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THE TBR TABLET September 2014 Join us for High Holiday Services @ TBR! TEMPLE BETH RISHON Elul 5774 / Tishrei 5775 INSIDE THIS ISSUE Shabbat, Festival & Holiday Services ......................... 2 Rabbi’s Message .......................... 3 Cantor’s Message ........................ 4 President’s Message.................... 5 Wednesday 9/24 Thursday 9/25 Friday 9/26 Friday 10/3 Saturday 10/4 Erev Rosh Hashanah 6:00 pm Services Rosh Hashanah 1st Day Schools & Office Closed 9:30 am Services 11:00 am Youth Program 5:00 pm Family Service 5:30 pm Tashlich 6:00 pm Mincha Rosh Hashanah 2nd Day Schools & Office Closed 9:30 am Services 11:00 am Youth Program 6:30 pm Services Erev Yom Kippur 7:00 pm Kol Nidre Service Yom Kippur 9:30 am Services 11:00 am Youth Program 1:30 pm Yizkor 5:00 pm Mincha/Neilah/Havdala BREAK FAST VP Religion Message..……………6 Special Services......................... 14 Adult Education ......................... 16 Sukkot Services……………...…..20 Preschool News…………………..21 Religious School News.............. 22 Youth Group News ..................... 24 Around the Temple .................... 25 Tribute Cards ............................. 27 Yahrzeits ..................................... 30 What Is Awesome About The Days Of Awe? Tuesday, September 16 At 7:00 pm Join us for an evening of learning and spiritual preparation for the High Holy Days! See page 10 for details! September 2014 Service Schedule Upcoming Shabbat, Festival & Holiday Service Schedule Date Time Service Friday, September 5 **6:30 pm **New time for Shabbat Evening Services Shabbat Evening Service Candle lighting 7:06PM Saturday, September 6 10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service KI TETZE Haftarah: Deanna & Daryn Javer Friday, September 12 6:30 pm Shabbat Evening Service Candle lighting 6:54PM Saturday, September 13 10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service KI TAVO B’nei Mitzvah: AJ & Michael Christian Meditative Shabbat Services 10:00 am Friday, September 19 6:30 pm Shabbat Evening Service Candle lighting 6:42PM Saturday, September 20 EREV SELICHOT Nosh & Drash Shabbat Morning Service NITZAVIM-VAYELECH Haftarah: Fern Wilensky Auerbach Family Babynaming 9:00 am 10:00 am 8:30 pm Pre-Selichot Program: “Ethical Wills” at Temple Beth Tikvah, Wayne, NJ Followed by Selichot Service 10:00 pm Wednesday, September 24 6:00 pm Erev Rosh Hashanah Services Candle lighting 6:34PM 9:30 am 5:00 pm 5:30 pm 6:00 pm Rosh Hashanah 1st Day Services Family Service Tashlich Service Mincha Service Candle lighting 6:31PM 9:30 am 6:30 pm Rosh Hashanah 2nd Day Services Shabbat Evening Service Candle lighting 6:30PM Thursday, September 25 Friday, September 26 Saturday, September 27 10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service HA’AZINU-SHUVAH Haftarah: Claire Taub Page 2 Rabbi’s Message September 2014 From the Rabbi’s Desk... WELCOME BACK! — “IT’S SO NICE TO HAVE YOU BACK WHERE YOU BELONG!” Many of us have been scattered for the summer. I was on vacation during July and the Cantor was away in August. We’re back together again, looking forward to serving the congregation for another year. Can you believe that this is my 20 th year with the congregation and the Cantor’s 27th? I want to welcome back from camp all of the kids who were away from their parents, many at sleep away camps, with their friends, growing up, maturing and having the time of their lives. I trust that many couples used the opportunity to reconnect with one another, enjoying some quality couple time together. Now it’s back to the yearly cycle, with both secular and religious schools beginning shortly, the beginning of sports practices, which means driving the kids to the games, along with all of the extracurricular activities the new season presents. With that said, we all know that the High Holy Days are not far off. Both Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur are days devoted to self-reflection, and self-examination. Each of us will reflect on the changes we plan to make in our lives which we hope will bring us greater satisfaction and personal fulfillment. The month of Elul is the month of spiritual introspection, or “cheshbon hanefesh.” It is a time to ask ourselves a series of questions so that we might direct our thinking toward improving the quality of our lives. Steven Goodier, author of numerous books about personal development, motivation, inspiration, and making needed life changes writes: “Fifty people over the age of 90 were asked to reflect upon their lives. If you had it to do over again, what would you do differently?" Though there were many answers, three responses dominated. Here they are: First, many respondents answered, "I would reflect more." Second, they said, "I would risk more." Finally, they said, "I would do more things that would live on after I died. Reflect more. Risk more. Leave a legacy. These are what our elders say they would do the second time around. So he asks: But why wait for a second time around? Every new day is a second chance!” Friends, Rosh Hashanah gives us a second chance! May each of us be wise enough to utilize the time to make changes in our lives which will bring us greater personal satisfaction and intense spiritual fulfillment. I want to take this opportunity to wish you and your family a Shanah Tovah U’metukah, a sweet and wonderful New Year 5775. May the New Year bring good health, time to reflect, to risk and to leave a legacy! Shanah Tovah! Rabbi Dr. Kenneth A. Emert KAE9999@aol.com Page 3 Cantor’s Message September 2014 From the Cantor’s Desk... TRADITION IS THE ENEMY OF PROGRESS! “Tradition is the enemy of progress!” Carol and I heard that provocative statement made during our recent trip to the American West and its national parks. These words were used to describe the American government’s attitude towards the Native Americans during the latter part of the 19 th century. We are Jewish, and the essence of our survival and identity is tradition. Therefore, this attitude really hit a nerve. We spent a little over two weeks on a bus tour with our friends, Tzvi and Veronica, mostly exploring the beauty of our national parks. In 1969, I took a motorcycle trip from New York City to California and back. I toured California up and down but never stopped at any of the national parks on the way; I was 21 years old and in a rush. Forty-five years later, it was time to go back and see what I had missed. Of course, sitting on a bus for over 2,200 miles is not for the faint of heart, but we survived. In fact, some of our fellow travelers would jokingly describe this trip as an excursion to visitor centers, gift shops, rest rooms, and motels, with an occasional stop at some national park. However, those occasional stops were really worth it. We had the opportunity to explore the most beautiful sights our country has to offer. We experienced the vastness and natural beauty of Yellowstone Park, where the buffalo and elk really do roam undisturbed in the fields (and on the roads) and where Old Faithful erupts like clockwork. We appreciated the splendor of the ice caps and snow drifts of the Tetons. We absolutely loved the majesty of Bryce and Zion National Parks. They may not be as large or as well-known as Yellowstone or the Grand Canyon, but they were our favorites. And, of course, there was the Grand Canyon itself. It was grand. It was magnificent. Yes, we took lots of photos, but the photos don’t tell the story. You have to be there; it is a spiritual experience. You feel the presence of God and God’s hand in all that beauty. In addition, we marveled at the creative and physical ingenuity of the 13th century Indians in Mesa Verde, Colorado, who built dwellings that resembled small, modern apartment buildings carved right into the mountains. Besides experiencing the beauty our country has to offer, we also learned about the people who were here before us, the Native Americans, commonly known as the American Indians. What we learned was quite disturbing. In a nutshell, the indigenous people of this land were ignored and eventually displaced for the sake of white civilization. As they pushed westward, white people made a faint attempt to accommodate the Indian nations, but when that impeded what our government termed as progress, the native peoples were simply pushed aside and “resettled.” While the Civil War was raging and Abraham Lincoln was fighting to free the slaves, the Union Army was pushing the Indians off their native lands in the western territories. After the Civil War, it only got worse. The motto of the American Congress and the military became “tradition is the enemy of progress.” The Indians could no longer remain on their lands and continue their traditional way of life, since it interfered with what those in power determined to be progress. My friend Tzvi, who is a professional Jewish educator, and I saw a pattern very similar to the Jewish experience in Europe, starting in the Middle Ages and continuing to modern times. In the Indian experience, the “new Americans” moved west, settling on Indian lands. At first, there would be cooperation. Then, educational and economic limitations and social marginalization would be forced on the Indians, and eventually, there would be confrontation. The Jewish experience in Europe was similar, except that the Jews were sometimes invited by the king or the native population to settle. Next, the economic, educational, and social discrimination would spread at the whim of the king or present ruler or church leader, and eventually, there would be a pogrom. Eventually, both peoples were excluded from life among the general population. The Indians were resettled in reservations, the Jews in ghettos. On one of the last evenings of our trip, I watched the movie Fiddler on the Roof for the umpteenth time. The last shot of the movie brought home to me one difference between the Indian and Jewish experiences. In the last scene, Tevya is starting the long trek with his family to America, the “Goldene Medineh,” the Land of the Free, because after many generations of living in Eastern Europe, life has become unbearable for the Jews. Tevya looks behind him towards the shtetl he is abandoning, and there is the fiddler, who slowly begins playing the song “Tradition.” Tevya listens, smiles, and motions for the fiddler to join him. The implication is that the Jews will bring their traditions to America, the land that will accept them. And yet, that same America could not accept or tolerate the traditions of its own native inhabitants. On behalf of my wife, Carol, my son, Noah, my daughter, Aliza, my father, Arthur, and my mother-in-law, Irene, I would like to wish our Beth Rishon community an enjoyable, healthy, and sweet new year. Shanna Tova Umetukah, Page 4 Cantor Ilan Mamber cantor@bethrishon.org President’s Message September 2014 From the President’s Desk… The Summer of Feeling Unsettled For most people, the summer offers well deserved opportunities for rest and relaxation. It’s a time for barbecues, swimming pools, beaches, vacations, day trips, eating outdoors, taking walks and just sipping lemonade on the porch. Kids get to stay up later and parents get to go out more. Most people try to shift their normal pace down to a slower gear. For me, this summer was different. Many things seemed very unsettling. I was very distracted and concerned with the situation in Israel. I know so many people who travelled there this summer. Some went on solidarity trips which I very much wish I could have joined. Others were on family vacations that they decided not to cancel. Some of my friends’ children went on their birthright trip as their parents waited on pins and needles for their return. And my son – spent 10 days in Israel for work and only informed me of a few of his visits to a bomb shelter. There was an amazing rally in support of Israel attended by over 2400 people. The misrepresentations in the media about Israel and the constant Facebook postings, tweets and ridiculous headlines – made my head spin. And then, to top it off, there have been protestors in front of the Boulder Run Shopping Center exploiting the Palestinian cause and berating Israel. In addition, the anti-Semitic situation in Europe is obviously escalating. Incidents in Paris, Berlin, Frankfurt, Rome, London and other European cities indicate a definite worldwide uneasiness that makes me uncomfortable. In contrast, I would see pictures posted on Facebook of friends and acquaintances on their summer vacation standing near the Rhine, posing next to the Eiffel Tower and admiring the Roman ruins. They look so happy – can the situation really be that bad? It all just leaves me feeling unsettled. At the same time, my youngest son, left for college. I remember wheeling Josh in a stroller as an infant into the synagogue and now, my baby left the nest and is spending the next four years in Happy Valley. He is thrilled and adjusting easily – I on the other hand – feel unsettled. I like to be rooted – as most people do. So when I drive by my community shopping center and see protestors, and hear my beloved Israel being so ridiculously scrutinized and criticized and read about swastikas and hate chants – and then come home to another empty bedroom – I feel unsettled. So I’m actually looking forward to the summer ending. There are some things I will miss – longer days, warmer weather and summer cocktails. But - I am looking forward to my routine returning, to the High Holy Days and to our community gathering together. I feel safe at TBR. I feel comfortable at TBR. It keeps me grounded and connected, and when I am at the Temple, no matter what craziness is going on, I feel settled. I appreciate that – this summer more than anyone can imagine. I look forward to seeing you in a few weeks. Laura Freeman, Temple President ljfassoc@gmail.com Page 5 Service Information September 2014 A Message from the VP of Religion Shalom Chaverim After a great deal of discussion and deliberation, the ritual committee, with the approval of the Board of Trustees, has decided to make the following change. In an effort to improve our worship service attendance and encourage families to come to services on Shabbat, we will be changing the start time for ALL Friday night Shabbat evening services to 6:30 pm. The services will only be 45 minutes and we will encourage everyone to go home and have a meaningful Shabbat dinner afterwards. This is being done on a trial basis beginning with the Shabbat evening service on Friday, September 5, 2014. We realize this change may not work for everyone but we feel we need to try this new format which is something many synagogues around the country are trying. We would like to increase our attendance at Friday evening services and hope this may help accomplish that. This time change is being modeled after our Erev Rosh Hashanah time change which was very successful. I would be happy to speak to anyone who has any concerns or questions about this change. In the meantime, I hope you "try" to fit this new time table into your busy schedule. Regards, David Klyde, M.D. VP, Religion SELICHOT—Saturday, September 20th 8:30 PM – 11:00 PM A Service of Spiritual Preparation for the High Holy Days At Temple Beth Tikvah 950 Preakness Ave., Wayne, NJ Sponsored by: Temple Beth Rishon, Beth Haverim-Shir Shalom & Temple Beth Tikvah 8:30 PM Program – Ethical Wills: Advice to my Children Led by: Rabbi Stephen Wylen, Rabbi Kenneth Emert, Rabbi Joel Mosbacher, Rabbi Daniel Kirzane, Rabbi Lois Ruderman, 9:45 PM - Musical Prelude 10:00 PM - Havdalah Ceremony and Selichot Prayers Featuring: Cantor Charles Romalis, Cantor Ilan Mamber, Cantor David Perper, Cantor Faith Steinsnyder, Cantor Summer Greenwald-Gonella, Janet Sosinsky: Keyboard, Sylvia Rubin: Violin, Mark Kantrowitz: Guitar, with the combined choirs of TBR, TBT & BHSS. Refreshments will be served. Page 6 High Holiday Seating September 2014 Page 7 High Holiday News September 2014 PURCHASE YOUR CHALLAH FOR ROSH HASHANAH Order delicious challah for your holiday dinners! Cost: $5.00 per challah Challahs will be available for pick-up: Tuesday, September 23rd from 10 am—2 pm & Wednesday, September 24th from 9 am—12 pm. Proceeds to benefit the Preschool. Any questions, please contact Debby Landesman at 201-891-6074 or preschool@bethrishon.org. ———————————————————————————————————–—————————————————————————-— High Holiday Challah ORDER FORM Please return order form with money or check by Friday, September 12th. Please make checks payable to: Temple Beth Rishon. Orders will not be processed until they are paid in full. Challah: ____Plain ___Raisin = Name: ____________________ ____x $5.00 =______Total Telephone#: _____________ HIGH HOLIDAY NEWS! REMINDER: Please bring your own tallit and head covers for High Holiday services. New Time for Erev Rosh Hashana Service! On Wednesday, September 24th at 6:00 pm there will be a short “heimish” early Erev Rosh Hashanah service. This service is open to non-members. Please bring your dinner guests and relatives, and enjoy your holiday meal after the service with them. The Yom Kippur Yizkor Memorial Service on Saturday, October 4th at 1:30 pm is open to non-members. Free tickets can be picked up at the temple office. Page 8 High Holiday Babysitting September 2014 HIGH HOLIDAY BABYSITTING 2014 The TBR Youth Group will be offering babysitting services for children ages 2 through 5 during the High Holidays. There is a fee of $18 per family, per session, for up to three children if pre-registered by Monday, September 15, 2014. Anyone registering after September 15, 2014, or walk-ins will be charged $25. Please bring the attached form along with your check to the Temple office no later than Monday, September 15, 2014. Checks should be made out to Temple Beth Rishon. You may also fax your form to the Temple office with your credit card information (see below.) The fax # is 201-891-0508. There is a NEW Drop-off procedure…When you check your child in, you and your child will receive a wristband for security purposes. Your child must wear the bracelet for drop off and pick up. Whom ever is picking up your child MUST have the correct bracelet with the corresponding number. This is to ensure safety and to keep track of who has left the babysitting room for the day. Please drop-off your child in the appropriate babysitting room. You must check in at the front of the Preschool area and receive your bracelet there. *2 & 3 year-olds will be in classrooms 7 & 8. *4 & 5 year-olds will be in classroom 4. *Please note that any child in diapers must be checked/changed by the parent periodically. Babysitters are not responsible for changing diapers. * Kosher snacks and water will be provided during babysitting time. L’Shana Tova, Jana Schwartz, Youth Director ************************************************************************** PARENT’S NAME: _____________________ ADDRESS: _____________________________ CONTACT #: ___________________________EMAIL CONTACT:_____________________ EMERGENCY CONTACT#:_______________ (SOMEONE TO REACH DURING SERVICES) NOTE: HIGH HOLIDAY BABYSITTING FEES ARE NON REFUNDABLE CHILD’S NAME: ________________ALLERGIES:____________ AGE:___ CHILD’S NAME: ________________ALLERGIES:____________ AGE:___ CHILD’S NAME: ________________ALLERGIES:____________ AGE:___ Please check all appropriate lines: Erev Rosh Hashanah 1st Day Rosh Hashanah 2nd Day Rosh Hashanah Kol Nidre Yom Kippur (incl. Yizkor) Wednesday, September 24 Thursday, September 25 Friday, September 26 Friday, October 3 Saturday, October 4 6:00 9:30 9:30 7:00 9:30 PM AM AM PM AM _________________ _________________ _________________ _________________ _________________ Pre-registration check of $18 per family per session should be handed in to the Temple office no later than Monday, September 15, 2014, and made payable to: Temple Beth Rishon. You may also charge your registration fee. All proceeds go to youth activity programs. YOU MAY ALSO FAX YOUR COMPLETED FORM INTO THE OFFICE: 201-891-0508. ◊ Check enclosed ◊ Credit Card #:____________________________________ Mastercard, Visa, Amex (circle one) Exp. Date:____/____ Security Code #:__________ *Please be advised that there is a 2.5% fee on all credit card transactions. Signature:_____________________________________ Page 9 High Holiday Education September 2014 Visit the ”Adult Education” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs. What Is Awesome About the Days of Awe? Tzeh Ulmad (Come and Learn)! The High Holiday season is a paradox for many. On one hand these are awesome days, full of tradition and history. Days we are told determine the destiny of our lives. Yom Kippur invokes a sense of awe and sanctity. Yet how many of us are truly transformed on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur? Tzeh Ulmed, come learn, practical and spiritual tools to revitalize and invigorate your High Holiday experience. Date: Tuesday, September 16th, 2014 Time: 7:00 pm - 9:30pm RSVP by Friday, September 5th to the temple office. 201-891-4466 Join us for an evening of learning and spiritual preparation for the High Holidays as expressed by ritual, meaningful prayers and music! Presented by Rabbi Emert, Rabbi Zelazo, and Hazzan Mamber Dessert and Coffee will be served. **Babysitting will be available but must be arranged prior to workshop. Page 10 Ad Journal/Datebook/Directory September 2014 The “Faces of Beth Rishon” Dear Friends, We hope that you are enjoying your Summer. As we approach another busy Fall at Temple Beth Rishon, we have started preparing our Ad Journal - a combination Directory/Datebook serving as a Temple calendar, member directory, and information source for life at Beth Rishon in 2014-2015. The Ad Journal is used and enjoyed by congregants throughout the upcoming year as an important and helpful resource for overall life at TBR. This year's Ad Journal proudly honors the "Faces of Beth Rishon": our office team of Nancy Wellington, Kris Len, and Lisa Milowsky, and our custodial team of Victor Rodriguez, Tony Fonseca, and Denis Cane. Nancy has been with the Temple for over 20 years since March 1994; Kris has been with the Temple for almost 15 years since December 2000; Lisa has been with the Temple for almost 7 years since September 2007; Victor has been with the Temple for over 10 years since January 2004; Tony has been with the Temple for over 10 years since April 2004; and Denis has been with the Temple for almost 2 years since December 2012. We are happy to recognize these six individuals for all of their hard work, dedication, and commitment on behalf of Beth Rishon . Most, if not all, of us have had the opportunity to interact with, to work with, and to get to know each of them in some way over the years. Simply put, both individually and collectively, Nancy, Kris, Lisa, Victor, Tony, and Denis play an integral role in helping to ensure that the Temple runs as smoothly as it does on a daily basis. It is fitting that we recognize them through the Ad Journal. The Ad Journal also provides us with a special opportunity to honor our children and grandchildren by placing an ad or listing their names, as well as to place an ad extending holiday greetings to our Temple community. In addition, local merchants use the Ad Journal to support Beth Rishon by placing ads to thank us for our continued patronage. Please consider advertising your own business to your friends, family, and greater Temple community. Please know that the monies we raise from the Ad Journal not only help to sustain the Temple's many activities, but also help to ensure the Temple’s viability. We anticipate distributing the Ad Journal to the entire congregation over the Yom Kippur high holiday. To place an ad, please complete the enclosed form and then mail, fax, or email (along with any advertisement art in a pdf or jpeg file) it back to the Temple by September 17th. You can also donate to the Ad Journal via PayPal on the Temple’s website (www.bethrishon.org), in which case please email your accompanying ad to Kris Len at the Temple office (templeoffice@bethrishon.org). Should you have any questions, please feel free to contact Kris Len or Steve Friedland (sfriedland@mdflaw.com). Thank you very much for your consideration and support. Very truly yours, Laura Freeman President Steve Friedland VP, Fundraising Page 11 Ad Journal/Datebook/Directory September 2014 Page 12 September 2014 Kol Nidre 2014 Kol Nidre Appeal The summer is continuing to move forward, our children and grandchildren will soon be back in school, and the High Holidays are approaching. This is the time that we traditionally contemplate our responsibilities as Jews, both to our community and to our synagogue. These responsibilities are especially heightened this year, as our brothers and sisters in Israel endure the most recent war for their survival. We have been honored with the mitzvah of asking for your support as part of the New Year (5774) Kol Nidre Appeal. As many of you know, our dues provide less than 40% of the temple’s operating budget, and our fundraising activities generate the other 60% with the Kol Nidre Appeal being the single most important and largest fundraising effort. On Erev Yom Kippur, you will hear us make the annual plea for financial assistance to help us keep Judaism in our community alive and well. With your support, we know that our congregation will be successful. In 1964, Look Magazine ran a cover story entitled, “The Vanishing American Jew”. They predicted that, because of the low Jewish birthrate and rising rates of assimilation, Jews would experience a precipitous decline in numbers by the year 2000 as a percentage of the overall American population. Forty years later, look at the Jewish people, and look at what happened to Look Magazine! One of the ways in which we can continue to demonstrate and ensure our longevity, despite our relatively low birthrate, is by supporting Temple Beth Rishon - the most critical institution for teaching our children about Judaism, and for passing on our traditions, culture, and spiritual identity to our children and our children’s children (L’Dor V’Dor). If you have not been to the temple recently, we urge you to visit our just completed fabulous new hi-tech education wing, which we were able to build with your support in order to make this Bet Midrash (House of Learning) a strong, thriving institution for generations to come. The temple understandably means different things to each of us, and which brings to mind a fitting parable: “When I was young, I asked my father, 'If you don’t believe in God, why do you go to synagogue so regularly?' My father answered, 'Jews go to synagogue for all kinds of reasons. My friend Garfinkle, who is Orthodox, goes to talk to God. I go to talk to Garfinkle.'” Whatever your reasons might be for coming to services or for getting involved in the temple, without your support, Beth Rishon will not be here for us or for the next generation without everyone pitching in some way. For those of you pledging $1,000.00 or more, your name will be inscribed on the President’s Counsel plaque in the lobby; and, for those of you pledging $500.00 or more, your name will be inscribed on the Leadership Circle plaque there. From our family to your family, we wish you L’Shanah Tovah and thank you for your continued support. Sincerely, Lydia & Jack Zakim Kol Nidre Chairpersons Steven Friedland VP, Fundraising Page 13 Special Services September 2014 Visit the “Observance” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs. Special September Services “A Peaceful Shabbat”: A Meditative Shabbat With Rabbi Ziona Zelazo Upcoming Saturdays from 10-11am: October 18th November 22nd December 13th September Food Drive To Benefit The Center for Food Action Collection baskets are located in the front lobby. Items must be non-perishable. Please check expiration dates. Enjoy this great outdoor experience with your community! Led by Ron Rosensweig There will be a hike on trails with moderate difficulty and a short service. *Meet at TBR @ 8:00 am. We will carpool to Ramapo Mountain State Forest. Expect to return to TBR no later than 11:30 am. 9/20: (6th & 7th grades only) 10/11, 11/1: Everyone Welcome Please wear comfortable attire. Sneakers or hiking shoes are a must! Be Prepared! Bring your own water, bug spray, sunscreen, snacks, etc. RSVP to the Temple office 201-891-4466 Thank you for your generosity! Page 14 September 2014 Special Services Visit the Adult Education” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs. At Temple Beth Rishon Mind, Body & Spirituality Start Shabbat with a Jewish twist Welcome Shabbat with congregant Sharon Javer, certified hatha yoga instructor, for an hour long class featuring a practice that flows to Jewish music and centers on aligning the body and the spirit. Suitable for all levels, modifications are offered for all poses, with verbal instruction and physical positioning by the instructor throughout the entire class. Saturday, September 20th at 9am Please wear comfortable clothing and bring a mat! Upcoming ShabbAHsana: October 25 and November 15 Yom Kippur is right around the corner! We hope you are all able to join us for a wonderful Break Fast again this year provided at the temple for the entire congregation to share. To make it happen, we need volunteers: Bake: traditional homemade dishes (i.e. noodle pudding) and desserts (i.e. coffee cake, cookies, brownies, strudel). Cut bagels, set up food on rolling carts. During Mincha and Neila to put food out on tables. During Break Fast to make sure that empty platters are refilled and/or removed. After Break Fast to help with clean up. Please email Gail Niederman: mailforgail@earthlink.net, to let her know when and how you can help. Thanks for allowing us to continue this special Temple Beth Rishon tradition! Page 15 September 2014 Adult Education Visit the ”Adult Education” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs. Reader’s Circle Book Club: Come Read with Us! The new season for our book club will begin on Thursday, September 4 when we review NNJFederation’s One Book/One Community pick title for the year, The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker. Susan Gorelick will be our reviewer. The book chronicles a chance meeting between mythical beings by taking readers on a dazzling journey through cultures in turn-of-the-century New York. Chava is a golem, a creature made of clay, brought to life to by a disgraced rabbi who dabbles in dark Kabbalistic magic and dies at sea on the voyage from Poland. Ahmad is a jinni, a being of fire born in the ancient Syrian desert, trapped in an old copper flask, and released in New York City, though still not entirely free. Ahmad and Chava become unlikely friends and soul mates with a mystical connection. To help celebrate the One Book/One Community initiative, our book club will be deciding on a suitable activity. We hope you will join with us for this selection. Due to the high holiday schedule, we will not be meeting in October. We are looking forward to November when Stan Cohen will be reviewing Shylock’s Daughter by Mirjam Pressler. This is our fifth year as The Reader’s Circle Book Club of Temple Beth Rishon. Our group has attracted people of all ages and varying interests who have found common ground in discussion and the sharing of information. Please come read with us and share the experience. All meetings commence at 7:30 PM. For more information, please contact Diane Gess: gessagain@gmail.com. Nosh & Drash Bible, bagels, coffee and commentary Join Rabbi Lois Ruderman, our new Rabbinic Intern, as we explore the Torah portion together to build familiarity with our sacred text and to get acquainted with some of its most provocative commentators, ancient and modern. From 9:00 - 10:00 am Upcoming Saturdays: September 13th & 20th, October 11th & 18th, November 1st &15th Page 16 Around the Temple Home Hospitality Shabbat September 2014 Home Hospitality July 18th, 2014 Hosted by Lydia & Jack Zakim Thank you to Lydia and Jack Zakim who hosted our Home Hospitality Shabbat in July. We couldn’t have asked for a better day…The weather cooperated, we had a beautiful Shabbat evening service and a delicious dinner was enjoyed by all who attended. Thank you to everyone who helped out! Page 17 Welcome New Members! September 2014 Temple Beth Rishon Welcomes our Newest Members! (As of 8/15/14) Joel & Liane Adler reside in Wanaque with their son Jordan David & Cheryl Kiviat reside in Ringwood with their children Trevor & Raina Joel & Kim Ansh reside in Franklin Lakes with their children Leah & Benjamin Jim & Audrey Kopple reside in Wanaque Michael & Margaret Kurnov reside in Ringwood Steve & Elyse Bandel reside in Ridgewood with their children Alexandra & Jake Jack & Susan Levkowitz reside in West Milford Howard & Michelle Bergstein reside in Franklin Lakes with their children Isabelle, Madeline & Cassandra Larry & Marni Bernstein reside in Ramsey with their children Devyn & Tyler Eric & Diane Brice reside in Wyckoff with their children Julia & Jack Carolee Mendelson resides in Middleboro Jason Okin resides in Ringwood Gary & Marilyn Oppenheimer reside in Newfoundland with their daughter Leah Peter & Lori Pickail reside in Ringwood Jake & Terry Feldman reside in Ringwood with their daughter Arielle Steve & Julie Ann Rikon reside in Ringwood Alexander & Meredith Riss reside in Wyckoff with their son Holden Jason & Doreen Glantz reside in Wyckoff with their children Stephanie & Juliette Brian & Marla Robinson reside in Allendale with their children Carly & Josie Fred & Kristin Glassman reside in New York with their children Andrew & Abigail Sam & Audrey Schaffner reside in Ringwood Steven & Terri Hecht reside in Franklin Lakes with their children Madison & Samantha Jack & Debra Schwartz reside in Ringwood Michael & Danielle Heller reside in Wyckoff with their children Chloe & Shane Jay & Melanie Shancey reside in Ringwood Carol Sheldon resides in Hackensack Avrum & Michelle Joffe reside in North Haledon with their children Noah & Sydney Richard & Faith Spaulding reside in Ringwood Jamie & Jana Katcher reside in Ridgewood with their daughter Maya Neil & Deborah Weber reside in Allendale with their children Alexandra & Theodore Larry & Eileen Kirschbrown reside in Wanaque with their daughter Alexandra Andrew Weinstein resides in Wanaque Lorin & Barbara Kislak reside in Wyckoff with their son Matthew If you know anyone who is “Shul Shopping,” moving into the area or is not sure what to do about joining a synagogue, please contact the temple office so we can reach out to them. We have a fabulous new education wing, an amazing new religious school director and a great preschool program. 201-891-4466 or templeoffice@bethrishon.org. Page 18 Passover Board & Trustees September 2014 Mazel Tov and Thank You! to all our new and continuing officers and trustees Officers President: Laura Freeman VP Religion: Dr. David Klyde VP Fundraising: Steven Friedland VP Communications: Eric Levy VP Religious School: Alyson Cohn VP Early Childhood Education: Dr. Diane Gess VP Membership and Activities: Stacey Frenkel VP Building and Grounds: Jeff Polevoy VP Finance: Steven Dressler Trustees Marshall Berman Curtis Nassau Robert Cahn David Opper Ken Esterow Dara Pasternack Sharon Glassman Will Rukin Marianne Goodman Barry Siverman Joyce Greenberg Beth Sparozic Abi Grossman Zahava Trosten Scott Kahn Lydia Zakim Manny Kaplan Our congregation is fortunate to have such dedicated and generous people helping to continually improve our Temple! Page 19 Sukkot September 2014 SUKKOT SERVICES JOIN US FOR SUKKOT SERVICES, BBQ & BONFIRE Wednesday, October 8th Festival Service: 6:00 pm BBQ & Bonfire: 6:45 pm (on the patio) Anyone under the age of 10 must be accompanied by an adult. If the weather doesn’t cooperate, we will have a sing along session inside with Cantor Ilan Mamber. Please make sure that you bring a blanket and a sweatshirt in case it is chilly. RSVP to the Temple office by Monday, October 6th at 201-891-4466 Sukkot Festival Service Thursday, October 9th at 10:30 am followed by a Festival Luncheon at 12:00 pm. Please RSVP to the Temple if you will be attending the Luncheon 201-891-4466. 15th Annual Sukkah Hop Sunday, October 12th Bring the Family and HOP on over to Rabbi Emert’s house! There will be Food, Fun and Festival Singing! The fun will continue at our next destination. If you are interested in hosting during the Sukkah Hop, please contact the temple office - 201-891-4466. Page 20 April 2014 Preschool News September 2014 Visit the “Youth Education” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information about these programs Andrew Friedland Preschool News Debby Landesman, Director Camp Little Feet was a wonderful eight week program of outdoor fun and science exploration for 19 of our preschoolers. We ran through sprinklers and rode our trikes. We played on our brand new playground and grew our own strawberries and beans and lettuce and tomatoes. We explored the denizens of our pond and learned about a preying mantis that hopped into our classroom. And now we're moving back into our brand new, fully reconstructed education wing, with our Smartboards to help us extend our learning. We are ready to learn and grow, explore and discover, and make new friends as we treasure the friends we have. We are a kehillah and we all work together. September brings happy faces eager to participate, to learn and to have lots of fun. It is a month full of nature and religion. While we taste the incredible fall bounty of apples, and make charts and graphs telling everyone our favorites, we know that apples and Rosh Hashanah go hand in hand. So we dip apples in honey and wish everyone a Happy New Year. We cook with our apples, making cakes and pies and apple sauce. The Early Room, with its 8:30 drop-off, and our After School Activities begin this month. The After School classes allow children to extend their day participating in karate, soccer, messy art, math and cooking. Our first class of Playgroup begins on Tuesday, September 23rd. It is a FREE, drop-in program for our very youngest. It is an opportunity for Moms, Dads, Grandparents or caregivers to come to school with the babies and meet one another. It is a joy to watch the babies as they turn over, sit up, crawl and then walk. They explore the classroom filled with toys and activities and meet their first friends. If you know anyone with a baby, please tell them about this class. And for those who have children over one, we have our Mom & Tot class. This class meets every Thursday from 9:00-10:30 and includes art activities, movement, music, story telling and a snack. This class will begin on October 2nd. I am thrilled to welcome Gonen Arad and his family to our Temple Beth Rishon family. Gonen and I have been working together all summer and I look forward to collaborating with him for years to come. A Happy and Healthy New Year to everyone. L'Shanah Tovah, Debby Landesman Preschool@bethrishon.org Support the Preschool by purchasing delicious Challah for the Holidays… See page 8 for more details! Page 21 Religious School News September 2014 Addison M. & Elizabeth Opper Religious School News Gonen Arad, Director As the new Director of Temple Beth Rishon’s Religious School, it is my sincere pleasure and honor to become a member of this great school community. Temple Beth Rishon has a rich history of religious studies and cultural excellence that is the result of a mutual partnership between the school staff and parents who provide a diversity of experiences for the students. I am looking forward to working with the dedicated staff to provide the best and most enjoyable Jewish educational program for our students. The Bible refers to Rosh Hashanah as Yom Ha-Zikaron (the day of remembrance), a day in which we are commanded to remember our past and be grateful for all that we have accomplished so far. Rosh Hashanah is indeed a time in which we set up new goals and plans for the new year, but it is also an opportunity for us to commemorate special times and events from our past. As you reflect on the past year and prepare for the High Holy Days, waiting to fill up on apples & honey, please take a moment to plan your time and mark your calendars. September is a busy month! I would like to wish you all Shana Tovah Umetuka - A Good and Sweet Year. May this year be full of success, love, health, wealth and joy! Sincerely, Gonen Arad gonen@bethrishon.org September Religious School Dates: Sundays (K- 5th Grade): September 7th, 9:30am – First Day of Religious School September 14th, September 21st, September 28th Tuesdays (3rd- 4th Grade): September 9th, September 16th, September 23rd, September 30th Wednesdays (6th- 8th Grade): September 10th, September 17th Thursdays: September 11th (5th Grade), September 18th (5th & 9th Grade) Special Events: September, Thursday 25th, 11am - Rosh Hashana Youth Program September, Friday 26th, 11am - Rosh Hashana Youth Program Page 22 Bar Mitzvah September 2014 Meet Our Upcoming B’nei Mitzvah AJ Christian: Hello, my name is AJ Christian, and I will become a Bar Mitzvah on September 13th. In addition to my mom and dad, I have a twin brother, Michael and a little sister, Jessica. I also have a pet dog, Coco and a pet guinea pig, Whiskers. I enjoy reading, swimming, and fencing. During the summer I go to Island Lake sleep away camp. For my Mitzvah project, I chose to raise money for The Starlight Children’s Foundation. My grandparents, Nancy and Steve, have supported The Starlight Children’s Foundation in many ways for many years. The Starlight Children’s Foundation is an organization that works to brighten the lives of critically, chronically and terminally ill children through various programs it offers. I have hosted bake sales, lemonade sales, and a held a giant 2 day garage sale to raise money. I have learned a lot through this project and feel great that I raised $2,500 for the Starlight children. I would like to thank Cantor Mamber, Rabbi Emert, my parents and my grandparents for making this day possible. Michael Christian: My name is Michael Christian and I will become a Bar Mitzvah on September 13th. I am a seventh grader at Montclair Kimberly Academy in Montclair, New Jersey. I like to play basketball, football and the guitar and I enjoy swimming as well. I go to Chestnut Lake Camp in Beach Lake, PA for sleep away camp and love it there. As my Mitzvah project, I raised $2,500 dollars for The Starlight Children’s Foundation. I did many different things to raise money for this foundation but the biggest thing I did was organize a two day garage sale. The Starlight Children’s Foundation is an organization that helps brighten the lives of seriously, critically and terminally ill children. I would like to thank my mom, my grandparents, Cantor Mamber, and Rabbi Emert for making this day possible. ADULT BAR/BAT MITZVAH XVI ORIENTATION Tuesday, October 14, 2014 at 7:00pm (In Sukkah, weather permitting) Curriculum for Course will include: The Synagogue, The Service, The Prayers The Jewish Calendar & Festivals Jewish Values & Ethics Hebrew Reading (For those who need it) Bar and Bat Mitzvah: A Jewish Life Cycle Event Hebrew Names: Meaning and Exploration Torah & Haftarah Study Leading & Participating in the Shabbat Morning Services Beginning Hebrew Class Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah Coordinator: Hazzan Ilan Mamber Instructors: Rabbi Kenneth Emert, Hazzan Ilan Mamber & Judy Ackerman Cost: Members - $360 Non Members - $500 For more information, contact Cantor Ilan Mamber: cantor@bethrishon.org Office: 201-891-4466 Home: 201-848-1445 Cell: 201-914-2693 Page 23 Youth Group News September 2014 Visit the “TBR Youth Group” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more program information. From the Youth Director... Welcome back to a wonderfully new and exciting youth group year! We are ready to begin a fun and energetic ten months of youth group that will be loaded up with exciting, inspiring and outrageous activities. You can look forward to monthly social events that implement Jewish social values, Tikkun Olam, and fun-filled holiday celebrations. Each month, an array of different youth group activities will be held in our new youth wing. I am so excited to use our new facility and can’t wait to fill it with the sounds of laughter and fun and the sights of friendships and smiling faces. This year I am happy to welcome our second graders to our Club 34. This is the very first time that we will be incorporating the second graders on Tuesday evenings. I encourage everyone to try it out. Annual membership dues are $150 which INCLUDES the activities plus pizza and a drink at each meeting. Membership forms, which can be found on the temple website or in the main office, are being accepted right now! TBR looks forward to welcoming 2nd-6th graders into its community this school year. Kids and parents, I am also here to to lend a helping hand to anyone, parent or child, who is interested in getting involved in a community service project. Call or email me with any questions on how to become more involved within the community and helping those in need. May this new year be filled with health, happiness, and the makings of sweet memories for you and your family. In Friendship & Shalom, Would you like to score some Community Service Hours? Jana Schwartz youth_director@bethrishon.org 201-891-4466 We are looking for responsible 7th-12th graders to assist with babysitting for the High Holidays. Upcoming Youth Group Dates: September YG Tuesday, 16th: Club 234 Thursday, 18th: Club 56 Tuesday, 23rd: Club 234 See Page 26 for more information. October YG Thursday, 2nd: Club 56 Tuesday, 7th: Club 234 Wednesday, 8th: Sukkot Bonfire at 7:15pm Tuesday, 21st: Club 234 Thursday, 30th: Club 56 Page 24 Around the Temple September 2014 Visit the “Our Community” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information on all TBR clubs and activities. TEMPLE COMMUNITY NETWORK (TCN) TCN is a professional networking group focused on the job search needs of our community. Everyone is welcome! Our Monday, September 22nd meeting will feature a special guest speaker to be announced. As always, there will also be plenty of open networking time with your colleagues, the best resources of all! Please join us at Barnert Temple (Rt. 208 S. in Franklin Lakes) on Monday, September 22nd from 7-9 pm. For more information, contact Bob Roman at broman235@gmail.com. TCN is a joint project of Temple Beth Rishon, Barnert Temple, Beth Haverim Shir Shalom, Temple Beth Or and Temple Beth Tikvah. Kol Rishon Adult Choir Open to High School students and adults. Ability to read music and Hebrew are not required. Contact Cantor Mamber cantor@bethrishon.org or 201-891-4466 for more information. All are welcome to join. Pre-High Holiday Rehearsals: Wed. 9/3 Monday, 9/8 Monday, 9/15 Wednesday, 9/17 @ Beth Tikvah, Wayne Monday, 9/22 Monday, 9/29 Wednesday, 10/1 Monday, 10/1 SUKKOT SOCIAL 7:30 PM in the sukkah & pre-function room TBR GIFT SHOP All Pre– HighHoliday Rehearsals begin at 7:30 pm in the Sanctuary Your Temple Gift Shop is Ready to Meet all Your High Holiday Needs. Please call Gretta Berman at 201-788-2838 for an appointment. Zemer Rishon Teen Choir We invite all 7th through 12th graders to participate. Rehearsals, under the direction of our cantorial intern, take place two Sundays a month from 12:30 - 1:30 pm. Contact Cantor Ilan Mamber @ cantor@bethrishon.org (201-891-4466) There is NO fee for this special program! Page 25 Around the Temple September 2014 Visit the “Our Community” tab at www.bethrishon.org for more information on all TBR clubs and activities. Would you like to score some Community Service Hours? We are looking for responsible 7th-12th graders to assist with babysitting for the High Holidays. We are booking volunteers by the hour. Please call or email Jana your availability. You must include your phone number and email address so we can confirm your days and times. *Time slots will be filled on a “first-come first-served basis.” Days & Times: 9/24 - Erev Rosh Hashanah 6:00 pm-6:45 pm 9/25 - Rosh Hashanah 9:30 am-1:00 pm 9/26 - Rosh Hashanah 9:30 am-1:00 pm 10/3 - Kol Nidre 7:00 pm 10/4 - Yom Kippur 9:30 am-1:00 pm Contact Jana at 201-891-4466, ext. 209 or Youth_director@bethrishon.org Jewish Family Service of North Jersey Offers On-Site Social Work Services Contact Jessica Fleischer, LSW, at (973) 897-3703. Jessica is available to provide assessment, referrals, and short-term counseling on a variety of subjects such as eldercare, child development, marital concerns, mental health, and personal growth and development. She sees congregants at the synagogue every Wednesday and is also available by appointment. Need a great Babysitter? Give one of our Temple Teens a call! Jasmine Barash, 14 973-616-7660 (h) 973-356-6224 (c) jtbarash@optonline.net Ben Costa, 14 201-788-6150 (h) 201-749-6034 (c) bmcyankees@gmail.com Samara Edelson, 15 201-848-1856 (h) Goldie Felixbrod, 16 551-206-4178 (c) Jordana Felixbrod, 13 201-739-5958 (c) Rebecca Frenkel, 14 201-317-1851 (c) Anna Kasmanoff, 13 201-251-8467 (h) spkcpk@aol.com Page 26 Jacob Niederman, 14 201-444-1219 (h) mailforgail@earthlink.net Sara Tesser, 14 201-847-0733 (h) alt827@yahoo.com Jackie Zenn, 21 201-704-2640 (c) Nikki Zenn, 23 201-655-3483 (c) Tributes September 2014 Tribute Cards Addison M. & Elizabeth Opper Religious School The Grossberg Family to Pearl Seiden in memory of your beloved mother. Andrew Friedland Preschool Fund Randy & Ted Cohen made the following donations: Lisa & Seth Haubenstock in memory of your beloved father. Barbara Haubenstock in memory of your beloved husband. Reid Fader & Family in memory of your beloved father. Myrna Augenbaum & Nicholas Ascenzo made a generous donation to this fund. Cantor Discretionary Fund The following donations were made to Arthur Mamber in honor of his 100th birthday: Diane & Marvin Gess Elaine & Jerry Goodman Rona Eagle & Bruce Leeb Julie & Steve Leipzig Katie & Ed Friedland made a generous donation to this fund. Rona Eagle & Bruce Leeb to Pearl Seiden in memory of your beloved mother. Lisa & Tommy Nadler made the following donations: Martha Baum in honor of your tireless efforts on the Spring Gala. Ruth & Howard Greenberg in honor of Scott’s marriage to Jennifer. Adrienne & Ed Solomon in honor of Aaron’s marriage to Beth. The following donations were made to Cantor Mamber: Laurie & Richard Gordon in honor of Jason’s Bar Mitzvah. Susan & Robert Yudin in honor of Sean King’s Bar Mitzvah. Caring Committee Fund Natalie & Bill Heller to Arthur Kramer in memory of your beloved mother. Heidi & Michael Katz made the following donations: Brenda Kress in honor of your marriage. Barbara & Peter Norden in honor of Michael’s wedding. Pam & Andy Winston in honor of Neil & Jeffrey’s college graduations. Claudia & Richard Meer made the following donations: Gretta & Marshall Berman Linda Dombrowsky & Ron Rosensweig Harvey Feldman Marilyn & Bob Gellert Sharon & Bob Glassman Jane & Joel Herman Margie & Harry Immerman Heidi & Michael Katz Lisa & Louis Milowsky Viviane & Barry Newman Judy & Fred Steinberg Karin & Michael Weinraub Lydia & Jack Zakim Lori & David Zoll Steve Dwoskin in memory of your beloved father. Martha & Jim Baum made the following donations: Pearl Seiden in memory of your beloved mother. Pearl Seiden in memory of your beloved mother. Wendy & Raphael Schwartz made the following donations: Adrienne & Ed Solomon in honor of your son’s Esther & Bill Axelrod in marriage. honor of Amy’s engagement. Marge & Barry Ginsberg to Bob Glassman in memory Holly & Ira Marx in honor of your beloved mother. of Alaine’s engagement. Leslie & David Klyde to David Holly & Ira Marx in honor Edelson & Stephanie of Judi’s graduation Naphtali in honor of Ethan’s Bar Mitzvah. The following donations were made to Steve Dwoskin in Fred Emert Memorial Adult memory of his beloved father: Education Fund Sara & Hiam Tobias Lisa & Steve Marcus Margie & Harry Immerman Jan & Beatrice Kandell to Ann made the following donations: Karen & Darryl Weiss Kaminetsky in memory of your beloved father. Bob Glassman in memory Carol Berger Festival Meal of your beloved mother. Fund Karen & Ted Prosnitz made a generous donation to this Pearl Seiden in memory Sharon & Dennis Javer fund. of your beloved mother. made a generous donation to this fund. Ellen & Alan Zalkowitz to Gail & Bob Loewenstein to Carolyn Ganzer in honor of Sara & Jonathan Friedman in Channa Mamber Memoriyour special birthday. memory of your beloved al Music Fund mother. Cantorial Intern Fund The following donations were Manny Kaplan to Greta Good- made to Arthur Mamber in Albert Farhi made a generous man in memory of your behonor of his 100th birthday: donation to this fund. loved mother. Martha & Jim Baum Page 27 Judy & Roger Goldstein to Bob Glassman in memory of your beloved mother. General Fund Debbie & Stanley Berg to Judith & Steve Friedland I honor of your fabulous event. Sheila & Bob Chestnov made the following donations: Mr. & Mrs. Reid Fader & Family in memory of your beloved father. Tributes September 2014 Tribute Cards cont’d Mr. & Mrs. Len Marcus in memory of your beloved grandmother. Lore Krug to Barbara Haubenstock in memory of your beloved husband. Nancy Wellington to Steve Dwoskin in memory of your beloved father. Machzor Chadash Fund (Prayer Books) Serry & Fred Barko to Steve Dwoskin in memory of you beloved father. Charles & Diane Melamut in loving memory of Ruth Rabinowitz. Sondra & Stuart Levine to Steve Dwoskin in memory of your beloved father. Ritual Fund The following donations were made to Bob Glassman in memory of his beloved mother: Judy & Bruce Ackerman Stacey & Michael Frenkel Leslie & David Klyde Karen & Marc Sackstein Leslie & David Klyde to Cyrile Wilson in honor of the birth of your granddaughter. Lisa & Louis Milowsky made the following donations: Physical Plant Fund Steve Dwoskin in memory of your beloved father. Lisa & David Schwartz to Arthur Mamber in honor of your 100th birthday. Albert Farhi in honor of the birth of your grandson. Rabbinic Intern Fund Bob Glassman in memory of your beloved mother. Judy & Paul Bedrin made a generous donation to this fund. Jerry & Diane Bedrin made a generous donation to this fund. Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Leslie & David Klyde in honor of Danny’s high school graduation. Anne & Jeff Zenn in honor of Melanie’s high school graduation. Brenda & Norbert Mester to Kevin Rosenblatt in memory The following donations were of your beloved mother. made to Rabbi Emert: Gail & Mark Niederman to Laurie & Richard Gordon in Nanette & Steve Dwoskin in honor of Jason’s Bar Mitzvah. memory of your beloved father. Susan & Robert Yudin in honor of Sean King’s Bar The Ritual Committee made Mitzvah. the following donations: Judy Goodwin & Bruce Platt to Bob Glassman in memory of your beloved mother. Alyson Cohn & Larry Landsman in honor of Justin’s Bar Mitzvah. Stephanie Naphtali & David Edelson in honor of Natalie & Gary Haar to Ruth Ethan’s Bar Mitzvah. & Howard Greenberg in honor of the marriage of Vivian Yodin King & Scott & Jennifer. Edward King in honor of Sean’s Bar Mitzvah. Leslie & David Klyde to Marilyn & Bob Gellert in Karen, Marc & Sam honor of the birth of your new Sackstein to Frances Altman granddaughter. in loving memory of Sol Altman. Ellen & Richard Klinenberg made a generous donation to The Yacavone Family to this fund. Louis Milowsky in honor of your becoming Volunteer of Nancy & Arthur Kramer made the Year. the following donations: Youth Group Fund Richard Heimler to Jonathan Friedman in memory of your beloved mother. Leslie & David Klyde to Jill & Doug Pecore in honor of Justin’s Bar Mitzvah. Youth Wing Fund Judy & Paul Bedrin to Steve Dwoskin in memory of your beloved father . Sheila & Bob Chestnov made the following donations: The Mattikow Family in memory of your beloved daughter. Pearl Seiden in memory of your beloved mother. Wendy & Harold Chubinsky to Janice & Jerry Apple in memory of your beloved mother & grandmother. The Firstman family made the following donations: Alyson Cohn & Larry Landsman in honor of Justin’s Bar Mitzvah. Alyson Cohn & Larry Landsman in honor of Jared’s graduation. Page 28 Steven Berger in memory of your beloved sister. Steve Dwoskin in memory of your beloved father. Barbara Haubenstock in memory of your beloved husband. Dr. & Mrs. Michael Mattikow in memory of your beloved daughter. Norman Raymond in memory of your beloved brother. Pearl Seiden in memory of your beloved mother. Julie & Steve Leipzig to Holly & Ira Marx in honor of Alaine’s engagement. Shelley & David Lipson to Marilyn & Bob Gellert in honor of your new grandchild. Marjorie McConnell to Katie Friedland in your honor. Kimberly & Curtis Nassau to Bob Glassman in memory of your beloved mother. Linda Dombrowsky & Ron Rosensweig made the following donations: Passover Tzedakah Donations September 2014 Tribute Cards cont’d Youth Wing Fund (cont’d) Steve Dwoskin in memory of your beloved father. Stephanie Naphtali & David Edelson in honor of Ethan’s Bar Mitzvah. Judy & Fred Steinberg to Bob Glassman in memory Howard Frey in memory of your beloved father. of your beloved mother. Ann Kaminetsky in memory of your beloved father. Lydia & Jack Zakim made the following donations: Steve Dwoskin in memory of your beloved father. Wishing Elaine Kaufman a speedy recovery. Sondra & Stuart Levine in honor of your new grandson. Ann & Jeff Zenn made the following donations: Marilyn & Bob Gellert in honor of the birth of your new granddaughter. Stephanie Naphtali & David Edelson in honor of Ethan’s Bar Mitzvah. Pearl Seiden in memory of your beloved mother. W.B. Wood made a generous donation to this fund. July, August & September Yahrzeit Donations In accordance with the Jewish tradition of giving Tzedakah as a tribute of reverence and love to the memory of our departed, the following donations have been made to the Temple Beth Rishon Yahrzeit Fund: Family of: Esther Zuckerman The Kutner Family Nancy Cole Barbara Warshaw The Zalkowitz Family Lillian Silver Nita Silverman Goodgal Ruth Freudenthal Sheila Chestnov Michael Chestnov David Mait Lydia Zakim Debbie Berg Jayne Jacobson Doris A. Miller Eileen Blake Richard Cantor Janet Indick Catherine Smithline Michele Seligman Sandi & Larry Chanoch Anne Zenn Laura Mufson In Memory of: David Zuckerman Lucille Zuckerman David Shalofsky Herbert Login Stephen Sonson Robert Knopf Hyman Silverberg Miriam Silverman Alfred Ephraim Rose Atterman Alex Chestnov Walter Freimark Harry Silman Dorothea Auerbach Jack M. Appel Simeon Einstein Glenda Levine Rita Cantor Charles Suslak Sarah Suslak Marjorie Covell Jacob Covell Jack Rosen Esther Lunker Brill Ruth Kurz Marvin Mufson Family of: Cherie Eisdorfer Carol Mamber Jill & Eric Morrison Jerome & Elaine Goodman Nicky Prell David & Sharon Rubin Arthur Aeder Susan Sorkenn Cindy & Richard Miller Sidney Gutterman Phyllis & Ken Konner The Sackstein Family Richard Katz Judy Bedrin Joseph & Jo Ann Sokoloff Paul D. Schwartz The Phillips Family Marlene Goldberg Susan Mandel Dr. & Mrs. Terence Smith Laurie Berger Edna Lewitz Kim Cantor Judy Ackerman Page 29 In Memory of: Louis Rothman Morris Siegel Herbert Morrison Louis Steinberg Simon Prell Al Rubin Wolf Aeder Lois Metchmek Edith Kurtin Dr. Arnold Schleifer Bessie Gutterman Lorin Konner Sherman Florence Sussman Walter Katz Samuel A. Karpell Gertrude Sokoloff Jean R. Levine Ady Skarnik Louis Greenbaum Hattie Hertzoff George Smith Herman Siegall Adolph Schwartz Anna Lowry Morris Sarrel - September 2014 Yahrzeits July—September Yahrzeits July 1 Martha Tobias Morris Siegel Nathan Schwartz Leonard Goldman 2 Laura Federofsky Al Rubin Ruth Rabinowitz Leslie Niederman Irene Flum Azriel 3 Ann Goldstein 4 Charmeon Anthony Sylvia Bleustein 5 Ruth Schreier 6 Gary S. Schneider Miriam Steinhouse Ella Flum Lampell Henry Katz Ray Freed Szewa Weintraub Henry Katzen Marjorie S. Covell 7 Marvin Mufson Morris L. Cohen Lila Sherman 8 Peter Rosenthal Esther Lunker Brill 9 Herbert Morrison Beatrice Schneider 10 Grace Mendelson Jack Rosen Emily K. Weintraub Sylvia Seidman 11 Blanche Wasserman Benjamin Altshuler Murray Mandel 12 Ruth Kurz Sally Melnikoff 13 Jacob David Covell Gdaly Fromberg Gloria Levine Gertrude Sandberg Max Stiskin Hortense Cohen Harry Silverberg Edmund George Rubin Sol Greenberg 14 Sulman Meer Sylvia Perlman Sue Wagner 15 Louis Kellner 17 Rose Maier Louis Steinberg 18 Morris Binder 19 Mollie Blank Abraham Janower Roslyn Kutner Shirley Silverglate 20 Joseph Lerner Rose Lehrman William Opper 21 Hillard Mann 22 David Freeman Morton S. Falk Herman Siegall Simon Alan Prell 24 Morton Rubin Leonard Zingler Eva Reinitz Louis Greenberg 25 Benjamin Singer Morris Flum 26 Gertrude Smith 27 Thelma Fried Rose Auerbach Bruno Zoneraich 28 Philip J. Dressler 29 Anne Horowitz Arthur Janowitz Howard Goldstein 30 David A. Lipeles Joel B. Sykes Alan Marx 31 Esther Feingold Howard Skolnik August 1 Max L. Braunstein Sadie Greenbaum 2 Louis Greenbaum 3 Lillian Alpren George Smith Morris Pflaum 5 Phyllis Wasserman Miriam Smolev Marvin Finder Florence Sussman 6 Harry Leeb, M.D. 7 Lorin Konner-Sherman Carl Lefkowitz Helen Salkind Lois M. Metchnek Israel A. Gordon 8 Bernard Glassman 9 Fred Kleeman Murray Friedman Gertrude Sokoloff 10 Hattie Hertzoff 11 Rhea Elman Melius Edith Ruth Kurtin David J. Atlas Alan Charles Lehrman 12 Daisy Solomon 14 Jean R. Levine Isobel Arkin Adele Rebel Lloyd Tolk Anna Lowry 15 Lewis Smith Samuel A. Karpel 16 Max Malkin Alex Chestnov Jessica Dressler 18 Ady Skarnik Jack Murray Slater Florence Feldman Walter Katz Bernard Shinske Naima Meer 19 Morton Asch Julia E. Radel Arnold Schleifer Nathan Eagle 21 Joseph M. Winston Page 30 22 Billie Greenberg Anita E. Wilson 23 Solomon Bedrin Bessie Gutterman 24 Morris Cohen Isidore Stein Elizabeth B. Lerch Frances Shore 25 Richard Landsman George Reinitz 26 Mamie Stiskin Morris Sarrel 27 Fannie Dansky Milton Salkind 28 Adolph Schwartz 29 Albert H. Spivak Julius Scholem Steven Hirschberg David Katzin 30 Wolf Aeder Bella Fox 31 Sophie Glassner Dorothy Greenberg Joseph Maier September 1 Harris Schneider Esther Newman Alvin G. Blau 2 Joshua Herman 3 David Feldman Tobias Feuer Owen Lager Esther Schwartz 4 Mae Merker Nathan Nowak Harold Oring Leonard A. Holtzer 5 Morris Becker Benjamin Kagan Emily Lewitz Ida B. Weiss 6 Betty Segal Einstein SaveYahrzeits The Date September April 2014 2014 July—September Yahrzeits, cont’d Lena Lewitz 7 Lillian B. Bergman Jacob J. Shore Irving Eugene Sarbone Rose Aronoff Lawrence Milowsky Seymour Ellenbogen Helen Goodheart Murray Prawer 8 Dorothy Kimmelman Shore 9 Jacob Melamut Len Leifer George Steinberg 10 Pearl Lederman 11 Violet Smiley Albert Hirsh Kurtin Beatrice Fishman Eleanor Balgley 12 Lewis Bolnick Sidney Ganzer Reuben Rudley Leonard E. Rathe Gerda Erman 13 Jack Hausfater Richard Weinberg 14 Gertrude Singer 15 Anna Aronoff Paul Taube Estelle Derechin 16 Allen Edelman Isak Lakritz Stuart Nowak Azar Farhi Cecil K. Telsey 17 Jerome Yadoff Linda Baronfeld Joseph Sotsky Bernard Rabinowitz Elinor Shlien Julius Levin Dora Kushner 18 Allan Shwartzstein Frances Grand Rosen Fern Rosensweig Sarah Freed Berger Gloria Silverman Shari Ann Kandell 19 Al Simon Bukiet Jerome Gitkin Gloria Baum 20 Marion Jacobs Henry Friedland Harold Taub 21 Perle Hausfater Malcolm Konner Beatrice W. Cohen Murray Siegel Lester Ackerman Beatrice W. Cohen 23 Harold Bernard Warren Nathan Feuer Peter Charles Freudenthal 24 Sylvia Grossberg Isaac Goldstein Rose Steinberg 25 David Deutsch Ruth Emmer Betty Gosdick Wieder 26 Joseph Browne 27 Max F. Blau Irvin Sandler Rebecca Kandell 28 Harold Albert Gertrude T. Halsband 29 William Strauss Ralph Sorkenn Helene Lakritz Bertha Marks Lazarus Greenberg 30 Isadore Miller Oscar Karpf Isadore Miller Elizabeth (Betty) Opper When a Death in Your Family Occurs, Please Let us Know... When a death in your immediate family occurs, the TBR Community would like to acknowledge your loss and support you in any and all ways possible. Please promptly notify Rabbi Emert at 201-819-5005 or Cantor Mamber at 201-914-2693. In addition, to provide pertinent information that you would like to share, call the Temple Office at 201-891-4466. Even if the service is out of town, we would like to know so that we can offer our condolences. TBR TRIBUTE CARDS Grey Card…..donation of $10.00 Silver Card…donation of $18.00 Gold Card…..donation of $36.00 All donations will be published in the newsletter and your donation will be applied to the TBR fund of your choice. Available through the Temple office at 201-891-4466. 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