What does true mercy look like?
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What does true mercy look like?
2015 T H E M A G A Z I N E O F T H E C AT H O L I C C H U R C H I N W E S T E R N WA S H I N G T O N ellence xc t Place irs neral E Ge F N W C AT H O L I C . O R G J A N U A R Y/ F E B R U A R Y 2 0 1 6 | V O L . 4 N O . 1 T H E FA I T H F U L S E R VA N T How to choose the right college PAGE 8 NOROESTE C AT Ó L I C O Un solo propósito para 2016 PÁGINAS 24–27 C AT H O L I C V O I C E S A life-changing art project PAGE 30 What does true mercy look like? Answers from our student essay contest winners T H E nHerUaRl EC H C Ge C AT H O L I C I N 2015 I N W T H EE S T ME A RG N AW Z IANS EH I ON FG TT O HN E C AT H O L I C C H U R C H I N W E S T E R N WA S H I N G T O N ellence xc 2015 C Hr UaRl C H ne E Ge T HE ES TME AR GN A W Z IANSEH IONFG T H W OE N C AT H O L I C t Place irs O F t Place irs M A G A Z I N E ellence xc F 2015 T H E F neral E Ge ellence xc t Place irs Share a gift of faith. F W W W . NN WW CC AA TH OO L ILCI .CO. 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Northwest Catholic is a membership publication of the Archdiocese of Seattle, 710 Ninth Ave., Seattle, WA 98104. Published monthly except for combined issues: January/February and July/August. Subscription rates are $30 per year. Individual issues are $3. Send all subscription information and address changes to: Northwest Catholic, 710 Ninth Ave., Seattle, WA 98104, 206-382-4850 or circulation@seattlearch.org. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to Northwest Catholic, 710 Ninth Ave., Seattle, WA 98104. ©2016 Northwest Catholic, Archdiocese of Seattle. Stephen Brashear Sarah Bartel | Father Cal Christiansen Janet Cleaveland | Bishop Eusebio Elizondo Christen Mattix | Deacon Eric Paige Mauricio I. Pérez | Mark Shea A In this issue 18 Keri Hake ADVERTISING SALES MANAGER Stephen Brashear Ellen Bollard PRESENTATION EDITOR 4 FROM THE ARCHBISHOP The sensitive spiritual works of mercy 5 SAINTS OF THE MONTH An American immigrant and the patron of artists 6 IN CASE YOU MISSED IT Pope Francis on ChristianMuslim relations 8 THE FAITHFUL SERVANT What to look for in a college 9 YOUR FAMILY MATTERS Celebrating Christmas in January CATHOLIC HOME 10 AThree Kings Cake for Epiphany 12 ASK FATHER Why pray for souls in purgatory? 14 A CATHOLIC VIEW Jesus Christ, the ultimate social outcast & EVENTS 28 NEWS Mass for Life, Catholic Advocacy Day and a Day of Mercy VOICES 30 CATHOLIC A one-of-a-kind art exhibit 3 E d A C fe Ee P N pregnant LIFE PEACE HENODMELESS ELDERLY counsel doubtful earth U ive rg fo OVE L r bu l sorrowfu TRAFFICKING i th LIFE OF bu ry Faith WORKS OF MERCY ty rs The spiritual works of mercy PRAY workers the lonely clo ed fe y ti pa B O R N LOVJ POOR E pray jus cretice IMPation pro-lif RISO hungry e NED ity Corporal & Spiritual feed hop e ial soUcSTIeCntEly dign ( E N E S PA Ñ O L : PÁG I N A 24 ) visi t FROM THE ARCHBISHOP human r STARVING poo immigrants instruct c comfort AY TRUTH PR lnessl e tal il menouns varied pains of others offers us the opportunity to lend an ear and be a companion on the path of recovery. We might detect another’s need for professional help and assist Third in a three-part series adm immigrants him with the proper contacts. By performn HOPE igdo ing unexpected acts of kindness for friends marking the Year of Mercy noigdeaithsh n TRU raniptenalty and co-workers we lift the veil of sorrow TH t y that others have been bearing alone. Finally, END e approach the works of mercy by asking of there is so much sorrow in the world that CLOTHE LIFE ourselves, “Do I truly desire the good of we must be careful not to add to it by unkindness, sarcasm, gossip or greed. the other person?” Forgiving injuries. Anger is a prison, It is essential to remember that and until we forgive we remain in its grasp. works of mercy have as their goal an Even though vengeance might seem justified encounter with Christ. This is espeor even encouraged by others, it never helps. FAITH cially true for the spiritual works of To the contrary, it feeds the cycle of anger and mercy, because they deal with delicate violence. When we have been wronged, the and deeply personal matters. place to begin is by praying for the persons The spiritual works of mercy require who have wronged us. If we find it difficult the prudence and discretion that come to forgive them, we ask God to help us put his only from the Holy Spirit. As we conforgiveness into practice. Sadly, much of life at sider them, we ask for the grace never every level is manipulated by anger and lack of ARCHBISHOP to be condescending or judgmental. ry forgiveness. Jesus broke the cycle of anger by J. PETER SARTAIN buhope Otherwise we approach others with forgiving us. He has embraced us in his mercy E LOV the intention to “fix” them. That is a so that we, too, may be merciful. far cry from gently leading them to an encounter with Jesus. Bearing wrongs patiently. No one is called Only he can heal and save. Perhaps we simply make the to be a doormat, and we certainly have the right to stand introduction — but he will do the rest. up for ourselves. However, if we constantly seek to prove Instructing the ignorant. Every Christian is an apostle ourselves right, to blame others, and to whine about every sent to give witness to the good news. But before we can misfortune that befalls us, we will fail to learn a crucial do so we make sure we know the good news, that we have lesson Jesus taught: to turn the other cheek and rely on God steeped ourselves in it, and that we do our best to practice it. alone. Fighting every battle might mean that we simply hone This deed of mercy is not about debate or winning arguour fighting skills, push others around in the process, and ments. It is about the enlightenment that God desires for perpetuate the cycle of violence — but never learn the meekeveryone when they meet the truth in his Son. Gently and re- ness that characterized Jesus and his mercy. spectfully, we speak the truth and introduce others to Jesus. Praying for the living and the dead. Intercessory Advising the doubtful. Everyone occasionally strugprayer is a daily part of Christian life, for it both expresses gles with doubt, and it can lead to anxiety and confusion. and nourishes our communion in faith. Jesus is always interOften the anxiety is more disturbing than the doubt. Enceding for us, and we join our prayers to his. It is helpful to couraging others when they are plagued with doubt, helping remember that it is not just we who pray for the dead; they them see the presence of God in their lives, and patiently also pray for us. explaining that God does not walk away from us when we On a final note, it is important to remember that the struggle with faith are ways of offering spiritual comfort. It works of mercy are never undertaken for public recognition. helps to remember that even when one doubts God’s exis“Take care not to perform righteous deeds in order that tence or his love, he still exists and he still loves us! people may see them; otherwise, you will have no recomConverting the sinner. First it must be said that the pense from your heavenly Father. … When you give alms, grace of conversion comes from God alone. We do not apdo not let your left hand know what your right is doing, so proach others with the intention to fix them; we might turn that your almsgiving may be secret. And your Father who them away. Instead we explain God’s mercy and encoursees in secret will repay you.” (Matthew 6:1-4) age them to seek him. In a certain situation, we might be My acts of mercy are actually not “my” good works. It is called to point out the error of someone’s ways, but we do so Christ, alive in me, who acts through me. As I allow him to humbly, and only after prayer, as fellow sinners who rely on direct me by his grace, the corporal and spiritual works of God’s mercy ourselves. mercy become “second nature” to me — and draw me closer to my Lord. Comforting the sorrowful. As with the corporal works of mercy, we are called to console the grieving. There Send your prayer intentions to Archbishop Sartain’s Prayer List, is sorrow of many kinds, however, and attentiveness to the Archdiocese of Seattle, 710 Ninth Ave., Seattle, WA 98104. LOVE RN BO N U rd r lte N thirsty she ABORTIO EARTH ter DEAD ADVOCATE shelthirsty peace Illustrat ion by El len Bolla FEED NDisabled LOVE ned riso G M AKIN imp SS H UFFIC LE tion AOME crea TRH F R FAITHclotO he GIV E workers W pray le Vulnerab Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org faith 4 SAINTS OF THE MONTH ( E N E S PA Ñ O L : PÁ G I N A 2 5 ) how will you St. Marianne Cope live your faith this Lent? Immigrant sister ministered to sick in Hawaii 1838–1918 Feast day: January 23 Photo by Jim Stipe for CRS CNS Barbara Koob was born in Germany, and moved to the United States with her family when she was 2. She entered the Sisters of St. Francis in Syracuse, New York, serving for 20 years as a teacher and hospital administrator. In 1883 she traveled with six sisters to Hawaii to minister to people with Hansen’s disease, then known as leprosy. In 1888, they opened a home on Molokai for women and girls with the disease, and continued the work of St. Damien de Veuster after his death. Mother Marianne died on Molokai; her feast is her birthday. At her canonization in 2012, Pope Benedict XVI called her “a shining example of the tradition of Catholic nursing sisters and of the spirit of her beloved St. Francis.” Pray together Fast in solidarity Give to change lives Blessed Fra Angelico Patron of artists began each work with prayer c. 1400–1455 Feast day: February 18 CNS Fra Giovanni da Fiesole, known as Blessed Fra Angelico, was an early Renaissance painter. After joining the Dominicans in 1420, he began illustrating manuscripts and choir books, beginning each new work with a prayer. His religious altarpieces, paintings and frescoes exploited color for spatial and emotional effect. Fra Angelico, meaning “angelic brother,” decorated an entire Florentine monastery and two Roman chapels. Notable works include his Annunciation and Descent from the Cross. He declined an appointment as archbishop of Florence and was officially beatified by Pope John Paul II in 1982. Art students often leave written prayers near his tomb in the Church of Santa Maria Sopra Minerva in Rome. Bring YOUR Lent to life. Start today. Download the CRS Rice Bowl app! And visit crsricebowl.org or contact your Missions Office to get involved! Rice Bowls/Lenten calendars are available in every parish! Take an extra one for a friend or extended family member. For more information on the CRS Rice Bowl program in this archdiocese please visit www.seattlearchdiocese.org/ricebowl or call the Missions Office at 206-382-4580 or 1-800-869-7028. Catholic News Service 5 I N C A S E YO U M I S S E D I T THIS MONTH IN HISTORY: 40 YEARS AGO Courtesy Janis Olson Bicentennial Catholic Angie King Headlines from NWCatholic.org Students at Assumption School in Bellingham formed a “human food chain” stretching 300 yards from the Church of the Assumption to Hope House, a multiservice outreach center located on Assumption’s campus. After attending a prayer service Nov. 23, the school’s 206 students formed a sort of bucket brigade, passing 3,000 cans and boxes of donated food from one student to the next, until the donations reached the Hope House storage shed. Read more in the local news section at NWCatholic.org, where you’ll also find these stories: • Holy Family Parish, Seattle, creates new Our Lady of Guadalupe shrine. • Archbishop J. Peter Sartain dedicated the new Immaculate Conception Church in Mount Vernon Nov. 11. • Parishioners at St. Vincent de Paul, Federal Way, are working to open The “average” Catholic in the Archdiocese of Seattle during America’s bicentennial year was a college-educated Caucasian woman in her 30s, married and a homemaker, with two children living at home. 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With Bloomberg Business ence, but I knew a public administration degree estimating that, in 30 years, the cost of a would make it possible for me to do work other people needed. university education has increased 1,120 Go where you will get what you need. percent and the University of Washington Once you have a sense of what you want to do, DEACON estimating tuition and living expenses for it’s time to compare the paths different schools ofERIC PAIGE resident students at $27,034 annually, it’s fer us to get there. Our oldest daughter Elizabeth’s interest in the workings of the human body and clear the stakes are high. As usual, our her sense of compassion led her to consider a career in nursfaith offers some practical insights into getting ing. After evaluating a number of good schools, she chose these decisions right. the University of Portland. She liked the way the school 8 taught. She also liked that the university offered direct entry into the nursing program, letting her get started right away with the subject she cared about most. The most important thing to consider about a school is how well it will get you to where God wants you to be. If God is calling you to be an engineer, go to a school that will teach you engineering well. Don’t worry too much about whether people are impressed with its name or whether its football team is any good. Focus on whether it will get you where you want to go. Faith matters, lots. A true education demands a prayerful partnership with God, who wants to be with us every step of the way as we go through this important time of growth. Before choosing a school, make sure that it will be easy to participate in Mass and find spiritual nourishment. Find out about the strength of the campus ministry program or the Newman Center. A real education will not only develop the gifts we have been given, it will draw us closer to the One who gave us those gifts. Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org Shutterstock Start early choosing a profession. The word profession comes from the monastic tradition of professing vows and offering work as a form of service to the community. The Catholic faith calls every one of us to think of our profession as how we develop our God-given talents and offer them in service for the community — how we participate in God’s ongoing work in creation. God literally wants every one of us to partner with him. Figuring out how takes lots of time and prayer. Parents, this means that we need to encourage our children to start thinking about the gifts God gave them years before it’s time to decide what to do. Getting a good academic foundation is part of this. But so is observing where our children seem to have a gift, particularly if that gift enables them to do things that other people find difficult or unpleasant: mathematics, public speaking, resolving conflict, fixing things, etc. Remember it’s about service. In monastic life, a monk might be really interested in a form of work, but if the community doesn’t need that work, then it’s not the monk’s profession. The joy of a profession comes Deacon Eric Paige is the director of the Archbishop Brunett Retreat Center at the Palisades. Contact him at eric. paige@seattlearch.org. YO U R FA M I LY M AT T E R S Christmas in January in the domestic church Shutterstock C brightened Christendom. Some families give the hristmas lasts until Jan. 10 this year. children a little present on each of these twelve days. Though the stores have switched 4. Chalk your door with an Epiphany their displays from Christmas décor house blessing. On the lintel above the door, to weight-loss accessories and Super write the symbols “20 + C + M + B + 16” while saying: “The three Wise Men, Caspar, Melchior Bowl gear, if you visit any Catholic and Balthazar, followed the star of God’s Son Church you will encounter smells like who became human 2,015 years ago. May Christ pine, balsam and incense. You will see bless our home and remain with us throughout SARAH BARTEL the new year. Amen.” (Source: carmelites.net.) Christmas trees sparkling with lights and 5. The Magi’s gifts represent Christ’s kingsanctuaries lush with velvety poinsettias. ship, priesthood and death. Arrange a gold, frankincense You will hear Christmas songs sung at Mass. And and myrrh scavenger hunt, using a “Three Kings Gifts” kit. you’ll hear the story of the Nativity over and over This would be a great activity for an Epiphany party — joining forces with other families helps keep the festive atmoagain. It is as if we need time to let the grace of sphere going! Christmas soak in. 6. Bake an Epiphany King Cake or Gallette des Rois By late December, however, our consumer culture is sick of Christmas. It has been celebrating it since November with a glut of holiday products and treats, a frenzy of seasonal activities, and lots of shopping. But the church has been waiting for the Lord through the holy season of Advent with silence, prayer and penance. Now that he is here, the church is ready to revel in Christmas with all her senses! How can Catholic moms and dads continue celebrating Christmas in the domestic churches of our families after our neighbors have already taken down their trees? Being countercultural is challenging, but by creating a rich Catholic culture at home with traditions based on the liturgical year, we can give the next generation the gift of a deep love for our faith, wrapped up in the intimacy, affection and joy of family life. Here are 12 tips, ideas and resources to help make your family’s Twelve (plus!) Days of Christmas merry and bright with Christ’s light: 1. Keep Advent simple. Try to minimize extra preChristmas activities, bustle, parties and treats, and seek ways to pray, practice works of charity and wait for the Lord. Take the family to receive the sacrament of reconciliation. 2. Celebrate Christmas starting Dec. 25! After attending Christ’s Mass, now we Catholics cue the Christmas music, the cookies, the parties and decorations! Keep that tree up, play the Christmas music, pour the eggnog and rejoice! 3. The Twelve Days of Christmas: The 12 days between Christmas and the traditional date for Epiphany used to be when Christmas parties, plays, concerts and merrymaking with a hidden bean or porcelain charm inside (see page 10). Whoever finds the bean in their piece wears a crown! 7. Find clever Catholic Christmas crafts on sites like catholicicing.com. 8. Read beautiful Christmas picture books, such as those listed at showerofroses.blogspot.com. 9. Find recipe ideas at catholiccuisine.com, familyfeastandferia.com and in books like A Continual Feast by Evelyn Birge Vitz. 10. Watch all your favorite Christmas movies. 11. Candlelight read-aloud nights. We are a family of literature nerds, so for us, quiet evenings spent listening to favorite Christmas poems and stories like O. Henry’s “The Gift of the Magi” imbue dreary January days with a glow of Christmas magic. The candlelight and mulled cider help. Jesus came as the Word of God, so soaking up pretty words seems fitting. 12. Recall your children’s baptisms on the feast of the Baptism of the Lord, Jan. 10, by lighting their baptismal candles at dinnertime. Shells are a symbol of baptism, so you can make pasta shells for dinner. Changing our holiday habits to align more closely with the life of the church is challenging — just as changing our hearts is. However, in both cases, there is joy in the process of conversion which fills us with more of Christ’s life! Sarah Bartel, a member of St. Andrew Parish in Sumner, holds a doctorate in moral theology and ethics from The Catholic University of America, where she specialized in marriage, family, sexual ethics and bioethics. Her website is www.drsarahbartel.com. 9 A C AT H O L I C H O M E E piphany Roscón de Reyes is the manifestation of all we love • 2 packages active dry yeast • 1/4 cup sugar • 6 tablespoons milk, warmed • 2 1/2 cups flour • 1/2 teaspoon salt • 1 teaspoon finely grated orange zest • 1 teaspoon finely grated lemon zest Rachel Bauer Three Kings Cake is a Hispanic tradition showing reverence for the Christ Child C arlos Palacián grew up in Spain, where Christmas gifts appear on Jan. 6, the solemnity of the Epiphany of the Lord (which we mark this year on Sunday, Jan. 3). Carlos remembers cleaning and polishing one shoe the night before and placing it in the living room so the Three Kings would have a spot to leave his gifts. “In the morning, whatever was around your shoe was yours,” said Carlos, now 48 and a member of Christ the King Parish in Seattle. “Pretty much all of Spain celebrated the same.” That meant his two sisters and parents also had carefully placed shoes so the Magi wouldn’t miss them. Villages and cities celebrated with parades; the Palacián family went to Mass; and, always a constant, the clan dined with their grandparents. Carlos doesn’t remember a specific JANET holiday menu, but he says without fail the meal included CLEAVELAND Three Kings Cake, or Roscón de Reyes, with its Christ Child trinket tucked inside. In St. Matthew’s Gospel we have the account of the epiphany, or manifestation, of the Christ Child to the Wise Men, representatives of the non-Jewish world. It was a huge deal for non-Jewish converts to Christianity that the King of the Jews would manifest himself as their Savior as well. This year, I am making the Three Kings cake that the Spanish-speaking world holds so dear. (Other European countries and Eastern-rite churches have their versions of the cake, too.) I found Roscón de Reyes in older Spanish cookbooks. I’ve modified and combined the recipes somewhat, in one attempt using dried apricots and cherries instead of candied fruit — just a personal preference. I hold hope that this feast will gain popularity in this country, as it has in one corner of our state. Lois and Del Brown of Raymond in Pacific County have a large, extended family. Christmas is taken up with Mass and family gatherings. Lois said they wanted some special time for friends after Christmas. Epiphany seemed perfect. Lois and her husband, members of St. Lawrence Parish, found cards with gold accents and drawings of the adoring Magi. She used them for invitations. She threw a potluck and invited Father Paul Kaech, her pastor. She did not serve the cake, but she honored two guests who got the gold paper plates marked “king” or “queen” on the bottom. So let us join the Browns and Palaciáns in remembering the Three Kings who traveled so far under hardship to discover the Christ Child. Janet Cleaveland is a member of the Proto-Cathedral of St. James the Greater in Vancouver. 10 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org • 4 tablespoons butter, softened • 2 large eggs • 2 teaspoons dark rum • 2 teaspoons orange-flower water (optional) • 1/4 cup sliced almonds • candied fruit, or dried apricots and cherries, for decoration • 1 large almond, filbert or plastic trinket of the Baby Jesus (I didn’t add anything, bowing to fears that someone might choke) Mix the yeast with 1 teaspoon sugar and the warmed milk. Stir in 3 tablespoons of flour to make a wet paste. Let stand in a warm place for about 20 minutes. Sift the remaining flour with the salt into a large bowl and stir in the rest of the sugar and the orange and lemon zests. Cut in the butter until the mixture resembles fine bread crumbs. Beat the eggs with the rum and orange-flower water. (I substituted orange oil with a little water. You can get orange-flower water online or at Mediterranean specialty shops.) Make a well in the middle of the flour, and add the eggs and the yeast paste. Mix a sticky dough, but then push the mixture around with your hands for about 10 minutes to get the dough to lose its stickiness. Put the dough on a lightly floured surface and continue to knead, probably for another 10 minutes. It needs to be smooth and elastic. Place the dough in an oiled bowl, cover with a towel and leave in a warm place for about an hour. Punch the dough down. Slip in the trinket, if you so choose, then shape the dough into a ring, joining the ends, and place on an oiled cookie sheet. Cover again and let it rise for about 45 minutes. Heat the oven to 350 degrees. Brush the top with lightly beaten egg white and sprinkle on the almonds and other decorations. Bake 20 minutes. Cool on a wire rack. PK/Kindergarten Jan. 14 at 7 pm Q & A w/Principal Jan. 21 at 9 am All School Open House Jan. 31 at Noon Visit St. John School 120 N 79th Street, Seattle, WA 98103 www.st-johnschool.org 206-783-0337 ext 323 100% girl centered Join Us Catholic, College-Preparatory Education for Girls, Grades 5-12 for an Open House Thursday, January 7, 2016 3:30-5:30 p.m. RSVP at www.forestridge.org or call 425-201-2434. 4800 139th Ave. SE, Bellevue, WA 98006 kennedy catholic high school Congratulations Mary Grace Curran, class of 2018, on winning the Northwest Catholic student essay contest. At Kennedy Catholic, we challenge you to be the best version of yourself—to be what God has created you to be. Excellent work Mary Grace! www.kennedyhs.org 11 A S K FAT H E R Why do we pray for the souls in Q A I am a recent convert to Catholicism from an evangelical Protestant background, and I am having a difficult time with the Catholic doctrine of purgatory! More specifically, I am struggling with why we pray for those who are in purgatory in the first place. If they will get to heaven, why do we need to pray for them? As a fellow convert to the Catholic faith, I share your struggle in trying to come to grips with what Catholics believe about purgatory. And in recent times, purgatory seems to be one of those forgotten teachings — rarely do we hear it preached about at Sunday Masses or taught in parish faith formation courses. Even though we might not hear much about it and sins are purified and cleansed so that we can explicitly, belief about purgatory is actually a part be perfected for that place of ultimate perfection. of daily Catholic practice. In every single Mass, Far from being an outmoded dogma, purgatory for instance, we pray for the faithful departed actually affirms God’s endless love and mercy for during the eucharistic prayer and usually during each of us! the intercessions. Which faithfully departed souls The belief that our prayers can and do assist are we praying for? Those in heaven or in hell? those blessed souls in purgatory goes all the way Not likely. Who, then? You guessed it: those in back to the beginning of church history. In the purgatory. ancient catacombs, for instance, there are inscripFATHER CAL Your question, why we pray for the blessed tions of actual prayers for the dead and others CHRISTIANSEN souls in purgatory if they will eventually get to asking for prayers for them. In the fourth century, heaven anyway, strikes to the core of what it means to be a St. John Chyrsostom wrote, “Let us help and commemoCatholic Christian. Before actually answering your quesrate [the dead]. If Job’s sons were purified by their father’s tion, we should be clear on exactly what purgatory is. The sacrifice, why would we doubt that our offerings for the Catechism of the Catholic Church explains, “All who die in dead bring them some consolation?” He was following and God’s grace and friendship, but still imperfectly purified, are affirming a long-standing church belief and practice, that indeed assured of their eternal salvation; but after death they the living pray for the dead. undergo purification, so as to achieve the holiness necessary So why do we pray for the dead? For me, the belief in purto enter the joy of heaven.” (CCC 1030) Speaking of heaven, gatory lies at the center of our Catholic faith because of our Revelation 21:27 says that “nothing unclean will enter it.” sense of family. As a family we pray for one another, and Catholics believe that heaven is a place of perfect purity, those faithfully departed who are not quite in heaven need beauty, love and holiness, and only what is perfect and clean our prayers, just as we need each other’s prayers. As a priest, may enter it. I have seen many prayers answered, and I firmly believe Some people, when our Lord calls them from this life to that our prayers for the faithful departed in purgatory — the next, even though they are free from mortal sin, can that they be sped along to their heavenly reward — will be carry with them the attachment to sin and disorder; their answered as well. hearts are not yet completely oriented toward God and holiMay God’s blessings be with you today and always! ness. God, in his mercy and eternal love for us, still wants Father Cal Christiansen is pastor of St. Pius X Parish in these souls to be with him; he desires us to be perfect, but Mountlake Terrace. 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Sales subject to product availability and order acceptance. A C AT H O L I C V I E W HIGH SCHOOL DANCES and the LENTEN DESERT W hen I was in high school, every February saw the annual ritual of “Sadie Hawkins Day.” Sadie Hawkins was a character in the old cartoon strip “Li’l Abner” who took things into her own hands when it came to datin’, courtin’ and all the rest of the male/ female froufrou that so occupies the adolescent mind. She didn’t wait for a guy to ask her out. She asked him. I swung to the opposite pole and accounted for my sense of unique isolation by accusing myself of being a peculiarly revolting specimen whom my fellow human beings could not be expected to tolerate for long. What never occurred to me in high school was that I was not unique at all, and that the great mass of my fellow human beings felt as isolated, klutzy, stupid and unlovable as I did. I was so fretful about getting “in” that it never occurred to me MARK SHEA that a) most people were as “out” as I was and b) “in” was not all that worth getting. It was our Lord, in his Catholic Church, who began to heal So, once a year, in honor of dear Sadie, my alma mater held this terrible sense of being outcast. For our Lord is, if anything, the center of all things. He is as “in” as you can get, the a dance where the girls asked the guys out for a change. The heart of all life, the center of all being, the very fountainhead net result of this arrangement was to create a social situation of existence. And yet, right here, I found a paradox. in which a small but stable group of insecure boys were reFor the Son of Man is cast out by men. More than that, he minded for four years straight that no girl in the school would deliberately turns his back on all the social climbing, cliques touch them with a barge pole. Your on-the-scene corresponand posturing that so occupied my high school mind (and dent is here to tell you that this is but one of the reasons continue to occupy the more sophisticated high school lunchGraduation Day 1976 was a tremendous relief to me. It was also a reason that February, for many years, triggered in me a rooms known as Hollywood, Washington, D.C., and New York). When the Sinmeister offered him a chance to be People deep and abiding gloom. Magazine’s Most Fascinating Person of A.D. 30 (“All this will To a non-Christian like me, it was the least worthwhile I give you,” said Satan, “if you will bow down and worship month in the calendar. Christmas was dead and gone while me”) our Lord chose the obscurity and ostracism I so feared. dark winter still hung around. After Presidents Day, there When offered all the kingdoms of the world, he opted for the wasn’t going to be another holiday till spring break. Homedesert. Why? work was only going to increase. And here was the Marquis Because he knew that at the center of this dog-eat-dog de Sadie, putting up posters all over the school to remind world there is no there there. He came, not to get in, but to you that, on top of everything else, pretty much everybody get us. Where I was so sweaty about making something of in the world — except for you — was lovable and fascinating myself in order to finally be lovable, he had long ago made to somebody. nothing of himself — because he loved us. He came to heal In high school, I profoundly believed in my unique social the leper. leprousness, in my transcendent repulsiveness to the opposite sex, and in my utter failure to be part of the In Crowd. On Mark Shea is a member of Blessed Sacrament Parish in Seattle. my worst days, I congratulated myself that this uniqueness His blog “Catholic and Enjoying It!” is at www.patheos.com/ blogs/markshea. was due to my vast intellectual superiority over the masses who Just Couldn’t Understand Me. On my next-worst days, 14 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org Shutterstock Jesus was the ultimate social outcast Congratulations to this year’s graduates and their families! South Sound Catholic #SouthSoundCatholic 15 C O V E R F E AT U R E HIGH SCHOOL WINNER True mercy: Not deserved, still given What does true mercy look like? Answers from our student essay contest winners For the third annual Northwest Catholic Student Essay Contest, we asked Catholic school students to reflect, in light of Pope Francis’ declaration of the Holy Year of Mercy, on the question “What does true mercy look like?” Entries poured in from 34 Catholic schools in Western Washington. The essays were judged by a panel drawn from the staffs of Northwest Catholic, the Office for Catholic Schools and the Fulcrum Foundation, which supports Catholic schools in the Archdiocese of Seattle. We are proud to present the winning high school, middle school and elementary school essays. By Mary Grace Curran Ste phe n “Let’s try to finish this quickly so we can play the game.” “Do we really have to do this?” “I went to confession in second grade. Once is enough.” Dozens of CYO high school campers uttered these phrases as we piled into the chapel for our evening prayer and reconciliation service. Excited to engage in the next activity planned for the night, we teenagers were not exactly jumping at the idea of spending an hour in adoration, reconciliation and prayer. Surprisingly, only a few minutes into the service, people started lining up to go to confession. Those not in line were praying, singing along with the worship music, and gazing upon the Blessed Sacrament. An incredible aura of peace was present in the chapel, unlike the distractions and boredom I usually faced during prayer. About a half an hour into the service, a boy walked out of the confessional. After making his way to the back of the room, he sat down, putting his head in his hands. Another camper approached the boy and walked with him out of the chapel. I could hear the boy sobbing outside, and at once knew complete forgiveness and mercy overwhelmed him. Following that, many campers joined together outside, forming prayer circles, and several returned teary-eyed. Sitting on the floor of the chapel praying, I began to more fully realize why Jesus died on the cross and the effect it has on us. At any age, but especially as teenagers, we are hesitant to go to confession and tend to think, “God cannot love me because of this; what I have done is too terrible for forgiveness.” That night, we discovered not only does God forgive us for every sin, he is waiting to do so with open, welcoming arms. Before this, many had blocked out any desire to go to confession because of fear. Now, realizing forgiveness was the best thing we could receive, everyone experienced true mercy. The service quickly turned to three hours instead of one, and almost everyone attended confession. We ran out of time to play the scheduled game, but everyone had forgotten about it anyway. Later that week at the evening campfire, the boy shared a poem. The beginning was about sin and darkness, but at the end he said, “I have been forgiven, now my soul is clean.” The entire camp exploded in applause, and everyone was smiling, knowing he had experienced true mercy. Seeing this happen reestablished my knowledge that God never abandons us, always forgives us, and sends waves of mercy toward us from every direction. We just have to be open to it, and that night we all learned how to do that. The next time you think, “How could God ever forgive me for this?,” think again. He wants to show you mercy more than you know. Bra she ar Stephen Brashear Northwest Catholic mourns the death of Sue Mecham, the managing director of the Fulcrum Foundation. Just two weeks after helping to choose these winning essays, Mecham died unexpectedly Nov. 15, at the age of 58. She was a joyful and generous supporter of this essay contest and, more importantly, of Catholic schools and their students. Mary Grace Curran is a sophomore at John F. Kennedy Catholic High School in Burien. 16 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org MIDDLE SCHOOL WINNER Dig a little deeper By Manoli Tramountanas Stephen Brashear Manoli Tramountanas is an eighthgrader at St. John School in Seattle. ELEMENTARY SCHOOL WINNER Even if they’re not sorry By Audrey Zdunich When I was younger, I remember being with my mom in a store full of fragile, breakable things. She told me to “stay close” and “look with your eyes, not your hands.” So, when I accidentally knocked a vase off the shelf and it shattered into a hundred little pieces, I knew I was in big trouble and was going to be punished. However — and to this day I still don’t understand why — my mom gathered me in her arms and whispered, “Everything will be OK. I’ll take care of it.” That is when I really started to understand what mercy looked and felt like. My teacher shared a quote with me by Peter Kreeft that says: “It is mercy, not justice or courage or even heroism, that alone can defeat evil.” I hear about many of the harsh and horrible things happening all over the world and the terrible people who cause these things, but I try to see the good people like policemen, doctors and individuals who show mercy by helping and being kind to others who may or may not deserve it. I watched the news when Pope Francis made his visit to the United States, and I think his message to people everywhere was full of mercy. His words were gentle, loving and peaceful, not full of judgment with all the wrong in the world. I’ve come to see that mercy isn’t just showing kindness to someone who does or doesn’t deserve it. Mercy is forgiving and helping someone who may not even be sorry. That is what mercy looks and feels like to me. Stephen Br ashear True mercy is God’s love and forgiveness. At least, that is what we have always been taught. I never gave this much thought — until I sat down to write this essay. My first thought was to give examples of what I consider to be true mercy in my daily life — isn’t mercy when my teachers don’t assign any homework? Isn’t mercy when I am free to go to the skate park after school with my friends? Or how about when I can get an extra hour of sleep? But the more I thought about it, I realized these mercies are minor compared to the mercy God shows us. God doesn’t punish us, but instead loves and forgives us, even though we are all sinners. And God shows us this true mercy every day, even if we get tons of homework, even if we are too busy to hang out with our friends, and even if we are sleep-deprived. God’s unconditional love is the definition of true mercy. Humans are imperfect; everyone makes mistakes. This makes God’s mercy very important. In today’s world, it seems like people are relying less on God and prayers. Instead, they think God does not love them, or pay special attention to them. They are wrong. God loved them before they were even born. God loves every one of us and that is why he sacrificed his one and only Son for us. Instead of turning away from God, they should turn toward him. Instead of relying less on God, people need God’s mercy more. If you ever think that God doesn’t show you true mercy, be thankful to be alive — because the gift of God’s love is (and always has been) our best evidence of God’s true mercy. What is true mercy? I think God would reply, “True mercy is the love and forgiveness I show you every day.” Some people are oblivious to God’s love and mercy. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist; it just means they have to dig a little deeper to find it. Steph e n Bra shear Audrey Zdunich is a fourth-grader at St. Rose School in Longview. 17 F E AT U R E S T O R Y God’s healing touch Suffering and profound recovery led John Sullivan to help others through prayer ministry By Jean Parietti T he fear had an unrelenting grip on John Sullivan. It was like waking up and seeing a grizzly bear at the foot of the bed, but “you couldn’t run and you couldn’t fight and you were locked in that horrible feeling until … you could finally fall asleep,” Sullivan said, describing the effects of the mental illness that first afflicted him at 19. Officially, Sullivan was suffering from obsessive compulsive neurosis with scrupulosity — an excessive worry about sin — and a free-floating anxiety. But the medical words couldn’t adequately describe his suffering. “You’re going through this terrible depression and stark raging fear and there’s no peace,” Sullivan said. “I know there’s a hell. I’ve lived on the outskirts.” Over the next 16 years, Sullivan’s illness disrupted his life, landing him in the hospital four times. Follow-up treatment involved heavy doses of medications with unpleasant side effects. Through the turmoil of those years, Sullivan found help from Catholic priests and a caring doctor. Then, in 1981 or 1982, while a guest at a meeting of a Christian women’s group, an Episcopal priest laid hands on Sullivan and prayed over him. The experience was transformative. “I’ve just been healed of manic depression,” Sullivan told the priest (who advised him to see his doctor). Within a month, under his doctor’s supervision, Sullivan stopped taking all medications for mental illness. “I know God heals,” Sullivan said. “I’ve seen it. I’ve experienced it myself.” Before his illness, “if someone came to me and said, ‘I’m going through this terrible depression,’ I’d say, ‘Hey, I’ll light a candle for you,’ say a prayer and move on,” Sullivan said. “I was going to be a great choral director and composer. [But] God says, ‘No, I want you to go to another school. I want you to learn something,’” he said with a chuckle. Bringing healing to others Sullivan’s illness gave him a firsthand understanding of extreme suffering; his healing gave him the impetus to bring the gift of healing prayer to others in need. Through the Institute for Christian Ministries, founded locally by Dominican Father Leo Thomas and several laypeople, Sullivan completed two years of prayer minister formation. In 1987, he helped start the Prayer for Healing Ministry at St. Luke Parish in Shoreline, 18 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org Stephen Brashear 19 F E AT U R E S T O R Y Stephen Brashear where he was choir director. When he became music director ‘Like a resurrection’ at Our Lady of Perpetual Help/Immaculate Conception Sullivan came into the church at birth, the youngest of five parishes in Everett in 1994, Sullivan worked with others to children in an Irish Catholic family in Minneapolis. Musical establish the ministry there. talent was part of his extended family’s DNA. His mother More than 20 years later, the ministry continues at the was the organist and choir director at the family’s partwo Everett parishes, where about three dozen people have ish, Holy Rosary, where Sullivan began serving at Mass in been trained as ministers. After Sunday Masses, two-memfourth grade. Sullivan’s father worked for a large bank but ber teams pray confidentially with anyone in need, and can also was a tenor soloist. meet weekly with those whose needs are greater. After being taught by Dominicans in grade school and “Probably one of the most Christian things you can do is French Christian Brothers in high school, Sullivan chose to listen to someone without judging them,” Sullivan said. Prayattend the College of St. Thomas in neighboring St. Paul. He ing with people helps them realize “God is listening to them decided to study chemistry, but after one semester, realized and not judging them,” he said. “A lot of healing takes place.” “it wasn’t my cup of tea.” Over the years, the parish prayer ministers have heard stories Continuing with the required college courses, Sullivan of physical, spiritual, emotional and relationship healings. God didn’t know what he wanted to do. Then, in the fall of may not provide the healing requested, 1961, he began experiencing obsessivebut “he will give you the healing that you compulsive symptoms. “It’s a terrible “God permits suffering in most need at that point in your life,” Sulaffliction because you have no peace,” livan explained. our lives, but draws much he said. “It’s constant worry about this Healing prayer goes hand-in-hand with or that.” the medical profession, Sullivan said. “It’s good out of it if we allow it.” Although Sullivan found help from a not: Either get prayer or go to the doctor. Dominican priest at his parish who had John Sullivan It’s both,” he said, citing the “honor the training in psychology, eventually he doctor” message in Sirach 38:1–14. was hospitalized for two weeks. After Those working as healing prayer ministers are a dedicated things settled down, Sullivan’s brother, Dan, invited him group of people who take their call seriously, said Father to come to Seattle and live with him. So Sullivan boarded a Bryan Hersey, pastor of the two Everett parishes. “Even train, leaving behind the dirty piles of late-winter snow. though they’re not counselors, they really bring a sense of When the train reached the Puyallup valley on April 1, professionalism to it,” he said, and know “when to send the 1962, the daffodils were in their full glory. people to the priest.” “I had just gone through this horrible depression, terrible Dolores Righi, commissioned as a prayer minister last fear,” Sullivan said. “It was like a resurrection.” May, said the ministry has brought her closer to Christ. “You know how he commissioned the apostles — ‘Go out two by Gains and setbacks two,’ and do his work? That’s what we’re doing,” she said. In Seattle, Sullivan began life anew. He earned a music deIn the early church, healing was a principal way of evange- gree from Seattle University in 1965, with dreams of becomlizing, Sullivan said. Today’s healing prayer ministry coning a college choral director and composer. “The last thing tinues that mission. “People have come back to the church that I thought that I would do was music in the church,” through this ministry, [and] come into the church,” he said. Sullivan said. 20 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org But that’s exactly what happened after graduation: He was hired as choir director at Blessed Sacrament Parish in Seattle, the Dominican church he and Dan had been attending. He also began post-graduate music studies at the University of Washington. Two years later, though, “everything kind of went sideways,” Sullivan said. He quit school and was hospitalized for about two weeks for a major depression. He had to quit his job. Out of the hospital but taking many medications, “I went through a lot of funky jobs,” Sullivan said. “It’s hard to hold a job because you’re dealing with all this stuff.” At Dan’s insistence, Sullivan joined his brother as a member of the Blessed Sacrament choir. The new director was Sullivan’s former UW choral professor; the next three years were like a nonstop class for Sullivan. While singing at Blessed Sacrament, Sullivan was hired as choir director at St. Luke’s, where he met his future wife (they married in 1972 and had two children). Sullivan also began directing the choir at St. Louise Parish in Bellevue and was teaching at Catholic grade schools. Studying to get a teaching certificate, Sullivan was “knocking out the A’s,” but living on little sleep while helping at a Christmas tree lot to make some extra money. “Without knowing it, I was getting higher and that’s when I had my first manic episode,” he said. “A full-blown manic episode gets psychotic and you start losing touch with reality. That threw me in the hospital.” After being treated in a closed ward for several days, Sullivan looked up to see Father Joseph Fulton, his pastor from Blessed Sacrament, approaching in full Dominican habit. “He comes into my room … he quietly prays, he leaves, and [in] less than a week, I’m out. It was very special.” But just a year or two later came another major depression, with a lengthier hospital stay. Sullivan’s marriage ended, but he took care of his young children every Saturday he could, with the support of both families. He taught at Catholic schools and continued as St. Luke’s choir director until a new pastor arrived in 1981. It was around that time that Sullivan was a guest at a Women’s Aglow meeting, where he was “slain in the Spirit” — falling to the floor while being prayed over — and felt miraculously healed. Drawing good from suffering Contact the Prayer for Healing ministry at Immaculate Conception and Our Lady of Perpetual Help parishes in Everett at 425-349-7014. Read Dominican Father Leo Thomas’ books, Healing as a Parish Ministry: Mending Body, Mind, and Spirit and Healing Ministry: A Practical Guide (both co-authored by Jan Alkire). Attend a charismatic healing Mass sponsored by the Western Washington Catholic Charismatic Renewal. Learn more at wwccr.org. He could no longer do his job, but his pastor, Father Hersey, suggested Sullivan keep directing the choir and supervising the prayer ministry. Since 2014, Sullivan’s bipolar illness has been in remission, and he now takes only a small dose of a single medication. Sullivan knows the recurrence of his illness could raise questions about his healing. He points out that even Lazarus, who Jesus raised from the dead, eventually died again — but that didn’t take away from the miracle of his resurrection. By sharing his story, Sullivan hopes others in need will seek out healing prayer, realizing “God actually still heals today.” And he hopes to help remove the stigma and labels attached to mental illness. Saying someone “is bipolar” is like saying someone “is cancer,” Sullivan said. “You’re not your disease. You’re God’s child and you just happen to be suffering from this thing.” If not for his faith and God’s grace, Sullivan said, “I could have very much ended up like Robin Williams or Vincent Van Gogh. I would have traded two broken legs, two broken arms, for one of those depressions, especially with the fear.” Working in the healing prayer ministry makes sense of it all. “God permits suffering in our lives, but draws much good out of it if we allow it,” Sullivan said. “It’s like God says, ‘I want you to go to this particular school. It’s going to be painful, it’s going to hurt. Out of that, I’m going to heal you, but then I want you to take this to your brothers and sisters and give them hope and bring my healing to them.’” Stephen Brashear For 25 years after that, Sullivan was off psychotropic medications. His life got back on track. In Everett, where Sullivan started the prayer ministry in 1994, he eventually became responsible for all outreach ministries. He listened and prayed with people in need who came to his office. “I loved my work,” he said. At Our Lady of Perpetual Help, Sullivan also fell in love — with Carmen, who he first spotted in the congregation from his perch in the choir loft. The couple, married 20 years ago on the feast of the Epiphany, became partners in prayer ministry, taking two more years of training so they could help train others. Sullivan continued composing music, a pursuit that began in college (his works include Masses written in honor of St. Luke and Mary, the Immaculate Conception). Then he and Carmen were thrown a curve. Sullivan’s bipolar illness recurred in 2007, and he was hospitalized twice over the next six years. Besides getting medical help, Sullivan sought the counsel of priests and healing prayer from the ministers at his parish. HEALING PRAYER RESOURCES John Sullivan is a choir director and composer. Listen to some of his works at NWCatholic.org/features. 21 F E AT U R E S T O R Y Teaching graces Kennedy Catholic’s Kale Dyer incorporates faith into coaching and classes Stephen Brashear By Anna Weaver and his wife Adrianne focus on bringing forth grace — grace to heal brokenness, fulfill one’s potential, and provide God’s t’s a sunny Tuesday morning in Kale Dyer’s presence and forgiveness. first physics class of the day at John F. Kennedy “I think that’s kind of my metaphor for teaching, trying to Catholic High School, and 22 students are be an example of God’s grace in the lives of students,” Dyer said. That could mean writing letters of recommendation or planning for an egg drop project. They’ve gone checking in on a student who seems to be having a bad day. over the calculations, watched a MythBusters It also means incorporating faith into less overtly religious episode on the topic and reviewed college-level academic subjects. For instance, Dyer said he likes to talk to his science students about the history of science and scienegg drops for ideas. tists’ faith backgrounds. The pairs and trios of students discuss whether they’ll “A lot of times the scientific discoveries were driven by a go with a parachute or airbag option to desire to understand the creator of this “A lot of times the try and keep their egg from breaking mysterious universe,” he said. “And so, if when it’s dropped from the third story you can understand the universe, maybe scientific discoveries of Kennedy Catholic. Some already have you can understand the creator.” prototypes to show Dyer, who walks from were driven by a desire to “During class when he does prayer, he’s group to group answering questions. very religious and takes the time to pray “This egg is going to live. I can feel it,” understand the creator of with us and ask us if we have intentions,” he jokes with one group that has a fistful said senior Katie Thomas. She also loves this mysterious universe.” that he’s joyful. of straws ready to incorporate into their design. “Kids would say he’s one of the more Kale Dyer Seniors Steven Santos and Joseph Tapiaengaging teachers,” Kennedy Catholic Beeman plan to use straws as scaffolding around a Styropresident Michael Prato said, adding that Dyer is “as Cathofoam cup containing their egg to redirect force away from it. lic a person as I know.” Both students appreciate that Dyer does hands-on projects Approaching Catholicism like this one. “Because once you can relate to something, But Dyer wasn’t always Catholic. He and his older sister you start sort of seeing how it works, and then you start askwere raised by their parents in Monroe and later moved to ing the bigger questions behind it,” Steven said. Enumclaw, where he graduated from high school. His materGetting his students to look at the bigger questions, in nal grandmother, Jeannie Dyer, was Catholic, and as a child, learning and in faith, is Dyer’s goal as a Catholic schoolKale remembers saying grace before meals at her house and teacher. In his science and math classes, as a golf coach and spotting Catholic items in her house. as a club adviser, he focuses on the dignity of the human But his family attended various Protestant churches person and “seeing all my kids as being filled with the handthroughout his childhood, and Dyer considered himself print of God and wanting to be someone who adds to that Presbyterian by the time he started college at Western Washand fosters that.” ington University in Bellingham. There he played on the golf Grace as a teaching metaphor team, earned a teaching degree in math and physics and met In their work and in raising their two sons, Dyer said he a fellow student, Adrianne, who would become his wife. I 22 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org After he’d finished student teaching, Dyer was introduced to Young Life, a nondenominational Christian program that focuses on ministering to teens and young adults. He liked how Young Life leaders shared their faith through everyday interactions with young people rather than preaching at them. It’s an approach he uses today at Kennedy Catholic. Dyer eventually became a Young Life area director and earned a master’s degree in theology from Fuller Theological Seminary Northwest. Adrianne and Kale got married in 1997. Adrianne is a cradle Catholic from New Mexico and said she’d always hoped Dyer would become Catholic, especially so they could raise their future kids Catholic together. For the first year or so after they were married, the Dyers attended Sunday Mass together. And between 2000 and 2004, if you had asked him where he went to church, Dyer would have named St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Burien. But becoming Catholic was still an ongoing discernment process for him. Another milestone in that journey was when Dyer met Father Rock Sassano, a retired priest from the Archdiocese of Portland, through a mutual friend when Dyer was still in college. They would have long discussions about the differences between the Protestant and Catholic traditions and the importance of picking a faith tradition for one’s kids. “Rock had said to me, ‘Be the best person of faith that you can,’” Dyer recalled. In 2004, Dyer started the RCIA process, and he was received into full communion with the Catholic Church at Easter 2005. Successful leadership Around that same time, Dyer started working at Kennedy Catholic, first as a golf coach and then also as a religion, math and science teacher. The golf teams excelled under Dyer’s coaching with a 159-5 record for the boys and a 128-15 record for the girls over the last 12 years. Both teams finished this season undefeated, and for the first time there was enough funding to hire a separate girls coach. Dyer is just as passionate about teaching as he is about coaching. He wants students to think of their education as “being a learner versus a point accumulator,” a lesson he picked up from one of his high school teachers, Tim Tubbs, who also taught math and coached golf. Several of his physics students mentioned that Dyer doesn’t spoon-feed them answers but encourages them to work things out on their own. “He gives you all the tools you need to succeed, and then you have to find a way,” said senior Connor Loats. “And I find that you learn a lot better that way.” Dyer also advises the cooking club (he’s an avid cook) and created a Catholic version of Young Life at Kennedy Catholic called Lancer Life. It focuses on “faith, fun and friends, and then the occasional food,” he said. The group has met for breakfast before school and gone on camping trips, among other activities; Kale and Adrianne led it together before she left her campus ministry position at the school to become a chaplain resident at Harborview Medical Center this year. Dyer and fellow Kennedy Catholic teacher Ryan Kyler have teamed up as entertainment at school retreats and twice hosted a popular school auction prize — a student movie night with Dyer and Kyler. “He cares about faith being significant for kids in a meaningful way,” Adrianne said, whether it’s in the classroom or in casual conversation. Just as various people acted as stepping stones on his faith journey, so too does Dyer want to guide his students. “I have that opportunity to be one of those people that is part of the path, of the journey of kids,” he said. Family life Stephen Brashear Besides teaching at Catholic schools, the Dyers believe in a Catholic education for their sons. Jackson, 14, is at St. Anthony School in Renton and applying to Kennedy Catholic for the next school year. Isaac, 4, is likely to start kindergarten at the family’s parish school, St. Francis of Assisi. Adrianne’s family has a “rich Catholic tradition,” and last summer, Dyer was able to take Jackson to experience a part of that. The two went on a weeklong, 100-mile pilgrimage for vocations in the Archdiocese of Santa Fe. They walked with Jackson’s godfather and 45 others, praying, singing, carrying a cross and bunking down at different churches at night. It was a significant trip for both father and son, Dyer said. “For him that journey is transitioning from boyhood to manhood. We both saw and experienced how important community and others are in that journey,” Dyer said. “I experienced the richness of the Catholic faith and the unique expression of that in New Mexico.” “We slept in churches. We walked before the sun came up. We covered 100 miles and I’d do it again if the opportunity was there,” he added. The pilgrimage for vocations later got Dyer thinking about how teaching is in many ways his own vocation. “It’s hard to think of doing something else when I see teaching right now as being a response to who I am,” he said. 23 ( I N E N G L I S H : PA G E 4 ) PRAY earth E d A C fe Ee P human r pregnant STARVING poo l sorrowfu TRAFFICKING i th ive rg fo VE LO B O R N LIFE PEACE HENODMELESS ELDERLY counsel doubtful workers the lonely clo ed fe N visi t pray jus cretice IMPation RISO hungry NED pro-life y ti pa r bu LIFE OF bu ty rs WORKS OF MERCY feed hop e LO J POORVE U Las obras espirituales de misericordia ity l ia soUcSTIeCntEly dign Corporal & Spiritual D E L A R ZO B I S P O ry immigrants instruct Faith Hay aflicción en muchas formas y la atención a las diversas formas de dolor en los demás nos da la oportunidad de escucharlos y acompañarlos en su sanación. Quizá Tercera y última parte de la descubramos la necesidad de ayuda profesional adm n HOPE igdo para alguien y le ayudemos con la información. ig ish n serie enmarcando el Año de TRUorannit Detalles inesperados de amabilidad y gentileza TH t y la Misericordia hacia amigos y compañeros de trabajo ayudan END of LIFE CLOTHE a remover el velo de dolor que han estado acarreando por sí solos. Hay además tanto dolor LOVE eflexionamos en las obras de misericordia y sufrimiento en el mundo que tenemos que preguntándonos, ¿Busco en verdad el bien de tener cuidado de no aumentarlo con nuestro los demás? sarcasmo, rudeza, chismes o codicia. FAITH Perdonar las injurias. La ira es una prisión Es esencial que recordemos que las y solo cuando perdonamos nos liberamos de obras de misericordia tienen como ella. Aun cuando parezca que la venganza esté meta el encuentro con Cristo. En justificada y hasta promovida por los demás, en particular las obras espirituales de realidad nunca ayuda. Por el contrario, alimenta misericordia, porque se relacionan con más el ciclo de enojo y violencia. Cuando alguien ry asuntos personales muy delicados. buhope nos lastima, debemos empezar por orar por la Las obras espirituales de misericorLOVE persona que nos ha ofendido. Si hallamos difícil dia necesitan la prudencia y discreción perdonarlos, le pedimos a Dios que nos ayude a que proceden del Espíritu Santo. Al ejercitar su perdón. Por desgracia, tantas cosas de la vida en reflexionar sobre las mismas, pidamos todos los niveles surgen del enojo y la falta de perdón. Jesús ARZOBISPO la gracia de no ser solo condescendienrompió ese ciclo de rabia perdonándonos. Nos envolvió con J. PETER SARTAIN tes o prejuiciosos. De lo contrario nos su misericordia, para que nosotros también seamos miseriacercaremos a los demás con la intencordiosos. ción de “componerlos”. Eso estaría muy lejos del guiarlos Sufrir con paciencia los defectos del prójimo. No con ternura hacia un encuentro con Jesús. Solo Él puede estamos llamados a ser tapetes de nadie y tenemos derecho sanar y salvar. Puede ser que nosotros hagamos la presentaa defendernos. Como quiera que sea, si estamos siempre busción, pero Él hará el resto. cando probar que tenemos la razón, culpando a los demás y Enseñar al que no sabe. Cada cristiano es un apóstol lamentándonos de nuestras desgracias, perderemos la oporenviado a dar testimonio de la buena nueva. Pero para eso tunidad de aprender la crucial lección que Jesús nos enseñó: tenemos que asegurarnos de que conocemos la buena nueva, poner la otra mejilla y confiar por completo en Dios. Pelear de que nos hemos imbuido nosotros mismos en ella y que todas las batallas puede significar que confiamos en nuestras nos esforzamos en practicarla. Este acto de misericordia no destrezas y capacidades, sacando del camino a los demás, significa debatir o ganar discusiones. Es recibir la luz que perpetuando así el ciclo de violencia, sin aprender jamás la Dios desea para todos cuando encontramos la verdad en su mansedumbre y misericordia de Jesús. Hijo. Con ternura y respeto proclamamos la verdad y preOrar por los vivos y los difuntos. La oración de intersentamos a Jesús a los demás. cesión es parte de nuestro cristianismo cotidiano, pues maniDar buen consejo al que lo necesita. Todos en algu- fiesta y nutre nuestra comunión en la fe. Jesús está siempre na ocasión batallamos con la duda. Eso nos puede llevar a la intercediendo por nosotros y unimos nuestras oraciones a las confusión y la ansiedad. Con frecuencia la ansiedad es más de Él. Conviene recordar que no solo nosotros oramos por perturbadora que la duda. Animar a otros cuando los invade los muertos, también ellos oran por nosotros. la duda, ayudándoles a ver la presencia de Dios en sus vidas, Para finalizar, es importante recordar que no ejercemos con paciencia explicarles que Dios no nos abandona cuando obras de misericordia para ser reconocidos en público. tenemos luchas de fe son maneras de ofrecer solaz espiritual. “Tengan cuidado de no hacer obras buenas para ser vistos No está de más recordar que aun cuando dudemos de la por los demás; de ser así no tendrán recompensa de su Padre existencia de Dios o de su amor, ¡Él existe y nos ama! celestial. … Cuando den limosna, no dejen que su mano Corregir al que yerra. Hay que decir de antemano izquierda sepa lo que hace su derecha, para que su limosna que la conversión viene solo de Dios. No nos acercamos a permanezca en secreto. Y su Padre, que ve en lo secreto los los demás con la intención de arreglarlos; pues así solo los recompensará.” (Mateo 6,1-4) alejaremos más. Más bien les mostramos la misericordia de Mis actos de misericordia no son “míos”. Es Cristo que Dios y los animamos a buscarlo. En ocasiones, debemos sevive en mí y actúa a través de mí. Cuando le permito diriñalar cierto error en la conducta de alguien. Pero tendrá que girme con su gracia, las obras corporales y espirituales de ser con humildad y después de haber orado, como pecadores misericordia se hacen una “segunda naturaleza” en mí y me que confiamos también nosotros mismos en la misericordia acercan más a mi Señor. de Dios. Envíe sus intenciones de oración a la Lista de Oración del Consolar al afligido. Como en las obras corporales Arzobispo Sartain a: Archdiocese of Seattle, 710 Ninth Ave., de misericordia, estamos llamados a consolar al afligido. Seattle, WA 98104. n Boll e by Ell ation Illustr dea th p ena lty FEED RN BO N F pray le Vulnerab ABORTION EARTH ter DEAD ADVOCATE shelthirsty peace Disabled LOVE U ed N n riso G er M AKIN imp SS lt n H UFFIC LE AOME thirsty shecreatio TRH FAITHclothOe RGIVE workers R comfort AY TRUTH PR c lnessl e tal il menouns ard immigrants faith 24 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org S A N T O S D E L M E S ( I N E N G L I S H : PA G E 5 ) Sta. Mariana Cope Comparte un regalo de fe. Religiosa inmigrante asistió a los enfermos en Hawái O F T H E nHerUaRl EC H C Ge C AT H O L I C I N 2015 I N W T H EE S T ME A RG N AW Z IANS EH I ON FG TT O HN E C AT H O L I C F F W W W . NN WW CC AA TH OO L ILCI .CO. O RG TH RG OB C ET R O B2 E0R1 52 |0 1V5O |L .V O NOVEM 3 LN. O3. N 9O . 8 W E S T E R N WA S H I N G T O N Waves A testimony of faith OF HOPE Fiesta: Enero 23 Forty years ago, Vietnamese Catholics began heading to sea in search of freedom CNS Barbara Koob nació en Alemania y emigró a los Estados Unidos con su familia cuando tenía dos años. Se unió a las Hermanas de la Tercera Orden Regular de Sn. Francisco en Siracusa, Nueva York, sirviendo por 20 años como maestra y administradora de un hospital. En 1883 viajó con seis hermanas a Hawái para atender a los enfermos del mal de Hansen, conocido entonces como lepra. En 1888, abrieron una casa en Moloka i para mujeres y niñas con la enfermedad y continuaron la obra de Sn. Damián de Veuster tras su muerte. La Madre Mariana murió en Moloka i. Su fiesta es el día de su nacimiento. En su canonización en 2012, el Papa Benedicto XVI la llamó “un brillante ejemplo de la tradición de las religiosas católicas enfermeras y del espíritu de su amado Sn. Francisco.” Beato Fra Angélico Patrono de los artistas iniciaba cada obra con una oración 1400–1455 aprox. Fiesta: Febrero 18 CNS Fray Giovanni da Fiesole, conocido como el Beato Fra Angélico, fue un pintor del Renacimiento. Tras unirse a los dominicos en 1420, comenzó a ilustrar manuscritos y libros de coros, iniciando cada nueva obra con una oración. Sus retablos, pinturas y frescos religiosos aprovechaban el color al máximo para provocar un efecto espacial y emocional. Fra Angélico, que significa “hermano angélico”, decoró un monasterio entero en Florencia y dos capillas en Roma. Entre sus obras notables se cuentan su Anunciación y El Descendimiento de la Cruz. Rechazó el nombramiento de arzobispo de Florencia. Fue beatificado por el Papa Sn. Juan Pablo II en 1982. Los estudiantes de arte suelen dejar oraciones escritas cerca de su tumba en la basílica de Santa María Sopra Minerva en Roma. Es patrono de los artistas. Catholic News Service I N W W W. N WC AT H O L I C . O R G SEPTEMBER 2015 | VOL . 3 NO. 7 BLACK and CATHOLIC 1838–1918 C H U R C H ellence xc 2015 C Hr UaRl C H ne E Ge T HE ES TME AR GN A W Z IANSEH IONFG T H W OE N C AT H O L I C t Place irs M A G A Z I N E t Place irs T H E ellence xc 2015 F neral E Ge ellence xc t Place irs HAZ UN DONATIVO DE FIN DE AÑO, DEDUCIBLE DE IMPUESTOS, A LA COLECTA CATÓLICA DEL NOROESTE. Walking the Journey F E AT U R E S T O R Y A local take on the World Meeting of Families New initiative supports moms, dads and children from conception to age 5 PAGE 16 N O R O E S T E C AT Ó L I C O Las obras de misericordia: Marco de toda vida Cristiana PÁGINAS 20–23 C AT H O L I C V O I C E S How I faced my greatest fear and survived F E AT U R E S T O R Y F E AT U R E S T O R Y What will happen at the Synod on the Family? 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Descarga la aplicación de Plato de Arroz de CRS! ¡Y visita crsplatodearroz.org o communícate con tú Oficina Arquidiocesana de Misiones para fortalecer tú compromiso Cuaresmal! ¡Los calendarios de Plato de Arroz/Cuaresma están disponibles en tú parroquia! Llévate uno más para tú amigo o familiar cercano. Para más información sobre el programa de CRS Plato de Arroz en tú Arquidiócesis, visita por favor www.seattlearchdiocese.org/ricebowl o llama a la Oficina de Misiones al 206-382-4580 o al 1-800-869-7028. 25 DEL OBISPO ( I N E N G L I S H : N W C AT H O L I C . O R G ) Creer es … crear Vida de fe Shutterstock ‘Muéstrame tu fe sin obras, y yo por mis obras te mostraré mi fe’ (Santiago 2,18) que están a nuestro derredor. El amor expande el Para mí la fe es: “la respuesta gozosa en corazón, expande a la persona y la hace plural, lo la vida a la experiencia personal de haber hace transformar el yo en un nosotros. sido encontrado por alguien que me ama”. Cualquier hombre o mujer que esté o haya estado Fe vivida enamorado sabe que esa experiencia le cambió la La fe como encuentro amoroso con Dios nos existencia en todos sentidos. lleva a gastar tiempo con la persona amada. Los A partir de ese encuentro amoroso, una alegre diálogos con la persona amada son diálogos fuerza interior nos hizo tener una valentía y íntimos que llenan de felicidad y placer a los arrojo para acciones que antes hubiéramos OBISPO EUSEBIO enamorados. Para el creyente, esos diálogos se considerado fuera de nuestro alcance. Sin ninguna ELIZONDO, M.SP.S. realizan en la oración. En esa intimidad se conoce certeza tangible, empleamos en esos momentos lo siempre más al amado. Ahí descubrimos los mejor de nuestros recursos en persecución de lo gustos de Dios, sus preferencias, sus penas, sus dolores, lo que otros considerarían solo como ideales no realizables. que le desagrada, etc.; en esa intimidad descubrimos nuestra La vida amorosa es vida de fe, creer nos impulsa a crear. capacidad de generar cambios en nuestra vida, por el puro La persona que nos ha salido al encuentro nos ha hecho gozo de complacer a ese que nos ama y amamos. descubrirnos valiosos, nos ha dado una nueva dignidad y Dios nos ha amado hasta el extremo de hacerse uno de por lo mismo ha generado cambios en nuestra mente, en nosotros en Jesús para que el amor divino fuera tangible en nuestro cuerpo y en nuestros deseos. Los enamorados logran nuestra humanidad. Al vivir entre nosotros nos permitió hazañas que todos admiramos. Dios ha salido al encuentro de esos hombres y mujeres que conocer lo que le agrada y desagrada, lo que desea lograr en cada uno y lo que quiere impedir en nuestras vidas. Su amor los creyentes llamamos santos. Esa experiencia amorosa los nos empuja a vivir imitándolo. Su cuerpo y su sangre que ha hecho capaces de acciones que a los demás nos parecen recibimos en la Eucaristía nos hace capaces de seguirlo. Su proezas, pero para ellos es el gozoso resultado de ese pasión por la justicia se convierte en nuestra propia pasión. encuentro amoroso, de ese salto de fe. Su urgencia por promover la hermandad universal se hace La palabra mártir que usamos en español viene parte de nuestra urgencia de vida. Su rechazo de la violencia, directamente del idioma griego y significa precisamente el odio o las divisiones raciales, enraíza en nuestro corazón y testigo. El Papa Paulo VI solía decir que: “en el mundo hoy, nos hace vibrar en sintonía con sus sentimientos. más que maestros, necesitamos testigos”. El Papa Francisco La fe no es una idea, la fe es una relación. La fe es un nos ha invitado insistentemente a escuchar el clamor de encuentro transformador de la existencia. Ese encuentro nuestros hermanos; nos llama a involucrarnos tan de cerca amoroso genera el ferviente deseo de embellecer la propia con cada persona que esté buscando a Jesús, que podamos vida para ofrecerla como regalo al amado. El gozo personal sufrir y gozar con ellos. Que podamos ser mártires-testigos de ese encuentro se manifiesta en toda nuestra vida y de las alegrías y penas, de las búsquedas y luchas de cada uno de los que quieren ser discípulos-misioneros del amor de relaciones con los demás. La fe en el amado, nos hace crear un nuevo estilo de vida personal. Nos hace inventar Jesucristo en nuestro mundo. nuevas formas de perdón, de solidaridad, de sanación. Esas Ser testigo, ser mártir es una responsabilidad y una gozosas relaciones son nuestro mejor servicio, son nuestro dignidad que parecería más allá de nuestro alcance, a no mejor apostolado, son las que nos convierten en auténticos ser que sea consecuencia de estar enamorado. Sn. Pablo misioneros de la alegría, en auténticos mártires-testigos en decía: “El amor de Cristo nos apremia.” (2 Corintios 5,14) cualquier situación de nuestra vida. Podríamos parafrasear esto diciendo que el amor de Cristo La fe de María creó para toda la humanidad la historia de nos empuja, nos impele más allá de lo que nosotros mismos salvación que hacemos nuestra cada día. hubiéramos deseado. Ese amor desacomoda nuestro estilo de vida personal ya aprendido, ya establecido. Diríamos que ese Eusebio Elizondo, M.Sp.S., es obispo auxiliar de Seattle y vicario para el ministerio hispano. amor nos hace gozosamente sufrir las consecuencias de los cambios que se generan en nuestra vida, y en la vida de los 26 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org S E M I L L A S D E L A PA L A B R A ( I N E N G L I S H : N W C AT H O L I C . O R G ) Hagamos un solo propósito para 2016: Seamos misericordiosos Saquemos provecho al Jubileo de la Misericordia y seamos mejores personas este año I nuestros hijos lo que no saben; daremos niciamos cada año con la esperanza de consejos sin imponerlos a quienes nos lo pidan; tener una vida mejor. Pareciera nos atreveremos a corregir a quien sabemos muchas veces que anhelábamos que el que hierra en vez de seguir callando; no nos desentenderemos del dolor de quienes nos rodean año viejo concluyera, con la urgencia de y los consolaremos; seremos más pacientes y cerrar un capítulo que quizás fue muy tolerantes que antes con las imperfecciones de amargo en nuestra vida. Al cambiar de los demás; dedicaremos más tiempo a rezar por página hacia el capítulo nuevo que nos vivos y muertos … y sin duda lo más desafiante: ¡Seremos más generosos para perdonar y más ofrece la vida que Dios nos ha dado, MAURICIO I. PÉREZ firmes con nosotros mismos para desterrar el esperamos que este año sea mejor que rencor de nuestro corazón! el anterior. Y anhelamos a la vez, ser nosotros El propósito de ser más misericordiosos basta y sobra para que seamos mejores personas y mejores hijos de Dios mismos mejores que antes. Este 2016 resulta muy especial. Se trata del Jubileo de la Misericordia. Un año santo para superar aquella carencia de misericordia que tanto preocupa al Papa Francisco y que vemos que claramente va fracturando las vidas de cada persona, de cada familia y de cada sociedad. Muchas veces incluso, la vida de cada parroquia se ve afectada por esta falta de misericordia. Y el papa quiere que este año, superemos esa crisis. Caminando con paso firme por “las sendas del Señor, que son misericordia y fidelidad para los que guardan su alianza y sus mandatos.” (Salmo 25,10) Conviene repetirnos a diario la frase del Sermón de la Montaña: “Bienaventurados los misericordiosos, porque ellos alcanzarán misericordia.” (Mateo 5,7) Si nos tomamos a pecho nuestra religión, este 2016 nuestra lista de buenos propósitos debería reducirse a uno solo: Ser más misericordiosos que antes. Porque este solo propósito, bien vivido, se traducirá en un manantial de misericordia que brotará de nuestro corazón: Alimentaremos a más personas hambrientas que nos tienden la mano; ofreceremos nuestra casa a quienes precisen de compañía; donaremos más ropa a las personas que necesitan cobijo en la calle; sacrificaremos más nuestro preciado tiempo personal para visitar a las personas enfermas y para asistir a los funerales de nuestros familiares o amigos. Igualmente, tendremos más paciencia al enseñar a este año. Repasar estos dos párrafos anteriores nos hace comprender por qué la urgencia del Papa Francisco de hacer de este, un mundo más misericordioso. Y es que, siendo misericordiosos, reflejamos la imagen de Dios y nos hacemos más semejantes a Él: “Sean misericordiosos como su Padre es misericordioso.” (Lucas 6,36) Por el contrario, la falta de misericordia hace a las personas egoístas e insensibles, desinteresadas y apáticas, intolerantes e incomprensivas, despiadadas y vengativas, rencorosas y agresivas. ¡Y por eso el mundo está como está! Por eso Francisco quiere que aprendamos todos a ser misericordiosos. Solo así seremos merecedores de la misericordia de Dios. Trabajemos pues, empezando en nuestro hogar, por ser artífices de la misericordia. Por dejar de provocar conflictos y amargura. Más bien, resolviendo nosotros mismos cualquier tensión, disgusto o conflicto que esté robando la paz a cada miembro de nuestra familia y a toda nuestra familia en consecuencia. Trabajemos por la misericordia todos los días, recordando que celebramos este gran jubileo, y seremos bienaventurados, porque recibiremos de Dios su misericordia. ¡Apasiónate por nuestra fe! Mauricio I. Pérez, miembro de la Parroquia de Sta. Mónica en Mercer Island, es periodista católico y escritor. Su sitio web es www.semillasparalavida.org. ACEPTANDO APLICACIONES! Queen of Angels Catholic School Queen of Angels Catholic School www.qofaschool.org Donde nuestros niños Why choose us?aman, aprenden y Queen crecen of Angels...con Dios 1007 South Oak St. Port Angeles, WA 98362 360-457-6903 ww w.qo fa sc h o ol.or g -Offers a challenging curriculum -Has integrated, advanced Llame hoy para mas información classroom technology -Fosters compassion and service • Hablamos 360-457-6903 -Has español a community environment -Scores consistently higher on standardized tests Port Angeles, 3URYLGHVPDQ\¿HOGWULS WA • 360-457-6903 enrichment opportunities -Teaches values and character 27 NEWS & EVENTS Day of Mercy Upcoming retreats Stephen Brashear As part of the Year of Mercy called by Pope Francis, priests from across the Archdiocese of Seattle — including Archbishop J. Peter Sartain and Auxiliary Bishop Eusebio Elizondo — will hear confessions throughout a special Day of Mercy, Saturday, March 5, at St. James Cathedral in Seattle. The Archbishop Brunett Retreat Center at the Palisades in Federal Way has several weekend retreats coming up, including: Feb. 12–14: “The Surprising Sacrament of Matrimony” led by Father Tom Vandenberg. Msgr. Brian Bransfield Catholic Advocacy Day Join hundreds of Catholics from around Washington state for Catholic Advocacy Day, an annual opportunity for prayer, education and advocacy on behalf of the poor and vulnerable, on Monday, Feb. 8. The day, with the theme “Proclaim Justice and Life for All,” begins at 9 a.m. with legislative briefings and Mass at St. Michael Church in Olympia, followed by appointments with legislators. Chartered buses depart from Bellevue, Bellingham, Burlington, Everett, Federal Way, Kirkland, Renton, Seattle, Tacoma and Vancouver. Register by Jan. 18 at ipjc.org. Feb. 12–14: Shakespeare’s Henry IV, Part 1 led by Father Stephen Rowan. March 11–13: Women’s silent Lenten retreat led by Salesian Father Tom Landgraff. Stephen Brashear March 18–20: Palm Sunday silent retreat led by Msgr. Scott Friend of Little Rock, Arkansas. April 1–3: Men’s silent retreat led by Msgr. Brian Bransfield, general secretary-elect of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops. To register, visit palisadesretreatcenter.org. Week of Prayer for Christian Unity Lenten regulations Feb. 10 is Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent, the season of intense spiritual preparation for the celebration of Jesus’ resurrection on Easter, March 27. During Lent, Catholics are called to penances and works of charity that reflect a deep desire for conversion of heart. The minimum requirements for Catholics include: The annual Week of Prayer for Christian Unity, with the theme “Called to Proclaim the Mighty Acts of the Lord,” is Jan. 18–25. It is sponsored by the Commission on Faith and Order of the World Council of Churches and the Pontifical Council for Promoting Christian Unity. For more information, visit geii.org. Abstinence: If you’re 14 or older, don’t eat meat on Ash Wednesday, Good Friday (March 25) and all Fridays of Lent. Fasting: If you’re 18–59, don’t eat more than one full meal and two small meals on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. If following these rules would seriously affect your health or ability to work, don’t worry about them. CNS/Bob Roller 28 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org Visit NWCatholic.org and page 6 for more news and events. STUDENTS OF THE MONTH Mackenzie Jorgensen Holy Names Academy Senior Robin Gunderson Mass for Life Archbishop J. Peter Sartain will celebrate a Mass for Life on Tuesday, Jan. 19, at 9:30 a.m. in the Marcus Pavilion at Saint Martin’s University in Lacey. The Mass precedes the Washington State March for Life, at noon at the state Capitol in Olympia, which annually draws thousands to mark the anniversary of the 1973 Roe v. Wade Supreme Court decision decriminalizing abortion in the U.S. For Mass details, call the archdiocesan Liturgy Office at 206-382-4878. For parking and other questions, email ocff@seattlearch.org. BUSINESS GUIDE Mackenzie received an Aspirations in Computing award from the National Center for Women & Information Technology for founding a computer coding club for fourth-grade girls at Seattle’s Our Lady of the Lake School and creating a nonprofit, Women Advancing Tomorrow’s Technologists, to start more coding clubs. A member of Our Lady of the Lake Parish, she is also a competitive Irish step dancer. Nathanial Post Seattle Preparatory School Senior Nathanial “has shown a great deal of focus and perseverance” as a four-year member of the Panther football program, said Athletic Director Mark Cross, earning a starting position as a senior and being named first-team all-league kicker and second-team punter. He holds a 4.0 GPA, has taught Sunday school for three years at Bellevue Presbyterian and volunteers at a retirement home. In each edition through June, N orthwest C atholic will honor students for their achievements and contributions in the classroom, in their extracurricular activities, and in their churches and communities. At the end of the school year, two Students of the Year will be selected to receive $1,000 N orthwest C atholic scholarships. To advertise in the NW Catholic Business Guide, contact advertising@seattlearch.org or call 206-382-2075. 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She is a breath of fresh air in a world full of people trying to conform. She can’t impress others with her knowledge, looks, conversation or wealth, and so she gives us the gift of a Christlike acceptance based not on external things but on an open heart. L’Arche founder Jean Vanier once said, “People with intellectual disabilities are so spontaneous and true! They attract and awaken the heart. Their thirst for friendship, love and communion leaves no one indifferent. Either you harden your heart to their cry and reject them, or you open your heart and enter into a relationship built on trust, simple, tender gestures and few words.” Christen Mattix is a member of Sacred Heart Parish in Bellingham. 30 Northwest Catholic / January/February 2016 / NWCatholic.org Sunrise in Your Smile by Christen Mattix Christen Mattix Little did I know this job would change my life. I started working two overnight shifts a week, which allowed me to make art on the other days. But I struggled to find meaning in my work as a caregiver and realized that I needed to make art out of the experience. With the approval of my supervisors, I began making bold portraits of Malissa on large pieces of plywood. This work changed how I saw Malissa — I became much more aware of the presence of Jesus in her, how much God loves her and works through her. But a wonderful surprise awaited us all. Last spring, as an experiment, we gave Malissa a canvas, and she hasn’t stopped painting since. Malissa is nonverbal, but her paintings give ex- The Malissa Perry Project, an exhibit featuring Perry’s abstractions and Christen Mattix’s portraits of Perry, is on display through Jan. 31 at St. Joseph Medical Center in Bellingham. You can see the paintings online at facebook.com/ themalissaperryproject. Christen Mattix had just returned to pression to a rich, enigmatic inner life. Bellingham after spending She creates dense, atmospheric layers of marker, glitter and paint that sugsix months at a Cistercian gest nebulae, tidal pools or glittering monastery discerning God’s geodes. The surfaces of her paintings direction for my life. I realized incorporate found objects like shoethat God wanted me laces, beads and balloons culled from her daily life. back in the world, Malissa is not powerful working as an artist. in the eyes of the world, but Bewildered but trying she has tremendous power in the kingdom of God. to stay open to God’s When Jesus said blessed leading, I was at a are the poor and the meek, grocery store when I’m sure he was thinking of people like Malissa. She a woman — an CHRISTEN MATTIX is a devout Catholic who acquaintance from a receives Communion every Catholic prayer meeting week through a faithful eucharistic minister who visits her home. She loves — tapped me on the shoulder to turn on her battery-powered candle and asked if I needed a job. and pray with her caregivers — whethThis had never happened to er or not they are Catholic. (She’s a bit me before. In a matter of days, of an evangelist!) Her childlike dependency has drawn together a beautiful I had an interview lined up to community of women who act as her work with a woman with Down caregivers and friends. Malissa’s gifts syndrome and autism named to others are simple but profound — a radiant smile, a joyful dance, a glittery Malissa Perry. VIEW THE PAINTINGS Untitled by Malissa Perry LET YOUR CATHOLIC VOICE BE HEARD Send your column (650 words or less) to editor@seattlearch.org, and include “Catholic Voices” in the subject line. If we publish it, we’ll send you $100. Where will my granchildren find my grave? Do you have the cremated remains of a loved one at home? 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