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South Carolina JANUARY 2016 WOMAN Magazine S R E F F O t Tex n i t p O o t 1 1 to 632 g n i v i e c e r o t y l k e e W L LOCA & S R E OFF S L A I C SPE ell phone) c r u o y o t t x e T (they will be Examples: BoGo, 25% OFF discounts, 1/2 OFF Specials, Free Appetizer or Dessert with Entrée, $5 OFF Service… Up to 20 msg/mo Msg & Data Rates May Apply. Powered by www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 3 EVERY SUNDAY DURING THE MONTH OF JANUARY! ALL DINNERS $36.95 $21.95 STARTING SUNDAY JANUARY 3RD - JANUARY 31ST OPENING AT 12 NOON • SUNDAYS ONLY 4 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com Make 2016 the Year You Lose Your Weight! Dr. Sattele has helped over 8,500 area residents lose weight.... Now It's Your Turn! 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Available at all PRS Locations Including Newest Clinic in Little River! 20 Thyroid Nodules - Cancer or No Cancer? 22 Obesity and Allergies: A Challenge for the New Year 24 Letting Go In 2016 32 miraDry Changing Lives…For Good! 6 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine 39 44 46 59 62 Magazine 50 “My Prayer” Constipation Myths And Facts A New Year for Weight Loss Is Right Around The Corner Study: Skin Requires Topical Vitamin C Start The New Year Off Right With Better Hearing RECIPES/FOOD 40 It’s Soup Season Once Again! 27 Oysters Rockefeller YOUR HOME 50 Outdoor Living – Indoor Lifestyle: Happy 2016 WEDDING 10 Fiancé and Finances 14 DIY Wedding Trends 25 Tips to Writing the Perfect Card or Note 26 Charitable Gift Makes a Unique Wedding Favor 33 Creative, Budget-Friendly Tips For The Big Day 34 Cosmetic Surgery for Weddings & Events 38 Wedding Registry 101 52 Engaged? Start planning now! 55 Have you found Mr. Right? COLUMNS 18 Giving You More In (Social) Media Tips, Tricks and Tools for ‘Social Connectiveness’ 28 Style Wise Six Steps for Starting 2016 in Style 42 Life’s Balance Wheel My Simply Abundant Life 58 Smiles Are Forever Getting Numb At The Dentist Is Becoming Easier 60 No Prissy Shoes No More Lies www.scwomanmagazine.com 2 DINNER ENTRÉES FOR THE PRICE OF 1 4PM - CLOSE Every TUESDAY IN JANUARY TBONZ G I L L & G R I L L MYRTLE BEACH, SC / NORTH MYRTLE BEACH, SC / tbonzgillandgrill.com Every WEDNESDAY IN JANUARY BREWERY & GRILL BROADWAY AT THE BEACH / MYRTLE BEACH, SC / libertybreweryandgrill.com Every THURSDAY IN JANUARY MYRTLE BEACH, SC / libertytaproom.com 2 F O R 1 E N T R É E O P T I O N S F R O M A L I M I T E D M E N U . F R E E E N T R É E M U S T B E O F E Q U A L O R L E S S E R VA L U E . DINE IN ONLY. NO COUPON OR RESERVATIONS NECESSARY. NOT VALID WITH ANY OTHER PROMOTION OR DISCOUNT. www.scwomanmagazine.com hghosp.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 7 Publisher’s Note From the Publisher Terri Petry As I contemplate writing my Publisher’s Note for our January issue, I can’t help but to reflect on how fortunate I am. I have a loving husband of 26 years, who has supported me always no matter my crazy ideas, and believe me, I’ve come up with some doozies. Here we are now new to the Myrtle Beach area by way of Alabama. It’s a long story so if you are really interested shoot me an email and we’ll chat. Here I am the new Publisher/Owner of this fine publication. That too is an interesting story but in hindsight boils down to serendipity (definition of serendipity: the occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way, “a fortunate stroke of serendipity”, (happy) chance, (happy) accident, fluke. Like most people, I’ve set some pretty lofty goals for myself in 2016. (more goals than resolutions) Professionally, I plan to produce a weekly e-newsletter, “Monday Morning Marketing Message” to send to existing clients and potential clients. I’d like the newsletter to be concise and highly informative, geared at helping businesses do more business! If you’re interested in receiving it please email such. I’ve already begun revamping our distribution to include racks in some strategic high-traffic locations. If you know of such a location please let us know where. I’m hoping to include a resource tab on our website that will include all of our informative articles. This will give our advertisers expanded readership and exposure. My team and I are very excited about the 1st Annual South Carolina Women’s Expo – The Ultimate Girls Day Out! We plan to produce this fabulous event this year. There will be NO CHARGE to attend the Expo. This is a day for women of all ages. Personally, I want to get in better shape by devoting time each day to doing something physical. I need to make this a priority. Without your health, you have nothing. I am also going to figure out how to work less and relax more! I’ll let you know once I do. Getting back to my initial comment about being fortunate, I am so thankful to be able to dream the Big Dream and set these goals and I appreciate the fact that these goals can be accomplished. Much success to each of you in 2016! South Carolina Woman Magazine is a monthly publication, distributed throughout Horry, Georgetown, and Marion Counties. All editorial submissions become the property of Cardinal Publishing, LLC. and cannot be returned. The contents of all submissions are for information and entertainment purposes only. This publication accepts no responsibility for the consequences of any actions taken from written or implied information within the contents of this publication. All material is copyrighted by Cardinal Publishing, LLC. and cannot be copied in whole or part without the written consent of the publisher. Cardinal Publishing, LLC PO Box 1145 Conway, SC 29528 Phone/Fax (843) 369-1556 E-Mail terri@scwomanmagazine.com www.scwomanmagazine.com Publisher: Terri Petry (843) 369-1556 Sales: Gale Mulcahy 843-450-3376 gmulcahymb@yahoo.com Editorial/Composition Cindy Sudowski Other Cardinal Publications: Transitions News Magazine www.transitionsnewsmagazine.com Parent News www.parentnewsmagazine.com Read South Carolina Woman Magazine online at scwomanmagazine.com Terri Petry, Publisher on 8 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com www.facebook.com/pages/South-Carolina-Woman-Magazine/ www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 9 M arriage is a milestone in life; yet, many enter into the next phase without asking their spouse some vital questions about money. If you are among the soon-to-be wed, consider starting a conversation using the questions below. Couples who plan their expenses ahead of time are more likely to enjoy their earnings, and less likely to need credit repair intervention. Men, women and weddings Females are often portrayed as materialistic or over-the-top when it comes to their big day, but recent findings from an online Harris Poll tell a different story. Surprisingly, the study found that twice the number of men stated they would or did go into debt to pay for their dream wedding. The study also found that both men and women valued financial responsibility. In 10 fact, 91% indicated a preference for entering marriage debt-free as opposed to having a dream wedding. “Marriage is a lifelong commitment built on trust, clear communication and honesty,” said John Heath, Directing Attorney for Lexington Law. “While some may find financial discussions unnecessary, understanding each other intimately in terms of what you both bring to the table – be it wealth or debt – will strengthen your relationship and help to avoid potentially serious friction to your marriage down the road.” Discussing money matters So how does one go into a marriage with a solid financial standing? Those soon-tobe-wed couples who converse openly about their finances are more likely to enjoy their big day with an understanding of their J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine mate’s views on money. The experts at Lexington Law offer these questions every newly engaged couple should ask before the big day: 1. How do you view money? This is a loaded question, but your fiancé’s answer will help you understand their perspective and how it aligns with yours. Here are a few conversation starters on the subject: • How do you budget your money? • Are you meticulous about your bills and expenses, or are you comfortable to just “wing it?” • What’s the most you would ever spend on a home, car, piece of clothing, etc.? 2. How should we budget for a family? Kids are expensive, especially if you haven’t planned for them. Talk to your partner about how many kids you would both like to have. Plan for child living expenses and how they will impact your budget, i.e. clothes, food, activities, medical expenses, schooling, etc. 3. How should we communicate about money? Some couples are content to let one person handle the finances, and others like to split up the bills and share household responsibilities. Regardless of what you decide, it is important to have a plan in place before getting married. 4. What should we do when we disagree about spending? You and your spouse won’t agree on everything. In fact, you may completely disagree on how to spend, save, and generally manage your money. The question is: What should you do when these disagreements arise? Avoiding the subject will put you at greater risk for financial (and marital) trouble. There’s no easy answer for this one, but presenting the topic during your conversation is a good start. 5. Do you have any debts that I should be aware of? Secrets aren’t the best addition to a marriage, especially when it comes to debt. Be sure you and your soon-to-be put the credit cards on the table before walking down the aisle. Marriage is a life partnership; start by dealing with your debt together. You’ll head into your new life as a married couple with ease when you have an open and honest dialog about your financial situation. For more tips for managing your money, or your credit, visit www.LexingtonLaw.com. (Family Features) Photo courtesy of Getty Images www.scwomanmagazine.com THANKS FOR VOTING FOR ME! IT IS A GREAT HONOR TO SERVE THIS COMMUNITY AGGRESSIVE REPRESENTATION FROM A LAWYER WHO FIGHTS FOR YOU! REGINA B. WARD Attorney and Counselor At Law Divorce/Separation Criminal Defense DUI • Auto Accidents Civil Litigation Information is Power! Call a Lawyer who will empower you to make the right decisions in your Family, Business & Personal Life. 843.488.WARD www.AttorneyReginaWard.com • 843.488.9273 1017 Fourth Avenue, Conway, SC 29526 Serving Horry, Georgetown and Surrounding Counties A New Year’s Resolution! “Keeping It Simple: Mindfulness in Everyday Life” Join Lisa Rosof on Tuesdays for a winter and spring of life-enriching, soul-changing lunch hours. Based on the easy-to-use book by Richard Fields, Ph.D., A Year of Living Mindfully, Sections I-IV include 22 weeks (Jan. 5-May 31) of core mindfulness practices that can be taken as a whole or as four separate units. These consecutive teachings help us to be less reactive, more compassionate and gentler with ourselves and others, less judgmental, less critical and more understanding of our own and others’ suffering. • Section I – Jan. 5-26: Developing Mindful Awareness, 4 weeks, Tues., 12-1 PM, $80 • Section II – Feb. 2-23: Developing Mindful Attention, 4 weeks, Tues., 12-1 PM, $80 • Section III – March 1-April 5: Being Present & In the Now, 6 weeks, Tues., 121 PM, $120 • Section IV – April 12-May 31: Having Compassion for Self & Others, 8 weeks, Tues., 12-1 PM, $160 Purchase of the book prior to class is essential. When bought directly from the publisher at www.facesconferences.com or by calling Diane at 1-877-63FACES, use the coupon code: books2015, to receive the book and shipping for $14, a savings of $5 (also available through Amazon and on Kindle). Lisa Rosof is a yoga therapist with a master’s degree in counseling. She has been living and teaching in the area for 20 years. In private practice at Litchfield Counseling & Yoga, Lisa offers a vibrant, balanced and eclectic blend of transformative practices. For course information and questions, contact Lisa Rosof, 843-504-1057 or lcrosof@gmail.com. Each section is limited in size. Registration is through CLASS, 843-235-9600 or ClassAtPawleys.com (or stop by Art Works at the Litchfield Exchange, 14329 Ocean Highway, Unit #4). For information on membership, birthday parties, special events, field studies, or CMSC-TO-GO, visit cmsckids.org or call 843.946.9469 JOIN US ON AN EDUCATIONAL EXCURSION! There is Always something new to discover! 12 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com Win a $50.00 Gift Certificate to Local Restaurant South Carolina WOMAN Magazine Reader’s Survey South Carolina Woman Wants to Know: How long have you been reading the SC Woman? _____________________________________________________________________ Do you share your copy of the paper with others after you have finished reading it? _____________________________________________________________________ Do you clip any articles for future reference? ______________________________________________________________________ What do you like most about the SC Woman? ____________________________________________________________________ Any article of particular importance to you? ____________________________________________________________________ What advertisers have you frequented? ______________________________________________________________________ What new topics or features would you like to see in the paper? _____________________________________________________________________ Where do you pick up the paper? _____________________________________________________________________ We look forward to receiving your response . 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Picture your big day with pretty petals adorned in lace offset by rustic trimmings. This understated yet feminine look can be yours with these trending projects from the crafting experts at Jo-Ann Fabric and Craft Stores. Take these ideas and gather your girlfriends for a pre-wedding craft session. You’ll love unleashing your creativity as well as the extra bonding time with the girls, all in preparation for the big event. For more ways to add trending touches to your wedding, visit www.joann.com. Burlap Cone Floral Hanger Crafting time: 1-2 hours Skill level: No experience necessary Supplies and Tools: Cutting utensils Thin wire Wire or boutonniere pins Panacea burlap garland 2 Styrofoam brand foam cones Glue gun Glue sticks Ribbon of choice Hydrangeas: 1 green and peach, 2 peach and cream Green mini bundle 1. Cut wire into hairpin shaped pieces or use boutonniere pins. 2. Cut 1 yard of burlap per cone. Fold burlap in half and 14 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine wrap cone from bottom to top. Pin burlap to cone. Not all of it will be covered. Run glue along seam; press to secure. 3. Attach ribbon to create hanger. Glue in place. 4. Trim hydrangea short. Glue to top of cone. Trim several clusters from hydrangea. Glue to cover exposed foam, creating a dripping ice cream affect. 5. Trim half of mini bundle and glue in center. 6. Trim blossoms of green hydrangea. Glue to both cones. Note: Refer to photo often for placement of items. Burlap and Lace Wrapped Floral Centerpiece Crafting time: 1-2 hours Skill level: Some experience necessary Supplies and Tools: Cutting utensils Pink roses stem White Queen Ann Lace stem White hydrangea bush Light blue small bush Pink small bush Teal small bush www.scwomanmagazine.com Teal tall bush Cream wisteria garland Panacea cloth-covered wire Glue gun Glue sticks David Tutera burlap ribbon Mason jar David Tutera lace ribbon Panacea crystal clear resin 1. Trim stems, removing lower foliage. 2. Form a hand-tied bouquet. 3. Tie off with wire. 4. Dribble glue around wire to secure. Let dry. 5. Wrap burlap ribbon around Mason jar, overlapping 1 inch. Glue seam. 6. Wrap lace around jar and tie in knot. 7. Pour resin in jar. Follow package instructions. 8. Insert bouquet. Allow to dry. Note: Refer to photo often for placement of items. (Family Features) Financially Smart, Financially Strong Taking Control of your Financial Future Ladies, you and your guest are invited to join Patrick Munro from Northstar Financial for an engaging discussion on “Women, Money and Power” Date, Times and Location DINNER THURSDAY FEBRUARY 4TH Event begins at 5:00 pm OR DINNER TUESDAY FEBRUARY 9TH Event begins at 5:00 pm 9706 N Kings Hwy. Myrtle Beach, SC 29572 Please RSVP soon. Seating is limited. Please call 888-701-2083. to reserve seats today, or reserve online at www.northstarnavigator.com Protect your financial future now attend Invitation is reserved for qualified individuals age 55 and over please. Agents/Brokers Not Permitted to attend. www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 15 Kick Chronic Pain to the Curb, Try Dry Needling! Available At all PRS Locations Including Newest Clinic in Little River! By Jill Phelan PT, DPT Chronic back pain? Sciatica? Knee Arthritis? Plantar Fasciitis? Do any of these diagnoses sound like something you or a loved one have been dealing with and you can’t seem to find a remedy? You don’t want or are not a candidate for surgery, you are tired of taking antiinflammatories and muscle relaxers, exercise may or may not have helped and you just want to get back to doing life’s simple tasks. You may be a good candidate for utilizing dry needling as part of your individualized physical therapy treatment plan at one of our 6 area locations, including our brand new office in Little River! The first question we usually get when we mention dry needling in our physical therapy clinics is: what is it? Dry needling is the use of very fine (significantly smaller than the needles your physician uses for injections or your annual flu shot) filament needles that are inserted into symptomatic areas in taut bands of muscle (i.e. trigger points), tendons, ligaments, musculotendinous and teno-osseous junctions, and bone. When someone experiences a injury, the internal rehabilitation begins with inflammation and ends with remodeling of the soft tissue. It is during that cycle where swelling, tissue contracture, scarring, and decreased flow of nutrients in the area can result in palpable tenderness, long term pain 16 and radiating symptoms can occur. The needles create tiny lesions in the tissue in order to jump start your body’s natural process of healing, by releasing molecular components and stimulating your nervous system. This culminates in a anti-inflammatory reaction and decreased levels of perceived pain at the source of problem as well as the surrounding tissues that pain may have referred to. This question is usually followed up by: Is it the same as acupuncture? The J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine answer is no. While we do use the same needles, the concept, approach, technique and clinical application are very different. Dry needling is based on the physical therapist’s vast understanding of human anatomy and physiology as well as the mechanisms and structures involved in various neuromusculoskeletal diagnoses and dysfunctions. This means the application and use of the needles is geared to known areas of involvement, such as the meeting of a tendon approaching a bone. www.scwomanmagazine.com Acupuncture is a field based on whole body systems and the flow of energy along specific meridians or channels with it’s foundations in ancient Chinese medicine. Dry Needling has been reinforced by a growing number of studies and medical research. Brain imaging in patients has shown increased stimulation of the brains descending inhibitory systems in charge of pain regulation (less perceived discomfort!) as well as decreasing involvement of areas of the brain associated with emotions involved with pain such as anxiety and depression. Various studies have also found decreased rates of disability due following dry needling in numerous diagnostic groups. Other pros of dry needling include: no side effects in regards to medication, no invasive surgery, and symptoms can be improved in as quickly as one session! Dry needling is another tool in our tool box as licensed physical therapists to help a mutlitude of musculoskeletal and neuromuscular conditions that people suffer with daily and it may be appropriate for you or someone you known in conjunction with our therapist’s knowledge of therapeutic exercise, manual soft tissue/joint mobility techniques and other pain management approaches. So if you or someone you know would like to know more about physical therapy options, such as dry needling, for a variety of conditions, seek the consultation of a physical therapist at one of our six locations (all of which offer dry needling) or see your physician for a referral to one of our facilities. Our newest location in Little River, is now accepting patients! For further information on this or other related topics you can contact Richard A. Owens, PT, MS, OCS, Cert. SHT, CWcHP, Cert DN (Surfside) (843) 831-0163, Richard DeFalco, DPT, OCS, CSCS, CWcHP, Cert. DN (Myrtle Beach) (843) 839-1300, Jared Bridges, DPT (Little River) (843) 281-4222 and (Murrells Inlet) (843) 314-3224, Jill Phelan, DPT, Cert. DN (Conway) (843) 733-3031 and (Murrells Inlet) or Brian P. Kinmartin, PT, DPT, MTC, OCS, STC, CWcHP, Cert. DN (Pawley’s Island) (843) 235-0200 or visit our website at www.prsrehabservices.com where you can learn more about the company and even download a referral form for your physician to fill out. You can also call and schedule a free 15-minute consultation! Professional Rehabilitation Services, Inc. Serving the community since 2004 The Outpatient Physical Therapy Specialists Call for a FREE 15 minute consultation NEW LITTLE RIVER LOCATION NOW OPEN We specialize in treating, Are You Suffering from Pain or an Injury? Sports-related injuries, Orthopedic injuries, Neurological problems, Balance problems, Back & neck pain, Joint-related disorders, Repetitive strain injuries, Post-surgical recovery, Golf injuries Don’t let pain or injury compromise your competitive edge.We offer a full range of physical therapy and rehabilitation services to get you back on track. Located within the SC Pain & Spine Specialists building across from Thomas Supply NOW OFFERING DRY NEEDLING FOR PAIN BY CREDENTIAL PROFESSIONALS Pawleys Island Murrells Inlet Surfside Beach 38 Business Center Dr. Pawleys Island, SC 29585 (843) 235-0200 4731 Hwy. 17 Bypass Murrells Inlet, SC 29576 (843) 314-3224 3076 Dick Pond Road (Hwy 544) Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 (843) 831-0163 Myrtle Beach Conway NEW 2676 Church St Unit D-2 1301 48th Ave N, Suite D (US-501) (Intersection of Hwy. 17 Bypass & 48th Ave., N) Conway, SC 29526 Myrtle Beach, SC 29577 (843) 733-3031 (843) 839-1300 Little River 111 Pavilion Drive Suite 20 Little River, SC 29566 (843) 281-4222 WWW.PRSREHABSERVICES.COM www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 17 GIVING YOU MORE IN (SOCIAL) MEDIA Tips, Tricks and Tools for ‘Social Connectiveness’ By Dorien Morin-van Dam It’s been ages since I got married (1989) and at that time, we had no Smartphones, no digital cameras and no Pinterest or wedding websites to gather wedding tips from. Oh, to be a bride in 2016! Social Media Wedding Bliss! If you are planning to get married in 2016, you have probably already been on Pinterest, one of the most popular search engines for weddings! Online research is the first step to planning your modern day wedding. Gathering Ideas May I suggest that not only the bride and groom, but also the parents use Pinterest to gather ideas, creating a secret board to start, so that you can keep the wedding details a surprise from nosy friends and family. These boards could be great for honeymoon ideas, party favors and food ideas. You don’t want to spoil all the fun for the guests, right? Search Pinterest for ideas on wedding themes, color schemes, style, centerpieces, food, decorations, formal wear, locations and more. (A friend who got married in 2013 called Pinterest ‘wedding crack’.) Many images on Pinterest originate on Etsy, therefore Etsy.com is a natural second place to look for ideas. Two other noteworthy websites are TheKnot.com and OffBeatBride.com Planning &Decision Making Once you have some ideas, it is time to make decisions. If you get ‘stuck’, check out sites like WeddingBee.com, an online Wedding Forum. Other brides and grooms will be happy to share their experiences and their opinions so you can be better informed as you decide on colors, honeymoon destinations and wedding venues. Keeping Family & Friends Informed Many modern couples send out ‘save the date’ cards about a year in advance to ensure everyone will be able to attend their wedding. Throughout the year, SMS messaging & Facebook can keep the majority of those people informed about changes and/or additional information. If you aren’t big on wedding registrations, but might want help with your honeymoon, check out and set up an account at Honeyfund.com, a registry site for honeymoon funds. 18 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine Party Events To keep out of town family and local friends alike informed about the events in the weeks leading up to the wedding day, creating and using Facebook Events can be one of the most effective and quickest ways to update and inform them about the bridal shower, bachelorette and bachelor parties and rehearsal dinner details. Isn’t everyone active on Facebook these days? Wedding Day Many couples hire a photographer, but still want candid pictures. With everyone in attendance holding a Smartphone in their hands, creating and registering your very own wedding hashtag for use on Instagram (this can be used on Twitter, too) for your big day is an awesome idea! Encourage your guests to take pictures of the wedding day and ask them to upload them to Instagram using the wedding hashtag. (Add framed cards with the wedding hashtag to each table setting.) Then while you are waiting for the official photographer to edit your beautiful pictures, you will still have instant access to some great wedding day pictures. Many blessings to those couples taking the big plunge this year. Socially Yours, Dorien Morin-van Dam MoreInMedia.com Myrtle Beach 617-763-1655 www.scwomanmagazine.com www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 19 Thyroid Nodules Cancer or No Cancer? Dr. Javaid Wani, MD, MSc, PhD, FACP Thyroid gland is one of the hormone-secreting organs located in front of your neck and produces hormones which control the rate of various body functions. This gland can have problems with its function, including low hormone production called hypothyroidism and high hormone production called hyperthyroidism. In terms of its structure, there can be abnormalities, such as the presence of lumps or bumps called nodules or fluid-filled sacks called cysts or with mixed components called complex nodules or cysts. Nodules are more common in females and affect 15% of women in the United States. Worldwide, iodine deficiency is the most common cause of goiters, but iodine supplementation in foods has decreased iodine deficiency and is rare in the United States. The presence of these nodules or cysts does not usually affect the function of the gland, but these nodules and cysts could co-exist with some thyroid dysfunction. Some hypothyroid conditions can cause thyroid nodules while some nodules may produce a large amount of thyroid hormone (toxic nodule). These structures can cause an enlargement of the thyroid known as a goiter (we also call a normal-sized 20 January 2016 thyroid with nodules/cysts a goiter, so you should not get alarmed.) When a nodule or a cyst is large or oddly positioned, it can cause obstructive symptoms like a choking sensation, swallowing difficulty, hoarseness of voice, difficulty breathing, etc. Large goiters can block blood flow to the head region. Sometimes, these nodules, cysts and goiters are visible from outside without any compression. Although most nodules are benign (not cancerous), some may not be. Nodules in a person with radiation exposure in the head and neck region or with a family history of thyroid cancer needs additional attention as these could be worrisome for cancer. A nodule that appears suddenly within a small time frame is concerning, while a nodule that has not shown much growth over years is most likely not cancerous. If a thyroid ultrasound South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine shows certain features like an accumulation of calcium or increased blood flow, it likely needs more investigation. Nodules are usually found on imaging tests of the neck or chest area (like CT scan, MRI, carotid ultrasound, etc.) done for an unrelated purpose. However, a thyroid ultrasound provides useful information such as the size, appearance, density, calcium deposits, and blood flow of the nodules. A thyroid ultrasound also used to monitor the growth of these nodules. Some thyroid nodules need to be biopsied to see if they are cancerous or not. They require specialized experience by your physician to decide which nodule needs a biopsy. With the exception of cancers, the thyroid nodules/goiters are simply watched. Surgery is done if a biopsy of the nodule shows cancer. Surgery is also indicated if the goiter continues to grow or produce obstructing symptoms. Thyroid nodules are not surgical problems unless surgery is deemed necessary after thoughtful endocrinology evaluation. Thyroid nodules need to be evaluated in a systematic fashion. In managing thyroid nodules, we follow professional recommendations of the American Thyroid Association (ATA) (www.Thyroid.org). There are more links at our website for patient education. Please contact me if you have any questions. Dr Javaid Wani maybe reached at Strand Endocrinology & Osteoporosis Center. 843-293-9955. www.strandendocrinology.com www.scwomanmagazine.com www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 21 Obesity and Allergies: A Challenge for the New Year By Mark Schecker, M.D. Coastal Carolina Allergy and Asthma Associates If your New Year’s resolutions include losing weight this year and you suffer from allergies then you may be doing yourself a huge favor. A growing body of evidence now links the increasing prevalence of both allergies and asthma with obesity. Therefore being overweight and especially obese is now well recognized as a risk factor for the development of allergy and asthma in both children 6RFLDO 0HGLD 0DQDJHPHQW &RQVXOWLQJ /RFDO 6RFLDO 0HGLD 0DUNHWLQJ 7UDLQLQJ 6WUDWHJLF 3ODQQLQJ $QDO\WLFV &RQWDFW GRULHQ#PRUHLQPHGLDFRP 22 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine and adults. Furthermore obese children and adults have higher rates of co-existent obstructive sleep apnea and gastro-esophageal reflux, which can contribute to even poorer asthma control leading to more adverse outcomes. The exact mechanisms that explain the association of how obesity affects allergy and asthma risk and severity are not entirely clear, but it is known that obesity has a number of physiologic effects on the body and the lungs in particular. More and more evidence suggests that obesity leads to increases in systemic inflammation that can weaken the body’s defenses. This is felt to increase the risk of the metabolic syndrome that includes high blood pressure, high blood lipid levels, insulin resistance and elevated blood sugar increasing the chances of developing cardiovascular disease, cancer and diabetes. In a study published in the Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology (JACI) in 2007 it was shown that overweight and obese adolescents aged 1217 with evidence of insulin resistance and metabolic syndrome had lower levels of lung function in those with and without asthma. Obesity correlates with lower pulmonary function and the ability of the lungs to function properly in adults as well. Another study from JACI has shown that overweight asthmatic children are more susceptible to the effects of indoor pollutants and that inner city youths are particularly sensitive and vulnerable to these effects. For a specialist in the treatment of asthma and allergies this information is particularly troubling. Given current trends the numbers of children and adults with asthma can only be expected to escalate. Even more disconcerting is that they will become extremely more difficult to treat. It is now clear that overweight and obese asthmatics experience the most severe episodes leading to more urgent medical visits including Emergency Room visits and hospitalizations. In my practice this is already slowly becoming a reality with individuals becoming more and more reliant on an increasingly complex regimens of more and more potent medications. Children are being burdened with the potential of a lifetime of incapacitating symptoms, reduced activity levels and the consequences of poorly controlled and severe asthma. However, fortunately the news is not all bad. Just as increasing weight, waist size and BMI have been associated with an increasing risk of asthma and asthma severity it has also been shown conversely that weight reduction can improve lung function with a corresponding lowering of asthma risk and severity. It’s clear that allergy/asthma specialists must now include in their instructions to patients to not only stay faithful to their prescribed treatment regimen in order to keep their symptoms under control, but to also do whatever they can to lose weight. Dr. Schecker, a Board Certified Allergist, is the founder of Coastal Carolina Allergy & Asthma Associates. He is a Certified Take Shape For Life Health Coach, a COPE Certified Health Coach, the co-founder of the Myrtle Beach Marathon and the founder of Camp Airwaves (a camp for children with asthma). Dr. Schecker has been recognized as the “Allergist of the Year” by the Myrtle Beach Herald (2005-2015). www.scwomanmagazine.com Don’tt Just Dream It, Do It! By Anjana Duff Travel Consultant Happy New Year! I hope that you had wonderful holidays! Now that all the hoopla is over, it is easy to sink into a post-holidays slump. January can certainly be dreary and depressing with the festivities over, the company gone, the house bare and the weather cold. But January can also be an exciting time with the promise of a fresh, new year ahead of us. Pull yourself out of the slump and use this down time to think about what you want to accomplish this year. Whether you make resolutions, choose a word to focus on for the year, create a vision board, or simply have a mental list, you do it with hope and expectation that the year will be full of blessings and fruition. January is the best time to set those goals and start making plans especially travel plans. Plan your big vacation with family and friends around a special celebration. What milestones are you and your family celebrating this year? A 50th birthday? A 25th anniversary? High school or college graduation? Retirement? Promotions? There is no better way to celebrate these amazing times than with a trip. The investment in your family time together will be returned to you 100 times over. Connections will be deepened, bonds will be strengthened, and everyone will take home the best party favor ever - priceless memories. We all have our mental “TO GO” list of dream trips. We daydream about warm, www.scwomanmagazine.com lush, tropical islands with white sandy beaches... or cruising through the aqua blue Caribbean waters on a luxury cruise ship with a pina colada in hand….or wandering around quaint, picturesque towns in Germany...or savoring pizza and pasta in Italy… or sampling wines from various French vineyards...or gazing in awe at castle after castle while sailing on the Rhine River… or … the list doesn’t end, does it?! So, make it happen! Now is the best time to make plans to take one of these special trips this year. Almost all travel suppliers offer January specials, and air fares tend to be lower this month. Take advantage and turn your January into “Plan-uary!” Bon voyage and safe travels! Anjana Duff is the owner of Travel Connection, a boutique travel agency specializing in tropical escapes and European adventures. She creates customized luxury vacation packages for individuals, families and small groups. www.travelconnectionad.com Anjana@travelconnectionad.com (843) 455-4478 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 23 Letting Go In 2016 By Star Sade Letting Go... Letting go is never easy but letting go of stressors, whether it’s a person, place or thing (including your past) maybe the healthiest thing you could do for yourself. This New Year 2016 could be your time to move forward and Let go of the situations that are bringing you down and affecting your peace and health. Letting go of trying to change anyone and accept that some people need to stay in your life and some need to go. Letting go will give you strength and confidence. When your health is in jeopardy because you have been on an emotional roller coaster and your weight fluctuates and you have no energy to exercise... its time to Let Go! This year I will be letting go of some impossible situations.. Stress invoking situations that has taken a tole on my health. “While the immediate . . . response to acute stress can be a temporary loss of appetite, more and more we are coming to recognize that for some people, chronic stress can be tied to an increase in appetite — and stress-induced weight gain,” says Elissa Epel, PhD, an assistant professor in the department of psychiatry at the University of California at San Francisco. “Often, our response to stress today is to sit and stew in our frustration and anger, without expending any of the calories or food stores that we would if we were physically fighting our way out of stress or danger,” says Shawn Talbott, PhD, an associate professor in the Department of Nutrition at the University of Utah and author of The Cortisol Connection. “Often, eating becomes the activity that relieves the stress”? In other words, since your neuro-endocrine system doesn’t know you didn’t fight or flee, it still responds to stress with the hormonal signal to replenish nutritional stores — which may make you feel hungry. Employment Opportunities Available www.TerryAndDonsGymnastics.com 843-650-6731 280 HiddenWoods Dr., Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 All positions require dependable, punctual, hard-working persons who love working with children, are self-motivated, and who are enthusiastic! Gymnastics experience is not necessary, training available if required. After-School Care Instructor Gymnastics experience not required. Position includes supervising children from 3-6pm, giving them snack, helping with homework, arts and crafts, play time, and making sure they attend their scheduled gymnastics/dance classes while they are here. Recreational Gymnastics Instructor Weekday afternoons, evenings, and/or Saturday mornings. Enthusiastic and outgoing is a must!Gymnastics experience is not (training available). 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To further complicate matters, the “fuel” our muscles need during “fight or flight “ is sugar — one reason we crave carbohydrates when we are stressed, says endocrinologist Riccardo Perfetti, MD, PhD. I am ready to let go in 2016 and become healthier than I have ever been... Are you? We can help you at Metabolic Medical Center get your weight loss back on track for the new year... Call 843-357-2851 and Have a Happy New Year! www.scwomanmagazine.com Tips to Writing the Perfect Card or Note Everyone loves to discover a handwritten card or note among a thick stack of mail. Regardless of how many electronic words we get bombarded with each day, the personal touch of a message written by hand remains a special gesture that never goes out of style. From choosing a card or stationery that reflects a personal style to accenting the letter with the right seal or stamp, every detail matters to underscore a thoughtful message. Stamps are often one of the first details noted by a letter recipient, so choosing a stamp such as the love-letter themed Sealed with Love Forever stamp from usps.com/stamps or your local post office is perfect for the occasion. Not sure what sentiment to write for the occasion? Here are a few ideas: Notes of appreciation: Whether the recipient gave you a gift, hosted you for dinner or did a special favor, keep the message brief and sincere. Don’t ever hesitate to send a note of appreciation just to let someone know how truly special they are. Unexpected notes are always wonderful to receive. Birthday cards: Celebrate one’s personal accomplishments in the past year and any special events planned in the next year ahead. End by telling your friend or loved one why he or she is so important to you. That message may just be the best gift you can give. Celebratory cards: When acknowledging the birth of a baby or the recent wedding of a friend or relative, pick a card they will want to save and treasure for years to come. When writing your sentiment inside, keep congratulations simple and let them know you share in their joy. New job: Starting a job at a new company or changing one’s career path can be a time for renewal and exciting beginnings. A sincere message wishing a friend or loved one luck and adding advice that he or she might find helpful is often a welcome message to show someone you care. Condolence cards: If a friend is going through a difficult time, share special memories you have of the person who passed away and why you will miss having that person in your life. End by offering to call or visit in the near future. These gestures, plus the card itself, will remind the recipient they aren’t alone in their grief. Remember, cards and notes are about letting another person know how much their friendship, gifts or presence means to you. Follow a simple formula, add a few personal touches and you will soon be writing cards with ease. (Family Features) Photos courtesy of Daniel Afzal/United States Postal Service WELCOME SNOWBIRDS 3CHEDULE9OUR3KIN#ANCER3CREENING Fall has arrived and that means it’s time to schedule your annual skin cancer screening. You need a thorough skin check every year or sooner if you have noticed any changes to a mole or a new growth on your skin. At Inlet Medical Associates, we are experts in detecting skin cancer. To schedule your screening, call (843) 651-4111. 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Here are a few ideas to spoil your guests: • Place a small silver bell at each place setting, and then observe the tradition of kissing your new spouse each time one rings. • Fill favor boxes or organza bags with a sweet treat, such as Jordan almonds or pillow mints. • Small silver frames can do double-duty as wedding favors and place card holders. • Greet guests at an outdoor wedding with ornate fans to keep them cool. • Encourage your guests to kick up (or off) their heels by providing a basket of cute flip flops for dancing. Another memorable gift is to honor your guests with a donation to a charity that is special to you and your fiancée. Announce your gift on a handcrafted tag attached to a beautiful candle. The decorative candles can be clustered around the centerpieces at the reception or simply used as the centerpiece itself. To find more wedding ideas, project guides and supplies, visit www.joann.com. Charitable Gift Wedding Favor Some experience necessary Crafting time: 1-2 hours Supplies and tools: • Pillar candle • Cork roll • Cardstock, green & brown • Kraft paper or brown paper grocery bag • Green ribbon • Jute cord • Small wood beads • Flower punches in a variety of shapes & sizes • Upholstery tack • Adhesive dots, large • Straight pins • Scallop-edge shears • Scissors • Mini hole punch • Recycled papers, such as old books, sheet music, newspapers, postcards, memorabilia 1. Punch 5 flowers using flower punches in different shapes and sizes. Use a variety of recycled papers for a vintage appearance. With an upholstery tack, pierce all layers of flowers; set aside. 2. Cut green cardstock strip 3-inch wide and 1/2-inch longer than circumference of candle. Cut both long edges and one short end with scallop-edge shears. Punch mini holes in each scallop. Wrap around candle, overlap and secure with adhesive dots. 3. Cut a strip of cork 1-3/4-inch wide and the same length as green cardstock. Cut one end of cork strip with scalloped edge shears; attach to candle with 3 straight pins, at the scalloped end. 4. Print the donation message on brown cardstock. Cut out in a tag shape and mount on a slightly larger green cardstock tag. Scallop the green cardstock end, punch a hole at the narrow end of the tag and on each of the scallops. Tie ribbon once around cork and knot at the front. Tie cord around cork several times, string on the tag and tie in a knot. Press layered flower with upholstery tack into cork, over knots. 5. Tie 2 more lengths of jute around flower and knot. String a few small wood beads over the ends of some of the cords, and tie love knots to secure. 6. Trace a 5-inch circle on the back of green cardstock. Cut a petaled flower, using the circle shape as a guide. Using the green flower as a template, cut two more 5-inch flowers from recycled paper. Attach these to each other with adhesive dots, ruffling, wrinkling and distressing the edges. Cut a smaller green flower, slightly larger than the circumference of the candle. Cut the edges with scallop-edge shears and attach to the top of the stack of flowers, with the candle centered in the middle. (Family Features) 26 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com Eric Masson Chef/Owner, The Brentwood Restaurant & Wine Bistro Little River, SC 3. Bring milk to a boil. Poor milk in cooled roux. Cook on medium heat for 5 minutes. Remove from heat and add yolk and grated parmesan. Season with salt and nutmeg. 4. Place bacon in a large, deep skillet. Cook over medium high heat until evenly brown. Remove from pan and chop. 5. Quickly sautéed spinach in bacon fat. Flambéed with Pernod, season and set aside. 6. In large bowl, mix sautéed spinach, chopped bacon, parsley, hot sauce and Mornay sauce. 7. Arrange the oysters in their half shells on a pan with kosher salt. Spoon some of the spinach mixture on each oyster. Bake 10 minutes until cooked through, then change the oven’s setting to broil and broil until browned on top. Serve hot. Bon Appetit! Recipe from Chef Eric Masson Chef/Owner of The Brentwood Restaurant & Wine Bistro “Low Country French Cuisine” 4269 Luck Ave. Little River, SC 29566 843-249-2601 www.TheBrentwoodRestaurant.com Southern Style Weddings without the Plantation Price Oysters Rockefeller For 4 people Ingredient 2 slices bacon 24 unopened, fresh, live medium oysters 2 cup fresh spinach 3 tablespoon butter 4 tablespoon flour 2 cup milk 1 pinch nutmeg 2 yolks 1/2 cup grated parmesan 1 tablespoon chopped fresh parsley 1/2 teaspoon salt 1 dash hot pepper sauce 1 teaspoon anise flavored liqueur 4 cups kosher salt Method: 1. Clean oysters and place in a large stockpot. Pour in enough water to cover oysters; bring the water and oysters to a boil. Remove from heat and drain and cool oysters. When cooled break the top shell off of each oyster. 2. In medium saucepan, cook butter and flour to a blond roux. Set aside. "One of the Top Ten Most Romantic Restaurants on the Grand Strand" ~MyrtleBeachRestaurantNews.com~ Rooms for small or large events Indoor and outdoor site available Ceremony site Full banquet menu Can accommodate up to 200 guests 4269 Luck Ave, Little River, SC 29566 849-249-2601 TheBrentwoodRestaurant.com www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 27 Style-Wise Six Steps for Starting 2016 in Style With Jada Bynum Five, four, three, two, one...2016 is upon us and 2015 is done! Out with the old and in with the new seems like the appropriate adage for the occasion, but the fashion world often has a mind of its own. Many of the trends appearing this fall will grace us again this season and lead us to spring in stride; but don’t be fooled, just because several looks seem the same, doesn’t mean there is not room for updates and improvements. Style is all in the details and attitude so there are plenty of ways to delve into the contemporary vibes on-set by January. Here are six steps to instantly infuse your closet with the cutting edge and jumpstart your new year with jubilation for all that’s to come: 1. Paint the Town with Pantone’s Colors of the Year Spring comes early in the New Year with Pantone declaring Rose Quartz and Serenity as the shades for ’16. Light-hearted and feminine, “rose quartz” brings out the romantic inside all of us; meanwhile, “serenity” is a peaceful, but powerful blue to unleash our fierce inner ice queen. These airy hues will add frosty flare to winter wardrobes and anticipate the fantastic flowers of spring. Not a fan of these two particular shades? Have no fear! Their popularity is sure to usher in their soothing counterparts across the color spectrum like lavender and mint. Soft and subtle, pastel colors like these lend themselves for a multitude of uses: accentuating patterns or prints, taking center stage as a focal point, or serving as a neutral back drop for a brighter color to pop. 28 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine 2. Master Closet Curating Fashion is an art form and your closet is your personal gallery. Numerous fashion and organization bloggers will affirm that every so often you must take time to “curate” your closet as one would with a fine art exhibit in museum. What better time of year to begin this process than January? Each piece should have a specific purpose in your collection that directly relates to your other items and directly illustrates your personal style story. Curating also includes hanging coordinates together or creating capsules of mix’n’match outfits for fast and fabulous grab-n-go looks. From Polyvore Rhinestoned Cocktail Ring Set from Forever21.com 3. Accelerate Your Accessories Updating your wardrobe for the new year can most simply and cost effectively be done through accessories. Modernizing classic pieces becomes a cinch when you incorporate one or two in-the-moment accents. Bold, oversized, and chunky rings, earrings, chokers, and brooches as well as chic satchels and clutches are 2016 staples as versatile statement pieces. Look for after Christmas sales as many stores have a lot of leftover jewelry and purses that were specifically stocked as gift items. 4. Organize to Optimize Get ahead of the game and instead of cleaning in the spring, you can be relaxing by the pool! Whether dealing with clothes, décor, or time, stick with the essentials, cut the clutter, and donate the difference. To make the most of everything you have, organization is key; but it also involves finding the organizational patterns that are right for you. Different approaches include storing clothes by kind, number, color, designer, season, or all of the above. How you organize your closet can be as simple or complex as you prefer. It’s all about finding what works best for your space, access, and lifestyle. 5. Join the Resolution Revolution New Year’s Resolutions are an age-old tradition and www.scwomanmagazine.com DIY T-shirt Re-Fashion with Leather Trim Pocket from Lovely Crafty Home (http://lovelycraftyhome.com/2015/07/13/diy-t-shirt-refashion/) breaking them is almost as common as making them in this day and time. It’s time to put an end to this habit and put our best foot forward behind the words of our mouth. If you make a resolution this year, big or small, treat it like a promise to yourself and make it one for the ages. Break down your resolution into small, measurable steps for greater accountability as you move toward achieving your goal. Tackle your life change week by week rather day to night. 6. Up(cycle) the Ante If the store racks aren’t quenching your trend-seeking thirsts, try making 2016 a “new to you” year, the aforementioned forecasted trends for 2016 lend themselves to creativity activity. Instead of buying new, look to thrift shops and clothing swaps to find those missing pieces needed. Rescue old belts and bags from the wastebasket to add leather/pleather trim or accents for an easy update DIY example. Other quick fixes from your local craft store will allow you to have one-of-a-kind pieces with a “coutureesque” element. These projects can also become a hobby and serve as a productive way to unwind. Jada Bynum is a Wall Fellow at Coastal Carolina University, a Christian, and a lover of Disney, dogs, and the arts. Connect with her at jadachristmas@gmail.com www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 29 HOMESPUN Craft & Antique MALL Visit over 70 booths for Something Old, Something New The Moveable Feast for Winter 2016 Fridays, 11 a.m.-1 p.m., $25* each Literary luncheons with exciting authors at area restaurants The Moveable Feast is held at area restaurants throughout the year on Fridays, 11 a.m.-1 p.m. On occasion, an author’s book tour schedule is accommodated with a mid-week Moveable Feast. For each feast, the chef prepares an exquisite menu, typically unavailable during the restaurant’s public hours. The presentation precedes the meal. Individuals, couples, friends, book clubs and other groups are assigned table seating. Let us know if you have food allergies or are observing Lent, and we’ll accommodate. Each literary luncheon is followed by a book signing at Litchfield Books for those unable to participate in the feast. Each feast is $25 (occasionally more); books are available at a 10% discount from Litchfield Books. For schedules and reservations, visit our office in Art Works in the Litchfield Exchange (14329 Ocean Highway), our website www.classatpawleys.com, or call 843-235-9600. Jan. 8 – Johnathon Scott Barrett (Rise and Shine! A Southern Son’s Treasury of Food, Family and Friends) at Carefree Catering A native of Perry, Georgia, Johnathon Barrett’s Georgia roots date back to the late 1700s. For seven generations, fresh, farm-to-table food played a unifying role in his family, and as child he was introduced, first-hand, to the ingredients, practices, and nuances of Southern fare. This rich heritage of place continues to play center stage in Johnathon’s life, particularly in regards to food and dining. Successfully melding the classic menus of his birthplace with an expanded appreciation of other cuisines, the author, now a renowned host and cook, has called culinaryrich Savannah, Georgia, his home for the last thirty years. Personalized/Handcrafted gifts for the Bride & Groom or Attendants! Many of our vendors offer Special Order items so before you buy the same ole thing you should browse through our amazing mall and find that extra special gift for your extra special day! Mon-Fri 9-6 Sat.10-5 11 4 - A H w y 1 7 N . Surfside Beach 238-3622 homespuncrafters.com 30 Jan. 15 – Charles Belfoure (House of Thieves) at Pawleys Plantation In 1886 New York, a respectable architect shouldn’t have any connection to the notorious gang of thieves and killers that rules the underbelly of the city. But when John Cross’s son racks up an unfathomable gambling debt to Kent’s Gents, Cross must pay it back himself. All he has to do is use his inside knowledge of high society mansions and museums to craft a robbery even the smartest detectives won’t solve. The take better include some cash too – the bigger the payout, the faster this will be over. With a newfound talent for sniffing out vulnerable and lucrative targets, Cross becomes invaluable to the gang. But Cross’s entire life has become a balancing act, and it will only take one mistake for it all to come crashing down – and for his family to go down too. *Jan. 22 – Alexandra Fuller (Leaving Before the Rains Come) at Kimbel’s, Wachesaw Alexandra Fuller’s childhood in Southern Africa was the inspiration for two bestselling memoirs: her 2001 debut, Don’t Let’s Go to the Dogs Tonight: An African Childhood and her 2004 Scribbling the Cat: Travels with an African Soldier which won the Ulysses Prize for Art of Reportage. In her third, Leaving Before the Rains Come, she writes about moving to the U.S. and the collapse of her decades-long marriage. *This Moveable Feast is $45 and includes the book. J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com Jan. 29 – Karen White, Beatriz Williams & Lauren Willig (The Forgotten Room) at Inlet Affairs The Forgotten Room, set in alternating time periods, is a sumptuous feast of a novel brought to vivid life by three brilliant storytellers. In 1945, the critically wounded Captain Cooper Ravenal is brought to a private hospital on Manhattan’s Upper East Side, and young Dr. Kate Schuyler is drawn into a complex mystery that connects three generations of women in her family to a single extraordinary room in a Gilded Age mansion. Who is the woman in Captain Ravenel’s portrait miniature who looks so much like Kate? And why is she wearing the ruby pendant handed down to Kate by her mother? In their pursuit of answers, they find themselves drawn into the turbulent stories of Gilded Age Olive Van Alen, driven from riches to rags, who hired out as a servant in the very house her father designed, and Jazz Age Lucy Young, who came from Brooklyn to Manhattan in pursuit of the father she had never known. But are Kate and Cooper ready for the secrets that will be revealed? Feb. 5 – Karen Stokes (The Immortals: A Story of Love and War) at Carefree Catering Historian and South Carolina Historical Society archivist Karen Stokes takes a turn at historical fiction in this Civil War love story that takes place in Charleston and Columbia, based on actual events. Feb. 12 – Melanie Benjamin (The Swans of Fifth Avenue) at Pawleys Plantation From the New York Times bestselling author of The Aviator’s Wife comes an enthralling new novel centered on two dynamic, complicated, and compelling protagonists – Truman Capote and Babe Paley. This book is steeped in the glamour and perfumed and smoky atmosphere of New York’s high society. Babe Paley – known for her highprofile marriage to CBS founder William Paley and her ranking in the International Best-Dressed Hall of Fame – was one of the reigning monarchs of New York’s high society in the 1950s. Replete with gossip, scandal, betrayal, and a vibrant cast of real-life supporting characters, readers will be seduced by this startling new look at the infamous society swans. Feb. 19 – Susan Meissner (Stars over Sunset Boulevard) at Surf, Beach & Golf Club, North Myrtle Beach This multi-published author, speaker and writing workshop leader with a background in community journalism has written a dozen books in as many years. Her novel, A Fall of Marigolds, was named to Booklist’s Top Ten Women’s Fiction titles for 2014, and The Shape of Mercy was named by Publishers Weekly as one of the 100 Best Novels of 2008. Stars over Sunset Boulevard, set in the golden age of Hollywood, is the story of two studio secretaries who become best friends while working on the set of the most iconic film ever produced, Gone with the Wind. Feb. 26 – Ashley Warlick (The Arrangement) at Ocean One, Litchfield Ashley Warlick’s debut novel, The Distance from the Heart of Things, won the Houghton Mifflin Literary Fellowship, the youngest recipient ever at 23. Publishers Weekly described her sentences as “often bewitching” while the starred Booklist review commented on her ability to employ “an economy of language that is somehow simultaneously stark and lush” and pronounced her writing “daring.” In 2006, she received a creative writing fellowship from the National Endowment for the Arts. Warlick is a dedicated cook and published food writer. She teaches in the MFA program at Queens University in www.scwomanmagazine.com Charlotte, North Carolina, and is the book buyer for M. Judson, Booksellers and Storytellers in Greenville. The Arrangement is based on the early career and tumultuous love life of the great food writer MFK Fisher. March 4 – Michele Moore (The Cigar Factory: A Novel of Charleston) at Inlet Affairs This historical novel about the American Tobacco Company’s Charleston cigar factory, in which the author’s father held his first job, deals particularly with issues of racism and segregation. From the Gullah language spoken by both white and black Charlestonians, to shared food ways, religious practices, and folk beliefs, Michelle Moore’s novel showcases the many ways that life in Charleston was impacted by the port city’s large West African presence. Moore holds an MFA in Creative Writing from Vermont College and a BS in physical therapy from Georgia State University, which she attended on a full athletic scholarship. March 11 – Michelle Gable (I’ll See You in Paris) at Kimbel’s, Wachesaw Following her debut novel A Paris Apartment, Gable winds together the lives of three women born generations apart, but who face similar struggles of love and heartbreak. After losing her fiancé in the Vietnam War, nineteen-year-old Laurel Haley takes a job in England, hoping the distance will mend her shattered heart. Laurel expects the pain might lessen but does not foresee the beguiling man she meets or that they’ll go to Paris, where the city’s magic will take over and alter everything Laurel believes about love. Thirty years later, Laurel’s daughter Annie is newly engaged and searching for the truth about her father. The key to unlocking Laurel’s secrets starts with a mysterious book about an infamous woman known as the Duchess of Marlborough. Annie’s quest to understand the Duchess, and therefore her own history, takes her from a charming hamlet in the English countryside, to a decaying estate kept behind barbed wire, and ultimately to Paris where answers will be found at last. March 18 – Bill Noel (Boneyard Beach: A Folly Beach Mystery) at Pine Lakes Country Club, Myrtle Beach A knock on Chris Landrum’s retirement cottage door proves that he doesn’t have to leave home to find trouble. In this tenth book in the highly-popular Folly Beach Mystery series, Chris and his cadre of quirky pals, risk their lives for their friends, and to prevent more deaths, including their own. March 25 – Jan Ellison (A Small Indiscretion) at Sea View Inn With psychological suspense, emotional depth and hypnotic prose, O. Henry Prize winner Jan Ellison delivers a brilliantly paced, beautifully written debut novel about one woman’s reckoning with a youthful mistake. At nineteen, Annie Black trades a bleak future in a washed out California town for a London winter of drinking and abandon. Twenty years later, she is a San Francisco lighting designer and happily married mother of three who has put her reckless youth behind her. Then a photo from that distant winter in Europe arrives inexplicably in her mailbox, and an old obsession is awakened. Past and present collide, Annie’s marriage falters, and her son takes a car ride that ends with his life hanging in the balance. Now Annie must confront her own transgressions and fight for her family by untangling the mysteries of the turbulent winter that drew an invisible map of her future. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 31 miraDry CHANGING LIVES… FOR GOOD! Submitted by DermaVogue Dr. James E. Turek, Medical Director Underarm sweat...for some, it’s a nuisance. For others, a huge bother. For all, there is a solution. Would you rather not think about underarm sweat? 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And, results are fast – you can expect to see sweat reduction immediately after treatment, with minimal to no downtime. • Dramatic sweat reduction without the use of harsh chemicals, toxins or surgery The miraDry procedure uses the only non-invasive technology that is FDA cleared and clinically proven to dramatically reduce sweat and provide lasting results. Now there is a lasting solution to sweat control that doesn’t use harsh chemicals, toxins or surgery. • What is the procedure like? The procedure involves no surgical incisions or cuts. The clinician customizes treatment for each underarm area with multiple placements of the miraDry handpiece. Local anesthesia is administered to the underarms prior to the procedure to maintain comfort. Your office visit appointment will generally last about an hour. Two procedures spaced three months apart are required to maximize the results and duration. • What happens after the procedure? There is minimal to no downtime following the procedure. Your doctor will likely recommend a mild over-the-counter pain medication and use of ice packs for a few days. You should be able to return to normal activities or work right after the procedure, and you can typically resume exercise within several days. Some localized soreness or swelling is normal, and typically clears within a few weeks. Some patients have short-term altered sensation in the skin of their underarms or upper arms, which gradually disappears. • What results can I expect? Most patients report a dramatic reduction of their sweat – in a recent clinical study1, the average sweat reduction was 86%. You should see a reduction in sweat immediately after treatment. As with any medical procedure, results will vary by person. .1 Clinical study data on file at Miramar Labs, Inc. • How long will the results last? The results are lasting because the sweat glands do not come back or regenerate after they have been eliminated. The miraDry procedure uses a safe, non-invasive technology that is FDA cleared to eliminate sweat glands in the underarm. • Don’t I need my underarm sweat glands? Your body contains over 4 million sweat glands, with only about 2% located in the underarms. Eliminating this 2% will not affect the body’s ability to cool itself. • How is the miraDry procedure different from other treatment options? Other treatment options are designed to temporarily disable the sweat glands, or involve surgery which contains inherent risks. Only the miraDry procedure provides a lasting solution with a non-invasive treatment. • Is the miraDry procedure right for me? If embarrassing underarm sweat outbreaks, stained clothing or frequent antiperspirant application interfere with your daily life, then you may be a good candidate for the miraDry procedure. Don’t suffer with embarrassing sweat marks on your clothes any more! Call DermaVogue in Garden City 843-357-2444 or visit us online at dermavoguegc@gmail.com. www.scwomanmagazine.com Creative, Budget-Friendly Tips For The Big Day Today, more couples are looking beyond standard wedding packages and exploring customized, do-it-yourself options. According to The Wedding Report, couples spent 10 percent less on their big day in 2009 as compared to 2008, and spending from 2007 to 2009 fell by more than 30 percent. By choosing handcrafted wedding touches and forgoing pricey extras, creative couples are mixing and matching a surprising combination of one-of-a-kind wedding elements to create unique and personalized celebrations. From the centerpiece display to the wedding favors, more people planning that memorable wedding are realizing personal touches that actually reflect the soon-to-be-newlyweds themselves can elevate that special day from a cookie-cutter event to an intimately beautiful affair. Here are four fun and budget-friendly ideas to create a wedding that is anything but generic: Snip and Style-Arrangements by professional florists can easily take a big chunk out of the budget. Instead, the wedding party can be enlisted to help create floral decor for the wedding. There are a number of free online tutorials that offer detailed how-to instructions on choosing seasonal blooms and arranging everything from elegant centerpieces to bridal bouquets. Personal touches to the floral arrangements may be added by incorporating favorite flowers or purchasing the blooms from a local farmers’ market. Pick and Choose-To spend wisely, couples are also turning away from one-size-fits-all wedding packages and demanding more flexibility in the types of wedding resources available. For example, an array of hotel and event site offerings through the Weddings By Doubletree website provides couples with the flexible option of selecting essential components for their wedding day without being tied to an all-inclusive plan. From mixing and matching options such as guest stays, reception celebrations and ceremony settings, couples can handpick amenities and services that fit their budget and wedding needs at more than 230 hotels and resorts worldwide. Eat and Drink-Family and friends can also be offered an inside look at the preferences, passions and experiences enjoyed by the happy couple. Wedding favors could include a favorite chocolate or something that symbolizes the couple’s life (such as local honey, jam or a unique trinket from their hometown). For the aperitif, wine could be poured from a vineyard the couple likes to visit. For the main meal, dishes or drinks can be tailored to represent the cultural heritage of the couple (paella for the Spanish side of the family or vodka for the Russian side of the family). Weddings provide the chance to celebrate the special values and history of the couple, through small details that personalize the event and make the setting more intimate. Capture and Share-A professional photographer should certainly be considered for the most important portions of the wedding (ceremony, bridal party and family pictures, etc.); however, guests can help capture the rest of the special moments. Before the big day, family and friends can be asked to bring their digital cameras to document the memories, along with a few disposable digital cameras on hand for individuals who do not own or forget their cameras. A free online photo service prior to the wedding can provide the couple, the wedding party and guests with the link to upload, download and share their photos after the special day. Printing costs will be slashed in half and everyone can immediately and automatically have a vast selection of images to choose from for their wedding scrapbooks. For ideas to plan an affordable and memorable wedding ceremony, reception and honeymoon, visit www.doubletree.com/weddings, contact a local travel professional or call (800) 222-TREE in the U.S. or Canada. Handcrafted wedding touches can turn a cookie-cutter event into a one-of-a-kind wedding to remember. Dr. James E. Turek DermaVogue Gift Certificates Available 843-357-2444 www.scwomanmagazine.com 2347 Hwy 17 Bus. S. Garden City, SC 29576 www.dermavogue.net South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 33 Cosmetic Surgery for Weddings & Events By Kimberley B. C. Goh, M.D. Anniversaries, reunions and weddings are often the inspiration to look your best. Consultations for cosmetic surgery before a wedding are popular among brides, grooms, their families, as well as their wedding parties. Interest in the procedures before an event ranges from body contouring to facial rejuvenation, all with the common goal of looking one’s best. If you are considering cosmetic surgery before a wedding or other event, there are several points that should be considered: timing, recovery, risk, stress, expense and family perception and support. These are critical components in your choice of procedure and the desired outcome. It is important to book your consultation with a plastic surgeon early to ensure adequate time for the procedure and recovery prior to the big event. For the best results, I prefer to perform major facial and body contouring surgery at least three months in advance of a special occasion. This gives ade- Let's do this together! 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This is not something desirable to wear under your wedding dress (or on the honeymoon!) CoolSculpting, the new non-invasive fat reduction technique does not involve needles or girdles but it does take three months to achieve maximum fat reduction, which is why it’s important to plan accordingly. Facial cosmetic surgery takes a time to settle and soften, and you may not be able to be in the sun in the immediate postoperative period to ensure optimal scar healing. Such post-operative restrictions can impact honeymoon plans for example, and thus need to be taken into consideration when choosing the date for surgery. Major body contouring, such as tummy tucks or thigh lifts have a more extensive recovery period. If not properly planned in advance, the recovery may keep you from actively doing those last minute tasks associated with an event or enjoying pre-event activities. CO2 laser skin resurfacing can have a significant impact on skin, however it requires more recovery time for the optimal result and skin color. There are other laser treatments that take less time to recover, but make less of a change in wrinkles or age spots. These are the fractional laser peels. Medium depth chemical peels have about a week’s worth of down time and can give your skin a fresher look. Skin peels or microdermabrasion can enhance your skin tone with no down time. There are other new techniques for tightening the skin with no down time, but they are not yet proven techniques and it has been difficult to separate the market hype from real results. If you determine that you do not have adequate time for a www.scwomanmagazine.com major procedure, sometimes modified procedures can be of benefit. For example, many people chose SmartLipo for their neck, even though it does not tighten the skin as much as neck lifts or facelifts because there is less down time and minimal scarring with noticeable improvement in appearance. Cheek lifts are a good in between procedure. This can be done under local anesthesia and only takes about 1- 1 1/2 hour. There is little bruising and the swelling quickly resolves, and tightens the cheeks and has a small effect on the neck. There are also minor procedures that can be done to enhance your appearance other than surgery. These procedures have a short “down” time, and can be done within a few weeks of an event. Botox can be used to smooth wrinkles; you should get this at least two weeks before the event in case of bruising. Botox is an agent used to temporarily immobilize the muscles that are causing wrinkles. Unless you plan to get injected regularly, do not get treated too early or the wrinkles may return prior to your event. Restylane, Juvaderm and other hyaluronic acid fillers, can be used to fill wrinkles and enhance lips. Like Botox, they should be planned at least two weeks prior to the event in case of bruising. Sculptra is another product that has been used for several years in the US, and is approved by the FDA for facial cosmetic purposes. This is a filler-like product that causes your own tissue to grow and replace lost volume. It takes about two months to grow enough to fill or enhance an area, so again it is important to plan accordingly. Fat injection, using fat from your body to fill an area, has the potential to be permanent unlike other fillers. However, fat injection can cause swelling initially and your lips or areas of injection may be swollen for a few weeks after injection. Therefore, this procedure should be planned a few months in advance of your event. Cosmetic surgery before a wedding is an issue that should be discussed with your fiancé. While it is your right to make decisions about your own body, his/her feelings should be taken into consideration. You will do better after surgery if you have a positive emotional support structure around you. There are many ways to improve your appearance before a wedding, reunion or other event; surgery is just one option. Let your plastic surgeon know the wedding/event date and your timetable. Make sure you understand the actual procedure, and who will actually be doing the procedure, what their level of training is, what the recovery time will be and the risks involved. If you decide to have cosmetic surgery or a procedure to enhance your appearance, plan carefully and be honest about your expectations. Ask for a surgeon certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery. The ABPS is a board approved by the American Board of Medical Specialties. A plastic surgeon has from six to seven years of formal surgical training after medical school. 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Call now for consultation appointment. www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 35 HOW TO WITH HALLEY This Tree’s for the Birds By Halley May Castleberry Of course, if you opted for a fake tree this Holiday season, you can decorate any tree in your backyard with these ornaments. The birds will appreciate it just as much! If you’re using your real tree, be sure to empty the water out of the stand before setting it in the desired area of your backyard. Now the only thing left to do is make those ornaments! 1. First, tie fishing line or ribbon to your pine cones and/or gum balls. 2. Then, cover your pines cones/gum balls in peanut butter. 3. Sprinkle on the bird seed. 4. Hang them on your Christmas tree or a tree of your choice in the backyard. Sit back, relax, and watch the birds as they flock to their new favorite yard! Happy 2016, friends! If you’re like me, you leave up your Christmas decor until January 1st. By that point, I hate to see it go, but I’m ready to return my house to normal. This year, Chris and I bought our first real tree as a family. We made it a big adventure and opted for a 12 footer. Ahhh how sweet it is to have vaulted ceilings. What I didn’t consider, until later, is how much more work it would be taking it all down. Oh well, it was still well worth the extra trouble. We enjoyed the scent of Fraser fir that reminded me of my childhood. It played a major role in keeping spirits bright this Holiday season. Even with all the ornaments off, I felt as though our first family tree had a little fire left in her. So I decided to take it out back and transform it into a tree for the birds to enjoy as the weather turns colder. Growing up, my mom did this every year. The benefits of transforming your tree are not only for the birds but you can enjoy watching them as well. You’ll only need a few materials to make the bird feeder ornaments to decorate your tree. Pine cones and/or gum balls (as seen in the picture) Peanut butter Bird seed Fishing line or ribbon 36 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine This is a wonderful project to enjoy with the little ones! You can also string popcorn and add that to your tree as well. I look forward to getting a little more life out of our first real tree and enjoying the view! Feel free to connect with me on Facebook, HalleyMurrowCastleberry (no spaces), Instagram, HalleyMay, or visit HalleyMay.com to let me know how yours turn out! I would love to hear from you. You can also find more crafting fun and DIY ideas at HalleyMay.com Happy New Year! Halley May Halley May Castleberry Host and Producer of “The Business Connection” on HTC Channel 4, Spokesperson for Car City, and Host and Producer of “How to with Halley.” She can be reached at hmmurrow@yahoo.com. Connect with her on social media at HalleyMay.com www.scwomanmagazine.com g n i r p S 2016 36th Annual horry georgetown home builders association February 12 - 14, 2016 Myrtle Beach Convention Center Fri & Sat, 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. • Sun, 11 a.m. - 5 p.m. Admission $5 • Children younger than 16 FREE Everything for the Home & Garden More than 200 Product and Service Exhibitors Meet Industry Pros Many Workshops and Demonstrations Special Events Silent Auction, Hosted by Coastal Animal Rescue Culinary Demonstrations Many Specials provided by Home Show Exhibitors Visit www.mbhomeshow.com or www.myrtlebeachhomebuilders.org Call 843-438-4124 www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 37 Wedding Registry 101 or engaged couples, it can seem as if there are a million things to accomplish before the big day arrives. One essential piece of the wedding puzzle involves creating a registry that makes it easy for guests to celebrate your union with gifts that reflect your personality as a couple. Before Building Your Registry It’s no wonder why guests love the ease and simplicity of a gift registry. But many couples may not know where to begin when setting out to create this useful list. Here are some helpful pointers from Macy’s to help you get started on creating a perfect wedding registry: F 38 • Meet with a Consultant: These trained professionals are on site to assist and discuss everything you want and need. It’s a good place to start if you have questions on what items to include and what brands are available. • Look for Special Programs: Some stores offer special features, such as Macy’s, whose Dream Fund allows guests to contribute any amount to the ultimate gift card, so the bride and groom can later choose exactly what they want. • Start Early: Most couples like to register 4-6 months before their wedding date, which allows more time for choos- J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine ing items, planning for showers and meeting other deadlines. • Register Together: Whether it’s instore, online or both – make a day of it and have fun selecting all the things that will be part of your new life together. • Choose Different Price Points: Guests will appreciate a varied list that has many gift options to fit their personal budget. • Create a Registry That Reflects You: If you’re a laid-back, easygoing couple, consider registering for a more casual dinnerware pattern that you can use every day, then mix in some fancy pieces to use for those special occasions. If you enjoy entertaining friends and family, be sure to choose a range of serveware and barware. Making the Right Choices With all the things needed to properly stock your home, selecting the right ones can seem overwhelming. Here are some tips to keep in mind while adding to your registry: • Select Your Settings: A five-piece setting is meant to serve one person and includes a dinner plate, salad plate, bread and butter plate, tea cup and saucer. If you want to serve eight guests, you will need to register for eight fivepiece settings. • Factor in Some Extras: When registering for drinkware, be sure to register for a few extras in each glass size in case some break down the road. • Protect Your Cutlery: Be sure to choose a sturdy cutting board to protect your knife blades from chips and cracks. You can keep your cutlery in top condition by registering for a honing steel and knife sharpener. • Stock Up on Kitchen Must-Haves: When it comes to cookware, make sure to stock up on the essentials. This should include a fry pan, sauté pan, grill pan, sauteuse (round, deep-sided design for sautéing on the stovetop or baking in the oven) and a chef’s pan. • Opt for the Basics: White dinnerware allows you to transform the look of your table year-round by changing the décor and accessories around it. The classic look will be a design that you can appreciate for years to come. Visit www.macys.com/registry for a full registry checklist, helpful tips and more information on Macy’s Dream Fund. (Family Features) www.scwomanmagazine.com “My Prayer” By Diane DeVaughn Stokes Cheryl Moore Adamson is a well-known Conway minister who loves her community and keeps busy with all sorts of community outreach programs. She and her husband have raised five children. A few years ago at 54 years old, she started the Palmetto Missionary Baptist Church. Then seeing the need for kids to know more about arts and leadership, she founded a non-profit organization called Palmetto Works Community Development Corporation. It’s thriving and so are the kids. Cheryl is now actively working on a program to bring the culinary arts to those being released from prison to give them a way to make money and get their life back in order. So, you can see this is a very busy, energetic woman who never slows down. For two years, Cheryl suffered from severe sciatica that seemed to be worse when she got into bed every night. “Lying on my left side was impossible, and the pain would radiate down my leg and into my toes causing them to be numb. I would just get up and walk around. I was miserable, and as anyone who is in pain knows, you just want to cry, and then not sleeping made me tired all day long. It was my 86-year-old mother who kept putting these CuraLase Laser Therapy ads and articles in front of me. She would say, ‘You have tried everything else, why not try this?’” Cheryl had been treated by a chiropractor, massage therapist, and physical therapist and had acupuncture as well with little satisfaction, so after her mom’s constant prodding, she went to CuraLase. She had 14 treatments through December 1 and is 80% better, and as Cheryl puts it, “I’ll take it.” She knows that this treatment will continue to work long after the office visits are over so she knows she is literally improving every day. Her family noticed right away that her posture and her gait were much better. Most of all, she is rested once again, and just like the Energizer Bunny, Cheryl is back doing great things in our community with a smile on her face. She says her prayer is that sooner or later anyone who is in pain finds their way to CuraLase. If you need the help of CuraLase and a new YOU for the New Year, attend one of the free dinner seminars listed below. Please RSVP at 843-294-5273. www.scwomanmagazine.com Monday, January 4, 5:00 PM at Ryan’s, 3607 Highway 17 South, North Myrtle Beach Monday, January 11, 5:00 PM at Golden Corral, 10600 Kings Road (end of Hwy 22), Myrtle Beach Monday, January 18, 5:00 PM at Hanser House, 14360 Ocean Highway, Pawleys Island Monday, January 25, 5:00 PM at Ryan’s Steak House, 8671 Highway 17 Bypass, Surfside Beach CuraLase Laser Therapy is located next to South Strand Medical Center on Bypass 17 South in Myrtle Beach. And by the way, if you see someone giving out CuraLase brochures around town, it may just be Cheryl Moore Adamson. She says she carries them around in her purse and if she notices anyone who looks like they are in pain, she hands them a flyer and tells them her story. Yes, another believer, another advocate, another cheerleader for CuraLase Laser Therapy for pain. May your new year be filled with good health, love and happiness and many blessings from above. Diane DeVaughn Stokes President of Stages Video Productions Host and Producer of “Diane At Six” on EASY Radio, TV show “Inside Out” on HTC Channel 4, and author of “Floating On Air” A Broadcasting Love Affair” South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 39 Potato Corn & Bacon Chowder 1 tbsp. all-purpose flour 1 tbsp. butter 1 c. whole milk or half & half 4 c. or (1) 32 oz. box chicken broth 3 slices of thick-cut bacon, cooked until crisp and diced 1/2 c. medium-sharp cheddar cheese, grated 3 russet potatoes, rinsed, peeled (optional) and cubed into 1” chunks 2 c. fresh corn 1/2 of a yellow onion, diced 1 leek, rinsed well and diced 1 clove garlic, minced 1 tsp. sea salt + a pinch for sweating 1/2 tsp. freshly ground black pepper 1/8 – 1/4 tsp. cayenne pepper, depending on personal taste Set a large stock pot or dutch oven over medium-low heat. Add butter and melt. When butter has melted add onion and leek. Add a pinch of salt to help the onion and leek sweat and cook for 4-5 minutes until tender and transparent. Add garlic and corn and cook for 3 more minutes. Sprinkle in flour and whisk. Slowly add chicken broth and then milk. Turn heat up to medium-high, then add potatoes. Season with salt, pepper and cayenne. Simmer for 30 minutes or until potatoes are tender. Once the potatoes are tender and the soup has thickened, turn heat off. Add in cheddar cheese and stir until incorporated. Spoon into individual bowls and top with crisp bacon pieces. Serve immediately. Makes approximately 4-6 servings in under 30 minutes! White Bean, Kale and Sausage Soup 1-2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil 12 ounces smoked sausage links, such as kielbasa or andouille, cut into 1/4-inch slices 5 cloves garlic, minced 5 cups chicken broth or stock, divided 8 ounces kale, tough stems removed and finely chopped/shredded 1 small bay leaf 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder 4 (15-ounce) cans white beans (such as Cannellini, Great Northern, or Navy), rinsed and drained A few dashes hot pepper sauce 40 It’s Soup Season Once Again! Salt & freshly ground black pepper, to taste. Shredded Parmesan cheese OR crumbled feta cheese, for garnish Place a large pot over medium heat. Heat 1 tablespoon of olive oil in pot, swirl to coat, and add sausage. Cook, stirring occasionally, for about 5 to 7 minutes or until the sausage is browned. Remove sausage to a paper towel-lined plate, pour a bit more oil in the center of the pot, and add minced garlic. Stir and cook for about 1 minute, or until garlic is fragrant and light golden brown. Pour 4 cups chicken broth/stock into pot and stir in kale, bay leaf, and garlic powder. Increase heat to high and bring to a boil. Reduce to a simmer, cover, and cook for 5 minutes. Place about 1/3 of the drained beans in a blender or food processor along with the remaining 1 cup chicken broth/stock. Puree until smooth. Once kale is tender, add whole beans, pureed beans, and browned sausage to the pot. Season with dashes of hot pepper sauce, salt, and pepper, to taste. Stir and simmer for a few minutes until heated through. Remove bay leaf before serving. Tomato Basil Parmesan Soup 2 (14 oz) cans diced tomatos with juice 1 cup finely diced celery 1 cup finely diced carrots 1 cup finely diced onions J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine 1 tsp dried oregano or 1 tbsp fresh oregano 1 tbsp dried basil or 1/4 cup fresh basil 4 cups chicken broth 1 bay leaf 1/2 cup flour 1 cup parmesan cheese 1/2 cup butter 2 cups half and half, warmed 1 tsp ground sea salt 1 tsp black pepper Add tomatoes, celery, carrots, chicken broth, onions, oregano, basil, and bay leaf to a large slow cooker. Cover and cook on LOW for 5-7 hours, until flavors are blended and vegetables are soft. About 30 minutes before serving prepare a roux. Melt butter over low heat in a skillet and add flour. Stir constantly with a whisk for 5-7 minutes. Slowly stir in 1 cup hot soup. Add another 3 cups and stir until smooth. Add all back into the slow cooker. Stir and add the Parmesan cheese, warmed half and half, salt and pepper. Add additional basil and oregano if needed (the slow cooker does a number on spices and they get bland over time, so don’t be afraid to always season to taste at the end). Cover and cook on LOW for another 30 minutes or so until ready to serve. Nothing better than good bread to go with Soup! Jalapeno, Cheddar and Cauliflower Muffins (a low carb and gluten free favorite) Makes 12 muffins 2 cups finely riced, raw cauliflower (To “rice”…cut the cauliflower into slices, then process it in a food processor until the cauliflower pieces are about the size of rice grains or you can cut the cauliflower into chunks and grate them into small pieces using a grater.) 2 Tbs minced jalapeno 2 eggs, beaten 2 Tbs melted butter 1/3 cup grated parmesan cheese 1 cup grated mozzarella cheese 1 cup grated cheddar cheese 1 Tbs dried onion flakes 1/4 tsp salt www.scwomanmagazine.com 1/4 tsp black pepper 1/2 tsp garlic powder 1/2 tsp baking powder 1/4 cup coconut flour (you can find coconut flour at natural food stores or online) Combine the cauliflower, jalapeno, eggs, add melted butter in a medium bowl. Add the grated cheeses and mix well. Stir in the onion flakes, salt, pepper, garlic powder, baking powder and coconut flour until thoroughly combined. Divide the batter evenly between 12 greased muffin cups. Bake in preheated 375 degree (F) oven for 30 minutes or until golden brown. Turn off the oven and leave the muffins inside for one hour to firm up. Remove and serve warm or cold. Strand Endocrinology & Osteoporosis Center Rosemary Cheddar Beer Biscuits Serves: 12 1 cup flour 1 cup corn flour 1 Tbsp baking powder 1/2 tsp salt 1 1/2 Tbsp fresh rosemary, chopped finely 1 cup shredded cheddar cheese 1/2 cup cold butter, cubed 3/4 cup lager beer (or your favorite beer) 1/4 cup plain Chobani Greek Yogurt 1 egg lightly beaten Preheat oven to 425 degrees Fahrenheit. Spray sheet pan with cooking spray. In medium bowl, mix together both flours, baking powder, salt, rosemary, cheese, and cold cubed butter. With a pastry cutter or your hands, mix and break-up butter in flour mixture until mixture is crumbles. Add in yogurt, and mix well. Then add in beer, and mix well. If your biscuit mixture is too dry, add more beer. If your biscuit mixture is too sticky, add a little flour. Bring mixture together with hands and place on a lightly floured surface. Spread out dough with hands. You can make the biscuits thicker if you choose. Use biscuit cutter to cut out biscuits. Makes about 12 biscuits, it depends on how thick you make them. Bake for 10-15 minutes depending on oven, or until golden brown. Dr. Javaid H. Wani, MD, PhD, FACP Endocrinology, Diabetes & Metabolism Endocrinology Practice with a Focus on Thyroid Disorders & (hypothyroidism, hyperthyroidism, thyroid nodules/cancers), Adrenal Disorders, Osteoporosis and Diabetes. Now accepting new patients. Referrals not needed for most patients South Strand Medical Center 5046 Hwy 17 Bypass South Ste. 104, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 (843) 293-9955 www.StrandEndocrinology.com Our Services Will Make You Smile! 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Call Today! 235-7580 71C Da Gullah Way Pawleys Island www.davidgrabeman.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 41 Life's Balance Wheel My Simply Abundant Life By Donna Tyson I am so thankful for another year to celebrate life! If there is anything that I know for sure, I know that every day is indeed a gift, and I do not want to waste one single moment of it. I coordinated my holiday travel plans to make sure I was back home in my little beach cottage by New Year’s Eve so that I could enjoy the first sunrise of 2016 by the ocean. It is the place where I center, journal and reflect on my life’s journey. I am amazed at how different this chapter of my life is from past chapters. I crave simplicity and natural beauty rather than recognition and expensive accessories. I prefer small gatherings of good friends rather than large parties, homemade meals over fancy dining, a night of board games rather than television, and my little cottage over the grandest of homes. My seasonal wardrobe all fits in one closet now and my PT Cruiser has replaced my Mercedes and Limousine of the past. I go to bed between by 10:00 p.m. and rise by 5:00 a.m. each morning. I wear little makeup and my face is now framed with gray curly hair. I wear unique jewelry rather than flashy baubles and I hate putting on closed toe shoes. Sometimes I look in the mirror amazed at the woman with the smiling eyes reflecting back at me. Who is this? Where is the driven, groomed ambitious business woman of the past? Did she lose her passion, quit dreaming big, or grow weary? Is she truly happy with this simple lifestyle she has chosen, or is it time to jump back into the fast paced career world? I love the quote “There are years that ask questions and years that answer.” by Zora Neale Hurston. As I battled cancer these past two years, I asked these questions of myself and demanded honest answers. Perhaps I did grow weary of chasing the success dream. I found the price tag of constantly traveling and being “on” too demanding and I realized I was missing beautiful moments with my loved ones that could never be replaced. Sadly, I had begun to believe my own hype and thought I was in charge….that if I just worked hard enough, then I could control my destiny. I sought security over serenity and constantly wanted “more”. I am grateful for the challenges of the past two years that have allowed me to reprioritize where I spend my time, energy and resources. I cherish every moment I get to spend with my family and friends. I now view every day as sacred and my deepest desire is that my life would be a living worship and tes42 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine timony to God. I pray that my eyes and heart will be open to “divine appointments” where I can share love, wisdom and encouragement. I have little patience for negative and/or self-centered people who have no desire to use their gifts to make a difference in the world. I am much more careful now about who I spend precious time with and I crave “iron sharpening iron” relationships that will help me grow stronger spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. I am learning to live with grace and a much stronger faith. With that said, I am well aware of several of my bad habits and am committed to consciously work on improving them in 2016. Here are my top three per sonal growth goals for this year: 1. I must get better at responding to emails, texts, and phone calls in a timelier manner. I read or listen to the messages with the best of intentions of responding when I have time to give them focused attention, but then I get involved in other activities and the messages do not get returned for days. 2. I am also going to try to arrive early for my appointments rather than sliding in right on time or “fashionably late” by a few minutes. I realize I try to multi-task before meetings and often end up with too much on my plate (that didn’t have to be there!). 3. Speaking of “plates”, I must get serious about taking off these extra pounds I now carry….I am guilty of both “comfort eating” and “stress eating”! I am a social eater and although I now eat healthier, I need to work on portion control. Professionally, I hope to finally publish my table top inspiration book in 2016. I invite you to friend me on Facebook (Donna Hambrick Tyson) to see my daily posts of sunrise pictures and inspirational thoughts, many of which will be included in the book. I continue to rebuild my speaking career that I love and am doing a lot more speaking at women’s ministry events. Well, that is a review of where I find myself in January 2016. I am blessed beyond measure and happy in my simply abundant life. I pray you are counting your blessings also as you begin the New Year. Donna Tyson P.O. Box 15052 Surfside Beach, SC 29587 1.540.419.6916 www.drtyson.com Email: tysonmngt@aol.com www.scwomanmagazine.com Everything I Learned Through Play By: Woody Goff, Children’s Museum of South Carolina Everything I ever needed, I learned through play. So did you. At this very moment you are probably flashing back to long forgotten days and the care free fun of being a kid. No matter what the question was, our answer was play! While we played, we grew, we learned, and we prepared ourselves for success. Though it may seem, and in some cases be, like ancient history for us, the things we learned through play, I assure you, we are still using today. Because play is always the answer. Social Development When is the last time that you threw yourself onto the floor in hysterics, kicking and screaming because you had to wait in line? When is the last time that you walked into another adult’s space and took one of their belongings to proudly claim that it is now yours? Hopefully, for most, the answer is not anytime recently, but why? As we made our way through the stages of childhood, we learned and developed in terms of our maturation and socialization. These are important lessons and skills that you use daily. For many parents, now is the time of year to start thinking about going back to school. You will gather your child’s backpack, notebooks, pencils, and other school supplies but are you sending them to school with a solid foundation for the further development in regards to socialization? Well there are plenty of ways to make sure you do and it starts earlier than you think. praise your child for being patient. A simple “I’m proud of you for being patient while we wait in line” works well for this. • No day is complete without play. Schedule play time as you plan your day. If your day finds you running errands, make a stop by the park for a few minutes. Peer interaction allows your child to connect to others and you both have more fun. • It’s not always what you say but how you say it. Try to use positive statements when speaking with your child. Saying, “Please help me pick up your toys,” instead of, “Don’t leave your toys on the floor,” can make a difference. For your preschooler: • Selective autonomy builds confidence and is helpful in your childs development. Allowing your child to choose to wear either the red shirt or the blue shirt helps develop a strong sense of self which is vital to developing social skills. • Make believe! After a trip to the grocery store, mall, post office, etc pretend to be the cashier or a person they would meet there. Model for your child and help them decide what they would say in these situations as they practice difference types of social skills. • Teachable times allow you to model and teach pro-social skills and responsibilities. Try encouraging your child to perform simple chores, such as helping to put away the groceries, or holding open the door. Or show them how to separate recyclables when throwing out the garbage. It’s not something that you might think about often, but doing a few of these simple things can make all the difference when it’s time for your little one to be ready for school and for life. All you need is a little bit of time to play. Children’s Museum of South Carolina 2204 North Oak St., Myrtle Beach, SC 29577 843-946-9469 • www.cmsckids.org Does your child have speech, feeding, or reading difficulties? Please call us to schedule an evaluation. Our new reading programs can help your child become a better reader For your baby: • Remember to stay close to your baby when they are being introduced to new people, especially in public places. You and your baby have a bond and your presence will lend to them a sense of ease to these interactions. • Play dates serve a purpose and face to face time with other babies is important. Allow your baby time to interact and play as they communicate through sounds or gestures. • Make it a game: When leaving home remember to greet family members, friends, or pets, say “good-bye” when leaving and “hello” when returning. Your little one will learn that when you leave you will return and it will help them develop a sense of trust. For your toddler: • Praise positive behaviors. 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Visit our showroom at 11730 Hwy 17 Bypass Murrells Inlet, SC 29576 44 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine Myth #2: Constipation Creates Toxins and Health Problems Some people believe that constipation causes the body to absorb poisonous substances in stools. They believe this may be a possible causative factor in certain diseases and cancer. But there’s no evidence that the stools produce toxins or that colon cleansing, laxatives, or enemas can prevent cancer or other diseases. Myth #3: Constipation Just Means I Need More Fiber Increasing the fiber in your diet can often help constipation. But chronic constipation can signal a real problem. It can indicate a poorly functioning thyroid gland or diabetes. It can be the result of Parkinson’s disease or stroke, or a side effect of medications. In rare cases, it can signal illnesses such as colorectal cancer or autoimmune disease. See a doctor if symptoms last more than two weeks or you have severe pain with bowel movements, unexplained weight loss, or a change in your bowel habit. Myth #4: Holding It Won’t Hurt You may feel too busy at work to have a bowel movement. Or you’d rather wait until you’re home. But ignoring the urge when it comes may not only make you physically uncomfortable — it can cause or aggravate constipation by weakening the signals over time. Awakening from sleep and eating breakfast usually stimulates GI motility and often stimulates the urge to have a bowel movement. Myth #5: All Fiber Is Created Equal Eating foods with fiber helps you feel full and stay regular. Insoluble fiber in particular can help ease constipation because it’s indigestible and doesn’t dissolve in water. It adds bulk to stool and helps it pass through the intestines faster. Good sources of insoluble fiber are whole-grain breads, pasta, and cereal. Soluble fiber dissolves in water. As part of a diet low in saturated fat and cholesterol, it may lower heart disease risk. Soluble fiber is found in beans, peas, and some produce. Myth #6: Coffee Can Fix Constipation It’s true that the caffeine in coffee can stimulate the muscles in your digestive system to contract, causing a bowel movement. So why isn’t it recommended as a fix for constipation? Coffee can actually make stools harder to pass because it is also a diuretic, so it draws liquid out of stools. If you are constipated, keep caffeinated products such as coffee, tea, and certain soft drinks to a minimum. Myth #7: Colon Cleansing Will Clear Me Out Enemas and colon irrigation (high colonics) may temporarily remove body waste, but they’re not an effective way to prevent or cure constipation. Chronic enema use should be avoided if possible. Colonic irrigation, which is usually done by colonic hygienists or therapists, can damage the colon and can lead to other issues. Talk to your doctor if you are considering the procedure. Myth #8: Laxatives Work Immediately Depending on the type of over-the-counter laxative you use, you may need to wait a few minutes or a few days to produce a bowel movement. A suppository might work within an hour. But you may need to take a bulk-forming fiber product every day for several days to see results. A laxwww.scwomanmagazine.com ative works best if taken with meals. Most over-the-counter laxatives are meant for short-term use, though. Overuse can lead to other digestive problems. Constipation usually lasts a few days and is rarely serious. Talk to your doctor if you need to use laxatives for more than two weeks. Myth #9: Castor Oil is a Cure-All Castor oil is a powerful laxative. But like other laxatives, it should not be used long-term. Overusing laxatives can hurt your body’s ability to absorb nutrients and some medications. Use it only with a doctor’s guidance. Myth #10: Constipation Is Only an Older Person’s Condition Older people are more likely to become constipated. This can be because of medical conditions, poor nutrition, greater use of medications, or not enough physical activity. But constipation is one of the most common gastrointestinal issues among other age groups, too. And it’s not unusual during pregnancy or after childbirth or surgery. Remember, if you’re pregnant and considering taking something to relieve constipation, check with your doctor. Myth #11: It’s Normal to Have Bloody Stool Blood in a bowel movement is not always serious, but you should always call your doctor if it happens. Bright red blood is usually from hemorrhoids or tears in the anal lining called fissures. Constipation and straining during bowel movements can be the cause. Maroon or tarry black blood or clots usually mean bleeding is coming from higher in the gastrointestinal tract. The cause may be more serious. Fact #1: Dairy Can Cause Constipation If you’re lactose intolerant, eating dairy could cause constipation. One study linked constipation to lactose intolerance in children. Most lactose intolerant people can eat at least a little dairy every day. Talk to your doctor if small amounts seem to constipate you. Fact #2: Swallowed Gum Can Get Stuck It’s true — but only in rare cases, and mostly in little kids who don’t know better than to swallow gum. Sometimes swallowing large amounts of gum or many pieces in a short time can form a mass that blocks the digestive tract, especially if you swallow it with other indigestible things. The blockage can cause constipation. But for most people, the indigestible parts of gum move through the intestinal tract and eventually get eliminated from the body just like other foods do. So swallowing the occasional piece of gum is harmless. Fact #3: Vacations Can Cause Constipation Travel can change your daily routine and diet, contributing to constipation. Avoid dehydration-related constipation by drinking water, especially if you’re flying. Also move around when you can — for example, while waiting for plane connections or by taking rest stops when driving. Other travel tips: Exercise, limit alcohol, and make a point of eating fruits and vegetables. Fact #4: Mood Can Affect Your Regularity Depression may trigger constipation or make it worse. Reducing stress through meditation, yoga, biofeedback, and relaxation techniques may help. Acupressure or shiatsu massage may help, too. And massaging the abdomen may help www.scwomanmagazine.com relax the muscles that support the intestines and get your bowels moving. Fact #5: Medications Can Cause Constipation Some medications for pain, depression, high blood pressure, and Parkinson’s disease are associated with constipation. Too much calcium and iron can also lead to constipation. Calcium supplements, especially if taken with another supplement or medication that binds the stool, may also cause problems. Talk with your doctor if you have concerns. Fact #6: A Low-Fiber Diet May Cause Constipation Not having enough fiber in your diet often leads to constipation. To prevent it, try to get at least 20 grams a day, but more is better. Eat more whole fruits and vegetables; replace white rice, bread, and pastas with whole-grain products. Increase your fiber intake slowly to avoid gas and bloating. And water helps fiber pass stools, so drink at least 2 to 4 extra glasses of water a day. Don’t expect results overnight — after a few days of regular fiber intake you should Fact #7: Prunes Help Keep You Regular This small, dried fruit has earned a big reputation as “nature’s remedy” for constipation. Prunes (often called dried plums) can prevent or improve constipation symptoms. They’re packed with insoluble fiber, as well as the natural laxatives sorbitol and dihydrophenylisatin. The soluble fiber found in prunes may help lower cholesterol. And they’re safe for long-term consumption. Children who don’t like prunes might eat prune juice ice pops or sip prune juice mixed with another juice to disguise the taste. Fact #8: Drinking Water May Help Drinking plenty of water helps prevent dehydration, which can lead to constipation. Liquids can help keep your stool soft to help prevent and alleviate constipation. Talk to your doctor about how much water is good for you. Remember to limit caffeinated or alcoholic beverages — too many of these can cause dehydration. Fact #9: Exercise Keeps You Regular Lack of physical activity can contribute to constipation. Exercise, however, can help make your bowel movements more regular and can reduce stress. Wait at least an hour after eating a big meal before you exercise to give your body time to digest your food. Then get moving! Try a 10- to 15minute walk several times a day. Stretching and yoga can also help constipation. Fact #10: Stool Softeners Are Laxatives Stool softeners prevent constipation by allowing stools to absorb more water from the colon. They prevent feces from hardening — softer stools are easier to eliminate from the body. Like other laxatives, stool softeners should be taken for short-term relief. Talk to your doctor before combining stool softeners with laxatives or other constipation treatments. In some cases, doctors prescribe stool softeners for people such as surgery patients, who may need to avoid straining during bowel movements. Some preparations combine a stool softener with a stimulant laxative to activate bowel movements. Dr. Gary Vukov, Dr. Timothy Cornnell, Dr. Andrew Pearson, Dr Kathleen Raynor, with Strand GI Endoscopy, Inc 945 82nd Parkway, Suite 3, Myrtle Beach, SC 29575. 843-449-3381. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 45 A New Year For Weight Loss Is Right Around The Corner By Dr. Kevin Sattele It’s difficult to believe another year has nearly passed. We are all just a little bit older and as we age our metabolism slows making it so much easier to put on a few pounds (and so much more difficult to lose). Most of the time, we don’t even realize the weight gain until our pants are too tight. And there is always an abundance of food and sweets sitting around during the holiday season which makes it that much more difficult for us. But then the New Year hits and everyone is ready to get into shape and is proud to announce that as of November 9, 2015 we will be offering In-Office and 24 Hour EEG(Electroencephalogram) Procedures in our Myrtle Beach Office. Please call for more information or to schedule an appointment. 1601 N. Oak St. Suite 309 Myrtle Beach, SC 29577 843-444-0800 46 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine lose a little weight. Well why not get a little head start this year and restrict your diet some during the holidays? This will help you lose a few pounds over the holiday season or at least keep you from gaining. The best way to do this is to cut back on calories and especially carbs. A low carb (low Glycemic) diet has been shown in multiple studies to be better than a low fat diet for weight loss and maintaining weight loss. This type of diet is designed to help people with diabetes control their blood sugar levels more easily and it works great for diabetes as well as weight loss. We all know that diabetes is a horrible disease as it is the number one cause of amputations in this country as well as the number one cause of kidney failure and dialysis. So anything that can help control diabetes a little better is well worth it. As a matter of fact, type 2 diabetic patients on our weight loss program that follow our low carb diet will have excellent blood sugar control on no medications or insulin! So if you suffer from diabetes type 2, we can get you off of all your oral medications and/or insulin if you simply follow our diet plan and you don’t have to wait for all of your excess weight to come off to see these results. All of our new patients on oral diabetic medications can stop their oral medications immediately when starting our program. Patients on insulin will wean off the insulin usually within one week or less! Other benefits of a low carb diet include improved appetite control and reduced risk for some chronic diseases. Carbs and sugar make you hungry for more carbs and sugar. Therefore the more you eat, the more you want. When you cut out the carbs, the appetite decreases a great deal after a couple of days. We can use medications to help with appetite as well to make this transition very easy for you. Sugar also acts as a toxin in your system therefore it aggravates many other medical processes such as migraines, asthma, allergies, rashes, and bowel disease among others. Many patients report either great improvement or resolution of their chronic problems when they cut out the sugar from their diet. Plus they just feel better with the weight loss and the diet, having more steady state energy throughout the day. Cutting out the carbs and losing a little weight will help you feel better than you have in a long time. Even just 10-15 pounds of weight loss can eliminate diabetes, high blood pressure, gastric reflux, sleep apnea and joint pain to just name a few. Many patients do our program just to get rid of diabetes, high blood pressure or to avoid knee replacement surgery. All of this to help you not only live longer and healthier, but to feel so much better along the way. We have programs to help anyone lose weight regardless of how much or how little weight you want or need to lose. Our programs will also work in every person, every time. The diet is written out in detail and very easy to follow; you just have to “want” to do it. We have everything you need to make it as simple and easy as possible. You just have to give it a try! So if you or someone you know needs help with weight loss, just give our office a call at 843-491-4811 to set up a free, no-obligation consultation to see how we can help you reach your weight loss goal quickly and safely while eating real food! See our ad on page 5. www.scwomanmagazine.com By Patrick Munro 2016 Is Here, Secure Your Future Now! Like most of you reading this publication you have worked a lifetime and are either hoping to retire in comfort or you are completely in retirement and living off the fruits of your labor. My question to you is simple. What started off small is now a sizeable IRA or 401k balance, in any case it is all you have, so WHY would you risk losing a large portion of your account if and when this Bull market stops and the Bear returns? I see hundreds of new clients from my seminars and radio and it is shocking to me how many of them are “sitting ducks” for when the market corrects - standing to lose 3040% of their portfolio, just like in past corrections such as the Dot-Com bubble and of course the Great Recession of 2007 and onward. Shame on the broker or banker that has close to 100% of a retiree’s money exposed to full on Market Risk! This is not suitable and can only result in pain for the client (not the broker) Perhaps your IRA is in the Bank in a Certificate of Disappointment! Really, earning less than 1% on your funds is no way to Retire Right! 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I was treated at CuraLase, and now my pain is gone! —Chris Monday, January 4, 5:00 PM at Ryan’s, 3607 Highway 17 South, North Myrtle Beach Monday, January 11, 5:00 PM at Golden Corral, 10600 Kings Road (end of Hwy 22), Myrtle Beach Monday, January 18, 5:00 PM at Hanser House, 14360 Ocean Highway, Pawleys Island Monday, January 25, 5:00 PM at Ryan's Steak House, 8671 Highway 17 Bypass, Surfside Beach Call 843.294.5273 to RSVP for Seminar 5046 Hwy 17 Bypass South, Suite 200 Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 47 Make Sure Your 2016 Goals Are HARD By Kim Fowler, Fowler Life Coaching It’s that time of year again! We start making resolutions and deciding that we are going to have the best year ever! We are all going to be thin, fit, rich, smart and lucky in love! If anyone has ever been to my workshops or read any of my articles on goal setting, then they know that I do not think resolutions work unless they are in the form of goals. Only 8% of those who make resolutions every year actually keep them and accomplishes them. The first step in setting a goal is to ask why you want to achieve that goal. If you don’t know why you want it, then you will not have a successful outcome. Once you ask your- NEW BOARD CERTIFICATION DEMONSTRATING HIS COMMITMENT to the treatment of venous disease, Dr. Karl Hubach is the only physician in our area Board Certified in American Board of Venous and Lymphatic Medicine Diplomate and one of only 248 in the country. • Specializing in treatment of Varicose & Spider Veins. • Most services are covered by insurance. • All evaluations and treatments are done by Dr. Hubach in the comfort of the office. • Also offering skin care treatment for rosacea, acne, age spots, spider veins, sun damage, and fine wrinkles. Karl Hubach MD, FACPh, RVT, RPhS American Board of Venous and Lymphatic Medicine Diplomate 4545 Hwy. 17 Bypass Suite A • Murrells Inlet, SC 843-652-5344 (LEGG) FAX: 843-652-0067 www.inletveinspecialists.com 48 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine self why and know that you really do want to accomplish something (ie—stop smoking), your chances of successfully moving forward are better. Goals are much more attainable if they are SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attainable/Achievable, Relevant and Timely) but they should also be HARD (Heartfelt, Animated, Required and Difficult). If you are setting goals for 2016, first make sure they are HARD goals, then make them SMART. HARD goals were introduced by Mark Murphy, in his book HARD Goals: The Secret to Getting from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be. Using the HARD strategy helps to ensure that your goals are meaningful to you. • Heartfelt—The goal has to mean something to you. You should have an emotional attachment to the goal. If you don’t care whether or not you will achieve this goal, then how will you stay motivated? • Animated—You can envision yourself achieving that goal. It is like an image in your mind that you see again and again. Using visualization helps to bring complete clarity to your goal. It also creates even more of a desire to reach it. • Required—You need this goal now. This goal is something that you require and won’t be happy without it. If the goal is not something of relevance right now, then you may put it off. • Difficult—How tough will it be to reach this goal? Humans like challenges, and if the goal is easy to reach, then you may get bored and quit. You also don’t want it to be so tough that you quit, but you want to grow and get out of your comfort zone. Once your goal has passed the HARD test, make it a SMART goal. • Specific—clear and well-defined (ie—not just running, but running a race) • Measurable—quantify your goal with a measurement for success (ie—running a 5K race at an 8-minute mile pace) • Attainable—Is this something you can realistically achieve? • Relevant—Make sure this goal aligns with your values and vision. Is it truly important to you? • Timely—Determine whether or not this goal is a one-year or three-year goal. Are you giving yourself enough time to realistically achieve it? You might notice a little overlap in the two models, but it doesn’t hurt to go through some of those checkpoints more than once. Some tips for accomplishing these HARD goals are to have www.scwomanmagazine.com an accountability partner, and cut your goals in half. An accountability partner is just what it implies, she keeps you accountable and you keep her in check as well. Find someone you would be answerable to through the process— probably not a good idea to partner with your best friend. Talk with your partner once a week or as needed to make sure you accomplish the steps needed toward your goal. The second tip that Mr. Murphy includes in his book is one I have found very helpful—cutting in half. This is a time-framing strategy so that you can set relevant milestones. Set a time limit on your goal. Figure out if it is going to be a six-month goal, one-year goal, five-year goal, etc. Then figure out what you need to have finished by the halfway point to stay on track. For example, if you have a one-year goal that you are working toward, what needs to be done within the first six months in order for you to be on track to accomplish the goal in one year. Next, take those six-month milestones and cut them in half by figuring out what needs to be done in three months time. Go through this process again and again until you get to your one-week tasks. Make 2016 your best year ever! Figure out what you want to achieve and why it is important. Next, make some significant goals and move forward. Happy New Year to you, and good luck with your success! Kim teaches Life Coaching Workshops to help people get started creating their vision and then helps them bring it to life. Her next free goal-setting workshop is going to be held at Surfside Beach Library on January 30th at 10:00 AM contact Kim@fowlercoaching.com to reserve your spot! You can download her free eBook, Design the Life You Were Meant to Have by visiting http://www.fowlercoaching.com. Kim Fowler, founder of Fowler Life Coaching (www.fowlercoaching.com), specializes in transitional coaching for those are ready to make a big change in their lives. She has her training and certification from the Fowler Wainwright International Institute of Professional Coaching and the International Association of Coaches. 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For more information or to reserve your spot,contact Kim Fowler by email kim@fowlercoaching.com or phone 202-294-1080 www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 49 Outdoor Living – Indoor Lifestyle: Happy 2016 20 Minutes at a Time Making 2016 your happiest year yet, twenty minutes at a time By Ted Cligrow When life gets busy, and it always does, it’s easy to let our wellness routines become anything but routine. While taking some time for ourselves can be a challenge, it doesn’t have to become an afterthought. Activities like exercise, meditation and personal reflection may very well be the missing ingredient to jump-starting productivity and regaining a positive outlook on our day-to-day lives. The next time your schedule has you feeling out-of-sorts or maybe just a little overwhelmed, remember to carve out some time for you. Try challenging yourself to one of the activities below. They’re only twenty minutes and the benefits will truly start to add up. These quick breaks are perfect for weaving into a busy schedule and will leave you feeling refreshed and ready to tackle whatever life has in store. Give it a try. Whether you make time for one or time for four, the important thing is you’re taking control by making time for what’s important…you! Here are a few ideas to start with, but remember to choose what makes you feel the best. 20-Minute Spa Session Give your body the renewal it craves. Release muscle tension and relieve joint pain. Improve circulation by 102%. Flush toxins out of the body. Carolina Home Exteriors is ready to get you happy in your ideal Caldera Spa® today. 20-Minute Walk, Hike or Run Get out there and soak in the sun. Burn 75 calories by walking just 2 mph Reduce stress and improve your mood with the release of endorphins Improve bone health with Vitamin D from the sun 20-Minute Meditation Find a little inner peace. Manage stress and reduce blood pressure Improve focus throughout the day Sleep deeper and go to sleep faster 20-Minute Yoga Session Get in shape and loosen up those muscles. Release muscle tension. Build strength and gain flexibility Reduce cytokine by 41% to energize and boost mood Meditating under the shade of a pergola will allow you the 50 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com Before After 843-796-4000 Why choose ProAction Carpet Care? fresh air you need without worry of too much sun. Carolina Home Exteriors can help you figure out exactly what is right for your needs. 20-Minute Mind Challenge Sharpen your mind with brain-teasers and logic puzzles. Improve your memory. Develop your logic and reasoning skills Increase focus and strengthen concentration An outdoor living space such as a sunroom or screen room will allow you to challenge your mind in the comfort of the outdoors with all the luxuries of the indoors. 20-Minute Reflection Write a story, poem, or journal entry about your day. Enhance your memory with expressive writing Get a handle on stress by venting your emotions Enjoy the benefits of having a record of your life Share these wellness challenges with your friends and family. What challenges will you take on? Tell us on our Facebook page, give us a call at (843) 651-6514 or visit our showroom located at 11730 Hwy 17 Bypass in Murrells Inlet. The friendly professionals at Carolina Home Exteriors are here to work with you in making 2015 your best year yet by offering quality outdoor living products and the luxurious line of hot tubs, Caldera Spas®. 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A to-do list for brides-to-be Preparing for the big day means planning a multitude of details; everything from the flower arrangements to that something blue must be decided upon well in advance of the ceremony. Here are some tips to help ensure your big day goes off without a hitch. The Big Decisions The decision to get married is the first of many big decisions you will be making in the weeks and months to come. Here are some things to consider right away: —Pick a date. Talk with your fiancé and family (and your fiancé’s family) about potential wedding dates to ensure the important people in both your lives will be able to take part. 52 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine —Select your guests. The number of guests you invite will directly influence the cost of your wedding. —Set a budget. Budgeting for your wedding is crucial, as this will have a great impact on every other aspect of your day, as well as your honeymoon. Plan for a little wiggle room for unexpected expenses. —Choose a location. Because most popular bridal spots are just that — popular — you may want to start searching for a location quickly. —Organize the bridal party. Make careful decisions about who you want supporting you leading up to the big day, and who will be displayed in front of everyone in your life. —Pick a style. Many brides choose wedding styles that are reflected in their save-the-dates, invitations, ceremonies, receptions and thank-you cards. Choosing a theme and color scheme in the beginning will help narrow down options later. —Hire a caterer. Take into account the dietary needs of www.scwomanmagazine.com your guests by offering a variety of menu options, including a vegetarian dish. —Order the cake. Whether you choose a large multi-tiered cake or cupcakes, remember to keep your budget in mind—and pick flavors you and your fiancé truly enjoy. —Make the announcement. Decide how you want to let the community know of your planned nuptials. Do you want to take professional engagement photos? Do you plan to contact your local paper? Will you include a link to a wedding day website on your save-the-date or your wedding invitations? —Get the gown. On your wedding day, everyone will be awaiting a glimpse of your gown. Listen to your instincts and choose a gown that “feels right” and reflects your personality and style. —Dress your party. Once you have chosen the wedding dress of your dreams, speak with your fiancé about his wishes for his suit, as well as the bridal party attire. —Hire a photographer. Choose your professional photographer wisely. With a walk down the aisle, father/daughter dance and toast, your father is sure to get photographed, but your mother might get overlooked. Make sure to ask the photographer to get shots of your mother throughout the day as well. —Choose your flowers. Once you set the date, discuss with your florists which flowers are in season to help narrow down your selection. You may love tulips, but if you have a winter wedding, they may be hard to come by, and may be more expensive. —Book the entertainment. Do you want a DJ or a live band? Talk with your fiancé about your music preferences, as well as the types of tunes you want played at your reception to keep your guests on the dance floor. Before the Big Day —Create a website for your wedding to keep guests informed of events and for easy access to registry information. Provide accommodation information for those guests traveling from out of town. —Insure your engagement and wedding rings against loss, damage, theft or mysterious disappearance. According to a survey conducted by Jewelers Mutual Insurance Company, 44 percent of married women either don’t insure their engagement ring, or don’t know for certain whether their engagement and wedding rings are insured. For a free, no-obligation jewelry insurance quote, visit www.insureyourjewelry.com. —Make sure your marriage license, travel documentation and insurance information are ready to go and stored in a safe place in advance of the wedding day. —Practice reciting your vows and speeches until you feel comfortable. —Wear your wedding heels around the house to “break them in.” Pack a back-up pair of flats to wear during the reception. —Remember to ask for help. Designate members of your family or close friends to specific assignments. Photos courtesy of Getty Images Wedding Day Details Provide bottled water for your wedding party. To ensure no one gets overheated, hide water near your bridal party during the ceremony for emergencies. Choose meaningful gifts for your wedding party. Necklaces, earrings or bracelets are great for bridesmaids; cufflinks are perfect for groomsmen. Create individual envelopes for tipping drivers, caterers, musicians, etc. Separate envelopes will help ensure you don’t forget anyone. Plan for weather: In case of rain — Order a tent or choose a venue with indoor space for last-minute protection from the elements. Offer extra umbrellas to usher people from their vehicles to the venue. In case of heat — Place fans throughout the venue and provide plenty of water for guests. In case of cold — Space heaters can be placed throughout the space to warm up the room in advance of the event. Over-estimate the amount of parking needed for guests. Following the Honeymoon Open wedding gifts and keep an accurate list of each guest in correspondence with their gift. Write thoughtful, personalized hand-written thank you cards. www.scwomanmagazine.com The Big Day Bridal Kit Supplies Bobby pins, elastic hair bands Hairbrush Hairspray Panty hose Nail file, nail polish, remover Baby powder Makeup Stain remover Tissues Sewing kit with scissors Ballet flats Pocket mirror Extra post-earring backs Static cling spray Antacid Pain reliever Bandages Deodorant Dental floss Eye drops Bottled water Breath mints Duct tape — for last-minute dress fix-ups and to adhere to the bottom of slippery dress shoes For more information about protecting your bridal jewelry, visit www.insureyourjewelry.com. South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 53 Why Does My Cat Hold Its Mouth Open After Sniffing Something? A continuation of our study of Feline Behavior...... By Kim Hurley, Owner Cat’s Meow Veterinary When your cat eagerly sniffs the shoes you wore all day left at the door, why do they sometimes hold their mouth open? Are they tasting something without actually licking it? We think of our cats as having heightened senses compared to us. We know they can hear, smell and see better than humans. Most of us would assume that along with their superior running, jumping and twisting skills, they would also have a better sense of taste. Well, you might be surprised to find that humans have 9,000 taste buds on their tongue compared to 470 for our feline friends! Does this mean they can’t taste as well as we do? Do cats actually have sense of taste? Aristotle noted seven basic tastes. These days most authorities agree on five. Humans have taste buds to distinguish between sweet, salty, sour, bitter and meat/savory (umami), which was discovered by a Japanese scientist just over a century ago. Cats have tastes similar to ours, however their “sweet buds” are not very reactive. Cats are obligate carnivores – driven to eat meat. They do not need sugar or carbohydrates (that turn to sugar), therefore there is no reason for them to have a taste for it. Taste buds (or receptors) were first described in fish back in the 1820’s – 40 years later, they were identified in mammals. All vertebrates have taste receptors similar, but not necessarily in the 54 same places like the tongue. A catfish has more taste receptors on its whiskers than on a hundred of our tongues. It helps the fish find food even in murky water. We are the product of what evolved in the water and eventually crawled onto the land. Five hundred million years ago, taste evolved to distinguish food from poison. In fact, although our tongues have just one or two types of receptors for sweet, they have at least two dozen different ones for bitter. This is a sign of how important avoiding poison was to our ancestors. The aversion to bitter foods is inborn to us as well as our cats. It has a survival value. Humans as well as our cats will try to avoid eating the “bitter” substances as they may be full of toxins. Many plants, for example, evolved producing a bitter taste to prevent from being eaten! Taste buds (or receptors) alone don’t produce tastes. They are connected to taste centers in the brain. In recent J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine studies, scientists have discovered receptors identical to some on our tongues in other parts of our body, including our pancreas, intestines and lungs. We don’t exactly “taste” with them, but for example, when we inhale an undesirable substance, the bitter receptors in our lungs send a single to our brains and make us cough. Cats make up for their lack of taste receptors with a superior sense of smell. Cats are very sensitive to the smell of their food. They have somewhat of an extra sense called the Jacobson’s organ. It’s a structure in the roof of their mouth that connects the mouth to their nasal passage. It is believed that cats and others like dogs, mice, horses, goats, cattle, pigs, elephants, lizards, snakes and some monkeys use this organ to tastesmell aromas around them like food and pheromones. Odors are inhaled on the tongue and the tongue is rubbed on the roof of the mouth. Then the mouth, nose and Jacobson’s organ somehow www.scwomanmagazine.com Have you found Mr. Right? Well save your money for the honeymoon, stop by It’s All About You Consignment and browse through our extensive selection of optional bridal wear, shoes, accessories and jewelry, as well as Mother of the Bride/Groom dresses. Or maybe you’re looking for the perfect gift for your atten- dants, we can help you with that too! You’ll be amazed at all of the treasures you can find in my unique little shop. It’s All About You Consignment 2834-B Howard Avenue • Located Market Commons 843-839-5329 allow them to sense the essence of the flavor and scent in a way that we do not have the capacity to experience. Human responses to basic taste are inborn, but our perceptions of smells – the main constituents of flavor – are learned. With cats’ exceptional nose, it is certain that it’s sense of smell is your cat’s most powerful response to food. If your cat becomes sick with a respiratory infection or “kitty cold”, they may not want to eat. Their strong sense of smell is what drives their appetite. A cat’s taste buds react to meats and fats as smells are processed through the Jacobson’s organ. They can actually determine which meat flavor is in the food you offer them by simply smelling the different fats in it. Though people say their cats may crave ice cream, puddings or milk, it’s actually the fat content of these foods that they are drawn to. Cats have cells on their tongues that are sensitive to temperature as well, even to the water they drink. Most cats prefer their food around 86 degrees Fahrenheit (about the same temperature as their tongue). Food straight from the refrigerator is often not appealing to your feline friend whose wild ancestors would be eating warm freshly killed prey. It is often best to try putting some warm water on the food or heat it slightly. Kim Hurley, Owner of Cat’s Meow Veterinary, 4720 Hwy. 17 Bypass Unit B • Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 843-839-1999 www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 55 You Do Not Think About it Until it Happens to You By Regina B. Ward Attorney and Counselor at Law Law Firm of Regina B. Ward, LLC There are things in our lives that we just do not think about or “prepare” for until it happens to us. I was speaking with an auto accident client last week who stated to me, “I have no idea what to do.” I have been practicing law for over a decade now and have handled many injury cases for multiple clients so it comes as second nature to me. But her statement moved me to realize that most people do not have a need to know what to do after a car wreck until it happens to them. Then when it does they find themselves with many questions, confusion about what to do, and what they are entitled to have paid for them. Statistically speaking most drivers will be in at least one car accident in their lifetime. However, most drivers and pas- Safe Driving School, Inc. 843 450SAFE (7233) Approved Driving School **Purchase yourGIFT GIFTCERTIFICATES CERTIFICATESnow now**** **Purchse your Award Winning, Safe Driving School, Inc. is the most experienced and professionaldriving school in Horry County. Educators teaching your student the most important class of their life! 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Although it seems obvious, I have to say do not drive off or leave the scene of the accident. This could cause you to be charged with the crime of leaving the scene of an accident, especially if you believe the accident is your fault. However, you should never admit to being at fault for the accident, even if you feel you are the person who caused the accident. This could make you legally liable which could subject you to a lawsuit for damages. Do not apologize for the accident as this may be considered an admission of fault. Just simply ask if the other driver and passengers if they are OK. If you were injured in the wreck make sure to get immediate medical attention. And even if you do not believe you were hurt in the accident you should still see a doctor as soon as possible. Many injuries such as whiplash are injuries that do not “hurt” usually until a day or two after the wreck and could cause you serious pain later. Further, if you wait too long to see a doctor after the wreck then the insurance company could take the position that the injury was not related to the wreck at all. So, it is very important to see a doctor immediately following the accident. If may feel uncomfortable to do so but you should take as many pictures as possible and/or even video. If you have an audio recorder on your smart phone turn it on and record all conversations. In addition to photographs you should document names of witnesses with contact information, other drivers’ insurance information, and license plate numbers with descriptions of all cars involved. Then as soon as you are able you should make a written note of what you remembered happening and the series of events that led up to and then the crash. Then get a friend or loved one to take photos of you and your injuries. The initial photos are good to have but also photos documenting the healing process are very useful in your claim. Do not forget to report the accident to your own insurance www.scwomanmagazine.com company. The State of South Carolina has minimum requirements for auto insurance. Often times wreck victims will have current medical bills and future medical bills that exceed the atfault driver’s policy. When that happens you are entitled to make a claim on your own insurance policy for underinsured coverage. This does not impact your rates when you are not the at-fault driver. If you do not report the wreck to your own insurance carrier then they can deny your claim if it exceeds the coverage available. You should remember that insurance companies are not your friends. They will often try to convince you to settle your claim for much less than it is worth. Do not give a statement to an insurance company about what happened or sign a release form without first having the benefit of legal counsel. And most importantly, do not settle a claim until you have completely finished treating for your injuries. And finally, if you did not cause the wreck and you were injured (even slightly) you are entitled to be compensated for your injuries. When you are hurt in a car wreck you can receive payment for missed work, damaged property, medical bills, and pain and suffering. Therefore, you should make an appointment to see an attorney who focuses on personal injury as soon as practical. My firm provides legal advice to victims of car wrecks. We recognize that being hurt in a wreck you will not feel like traveling to a lawyer’s office so we will come to you. Seeing an attorney as soon as possible is critical to your case and the sooner the better. We offer Free Consultations to accident victims and we do not charge by the hour for representation. My firm only gets paid attorney fees if we make a recovery for you. So really, there is no excuse not to meet with an attorney to have your case evaluated as it does not cost you to speak with a lawyer. Ward Law Firm Law Firm of Regina B. Ward, LLC 1017 Fourth Avenue Conway, South Carolina 29526 Office: 843-488-WARD (9273) Fax: 843-488-9272 E-mail: Regina@AttorneyReginaWard.com www.AttorneyReginaWard.com www.scwomanmagazine.com Announces 'Inaugural South Carolina Women's EXPO coming to Myrtle Beach in 2016 The Ultimate Girl's Day Out! 100 Exhibitors/Vendors Educational Seminars throughout the day Gift Bags - Door Prizes - Give-Aways Holistic Wellness Pavilion Health Screenings Interested in Participating? Call 843-369-1556 for more information (Place & Time TBA) South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine January 2016 57 Getting Numb At The Dentist Is Becoming Easier By Jeffrey W Horowitz, DMD, FAGD With all of the advances in dentistry we have seen in the past decade, it is surprising that one procedure has remained relatively unchanged. Ask most people what they don’t like about the dentist and the answer would most likely revolve around “the shot”. While some patients complain about the actual “pinch”, many simply do not like the feeling of being numb across a large portion of their face, or having to return to a job where they must communicate with others. Recently, several products have emerged that should improve the anesthesia experience for many patients. Numbing just the tooth or teeth that needs to be worked on has traditionally been a difficult task. On lower teeth, the main nerve that gives feeling to the teeth is embedded deep within the lower jaw Happy New Year! Cat’s Meow Veterinary Hospital 4720 Hwy. 17 Bypass Unit B • Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 843-839-1999 Full Service Monday - Friday • Digital X-rays • In-house Labs • Medical & Surgical Care • Complete Wellness Care • Vaccines • Declaws • Nutrition • Microchipping • Dental Care & Cleaning Brandy McGinnis DVM Kate Gibson DVM Oscar Massage Therapist Sheba Photographer Cheese Desk Supervisor catsmeowmyrtlebeach.com MYRTLE BEACH’S ONLY CAT EXCLUSIVE FULL SERVICE VETERINARY SPECIALTY GROOMING AND LUXURY BOARDING FACILITY 58 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine bone, one of the most dense bones in the body. The traditional nerve block given to numb lower teeth has to be deposited on the nerve before it goes into the jaw, therefore the whole jaw on that side along with the tongue gets and stays numb long after the appointment is over. On the upper teeth, the bone is not as dense so we are able to deposit anesthetic directly over the tooth and have it get numb for a shorter duration. Sometimes though, the nerve that gives muscle movement to the side of the face also absorbs the anesthetic, giving people the “droopy face feeling”. While not the first anesthesia delivery system to address these issues, the STA (Single Tooth Anesthesia) system is allowing dentists to work on single teeth in the upper and lower jaw. It works by allowing anesthetic to be delivered at a comfortable rate through the ligament space surrounding the tooth. Tooth numbness is almost immediate, shortening the waiting time, and the rest of the face is spared. This same system is also making injections on the hard palate much more tolerable when necessary. There will always be occasions when the entire side has to be numbed with a nerve block, particularly if multiple teeth are being worked on. In the instance of one or two teeth being worked on the STA system seems to be quite effective. On the opposite end of the appointment, dentists are now armed with inject able anesthetic reversal agents such as Oraverse that decrease the duration of the local anesthetic injected. Not everyone is eligible medically for this injection, but for those who are, the duration of the anesthesia can be reduced by as much as eighty-five minutes. This is ideal for patients who must return to work as well as young children to prevent them from biting their cheeks after dental procedures. Sometimes however, as is the case with surgery, it is preferable to keep the area numb to prevent discomfort. With the addition of these two tools as standard equipment, Dentistry is answering the public’s demand for more comfort and convenience. Ask your dentist if either of these options are right for you. Dr Horowitz is a 1991 graduate of The Medical University of South Carolina, College of Dental Medicine and completed a general practice residency at the Mountainside Hospital In Montclair, N.J. He is a Fellow of the Academy of General Dentistry as well as a member of the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry, the American Orthodontic Society, The American Dental Association, The Dental Organization for Conscious Sedation, and The American Academy of Dental Sleep Medicine. He is the founder of, and practices at the Carolina Center for Cosmetic and Restorative Dentistry at 1515 9th Ave., Conway, S.C. He can be contacted at (843) 248-3843 or via the practice website. www.carolinacosmeticdental.com www.scwomanmagazine.com Study: Skin Requires Topical Vitamin C Due to its numerous health benefits, scientists are increasingly giving vitamin C an A+. 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Taking Consignments by Appointment Only. 2834-B Howard Ave Located in Market Commons 843-839-5329 www.scwomanmagazine.com South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 59 sy No Pris s Shoe e No Mor Lies man By Linda Grabe Have you ever had one of those miserable nights where you replay in your head all the things you have said, done, or not done? And as you go over them again, you feel dismayed and discouraged by your words, your actions, and all those forgot-to-do’s or wish-youhad-dones? I just had one of those nights. What’s really funny is that I experienced exactly what I had planned to type in my article. I guess God wanted it to be absolutely authentic. Anyway, it was that dark period right before the dawn, and I lay in bed, feeling miserable. Mad at myself and feeling like a loser. Then the first rays of light started to break through the darkness and the Light of the world began to illuminate and reveal the Darkness which was holding me captive. The lies. Lies I was believing. Again. Straight from the father of lies. Old Scratch himself. Those lies which haven’t changed since the beginning of time. The ones which worked on Adam and Eve. (I know it’s ridiculous, but human nature hasn’t changed a bit since then.) We still fall for those same lies. Because we know we’ve messed up. We’ve thought about ourselves too much. Done wrong things. Not done right things. And all those remembrances tangle around our souls and bind us. Then the despair washes over us and the doubts roll in. Waves of failure and fatigue. That’s where I began my day when I wrote this article. But as the sun rose, so did my hope. A hope that was tied to Truth. Truth which dispels lies. That my salvation is not dependent on my always getting it right. Rather, it is tethered forever to His rightness, His salvation bought for me, to cover all the things I would mess up, do wrong or forget to do. He reminded me that making me worthy when I am not worthy on my own is not a come-and-go thing. It lasts. Forever. My job now is to listen to the right voice. The voice of Jesus. To take captive my thoughts so that my thoughts don’t take me captive. Because they can if I let them. They can snarl and entangle themselves around me until I am bound by them. And what are those lies? Well, one which I fall for a lot is that God is disappointed in me. And everywhere I go, people tell me that they are plagued by this also. Then they say how it discourages them! The thought that, “Yeah, God loves me, but I’ve certainly let Him down.” That He’s always shaking his head at us. Dissatisfied and disillusioned with us. Wishing we would do better. Haven’t you felt that dismay? That pit of your stomach acknowledgment that once again, you either did something wrong or you failed to do something right. And now God is either mad, or at the very least, frustrated with you. Well, let me set you straight because this realization will set you free. I’m serious. It certainly loosened the chains which had held me time and time again. Which still try to trap me. Here’s the bottom line. In order to be disappointed in someone, you must have had the wrong expectations about them. You must think that they would act in a certain way, and when they don’t, you are let down. Frowning. Not happy. But if you believe the words of Psalms 139, that God knows every word we will speak before we ever say it; that every day of our lives is known and planned before we ever come to be, then you realize He is totally aware of everything we will do. He knows every word we will say, every wrong step we will take, every bad decision. And because of that, He never Tropical escapes; Worldly adventures; Enriching experiences; Stress-free planning Anjana Duff 843-455-4478 Anjana@travelconnectionad.com www.travelconnectionad.com 60 J a n u a r y 2 0 1 6 South Carolina Wo m a n Magazine www.scwomanmagazine.com has wrong expectations. We do and say just what He has always known. No surprises...and therefore, no disappointments. Just love. And mercy. Grace and forgiveness. Can I hear a big Woo hoo? So, we need to be diligent to listen to the right Voice. The voice of Truth. No more falling for lies. No more dismay. No more hopelessness that we blew it... again. Just grateful hearts that nothing about us surprises our God. Nothing lessens His love. So when Scratch starts his accusations, we just take captive every lie before it takes us captive. We proclaim loudly that this false statement, this crazy inaccuracy won’t deceive us any more, and we dismiss it from our mind. Gone. Not worthy of consideration. Dismantled and defused. Not able to do damage any more. How easy is that? Ephesians 4:8 says that Jesus “led captivity captive” (The Voice). So no more falling for lies. No longer held captive. Free. Rescued and redeemed and ready to battle the one who will try to convince us otherwise. Doesn’t that sound like a wonderful way to start the New Year? I do. Join Linda on Facebook or Twitter @lindagrabeman, or visit her website, www.lindagrabeman.com, to see her books and events. Donna R. Tyson Women’s Renewal Retreat April 15 - 17, 2016 Surfside Beach Resort 15 S Ocean Blvd, Surfside Beach, SC 29575 Phone (843) 238-4444 Fax (843) 238-4264 Website: www.surfsidebeachresort.com • Attendees responsible for their own transportation, lodging and meals. • A block of oceanfront rooms have been reserved for this event at the great price of $89 per night. iBring a friend & share a room! 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You might have even missed some things you didn’t even realize you were missing, such as a conversation over a holiday meal or gift exchange, or even a question from a grandchild. Hearing loss is something that many times gets put “on the back burner”. There’s this payment to make first or this other thing to take care of first, but the truth is, that your hearing should be a priority. Along with eye and dental exams, your hearing should be checked annually. Often times, hearing is left unchecked and therefore hearing loss is left unaddressed for many years. Starting with a look inside your ears to check for wax, we will be able to see if maybe it’s just a build up of wax inside your ear canals that may be causing you to miss some things. For some folks, that’s all it is! If you feel that you are asking others to repeat more often than you used to, or if you are turning the tv up a little louder than you did before, a hearing evaluation may be just what you need. 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