“Sonlight has brought joy back into our homeschool!”
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“Sonlight has brought joy back into our homeschool!”
Q&A with Sarita Holzmann co-founder of Sonlight page 8 “Sonlight has brought joy back into our homeschool!” September/October 2014 $6.50 USA/$15.50 INTL Password Security In today’s hacking environment, security of your identification and personal information is on the mind of anyone using a computer The first line of defense for computer security is your passwords. Following are some myths about passwords and some ideas on developing better password protection, while nothing is 100% at least these steps should make hacking your information a bit more difficult and hopefully encourage would be thieves to move on. Following are some password myths courtesy of a Security Focus article, Ten Windows Password Myths by Mark Burnett: · · · Random passwords from password generators are the best passwords – FALSE: They are usually difficult to remember, slow to type and sometimes vulnerable to attacks against password generating algorithms. Fourteen characters is the optimal password length – FALSE: These passwords are often split into two separate seven-character hashes, which make them more vulnerable to a brute force attack. Passwords should be changed every 30 days – FALSE: While this may be good for high-risk passwords, it is not necessarily good for average users because they tend to develop predictable patterns. special feature w · Never write down your password – FALSE: Sometimes passwords need to be written down, e.g. the only one who knows the password forgets it. The caveat to this myth is to be smart about where the password is written down and how it is secured and disposed of. Some hints to create better passwards and increase your password protection are: Contain a mixture of letters (upper and lower case), numerals and symbols. Not contain your name or user name or be a common word or name. Be easy to type quickly with few errors. Be at least 14 characters long – longer is better. Never use your network logon password for another purpose. Never share your password with anyone. Change your password immediately if you think it has been compromised. If you write your password down, make sure it is stored in a secure location. Change your password on a regular basis. Remember successful passwords have computer length and randomness combined with human familiarity. There are no ironclad password locks, but hopefully these suggestions will lower your hack-risk. HSF Ambassadors help families homeschool through hard times. Visit www.homeschoolfoundation.org/volunteer to learn more. Home School Foundation ... the charitable arm of HSLDA www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © #10535 September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 3 Password Security In today’s hacking environment, security of your identification and personal information is on the mind of anyone using a computer The first line of defense for computer security is your passwords. Following are some myths about passwords and some ideas on developing better password protection, while nothing is 100% at least these steps should make hacking your information a bit more difficult and hopefully encourage would be thieves to move on. Following are some password myths courtesy of a Security Focus article, Ten Windows Password Myths by Mark Burnett: · · · Random passwords from password generators are the best passwords – FALSE: They are usually difficult to remember, slow to type and sometimes vulnerable to attacks against password generating algorithms. Fourteen characters is the optimal password length – FALSE: These passwords are often split into two separate seven-character hashes, which make them more vulnerable to a brute force attack. Passwords should be changed every 30 days – FALSE: While this may be good for high-risk passwords, it is not necessarily good for average users because they tend to develop predictable patterns. special feature w · Never write down your password – FALSE: Sometimes passwords need to be written down, e.g. the only one who knows the password forgets it. The caveat to this myth is to be smart about where the password is written down and how it is secured and disposed of. Some hints to create better passwards and increase your password protection are: Contain a mixture of letters (upper and lower case), numerals and symbols. Not contain your name or user name or be a common word or name. Be easy to type quickly with few errors. Be at least 14 characters long – longer is better. Never use your network logon password for another purpose. Never share your password with anyone. Change your password immediately if you think it has been compromised. If you write your password down, make sure it is stored in a secure location. Change your password on a regular basis. Remember successful passwords have computer length and randomness combined with human familiarity. There are no ironclad password locks, but hopefully these suggestions will lower your hack-risk. HSF Ambassadors help families homeschool through hard times. Visit www.homeschoolfoundation.org/volunteer to learn more. Home School Foundation ... the charitable arm of HSLDA www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © #10535 September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 3 Publisher’s Letter ™ Brilliant Publishing LLC Post Office Box 31687, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 Telephone: 717.571.9233 PUBLISHER / ADVERTISING Judge each day not by the harvest you reap but by the seeds you plant. ~Robert Louis Stevenson Publisher Maureen Williams maureen@thehomeschoolhandbook.com 717.608.5869 Account Executive Alex Chambers alex@thehomeschoolhandbook.com EDITORIAL Editor In Chief MaryAnne Morrill maryanne@thehomeschoolhandbook.com Senior Editor Michelle Donofry editor@thehomeschoolhandbook.com Change is a good thing. Come the fall I always feel especially restless, eager, hungry for something new. Perhaps it’s the changing season or the new routines of the new school year. One of the best parts of my job is talking to you, our readers. Listening to your challenges and helping you along your journey of home education truly makes my day. I love that you never give up and everyone does it differently, while all having one thing in common: They do what they say they are going to do, even when life gets in the way. In this issue we have our first “Behind the Curriculum” cover story, which features Sonlight. We are blessed and excited to have them as our first in this series! I am certain you too will agree that Sonlight is a brilliant company whose curriculum you may want to consider using in your home school. If you are looking for some seamless ways to add more science in your homeschool, make math talk a part of your day, or some simple tips to foster a second language; you will find excellent articles to get you started in this issue. Also, don’t miss the fascinating article about how our childhood memories affect the way we spend money on our kids. From passwords to recipes, this is sure to be a favorite issue for many. Without further adieu, get out there start planting those seeds so that your homeschool harvest will be bountiful in the near future! Enjoy the issue and remember always … Maureen Williams, Publisher maureen@thehomeschoolhandbook.com 717-608-5869 http://twitter.com/@TheHomeschool www.facebook.com/TheHomeschoolHandbook http://pinterest.com/thehomeschool/ 4 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 Social Media/Asst. Editor Molly Anika molly@thehomeschoolhandbook.com Style / Asst. Editor Charity Plata Subscription Service / Back Issues: Circulation@thehomeschoolhandbook.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Leonisa Ardizzone, Vicki Bentley, Sarita Holzmann, The Container Store, The Home School Foundation, Richard Havenga, Nicole Fonovich, Tanya Moat, Annie Murphy Paul, Shannon Ryan, Erin Smilkstein, Donna Vail PRODUCTION / DESIGN Art Director Jeremy Tingle art@thehomeschoolhandbook.com The Homeschool Handbook is published bi-monthly by Brilliant Publishing LLC, Post Office Box 31687, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 Telephone: (717) 571-9233, Fax: 843-215-7712. Postage paid at San Diego, CA and additional offices. POSTMASTER please send address changes to The Homeschool Handbook, Post Office Box 31687, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588. Volume 5 Number 05. The Homeschool Handbook subscription rates: one-year $19.95 USD, Canada & Mexico $49.95 International $79.95. All subscriptions are non-refundable. Copyright© 2014 Brilliant Publishing LLC. All rights reserved. the publisher reserves the right to accept or reject any advertising or editorial material. Advertisers, and/or their agents, assume the responsibility for any claims against the publisher based on the advertisement. Editorial contributors assume responsibility for their published works and assume responsibility for any claims against the publisher based on published work. No part of this publication can be reproduced in any form or by electronic or mechanical means, including information storage and retrieval systems, without written permission from the publisher. All items submitted to The Homeschool Handbook become the sole property of Brilliant Publishing LLC. Editorial content does not reflect the views of the publisher. The imprints, logos, trademarks or trade names (collectively the “Marks”) displayed on the products featured in The Homeschool Handbook are for illustrative purposes only and are not available for sale. The Marks do not represent the implied or actual endorsement by the owners of the Marks of the product on which they appear. All of the Marks are the property of the respective owners and are not the property of either the advertisers using the Marks or The Homeschool Handbook. MEDICAL DISCLAIMER No warranty whatsoever is made by the publisher and there is absolutely no assurance that any statement contained or cited in any article touching on medical matters is true, correct, precise, or up-to-date. Even if a statement made about medicine is accurate, it may not apply to you or your symptoms. The medical information provided is, at best, of a general nature and cannot substitute for the advice of a medical professional (for instance, a qualified doctor/physician, nurse, pharmacist/chemist, and so on). None of the individual contributors, LLC members, subcontractors, advertisers, or anyone else connected to Brilliant Publishing LLC and The Homeschool Handbook can take any responsibility for the results or consequences of any attempt to use or adopt any of the information presented in this magazine. Nothing included, as a part of this publication should not be construed as an attempt to offer or render a medical opinion or otherwise engage in the practice of medicine. Publisher’s Letter ™ Brilliant Publishing LLC Post Office Box 31687, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 Telephone: 717.571.9233 A re we as a nation developing a love of learning in our children? Or are we more concerned with tests, tests for this and tests for that; so interested in the test results that we ‘teach to the test’ rather than helping children develop a passion for learning? Tests passed, whose information is promptly forgotten. Yet those who are willing to undertake their children’s education out of concern for what is happening or not happening in today’s school where bullying is epidemic are the first people asked “What about socialization?”… Since launching this magazine 4 years ago, I recently encountered the first person that said she did not want information she posted on the Internet about a “survival doll” she created to appear in the magazine because “The doll was an art piece. I am not a survivalist. And I’m a little dubious about home schooling.” Seriously! I was so offended I wanted to scream. They say it takes all kinds. I say instill the love of learning in your children and you will make a difference in our collective future. That is why we work so hard on this magazine…we’re counting on education making a difference. As we keep our eye on the pulse of all things happening in education we will continue to keep you in the loop with our findings. If there is a topic you think we need to cover, please do not hesitate to send me an email. We want to be your go to resource for all things home education. In this issue you will find another installment in the Common Core debacle. I think and have always felt Common Core is a good idea. However, it needs to be addressed by more than the Billionaire Boys Club and companies poised to prosper from it. No matter where you stand this is a topic that merits additional discussion and investigation. So, while we keep an eye on Common Core we have delivered another issue that is worthy of your time and attention. I hope that after reading this issue you are inspired to keep doing what you are doing and instill the love of learning in your children. In an effort to help you in your educational endeavors, we will be launching another magazine focused on what is available good and bad in the digital education environment. To receive a free subscription, please send your email address to me at Maureen@thehomeschoolhandbook.com and I will see that you get on the list. Enjoy the upcoming holidays! Maureen Williams, Publisher maureen@thehomeschoolhandbook.com 717-608-5869 http://twitter.com/@TheHomeschool www.facebook.com/TheHomeschoolHandbook http://pinterest.com/thehomeschool/ 4 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 Don’t love your curriculum? $100 says you’ll LOVE Sonlight! PUBLISHER / ADVERTISING Publisher Maureen Williams maureen@thehomeschoolhandbook.com 717.608.5869 Account Executive Alex Chambers alex@thehomeschoolhandbook.com EDITORIAL Editor In Chief MaryAnne Morrill maryanne@thehomeschoolhandbook.com Senior Editor Michelle Donofry editor@thehomeschoolhandbook.com Social Media/Asst. Editor Molly Anika molly@thehomeschoolhandbook.com Style / Asst. Editor Charity Plata Subscription Service / Back Issues: Circulation@thehomeschoolhandbook.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Leonisa Ardizzone, Vicki Bentley, Sarita Holzmann, The Container Store, The Home School Foundation, Richard Havenga, Nicole Fonovich, Tanya Moat, Annie Murphy Paul, Shannon Ryan, Erin Smilkstein, Donna Vail PRODUCTION / DESIGN The F family San Jose, CA Art Director Jeremy Tingle art@thehomeschoolhandbook.com The Homeschool Handbook is published bi-monthly by Brilliant Publishing LLC, Post Office Box 31687, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 Telephone: (717) 571-9233, Fax: 843-215-7712. Postage paid at San Diego, CA and additional offices. POSTMASTER please send address changes to The Homeschool Handbook, Post Office Box 31687, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588. Volume 5 Number 05. The Homeschool Handbook subscription rates: one-year $19.95 USD, Canada & Mexico $49.95 International $79.95. All subscriptions are non-refundable. Copyright© 2014 Brilliant Publishing LLC. All rights reserved. the publisher reserves the right to accept or reject any advertising or editorial material. Advertisers, and/or their agents, assume the responsibility for any claims against the publisher based on the advertisement. Editorial contributors assume responsibility for their published works and assume responsibility for any claims against the publisher based on published work. No part of this publication can be reproduced in any form or by electronic or mechanical means, including information storage and retrieval systems, without written permission from the publisher. All items submitted to The Homeschool Handbook become the sole property of Brilliant Publishing LLC. Editorial content does not reflect the views of the publisher. The imprints, logos, trademarks or trade names (collectively the “Marks”) displayed on the products featured in The Homeschool Handbook are for illustrative purposes only and are not available for sale. The Marks do not represent the implied or actual endorsement by the owners of the Marks of the product on which they appear. All of the Marks are the property of the respective owners and are not the property of either the advertisers using the Marks or The Homeschool Handbook. MEDICAL DISCLAIMER No warranty whatsoever is made by the publisher and there is absolutely no assurance that any statement contained or cited in any article touching on medical matters is true, correct, precise, or up-to-date. Even if a statement made about medicine is accurate, it may not apply to you or your symptoms. The medical information provided is, at best, of a general nature and cannot substitute for the advice of a medical professional (for instance, a qualified doctor/physician, nurse, pharmacist/chemist, and so on). None of the individual contributors, LLC members, subcontractors, advertisers, or anyone else connected to Brilliant Publishing LLC and The Homeschool Handbook can take any responsibility for the results or consequences of any attempt to use or adopt any of the information presented in this magazine. Nothing included, as a part of this publication should not be construed as an attempt to offer or render a medical opinion or otherwise engage in the practice of medicine. I’ve tried many curricula, and Sonlight is the only one my children LOVE to do! I have three favorite things about Sonlight: the top-quality education, the love for learning and reading my children are gaining, and the beautiful memories we’re making. I pieced together curriculum for years to achieve the same effect I get with Sonlight. Now I save myself time, money and headaches, and my children get the highest-quality education. – Khristin N, Jones Creek, TX – Get some Sonlight and begin an adventure in learning your whole family will enjoy. Order any curriculum package and get $100 off! To receive this limited-time offer for new customers, use this special Sonlight web address: www.sonlight.com/14hh4 Your kids will Love to Learn. You will Love to Teach. Guaranteed. volu me 05 | issue 05 | contributors 2014 inside Leonisa Ardizzone, EdD, has been a science educator for more The Homeschool than 20 years. She is the owner Handbook 24 of Storefront Science, a science exploration program in New York 12 cover story City and author of Science—Not Just for Scientists! Easy Explorations for Young Children, published by Gryphon House. She can be reached at leonisa@storefrontscience. com or 646.833.7195. 8Sonlight: Behind the Curriculum Education 101 and a veteran special features 3 homeschool mom of many, offers help and encouragement through the Home School Legal Defense Password Security Association’s Toddlers to Tweens solutions program. For more information on homeschool 12Our Childhood Memories Affect How We Spend please visit www.hslda.org/earlyyears. Sarita What to Do with your Preschooler/Early Learner Sonlight 26 Living with Change and Interruptions in Your Home Education Curriculum (www. literature-rich home education and seeks to provide families with the rich resources they need to raise life-long learners. The Lazy Child Myth miracles shares with the based principles that guide their everyday money decisions and support their rigorous curiosity of a naturalist, and the immeasurable perceptions of an artist. Always attentive outdoors, he leads the reader-viewer along an inviting trail of words and images — gifts Rich and Mary, his wife of 43 years, have two children, and live on ten wooded acres near Cannonsburg, Michigan. To read his 185 poems, 125 Haiku, and numerous articles, visit: long-term http://walkwithfathernature.blogspot.com/ Website: https://sites.google.com/ start money conversations with their children through a fun, bedtime story and developed companion workbooks to help deepen those conversations. Visit www.TheHeavyPurse.com to learn more on how to raise Money Smart Kids. Connect with Shannon on Twitter (https://twitter. com/theheavypurse/) site/richardlhavenga/services a series of articles to answer of Luca co-author Lashes, LLC. and the who, what, how and why of of interactive teaching mathematics. In the first this has a Masters in Educational of Education and with all good intentions, might not be the best candidate), how to commit to do it yourself and information please visit www.lucalashes.com options if you are seeking help. Tanya Moat writer, web Policy is a freelance designer and of “100 Best Companies to Work For.” The simple pleasures every day, including great Container Store continues to give back to the food. You can learn more about them at www. community with a focus on supporting nonprofits EatLaughPurr.com. Box Turtle Poem please visit www.containerstore.com and health. For more information and ideas, best suited to teach math in your home (and who, Leadership from Marquette University. For more feline companion, Max, enjoy that promote women’s and children’s wellbeing article, she discussed WHO is eBook and app series. She list Ambassadors Pump Up Support at Fund Raiser YouTube The Homework Lounge presents on magazine’s (http://www. and Nicole Fonovich is the president “Talking Math” with kids FORTUNE Facebook Erin Smilkstein, MA.Ed., CEO for full of flip-flops. Tanya and her heart’ well-being. (http://www.youtube.com/theheavypurse/) Los Angeles, CA with a closet with financial Shannon wrote The Heavy Purse to help parents facebook.com/theheavypurse/) and Donna Vail of Inspired An is the Founder Education, a company devoted to empowering families around the world to a lifestyle of true freedom through homeschooling, inspiration and entrepreneurship. Donna and her husband have homeschooled their six children for the past 16 years and now help today’s homeschoolers find their way. For more about her company, visit Annie Murphy Paul is a science www.aninspirededucation.com. writer who contributes to The New York Times, Time Magazine, The Home Foundation Chicken Pesto Sandwich charitable Clear the Clutter Before the Holidays School is the arm of Home School Legal Defense Association. It was founded by HSLDA and other publications. She is the author of Brilliant: The Science of How We Get Smarter, to be published by Crown in 2014. You can read more on her website, www.anniemurphypaul.com. in 1994 as a non-profit 501(c)(3) with the original focus of helping other homeschool groups. God has since expanded their vision, however, to Index/Resources List include needy families within the homeschool funds and provide grants to homeschool groups within the United States and internationally. The Fo r b r e ak i n g n ew s & t i p s b e sur e to f o ll ow T h e H o m e s c h o o l H an db o o k o n s o c i al m e di a: The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 He recently celebrated its 13th year contributed article is just one example of an HSF © Nature”. ‘organization © 2012 Richard Havenga 6 teach their children simple, value- of the blog: “Walk With Father Simple Tips for Fostering a Multilingual Child facebook.com/TheHomeschoolHandbook on a mission to help busy parents Teacher, Naturalist, and author blogger. She resides in sunny community. They help families through several twitter.com/@TheHomeschool Shannon Ryan, CFP® is a Mom Poet, The Container Store stands for resources 30 the a legacy of family-centered, Incorporate Science Seamlessly into Your Homeschool Life health and hearth 28 29 is sonlight.com). She cherishes inspiration 24 26 Holzmann co-founder and president of curriculum 16 18 20 22 23 Photographer, preschool through middle school children, Money on Our Kids 14 Nature thoughtfully prepared, and graciously given. Vicki Bentley, author of Home ~ An Interview with Sarita Holzmann Richard Havenga is a Writer, Ambassador helping a homeschooling family. Visit them at www.homeschoolfoundation.org. Cover Art Courtesy of Sonlight “Sonlight has brought joy back into our homeschool!,” writes Jamie B of Cheney, WA. “Before Sonlight, I’d spend hours planning our curriculum and be exhausted when it came time to teach. Sonlight has done the hard work, leaving me with the energy to enjoy teaching my children. Plus, the quality of literature can’t be beat. We’ve had so many good times learning together as we explored great books that made us think.” On the Cover, Mom, Amelia (8) and Silas (6) enjoy Henry Huggins, their favorite Core B book. pinterest.com/thehomeschool © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 7 volu me 05 | issue 05 | contributors 2014 inside Leonisa Ardizzone, EdD, has been a science educator for more The Homeschool than 20 years. She is the owner Handbook 24 of Storefront Science, a science exploration program in New York 12 cover story City and author of Science—Not Just for Scientists! Easy Explorations for Young Children, published by Gryphon House. She can be reached at leonisa@storefrontscience. com or 646.833.7195. 8Sonlight: Behind the Curriculum Education 101 and a veteran special features 3 homeschool mom of many, offers help and encouragement through the Home School Legal Defense Password Security Association’s Toddlers to Tweens solutions program. For more information on homeschool 12Our Childhood Memories Affect How We Spend please visit www.hslda.org/earlyyears. Sarita What to Do with your Preschooler/Early Learner Sonlight 26 Living with Change and Interruptions in Your Home Education Curriculum (www. literature-rich home education and seeks to provide families with the rich resources they need to raise life-long learners. The Lazy Child Myth miracles shares with the based principles that guide their everyday money decisions and support their rigorous curiosity of a naturalist, and the immeasurable perceptions of an artist. Always attentive outdoors, he leads the reader-viewer along an inviting trail of words and images — gifts Rich and Mary, his wife of 43 years, have two children, and live on ten wooded acres near Cannonsburg, Michigan. To read his 185 poems, 125 Haiku, and numerous articles, visit: long-term http://walkwithfathernature.blogspot.com/ Website: https://sites.google.com/ start money conversations with their children through a fun, bedtime story and developed companion workbooks to help deepen those conversations. Visit www.TheHeavyPurse.com to learn more on how to raise Money Smart Kids. Connect with Shannon on Twitter (https://twitter. com/theheavypurse/) site/richardlhavenga/services a series of articles to answer of Luca co-author Lashes, LLC. and the who, what, how and why of of interactive teaching mathematics. In the first this has a Masters in Educational of Education and with all good intentions, might not be the best candidate), how to commit to do it yourself and information please visit www.lucalashes.com options if you are seeking help. Tanya Moat writer, web Policy is a freelance designer and of “100 Best Companies to Work For.” The simple pleasures every day, including great Container Store continues to give back to the food. You can learn more about them at www. community with a focus on supporting nonprofits EatLaughPurr.com. Box Turtle Poem please visit www.containerstore.com and health. For more information and ideas, best suited to teach math in your home (and who, Leadership from Marquette University. For more feline companion, Max, enjoy that promote women’s and children’s wellbeing article, she discussed WHO is eBook and app series. She list Ambassadors Pump Up Support at Fund Raiser YouTube The Homework Lounge presents on magazine’s (http://www. and Nicole Fonovich is the president “Talking Math” with kids FORTUNE Facebook Erin Smilkstein, MA.Ed., CEO for full of flip-flops. Tanya and her heart’ well-being. (http://www.youtube.com/theheavypurse/) Los Angeles, CA with a closet with financial Shannon wrote The Heavy Purse to help parents facebook.com/theheavypurse/) and Donna Vail of Inspired An is the Founder Education, a company devoted to empowering families around the world to a lifestyle of true freedom through homeschooling, inspiration and entrepreneurship. Donna and her husband have homeschooled their six children for the past 16 years and now help today’s homeschoolers find their way. For more about her company, visit Annie Murphy Paul is a science www.aninspirededucation.com. writer who contributes to The New York Times, Time Magazine, The Home Foundation Chicken Pesto Sandwich charitable Clear the Clutter Before the Holidays School is the arm of Home School Legal Defense Association. It was founded by HSLDA and other publications. She is the author of Brilliant: The Science of How We Get Smarter, to be published by Crown in 2014. You can read more on her website, www.anniemurphypaul.com. in 1994 as a non-profit 501(c)(3) with the original focus of helping other homeschool groups. God has since expanded their vision, however, to Index/Resources List include needy families within the homeschool funds and provide grants to homeschool groups within the United States and internationally. The Fo r b r e ak i n g n ew s & t i p s b e sur e to f o ll ow T h e H o m e s c h o o l H an db o o k o n s o c i al m e di a: The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 He recently celebrated its 13th year contributed article is just one example of an HSF © Nature”. ‘organization © 2012 Richard Havenga 6 teach their children simple, value- of the blog: “Walk With Father Simple Tips for Fostering a Multilingual Child facebook.com/TheHomeschoolHandbook on a mission to help busy parents Teacher, Naturalist, and author blogger. She resides in sunny community. They help families through several twitter.com/@TheHomeschool Shannon Ryan, CFP® is a Mom Poet, The Container Store stands for resources 30 the a legacy of family-centered, Incorporate Science Seamlessly into Your Homeschool Life health and hearth 28 29 is sonlight.com). She cherishes inspiration 24 26 Holzmann co-founder and president of curriculum 16 18 20 22 23 Photographer, preschool through middle school children, Money on Our Kids 14 Nature thoughtfully prepared, and graciously given. Vicki Bentley, author of Home ~ An Interview with Sarita Holzmann Richard Havenga is a Writer, Ambassador helping a homeschooling family. Visit them at www.homeschoolfoundation.org. Cover Art Courtesy of Sonlight “Sonlight has brought joy back into our homeschool!,” writes Jamie B of Cheney, WA. “Before Sonlight, I’d spend hours planning our curriculum and be exhausted when it came time to teach. Sonlight has done the hard work, leaving me with the energy to enjoy teaching my children. Plus, the quality of literature can’t be beat. We’ve had so many good times learning together as we explored great books that made us think.” On the Cover, Mom, Amelia (8) and Silas (6) enjoy Henry Huggins, their favorite Core B book. pinterest.com/thehomeschool © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 7 & Q A special feature Behind the Curriculum An Interview with Sarita Holzmann 8 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 T he Homeschool Handbook recently had the opportunity to interview Sarita Holzmann, the co-founder of Sonlight Curriculum. The award-winning Sonlight curriculum is a literature- based and Christ-centered program. Sonlight has won numerous Reader Awards and has been awarded for best overall curriculum, best language arts and literature, and best overall home school company, as well as most unique home school company and friendliest home school company. THH: Sarita, we here at The Homeschool Handbook realize that selecting a curriculum is often the first and perhaps the most important decision a home educator will make. To help our readers understand the inspiration for founding Sonlight can you tell us the story of Sonlight? Sarita: My husband and I were on staff at the US Center for World Missions, trying to crack the code on how to reach the unreached peoples of the world. I started homeschooling because the public schools in our area were unacceptable and, on missionary support, we couldn’t afford private school. As we continued, I found I enjoyed homeschooling and gathering resources. However, I noticed lots of moms were overwhelmed by the process of choosing quality materials. One day a friend whose family was home from the mission field for a short season said, “Sarita, if you think it’s tough to pick material here, it’s ten times as hard overseas. I would love it if we could pick the best of the best and make it available for missionaries.” At that time, one of the main reasons people came home from the mission field was because they couldn’t find good educational options for their children. I thought, if I could keep someone on the field a little longer, that would be a worthy thing to do. So while my kids napped each day, my husband John, my friend Becky and I started Sonlight. We shipped out of our 800-square-foot house and a little garage down the road. After we had been in business for a year we broadened our vision beyond only serving missionaries; we also wanted to help people at home raise up kids with a heart for the world. That global focus is still key. THH: Briefly, what are the educational principles that form the basis of the Sonlight curriculum? Sarita: Our main goal is to inspire a love for learning. Students simply cannot learn everything they need to know before 18. We must give them a love to learn and thus prepare them to be lifelong learners. To that end, Sonlight is literature-based, Christ-centered learning that fosters strong family relationships, a global outlook and academic excellence. Literature-based learning is an educational philosophy based on children’s natural curiosity and love for stories. We use outstanding books as the centerpiece for learning. We also help parents teach from the perspective of God’s truth and His love for all people. © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © July / August 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 9 & Q A special feature Behind the Curriculum An Interview with Sarita Holzmann 8 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 T he Homeschool Handbook recently had the opportunity to interview Sarita Holzmann, the co-founder of Sonlight Curriculum. The award-winning Sonlight curriculum is a literature- based and Christ-centered program. Sonlight has won numerous Reader Awards and has been awarded for best overall curriculum, best language arts and literature, and best overall home school company, as well as most unique home school company and friendliest home school company. THH: Sarita, we here at The Homeschool Handbook realize that selecting a curriculum is often the first and perhaps the most important decision a home educator will make. To help our readers understand the inspiration for founding Sonlight can you tell us the story of Sonlight? Sarita: My husband and I were on staff at the US Center for World Missions, trying to crack the code on how to reach the unreached peoples of the world. I started homeschooling because the public schools in our area were unacceptable and, on missionary support, we couldn’t afford private school. As we continued, I found I enjoyed homeschooling and gathering resources. However, I noticed lots of moms were overwhelmed by the process of choosing quality materials. One day a friend whose family was home from the mission field for a short season said, “Sarita, if you think it’s tough to pick material here, it’s ten times as hard overseas. I would love it if we could pick the best of the best and make it available for missionaries.” At that time, one of the main reasons people came home from the mission field was because they couldn’t find good educational options for their children. I thought, if I could keep someone on the field a little longer, that would be a worthy thing to do. So while my kids napped each day, my husband John, my friend Becky and I started Sonlight. We shipped out of our 800-square-foot house and a little garage down the road. After we had been in business for a year we broadened our vision beyond only serving missionaries; we also wanted to help people at home raise up kids with a heart for the world. That global focus is still key. THH: Briefly, what are the educational principles that form the basis of the Sonlight curriculum? Sarita: Our main goal is to inspire a love for learning. Students simply cannot learn everything they need to know before 18. We must give them a love to learn and thus prepare them to be lifelong learners. To that end, Sonlight is literature-based, Christ-centered learning that fosters strong family relationships, a global outlook and academic excellence. Literature-based learning is an educational philosophy based on children’s natural curiosity and love for stories. We use outstanding books as the centerpiece for learning. We also help parents teach from the perspective of God’s truth and His love for all people. © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © July / August 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 9 special feature THH: What led you to decide upon a literature/readingbased curriculum? Sarita: I believe most children respond more positively to great literature than they do to textbooks. Sonlight has a history theme each year, and we add Readers and ReadAlouds to augment the history. Quality books can impart much wisdom. They can feed us with spiritual insight beyond imagination. Great books help us develop critical thinking skills, particularly when read under the wise guidance of loving parents. Homeschooling with great literature helps children (and families): “ also higher than the national average for homeschooled students. In the last two years, the average Sonlight applicant scored 396 points higher than the average for private religious schools and 233 points higher than the national average for homeschoolers. We know test scores don’t paint the whole picture. But are these Sonlight students well-prepared for college or life? You bet. Even if your students don’t take tests well, if they can learn to read, learn about the world and hunger for knowledge, they can do well in life. •• Foster heart-to-heart discussion on topics you may not think of discussing otherwise. •• Broaden vocabulary and sharpen listening skills. •• Gain the cultural literacy they need to make sense of the world. •• Receive information in an enjoyable and easy to remember format. History comes alive and children spend less time memorizing dates. •• Develop their imaginations beyond their own daily experiences as they develop a global outlook. They visit places/people/periods in history through books that they may never visit in person. •• Build a common family culture; families enjoy shared experiences and create memorable connections that last a lifetime. •• Build emotional intelligence and character. •• Develop critical thinking skills (Why did the author write that? What is going to happen? Why do these two authors disagree with each other?). •• Become great writers as they hear great writing and absorb the rhythms, the sound, and the technique of excellent writing. I love to point out an extensive 2010 study that shows, “A child from a family rich in books is 19 percentage points more likely to complete university than a comparable child growing up without a home librar y.” In fact, the size of a home librar y greatly af fects educational attainment, “even adjusting for parents’ education.” (From “Home Libraries Provide Huge Educational Advantage,” April 2010. Accessed at w w w.miller-mccune.com in March 2013.) So even the home librar y families develop through Sonlight helps them create a great environment for learning. Finally, homeschooling with great literature can make learning fun. If you raise children who love to read, they can learn anything. You equip them to be life-long 10 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 learners who thirst for knowledge as a part of their legacy long after school days are done. THH: Is Sonlight curriculum adaptable to different styles of homeschooling? Sarita: Yes. Sonlight offers a thorough, yet adaptable education. Some of our customers use Sonlight with the methods of Charlotte Mason, Classical Education, Unit Studies, and Montessori (to name a few), and in Homeschool Co-Ops, Structured and Relaxed homeschools – all with great success. Sonlight saves you time with open-and-go plans for the bulk of your homeschool and therefore provides flexibility to add in elements you love about another approach. However, Sonlight is complete, so there is absolutely no need to supplement unless you choose to. On its own, Sonlight is so rich that some liken the curriculum to a feast where you pick and choose your favorites from a spread that is already prepared for you. THH: In terms of academic excellence, how do Sonlight students compare with other students on academic tests? Sarita: I believe a love for learning far surpasses any tests your students may take. However, I am pleased that academic excellence is a hallmark of Sonlight. Over the years, Sonlight students who apply for our college scholarships have scored consistently higher than the national average on the SAT and © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com THH: Does Sonlight offer any forums or resources to help families just considering or starting to homeschool? Sarita: Sonlight offers a vibrant, free community forum with support for new homeschoolers, including a New Instructor’s Forum where parents can walk together in their first year of homeschooling. We also offer free consultations with Sonlight Advisors who are fabulous at guiding new homeschoolers through their goals and helping them determine what might be a good fit for their families. We have a section on our website called Homeschool 101 that is chock-full of helpful articles and tips on getting started and continuing well. I also recommend The Three Rs by Ruth Beechick. THH: Curriculum can be very expensive and often parents are concerned that they will make the investment and then not like the curriculum program. Does Sonlight have any methods to help parents with the costs and eliminate the ‘what if we don’t like it worry’? Sarita: Yes! I know the agony of being a new homeschool mom. I once spent over $1000 on materials that our family did not enjoy and that I couldn’t return. I want to save families from that frustration and help them invest in something they love. That is exactly why we offer the Love to Learn, Love to Teach Guarantee: Use up to 18 weeks (half a school year) of your curriculum and really get a feel for homeschooling with Sonlight. If you’re not convinced that your package is right for you, you have one full year from your purchase date to return it for a full refund. Sonlight also offers interest-free payment plans so you can spread your costs over your school year. THH: In the changing times in which we live it is wonderful to hear about a curriculum that is not only striving to provide children with an excellent education, but also imbue them with a www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © ” Our main goal is to inspire a love for learning. desire to help improve the world in which they will live. Can you share some aspects of what you do to give back to society and the world through your company? Sarita: As I mentioned, one of our goals is to raise up kids with a heart for the world. The global focus of our curriculum helps with that goal. But since 2008, we have also offered five mission awareness projects to encourage families in both learning and giving. These projects have enabled us to translate Bibles in Mozambique, teach women in India to read, support children’s Bible clubs in India, and further Gospel radio programs in key regions around the world. We have a new project for families this fall, so check http://www.sonlight.com/give for details. As a company we’ve always given charitably. In the beginning when we were just starting out we gave 10% of our gross profits, and at this point we are up to giving away 50% of what we earn to different charities. We count it a huge privilege to be able to do that. Sonlight families tell us what a gift it is for their children to be involved in the giving process and to be made more aware of specific needs in the world. THH: Being such a giving company does Sonlight have any programs or scholarships to help students who want to further their education beyond high school? Sarita: We award about $90, 000 of scholarships each year (over a million dollars in scholarships since we began) to eligible college-bound students who demonstrate the leadership, mission-mindedness, heart for learning, creativity and spiritual depth Sonlight seeks to reward. Our effort to empower parents to raise up kids who love to learn has resulted in students of the highest caliber who are already world changers. THH: Sarita thank you for taking the time to give our readers a look behind the curriculum. Sonlight is the kind of company that you wish more companies were like and one our readers should definitely consider when looking for their curriculum. For readers looking for additional information, please visit the Sonlight website at htttp://www.sonlight.com/ homeschoolhandbook.html September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 11 special feature THH: What led you to decide upon a literature/readingbased curriculum? Sarita: I believe most children respond more positively to great literature than they do to textbooks. Sonlight has a history theme each year, and we add Readers and ReadAlouds to augment the history. Quality books can impart much wisdom. They can feed us with spiritual insight beyond imagination. Great books help us develop critical thinking skills, particularly when read under the wise guidance of loving parents. Homeschooling with great literature helps children (and families): “ also higher than the national average for homeschooled students. In the last two years, the average Sonlight applicant scored 396 points higher than the average for private religious schools and 233 points higher than the national average for homeschoolers. We know test scores don’t paint the whole picture. But are these Sonlight students well-prepared for college or life? You bet. Even if your students don’t take tests well, if they can learn to read, learn about the world and hunger for knowledge, they can do well in life. •• Foster heart-to-heart discussion on topics you may not think of discussing otherwise. •• Broaden vocabulary and sharpen listening skills. •• Gain the cultural literacy they need to make sense of the world. •• Receive information in an enjoyable and easy to remember format. History comes alive and children spend less time memorizing dates. •• Develop their imaginations beyond their own daily experiences as they develop a global outlook. They visit places/people/periods in history through books that they may never visit in person. •• Build a common family culture; families enjoy shared experiences and create memorable connections that last a lifetime. •• Build emotional intelligence and character. •• Develop critical thinking skills (Why did the author write that? What is going to happen? Why do these two authors disagree with each other?). •• Become great writers as they hear great writing and absorb the rhythms, the sound, and the technique of excellent writing. I love to point out an extensive 2010 study that shows, “A child from a family rich in books is 19 percentage points more likely to complete university than a comparable child growing up without a home librar y.” In fact, the size of a home librar y greatly af fects educational attainment, “even adjusting for parents’ education.” (From “Home Libraries Provide Huge Educational Advantage,” April 2010. Accessed at w w w.miller-mccune.com in March 2013.) So even the home librar y families develop through Sonlight helps them create a great environment for learning. Finally, homeschooling with great literature can make learning fun. If you raise children who love to read, they can learn anything. You equip them to be life-long 10 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 learners who thirst for knowledge as a part of their legacy long after school days are done. THH: Is Sonlight curriculum adaptable to different styles of homeschooling? Sarita: Yes. Sonlight offers a thorough, yet adaptable education. Some of our customers use Sonlight with the methods of Charlotte Mason, Classical Education, Unit Studies, and Montessori (to name a few), and in Homeschool Co-Ops, Structured and Relaxed homeschools – all with great success. Sonlight saves you time with open-and-go plans for the bulk of your homeschool and therefore provides flexibility to add in elements you love about another approach. However, Sonlight is complete, so there is absolutely no need to supplement unless you choose to. On its own, Sonlight is so rich that some liken the curriculum to a feast where you pick and choose your favorites from a spread that is already prepared for you. THH: In terms of academic excellence, how do Sonlight students compare with other students on academic tests? Sarita: I believe a love for learning far surpasses any tests your students may take. However, I am pleased that academic excellence is a hallmark of Sonlight. Over the years, Sonlight students who apply for our college scholarships have scored consistently higher than the national average on the SAT and © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com THH: Does Sonlight offer any forums or resources to help families just considering or starting to homeschool? Sarita: Sonlight offers a vibrant, free community forum with support for new homeschoolers, including a New Instructor’s Forum where parents can walk together in their first year of homeschooling. We also offer free consultations with Sonlight Advisors who are fabulous at guiding new homeschoolers through their goals and helping them determine what might be a good fit for their families. We have a section on our website called Homeschool 101 that is chock-full of helpful articles and tips on getting started and continuing well. I also recommend The Three Rs by Ruth Beechick. THH: Curriculum can be very expensive and often parents are concerned that they will make the investment and then not like the curriculum program. Does Sonlight have any methods to help parents with the costs and eliminate the ‘what if we don’t like it worry’? Sarita: Yes! I know the agony of being a new homeschool mom. I once spent over $1000 on materials that our family did not enjoy and that I couldn’t return. I want to save families from that frustration and help them invest in something they love. That is exactly why we offer the Love to Learn, Love to Teach Guarantee: Use up to 18 weeks (half a school year) of your curriculum and really get a feel for homeschooling with Sonlight. If you’re not convinced that your package is right for you, you have one full year from your purchase date to return it for a full refund. Sonlight also offers interest-free payment plans so you can spread your costs over your school year. THH: In the changing times in which we live it is wonderful to hear about a curriculum that is not only striving to provide children with an excellent education, but also imbue them with a www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © ” Our main goal is to inspire a love for learning. desire to help improve the world in which they will live. Can you share some aspects of what you do to give back to society and the world through your company? Sarita: As I mentioned, one of our goals is to raise up kids with a heart for the world. The global focus of our curriculum helps with that goal. But since 2008, we have also offered five mission awareness projects to encourage families in both learning and giving. These projects have enabled us to translate Bibles in Mozambique, teach women in India to read, support children’s Bible clubs in India, and further Gospel radio programs in key regions around the world. We have a new project for families this fall, so check http://www.sonlight.com/give for details. As a company we’ve always given charitably. In the beginning when we were just starting out we gave 10% of our gross profits, and at this point we are up to giving away 50% of what we earn to different charities. We count it a huge privilege to be able to do that. Sonlight families tell us what a gift it is for their children to be involved in the giving process and to be made more aware of specific needs in the world. THH: Being such a giving company does Sonlight have any programs or scholarships to help students who want to further their education beyond high school? Sarita: We award about $90, 000 of scholarships each year (over a million dollars in scholarships since we began) to eligible college-bound students who demonstrate the leadership, mission-mindedness, heart for learning, creativity and spiritual depth Sonlight seeks to reward. Our effort to empower parents to raise up kids who love to learn has resulted in students of the highest caliber who are already world changers. THH: Sarita thank you for taking the time to give our readers a look behind the curriculum. Sonlight is the kind of company that you wish more companies were like and one our readers should definitely consider when looking for their curriculum. For readers looking for additional information, please visit the Sonlight website at htttp://www.sonlight.com/ homeschoolhandbook.html September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 11 solutions Buying Kids Everything They Want Does Not Make You a Good Parent There seems to be an unfortunate perception today that our ability to buy our children whatever they want is what makes us good parents. It does not. It typically does more harm than good. Children grow accustomed to everything being handed to them and struggle when they have to fend for themselves financially when they leave home. This is not the future any parent wants for their children, but I still see it regularly in my financial planning practice. I find there are two big culprits that cause good parents to make bad money decisions when it comes to their children. We Remember Feeling Deprived as a Child We can all recall an item (or two) that we desperately wanted as kids, but our parents told us, “No, we can’t afford it”. After being told “no” repeatedly, our frustration grows to the point where we begin to feel deprived, even though we are not. Those feelings of lack and disappointment burrow deep inside of us, waiting for the right time to emerge. For some, it will happen as soon as they leave home and can tell themselves “yes” to everything. For others, it won’t happen until they become parents and their children ask for things and trigger those long dormant memories of being told “no”. Even though they weren’t deprived, it is what the child in them remembers and feels today. They I didn’t consider don’t want their kids to feel the same disappointment, so how good or they say “yes” to everything their kids desire. positive emotions, like joy or love, could also lead us to spend mindlessly until I had children. By Shannon Ryan, CFP® Memories I still remember the first time I held each of my daughters, never realizing how deeply you could love someone until that moment. The intense desire and responsibility I felt to make sure they never lacked for anything was overwhelming. And sometimes, it is the love we have for our children that creates financial problems. Love can cause us to spend mindlessly. Money is Emotional One of the first money lessons my father taught me was around my emotions and how they affected my spending habits. It’s easy to get in the habit of buying something to 12 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 on Our Kids soothe our feelings of anger, frustration, fear or boredom. Shopping makes us feel better, but the highs fade, so we do it over and over in an attempt to feel good again. My teenage self didn’t realize she did this, but once my father explained it to me, it made a lot of sense. For many years, I thought of emotional spending as a coping mechanism for our more negative emotions or something we used to justify those “I deserve this” purchases and did my best to avoid those pitfalls. I didn’t consider how good or positive emotions, like joy or love, could also lead us to spend mindlessly until I had children. © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com The Solution: Step back and assess whether you have been guilty of buying your kids things because of your own bad memories of being told “no”. If so, don’t feel bad, but be aware so next time your kids ask you for something, you make a mindful decision, rather than an emotional one. Most importantly, be sure that you explain the why behind the “no” ongoing to prevent your kids from believing they are now deprived. You don’t want the cycle to repeat itself. I always link my “no” to our family goal, which is something the girls are eager to do. They understand that buying unplanned items could affect our ability to reach our goals. I also give the girls the option to use their own money to buy the item too. We Play Keep Up with Other Parents We live in a world where our Facebook feeds are filled with other parents bragging about the things they bought their children and their accomplishments. We find ourselves caught in the endless game of playing keep up. This is a game you cannot win, so don’t even try. We all earn different incomes and need to make thoughtful decisions on how we use our money based on our family priorities and values. Sometimes that means making hard choices, but creating debt to give your kids everything they want puts your family foundation at risk. Your children need a financially stable home, your love and support, not more toys or designer clothes. The Solution: You can’t give your children everything they want, so help them learn how to identify what they really want, so they can work towards achieving the things that matter the most to them. I love my daughters very much and know that it’s not the things I buy that ultimately matter, but what I teach them, such as using money wisely, that does. www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 13 solutions Buying Kids Everything They Want Does Not Make You a Good Parent There seems to be an unfortunate perception today that our ability to buy our children whatever they want is what makes us good parents. It does not. It typically does more harm than good. Children grow accustomed to everything being handed to them and struggle when they have to fend for themselves financially when they leave home. This is not the future any parent wants for their children, but I still see it regularly in my financial planning practice. I find there are two big culprits that cause good parents to make bad money decisions when it comes to their children. We Remember Feeling Deprived as a Child We can all recall an item (or two) that we desperately wanted as kids, but our parents told us, “No, we can’t afford it”. After being told “no” repeatedly, our frustration grows to the point where we begin to feel deprived, even though we are not. Those feelings of lack and disappointment burrow deep inside of us, waiting for the right time to emerge. For some, it will happen as soon as they leave home and can tell themselves “yes” to everything. For others, it won’t happen until they become parents and their children ask for things and trigger those long dormant memories of being told “no”. Even though they weren’t deprived, it is what the child in them remembers and feels today. They I didn’t consider don’t want their kids to feel the same disappointment, so how good or they say “yes” to everything their kids desire. positive emotions, like joy or love, could also lead us to spend mindlessly until I had children. By Shannon Ryan, CFP® Memories I still remember the first time I held each of my daughters, never realizing how deeply you could love someone until that moment. The intense desire and responsibility I felt to make sure they never lacked for anything was overwhelming. And sometimes, it is the love we have for our children that creates financial problems. Love can cause us to spend mindlessly. Money is Emotional One of the first money lessons my father taught me was around my emotions and how they affected my spending habits. It’s easy to get in the habit of buying something to 12 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 on Our Kids soothe our feelings of anger, frustration, fear or boredom. Shopping makes us feel better, but the highs fade, so we do it over and over in an attempt to feel good again. My teenage self didn’t realize she did this, but once my father explained it to me, it made a lot of sense. For many years, I thought of emotional spending as a coping mechanism for our more negative emotions or something we used to justify those “I deserve this” purchases and did my best to avoid those pitfalls. I didn’t consider how good or positive emotions, like joy or love, could also lead us to spend mindlessly until I had children. © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com The Solution: Step back and assess whether you have been guilty of buying your kids things because of your own bad memories of being told “no”. If so, don’t feel bad, but be aware so next time your kids ask you for something, you make a mindful decision, rather than an emotional one. Most importantly, be sure that you explain the why behind the “no” ongoing to prevent your kids from believing they are now deprived. You don’t want the cycle to repeat itself. I always link my “no” to our family goal, which is something the girls are eager to do. They understand that buying unplanned items could affect our ability to reach our goals. I also give the girls the option to use their own money to buy the item too. We Play Keep Up with Other Parents We live in a world where our Facebook feeds are filled with other parents bragging about the things they bought their children and their accomplishments. We find ourselves caught in the endless game of playing keep up. This is a game you cannot win, so don’t even try. We all earn different incomes and need to make thoughtful decisions on how we use our money based on our family priorities and values. Sometimes that means making hard choices, but creating debt to give your kids everything they want puts your family foundation at risk. Your children need a financially stable home, your love and support, not more toys or designer clothes. The Solution: You can’t give your children everything they want, so help them learn how to identify what they really want, so they can work towards achieving the things that matter the most to them. I love my daughters very much and know that it’s not the things I buy that ultimately matter, but what I teach them, such as using money wisely, that does. www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 13 solutions What to Do with Your Preschooler/Early Learner By: Vicki Bentley A young mom writes: I’m new at homeschooling—I have 2-year-old twins. I want to teach them and get them ready for preschool. Please send me info to help me start off on the right foot. Another mom writes: I have a 3½-year-old boy, a 2½-year-old girl and a 7-month old baby boy. I’ve read preschool articles on websites, listened to the sessions on beginning homeschooling from the state convention, read a few books and magazines, talked to homeschooling moms…but now that I’m really looking at schooling my children, I just get overwhelmed and don’t know where to start. I can see the goal or vision…that my children will love to learn…to learn about God, to learn reading, math, problem solving history, art, music, and everything in between… 14 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 but how do you start? They don’t seem to even want to sit still and read a book…they just want to play with toys and pretend. Vicki answers: They are little; let them play with toys and pretend! But you pick the toys, so you shape the play. Their play is their work—it may look easy to you, but it’s not all easy to them, and it is developing their thinking and providing life experiences—sort of like hooks on which they can hang their future learning. Provide them with stimulating, age-appropriate, developmental toys. You might want to peek through online catalogs such as Timberdoodle or Discovery Toys for a few ideas. Consider Legos or building blocks, thinking skills puzzles, art supplies, life-skills imaginary play (role playing or © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com dress-ups or tools/homemaking items), musical instruments, etc. The tapes or CDs you play can be educational and inspirational. Your everyday activities can be helpful for their brain and skills development. For example, working puzzles is a pre-reading skill, while helping Mom set the table is a math skill (oneto-one correspondence). Having them help put away their things in an orderly fashion (which they won’t be able to do yet, but can watch you joyfully walk through it with them) is classification and organization—science, math, and English skills. Ruth Beechick has a helpful book called The Three R’s of Learning. Valerie Bendt’s book, Making the Most of the Preschool Years, has lots of preschool ideas. You might also peek at Jane Lambert’s Before Five in a Row guide for some fun and educational activities based on classic kids’ books from the library. Pick a holiday or two to celebrate each month as a special treat and as a springboard for family learning. It is not uncommon for little children to seem uninterested in a read-aloud session, but don’t let that stop you from reading to them! If your child will sit quietly for five or 10 minutes as you snuggle and read together, that’s super. If not, read to her anyway while she plays quietly with blocks (or colors or dresses baby dolls or “cooks”…). She is absorbing more than you think she is! Also, try reading at a time that she tends to be quieter naturally, such as a morning wake-up cuddle time in your bed or a bedtime snuggle in hers. Or maybe your afternoon quiet time could always begin or end with a short picture book read-aloud. Character training is a biggie at this age—Marilyn Boyer’s Fun Projects for Hands-On Character Building has practical ideas for everyday moms like us. And her mommy book, Parenting from the Heart, has plenty of gentle encouragement from a mom of many. If nobody told you that they had to go to school at age 5, what would you be doing with them? What are you doing with them now? Interact with them naturally—you don’t have to invent lots of artificial learning experiences—you have plenty of “real” ones already! Let the children cook with you—they are measuring and pouring (math and science). Let them divide the cookies or the pizza (fractions and mathematical thinking). Be sure to read to and talk with them a lot; when they will occasionally let you get in a few pages of a picture book, ask them what they think will happen next. When they ask you a question, ask them, “What do you think?” and let them explain to you (even if their answer makes absolutely no sense—you can then tell them your explanation, too). When Grandma sends a present, write a thank-you note and let each child scribble at the bottom of it (then translate for Grandma!). Tell him he’s signing it for her. Write his name and let him try to copy it (but don’t push—make the tools available). If he doesn’t do well with a pencil, let him trace alphabet letters in sand or rice or popcorn kernels (unpopped). Then try the pencil again in a few weeks. www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © Later, you’ll write the note and he’ll really sign his name. Then a few months later, maybe he can write the thank you part and you can add…“for the red truck you gave me. Love, …” and he can sign his name. Then by maybe age 6 or 7, he will likely be able to write the Dear Grandma part, the thank you, and sign his name, and you just fill in the rest. Your goal is to get him to learn to express himself, to communicate— not to make it difficult or a test. And if your niece and nephew are reading at age 5 and he isn’t, don’t panic or feel peer pressure! Of course, you want to keep an eye out for signs that he may need further help. Age two isn’t it, though, if your little one seems to be able to express himself to you in an age-appropriate way and behave like an average, active, preschool boy. By the way, James Dobson once said that to many school teachers, the ideal little boy is … a little girl! However, boys are different than girls—God wired them that way. Expect the little boys to be pretty active and less interested in some language stuff, at least to begin with. If you think you may have a right-brained child or one who seems to learn a bit differently than you are comfortable with, Dianne Craft has some simple activities to stimulate healthy brain function. If you aren’t confident that you know what is appropriate, Slow and Steady, Get Me Ready by June Oberlander contains developmental activities for children from birth to age 5. And if you plan to homeschool, I highly recommend you read the Beechick The 3 R’s of Learning and Barbara Curtis’ Mommy, Teach Me!, regardless of what teaching approach you utilize. What Your Child Needs to Know When, by Robin Sampson, includes a basic checklist for kindergarten through grade 8 so you know what might be customary for a school-age child to learn; this can help you avoid unrealistic expectations in the earlier, preschool years. Your local support group (or MOPS group) may have some field trips and activities geared specifically to the attention span and interest level of 2-to-4-year-olds. However, don’t let what you see around you put pressure on you. Ask the Lord to guide you in being a joyful mother of children. My goodness—you have little ones! You have enough on your plate to just make dinner and get the laundry caught up! While you cultivate their character and nurture their knowledge, it’s okay to let your children be—well, children. The bottom line: This season will be shorter than you think, so enjoy being a mommy! Note: While this article is geared primarily for preschool, most of the suggestions are also applicable through the early grades. September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 15 solutions What to Do with Your Preschooler/Early Learner By: Vicki Bentley A young mom writes: I’m new at homeschooling—I have 2-year-old twins. I want to teach them and get them ready for preschool. Please send me info to help me start off on the right foot. Another mom writes: I have a 3½-year-old boy, a 2½-year-old girl and a 7-month old baby boy. I’ve read preschool articles on websites, listened to the sessions on beginning homeschooling from the state convention, read a few books and magazines, talked to homeschooling moms…but now that I’m really looking at schooling my children, I just get overwhelmed and don’t know where to start. I can see the goal or vision…that my children will love to learn…to learn about God, to learn reading, math, problem solving history, art, music, and everything in between… 14 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 but how do you start? They don’t seem to even want to sit still and read a book…they just want to play with toys and pretend. Vicki answers: They are little; let them play with toys and pretend! But you pick the toys, so you shape the play. Their play is their work—it may look easy to you, but it’s not all easy to them, and it is developing their thinking and providing life experiences—sort of like hooks on which they can hang their future learning. Provide them with stimulating, age-appropriate, developmental toys. You might want to peek through online catalogs such as Timberdoodle or Discovery Toys for a few ideas. Consider Legos or building blocks, thinking skills puzzles, art supplies, life-skills imaginary play (role playing or © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com dress-ups or tools/homemaking items), musical instruments, etc. The tapes or CDs you play can be educational and inspirational. Your everyday activities can be helpful for their brain and skills development. For example, working puzzles is a pre-reading skill, while helping Mom set the table is a math skill (oneto-one correspondence). Having them help put away their things in an orderly fashion (which they won’t be able to do yet, but can watch you joyfully walk through it with them) is classification and organization—science, math, and English skills. Ruth Beechick has a helpful book called The Three R’s of Learning. Valerie Bendt’s book, Making the Most of the Preschool Years, has lots of preschool ideas. You might also peek at Jane Lambert’s Before Five in a Row guide for some fun and educational activities based on classic kids’ books from the library. Pick a holiday or two to celebrate each month as a special treat and as a springboard for family learning. It is not uncommon for little children to seem uninterested in a read-aloud session, but don’t let that stop you from reading to them! If your child will sit quietly for five or 10 minutes as you snuggle and read together, that’s super. If not, read to her anyway while she plays quietly with blocks (or colors or dresses baby dolls or “cooks”…). She is absorbing more than you think she is! Also, try reading at a time that she tends to be quieter naturally, such as a morning wake-up cuddle time in your bed or a bedtime snuggle in hers. Or maybe your afternoon quiet time could always begin or end with a short picture book read-aloud. Character training is a biggie at this age—Marilyn Boyer’s Fun Projects for Hands-On Character Building has practical ideas for everyday moms like us. And her mommy book, Parenting from the Heart, has plenty of gentle encouragement from a mom of many. If nobody told you that they had to go to school at age 5, what would you be doing with them? What are you doing with them now? Interact with them naturally—you don’t have to invent lots of artificial learning experiences—you have plenty of “real” ones already! Let the children cook with you—they are measuring and pouring (math and science). Let them divide the cookies or the pizza (fractions and mathematical thinking). Be sure to read to and talk with them a lot; when they will occasionally let you get in a few pages of a picture book, ask them what they think will happen next. When they ask you a question, ask them, “What do you think?” and let them explain to you (even if their answer makes absolutely no sense—you can then tell them your explanation, too). When Grandma sends a present, write a thank-you note and let each child scribble at the bottom of it (then translate for Grandma!). Tell him he’s signing it for her. Write his name and let him try to copy it (but don’t push—make the tools available). If he doesn’t do well with a pencil, let him trace alphabet letters in sand or rice or popcorn kernels (unpopped). Then try the pencil again in a few weeks. www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © Later, you’ll write the note and he’ll really sign his name. Then a few months later, maybe he can write the thank you part and you can add…“for the red truck you gave me. Love, …” and he can sign his name. Then by maybe age 6 or 7, he will likely be able to write the Dear Grandma part, the thank you, and sign his name, and you just fill in the rest. Your goal is to get him to learn to express himself, to communicate— not to make it difficult or a test. And if your niece and nephew are reading at age 5 and he isn’t, don’t panic or feel peer pressure! Of course, you want to keep an eye out for signs that he may need further help. Age two isn’t it, though, if your little one seems to be able to express himself to you in an age-appropriate way and behave like an average, active, preschool boy. By the way, James Dobson once said that to many school teachers, the ideal little boy is … a little girl! However, boys are different than girls—God wired them that way. Expect the little boys to be pretty active and less interested in some language stuff, at least to begin with. If you think you may have a right-brained child or one who seems to learn a bit differently than you are comfortable with, Dianne Craft has some simple activities to stimulate healthy brain function. If you aren’t confident that you know what is appropriate, Slow and Steady, Get Me Ready by June Oberlander contains developmental activities for children from birth to age 5. And if you plan to homeschool, I highly recommend you read the Beechick The 3 R’s of Learning and Barbara Curtis’ Mommy, Teach Me!, regardless of what teaching approach you utilize. What Your Child Needs to Know When, by Robin Sampson, includes a basic checklist for kindergarten through grade 8 so you know what might be customary for a school-age child to learn; this can help you avoid unrealistic expectations in the earlier, preschool years. Your local support group (or MOPS group) may have some field trips and activities geared specifically to the attention span and interest level of 2-to-4-year-olds. However, don’t let what you see around you put pressure on you. Ask the Lord to guide you in being a joyful mother of children. My goodness—you have little ones! You have enough on your plate to just make dinner and get the laundry caught up! While you cultivate their character and nurture their knowledge, it’s okay to let your children be—well, children. The bottom line: This season will be shorter than you think, so enjoy being a mommy! Note: While this article is geared primarily for preschool, most of the suggestions are also applicable through the early grades. September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 15 curriculum By: Leonisa Ardizzone, EdD Incorporate Science Seamlessly into your Homeschool Life on a piece of paper, and write your thematic idea in the center. Next, brainstorm and record science questions, good books, art projects, field trips, and historical concepts that connect to your theme. Then, connect the learning dots! I encourage you to include your learners in the planning and to keep the idea of open-ended inquiry in mind. To help with that, here are some hints for increasing inquiry in your scientific-process endeavors: Ask open-ended questions: When observing an object or starting an exploration, keep things simple. Use questions such as, “What do you notice?” or “What does it remind you of?” Don’t stifle their thinking: Children will surely come up with some outrageous ideas during the inquiry process. Rather than saying, “No, that’s wrong,” ask, “Why do you think so?” See where additional questioning can lead. Turn questions back to the children: If a child asks you a question, turn it back to him. Asking, “Why do you think that happens?” gives the child the chance to engage in scientific thinking. Don’t be afraid to say, “I Don’t Know”: Instead of this phrase being an end to learning, use it as an opening to deeper exploration. If you get stumped, ask the children, “How can we investigate further?” Then, work together to find ways to gather more information. Science is everywhere. It’s what we consume and how our bodies function, the technology we rely on in our everyday lives, the nature and structures that surround us, and so much more. The world is ripe for science exploration by children of all ages, and there are many ways to incorporate it into a homeschool curriculum. Parents and educators often shy away from teaching science, but why? The primary reason is that we assume that science is mostly about content. We believe that if we don’t have enough knowledge of content, we simply cannot—or should not—teach our kids. While it is important for kids to get content, and their questions will most likely be content driven—“Why is the sky blue?”or “How do roots take up water?”— you don’t need to be an expert to incorporate more science into your homeschool programming. Focus on broad themes for exploration. The themes I use are from the Next Generation Science Standards, which I also use in my book Science— Not Just for Scientists! Easy Explorations for Young Children, published by Gryphon House: •• Patterns •• Change and growth •• How things work • Cause and effect • Energy Let tangents happen: Building on ideas and experiencing play-based learning means allowing children to share their thinking and giving them time and space to direct their own learning. Science investigations can be linked to other subject areas as well. Develop in-depth study projects that link science with social studies, math, research, writing, and even foreign language and the arts. The aim is to create a truly integrated science-themed study unit. For example, using size and scale as a theme could lead to an in-depth study of structures. Do a community study of buildings and structures that includes a community walk. Talk with local experts. Learn about the buildings’ use, history, and architectural styles. Add in lessons on size, such as measurement and scale. Bring in engineering and the forces at work on structures and how these forces must be balanced to keep things standing up. Have learners apply all this knowledge by building scale models. Remember, science is not a collection of facts. It is a habit of mind that involves asking questions, problem solving, critical thinking, and analytical assessment. When you think of it this way, it is much easier to incorporate scientific thinking into all learning experiences. •Size and scale • Systems Within these themes lie the potential for numerous science (and nonscience) learning experiences. For example, within the theme of cause and effect, process-based scientific study can include doing an experiment to test the effect of floor material, such as wood, tile, or carpet, on how high balls made of different materials will bounce. Use the investigation to help learners understand how to apply the scientific method: Hypothesize: I think the ball will bounce higher on a tile floor than it does on wood or carpet. Develop a way to test the hypothesis: I will bounce a ball on several types of floor material. Understand what experimental variables are: Different types of flooring affect the height of the bounce in different ways. Use measurement tools to collect data: How high does the ball bounce on wood? Tile? Carpet? Use a yardstick or measuring tape to find out. Record the measurements. Plot and analyze data: Plot the data in a chart or graph. Look at the results, and decide how each floor type affected the height of the bounce. Does the data support the hypothesis? An open-ended inquiry such as this can lead to more questions, sending learners off on even more explorations. Make science an integrated part of your homeschool curriculum. Push aside your fear of science by making content the secondary aim; instead, focus on science as a process. To kick start your planning, draw a circle 16 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 17 curriculum By: Leonisa Ardizzone, EdD Incorporate Science Seamlessly into your Homeschool Life on a piece of paper, and write your thematic idea in the center. Next, brainstorm and record science questions, good books, art projects, field trips, and historical concepts that connect to your theme. Then, connect the learning dots! I encourage you to include your learners in the planning and to keep the idea of open-ended inquiry in mind. To help with that, here are some hints for increasing inquiry in your scientific-process endeavors: Ask open-ended questions: When observing an object or starting an exploration, keep things simple. Use questions such as, “What do you notice?” or “What does it remind you of?” Don’t stifle their thinking: Children will surely come up with some outrageous ideas during the inquiry process. Rather than saying, “No, that’s wrong,” ask, “Why do you think so?” See where additional questioning can lead. Turn questions back to the children: If a child asks you a question, turn it back to him. Asking, “Why do you think that happens?” gives the child the chance to engage in scientific thinking. Don’t be afraid to say, “I Don’t Know”: Instead of this phrase being an end to learning, use it as an opening to deeper exploration. If you get stumped, ask the children, “How can we investigate further?” Then, work together to find ways to gather more information. Science is everywhere. It’s what we consume and how our bodies function, the technology we rely on in our everyday lives, the nature and structures that surround us, and so much more. The world is ripe for science exploration by children of all ages, and there are many ways to incorporate it into a homeschool curriculum. Parents and educators often shy away from teaching science, but why? The primary reason is that we assume that science is mostly about content. We believe that if we don’t have enough knowledge of content, we simply cannot—or should not—teach our kids. While it is important for kids to get content, and their questions will most likely be content driven—“Why is the sky blue?”or “How do roots take up water?”— you don’t need to be an expert to incorporate more science into your homeschool programming. Focus on broad themes for exploration. The themes I use are from the Next Generation Science Standards, which I also use in my book Science— Not Just for Scientists! Easy Explorations for Young Children, published by Gryphon House: •• Patterns •• Change and growth •• How things work • Cause and effect • Energy Let tangents happen: Building on ideas and experiencing play-based learning means allowing children to share their thinking and giving them time and space to direct their own learning. Science investigations can be linked to other subject areas as well. Develop in-depth study projects that link science with social studies, math, research, writing, and even foreign language and the arts. The aim is to create a truly integrated science-themed study unit. For example, using size and scale as a theme could lead to an in-depth study of structures. Do a community study of buildings and structures that includes a community walk. Talk with local experts. Learn about the buildings’ use, history, and architectural styles. Add in lessons on size, such as measurement and scale. Bring in engineering and the forces at work on structures and how these forces must be balanced to keep things standing up. Have learners apply all this knowledge by building scale models. Remember, science is not a collection of facts. It is a habit of mind that involves asking questions, problem solving, critical thinking, and analytical assessment. When you think of it this way, it is much easier to incorporate scientific thinking into all learning experiences. •Size and scale • Systems Within these themes lie the potential for numerous science (and nonscience) learning experiences. For example, within the theme of cause and effect, process-based scientific study can include doing an experiment to test the effect of floor material, such as wood, tile, or carpet, on how high balls made of different materials will bounce. Use the investigation to help learners understand how to apply the scientific method: Hypothesize: I think the ball will bounce higher on a tile floor than it does on wood or carpet. Develop a way to test the hypothesis: I will bounce a ball on several types of floor material. Understand what experimental variables are: Different types of flooring affect the height of the bounce in different ways. Use measurement tools to collect data: How high does the ball bounce on wood? Tile? Carpet? Use a yardstick or measuring tape to find out. Record the measurements. Plot and analyze data: Plot the data in a chart or graph. Look at the results, and decide how each floor type affected the height of the bounce. Does the data support the hypothesis? An open-ended inquiry such as this can lead to more questions, sending learners off on even more explorations. Make science an integrated part of your homeschool curriculum. Push aside your fear of science by making content the secondary aim; instead, focus on science as a process. To kick start your planning, draw a circle 16 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 17 curriculum By Donna Vail Living with Change and Interruptions in Your Home Education CHANGE bal an TRANSITION ce an dp urp , o se. vi ro nt , pa vi si o n ,in s pir ati on INTERRUPTIONS en e nm r tn er sh ip ,p e rs pe ct iv e, t ra Education is not about filling your children with a lot of facts and figures so that they can parrot it back. Educating your children in the home is about developing a self-education mindset where learning anything is possible. This creates self-determined and self-reliant adults who can persevere through anything life can throw at them. To put you on the path, you will need to clear your mind of old ways and build structure using the following eight core areas: vision, inspiration, environment, partnership, perspective, transition, balance and purpose. Structuring your home education around these core areas will allow you to see your world differently. These core areas can be used in every area of your life, not just your home education, so no matter where you stand in your family or personal development, equipped with the right vision, you are unlimited in what you can accomplish and a whole world of opportunity opens up to you. As your home education continues and grows it becomes woven into the fabric of life itself, creating a new expression of life for you and your family. Living life to the fullest is an expression of your soul; the fulfillment of your natural born purpose and contribution to the world. This doesn’t stop when you become a parent, in fact, having children intensifies life with richer more ns iti on , 18 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com fulfilling experiences. Home education takes life to the next level. The family that learns together, grows together. We are all unique individuals. No two of us are exactly alike. No matter how different you are from your children, they are a perfect match to you for what they need in life so they can be their best and fulfill their natural born purpose. Likewise, you’re matched to them, growing and learning in the experience of family as you emerge into your greater self. This perfect combination is more easily navigated when you can be together learning and growing day in and day out. Regardless of how matched you are to your children, no one is immune to challenges. Change, transition and the interruptions will show up and at times what appears to be a well-structured system will feel like it’s cracked and crumbling. Remember, your home education is a direct reflection of your expression as a family and each individually. Change and interruptions are inevitable and a natural part of life and can show up as illness, babies being born, job changes, moving, family members dying or every day minutia. Every day is filled with real life and real learning. To expect or desire something different or freedom from this natural process only creates unhappiness, dissatisfaction, stress and everything you don’t want. In order to live more and learn more in your home education and be able to navigate the change and interruptions that come up naturally; apply these three steps and then apply the inspired action listed below. A successful home education is built through practice, perseverance and a lot of love. Our first steps in our home education need to be to align with our children’s needs. This includes identifying and aligning with each person’s highest values. With this understanding you will be better equipped to navigate change and see more clearly what is an interruption or a learning opportunity. Perhaps you did not realize how much change or that it would include such a deep development of yourself. It’s not strange and no, you’re not doing anything wrong when you have to continually change the way you home educate over the years. It’s more important that we embrace change and welcome it as a sign our children are growing and developing. As your children get older you’ll also see how their uniqueness emerges. Your children need for you to make changes, adjust and evolve along with them. Change is a sign you’re making great progress and that they’ve learned, grown and developed. Check in with yourself too, I’m sure you’ve grown too. It’s all about aligning and finding the balance. The next main ingredient and most influential component in your child’s supportive and inspiring environment is you. What will ease the daily success is flexibility and your ability to see clearly what is happening as you make changes, navigate transitions and interruptions. This clarity will help you adjust along the way guiding your child through their development. As www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © you get training, learn and align, you’ll see what seems like an irritation or disrespect is nothing personal at you but the child trying to build character and within that lesson is a nugget for you to grow. Keep in mind your mentor mantra – guide, provide and step aside. Finally, creating habits that are consistently practiced will minimize complications or reactions to change. Key word there is “minimize”, not eliminate. Part of the stress can be self-imposed so it’s important to remember less is more and slow is fast, especially when children are involved. In all your habit processes include time for tweaking. If change results in too much friction it could only need a small tweak. Take time to step back, think things through, get quiet and allow the inspiration to flow. Throughout the process you’ll want to remain open because our children are simply giving us feedback. The beauty of home education, whether in academics, relationships or otherwise—we have the freedom to adjust with the highest regard for the child and the whole family. Live in that freedom, use it when you need to and continually respect and protect it. Within the three steps I’ve shared with you, once you’ve applied those you can move forward by taking this Inspired Action to Living with Change and Interruptions: •• Create a Family Rhythm instead of a strict schedule. •• Fill your every day with only that which is aligned with the highest values. •• Pause and consider areas of friction or difficulty and allow inspiration to flow. •• Minimize interruptions means eliminating anything not aligned with highest values. •• Link core academics with highest values and interweave all other studies with this alignment. •• If you’re stressed and pressed, time to re-evaluate and simplify your day. When you change the way you look at your home education, let go of the fantasy, work on yourself as a growing person and filter everything with love; it all shifts. Now you can be certain, you’re perfectly matched to your family and you are right where you need to be, growing into more knowledge and love. Your home education is perfect for your family. For a time, if you’re still wrestling with change consider changing your inner dialogue to remind yourself that change is good. “Change is good.” “Change is good.” “Change is good.” Sometimes I have to do this to realign myself. Letting go of the old, embracing the new. Reminding myself that when things feel like they’re falling apart, they are really falling together and space is being created for something greater. Stay inspired to love more, live more and learn more. “Man’s mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions.” –Oliver Wendell Holmes September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 19 curriculum By Donna Vail Living with Change and Interruptions in Your Home Education CHANGE bal an TRANSITION ce an dp urp , o se. vi ro nt , pa vi si o n ,in s pir ati on INTERRUPTIONS en e nm r tn er sh ip ,p e rs pe ct iv e, t ra Education is not about filling your children with a lot of facts and figures so that they can parrot it back. Educating your children in the home is about developing a self-education mindset where learning anything is possible. This creates self-determined and self-reliant adults who can persevere through anything life can throw at them. To put you on the path, you will need to clear your mind of old ways and build structure using the following eight core areas: vision, inspiration, environment, partnership, perspective, transition, balance and purpose. Structuring your home education around these core areas will allow you to see your world differently. These core areas can be used in every area of your life, not just your home education, so no matter where you stand in your family or personal development, equipped with the right vision, you are unlimited in what you can accomplish and a whole world of opportunity opens up to you. As your home education continues and grows it becomes woven into the fabric of life itself, creating a new expression of life for you and your family. Living life to the fullest is an expression of your soul; the fulfillment of your natural born purpose and contribution to the world. This doesn’t stop when you become a parent, in fact, having children intensifies life with richer more ns iti on , 18 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com fulfilling experiences. Home education takes life to the next level. The family that learns together, grows together. We are all unique individuals. No two of us are exactly alike. No matter how different you are from your children, they are a perfect match to you for what they need in life so they can be their best and fulfill their natural born purpose. Likewise, you’re matched to them, growing and learning in the experience of family as you emerge into your greater self. This perfect combination is more easily navigated when you can be together learning and growing day in and day out. Regardless of how matched you are to your children, no one is immune to challenges. Change, transition and the interruptions will show up and at times what appears to be a well-structured system will feel like it’s cracked and crumbling. Remember, your home education is a direct reflection of your expression as a family and each individually. Change and interruptions are inevitable and a natural part of life and can show up as illness, babies being born, job changes, moving, family members dying or every day minutia. Every day is filled with real life and real learning. To expect or desire something different or freedom from this natural process only creates unhappiness, dissatisfaction, stress and everything you don’t want. In order to live more and learn more in your home education and be able to navigate the change and interruptions that come up naturally; apply these three steps and then apply the inspired action listed below. A successful home education is built through practice, perseverance and a lot of love. Our first steps in our home education need to be to align with our children’s needs. This includes identifying and aligning with each person’s highest values. With this understanding you will be better equipped to navigate change and see more clearly what is an interruption or a learning opportunity. Perhaps you did not realize how much change or that it would include such a deep development of yourself. It’s not strange and no, you’re not doing anything wrong when you have to continually change the way you home educate over the years. It’s more important that we embrace change and welcome it as a sign our children are growing and developing. As your children get older you’ll also see how their uniqueness emerges. Your children need for you to make changes, adjust and evolve along with them. Change is a sign you’re making great progress and that they’ve learned, grown and developed. Check in with yourself too, I’m sure you’ve grown too. It’s all about aligning and finding the balance. The next main ingredient and most influential component in your child’s supportive and inspiring environment is you. What will ease the daily success is flexibility and your ability to see clearly what is happening as you make changes, navigate transitions and interruptions. This clarity will help you adjust along the way guiding your child through their development. As www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © you get training, learn and align, you’ll see what seems like an irritation or disrespect is nothing personal at you but the child trying to build character and within that lesson is a nugget for you to grow. Keep in mind your mentor mantra – guide, provide and step aside. Finally, creating habits that are consistently practiced will minimize complications or reactions to change. Key word there is “minimize”, not eliminate. Part of the stress can be self-imposed so it’s important to remember less is more and slow is fast, especially when children are involved. In all your habit processes include time for tweaking. If change results in too much friction it could only need a small tweak. Take time to step back, think things through, get quiet and allow the inspiration to flow. Throughout the process you’ll want to remain open because our children are simply giving us feedback. The beauty of home education, whether in academics, relationships or otherwise—we have the freedom to adjust with the highest regard for the child and the whole family. Live in that freedom, use it when you need to and continually respect and protect it. Within the three steps I’ve shared with you, once you’ve applied those you can move forward by taking this Inspired Action to Living with Change and Interruptions: •• Create a Family Rhythm instead of a strict schedule. •• Fill your every day with only that which is aligned with the highest values. •• Pause and consider areas of friction or difficulty and allow inspiration to flow. •• Minimize interruptions means eliminating anything not aligned with highest values. •• Link core academics with highest values and interweave all other studies with this alignment. •• If you’re stressed and pressed, time to re-evaluate and simplify your day. When you change the way you look at your home education, let go of the fantasy, work on yourself as a growing person and filter everything with love; it all shifts. Now you can be certain, you’re perfectly matched to your family and you are right where you need to be, growing into more knowledge and love. Your home education is perfect for your family. For a time, if you’re still wrestling with change consider changing your inner dialogue to remind yourself that change is good. “Change is good.” “Change is good.” “Change is good.” Sometimes I have to do this to realign myself. Letting go of the old, embracing the new. Reminding myself that when things feel like they’re falling apart, they are really falling together and space is being created for something greater. Stay inspired to love more, live more and learn more. “Man’s mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions.” –Oliver Wendell Holmes September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 19 curriculum By Erin Smilkstein, MA.Ed. TheHomeworkLounge.com I do not believe lazy kids exist. I don’t. When I hear a parent or teacher tell me that this student or that child is lazy, I immediately know to start asking deeper questions. In the last 15 years I have discovered that what appears as laziness is a symptom, not a condition. Children, from early on, are explorers. Young children are researchers of the world, trying out new things. They are the original scientists, discovering what works and what doesn’t, what will fail, what won’t, and what will make Mom react with wide eyes, and what will make her smile. The concept of a “Kindergarten mind set,” - where everything is worth exploring and everything has something interesting in it - is easy to embrace. There is not judgment in the task, but simply a desire to explore and try new things. They are curious by design and open to new experiences. They are also achievers. They want to do well. However, somewhere in their education, at home or at school, some children begin to experience a series of failures. Failures, in Myth The Lazy Child themselves, are necessary and actually provide the opportunity to learn, but if these failures were met with feelings of shame, fear, embarrassment or inadequacy, children begin to find ways to avoid failure in the future rather than work through them to knowledge. They stop exploring and attempting new things because they don’t want to be wrong or viewed as stupid. They withdraw from new or challenging learning experiences to avoid shame. Becoming “lazy” is a natural defense because when challenging work can be avoided, the real feelings about failure can be ignored. Plus, the label “lazy” is actually easier to live with than the alternative, “stupid.” The child starts to believe there is no harm to the self when no possibility of failure is present, so they avoid any activity that might lead to shame. When the child accepts the “I’m just lazy” label, the parents will find it more and more frustrating to communicate with her. It can take a little detective work - some investigating and problem solving – but an underlying cause of laziness will be revealed. I have yet to find a child who is unequivocally lazy- that is, who is fully capable, emotionally and intellectually secure, but without any desire to create, learn or perform. Remember: children want to please, so it’s not in their inherent nature to be lazy. “I’m just lazy” is such an easy excuse that the child generally agrees to it and many times it’s accepted as the unofficial diagnosis. The child can relax, because being lazy is not about ability to learn math, intelligence, memory capabilities, sequential processing speed, number sense or any of the other factors that affect learning: it’s just laziness: I could if I wanted to, but I’m just lazy. I’m here to stop that thinking. We need to recognize the more truthful statement, which is, “I would want to if I could, but I’m scared you’ll find out that I can’t.” Once we tackle the fears behind the laziness, everything begins to shift. Of course, there are times when children do not want to do something they are fully capable of doing, like chores or an academically easy set of math problems for example. These fall under the “lack of motivation” category. While we would like our children to have the intrinsic motivation to do something because they should, they may not have that maturity yet. It’s especially challenging if there is something else more exciting to do (watch TV vs. finish dishes), or the task just looks boring (a long, repetitive assignment.) Your job is to create motivation when it is lacking. What’s the easiest way to do that? With PLAY! This could be as simple as “how many problems can you do in 2 minutes?” then watch your child race, with a high five at the end, followed by another 2 minutes. You don’t have to use material motivation. There are many, many strategies that are easy to do, yet highly effective for motivation. It sounds funny to be excited about working with “lazy” kids, but try to think that they are providing you the chance to help discover the root of the issue and resolve it. Once that happens, you may be surprised how enthusiastic your child is to learn more math, take on challenging tasks or even say, “wait, let me try.” “lazy” is a natural defense because when challenging work can be avoided, the real feelings about failure can be ignored. Call toll-free for a catalog 1-866-260-7221 or visit our website www.americanschool.org 20 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 21 curriculum By Erin Smilkstein, MA.Ed. TheHomeworkLounge.com I do not believe lazy kids exist. I don’t. When I hear a parent or teacher tell me that this student or that child is lazy, I immediately know to start asking deeper questions. In the last 15 years I have discovered that what appears as laziness is a symptom, not a condition. Children, from early on, are explorers. Young children are researchers of the world, trying out new things. They are the original scientists, discovering what works and what doesn’t, what will fail, what won’t, and what will make Mom react with wide eyes, and what will make her smile. The concept of a “Kindergarten mind set,” - where everything is worth exploring and everything has something interesting in it - is easy to embrace. There is not judgment in the task, but simply a desire to explore and try new things. They are curious by design and open to new experiences. They are also achievers. They want to do well. However, somewhere in their education, at home or at school, some children begin to experience a series of failures. Failures, in Myth The Lazy Child themselves, are necessary and actually provide the opportunity to learn, but if these failures were met with feelings of shame, fear, embarrassment or inadequacy, children begin to find ways to avoid failure in the future rather than work through them to knowledge. They stop exploring and attempting new things because they don’t want to be wrong or viewed as stupid. They withdraw from new or challenging learning experiences to avoid shame. Becoming “lazy” is a natural defense because when challenging work can be avoided, the real feelings about failure can be ignored. Plus, the label “lazy” is actually easier to live with than the alternative, “stupid.” The child starts to believe there is no harm to the self when no possibility of failure is present, so they avoid any activity that might lead to shame. When the child accepts the “I’m just lazy” label, the parents will find it more and more frustrating to communicate with her. It can take a little detective work - some investigating and problem solving – but an underlying cause of laziness will be revealed. I have yet to find a child who is unequivocally lazy- that is, who is fully capable, emotionally and intellectually secure, but without any desire to create, learn or perform. Remember: children want to please, so it’s not in their inherent nature to be lazy. “I’m just lazy” is such an easy excuse that the child generally agrees to it and many times it’s accepted as the unofficial diagnosis. The child can relax, because being lazy is not about ability to learn math, intelligence, memory capabilities, sequential processing speed, number sense or any of the other factors that affect learning: it’s just laziness: I could if I wanted to, but I’m just lazy. I’m here to stop that thinking. We need to recognize the more truthful statement, which is, “I would want to if I could, but I’m scared you’ll find out that I can’t.” Once we tackle the fears behind the laziness, everything begins to shift. Of course, there are times when children do not want to do something they are fully capable of doing, like chores or an academically easy set of math problems for example. These fall under the “lack of motivation” category. While we would like our children to have the intrinsic motivation to do something because they should, they may not have that maturity yet. It’s especially challenging if there is something else more exciting to do (watch TV vs. finish dishes), or the task just looks boring (a long, repetitive assignment.) Your job is to create motivation when it is lacking. What’s the easiest way to do that? With PLAY! This could be as simple as “how many problems can you do in 2 minutes?” then watch your child race, with a high five at the end, followed by another 2 minutes. You don’t have to use material motivation. There are many, many strategies that are easy to do, yet highly effective for motivation. It sounds funny to be excited about working with “lazy” kids, but try to think that they are providing you the chance to help discover the root of the issue and resolve it. Once that happens, you may be surprised how enthusiastic your child is to learn more math, take on challenging tasks or even say, “wait, let me try.” “lazy” is a natural defense because when challenging work can be avoided, the real feelings about failure can be ignored. Call toll-free for a catalog 1-866-260-7221 or visit our website www.americanschool.org 20 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 21 curriculum “Talking math” with kids An Introduction to Homeschooling SIMPLE TIPS FOR FOSTERING A MULTILINGUAL CHILD Tip # 2 – Couch Potato turned Language Learner: While we don’t want your child watching TV a lot, you can turn the little time they do watch TV into a second language lesson by having your child watch television or movies in another language. Simply change the language setting by pressing your SAP (Secondary Audio Programming) button on your remote. Tip # 3 – Read between the Technologies: Technology is advancing at an ever-so-rapid rate and parents should take advantage of new tools and their potential to impact learning. Many eBooks and apps are offering multiple languages so children can further their language development while having some fun. A child can read stories in the language they are familiar with first and then read the story in a second language. Language vocabulary can be strengthened by flipping back and forth between texts. (For old-school souls, hardcover books can work too – just purchase your child’s beloved book in a foreign language.) 22 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 a big impact on how well the youngsters understood basic mathematical concepts such as the cardinal number principle, Many of us feel completely comfortable talking about letters, which holds that the last number reached when counting a set words and sentences with our children—reading to them at of objects determines the size of the set (“One, two, three— night, helping them decode their own books, noting messages three apples in the bowl!”). A subsequent study by Levine found on street signs and billboards. that the kind of number talk that most strongly predicted later But speaking to them about numbers, fractions, and knowledge of numbers involved counting or labeling sets of decimals? Not so much. And yet studies show that “number objects that are right there in front of parent and child–especially talk” at home is a key predictor of young children’s achievement large sets, containing between four and ten objects. in math once they get to school. Research provides evidence Homeschool Legal Defense AssociationThough it may not come naturally at first, parents can that gender is also part of By: the equation: Parents speak to their develop the habit of talking about numbers as often as they talk daughters about numbers far less than their sons. about letters and words. Some simple ways to work numbers A study published in the Journal of Language and Social into the conversation: Psychology drew on a collection of recordings of mothers their children removed from their home. Some were arrested. s long as there have been parents and children, talking “homeschooling” to their toddlers,has aged 20 happening. to 27 months. Alicia •• Note numbers on signs when were you’re confronted walking or driving Many were taken to court. Parents by been It was onlyChang, with a researcher at the University of Delaware, and two coauthors with children: speed limits and exit numbers, building concerned neighbors, worried friends, and aghast relatives— the emergence of widespread compulsory public education addresses, in store windows. determined that mothers spoke to boyswas about number concepts all of whom were suresale that prices the homeschooling mom and dad that this age-old method of instruction virtually forgotten, twice as often as they spoke to girls. Children this age are were ruining children’s lives dooming them playing to an •• Asktheir children to count howand many toys they’re but not eradicated.1 rapidly building their vocabularies, Chang notes, and helping with, how many books they’ve pulled out to read, or how unproductive future of illiteracy and isolation. Foreign service workers or missionaries who by choice them become familiar with number words can promote their many pieces of food are on their plate. But those early homeschoolers hung tough. They fought or necessity did not send their children to boarding schools interest in math later on. the court•• battles. They when went to the library and dates, craftedand their continued the tradition of home education. Children who had Use numbers you refer to time, That that was kept made in another study, And they quietly continued teaching, letting illnesses themclear from attending school werepublished frequently in own curricula. temperatures: how many hours and minutes until Developmental in 2010, which recordings their children’s achievement answerand thedays charges their the taught at home.Psychology And families who lived inalso the used remote areas bedtime, how many weeks until a of holiday, of parentsor talking their children gauge how number fiercest critics. high and low temperature the weatherman predicts for of Alaska other to isolated regions to answered theiroften children’s words were used (the kids in this study were between the ages of that day. educational needs with homeschooling. 14 and 30 months). Psychologist Susan Levineexperienced of the University In the 1970s and '80s, homeschooling a Massachusetts the firstcan compulsory •• With olderpassed children, math become aattendance part of talking 1 of Chicago and her coauthors found huge variation among the renaissance as a few parents began to question whether law in 1852; 1918 all states enacted about by sports, science, history,had video games, similar or whatever families Some children were private hearingschools their parents the publicstudied: education system or existing were legislation.else they’re interested in. speak only about two dozen words a week, right for their individual child.number They wondered if theywhile mightothers be Editor’s Note: As of 2007 according to the National were hearing such words about 1,800 times weekly. and 1.5 children alike will findwere that math able to do a better job. CenterWith for practice, Educationparents Statistics million children The frequency of number talk in the children’s homes had makes a very satisfying second language. And what do you know? Parents discovered they could do homeschooled in the USA. A As a parent and former educator, I am a firm believer in fostering multilingualism in children. Countless research results have confirmed the cognitive benefits of learning a second language at an early age. Specifically, better communication, memory, problem-solving, and planning are some of the skills multilingual children have experienced in later years. So, how can parents easily nurture a second language for their child, even when they don’t speak a second language themselves? I’ve compiled a few effortless and fun tips for achieving this goal. Tip #1 – By: Anne Murphy Paul Do you speak math with your kids? By: Nicole Fonovich Take Note: Creating sight word labels are a great way for children to build pre-reading skills. You can do these labels in multiple languages to help your child learn very simple words in another language. Notecards or sticky notes are perfect for this project and labeling children’s games is a great way to play and learn. curriculum Tip # 4 – Music to their Ears: Music is a fun and easy way to support memory retention. Listening, followed by repetitive singing, of a familiar song in a foreign language can help children learn the language in no time. Tip # 5 – Learn and Teach Alongside your Child: The best way to reinforce what your child is learning is to learn alongside them and make foreign language development part of their daily routine. If an older sibling is learning a foreign language, they can practice on their younger sibling. In addition, if you have relatives who speak a foreign language reconnect on a web-based video chat service and have the relative speak to the child in that language. Tip # 6 – Let the professionals work their magic: Enroll a great job. They told two friends who told two friends and so on. The modern homeschooling movement was born. It wasn’t entirely that simple, of course. The early days were rocky. There were few curriculum suppliers who would sell to homeschoolers. Teachers considered themselves experts. What made these parents think they could teach their own children? While few states specifically prohibited homeschooling, legislators and school officials acted as if they had. Homeschooling parents faced threats of jail time and having your child in a formal school or get a tutor for the language of your choosing. We have been taking our son, Lucas, to an Italian language immersion school since he was a toddler. Incorporating multiple tips from this list will not only reinforce your child’s foreign language development, but will also help them later in life. I urge you to commit to helping your child develop a second language, which will benefit them in later years. Happy foreign language learning! Nicole © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 23 curriculum “Talking math” with kids An Introduction to Homeschooling SIMPLE TIPS FOR FOSTERING A MULTILINGUAL CHILD Tip # 2 – Couch Potato turned Language Learner: While we don’t want your child watching TV a lot, you can turn the little time they do watch TV into a second language lesson by having your child watch television or movies in another language. Simply change the language setting by pressing your SAP (Secondary Audio Programming) button on your remote. Tip # 3 – Read between the Technologies: Technology is advancing at an ever-so-rapid rate and parents should take advantage of new tools and their potential to impact learning. Many eBooks and apps are offering multiple languages so children can further their language development while having some fun. A child can read stories in the language they are familiar with first and then read the story in a second language. Language vocabulary can be strengthened by flipping back and forth between texts. (For old-school souls, hardcover books can work too – just purchase your child’s beloved book in a foreign language.) 22 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 a big impact on how well the youngsters understood basic mathematical concepts such as the cardinal number principle, Many of us feel completely comfortable talking about letters, which holds that the last number reached when counting a set words and sentences with our children—reading to them at of objects determines the size of the set (“One, two, three— night, helping them decode their own books, noting messages three apples in the bowl!”). A subsequent study by Levine found on street signs and billboards. that the kind of number talk that most strongly predicted later But speaking to them about numbers, fractions, and knowledge of numbers involved counting or labeling sets of decimals? Not so much. And yet studies show that “number objects that are right there in front of parent and child–especially talk” at home is a key predictor of young children’s achievement large sets, containing between four and ten objects. in math once they get to school. Research provides evidence Homeschool Legal Defense AssociationThough it may not come naturally at first, parents can that gender is also part of By: the equation: Parents speak to their develop the habit of talking about numbers as often as they talk daughters about numbers far less than their sons. about letters and words. Some simple ways to work numbers A study published in the Journal of Language and Social into the conversation: Psychology drew on a collection of recordings of mothers their children removed from their home. Some were arrested. s long as there have been parents and children, talking “homeschooling” to their toddlers,has aged 20 happening. to 27 months. Alicia •• Note numbers on signs when were you’re confronted walking or driving Many were taken to court. Parents by been It was onlyChang, with a researcher at the University of Delaware, and two coauthors with children: speed limits and exit numbers, building concerned neighbors, worried friends, and aghast relatives— the emergence of widespread compulsory public education addresses, in store windows. determined that mothers spoke to boyswas about number concepts all of whom were suresale that prices the homeschooling mom and dad that this age-old method of instruction virtually forgotten, twice as often as they spoke to girls. Children this age are were ruining children’s lives dooming them playing to an •• Asktheir children to count howand many toys they’re but not eradicated.1 rapidly building their vocabularies, Chang notes, and helping with, how many books they’ve pulled out to read, or how unproductive future of illiteracy and isolation. Foreign service workers or missionaries who by choice them become familiar with number words can promote their many pieces of food are on their plate. But those early homeschoolers hung tough. They fought or necessity did not send their children to boarding schools interest in math later on. the court•• battles. They when went to the library and dates, craftedand their continued the tradition of home education. Children who had Use numbers you refer to time, That that was kept made in another study, And they quietly continued teaching, letting illnesses themclear from attending school werepublished frequently in own curricula. temperatures: how many hours and minutes until Developmental in 2010, which recordings their children’s achievement answerand thedays charges their the taught at home.Psychology And families who lived inalso the used remote areas bedtime, how many weeks until a of holiday, of parentsor talking their children gauge how number fiercest critics. high and low temperature the weatherman predicts for of Alaska other to isolated regions to answered theiroften children’s words were used (the kids in this study were between the ages of that day. educational needs with homeschooling. 14 and 30 months). Psychologist Susan Levineexperienced of the University In the 1970s and '80s, homeschooling a Massachusetts the firstcan compulsory •• With olderpassed children, math become aattendance part of talking 1 of Chicago and her coauthors found huge variation among the renaissance as a few parents began to question whether law in 1852; 1918 all states enacted about by sports, science, history,had video games, similar or whatever families Some children were private hearingschools their parents the publicstudied: education system or existing were legislation.else they’re interested in. speak only about two dozen words a week, right for their individual child.number They wondered if theywhile mightothers be Editor’s Note: As of 2007 according to the National were hearing such words about 1,800 times weekly. and 1.5 children alike will findwere that math able to do a better job. CenterWith for practice, Educationparents Statistics million children The frequency of number talk in the children’s homes had makes a very satisfying second language. And what do you know? Parents discovered they could do homeschooled in the USA. A As a parent and former educator, I am a firm believer in fostering multilingualism in children. Countless research results have confirmed the cognitive benefits of learning a second language at an early age. Specifically, better communication, memory, problem-solving, and planning are some of the skills multilingual children have experienced in later years. So, how can parents easily nurture a second language for their child, even when they don’t speak a second language themselves? I’ve compiled a few effortless and fun tips for achieving this goal. Tip #1 – By: Anne Murphy Paul Do you speak math with your kids? By: Nicole Fonovich Take Note: Creating sight word labels are a great way for children to build pre-reading skills. You can do these labels in multiple languages to help your child learn very simple words in another language. Notecards or sticky notes are perfect for this project and labeling children’s games is a great way to play and learn. curriculum Tip # 4 – Music to their Ears: Music is a fun and easy way to support memory retention. Listening, followed by repetitive singing, of a familiar song in a foreign language can help children learn the language in no time. Tip # 5 – Learn and Teach Alongside your Child: The best way to reinforce what your child is learning is to learn alongside them and make foreign language development part of their daily routine. If an older sibling is learning a foreign language, they can practice on their younger sibling. In addition, if you have relatives who speak a foreign language reconnect on a web-based video chat service and have the relative speak to the child in that language. Tip # 6 – Let the professionals work their magic: Enroll a great job. They told two friends who told two friends and so on. The modern homeschooling movement was born. It wasn’t entirely that simple, of course. The early days were rocky. There were few curriculum suppliers who would sell to homeschoolers. Teachers considered themselves experts. What made these parents think they could teach their own children? While few states specifically prohibited homeschooling, legislators and school officials acted as if they had. Homeschooling parents faced threats of jail time and having your child in a formal school or get a tutor for the language of your choosing. We have been taking our son, Lucas, to an Italian language immersion school since he was a toddler. Incorporating multiple tips from this list will not only reinforce your child’s foreign language development, but will also help them later in life. I urge you to commit to helping your child develop a second language, which will benefit them in later years. Happy foreign language learning! Nicole © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 23 s r o d a s s a b Am t r o p p u S p U Pump aiser R d n u At F education By Homeschool Foundation The model the Arizona Ambassador Team developed for the event is quite simple, and requires very few logistics and a lot of well-placed promotional communications. They ask a minimum donation of $5 per attendee, regardless of whether they use the jumping equipment during the event. “This approach enables us to ensure balanced results while at the same time leaving room for God to work in the hearts of those who wish to give more,” said Gary. “While many families pay the minimum donation and are happy to do so since it is less than they would usually pay to jump, other families who are able to do so give a great deal more than that. At the end of the day, many families have enjoyed themselves and made new friends and we, in turn, are able to help others. It is a win-win situation.” Coupled with HSF’s generous matching incentive for ambassador teams, the $1000 raised at the Pump It Up fundraiser this year allowed Arizona ambassadors to jumpstart their fundraising efforts and gave them $2000 to assist another struggling homeschooling family in their area. R Last year, the funding raised through this one event helped to put a smile back on Mike Helton’s face—a homeschooling father who had lost his teeth to intensive cancer treatments for a rare form of leukemia. If you’d like to be a part of an HSF Ambassador team and bring hands-on help to homeschoolers in your state, please visit homeschoolfoundation.org/volunteer. ecently, the Home School Foundation’s Arizona Ambassador Team hosted a fundraiser at Pump it Up, a birthday and special events facility featuring giant inflatables for jumping on in Peoria, AZ. This is the second year in a row that the generous owners of this franchise location have donated their space to the cause of the Home School Foundation at absolutely no cost to the local team! Since many entertainment businesses have standard arrangements to pay out an average of 20% on the earned funds, this is an extraordinary gesture and a great opportunity for the HSF Arizona Ambassadors. “It is our pleasure to support an important cause like this. We consider the local team representing the Home School Foundation to be one of our regular partners,” said Pump It Up General Manager, Juan Sandoval. Arizona State Ambassador, Carol Gary, shared her thoughts. “It is fantastic to build relationships like this with local businesses that help homeschoolers. Often, it is assumed that support for the Home School Foundation needs to come from homeschoolers, but that is not so. There are others in the community who want to support homeschoolers in their time of need and encourage the concept of school choice. For the Pump It Up event, which kicked off our spring fundraising efforts, we invited homeschoolers and their friends, whether homeschooled or not, to come and have fun for a worthy purpose.” 24 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 25 s r o d a s s a b Am t r o p p u S p U Pump aiser R d n u At F education By Homeschool Foundation The model the Arizona Ambassador Team developed for the event is quite simple, and requires very few logistics and a lot of well-placed promotional communications. They ask a minimum donation of $5 per attendee, regardless of whether they use the jumping equipment during the event. “This approach enables us to ensure balanced results while at the same time leaving room for God to work in the hearts of those who wish to give more,” said Gary. “While many families pay the minimum donation and are happy to do so since it is less than they would usually pay to jump, other families who are able to do so give a great deal more than that. At the end of the day, many families have enjoyed themselves and made new friends and we, in turn, are able to help others. It is a win-win situation.” Coupled with HSF’s generous matching incentive for ambassador teams, the $1000 raised at the Pump It Up fundraiser this year allowed Arizona ambassadors to jumpstart their fundraising efforts and gave them $2000 to assist another struggling homeschooling family in their area. R Last year, the funding raised through this one event helped to put a smile back on Mike Helton’s face—a homeschooling father who had lost his teeth to intensive cancer treatments for a rare form of leukemia. If you’d like to be a part of an HSF Ambassador team and bring hands-on help to homeschoolers in your state, please visit homeschoolfoundation.org/volunteer. ecently, the Home School Foundation’s Arizona Ambassador Team hosted a fundraiser at Pump it Up, a birthday and special events facility featuring giant inflatables for jumping on in Peoria, AZ. This is the second year in a row that the generous owners of this franchise location have donated their space to the cause of the Home School Foundation at absolutely no cost to the local team! Since many entertainment businesses have standard arrangements to pay out an average of 20% on the earned funds, this is an extraordinary gesture and a great opportunity for the HSF Arizona Ambassadors. “It is our pleasure to support an important cause like this. We consider the local team representing the Home School Foundation to be one of our regular partners,” said Pump It Up General Manager, Juan Sandoval. Arizona State Ambassador, Carol Gary, shared her thoughts. “It is fantastic to build relationships like this with local businesses that help homeschoolers. Often, it is assumed that support for the Home School Foundation needs to come from homeschoolers, but that is not so. There are others in the community who want to support homeschoolers in their time of need and encourage the concept of school choice. For the Pump It Up event, which kicked off our spring fundraising efforts, we invited homeschoolers and their friends, whether homeschooled or not, to come and have fun for a worthy purpose.” 24 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 25 inspiration By: Richard Havenga © 2012 Richard Havenga © 2012 Richard Havenga Your menu of worms, slugs and bugs, does not sound very tasteful. NOTE: This poem is meant to be read aloud to children in the style of Dr. Seuss. Have fun with it and share this poem. Add mushrooms, berries and fallen fruit, you certainly are not wasteful. © 2012 Richard Havenga With short, stout and scaled legs, you lift your domed shell. And despite your famous boxiness, you actually walk quite well. © 2012 Richard Havenga You red-eyed males, are quite impressive. But the brown-eyed girls, are they more expressive? © 2012 Richard Havenga When danger comes, you do not cringe. Just close the door with your handy hinge. © 2012 Richard Havenga © 2012 Richard Havenga The patterns on your carapace, resemble hieroglyphics. A mysterious code of yellow lines, blotches, spots and widgets. You eat your meals, with your sharp, horned beak. But if food is scarce, you can fast for a week. 26 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 I count the growth rings on your square scutes, a fairly accurate gauge. Three times I’ve counted seventeen, so that must be your age. www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 27 inspiration By: Richard Havenga © 2012 Richard Havenga © 2012 Richard Havenga Your menu of worms, slugs and bugs, does not sound very tasteful. NOTE: This poem is meant to be read aloud to children in the style of Dr. Seuss. Have fun with it and share this poem. Add mushrooms, berries and fallen fruit, you certainly are not wasteful. © 2012 Richard Havenga With short, stout and scaled legs, you lift your domed shell. And despite your famous boxiness, you actually walk quite well. © 2012 Richard Havenga You red-eyed males, are quite impressive. But the brown-eyed girls, are they more expressive? © 2012 Richard Havenga When danger comes, you do not cringe. Just close the door with your handy hinge. © 2012 Richard Havenga © 2012 Richard Havenga The patterns on your carapace, resemble hieroglyphics. A mysterious code of yellow lines, blotches, spots and widgets. You eat your meals, with your sharp, horned beak. But if food is scarce, you can fast for a week. 26 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 I count the growth rings on your square scutes, a fairly accurate gauge. Three times I’ve counted seventeen, so that must be your age. www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 27 health & hearth health & hearth Chicken Pesto Sandwich By: The Container Store By: Tanya Moat Clear the Clutter Before the Holidays ‘Tis the season to get organized! Whether you’re hosting a family get-together or simply need to plan for all the toys, clothing and gifts your family will receive, there’s no better way to relieve the stress of the holiday season than by getting your home organized. Identify spaces in your home that are the most oftenused during the holidays, and tackle those areas first. For example, you might choose the family room, kitchen or the kids’ closets. Don’t forget the area where you’re storing your gifts and planning your holiday wrapping! Makes 2-3 sandwiches Ingredients: 1 lb. chicken breast 1/4 cup olive oil 1 garlic clove, minced 1/4 tspn kosher salt 1/2 tspn oregano, dried Juice of 1 lemon Zest of 1/2 to1 lemon Mozzarella Pesto sauce (I bought a bottle but you can make fresh too) French bread baguette Tomato slices (optional) For each space, commit to removing as many non-used items as possible. Donate or discard items not worn or used in two years. Clearing the space of items no longer needed is imperative to staying organized! If you identify items that are better stored elsewhere in your home when cleaning house, relocate them. Golf bags stored in the closet? Move them to the garage. However don’t be tempted to start on another area until the first one is complete. Instructions: • Combine the olive oil, garlic, salt, oregano, lemon juice and lemon zest together. Pour into a Ziploc bag. • Add chicken and marinade for up to 4 hours in the refrigerator. • Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Heat 1 teaspoon of olive oil in an ovenproof skillet. • Remove chicken from marinade and sear for 2-3 minutes per side. • Bake chicken for 10-12 minutes. It will not be fully cooked. • Remove from oven and cover skillet tightly with aluminum foil and set aside for 10 minutes. This will finish cooking the chicken. • Slice the chicken and place on French roll baguette. Add tomato (if using), mozzarella cheese and pesto sauce. • Bake until cheese is melted and serve immediately. Create a plan to accommodate holiday gifts. How bulky are the kids’ new toys going to be? How much hanging space do you need for your new articles of clothing? Think about how your spaces will function when the holidays arrive. How much countertop space will you need in the kitchen for baking/cooking needs? Are your holiday dishes and glassware clean and easily accessible? Special Notes: My method of cooking the chicken was taught to me at a cooking class. The end result is a very moist chicken breast. The chicken continues cooking after you remove it from the oven. Because eating raw chicken is very, very bad – you do want to make sure it is heated to 160 degrees before eating. I’ve used this method for more than two years and it’s always turned out perfectly for me. If you’re chicken breasts are mutant size – you may need to bake an extra minute or two. You can also pick up a roasted chicken from the grocery store as a substitute. Or even use good quality chicken slices from your grocer’s deli Shop for organization solutions that will help contain the items that are staying in the space, as well as consider storage for new items you expect to receive. Group like items together. For example, in the kitchen, keep your baking supplies stored in a basket that you can remove from the pantry when it’s time to make your holiday cookies. Or, in the kid’s room, keep art and craft project supplies all in one place. Enjoy! 28 © The Homeschool Handbook | September / October 2014 © www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com www.TheHomeschoolHandbook.com © September / October 2014 | ©The Homeschool Handbook 29 health & hearth health & hearth Chicken Pesto Sandwich By: The Container Store By: Tanya Moat Clear the Clutter Before the Holidays ‘Tis the season to get organized! Whether you’re hosting a family get-together or simply need to plan for all the toys, clothing and gifts your family will receive, there’s no better way to relieve the stress of the holiday season than by getting your home organized. Identify spaces in your home that are the most oftenused during the holidays, and tackle those areas first. For example, you might choose the family room, kitchen or the kids’ closets. Don’t forget the area where you’re storing your gifts and planning your holiday wrapping! Makes 2-3 sandwiches Ingredients: 1 lb. chicken breast 1/4 cup olive oil 1 garlic clove, minced 1/4 tspn kosher salt 1/2 tspn oregano, dried Juice of 1 lemon Zest of 1/2 to1 lemon Mozzarella Pesto sauce (I bought a bottle but you can make fresh too) French bread baguette Tomato slices (optional) For each space, commit to removing as many non-used items as possible. Donate or discard items not worn or used in two years. Clearing the space of items no longer needed is imperative to staying organized! If you identify items that are better stored elsewhere in your home when cleaning house, relocate them. Golf bags stored in the closet? Move them to the garage. However don’t be tempted to start on another area until the first one is complete. Instructions: • Combine the olive oil, garlic, salt, oregano, lemon juice and lemon zest together. Pour into a Ziploc bag. • Add chicken and marinade for up to 4 hours in the refrigerator. • Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Heat 1 teaspoon of olive oil in an ovenproof skillet. • Remove chicken from marinade and sear for 2-3 minutes per side. • Bake chicken for 10-12 minutes. It will not be fully cooked. • Remove from oven and cover skillet tightly with aluminum foil and set aside for 10 minutes. This will finish cooking the chicken. • Slice the chicken and place on French roll baguette. Add tomato (if using), mozzarella cheese and pesto sauce. • Bake until cheese is melted and serve immediately. Create a plan to accommodate holiday gifts. How bulky are the kids’ new toys going to be? How much hanging space do you need for your new articles of clothing? Think about how your spaces will function when the holidays arrive. How much countertop space will you need in the kitchen for baking/cooking needs? Are your holiday dishes and glassware clean and easily accessible? Special Notes: My method of cooking the chicken was taught to me at a cooking class. The end result is a very moist chicken breast. The chicken continues cooking after you remove it from the oven. Because eating raw chicken is very, very bad – you do want to make sure it is heated to 160 degrees before eating. I’ve used this method for more than two years and it’s always turned out perfectly for me. If you’re chicken breasts are mutant size – you may need to bake an extra minute or two. You can also pick up a roasted chicken from the grocery store as a substitute. Or even use good quality chicken slices from your grocer’s deli Shop for organization solutions that will help contain the items that are staying in the space, as well as consider storage for new items you expect to receive. Group like items together. For example, in the kitchen, keep your baking supplies stored in a basket that you can remove from the pantry when it’s time to make your holiday cookies. Or, in the kid’s room, keep art and craft project supplies all in one place. 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