are fortunate enough to have amazing brothers and sisters and the best friends you could ever ask for. They were kind Continued on page 16 Photo: Crystal Clear Images Inc. 15 Continued from page 14 enough to go along with our wishes, of dancing into the reception, in a practiced choreographed ensemble and adding a few dance moves to Michael Jackson’s “beat it” midway through our first dance of the night. It was perfect. What advice could I offer a couple planning their wedding? This whole journey will be over before you know it. Enjoy it. Take a deep breath that day. Look around when you are up at the altar getting ready to marry the love of your life. Look at the people that came to see you–all your very best friends and loved ones. Take another deep breath and look at your spouse-to-be. Remember how he looks this very moment in time. Although you feel like it’s the busy, hectic, run-ragged time of your life, enjoy it. When it’s all said and done and you’re home taking off your wedding dress and trying to pull 300 bobby pins from your hair, you won’t believe it’s all done. You would give anything to start all over and relive every minute of your wedding again. As fast as a picture is snapped, you will be saying “I do” and you too will be marrying your best friend. By: Pam Picco Your wedding cake can be whatever you dream it to be. Want a black and white cake with dashes of red? You’ve got it. Tiffany blue? Sure thing. Today’s cake makers are here to please you and make your vision come true. Gone are the days of cherry and fruitcake (although if that’s what you want, you can get it.) Today’s dream wedding cakes come in every flavour imaginable. My biggest sellers this year are vanilla, Photo: Donna McMullin Photography chocolate, and my own specialty, banana pound cake filled with peanut butter. Some women want their cake to be a picture of elegance, while others like to surprise their new husbands with something special to him like a logo of his favourite sports team. Whatever you choose, keep in mind that your cake is a focal-point in your wedding. So why not make it exactly what you want? Meet the professional photographers that have the answers Crystal McLellan Crystal Clear Images Inc. In business since 2002 Planning a wedding can be very stressful and fun at the same time. Making sure that you have the right vendors booked to make that dream wedding come true takes a lot of help and advice. Photography is a very big part of your wedding and your photographer should be chosen with a lot of thought. Four photographers have given their opinions on different topics. Here is what they had to say. 1. Why are contracts important? Crystal: Contracts clarify what services are offered and paid for. Hilda: It’s very important to have everything outlined so there are no misunderstandings. Adam: It will help both sides be clear about deliverables and time lines. It will ensure that every one is on the same page regarding the wedding and will cover questions that might come up. Charro: You should always have a contract with your photographer. Hilda Cousins Cousins Photography In business since 2006 Adam Kavanagh Adam Kavanagh Photography In business since 2005 Having a contract protects both parties and ensures that requirements that both the bride and groom and their photographer have will be legally met. 2. Are locations important? Crystal: I always ask what the couple would like to see as a background. For example, water, NL scenery, architecture, greenery, etc. From there we come up with a list of spots together. Hilda: I think the location should have meaning and importance to the couple. Not just shoot there because it is “the place”. I like being able to find something different for each couple. Adam: While locations are important, I think that lighting is the first priority. If you have a beautiful location but the lighting is not working then there can be problems. Not to say the photos would not be good, but it will be much harder to get the “wow” factor with bad light. I look for interesting lighting. An environment in which the light acts differently is awesome, be it the way the light falls on the couple, or something that creates a different Charro Benteau Charro Benteau Photography In business since 1998 pattern. An unusual light source or a natural light modifier can really make a good photo an amazing one. Charro: I really do not have a particular favorite spot to shoot. I always ask my bride and groom what the vision is for their wedding day. Where do they see themselves in their pictures and most importantly, is there a particular location that has sentimental value to them? If they ask for help in choosing locations then I will suggest something based on their interests and personality. 3. Do you find it better shooting by yourself or with another photographer? Crystal: I like two because it gives you the opportunity to get different angles. But one photographer can certainly cover a wedding just as well. Hilda: I shoot alone but have an assistant. I can see the upside of having another photographer so you can catch many different angles from the day, but you have to be careful not to overwhelm the couple. Adam: I find it very handy to have a second person who can help carry gear, be a gofer back to the car, help the bridal party and someone who is able to watch the crowd for a candid moment when you’re looking at something else. Charro: I try to make sure my assistants are always able to second shoot. It’s always nice to have the option of different angles to choose from during the day. During the couple’s portion of the shoot, I may choose to have my assistant not shoot but instead help out with off-camera flash. I can’t imagine shooting a wedding without an assistant. They bring so much to the day from straightening ties and flowers to fantastic candid photographs at times when I do not have the ability to take candid shots. 4. Do you require full payment up front or on the wedding day? Crystal: I have a deposit that is due on booking. The rest is due on or before the day of. Hilda: I take a deposit to secure the date and full payment is due a week before the wedding. Adam: Full payment due before the wedding. Charro: I require payment in full the day before the wedding. otherwise. Now obviously rain can be a bit of a downer, but it’s not a disaster by any accord. Many say that a cloudy day is best, as it does not make people squint, which is true. But you also don’t get really cool sun flares and other things, so there really is no best, just different. Charro: The weather here in Newfoundland is unpredictable, so knowing how to shoot in any condition is a must! I prefer overcast for family portraits and bright sun for the couple’s portion of the day. Light rain makes everything pop in color and is definitely not the end of the world on a wedding day. I think some of my best work has been in the rain. The hardest element to work with is heavy winds. 6. What is your time line to return proofs? We all agreed that you should expect to receive your proofs between 4-6 weeks after the wedding. Hilda: I don’t work with a list, but I have a thorough conversation with clients and take lots of notes to make sure I get everything they would like. Adam: I’m more than happy to do whatever makes the bride the most comfortable. Some people are very list oriented while others are not. During consultation we will discuss the photos the couple would like to ensure everyone is on the same page for family photos and how the day will progress. Charro: I make my own list of shots that are “must have” shots. It might sound a bit old fashioned, but I’d rather make sure I have that special shot of the grandmother’s broach or the cousin who came from overseas then take the chance of missing it. That being said, this list is my own based on things the couple has asked for. I don’t usually ask the bride and groom to provide one. Continued on page 26 7. Will you, or do you like having a list of shots that the bride wants? Crystal: I have an informal list of shots that I take of the family. If there is something the couple want added I have no problem taking a list. 5. What is the best weather to take photos in? Crystal: Just after it rains is spectacular because all the colors appear richer. I also like soft sun that is coming through the clouds. I find harsh sunlight hard to shoot in but can add interesting shadows to the photos. Hilda: Overcast/ bright, not to sunny. I love fall shooting because the light is so soft . Adam: This is an interesting question, and I feel whatever the weather is on your big day is the best weather. You never know what shots you will get and there will be that one stellar photo that you would not have gotten 19 Continued from page 8 maternity leave at the time. She spent the remainder of the summer caring for her mother. On September 25th, 2009, Donna Howell passed away with Lori at her side. Unfortunately, Lori isn’t the only person who has or will deal with cancer while planning a wedding. Recent estimates expect a total of 2,700 new cases of cancer will occur in Newfoundland and Labrador this year, 370 of those with breast cancer. The emotional stress of coming to terms with the situation, in addition to the normal stresses of planning a wedding can seem overwhelming. But Lori says that you do what you need to do. Her advice? Take any help you are offered. If you have people willing to help you, accept it. Your family will pull together to make it happen. “If you want your wedding to happen, it will. No matter what,” Lori advises. She also advises trying not to stress. “It doesn’t help. So what’s the point. And there are bigger things happening than the wedding.” Local Marriage Commissioner and Wedding Advisor, Wendy Squires-Ennis, is proud to announce that WendysWeddingWorks.com has now evolved into a comprehensive, practical, local wedding planning and advertising website. Because of the many inquiries received over the years regarding services that Wendy’s Wedding Works did not provide, the development of this site was the next natural phase. Your wedding day will be one of the happiest days of your life, but it can also be one of By: Wendy Squires-Ennis the most stressful. It doesn’t have to be. You are not expected to know everything about weddings. WendysWeddingWorks.com will teach you how to do things right the first time, which will make your planning more efficient and cost effective. You will benefit from Wendy’s collective experience as a professional videographer with Memories Forever and as a Marriage Commissioner and Wedding Advisor. The site will include advertisements for wedding professionals and their products and services, articles, checklists, points to ponder and much more, all based on Wendy’s experience in the wedding industry, since 1995. The site will be user-friendly, modern and well maintained, and you may benefit from visiting the site at any time throughout your wedding planning, even on your wedding day. Have the wedding day you’ve always dreamed of without all of the hassle, by letting WendysWeddingWorks.com help you, from “Yes!” to “I do.” Chiavari Chairs owned by Something Borrowed, Something Blue By: Margaret Coward Curious about what decorating trends are hot in Newfoundland and Labrador in 2012? Here are some things I predict we’ll see a lot of this wedding season. Vintage Victorian: The wedding of the year for 2011 was certainly Prince William and Kate’s. For that reason, damask is still big here in the province, although not so much on the mainland. Lace remains a craze and hot colours in this theme are white, black, ivory, pale pink and Victorian lilac. Shabby Rustic: Very popular with outdoor weddings, where people are keeping it simple by renting tents and doing it themselves. Simplicity: Clean and simple seems to be the key to elegance these days. Popular centerpieces are cylinder and square vases with faux crystal and water, along with floating candles. More elaborate weddings are tending towards large Manzanita trees decorated with hanging crystals and candle glasses. What’s hot? • Chiavari chairs • Candy Buffets • Cup cakes • Photo booths • LED uplighting in the corner of your venue and decor lighting What’s not? • Icicle lights • Ivy • Ceiling canopies Beautiful Brides and their Gowns of 2011 By: Rhonda Neary If you’re considering purchasing a diamond, you’ve probably already heard of the term ‘the 4C’s’. These 4C’s - cut, clarity, carat weight and colour - are simply a grading system established by the diamond industry to help categorize and valuate diamonds. While some may have always thought that the size of the diamond matters most, it’s actually the combination of the 4C’s that determines the value of a particular diamond. For example, a colourless diamond is very rare, but if it lacks clarity, is small, or not well cut, it will be of a lower value. Allow us to explain each of the 4C’s and what they mean, starting with the most important. CUT: Cut refers to the arrangement of a diamond’s facets. Cut is the most important of the four C’s and is the only C under man’s control. Using an exacting mathematical formula, master cutters create each ideal cut diamond with astounding precision. Unparalleled beauty, and what diamonds are known and loved the world over for: brilliance, sparkle and fire. COLOUR: Colour is determined by viewing the body of the diamond from its side. The higher the colour in a diamond, the rarer it is. The colour grades for diamonds begin with D, the whitest, and continue through the alphabet (E, F, G.). Truly colourless diamonds (the D grade) are extremely rare and highly valuable; a single change in colour grade can significantly affect a diamond’s value. CLARITY: Clarity is the degree to which identifying characteristics known as inclusions are present in a diamond. The number, the size, and the visibility of a diamond’s inclusions contribute to its grade on the clarity scale. Diamonds with very, very small inclusions are graded as VVS1 or VVS2. Inclusions that can be seen with the naked eye are graded I1 to I3. Only the rarest of diamonds achieve the highest quality of clarity and have no inclusions at all. In fact, Flawless (FL) or Internally Flawless (IF) diamonds represent fewer than one percent of all diamonds! CARAT: Carat weight is a standard of weight used for gemstones. Carat weight is probably the most wellknown characteristic in diamonds, yet it is the least important in determining the brilliance and beauty of a diamond. Seek advice from a diamond professional who would be delighted to answer any of your questions, and pleased to show you a selection of diamonds in a range of prices. And, when you’re ready, help you select the perfect match for you. By: Jonathan Connors 10. 9. 8. 7. 6. 5. 4. 3. 2. 1. Lost in This Moment Artist: Big & Rich At Last Artist: Etta James Your Guardian Angel Artist: The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus When I Look At You Artist: Miley Cyrus Everything Artist: Michael Buble Marry Me Artist: Train The One I Love Artist: David Gray Love Song Artist: Adele A Thousand Years Artist: Christina Perri Feels Like Home Artist: Chantal Kreviazuk Picking a first dance song can be difficult. Use Elite’s F.I.R.S.T Method to find the perfect song. Fun: Make sure that no matter the style, you and your partner will have fun. Be sure that the song makes you smile. Imagine The Moment: When you have a song in mind turn it up and imagine the moment. Do you get a feeling deep down that says you’ve found the perfect one? Relate to it: Find a song that matches the way you feel about each other or relates to a past moment in your lives together. Check the lyrics. Many couples make the mistake of not listening to the whole track or reading the lyrics before selecting the first dance tune. Even though the title or the chorus of the song might be entirely what you want, some songs have strange lyrical twists that you might not want to associate with your first dance. Significant: Choose a song that will stand out long after its popular days have passed. Don’t just pick a song that is trendy. Pick something that you can dance to at your 50th and say in front of all your friends, “This was our first dance.” T – Tempo Fit the overall tempo of the song to your dancing ability and comfort. Most couples shouldn’t choose an excessively fast up-beat track. Be sure to choose a rhythm that fits you as a couple, and don’t be afraid to do a few practice dances to see how you feel. Continued from page 19 8. Do you work by hours or package? Crystal: I go by package. Hilda: Package. Adam: Packages are made up with different number of hours. Charro: I go by hours in my packages. Each package includes hours and usually a credit or credit plus items. 9. What is your package price range? There are a lot of different prices out there for packages. Most experienced photographers usually charge anywhere from $1500 - $3500. 10. Do you have any advice? Crystal: You need to feel comfortable and click (pardon the pun) with your photographer. That way you will feel at ease when you are getting your photos done. If you feel uncomfortable or upset you will see it in the photos. Hilda: Be very aware of who you are hiring! Meet with them or have a phone conversation. Look at more than a few photos on the website, because they will always be the best. Ask to see an entire wedding, look at a gallery or an album of printed photos. There are many wonderful talented photographers in this city. Find one to suit your style and personality! Adam: Have an Engagement session. It is really the best way to get to know each other. Many people as individuals are not accustomed to having their photos taken, let alone as a couple. It really helps the couple know what the day of the wedding will be like and gives the photographer a sense for who the people are and their personality! Charro: My advice for couples looking for the right photographer for them is to spend some time looking at each photographer’s work and get to know them through meeting either face-to-face or online with Skype or via a long phone conversation. Ask to see a full wedding day gallery, either in print or online, and make sure you understand their style and see if it’s something you can see having for yourself. Your wedding day is important! Knowing that your photographer is someone who can make you smile and laugh is important. A big part of what we do involves keeping everything on time in a fun and friendly manner. Make sure you not only like your photographer’s style, but more importantly, you like the photographer themselves! Shop around and you will find the right photographer for you, whether that’s someone who’s style is funky, romantic or traditional. There are lots of options available. ACCOMMODATIONS / B&B Hillview Terrace Suites Building 4A, Suite 202 3 Wadland Cresent St. John’s, NL A1A 2J5 Phone: 709-754-9822 Toll-Free: 1-888-754-9822 Fax: 709-754-9047 Email: reservations@hillviewterracesuites.ca Website: www.hillviewterracesuites.ca Memories Forever 161 Thorburn Road St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-738-4336 Email: info@MemoriesForever.ca Website: www.MemoriesForever.ca Winterholme Suites & Spa 79 Rennies Mill Road St. John’s, NL A1C 3R1 Phone: 709-739-7979 Email: info@winterholme.com Website: www.winterholme.com CATERING / RESTAURANTS Bianca 171 Water Street St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-726-9016 Email: Biancas@nl.rogers.com Website: www.biancas.net Red Oak Catering Bowring Park Bungalow St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-368-6808 Email: info@redoaknf.com Website: www.redoaknf.com St. Teresa’s Parish Hall 120 Mundy Pond Road St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-579-0068 Fax: 709-579-3804 Website: www.stteresa.ca CATERING / RESTAURANTS DECORATING The Woodstock Colonial Paradise, NL Phone: 709-781-0665 Email: info@idodesign.ca Website: www.idodesign.ca 1959 Topsail Road Paradise, NL Phone: 709-781-2222 Fax: 709-781-2225 Email: info@thewoodstock.com Website: www.thewoodstock.com I Do Design Kathy Evans Design Studio Showroom - 321 Hamilton Ave St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-728-4746 DECORATING Email: info@kathyevansdesignstudio.ca Deanne Hill Wedding Designs Inc. Website: www.kathyevansdesignstudio.ca 7 Warford Road Kindred Hearts Decorating Shea Heights, NL A0A 1J0 St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-726-2159 Phone: 709-690-7834 Email: info@weddingdesignsnl.com Email: kindredheartsdecorating@hotmail.com Website: www.weddingdesignsnl.com Website: www.kindredheartsdecorating.com Elite Productions FB Page: Kindred Hearts Decorating 20 Glencoe Drive Mt. Pearl, NL Now & Forever Wedding Decor Phone: 709-745-6088 Goulds, NL Email: info@eliteproductions.ca Phone: 709-364-4248 Website: www.eliteproductions.ca Cell: 709-728-4957 Email: annemariedalton@nl.rogers.com Essence Design Website: Paradise, NL www.nowandforeverweddingdecor.com Phone: 709-727-3011 Email: essencedesign@mail.com Something Borrowed, FB Page: Essence Design Something Blue St. John’s, NL Focused Event Co Phone: 709-754-8220 Portugal Cove - St. Philip’s, NL Email: Phone: 709-895-0848 info@somethingborrowedsomethingblue.org Email: focusedeventsco@gmail.com Website: Website: www.focusedeventco.com www.somethingborrowedsomethingblue.org Special Moments Decorating Bay Roberts, NL Phone: 709-786-3884 Fax: 709-786-1267 Email: debbieyoung@nfld.net Website: www.homeaccentsinc.com Wedding Belles Decorating CBS, NL Phone: 709-834-7535 Email: info@wedbelles.nl.ca Website: www.wedbelles.nl.ca DJ / LIVE MUSIC FINANCIAL HEALTH Ennis Audio East Coast Mortgage Brokers Body By Vi 90 Day Challenge (Visalus) - Grant Walsh (Wendy’s Wedding Works) St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-895-8697 Email: wendy@wendysweddingworks.com Website: www.wendysweddingworks.com Glenn Connolly Mix Dj St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-237-GLEN (4536) Email: gcmixdj@gmail.com Website: www.gcmixdj.com Jane Morgan’s Wedding Services St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-747-6758 Email: jmm@nl.rogers.com Website: www.janem.ca Pachelbel Trio Portugal Cove - St. Philip’s, NL Phone: 709-895-0423 Email: nancy@pachelbeltrio.com Website: www.pachelbeltrio.com Pearlview Audio St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-745-0928 Cell: 709-697-2134 Email: pearlviewaudioservices@gmail.com 75 Tiffany Lane St. John’s, NL A1E 4H7 Phone: 709-754-0422 Cell: 709-763-1331 Email: claude.sullivan@ecmb.ca Website: www.ecmb.ca FORMAL WEAR Ever After Bridal Boutique info@somethingborrowedsomethingblue.org 5 Church Hill St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-722-6009 Cell: 709-725-4632 Website: www.artofpeterlewis.com www.somethingborrowedsomethingblue.org Mt. Pearl, NL Phone: 709-368-0008 Email: ptessier@cbcf.org Website: www.cbcf.org/atlantic Aylward’s Designs Plus Inc. GIFT / REGISTRY Website: Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation - Atlantic Region 173 CBS HWY Suite 103 CBS, NL Phone: 709-834-3837 Email: info@everafterbridalboutique.ca Jema International Website: www.everafterbridalboutique.ca 736 Water Street St. John’s, NL A1E 1C2 Isabel Tavares Phone: 709-738-5362 St. John’s, NL Fax: 709-738-3662 Phone: 709-728-7522 Email: jema@nf.aibn.com Email: designer@isabeltavares.com Website: www.jemaclinic.com Website: www.isabeltavares.com FB Page: Our Pleasure Isabel Tavares Fashion Design St. John’s, Mt. Pearl, Clarenville, Gander, Corner Brook, NL The Model Shop Phone: 709-753-LOVE(5683) 285 Water Street Email: info@ourpleasure.ca St. John’s, NL Website: www.ourpleasure.ca Phone: 709-753-7576 Email: modelshop@nfld.net INVITATIONS Website: www.modelformalwear.com Something Borrowed, Something Blue St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-754-8220 Email: St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-699-8096 Email: bellyfatchallenge@gmail.com Website: www.FatLossIn90Days.com Peter Lewis Gallery Sears Canada 48 Kenmount Road, Avalon Mall St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-726-3770, ext 353 Website: www.sears.ca 367 Southern Shore Highway Ocean Beach Premises, Witless Bay, NL Phone: 709-238-0288 Cell: 709-685-7400 Email: kay@aylwardsdesignsplus.ca FB Page: Aylwards Designs Plus Wedding Stationery moments 46 Pennywell Road St. John’s, NL A1C 2K9 Phone: 709-699-9099 Email: info@moments-nl.com Website: www.moments-nl.com INVITATIONS The Paperie 36 Pippy Place St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-726-5323 Email: thepaperie@warp.nfld.net Website: www.thepaperie.ca MARRIAGE COMMISSIONERS PHOTOGRAPHERS Craig Murphy St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-689-4473 Email: donna@donnamcmullin.com Website: www.donnamcmullin.com 175 Signal Hill Road St. John’s, NL A1A 1B2 Phone: 709-764-8243 Fax: 709-737-7885 JEWELRY Email: craig.murphy@geocentre.ca Website: www.geocentre.ca The Goldsmith Jane Morgan’s Wedding Services 9 Churchill Square St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-368-GOLD(4653) Email: sales@thegoldsmith.ca Website: www.thegoldsmith.ca The Bridal Suite (a div of Twisted Sisters boutik) 175 Water Street, Suite #2 St. John’s, NL A1C 1B1 Phone: 709-749-0049 Email: bridalinfo_twisted@yahoo.ca Blog: thebridalsuite-twistedsistersboutik. blogspot.com LIMOUSINE RENTALS Memories Forever 161 Thorburn Road St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-738-4336 Email: info@MemoriesForever.ca Website: www.MemoriesForever.ca The Party Bus 124 Groves Road St. John’s, NL A1B 4L3 Phone: 709-727-8928 Fax: 709-739-7247 Email: info@thepartybus.ca Website: www.thepartybus.ca St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-747-6758 Email: jmm@nl.rogers.com Website: www.janem.ca Donna McMullin Photography Cousins Photography 615 Indian Meal Line St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-728-3559 Email: cousinsphotography@nl.rogers.com Website: www.cousinsphotography.ca Crystal Clear Images Inc. St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-364-9559 (Wendy’s Wedding Works) Cell: 709-746-0725 St. John’s, NL Email: crystal@crystalclearimages.ca Phone: 709-895-8697 Email: wendy@wendysweddingworks.com Website: www.crystalclearimages.ca Website: www.wendysweddingworks.com FB Page: Crystal Clear Images Inc. Wendy Squires-Ennis PHOTOGRAPHERS Adam Kavanagh Photographic St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-864-4570 Cell: 709-363-7717 Email: me@adamkavanagh.com Website: www.adamkavanagh.com Amy Fitzpatrick Design & Photography St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-690-6000 Email: info@amyfitzpatrick.ca Website: www.amyfitzpatrick.ca King’s Photography Paradise, NL Phone: 709-782-5464 Cell: 709-690-2940 Email: phonse@kingsphoto.net Website: www.kingsphoto.net Mandee Tara Photography Harbour Grace, NL Phone: 709-597-0579 Email: mandeesugimoto@yahoo.ca Website: www.mandeetara.com Pat Atkins Photography 874 Topsail Road Mt. Pearl, NL A1N 3J9 Phone: 709-754-0556 Charro Benteau Photography Cell: 709-691-1394 St. John’s, NL Email: info@patatkins.ca Phone: 709-743-1055 Email: info@atlantichorizonimaging.com Website: www.patatkins.ca Website: www.atlantichorizonimaging.com Shilo’s Photography St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-687-8742 Email: info@ShiloStagg.ca Website: www.ShiloStagg.ca PHOTOGRAPHERS SPECIALTY ITEMS WEDDING PLANNERS Stacey Birmingham Photography Sand Ceremony Kits Forget Me Knot Full Wedding Planning & Design St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-763-5697 Email: staceybi@staceybirmingham.ca Website: www.staceybirmingham.ca REALTORS ReMax Realty Specialists Ltd. (Wendy’s Wedding Works) St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-895-8697 Email: wendy@wendysweddingworks.com Website: www.wendysweddingworks.com TRAVEL AGENTS Michelle Thorne, RPA, SRES Suite 201, 40 Aberdeen Avenue St. John’s, NL A1A 5T3 Cell: 709-727-1845 Office: 709-726-8300 Fax: 709-726-4219 Email: mthorne@remax.nf.ca Website: www.newfoundhomes.com Travel Time - TPI RECEPTION FACILITIES St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-743-4623 Email: media.magic@hotmail.com Website: www.mediamagicvideo.ca Lester’s Farm Chalet 92 Pearltown Road St. John’s, NL A1G 1P3 Phone: 709-368-2458 Cell: 709-687-2998 Fax: 709-747-7139 (call first) Email: Lesterfarmsinc@aol.com or Lestersfarmchalet@gmail.com Website: www.Lesterfarms.ca RENTALS White Sky Tent Rentals CBS, NL Phone: 709-834-7535 Email: rodcoward@whiteskytents.ca Website: www.whiteskytents.ca SPAS Ocean Quest Spa 17 Stanley’s Road CBS, NL A1W 5H9 Phone: 709-834-9199 Fax: 709-834-1098 Email: info@oceanquestadventures.com Website: www.oceanquestspa.com St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-753-9950 Email: lbarbour@tpi.ca Website: www.traveltimetpi.ca St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-691-4226 Email: Marianne@sweetforgetmeknot.com Website: www.sweetforgetmeknot.com Something Borrowed, Something Blue St. John’s, NL Phone: 709-754-8220 Email: info@somethingborrowedsomethingblue.org Website: www.somethingborrowedsomethingblue.org VIDEOGRAPHERS Media Magic Productions Videos for You CBS, NL Phone: 709-834-9745 Email: seanvideosforyou@hotmail.com Website: www.videosforyou.ca WEDDING CAKES “I Do”...Cakes Torbay, NL Phone: 709-437-5068 Cell: 709-699-0203 Email: nancy@ido-cakes.net Website: www.ido-cakes.net Facebook Group: “I Do”...Cakes Picco’s Creations Paradise, NL Phone: 709-782-5999 Cell: 709-697-2954 Email: pam@piccoscreations.com Website: www.piccoscreations.com Facebook Group: Picco’s Creations