2009 ADEC Final Program (full)
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2009 ADEC Final Program (full)
® Association for Death Education and Counseling® The Thanatology Association® ADEC 31st Annual Conference Living Beyond Loss: Mending Body, Mind and Spirit Final Program April 15–18, 2009 Pre-Meeting Program April 14–15 Hyatt Regency Dallas • Dallas, Texas, USA www.adec.org Association for Death Education and Counseling g® Exhibitors and Sponsors Association for Death Education and Counseling® The Thanatology Association® Thanks the following for their support of the 2009 Annual Conference Major Speaker Sponsor Premium Sponsor Gold Sponsors Silver Sponsors Anonymous Donor Joan Abess Sponsors Gordon Thornton Hospice Foundation of America Office for Victims of Crime Exhibitors American Psychosocial Oncology Society Dignity Memorial Funeral Providers Grief Watch Todd Hochberg Photography 2 Kaiser Hospital Routledge Springer Publishing Company Victoria Hospice www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Table of Contents Exhibitors and Sponsors ............................................................ 2 Special Welcome Letters ......................................................4 – 5 About ADEC............................................................................ 5 ADEC’s Role and Mission .......................................................... 5 ADEC Board of Directors .......................................................... 6 ADEC Past Presidents................................................................ 6 2009 Conference Committee Chairs .......................................... 6 Hospitality Committee ............................................................... 6 Meet the Authors Reception Participants ...................................... 7 Session Conveners ................................................................... 7 Headquarters Staff ................................................................... 7 ADEC Award Recipients.......................................................8 – 9 Schedule-at-a-Glance .............................................................. 10 Continuing Education Information............................................. 11 Certification in Thanatology Professionals...........................12 – 13 Keynote and Featured Speakers ........................................14 – 16 Conference Objectives: Participants of the ADEC 31st Annual Conference will be able to: • Explain the most current research and theory in thanatology • Demonstrate knowledge about human reactions to death across the lifespan • Reflect on the ethnic, gender and ritual components that affect individual responses to loss-related situations • Identify innovative clinical approaches to working with dying and bereaved individuals • Review future trends that influence research and practice Daily Schedule Tuesday ......................................................................... 17 Wednesday ................................................................... 17 Thursday ................................................................18 – 21 Friday ....................................................................21 – 24 Saturday ................................................................25 – 27 Professional Development Courses ....................................28 – 29 Specialty Workshops .......................................................30 – 34 Poster Session 1 ..............................................................35 – 40 Concurrent Sessions ........................................................41 – 60 Invited Speakers..............................................................61 – 62 Poster Session 2 ..............................................................62 – 67 Concurrent Sessions ........................................................68 – 98 Category and Indicator Index .................................................. 99 Category and Indicator Index for Concurrent Sessions and Posters ................................100 – 103 Presenters Index ..........................................................104 – 105 Hotel Floor Plan ..........................................................106 – 107 www.adec.org 3 Association for Death Education and Counseling g® President’s Letter Dear ADEC Members and Colleagues, On behalf of the ADEC Board of Directors, it is my pleasure to welcome you to the 31st Annual Conference of the Association for Death Education and Counseling here in the exciting and energizing city of Dallas. I look forward to joining you in rejuvenating our collective passion for our work in thanatology. Although we come from a number of different disciplines and varied work settings, we are bound together by our dedication to improving the lives of those coping with issues of dying, death and bereavement. Your decision to attend this year’s ADEC Conference was likely a challenging one—considering the financial difficulties we are all facing these days. However, I genuinely believe that your decision represents a wise investment in your professional and personal well being. Even a brief review of this conference program reveals an impressive range of presentation topics to satisfy our need for building knowledge. It may be helpful to know that ADEC has made a commitment to structure as many aspects of the organization as possible around our Body of Knowledge matrix (see ADEC’s Handbook of Thanatology). The present conference content has been viewed through this lens and specific effort was made to include content from all six of the matrix categories (i.e., Dying, End-of-Life Decision-Making, Grief and Mourning, Assessment and Intervention, Traumatic Death and Death Education). The conference also includes many opportunities for networking to satisfy our need for professional resource building, mutual encouragement, and personal connection. ADEC Networking Groups will be meeting for lunch on Thursday and Friday. These groups run the gamut and are focused on topics from Children’s Programs and Suicide Prevention to Bridging Research and Practice and Death Education. Although the Networking Groups meet in person at the conference, they are also active throughout the year thanks to the wonder of listservs. Plan to attend the President’s Welcome, the People of Color/Multicultural Forum (open to all conference attendees) and the Meet the Authors Reception on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday evenings, respectively. These events provide great opportunities to make connections with colleagues both known and new to you. If you are a new member and/or first-time attendee please consider attending the gathering held on Wednesday evening. You will have the chance to meet ADEC leaders and to learn about the organization. Other highlights to keep an eye out for are the bookstore, the exhibit area and the student silent auction (bid often--as proceeds provide scholarships for students to attend the conference!). Join us for the annual ADEC business meeting on Saturday morning at 7:30 a.m. and find out more about ADEC and the Board’s efforts over the past year and to welcome the incoming Board Members and Officers. Many individuals have contributed to making this exceptional conference happen. Co-chairs Louis Gamino and Jon Reid have been working for years on developing the theme and programming as well as contributing to many other areas of planning. They have been supported in their work by the Conference Steering Committee, chaired by Howard Winokuer (our incoming President), and by a number of volunteers to whom we all owe a debt of gratitude. The hard work and dedication of our staff at Sherwood cannot be overestimated. In particular, ADEC benefits on a daily basis from the consistently professional and competent contributions of our Chief Staff Officer, Rick Koepke and Administrative Manager, Emily Burch. With regard to conference planning, Conference Director, Liz Freyn’s contributions are valuable beyond words. Much discussion, preparation and enthusiasm have gone into bringing our 31st Conference to fruition. As I finish my year as ADEC’s president, I have never been more confident in ADEC’s future. Your Board and The Sherwood Group continue to enhance the organization and its influence. I urge you to consider getting more involved in ADEC. It does take time and energy, but it is truly worth it. We all come with expertise and when we contribute to ADEC, we contribute not only to the future of the organization, but also to the future of thanatology. It has been my privilege to serve as your president. I am sure that you will find the conference engaging, intriguing and enjoyable. My hope is that the connections and memories you forge here in Dallas will sustain you during the months to come and assure your participation in Kansas City next year! Heather L. Servaty-Seib, PhD Counseling Psychology 4 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Conference Chairs’ Letter Howdy and a great big Texas welcome to “all y’all” here in Dallas for the ADEC 31st Annual Conference, “Living Beyond Loss: Mending Body, Mind and Spirit.” We want to extend a warm Southwestern welcome to new members and first-time registrants as well as to all the “old hands” in the ADEC family who are in attendance. We’re glad you came to see us. Our conference logo includes the Lone Star of Texas and the Chinese characters for body, mind and spirit. It signifies our conference theme of “East meets West” in death education and care of the dying and the bereaved. That same trans-cultural emphasis is reflected in our selection of keynote speakers: Monica McGoldrick, Cecilia Chan and Ira Byock. In addition, we have some splendid invited speakers: Paula Loring, James Werth Jr., Kenneth Sewell and representatives from our very own child & family bereavement centers in Fort Worth, Austin, El Paso and San Antonio. Adding in all the fine programs available in the concurrent and poster sessions, we have a world-class educational opportunity in store for you. This year we have made a concerted effort to reach out to members and attendees involved in funeral and aftercare work as well as in victim advocacy. Programs pertinent to these two special interests are designated by an “F” or a “V” in your program book. No matter what your discipline, why not make it a point to attend a session outside your customary area of focus? You can learn something valuable and contribute to the cross-fertilization that makes ADEC meetings so meaningful and encouraging. Big D, as local folks call it, has all kinds of great attractions: JFK 6th Floor Museum tour on Thursday evening, Gilley’s famous dance hall (complete with armadillo races), The King Tut Exhibit at the Dallas Museum of Art and lots more. There’s plenty of great cuisine to sample, like Wolfgang Puck’s new Five Sixty Restaurant atop “the ball” (i.e., Reunion Tower). Or, you can try regional favorites like juicy Texas steak, fried catfish, fajitas, Tex-Mex, barbeque and margaritas. It makes the mouth water just thinking about it. Back in Montréal, we started teaching everyone how to speak “Texan” and we plan to do more of the same here. So let’s get this rodeo started and let ‘r rip with good meetin’s, good mixin’, good times and good fun. And if there’s anythin’ you need to make this here conference bigger ‘n better, just holler at Dusty (aka Louis) or Big Tex (aka Jon) or any of those wonderful folks wearin’ a white hospitality ribbon and we’ll fix you right up. Our hats are off to you. Louis A. Gamino, PhD FT Jon K. Reid, PhD FT About ADEC In 1976, an interdisciplinary group of educators and clinicians organized the Forum for Death Education and Counseling. Over the years, the organization grew to become the internationally respected Association for Death Education and Counseling® (ADEC) the Thanatology Association®. ADEC is one of the oldest organizations in the field of dying, death and bereavement. ADEC’s membership consists of educators, psychologists, counselors, nurses, physicians, hospital and hospice personnel, mental health professionals, clergy, funeral directors, social workers, philosophers, sociologists, health and well-being specialists and volunteers. Everyone is welcome to join and participate regardless of color, national origin, creed, sex or sexual orientations. ADEC promotes and facilitates sharing of research, theories and practice in dying, death and bereavement. ADEC’s Role and Mission Vision Statement The Association for Death Education and Counseling envisions a world in which dying, death and bereavement are recognized as fundamental and significant aspects of the human experience. Therefore, the Association, ever committed to being on the forefront of thanatology (the study of death and dying), will provide a home for professionals from diverse backgrounds to advance the body of knowledge and to promote practical applications of research and theory. Mission Statement The Association for Death Education and Counseling is a professional organization dedicated to promoting excellence and recognizing diversity in death education, care of the dying, grief counseling and research in thanatology. Based on quality research and theory, the association provides information, support and resources to its international, multicultural, multidisciplinary membership and through it, to the public. Goals: 1. To provide quality education, training and certification opportunities for professionals working with dying, death, end-of-life issues, grief and bereavement. 2. To continue to increase the membership while improving the quality of the individual membership experience. 3. To promote awareness of ADEC as an authoritative voice in the field of dying, death and bereavement. Audiences to be reached include the general public, public and private corporations, the national media, governmental bodies and other professional organizations. ADEC’s primary goal is to help professionals and let people meet the needs of those with whom they work in death education and grief counseling. Membership benefits include the ADEC Forum, the quarterly ADEC newsletter, ADEC Connects, a monthly update on all things ADEC, complimentary subscriptions to Omega: The Journal of Death and Dying and Death Studies as well as the lowest discounted subscription rates for several journals: Journal of Trauma and Loss, Mortality Journal and Living with Loss, significantly discounted fees for conference registration, certification and recertification and opportunities to network with leaders of the diverse thanatolological professions by participating on committees, Task Forces and Networking Groups and inclusion in the Find-a-Thanatologist directory. ADEC offers value! www.adec.org 5 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Board of Directors and Past Presidents President Heather Servaty-Seib, PhD (2008-09) First Vice President Howard Winokuer, PhD, FT (2008-09) Second Vice President Kathleen R. Gilbert, PhD, FT (2008-09) Secretary Jane Moore, EdD, FT (2007-10) Treasurer Stephen R. Connor, PhD (2008-2010) Immediate Past President Helen S. Chapple, PhD, RN, MA, CT, CCRN (2008-2009) Board Members David E. Balk, PhD, FT (2008-10) Jane V. Bissler, PhD, FT (2007-10) Kim Mooney, BA, CT (2008) Darryl I. Owens, MDiv, BCC, CT (2008-10) Jon K. Reid, PhD, FT (2008-09) Irwin Sandler, PhD (2008-09) Salva C. Sedlak, MSSA, LISW, DCSW, FT (2008-10) Carla Sofka, MSW, PhD (2008-2009) Carol A. Wogrin, RN, PsyD, FT (2006-09) Forum Editor Kathleen L. Fowler, PhD, FT Web Site Editor Kathleen Gilbert, PhD, FT Credentialing Council Richard Gilbert, PhD, DMin, CT ADEC Past Presidents 1976 – 1978 Dan Leviton, PhD 1978 – 1980 J. Eugene Knott, PhD 1980 – 1982 David L. Fredrick, PhD 1982 Bruce Bowman, AB 1982 – 1984 Joan N. McNeil, PhD 1984 – 1987 John S. Stephenson, PhD 1987 – 1990 Judith M. Stillion, PhD 1990 – 1991 Vanderlyn R. Pine, PhD 1991 – 1992 Ellen S. Zinner, PsyD, CT 1992 – 1993 David Meagher, EdD, CT 1993 – 1994 Kenneth J. Doka, PhD, CT 1994 – 1995 Ben Wolfe, MEd, LICSW, CT 1995 – 1996 Thomas Attig, PhD, CT 1996 – 1997 Robert A. Neimeyer, PhD 1997 – 1998 Lu M. Redmond, RN, MS, LMFT, CT 1998 – 1999 Sally Featherstone, RN, MN, CS, CT 1999 – 2000 Delpha J. Camp, MS, LPC, CT 2000 – 2001 Ron Wilder, BA 2001 – 2002 Donna L. Schuurman, EdD, CT 2002 – 2003 Gordon Thornton, PhD, CT 2003 – 2004 Kathleen G. Moore, PhD, CT 2004 – 2005 Madeline E. Lambrecht, EdD, RN, FT 2005 – 2006 Sherry R. Schachter, PhD, FT 2006 – 2007 Jack P. LoCicero, PhD, FT 2007 – 2008 Helen S. Chapple, PhD, RN, CCRN, CT Hospitality Committee 2009 Conference Committee Chairs Greg Adams, LCSW, CT Book Room Susan Roos, PhD, LCSW, BCD, FT (as of March 3, 2009) Larry M. Barber, MA, CT Nancy R. Bollman, BBA Sarah Brabant, PhD, FT Barbara Cheatham, CT, LPC Int, MS, RN Mary B. Finnin, BS, MSR Fay H. Green, MEd, MA, CT Carol Anne Gordon Lisa D. Hensley William G. Hoy, DMin, FT Mary K. Hughes, BS, MS, RN, CT, CNS Concurrent Session and Poster Review Helen S. Chapple, RN, PhD, CT, CCRN Conference Co-Chairs Louis A. Gamino, PhD, FT Jon K. Reid, PhD, FT Contemplation Reflection Room Debi Jobin, MEd, CT, GC-C Spiritual Services Mary Finnin Deb Jobin, MEd, CT, GC-C Rodney B. Kruse, Rev DMin, BCC, CT Karen L. Lindwall-Bourg, LPC, CT Meridith Lohse, CT Susan Roos, PhD, LCSW, BCD, FT Christine G. Saari Becky Watkins, MPS, CT 6 Meet the Authors Reception Kaori Wada, MS, MA Service of Remembrance Delpha J. Camp, MS, LPC, CT David Meagher, EdD, CT Benjamin Wolfe, MEd, LICSW, FT People of Color/Multicultural Forum Tashel C. Bordere, PhD Diane Y. Swift, MA Professional Development Courses Vincent Wayne Leaver, PhD, FT Session Convening Lisa D. Hensley Silent Auction Heather K. Whittington Networking Groups Jennifer R. Stevens, MA, CT Specialty Workshops Nancy Ann Carst, LISW, ACSW, CT Christine L. Scott, MSSA, LISW, FT Student Initiative Kaori Wada, MA Student Scholarship Sheri L. Goldstrohm, PhD New Members Becky B. Watkins, MPS, CT www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Meet the Authors Reception Participants, Volunteers and Staff Meet the Authors Reception Participants Headquarters Staff (as of March 3, 2009) ADEC Headquarters 111 Deer Lake Road, Suite 100 Deerfield, IL 60015 USA Phone +1-847-509-0403 Fax: +1-847-480-9282 Greg Adams, LCSW, CT Deborah Antinori, MA, LPC, CT Sandra L. Bertman, PhD, FT Cecilia Chan, BsocSc, MSocSc, PhD, RSW, JP Stephen R. Connor, PhD Charles A. Corr, PhD Lynne Ann DeSpelder, MA, FT Kenneth J. Doka, PhD, FT Louis A. Gamino, PhD, FT Linda E. Goldman, MS, LCPC, NBCC, FT Kathleen J. Gray Janice Holden, EdD Ligia M. Houben, MA, CT, CGC William G. Hoy, DMin, FT Nancy B. Irland, MS, RN, CNM John Shep Jeffreys, EdD, FT Beryl Kaminsky, IMBA, MEd, LPC, CT Jeffrey Kauffman, MA, MSS, CT Liana Lowenstein, MSW Kathryn A. Markell, PhD Marc A. Markell, PhD, CT David K. Meagher, EdD, CT Robert A. Neimeyer, PhD Emilio Bo Parga, MA Lyn Prashant, CT, MA, CMT/Instructor Susan Roos, PhD, LCSW, BCD, FT Cheri B. Ross, Ms, CT, MA Robert G. Stevenson, EdD Albert Lee Strickland, CT Nancy Boyd Webb, Dr, DSW, RPT-S J. William Worden, PhD Administrative Manager Emily Burch Membership Coordinator Marti Buckely Conference Director Liz Freyn Conference Administrator Christine Meehan Marketing Communications Manager Deanna Marchetti Session Conveners Joan E. Abess, RN, BSN, CT Greg Adams, LCSW, CT Joan Bard, RN, DEd Tashel Bordere, PhD, CT Trish Benton, LCSW, CT Delpha J. Camp, MS, LPC, CT Brian Chartier, PhD Gerri Cummings Horace Derr, PhD, FT, GGC Kay Fowler, PhD, FT Chief Staff Officer Rick Koepke Kathleen Frisna, MA, NBCC, LPC, CT Doug Harvey Kimberly Hieftje Catherine Johnson, MA, FT Lianna Lowenstein, MSW Shirley Scott, RN, MS, CT Rob Stevenson, EdD Sandi Straub, BS, MS, EdD, FT Laura Wheat, MEd, NCC Howard Winokuer, PhD, FT Education Manager Kismet Saglam Education Administrator Paula Borman Call for Proposals ADEC 32nd Annual Conference and Pre-Conference Program Death, Dying and Bereavement: It’s All About the Story April 7 – 10, 2010 Hyatt Regency Crown Center Kansas City, Missouri USA Specialty Workshops April 7, 2010 Submissions Site Opens: May 5, 2009 Submission Site Closes: June 10, 2009 at Noon EDT, US ADEC’s Specialty Workshop Committee will be accepting proposals for Specialty Workshops to be held on Wednesday, April 7, 2010. The Committee is particularly interested in topics that represent cutting-edge knowledge and skills in the field of Thanatology. ADEC’s Core Body of Knowledge should be a guideline for topic areas. Proposals that address issues of cultural and ethnic diversity in illness, dying, death and bereavement are also welcome. All proposals must be submitted in electronic format. Information about the submission process will be available at www.adec.org beginning May 5, 2009. Concurrent and Poster Sessions April 8 – 10, 2010 Submissions Site Opens: May 5, 2009 Submission Site Closes: July 22, 2009 at Noon EDT, US ADEC’s Program Committee will be accepting proposal for Concurrent Sessions and Posters sessions. Both will be scheduled to present during the conference dates of April 7–10, 2010. Details about the submission process will be available at www.adec.org beginning May 5, 2009. All proposals must be submitted online. www.adec.org 7 Association for Death Education and Counseling® ADEC 2009 Award Recipients He is an accomplished author. His books have been published in Spanish, Korean, Africans, Mandarin Chinese and Indonesian. His articles have appeared in Illness, Crisis, and Loss, The Director, The American Funeral Director, The Forum, and Journeys. Death Educator Award George E. Dickinson, PhD Presentation of Award: Friday, April 16 2:00 p.m. Landmark A George E. Dickinson, professor of sociology at the College of Charleston, received his PhD in sociology from LSU in Baton Rouge and his MA in sociology and BA in biology from Baylor University. He came to the College of Charleston in 1985, having previously taught in Kentucky (7 years) and Minnesota (9 years). The recipient of both NSF and NEH grants, Dickinson has been the author/ co-author of over 70 articles in peer-reviewed journals, 10 invited papers/editorials in journals and 19 books/anthologies, primarily on end-of-life issues. He is on the editorial boards of Mortality (UK), the American Journal of Hospice & Palliative Medicine (US), and The Journal of Multidisciplinary Healthcare (New Zealand). Recent awards include the 2002 Distinguished Teacher/Scholar Award and the 2008 Distinguished Research Award at the College of Charleston and South Carolina Governor’s Distinguished Professor Awards in 2003 and 2008. In 1999 he was a visiting research fellow in palliative medicine at the University of Sheffield’s School of Medicine (UK) and in 2006 at Lancaster University’s Institute for Health Research in the International Observatory on End-of-Life Issues (UK). Service Award Harold Ivan Smith, DMin FT Presentation of Award: Friday, April 16 2:00 p.m. Landmark A As a grief educator, Harold Ivan Smith is a wordsmith and storyteller, whether through his speaking, teaching, writing, or counseling. Through his word pictures and stories, listeners and readers say, “I never quite thought of it that way before.” Clinical Practice Award Robert A. Neimeyer, PhD Presentation of Award: Saturday, April 17 3:45 p.m. Landmark A Robert A. Neimeyer, PhD, is a professor in the Psychotherapy Research Area of the Department of Psychology, University of Memphis, where he also maintains an active clinical practice. Neimeyer has published 20 books, including Meaning Reconstruction and the Experience of Loss, Lessons of Loss: A Guide to Coping, and Rainbow in the Stone, a book of contemporary poetry. He is author of over 300 articles and book chapters. Neimeyer is the editor of two respected international journals, Death Studies and the Journal of Constructivist Psychology, and served as president of the Association for Death Education and Counseling. In recognition of his scholarly contributions, he has been granted the Distinguished Research Award, the Distinguished Teaching Award, and the Eminent Faculty Award by the University of Memphis, elected chair of the International Work Group on Death, Dying, and Bereavement, designated Psychologist of the Year by the Tennessee Psychological Association, made a Fellow of the Clinical Psychology Division of the American Psychological Association, and given the Research Recognition Award by the Association for Death Education and Counseling. Most recently, he has received the Robert Fulton Founder’s Award for Outstanding Teaching, Research and Service by the Center for Death Education and Bioethics. Smith is a graduate of The Mid-America College of Funeral Service, Scarritt College (MA), George Peabody College of Vanderbilt University (EdS), and has the doctorate from Asbury Theological Seminary. His doctoral research examined the grief following the death of a friend. Smith is a fellow in thanatology, recognized by the Association for Death Education and Counseling. He has been a member of the faculty of the American Academy of Grief Counseling and had taught hundreds of continuing education courses for psychologists, social workers, nurses, and pastoral care counselors across the United States. He has served on the Board of the Association for Death Education and Counseling. He currently serves on the board of the Grief Support Network in Kansas City. He has pioneered in the use of children’s books with adult grievers. He leads Grief Gatherings--innovative storytelling groups at Saint Luke’s Hospital in Kansas City, Missouri, where he is a member of the teaching faculty. His primary research is on the grief of the U.S. Presidents and First Ladies, particularly during their White House Years. He writes on this subject periodically for the National Funeral Directors Association’s The Director and for Living with Loss. 8 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference ADEC 2009 Award Recipients Special Contributions to the Field Herman Feifel, PhD Presentation of Award: Saturday, April 17 3:45 p.m. Landmark A American psychologist Herman Feifel is internationally recognized as a pioneering figure in the modern death movement. His personal and research efforts helped break the prevailing taboo that discouraged scientific study of death and dying. His work transformed the way people think about death, treat the dying and bereaved, and view their own lives. Feifel was educated in the New York City school system. World War II became a reality before Feifel could finish his doctorate. He enlisted in the Army Air Corps (now, the Air Force) in 1942, where he worked first as an aviation psychologist and later as a clinical psychologist treating combat soldiers overseas. Feifel’s empirical contributions are most influential in the areas of death attitudes, death anxiety, and coping with life-threatening illness. By the late 1990s scholars identified over 1,000 published studies in these areas, and recognized Feifel as being the only person to contribute seminal papers in five consecutive decades. For his work in thanatology, Feifel received numerous accolades, including an honorary doctorate from the University of Judaism (1984), a Distinguished Death Educator Award (1990), the Distinguished Professional Contributions to Knowledge Award by the American Psychological Association (1988) and a Gold Medal for Life Achievement in the Practice of Psychology by the American Psychological Foundation (2001). When the war ended Feifel resumed his studies at Columbia University, and finished his doctorate in 1948. www.adec.org 9 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Schedule at a Glance Tuesday, April 14 7:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Wednesday, April 15 7:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. 5:30 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Registration Open Professional Development Courses Registration Open Specialty Workshops Professional Development Courses New Member/First-Time Attendee Gathering Welcome Reception Thursday, April 16 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. People of Color/Multicultural Forum Meeting 7:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Registration Open 8:15 a.m. – 8:30 a.m. President’s Welcome 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Keynote Session: Monica McGoldrick, LCSW, PhD 9:00 a.m. – Noon Exhibits/Bookstore/Posters Open 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Contemplation Reflection Room Open 9:30 a.m. – 10:00 a.m. Poster Session I Presentations/ Refreshment Break 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Concurrent Session I 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Concurrent Session II 12:30 p.m. – 1:30 p.m. Networking Groups Friday, April 17 7:00 a.m. – 7:30 a.m. 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. Joy Through Movement Class Certification Information Meeting People of Color/Multicultural Forum Meeting 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. Student Meeting 7:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Registration Open 8:30 a.m. – 9:45 a.m. Featured Speakers Presentations 9:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. Exhibits/Bookstore/Posters Open 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Contemplation Reflection Room Open 9:45 a.m. – 10:15 a.m. Poster Session II Presentations/ Refreshment Break 10:15 a.m. – 11:15 a.m. Concurrent Sessions VI 11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Concurrent Session VII 12:45 p.m. – 1:45 p.m. Networking Groups (Box lunches for ticketed registrants) 2:00 p.m. – 3:15 p.m. 3:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. 3:15 p.m. – 3:45 p.m. 3:45 5:30 6:00 6:00 p.m. p.m. p.m. p.m. – – – – 5:15 6:00 6:30 7:00 p.m. p.m. p.m. p.m. (Box lunches for ticketed registrants) 1:30 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. 1:45 p.m. – 2:45 p.m. 2:45 p.m. – 3:15 p.m. 3:15 p.m. – 4:45 p.m. 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. 6:15 p.m. – 7:15 p.m. 7:30 p.m. – 9:30 p.m. Exhibits/Bookstore/Posters Open Concurrent Sessions III Poster Session I Continued/ Refreshment Break Concurrent Session IV Concurrent Session V People of Color/Multicultural Forum Reception Sixth Floor Museum at Dealey Plaza Event (For ticketed registrants) Saturday, April 18 7:00 a.m. – 7:30 a.m. 7:00 a.m. – 7:30 a.m. 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. 8:00 a.m. – 5:30 p.m. 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. 9:00 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. 9:00 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. 12:30 p.m. – 1:45 p.m. Awards I/Keynote Session: Cecilia L.W. Chan, BSocSC, MSocSC, PhD, RSW, JP Exhibits/Bookstore/Posters Open Poster Session II Continued/ Refreshment Break Concurrent Sessions VIII Service of Remembrance Pet Remembrance Service Meet the Authors and Book Signing Reception Joy Through Movement Class Spiritual Services ADEC Business Meeting Registration Open Concurrent Session IX Exhibits/Bookstore Open Contemplation Reflection Room Open Concurrent Session X Concurrent Session XI Presidential Luncheon (For ticketed registrants) 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. 3:45 p.m. – 5:00 p.m. 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. 6:00 p.m. 10 Concurrent Session XII Awards II/Closing Keynote Session: Ira Byock, MD Farewell Gathering and Book Signing Conference Adjourns www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Continuing Education Information The conference is co-sponsored by the Association for Death Education Counseling and The Institute for Continuing Education. Continuing education is offered as listed below. The Conference offers 31 contact hours, with total hours subject to change. Credit is awarded on a session-by-session basis, with full attendance required at the sessions attended. Application forms will be available on site. If you have questions regarding continuing education, or for a listing of learning objectives, please contact The Institute at: +1-251-990-5030; FAX: +1-251-990-2665. Additional Accreditations: Psychology: The Institute for Continuing Education is an organization approved by the American Psychological Association (APA) to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. The Institute for Continuing Education maintains responsibility for this program and its content. Continuing Education Registration Requirements Counseling: The Institute for Continuing Education is an NBCC approved continuing education provider and a co-sponsor of this event. The Institute for Continuing Education may award NBCCapproved clock hours for programs that meet NBCC requirements. The Institute for Continuing Education maintains responsibility for the content of this program. NBCC Provider No. 5643. Social Work: The Institute for Continuing Education is approved as a provider for social work continuing education by the Association of Social Work Boards (ASWB), though the Approved Continuing Education (ACE) program. The Institute for Continuing Education maintains responsibility for the program. ASWB Provider No. 1007. Licensed social workers should contact their individual state jurisdiction to review current continuing education requirements for license renewal. California Board of Behavioral Sciences – Provider No. PCE 636. Illinois Dept. Professional Regulation – Provider No. 159-000606. Ohio Counselor and Social Work – Provider No. RCS 030001. Florida Dept. Health, Div. SW, MFT, Counseling – Provider BAP 255. Marriage-Family Therapy: The Institute for Continuing Education is recognized as a provider of continuing education by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences, Provider No. PCE 636. Funeral Directors: ADEC is approved by the Academy of Professional Funeral Service Practice, Provider No.1025. Chaplains: The Continuing Education program offered by the Association of Professional Chaplains has been discontinued until further notice. Visit http://www.professionalchaplains.org/index.aspx?id+124 for additional information. There is a certificate fee of $50 USD for members (including active senior, student and institutional members) and $70 USD for nonmembers. You may either register for CE onsite or as part of the registration process. However, you may not register for credits after April 18, 2009. Credit will be awarded on a session-by-session basis, with full attendance required for session attended. One certificate will be issued for all activities attended. To receive continuing education credit, attendees must: • Register for CE ($50 members, $70 nonmembers) • Sign in/sign out at designated locations • Complete the CE evaluation packet (available at registration desk) NOTE: It is the responsibility of the attendee to check with their state licensing/certification board to determine if continuing education credit offered by The Institute for Continuing Education will meet their state’s regulations. Breakdown of credit hours available: Professional Development Courses Full-Day Specialty Workshops Half-Day Specialty Workshops Thursday Conference (all sessions) Friday Conference (all sessions) Saturday Conference (all sessions) Total Credits 13.0 (Tue. & Wed.) 6.50 (Wed. only) 3.25 (Wed. only) 6.50 6.00 5.50 31.00 Drug-Alcohol: The Institute for Continuing Education is approved by the National Association of Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselors (NAADAC) to provide continuing education for alcohol and drug abuse counselors, Provider No. 00243. Nursing: The Institute for Continuing Education is accredited as a provider of continuing education in nursing by the Alabama Board of Nursing, Provider No. 1124; and the California Board of Nursing, Provider No. CEP 12646. Nurses should contact their state board to determine if approval of this program through the Alabama or California Board of Nursing is acceptable for continuing education in their state. www.adec.org 11 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Certification for Thanatology Professionals Certified in Thanatology: Death, Dying and Bereavement (CT) Fellow in Thanatology: Death, Dying and Bereavement (FT) Join your colleagues who work in the field of dying, death and bereavement and become Certified in Thanatology: Death, Dying and Bereavement (CT). ADEC’s advanced certification in thanatology recognizes professionals who have: • Five years of experience in the field of thanatology • An advanced degree (master’s level or higher) in a related field • Foundation-level ADEC certification, CT or passing score on the certification exam • Two letters of reference from a supervisor or colleague familiar with the candidate’s work • Advanced certification portfolio that demonstrates competence in teaching, research and/or clinical practice What is the CT? Certified in Thanatology (CT) is a professional certification for healthcare and social service professionals. It is an ADEC initiative to recognize, through a standardized measurement process, practitioners and educators in the disciple of thanatology. The CT represents an understanding of the ADEC Body of Knowledge in Dying, Death and Bereavement developed by experts in the field. It is a foundation certification. How will you benefit from certification? • • • • Through the personal challenge of continued professional development Elevated professional standards Enhanced career opportunities for those who meet certification standards Enabling the public to indentify qualified practitioners/ educators For more information, access the ADEC Web site at www.adec.org, or contact adec@adec.org, +1-847-509-0403. The next examination is scheduled for November 7, 2009. Applications must be received by September 24, 2009. Scott & White welcomes the Association for Death Education and Counseling to Dallas, TX for the 31st Annual ADEC Conference, and is proud to sponsor the keynote speaker: Monica McGoldrick Living Beyond Loss: Family Responses to Grief Thursday, April 16 Caring for over 4 million Central Texans, Scott & White – since 1897 – has provided personalized, comprehensive, high-quality healthcare, enhanced by medical education and research. Your choice. The trusted choice. www.sw.org 12 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Certification for Thanatology Professionals Congratulations to the individuals who earned ADEC CT or FT in 2008 for the first time: Certified in Thanatology Patricia A. Abbott, CT Rev. Linda M. Amador, CT Becky P. Andrews, CT Tracey L. Apgar, CT Wendy L. Barker, CT Evelyn J. Bata, CT Danielle Beard, CT Claudia, Betancur, CT Rachelle Edith Blum, CT Patricia Boies, CT Janice R. Brinker, CT Judith C. Bulliner, CT Erin E. Callaway, CT Heather Renee Campagna, CT Kathleen Carpentier, CT Elizabeth M. Collier, CT Pamela Keele Cress, CT Madonna Denise Daley, CT Amy Daly, CT Carrol K. Davenport, CT Teresa B. Dellar, CT Claire S. Drexler, CT Share DuRocher, CT Joan E. Engelbart, CT Regina J. Franklin Basye, CT Mina M. Gates, CT Elisa Gaudiosi-Lloyd, CT Roy Gesley, CT Galen Goben, Rev CT Yolanda Gorick, CT Britt-Marie Saga Graham, CT Cara L. Grosset, CT Justina M. Hale, CT Jeffrey S. Hale, CT Kerry Halligan, CT Lois T. Harris, CT Lucia Hartman, CT M. Douglas Harvey, CT Kimberly L. Higgins, CT Andy Hau Yan Ho, CT Kathryn W. Holl, CT Ellie Isaacson, CT Diana L. Jacoby, CT Taube D. Jenkins, CT Karen Kangas, CT Amy C. Katcher, CT Betsy A. Kelly, CT Barbara N. Kimball, CT Marcia A. Koelndorfer, CT Betsy Lang, CT Angela Lavery Benson, CT Joyce A. Law, CT John Lem Lemasters, CT Lynne Lessard, CT Cheryl Denise Link, CT Meridith Lohse, CT Nancy L. Ludwick, CT Gail Barrick Lutin, CT Cara Magrogan, CT Julie McLellan-Mariano, CT Cynthia Meilicke, CT Judith Mendiola, CT Kelly Ann Michael, CT Rob Mifflin, CT Jessica Miller, CT Cheri Milton, CT Randolph Hideo Miota, CT J. Steven Moore, CT Lara S. Moretti, CT Ebony Muhammad, CT Jane B. Ogden, CT Leigh Ojeda, CT Lorraine Optiz, CT Ann Taylor Owen, CT Sandra L. Owen, CT Laura Paine, CT Alicia E. Parker, CT Sally A. Paumier, CT Nicole E. Pettersen, CT Cheryl M. Pharr, CT Janice R. Purdy, CT Nancy J. Renner, CT Sara T. Roby, CT Denise M. Rose, CT Ann H. Ross, CT Janice J. Rybar, CT Valerie L. Sanchez, CT Gail L. Sasseville, CT Michelle Diane Schery-Simpson, CT Stephanie Taylor Schultheis, CT Cynthia L. Seaward-Salvati, CT Joan M. Sharas, CT Cynthia L. Seaward-Salvati, CT Joan M. Sharas, CT Jodi Anne Shaw, CT Cathy Shelton, CT Pam Short, CT Jamie A. Siela, CT Donna Sikorski, CT Kristine J. Simon, CT Julie C. Smith, CT Lynn M. Snyder, CT David L. Solem, CT Sandra J. Somohano-Arbide, CT Carrie A. Stenseth, CT Jami L Stephens, CT Barbara A. Sweeney, CT Kelsea Thayne, CT Shirley Yvonne Thomas, CT Courtney N. Tillotta, CT Pamela Tobin-Sachs, CT Erin Troup, CT Mari M. Uutala, CT Paul Veliyathil, CT Serena Visser, CT Jerry Allen Waddell, CT Jamie L. Yetter, CT Christina Zampitella, CT Tom F. Zercher, CT Fellow in Thanatology Geraldine A. Abbatiello, FT Robbin A. Clarke, FT Dona Marie Flanagan-Kaminsky, FT Kathleen Fowler, FT Donna George, FT Mary Georgopoulos, FT Justina Hale, FT Stephanie A. Hand-Kaochak, FT Jennifer Kaplan Schreiber, FT Judith A. Pedersen, FT Elizabeth Keene Reder, FT Linda Silver-Gorowitz, MA, FT Itetta Smith, FT www.adec.org 13 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Keynote Speakers Thursday, April 16, 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Landmark A Room Living Beyond Loss: Family Responses to Grief Sponsored by Scott & White Clinic and Hospital Monica McGoldrick, LCSW, PhD Coming to terms with death is the most difficult challenge a family must confront. From a systems perspective, loss is a transactional process involving the dying and deceased with the survivors in a shared life cycle that acknowledges both the finality of death and the continuity of life. This presentation will outline a cultural perspective for assessing and intervening with families across the life cycle in coming to terms with loss. Monica McGoldrick, MA, LCSW, PhD (hc), director of the Multicultural Family Institute in Highland Park, New Jersey, and on the psychiatry faculty of the RWJ Medical School. Books include: The Changing Family Life Cycle, 3rd ed; Ethnicity and Family Therapy, 3rd ed; Genograms: Assessment and Intervention, 3rd ed. Living Beyond Loss: 2nd ed; Revisioning Family Therapy: Race, Culture, and Gender inClinical Practice, 2nd ed; and You Can Go Home Again: Understanding Family Relationships. Friday, April 17, 2:00 p.m. – 3:15 p.m. Landmark A Room Get SET and GO: Mending Body, Mind and Spirit for Bereaved Persons Ira Nerken Speaker: Cecilia Chan, BSocSc, MSocSc, PhD, RSW, JP Death of a spouse is one of life’s most devastating events. People commit to marriages without knowing much about what to expect and how to respond when their spouses are confronted by a deadly disease or died. Many widows and widowers find it difficult to move on with their lives after spousal loss. Using depression as a measure in a longitudinal study, Bonanno et al. (2002) identified five trajectories of grief responses amongst elderly bereaved spouses, namely, Chronic Grief (15.6%), Chronic Depressed (7.8%), Recovery (10.7%), Depressed-Improved (10.2%), and most markedly, the Resilient (45.9%). Two-thirds of the bereaved spouses either did not manifest symptoms of depression at all or steadily improve and recover over time. It is certainly worthwhile to explore how resilient individuals are empowered to survive and transform their experiences of spousal loss in order to formulate new goals in life. Cecilia Chan, BSocSc, MSocSc, PhD, RSW, JP, Si Yuan professor in health and social work, Department of Social Work and Social Administration, and director of Centre on Behavioral Health, as well as associate director of the HKJC Centre of Suicide Research and Prevention, The University of Hong Kong. Saturday, April 18, 3:45 p.m. – 5:00 p.m. Landmark A Room Dying in America: The Nature of Suffering and the Nature of Opportunity Through the End of Life Sponsored by Selected Independent Funeral Homes Ira Byock, MD Narratives of people living with life-limiting illness provide a power, poignant means for understanding the nature of suffering and nature of human development through the end of life. We will examine qualities of personal experience with life’s end and reveal ways in which clinicians can foster human development during this inherently difficult time of life. Therapeutic and research implications of this developmental framework will be identified. Developmental landmarks suggested by this conceptual framework and will be delineated and implications for improving specificity of psycho-social and spiritual interventions, as well as evaluation of therapeutic outcomes, will be explored. 14 Ira Byock, MD, has been involved in hospice and palliative care since 1978, during his residency. At that time he helped found a hospice home care program for the indigent population served by the university hospital and county clinics of Fresno, California. He is a past president (1997) of the American Academy of Hospice and Palliative Medicine. During the 1990s he was a co-founder and principal investigator for the Missoula Demonstration Project, a community- based organization in Montana dedicated to the research and transformation of end-of-life experience locally, as a demonstration of what is possible nationally. From 1996 through 2006, he served as director for Promoting Excellence in End-of-Life Care, a national grant program of the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation. Dr. Byock has authored numerous articles on the ethics and practice of hospice, palliative and end-of-life care. His first book, Dying Well, (1997) has become a standard in the field. He has been an advocate for the voice and rights of dying patients and their families. His most recent book, The Four Things That Matter Most, (2004) is published by the Free Press. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Featured Speakers Friday, April 17 8:30 a.m. – 9:45 a.m Cumberland J Room Using Ethical Standards to Recover From Compassion Fatigue Paula Loring, LCSW, LMFT, NCBF Ethical practice in the medical and mental health profession is paramount and should be reviewed on a regular basis. The reality is that often ethical decisions, while usually made based on professional principles, are subject to interpretation. There are rarely right or wrong answers, or black and white solutions to the complicated care of patients and their families. Decisions can be strongly affected by the professional’s values, periodic personal challenges and level of involvement in his/her work. Burnout and excessive stress can further confuse an ethical judgment and distort ethical interpretations. This workshop will provide the professional with an opportunity to personally explore how values, stresses, burnout and personal challenges effect their decision making process and demonstrate how ethical principles can support sound professional judgment during times of burnout or high stress. Paula Loring, LCSW, LMFT, is the director of Porter Loring Family Care Services of Porter Loring Mortuaries in San Antonio, Texas. This is a community-based program offering support groups, and individual and family counseling to bereaved families. Prior to her work here in San Antonio, she was in private practice in Austin for 20 years working with adults, adolescents and children. Landmark A Room Working With Children and Families After a Traumatic Death Loss: Community Strategies Khris Ford, LPC Vicki Johnson, MS – Moderator Laura Olague, MEd, CT Kathy Telger, MEd, LPC-S Michelli Gomez, LMSW Panel organized by The WARM Place for Grieving Children and Families, Fort Worth, Texas This panel will address approaches used by children’s grief support programs in several cities across Texas that assist children who are affected by a traumatic death loss. Topics will include the use of separate groups for trauma deaths vs. inclusion with non-trauma deaths. Different approaches for addressing individual counseling services, outreach and crisis intervention will be covered. In addition, the panel will discuss ways to educate and support the parent/guardian in their efforts to help their child. Issues related to cultural differences as well as the concern of retraumatization will be addressed. Khris Ford, LPC, is an adjunct instructor at the University of Texas at Austin School of Social Work, where she teaches graduate level courses in grief and loss counseling. She is also a bereaved parent. In the past 15 years, Khris has counseled with hundreds of grieving children and adults, trained over 500 school counselors, social workers, and other mental health professionals and led dozens of weekend retreats for bereaved parents. Vicki Johnson, MS, associate executive director, joined The WARM Place staff in 2002 as director of development and was named associate executive director in 2004. She received her bachelor of arts and master of science degrees in counseling and student services degrees from the University of North Texas. Prior to that, she was a WARM Place volunteer and part-time counselor for eight years. Her responsibilities include organizing and supervising an effective development program. Laura Olague, MEd, CT, is the executive director and co-founder of the Children’s Grief Center of El Paso. She holds a bachelor’s degree in social work from Texas Tech and a master’s degree in guidance & counseling from University of Texas at El Paso. She has been a member of ADEC since 1992 and is certified in thanatology. She has been working with grieving children and families for 18 years and co-founded the Children’s Grief Center in 1995. Kathy Telger, MEd, LPC-S, program director, has been with The WARM Place since 1994. She is a licensed professional counselor and approved supervisor for the Texas State Board of Examiners of Professional Counselors. She graduated from the University of North Texas with a master of education degree in counseling and student services. Her WARM Place responsibilities include conducting family intake interviews, supervising graduate counseling interns, and educating the public on children’s grief issues. Michelli Gomez, LMSW, received her bachelor of Arts degree in biology from St. Mary’s University, a master of science degree in environmental science from the University of Texas at San Antonio, www.adec.org 15 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Featured Speakers and her master of social work degree from Our Lady of the Lake University. She serves as the program services coordinator. In this capacity, Michelli assists in the coordination of the various support groups provided by the Children’s Bereavement Center of South Texas (CBCST) In addition, she provides individual and family counseling to CBCST clients. Cumberland L Room Decision-Making Near the End of Life: Issues, Developments, and Future Directions James L. Werth, Jr., PhD This presentation will review recent developments that have affected decision-making within the field of end-of-life care. A variety of issues will be reviewed including ethical and legal issues and concerns, diversity considerations, biopsychosociospiritual matters and controversial developments. James L. Werth, Jr., PhD, is currently professor of psychology and director of the PsyD program in counseling psychology at Radford University and is a licensed psychologist in Virginia. His primary areas of research and practice are end-of-life issues, HIV disease, ethical and legal issues and rural issues. He has written/edited/ co-edited 6 books, 7 special journal issues, and nearly 100 articles/book chapters on these topics. He served on the American Psychological Association’s Ad Hoc Committee on Legal Issues and Ad Hoc Committee on End-of-Life Issues. He coordinated amicus curiae briefs for the U.S. Supreme Court on end-of-life issues that were signed onto by the American Counseling Association and National Association of Social Workers. He received his doctorate in counseling psychology from Auburn University in 1995, a master’s of legal studies degree from the University of Nebraska – Lincoln in 1999, and served as the American Psychological Association’s HIV Policy congressional fellow in the office of Senator Ron Wyden (D – OR) from 1999-2000 where he worked on aging and end-of-life issues in addition to HIV. Cumberland K Room Therapeutic Implications of Research in Trauma and Bereavement: Practicing What We Preach Without Pretending to Divine the Truth Kenneth W. Sewell, PhD A disconnect often exists between researchers who study human suffering and the clinicians, counselors, and therapists who work with individual human beings in the aftermath of trauma and loss. The theoretical assumptions that underlie much of the empirical research are arguably derived from clinical wisdom. Nonetheless, the findings from such research often seem removed from the needs of therapy clients and those who serve them. Therapists often see limited benefit from utilizing the research literature, sometimes equating a science-driven practice with the use of manualized treatments. This presentation will provide an overview of some of the major research findings in the fields of trauma and loss, and link them to therapeutic strategies...many of which are already in common use by clinicians. Then, a systematic method of reviewing research literature for use in practice will be described that leaves flexibility for the clinician and client to exercise their own preferences and unique strengths. The described method allows therapists to adopt an evidence-based approach without resorting to manualized orscripted treatments. Clinical examples will be offered, both to illustrate the approach and to emphasize the importance of maintaining flexibility in service of the client. Kenneth W. Sewell, PhD, is associate vice president for research and professor of psychology at University of North Texas in Denton. Formerly, he was director of clinical training for the doctoral program in clinical psychology at the University of North Texas. Dr. Sewell’s career in psychology typifies the scientist-practitioner model by combining teaching, training and research with clinical practice. His research interests include the application of personal construct theory to the outcomes of trauma and bereavement. In his research, Dr. Sewell uses both quantitative methods based on statistical analysis and qualitative methods based on narrative, and works to integrate them. Personally, he is a gifted poet, musician and actor who brings the creativity of the arts to his professional work with trainees and clients and is interested in promoting “science-driven practice” of psychotherapy by incorporating ideas generated by theory and lessons learned from research without resorting to reductionistic treatments or manualized therapies. Special Tracks The 2009 ADEC program presents a diversity of concurrent sessions across the spectrum of our association’s Body of Knowledge. In addition, however, this year we have identified two learning tracks of special interest to some of our members. V F 16 For members with an interest in victim advocacy issues, you will find concurrent sessions marked in the program with a “V.” Some of the issues addressed in these concurrent sessions are the interplay between trauma and grief, homicide survivors, suicide and the grief care of donor families after organ transplant. For attendees with an interest in funeral service, memorialization options, and the aftercare of families, we have indicated concurrent sessions in our funeral track with an “F.” Here you will find sessions addressing issues ranging from creative funeral options to the practical issues of transporting remains internationally. In addition, representatives of funeral homes involved in two mass tragedies - Hurricane Katrina and the Columbine shootings - present ideas about what they learned that will be useful to all ADEC conference attendees. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Daily Schedule – Tuesday, April 14 and Wednesday, April 15 Tuesday, April 14 Room 7:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Registration Open Reunion Foyer 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Professional Development Courses Category Indicator Page Introduction to Thanatology: Dying, Death and Bereavement Lambrecht, Madeline E., EdD, RN, FT and Schachter, Sherry R., PhD, FT Reunion A Death ed Prof issues 28 Intermediate Course: Grief Counseling Molaison, Valarie A., PhD, FT Reunion B Loss grief mourn Prof issues 28 Advanced Course: Complicated Bereavement and Grief Therapy Knott, J. Eugene, PhD, ABPP Reunion C Loss grief mourn Prof issues 29 Wednesday, April 15 Room Category Indicator Page 7:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Reunion Foyer 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Registration Open Professional Development Courses Introduction to Thanatology: Dying, Death and Bereavement Lambrecht, Madeline E., EdD, RN, FT and Schachter, Sherry R., PhD, FT Reunion A Death ed Prof issues 28 Intermediate Course: Grief Counseling Molaison, Valarie A., PhD, FT Reunion B Loss grief mourn Prof issues 28 Advanced Course: Complicated Bereavement and Grief Therapy Knott, J. Eugene, PhD, ABPP Reunion C Loss grief mourn 29 Catching Your Breath in Grief: A Workshop for Caregivers Attig, Thomas, PhD Cumberland L Loss grief mourn Rel/spirit 30 Using Drawings in Working With Children and Adults DeSpelder, Lynne, MA, FT; Barrett, Ronald Keith, PhD, FT Cumberland K Assess interv Prof issues 30 Beyond Gender: Understanding the Ways Men and Women Grieve Doka, Kenneth, PhD; Martin, Terry, PhD Cumberland E/F Loss grief mourn Prof issues 31 Mindful Mortality – Exploring the Spiritual Dimensions of Death Awareness Ford, Tim, MA, MS Cumberland J Dying process Rel/spirit 32 The Veteran’s Last Skirmish: Encountering Dying and Death Flanagan-Kaminsky, Donnamarie, MA, CT Cumberland C Loss grief mourn Large 32 Appreciating Research That Matters: Foundations of Bereavement Research Literacy Shapiro, Ester, PhD; Hogan, Nancy, PhD; Andrea, Walker, PhD Cumberland C Assess interv Resources research 33 Living Near Death Childs, Annette, PhD Cumberland J Dying process Rel/spirit 34 5:30 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. New Member/First-Time Attendee Gathering Pegasus B 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Welcome Reception Grand Hall/Union Station Building 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. 8:30 a.m. – Noon 1:30 p.m. – 5:00 p.m. Specialty Workshops – Full Day Specialty Workshops – Morning Specialty Workshops – Afternoon Categories: Each presentation specifies the category that is most appropriate for the content of the presentation. Indicators: Each presentation specifies the indicator that is most appropriate for the content of the presentation. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Assessment and Intervention (Assess interv) Death Education (Death ed) Dying Process (Dying process) End-of-Life Decision-Making (End life dec make) Loss, Grief and Mourning (Loss grief mourn) Traumatic Death (Traum death) www.adec.org Contemporary Perspectives (Contemp perspect) Cultural/Socialization (Cult/soc) Ethical/Legal (Ethical/legal) Family Individual (Fam indiv) Historical Perspectives (Hist perspect) Larger Systems (Large) Life Span (Life span) Professional Issues (Prof issues) Religious/Spiritual (Rel/spirit) Resources and Research (Resources research) 17 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Daily Schedule – Thursday, April 16 18 Thursday, April 16 Room 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. People of Color/Multicultural Forum Meeting Windsor 7:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Registration Open Reunion Foyer 8:15 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. President’s Welcome/Keynote Speaker: Living Beyond Loss: Family Responses to Grief McGoldrick, Monica Sponsored by Scott & White Clinic and Hospital Landmark A 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Contemplation/Reflection Room Open Shawnee Trail #362 9:00 a.m. – Noon Exhibit Hall/Bookstore/Posters Open Reunion E-H 9:30 a.m. – 10:00 a.m. Poster Session I/Presentations/Refreshment Break Reunion E-H Category Indicator Page Poster #1 Gender Differences in Drug Responses to End-of-Life Medications Krau, Stephen, PhD Assess interv Prof issues 35 Poster #2 Ancient Egyptian, Modern Egyptian, and Current American Views on Death and Bereavement McCune, Susana, BA Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 35 Poster #3 Footprints Family Support Group: A Neonatal Intensive Care Unit Family Bereavement Program Ludwick, Nancy, RN, BSN Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 35 Poster #4 Developing a Hospital Bereavement Program – From Start to Success NCELLED CAMSW Ruffin, Diana, Loss grief mourn Resources research 35 Poster #5 Healing a 40+ Year-Old Father-Loss Through Art Making Baratta, Jill, MFA Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 36 Poster #6 And We Talk to the Animals: The Gift of Pets and the Pain of Loss Gilbert, Richard, PhD Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 36 Poster #7 Doggone Grief Brown, Brenda, BA, CT, GC-C Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 36 Poster #8 Testing a Model of Prolonged/Complicated Grief Wilkins, Michael, BS Loss grief mourn Resources research 36 Poster #9 Exploring the Impact on Individuals who Have Experienced CELLED Multiple Losses Through Death Over Time CAN Elmslie, Pamela, MA Loss grief mourn Life Span 37 Poster #10 Techniques for Helping Overwhelmed Bereaved Leaver, Wayne, PhD; Mondell, Amber, MA Assess interv Contemp perspect 37 Poster #11 Cultural Diversity in Hospice Care: Utilization, Barriers, and Clinical Implications Andrea R. Croom, BS End life dec make Cult/Soc 37 Poster #12 Lost in Translation: Developing Meaningful & Transformational LED Relationships Grievers NCEL CAWith Konrad, Shelley, PhD, MSW Loss grief mourn Prof issues 37 Poster #13 Robin Bush: A Political Family’s Lasting Grief for a Child Smith, Harold Ivan, DMin Loss grief mourn Rel/spirit 38 Poster #14 Meet Me on Saturn: Working With Non-Ordinary States Joy, Barbara, MC, FT Loss grief mourn Contemp perspect 38 Poster #15 How to Communicate at Difficult Times Across the Cancer Continuum Hughes, Mary, MS, RN Assess interv Prof issues 38 Poster #16 Joy Through Movement: Using Yoga and Tai Chi Chih to Work Through Grief Watkins, Becky, MPS, CT Loss grief mourn 38 Poster #17 Perspectives on Recovery From Parental Suicide in Childhood: Insights and Preliminary Findings Loy, Martin, PhD; Boelk, Amy, ABD, MSW; Smith, Jennifer L., BS; Irwin, Amy, BS Traum death Prof issues 39 Poster #18 Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy Bereavement Support Group Whittington, Heather, BA Loss grief mourn Contemp perspect 39 Poster #19 Adolescents and Technology: Coping With Loss in the Digital World Sofka, Carla, PhD, MSW Loss grief mourn Contemp perspect 39 Poster #20 Mythology and the Grief Healing Process Barsano, Terry, MA Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 39 Life Span www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Daily Schedule – Thursday, April 16 Thursday, April 16 (continued) Room 9:30 a.m. – 10:00 a.m. Reumion E-H Poster Session I/Presentations/Refreshment Break (continued) Category Indicator Page Poster #21 Partnering for Children’s Grief Support: A Highmark Caring Place Initiative Vorsheck, Terese, MA; Miller, Jessica, MA; Thornton, Gordon, PhD; Finton, Leslie, MSW; Brucker, Nancy, MPH Assess interv Large 40 Poster #22 The Moral Experiences of Bereaved Fathers Affleck, William, MA; Cadell, Susan, PhD; Macdonald, Mary Ellen, PhD Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 40 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Concurrent Session I Invited Creating Meaningful Memorials: Six Elements of Effective Bereavement Rituals Hoy, William G., DMin, FT Cumberland J Assess interv Cult/soc 41 Personal Exp./Reflection All I Need to Know About Grief I Learned While I Was Born Beck Irland, Nancy, MS Cumberland A Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 41 Personal Exp./Reflection ‘No Mother-of-the-Bride?’: Cumberland B Differences in Developmental Milestones for Parentally Bereaved Children Rapke, Jennifer, MA Loss grief mourn Life Span 42 Scholarly Paper Poetic Elegy, Loss, and the Art of Grieving Scarpino, Andrea, MFA; Shipers, Carrie, MFA Cumberland C Loss grief mourn Contemp perspect 42 Personal Exp./Reflection GriefWork Network: Providing Support and Education for Providers of Bereavement Services Borgman, C. Jan, MSW Cumberland E/F Loss grief mourn Prof issues 43 Personal Exp./Reflection Resiliency in the Aftermath of Homicide, Suicide, and Multiple Fatalities: A Client Centered Focus Caramela-Miller, Sandra, PhD Landmark A Traum death Fam indiv 43 Practice Report Counseling Bereaved Families During the Identification Process Coleman, Mirean, MSW Cumberland H Assess interv Prof issues 44 Personal Exp./Reflection Companioning Model* of End of Life Care on an Adult Bone Marrow Transplant Unit Lang, Betsy, MMus, BM, MSW Cumberland I Dying process Fam indiv 44 Personal Exp./Reflection The Spiritual Ramifications of Grief Thompson, Debra, MTP Cumberland L Loss grief mourn Rel/spirit 45 Cumberland G Assess interv Cult/soc 45 F V 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Concurrent Session II Invited Does Embalming Heal? Jacqueline, Taylor, MBA, FT F Personal Exp./Reflection Eastern Body-Mind-Spirit Model for Accomplishment of Cumberland A William Worden’s Four ‘Tasks of Mourning’ Woo, Ivan BSocSci (Social Work), MPhil; Chan, Cecilia, BSocSci, MSocSci, PhD, JP Loss grief mourn Prof issues 45 Personal Exp./Reflection Research and the Baby Boomers Life Experience Demand Changes in Grief Support - How Do We Do That? Chappelear, Ginny, MEd, FT Landmark A Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 46 Personal Exp./Reflection Pastoral Care in Bereavement and Loss: A Guide for Helping Hevelone, Jon Dale, DMin Cumberland C Death ed Rel/spirit 46 Personal Exp./Reflection How Will I Die? Understanding the Process and the Mystery Bahti, Tani, RN, CT, CHPN Cumberland E/F Dying process Prof issues 47 Research Report A Natural Resource: Religious Coping in Bereaved Adolescents Wright, J. Brooke, MA, PsyD; Jansen, Lorna; Bock, Sara Beth Cumberland H Loss grief mourn Rel/spirit 47 Personal Exp./Reflection Bangladesh Project: Grief Born of Injustice; and Tools of Faith, Hope, and Joy Nicholson, Joyce, MS, LMHC Cumberland I Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 48 Personal Exp./Reflection Sudden Death, Grief and Counselors in the Hispanic Community Stevenson, Robert, EdD; Cabrera, Fernando, PhD Cumberland J Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 48 Research Report When Safety Nets Fail: Social Support in Homicide Bereavement Cumberland L Burke, Laurie A., BA; van Dyke, Jessica G., BA; Neimeyer, Robert A., PhD; McDevitt-Murphy, Meghan, PhD; Lawson, Katherine E., EdD Traum death Resources research 49 The Fall and Rise of a Palliative Care Consultation Team Moore, Clint, III, MDiv, MA, FT Assess interv Prof issues 49 V Practice Report www.adec.org Cumberland K 19 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Daily Schedule – Thursday, April 16 Thursday, April 16 (continued) 12:30 p.m. – 1:30 p.m. Category Indicator Page Networking Groups (Box lunches for ticketed registrants) Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered Cumberland B Grief at Work Cumberland C Grief Camp Cumberland E/F Chaplaincy/Spiritual Care Cumberland G Military Cumberland H Pet Loss Cumberland J Buddhism and Thanatology Cumberland K Bereavement Support Group Cumberland L 1:30 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. Exhibit Hall/Bookstore/Posters Open Reunion E-H 1:45 p.m. – 2:45 p.m. Concurrent Session III Personal Exp./Reflection Fostering Multiple Losses in the Child Welfare System Troup, Erin, MScP; Rapke, Jennifer, MA, LPA Cumberland H Loss grief mourn Large 50 Personal Exp./Reflection The Palm Still Waves: A Mother/Daughter Reunion Boies, Patricia, JD, CT Cumberland I Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 50 Practice Report Cyber-Savvy Grief Interventions in a Youth’s World of Social Networking Edwards, Cheryl, MS; Edwards, Daxon, MS, MSci Cumberland C Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 50 Practice Report Funeral Home Aftercare: Helping Clients Live Beyond Loss Johnson, Catherine, MA, FT Cumberland G Assess interv Large 51 Research Report Pricey or Priceless?: Hospital Care of the Dying Patient Chapple, Helen, PhD, RN, MA Cumberland A Dying process Large 51 Research Report After-Death Communications in Popular Bereavement Narratives: How Ghosts Heal Kwilecki, Susan, PhD Cumberland L Loss grief mourn Rel/spirit 52 Scholarly Paper A Training Course for “Exquisite Witness” Grief Care Providers Jeffreys, J. Shep, EdD, FT Landmark A Death ed Prof issues 52 2:45 p.m. – 3:15 p.m. Poster Session I Continued/Refreshment Break Reunion E-H F 3:15 p.m. – 4:45 p.m. Concurrent Session IV Invited Grief, Loss and Healing in the Age of the Internet Horsley, Gloria C., CNS, MFC, PhD; Horsley, Heidi, PsyD, MSW, MS Cumberland K Death ed Contemp perspect 53 Experiential Workshop The Gifts of Grief - Life Beyond Loss Sobonya, Nancee, MA Cumberland A Loss grief mourn Rel/spirit 53 Experiential Workshop Whose Grief? Manzella, Christiane, PhD Cumberland B Assess interv Prof issues 53 Experiential Workshop Moral Distress: The Elephant in the Room Barton, Jane, MTS, MASM Cumberland C End life dec maker Prof issues 54 Scholarly Paper Dallas, November 22, 1963: A Death That Changed the World Forever! Smith, Harold Ivan, DMin, FT Cumberland G Loss grief mourn Hist perspect 54 Experiential Workshop The Struggle for Grace – Opportunities for Transformation of the Dying and Ourselves Bahti, Tani, RN, CT, CHPN Cumberland H Dying process Fam indiv 54 Experiential Workshop Cut it Out! This is Serious!: Laughter in Bereaved Families Molaison, Valarie, PhD Cumberland L Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 55 Symposium/ Panel Discussion Research That Matters – 2009: Childhood Traumatic Grief Lessons Learned from Research and Practice Goodman, Robin, PhD; Sandler, Irwin, PhD; Jordan, John, PhD Cumberland E/F Traumatic death Prof issues 55 F V 20 Room www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Daily Schedule – Thursday, April 16 and Friday, April 17 Thursday, April 16 (continued) Room Category Indicator Page 3:15 p.m. – 4:45 p.m. Concurrent Session IV (continued) Symposium/ Panel Discussion Life and Death Education in Japan Kondo, Taku, PhD; Yoneda, Asaka, MA; Matamura, Misato, BA; Sagara-Rosemeyer, Miharu, PhD, RN; Wada, Kaori, MA Cumberland I Death ed Cult/soc 56 Symposium/ Panel Discussion Death Education Online: Lessons Learned Moore, Jane, EdD. FT; Gilbert, Kathleen, PhD; Attig, Thomas, PhD; Gorman, Eunice, RN, BSW, MSW, RSw, PhD Landmark A Death ed Prof issues 56 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. Concurrent Session V Personal Exp./Reflection The Colorful Faces of Grief DeAngelis, Rose, BSN, MSc, RN; Lybert, Maxine, RN; Smith, Ian, BA, STM; Dellar, Teresa, MSW Cumberland C Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 57 Personal Exp./Reflection My Phantom Father: The Special Bereavement Experience of War-Related Loss Taylor, Sharon R., PhD Cumberland H Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 57 Personal Exp./Reflection Living Beyond Loss for People With Intellectual Disabilities Gilbride, Margaret, JD Cumberland K Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 58 Practice Report “I Can’t Imagine…”: Art for Teaching and Practice Carlson, Susan, MSW; Van Loon, Ruth Anne, PhD Cumberland A Death ed Fam indiv 58 Scholarly Paper Bereavement Support Group? No Thanks. I’m Dating. Gorman, Eunice, RN, BSW, MSW, RSW; Lewis, Laura, MSW, PhD Cumberland B Loss grief mourn Prof issues 58 Scholarly Paper Funeral Homes Bereavement Services and Interventions for Young Children Guy, Thurman, EdD Landmark A Assess interv Resources research 59 Scholarly Paper Living Beyond Loss: Themes of Dying, Death, and Bereavement in Gospel and Blues Music Strickland, Albert, CT Cumberland L Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 60 6:15 p.m. – 7:15 p.m. People of Color/Multicultural Forum Reception Pegasus A 7:30 p.m. – 9:30 p.m. Sixth Floor Museum Tour at Dealey Plaza Event (for ticketed registrants) Dealey Plaza Category Indicator Page F Friday, April 17 Room 7:00 a.m. – 7:30 a.m. Joy Through Movement: 30 Minutes of Kirpalu Yoga and Tai Chi to Start Your Day Right Cockrell 7:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Registration Open Reunion E-H 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. People of Color/Multicultural Forum Meeting Windsor 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. Certification Meeting Cumberland L 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. Student Meeting Cumberland B 8:30 a.m. – 9:45 a.m. Featured Speakers Using Ethical Standards to Recover From Compassion Fatigue Loring, Paula, LCSW, LMFT, NCBF Cumberland E/F 61 Working With Children and Families After a Trauma Death Loss: Landmark A Community Strategies Ford, Khris, LPC; Johnson, Vicki, MS – Moderator; Olague, Laura, MEd, CT; Telger, Kathy, MEd, LPC-S; Gomez, Michelli, LMSW 61 Decision Making Near the End of Life Werth, Jr., James L., PhD Cumberland L 61 Therapeutic Implications of Research in Trauma and Bereavement: Practicing What We Preach Without Pretending to Divine the Truth Sewell, Kenneth W., PhD Cumberland K 61 9:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. Exhibits/Bookstore/Posters Open Reunion E-H 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Contemplation Reflection Room Open Shawnee Trail #362 www.adec.org 21 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Daily Schedule – Friday, April 17 22 Friday, April 17 (continued) Room 9:45 a.m. – 10:15 a.m. Reunion E-H Poster Session II Presentations/Refreshment Break Category Indicator Page Poster #1 Determinants of Conscious and Unconscious Death Anxiety Among Bereaved Adults Hayslip Jr., Bert, PhD Loss grief mourn Life Span 62 Poster #2 Treasured Moments in Time Carst, Nancy, MSW Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 62 Poster #3 Integrating Adlerian Theory and Techniques With Crisis Intervention Tedrick, Sara, BA; Wachter, Carrie, PhD Assess interv Contemp perspect 63 Poster #4 Public Health Team and the Experience of the Very Ill at Home Bousso, Regina, PhD; Silva, Lucía, MS Assess interv Prof issues 63 Poster #5 Giving Information: Latino and Chinese Families in Pediatric Palliative Care Davies, Betty, RN, PhD Dying process Cult/soc 63 Poster #6 Death Attitudes and Anxiety Across Cultures Moretta Guerrero, Brenda, PhD, LPC, FT Dying process Cult/soc 63 Poster #7 Religion, Life History, Illness and Death: Experience of Brazilians Families Bousso, Regina, PhD; Serafim, Taís Dying process Rel/spirit 64 Poster #8 Death and Dying at a Children’s Mental Health Agency Graves, Karen, MA Assess interv Fam indiv 64 Poster #9 Meaning Making of Family After Long-Term Foster Care Lawrence, Carrie, BS Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 64 Poster #10 Teaching About Near-Death Experiences Using “The Day I Died” Holden, Janice Miner, EdD, LPC-S, LMFT, NCC; Oden, Kathryn, PhD, LPC Death ed Resources research 64 Poster #11 Death and Grief Rituals: A Multicultural, Multispiritual Look Kramer Almquist, Heather, MA, CT Death ed Cult/soc 65 Poster #12 Grief Related to Pregnancy Loss: Understanding the Experience of Losing a Child before Birth Fernandez, Ramona, BA, MEd Loss grief mourn Life Span 65 Poster #13 Near-Death Experiences: Thirty Years of Scholarly Inquiry Holden, Janice Miner, EdD, LPC-S, LMFT, NCC Dying process Resources research 65 Poster #14 What About Me? Young People Grieve Too: An In-School Grief Support Program Loss grief mourn McCune, Susana, BA Life Span 65 Poster #15 Using Fiction And Memoir To Help Children and Adults Who Are Grieving Markell, Kathryn, PhD; Markell, Marc, PhD, CT Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 65 Poster #16 A Life Giving Memorial Rillstone, Pam, PhD Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 66 Poster #17 When Adults Grieve a Parent, A Second Look: “I’m Glad the Bastard’s Dead” Gilbert, Richard, PhD Assess interv Fam indiv 66 Poster #18 Healing From Loss With Scents McGoldrick, Irene, BS, MSW Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 66 Poster #19 This Place: A Documentary About Memorial Places Kilcrease, J. Worth, MA, LPC, FT Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 66 Poster #20 An After School Program Grief Group With Middle Schoolers Using the Expressive Arts: What Worked and What Didn’t Wortham, Jennifer, LCSW, MSW Loss grief mourn Large 66 Poster #21 Understanding Bereavement Resilience: Integrating Family and Cultural Perspectives Ho, Andy, BA (UBC), GradDipEd (UBC), MSocSc (HKU); Wang, Clarissa, BA (Wellesley) Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 67 Poster #22 Exploring the Various Aspects of Disenfranchisement Reisen, Dyana Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 67 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Daily Schedule – Friday, April 17 Friday, April 17 (continued) Room Category Indicator Page 10:15 a.m. – 11:15 a.m. Concurrent Session VI Invited When They Die Here but Need to Go There: Shipping the Deceased Home Cumberland J Piet, William E., LFD Death ed Prof issues 68 Practice Report Importance of Whole System Support for the Grieving Family Haggard, Geraldine, EdD; Lindwall-Bourg, Karne, MA Cumberland B Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 68 Practice Report When Death Darkens the Door: Supporting Children and Families Facing the Death of a Parent Warnick, Andrea, BScN, RN, MA; Toye, Lysa, MSW, Dip EXAT Cumberland G Death ed Life Span 69 Practice Report Living, Lost and Losses: The Flight of Shelter Dwellers in the Florida Keys Meris, Doneley, MSW, MA, CT Cumberland I Assess interv Life Span 69 Practice Report Working With Children Who Have Lost a Loved One in the Military – TAPS Campagna, Heather, EdS, MA; Sarri, Tina, BS Cumberland K Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 70 Research Report The Toll of Violence: African American Adjustment to Homicide Loss Landmark A Neimeyer, Robert A.; PhD, McDevitt-Murphy, Meghan, PhD; Burke, Laurie A., BA; van Dyke, Jessica G., BA, Lawson, Katherine E., EdD Traum death Resources research 70 Research Report The Role of After-Death Communication Experiences in Bereavement Resolution Frogge, Stephanie, MTS; Steward, Alan, PhD Cumberland H Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 71 Research Report Identity and Meaning Construction in Multiple Widowhood Miles, Rosemary, PhD Cumberland L Loss grief mourn Prof issues 71 Scholarly Paper “Fragmented Answers”: Recounting Lucy Grealy’s Story Fowler, Kathleen, PhD Cumberland A Loss grief mourn Contemp perspect 72 F V I11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Concurrent Session VII Invited When a Person Dies at Home Loring, Paula, LCSW, LMFT; Piet, William, LFD Cumberland C Dying process Cult/soc 72 Personal Exp./Reflection A Sacred Trust - Returning the Wartime Fallen Giles, Karen, BS, MS Cumberland L Loss grief mourn Contemp perspect 72 Practice Report The Trauma Dialogues: Facilitating an Empowered Voice for Homicide-Loss Survivors Blakley, Theresa, PhD; Mehr, Nita, MSW Cumberland A Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 73 Practice Report Comforting Terminally Ill Chinese: Cultural Understanding of the Family’s Bereavement Process Shen, Yih-Jiun, DED Cumberland G Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 73 Practice Report Developing a Clinical Advancement Program for Bereavement Borgman, C. Jan, MSW Cumberland H Death ed Prof issues 74 Research Report Psychometric Evidence for the Continuing Bonds Inventory Hogan, Nancy, PhD, RN, FAAN; Schmidt, Lee, PhD, RN Cumberland E/F Loss grief mourn 74 Research Report Long Term Care Facilities: Are They Meeting the Needs of the Elderly With Cancer and Their Families? Gorman, Eunice, RN, BSW, MSW, RSW; Gibson, Maggie, PhD Cumberland I Assess interv Large 75 Research Report Couple Relationships Following the Loss of a Child Gudmundsdottir, Maria, RN, PhD; Davies, Betty, RN, PhD Cumberland J Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 75 Scholarly Paper How African American Novelists Have Depicted Racism-Caused Grief in African American Families Rosenblatt, Paul PhD Cumberland B Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 76 Personal Exp./Reflection Balancing on a Shifting Rug – Facilitating End of Life Decision-Making Bahti, Tani, RN, CT, CHPN Landmark A End of life dec make Prof issues 76 F V www.adec.org 23 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Daily Schedule – Friday, April 17 Friday, April 17 (continued) 12:45 p.m. – 1:45 p.m. Category Indicator Page Networking Groups (Box lunches for ticketed registrants) Bridging Research and Practice Cumberland L Children’s Program Cumberland K Funeral Home and After Care Cumberland J Gerontology Cumberland B Grief and Death Education Cumberland E/F Grief and Families Cumberland C Hospice Cumberland H Hospital-Based Bereavement Programs Cumberland G School Crisis Intervention Programs Cumberland I Suicide Prevention Cumberland A 2:00 p.m. – 3:15 p.m. Awards I/Keynote Speaker Get Set and Go: Mending Body, Mind and Spirit for Bereaved Persons Cecilia Chan, BSocSc, MSocSc, PhD, RSW, JP Landmark A 3:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. Exhibits/Bookstore/Posters Open Reunion E-H 3:15 p.m. – 3:45 p.m. Poster Session II Continued/Refreshment Break 3:45 p.m. – 5:15 p.m. Concurrent Session VIII Invited Death Notification: I’ll Never Forget Those Words Harris Lord, Janice, ACSW-LMSW/LPC, MSW Cumberland J Traum death Prof issues 77 Symposium/ Panel Discussion Grief in Workplace: Mending Body, Mind & Spirit of Your Employees – Knowing Boundaries/Ethics Harper, Jeanne, MPS, FT, BCETS, DAPA; Mooney, Kim, BA, CT; Friedichs, Judy, MS, RN, CT Cumberland I Loss grief mourn Large 77 Experiential Workshop Metaphors as Meaning-Makers in Grief Therapy Winchester Nadeau, Janice, PhD Cumberland B Assess interv 78 Experiential Workshop Pet Loss as a Portal to Significant Life Traumas and Losses Antinori, Deborah, MA; Barton Ross, Cheri, MS Cumberland C Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 78 Experiential Workshop Hearing the Patient’s Voice Through a Values History Lewis, Mileva, EdD; Wagner, Robert, MDiv Cumberland G End life dec make Prof issues 79 Experiential Workshop Creative Healing: Using Integrative Therapies to Help Grieving Families Merriman, Christine, MSW, LCSW Cumberland H Assess interv Contemp perspect 79 Experiential Workshop End of Life Care From Four Faith Traditions: Jewish, Hindu, Muslim, Tibetan Buddhism Lunsford, Beverly, PhD Cumberland K Death ed Rel/spirit 80 Symposium/ Panel Discussion The Legacy of Dr. Edwin Shneidman: DVD of a Thanatologist at 90 Years Old Fajardo, Angelica, MA, CT; Barrett, Ronald Keith, PhD, FT; DeSpelder, Lynne, MA, FT; Gabby, Pamela, MA, FT; Shurman, Donna, EdD, FT; Striekland, Albert, CT Cumberland L Death ed Hist perspect 80 Personal Exp./Reflection Continuing Bonds Through Myspace: A New Venue for Grief Explored Hieftje, Kimberly, MS Landmark A Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 81 V 24 Room 5:30 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. Service of Remembrance Cumberland E/F 6:00 p.m. – 6:30 p.m. Pet Remembrance Service Cumberland L 6:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. Meet the Authors and Book Signing Reception Reunion Foyer www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Daily Schedule – Saturday, April 18 Saturday, April 18 Room 7:00 a.m. – 7:30 a.m. Spiritual Services Cumberland J 7:00 a.m. – 7:30 a.m. Joy Through Movement: 30 Minutes of Kirpalu Yoga and Tai Chi Chilh to Start Your Day Right Windsor 7:30 a.m. – 8:15 a.m. ADEC Business Meeting Landmark A 8:00 a.m. – 5:30 p.m. Registration Open Reunion Foyer 9:00 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Contemplation/Reflection Room Open Shawnee Trail #362 9:00 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Exhibit Hall and Bookstore Open Reunion E-H 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Concurrent Session IX Invited Multiple Fatalities and Grief Support: What We Learned From Columbine McBride, Jennifer, MA; Horan, John J., MSP, CFSP Invited Category Indicator Page Cumberland E/F Traum death Large 81 Strategies for Mind-Body Healing Chan, Cecilia, BSocSc, MSocSc, PhD, RSW, JP Cumberland I Death ed Prof issues 82 Invited The Last Lecture: Staying Power or a Passing Fad? Sofka, Carla, MSW, PhD Cumberland J Death ed Contemp perspect 82 Personal Exp./Reflection Why Would God? Helping Bereaved Parents Process Hard Spiritual Questions Glasgow, Bob, DIp Theo Cumberland L Loss grief mourn Rel/spirit 82 Personal Exp./Reflection A Perspective on the Comprehensive Care of Donor Families Yetter, Jamie, BA; Post, Michelle, MA, LMFT Cumberland C End life dec make Fam indiv 83 Personal Exp./Reflection Death and Disenfranchised Grief in Virtual Communities: Challenges and Opportunities Hensley, Lisa, PhD Cumberland H Loss grief mourn Large 83 Personal Exp./Reflection When Hurricane Tragedy Strikes – Crisis and Grief Challenge Resiliency Adams, Susan, PhD Cumberland K Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 84 Research Report Meaning-Making in Memories: A Comparison of Death and Low Point Autobiographical Memories Mackay, Michael, BA, MSc Cumberland A Loss grief mourn Resources research 84 Research Report Interface of Posttraumatic Stress and Posttraumatic Growth in Bereaved Parent Narratives Larsen, Barbara, MA; Murray, Colleen, PhD Cumberland B Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 85 Research Report College Psychology Course Offerings on Death and Dying: A National Survey Eckerd, Lizabeth, PhD Cumberland G Death ed Resources research 85 F V 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Concurrent Session X Invited Understanding Today’s Options in Funeral and Memorial Service Taylor, Glenn, LFP Cumberland C Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 86 Personal Exp./Reflection Who Let the Dogs Out? Utilizing Therapy Dogs With Grieving Children and Teens Gabbay, Pamela, MA, FT Cumberland A Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 86 Personal Exp./Reflection End of Life on a Bone Marrow Transplant Unit – Body, Mind, & Transpersonal Experience Cumming, Tiffany, MA; Lang, Betsy, MSW Cumberland G Dying process Fam indiv 86 Personal Exp./Reflection Psychosocial Role of the Death Penalty in the Death System Rushforth, Nancy, MA; McGunigall-Smith, Sandy, PhD Cumberland H Traum death Large 87 Personal Exp./Reflection Meaning Making and Making Meaning: Moving Outside the Circle of Grief Kosminsky, Phyllis, PhD Cumberland I Loss grief mourn Contemp perspect 87 Practice Report Using Narrative Therapy Processes With Grieving Families Lindwall-Bourg, Karen, MA Cumberland B Assess interv Prof issues 88 Practice Report Incorporating Technology Into Death Education Practice: Three Formats for Delivery Wheat, Laura, MEd; Whiting, Peggy EdD; James, Libba, MEd Cumberland K Death ed Prof issues 88 Research Report Finding Sense and Significance in the Loss of One’s Child: A Mixed Methods Study of Meaning-Making Neimeyer, Robert, PhD; Currier, Joseph, MA; Lichtenthal, Wendy, PhD Cumberland L Loss grief mourn Resources research 88 F www.adec.org 25 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Daily Schedule – Saturday, April 18 Saturday, April 18 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Concurrent Session X (continued) Research Report Silent Grief: A Narrative Inquiry Into the Meaning Making Processes of Bereaved Adult Siblings Marshall, Brenda, MEd Room Category Indicator Page Cumberland J Loss grief mourn Fam indiv 89 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Concurrent Session XI Invited Mass Tragedy Funeral Challenges: What We Learned From Katrina Schoen III, Gerard L., LFD Cumberland E/F Traum death Contemp perspect 90 Research Report Predictors of Grief Reactions Among Dementia Caregivers Ott, Carol PhD Cumberland G Loss grief mourn Prof issues 90 Personal Exp./Reflection Art Beyond Sight: Embodied Healing by Adults Living With Vision Loss Jaworek, Joseph, MA, CT, ATR-BC Cumberland B Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 91 Personal Exp./Reflection The Use of Biblical and Rabbinic Texts as Tools for Healing in a Bereavement Support Group Arshinoff, Rabbi Rena, RN, BA, MHSc, MAHL Cumberland C Loss grief mourn Rel/spirit 91 Practice Reports Same Time Next Year: Ritualized Remembrances of World AIDS Day Meris, Doneley, MSW, MA, CT Cumberland H Loss grief mourn Cult/soc 91 Practice Reports End-of-Life Care: Recognizing and Resolving Ethical Conflicts Moore, Clint, III, MDiv, MA, FT Cumberland I End life dec make Prof issues 92 Practice Report Past and Present: The History of Death as Death Education Cruz, Laura, PhD Cumberland K Death ed Hist perspect 92 Research Report Africanisms: Death and Mourning Rituals of the Gullahs of the Sea Islands Swift, Diane, MA Cumberland A Death ed Cult/soc 93 Research Report A Preliminary Study of Hospital-Based Bereavement Care in American Hospitals Rapke, Jennifer, MA Cumberland J Assess interv Large 93 Practice Report Creative Interventions for Children Experiencing Traumatic Grief Lowenstein, Liana, MSW Cumberland L Traum death Fam indiv 94 Presidential Lunch (for ticketed registrants) Landmark A F V 12:30 p.m. – 1:45 p.m. 26 (continued) www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Daily Schedule – Saturday, April 18 Saturday, April 18 (continued) Room Category Indicator Page 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. Concurrent Session XII Invited The Role of Funerals in Healing Grief Symposium Worden, J. William; Sofka, Carla, MA, PhD, BS; Doka, Kenneth; Weeks, O. Duane; Hoy, William Cumberland K Loss grief mourn Contemp perspect 94 Experiential Workshop The Creative Use of Therapeutic Games With Bereaved Children Lowenstein, Liana, MSW Cumberland B Assess interv Fam indiv 95 Experiential Workshop Visions, Dreams, and Metaphors of the Dying: What They Mean and How We Can Help Atkins, Martha, MA, LPC-S Cumberland C Assess interv Rel/spirit 95 Experiential Workshop The Wisdom and Comfort of a Suicide Bereavement Group Kosoy, Marjorie, EdD; Levin, Sheryl, MEd, RSW Cumberland G Loss grief mourn Prof issues 96 Experiential Workshop The Gift of Presence in Helping Bereaved Individuals Cumberland H Harris, Darcy, MEd, RSW; Hunter, Brad A.; Kauffman, Jeffrey, MA, LCSW Loss grief mourn Prof issues 96 Experiential Workshop Meet God the Bully: When Values and Beliefs Hurt Gilbert, Richard, PhD Cumberland I Dying process Rel/spirit 96 Symposia/ Panel Discussion Teaching That Matters: On Texts and Teaching in Death Education Noppe, Illene, PhD; Corr, Charles, PhD; DeSpelder, Lynne, MA; Dickinson, George, PhD Cumberland J Death ed Prof issues 97 Symposia/ Panel Discussion How Did I Get Into and Become a Expert in Thanatology: Thanatologists’ Narratives De Rossiter, Cher, MBA; Wada, Kaori, MA Cumberland E/F Death ed Prof issues 97 Symposium/ Panel Discussion Bereavement After Suicide and Homicide: A Conversation About Differences and Similarities Jordan, John, PhD; Rynearson, Edward, MD Cumberland L Traum death Prof issue 98 3:45 p.m. – 5:00 p.m. Awards II/ Keynote Speaker – Dying in America: The Nature of Suffering and the Nature of Opportunity Through the End of Life Ira Byock, MD Sponsorsed by Selected Independent Funeral Homes Landmark A 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. Farewell Reception and Book Signing Landmark Circle F V 9th International Conference on Grief and Bereavement in Contemporary Society and ADEC 33rd Annual Conference June 21 – 25, 2011 InterContinental Miami ❂ Miami, FL USA ® ADEC 34th Annual Conference March 27 – 31, 2012 Hilton Atlanta ❖ Atlanta, GA USA www.adec.org 27 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Professional Development Courses Tuesday, April 14 Wednesday, April 15 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Reunion A Room Introduction to Thanatology: Dying, Death and Bereavement Faculty: Madeline E. Lambrecht, EdD, RN, FT and Sherry R Schachter, PhD, FT Intended Audience: The Introduction to Thanatology Course is intended for those new to the field of thanatology and individuals who are working as volunteers and support staff with critically ill, dying or bereaved individuals. This course will also be helpful for professionals (nurses, physicians, psychologists, social workers, chaplains, funeral directors, police, EMTs, etc.) who may have little formal education in thanatology and are working with the critically ill, dying or bereaved. Course Description: This course gives an overview and summary of the field of thanatology based upon the Body of Knowledge published by ADEC. It explores the social, cultural, psychological, legal/ethical and spiritual issues raised by illness, dying, death and bereavement. All information is relevant to everyday life and most specifically to those practitioners providing support to the dying and bereaved. The course will explore the meaning of death and examine personal attitudes and fears, in order to understand the grieving process and basic grief support throughout the life span. New! Password-protected course Web site. Easy access for novice Web users. Meet course faculty and other participants online before coming to Dallas! Access pre-conference reading assignments and other course materials at your convenience. Print materials will be available for those without Web access. Recommended Text: Balk, D. (Ed.). Handbook of thanatology: The essential body of knowledge for the study of death, dying and bereavement. Northbrook, IL: Association for Death Education and Counseling, The Thanatology Association. ISBN: 978-0-415-98945-9 Faculty: Sherry Schachter PhD, FT, the director of bereavement services for Calvary Hospital/Hospice where she develops, coordinates and facilitates educational services for staff and families. Schachter is a recipient of the prestigious Lane Adam’s Award for Excellence in Cancer Nursing from the American Cancer Society and for more than 27 years has worked with dying patients and their family caregivers. She previously worked at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer in New York City for 23 years where she was an attending grief therapist and the coordinator of the hospital’s bereavement program. She has a private practice in New York City and Pennsylvania and also publishes and lectures on issues related to dying, death and loss. She is a past president of the Association for Death Education and Counseling, and a member of the International Work Group on Death, Dying and Bereavement. practicing healthcare professionals, teachers, counselors and others providing care and support to the terminally ill and bereaved. Lambrecht has been an educator, counselor and consultant on loss-related issues for more than 30 years. She had a private practice, Life Stress Consultants, for 15 years and has published journal articles and created computer and videodisc software focused on providing compassionate care to the dying and bereaved. Her videodisc, Bereavement Counseling: Bereavement Support Strategies received several national awards including a bronze medal at the International Film and TV Festival of New York. Reunion B Room Intermediate Course: Grief Counseling Faculty: Valarie A. Molaison, PhD, FT Intended Audience: This course is designed for all professionals who have at least two years of experience working with the bereaved. Course Description: This course examines key concepts related to the human response to loss and the facilitation of healthy bereavement. Topics include theoretical models of the grief experience, risk and resilience, developmental, cultural, family and other mediating factors in normal, uncomplicated bereavement using the most current research and theoretical perspectives in the field. The course will explore specific strategies and counseling tools to effectively companion with individuals, couples, families or groups coping with loss. Recommended Text: Worden, W.J. (2009). Grief counseling and grief therapy: A handbook for the mental health practitioner (4th Ed.). New York: Springer. ISBN: 08261-01208 Faculty: Valarie Molaison, PhD, FT, is a licensed psychologist and clinical director of Supporting Kidds: The Center for Grieving Children and Their Families in Hockessin, Delaware, which provides consultation, support groups, counseling and educational programs for bereaved families, as well as community education and consultation to professionals who work with bereaved families. Molaison is adjunct clinical associate professor at Widener University and a Fellow in Thanatology, certified by ADEC. She speaks regionally and nationally on topics related to dying and bereavement and is known for her practical and humorous style and ability to actively engage participants from a wide range of disciplines. She has written three resource books: School Survival Kit: Helping Students Cope with Grief in the School Setting Survival Kit for Families: Tools for Healthy Grieving Survival Kit for a Caring Community: Supporting Bereaved Families Madeline Lambrecht, EdD, is a past president of ADEC and currently serves as president of the Delaware End-of-Life Coalition. She is the director of the Division of Special Programs and professor of nursing in the College of Health Sciences at the University of Delaware. She teaches an online death education course for 28 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Professional Development Courses Reunion C Room Advanced Course: Complicated Bereavement and Grief Therapy Faculty: J. Eugene Knott, PhD, ABPP Intended Audience: Psychologists, social workers, marriage and family therapists, licensed professional counselors, nurses, physicians, pastoral counselors or anyone with professional training seeking advanced skill development in bereavement intervention with challenging cases. Course Description: A significant percentage of individuals who lose a loved one struggle with prolonged and debilitating grief that merits professional intervention. The goal of this course is to draw on contemporary models and research findings that help distinguish between benign (or resilient patterns of grieving) and those that are more complicated, traumatic or entail greater risk to the bereaved person’s psychosocial adaptation, health and interpersonal relationships. The course will acquaint participants with specific conceptual and practical tools for evaluating and intervening in such complications. Recommended Text: PDFs and Word documents will be sent to registrants before the conference. Faculty: J. Eugene Knott, PhD, ABPP, is a psychologist and associate professor of human development and family studies at the University of Rhode Island. He is a former ADEC president. He is published in the areas of death education and grief counseling and a frequent presenter to clinician groups on matters of bereavement and mourning, especially following traumatic and complex deaths. He is a member of the Thanatology Minor and Certificate Committee at the University of Rhode Island. A knowledgeable and award-winning presenter, Knott was the 2005 recipient of the ADEC Contribution to the Field Award. Courses, workshops and presentations thoughout the ADEC conference will cover the following categories: Dying Process: The physical, psychosocial and spiritual experience of facing death, living with terminal illness, the dying process and caring for the terminally ill. End-of-Life Decision-Making: The aspects of life-threatening illness and terminal illness that involve choices and decisions about actions to be taken, for individuals, families and professional caregivers. Loss, Grief and Mourning: The physical, behavioral, cognitive and social experience of and reactions to loss, the grief process and practices surrounding grief and commemoration. Assessment and Intervention: Includes information gathered, decisions that are made and actions that are taken by professional caregivers to determine and/or provide for the needs of the dying, their loved ones and the bereaved. Traumatic Death: Sudden, violent, inflicted and/or intentional death, shocking encounters with death. Death Education: Formal and informal methods for acquiring and disseminating knowledge about dying, death and bereavement. Presentation Level Each presentation identifies the knowledge/ skill level required of the participant. The level is indicated after the title in parenthesis. Introductory: Presentations that all participants (including undergraduate students) with any appropriate background will be able to fully comprehend and/or appreciate. Presentations will discuss concepts that are considered basic skills/knowledge for those working in the field of thanatology. Intermediate: Presentations that participants may more fully comprehend/appreciate if they have at least some work experience in the topic to be discussed. Advanced: Presentations that present concepts that require a high-level of previous knowledge or work experience in the particular area/topic to be discussed as well as being most geared for specialists and those in advanced stages of their career. www.adec.org 29 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Specialty Workshops Full-Day Workshop Full-Day Workshop Wednesday, April 15, 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Cumberland L Cumberland K Catching Your Breath in Grief: A Workshop for Caregivers Using Drawings in Working With Children and Adults Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Religious/Spiritual Intermediate Assessment and Intervention Professional Issues Intermediate Attig, Thomas, PhD DeSpelder, Lynne Ann, MA, FT1; Barrett, Ronald Keith, PhD, FT2 Bowling Green State University, Fairfield, CA, United States 1 Cabrillo College, Capitola, CA, United States; 2Loyola Marymount University, Los Angeles, CA, United States This workshop presents whatever wisdom the presenter has acquired in thirty-five years of reflection about the meanings of life, death, and grieving. It unfolds around a universal human story that resonates with experiences of wonder about life; longing for self-understanding; connection, care, and love; loss and suffering; hope that reaches through brokenness and sorrow; and searching for meaning in encounters with mystery themes that thread through the world’s great spiritual traditions. The opening session tells the story of the coming and going of the breath of life: the grace that gives it, its animating power, the life support it provides, and the good reasons why traditions identify it with soul and spirit and of how, as brokenness and sorrow (grief reaction) come over us, loss takes our breath away. The remaining sessions tell of how, through active engagement with what has happened to us (grieving response), we catch our breath. Sorrow-friendly practices enable us to breathe into our suffering and learn from it, and we draw upon hope and the resilience of soul and spirit. We learn to carry sorrow. We relearn the worlds of our experience (our surroundings, our selves, and our place in the great scheme of things). And we learn to love in separation through memory and embracing legacies. Workshop sessions are filled with discussion of how caregivers can support the breath of life in grievers as they experience brokenness, sorrow, and crisis; actively engage with what has happened; and learn to live in a world changed profoundly by loss. Thomas Attig, PhD, an applied philosopher is a past president of ADEC and the author of How We Grieve: Relearning the World and The Heart of Grief: Death and the Search for Lasting Love.Catching Your Breath in Grief, the basis for this workshop, has yet to be published. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Distinguish soulful and spiritual dimensions of the breath of life 2. Describe how the bereaved gasp for breath in the brokenness, sorrow, and crisis of grief reaction 3. Describe how the bereaved catch their breath through the active reengagement with life in grieving response References: Attig, T. (1996). How we grieve: Relearning the world. Oxford University Press. Attig, T. (2000). The heart of grief: Death and the search for lasting love. Oxford University Press. Attig, T. (2004). Disenfranchised grief revisited: Discounting hope and love. Omega. Attig, T. (2004). Meanings of death seen through the lens of grieving. Death Studies. 30 Wednesday, April 15 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Would you like to develop and expand your resources for working with individuals and groups? Laying aside projective analyses, this workshop guides participants in exploring the use of drawings to enhance communication with children and adults in educational or therapeutic situations. Replacing analysis with curiosity, you will learn how to use drawings to facilitate your understanding of you own and another’s thoughts, feelings, and concepts in death-related situations. Investigate the impact of important factors in death experiences including culture through the use of drawings. Participants will prepare at least one drawing and practice using it to communicate, if they choose, with others in the workshop. This experiential learning will be enhanced by viewing drawings obtained in various circumstances by the presenters. Lynne Ann DeSpelder, MA, FT, counselor and a professor of psychology co-authored The Last Dance: Encountering Death and Dying, 8th ed. (2008.) An ADEC member, she conducts workshops about thanatology both nationally and internationally. Dr. Ronald Barrett, FT, is internationally recognized as a specialist in the study of cultural differences in thanatology. He and Lynne initiated a cross-national study of children’s conceptions of death through draw- ings and have taught together in many settings including ADEC’s Foundations Course for CT units from 2003-2005. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify the situations whereby drawings enhance understanding and communication 2. Describe the techniques for extracting information communicated via a drawing 3. Develop skills in the use of drawings in therapeutic and educational settings References: Bolton, G. (2007). Dying, bereavement and the healing Arts. London, Jessica Kingsley Publishers, Inc. DeSpelder, L. A., & Strickland, A.L. (2008). The last dance: Encountering death and dying, 8th edition. New York: McGraw-Hill. Hieb. M. (2005). Inner journeying through art-journaling: Learning to see and record your life as a work of art. London, Jessica Kingsley Publishers, Inc. Hinz, L. ( 2008). Walking the line between passion and caution in art therapy: Using the expressive therapies continuum to avoid therapist errors. Art Therapy: Journal of the American Art Therapy Association, Milwaukee, WI. Massimo, L. & Zarri, D. (2006). In tribute to Luigi Castagnetta--drawings. A narrative approach for children with cancer. Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences 1089 (1), xvi-xxii. Seftel, L. (2006). Grief unseen: Healing pregnancy loss through the arts. London, Jessica Kingley Publishers, Inc., 95-100. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Specialty Workshops Full-Day Workshop Wednesday, April 15 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Cumberland E/F Beyond Gender: Understanding the Ways Men and Women Grieve Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Professional Issues Intermediate Doka, Kenneth, PhD1; Martin, Terry, PhD2 1 2 The College of New Rochelle, New Rochelle, NY, United States; Hood College, Frederick, MD, United States Many individuals believe that if an individual does not show or share sadness or express other emotions, that individual is not in touch with or is suppressing grief. In fact, grief reactions are highly individual and varied. Many men, and women, may express their grief in more instrumental ways, showing grief in more cognitive or active manifestations. This session explores the different patterns or styles of grief, emphasizing that each of these pattern has their own distinct advantages and disadvantages. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe institutional, intuitive, blended and dissonant patterns of grief 2. Discuss the ways that each pattern can facilitate or complicate the grieving process 3. Describe interventive techniques suitable for each pattern References: Doka, K. J. & Martin, T. (2009) Mourning beyond gender: Understanding the ways men and women grieve. Philadelphia, PA: BrunnerMazel. Martin, T. & Doka, K.J. (1999). Men don’t cry, women do: Transcending gender stereotypes of grief. Philadelphia, PA: Taylor and Francis. Martin, T. & Wang, W. (2006). A pilot study of the development of a test to measure instrumental and intuitive styles of grieving. Omega: Journal of Death and Dying, 53, 263-276. Worden, J.W. (2008) Grief counseling and grief therapy: A handbook for the mental health practitioner. (4th Edition). New York: Springer. Counselors would benefit from this session in two major ways. First it challenges counselors to move beyond affect to explore the many ways that individuals cope with loss. Second, the workshop offers specific interventive strategies that are effective with different patterns. Learning Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe institutional, intuitive, blended and dissonant patterns of grief 2. Describe the theoretical and research basis for a continuum of grieving styles 3. Discuss the ways that each pattern can facilitate or complicate the grieving process 4. Identify and discuss pathways to grieving patterns including, gender, culture, cohort, and temperament 5. Discuss the effect of development on grieving patterns 6. Describe interventive techniques suitable for each pattern Faculty: Kenneth J. Doka, PhD, is a professor of gerontology at the graduate school of The College of New Rochelle and Senior Consultant to the Hospice Foundation of America. Dr. Doka is editor of both Omega: The Journal of Death and Dying and Journeys: A Newsletter for the Bereaved. Dr. Doka was elected President of the Association for Death Education and Counseling in 1993. and received the Award for Outstanding Contributions in the Field of Death Education in 1998. Dr. Doka is an ordained Lutheran minister. Terry Martin, PhD, is an associate professor of psychology and thanatology at Hood College. He is the co-author of Men don’t cry, women do: Challenging Gender Stereotypes of Grief and the Forthcoming Mourning Bheyond Gender. www.adec.org 31 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Specialty Workshops Morning Half-Day Workshop Wednesday, April 15 8:30 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. Morning Half-Day Workshop Cumberland J Cumberland C Mindful Mortality - Exploring the Spiritual Dimensions of Death Awareness The Veteran’s Last Skirmish: Encountering Dying and Death Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Religious/Spiritual Intermediate Loss, Grief and Mourning Larger Systems Introductory Ford, Tim, MA, MS Flanagan-Kaminsky, Donnamarie, MA, CT Virginia Commonwealth University, Richmond, VA, United States Department of Veterans Affairs, Brecksville, OH, United States There is a depth of understanding mortality that goes beyond the simple fact that what was born must one day die. Professionals and caregivers often speak of a profound depth of acceptance they have encountered in dying patients that leads to spiritual growth and radical change in the lives they live before they die. Efforts to theorize or systematically explore this concept of spiritual surrender at the deathbed often run afoul of differing definitions, cultural beliefs, and experiential integration of spirituality. How then can we invite this level of healing in our clients and ourselves in a professional, multi-cultural manner? By The Veterans Health Administration (VHA) operates the nation’s largest integrated health care system providing care to nearly 6 million unique patients and over 54 million outpatient visits annually. Nationally, there are 23, 976, 991 veterans. Over 1800 veterans die every day. Onefourth of all Americans who die this year will be veterans. Veterans ages 85+ will triple from 2000 to 2010. Only 4% of veterans die in VA facilities. The remaining 96% die in community settings. Therefore, it is important to educate the community about the unique needs of veterans at end-of-life. combining modern developmental approaches to death awareness with traditional contemplative and meditative practices, this workshop will invite participants to deepen their own sense of mortality. Experiencing the emotions of death awareness with controlled and disciplined techniques allows professionals to heighten their empathetic vocabulary and address their personal obstacles in a systematic and supportive way. In addition to personal development, this workshop is designed to assist professionals in creating with their clients unique and appropriate disciplines to integrate the client’s own spiritual resources as they attend to their death. There is a growing awareness that military experience, particularly serving in a combat arena, has definite effects on the women and men who serve. Are there specific identifiable characteristics that veterans exhibit as they face the dying process? Are spouses and families also affected, and if so, how? This presentation will explain how service during a particular era has affected the veteran’s sense of self and his/ her dying process. It will discuss how families may also be affected by the veteran’s military experience using anecdotal data. Faculty: Tim Ford, MA, MS, is the palliative care chaplain for the Thomas Palliative Care Unit at the VCU Health System. He is a trained chaplain, counselor and a certified thanatologist who specializes in end-of-life spiritual. Tim is also a lay-ordained Buddhist and as such is often called upon to be an interfaith voice in community discussions of spirituality, healthcare, and multiculturalism. Tim was recently featured in the Richmond Times Dispatch for his work on the unit. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Articulate psychological and spiritual obstacles to death awareness 2. Integrate mindfulness practices into their professional development 3. Assist others in integrating unique spiritual practices as they attend to their death References: Kastenbaum, R. (2004). On our way: The final passage through life and death. Berkeley, Calif.: University of California Press. Kabat-Zinn, J. (2005). Wherever you go, there you are : Mindfulness meditation in everyday life. New York: Hyperion. Dzogchen Ponlop. (2007). Mind beyond death. Ithaca, N.Y.: Snow Lion Publications. Sogyal, Gaffney, P., & Harvey, A. (2002). The Tibetan book of living and dying (Rev. and updated.). San Francisco, Calif.: Harper San Francisco. 32 Wednesday, April 15 8:30 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. Because of the staggering number of veterans approaching end-of-life care, VHA has implemented a National Hospice and Palliative Care Program (HPC). The mission of the VA Hospice and Palliative Care Program (HPC) is to honor veterans’ preferences for care at the end of life. This presentation will describe the key elements of the program as well as to illustrate a VISN specific plan to enhance end-of-life care for veterans through increased access, improved quality and enhanced expertise or more effective use of resources. Donna Marie Flanagan-Kaminsky, MA, CT, grief counselor for the Louis Stokes Cleveland VA Medical Center works with veterans & veteran families on VA Hospice. DonnaMarie provides anticipatory grief counseling for the family unit and offers bereavement counseling post death. She conducts education seminars on these issues to VA staff, community hospice agencies and to the community. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss the various groups of veterans that are requiring end-of-life care presently 2. Describe some unique experiences of veterans that affect their dying process 3. Explain the Dept. of Veterans Affairs End-of Life benefits and programs for veterans References: Beresford, L.(2007). VA transforms end-of-life care for veterans. Department of Veterans Affairs and National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization. Jennings, B., Kaebnick, G. E, and Murray, T. H., (Eds).(2005). Improving end-of-life-care: Why has it been so difficult? Hastings Center Special Report 35, no.6. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Specialty Workshops Feldman, D. B. & Periyakoil, MD, Vyjeyanthi S. Posttraumatic stress disorder at the end of life.(2006) Journal of Palliative Medicine, 9, 213-218. Hoge, M.D., Charles W. et al.(2004). Combat duty in Iraq and Afghanistan, mental health problems, and barriers to care. The New England Journal of Medicine, 351, 1, 13-22. Tick, E. (2008). War and the soul: Healing our nation’s veterans from posttraumatic stress disorder. Wheaton, Ill: Quest Books Afternoon Half-Day Workshop Wednesday, April 15 1:30 p.m. – 5:00 p.m. Cumberland C Appreciating Research That Matters: Foundations of Bereavement Research Literacy Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Resources and Research Introductory Shapiro, Ester, PhD1; Hogan, Nancy, PhD2; Andrea, Walker, PhD3 1 University of Massachusetts at Boston, Newton Highlands, MA, United States; 2Loyola University Chicago, Maywood, IL, United States; 3Oral Roberts University, Behavioral Science Faculty, Tulsa, OK, United States The bereavement field is increasingly emphasizing the importance of research supported, knowledge-based or evidence based practice, yet many practitioners in the bereavement field lack the skills to be informed consumers and critical readers of the relevant research literatures.Bereavement research is especially challenging because it must bridge multi-disciplinary clinical and research worlds while keeping them accountable to the bereaved’s diversity and unique experiences. In this workshop, three clinician researchers who both conduct and teach multi-method quantitative and qualitative research will present foundational concepts and methods required for basic bereavement research literacy. The first part of the workshop (morning session) will begin with an overview of research concepts and methods most relevant to the bereavement practitioner, including Evidence Based Practice, basic survey methods, concepts and psychometric issues in measuring grief, traumatic or complicated grief, and growth; qualitative methods especially thematic narrative analysis relevant to research on grief and meaning-making; and program evaluation. This session will use both lecture and discussion to present research vignettes from the published literature, and resources for locating research relevant to practice. In the second part of the workshop (afternoon session), presenters will select 3 research articles illustrating the research concepts and methods in the first part of the session. Each presenter will work from their own research specialty area, using these articles to review in detail the assumptions made by the researchers, the assets and limitations of research design and methods used, and the implications for practice. www.adec.org Faculty: Ester R. Shapiro, PhD, (aka Ester Rebecca Shapiro Rook) is associate professor of psychology at University of Massachusetts at Boston, practicum coordinator for the Clinical Psychology PhD Program, and research associate at the Mauricio Gaston Institute for Latino Research and Public Policy. A Cuban Jewish Eastern European immigrant, she is committed to helping all families make the most of their opportunities for improving life chances even when facing adversity and loss She directs the Health Promotion Research Group at the University of Massachusetts, Boston, and is a Co-Principal Investigator for the Community Engagement Core of the NIH funded HORIZON Center, a new partnership between UMB & Harvard School of Public Health to reduce health disparities through community participation in public health research. Nancy Hogan, PhD, RN, FAAN, is distinguished professor and associate dean for research at Loyola University ,Chicago. Dr. Hogan’s research and scholarship has been devoted to generating and testing adolescent and adult theories of grief and loss and the dissemination of those findings. Dr. Hogan has published over 50 peer-reviewed bereavement and end-of-life works nationally and internationally. She was awarded the Association of Death, Dying and Counseling 2007 Research Award. Andrea Walker, PhD, is associate professor in family studies at Oral Roberts University. She is a licensed and internationally certified alcohol and drug counselor and clinician who specializes in grief and loss. Her research uses both quantitative and qualitative methods to explore clinically meaningful and under-researched areas, including work on college-student bereavement and on grief in the Muscogee Creek tribe. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Define terminology relevant to interdisciplinary approaches in research-supported or evidence-based practice in the bereavement field 2. Discuss three different kinds of research designs supporting evidence-based practice in bereavement 3. Read a research article and understand how it presents theoretical assumptions, research design and procedures, results and discussion References: Bridging Work Group (2005). Bridging the gap between research and practice in bereavement: Report from the Center for the Advancement of Health. Death Studies, 29: 93-122. Hogan, N. S., & Schmidt, L. A. (2002). Testing grief to personal growth model using structural equation modeling. Death Studies, pp. 615-635. Shapiro, E.R. (2008). Whose recovery of what? Relationships and environments promoting grief and growth. Death Studies, 32:1, 40-58. Stroebe, M. S., Hansson, R. O., Schut, H., & Stroebe, W. (Eds.). (2008) Handbook of bereavement research and practice: Advances in theory and intervention. Washington, D.C.: American Psychological Association. 33 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Specialty Workshops This specialty workshop will explore life near death. Based on the author’s nearly twenty years of work companioning the dying, topics to be explored include: Faculty: Annette Childs, PhD, is a licensed clinical social worker who has dedicated the bulk of her twenty year practice to assisting those facing hard transitions. As a therapist she has specialized in work with the dying and their caregivers and has assisted many to find peace and meaning at the end of life. In 1997 she received her PhD in psychology. Her doctoral research explored the after effects of the near death experience and other altered states of consciousness. This work contributed original research to the field of near death studies. Her passion and insight into this subject has warranted the attention of many in her field, including the world renown near death researcher Dr. Raymond Moody, who wrote the afterword to her first book. She is the award winning author of two books, Will You Dance? and Halfway Across the River: Messages of Hope from the Other Side, both of which are highly sought resources in the fields of death, grief and transition. Nearing death awareness: Nearing death awareness is a very subtle psycho-spiritual realm the dying often move toward as death becomes imminent. This highly subjective and fragile world is one that clinicians and lay people alike can learn to be sensitive and attuned to. This in turn provides comfort to the dying and new understanding to those near them. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify 3 common themes of Nearing Death Awareness 2. Identify two of the traits described in a Core Near Death Experience 3. List three common after effects to the Near Death Experience The near death experience: the most up to date scientific and anecdotal evidence regarding this phenomenon which has now been reported by millions. References: Childs, A. (2007). Halfway across the river: Messages of hope from the other side. The Wandering Feather Press. Augustine, K. (2008). Near death experiences with hallucinatory features. The Journal of Near Death Studies 26, 3-33. Shwartz, G. E. ( 2002). The afterlife experiments. Atria Books Wooten-Green, R. (2001). When the dying speak. Loyola Press. Afternoon Half-Day Workshop Wednesday, April 15 1:30 p.m. – 5:00 p.m. Cumberland J Living Near Death Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Religious/Spiritual Intermediate Childs, Annette, PhD One Candle, LLC, Reno, NV, United States How the near death experience can be used as a teaching tool with the terminally ill and their caregivers. Exploration of the psycho-spiritual milestones that occur for the dying and their caregivers as death becomes imminent. The Concurrent Sessions are comprised of the following presentation types: Experiential Workshops: Interactive presnentation allowing significiant participation by attendees through the use of strucutured activities, small or large group processes, simulation activities, or other training design components. Personal Experience and Reflection: Presentation of a personal or professional experience, or case study, is used as the basis for a broader understanding of the dynamics in loss and recovery experiences. 34 Practice Reports: Presentations that describe analytically new or innovative practices in counseling or instructional settings. Emphasis should be on practices or program’s considered to be significant for future work in the field of death education and counseling. Research Reports: Original research (may or may not be the presenter’s study) is the basis for the presentation that will review, synthsize and/or critique the research. Scholarly Paper: Presentation should bebased on insightful analysis of theories, trends, perspectives and new models for exploring and understanding related to the field of death education and counseling. Symposia/Panel Discussions: Roundtable symposia provide an opprotunity for a group of presenters to share research and practice concepts related to a single theme. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Poster Session 1 – Thursday, April 16, 9:30 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. Thursday, April 16 9:30 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. Reunion E-H Poster #1 Gender Differences in Drug Responses to Endof-life Medications Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Professional Issues Intermediate Poster #3 Footprints Family Support Group: A Neonatal Intensive Care Unit Family Bereavement Program Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Ludwick, Nancy, RN, BSN Krau, Stephen, PhD Association for Death Education and Counseling, Ravenna, OH, United States Vanderbilt University, School of Nursing, Nashville, TN, United States The Footprints Family Support Group is a core group of NICU staff who have received specialized bereavement training in perinatal loss. Services to our families include: Indiviual counseling, identification of support and information resources, bereavement scrapbooking sessions, hand painted Memory boxes, professional photos of the family and baby,autopsy meetings with neonatologist and bereavement nurse, written materials on loss and available resources,one month home visit and follow-up phone calls after the baby’s death, and handmade sympathy cards at the one, six, and twelve month anniversary of the loss. Footprints encourages staff education and support, and is an active participant in the orientation of new nurses in the NICU. We also take part in community education and have organized and hosted a Resolve Through Sharing seminar for area healthcare professionals and bereaved parents. Precious Parents, a support group for parents who have suffered a perinatal loss, meets once a month for education and support and offers a quarterly newsletter, family activities, one-on-one support, a web page and on-line group, and is active in community education. Prescription medications and administration of medications is an integral part of end-of-life care. Medications are given not only to persons for symptom management at end of life, but are also often given to persons as adjunctive therapy for coping with the loss of a loved one. The purpose of this presentation is to illuminate the impact that gender has on the major determinants of variability in the dynamic interaction between drugs and humans. Gender differences that impact bioavailability, distribution, metabolism and elimination of mainstream pharmacologic interventions will be examined. As most clinical drug trials involve men, the effect of the drug is theorized to have the same impact on women. Recent research evidence indicates have shown this assumption to be erroneous. Numerous physiological gender variations impact the body’s utilization of medications and are identified through recent research. Some of these factors include: body weight, gastric emptying time, plasma proteins, and CYP activity. The impact of these influences can make the difference between effective drug management and adverse drug reactions. In order to improve drug safety and effectiveness, and to achieve better pharmacological outcomes at end of life, a clearer understanding of the impact of gender on the dynamics of medications is essential. Developing a Hospital Bereavement Program — From Start to Success Poster #2 Ancient Egyptian, Modern Egyptian, and Current American Views on Death and Bereavement Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Poster #4 Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory McCune, Susana, BA Hospice of Kitsap County/ Antioch University Seattle, Suquamish, WA, United States This preliminary exploration draws upon methods of narrative inquiry and phenomenology to identify, compare, and contrast encounters with death and bereavement in ancient Egyptian, modern-day Egyptian, and current American societies. Exploratory field study and in-depth interviews were conducted in Egypt during 2007. A survey of ancient Egyptian texts conveyed through ancient monumental art, plus interviews with modern-day Egyptian and American citizens, and a review of current literature delineate cultural, ethnic and religious, attitudes, beliefs, behaviors, traditions, and practices relating to death and bereavement. Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Resources and Research Intermediate Ruffin, Diana, MSW St. Luke’s Episcopal Hospital, Tomball, TX, United States St. Luke’s Episcopal Hospital and the Palliative Care Service commitment to the hospital’s threefold mission of treating the mind, body, and spirit provided us with the opportunity to develop a hospital based bereavement program. CANCELLED What began as simply mailing out sympathy cards to the bereaved families in 1999 turned into an annual Memorial Service with over 500 in attendance in 2007. In the last 2 years, 1277 sympathy cards have been sent to families. Since the Prayer Shawl Ministry began in 2005, over 529 prayer shawls have been donated to those who are dying. Sandwiched in-between these services was the development of a database to track bereaved families for counseling and support; development of a monthly phone support program; and the development of a Family Care Bereavement Volunteer Program to assist with phone support to bereaved families. In the last 2 years, over 1500 calls have been made to bereaved families. We currently have 14 volunteers who are active in providing phone support to these bereaved families. In June of 2008, we began holding grief support groups for hospital staff. We continue to strive to reach out to bereaved families and hospital staff in any way we can. A current project we are working on is a proposal for funding for an annual bereavement newsletter. A future goal is to begin community grief support groups for bereaved families. We would like to educate others to begin programs such as ours to reach out to many more of the often forgotten bereaved. www.adec.org 35 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Poster Session 1 – Thursday, April 16, 9:30 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. Poster #5 Poster # 7 Healing a 40+ Year-Old Father-Loss Through Art Making Doggone Grief Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Brown, Brenda, BA, CT, GC-C Baratta, Jill, MFA Aultman Health Foundation, Canton, OH, United States Self-employed, Tenafly, NJ, United States Aultman Grief Service counselors have learned from working with elementary children who are grieving a death loss that children need a game to play to help them communicate in a safe, non-threathening way. Since the grief game market was limited, Aultman decided to create a new game called Doggone Grief. This poster will show visual reflections in 5 pieces, exploring and manipulating photographic images using the medium of printmaking combined with text, watercolor, and stitchery. The subject is examined in the heuristic methodology to understand the loss of a 12 year-old girl (the artist/presenter)’s father who died of leukemia in 1964, before Kubler-Ross, etc., before formal social systems were in place to help with bereavement. After studying art therapy and facilitating transformations through art with others, the artist began this process by contacting her preteen feeling that “everyone” else had a dad except her. When her daughter became a teenager, she took photos of teenaged girls and their dads. The curiosity of what their relationships looked like became a place to facilitate healing. The process allowed the artist to normalize feelings associated with grief, such as those expressed in You Are Not Alone (Hughes), where teens’ feelings of loss are clearly universal. The visual format and focus of the work shown in the poster allowed the artist to unfold years of denial and detachment that went with the pain caused by the death and the “protective” cover-ups that were used surrounding the leukemia. The final piece is a montage representing the complex nature of the relationships sought and realized in light of the past loss and present situation- using the father, the self, the daughter and the husband of the artist, in one grouping. This project had similarities to the one documented in Tripp (2007), though it was a self-administered process, and didn’t use bilateral stimulation. It facilitated a transformation from unidentified and unresolved feelings, to feelings of liberation, normalcy and resolution. And We Talk to the Animals: The Gift of Pets and the Pain of Loss Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Gilbert, Richard, PhD, DMin, CT Benedictine University, Chicago, Elgin, IL, United States Let’s be honest. Most of us stand in line with Francis (the saint) and Doolittle (the doctor) and talk to the animals. In living and dying with five dogs, and living with our sixth dog, we talk to the animals. They listen. We listen. It is about unconditional love. Warmth. Affection. We will display pictures and stories of the six dogs. Anecdotes. The insights of pets. Their sense of presence. From this limited relationship (one-on-one) we will move into a discussion of Pet Therapy, and the program developed at Sherman Hospital. We will have “souvenirs” from the dogs, stories and testimonies, all posted for you to read. We also will provide an extensive bibliography on pets, pet therapy and pet loss. I’m so glad “It’s a dog’s life.” This game gives elementary age children a tool to help them talk about their wide range of feelings: sad, mad, scared and happy. Doggone Grief helps children to associate their grief with dogs who also display grief emotions. Kids laugh and maybe even cry as they see the various dog pictures and answer questions on the backs of the cards. Funny wild cards give kids a chance to take a break from all these emotions and move around the board. Presently, the game is only available in English; however, Spanish may be coming soon. Aultman is hoping that the Doggone Grief game will help thousands of grieving children around the world! Poster # 8 Testing a Model of Prolonged/ Complicated Grief Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Resources and Research IntroductoryIntermediate Wilkins, Michael, BS Poster # 6 36 Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Purdue University, Springville, UT, United States The purpose of the present study was to investigate a theoretical model of Prolonged Grief (PG) (i.e., complicated grief; a more severe form of grief) developed by Prigerson et al. (1997). The study focused on three predictors in the model: (a) attachment disturbances, (b) self-regulatory deficits, and (c) the stabilizing influence of the spouse. Prigerson et al. asserted that attachment disturbances (e.g., insecure attachment) and self-regulatory deficits (e.g., affect modulation) were correlated and concomitantly led to PG. Also, Prigerson et al. further asserted that the deceased spouse previously served as an emotionally stabilizing influence for the surviving spouse. The model developed by Prigerson et al. has not been directly tested using structural equation modeling (SEM). Therefore, portions of the model were tested using SEM. Over 300 participants completed a survey online. The survey included demographic variables (e.g., age, sex, SES) as well as questions that measured dimensions of attachment, level of neuroticism, affect regulation tendencies, the degree of emotional dependence on their spouse, and level of PG. Participants were recruited using several different methods such as flyers at retirement community or senior centers, an email to online bereavement support group members, postings on bereavement related discussion boards as well as on newsletters (e.g., ADEC e-zine) given the permission of the administrator of each support group or organization. The data is currently being analyzed and the results will be verbally discussed and visually displayed and outlined on the poster. A discussion of the results as well as directions for future research will be given. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Poster Session 1 – Thursday, April 16, 9:30 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. Poster # 9 Poster # 11 Exploring the Impact on Individuals Who Have Experienced Multiple Losses Through Death Over Time Cultural Diversity in Hospice Care: Utilization, Barriers, and Clinical Implications Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Life Span Intermediate Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: End-of-Life Decision-Making Cultural/Socialization Introductory Andrea R. Croom, BS Elmslie, Pamela, MA University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center, Clinical Psychology PhD Program University of Toronto, Caledon, Ontario, Canada Ever since its inception in the 1970s, institutionalized hospice care has been a growing form of medical service for the terminally ill in the United States. Unfortunately, these services continue to be underutilized by ethnic and religious minorities when compared to European Americans. This paper reviews the literature on the impact that cultural differences can have on end-of-life decision making and hospice utilization. Research has shown that many barriers exist for minority populations to utilize hospice services, for example: knowledge of hospice, family-oriented caregiving, language differences, and cultural mistrust. Literature on several distinct religious and ethnic groups was reviewed including: African Americans, Hispanic Americans, Asian Americans, Indians, Native Americans, Islam, Judaism, Buddhism, and Hinduism. Clinical implications will be discussed. This qualitative study explores the impact on individuals of having experienced multiple losses from death over the course of one’s adult lifetime. Exploring this within the context of a meaning-making framework of post-loss change and post-loss growth the study seeks to understand the meaning that is ascribed to the multiple loss experience. The doctoral dissertation research comprises a phenomenological exploration that uses in-depth, semi-structured, open-ended interviews with approximately 15 adult individuals. Current literature does not specifically address the post-bereavement changes, that is, the outcomes, for those who have lost a number of significant others at separate times throughout the course of their adult lifespan. The literature speaks to the possibility of growth following adversity but as of yet little is known about post-loss growth for those who have experienced more than two significant losses throughout their adult lifespan. Exploring how repeated losses through death affect people can serve to augment the current theories of post-loss change and help discover what is unique about experiencing more than one devastating loss. Preliminary findings will be presented. CANCELLED Poster # 10 Techniques for Helping Overwhelmed Bereaved Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Contemporary Perspectives Introductory Leaver, Wayne, PhD1; Mondell, Amber, MA2 Walden University, Ft. Myers, FL, United States; 2Hope Hospice & Community Services, Fort Myers, FL, United States 1 This presentation addresses understanding and helping bereaved who have become overwhelmed by events, circumstances and emotions. Identification and assessment of the components of being overwhelmed are necessary for appropriate intervention. Emphasis is placed on interventions that fit the nature of the experience of being overwhelmed as well as consideration of whom the client is in terms of coping and personality style. Simple and direct self help interventions receive special emphasis. The presentation is based on 18 years of bereavement work within a hospice context. www.adec.org Poster # 12 Lost in Translation: Developing Meaningful & Transformational Relationships With Grievers Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Professional Issues Introductory Konrad, Shelley, PhD, MSW University of New England, Portland, ME, United States Grief work begins by listening to stories people tell, being attentive to and bilingual in the languages of loss, and engaging in translational relationships that pave the way for people to find meaningfulness in situations that may be senseless, unfair, or simply very, very sad. Even when little can be done to change circumstances that have already occurred, much can be done to comfort, reconfigure hope, and reaffirm the humanity of the sufferer. This workshop examines a model for working with individuals grieving death and non-death losses that views stories of loss as courageous, understands listening as an interactive process, and appreciates that transformation can take place within the context of authentic relationship. Developed in collaboration with students enrolled in a course on grief, loss & death, strategies for teaching this model in schools, colleges and workplace settings will be examined. An underlying assumption of the model contends that knowledge reduces fear of speaking about death thereby nurturing appreciation for the complexity, intricacy, and diversity of human responses to loss. When caring professionals can name grief and engage in difficult conversations the burdens placed on grievers to protect others from their pain is reduced creating a springboard for reentering a changed world with renewed prospects for healing. CANCELLED 37 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Poster Session 1 – Thursday, April 16, 9:30 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. Poster #13 Poster # 15 Robin Bush: A Political Family’s Lasting Grief for a Child How to Communicate at Difficult Times Across the Cancer Continuum Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Religious/Spiritual Introductory Assessment and Intervention Professional Issues Intermediate Smith, Harold Ivan, DMin Hughes, Mary, MS, RN American Academy of Bereavement, Kansas City, 64131, United States University of Texas, Houston, TX, United States The death of four-year-old Pauline Robin Bush in 1954 rocked the assumptive worlds of a family in Midland, Texas, and, indirectly, contributed to the establishment of a political dynasty. Decades after her death, Robin remains an active component in her parents’ and her brother George’s religious and political narratives. Bad news has been described as any information that produces a negative alteration to a person’s expectations about their present and future. Practitioners are involved in giving and sharing bad news in a variety of healthcare settings and need strong communication skills to do this. Being able to deliver difficult news with compassion and empathy will be stressed as well as ways to manage the patient’s reactions. This lecture will focus on those difficult times across the cancer continuum and will give suggestions to help the practitioner meet the needs of the patients and the family members. Often the patient is overlooked as having difficult times communicating with not only family, but with practitioners. This lecture will describe those difficult times for the patient and how the practitioner can help the patient through those times. The death of a young child is a significant hurdle for a family to navigate— particularly a political family. In an era when “inquiring minds want to know”—demand to know--every facet of a candidate’s personal life, how does the candidate’s family disclose the lasting impact of a child’s untimely death and their decisions to live “beyond” that death? The intrusion is complicated by the media’s zest to sift through every crook and cranny of the family narrative and to submit assumed facts to a “talking head” or expert for interpretation and analysis. What place have the Bush families given Robin in their continuing narratives? How might their grief and remembrance decisions be adaptable to families grieving today for a child? Poster # 14 Meet Me on Saturn: Working With Non-Ordinary States Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Contemporary Perspectives Intermediate Joy, Barbara, MC, FT VistaCare, Scottsdale, AZ, United States Two major insights lay the foundation for this workshop: 1) Meaningful loss can trigger a person into non-ordinary states of consciousness and 2) As facilitators, we can do profound work with these states. Poster # 16 Joy Through Movement: Using Yoga and Tai Chi Chih to Work Through Grief Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Life Span Introductory Watkins, Becky, MPS, CT Christus St. Frances Cabrini Hospital, Alexandria, LA, United States Joy is our true nature and in order to reclaim that joy in emotionally stressful times, this presentation offers a look at the combination of talk therapy, intentional breath work, yoga postures and tai chi chih movements. The benefits of each will be outlined and will be of interest to helping professionals working with the grieving population and to grievers. Handouts will be available. First, as a result of a meaningful loss, grievers are literally pulled out of their ordinary, every day reality. They encounter a multitude of powerful emotions, as well as physical, behavioral, and spiritual changes. Most people are socialized to avoid consciously experiencing or expressing these intense feelings. Western culture emphasizes rationality and logic, putting great value on the everyday, states of mind. Grievers not only feel alien to their inner process, they actually feel like they have landed on an alien planet. When they give voice to these strange, “other world” experiences, the descriptions perfectly illustrate scholars’ depictions of non-ordinary states. Secondly, to facilitate these non-ordinary states, we have to leave behind our neatly organized, preconceived notions about grieving. All ancient and pre-industrial cultures held non-ordinary states of consciousness in high esteem. Today, through cutting edge science combined with this ancient wisdom, a new image of the psyche has emerged. Now we have to learn to be present in different ways so these states can reveal their true nature. This presentation will focus on grieving as a non-ordinary state of consciousness and how to meet our grieving clients on that alien planet, facilitating any emotionally charged material that reveals itself. 38 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Poster Session 1 – Thursday, April 16, 9:30 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. Poster # 17 Poster # 19 Perspectives on Recovery From Parental Suicide in Childhood: Insights and Preliminary Findings Adolescents and Technology: Coping With Loss in the Digital World Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Professional Issues Intermediate Loy, Martin, PhD1; Boelk, Amy, ABD, MSW1; Smith, Jennifer L., BS2; Irwin, Amy, BS3 University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point, Stevens Point, WI, United States; 2University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point, Wisconsin Rapids, WI, United States; 3University of Wisconsin-Madison, Nekoosa, WI, United States 1 This presentation will discuss insights gained and discuss preliminary findings of a study titled: “Autobiographical Perspectives on Recovery from Parental Suicide in Childhood.” The study presented asked participants to share stories and experiences dealing with the suicide of a parent in childhood. Participants were questioned about factors that helped or hindered their recovery, about the effectiveness of interventions on their recovery; and they were asked to give advice to others who may have experienced a similar loss. Interviews were conducted using a qualitative semi-structured format. The research team, which included graduate and undergraduate students, were trained to conduct audio taped interviews and to transcribe them word-for-word for analysis. Researchers also initiated the writing of autobiographical stories by re-writing each interview in a first-person story format and returning the story to participants for editing and accuracy. Initially the interview data were analyzed by looking for common themes from the responses to each question. This presentation will present themes which have emerged from the study that may have implications for work with children who have experienced the death of a family member by suicide. Poster #18 Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy Bereavement Support Group Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Contemporary Perspectives Introductory Whittington, Heather, BA Hood College, Frederick, MD, United States This workshop will detail Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy practitioner Heather Whittington’s observations of the effects of yoga, meditation and journaling on a group of bereaved persons enrolled in an 8-week long Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy Support Group. Components of the group include a 2.5 hour weekly practice/meeting, one all-day silent retreat, and development of a daily practice. The group modality was developed by Michael Lee, author of Turn Stress Into Bliss and Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy: A Bridge from Body to Soul, and is based on the principles of client-centered therapy and mindfulness practices. Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Contemporary Perspectives Introductory Sofka, Carla, PhD, MSW Siena College, Albany, NY, United States Technology is pervasive within teen culture. In light of the fact that individuals under the age of 30 have never known a world where the Internet did not exist in some form, parents whose children have experienced loss, as well as professionals providing services to bereaved adolescents, would be wise to recognize the roles that the Internet and other forms of technology may have in their process of coping with loss. In what ways are adolescents using this “thanatechnology” - the Internet and other resources in the digital world that are available to help them deal with death and grief? This presentation will describe the appeal of digital technology among teenagers, summarize the technology that is available for use by adolescents and how it may be used to cope with thanatology-related issues, identify the potential benefits and risks of these resources, and discuss implications for parents, clinicians, death educators, and researchers. Poster # 20 Mythology and the Grief Healing Process Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Barsano, Terry, MA Golden Willow Retreat, Arroyo Hondo, NM, United States In Greek Mythology, the journey of loss, grief and mourning were woven into stories that added mystery and meaning to the process. When we experience trauma and loss, we become disconnected from our soul. Searching for the meaning in the pain of loss and the means by which to heal has all but dissappeared in the busy, day to day world we live in. This dynamic has created the inability to reconnect with our soul, pathologizing the grieving process. This presentation will address from a mental health clinician’s perspective the disconnection from soul in the grief process and the professional’s role in the journey to the underworld and back. Two Greek myths will be used to demonstrate the healing power of myth; the Demeter-Persephone myth and the Orpheus-Eurydice myth which will then be integrated into information from more contemporary story telling as well as research on bereavement and grief. Ms. Whittington will include a review of available literature and books on mindfulness practices as they relate to grief and bereavement, as well as presenting her own conclusions on the efficacy of this practice in aiding the bereaved move through the tasks of grief for individuals and the group as a whole. www.adec.org 39 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Poster Session 1 – Thursday, April 16, 9:30 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. Poster # 21 Poster #22 Partnering for Children’s Grief Support: A Highmark Caring Place Initiative The Moral Experiences of Bereaved Fathers Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Larger Systems Intermediate Vorsheck, Terese, MA ; Miller, Jessica, MA ; Brucker, Nancy, MPH ; Thornton, Gordon, PhD2; Finton, Leslie, MSW3 1 2 1 Highmark Caring Place, Pittsburgh, PA, United States; Indiana University of Pennsylvania, Indiana, PA, United States; 3Tides, Inc., State College, PA, United States 1 2 The Highmark Caring Place, a center for grieving children, adolescents and their families, has been committed to providing children’s grief support services since 1997. The program provides family based peer support programs, community education and referral services in the Pennsylvania cities of Pittsburgh, Erie and Harrisburg. In an effort to support grieving children residing outside of the reach of the three Caring Place facilities, a new initiative was undertaken in 2006. Through the newly developed Community Services component, the Caring Place has reached out to communities beyond its service area to assist communities interested in building or strengthening services for grieving children. Through training, consultation and ongoing non-financial support, the Caring Place has partnered with eight community organizations to increase access to support services for grieving children. Two of these groups, Tides and Hopeful Hearts, along with the Caring Place will discuss partnering and issues involved in creating and maintaining a successful program. They will discuss how they have adapted the Caring Place model to meet the individual needs of their unique communities and how they have been able to utilize the support from the Caring Place staff. 40 Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Affleck, William, MA1; Cadell, Susan, PhD2; Macdonald, Mary Ellen, PhD3 Montréal Children’s Hospital, Montréal, Québec, Canada; 2Sir Wilfred Laurier University, Department of Social Work, Waterloo, AR, Canada; 3McGill University, Montréal, Québec, Canada 1 It has been recognized that Western bereavement programs, and the research on which they are based, rely primarily on models of female grief and fail to adequately take into account gender differences, especially men’s experiences of bereavement. As a result, in contemporary research, fathers’ grief has been studied primarily in comparison to mothers’ grief. This distortion has lead to the misleading perception, in some bereavement studies, that fathers’ experience of grief is less intense and debilitating than that of mothers’. This has been reported in studies of infant death , catastrophic accident death , and death from childhood cancer . The study to be discussed examines fathers’ experience of bereavement, using phenomenological and ethical analysis. The findings from a series of interviews conducted with 6 bereaved fathers will be presented. The emergent themes will be discussed, specifically: 1) Bereaved fathers’ experiences of social expectation and regulation; 2) bereaved fathers’ challenges with issues of morality (e.g., what it means to be a good father, a good spouse, a good mourner); 3) bereaved fathers’ experiences with bereavement support services. By focusing on the lived experience of bereavement fathers’, the common practice of comparing fathers’ grief to that of mothers’ will be avoided. This study is designed to show how the experience of bereaved fathers’ is gendered, and must be examined in relation to social and familial expectations, and internalized standards of proper behavior. This study will contribute to building both a theoretical and clinical evidence base for the field of bereavement studies and provide a substantial contribution to the interdisciplinary world of grief counseling. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session I – Thursday, April 16, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Concurrent Session I Thursday, April 16, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Invited Cumberland J Creating Meaningful Memorials: Six Elements of Effective Bereavement Rituals F Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Hoy, William G., DMIN, FT Crawford, TX, United States Death educators and counselors understand the role of rituals in healing bereavement, but we are often hard-pressed to explain exactly what it is that makes them so invaluable. Is an effective ritual simply an extended eulogy or “celebration of life” for a person who has died or is dying? Does a ritual need to be highly personalized in order to be effective or is it possible that this “do-it-your-way” approach undermines the effectiveness of the ritual? Are there common, near-universal elements to healing rituals that predict greater effectiveness? Drawing on his extensive research and practice into the use of rituals-in the closing moments of life (bedside rituals), in early grief (funerals and memorial services) and at significant occasions in the grief process (holiday and anniversary rituals)-Bill Hoy will offer clinicians and educators alike a framework for understanding why rituals work and how to creatively weave these elements into the rituals created by our clients and patients. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explain six key elements to increase ritual effectiveness 2. Describe creative options families utilize to create meaning in death-related rituals References: Castle, J. & W.L. Phillips. (2003). Grief rituals: Aspects that facilitate adjustment to bereavement. Journal of Loss and Trauma 8, 41-71. Grof, C. (1996). Rites of passage: A necessary step toward wholeness. In L. C. Mahdi, N. G. Christopher, & M. Meade. Crossroads: The quest for contemporary rites of passage (pp. 3-15). Chicago: Open Court Press. Hoy, W. G. (2008). Road to Emmaus: Pastoral care with the dying and bereaved. Dallas: Compass Press Kastenbaum, R. (2004). Why funerals? Generations, 28, 5-10. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland A All I Need to Know About Grief I Learned While I Was Born Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Beck Irland, Nancy, MS Providence St. Vincent Medical Center, Hillsboro, OR, United States This metaphor for grief has been described by grief researcher, Robert Neimeyer, as “intriguing and satisfying” (used by permission). It is a fresh and fascinating metaphor that uses the language of labor and birth to describe grief, beginning with descent, continuing through engagement, internal rotation, and restitution, finally culminating in birth-the end of isolation. This allows the listener to visualize the process of grief assimilation. It explains ongoing waves of grief as analogous to contractions, in that their recurrence is evidence of a natural, forward movement rather than a step backward, so they are not to be feared. Previous audiences have given this presentation consistently high marks, stating that they understand the experience of grief for the very first time, whether it is their own experience or that of a family member or friend. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe similarities between birth and grief 2. Draw the trajectory of grief as a mirror image to labor and birth 3. Compare grief theories with the cardinal movements of labor References: Irland, N. (2007). Using birth to understand grief. Nursing for Women’s Health, 11(5), p 524-522. Klass, D., Silverman, P., & Nickman, S. (Eds.). (1996). Continuing bonds; New understandings of grief. Washington, DC: Taylor and Francis. Meert, K. L., Thurston, C. S., & Briller, S. H. (2005). The Spiritual needs of parents at the time of their child’s death in the pediatric intensive care unit and during bereavement: A qualitative study. Pediatric Critical Care Medicine, 6(4), p 420-427. Neimeyer, R., Baldwin, S., & Gillies, J. (2006). Continuing bonds and reconstructing meaning: Mitigating complications in bereavement. Death Studies, 30, 715-738. Worden, J. W. (2001). Grief counseling and grief therapy: A handbook for the mental health professional (3rd Edition). New York: Springer Publishing Company, Inc. Special Tracks The 2009 ADEC program presents a diversity of concurrent sessions across the spectrum of our association’s Body of Knowledge. In addition, however, this year we have identified two learning tracks of special interest to some of our members. V F For members with an interest in victim advocacy issues, you will find concurrent sessions marked in the program with a “V.” Some of the issues addressed in these concurrent sessions are the interplay between trauma and grief, homicide survivors, suicide and the grief care of donor families after organ transplant. For attendees with an interest in funeral service, memorialization options, and the aftercare of families, we have indicated concurrent sessions in our funeral track with an “F.” Here you will find sessions addressing issues ranging from creative funeral options to the practical issues of transporting remains internationally. In addition, representatives of funeral homes involved in two mass tragedies - Hurricane Katrina and the Columbine shootings - present ideas about what they learned that will be useful to all ADEC conference attendees. www.adec.org 41 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session I – Thursday, April 16, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland B ”No Mother-of-The-Bride?”: Differences in Developmental Milestones for Parentally Bereaved Children Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Life Span Intermediate Rapke, Jennifer, MA Advocacy & Support Center, Shepherdsville, KY, United States Fortunately, since the time of Freud and Bowlby, much attention has been paid to the significance of the parent-child relationship and its impact on healthy development. In addition, as a field, researchers and clinicians alike have done excellent work to begin to gain a greater understanding of the impact of parental loss on children, especially in terms of their mourning experience, what others can do to assist them, and the factors that influence these processes. On the other hand, the research and literature often fails to recognize non-traditional developmental milestones that are greatly impacted by a parental absence, many of which could be considered of greater significance to the individual. Furthermore, many authors make efforts to describe the qualitative experience of going through this process, but have difficulty capturing the real, raw experience a bereaved child lives. This presenter will review current literature on the developmental process of parentally bereaved children, adolescents, and emerging adults, and will attempt to describe her personal experience of these events in order to provide the audience with further insight into the qualitative experience of a parentally bereaved individual. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Review typical developmental milestones and factors involved in the experience of parental death or separation 2. Reflect on personal loss experiences and the influence of those experiences on major life events 3. Discuss qualitative and quantitative differences in the experience of developmental milestones for parentally bereaved individuals References: Edelman, H. (1994). Motherless daughters: The legacy of loss. New York: Addison-Wesley. Edelman, H. (2006). Motherless mothers: How mother loss shapes the parent we become. New York: Harper Collins. Schultz, L.E. (2007). The influence of maternal loss on young women’s experience of identity development in emerging adulthood. Death Studies, 31, 17-43. Weaver, R. & Festa, D.K. (2003). Developmental effects on children suffering disruption from paternal loss in infancy. Illness, Crisis, & Loss, 11, 271-280. Worden, J.W. (2001). Children and grief: When a parent dies. New York: Guilford Press. 42 Scholarly Paper Cumberland C Poetic Elegy, Loss, and the Art of Grieving Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Contemporary Perspectives Intermediate Scarpino, Andrea, MFA1; Shipers, Carrie, MFA2 1 California State University, Dominguez Hills, Santa Monica, CA, United States; 2University of Lincoln-Nebraska, Lincoln, United States Elegy is a poetic form dating back to the Ancient Greeks that takes as its subject matter the ways we remember those who have died. As an art form, it is dependent on our cultural understandings of death and the grieving process, and has thus changed in content from the time of the Greeks, through Milton and Shelley’s famous elegies, into the last century’s elegies for soldiers (Wilson, Lowell), to those who died from AIDS (Monette, Doty), breast cancer (Hacker) and other contemporary diseases (Olds, Paley). Because art is often so beneficial for people who are grieving, understanding elegy, and being able to use it as part of the grieving process, is absolutely essential. Conversely, reading and evaluating contemporary elegies sheds light on our current cultural understanding of dying and grief. As our culture informs the ways in which poets write elegies, elegies also inform the ways in which their readers understand dying and grief, thus shaping our culture. A close and careful analysis of contemporary poetry of loss informs not just the grieving process, but also how Americans view death at this moment in our history. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss the history of elegy as a poetic form having to do with loss and grieving 2. Recognize the importance of art in the grieving process 3. Utilize concrete examples of elegy and poetry of loss and understand their overarching cultural and artistic importance References: Zeiger, Melissa F. (1997). Beyond consolation: Death, sexuality and the changing shapes of elegy. Ithaca: Cornell University Press. Schenck, C. M. (1986). Feminism and deconstruction: Re-constructing the elegy. Tulsa Studies in Women’s Literature 5, 13-27. Gilbert, Sandra M. (2006). Death’s door: Modern dying and the ways we grieve. New York: W.W. Norton and Company. Doty, Mark. (2008). Fire to fire: New and selected poems. New York: Harper. Euripides, C., A. (tr). (2006). Grief lessons: Four plays by Euripides. New York: New York Review Books. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session I – Thursday, April 16, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland E/F GriefWork Network: Providing Support and Education for Providers of Bereavement Services Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Professional Issues Introductory Personal Experience and Reflection V Landmark A Resiliency in the Aftermath of Homicide, Suicide, and Multiple Fatalities: A Client Centered Focus Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Family and Individual Introductory Borgman, C. Jan, MSW Caramela-Miller, Sandra, PhD Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center, Cincinnati, OH, United States Cuyahoga County Coroner’s Office, Cleveland, Ohio, Sagamore Hills, OH, United States Due to the ever-changing health care environment, most professionals who work in the field of bereavement are “one person departments.” Where does a bereavement professional find the support and encouragement needed to remain healthy in this emotionally charged profession? Developing a support system is crucial to your survival as a bereavement professional. In 1997, an informal conversation took place among several bereavement professionals from a local community who wanted to find a way to meet in order to share information and resources, provide opportunities for education and networking and to offer peer support. An outcome of that meeting was the establishment of the GriefWork Network, a group of bereavement professionals who meet monthly to share information and educational opportunites. Members includes bereavement specialists from local hospices, hospitals, funeral homes, schools, counseling agencies, community groups, churches and other interested individuals. This workshop will discuss the establishment of a GriefWork Network in your local community. Success stories as well the challenges of bringing colleagues together in a supportive environment will be shared. Recruitment, membership, educational opportunities, and how to keep the group together are just few of the topics that will be addressed. Membership in this type of peer group can be one way to take care of yourself and to mend your body, mind and spirit in order to survive and grow as a bereavement specialist in your local community. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify the need for support and education among providers of bereavement services 2. Relate the benefits of networking with area providers 3. Provide resources to establish a GriefWork network References: GriefWork: Guidelines for survival and growth (1996). University of Kentucky Cooperative Extension Service: Lexington, KY Miller, J.E., (1999). Living with grief At work, at school, at worship, 16, pp. 213-223. Hospice Foundation of America; Washington, D.C. Groves, R.,& Klouser, H. (2005). The American book of dying: Lessons in healing spiritual pain. Balk, D.,Wogrin, C., Thornton, G., & Meagher, D. (2007). Handbook of thanatology. www.adec.org Children, adolescent, adult, and older adult witnesses or surviving loved ones of homicide, suicide, and other sudden/traumatic deaths display resilient recovery patterns. These patterns will be discussed through a simple presentation of sample case progressions in a psychological, free counseling program at a Coroner’s Office serving to assist the recovery of these witnesses and surviving loved ones of unexpected death. With 8 years and nearly 11,000 counseling sessions, this program presents immeasurable community gains, serving to strengthen the coping mechanisms and partition the residue these deaths leave on the surviving loved ones. Trauma and loss counseling presents unique opportunities to potentially bolster an environment allowing these survivors to recrudesce, to resume an acceptable quality of life, and to attain improved psychological well-being. In the solved cases of homicide, survivors may have the unique and especially important opportunity to move toward the service of justice, although the investigative and adjudicative processes are often unfamiliar and may serve to “retraumatize” their progress. Paradoxically, those who make this journey proceed with increased resiliency. There are other surviving loved ones who will not proceed through the investigative and adjudicative processes toward a just end as there may not be an apprehended suspect or where there is a lack of significant evidence to withstand prosecution. When experiencing sudden, traumatic death, other previous deaths tend to resurface and counseling can assist as the survivors find better balance with those memories as they move toward peace with their current loss of homicide, suicide, or other sudden death. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize surviving loved one(s) paths and progressions toward peace 2. Discuss personal, occupational, educational, social, behavioral, and other issues raised in counseling 3. Acknowledge the similarities and differences in progress of the survivors across the lifespan and by manner of death References: Kastenbaum, R. (2006). Psychology of death. New York, NY: Springer Publishing, 318 pp. Steele, W. & Kuban, C. (2008). One minute trauma interventions. Grosse Pointe Woods, MI: TLC. Parkes, M. C. (2001). Bereavement: Studies of grief in adult life (3rd Edition). New York, NY: Routledge Publishing 271 pp. Lowenstein, L. (2006). Creative interventions for bereaved children. Canada: Hicknell Book Printing, 205 pp. 43 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session I – Thursday, April 16, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Practice Report Cumberland H Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland I Counseling Bereaved Families During the Identification Process Companioning Model* of End-of-Life Care on an Adult Bone Marrow Transplant Unit Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Professional Issues Introductory Dying Process Family and Individual Introductory Coleman, Mirean, MSW Lang, Betsy, MMus, BM, MSW National Association of Social Workers, Herndon, VA, United States Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, MA, United States Death can be a traumatic experience for any family member especially in situations such as sudden death. Compounding the traumatic experience is the additional stress of identifying the family member at the Medical Examiner’s office for sudden deaths due to situations such as violence, motor vehicle crashes, drownings, suicides, or suspicious circumstances. Medical Examiner’s offices should be prepared to care for the emotional needs of families who arrive to identify their loved ones. Preparation, training, and assignment of a family care provider are key factors discussed in this workshop for successfully working with families who identify a family member who has died. As the family enters the Medical Examiner’s office it is important for procedures and policies to already be in place to help the family to feel safe and comfortable with their experience at the office. This workshop discusses effective identification guidelines and supportive tools used to assist families. An established, model identification program is provided as an example. Bone Marrow Transplant has a mortality rate that varies as much as 45% to 75%, depending on the type of transplant**. This high and varying mortality rate necessitates frequent end of life discussions between the patient and medical staff. Transitioning the focus of treatment toward end of life care is counter intuitive to most healthcare professionals who feel ill equipped at handling the emotional and spiritual pain the patient experiences. The medical model views these distresses as pathological, maladaptive coping to be treated as a psychiatric issue. End of life existential dilemmas require specialized skill and sensitivity. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. List several grief reactions experienced by families who identify a family member 2. Identify appropriate resources for family members identifying a loved one 3. Utilize guidelines for the identification process of a loved one References: Lipton, H., & Coleman, M. (2000). Bereavement practice guidelines for health care professionals in the emergency department. International Journal of Emergency Mental Health, 2(1), 19-31. Seidel, J., & Knapp, J. (Eds.) 2000. Childhood emergencies in the office, hospital, and community. Elk Grove Village, IL: American Academy of Pediatrics. Wendt Center for Loss and Healing. (2008). Common grief reactions during the loss of a family member. Washington, DC: Wendt Center Press. Wendt Center for Loss and Healing. (2007). Recovery staff identification guidelines. Washington, DC: Wendt Center Press. This presentation will discuss the effectiveness of using a Companioning Model* of care with end of life patients facing emotional and spiritual distress on a BMT unit in a large teaching hospital. The Companioning Model* differs from traditional psychotherapy formulas and prescriptions. This model honors the patient’s need to experience emotional and spiritual suffering and the clinicans art of listening and being present (Companioning) to the struggles of the dying without assuming the burden of fixing them. The concept of reconciliation replaces the term recovery, which suggests that grief should be resolved at some point. Reconciliation suggests with healing distress may be redefined and integrated into a new reality. This clinician will focus on both 1) the challenges in implementing this model within a medical setting, and 2) the process and evaluation of “companioning” patients in the medical setting. *Companioning Model: Alan Wolfelt, Center for Loss and Life Transition **CIBMTR, 2007 Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Define Treatment vs. Companioning for spiritual, emotional and existential issus on a BMT unit. 2. Define 8 Tenets of Companioning; Define 6 Reconciling Needs of EOL 3. Discuss the process and challenges in implementing this model on the BMT unit in a large teaching hospital; Program Evlaution References: Wolfelt, Alan D., PhD. (2006). Companioning the bereaved: A soulful guide for caregivers. Companion Press, Fort Collins, CO. Adler, N.E. & Page, A.E, (Eds.), IOM, (2008). Cancer care for the whole patient. National Academies Press, Washington, D.C. Stanworth, R. (2004). Recognizing spiritual needs in people who are dying. Oxford University Press. Berzoff, J. and Silverman, Phyllis R. (2004). Living with dying: A handbook for end-of-life health care practitioners. Columbia University Press, NY. Walsh-Burke, K. (2006). Grief and loss: Theories and skills for helping professionals. Pearson Education, Inc. Katz, R.S. and Johnson, T.A. (2006). When professionals weep: Emotional and countertransference responses in end-of-life care. Routledge, NY. Yoder, Greg (2005). Companioning the dying: A soulful guide for caregivers. Companion Press, Ft. Collins, CO. 44 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session I – Thursday, April 16, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Concurrent Session II – Thursday, April 16, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland L The Spiritual Ramifications of Grief Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Religious/Spiritual Introductory Concurrent Session II Thursday, April 16, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Invited F Thompson, Debra, MTP Kennedy Donovan Center, Cumberland, RI, United States Profound loss can catapult the bereaved into a dimension of life not previously, consciously known. The grief literature unjustly gives scant attention to extraordinary experiences that many bereaved experience. Deep grief appears to shove the ego aside opening the bereaved to experience phenomena such as sudden “knowing” and a deeper level of understanding of life, feelings of euphoria and/or bliss amidst devastation, heightened senses, communication from beyond oneself, synchronicity, etc. These experiences often force the bereaved to seriously question their own sanity. However, the ramifications, or outgrowth, of these experiences may lead to a deeper level of consciousness resulting in increased self responsibility, deeper understanding of choice/free will, new or deepened spiritual or religious belief system, meaning and purpose of life and death, compassion and above all a greater understanding of love. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify extraordinary experiences and the importance of these experiences to the healing process 2. Implement therapeutic interventions that assist the bereaved integrate extraordinary experiences while simultaneously integrating the loss 3. Reflect on his/her own loss experiences and acknowledge personal outgrowth from loss References: Atwater, P.M.H. (1994). Beyond the light: What isn’t being said about near-death experience. New York, N.Y.: Carol Publishing Group. Bolen, J.S. (1982). The tao of psychology: Synchronicity and the self. New York, N.Y.: HarperCollins Publishers. Bowlby, J. (1980). Attachment and loss: Loss, sadness and depression: Volume III. New York, N.Y.: Basic Books. Cozolino, L. (2006). The neuroscience of human relationships: Attachment and the developing social brain. New York, N.Y.: W.W. Norton & Company, Ltd. Jung, C. (1973). Synchronicity: An acausal connecting priniciple. New Jersey: Princeton University Press. Kubler-Ross, E. (1991). On life after death. Berkley, CA.: Celestial Arts. Kubler-Ross, E. (1999). The tunnel and the light: Essential insights on living and dying. New York, N.Y.: Marlowe & Company. Neimeyer, R. (Ed.) (2005). Meaning reconstruction and the experience of loss. Washington, D.C.: American Psychological Association. Radin, D. (2006). Entangled minds: Extrasensory experiences in a quantum reality. New York, N.Y.: Paraview. Cumberland G Does Embalming Heal? Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Cultural/Socialization Introductory Jacqueline, Taylor, MBA, FT New England Institute at Mount Ida College The importance of viewing the dead is well established in bereavement literature. Various scholars have written about the benefits to survivors of this difficult but necessary step. But less clear is the efficacy of embalming as an intervention for helping people adjust following a death. Funeral service practitioners contend that embalming is the best way to prepare a body for viewing. Critics counter that it is unnecessary, if not undesirable. While the majority of North Americans choose embalming when making funeral arrangements; increasingly, people are opting out. In short, there is considerable misunderstanding and confusion about embalming and its role in the provision of care. This presentation will afford participants a rare opportunity to examine this mysterious subject and to contemplate whether or not embalming plays a positive role in healing. It will include a candid description of exactly what embalming is - and what it is not. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Give a lay person’s explanation of the embalming process 2. Discuss potential benefits of embalming for survivors 3. Discuss critiques of embalming References: DeSpelder, L. A. (2004). The last dance: Encountering death and dying (7th ed.). Mountain View, CA: Mayfield Publishing Company. Hyland, L. & Morse, J. M. (1995). Orchestrating comfort: The role of funeral directors. Death Studies, 19, 453-474. Kubasak, M. & Lamers, W. M. (2007). Traversing the minefield: Reducing risk in funeral-cremation service. Malibu, CA: LMG Publishing. Laderman, G. (2003). Rest in peace: A cultural history of death and the funeral home in twentieth-century America. Oxford, NY. Oxford University Press. Mayer, R. (2006). Embalming: History, theory, and practice (4th ed.). New York: McGraw-Hill. Takeuchi-Cullen, L. (2006). Remember me. New York: HarperCollins. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland A Eastern Body-Mind-Spirit Model for Accomplishment of William Worden’s Four “Tasks of Mourning” Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Professional Issues Intermediate Woo, Ivan, BSocSci (Social Work), MPhil1; Chan, Cecilia, BSocSci MSocSci, PhD2 Duke-NUS Graduate Medical School Singapore, Singapore; 2The University of Hong Kong, Hong Kong, China 1 The Eastern Body-Mind-Spirit Model was developed by Professor Cecilia Chan based on the valuable lessons that she has learnt from individuals who have encountered challenges in the areas of health and mental health. The model seeks to provide one with a holistic view of www.adec.org 45 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session II – Thursday, April 16, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. the body, mind and spirit, three dimensions in a person often perceived as discrete entities by individuals who subscribe to Western medicine. Since its birth in Hong Kong in 2001, the Eastern Body-Mind-Spirit Model has come of age with an increasing number of scholars and healthcare professionals giving due recognition to its positive impact on the well-being of individuals and communities. In this paper, the authors would present their reflection on the role of the Eastern Body-Mind-Spirit Model in helping Chinese widowers accomplish William Worden’s four “tasks of mourning” after conjugal loss. The reflection would be informed by findings from research on the bereavement experience of Chinese widowers and the authors’ experience in adopting the model in their clinical practice. In presenting their reflection, the authors believe that the activities-oriented approach in the Eastern Body-MindSpirit Model has a goodness-of-fit with the tasks concept in William Worden’s four “tasks of mourning”, a concept that implies a need for the mourner to take action and do something to manage their grief. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. List a number of Eastern Body-Mind-Spirit intervention strategies that have been adopted with Chinese bereaved individuals 2. Describe how the Eastern Body-Mind-Spirit approach fits with the strategies for adjustment adopted by Chinese widowers after conjugal loss 3. Explain how the Eastern Body-Mind-Spirit approach can help Chinese widowers accomplish William Worden’s four “tasks of mourning” References: Chan, C. L. W. (2001). An Eastern body-mind-spirit approach: A training manual with one-second techniques. Hong Kong: Department of Social Work and Social Administration, The University of Hong Kong. Chan, C. L. W., Chan, T. H. Y., & Ng, S. M. (2006). The strength-focused and meaning-oriented approach to resilience and transformation (SMART): A body-mind-spirit approach to trauma management. Social Work in Health Care, 43(2/3), 9-36. Chan, C. L. W., Ho, P. S. Y., & Chow, E. (2001). A body-mind-spirit model in health: An Eastern approach. Social Work in Health Care, 34(3/4), 261-282. Worden, J. W. (2003). Grief counseling and grief therapy: A handbook for the mental health practitioner (3rd ed.). Hove, East Sussex: Brunner-Routledge. Woo, I. M. H., Chan, C. L. W., Chow, A. Y. M., & Ho, R. T. H. (2007). Chinese widowers’ self-perception of growth: An exploratory study. Journal of Social Work in End-of-Life and Palliative Care, 3(4), 47-67. Personal Experience and Reflection Landmark A Research and the Baby Boomers Life Experience Demand Changes in Grief Support — How Do We Do That? Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Chappelear, Ginny, MEd, FT TideWell Hospice and Palliative Care, Sarasota, FL, United States The content of this presentation is based on three factors that lead us to new understanding of grief and changes that can be made in grief support to better meet the needs of today’s griever. 1. Research in Thanatology has given grief specialists incentive to see grief from an adjusted perspective and to develop support sensitive to these findings. 46 2. Baby boomers, primarily those born in the second half of the 20th century, have been exposed to “in your face” death and violence for most of their lives. Exposure to all this death of the body demanded an emotional and cognitive shift from their parents understanding of “what is gone’ and how to live through a loss. Spirituality has become an essential change in the grief journey from the generations coming of age in the 1960’s and forward. 3. Most of today’s population in the American culture expects Specialists to address their needs, also connected with the Baby Boomer experience. With the death of a loved one, they look for support and education to be delivered very specifically for the type of death event they are grieving. This presentation will explore these three factors and conclude with practical application and concrete suggestions using this knowledge in serving bereaved persons. Video’s of grievers will offer their history, experience, and needs regarding death events during their lives. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify three results of research that suggest changes in our understanding of the grief process 2. Discuss the effect of the baby boomer experience on today’s mourners including spirituality as a focus 3. List five alternative ways to meet the needs and expectation of many of today’s mourners References: Balk, D., Editor-in-chief.(2007). Handbook of thanatology. Association of Death Education and Counseling, Northbrook,IL. Calhoun &Tedeschi. (2006). Handbook of posttraumatic growth. Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, Inc., New Jersey. Boomers, Religion and the Meaning of Life 2006. Newsweek, November p 2. Wolfelt, A. (2006). Companioning the bereaved. Companion Press Colorado. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland C Pastoral Care in Bereavement and Loss: A Guide for Helping Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Religious/Spiritual Introductory Hevelone, Jon Dale, DMin Arlington, MA, United States Good pastoral care, whether offered by clergy or laypeople, has the potential to impact the bereavement journey in a positive way. Pastors are often involved in a multitude of parish tasks, and have little formal training in grief and bereavement. With proper teaching, they are able to increase their effectiveness significantly through competent interventions and the wise use of laypeople. This presentation will provide a pastoral and spiritual perspective that will hopefully utilize and enhance the caregiver’s existent skills and understanding. This is vital because clergy and the church are front line sources of support to those in life crises. The church has the potential to be not only the most available bereavement care delivery system that currently exists in virtually every community, but also one of the more effective. At time of bereavement many, even the previously unchurched, look to the church for strength and hope. A belief system that is conversant with traditional religious understandings of life and death issues, as well as open to the spiritual meaning making that occurs in a world www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session II – Thursday, April 16, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. altered by death, has profound value. Good pastoral care operating within the context of a supportive and caring community can deliver this. Unfortunately, many clergy and churches are only minimally prepared to meet the needs of the bereaved, and this, too has lasting impact. While the presenter draws from years of pastoral experience gained in mainline churches, the principles are highly transferable into other spiritual traditions. Pastoral insights, strategies for action, funeral planning suggestions, and the teachings of the faith tradition are all offered to promote the caregiver’s skills and growth. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize the value of good pastoral care, whether provided by clergy and laypeople 2. Visualize and appropriate pastoral awareness and caring skills in bereavement 3. Identify the spiritual and religious resources pertinent to grief and loss located within the context of the local congregation References: McCall, J.B. (2004). Bereavement counseling: Pastoral care for complicated grieving. The Haworth Pastoral Press. Oates, W.E. (1997). Grief, transition and loss: A pastor’s practical guide. Augsburg Fortress Publishers. VanDuivendyk, T. (2006). The unwanted gift of grief: A ministry approach. Routledge. Worden, J.W. (2008). Grief counseling and grief therapy: A handbook for the mental health practitioner. Springer. Research Report Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland E/F How Will I Die? Understanding The Process and the Mystery Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Professional Issues Intermediate Bahti, Tani, RN, CT, CHPN Passages - Education & Support in End of Life Issues, Tucson, AZ, United States Fears, myths and misconceptions abound regarding the dying process, the consequences of which can too often lead to devastating consequences and complicated grief. Dying is a natural part of the life cycle and should be talked about and prepared for with the same respectful attention, knowledge and caring as other significant rites of passage. However, healthcare professionals still receive little to no training in managing this important conversation. With a demonstration of compassionate and simple detail, this session will help the professional de-mystify the dying process and offer guidance in responding to the question, “How will I die?” Physical changes and their cause, psychosocial issues and the mysteries of dying will be examined in addition to pointers for managing comfort during this important time. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe the physiological changes associated with dying and their causes 2. Discuss the losses and their impact on both the dying patient and family 3. Explore the meaning of the mysteries of dying for family and the professional and their impact on the dying experience www.adec.org References: Quill, T. (1996). A midwife through the dying process. Johns Hopkins University Press. Stajduhar, K., Martin, L., Barwich, D., Fyles, G., (2008). Factors influencing family caregiver’s ability to cope with providing end-oflife cancer care at home. Cancer Nursing 31(1) 77-85. Lippincott, Williams & Wilkins. End of life care in the setting of cancer: Withdrawing nutrition and hydration, Clinical Review, Medscape. (This text has been excerpted and adapted from: Emanuel LL, Ferris FD, von Gunten CF, Von Roenn J, editors. EPECTM-O: Education in Palliative and End-of-life Care for Oncology (Module 11: Withdrawing Nutrition, Hydration Copyright The EPECTM Project, Chicago, Ill, 2005)) Hales, S, Zimmerman, C., Rodin, G. (2008). The quality of dying and death. Archives of Internal Medicine,168(9):912-918. Research Report Cumberland H A Natural Resource: Religious Coping in Bereaved Adolescents Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Religious/Spiritual Intermediate Wright, J. Brooke, MA Wheaton College IL; Children’s Memorial Hospital, Wheaton, IL, United States Research tells us that adults are better able to adjust to difficulties in life when they use religious coping. What about kids, specifically bereaved kids? Practitioners and researchers both know that kids are searching for meaning following the death of a loved one. Are they using religious coping in this search for meaning? If so, is it uniquely contributing, apart from other styles of coping, to their cognitive, emotional, and behavioral adjustment? This presentation is based on the results of a quantitative study that addresses these questions by using both self and parent reports of coping styles and adjustment in bereaved adolescents. The presentation addresses an unexplored area of childhood bereavement and coping literature and proposes suggestions these results may have for clinical practice. This presentation will initially summarize the professional literature on religious coping in children and the literature on general coping in bereaved children. Then the population, methodology, measures, and results of the current study will be described, followed by a discussion of directions for future research and implications for the fields of death education and counseling. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe current understandings of religious coping in children 2. Present findings concerning religious coping in adolescent bereavement 3. Explore implications of the significance of religious coping for interventions/clinical practice with grieving adolescents References: Pargament, K. I. (2000). The many methods of religious coping: Development and initial validation of the RCOPE. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 56, 4, 519-543. Compas, B. E., Connor-Smith, J. K., Saltzman, H., Harding Thomsen, A., & Wadsworth, M. E. (2001). Coping with stress during childhood and adolescence: Problems, progress, and potential in theory and research. Psychological Bulletin, 127, 1, 87-127. 47 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session II – Thursday, April 16, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Worden, J.W. (1996). Children and grief: When a parent dies. New York: Guilford Press. Mahoney, A., Pendleton, S., Ihrke, H. (2006). Religious coping by children and adolescents: Unexplored territory in the realm of spiritual development. In: Roehlkepartain, E. C., King, P. E., Wagener, L., Benson, P. L. The handbook of spiritual development in childhood and adolescence. Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage Publications, Inc. Personal Experience and Reflection Personal Experience and Reflection Stevenson, Robert, EdD1; Cabrera, Fernando, PhD2 Cumberland I Bangladesh Project: Grief Born of Injustice; and Tools of Faith, Hope, and Joy Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Nicholson, Joyce, MS, LMHC The Hospice of the Florida Suncoast, Saint Petersburg, FL, United States This presentation will demonstrate how connecting with orphaned children in a Bangladesh community, using the traditional tools of teaching English as a Second Language, and exploring their native symbolic forms of expressing powerful feelings provided a window of opportunity of hope for the future. Orphan children grieve! Was a choice given to be born in a Third World Country shifted by the extremes of elements, to a parent who died, or ones who could not provided for an offspring. The internalized emotions and nonverbal commands of those left behind can lie dormant, or be nurtured addressed, and benefit the individual and his world. Folk Art, drama, music & singing, native crafts & costumes, and local customs vividly play and important part of describing this journey into a culture of contrasts and continued resiliency with eyes on the future. The presenter will share some very personal and touching first hand experiences. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify creative strategies for engaging existential activities and interactions relating to loss, and living 2. Cite maturational/developmental issues to address factors that can be reconstructed to enhance resiliency 3. Recognize and use the importance of inclusion and acceptance as an individual right and therapeutic strategy References: Brown, C.D. (2001). Therapeutic play and creative arts: Helping children cope with illness, death, and grief. In A. Armstrong-Dailey & S. Zarboch (Eds.), Hospice care for children (2nd ed.). New York, NY: Oxford University Press. Groberg, E. (1995). A guide to promoting resilience in children: Strengthening the human spirit. Netherlands: Bernard Van Leer Foundation. Doka, K. & Gordon, J.D. (2000). Living with grief: Children, adolescents, and loss. Hospice Foundation of America. McAdams, M. (2004). Lonely planet. Bangladesh. Borysenko, J. & Borysenko, M. (1994). The power of the mind to heal. Hay House, Inc. 48 Cumberland J Sudden Death, Grief and Counselors in the Hispanic Community Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Mercy College, Township of Washington, NJ, United States; 2Mercy College, Dobbs Ferry, NY, United States 1 This presentation is aimed at counselors working with clients after a sudden death. The presenters will focus on knowledge needed by these counselors and will offer specific suggestions for work with Hispanic clients. Some of the points covered will be a need for counselors to: 1. Understand when survivors seek to maintain their bond with the deceased and the ways in which survivors seek to maintain those connections 2. Expect to earn respect with Hispanics 3. Help survivors to express grief through rituals 4. Create a sympathetic and culturally sensitive environment for grieving families Case studies, based on the presenters’ work, will be used to illustrate these points. The Hispanic concept of “ataque de nervios” and dealing with negative perceptions of mental health services among Hispanics will also be explored. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. List some aspects of the grief experienced by Hispanic families after a sudden death 2. Identify specific ways in which a counselor can help Hispanic clients with their grief 3. Define the concepts of Familismo, Respeto, and Simpatico as they apply to working with Hispanic clients References: Stevenson, R. & Cox, G. (2008). Perspectives on violence and violent death. New York: Baywood Publishing. Cabrera, F., Richards, B., & Stevenson, R. (2006). Katrina’s aftermath: The role of the rapid mobilization action plan illness. Crisis and Loss, 14, 4, 373-386. Stevenson, R. (2009). Children and death around the world, In death and bereavement around the world, Volume 5. Amityville, NY: Baywood Press. (in Press) Cox, G, Bendiksen, R. & Stevenson R. (2003). Making sense of death: Spiritual, pastoral and personal aspects of death, dying and bereavement. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session II – Thursday, April 16, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Research Report V Cumberland L When Safety Nets Fail: Social Support in Homicide Bereavement Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Resources and Research Intermediate Burke, Laurie A., BA1; Van Dyke, Jessica G., BA1; Neimeyer, Robert A., PhD1; McDevitt-Murphy, Meghan, PhD1; Lawson, Katherine E., EdD2 University of Memphis, Memphis, TN, United States; Victims to Victory, Inc., Memphis, TN, United States 1 2 Death of a loved one by homicide challenges not only the psychological adaptation of survivors, but also their ongoing relationships to others in their social world. In particular, the traumatic loss of a family member to murder can both intensify the need for social support at a time of crisis and complicate the satisfaction of this basic need, as survivors encounter potential stigmatization, revictimization, and destructive interactions along with positive efforts at support on the part of a caring community. Research indicates that social processes such as one’s perception of support, the size and structure of the support network, the presence or absence of an intimate confidant, and negative or unhelpful social responses all influence bereavement outcomes. Explored less extensively is the bereaved person’s expressed need for support and how satisfied the griever is with his or her would-be supporters. Drawing on data collected from a sample of 40 predominantly low-income, African-American homicide survivors, we explored the relationship between the size, structure and responsiveness of survivors’ social support networks and the availability of an intimate confidant on the one hand and outcomes such as depression, PTSD and complicated grief on the other. Results of both quantitative assessments and in-depth qualitative interviews clarify the factors that do and do not relate to adaptation to traumatic loss, and raise troubling concerns about the role of social intrusion in aggravating the devastation faced by homicide survivors. Implications of these findings for clinical and community intervention are noted. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify dimensions of social support that act as predictors of complicated grief 2. Describe how social support network size and structure affect bereavement outcome 3. Distinguish the difference between positive and negative social support and its specific role in the establishment and perpetuation of complicated grief References: Thoits, P. A., (1995). Stress, coping, and social support processes: Where are we? What next? Journal of Health and Social Behavior, (Extra issue). 53-79. Cohen, S., & Wills, T.A. (1985). Stress, social support, and the buffering hypothesis. Psychological Bulletin, 98(2). 310-357. Wilsey, S. & Shear, K. (2007). Description of social support in treatment narratives of complicated grievers. Death Studies, 31, 801819. Dyregrov, K. (2006). Experiences of SS Networks supporting traumatically bereaved. Omega: Journal of Death and Dying, 52(4), 339-358. www.adec.org Practice Report Cumberland K The Fall and Rise of a Palliative Care Consultation Team Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Professional Issues Intermediate Moore, Clint, III, MDiv, MA, FT Advocate Lutheran General Hospital, Des Plaines, IL, United States ”Palliative care may be delivered in concert with curative or life-prolonging medical care and is not prognosis dependent. These features distinguish it from hospice care.” “Palliative care focuses on symptom management, communication, and other means to improve quality of life for patients and their families.” (Bridget M. Kuehn “Hospitals Embrace Palliative Care” JAMA 2007;298:1263-1265.) The provision of palliative care has become a significant area of focus for many hospitals and health care providers. In the rush to establish palliative care consultation teams, many different forms of teams have taken shape (e.g., nurse-led teams, APN-led teams, physician-led teams to name a few). While some of these teams have been successful, many have failed due to the lack of an understanding of exactly what is needed for an effective team to be initiated and sustained. This presentation will discuss the formation of such a palliative care team focused on provided consultation services in a large community hospital. The initiation of this team was supported by a great deal of energy and focus. However, a number of essentials were ignored and this led to the eventual dissolution of the team. A year later, following a great deal of homework and consultation with successful teams in other hospitals, the team was resurrected with a different focus, different team members, and a different support structure. This has led to the ongoing success of this team which holds promise for the ongoing provision of palliative care. The presenter will focus on what led to the “fall” of one team and the “rise” of the new team with a practical assessment of what is needed to begin and sustain a successful palliative care team. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Define palliative care in terms of the patient population served and distinguish it from hospice care 2. Analyze the initiation of a palliative care team especially in terms of what issues were ignored and led to the teams “fall” 3. Evaluated how to best consider what is needed to initiate and sustain a palliative care consultation service References: Kuehn, B.M. (2007). Hospitals embrace palliative care. Journal of the American Medical Association, (298):1263-1265. Meier. D.E. & Beresford, L. (2008). The palliative care team. Journal of Palliative Medicine. 11(5):677-81. Gade, G., Venohr, I., Conner, D., McGrady, K., Beane, J., Richardson, R.H., Williams, M.P., Liberson, M., Blum. M., Della Penna, R.(2008). Impact of an inpatient palliative care team: A randomized control trial. Journal of Palliative Medicine11(2):180-90. Weissman, D.E., Ambuel, B., von Gunten, C.F., Block, S., Warm, E., Hallenbeck, J., Milch, R., Brasel, K., Mullan, P.B. (2007). Outcomes from a national multispecialty palliative care curriculum development project. Journal of Palliative Medicine10(2):408-19. 49 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session III – Thursday, April 16, 1:45 p.m. – 2:45 p.m. Concurrent Session III Thursday, April 16, 1:45 p.m. – 2:45 p.m. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland H As I tried to make sense of Gina’s death, and of a life lived without her, I kept writing, working in my garden, searching for meaning, spiraling inward and out again. Mostly, I surrendered. I knew I had to dive down deep. I knew I had to feel whatever I was feeling with utter abandon. I knew I had to stay fully present, in mind, body, and spirit, to the agony and the joy - and how amazing to feel joy. Fostering Multiple Losses in the Child Welfare System Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Larger Systems Introductory Troup, Erin, MSCP1; Rapke, Jennifer, MA, LPA,2 The Alliance for Infants and Toddlers, Pittsburgh, PA, United States; 2Advocacy and Support Center, Elizabethtown, KY, United States 1 It is estimated that over 3 million children in the United States are involved in the child welfare system. Many of these children being served in foster homes or residential housing facilities away from their birth parents or significant family members. Sometimes these Children become “difficult” to manage and they are placed multiple times or moved onto more specialized facilities. This presentation will cover the multiple losses in the foster care/ placement system and its impact among children from birth to adolescence. Participants will be able to identify where the losses occur, including the obvious and not so obvious, as well as how the losses present as behavior in various ages. Participants will also know how they can make a difference in practice to try to help these individuals and those in the child welfare system understand how multiple losses and moves can impact development, behavior and attachments. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize behaviors associated with multiple placements 2. Discuss needs in the Child welfare system to address grief 3. Utilize child/ adolescent development as an indicator of reactions to grief/ multiple losses References: Goldman, L., (2000). Life & loss, A guide to help grieving children (2nd Ed.) Philadelphia, PA: Taylor & Francis. Keck, G., & Kupecky, R. (1995). Adopting the hurt child. Hope for families with special-needs kids. Colorado Springs, CO: Pinoneer press. Oppenheim, D. & Goldsmith, D. F. (2007). Attachment theory in clinical work with children. New York, NY: The Guilford Press. Rothschild, B. (2000). The body remembers, The psychophysiology of trauma and trauma treatment. New York, NY: W.W. Norton and Company. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland I The Palm Still Waves: A Mother/Daughter Reunion Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Boies, Patricia, JD, CT Capital Hospice, Gaithersburg, MD, United States With no warning, after a lifetime of perfect health, my daughter Gina collapsed in the hallway outside her fourth grade classroom, from a massive cerebral hemorrhage. She survived the three-hour surgery to stop the headbleed only to remain in the deepest coma, with no responsiveness and no possibility of recovery. After three weeks, my husband and I let her go, three days after her tenth birthday. She was our only child. 50 There is no word in English for what I became. If your husband dies, you are a widow. If your wife dies, you are a widower. If your parents die, you are an orphan. But what was I now, a mother without my only child? My daughter’s death broke my heart wide open. With her as my muse, poetry poured out of me. I chronicled the first nine months after her death, in all their grief and glory. Now, nine years later, much of what came to me then stays true. Except now, I have had more practice living without the person I most love. It is continued practice, the art of return, that sustains me now. This presentation describes my creative and spiritual response to death, and explores my evolving relationship with my daughter. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize how the process of creative expression, including nontraditional forms, can help deal with grief and loss 2. Identify factors that complicate grief for parents whose only child has died, changing their relationship 3. Understand the value of surrender in allowing one to emerge renewed in mind, body, and spirit References: Judith, A. (2004). Eastern body, Western mind. Berkeley, California: Ten Speed Press. Goldman, C. & Mahler, R. (2000). Tending the earth, mending the spirit: The healing gifts of gardening. Center City, Minnesota: Hazelden. Hillman, J. (1996). The soul’s code: In search of character and calling. New York: Warner Books. Rinpoche, S. (1994). The Tibetan book of living and dying. New York: Harper Collins. Bourgeault, C. (2001). Mystical hope: Trusting in the mercy of God. Boston: Cowley Publications. Bentley, G. E. (Ed.) (2005). William Blake: Selected poems. New York: Penguin Books. Corr, C.A., Nabe, C. M., & Corr, D. M. (2006). Death and dying, life and living (5th ed.). Belmont, California: Thomson Wadsworth. Practice Report Cumberland C Cyber-Savvy Grief Interventions in a Youth’s World of Social Networking Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Edwards, Cheryl, MS1; Edwards, Daxon, MS, MSci2 1 Preferred Counseling, PA, Fort Smith, AR, United States; 2Thomas Nelson, Inc., Nashville, TN, United States As Internet and computer technologies evolve, the counseling profession must continue to reflexively evaluate the role and scope of online grief counseling. Reaching out to youth in their social networking areas using research evidence and practical experience can offer surprising therapeutic benefits to grieving youth. Cyber networking invites youth a freedom to emote, express, and share with the world their feelings as evidenced by their own use of technology grieving expressions. Connecting therapy to social networking of the youth of today can be www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session III – Thursday, April 16, 1:45 p.m. – 2:45 p.m. done through therapeutic interventions and broaden your therapeutic practice. Innovative steps will help you begin your scope of online counseling services. The advent of online counseling services serve as a creative and innovative therapeutic medium. The presenters will explore the voice of today’s youth as a key to successful effective grief therapy through video vignettes/case illustrations of group and individual therapy. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe social networking of today’s grieving youth 2. Explore how counselors can use this information as an intervention for grief counseling 3. Identify the advantages and disadvantages of using technologyassisted counseling to reach bereaved you References: Centore, A., J., The psychotherapist’s guide to eCounseling: Exploring telephone and online clinical practice. Elleven, R.K. & Allen, J. (2003). Applying technology to online counseling: Suggestions for the beginning e-therapist. Journal of Instructional Psychology, 31, 223-227. Leibert, T., Archer Jr., J., Munson, J., York, G. (2006). An exploratory study of client perceptions of Internet counseling and the therapeutic alliance. Journal of Mental Health Counseling, 28, 69-83. Kelsey, C. M. (2007). Generation MySpace; Helping your teen survive online adolescence. Morlowe & Company. Practice Report F Cumberland G Funeral Home Aftercare: Helping Clients Live Beyond Loss Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Larger Systems Introductory Johnson, Catherine, MA, FT Weeks’ Funeral Homes, Enumclaw, WA, United States Many funeral homes provide on-going support beyond the funeral for their clients. Some aftercare programs are informal, while others are more structured and comprehensive. This presentation will describe the various levels of aftercare, as well as things to consider before starting a new program. The presenter, who has facilitated aftercare programs in three funeral homes for the last seventeen years, will share details of the programs that can be modified to suit the needs of those wanting to start a program. Those who attend this session will receive specific how-to’s in starting a program, thought-provoking ethical issues to consider, and practical ideas to apply. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify four levels of funeral home aftercare 2. Describe the steps in establishing an aftercare program 3. Discuss ethical issues inherent in funeral home aftercare programs References: Canine, J. (2006). Understanding grief through bereavement aftercare. American Funeral Director, May, 63-68. Mastrogianis, L. & Lumley, M.A. (2002). Aftercare services from funeral directors to bereaved men: Surveys of both providers and recipients. Omega, 45, 167-185. Sandler, I.N., Wolchil, S.A., Ayers, T.S. (2008). Resilience rather than recovery: A contextual framework on adaptation following bereavement. Death Studies, 32 (1), 59-73. www.adec.org Stylianos, S.K. & Vachon, M.S.(2003). The role of social support in bereavement. In M.S.Stroebe & W. Stroebe (Eds.) Handbook of bereavement: Theory, research, and intervention. Cambridge, United Kingdom: Cambridge University Press. Weeks, O.D. & Johnson, C. (2001). When all the friends have gone: A guide for aftercare providers. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing Company. Research Report Cumberland A Pricey or Priceless?: Hospital Care of The Dying Patient Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Larger Systems Advanced Chapple, Helen, PhD, RN, MA Creighton University, Omaha, NE, United States How does the US hospital ascribe value to the dying patient? Could reimbursement patterns far from the bedside be influencing the care that dying patients receive in these settings? Intangible values of altruism and fidelity motivate a wide range of health care services and relationships. Just how these intangible values translate into numbers that drive 17% of the US GNP is not well understood. Even less apparent is their influence on the bedside care of dying patients. Reimbursement patterns do not reflect the priceless value of caring well for dying patients, while they account meticulously for the dominant ideological value in the US: rescuing the rescuable. According to my retrospective research, this omission in financial accounting mechanisms became an unconscious motivator among clinicians in two hospitals, a Catholic community hospital and a teaching hospital. Even as they strived to do their best in caring for their dying patients, clinicians in both settings were unaware of the economic agendas that stood behind their different norms of practice. This presentation will discuss the findings from this anthropological research in US hospitals and describe the forces at work that mystify the conflicting values of health care. Cases drawn from both settings will illustrate the effects on clinicians’ care of dying patients. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Cite one reason that medical care of patients is separated from the business of healthcare 2. Identify one way in which hospital reimbursement omits care of the dying 3. Describe how measurement influences the assessment of legitimacy References: Bodenheimer, T. (2005). High and rising health care costs. part 2: Technologic innovation. Annals of Internal Medicine, 142(11), 932937 Kaufman, S. R. (2005). ...and a time to die: How American hospitals shape the end of life. New York: Scribner. Lynn, J. (2004). Sick to death and not going to take it anymore! Reforming health care for the last years of life. Berkeley, CA: University of California Press. Stein, H. F. (1990). American medicine as culture. Boulder, CO: Westview Press. 51 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session III – Thursday, April 16, 1:45 p.m. – 2:45 p.m. Research Report Cumberland L Landmark A After-Death Communications in Popular Bereavement Narratives: How Ghosts Heal A Training Course for “Exquisite Witness” Grief Care Providers Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Religious/Spiritual Introductory Death Education Professional Issues Advanced Kwilecki, Susan, PhD Jeffreys, J. Shep, EdD, FT Radford University, Radford, VA, United States Loyola College in Maryland, Columbia, MD, United States After-Death Communications (ADCs) are events-dreams, coincidences, a sense of presence, visual or auditory hallucinations-interpreted by the subject as a message from a deceased loved one. Typically, the recipient is assured that physical death is not the end; the decedent is well, and the exchange of affection continues across the grave. In popular books published since the 1990s, some by death professionals, ADCs are presented as therapeutic, as contributing positively to adjustment to bereavement. Compatible with the “continuing bonds” model of grief, this view reverses the “grief work” assessment of such experiences as passing symptoms of mental stress. Existing studies of ADCs tend to focus on their immediate soothing effects, but their significance in the larger course of grief has not been fully explored. to that end, this paper surveys the place of putative post-mortem contact experiences in twenty book-length self-help autobiographical accounts of bereavement (usually by parents who have lost a child). In particular, the contribution of ADCs to the mourner’s effort to find religious or spiritual meaning in the death is delineated. A core of books is featured in which on-going and frequent-sometimes obsessive-after-death contact, through psychics as well as ADCs, takes center stage in the recovery process. This session presents the rationale, learning objectives and strategies for a course titled “Loss and Bereavement” which is based on the premise that the standard of care is the grief care provider. Three course objectives - provider self-awareness, understanding the human grief response and intervention skills development - are operationalized by a sequence of training activities designed to begin the preparation for persons who will be helping grieving people. Such providers are mental health and non-mental health care professionals, clergy, hospice and bereavement workers and various trained volunteers in pastoral, hospital, nursing facilities and home care. The “Loss and Bereavement” course goal is to provide an educational setting for enabling the development of “Exquisite Witness” grief care providers who have a grasp of their own unfinished loss material and countertransference responses; technical knowledge of grief, its origin and function as a natural response to loss or the threat of loss as well as possible complications; and techniques for facilitating the healing process. “Exquisite Witness” grief care providers “observe more than they act, listen more than they talk and follow more than they lead.” Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify the common forms of reported ADCs 2. Explain the changing status in grief therapy of post-mortem visitation experiences 3. Explain how ADCs enable the bereaved to find meaning in the death References: Davis, L. (2004) So young so loved so missed: a true story of blessings in the midst of grief as seen through a mother’s eyes. Ozark, AL: ACW Press. LaGrand, L. (2006). Love lives on: Learning from the extraordinay encounters of the bereaved. New York: Berkley Books. Reichert, K. (2006). The best dead husband in the world: A story of love after death. New York: iUniverse. Botkin, A.L. (2005). Induced after death communication: A new therapy for healing grief and trauma. Charlottesville, VA: Hampton Roads Publishing Company. 52 Scholarly Paper Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss the Heart, Head and Hands dimensions as outcomes for the preparation of the Exquisite Witness grief care provider 2. Identify training strategies applied to each of the above three dimensions 3. Describe the resources available for the training of ‘Exquisite Witness’ care providers References: Tobin, D.J., & McCurdy, K. G. (2006). Adlerian-focused supervision for countertransference work with counselors-in-training. The Journal of Individual Psychology. 62(2). Jeffreys, J.S. (2005). Helping grieving people -When tears are not enough: A handbook for care providers. New York: Routledge/Taylor and Francis. Katz, R, and Johnson, T. (Eds). (2006). When professionals weep: Emotional and countertransference responses in end-of-life care. New York: Routeledge/Taylor and Francis. Nouwen, H. (1972). The wonded healer: Ministry in contemporary society. New York: Doubleday & Company. Donati, M. and Watts, M. (2005). Personal development in counsellor training: Towards a clarification of inter-related concepts. British Journal of Guidance & Counselling, 33(4). Breen, L. J. & O’Conner (2007). The fundamental paradox in the grief literature: A critical reflection. Omega, 55(3),199-218. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session IV – Thursday, April 16, 3:15 p.m. – 4:45 p.m. Concurrent Session IV Thursday, April 16, 3:15 p.m. – 4:45 p.m. Invited Cumberland K Grief, Loss and Healing in The Age of The Internet Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Contemporary Perspectives Introductory Horsley, Gloria C., CNS, MFC, PhD1; Horsley, Heidi, PsyD, MSW, MS2 VoiceAmerica Radio, San Francisco, CA, United States; 2VoiceAmerica, New York, NY, United States 1 In this presentation Dr.’s Gloria and Heidi Horsley will discuss the death of their son and brother, Scott, and how this personal tragedy has lead them on an incredible healing journey. They will discuss and demonstrate their groundbreaking work in the area of grief and loss, including their internet radio show, “Healing the Grieving Heart” which is one of the most listened to shows on www.healthvoiceamerica.com with over 500,000 listeners, They will talk about their Foundation www.opentohope.com., which is an online resource center for people who have suffered a loss, and their blogs, including, www.thegriefblog.com. The Open to Hope sites will have over 1,000,000 visits in 2009, doubling the visits of 2008, and anticipate doubling the number of comments and questions to over 2,000 in 2009. Chris Conlan, Web master for the Foundation will discuss statistics for the show and web site and talk about the Open Source software used to create the Foundation presence on the Web. The presenters will also discuss their plans for the Foundation as community of hope for the Future. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe how the internet can be used to help bereaved individuals 2. Discuss the challenges and rewards of doing an internet radio show 3. Understand the basics of running a successful blog and Web site References: www.thegriefblog.com www.opentohope.com www.healthvoiceamerica.com Ricks, J.M. (1983). Radio, social support, and medical health. Paper presented at the World Congress of Mental Health, Washington, D.C. Experiential Workshop Cumberland A The Gifts of Grief – Life Beyond Loss Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Religious/Spiritual Intermediate Sobonya, Nancee, MA Shining Light Productions, Oakland, CA, United States This 90-minute presentation explores the nature of grief, using the educational documentary The Gifts of Grief (produced and directed by the presenter) as a teaching tool to identify the physical, emotional and spiritual affects of grief, the resources that help us through our losses and discover for ourselves the extraordinary opportunities our own losses may reveal. www.adec.org The Gifts of Grief is a compelling documentary that explores how seven remarkable people embrace their pain, learn to live with their loss and now engage in life with more compassion, courage and awareness. The personal and moving stories that include author, Isabel Allende; Reverend Cecil Williams; Zen Monk/Vietnam Veteran, Claude AnShin Thomas; filmmaker, Lee Mun Wah, celebrate and inspire healing and transformation. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Demonstrate and validate that grieving is a natural, healthy process from which we can not only recover, but be changed by in deep and profound ways 2. Identify the physical, emotional and spiritual affects of death and grief 3. Discover for themselves the possibility of true gifts emerging References: Larson, D.G., Hoyt, W.T., What has become of grief counseling? An evaluation of the empirical foundations of the new pessimism, 38 (4) Bonanno, G. A. (2004). Loss, trauma, and human resilience: Have we underestimated the human capacity to thrive after extremely adverse events? American Psychologist, 59, 20-28. Bonanno, G. A., Moskowitz, J. T., Papa, A., & Folkman, S. (2005). Resilience to loss in bereaved spouses, bereaved parents, and bereaved gay men. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 88, 827-843. Bonanno, G. A. (2005). Resilience in the face of potential trauma. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 14, 135-138. Experiential Workshop Cumberland B Whose Grief? Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Professional Issues Intermediate Manzella, Christiane, PhD New York University, New York, NY, United States New findings in the field of grief and bereavement suggest that effective treatment for complicated grief includes intensifying and amplifying the griever’s pain. It has been found that those suffering with complicated grief benefit from experiencing and expressing their emotions and also speaking about the death. This is so the griever can experience and process the unspeakable and unbearable pain and start to move through their grief in a way that is the start of their “new normal.” In complicated grief, those providing grief therapy are called on to tolerate and be present to huge amounts of pain and suffering. While most grief and bereavement counselors have explored their personal losses, significant obstacles can still occur, especially when a griever is expressing intense and deep suffering. How can we as grief counselors listen and be present to this intense pain? Sometimes it is not clear whose story and grief is being explored. What obstacles do we face? What blind spots exist? Whose pain is present? Using meditative techniques and inquiry, we will focus on finding ways for grief counselors to inquire about and articulate these obstacles. We will explore ways for grief counselors to be clear about whose grief is present. We will practice ways of listening while being a witness. We will investigate how the different layers of our own life story and view of ourselves as grief professionals (and our beliefs about how we define ourselves) function in relation to our capacity to listen and be present with our clients. 53 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session IV – Thursday, April 16, 3:15 p.m. – 4:45 p.m. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss using meditative techniques and inquiry to articulate and explore the ways our personal story and view of ourselves as grief professionals can be an obstacle to being present with our clients 2. Discuss the interaction between our own life story and grief in relation to listening as a witness when working with clients 3. Discuss the ways that using inquiry can be used to explore being present and aware of where we are in relation to our lives and the lives and grief of our clients References: Almaas, A.H. (2008). The unfolding now. Boston: Shambhala Press. Neimeyer, R.A. (2005). Complicated grief and the quest for meaning: A constructivist contribution. Omega, 52, 37-52. Shear, K., Frank, E., & Houck, P.R. (2005). Treatment of complicated grief: A randomized controlled trial. JAMA, 293, 2601-2608. Worden, W.J. (2002). Grief counseling and grief therapy (3rd Ed.). New York: Springer Publishing Company. Experiential Workshop Cumberland C Moral Distress: The Elephant in the Room Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: End-of-Life Decision-Making Professional Issues Introductory Barton, Jane, MTS, MASM Life Quality Institute, Denver, CO, United States A person experiences moral distress as a result of an ethical conflict in which one is constrained from doing the morally “right” thing. Within our health care system today, clinical, psycho-social, spiritual, and administrative professionals confront complex medical questions and concerns that give rise to moral distress. In a broader context, all those working in end-of-life professions are at risk of experiencing moral distress. Moral distress is often depicted by increased employee dissatisfaction, diminished quality of patient/family care, and elevated staff attrition rates. Therefore, it is important to distinguish moral distress from other forms of stress so that the root of the distress can be effectively addressed. The goal is not to eliminate moral distress. Rather, the goal is to recognize, confront, and transform the “elephant in the room.” Case studies will highlight the many challenges posed by moral distress while also allowing an opportunity to apply presented tools and methods for transforming the experience. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize and name moral distress 2. Explore how perspective informs our experience of moral distress 3. Experience the importance of communication and collaboration when dealing with moral distress References: The 4 A’s to rise above moral distress. (2004). American Association of Critical- Care Nurses. Austin, W., et. al. (2003). Unable to answer the call of our patients: Mental health nurses’ experience of moral distress. Nursing Inquiry,10 (3), 177-183. Gutierrez, K. M. (2005). Critical care nurses’ perceptions of and responses to moral distress. Dimensions of Critical Care Nursing, 24 (5), 229-241. McCarthy, J. & Deady, R. (2008). Moral distress reconsidered. Nursing Ethics,15 (2), 254-262. Kalvemark, S., et. al.(2004). Living with conflicts-ethical dilemmas and moral distress in the health care system. Social Science and Medicine, 58, 1075-1084. 54 Scholarly Paper F Cumberland G Dallas, November 22, 1963: A Death That Changed the World. Forever! Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Historical Perspectives Introductory Smith, Harold Ivan, DMIN, FT Saint Luke’s Hospital, Kansas City, MO, United States The death by assassination of a young president, husband, and father-an icon of a potential political dynasty on 22 November 1963 continues to reverberate through American history, politics, culture and folklore. Like interlocking Russian nesting dolls there remains much to be explored, dissected, and reinterpreted. The presentation will examine a dozen things you may not know about the assassination, the ritualing, and the public mourning for John F. Kennedy--realities that have implications for your clients. This seminar explores information recently disclosed by longtime Kennedy aide and confidante Ted Sorenson. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explore methods for researching and examining grief narratives of historical personalities 2. Gain a new appreciation for the impact of grief in the personal narratives of Kennedy associates 3. Explore ways to integrate these insights in grief counseling and grief education References: Sorensen, T. (2008). Counselor: A life at the edge of history. New York: Harper Collins. Dobbs, M. (2008). One minute to midnight: Kennedy, Krushchev, and Castro on the eve of nuclear war. New York: Alfred Knopf. Woods, R. B. (2006). LBJ: Architect of American ambition. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press. Smith, S. B. (2004). Grace and Power: The private world of the Kennedy White House. New York: Random House. Experiential Workshop Cumberland H The Struggle for Grace – Opportunities for Transformation of the Dying and Ourselves Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Family and Individual Intermediate Bahti, Tani, RN, CT, CHPN Passages - Education & Support in End-of- Life Issues, Tucson, AZ, United States Defining quality of life is both a subjective and dynamic process that evolves over time and circumstance. for the terminally ill, quality of life can be adversely impacted by physical suffering, loss of independence, loss of perceived meaning and value. At times these experiences can cause a patient to desire a hastened death. In This session, we will identify our value, beliefs, and definition of quality of life, and examine how our own fears and beliefs may impact our ability to be effective with those we serve. End of life workers must personally explore these issues for themselves in order to understand how their beliefs may affect their ability to work with those facing these challenges. Using video clips, we will witness patients who are confronting difficult issues and through small group work, explore our responses. We will then identify effective interventions and discover how this process can transform both patient and worker alike. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session IV – Thursday, April 16, 3:15 p.m. – 4:45 p.m. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify and discuss our personal definition of quality of life and death and how that may impact our work with clients 2. Explore therapeutic responses to those struggling with quality of life issues 3. Examine the ways that working with the dying impacts or transforms our own beliefs and fears References: Harvath, T.M., Smith, K., Clark, L., Jackson, A., Ganzini, L. (2006) Dilemmas encountered by hospice workers when patients wish to hasten death. Journal of Hospice and Palliative Nursing, 8(4), 200-209. Miller, L.L., Harvath, T.A., Ganzini, L., Goy, E.R,. Delorit, M.A., Jackson. A. (2004). Attitudes and experiences of Oregon hospice nurses and social workers regarding assisted suicide. Palliative Medicine, 18(8): 685-691. Coyle. N., Sculco, L. (2004). Expressed desire for hastened death in seven patients living with advanced cancer: A phenomenologic inquiry. Oncology Nurses Forum, 31(4): 699-709. Callahan,. D. (1993). The troubled dream of life – In search of a peaceful death. Touchstone: NY, NY. References: Klein, A. (1998). The courage to laugh: Humor, hope, and healing in the face of death and dying. New York: Putnam. Martin, R. A. (2006). The psychology of humor: An integrative approach. Burlington, MA: Academic Press. McGhee, P. (1999). Health, healing and amuse system: Humor as survival training. Dubuque, IA: Kendall/Hunt Publishing Company. Texas A&M University (2005, February 11). Humor can increase hope, research shows. Science Daily. Retrieved July 30, 2008, from http://www.schiencedaily.com/releases/2005/02/050211095658.htm. Symposium/Panel Discussion V Cumberland E/F Research That Matters – 2009: Childhood Traumatic Grief: Lessons Learned From Research and Practice Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Professional Issues Intermediate Goodman, Robin, PhD1; Sandler, Irwin, PhD2; Jordan, John, PhD3 Allegheny-Singer Research Institute, Child Abuse and Traumatic Loss Development Center, New York, NY, United States; 2Prevention Research Center, Arizona State University, Tempe, AZ, United States; 3Private Practice, Pawtucket, RI, United States 1 Experiential Workshop Cumberland L Cut it Out! This is Serious!: Laughter in Bereaved Families Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Intermediate Molaison, Valarie, PhD Supporting Kidds, Hockessin, DE, United States Laughter is a universal human response to a wide range of experiences. Because we tend to associate it with joy, we may feel awkward, guilty, angry, or confused when laughter rears its head in the context of bereavement. One of the most commonly identified emotions in our children’s support groups is “silly”, and yet children are admonished to “cut it out”, and “show some respect” when they laugh. It is important that we understand the broader functions of laughter and humor so that we can comfortably manage them in our roles as helpers. On the positive side, laughter and humor can enhance bonds, dispel the threat of aggression, reduce stress, distance us from overwhelming horror, boost the immune system, and serve as apt commentaries on the frailties of the human condition. Misused, however, laughter and humor can create an “us versus them” mindset and a message of disrespect. As helpers, we can serve as powerful role models for grieving children and families, allowing them to access and fully utilize the positive functions of laughter and humor in their grief journey. Through didactic information and free exchange of ideas, we will examine the potential risks and benefits of laughter and humor, and consider ways to use them artfully in bereavement work with children and families. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize the major functions that humor and laughter play in the human experience 2. Describe the potential risks and benefits of humor and laughter in our work with grieving children and families 3. Identify ways to artfully incorporate humor and laughter into grief work with children and families www.adec.org This year’s RTM Symposium will focus on childhood traumatic grief (CTG). CTG is thought to develop following a death from objectively traumatic situations such as suicide or terrorism, or from naturally occurring deaths such as cancer, that the child perceives as traumatic. The condition is conceptualized as having trauma-related and grief-related components. The child or teen develops symptoms that share features with posttraumatic stress disorder as well as grief that impact the child’s engaging in normative and comforting bereavement activities. Results of ongoing research on CTG as well as a clinical treatment protocol for CTG will be presented. Information about free web based and print curriculum training, video presentations, and caregiver materials via the National Child Traumatic Stress Network will also be provided. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Understand the current conceptualization and research of childhood traumatic grief 2. Understand the similarities and difference between childhood traumatic grief and non traumatic grief reactions 3. Identify the key components of a specific treatment for childhood traumatic grief References: Brown, E.J., & Goodman, R.F. (2005). Childhood traumatic grief: An exploration of the construct in children bereaved on September 11th. Journal of Clinical Child and Adolescent Psychology, 34 (2), 248-259. Cohen, J.A., Mannarion, A.P., Deblinger, E. (2006). Treating trauma and traumatic grief in children and adolescents. NY: Guilford Goodman, R.F., Brown, E.J. (2008). Service and science in times of crisis: Developing, planning and implementing a clinical research program for children traumatically bereaved after 9/11. Death Studies, 32 (2), 154-180. Goodman, R.F. (2004). Treatment of childhood traumatic grief: Application of cognitive behavioral and client centered therapies. In N.B. Webb (Ed.). Mass trauma and violence. (pp 77-99). NY: Guilford Press. 55 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session IV – Thursday, April 16, 3:15 p.m. – 4:45 p.m. Symposium/Panel Discussion Cumberland I Landmark A Life and Death Education In Japan Death Education Online: Lessons Learned Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Kondo, Taku, PhD1; Yoneda, Asaka, MA2; Matamura, Misato, BA3; Sagara-Rosemeyer, Miharu, PhD, RN4; Wada, Kaori, MA5 Tokai University, Tokyo, Japan; 2Tokai University, Hiratsuka-shi, Kanagawa, Japan; The University of Tokyo, Yokohama, Kanagawa, Japan; 4School of Nursing, Tokyo Women’s University of Medicine, Tokyo, Japan; 5McGill University, Montreal, Quebec, Canada 1 3 The idea of life and death being inseparable is particularly explicit in the field of thanatology in Japan. This is evident in the Japanese term for thanatology, which literally means “the study of death and life.” Moreover, “Inochi no Kyoiku” (the education of life) is becoming a popular term that encompasses death education. Although Western authors have touched upon this syntactic difference in the terminology (e.g., DeSpelder & Strickland, 2007), discussions on how the salient aspect of “life” in thanatology in Japan manifests itself in actual practice have yet to seen. In this symposium, Japanese thanatologists will present their activities, with the goal of promoting diversity and cross-fertilization in death education. The first presenter, the founder of the Association for Inochi (Life) Education and Child, will outline the definition of “Inochi no Kyoiku” and the association’s activities that respond to unique needs in Japanese society and the educational system. The second and third presentations will focus on research on Japanese children’s understanding of death and the narratives of families who have lost a loved one in a derailed commuter train accident, respectively. These discussions will highlight how the understanding of death and the mourning process are shaped by individuals’ social and cultural contexts. The fourth presenter, a US-educated the Japanese nurse, will illuminate issues on truth telling in healthcare settings in relation to Japanese notion of life and death. Finally, the discussant will offer concluding comments that tie together the main themes that emerged from the symposium and their relevance for death educators in North America. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe the working definition and state of “Inochi” education in Japan 2. Recognize how social and cultural contexts shape individuals’ understanding of death and the mourning process 3. Describe specific challenges that Japanese thanatologists experience in their research and clinical practice References: DeSpelder, L. A., & Strickland, A. (2007). Culture, socialization, and death education. In. D. Balk, C. Wogrin, G. Thornton, & D. Meagher (Eds.), Handbook of thanatology: The essential body of knowledge for the study of death, dying, and bereavement (pp. 303-314). Northbrook, IL: Association for Death Education and Counseling. Kondo, T. (Ed.). (2007) Inochi no kyoiku no riron to jissen [Theories and practice of INOCHI education]. Tokyo: Kaneko Shobo. Sagara-Rosemeyer, M, & Davies, B. (2007). The integration of religious traditions in Japanese children’s view of death and afterlife. Death Studies, 31(3), 223-247. Noppe, I. C. (2007). Historical and contemporary perspectives on death education. In. D. Balk, C. Wogrin, G. Thornton, & D. Meagher (Eds.), Handbook of thanatology: The essential body of knowledge for the study of death, dying, and bereavement (pp. 329-336). Northbrook, IL: Association for Death Education and Counseling. 56 Symposium/Panel Discussion Death Education Professional Issues Intermediate Moore, Jane, EdD, FT1; Harris, Darcy, MEd, FT2; Gilbert, Kathleen, PhD3; Attig, Thomas, PhD4; Gorman, Eunice, RN, BSW, MSW, RSW, PhD Candidate5 1 National-Louis University, Des Plaines, IL, United States; 2King’s University College, London, Ontario, Canada; 3Indiana University Bloomington, Bloomington, IN, United States; 4Bowling Green University, Fairfield, CA, United States; 5King’s College London, London, Ontario, Canada As pedagogy and technology have advanced teaching and learning in all academic areas, so too has the opportunity for distance education developed in the field of thanatology. This panel of experienced online death educators will discussed the insights they’ve gained as they developed and implemented courses around the topics of death, dying, and bereavement. Panel members will discuss approaches to content and pedagogy and the unique characteristics of online thanatology classes. Discussions will center around: 1. Developing a course organization that works for students and faculty 2. Pedagogy that supports learning in the online environment 3. Challenges and opportunities in teaching death education online 4. Developing teaching strategies that are efficient and effective Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize the issues that emerge in teaching thanatology online 2. Discuss the character of student and faculty roles in online education 3. Develop a framework for planning for online education in thanatology References: Gilbert, K. (2004). Death education on the “net”: Development and delivery of “grief in a family context,” in Cox, G. & Bendikson, R. (Eds.) Teaching the sociology of dying and death (pp. 83-91), Washington, D.C.: American Sociological Association. Salmon, G. (2004). E-moderating: The key to teaching and learning online. New York: Routledge. AACTE Committee on Innovation and Technology (Eds.). (2008). Handbook of technological pedagogical content knowledge (TPCK) for educators. New York: Routledge. Balk, D. (2007). The handbook of thanatology: The essential body of knowledge for the study of death, dying and bereavement. New York: Routledge. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session V – Thursday, April 16, 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. Concurrent Session V Thursday, April 16, 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland C The Colorful Faces of Grief Category: Loss, Indicator: Presentation Level: Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory DeAngelis, Rose, BSN, MSc, RN; Lybert, Maxine, RN; Smith, Ian, BA, STM; Dellar, Teresa, MSW The West Island Palliative Care Residence, Kirkland, Quebec, Canada As in any hospice setting, grief is an expected response in both patients and their loved ones. The average length of stay (LOS) at our 9 bed community-based hospice is only 12 days. With 39% of patients surviving less than 5 days, our team has been forced to deal with and respond to grief reactions in a much shorter period of time. We think of the intensifying and varied grief reactions of our patients and families as `the colorful faces and expressions of grief’. Anger, hopelessness, violent outbursts, uncontrollable crying and ‘inappropriate’ behavior are examples of the types of reactions. Families’ unfinished business had been magnified by time restraints of their loved one’s shortened stay. Our interdisciplinary team was feeling a certain amount of pressure/moral distress to respond quickly to families before situations became unmanageable. In addition we began to question how well we were really meeting the needs of these patients and families when it came to bereavement. Personell, protocols and communication methods were changed to better meet the families’ needs. In short, the multidisciplinary team had to shift focus from providing routine surveillance with a `wait and see what happens’ attitude to offering rapid, effective supportive and preventative bereavement care before situations escalated and coping deteriorated to the point of needing crisis intervention. Participants may gain a better appreciation for the complexities of the acute mourning process and have an opportunity to share examples with the panel and to discuss solutions for their particular work setting . Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify the complimentary and unique roles and responsibilities of the different members of the interdisciplinary bereavement team 2. Recognize the increased risk for unique and varied grief responses and conflict while a patient is actively dying 3. Explore the preventative strategies that can be utilized by the various interdisciplinary bereavement team members References: Kuhl, David. (2002). What dying people want. Toronto, Canada: Doubleday Canada. Kubler-Ross, E., Kessler, D. (2005). On grief and grieving. New York, NY: Scriber. Kuhl, D. (2006). Facing death, embracing life: Understanding what dying people want. Toronto, Canada: Doubleday Canada. Puchalski, C. (2006). A time for listening and caring: Spirituality and the care of the chronically ill and dying. New York: Oxford University Press. Moules, N.J., Simonson, K., Fleiszer, A.R., Prins, M. & Glasgow, B. (2007). The soul of sorrow work: Grief and therapeutic interventions with families. Journal of Family Nursing, 13(1), 117-141. www.adec.org Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland H My Phantom Father: The Special Bereavement Experience of War-Related Loss Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Taylor, Sharon R., PhD Saint Martin’s University, Olympia, WA, United States This presentation is a personal and dramatic exploration of disenfranchised grief resulting from losing a parent in war. The legacy defining this loss is illuminated through the stories of women whose fathers were killed in World War Two. Information gathered from these stories resulted in a unique and original study of childhood bereavement marked by lifelong yearning and the creation of a father-fantasy. Nine descriptive life themes emerged bringing new awareness to the unexplored consequences of this loss. Though these life-themes define the livedexperience of father-loss in war, they also define the loss experienced by children of divorce. The purpose of this presentation is to connect unacknowledged and complicated grief with its particular symptoms, lifelong consequences, potential for healing, and the manifestation of physical or mental pathologies. The speaker’s personal narrative of her quest to find her father’s WW Two crash site 60 years after he was declared missing in action; to discover the truth of his disappearance; and to bring him home, fully exemplifies this grief experience. Her father’s story, and her search for him, is the subject of a children’s book for adults and a German documentary film produced by Der Spiegel Television. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify the unique bereavement experience of war-related loss 2. Identify the long-term implications of yearning and grief associated with war-related loss 3. Develop a model of treatment applicable to populations affected by war-related loss References: Rando, T. (1993). Treatment of complicated mourning. Champaign, IL: Research Press. Campbell, C. & Demi, A. (2000). Adult children of fathers missing in action (MIA): An examination of emotional distress, grief, an family hardiness. Family Relations, 49, (3), 267-276. Goldman, L. (2008). The death of a father in the military. The Forum Association for Death Education and Counseling newsletter, 34, (2), 7. Taylor, S. (March, 2006). A daughter’s search for her phantom father: A World War II story of recovery and resolution. LOST Magazine (www.lostmag.com). Boss, P. (1991). Ambiguous loss. In F. Walsh & M. McGoldrick (Eds.), Living beyond loss: Death in the Family. New York: W.W. Norton. 57 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session V – Thursday, April 16, 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland K Living Beyond Loss for People With Intellectual Disabilities Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: The use of the expressive arts in healing is well documented (Rogers, 2007). Art work is a powerful expression of grief that frequently cannot find expression in words (Finn, 2003; Labrum, 2005). Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Gilbride, Margaret, JD Indiana University at the Indiana Institute on Disability and Community, Bloomington, IN, United States This session will introduce participants to issues of loss, death and bereavement as experienced by a remarkable group of self-advocates (people with disabilities organized and empowered as civil rights leaders in their own cause). After the group lost one of their founding members and steadfast leaders to an unexpected death following a meeting, they embarked on a process of mending themselves and each other. In the living of their story of shared grief came the telling of their personal loss histories. Participants in this session will be introduced to the issues of loss, grief and bereavement unique to people with intellectual disabilities and their families as well as to caregivers and service providers to both. The framework for the presentation will be a “memory book” compiled from information shared about the deceased during a facilitated meeting with the group soon after her death. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Apply a model of group facilitation effective for adults with intellectual disabilities grieving the death of a shared colleague/friend/ staff person 2. Recognize the unique elements of loss, grief and bereavement common to adults with intellectual disabilities 3. Recognize disability culture as a critical and independent element of cultural competence in grief counseling References: Dodd, P., Guerin, S., McEvoy, J., Buckley, S.,Tyrrell, J., & Hillery, J. (2008). A study of complicated grief symptoms in people with intellectual disabilities. Journal of Intellectual Disability Research, 52, Part 5, 415-425. Falvey, M.A., Forest, M., Pearpoint, J., Rosenberg, R.L. (1997). All my life’s a circle using the tools: Circles, MAPS & PATHS. Toronto: Inclusion Press. James, I.A. (1995). Helping people with mental retardation cope with bereavement. Mental Handicap, 23:2, 74-78. Kauffman, J. (2005). Guidebook on helping people with mental retardation mourn. Amityville: Baywood Publishing Company. Practice Report Cumberland A ”I Can’t Imagine“: Art for Teaching and Practice Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Family and Individual Intermediate Carlson, Susan, MSW1; Van Loon, Ruth Anne, PhD2 1 University of Cincinnati, Cincinnati, OH, United States; 2University of Cincinnati School of Social Work, Cincinnati, OH, United States In this workshop we will report on an innovation in the use of the expressive arts therapies, specifically the visual arts, as an educational method for others to better understand the needs of grieving parents. The literature speaks to the isolation and empathic failure of others when faced with parental loss of a child (Davies, 2004; Rosenblatt, 2000. The presenter lost her 19 year old son suddenly. As an artist, she worked through this loss and isolation in images. She created a 58 series of pieces that express the period of her acute grief. Slides of the work will be shown. Viewing the art work as an exhibit, with discussion afterwards, has proved to be an effective way to educate students, community professionals, and interested lay people. The unique contribution that the artist herself can bring to the discussion, in cooperation with a trained group leader will be emphasized. The format for this kind of presentation will be presented, with suggestions for how professionals might use griever’s art work in this manner. Feedback from social work students who viewed the work indicated that they felt the viewing and discussion increased their understanding of the experience of loss of a child. They reported less fear of their emotions in anticipating discussion of the subject with a client, and greater confidence in being able to address this special kind of loss. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize the value of the visual arts as a way to express grief 2. Utilize the visual arts as a tool for teaching about grief 3. Recognize and discuss the specific perspectives of student viewers regarding grief and parental loss of a child after viewing of the art work References: Davies, R. (2004). New understandings of parental grief: Literature review. Journal of Advanced Nursing, 46(5), 506-513. Finn, C. A. (2003). Helping students cope with loss: Incorporating art into group counseling. Journal for Specialists in Group Work, 28(2), 155-165. Labrum, D. (2005). The hole in me since the day you died. South Bend, IN: Center for Hospice and Palliative Care. Rogers, J. E. (2007). The art of grief: The use of expressive arts in a grief support group. New York: Routledge. Rosenblatt, P. C. (2000). Parent grief: Narratives of loss and relationship. Philadelphia: Brunner/Mazel. Scholarly Paper Cumberland B Bereavement Support Group? No Thanks. I’m Dating. Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Professional Issues Intermediate Gorman, Eunice, RN, BSW, MSW, RSW, PhD Candidate; Lewis, Laura, MSW,PhD King’s University College London, London, Ontario, Canada Bereavement support groups play an important role for many who are coping with the loss of a loved one. Yet elderly men often attend only briefly and then excuse themselves to reenter the world of close relationships. Whether they are propelled by loneliness, vulnerability or anxiety many newly widowed men enter into new relationships relatively soon after the death of their spouse. There is much about this phenomenon that points to avoidance, busy-ness as a coping strategy, the need to exert power and control, searching for assistance with instrumental activities of daily living and relief after a long period of being the primary caregiver. In the face of powerful emotions, resurgence of old losses and explicit reminders of their own mortality, some men may feel that their time is limited and this may be their last chance at happiness. Dating allows them to test out a new identity and spend time www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session V – Thursday, April 16, 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. with people who know nothing of their past or their deceased spouse. Furthermore, dating provides comfort in a world where adult children and their families may live at a distance, or where close friends are few. Older men who have placed all their time and effort into their spousal relationship may find that they lack necessary and helpful contacts that could provide an empathetic ear when they are grieving. for others still, long term underground relationships are brought into the open complicating the grieving process for themselves as well as for their families and friends. This presentation will examine issues of death anxiety as related to the needs of newly bereaved elderly gentlemen and provide strategies to assist grieving widowers while allowing them to access support groups without judgment. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss the unique needs of grieving older male adults 2. Examine the grief process for older adults 3. Suggest ways to engage older adults in supportive counseling and/or bereavement group References: Carr, D. (2004). Gender, pre-loss dependence, and older adult’s adjustment to widowhood. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 66:220-235. Cheng, S.T., & Chan, A. (2006). Relationship with others and life satisfaction in later life: Do gender and widowhood make a difference? [Electronic Version] The Journals of Gerontology: Series B, 61, 46-53. Lee, G.R., DeMaris, A. Bavin, S. Sullivan, R. (2001). Gender differences in the depressive effect of widowhood in later life. The Journals of Gerontology, Series B, Psychological Sciences and Social Sciences 56B (1):S56-S61. Stewart, M. Craig, D. MacPherson, K. Alexander, S. (2001). Promoting positive affect and diminishing loneliness of widowed seniors through a support intervention. Public Health Nursing 18(1): 54-63. Van-Grootheest, D.S., Beekman, A.T.F., van-Groenou M.I.B., Deeg, D.J.H. (1999) Sex differences in depression after widowhood: Do men suffer more. Social Psychiatry and Psychiatric Epidemiology, 34 (7):391-398. Yalom, I. (2008). Staring at the Sun: Overcoming the terrors of death. San Francisco, Jossey-Bass. Wilsey, S.A. & Shear, M.K. (2007). Descriptions of social support in treatment narratives of complicated grievers. Death Studies, (9):801819. Scholarly Paper F bereavement services or intervention programs to cope with death. However, funeral homes bereavement services or programs vary in applications and approaches that are linked to multiple losses, sudden deaths, anticipated deaths, and traumatic losses. With these views in mind, there is a void of literature related to this phenomenon. This scholarly paper assesses existing research about unique funeral homes bereavement services and intervention programs specific to: (1) grief counseling and workshops, (2) children’s storybooks and coloring books, (3) web, audio and video resources, (4) interactive games and toys, and (5) other supportive intervention services or referral activities used with young children regarding death. This presentation will provide promising directions for future research concerning the application of funeral homes bereavement services and intervention programs appropriateness; thus, broadening the theoretical and practical foundation for this field. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe why it is important to integrate funeral homes bereavement services and intervention programs to support young children psychological and emotional demands that death causes 2. List and describe five distinct bereavement services or intervention programs that funeral homes use to support young children for grief counseling and education 3. Describe a wide range of funeral homes bereavement services and intervention programs related to multiple losses, sudden deaths, anticipated deaths, and traumatic losses References: Fiorini, J.J., & Mullen, J. A. (2006). Understanding grief and loss in children. Champaign, Illinois. Holland, J. (2004). Should children attend their parent’s funeral? Blackwell Publishing, Oxford, UK. National Funeral Directors Association. Funeral homes trends. Brookfield, Wisconsin. Retrieved February 19, 2008 from http://www. nfda.org Sandler, I. (2005). Bridging the gap between research and practice in bereavement: Report from the Center for the Advancement of Health. Death Studies, 29(2), 93-122. Schmiege, S.J., Khoo, S. T., Sandler, I. N., Ayers, T. S., & Wolchik, S. A. (2006). Impact of Intervention and gender on recovery curves of child mental health problems following parental death. American Journal of Preventive Medicine. Landmark A Funeral Homes Bereavement Services and Interventions for Young Children Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Resources and Research Introductory Guy, Thurman, EdD North Carolina A&T State University, Greensboro, NC, United States In a society that is drastically changing culturally with shifting values and perceptions related to death, many families are seeking more individualized bereavement services or intervention programs to assist young children during the grieving process. Much has been written on death experiences related to developmental stages, conceptual frameworks, and maturation process with young children ages 5 to 11. Nevertheless, as parents, schools, and the community seek support for children regarding the psychological and emotional demands of death, there is a tremendous need for funeral homes to offer bereavement services or intervention programs to assist children in understanding death. Many children do not receive customized or specialized www.adec.org 59 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session V – Thursday, April 16, 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. Scholarly Paper Cumberland L Living Beyond Loss: Themes of Dying, Death, and Bereavement in Gospel and Blues Music Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Strickland, Albert, CT Pacific Publishing Services, Capitola, CA, United States As multicultural musical expressions with roots in the folk traditions of the American South, gospel and blues music conveys a poignant awareness of mortality, tempered by an attitude of resilience in the human encounter with loss. Illustrated with songs and stories, this presentation highlights the insights these genres offer about the human capacity to make use of constructive ways to cope with loss. In gospel music, songs of solace and hope sustain and encourage people through emotionally hard times that accompany the myriad losses that beset human life. The classic gospel songs acknowledge life’s sorrows and the emotional pain of grief, but gospel never abandons the bereaved to hopelessness. After all, the very meaning of gospel is “good news.” Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explain how music has a healing power to reframe memories of persons whose death we grieve in ways that promote a sense of connection and reunion 2. Describe how gospel and blues music provide complementary ways of coping with loss and grief 3. Summarize how music can assist in bereavement support and provide solace to individuals who are bereaved or experiencing significant loss events References: Burgard, A. M. (2005). Hallelujah: The poetry of classic hymns. Berkeley: Celestial Arts. Henderson, B. (2006). Simple gifts--great hymns: One man’s search for grace. New York: Free Press. Stowe, D. W. (2004). How sweet the sound: Music in the spiritual lives of Americans. Cambridge, M.A.: Harvard University Press. Strickland, A. L. (2003). The healing power of music in bereavement. The Forum Newsletter,29 (2). Wald, E. (2004). Escaping the Delta: Robert Johnson and the invention of the blues. New York: Amistad. In contrast, the blues rarely conveys an explicitly hopeful message, instead emphasizing the singer’s predicament in a sad situation. “Laughing to keep from crying” is presented as a way to deal with hard times and difficult circumstances. Even though the lyrics express regret and sadness, there is an underlying message that individuals are resilient enough to cope with even the most dislocating tragedies of human life. Participants will be introduced to the significance of these distinctive musical expressions of loss and coping through musical performance, lecture, and discussion. In addition to placing these musical forms in their historical and cultural context, participants will gain an appreciation for their salutary effects as a way to creatively cope with loss. 60 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Invited Speakers – Friday, April 17, 8:30 a.m. – 9:45 a.m. Cumberland E/F Using Ethical Standards to Recover From Compassion Fatigue Paula Loring, LCSW, LMFT, NCBF Ethical practice in the medical and mental health profession is paramount and should be reviewed on a regular basis. The reality is that often ethical decisions, while usually made based on professional principles, are subject to interpretation. There are rarely right or wrong answers, or black and white solutions to the complicated care of patients and their families. Decisions can be strongly affected by the professional’s values, periodic personal challenges and level of involvement in his/her work. Burnout and excessive stress can further confuse an ethical judgment and distort ethical interpretations. This workshop will provide the professional with an opportunity to personally explore how values, stresses, burnout and personal challenges effect their decision making process and demonstrate how ethical principles can support sound professional judgment during times of burnout or high stress. Paula Loring, LCSW, LMFT, NCBF, is the director of Porter Loring Family Care Services of Porter Loring Mortuaries in San Antonio, Texas. This is a community-based program offering support groups, andindividual and family counseling to bereaved families. Prior to her work here in San Antonio, she was in private practice in Austin for 20 years working with adults, adolescents and children. Her responsibilities include organizing and supervising an effective development program. Laura Olague, MEd, CT, is the executive director and cofounder of the Children’s Grief Center of El Paso. She holds a bachelor’s degree in Social Work from Texas Tech and a master’s degree in guidance & counseling from University of Texas at El Paso. She has been a member of ADEC since 1992 and is Certified in Thanatology. She has been working with grieving children and families for 18 years and co-founded the Children’s Grief Center in 1995. Kathy Telger, MEd, LPC-S, program director, has been with The WARM Place since 1994. She is a licensed professional counselor and approved supervisor for the Texas State Board of Examiners of Professional Counselors. She graduated from the University of North Texas with a master’s of education degree in counseling and student services. Her WARM Place responsibilities include conducting family intake interviews, supervising graduate counseling interns, and educating the public on children’s grief issues. Michelli Gomez, LMSW, received her bachelor of arts degree in biology from St. Mary’s University, a master’s of science degree in environmental science from the University of Texas at San Antonio, and her master’s of social work degree from Our Lady of the Lake University. She serves as the Program Services Coordinator. In this capacity, Michelli assists in the coordination of the various support groups provided by the Children’s Bereavement Center of South Texas (CBCST) In addition, she provides individual and family counseling to CBCST clients. Landmark A Cumberland L Working With Children and Families After a Traumatic Death Loss: Community Strategies Decision-Making Near the End of Life: Issues, Developments, and Future Directions Khris Ford, LPC Vicki Johnson, MS - Moderator Laura Olague, MEd, CT Kathy Telger, MEd, LPC-S Michelli Gomez, LMSW James L. Werth, Jr., PhD Panel organized by The WARM Place for Grieving Children and Families, Fort Worth, Texas This panel will address approaches used by children’s grief support programs in several cities across Texas that assist children who are affected by a traumatic death loss. Topics will include the use of separate groups for trauma deaths vs. inclusion with non-trauma deaths. Different approaches for addressing individual counseling services, outreach and crisis intervention will be covered. In addition, the panel will discuss ways to educate and support the parent/guardian in their efforts to help their child. Issues related to cultural differences as well as the concern of retraumatization will be addressed. Khris Ford, LPC, is an adjunct instructor at the University of Texas at Austin School of Social Work, where she teaches graduate level courses in grief and loss counseling. She is also a bereaved parent. In the past 15 years, Khris has counseled with hundreds of grieving children and adults, trained over 500 school counselors, social workers, and other mental health professionals, and led dozens of weekend retreats for bereaved parents. This presentation will review recent developments that have affecteddecision making within the field of end-of-life care. A variety of issues will be reviewed including ethical and legal issues and concerns, diversity considerations, biopsychosociospiritual matters, and controversial developments. James L. Werth, Jr., PhD, currently is professor of psychology and director of the PsyD program in counseling psychology at Radford University and is a licensed psychologist in Virginia. His primary areas of research and practice are end-of-life issues, HIV disease, ethical and legal issues, and rural issues. He has written/edited/coedited 6 books, 7 special journal issues, and nearly 100 articles/book chapters on these topics. He served on the American Psychological Association’s Ad Hoc Committee on Legal Issues and Ad Hoc Committee on End-of-Life Issues. He coordinated amicus curiae briefs for the U.S. Supreme Court on end-of-life issues that were signed onto by the American Counseling Association and National Association of Social Workers. He received his doctorate in counseling psychology from Auburn University in 1995, a master’s of legal studies degree from the University of Nebraska - Lincoln in 1999, and served as the American Psychological Association’s HIV Policy congressional fellow in the office of Senator Ron Wyden (D OR) from 1999-2000 where he worked on aging and end-of-life issues in addition to HIV. Vicki Johnson, MS, associate executive director, joined The WARM Place staff in 2002 as director of development and was named associate executive director in 2004. She received her bachelor of arts and master of science in counseling and student services degrees from the University of North Texas. Prior to that, she was a WARM Place volunteer and part-time counselor for eight years. www.adec.org 61 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Invited Speakers – Friday, April 17, 8:30 a.m. – 9:45 a.m. Poster Session II – Friday, April 17, 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Cumberland K Room Therapeutic Implications of Research in Trauma and Bereavement: Practicing What We Preach Without Pretending to Divine the Truth Kenneth W. Sewell, PhD A disconnect often exists between researchers who study human suffering and the clinicians, counselors, and therapists who work with individual human beings in the aftermath of trauma and loss. The theoretical assumptions that underlie much of the empirical research are arguably derived from clinical wisdom. Nonetheless, the findings from such research often seem removed from the needs of therapy clients and those who serve them. Therapists often see limited benefit from utilizing the research literature, sometimes equating a science-driven practice with the use of manualized treatments. This presentation will provide an overview of some of the major research findings in the fields of trauma and loss, and link them to therapeutic strategies...many of which are already in common use by clinicians. Then, a systematic method of reviewing research literature for use in practice will be described that leaves flexibility for the clinician and client to exercise their own preferences and unique strengths. The described method allows therapists to adopt an evidence-based approach without resorting to manualized or scripted treatments. Clinical examples will be offered, both to illustrate the approach and to emphasize the importance of maintaining flexibility in service of the client. Kenneth W. Sewell, PhD, is associate vice president for research and professor of psychology at University of North Texas in Denton. Formerly, he was director of clinical training for the doctoral program in clinical psychology at the University of North Texas. Dr. Sewell’s career in psychology typifies the scientist-practitioner model by combining teaching, training and research with clinical practice. His research interests include the application of personal construct theory to the outcomes of trauma and bereavement. In his research, Dr. Sewell uses both quantitative methods based on statistical analysis and qualitative methods based on narrative, and works to integrate them. Personally, he is a gifted poet, musician and actor who brings the creativity of the arts to his professional work with trainees and clients and is interested in promoting “science-driven practice” of psychotherapy by incorporating ideas generated by theory and lessons learned from research without resorting to reductionistic treatments or manualized therapies. Friday, April 17 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Reunion E-H Poster # 1 Determinants of Conscious and Unconscious Death Anxiety Among Bereaved Adults Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Life Span Advanced Hayslip Jr., Bert, PhD University of North Texas, Denton, TX, United States While much literature addresses fears of death among adults, little work has explored the distinction between overt/self-reported fears of death and dying covert/ unconscious death anxiety. As these aspects of death anxiety are negatively related, but nonetheless distinct in adulthood (see Hayslip, 2003; Hayslip & Hansson, 2003), it is important to understand those factors that make persons susceptible to experiencing concerns about death that may interfere with post-death adjustment. to this end, 438 bereaved adults (Mage = 34, range = 18-88) completed measures of both self reported death anxiety (Templer and Collett-Lester scales, see Hayslip et al. 2007), a measure of covert death fear- the Incomplete Sentence Blank (see Hayslip et al., 2005-2006), and measures assessing attitudes towards funerals and one’s participation in funeral rituals, grief, psychological adjustment and coping, and life satisfaction. Hierarchical regression analyses, where data were entered in blocks (demographics, relationship quality to the deceased, personality/adjustment, funeral-specific variables) suggested that demographic factors, measures of grief, and funeral attitudes predicted (p < .05) overt/self reported death anxiety. In contrast, defining oneself as religious, belief in an afterlife, demographic factors, and grief predicted (p < .05) covert/unconscious death fear. These findings suggest that covert and overt death fear are interrelated but nevertheless independent constructs with both common and unique antecedents. Thus, different factors may predispose bereaved persons to experience death fears that may interfere with their adjustment to the loss of a loved one. Poster # 2 Treasured Moments in Time Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Carst, Nancy, MSW Akron Children’s Hospital, Akron, OH, United States Parents facing end-of-life issues for their child are looking for optimal chances to capture memories. A desirable skill for caregivers is to be able to provide creative and compassionate opportunities to embrace the dying child’s essence in a permanent way. Our pediatric palliative care team strives to make available to families easy, practical, loving keepsakes to memorialize and share the uniqueness of their child’s life. Our poster will describe resources, information and easy-to-replicate techniques that can be used by hospice and palliative care professionals in any setting. 62 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Poster Session II – Friday, April 17, 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Poster # 3 Poster # 5 Integrating Adlerian Theory and Techniques With Crisis Intervention Giving Information: Latino and Chinese Families in Pediatric Palliative Care Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Contemporary Perspectives Introductory Dying Process Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Tedrick, Sara, BA1; Wachter, Carrie, PhD2 Davies, Betty, RN, PhD Purdue University, Lafayette, IN, United States; 2Purdue University, West Lafayette, IN, United States University of California, San Francisco, Fairfield, CA, United States 1 Crises are a normal part of human development, with over 90% of individuals experiencing at least one crisis in their lifetime. Crisis intervention skills, therefore, are an essential tool for professionals working with clients who are experiencing traumatic or overwhelming life events. Although many early counseling theorists, such as Freud, Alder, and Ellis, addressed interventions with the underlying psychological processes of suicidal clients, current crisis theory has developed separately from fundamental counseling theories. Crisis theory, however, shares many assumptions with these theories, and professionals may be able to make more effective interventions if they interpret crisis theory in concert with their overarching theoretical orientation. The purpose of this poster is to demonstrate the integration of crisis intervention theory with Individual Psychology/Adlerian counseling theory. Although Pediatric Palliative Care (PPC) has grown in recent years, little research pertains to families of diverse cultural backgrounds despite the changing demographics of North America. The goal of this project was to describe the experiences of Mexican-American and Chinese-American families whose child had died from a life-limiting condition in order to enhance understanding and provide guidance to PPC practitioners. Bicultural/bilingual research associates interviewed 50 family members from 31 families whose child had died six months to five years prior, where at least one parent or grandparent was born in Mexico or China, and family members spoke Spanish, Cantonese, Mandarin, or English. Translated transcripts were analyzed using grounded theory procedures; rigor was ensured through adherence to procedures for trustworthiness. The poster will focus on interventions for situational crisis, including terminal illness and bereavement. The six-step model of crisis intervention will be integrated with writings on crisis and suicide interventions from an Adlerian orientation, and underlying theoretical similarities will be identified. Handouts discussing Adlerian rationale for crisis intervention techniques, including standard crisis techniques and uniquely Adlerian techniques that may be appropriate in crisis situations, will be distributed. The presenter will also be available to explore how Adlerian crisis intervention might compare to traditional interventions, strengths and limitations of Adlerian crisis intervention, and future directions of this crisis theory work. Central to parents’ experience with palliative care for their child was how they were given information by health care professionals. In some situations, parents were not given any information, receiving only false reassurances that everything was fine when it was clearly not. In most situations, parents were given information but it varied in the dimensions that were addressed: facts, the implications of those facts for action by health care professionals and by parents, and parents’ responses to the information given. Parents’ ability to speak English, as well as their educational level, greatly influenced the type of information they were given. Findings provide guidance for health care professionals who give information to parents whose first language is not English as well as to English-speaking parents of seriously ill children. Poster # 4 Poster # 6 Public Health Team and The Experience of the Very Ill At Home Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Professional Issues Introductory Death Attitudes and Anxiety Across Cultures Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Cultural/Socialization Introductory Moretta Guerrero, Brenda, PhD, LPC, FT Bousso, Regina, PhD1; Silva, Lucia, MS2 Our Lady of the Lake University, San Antonio, TX, United States University of Sao Paulo, Sao Paulo, Brazil; 2Doctoral Candidate, Botucatu, Sao Paulo, Brazil As part of a larger pilot study exploring death rituals, death anxiety, and attitudes toward death across cultures, this research represents the quantitative piece of that study which focused on death anxiety and attitudes toward death. Death anxiety, fear, and acceptance of death have been the topics of numerous studies over the years, leading some researchers and theorists to contend that death anxiety and negative attitudes toward death are universal. However, whether or not different cultural groups experience different levels of death anxiety or even if they experience death anxiety at all has not been adequately explored. Nor have other pervasive attitudes toward death been widely studied across cultures. Accordingly, this study involved a preliminary attempt to explore death anxiety and attitudes toward death across Asian Indian, Mexican, Mexican American and Indian American samples. Ten participants from each cultural group, ranging in age from 19-62, completed the Revised Death Anxiety Scale (RDAS) and the Death Attitude Profile-Revised (DAP-R), a multidimensional measure that taps general fear of death, death avoidance and death acceptance (neutral acceptance, approach acceptance, and escape acceptance). It was hypothesized that both Mexicans and Asian Indians, who are both raised in more death accepting cultures than are Americans, would report 1 Public health professionals have significantly evolved over the past few years with the delivery of quality care for elderly patients as a focus point. This study explores factors that impact upon the delivery of quality care in Public Health Family Care in Brazil. A qualitative method using semi-structured interviews was conducted. Interviews were taped and content analyzed. Four main categories emerged from the data: Role change, Components of caring, Barriers to family care and Factors that facilitate the delivery of geriatrics and palliative care in the community. Professionals strive for evidence-based practice in Public Health; they acknowledged their inability to achieve this and referred to factors that inhibited them from reaching their goal. Enhanced education for health professionals will equip them in the delivery geriatrics and palliative care. Better communication is required between the multidisciplinary team. The delivery of community services need to be reviewed and developed further in accordance with the health strategy policy. www.adec.org 63 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Poster Session II – Friday, April 17, 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. lower levels of death anxiety, death avoidance and fear of death; and higher levels of both neutral and approach acceptance, than would either Mexican-Americans or Indian-Americans, who are raised in the United States. Results generally supported the hypotheses and implications for future research will be presented. Poster # 7 Religion, Life History, Illness and Death: Experience of Brazilians Families Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Religious/Spiritual Introductory Bousso, Regina, PhD1; Serafim, Tais, Undergraduate Student2 1 University of Sao Paulo, Sao Paulo, Brazil; 2Student, Sao Paulo, Brazil The importance of religious cults in providing healing for Brazil’s families is now widely acknowledged. The purpose of this study was to explore Brazilian families’ experiences with one of their member illness and report findings about the influence of religious faith and life history on families’ spiritual and secular responses to illness. We developed an interpretive study, using symbolic interaction as the framework, and in-depth interviewing for data collection. The study focused on the history of the illness of a family member who resorted to several religious therapies at the beginning time of onset of the disease. Sample included 22 families’ members from 12 families living with one of their members with a variety of illness. Families professed a variety of beliefs and devotional practices. Four dimensions of religious faith were related to families decision making: God determined the outcome of the illness, Families had obligations to God, Intercession with God by others was often sought by or offered to the family, and Faith encouraged optimism. Family members took spiritual and secular actions to assure the best possible familial and professional care for their member and sought to influence Gods good will on behalf of the individual and family. Meaning Making of Family After Long-Term Foster Care Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Intermediate Lawrence, Carrie, BS Indiana University Bloomington, Bloomington, IN, United States This study focuses on young adults, who have grown up in foster care and who have been either emancipated or who are not longer wards of the court, grief and ambiguous or invisible loss (Doka, 2002) associated with not having a traditional family and how they explain their meaning of family. One thing is clear from the existing literature, a life without a family for these young adults is challenging for both the individual and our society. Results from this study show that former foster youth showed a variety of meaning in family depending on each individual experience, in describing how even in foster care never feeling as though they were part of a family. In addition, the participants gave examples of feeling disenfranchised because of how child welfare takes their family away from them and how they were never able to see their birth family again. The methodology used for this study was a phenomenological analysis within a qualitative research design. Phenomenological analysis seeks to discover the meaning, structure and essence of the lived experience of the phenomenon for a person (Patton, 2002). I took the participants’ recorded interviews, transcribed them verbatim, and then analyzed the transcriptions. Qualitative research is based on the philosophy that views reality as multilayered, interactive, and share social experience interpreted by individuals (McMillan & Schumacher, 1997). Hopefully, the interpretations of the study in addition to the process of the use of Photo Elicitation methods and interviews will help give the participants and professionals insight as to how to better assist former foster youth in coping with their grief and loss and with their transition to adulthood. Poster # 8 Poster # 10 Death and Dying at a Children’s Mental Health Agency Teaching About Near-Death Experiences Using “The Day I Died” Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Family and Individual Introductory Graves, Karen, MA Indiana University of Pennsylvania, Blooming Grove, NY, United States This poster will examine how a children’s mental health agency approaches death and dying with its clients and staff. Green Chimneys Children’s Services provides residential and day treatment to children and adolescents with emotional, behavioral, and learning difficulties from New York City, upstate New York, and Connecticut. The agency also operates a farm and wildlife rehabilitation center which involves the children in several ways: farm/wildlife classes, jobs caring for the animals, animal-assisted therapy, as well as other activities. When animals become ill or need to be euthanized, a special opportunity is presented for working on clients’ bereavement issues. Many children at Green Chimneys have experienced multiple losses, including death, trauma, divorce, abuse, and neglect. The farm provides opportunities to experience and process death in health ways. Staff who work with the animals are encouraged to examine how culture and personal experiences color their own views of death, and learn ways to appropriately discuss death with the children. 64 Poster # 9 Death Education Resources and Research Introductory Holden, Janice Miner, EdD, LPC-S, LMFT, NCC1; Oden, Kathryn, PhD, LPC2 Department of Counseling and Higher Education, University of North Texas, Denton, TX, United States; 2Counseling Department, Texas A&M University - Commerce, Commerce, TX, United States 1 In 2002, the British Broadcasting Corporation produced the hour-long documentary, The Day I Died: The Mind, the Brain, and Near-death Experiences. Now available in the U.S. for use in educational venues, the production explores the question of the relationship of mind and brain through the narratives of several near-death experiencers; reenactments of recent near-death research in hospitals in the U.S., U.K, and Netherlands; and interviews with leading researchers in the field of near-death studies. In the process, viewers learn about the characteristics and aftereffects of near-death experiences (NDEs), the circumstances under which they occur, and the diversity of people who experience them. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Poster Session II – Friday, April 17, 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Poster # 11 Death and Grief Rituals: A Multicultural, Multispiritual Look Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Cultural/Socialization Introductory Kramer Almquist, Heather, MA, CT Douglassville, PA, United States Critical to the discussion of death and grieving is an understanding of the significance of ritual in these processes. The importance of ritual in the grieving process is considered from multi-spiritual and multi-cultural perspectives from major world religions. A call is made for incorporation of rituals of connectedness to be incorporated into expanded Western models of grief therapy. Poster # 12 Grief Related to Pregnancy Loss: Understanding the Experience of Losing a Child Before Birth Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Life Span Introductory Fernandez, Ramona, BA, MEd The University of Western Ontario, London, Ontario, Canada This study examined the grief response following unintended pregnancy losses occurring throughout the gestational range from conception to full-term, excluding live births. The aim of this study was to have participants share their lived experience, how their worldview had changed and share what they perceived to be helpful and unhelpful in the process of loss, grief and resolution. Seven women participated in a survey and phenomenological interview and were recruited from two sources, a hospital based clinic and the community. Losses across the lifespan ranged from immediate loss, 2 years, 3 years, 4 years, 23 years and 26 years since loss. Interview transcripts were analyzed and ten theme areas were identified, along with lifespan impacts and accommodations to cope and heal over time. Of importance is accommodation process in subsequent pregnancy. Finally participants shared what helped and did not help and made recommendations for professional practice. Keywords: pregnancy loss, miscarriage, grief, bereavement, attachment, trauma, lifespan Poster # 13 Near-Death Experiences: Thirty Years of Scholarly Inquiry Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Resources and Research Introductory ence and its aftereffects. In 2008, leading NDE researchers authored comprehensive, critical reviews of the existing scholarly literature on 10 subtopics covering the phenomenon. The subtopics included NDEs in Western adults, Western children and teens, and non-Western cultures; distressing NDEs, characteristics of near-death experiencers (NDErs), NDEs and world religions, veridical perception in NDEs, explanatory models of NDEs, and applications of NDE scholarship for education about NDEs and counseling NDErs. In this presentation, the lead editor of these reviews will summarize highlights of the authors’ findings, indicating what is and is not currently known about NDEs and concluding with the most pressing needs for further research in the field of near-death studies. Poster # 14 What About Me? Young People Grieve Too: An In-School Grief Support Program Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Life Span Intermediate McCune, Susana, BA Hospice of Kitsap County/ Antioch University Seattle, Suquamish, WA, United States Grief support groups offered during the school day offer a safe space for students to express feelings and find creative solutions for facing the challenges of grief. Death education lifts taboos against the discussion of death and helps students in grades 1-12 incorporate death within their ongoing appraisal of the life cycle. Participants develop greater understanding of the grief process, increase use of positive coping mechanisms, reduce the amount of time spent distracted by grief and enhance their ability to focus on academics. Outcomes include reduced feelings of isolation, improved behavior, and more highly developed connections with peers and school staff. Poster # 15 Using Fiction and Memoir to Help Children and Adults Who Are Grieving Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Markell, Kathryn, PhD1; Markell, Marc, PhD., CT2 1 Anoka-Ramsey Community College, Roseville, MN, United States; 2St. Cloud State University, Rogers, MN, United States This session will expand on past sessions by the presenters that dealt with using Harry Potter and other fictional characters to help grieving children and adolescents. The authors will present some activities from their recently published book on this topic, and they will present new activities from books such as Light on Snow by Anita Shreve and The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion that may be especially helpful for grieving adults. The goal of the presentation is to give participants many practical activities that can be used to help grieving children, adolescents, and adults. The presentation will include ideas about how to apply the activities presented to use with other books and movies. Holden, Janice Miner, EdD, LPC-S, LMFT, NCC University of North Texas, Denton, TX, United States In the 30 years since near-death experiences (NDEs) came into widespread professional and public awareness, authors have addressed the topic in numerous books and over 800 refereed journal articles. Among them have been at least 55 researchers or research teams in North America, Europe, Australia, and Asia who published at least 65 studies involving nearly 3,500 NDErs, addressing both the experi- www.adec.org 65 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Poster Session II – Friday, April 17, 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Poster # 16 A Life Giving Memorial Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Rillstone, Pam, PhD Jacksonville University, Jacksonville, FL, United States Moving forward can be difficult for anyone who has suffered a loss. Creating a meaningful living legacy with that loved one is one unique way to stay connected while growing and healing beyond the loss. The presenter shares how her family and others have created living ocean reefs from their loved one’s ashes, and how this process has been instrumental in giving life back not only to the ocean but within their own hearts. When Adults Grieve a Parent, a Second Look: “I’m Glad The Bastard’s Dead” Assessment and Intervention Family and Individual Intermediate Gilbert, Richard, PhD, DMin, CT Mercy College; Benedictine University (Chicago), Elgin, IL, United States Even deaths when dying has been long-suffering and death is welcomed peace does not comprise either the need to grieve or how we grieve. It is a loss. Things change. Family rituals often seek new expressions. Sometimes there are messes to clean up: ethical decisions around medical care, finances, impact on the family, turmoil within the family (often among siblings), caring for the surviving. All of this, which will be reviewed in this session, comes under the umbrella of denying, demythologizing and deploying. For many adult children, however, the death is a relief. It often feels like closure on a loss that happened so long ago: abandoning the family, addiction, sexual improprieties, poor financial management, incest, violence and abuse. It is about a sense of peace because he/she is gone. For others it is not relief, but a first look at years of pain, losses, dysfunction and hurt that seldom are expressed, don’t go away and are woven through our life and the many losses and memories that have left us feeling very wounded. Through definitions, action plans and case studies we will explore these experiences. Poster # 18 Healing From Loss With Scents Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory McGoldrick, Irene, BS, MSW MSDH, LLC, Wauwatosa, WI, United States Essential oils support the body and lift the spirit, giving the mind a chance to mend. A person can live beyond grief, not just through it, with help from aromatherapy. Aromatherapy uses essential oils and means literally, therapy with aroma. The oils are the pure oils extracted from the plant or fruit and they affect the body both physically and mentally. The chemical compounds in the oils affect the physical body by absorption into the bloodstream 66 Many essential oils assist with symptoms of grief by relieving melancholy, depression and fatigue. Some oils, such as lavender, are relaxing, and others, like peppermint, invigorating. Essential oils do not mask the myriad of emotions involved with great loss. These emotions are, themselves, an essential part of successfully healing. The oils help put the mind at ease and support the body’s immune system during a taxing time. They offer light and beauty in a time of darkness. Poster #19 This Place: A Documentary About Memorial Places Poster # 17 Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: through the skin. The scent of the pure oil affect a person’s mood due to the olfactory nerves direct connection to the limbic system which controls our emotions. Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Kilcrease, J. Worth, MA Austin, TX, United States An important aspect of human mourning is perpetuating links to the past and past relationships while making meaning out of the death experience. A universal way of attempting this is to create tangible, symbolic, physical reminders of the experience and the person(s) involved. We frequently see these reminders in the memorials to those who have died - from the preserved Auschwitz and Buchenwald concentration camps to the Vietnam Memorial to individual gravestones to roadside memorials. However, we seldom know the individual stories behind the memorials and the significance the memorials have to the bereaved. This Place is a documentary video about the tragic death of three adolescents and their families’ responses to those deaths. At the same time two families maintain crosses by the highways where their children died, another mother cares for a garden at the secluded site where her daughter was murdered by a boyfriend. The documentary also provides a rare opportunity to witness a mother building a memorial cross and then placing it at the crash site the next day in honor of her daughter’s 21st birthday. Each family tells their story, describes the creation of their memorial, and shares insight into the importance of the memorial in their individual lives. Poster #20 An After School Program Grief Group with Middle Schoolers Using the Expressive Arts: What Worked and What Didn’t Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Larger Systems Introductory Wortham, Jennifer, LCSW, MSW Transitions, New York, NY, United States Many inner city after school programs employ non-professionals. This method works to strengthen institutional program structures by giving an overview training to non-professionals on grief and loss. The children attending these programs often come from homes that are dealing with a number of issues regarding loss. A child may have lost a parent or relative to AIDS or traumatic death or have a relative in prison. The children may be being raised by a grandparent who lives at poverty level, has health issues and little energy for children who have already experienced parental loss. Avenues for or expression of the grief www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Poster Session II – Friday, April 17, 9:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. these children experience is often limited. Brief education in grief, loss and mourning for staff begins to open new possibilities for both staff and children. The staff experience creating a loss line and then using the expressive arts explore one of those losses. The staff experience mask-making to enable staff to have the experience the children will be having in expressing themselves about their own grief issues. The second part of the program is to coordinate and facilitate the nonprofessionals, (under the supervision of the instructor) to work with the children and their families who will also be creating masks. The project will invite the children within the safety of collage materials and paints to create a mask that shows the face they show the world on the outside of the mask. It will then allow them to express their internal feelings on the hidden side of the mask, which while allowing them privacy and also encourages self-acknowledgment. How to debrief with the staff discussing strengths and challenges in the program will be explored. Poster # 21 Understanding Bereavement Resilience: Integrating Family and Cultural Perspectives Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Poster # 22 Exploring the Various Aspects of Disenfranchisement Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Dyana Reisen The College of New Jersey In disenfranchised grief, a person experiences grief, yet that grief is not acknowledged, validated, or observed in society (Doka, 1989, 2002a). Relationships, losses, and grievers (Doka, 1989), as well as circumstances of the death and ways individuals grieve, can all be disenfranchised (Doka, 2002a). Corr (1998-1999) added that grief reactions and expressions, mourning, and outcomes of grieving and mourning can also be disenfranchised. Additionally, cultural norms and expectations of adolescents can disenfranchise grievers. Disenfranchisement not only creates additional problems for grievers, it also minimizes or removes available support (Doka, 2002a). There are many things that people can do to help prevent disenfranchised grief. The most important seems to be education. As people become more knowledgeable Ho, Andy, CT, MFT, MSocSc, BA, PhD Candidate; Wang, Clarissa, BA (WELLESLEY), MPHIL Candidate (HKU) Hong Kong University, Pokfulam, Hong Kong, China; The common belief that older adults experiencing spousal loss will inevitably suffer from the detrimental effects of grief has recently been challenged by concrete empirical data that evidence a prominent resilient reaction to bereavement. The effort to identify the possible antecedents of individual resilience in the face of loss is of great clinical significance, especially in understanding how coping and resilience can be fostered among older surviving spouses - a rapidly growing population among modern societies. Existing literature on this area has primarily focused on studying the personal and situational factors that facilitate resilience in the face of loss. Familial and cultural factors, which play vital roles in the preservation of individual well-being through extreme adversities, have not been thoroughly examined. This paper attempts to bridge the gap between these research foci by integrating early theoretical premises and recent empirical evidence on grief, family and culture in an effort to stimulate a renewed understanding on the concept of bereavement resilience. www.adec.org 67 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session VI – Friday, April 17, 10:15 a.m. – 11:15 a.m. Concurrent Session VI Friday, April 17, 10:15 a.m. – 11:15 a.m. Invited F Cumberland J When They Die Here But Need to Go There: Shipping the Deceased Home Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Professional Issues Intermediate Piet, William E., LFD Need Affiliation The preparation and shipment of a deceased person’s remains is a subject that is receiving more attention now than ever before. The process of making the funeral arrangements for shipping the remains to another country can be very time consuming and the source of considerable additional expense. Contacting embassies and/or consulates will be required as special shipping containers may need to be utilized and a myriad of documents will be required by each individual country. Airline schedules need to be checked as they change quite frequently. Special instructions from the airlines may add to the time needed in making the transfer to their air freight terminal. Repatriation back to the United States also presents its own special needs and can be just as complicated. Contact with the U.S. Embassy and a Consular Services Representative in the country of death will be required. There are specific requirements to be followed and specific documents that need to be obtained in order to ship into the United States. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. The participants will gain an understanding of the complexities of shipping a person’s remains to another country or receiving the remains into the United States 2. The participants will learn how to research an individual country’s requirements for shipping and how to determine the legal requirements for those countries 3. The participants will learn about the different kinds of documents required, if translation is needed, and how to obtain an apostile in the State of Texas References: Dennis, M. R., Ridder, K., & Kunkel, A.D. (2006). Grief, glory, and political capital in the capitol: Presidents eulogizing presidents. Death Studies, 30, 325-349. Manning, D. 2001. The funeral: A chance to touch, a chance to serve, a chance to heal. Oklahoma City, OK: InSight Books. Stewart, D.J. 2005. Burial at sea: Separating and placing the dead during the age of sail. Mortality, 10, 276-285. Wong, L. 2005. Leave no man behind: Recovering America’s fallen warriors. Armed Forces and Society, 31, 599-622. 68 Practice Report Cumberland B Importance of Whole System Support for the Grieving Family Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Intermediate Haggard, Geraldine, EdD1; Lindwall-Bourg, Karen, MA2 1 ADEC, Plano, TX, United States; 2ADEC, McKinney, TX, United States The experience of grief and mourning comes in many forms and challenges that are often avoided and the process of healthy grief and mourning may even be discouraged by our society. Grief that is not allowed healthy expression will often rear its ugly head in destructive ways and can lead to difficulties coping with any losses throughout life. In our work with grieving families, we see them grieve openly in our groups but not as a whole family unit or system. Families who can acknowledge their grief and learn healthy ways to express their pain can free emotional energies and begin to focus on life and the challenges ahead. Knowledge of the process of grief and how to help others cope with their loss experiences can be a valuable asset for the family and for the care-giver who works with the family. By offering each individual in the family opportunities to grieve their losses and acknowledge the reality and pain that accompanies those losses together as a system, we provide them tools and strategies to cope with the ongoing losses that are a part of everyone’s life. Grief and mourning and tasks that lead to healing are defined. Experiential healing strategies for helping families grieve together are provided while considering developmental life span stages of each family member and a systems perspective of family interaction and relationships. Tips on parenting grieving children and caring for the caregiver are included and practical list of family projects and an extensive annotated bibliography of helpful materials will be provided each for participant. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Share research on the role of caregivers in grieving families 2. Suggest ideas for families as they support each other at home 3. Provide ideas for rituals and memorials for family use References: Becvar, D. S. (2007). Families that flourish: N.Y. Norton. Worden, J.W. (1996). Children and grief: When a parent dies. N.Y:. Guilford. Trazzi, M. (2006). Children and stressful life events. Paper presented at 12th Annual National Symposium of Children’s Grief Support (June, 2008). Wolfelt, A.D. Healing a child’s grieving heart: 100 practical ideas for families, friends & caregivers. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 2001. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session VI – Friday, April 17, 10:15 a.m. – 11:15 a.m. Practice Report Cumberland G When Death Darkens the Door: Supporting Children and Families Facing the Death of a Parent Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Life Span Introductory Practice Report Cumberland I Living, Lost and Losses: The Flight of Shelter Dwellers in the Florida Keys Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Life Span Intermediate Meris, Doneley, MSW, MA, CT Warnick, Andrea, BScN, RN, MA; Toye, Lysa, MSW, Dip EXAT HIV Arts Network, New York, NY, United States Max & Beatrice Wolfe Centre for Children’s Grief and Palliative Care, Toronto, Ontario, Canada; In an ongoing investigation, this workshop will explore the death and dying experiences and life transitions of homeless men and women who depend nightly on the comfort of beds made available by an overnight shelter in the Florida Keys. Through interviews and support group sessions, 113 homeless persons illustrate human challenges as they share their multiple death-loss experiences and their daily struggles finding food, employment and safety. The voices of these disenfranchised men and women presents a unique panorama of how survival instincts, post-bereavement concerns and ongoing challenges of comfort impact on biopsychosocial processes. Supporting children through the dying and death of a parent is extremely challenging regardless of professional background. Due to a lack of formal training and resources as well as a fear of “saying the wrong thing”, many professionals are uncomfortable giving advice on how to support children through the death of a loved one. In addition, myths regarding children and death permeate all disciplines, serving as an additional barrier to families receiving guidance in this area. Yet advice from professionals in health care, education, and social services, is exactly what so many parents need as they too struggle with questions regarding what to tell children and how to tell children about an impending death. While the current body of research on children and grief advises a policy of honesty and inclusion when supporting children living with dying and death, many professionals are often unaware of this knowledge, and unsure of what role they can play. This presentation will explore ways of supporting children through the death of a parent. We will identify developmental and emotional issues for children facing the death of a parent and discuss simple strategies to support parents’ communication with their children during such a difficult time. We will also explore interventions that support children and adolescents’ abilities to understand what is happening, to creatively express their feelings and worries, and to grieve in ways that are healthy and meaningful for them and their family. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify common myths which serve as barriers to talking to children about an impending death 2. Recognize children’s extraordinary capacities to understand, and live with issues related to dying and death 3. Identify strategies and interventions to facilitate communication among family members when a parent is dying References: Christ, G. H., & Christ, A. E. (2006). Current approaches to helping a child cope with a parent’s terminal illness. CA: A Cancer Journal for Clinicians, 56, 197-212. Christ, G., Siegel, K., Karus, D., & Christ, A. (2005). Evaluation of a bereavement intervention. The Journal of Social Work in End-of-Life and Palliative Care, 1(3), 57-81. MacPherson, C. (2005). Telling children their ill parent is dying: A study of the factors influencing the well parent. Mortality, 10(2), 113-126. Saldinger, A., Cain, A.C., Porterfield, K. & Lohnes, K. (2004). Facilitating attachment between school-aged children and a dying parent. Death Studies, 28, 915-940. www.adec.org This workshop will present the unique ways in which these shelter dwellers access bereavement and mental health support through faithbased institutions and a number of social service programs throughout the Florida Keys. Through an HIV-prevention and bereavement program that has been offered on-site at the shelter, these shelter dwellers have been able to present the unique ways in which they have reviewed their relationships with the deceased, strengthened their survival instincts, and determination to live. In the grief support group, they have opened doors to ackowledge their death losses and begin to address the meanings of their life and death experiences. Their reflections provide a clinical framework for clinicians, homeless advocates and outreach workers to reach out to this population, network them with appropriate bereavement and mental health services, and establish community re-integration supports. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize the unique dilemma for shelter dwellers as they acknowledge their multiple death losses, life transitions and basic living processes 2. Utilize a model of supportive outreach to begin to address the losses and daily life challenges of shelter dwellers that impact on their post-bereavement experiences 3. Discuss unique counseling frameworks that best serve the complex biopsychosocial and grief concerns of shelter dwellers References: Bonanno, G.A. & Field, N.P. (2001). Examining the delayed grief hypothesis across 5 years of bereavement. American Behavioral Scientist, 44, 798-816. Currier, J.M., Holland, J.M. & Neimeyer, R.A. (2006). Sense-making, grief, and the experience of violent loss: Towards a mediational model. Death Studies, 30, 403-428. Robertson, M.J. (2004). Interventions, evaluations and research issues and findings among homeless populations. APHA 132nd Annual Meeting Proceedings, 5013.0, p. 174. Tehrani, N. (2004). Road victim trauma: An investigation of the impact on the injured and bereaved. Counselling Psychology Quarterly, 17, 361-373. 69 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session VI – Friday, April 17, 10:15 a.m. – 11:15 a.m. Practice Report Cumberland K Research Report Working With Children Who Have Lost a Loved One in the Military - TAPS Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Campagna, Heather, EDS, MA1; Saari, Tina, BS2 Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS), Columbia, SC, United States; 2Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS), Harker Heights, TX, United States 1 The presentation will discuss options in supporting those who have lost a loved one while serving in the military. The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) is the only non-porfit Veteran’s service organization that soley assists the surviving loved ones of those who have died in service to our nation. A discussion of how a death in the military is different than that of a civilian counterpart, and how understanding the military culture can assist the professional in understanding a military family’s grief. As a peer mentoring program model, the presentation will discuss how to most affectively reach these children using a peer based support group, concentrating on their common bond of a military loss. The presentation will concentrate on coping with grief in the military culture and using the Companioning model to help each other heal. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explain how grief is different in children with a military loss 2. Discuss the TAPS Program and how this program supports children and families who have lost a loved one while serving in the military 3. Identify how to access the various support services provided by TAPS References: Beard, B. (2008). Military children and grief. In K. Doka & A. Tucci (Eds.). Living in grief: Children and adolescents (pp. 193-212). Hospice Foundation of America. NCTSN. (2007). Childhood traumatic grief: educational materials. Retrieved July 29, 2008 from http://nctsn.org/nccts/nav. do?pid=typ_tg. Wolfelt, A. (2006). Companioning the bereaved: A soulful guide to companioning. California: Companion Press. Worden, J.W. (1996). Children and grief: When a parent dies. New York: Guilford Press. V Landmark A The Toll of Violence: African American Adjustment to Homicide Loss Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Resources and Research Intermediate Neimeyer, Robert A., PhD1; McDevitt-Murphy, Meghan, PhD1; Burke, Laurie A., BA1; Van Dyke, Jessica G., BA1; Lawson, Katherine E., EdD2 University of Memphis, Memphis, TN, United States; 2Victims to Victory, Inc., Memphis, TN, United States 1 Grief literature suggests that adjustment to loss is a dynamic process that is moderated by various psychosocial factors, mode of death, and relationship to the deceased. Evidence indicates that survivors of violent or untimely deaths are particularly at risk for developing more severe grief responses, due to the unnatural and unexpected nature of the loss. Over half of all murder victims in the United States are African American, but little is known about the effects of traumatic loss on black homicide survivors. To elucidate the unique processes that may occur in individuals bereaved by traumatic losses, intensive interviews were conducted with 40 predominantly low-income African Americans bereaved by homicide who were receiving support services from a faith-based community organization. The study investigated several potential predictors of survivors’ psychosocial adaptation, including general and religious coping behavior and meaning reconstruction in the wake of loss, and outcomes evaluated included a range of complicated grief, trauma, depression and anxiety responses as well as access to adaptive states of positive emotion. The voices of participants themselves derived from the qualitative interviews were used to illustrate the special challenges of homicide bereavement and to contribute greater nuance to the interpretation of the quantitative findings. Results contribute to a clearer understanding of factors that may mediate the response to homicide bereavement, and suggest healing practices that could inform support group work and psychotherapeutic intervention for this vulnerable population. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify grief responses unique to African Americans 2. Recognize the challenges that face survivors of homicide 3. Describe the role of coping behavior, meaning reconstruction, and psychopathology in African American bereavement due to homicide References: Bonnano, G. A., Neria, Y., Mancini, A., Coifman, K., Litz, B., Insel, G. (2007). Is there more to complicated grief than depression and posttraumatic stress disorder? A test of incremental validity. Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 116(2). 342-351. Currier, J. M., Holland, J. M., Coleman, R. A., & Neimeyer, R. A. (2007). Bereavement following violent death: An assault on life and meaning. In R. Stevenson & G. Cox (Eds.) Perspectives on violence and violent death. (pp. 175-200). Amityville, NY: Baywood. Prigerson, H. G., Shear, M. K., Frank, E., Beery, L.C., Silberman, R., Prigerson, J. et al. (1997). Traumatic grief: A case for loss-induced trauma. American Journal of Psychiatry, 154(7), 1003-1009. Rosenblatt, P. C., & Wallace, B. R. (2005). Narratives of grieving African-Americans about racism in the lives of deceased family members. Death Studies, 29(3), 217-235. 70 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session VI – Friday, April 17, 10:15 a.m. – 11:15 a.m. Research Report Cumberland H Research Report Cumberland L The Role of After-Death Communication Experiences in Bereavement Resolution Identity and Meaning Construction in Multiple Widowhood Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Intermediate Frogge, Stephanie, MTS1; Stewart, Alan, PhD2 1 None, Huntsville, TX, United States; 2University of Georgia, Athens, GA, United States A study was conducted of 211 people who reported after-death communications (ADCs) with deceased friends or family members. The data were gathered through semi-structured interviews with people who were receiving support, advocacy, or therapeutic services following the death of a loved one. The interviews were analyzed using a groundedtheory approach. Nine major components of the ADCs were observed: 1. Premonition of or awareness that the death occurred, 2. Visitation by the deceased at or following the death (visual), 3. Unusual dream or night-time visitation, 4. Unexplainable phenomena at the time or following the death (i. e., light/aura, movement of objects, music), 5. Explainable phenomena at or following the time of death (e. g., unusual weather), 6. Presence of the deceased sensed through sound, smell, touch, or taste (i. e., other than visual), 7. Experience of a physical sensation, 8. Experience of God or heaven, and 9. Pet or animal behavior at or following the death. In addition to cataloging these themes relationships between the type of death and other variables and the reported communication experiences were noted including their impact on healing. The proposed workshop will be of interest both to thanatology researchers and to grief and bereavement counselors. In addition to a discussion of the research results, the presenters will discuss the therapeutic implications of processing ADCs with clients. Beyond considerations about the veridicality of the communications, the presenters will examine how such communications can be used to promote meaningmaking, the expression of emotion, and the identification of possible avenues for personal growth following the death of a loved one. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize the frequency and forms of ADCs 2. Address ADCs with clients with a focus on bereavement resolution 3. Identify positive responses to ADCs that aid in recovery References: Krippner, S. (2006). Getting through the grief: After-death communication experiences and their effects on experients. The survival of human consciousness: Essays on the possibility of life after death. (pp. 174-193). Jefferson, NC, US: McFarland & Co. Houck, J. (2005, December). The universal, multiple, and exclusive experiences of after-death communication. Journal of Near-Death Studies, 24(2), 117-127. Parker, J. S. (2005). After-death communication expriences and adaptive outcomes of grief (Doctoral dissertation, Saybrook Graduate School and Research Center, US, 2005). Dissertation Abstracts International: Section B: Sciences and Engineering, 65(11-B), pp. 6054. Guggenheim, B., & Guggenheim, J. (1995). Hello from heaven. Lakeland, Florida: The ADC Project. www.adec.org Loss, Grief and Mourning Professional Issues Intermediate Miles, Rosemary, PhD Kaiser Permanente, Roseville, CA, United States This qualitative study examined a) midlife women’s narratives describing the experiences of losing more than spouse to death b) the constructed meaning about these multiple deaths and c) the impact of these losses on identity. Prior multiple losses are noted to be a significant risk factor for bereavement outcomes. The investigation utilizes a narrative interpretive method to capture the women’s personal stories. Nine in-depth semi-structured interviews were conducted, with women between the ages of 37 to 61, inclusive. The data were analyzed utilizing a grounded theory approach. Making sense of the losses was a process subject to evolution over time. For a subgroup of widows, religious/spiritual beliefs significantly informed their reconstructed narratives. Three women were unable to commit to a cognitive explanation for the losses; however, they created an affective-based meaning via connection to others. A model of identity change is presented related to traumatic loss. Although most of the widows, after initial widowhood, describe some seminal identity change, the majority of the women emphasize the potency of a subsequent spousal death to create a cognitive-affective shift that deepened their self-change. Overall posttraumatic growth or decline was dependent on an array of personal and social factors. Theoretical, methodological, ethical and research implications of this investigation are reviewed. Limitations include the retrospective and descriptive design. Suggestions are offered for clinicians as to how to intervene effectively with this subpopulation of widows. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss theoretical underpinning that support how multiple-widowhood differs from single-widowhood 2. Utilize a model of identity change that illustrates how multiplewidowhood may lead to post traumatic growth/decline 3. Recognize how to effectively intervene with multiple widows in clinical practice References: Dutton, Y.C. & Zisook, S. (2005). Adaptation to bereavement. Death Studies, 29, 877-903. Janoff-Bulman, R. (2006). Schema-change perspectives on post-traumatic growth. In L. G. Calhoun & R. G. Tedeschi (Eds.), Handbook of post-traumatic growth: Research and practice ( pp. 81-99). Mahweh, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum. Miles, R.C.(2008). Identity and meaning construction in multiplewidowhood. Unpublished dissertation, Fielding Graduate University, Santa Barbara. Neimeyer, R.A., (2005) Widowhood, grief and the quest for meaning: A narrative perspective on resilience. In R. Nesse, C. Wortman & d. Carr (Eds.), Late life widowhood: A new direction in theory, research and practice. New York: Springer. Neimeyer, R.A. (2006). Complicated grief and the quest for meaning: A constructivist contribution. Omega: Journal of Death and Dying. 52 (1), 37-52. 71 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session VI – Friday, April 17, 10:15 a.m. – 11:15 a.m. Concurrent Session VII – Friday, April 17, 11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Scholarly Paper Cumberland A ”Fragmented Answers”: Recounting Lucy Grealy’s Story Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Contemporary Perspectives Intermediate Fowler, Kathleen, PhD Ramapo College of New Jersey, Ramsey, NJ, United States Illness narratives and grief memoirs offer extraordinary resources for death educators, counselors, and caregivers. This presentation will offer an examination of the questions of authenticity, authority, and “value” of the Illness Narrative and the Grief Memoir through the lens of Lucy Grealy’s own Autobiography of a Face (1994) and Ann Patchett’s memoir of Grealy: Truth and Beauty (2004) and will explore ways that examining these paired texts can enhance death education (particularly for caregivers) and grief counseling. Grealy had Ewing’s Sarcoma as a child and lost a large portion of her jaw to surgery followed by radiation and chemotherapy. The rest of her life was a constant battle with pain, over 30 (failed) reconstructive surgeries, loneliness, and depression. Nonetheless, Grealy became a celebrated memoirist, essayist, poet and teacher. She published her memoir, Autobiography of a Face in 1994. Grealy died of an overdose of heroin in 2002. Ann Patchett, a close friend of Grealy’s for 20 years and an author in her own right, wrote a tribute and memoir to Grealy, entitled Truth and Beauty, in 2004. Both books are exceptional in their writing, themes, and intense quest for understanding, truth and communication. Even more exceptional is the existence of both an autobiography and a biography on the same subject exploring the impact of disease, medical interventions, suffering and loss. Hence examining the two narratives together and within the context of the illness narrative tradition and the grief memoir tradition, promises to help illuminate not only Grealy but also the key features, and flexibility of the two genres and their applicability to thanatology. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss the key features of illness narratives and grief memoirs 2. Recognize ways that such narratives can be used in grief counseling and death education 3. Recognize the issues of authenticity, memory, and interpretation in the analysis of personal narratives References: Bingley, A. F., E. McDermott, C. Thomas, S. Payne, J. E. Seymour and D. Clark. (2006). Making sense of dying: a review of narratives written since 1950 by people facing death from cancer and other diseases. Palliative Medicine 20,183-195. Fowler, K. (2007). So new, so new: Art and heart in women’s grief memoirs. Women’s Studies 36(7), 525-549. Frank, A.W. (1995). The wounded storyteller: Body, illness, and ethics. Chicago: The University of Chicago Press. Gilbert, K.L. (2002). Taking a narrative approach to grief research: Finding meaning in stories. Death Studies, 26, 223-229. Grealy, L. (1994). Autobiography of a face. Bloomsbury: Bloomsbury Press. Patchett, A. (2004). Truth and beauty: A friendship. NY: Harper Collins Publishers. Shapiro, Ester R. (1998). The healing power of culture stories: What writers can teach psychotherapists. Cultural Diversity and Mental Health, 4(2), 91-101. 72 Concurrent Session VII Friday, April 17, 11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Invited F Cumberland C When a Person Dies at Home Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Loring, Paula, LCSW, LMFT1; Piet, William2, LFD 1 San Antonio, TX, ; 2 One of the most sensitive and uneasy times for a family is when a loved one dies at home and the funeral home arrives to take the body into their care. Emotions are running high, the family is not sure what to expect and they can be shocked by the way the body is handled. This tender time is the beginning of the funeral planning process in which their relationship with the funeral home is established. It can also be a powerful part of the healing process if handled in a respectful and reverent manner. The transporting of the body to the funeral home can be a ritual that allows the family to honor their loved one, and begin to prepare for planning the funeral. Unfortunately not all funeral homes recognize how sensitive this process is. Informed hospice staff can help the family understand what will happen when the funeral home arrives and advocate for them when they have specific needs or concerns. This workshop will review the step by step process of how the body should be taken into the funeral homes care, and how the hospice staff can help the family make this a healing experience. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Gain an understanding of the significance of the funeral home taking the body into their care and how it relates to grief and healing 2. Learn about six elements of a meaningful ritual which can assist them in helping families to create a meaningful experience when they release their loved one’s body to the funeral home 3. Gain understanding of legal, procedural and funeral planning concerns when a body is transported to the funeral home Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland L A Sacred Trust - Returning the Wartime Fallen Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Contemporary Perspectives Introductory Giles, Karen, BS, MS Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science, Cincinnati, OH, United States The presentation will provide a contemporary perspective of the work of the Port Mortuary - Dover AFB, DE as related by its former director. The presentation is designed to be “Introductory” in level; however, this program could be of interest to “Intermediate” and/or “Advanced” audiences due to its unique perspective. The presentation’s learning objectives include: - discussing the process of returning the wartime/ contingency dead to their families; - recognizing the importance of support to the service providers and how it has changed over time; and - recognizing the exceptional demands on military liaisons as they work with the bereaved families and the critical role of the receiving funeral director at destination. Additionally, we will look at how the sudden (and usually traumatic) loss of life can compound challenges to both service providers and families as they work through the loss. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session VII – Friday, April 17, 11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss the process of returning the wartime /contingency dead to their families 2. Recognize the importance of support to the service providers and how it has changed over time 3. Recognize the exceptional demands on the military liaisons as they work with the bereaved families and the critical role of the receiving funeral director at destination References: Jones, C. (2008). The things that carried him. Esquire, 149, 102-148 Raymond, C. (2007). Final Post.The Director (NFDA), 79, 62-70. Baum, D. (2004). Two Soliders - How the dead come home. The New Yorker, August 9 & 16, 76-85. Kunz, C.L. (2005). Dignity, honor and respect. Airman, June, 32-35. Practice Report Cumberland A The Trauma Dialogues: Facilitating an Empowered Voice for Homicide-Loss Survivors Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Intermediate Blakley, Theresa, PhD1; Mehr, Nita, MSW2 1 Union University, Jackson, TN, United States; 2Freed-Hardeman University, Bells, TN, United States The murder of a loved one is a profane, senseless loss, leaving surviving family members emotionally spent with pain they feel is too great to bear. Shock, bewilderment, grief, and rage are felt in the body, mind, and spirit of family members whose lives are forever changed in the instant they learn of the violent death. Unfamiliar and strange, grieving family members must also wrestle with a host of intensely distressful trauma-spun symptoms that can undermine everyday life-functioning. Flashbacks of the actual event, grotesque fantasies of the violent dying moments of a cherished one, avoidance of any stimuli that brings the event to mind, hypervigilance as to safety of self and others, and a host of other intrusive experiences can make life even more miserable in the aftermath of murder. De-mystifying these distressful experiences common to trauma survivors can be empowering for those suffering homicide loss. This session features an explication and demonstration of “The Trauma Dialogues,” a psycho-educational exercise that identifies and explains distressful bio-psychosocial symptoms some persons experience following a severe trauma event. Symptoms stemming from the two primary categories of post-traumatic distress, dissociation and hyperarousal, will be identified, defined, and described as to their purpose and function in the process of trauma accommodation. Personification of symptoms in role-played dialogue with a trauma survivor will be enacted by the presenters. Presenters will discuss their experiences in utilizing “The Trauma Dialogues” in support group and workshop group settings with homicide-loss survivors. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Participants will be able to identity 9 commonly experienced symptoms of distress following severe trauma, considering the functions of each in trauma accommodation tasks 2. Participants will become familiar with bio-psychosocial commonalities and challenges experienced by survivors of homicide-loss www.adec.org 3. By seeing the exercise enacted and discussing its implications, participants will acquire a working knowledge of one psychoeducational experience that can be used with homicide-loss survivors or adapted for survivors of other severe trauma types References: Bucholz, J. (2002). Homicide survivors: Misunderstood grievers. In John D. Morgan (Ed.). Death, value and meaning series. New York: Baywood Publishing. Ehlers, A., Hackmann, A., Steil, R., Clohessy, S., Wenninger, K., & Winter, H. (2002). The nature of intrusive memories after trauma: The warning signal hypothesis. Behavior Research and Therapy, 40, 995-1002. Henry-Jenkins, W. (1997). Just us: Homicidal loss and grief. Omaha, NE: Centering Corporation Resource. Holmes, E., Grey, N., & Young, K. A. D. (2005). Intrusive images and “hotspots of trauma memories in posttraumatic stress disorder: an exploratory investigation of emotions and cognitive themes. Journal of Behavior Therapy and Experimental Psychiatry, 36, 3-7. Kindt, M. & Engelhard, I. M. (2005). Trauma processing and the development of posttraumatic stress disorder. Journal of Behavior Therapy and Experimental Psychiatry, 36, 69-76. Miller, C. (2006). When the unconscious knows best. Harvard Mental Health Letter, 23(1), 8. Miller, L. (1998). Psychotherapy of crime victims: Treating the aftermath of interpersonal violence. Psychotherapy, 35(3), 336-345. Parkes, C. M. (1993). Psychiatric problems following bereavement by murder or manslaughter. British Journal of Psychiatry, 162, 49-54. Rynearson, E. K. (2001). Retelling violent death. Pennsylvania, PA: Brunner-Routledge. Rynearson, E. K. (Ed.). (2006). Violent death: Resilience and intervention beyond the crisis. New York: Routledge. Spungen, D. (1998). Homicide: The hidden victims. A guide for professionals. Interpersonal violence. In the practice series. Thousand Oaks: Sage Salston, M. (1994). Clinical treatment of survivors of homicide victims. In M. B. Williams and J. F. Sommer, Jr.(Eds.) Handbook of Post-traumatic Therapy (pp. 129-145). Greenwood Press: Westport, CT. Van der Kolk, B. A. & Fisler, R. (1995). Dissociation and the fragmentary nature of traumatic memories: Overview and exploratory study. Journal of Traumatic Stress, 8(4), 505-525. Blakley, T. & Mehr, N. (in press for 2008). Common ground: The development of a support group for survivors of homicide loss in a rural community. Social Work with Groups, 31(3/4). Practice Report Cumberland G Comforting Terminally Ill Chinese: Cultural Understanding of the Family’s Bereavement Process Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Shen, Yih-Jiun, DED University of Texas-Pan American, Edinburg, TX, United States This presentation intends to equip the audience (e.g., hospital and hospice personnel, counselors, social workers, psychologists) with knowledge of Chinese people’s grief and bereavement process. According to the U.S. Census Bureau (2005), Chinese American is the largest group of the Asian American population, which is the most rapidly growing single ethnicity in the United States. When working with terminally ill clients (or patients) and their family, these professionals are often expected to provide supportive programs. These programs should be able to address the clientele’s emotional, psychological, 73 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session VII – Friday, April 17, 11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. social, and spiritual needs for allowing the dying persons to end their life with peace and dignity. Without adequate understanding of the clients’ (or patients’) cultural norms and values, these professionals may hit a landmine and easily fail the mission. To explain the bereavement and ceremony guidelines setup by the ancestors of Chinese, this presentation will review ancient Chinese literature documenting the roots of Chinese bereavement process for more than 3,000 years. The profound concepts of funerals in Chinese and Western cultures will be compared. The program will also address other factors (religions, philosophies, and societal customs) that have gradually shaped the development of Chinese funerals. Based on the contemporary literature and the presenter’s firsthand experience in Chinese culture, the contemporary cultural norms and ceremonies in major Chinese societies and how the people express their post-funeral grief will be discussed. The conference attendees will learn these topics via a PowerPoint presentation and interactive discussion. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Understand the major factors that influence Chinese people’s grief and bereavement process 2. Become more aware of the differences between the cultural concepts in Chinese and Western funerals 3. Recognize and empathize with Chinese people’s post-funeral grief References: Chan, C. L.-W., Chow, A. Y.-M., Ho, S. M.-Y., Tsui, Y. K.-Y., Tin, A. F., Koo, B. W.-K., Koo, & E. W.-K. (2005). The experience of Chinese bereaved persons: A preliminary study of meaning making and continuing bonds. Death Studies, 29, 923-947. Chow, A. Y.-M., Chan, C. L.-W., Ho, S. M.-Y., Tse, D. M.-W., Suen, M. H.-P., & Yuen, K. F.-K. (2006). Qualitative study of Chinese widows in Hong Kong: Insights for psycho-social care in hospice settings. Palliative Medicine, 20, 513-520. Hsu, M.-T., Kahn, D., Yee, D.-H., & Lee, W.-L. (2004). Recovery through reconnection: A cultural design for family bereavement in Taiwan. Death Studies, 28, 761-786. Martinson, I., Chao, C.-S. C., & Chung, L. (2005). Dying, death, and grief: Glimpses in Hong Kong and Taiwan. In J. D. Morgan & P. Laungani (Eds.), Death and bereavement around the world: Vol. 4. Death and bereavement in Asia, Australia and New Zealand (pp. 123-134). Amityville, NY: Baywood. McGoldrick, M., Schlesinger, J. M., Lee, E., Hines, P. M.,Chan, J., Almeida, R., Petkov, B., Preto, N. G., & Petry, S. (2004). Mourning in different cultures. In F. Walsh & M. McGoldrick (Eds.), Living beyond loss: Death in the family (2nd ed., pp. 119-160). New York: W W Norton & Co. Wu, J. (2005). Death and bereavement among the Chinese in Asia. In J. D. Morgan & P. Laungani (Eds.), Death and bereavement around the world: Vol. 4. Death and bereavement in Asia, Australia and New Zealand (pp. 135-139). Amityville, NY: Baywood. Practice Report Cumberland H Developing a Clinical Advancement Program for Bereavement Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Professional Issues Advanced Borgman, C. Jan, MSW Cincinnati, OH, United States Being part of a health care system offers an employee many opportunities for professional growth and development. Many of the disciplines offer clinical advancement programs that encourage staff to grow within their profession. However, most health organizations who offer bereavement programs usually only have one person in that role and there may not be a clinical advancement program directly related to bereavement. Believing that bereavement should be recognized as a specialty and that the bereavement provider should be encouraged to grow professionally and be rewarded for their skills, a Clinical Advancement Program was written specifically for bereavement. This program will discuss the clinical advancement process and ways to integrate it into a professional setting. Holding ourselves to a higher standard helps the organization see that bereavement services requires skill and training and should be recognized as a clinical speciality. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Define clinical advancement 2. Discuss conponents of a clinical advancement program 3. Develop a clinical advancement program for their positon References: Scrivener, W.(2008). Plain views: A publication of the health care chaplaincy; A clinical advancement program for chaplains; Vol 5, No.12, 7/16/08 Balk, D., Wogrin, C.; Thornton, G.; & Meagher, D. (2007). Handbook of thanatology; Association of Death Education and Counseling, Northbrook, IL. Manning, D. (2004). The power of presence: Helping people help people. Oklahoma, OK: In Sight Books. Smith, D. (2003). The complete book of counseling the dying and the grieving. Madison, WI.: Psycho-Spiritual Publications. Research Report Cumberland E/F Psychometric Evidence for the Continuing Bonds Inventory Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Resources and Research Advanced Hogan, Nancy, PhD, RN, FAAN1; Schmidt, Lee, PhD, RN2 Loyola University Chicago, Chicago, IL, United States; 2Loyola University Chicago, Maywood, IL, United States 1 Bereavement researchers are currently developing and testing the empirical and theoretical nature of the continuing bonds phenomenon. Consequently, the Continuing Bonds Inventory (CBI) was developed to measure bereaved parents’ and adolescents’ sense of continuing bonds following sibling or child’s death. The CBI items were derived from 157 bereaved adolescents and 207 bereaved parents who provided written responses to the question, “If you could ask or tell your dead loved one something what would it be?” Content analyzed data revealed two conceptual categories. 74 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session VII – Friday, April 17, 11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. A study of 170 bereaved adults was conducted to evaluate the psychometric evidence of the CBI. Fourteen items were subjected to exploratory factor analysis. Two factors were extracted, factor I: Continuing Presence contains 9 items representing participants assertion that their loved one is a continuing presence in their life, that feeling the loved one’s presence and feeling close to him or her is comforting and a belief that the loved one will always be with them. The Cronbach’s alpha for this scale was .91. Factor II, Miss and Love contains 5 items representing participant perception that they continue to love and miss the deceased loved one, that they anticipated always missing and loving them and that their love was as strong as it had been before the death occurred. The Cronbach’s alpha for this subscale was 88. Preliminary psychometric evidence supports the utility of the Continuing Bonds Inventory. The presentation will outline a clinical evaluation project that is examining the needs of long-term home residents with cancer in the interests of developing a multi-pronged approach to meet the increasing demands on health care professionals, patients and families within available resources. The challenges and opportunities for improving this aspect of geriatric care will be discussed. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discribe the empirical development of the CBI items 2. Define the psychometric findings of the CBI 3. Discuss clinical implications of for the continuing bonds phenomenon References: Bourbonniere, M. van Cleave, J.H. (2006). Cancer care in nursing homes. Seminars in Oncology Nursing. Feb 22(1):51-57. Buchanan, R.J., Barkley, J., Wang, S., Kim, M.S. (2005). Analyses of nursing home residents with cancer at admission. Cancer Nursing 28:406-414. Rodin, M.B. (2008). Cancer patients admitted to nursing homes: What do we know? Journal of the American Medical Directors Association; 9:149-156. Turis, M. (2006). Nursing homes may be the only option for palliative care: Changing demographics. Canadian Nursing Home Jun-Jul; 17(2):4, 6-10. Johnson, V.M.P., Teno, J.M., Bourbonniere, M. Mor, V. (2005). Palliative care needs of cancer patients in U.S. nursing homes. Journal of Palliative Medicine, Apr; 8(2); 273-9. Chen J.H., Chan D.C., Kiely D.K., Morris J.N., Mitchell S.L. (2007). Terminal trajectories of functional decline in the long-tem care setting. Journal of Gerontology: Medical Sciences, 62A:531-536. Jordhoy M.S., Saltvedt I., Fayers P., Loge J.H., Ahlner-Elmqvist M., Kaasa S. (2005). Which cancer patients die in nursing homes? Quality of life, medical and sociodemographic characteristics. Palliative Medicine, 17:433-444. Hall P., Schroder C., Weaver L. (2002). The last 48 hours of life in long-term care: A focused chart audit. Journal of the American Geriatric, 50:501-506. References: Hogan, N. S. (2008). Sibling loss: Issues for children and adolescents. In K. Doka. (Ed.). Living with grief: Children and adolescents. Lalande, K. M., & Bonanno, G. A. (2006). Culture and continuing bonds: A prospective comparison of bereavement in the United States and the Peoples’s Republic of China. Death Studies, 303-324. Gamino, L. A., Sewell, K. W. & Easterling, L. W. (2000). Scott & White grief study-phase 2: Toward an adaptive model of grief. Death Studies, 633-660. Hogan, N.S., & DeSantis, L. (1992). Adolescent sibling bereavement: An ongoing attachment. Qualitative Health Research, 2, 159-177. Research Report Cumberland I Long Term Care Facilities: Are They Meeting the Needs of the Elderly With Cancer and Their Families? Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Larger Systems Introductory Gorman, Eunice, RN, BSW, MSW, RSW, PhD Candidate1; Gibson, Maggie, PhD2 King’s University College London, London, Ontario, Canada; 2UWO St Joseph’s Health Sciences Centre, London, Ontario, Canada 1 Ten to fifteen percent of people admitted to nursing homes and long term care facilities yearly have a diagnosis of cancer. It is estimated that over 50% of these individuals face the probability of death within the first year that they become residents. Furthermore, they are less likely to have a spouse, or primary care-giver, near by who can advocate on their behalf, or indeed manage their high care needs. They are often frail and require intensive end of life care that is not readily available in nursing homes. Staff is trained in gerontology and care of the elderly but not necessarily in palliative care and end of life support. These limitations are a growing concern as nursing homes become inundated with residents who have issues of pain management, depression, and cognitive impairment coupled with a cancer diagnosis. As elderly people with a life threatening illness, other long term health concerns and even in some cases cognitive impairment they have care requirements that the current system is struggling to meet. This trend in admission to nursing homes means that there are increasing demands on staff and residents. There is a lack of sufficient and available palliative care resources to support the frail and ill elderly in nursing homes. www.adec.org Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Examine the particular needs of elderly individuals admitted to long term care facilities with a diagnosis of cancer 2. Discuss ways the system can respond to this changing demographci 3. Illustrate supports and resources to better assist staff, residents and their loved ones Research Report Cumberland J Couple Relationships Following the Loss of a Child Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Intermediate Gudmundsdottir, Maria, RN, PhD1; Davies, Betty, RN, PhD2 1 University of California San Francisco, San Francisco, CA, United States; 2University of California, San Francisco, Fairfield, CA, United States Grief literature overemphasizes the individual aspect of grief and neglects to discuss grief from a relational perspective. In this presentation, the results from two qualitative studies, one of couples’ and the other of father’s perspectives of couple relationships following the loss of a child will be discussed. The first study was a phenomenological study of 7 couples who had lost a young child to sudden, unexpected death and the second study was a grounded theory study of 60 ethnically diverse fathers who had lost a child to a life-limiting illness. In-depth interviews were conducted with couples and individuals with the purpose of understanding and describing the impact of child loss on couple relationship. Some participants had lost an only child while others had other living children, were pregnant or had given birth to subsequent children at the time of the interviews. Both studies adhered 75 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session VII – Friday, April 17, 11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. to procedures of trustworthiness for qualitative research. Findings indicated that for some, the stress of the child’s illness and loss strained marriages and threatened to break up relationships; couple differences were sometimes amplified although not necessarily leading to troubled relationships. for others, grief led to closeness, couple cohesiveness and increased mutual support. Some participants described an initial increased closeness followed by a period of drifting apart and even separation. for many, aspects of their relationship, particularly friendship, became stronger than ever. Findings offer guidance for supporting parental units, as well as individual parents, in palliative care and bereavement. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe three ways in which the loss of a child impacts upon parents’ relationship 2. Describe the nature of change in the couple’s relationship over time 3. Identify two factors that influence dimensions of the parents’ relationship References: Chesla, C., & Gudmundsdottir, M. (2006). Building a new world: Habits and practices of healing following the death of a child. Journal of Family Nursing, 12,143- 154. Davies, B., Gudmundsdottir, M., Worden, B., Orloff, S., Sumner, L., Brenner, P. (2004) Living in the dragon’s shadow. Fathers’ experiences of a child’s life-limiting illness. Death studies, 28, 111-135. Wood J.D., Milo, E. (2001). Fathers’ grief when a disabled child dies. Death Studies, 25: 635-661. Mu P-F, Ma F-C, Hwang B, Chao Y-M. (2002). Families of children with cancer: The impact of anxiety experienced by fathers. Cancer Nursing, 25, 66-73. Scholarly Paper Cumberland B How African American Novelists Have Depicted Racism-Caused Grief in African American Families Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Intermediate Rosenblatt, Paul, PhD University of Minnesota, St. Paul, MN, United States African American novelists have often depicted the affect of racism on African American individuals and families. The novelists depict an enormous range of consequences of racism for African American individuals and families, and one consequence that some depict is grief, sometimes with a lifetime or even multigenerational impact. This paper explores aspects of grief in James Baldwin’s Go Tell It on the Mountain and If Beale Street Could Talk, Beebe Moore Campbell’s Your Blues Ain’t Like Mine, Paule Marshall’s Brown Girl, Brownstones, and Toni Morrison’s Song of Solomon. Fiction is fiction, but it may also represent personal experiences and observations, cultural knowledge, and astute and well informed conceptualizations. to the extent that the novels provide us with viable ideas about grief in the context of racism, they give us ingredients for thinking, perceiving, and analyzing life in a racial system, grief in the racial system and in many different contexts, and the uses of literary representations. The analysis of grief in the five novels discussed in the presentation offers a diverse set of pictures of the affects of racism on African American families, the interplay of individual emotion and family relationships, the possibilities of healing and getting on with life, and the complex tangle of African American grieving with the economics of the racial system, with the injustices of some justice systems, and with feelings that are analytically separate 76 from grief (for example, fear, hopelessness, anger) and yet can be powerfully linked to it. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss how some African American novelists have depicted grief from racism playing out in African American families 2. Understand ways in which fiction offers insights but also creates dilemmas in deciding whether to rely on fiction for insights 3. Recognize the importance of seeing racism as loss and grief creating References: Bouson, J. B. (2000). Quiet as it’s kept: Shame, trauma, and race in the novels of Toni Morrison. Albany, NY: State University of New York Press. Darrity, W., Jr., & Nicholson, M. J. (2005). Racial wealth inequality and the black family. In V. C. McLoyd, N. E. Hill, & K. A. Dodge (Eds.), African American family life: Ecological and cultural diversity (pp. 78-85). New York: Guilford. Rosenblatt, P. C., & Wallace, B. R. (2005). African American grief. New York: Routledge. Spencer, S. (2006). Racial politics and the literary reception of Zora Neale Hurston’s their eyes were watching god. In M. J. Bona & I. Maini (Eds.), Multiethnic literature and canon debates (pp. 111126). Albany, NY: State University of New York Press. St. Jean, Y., & Feagin, J. R. (1998). The family costs of white racism: The case of African American families. Journal of Comparative Family Studies, 29, 297-312. Personal Experience and Reflection Landmark A Balancing On a Shifting Rug – Facilitating End-of-Life Decision-Making Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: End-of-Life Decision-Making Professional Issues Intermediate Bahti, Tani, RN, CT, CHPN Passages - Education & Support in End of Life Issues, Tucson, AZ, United States Because illness is a transformative and dynamic process, so too is the accompanying decision making regarding treatment. Complicated by increasing technology, decreasing education about the dying process, lack of comfort about this topic, and fear of loss, our ability to understand and navigate complex end of life issues has been inhibited. Both the professional and lay community struggle with their own definition of quality of life vs quality of death and the search for meaning. Fear, misinformation and lack of information contribute to this struggle which can leave patient and family alike with regret or complicated bereavement. This session will examine the barriers to effective communication and how to overcome them with compassionate guidance and respect for the individual beliefs, experiences, and cultures of those who are involved. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify and explore key barriers to end of life decision-making 2. Discuss the role of the professional in facilitating this dynamic process 3. Utilize methods to facilitate decision-making that reflect individual and family values, cultural beliefs and goals. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session VII – Friday, April 17, 11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Concurrent Session VIII – Friday, April 17, 3:45 p.m. – 5:15 p.m. References: Lang, Quill,T. (2004. Making decisions with families at the end of life. American Family Physician, 70, 719-23, 725-6 Fins, J. (2006). A palliative ethic of care: Clinical wisdom at life’s end. London: Jones & Bartlett Publishers, Inc. Blank, R, Merrick, J, Ed. (2006). End of life decision-making: A cross national study. Massachusetts Institute of Technology. Ohta, B (2007). End of life decision-making in an acute setting: Social determinants of the do not resuscitate order. Concurrent Session VIII Friday, April 17, 3:45 p.m. – 5:15 p.m. Invited V Cumberland J Death Notification: I’ll Never Forget Those Words Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Professional Issues Intermediate Harris Lord, Janice, ACSW-LMSW/LPC, MSW Crime Victim Issues, Arlington, TX, United States This experiential workshop will offer basic strategies for the delivery of professional and compassionate notifications following a traumatic death. Participants will have the opportunity to bring their own experience and wisdom into play. Case scenarios will be discussed. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss the scope of Death Notification Research 2. Describe basic strategies for delivering death notifications 3. Develop death notification strategies based on case scenarios References: Hobgood, C., Hollar, D., Woodyard, P. & Sawning, S. (2007). Teaching death notification skills to emergency medicine residents: The role of feedback. Academy of Emergency Medicine, 14,5,suppl. 1,S77. Lord, J.H. & Stewart, A.E. (2008). I’ll never forget those words: A practical guide to death notification. Burnsville, NC: Compassion Books. Pechal, T. (2003). Emergency rescue workers dealing with death. The Forum, ADEC. 29, 5. Wass, H. (2004). A perspective on the current state of death education. Death Studies, 28, 289-308. Symposium/Panel Discussions Cumberland I Grief In Workplace: Mending Body, Mind & Spirit of Your Employees – Knowing Boundaries/Ethics Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Larger Systems Intermediate Harper, Jeanne, MPS, FT, BCETS, DAPA1; Mooney, Kim, BA, CT2; Friedrichs, Judy, MS, RN, CT3 1 Alpha Omega Venture, Marinette, WI, United States; 2Hospice Care of Boulder and Broomfield Counties, Longmont, CO, United States; 3Women’s and Children’s Services/Nursing System, Chicago, IL, United States The panel will present their unique professional and personal experiences of mending the body, mind and spirit of employees when grief in the workplace becomes a concern. One will share from her experiences with hospice, hospital and medical facility situations; another will share from her nursing/education/ support group counseling experiences; and the third will share from her 11 years experience as an employer in an out-patient mental health clinic, as well as from participants in her 32 years of training in this field. Following each presentation, we will open the discussion to the audience for their professional and personal experiences. www.adec.org 77 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session VIII – Friday, April 17, 3:45 p.m. – 5:15 p.m. We will conclude the panel discussion with the creation of a plan of action to continue the discussion AFTER the conference and to become the starting point of an article(s), handouts, bibliography, etc. on the topic of Grief in the Workplace. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize grief in the workplace 2. Discuss the social, physical, intellectual, emotional, spiritual and financial issues for the grieving employee 3. Create a plan of action after an employee experiences a death or loss References: Kodanaz, R. Grief in the workplace management handbook. Denver CO. National Hospice Foundation. Grief: A guide for managers. National Funeral Directors Association. Death of a co-worker. Jeffreys, D. & Shep, J. Coping with workplace change: Dealing with loss and grief. For survivors of layoffs & other organizational changes. Crisp Publications, Inc. Stein & Winokuer. Monday mourning: Managing employee grief In K.Doka. Disenfranchised grief. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explain the relationship between meaning-making and the use of metaphors 2. List two advantages and two risks of using metaphors in grief therapy 3. Discuss two ways to modify client metaphors as intervention goals References: Lakoff, G., & Johnson, M. (1980). Metaphors we live by. Chicago: University of Chicago Press. Nadeau, J.W. (2006) Metaphorically speaking: The use of metaphors in grief therapy. Journal of Illness, Crisis and Loss, 14(3), 203-223. Pardness, E. (2004). Harnessing the power of metaphors in groupwork with bereaved families. Paper presented at the 3rd Global Conference Making Sense of Dying and Death. Rosenblatt, P.C. (1994). Metaphors of family systems theory. New York: Guilford. Neimeyer, R.A. (2005). Grief, loss and the quest for meaning. Narrative contributions to bereavement care. Paper presented at the 7th International Congress on Grief and Bereavement in Contemporary Society, Kings College London, UK. Experiential Workshop Experiential Workshop Cumberland B Metaphors as Meaning-Makers in Grief Therapy Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Professional Issues Intermediate Winchester Nadeau, Janice, PhD Family Grief Center and MN Human Development Consultants, Stillwater, MN, United States Over the past several years the importance of meaning-making in bereavement has been well documented. One means of making meaning is by using metaphors. Metaphors are defined as “understanding and experiencing one kind of thing in terms of another” (Lakoff & Johnson, 1980, p.5). Lakoff and Johnson contend that metaphors are more than figures of speech; metaphors structure the way we perceive, how we think and what we do. Reality is negotiated by means of metaphors. A major task in bereavement is to construct a new reality. By listening for metaphors in conversations with the bereaved, grief therapists can learn what a particular death means to the survivors. Metaphors capture nuances of meaning that may be difficult if not impossible to express directly. Speaking metaphorically may circumvent resistance and reveal hidden meanings. Working within the metaphorical language system of the bereaved promotes the therapeutic process of joining by conveying understanding. Therapists can engage clients by using their metaphors in ways that facilitate grieving. In this symposium we will explore the nature of metaphor and ways in which metaphors both illuminate and obscure reality. Through the use of clinical material from both the presenter and participants the specifics of using metaphors will be demonstrated. Both the advantages and potential risks of using metaphors in grief therapy will be discussed. Specific ways of exploring, expanding and reworking metaphors will be suggested as ways to take advantage of the considerable power of metaphors while avoiding their potential for harm. Cumberland C Pet Loss as a Portal to Significant Life Traumas and Losses Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Advanced Antinori, Deborah, MA1; Barton Ross, Cheri, MS2 1 Davison Counseling Center, Basking Ridgege, NJ, United States; 2Redwood Empire Veterinary Medical Association, Santa Rosa, CA, United States In this experiential workshop, participants will learn how to facilitate depth work with a current or past pet loss that surfaces during the course of therapy. A “disenfranchised loss”, pet loss is often overlooked for the rich therapeutic tool it can be. A loss with it’s own trajectory of therapeutic work, pet loss is a portal through which other traumas, losses, and abuse may be accessed. Defenses are down with a pet who gives unconditional love. Owners can be open to a kind of love and acceptance they have not been receptive to previously. Pet loss tends to startle owners who may not have been this emotional over other significant life losses. Pet loss offers fertile ground for exploration into the inner world of clients. Pet loss issues as it affects children from infancy though teenage years will be discussed, including identifying children’s hidden reactions to the loss. Participants will learn how to best assist a child experiencing pet loss to facilitate building a healthy foundation for future losses. Through Power Point presentation featuring multimedia, and an exercise including original poetry and a writing exercise will be utilized. Participants will have an opportunity to add to their therapeutic repertoire by learning to attend to client cues - verbal; body, eye and facial reflexes; and story themes. Healing trauma with Brainspotting Therapy TM, EMDR combined with Hypnotherapy, and art therapy will be described. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify three client cues that signal deeper issues with a pet loss 2. Learn how to identify countertransferential issues regarding pet loss issues and how to work most effectively and clearly with clients who have similar/dissimilar issues 78 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session VIII – Friday, April 17, 3:45 p.m. – 5:15 p.m. 3. Describe three approaches from Brainspotting Therapy that directly target traumatic responses to loss References: Antinori, D. (2000). Journey through pet loss. YokoSpirit Publications, Basking Ridge, NJ. Barton R.C. & Baron-Sorenson, J. (2007). Pet loss and human emotion: A guide to recovery, (2nd Edition). Routledge, Taylor & Francis, NY. Barton R.C. (2005). Pet loss and children: Establishing a healthy foundation. Routledge, Taylor & Francis, NY. Morley, C. & Fook J. (2005). The importance of pet loss and some implications for services. Mortality, 10(2). pp 127-142. Nahas, C. (2008). Coping with the loss of a service dog: Exploring the impact of people with special needs. Association for Pet Loss & Bereavement Conference Presentation, Unpublished Booklet. Papazian, N. (2008). Supporting children facing pet loss: The loss that lasts forever. Association for Pet Loss & Bereavement Conference Presentation, Unpublished Booklet. Sife, W. (2005). The loss of a pet: A guide to coping with the grieving process when a pet dies, (3rd Edition). Howell Book House, Wiley Publishing, Hoboken, NJ. Strand, E. (2008). Veterinary Social Work Guidelines. University of Tennessee, Knoxville. Experiential Workshop References: Ditto, P.H., Hawkins, N.A. & Pizarro, D.A. (2006). Imagining the end of life: A psychology of advance medical decision making. Motivation and Emotion, 29(4), 475-496. Ditto, P.H., Jacobson, J.A., Smucker, W.D., Danks, J.H. & Fagerlin, A. (2006). Context changes choices: A prospective study of the effects of hospitalization on life-sustaining treatment preferences. Medical Decision Making, 26(4), 313-22. Royak-Schaler, R., Gadalla, S.M., Lemkau, J.P., Ross, D.D., Alexander, C. & Scott D. (2006). Family perspectives on communication with healthcare providers during end-of-life cancer care. Oncology Nursing Forum, 33(4), 743-760. Tulsky, J.A. (2005). Beyond advance directives: Importance of communication skills at the end of life. JAMA 294(3), 359-365. Cumberland G Hearing the Patient’s Voice Through a Values History Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe the current status, disadvantages, and use of advance directives 2. Discuss the interface of values and communication in end-of - life care conflicts 3. Demonstrate the use of a values history instrument to navigate endof-life care issues through the use of case studies and small group work End-of-Life Decision Making Professional Issues Intermediate Lewis, Mileva, EdD1; Wagener, Robert, MDiv2 Experiential Workshop Cumberland H Creative Healing: Using Integrative Therapies to Help Grieving Families Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Contemporary Perspectives Introductory 1 Samuel Merritt College, San Mateo, CA, United States; 2The Center for Medical Ethics and Mediation, Euliss, TX, United States Merriman, Christine, MSW, LCSW Less than 25% of the population has completed an advance directive. Cognitive psychologists suggest that preferences in end-of-life change overtime and are influenced by severity of illness and treatment preferences change as health status declines. Others indicate that physicians do not have the communication/process tools to discuss end-of-life care in a sensitive manner and that this could be enhanced by hearing the patient’s voice through the articulation of their values. This presentation will address the research that established the content validity of a values history instrument as a means to stimulate dialogue about the patient’s values among significant stakeholders in end-of-life care. Hands on Healing (including: Reiki, Healing Touch, Cranio Sacral Therapy, Pranic Healing, and Massage), Acutonics, music, Aromatherapy, Yoga, narrative scrapbooking, poetry, Bonsai gardening, meditation, mindfulness, and movement. What do all of these have in common? They have all been successfully used to help grieving clients of all ages, backgrounds and religions, who may not have otherwise been reached by traditional grief therapies. This workshop will allow you to explore, experience and share how integrative techniques can enhance and add depth to both your bereavement work, and your own life. Bioethicists verified that the 27 items were appropriately categorized by the researchers as receipt of information, autonomy, quality of life, and decision making style. Bioethicists, nurse practitioners, critical care nurses and consumers determined the level of importance and clarity of understanding of each item. Importance was ranked from 1 (very important) to 4 (omit); Scores ranged from 1.08 to 2.33. Clarity of meaning was measured on a three-point scale (1 = clear, 2 = ambiguous, 3 = confusing); Scores ranged from 1.06 to 1.47. A paired, two-tailed student “t” test indicated significant differences between professional groups and laypersons on 12 items. Designed for a time constrained environment, it provides a focus and mechanism for the health professional to address treatment choices in relationship to factors important to the individual and significant others. Case studies will be used to illustrate the purpose and use of the values history in end-of-life care. www.adec.org Pathways Home Health & Hospice, Sunnyvale, CA, United States Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Demonstrate how to assess the appropriateness of using integrative therapies with a client 2. Identify at least two integrative modalities they can incorporate into their practice (and life) 3. Describe why and how integrative therapies are especially helpful during bereavement References: Kabat-Zinn, J. (1990). Full catastrophe living: Using the wisdom of your body and mind to face stress, pain, and illness. Dell Publishing: New York. Borysenko, J. Z. (2003). Inner peace for busy women: Balancing work, family, and your inner life. Hay House, Inc: Carlsbad, CA. Kettles, N. (2007). The all-seeing boy and the blue sky of happiness. www.newmythcreatebooks.com. Reznick, C. (2006). Imagery for our children: A magical healing garden. Alternative Journal of Nursing, March. 79 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session VIII – Friday, April 17, 3:45 p.m. – 5:15 p.m. Keegan, L. (2003). Alternative and complementary modalities for managing stress and anxiety. Critical Care Nurse, 23, 3, 55-58. Lewith, G. T., Godfrey, A. D., Prescott, P. (2005). A single-blinded, randomized pilot study evaluating the aroma of lavandula augustifolia as a treatment for mild insomnia. The Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, 11, 4, 631-637. Experiential Workshop Cumberland K End of Life Care From Four Faith Traditions: Jewish, Hindu, Muslim, Tibetan Buddhism Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Religious/Spiritual Intermediate Lunsford, Beverly, PhD George Washington University, Washington, DC, United States This workshop provides a guided exploration of different perspectives regarding grief, loss, and end of life care from four faith traditions e.g. Jewish, Hindu, Muslim, and Tibetan Buddhism. Spiritual beliefs and practices will be discussed for their impact on how individuals and families may grieve, how they may approach chronic illness and end of life, how it may affect their ability to accept caring by others and make health care decisions. This workshop will include a case study, which will provide experiential opportunity for participants to examine their own beliefs and attitudes, explore similarities and differences in interdisciplinary teams. Participant will be encouraged not to reinforce or develop new stereotypes regarding people of different faiths, rather to build on major concepts that will guide health care professionals in providing compassionate care that is sensitive to spiritual, religious, and cultural beliefs. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explore the spiritual, religious, and cultural beliefs of four major traditions, i.e. Christian, Jewish, Muslim and Tibetan Buddhism in regards to the concepts of grief, loss, and end of life 2. Compare and contrast these major views on end of life for their impact on how individuals and families cope with challenges in death and dying, as well as how it affects their ability to accept caring by others and make health care decisions 3. Discuss strategies for providing nurturing and healing care, even when the healthcare professional may feel that they have very different belief systems than the patient/client and family, including roles of interdisciplinary health care professionals References: Cusick, J. (2003). Spirituality and voluntary pain. American Pain Society Bulletin, 13(5). Huston, S. (1991). The world’s religions: Our great wisdom traditions Sattar, S. P., Ahmed, M. S., Madison, J., Olsen, D. R., Bhatia, S. C., Ellahi, S., et al. (2004). Patient and physician attitudes to using medications with religiously forbidden ingredients. The Annals of Pharmacotherapy, 38(11), 1830-1835. Barilan, Y.M. (2003). Revisiting the problem of Jewish bioethics: The case of terminal care. Kennedy Institute of Ethics Journal, 13(2), 141-68. Coward, H. & Tejinder, S. (2000). Bioethics for clinicians: 19. Hinduism and Sikhism. Canadian Medical Association Journal, 163(9), 1167. Goss, R. & Klass, R. (1997). Tibetan Buddhism and the resolution of grief: the Bardo-Thodol for the dying and grieving. Death Studies, 21(4), 377-395. 80 Symposia/Panel Discussions Cumberland L The Legacy of Dr. Edwin Shneidman: DVD of a Thanatologist at 90 Years Old Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Historical Perspectives Intermediate Barrett, Ronald Keith, PhD, FT1; DeSpelder, Lynne, MA, FT2; Fajardo, Angelica, MA,CT3; Gabbay, Pamela, MA, FT4; Schuurman, Donna, EdD, FT5; Strickland, Albert, CT6 Loyola Marymount University, Los Angeles, CA, United States; 2Cabrillo College, Capitola, CA, United States; 3ADEC So-Cal, La Quinta, CA, United States; 4Mourning Star Center, Children’s Bereavement Center, Rancho Mirage, CA, United States; 5 Dougy Center for Grieving Children and Families, Portland, OR, United States; 6The Author’s Guild, Capitola, CA, United States 1 Recognized as the father of Suicidology, Dr. Edwin Shneidman is truly a hero of our time. His studies on suicidal behaviors and the suicidal mind have blazed the trail in the field of thanatology. He founded the American Association of Suicidology in 1968 and is noted for his contributions to include: the identification of “psychache” as the main cause of suicide, and defining the criteria for a `Good Death’. This panel/symposium will present an overview of Dr. Shneidman’s literary works that have influenced the fields of thanatology and Suicidology. In September 2007, Dr. Shneidman accepted a Lifetime Achievement Award for his work in thanatology by the Association for Death Education and Counseling, Southern California Chapter. Dr. Shneidman’s acceptance speech and summary of his life’s work were captured on video. Come experience Dr. Shneidman in his own words and participate in an interactive panel discussion on the history of Suicidology and the works of Dr. Edwin Shneidman. Panelists include members of ADEC-SoCal’s Board of Directors and Advisory Board. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify the literary works of Dr. Edwin Shneidman 2. Define the methodology of “psychache” and its impact on suicidal persons 3. Identify Dr. Shneidman’s Ten Criteria for a “Good Death” References: Shneidman, E.S. (2008): A commonsense book of death: Reflections at ninety of a lifelong thanatologist. Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Inc. ADEC Southern California Chapter (2007). Dr. Edwin Shneidman life time achievement award. Video. Shneidman, E. (2007). Criteria for a good death. Suicide and LifeThreatening Behavior, 37(3). Shneidman, E. (1998). The suicidal mind. Oxford University Press. Shneidman, E. (1993). Suicide as psychache: A clinical approach to self-destructive behavior. Northvale, N.J. Shneidman, E. (1985). Definition of suicide. New York: John Wiley and Sons. Shneidman, E. (1980). Voices of death. Harper and Row. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session VIII – Friday, April 17, 3:45 p.m. – 5:15 p.m. Concurrent Session IX – Saturday, April 18, 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Personal Experience and Reflection Landmark A Continuing Bonds Through Myspace: A New Venue for Grief Explored Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Hieftje, Kimberly, MS Indiana University, Bloomington, IN, United States One day last June, as I was browsing my Myspace webpage, I noticed a friend had changed his personal heading to read “RIP Riley”. As I looked down his webpage, I noticed all his friends were currently online and their personal headings also read “RIP Riley”, just like his. The feeling I had was overwhelming. What was I witnessing? Why were all these people online and where were they gathering? I continued browsing his Myspace page until I finally came upon Riley’s own personal webpage. I clicked on it. What I saw in front of me was a beautiful young girl with long, straight, dark hair and deep, dark brown eyes staring back at me. But I was confused. Her last login date was today’s date. She must have only died within the past several hours. Trying to understand what happened to Riley, I spent the next few hours reading through her blogs, looking at her pictures, and reading the comments posted by her friends, which were appearing every few minutes, each time I refreshed my browser. There was an immediate shift in the tone of the comments from just yesterday - the day before she had died. The comments had gone from a lighthearted, “hey whats up girl?” to deeper, more emotional comments like, “Tell me this isn’t real. Tell me it’s a sick joke. Tell me anything ....anything but this.” The following paper, utilizing a narrative and ethnographic approach, follows the personal Myspace webpage of a young girl after her death over the period of a year. This single case study looks at the evolution of the bereaved friends’ narratives within the comments posted on the webpage. Continuing bonds with the deceased and the use of writing during grief are also discussed, as well as implications for further study. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize how the use of social networking sites can encourage continued bonds with the deceased 2. Explore the use of the internet as a new venue for grief expression 3. Indentify implications of the case study findings for practice and further research References: Hollander, E.M. (2001). Cyber community in the valley of the shadow of death. Journal of Loss and Trauma, 6, 135-146. Moss, M. (2004). Grief on the Web. Omega, 49(1), 77-81. Roberts, P. (2004). The living and the dead: Community in the virtual cemetery. Omega, 49(1), 57-76. Silverman, P.R. & Nickman, S.L. (1996). In D. Klass, P.R. Silverman, & S.L. Nickman (Eds.), Continuing Bonds: New understanding of grief (pp. 3-27). Bristol, PA: Taylor & Francis. www.adec.org Concurrent Session IX Saturday, April 18, 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Invited V Cumberland E/F Multiple Fatalities and Grief Support: What We Learned From Columbine Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Larger Systems Introductory McBride, Jennifer, MA1; Horan, John, MSP, CFSP2 Horan and McConaty, Englewood, CO, United States; 2Horan and McConaty Funeral Service/Cremation, Denver, CO, United States 1 Tragedies like the mass shooting at Columbine High School in April 1999 impact lives, communities and worldviews. Family-owned funeral service company, Horan & McConaty, cared for seven of the young people who died at Columbine, their families, and community. Though not prepared for such a mass fatality incident, staff had to respond and plan quickly. The experience of Columbine and the response to the community-wide grief support programs and resources provided to the metro Denver community helped affirm a process already underway at the time of Columbine-growing HeartLight Center, a 501c3 non-profit community-based center for grief support & education, started and underwritten by Horan & McConaty. In this session, you will learn how the staff responded, what they learned, how the Columbine tragedy affirmed the need for bereavement and trauma support, and how you can create a plan to intervene after a mass fatality incident, regardless of the type organization with which you work. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe the necessary components of a mass-fatality crisis response plan 2. Utilize five keys for assisting families and community after a massfatality incident 3. Respond quickly to provide appropriate support services in the disaster’s wake References: Clements, P.T., DeRanieri, J.T., Virgil, G.J., & Benasutti, K.M. (2004). Life after death: Grief therapy after the sudden traumatic death of a family member. Perspectives in Psychiatric Care, 40(4), 149-154. Fast, J.D. (2003). After Columbine: How people mourn sudden death. Social Work, 43, 484-491. Horan, J.J. (1999). The Columbine tragedy: Lessons learned. The Director, 71 (7), 49-51. Norum, K.E. (2001). Columbine: A commentary. Journal of Loss & Trauma, 6(2), 125-133. 81 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session IX – Saturday, April 18, 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Invited Cumberland I Strategies for Mind-Body Healing Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Professional Issues Introductory Chan, Cecilia, BSocSc, MSocSc, PhD, RSW, JP The University of Hong Kong, Hong Kong, China If you enjoyed Prof. Chan’s keynote presentation and would like to know more, Prof. Chan will share specific strategies for mind-body care using “one-second techniques.” This will be an experiential workshop using strategies that can be practiced while seated or standing. for a hands-on experience come release some stress and practice self-care. Please put on loose clothing as there will be movement and physical exercises. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Learn the connection between the mind and the body 2. Experience the integratation of eastern and western worldviews philosophies and practices 3. Practice strategies for releasing stress, eliminating headaches, and releasing muscle tension References: Chan, C.L.W. & Chow, A.Y.M. (Eds.). (2006). Death, dying and bereavement - The Hong Kong Chinese experience. Hong Kong: Hong Kong University Press. Lee, M. Y., Chan, L. W., Ng, S. M., & Leung, P. Y. (2009 under preparation). Integrative social work practice: An Eastern holistic approach towards transformation and harmony. New York: The Oxford University Press. Chan, C. L. W., Fan, F. W., & Gong, R. Y. (Eds.) (2003). The bodymind-spirit integrative health approach: group counseling theory and application. Beijing: Ethic Publishing House. (in Chinese). Chan, C. L. W. (2001). An Eastern body-mind-spirit approach: A training manual with one second techniques. Hong Kong: Department of Social Work and Social Administration, The University of Hong Kong. Second Printing 2006. ISBN: 962864245-6 Invited Cumberland J The Last Lecture: Staying Power or a Passing Fad? Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Contemporary Perspectives Introductory Sofka, Carla, MSW, PhD Siena College, Albany, NY, United States On September 18, 2007, Carnegie Mellon University Professor Randy Pausch delivered his “last lecture” - a lecture traditionally given by professors immediately prior to retirement to summarize a lifetime of learning and teaching. Randy Pausch’s last lecture was unique since it was delivered after being given a prognosis of less than six months to live. Word of his amazing presentation spread like wildfire thanks to an article in the Wall Street Journal, televised interviews with Oprah and Diane Sawyer, and the downloading of his last lecture over 10 million times. In April of 2008, his lecture was published in a book, creating an instant best-seller. It is not often that society is the beneficiary of wisdom imparted on this scale from a dying man. However, this powerful lecture, given 10 months before his death on July 25, 2008, was not about dying, but about life and living. Was this opportunity for public death education wisely used by the thanatology community? (Or would it be more appropriate to describe this as an opportunity for public 82 “life education”?) Will Randy Pausch’s legacy remain prominently in the public eye for years to come, or was its’ popularity a passing fad? This presentation will reflect on the impact of this unprecedented “teachable moment” that allowed society to become so intimately acquainted with the experiences of a dying man. Strategies for the continued use of “The Last Legacy” as a powerful tool for teaching about living while dying will be considered in conjunction with strategies for taking advantage of highly public “teachable moments”. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe the types of reactions experienced by members of the public to “The Last Lecture” 2. Describe potential uses for the “The Last Lecture” as a resource for life/death education 3. Describe strategies for wisely using highly public “teachable moments” within one’s home community References: Gilbert, K.R., & Murray, C.I. (2007). The family, larger systems, and death education. In D. Balk (Ed.), Handbook of Thanatology (pp. 345-353). Northbrook, IL: Association for Death Education and Counseling. Kornbluth, J. (2008, May). A father’s farewell - Interview with Randy Pausch. Reader’s Digest, 188-196. Pausch, R. (2008). The Last Lecture. NY: Hyperion. Reader Comments. (2008). Randy Pausch, `last lecture’ professor dies. ABC News Web site accessed on October 2, 2008: http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/story?id=4614281&page=1 Sofka, C.J. (2007). Death education: Ethical and legal issues. In D. Balk (Ed.), Handbook of thanatology (pp. 355-367). Northbrook, IL: Association for Death Education and Counseling. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland L Why Would God? Helping Bereaved Parents Process Hard Spiritual Questions Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Religious/Spiritual Intermediate Glasgow, Bob, DIP Theo Calgary Health Region, Calgary, Alberta, Canada When parents ask, “Why did my child die before me?” they struggle with deep existential questions. Their questioning process is a deep search for meaning that can often challenge prior beliefs. In an effort to reduce spiritual distress caregivers can be tempted to avoid or redirect the expressions of spiritual suffering. Quite the opposite helpers need to develop the capacity to enter into the deep struggle of spiritual confusion that can come when a child dies. Meaning making is a long difficult journey and is, perhaps the most important spiritual need bereaved parent’s experience. Alongside meaning making, themes of forgiveness and reconciliation can surface. Most parents review the relationship with their child in detail, wondering if they could have been better parents and many carry the belief that they should have been able to save their child. If guilt persists one’s energy is directed to punitive rather than to healing ways. This session will help caregivers appreciate and listen for deep spiritual statements of bereaved parents and will appeal to grief counsellors and caregivers who hold an interest in spiritual processing of life. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session IX – Saturday, April 18, 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize spiritual themes/spiritual distress in the narratives of bereaved parents 2. Discuss ways a helper can respect and explore universal spiritual questions such as meaning making, forgiveness and belonging 3. Describe the importance of grief rituals including the possibility of what to do when conflicting spiritual needs/wishes occur within couples or families Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland H Death and Disenfranchised Grief in Virtual Communities: Challenges and Opportunities Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Larger Systems Introductory Hensley, Lisa, PhD Texas Wesleyan University, Fort Worth, TX, United States References: Tedeschi, R.G. (2006) Time of change? The spiritual challenges of bereavement. Omega: Journal of Death and Dying, 53 (1-2). 105-116. Attig, T. (2003). Respecting the spirituality of the dying and bereaved. Dying, Death, and Bereavment: A challenge for living 2nd ed. pp.61-75 Doka, K. (2002). How could god? Loss and spiritual assumptive world. In Kauffman J. (Ed). Loss of the assumptive world: A theory of traumatic loss. Brunner-Routledge. New York. pp 49-54 Brotherson, S. & Soderquist, J. (2002). Coping with a child’s death spiritual issues and therapeutic implications. Journal of Family Psychotherapy & the Family, 13, 53-86. Personal Experience and Reflection V Cumberland C A Perspective on the Comprehensive Care of Donor Families Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: End-of-Life Decision Making Family and Individual Introductory Yetter, Jamie, BA1; Post, Michelle, MA, LMFT2 1 2 Arkansas Regional Organ Recovery Agency, Little Rock, AR, United States; OneLegacy, Los Angeles, CA, United States The emotional, social and spiritual needs of a donor family are unique. It is from this rare environment that the specialized role of a Family Service Coordinator and Aftercare Coordinator was created. This presentation will provide a basic overview of organ and tissue donation then focus on the crucial aspects of supporting grieving families before, during and after the organ and tissue donation process. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe the basic and ideal circumstances (medically and socially) that are necessary for organ and tissue donation to occur 2. Identify the necessary environmental aspects of a potential organ and tissue donor i.e. working and communicating with nurses, doctors, chaplains, social workers, and child life specialists before supporting a potential donor family 3. Discuss and describe perspectives on effective, comprehensive support for grieving donor families before, during and after the organ and tissue donation process Virtual communities often feature members with a shared purpose who have repeated interactions over time, and frequently develop close emotional ties with one another. When one of those community members dies, numerous characteristics of the virtual community may affect the process of grief and mourning. In particular, problems such as lack of information about the identity of the deceased or the cause of death, restricted access to sanctioned mourning rituals such as funerals, reduced empathy by those outside the online community, and the increased possibility of deception (i.e., faking one’s own death) may color the grief experience of bereaved individuals. Doka’s concept of disenfranchised grief, or grief that is unacknowledged or unsanctioned, will be applied to the case of the death in online communities. Several examples of deaths in online communities will be reviewed, including a few from the presenter’s personal experiences. At the same time, virtual communities and other web-based tools may also be helpful in various aspects of grief, such as meaning construction and memorial rituals. After attending this session, participants should be able to (1) identify basic characteristics of many online social communities; (2) understand how these characteristics may influence the experience of grief and mourning; and (3) demonstrate knowledge of possibilities for using online resources, communities, and rituals in coping with grief. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify basic characteristics of many online social communities 2. Recognize how these characteristics may influence the experience of grief and mourning 3. Demonstrate awareness of possibilities for using online resources, communities, and rituals in coping with grief References: Attig, T. (2004). Disenfranchised grief revisited: Discounting hope and love. OMEGA -- Journal of Death and Dying, 49(3), 197-215. Doka, K. (Ed). (2002).Disenfranchised grief: New directions, challenges, and strategies for practice. IL: Research Press. Preece, J., & Maloney-Krichmar, D. (2003). Online communities. In J. Jacko and A. Sears (Eds.), Handbook of human-computer interaction, pp. 596-620. Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, Inc. Roberts, P. (2004). The living and the dead: Community in the virtual cemetery. OMEGA -- Journal of Death and Dying, 49(1), 57-76. References: Wolfelt, A.D., and Maloney, R. (2001). Caring for donor families before, during and after. CO: Companion Press Siminoff, L.A., Mercer M.B., Graham, G., Burant, C. (2007). The reasons families donate organs ,for transplantation: implications for policy and practice; The Journal of Trauma, Injury, Infection and Critical Care 62(4):969-78. Bryce, C.L., Siminoff, L.A., Ubel, P.A., Nathan, H., Caplan, A., Arnold, R.M. Do Incentives Matter? Providing Benefits to Families of Organ Donors. American Journal of Transplantation. 5: 2999-3008 Siminoff, L.A., Mercer, M.B., Arnold, R. (2003). Families’ Understanding of Brain Death. Progress in Transplantation, 13(3): 218-224. www.adec.org 83 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session IX – Saturday, April 18, 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland K When Hurricane Tragedy Strikes — Crisis and Grief Challenge Resiliency Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Adams, Susan, PhD Cumberland A Meaning-Making in Memories: A Comparison of Death and Low Point Autobiographical Memories Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Resources and Research Introductory Texas Woman’s University, Lake Dallas, TX, United States Mackay, Michael, BA, MSc Crisis is defined as a precipitating event that causes distress and overwhelms usual coping methods. Historically a crisis might exist for 6-8 weeks and then became the “new normal.” However, for those along the coastal areas of MS and LA, they are caught in a perpetual state of “crisis”. Just how are they doing more than three years afterward? What have we learned? Where do we go from here? What losses do they continue to struggle with? Why did some find resiliency and others didn’t? University of Memphis, Memphis, TN, United States Those who live in areas subject to hurricanes, learn to live with “uncertainty” and the potential for mass destruction during the hurricane season. They know the “drill”; however, no one was prepared for devastation created by Katrina on 9/29/2005 or Rita 9/24/2005. When we, the vast majority, have “moved on,” what is the grief impact of those that were directly and indirectly affected by these monster storms? We must learn lessons from the past if we are to be prepared for the future. This presentation is based on personal experience, interaction with survivors and mental health workers, plus current literature. It will include stories and actual photographs over time. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explore what happened and how it was different from previous hurricane disasters 2. Understand the struggles of crisis intervention and the impact on the population from a multicultural perspective 3. Identify long-term effects of the devastation across coastal area and the impact on survivors’ sense of community References: Kanel, K. (2007). A guide to crisis intervention (3rd ed.). Belmont, CA: Brooks/Cole. Cavaiola, A. A., & Colford, J. E. (2006). A practical guide to crisis intervention. Boston: Lahaska Press. Echterling, L. G., Presbury, J., & McKee, J. E. (2005). Crisis intervention: Promoting resilience and resolution in troubled times. Upper Saddle River, NJ: Pearson/Merrill Prentice Hall. James, R. K. (2008). Crisis intervention strategies (6th ed.). Belmont, CA: Brooks/Cole. 84 Research Report The study examined the expression of positive meaning-making in people’s memories of the deaths of their loved ones. Specifically, the manifestation of six positive meaning-making strategies (finding benefits, experiencing personal growth, using downward comparisons, developing a religious explanation, developing a supernatural explanation) was compared between death-related memories and memories of low point life experiences (e.g., losing a job). A highlight of the study was the assessment of meaning-making via an ecologically valid (i.e., no demand characteristics) method; that is, through the coding of open-ended memory narratives. Participants (52 hospice volunteers) shared death and low point memories by writing short memory narratives. Participants also completed the Memory Qualities Questionnaire (MQQ) in relation to each memory. The MQQ assessed how frequently participants thought about and shared each memory, how personally important was each memory, and how emotionally positive was each memory. Two coders reliably assessed the memory narratives for the presence of positive meaning-making (Kappa = .78). Results show that death memory narratives (vs. low-point narratives) exhibit more manifestations of positive meaning-making. The finding of benefits and the development of a religious explanation for the loss were the most commonly reported types of positive meaning-making. Death-related memories were also rated as more emotionally positive, and more frequently shared with others. The results suggest that positive meaningmaking is not only evident shortly after the death of a loved one, but that it is also expressed long after the event has occurred. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe a novel way of assessing positive meaning-making 2. Recognize that hospice volunteers may be especially adept at coping with bereavement 3. Discuss the importance of positive meaning-making in the wake of bereavement References: Bluck, S., Dirk, J., Mackay, M. M., & Hux, A. (2008). Life experience with death: Relation to death attitudes and to the use of death-related memories. Death Studies, 32, 524-549. Davis, C. G., Nolen-Hoeksema, S., & Larson, J. (1998). Making sense of loss and benefiting from the experience: Two construals of meaning. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 75, 561-574. Davis, C. G., Wohl, M. J., Verberg, N. (2007). Profiles of posttraumatic growth following an unjust loss. Death Studies, 31, 693-712. Park, C. L., & Folkman, S. (1997). Meaning in the context of stress and coping. Review of General Psychology, 1, 115-144. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session IX – Saturday, April 18, 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Research Report Cumberland B Interface of Post Traumatic Stress and Post Traumatic Growth in Bereaved Parent Narratives Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Intermediate Research Report Cumberland G College Psychology Course Offerings on Death and Dying: A National Survey Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Resources and Research Introductory Eckerd, Lizabeth, PhD Larsen, Barbara, MA ; Murray, Colleen, PhD Humboldt State University, Arcata, CA, United States University of Nevada, Reno, NV, United States; University of Nevada, Reno, Reno, NV, United States Thanatologists and many educators agree on the value of death education throughout the life span, including at the college level. Several authors have noted the lack of information about college level death education in the social sciences and liberal arts, as well as in psychology in particular. A search of the PsycInfo and ERIC databases confirmed the lack of current information about the extent of psychology course offerings in DDB. This is in contrast to the medical and other health science fields, where Dickinson and colleagues have conducted ongoing surveys since the 1970s. To begin to fill in this gap in knowledge, this author has conducted an internet survey of all United States 4-year college and university psychology departments that offer a bachelor’s degree in psychology. Data from an initial survey of Midwest states were presented at the 2008 ADEC conference. The 2009 presentation will include data from the entire national survey. Specifically, information will be provided regarding: (a) percentage of departments offering a dying, death, and bereavement (DDB) course; (b) whether size of department and/or region of country relates to whether a DDB course is offered; (c) availability of other forums for death education (other departments; other psychology courses); and (d) reasons provided for not offering a DDB course. Plans for future research will also be described and discussed with attendees. 1 1 2 2 In “living beyond loss,” bereaved parents struggle to resolve their shattered world-view (Kauffman, 2002), as well as reconstruct a social world where both post traumatic stress (PTS) and post traumatic growth (PTG) may play roles. Are these elements mutually exclusive, sequential, or concurrent and interdependent? Although scales (e.g., Tedeschi & Calhoun 1996, 2008) are designed to assess PTS or PTG, independent administration of tools may miss the richness with which factors coexist in the lives of the bereaved. For the current study, parental narrative accounts of experiences with child death and the aftermath were examined to provide understanding of the relationship between PTS and PTG. Narratives reveal a scope of reactions (McLean, Pasupathi, & Pals, 2007); the story itself can represent longitudinal data, and the action of storytelling can be a longitudinal experience itself (i.e., following progression of thinking across the time a story is being told). A purposive sample from 25 online accounts written by parents was selected. Coding was based on factors found in PTS and PTG scales, and the unit of analysis was each sentence. Results suggested that within stories parents made multiple shifts between PTS and PTG. Discussions of “gaping holes,” being forever altered, and painful reminders from celebrations and rituals coexisted with examples of increased sense of personal abilities and strengths, greater connectedness with others (particularly within “family”), new life goals, interests and opportunities, or finding new meaning in life through helping other bereaved parents. Common triggers of shifts between PTS and PTG, connections to Stroebe’s Dual Process Model, and longitudinal elements will be discussed. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify elements of post traumatic stress and post traumatic growth 2. Discuss the strengths and challenges of using narratives as data 3. Recognize the normative nature of situations where post traumatic stress and post traumatic growth coexist References: Crossley, M. L. (2000). Narrative psychology, trauma and the study of self/identity. Theory & Psychology, 10(4), 527. Janoff-Bulman, R. (1992). Shattered assumptions: Toward a new psychology of trauma (1st ed.). New York: The Free Press. Kauffman, J. (Ed.). (2002). Loss of the assumptive world: A theory of traumatic loss (1st ed.). Hove: Brunner-Routledge. McLean, K. C., Pasupathi, M., & Pals, J. L. (2007). Selves creating stories creating selves: A process model of self-development. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 11(3), 262-278. Tedeschi, R. G., & Calhoun, L. G. (1996). The posttraumatic growth inventory: Measuring the positive legacy of trauma. Journal of Traumatic Stress, 9(3), 455-472. Tedeschi, R. G., & Calhoun, L. G. (2004). Posttraumatic growth: conceptual foundations and empirical evidence. Psychological Inquiry, 15(1), 1-18. Tedeschi, R. G., & Calhoun, L. G. (2008). Beyond the concept of recovery: Growth and the experience of loss. Death Studies, 32(1), 27-39. www.adec.org Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe the extent of death education offerings in college psychology programs 2. Explain reasons psychology departments provide for not offering death courses 3. Describe useful directions for future research on the topic of death education References: Dickinson, G. E. (2002). A quarter century of end-of-life issues in U.S. medical schools. Death Studies, 26, 635-646. Dickinson, G. E. (2007). End-of-life and palliative care issues in medical and nursing schools in the United States. Death Studies, 31, 713-726. Eckerd, L. M. (in press). Death and dying course offerings in psychology: A survey of nine Midwestern states. Death Studies. Ratner, E. R., & Song, J. Y. (2002). Education for the end of life. Chronicle of Higher Education, 48(39), 12-15. Wass, H. (2004). A perspective on the current state of death education. Death Studies, 28, 289-308. 85 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session X – Saturday, April 18, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Concurrent Session X Saturday, April 18, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Invited Cumberland C Understanding Today’s Options in Funeral and Memorial Service Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Taylor, Glenn, LFP Selected Independent Funeral Homes, Owensboro, KY, United States Understanding memorial options available to clients facing their own death or that of a family member is imperative. Since counselors and death educators are often asked for input about selecting providers, choosing elements in services, and managing costs, a well-rounded understanding of these options is vital. Out of his more than 37 years as a funeral service professional and his perspective as president of the world’s largest association of independent funeral homes, Glenn Taylor will provide a broad perspective on what is available today, including options related to cremation, green burial, creative memorial gatherings, and traditional funerals. Participants will also learn how to understand funeral costs and effective ways for helping families anticipate and manage those costs. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe creative options families utilize to create meaning in death-related rituals 2. Explain ways families can understand and manage funeral costs 3. Use simple ways to explain funeral options and prices with clients or families References: Bolton, C. & Camp, D. (1987). Funeral rituals and the facilitation of grief work. Omega, 17, 343-52. Funerals: A consumer’s guide. nd. Internet. http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/ conline/pubs/services/funeral.shtm. Hoy, W. G. (2007). Between colleagues: Helping families make sense of today’s funeral options. Deerfield, IL: Selected Resources. Kastenbaum, R. (2004). Why funerals? Generations, 28, 5-10. Rando, T.A. (1991). How to go on living when someone you love dies. New York: Bantam. Worden, J.W. (2008). Grief counseling and grief therapy: A handbook for the mental health practitioner. New York: Springer. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland A Who Let the Dogs Out? Utilizing Therapy Dogs With Grieving Children and Teens Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Gabbay, Pamela, MA, FT Mourning Star Center for Grieving Children, Palm Desert, CA, United States Often grieving children and teens do not possess the emotional skills or the maturity to cope with the myriad of feelings that they may be experiencing due to the death of someone significant in their life. At times, their grief can be quite overwhelming and isolating. Certified therapy dogs create an environment of unconditional acceptance that offers solace and comfort to grieving youth and helps to break through 86 the isolation that some children might be facing. Specially trained dog handlers use animal-assisted therapy (AAT) or animal-assisted activities (AAS) to create a safe place for grieving children to process their grief. Therapy dogs are good listeners; they don’t offer advice or make judgments. These professional four-legged friends lift the spirits of grieving children by allowing the children to hug them, snuggle with them, and bury their faces and tears into their fur. Certified therapy dogs, often called “therapets” are utilized in a variety of settings with grieving children and teens. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe animal-assisted therapy (AAT) and animal-assisted activities (AAS) as they relate to working with grieving children and teens 2. Discuss the value and benefits that animal-assisted therapy and activities (AAT)/ (AAS) have to offer grieving children and teens 3. Identify ways to utilize certified therapy dogs in various bereavement settings when working with grieving youth References: Worden, J.W. (2001). Children and grief: When a parent dies. New York, Guilford Publications. Crawford, J. & Pomerinke, K. (2003). Therapy pets: The animal-human healing partnership. Amherst, NY: Prometheus Books. DeSpelder, L. & Strickland, A. (2004). The last dance: Encountering death and dying (7th Ed). Boston: McGraw-Hill. Pichot, T. & Coulter, M. (2007). Animal-assisted brief therapy: A solution-focused approach. Binghamton, NY: Haworth Press. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland G End of Life on a Bone Marrow Transplant Unit — Body, Mind, & Transpersonal Experience Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Family and Individual Introductory Cumming, Tiffany, MA in expressive art therapy & mental health counseling; Lang, Betsy, MSW 1 Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, MA, United States The End of Life on a BMT Unit: Body, Mind, & Transpersonal Experience is offered as a free program within the bone marrow transplant inpatient and outpatient units at Massachusetts General Hospital in order to provide the opportunity for patients and their loved ones to create an outward expression of their inner voice, reflecting the emotions held within regarding the experience of illness and the effect it has had on them, personally. The use of a human body template, non gender specific, will be offered to individuals to freely express and create a piece representing feelings surrounding this particular experience. This group is offered once per week, for 2 hour sessions, facilitated by an art therapist. The group begins with a guided meditation to allow for individuals to become grounded and present, significant time to work with the art materials, group processing to discuss the experience and emotions that are present, and a closing deep breathing exercise. The end of the program will culminate with an art installation of the body templates created and used within the BMT treatment units.This clinician will focus on both 1) the challenges in implementing this program within a medical setting, and 2) the process and evaluation ofjthe program in the medical setting. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session X – Saturday, April 18, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Offer an occasion to reflect inner thoughts and feelings, outwardly, allowing the opportunity to express one’s voice 2. Reinforce positive coping behavior, allieviate distress and anxiety, to increase self-esteem and to enhance his/her sense of control and efficacy 3. Create a sense of inner and outer awareness, both inside and outside of the body (helping to bridge the feeling of separateness that is so often created within a medical mode of care References: Gabriel, B & Luzzatto, P. et al. (2001). Art therapy with adult bone marrow transplant patients in isolation: A pilot study. Psycho-Oncology, 10: 114-123. Lane, M.R. & Graham-Pole, J. (1994). Development of an art program on a gone marrow transplant unit. Cancer-Nursing, 17(3): 185-192. Nainis, N. et al (2006). Relieving symptoms in cancer: Innovative use of art therapy. Journal of Pain and Symptom Management, 31, No. 2. Gil Bar-Sela, L.A., et al (2007). Art therpay improved depression and influnenced fatigue levels in cancer patients on chemotherapy. Psycho-Oncology 16: 980-984. Walsh, S.M., Martin, S.C. & Schmidt, L.A. (2004). Testing the efficacy of a creative-arts intervention with family caregivers of patients with cancer. Journal of Nursing Scholarship, 36(3): 214-219. Thompson, B. (2003). The expressive arts and the experience of loss. The Forum, 29(2), 1-10. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland H Psychosocial Role of the Death Penalty in the Death System Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Larger Systems Introductory Rushforth, Nancy, MA1; McGunigall-Smith, Sandy, PhD2 Utah Valley State College, Orem, UT, United States; 2Utah Valley University, Orem, UT, United States 1 In preparation for teaching Death Education Courses, I have read several texts and have reviewed death studies and grief and grieving journals. I have found little discussion of the death penalty. As participants in the healing arts, evaluation of the practice of capital punishment in the United States reveals much about our attitudes toward death and toward life. Such study also enriches our understanding of the impact of capital punishment on the psychosocial fiber of our culture. to advance the healing processes of body, mind and spirit, it is essential to understand the repercussions of the death penalty. I will present information pertaining to the death penalty as currently practiced in the United States. I will lead a discussion about differing regulations governing the death sentence from state to state. In addition, I will present information including demographics of death penalty recipients and comparisons of crime rates in abolitionist and retentionist states. Following basic information, Sandy McGunigall Smith will discuss her personal experiences interviewing 7 death row inmates at the Utah State Penitentiary. Her research is extraordinary, as most prisons do not allow access to death row prisoners, nor are prisoners usually willing to discuss their lives with outsiders. Discussion of these topics provides all of us with further abilities to move forward in our goals of healing those who grieve. www.adec.org Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss history and frequency of the death penalty 2. Discuss qualifications, methods of executions in differing states 3. Discuss the repercussions of the death penalty to the death system References: Beck, E., Britto, S. & Andrews, A. (2007). In the shadow of death: Restorative justice and death row families. Oxford University Press, Oxford. Boxco, A. (2001). Choosing mercy: A mother of nurder victims pleads to end the death penalty. Orbis Books, New York. Clarke, Alan & Whitt, (2008) The Bitter Fruits of the American Criminal Justice System. Northeastern University Press, Boxton, Death Penalty Information Center http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org. Kay, Judith, W. Murdering Myths: The Story Behind the Death Penalty, (2005) Roman & Littelfield Publishers, Inc. Lanaham, Md. Rogers, C.R. (1961). On Becoming a Person Houghton Mifflin Company, Boston, New York. Whitman, J.Q. (2003). Harsh justice: Criminal punishment and the widening divide between America and Europe. Oxford University Press, Oxford. Johnson, Robert and McGunigall-Smith, S. (2008). Life without parole, America’s other death penalty: Notes on life under sentance of death by incarceration. The Prison Journal: Sage Publications. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland I Meaning Making and Making Meaning: Moving Outside the Circle of Grief Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Contemporary Perspectives Intermediate Kosminsky, Phyllis, PhD Center for Hope/Family Centers, Pleasantville, NY, United States For many mourners, the difficulty of recovering from the death of a loved one stems not only from the loss of the person, but from what has been described as the “loss of (their) assumptive world” .The creation of a new assumptive world, which involves finding meaning in the loss, and meaning in the life that lies ahead of them - is an essential part of the process of healing. The goal of this workshop is to examine two different frames relating to meaning making as an element of recovery from loss: first, the ways in which mourners derive meaning from memories of the person, the relationship, and even the death itself, to make sense of an otherwise unbearable loss; and second, the ways in which mourners create meaning through actions taken to commemorate or honor the deceased. These two frames are conceptualized as an “inner” circle and an “outer” circle. We will look at how the nature of the relationship and the nature of the death can complicate a mourner’s attempts to reconstitute their assumptive world through internal process alone, and how engaging in redemptive or commemorative action can promote healthy redirection of a mourner’s attention and energy. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss meaning making as a component of healing from grief 2. Explain the significance of constructive action as a healing intervention 3. Describe how to approach the development of constructive actions with clients as part of bereavement work 87 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session X – Saturday, April 18, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. References: Neimeyer, R., (Ed). (2001). Meaning reconstruction and the experience of loss. Washington, D.C.: American Psychological Association. Talbot, K. (2002). What forever means after the loss of a child. New York: Brunner, Routledge. Davis, C.D., Wohl, J.A., & Verberg, N. (2007). Profiles of posttraumatic growth following an unjust loss. Death Studies, 31 (8), 693-612. Bussey, M., and Bula Wise, J. (2007). Trauma transformed: An empowerment response. California: University Press. Practice Report Cumberland B Using Narrative Therapy Processes With Grieving Families Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Professional Issues Intermediate Lindwall-Bourg, Karen, MA McKinney, TX, United States Dealing with the illness or death of a loved one involves more than picking up the pieces and moving on. Healing is an ongoing journey through which grief is a constant companion. For the caregiver, the focus is on understanding the impact of loss and grief on our multidimensional lives and helping the bereaved to navigate the grieving process and reclaim joy as well as sadness as an integral part of life. Narrative Therapy has been used with a wide variety of difficulties and issues, including grief reactions and is thus an empowering vehicle for reconstructing life stories. Narrative Therapy techniques provide vital guidance to ease painful transitions and facilitate healing and growth. The role of the narrative therapist is as collaborator or co-author with the client. As such, the narrative therapist partners with the client to explore the stories that give meaning to the client’s life as they navigate this difficult path. The background of the approach and the position of narrative therapy on the health and well-functioning of the family will be reviewed. Goals, structure and techniques of the process will be explained and demonstrated through video presentations with grieving families. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explain the caregivers role as companion on the devastating journey of grief and mourning 2. Understand the background of the approach and the position of narrative therapy on the health and well-functioning of the family 3. Practice setting goals with a grieving family using the structure and techniques of Narrative Therapy References: Becvar, Dorothy, (2001). In the presence of grief: Helping family members resolve death, dying, and bereavement issues. The Guilford Press, New York. Gurman, A.S. & Jacobson, N.S. (2002). Clinical handbook of couples therapy (3rd Edition). The Guilford Press, New York. Hedtke, L., (2003) The origami of remembering. The International Journal of Narrative Therapy and Community Work, 4, pp 57-62. Olson, K. (2008). Narrative research - Learning from stories. Canada Oncology Nursing Journal, 18(1): 2-4. Practice Report Cumberland K Incorporating Technology Into Death Education Practice: Three Formats for Delivery Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Professional Issues Introductory Wheat, Laura, MEd1; Whiting, Peggy, EdD2; James, Libba, MEd3 University of Virginia, Charlottesville, VA, United States; 2North Carolina Central University, Durham, NC, United States; 3Colorado State University, Fort Collins, CO, United States 1 Traditionally, death education in a university setting has been delivered in a face-to-face format, whether as a stand-alone course or as an infusion into a related area. With the rise of technological tools for teaching and learning, however, the possibilities for creative delivery methods are limitless. This presentation will provide attendees with a threefold comparison of classroom-only, strictly online, and a hybrid mixture of the two as death education practice at the graduate level. Participants will hear an overview of the goals of formal death education, and opportunities and challenges posed by each of the three modalities will be examined, illustrated by anecdotes from presenters’ experiences. Finally, implications for future research avenues will be explored. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe the unique ways burgeoning technology is creating new opportunities in formal death education delivery 2. Explain the challenges of combining an online and an in-person model of death education 3. Discuss how each of the three presented methods of course delivery strive to meet the goals of death education References: Balk, D., Wogrin, C., Thornton, G., & Meagher, D. (Eds.).(2007). Handbook of thanatology: The essential body of knowledge for the study of death, dying, and bereavement. Northbrook, IL: Association for Death Education and Counseling. Dickinson, G.E. (2006). Teaching end-of-life issues in US medical schools: 1975-2005. American Journal of Hospice and Palliative Medicine, 23, 197-204. Gilbert, K.R. (2004). Death education on the “net”: Development and delivery of “grief in a family context”. In Cox, G. & Bendikson, R. (Eds.). Teaching the sociology of dying and death. (pp. 83-91). Washington, DC: American Sociological Association. Wass, H. (2004). A perspective on the current state of death education. Death Studies, 28, 289-308. Research Report Cumberland L Finding Sense and Significance in the Loss of One’s Child: A Mixed Methods Study of Meaning-Making Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Resources and Research Intermediate Neimeyer, Robert, PhD1; Currier, Joseph, MA1; Lichtenthal, Wendy, PhD2 University of Memphis, Memphis, TN, United States; 2Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center, New York, NY, United States 1 Bereaved parents are vulnerable to a range of physical and emotional difficulties that often do not abate considerably with time. While parental bereavement is generally challenging, there are some individuals 88 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session X – Saturday, April 18, 10:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. who are at particularly vulnerable to poor bereavement adaptation. Specifically, research suggests that parents who struggle with finding meaning in their loss may face more negative outcomes. This presentation will report findings from a mixed methods (quantitative and qualitative) investigation of the role of finding meaning following parental bereavement. In addition to providing information on the circumstances surrounding their losses, 156 bereaved parents completed standardized measures of grief (Core Bereavement Items and Inventory of Complicated Grief) and questions assessing both the process and degree of sense-making and benefit-finding associated with their child’s death. Of the risk factors examined in the study, sense-making emerged as the most salient correlate of grief severity, accounting for 5 to 15 times the amount of the unique variance in parents’ grief symptoms as the amount of time since loss or the cause of the death. Examination of parents’ qualitative responses to open-ended questions about sensemaking and benefit-finding revealed several common themes, suggesting considerable overlap between these two constructs. While 53% of the sample offered a way in which they made sense of their loss, 45% of parents explicitly stated that they were unable to make sense of their child’s death. These parents reported more severe grief symptoms and less adequate support. Findings from this study highlight the importance and complexity of meaning-making for bereaved parents. Research Report Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss theoretical and empirical work on the role of finding meaning in parental bereavement 2. Report quantitative and qualitative findings from an examination of meaning-making after the loss of a child 3. Understand the potential clinical relevance and complexity of meaning-making for bereaved parents This study explored the experiences of 4 adults who lost a sibling in adulthood. Using in-depth conversational interviews, participants were invited to share their journey of meaning making as they worked to integrate the loss of their sibling into their lives. Using a narrative inquiry approach, the presenter moved forward and backward in time, drawing on her own experience of sibling loss to help co-create an overall narrative of the experience. This presentation will provide highlights from the study. References: Braun, M. J. & Berg, D. H. (1994). Meaning reconstruction in the experience of parental bereavement. Death Studies, 18, 105-129. Davis, C. G., Nolen-Hoeksema, S., & Larson, J. (1998). Making sense of loss and benefiting from experience: Two construals of meaning. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 75, 561-574. Keesee, N. J., Currier, J. M., & Neimeyer, R. A. (in press). Predictors of grief following the death of one’s child: The contribution of finding meaning. Journal of Clinical Psychology. Murphy, S. A., Johnson, L. C., & Lohan, J. (2003). Finding meaning in a child’s violent death: A five-year prospective analysis of parents’ personal narratives and empirical data. Death Studies, 27, 381404. Rubin, S. S. & Malkinson, R. (2001). Parental response to child loss across the life cycle: Clinical and research perspectives. In M. S. Stroebe, R. O. Hansson, W. Stroebe, & H. Schut (Eds.) Handbook of bereavement research (pp. 219-240). Washington, DC: American Psychological Association. Winjngaards-de Meij, L., Stroebe, M., Schut, H., Stroebe, W., van den Bout, J., van der Heijden, P., et al. (2005). Couples at risk following the death of their child: Predictors of grief and depression. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 73, 617-623. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize the unique elements of loss associated with the loss of a sibling 2. Describe the meaning making strategies evident amongst bereaved adult siblings 3. Identify the implications of this research for professionals working with bereaved adult siblings www.adec.org Cumberland J Silent Grief: A Narrative Inquiry Into the Meaning Making Processes of Bereaved Adult Siblings Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Family and Individual Introductory Marshall, Brenda, MEd OISE/University of Toronto, Toronto, Ontario, Canada Identified as a disenfranchised loss, the death of a sibling in adulthood is rarely recognized as a significant loss. Adult siblings are often seen as the least impacted family member when a sibling dies with concern first directed toward the grieving spouse and children and then the deceased’s parents. Adult siblings, are seen as less central to the grieving process and are often expected to be a source of strength and support for other family members. In reality, many siblings suffer terribly at the loss of such an important person in their lives. Considered an “out of order” loss, the death of a sibling represents the end of what likely would have been their longest lasting relationship in life. References: Cicirelli, V. (1995). Sibling relationships across the life span. New York: Plenum Press. Cole, A., & Knowles, G. (2001). Lives in context. The art of life history research. California: Walnut Creek: Altamira Press. Wray, T. J. (2003). Surviving the death of a sibling. Living through grief when an adult brother or sister dies. New York: Three Rivers Press. Vaught G.R. (2006). Losing a sibling in adulthood. The Forum, 32(1), 6-7. Leggo, C. (2004). Light and shadow: Four reasons for writing (and not writing) autobiographically. Vitae Scholasticae, Spring, 5-22. White, G.P. (2006). Sibling Grief. New York: iUniverse, Inc. 89 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session XI – Saturday, April 18, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Concurrent Session XI Saturday, April 18, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Invited F Cumberland E/F Mass Tragedy Funeral Challenges: What We Learned From Katrina Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Contemporary Perspectives Introductory Schoen III, Gerard L., LFD Lake Lawn Metairie Funeral Home As a fifth-generation licensed funeral director in New Orleans for nearly 30 years, Gerard Schoen has seen airliner crashes, multiplefatality car crashes, and other mass casualties before. The widespread flooding that ensued in New Orleans in the aftermath of Katrina, however, was a tragedy no one expected and few prepared for. In addition to the hundreds of deaths as a result of the hurricane and flooding, Schoen and his staff were responsible for the care of more than 20 families whose loved ones were already in his funeral home’s care. With five to eight feet of water in the funeral home, Schoen led the effort to recover bodies from the funeral home and continue to serve families in the New Orleans community. Efforts were not only hampered by knowing many families had been displaced across the country, but also by the knowledge that he and many of his staff had also lost their homes. In this session, Schoen reviews how the recovery effort unfolded, what lessons were learned about responding to masscasualty disasters, and provides attendees with a unique “insider’s view” from New Orleans in the early hours of that tragedy. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explain key factors that complicate funeral practices after a mass disaster 2. Describe creative ways professionals can fulfill family requests when circumstances make traditional rituals difficult or impossible 3. Use practical, proven communication principles with families after mass disaster References: Colten, C. E., Cates, R.W., & Laska, S.B. (2008). Three years after Katrina: Lessons for community resilience. Environment, 50 (5), 36-47. Defort, E.J. (2005). Survivor: Louisiana. American Funeral Director, 126 (November), 38-42 Kessler, R. C., et. al. (2006). Mental illness and suicidality after Hurricane Katrina. Bulletin of the World Health Organization, 84, 1-21. Mills, M.A., Edmondson, D., & Park, C.L. (2007). Trauma and stress response among Hurricane Katrina evacuees. American Journal of Public Health, 97, S-116-S123. Rando, T.A. (1993). Treatment of complicated mourning. Champaign, IL: Research Press Rhoads, J. (2006). Post-Hurricane Katrina challenge: Vibrio vulnificus. Journal of the American Academy of Nurse Practitioners, 18, 318324. 90 Research Report Cumberland G Predictors of Grief Reactions Among Dementia Caregivers Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Professional Issues Intermediate Ott, Carol, PhD University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee, Milwaukee, WI, United States The purpose of this longitudinal prospective study was to better understand what factors in caregivers of persons with dementia prior to the care recipient’s death predict high levels of grief in bereavement. The sample of bereaved caregivers was drawn from a larger descriptive study of 201 spouse and adult child caregivers who provided care to their parent/spouse with dementia. Assessments of caregivers were carried out yearly until the death of the care recipient. This report is based on 51 caregivers who experienced the death of their care recipient in the course of the study. Following the Marwitt and Meuser grief model, bivariate correlation coefficients, partial correlation hcoefficients and multiple linear regression were performed to identify the relationship of pre-death factors and the levels of grief after the death. Pre-death individual situational variables, coping strategies, and the caregivers’ mental health were included. Pre-death variables of grief, depression, severity of disease, optimism, positive states of mind, and social support were all significantly correlated to post death grief as measured by the Inventory of Complicated Grief (Prigerson, 1995). After adjusting for the level of disease, pre-death coping strategies of denial and self blame contributed to increased post-death grief while pre-death emotional support was correlated with a decrease. A multiple linear regression with pre-death severity of illness, grief, and social support explained 43% of the variance in post death grief among the caregivers. Results will be discussed in terms of pre-death assessment and intervention with caregivers of persons with dementia prior to the death. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify pre-death factors that impact bereavement outcomes 2. Identify potential pre-death interventions to decrease post-death grief 3. Identify assessment tools to identify pre and post death grief References: Ott, C.H., Sander, S., & Kelber, S. (2007). Grief and personal growth experiences of spouses and adult children caregivers of person’s with Alzheimer’s disease. The Gerontologist, 47: 798-809. Sanders, S., Ott, C. H., Kelber, S. (2008). The experience of high levels of grief in caregivers of person’s with Alzheimer’s disease and related dementia. Death Studies. Schultz, R., Boerner, K, Shear, K., Zhang, M., Gitlin, L. (2006). Predictors of complicated grief among dementia caregivers. American Journal of Geriatric Psychiatry, 14, 650-659. Marwit, S. J., & Meuser, T. M. (2005). Development of a short form inventory to assess grief in caregivers of dementia patients. Death Studies, 29, 191-205. Prigerson, H., Maciejewski, P., Reynolds, C., Bierhals, A., Newson, J., Fasiczka, A., Frank, E. et al. (1995). Inventory of complicated grief: A scale to measure maladaptive symptoms of loss. Psychiatry Research, 59, 65-79. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session XI – Saturday, April 18, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland B Art Beyond Sight: Embodied Healing by Adults Living With Vision Loss Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Introductory Jaworek, Joseph, MA-CT, ATR-BC New Jersey Foundation for the Blind, Boonton Twp, NJ, United States The Artist’s Studio at the New Jersey Foundation for the Blind is a 10-week class designed to identify, recover and enhance creativity in adults (55 and older) living with vision loss. This presentation will focus on how blind adults have used sculpting with clay to develop an increased sense of Haptic understanding and have integrated the experience to reconnect with self, family and community. Participants will be provided with descriptive exercises to facilitate meaningful dialogue to validate transformation in the individual experience of art making and increase client awareness of healthy interdependence to solve problems. The presentation will identify ways in which the experience of loss of orientation may be taken into consideration when developing art directives for those living with vision loss; specifically participants will learn how art materials can be modified to accommodate the loss of mobility, sight, language and memory. Special attention will be placed on enhancing mindfulness: through increased awareness in subtle shifts of client focus and how witnessing the art making process serves as validation and is restorative to the functioning of the client. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Discuss the implication of the embodiment process into artwork 2. Identify specific interventions to assist the visually impaired to access art materials 3. Recognizing the purpose of art serving as witness to the healing process References: Abraham, R. (2005). When words have lost their meaning. Westport, CT: Greenwood Publishing Group. Boss, P. (2006). Loss, trauma, and resilience: Therapeutic work with ambiguous loss. New York: W.W. Norton. Kramer, E. (1986). The art therapist’s third hand. American Journal of Art Therapy, 24, 71-86. Neimeyer, R. (2000). The language of loss: Grief therapy as a process of meaning reconstruction. In R. Neimeyer (Ed.), Meaning reconstruction and the experience of loss (pp. 261-292). Washington D.C.: The American Psychological Association. Personal Experience and Reflection Cumberland C The Use of Biblical and Rabbinic Texts as Tools for Healing in a Bereavement Support Group Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Religious/Spiritual Introductory Arshinoff, Rabbi Rena, RN, BA, MHSC, MAHL University Health Network, Toronto, Ontario, Canada In our death averse and death denying society, mourners often feel very alone. In their lonely and painful journey of grief, some individuals experience a spiritual crisis. This sense of despair and questioning of faith and life may contribute to their isolation and loneliness. Friends and relatives are often at a loss as to how to help. While we each grieve in our own way, connecting with others who are also grieving www.adec.org can be very supportive and comforting in a bereavement support group that becomes a safe “community.” Jewish mourning practices are grounded in Torah, other Biblical writings, Talmud, and Midrash. Such texts tell of stories of despair and hope and illustrate the struggles of ordinary people concerning grief, the reality of human frailty, questioning, anger at God, and ultimate healing. These themes serve as the impetus for discussion of personal reactions to loss and spiritual challenges. We read in the Ethics of our Fathers (Pirkei Avot) 3:3 “when two people sit and words of Torah pass between them, the Divine Presence rests between them”. Text study in a bereavement support group allows mourners to identify their own feelings as they personally interpret the texts, address their personal spiritual crisis issues, find strength framed in their faith tradition, and ultimately support others in the group. This session presents the use of specific Biblical and Rabbinic texts in a Jewish bereavement support group as an adjunct to discussion in addressing spiritual challenges, moving from despair to hope, and finding meaning to loss within the tradition of Judaism that sanctifies life through memory, love, and healing. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Describe the value of using Biblical texts with individuals who are bereaved 2. Discuss the importance of providing grief support in ways that relate to culturally appropriate norms and rituals 3. Apply relevant Biblical texts to the mourning practices of their own faith tradition References: Ariel, D.S. (1998). Spiritual Judaism. Restoring heart and soul to Jewish life. New York, NY: Hyperion. Brook N & Blair, P. (2007). I wasn’t ready to say goodbye. Naperville, IL: Sourcebooks. Brener, A. (2001). Mourning & mitzvah. A guide journal for walking the mourner’s path through grief to healing. Woodstock, VT: Jewish Lights Publishing. Cutter, Rabbi W. (2007). Healing and the Jewish imagination. Woodstock, VT: JEWISH LIGHTS Publishing. Friedman, Rabbi D.A. (Ed.) (2005). Jewish Pastoral Care. Woodstock, VT: Jewish Lights Publishing. Kumar, S.M. (2005). Grieving mindfully. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, Inc. Levine, Rabbi A. (1994). To comfort the bereaved. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson Inc. Levine, S. (2005). Unattended sorrow. Emanus, PA: Rodale. Practice Report Cumberland H Same Time Next Year: Ritualized Remembrances of World AIDS Day Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Intermediate Meris, Doneley, MSW, MA, CT HIV Arts Network, New York, NY, United States Since 1987, the world of AIDS activism, healing-helping-caregiving communities have instituted a global commemoration of those lost to HIV/AIDS by observing World AIDS Day (December 1st). This event has afforded many cultures to put their imprint on how best to remember the struggles of those lost to AIDS. The meaning(s) of these ritualized remembrances wil be explored at this presentation. 91 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session XI – Saturday, April 18, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Highlights will focus on commemorating the over 2.3 million Americans how have died from AIDS and the individuals [every 3 seconds daily who are being HIV-infected]. Inspite of pharmaceutical successes with the HIV virus, the rise of deaths continue to increase today. Many are not responding to the anti-viral medications and they now have to prepare themselves and their survivors to the dying process. From the conventional funerals and cremations - common to the masses, AIDS survivors have creatively and globally instituted many forms of commemorated the deceased from AIDS. Highlights of culturallydifferent ways of honoring those lost to AIDS on World AIDS Day; from the traditional reading of names, candle-lighting, moments of silence to “life celebrations”, block parties, week-end crusies, community acknowledgements, tree plantings, Mardi-Gras-style marches, dancemovement-yoga-healing circles, and poetry-creations. These unique methods of honoring the deceased and their clinical implications will be discussed. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize the unconventional and unique ways in which persons lost to AIDS are honored on World AIDS Day 2. Discuss how the stigma from AIDS death still nessecitates different post-bereavement venues and rituals 3. Discuss clinical grief counseling framework on how World AIDS Day rituals utilize different and unique clinician-client interactions References: Badahdah, A.M. & Alkhder, O.H. (2006). Helping a friend with AIDS: A test of Weiner’s attributional theory in Kuwait. Illness, Crisis & Loss, 14(1), 43-54. Meris, D. (2005). AIDS commemorations: Analysis of media coverage over two decades. ADEC Proceedings 2005, p. A-20. Miller, R. L. (2005). An appointment with God: AIDS, place and spirituality. Journal of Sex Research, 42(1), 35-45. Simoni, J.M., Martone, M.G. & Kerwin, J.F. (2002). Spirituality and psychological adaptation among women with HIV/AIDS: Implications for counseling. Journal of Counseling Psychology, 49(2), 139-147. Practice Report Cumberland I End-of-Life Care: Recognizing and Resolving Ethical Conflicts Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: End-of-Life Decision-Making Professional Issues Intermediate Moore, Clint, III, MDiv, MA, FT Advocate Lutheran General Hospital, Des Plaines, IL, United States Professionals working in the field of end-of-life care frequently encounter conflicts between values and principles involved in ethical decisionmaking. There is a need to recognize such conflicts and their place in ethical decision-making with patients, families, and others. Through the use of case studies, participants will work together to examine the possible tensions within such cases and attempt to resolve of those tensions across a variety of issues. Professionals working in the field of end-of-life care frequently encounter conflicts between values and principles in ethical decision-making around such issues as autonomy, decisional capacity, goals setting, surrogate decision-making, and withholding and withdrawing treatment. These values and principles make particular demands on all involved in the decision-making process. In order to address these conflicts, it is necessary to prioritize those values/principles that might hold sway over others as well as constructing a justification for such prioritization. 92 It is necessary to be able to recognize such conflicts, their place in the ethical decision-making process with patients, families, and others as well as the necessity for ethical reflection regarding decision-making. Through the use of a lecture and interactive discussion format, participants will be exposed to a number of end-of-life case studies and encouraged to work together to recognize the tensions between values and principles present within such cases. A further discussion will consider possible resolutions for these tensions in a manner that attempts to acknowledge and honor a priority and attempt to come to some resolution of those tensions across a variety of ethical issues. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Define terms and approaches used in the process of ethical decision-making 2. Recognize and evaluate principles/values that pertain to the ethical question present in case presentations 3. Discern conflicts between these principles/values and establish priorities as a way of working toward a possible resolution References: Quante, M. (1999). Precedent autonomy and personal autonomy. Kennedy Institute of Ethics Journal 9 (4), 365-381. Richman, K.A. Ethics and the metaphysics of medicine: Reflections on health and beneficence. G. McGee & A. Caplan, (eds.). (2004). Basic bioethics. Cambridge, MA: The MIT Press. Cassell, E.J. (1991). The nature of suffering and the goals of medicine. New York: Oxford University Press. Taylor, J.S. (Ed.) Personal autonomy: New essays on personal autonomy and its role in contemporary moral philosophy. Cambridge, United Kingdom: Cambridge University Press. 2005 Practice Report Cumberland K Past and Present: The History of Death as Death Education Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Historical Perspectives Intermediate Cruz, Laura, PhD Western Carolina University, Cullowhee, NC, United States This session will outline a freshmen level, general education course on the History of Death taught for the past five years at a mid-level regional comprehensive university. While most universities offer undergraduate courses in death, few, if any, do so in the history curriculum and this session will evaluate the effectiveness of studying death through history. Chronologically, the course covers historical attitudes towards death from the earliest civilizations to the present day. The critical framework comes from Phillipe Aries’implicit question, did people in the past die better than we do today? The course was initially designed to treat death objectively, as a tracer of historical change, and not subjectively as an object of moral reflection, but after two years the instructor reversed these positions and introduced a series of experiential learning activities designed to confront students with their own mortality. The session will model these activities, some gleaned from other instructors of thanatology and some from the instructor’s own mixing of historical objectives with death education. Using pre- and post- death anxiety scales and focus groups and one-on-one interviews, the researchers captured the impact of the switch for just over 300 students. The empirical data strongly suggests that the changes made in this course provides a strikingly effective and largely unexplored model of death education. The session will cover course design, lesson design, project design, course management, lessons learned, future implications and possible applications outside of history. www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session XI – Saturday, April 18, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Evaluate the significance of historical perspectives in death education 2. Conceptualize goals for death education for specific disciplines 3. Plan and create new approaches to death education using examples from the history classroom Research Report References: Basu, S., & Heuser, L. (2003). Using service learning in death education. Death Studies, 27 (10), 901-27. Edgerton, S., Holm, G., Daspit, T., & Farber, P. (2004). Vampires on campus: Reflections on (Un)death, transformation, and blood knowledges in the addiction. Imagining the Campus 1(4), 231-246. Cruz, L. (2005). Morbid fascination: Teaching the history of death. Academic Exchange Quarterly, 115-122. Heuser, L. (1995) Death education: A model of student-participatory learning. Death Studies, 19 (6), 583-90. Rapke, Jennifer, MA Research Report Cumberland A Africanisms: Death and Mourning Rituals of the Gullahs of the Sea Islands Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Cultural/Socialization Introductory Swift, Diane, MA Swift and Associates, Kansas City, MO, United States This presentation will uncover the Africanisms found in the death and mourning rituals of the Gullahs. They area descendents of slaves from Sierre Leone and other West African countries. The slaves were brought to Georgia and South Carolina, but have maintained 300 years of African burial, mourning rituals and superstitions. Oral traditions have been the primary method of recording the practices of this group. A film based on mourning traditions and the connection to their African ancestors will be shown. The presenter traveled to the Sea Islands to study the Gullah traditions and the correlation to the Four African Philosophies. Their ancestors brought their time-honored funeral and burial rites from Africa. The presenter will take a multi-dimensional approach to this presentation. Included will be an art installation of actual burial traditions, excerpts from films and other media, and selected interviews from both the Gullahs and informants from West Africa. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Decipher the relationship between Africanisms and their connection between West African and Gullah death and mourning traditions 2. Describe the parallel between two distinct cultures upon viewing film 3. Explain the installation of material culture that connects the slaves of West Africa and the Gullahs of the Sea Islands References: Blockson, C.L. (1986). Sea changes in the Sea islands. National Geographic, 172, (5): 735-763. Dash, J. (2003). Daughters of the dust. The New Press. Holloway, K. (2003). Passed on: African American mourning stories. Duke University Gullah Images: The Art of Jonathan Green. (1966). University of South Carolina Press. www.adec.org Cumberland J A Preliminary Study of Hospital-Based Bereavement Care in American Hospitals Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Larger Systems Intermediate Advocacy & Support Center, Shepherdsville, KY, United States As increasingly more individuals die in hospitals each year, the need for bereavement care of patients and their families multiplies. Hospitalbased bereavement programs are a relatively new phenomenon with inception being traced to 1985 at St. Mary’s Medical Center in Minnesota. With much of the needs of the bereaved currently being served by Hospices and palliative care services, studies find that there are not enough programs to serve the current needs of the bereaved. Several countries have pioneered the field of hospital-based bereavement care, including the United Kingdom, Australia, and New Zealand. Despite the success of bereavement programs globally, the 7,569 hospitals in the United States have varied levels of bereavement programming. Some professionals have called for a standard of care in the field in order to insure quality bereavement care is being provided to all patients, families, and employees. Prior to a standard of care being developed, it is important to know the current state of the field and relative success of existing programs. Although prevalence and comparative studies have been conducted for Hospice and palliative care programs, no such study was found specifically addressing bereavement care in hospitals. The current study, sponsored by the ADEC Hospital-Based Bereavement Program Networking Group SIG, surveyed a representative sample of hospitals in the United States to determine the prevalence and comprehensiveness of services provided. Data from the study will be reviewed in this session and initial conclusions will be postulated. It is hoped that the data from this study will then serve in the development of a standard of care for hospital bereavement services. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize patterns in hospital-based bereavement programs offered in the US 2. Identify mediating and moderating variables that contribute to the development of hospital bereavement programs 3. Develop preliminary recommendations for a standard of bereavement care in hospital settings References: American Hospital Association. (2004, October 24). Resource center: Fast facts from AHA hospital statistics. Retrieved July 4, 2005, from http://www.aha.org/aha/resource_center/fastfacts/fast_facts_us_ hospitals.html Billings, J.A., & Pantilat, S. (2001). Survey of palliative care programs in United States teaching hospitals. Journal of Palliative Care, 4, 309-314. Broche, T.A. (2007). A grief team within a healthcare system. Dimensions of Critical Care Nursing, 26, 21-28. Wolfe, B. (2001). A hospital-based grief support center: The nuts and bolts of development. In Weeks, O.D., & Johnson, C. (Eds.), When all the friends have gone: A guide for aftercare providers (pp.155172). Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing. 93 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session XI – Saturday, April 18, 11:15 a.m. – 12:15 p.m. Concurrent Session XII – Saturday, April 18, 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. Practice Report Cumberland L Creative Interventions for Children Experiencing Traumatic Grief Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Family and Individual Intermediate Lowenstein, Liana, MSW Private Practice, Toronto, Ontario, Canada Traumatic grief refers to a condition in which both unresolved grief and PTSD symptoms are present. Children who suffer from traumatic grief are dealing with both trauma and loss, and require treatment that addresses trauma symptoms as well as traditional grief therapy. Concurrent Session XII Saturday, April 18, 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. Invited F Participants will come away with a better understanding of grief theory, and many new and innovative counseling techniques. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1 Cite the symptoms and reactions of childhood traumatic grief 2. Apply at least 5 new techniques in sessions with bereaved children 3. Identify ways to involve children’s caregivers in counseling sessions References: Lowenstein, L. (2006). Creative interventions for bereaved children. Toronto: Champion Press. Webb, N.B. (2002). Helping bereaved children. A handbook for practitioners (2nd ed.). New York: Guilford Press. Hodas, G. (2006). Responding to childhood trauma: The promise and practice of trauma informed care. Harrisburg: Pennsylvania Office of Mental and Substance Abuse Services. Goldman, L. (2005). Raising our children to be resilient: A guide to helping children cope with trauma in today’s world. New York, NY: Brunner-Routledge. 94 The Role of Funerals in Healing Grief Symposium Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Contemporary Perspectives Intermediate Worden, J. Williams,1; Sofka, Carla, MA, PhD, BS2; Doka, Kenneth,1; Weeks, O. Duane,1; Hoy, William,3 1 3 This training will combine theoretical material with practical techniques. A brief overview of childhood traumatic grief will be presented, i.e. definition, symptoms and reactions, risk and resilience factors. Innovative activities will be presented to help bereaved children address trauma symptoms, process grief reactions, commemorate the deceased, and strengthen healthy coping. Activities will also be presented on special issues such as suicide and homicide. Since research highlights the importance of positive parenting for bereaved children, ideas for enhancing caregiver-child relationships will be discussed. Cumberland K Rosemead School of Psychology; 2Siena College, Albany, NY, United States; GriefConnect, Inc., Crawford, TX, United States The literature in our field is overwhelmingly positive about the importance of funerals and other immediate post-death rituals. Funerals and other memorial services in the early days of grief help confirm the reality of the death, help family and community remember the life of the deceased and his/her impact on the bereaved, find solace in faith and life values, and say goodbye to the dead. In this concurrent session, participants will hear some of our field’s leading voices interact about the role of funerals and memorial services, learn from them what works and what doesn’t in helping the bereaved, and discover possible pitfalls and needed improvements to enhance their effectiveness. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Explain key findings from clinical research and experience on the value of memorialization in healing bereavement 2. Communicate the practical value of memorialization in the grief process 3. Describe examples of creative funeral and memorial services that meet needs experienced by bereaved individuals, families, and communities References: Doka, K. J. (1984). Expectation of death, participation in planning funeral rituals, and grief adjustment. Omega: Journal of Death and Dying, 15, 119-130 (2002). The role of ritual in the treatment of disenfranchised grief. In K.J. Doka (Ed.), Disenfranchised grief: New directions, challenges, and strategies for practice (pp. 135-147). Champaign, IL: Research Press Hoy, W. G. (2006). Why we gather: Healing and the funeral. Deerfield, IL: Selected Resources. (2008). Road to Emmaus: Pastoral care with the dying and bereaved. Dallas: Compass Press. Kastenbaum, R. (2004). Why funerals? Generations, 28, 5-10. Laderman, G. (2003). Rest in peace: A cultural history of death and the funeral home in twentieth-century America. New York: Oxford University Press. Manning, D. (2001). The funeral: A chance to touch, a chance to serve, a chance to heal. Oklahoma City, OK: InSight Books Sofka, C. J. (1997). Social support “internetworks,” caskets for sale, and more: Thanatology and the information superhighway. Death Studies, 21, 553-574. (2004). What kind of funeral: Identifying and resolving family conflicts. Generations, 28, 21-25. Weeks, O. D. (2004). Comfort and healing: Death ceremonies that work. Journal of Illness, Crisis, and Loss, 12, 113-125. (2005). A pre-death ritual for Mable. The Forum, 31 (October-December), 9-10. Worden, J.W. (1996). Children and grief: When a parent dies. New York: Guilford. (2008). Grief counseling and grief therapy: A handbook for the mental health practitioner. New York: Springer. Zulli, A. P. & Weeks, O.D. (1997). Healing rituals: Pathways to wholeness during prolonged illness and following death. In K.J. Doka & www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session XII – Saturday, April 18, 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. J. Davidson (Eds.), Living with grief: When illness is prolonged (pp. 177-191). Washington, DC: HFA Press. Experiential Workshop Cumberland B The Creative Use of Therapeutic Games With Bereaved Children Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Family and Individual Intermediate Lowenstein, Liana, MSW Private Practice, Toronto, Ontario, Canada Game therapy is a form of play therapy that utilizes formal, organized games as psychotherapeutic tools. Games provide an effective means for therapeutic work with children who, by virtue of their developmental needs or their treatment issues, are difficult to engage in traditional play or “talking” therapy. Games are not only a source of fun and enjoyment for children, but they can be used to facilitate physical, cognitive, emotional, and social growth. Through lecture and activity demonstrations, this workshop will provide theoretical information, creative techniques, and practical guidelines for the use of therapeutic games with bereaved children and their families. More specifically, the history and value of game play will be discussed. The criteria for game selection will be presented. The process for presenting games and debriefing after the games will be outlined. Strategies for dealing with challenging client behaviors will also be reviewed. A number of innovative therapeutic games will be presented to help children and families process grief reactions, commemorate the deceased, and facilitate coping. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify the therapeutic value of game play 2. Identify the process of presenting games, and how to debrief after games 3. Use at least 5 new and creative games in individual, group, or family sessions with bereaved children and familiest References: Lowenstein, L. (2006). Creative interventions for bereaved children. Toronto: Champion Press Schaefer, C.E., & Reid, S.E. (2001). Game play: Therapeutic use of childhood games. New York: John Wiley & Sons, Inc. Webb, N.B. (2002). Helping bereaved children: A handbook for practitioners (2nd ed.). New York: Guilford Press. Reddy, L., Files-Hall, T., & Schaefer, C.E. (2005). Empirically based play interventions for children. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association. www.adec.org Experiential Workshop Cumberland C Visions, Dreams, and Metaphors of the Dying: What They Mean and How We Can Help Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Assessment and Intervention Religious/Spiritual Intermediate Atkins, Martha, MA, LPC-S University of Texas at San Antonio, San Antonio, TX, United States Deathbed Phenomena (DBP), such as visions and dreams soon before death, have been recorded since the 15th century. While little empirical research has been compiled, anecdotal evidence documenting these experiences is substantial and crosses religious, cultural, and socioeconomic stratums. This workshop will not debate why deathbed phenomena occur or if they are real. The author postulates that the experiences are real to clients and caregivers and therefore a rich opportunity for study. Recent research indicates healthcare providers and those in a position to counsel the dying and bereaved are likely to ignore signs of deathbed phenomena. Visions, dreams, and the use of metaphors by the dying may be disregarded as functions of a dying brain or attributed to medication. Further research suggests some professionals feel hesitant and ill equipped to discuss deathbed phenomena because these experiences fall into the realm of spirituality. When deathbed phenomena are ignored or not addressed because of fear or lack of knowledge, the dying and their caregivers may be unnecessarily burdened. Based on Bugental’s meaning making framework, this experiential workshop will focus on: (1) defining deathbed phenomena, (2) the experience of deathbed phenomena for the dying, (3) the experience of deathbed phenomena for the witness (family members or caregivers at the bedside of the dying), (4) how counseling and healthcare professionals can facilitate these meaningful exchanges. Relevant research will be presented as well as opportunities to practice techniques for addressing deathbed phenomena. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize deathbed experiences 2. Discuss inclusion of deathbed experiences into grieving process 3. Address spirituality and deathbed experiences for clients and those providing care References: Bering, J. M. (2006). The folk psychology of souls. Behavioral and Brain Sciences, 29, 453-498. Callanan, M., & Kelly, P. (1992). Final Gifts. New York: Bantam Books. Ethier, A. (2005). Death-related sensory experiences. Journal of Pediatric Oncology Nursing, 22, 104-111. Fenwick, P., Lovelace, H., & Brayne,S. (2007). Deathbed phenomena and their effect on a palliative care team: A pilot study. American Journal of Hospice & Palliative Medicine, 23, 17-24. Fox, M. (2003). Religon, spirituality and the near-death experience. London: Routledge. Kubler-Ross, E. (1999). The tunnel and the light: Essential insights on living and dying. New York: Marlowe and Company. O’Connor, D. (2003). Palliative care nurses’ experiences of paranormal phenomena and their influence on nursing practice. Paper presented at the Making Sense of Dying and Death Inter-Disciplinary Conference, Paris, France, 2003. Osis, K., & Harroldsson, E. (1977). Deathbed observation by physicians and nurses: A cross-cultural survey. The Journal of the American Society for Psychical Research, 71 (3), 237-259. 95 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session XII – Saturday, April 18, 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. Stafford, B. (2006). Are they hallucinations or are they real? The spirituality of deathbed and near-death visions. Omega, 53 (1-2), 37-49. Experiential Workshop Experiential Workshop Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Cumberland G The Wisdom and Comfort of a Suicide Bereavement Group Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Loss, Grief and Mourning Professional Issues Intermediate Kosoy, Marjorie, EdD; Levin, Sheryl, MEd Private Practice, Bellaire, TX, United States No family is exempt: Suicide claims more than 1,000,000 lives each year. Those who have survived the suicide of a loved one must live with the lonely clamor of their pain. Survivors of suicide struggle to make sense out of their loved one’s choice. Feelings of guilt, shame, anger and deep sadness often isolate these mourners. A video of a therapist led group of survivors of suicide illustrates how members learn to gently peel back the layers of their pain and to connect to one another. Again and again they re-visit the trauma with the group as their support. Little by little they reclaim parts of their lives. Members of this group illustrate their commonalities and differences in the grieving process. There are those who lived with a mentally ill family member and others who never suspected that their loved one had a problem which would result in suicide. There are those who are alone in their grief and others who worry about the effects of the death on other members of the family. Presenters will provide materials and opportunities for an interactive discussion following the video. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Observe the value of the connections formed in situation specific group process as related to suicide 2. Recognize the differences in the grief process between those family members who have experienced sudden unexplained suicide and those who have experienced a suicide due to chronic mental illness 3. Understand the importance of allowing each person to describe his grief narrative for as long as he needs and in as much detail as he requires References: Balk, D. (2005). After suicide loss: coping with your grief. Death Studies, 29, 459-463. Collins, J. (2007). Finding hope and healing in the wake of tragedy. New York: Penguin Books. Doka, K. (1996). Living with grief: After sudden loss, suicide, homicide, accident, heart attack, stroke. Hospice Foundation of America. Fine, C. (1997). No time to say goodbye: Surviving the suicide of a loved one. New York: Broadway Books. Cumberland H The Gift of Presence in Helping Bereaved Individuals Loss, Grief and Mourning Professional Issues Intermediate Harris, Darcy, MEd, RSW1; Hunter, Brad, BA2; Jeffrey, Kauffman, MA, LCSW3 1 King’s College London, London, Ontario, Canada; 2private practice, London, Ontario, Canada; 3private practice, Upper Darby, PA, United States Presence is often viewed as the most healing aspect of the therapeutic encounter, as it is the “gift” that is offered to individuals through the therapeutic alliance in helping relationships. In this workshop, the concept of presence, or “being with” another will be explored through the sharing of three experienced therapists who work with bereaved individuals. Attendees will be invited to participate in exercises to help increase awareness of presence through preparation, exploration, and practice in the session. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Define and describe the conditions necessary for therapeutic presence 2. Participate in an exercise designed to increase awareness of presence in the therapeutic context 3. Discuss the relationship between personal awareness and the practice of presence with others References: Geller, S. M., & Greenberg, L. S. (2001). Therapeutic presence: Therapists’ experience of presence in the psychotherapeutic encounter. Person-Centered and Experiential Psychotherapies, 1(1/2), 71-86. Thomson, R. F. (2000). Zazen and psychotherapeutic presence. American Journal of Psychotherapy, 54(4), 531-548. Hunter, P. B. (2006). Attention! The healing potential of mindfulness. Psychologica, 26(2), 13-19. Kauffman, J. (2007). Culture, socialization, and traumatic death. In D. Balk (Ed.), Handbook of thanatology (pp. 255-261). Northbrook, IL: Association for Death Education and Counseling. Nichols, D. (2001). Social support of the bereaved: Some practical suggestions. In J. D. Morgan (Ed.), Social support: A reflection of humanity (pp. 33-43). Amityville, NY: Baywood. Experiential Workshop Cumberland I Meet God the Bully: When Values and Beliefs Hurt Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Dying Process Religious/Spiritual Intermediate Gilbert, Richard, PhD Mercy College, Elgin, IL, United States However a person packages his/her spirituality, values and beliefs [with or without God ] the threat of bullyism is ever present. It comes with might, is often disguised, and it compromises our grieving, our healing and, for professionals, our ability to provide clinical support to others. Sometimes healthy beliefs of yesteryear just do not seem to grasp the realities of the contemporary and will need reframing. That is one kind of hurt. 96 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Concurrent Session XII – Saturday, April 18, 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. Few things in life or death are more spiritually challenging than our dying or the dying of someone close to us. It becomes the determinant for healthy spirituality or the exposure of the deep scars of abuse in the framework of spiritual bullyism. This workshop will, after a brief presentation paper, engage students in exploring definitions (including their own), recognizing, framing and responding to the evidence of spiritual/religious abuse, and how best to respond personally and therapeutically without further bullying them or ourselves. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Develop workable definitions of spirituality, religion and beliefs and how to assess them in others 2. Develop strategies for stepping into these definitions in others and to identify areas of hurt and abuse 3. Define specific intervention goals and tools while avoiding extending their victimization and ours References: Beattie, T. (1007). The new atheists: The twilight of reason & the war on religion. Maryknoll, NY: Orbis. Dowd, E.T. & Nielsen, S. (Eds.) (2006). The psychologies in religion: Working with the religious client. New York: Springer. Garces-Foley, K. (Ed.) (2006). Death and religion in a changing world. Armonk, NY: M.E. Sharpe. Gilbert, R., Lucke, G. & Barrett, R. (2006). Protestant approaches to death: Overcoming death’s sting. In Garces-Foley, K. (Ed.) Death and religion in a changing world. Armonk, NY: M.E. Sharpe. Gilbert, R. (2008). Violence in the family: Spirituality/religion as culprit and comfort. In Stevenson, R. & Cox, G. (Eds.) Perspectives on violence and violent death. Amityville, NY: Baywood, ch. 2. Hood, R., Jr., Hill, P. & Williamson, W.P. (2005) The psychology of religious fundamentalism. New York: Guilford. Lewis, J. & Petersen, J. (Eds.) (2005). Controversial new religions. New York: Oxford University Press. Lines, D. (2006). Spirituality in counselling and psychotherapy. Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage. Pergament, K. (2007). Spiritually integrated psychotherapy. New York: Guilford. Watts, J. (2007). Jesus & psychology. London, UK: Darton Longman Todd. Symposium/Panel Discussions Cumberland J Teaching That Matters: On Texts and Teaching in Death Education Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Professional Issues Intermediate Noppe, Illene, PhD1; Corr, Charles, PhD2; DeSpelder, Lynne, MA3; Dickinson, George, PhD4 1 University of Wisconsin-Green Bay, Green Bay, WI, United States; 2The Hospice Institute of the Florida Suncoast, St. Pete Beach, FL, United States; 3Cabrillo College, Capitola, CA, United States; 4College of Charleston, Charleston, SC, United States The main focus for this year’s “Teaching That Matters” Symposium is on death education textbooks. The past three decades have seen an evolution in materials available for death educators at institutions of higher education. Death educators now have a number of materials to choose, from edited sets of readings to disciplinary and interdisciplinary textbooks, some of which have now gone into their seventh and eighth edition. Whether and, if so, how to effectively incorporate such materials in the classroom is open to theoretical and empirical debate. for this symposium, two authors will offer their experience and insights www.adec.org into the decision making process involved in selecting material for textbooks, how these materials are designed to enhance the teaching and learning process, and future issues for the inclusion of textbooks in death education. The third presenter offers his insights on how he uses box inserts and articles from an anthology of readings to enhance student engagement and understanding. The final presenter will summarize themes presented by the other participants, discuss the value of SoTL (Scholarship of Teaching and Learning) research on assessing the effectiveness of textbooks in death education, and offer insights into the differences between undergraduate and graduate textbooks. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Understand the goals and decision making processes involved in the selection of material for textbooks for death education and how such books can be effectively integrated into death education courses in order to promote excellence in teaching 2. Develop a deeper understanding of special features of textbooks and readings that can be used to enhance student engagement and learning 3. Consider how the scholarship of teaching and learning model can be used to assess the effective use of textbooks in death education References: Corr, C.A., Nabe, C.M. & Corr, D.M. (2009). Death & dying, life & living (6th ed.). Belmont, CA: Wadsworth, Cengage Learning. DeSpelder, L.A. & Strickland, A.L. (2009). The last dance. Encountering death and dying (8th ed.). New York: McGraw-Hill. Dickinson, G.E. & Leming, M.R. (2009). Annual editions: Dying, death, and bereavement (11th ed.). New York: McGraw-Hill. Leming, M.R. & Dickinson, G.E. (2007). Understanding dying, death and bereavement (6th ed.). Belmont, CA: Wadsworth Publishers. Noppe, I. C. (April 2007). Bridging research and teaching. Symposium on “What we have learned from death education.” 29th Annual Conference of the Association for Death Education and Counseling, Indianapolis, IN. Witman, P.D. & Richlin, L. (2007). The status of the scholarship of Teaching and Learning in the disciplines. International Journal for the Scholarship of Teaching and Learning, 1, http://www.georgiasouthern.edu/ijsotl Symposia/Panel Discussions Cumberland E/F How Did I Get Into and Become an Expert in Thanatology: Thanatologists’ Narratives Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Death Education Professional Issues Introductory De Rossiter, Cher, MBA1; Wada, Kaori, MA2 Walden University, Rhinecliff, NY, United States; 2McGill University, Montréal, Quebéc, Canada 1 For students just coming into the field, and for others new to death and dying, their view of the professions and understanding of the nature of working in the field are limited. We believe that hearing personal narratives of experts and senior professionals will help those who are new to the field draw lessons and meaning from these narratives. It will also help them form a deeper understanding of the culture of the profession and provide the possibility to form networks, perhaps even mentoring relationships, with those whom they can emulate. In the interest of training and mentoring the next generation of death, dying, & bereavement professionals, the ADEC Student Initiative Committee (SIC) will host a informal roundtable discussion with the purpose of creating an opportunity for the sharing of experience and knowledge. Invited panelists will be those who have established themselves in the field and ADEC, who will address topics such as circumstances that led them to choose and 97 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Concurrent Session XII – Saturday, April 18, 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. stay in thanatology, challenges that they have encountered, and advice for those new to the profession. In addition, an interactive component of the discussion will provide the audience with the opportunity to dialogue with the panelists. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Recognize different pathways that experts have taken in the profession 2. Describe lessons learned and advice given by the established 3. Identify various ways in which they can enhance their professional development References: Dodgen, D., Fowler, R. D., & Williams-Nickelson, C. (2003). Getting involved in professional organizations: A gateway to career advancement. In M. J. Prinstein, & M. D. Patterson (Eds.), The portable mentor: Expert guide to a successful career in psychology. (pp. 221233). New York, NY: Kluwer Academic/Plenum Publishers. Jennings, L., Goh, M., Skovholt, T. M., Hanson, M., & BanerjeeStevens, D. (2003). Multiple factors in the development of the expert counselor and therapist. Journal of Career Development, 30, 59-72 Ragins, B. R., & Kram, K. E. (2007). The handbook of mentoring at work: Theory, research, and practice. Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage. Wogrin, C. (2007). Professional issues and thanatology. In D. Balk, C. Wogrin, G. Thornton & D. Meagher (Eds.), Handbook of thanatology: The essential body of knowledge for the study of death, dying, and bereavement, (pp. 371-385). Northbrook, IL: Association for Death Education and Counseling. Symposia/Panel Discussions Cumberland L Bereavement After Suicide and Homicide: A Conversation About Differences and Similarities Category: Indicator: Presentation Level: Traumatic Death Professional Issues Intermediate Jordan, John, PhD1; Rynearson, Edward, MD2 Private Practice, Pawtucket, RI, United States; 2University of Washington, Bainbridge Island, WA, United States 1 The suicide or homicide of a loved one is likely to elicit profound trauma and complicated grief responses in the mourner. Nonetheless, clinical experience and research literature suggest that there are also differences in the two bereavement experiences. Drawing on their extensive work with survivors of these two types of traumatic loss, the presenters will discuss differences and similarities between suicide and homicide bereavement from four different aspects: the psychological impact on the survivor; including the assumptive world of the mourner; the consequence of the loss for the social relationships of the mourner; longer term developmental effects of the loss; and implications for clinical work with survivors of each type of loss. The presentation will include discussion of case examples from the authors’ practices, conversation between the presenters, and discussion of the ideas with audience members. Objectives: At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to: 1. Identify several similarities in the response to suicide and homicide of a loved one 2. Describe differences in the response to suicide and homicide 3. Identify several implications of these similarities and differences for providing clinical services to survivors References: Jordan, J. R. (2001). Is suicide bereavement different? A reassessment of the literature. Suicide and Life Threatening Behavior 31, 91-102. Jordan, J. & McMenamy, J. (2004). Interventions for suicide survivors: A review of the literature. Suicide and Life-Threatening Behavior, 34, 337-349. Rynearson, E.K. (2001). Retelling violent death. Philadelphia, PA: Brunner-Routledge. Rynearson, E.K. (2006). Violent death: Resilience and intervention beyond the crisis. New York, NY: Taylor & Francis Group. 98 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Category and Indicator Index Category and Indicator Index for Keynote, Invited, Specialty Workshop, Concurrent Session and Poster Presentations Categories: Each Presentation specifies the category that is most appropriate for the content of the presentation. Indicators: Each presentation specifies the indicator that is most appropriate for the content of the presentation. • Assessment and Intervention: Includes information gathered, decisions that are made and actions that are taken by professional caregivers to determine and/or provide for the needs of the dying, their loved ones and the bereaved. • Contemporary Perspectives: Theoretical perspectives in death and dying and the factors that have influenced the perspectives from the 1980s to the present. • • Death Education: Formal and informal methods of acquiring and disseminating knowledge about dying, death, and bereavement. Cultural/Socialization: The influence of cultural/ethnic and social parameters on the experience of death and loss. • Ethical/Legal: Aspects of dying, death and/or loss that pertain generally to determination of right from wrong and specifically to the principles of medical ethics; legal issues refer to the articulated laws of a society as they pertain to thanatology. • Family and Individuals: Social, cognitive and physical encounters and interpretations of dying, death and loss from the standpoint of the person, and the group of people with a relational bond and long-term commitment who define themselves as “family.” • Dying Process: The physical, psychosocial and spiritual experience of facing death, living with terminal illness, the dying process, and caring for the terminally ill. • End-of-Life Decision-Making: The aspects of life-threatening illness and terminal illness that involve choices and decisions about actions to be taken, for individuals, families and professional care-givers. • Loss, Grief and Mourning: The physical, behavioral, cognitive and social experience of and reactions to loss, the grief process and practices surrounding grief and commemoration. • Historical Perspectives: The historical context and historical changes that played a role in the death experience, and the theoretical paradigms in the field of thanatology up to 1980s. • Traumatic Death: Sudden, violent, inflicted and or intentional death, shocking encounters with death. • Larger Systems: The social organizations beyond the individual and family that affect the experience of dying, death and grief. • Life Span: The consideration of death and dying and developmental perspectives from infancy to old age. • Professional Issues: Factors that affect professionals’ training abilities and responsibilities in providing care. • Religious/Spiritual: The relationship between religious and spiritual belief systems and the reaction to and coping with death. • Resources and Research: Involves materials, organizations and groups of individuals who facilitate knowledge acquisition; ideas and materials are based upon the finding of empirical research and theoretical synthesis that add to the knowledge base. www.adec.org 99 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Category and Indicator Index for Concurrent Sessions and Posters Assessment and Intervention Death Education Contemporary Perspectives Creative Healing: Using Integrative Therapies to Help Grieving Families ..................................................... 79 Techniques for Helping Overwhelmed Bereaved ..................... 37 Integrating Adlerian Theory and Techniques With Crisis Intervention .................................................... 63 Contemporary Perspectives The Last Lecture: Staying Power or a Passing Fad? .................. 82 Grief, Loss and Healing in the Age of the Internet ................... 53 Cultural/Socialization Creating Meaningful Memorials: Six Elements of Effective Bereavement Rituals ...................... 41 Does Embalming Heal? ........................................................ 45 Family and Individual Death and Dying at a Children’s Mental Health Agency .......... 64 The Creative Use of Therapeutic Games With Bereaved Children ................................................... 95 When Adults Grieve a Parent, a Second Look: ‘I’m Glad the Bastard’s Dead’ ............................................ 66 Larger Systems Long Term Care Facilities: Are They Meeting the Needs of the Elderly With Cancer and Their Families? ....................... 75 A Preliminary Study of Hospital-Based Bereavement Care in American Hospitals .......................................................... 93 Funeral Home Aftercare: Helping Clients Live Beyond Loss ....... 51 Partnering for Children’s Grief Support: A Highmark Caring Place Initiative .................................... 40 Life Span Living, Lost and Losses: The Flight of Shelter Dwellers in the Florida Keys ................. 69 Professional Issues The Fall and Rise of a Palliative Care Consultation Team .......... 49 Using Narrative Therapy Processes With Grieving Families ...... 88 Metaphors as Meaning-Makers in Grief Therapy ..................... 78 How to Communicate at Difficult Times Across the Cancer Continuum ............................................ 38 Using Drawings in Working With Children and Adults ............. 30 Gender Differences in Drug Responses to End of Life Medications ..................................................... 35 Counseling Bereaved Families During the Identification Process ........................................ 44 Public Health Team and the Experience of the Very Ill at Home .......................................................... 63 Whose Grief? ...................................................................... 53 Cultural/Socialization Life and Death Education in Japan ......................................... 56 Death and Grief Rituals: A Multicultural, Multispiritual Look ....... 65 Africanisms: Death and Mourning Rituals of the Gullahs of the Sea Islands ............................................ 93 Family and Individual I Can’t Imagine...: Art for Teaching and Practice ...................... 58 Historical Perspectives The Legacy of Dr. Edwin Shneidman: A Review of His Literary Works in the Field of Suicidology ....................................... 80 Past and Present: The History of Death as Death Education ....... 92 Life Span When Death Darkens the Door: Supporting Children and Families Facing the Death of a Parent ............................................. 69 Professional Issues When They Die Here but Need to Go There: Shipping the Deceased Home ............................................ 68 Strategies for Mind-Body Healing .......................................... 82 Death Education Online: Lessons Learned ............................... 56 Teaching That Matters: On Texts and Teaching in Death Education .............................................. 97 Developing a Clinical Advancement Program for Bereavement .. 74 Incorporating Technology Into Death Education Practice: Three Formats for Delivery ................................................ 88 A Training Course for Exquisite Witness Grief Care Providers .... 52 How Did I Get Into and Become an Expert in Thanatology: Thanatologists’ Narratives ................................................ 97 Religious/Spiritual Pastoral Care in Bereavement and Loss: A Guide for Helping ... 46 End of Life Care From Four Faith Traditions: Jewish, Hindu, Muslim, Tibetan Buddhism ............................................................. 80 Resources and Research Teaching About Near-Death Experiences Using ‘The Day I Died’ ............................................................... 64 College Psychology Course Offerings on Death and Dying: A National Survey ............................................................ 85 Religious/Spiritual Visions, Dreams and Metaphors of the Dying: What They Mean and How We Can Help .......................... 95 Resources and Research Funeral Homes Bereavement Services and Interventions for Young Children ......................................... 59 Appreciating Research That Matters: Foundations of Bereavement Research Literacy ..................... 33 100 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Category and Indicator Index for Concurrent Sessions and Posters Dying Process Loss, Grief and Mourning Cultural/Socialization Death Attitudes and Anxiety Across Cultures ............................ 63 Giving Information: Latino and Chinese Families in Pediatric Palliative Care ................................................................. 63 When a Person Dies at Home ................................................ 72 Contemporary Perspectives Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy Bereavement Support Group ....... 39 The Role of Funerals in Healing Grief Symposium..................... 94 Adolescents and Technology: Coping With Loss in the Digital World .................................................... 39 Fragmented Answers: Recounting Lucy Grealy’s Story ............... 72 Poetic Elegy, Loss, and the Art of Grieving .............................. 42 Meet Me on Saturn: Working With Non-Ordinary States .......... 38 Meaning Making and Making Meaning: Moving Outside the Circle of Grief .................................................................. 87 A Sacred Trust – Returning the Wartime Fallen ......................... 72 Family and Individual Companioning Model* of End of Life Care on an Adult Bone Marrow Transplant Unit .................................... 44 End of Life on a Bone Marrow Transplant Unit – Body, Mind & Transpersonal Experience .................................................. 86 The Struggle for Grace – Opportunities for Transformation of the Dying and Ourselves ........................................................ 54 Larger Systems Pricey or Priceless?: Hospital Care of the Dying Patient ............. 51 Professional Issues How Will I Die? Understanding the Process and the Mystery ..... 47 Religious/Spiritual Living Near Death ................................................................ 34 Meet God the Bully: When Values and Beliefs Hurt .................. 96 Mindful Mortality – Exploring the Spiritual Dimensions of Death Awareness ............................................................. 32 Religion, Life History, Illness and Death: Experience of Brazilians Families ............................................................ 64 Resources and Research Near-Death Experiences: Thirty Years of Scholarly Inquiry ......... 65 End-of-Life Decision Making Professional Issues Hearing the Patient’s Voice Through a Values History ............... 79 Moral Distress: The Elephant in the Room ................................ 54 Balancing on a Shifting Rug - Facilitating End of Life Decision-Making............................................................... 76 End-of-Life Care: Recognizing and Resolving Ethical Conflicts .... 92 Cultural/Socialization Same Time Next Year: Ritualized Remembrances of World AIDS Day .............................................................. 91 Sudden Death, Grief and Counselors in the Hispanic Community ......................................................... 48 The Moral Experiences of Bereaved Fathers ............................ 40 Cyber-Savvy Grief Interventions in a Youth’s World of Social Networking ............................................................ 50 Bangladesh Project: Grief Born of Injustice; and Tools of Faith, Hope, and Joy ................................................................. 48 Art Beyond Sight: Embodied Healing by Adults Living with Vision Loss ....................................................................... 91 Continuing Bonds through Myspace: A New Venue for Grief Explored ................................................................. 81 Ancient Egyptian, Modern Egyptian, and Current American Views on Death and Bereavement ............................................... 35 Living Beyond Loss: Themes of Dying, Death and Bereavement in Gospel and Blues Music .................................................... 60 When Hurricane Tragedy Strikes – Crisis and Grief Challenge Resiliency ....................................................................... 84 Research and the Baby Boomers Life Experience Demand Changes in Grief Support – How Do We Do That?............................. 46 Doggone Grief .................................................................... 36 Living Beyond Loss for People With Intellectual Disabilities ........ 58 Mythology and the Grief Healing Process ............................... 39 Comforting Terminally Ill Chinese: Cultural Understanding of the Family’s Bereavement Process ............................................ 73 Understanding Bereavement Resilience: Integrating Family and Cultural Perspectives ......................................................... 67 Family and Individual A Perspective on the Comprehensive Care of Donor Families..... 83 www.adec.org 101 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Category and Indicator Index for Concurrent Sessions and Posters Family and Individual Working With Children Who Have Lost a Loved One in the Military – TAPS .......................................................... 70 Healing From Loss With Scents ............................................. 66 My Phantom Father: The Special Bereavement Experience of War-Related Loss .............................................................. 57 Interface of Post Traumatic Stress and Post Traumatic Growth in Bereaved Parent Narratives ............................................... 85 The Trauma Dialogues: Facilitating an Empowered Voice for Homicide-loss Survivors ..................................................... 73 The Palm Still Waves: A Mother/Daughter Reunion .................. 50 Meaning Making of Family After Long Term Foster Care ........... 64 Who Let the Dogs Out? Utilizing Therapy Dogs With Grieving Children and Teens ........................................................... 86 Importance of Whole System Support for the Grieving Family.... 68 Healing a 40+ Year Old Father-Loss Through Art Making .......... 36 Using Fiction and Memoir to Help Children and Adults Who are Grieving .................................................. 65 Silent Grief: A Narrative Inquiry Into the Meaning Making Processes of Bereaved Adult Siblings .................................. 89 A Life Giving Memorial ......................................................... 66 The Colorful Faces of Grief ................................................... 57 Footprints Family Support Group: A Neonatal Intensive Care Unit Family Bereavement Program ............................................ 35 And We Talk to the Animals: The Gift of Pets and the Pain of Loss ................................................................ 36 How African American Novelists Have Depicted Racism-Caused Grief in African American Families ..................................... 76 This Place: A Documentary About Memorial Places .................. 66 Treasured Moments in Time ................................................... 62 Cut it Out! This is Serious!: Laughter in Bereaved Families ......... 55 The Role of After-Death Communication Experiences in Bereavement Resolution ..................................................... 71 Couple Relationships Following the Loss of a Child .................. 75 Pet Loss as a Portal to Significant Life Traumas and Losses ......... 78 All I Need to Know About Grief I Learned While I Was Born .... 41 Historical Perspectives Dallas, November 22: 1963: A Death That Changed the World. Forever! ......................... 54 Larger Systems An After School Program Grief Group With Middle Schoolers Using the Expressive Arts: What Worked and What Didn’t .... 66 Grief in Workplace: Mending Body, Mind & Spirit of Your Employees - Knowing Boundaries/Ethics ............................. 77 Fostering Multiple Losses in the Child Welfare System ............... 50 The Veteran’s Last Skirmish: Encountering Dying and Death ....... 32 Death and Disenfranchised Grief in Virtual Communities: Challenges and Opportunities ............................................ 83 102 Life Span Grief Related to Pregnancy Loss: Understanding the Experience of Losing a Child Before Birth ................................................ 65 ‘No mother-of-the-bride?’: Differences in Developmental Milestones for Parentally Bereaved Children ........................................ 42 Exploring the Impact on Individuals Who Have Experienced Multiple Losses Through Death Over Time ............................ 37 What About Me? Young People Grieve Too: An In-School Grief Support Program .............................................................. 65 Determinants of Conscious and Unconscious Death Anxiety Among Bereaved Adults ............................................................... 62 Joy Through Movement: Using Yoga and Tai Chi Chih to Work Through Grief .................................................................. 38 Professional Issues Identity and Meaning Construction in Multiple Widowhood ...... 71 Predictors of Grief Reactions Among Dementia Caregivers ........ 90 The Gift of Presence in Helping Bereaved Individuals................ 96 GriefWork Network: Providing Support and Education for Providers of Bereavement Services.................................................... 43 Bereavement Support Group? No Thanks. I’m Dating ............... 55 Eastern Body-Mind-Spirit Model for Accomplishment of William Worden’s Four ‘Tasks of Mourning’ ..................................... 45 Beyond Gender: Understanding the Ways Men and Women Grieve ................................................................ 31 The Wisdom and Comfort of a Suicide Bereavement Group ...... 96 Religious/Spiritual The Spiritual Ramifications of Grief ......................................... 45 After-Death Communications in Popular Bereavement Narratives: How Ghosts Heal ............................................................. 52 The Gifts of Grief – Life beyond Loss ....................................... 53 Robin Bush: A Political Family’s Lasting Grief for a Child ........... 38 Catching Your Breath in Grief: A Workshop for Caregivers ....... 30 A Natural Resource: Religious Coping in Bereaved Adolescents ....................................................... 47 The Use of Biblical and Rabbinic Texts as Tools for Healing in a Bereavement Support Group .............................................. 91 Why Would God? Helping Bereaved Parents Process Hard Spiritual Questions ................................................... 82 Resources and Research Meaning-Making in Memories: A Comparison of Death and Low Point Autobiographical Memories ....................................... 84 Psychometric Evidence for the Continuing Bonds Inventory ........ 74 Developing a Hospital Bereavement Program – From Start to Success ........................................................ 35 Finding Sense and Significance in the Loss of One’s Child: A Mixed Methods Study of Meaning-Making ....................... 88 Testing a Model of Prolonged/Complicated Grief .................... 36 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Category and Indicator Index for Concurrent Sessions and Posters Traumatic Death Contemporary Perspectives Mass Tragedy Funeral Challenges: What We Learned From Katrina .................................................................... 90 Family and Individual Creative Interventions for Children Experiencing Traumatic Grief ................................................................ 94 Resiliency in the Aftermath of Homicide, Suicide, and Multiple Fatalities: A Client Centered Focus...................................... 43 Larger Systems Multiple Fatalities and Grief Support: What We Learned From Columbine ............................................................... 81 Psychosocial Role of the Death Penalty in the Death System ....... 87 Professional Issues Death Notification: I’ll Never Forget Those Words .................... 77 Perspectives on Recovery from Parental Suicide in Childhood: Insights and Preliminary Findings ........................................ 31 Bereavement After Suicide and Homicide: A Conversation About Differences and Similarities ................................................ 98 Research That Matters - 2009: Childhood Traumatic Grief: Lessons Learned From Research and Practice ................................... 55 Resources and Research When Safety Nets Fail: Social Support in Homicide Bereavement .................................................................... 49 The Toll of Violence: African American Adjustment to Homicide Loss .................................................................. 70 www.adec.org 103 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Presenters Index A E J M Adams, Susan 84 Affleck, William 40 Andrea R. Croom 37 Andrea, Walker 33 Antinori, Deborah 78 Arshinoff, Rabbi Rena 91 Atkins, Martha 95 Attig, Thomas 30, 56 Eckerd, Lizabeth 85 Edwards, Cheryl 50 Edwards, Daxon 50 Elmslie, Pamela 37 Jacqueline, Taylor 45 James, Libba 88 Jaworek, Joseph 91 Jeffrey, Kauffman 96 Jeffreys, J. Shep 52 Johnson, Catherine 51 Johnson, Vicki 15, 61 Jordan, John 55, 98 Joy, Barbara 38 Macdonald, Mary Ellen 40 Mackay, Michael 84 Manzella, Christiane 53 Markell, Kathryn 65 Markell, Marc 65 Marshall, Brenda 89 Martin, Terry 31 Matamura, Misato 56 McBride, Jennifer 81 McCune, Susana 35, 65 McDevitt-Murphy, Meghan 49, 70 McGoldrick, Irene 66 McGoldrick, Monica 14 McGunigall-Smith, Sandy 87 Mehr, Nita 73 Meris, Doneley 69, 91 Merriman, Christine 79 Miles, Rosemary 71 Miller, Jessica 40 Molaison, Valarie 55 Molaison, Valarie A. 28 Mondell, Amber 37 Mooney, Kim 77 Moore, Clint, III 49, 92 Moore, Jane 56 Moretta Guerrero, Brenda 63 Murray, Colleen 85 B Bahti, Tani 47, 54, 76 Baratta, Jill 36 Barrett, Ronald Keith 30, 80 Barsano, Terry 39 Barton, Jane 54 Barton Ross, Cheri 78 Beck Irland, Nancy 41 Blakley, Theresa 73 Boelk, Amy 39 Boies, Patricia 50 Borgman, C. Jan 43 Bousso, Regina 63, 64 Brown, Brenda 36 Brucker, Nancy 40 Burke, Laurie A. 49, 70 Byock, Ira 14 C Cabrera, Fernando 48 Cadell, Susan 40 Campagna, Heather 70 Caramela-Miller, Sandra 43 Carlson, Susan, MSW 58 Carst, Nancy 62 Chan, Cecilia 14, 45, 82 Chappelear, Ginny 46 Chapple, Helen 51 Childs, Annette 34 Coleman, Mirean 44 Corr, Charles 97 Cruz, Laura 92 Cumming, Tiffany 86 Currier, Joseph 88 D Davies, Betty 63 Deangelis, Rose 57 De Rossiter, Cher 97 DeSpelder, Lynne Ann 30, 80, 97 Dickinson, George 97 Doka, Kenneth 31, 94 Dyana Reisen 67 104 F Fajardo, Angelica 80 Fernandez, Ramona 65 Finton, Leslie 40 Flanagan-Kaminsky, Donnamarie 32 Ford, Khris 15, 61 Ford, Tim 32 Fowler, Kathleen 72 Friedrichs, Judy 77 Frogge, Stephanie 71 G Gabbay, Pamela 80, 86 Gilbert, Kathleen 56 Gilbert, Richard 36, 66, 96 Gilbride, Margaret 58 Giles, Karen 72 Glasgow, Bob 82 Gomez, Michelli 15, 61 Goodman, Robin 55 Gorman, Eunice 56, 58 Graves, Karen 64 Guy, Thurman 59 H Haggard, Geraldine 68 Harper, Jeanne 77 Harris, Darcy 56, 96 Harris Lord, Janice 77 Hayslip Jr., Bert 62 Hensley, Lisa 83 Hevelone, Jon Dale 46 Hieftje, Kimberly 81 Ho, Andy 67 Hogan, Nancy 33 Holden, Janice Miner 64, 65 Horan, John 81 Horsley, Gloria C. 53 Horsley, Heidi 53 Hoy, William G. 41, 94 Hughes, Mary 38 Hunter, Brad 96 K Kilcrease, J. Worth 66 Knott, J. Eugene 29 Kondo, Taku 56 Konrad, Shelley 37 Kosminsky, Phyllis 87 Kosoy, Marjorie 96 Kramer Almquist, Heather 65 Krau, Stephen 35 Kwilecki, Susan 52 L Lambrecht, Madeline E. 28 Lang, Betsy 44, 86 Larsen, Barbara 85 Lawrence, Carrie 64 Lawson, Katherine E. 49, 70 Leaver, Wayne 37 Levin, Sheryl 96 Lewis, Laura 58 Lewis, Mileva 79 Lichtenthal, Wendy 88 Lindwall-Bourg, Karen 68, 88 Loring, Paula 15, 72 Lowenstein, Liana 94, 95 Loy, Martin 39 Ludwick, Nancy 35 Lunsford, Beverly 80 Lybert, Maxine 57 N Neimeyer, Robert A. 49, 70, 88 Nicholson, Joyce 48 Noppe, Illene 97 O Oden, Kathryn 64 Olague, Laura 15, 61 Ott, Carol 90 P Paula Loring 61 Piet, William E. 68, 72 Post, Michelle 83 R Rapke, Jennifer 42, 50, 93 Rillstone, Pam 66 Rosenblatt, Paul 76 Ruffin, Diana 35 Rushforth, Nancy 87 Rynearson, Edward 98 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Presenters Index S V Sagara-Rosemeyer, Miharu 56 Sandler, Irwin 55 Scarpino, Andrea 42 Schachter, Sherry R 28 Schoen Iii, Gerard L. 90 Schuurman, Donna 80 Serafim, Tais 64 Sewell, Kenneth W. 16, 62 Shapiro, Ester 33 Shen, Yih-Jiun 73 Shipers, Carrie 42 Silva, Lucia 63 Smith, Harold Ivan 38, 54 Smith, Ian 57 Smith, Jennifer L. 39 Sobonya, Nancee 53 Sofka, Carla 39, 82, 94 Stevenson, Robert 48 Stewart, Alan 71 Strickland, Albert 60, 80 Swift, Diane 93 Van Dyke, Jessica G. 49, 70 Vorsheck, Terese 40 T Taylor, Glenn 86 Taylor, Sharon R. 57 Tedrick, Sara 63 Telger, Kathy 15, 61 Thompson, Debra 45 Thornton, Gordon 40 Toye, Lysa 69 Troup, Erin 50 www.adec.org W Wachter, Carrie 63 Wada, Kaori 56, 97 Wagener, Robert 79 Wang, Clarissa 67 Warnick, Andrea 69 Watkins, Becky 38 Weeks, O. Duane 94 Werth, James L. 16, 61 Wheat, Laura 88 Whiting, Peggy 88 Whittington, Heather 39 Wilkins, Michael 36 Winchester Nadeau, Janice 78 Woo, Ivan 45 Worden, J. Williams 94 Wortham, Jennifer 66 Wright, J. Brooke 47 Y Yetter, Jamie 83 Yoneda, Asaka 56 105 Association for Death Education and Counseling® Hyatt Regency Dallas Floor Plan Exhibition Level Lobby Level 106 www.adec.org ADEC 31st Annual Conference Hyatt Regency Dallas Floor Plan Atrium Level Third Level www.adec.org 107 ® Association for Death Education and Counseling® The Thanatology gy Association® ADEC 32nd Annual Conference Dying, Death, and Bereavement: It’s All About the Stories April 7–10, 2010 Hyatt Regency Crown Center • Kansas City, Missouri USA Keynote Speakers Britt Hysing-Dahl Britt Hysing-Dahl is considered a pioneer within the field of hospice and palliative care in Norway. She is currently a clinical social worker at Bergen University Hospital working with seriously ill and dying patients. She is the CEO of the Norwegian Society Western Norway, CEO of the largest nursing home in Norway and City Counsellor of Bergen. Hysing-Dahl has been an active member of IWG for 25 years. After a serious cancer diagnosis, she is now a happy pensioner working on her new book, The Labyrinth of Life. Thomas Lynch Essayist, poet and funeral director of Lynch & Sons funeral home in Milford, Michigan. He is regularly featured on the op-ed page of The New York Times, The Boston Globe and The Times of London, as well as in the pages of Harper’s and has appeared on C-SPAN, MSNBC, the NBC Today Show and the PBS series “On Our Own Terms.” Robert Neimeyer, PhD Professor and director of psychotherapy research in the Department of Psychology, University of Memphis, editor of two respected international journals, Death Studies and the Journal of Constructivist Psychology and a former president of ADEC. The author of over 300 articles and book chapters, he is currently working to advance a more adequate theory of grieving as a meaning-making process. Visit www.adec.org for more information. L IVING WITH G RIEF : D IVERSITY AND E ND - OF -L IFE C ARE Live -viaweb and cast sate llite ! g inuin Cont tion a Educ ! able avail Wednesday, April 29, 2009 Moderated by Frank Sesno Professor of Media and Public Affairs at The George Washington University and Special Correspondent with CNN SPONSORED BY The Foundation for End-of-Life Care IN COOPERATION WITH Adventist Communications Network; Association for Death Education and Counseling; Dignity Memorial Funeral Providers; National Association of Social Workers; Department of Veterans Affairs Employee Education System Featured Panelists Samira K, Beckwith, LCSW, FACHE • Kenneth J. Doka, PhD, MDiv Wanda H. Jenkins, MHS • Sandy Chen Stokes, RN, PHN, MSN Richard Payne, MD • Paul Rosenblatt, PhD • Carlos Sandoval-Cros, MD It’s Easy to Host a Site Register online at www.hospicefoundation.org or by calling 1-800-854-3402. After registering with HFA, site coordinators will receive a coordinator’s manual with complete directions. You supply a room for the audience, a video monitor, and webcast viewing abilities or an analog satellite that can receive C or KU-band frequencies. Hosting A Site • Increases awareness of your organization in your community; • Offers you an opportunity to build relationships with other caregivers, advocates, and community leaders; • Helps frontline workers, family caregivers, and advocates stay current on end-of-life topics; • Provides low-cost continuing education credit to clergy, nurses, social workers, and others. Unable to host? • Attend a site near you! Visit http://www.hospicefoundation.org/teleconference/findASite.asp to find a site in your area. 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