Applaud Women - Just Naturals
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Applaud Women - Just Naturals
A PPLAUD NH/MA PREMIER ON-LINE MAGAZINE For LOCAL WOMEN WOMEN Beauty-Tips, Trends & Information for 2011 OUR INSPIRATIONAL WOMEN Spring Fashion from Saks, Neimans & Bergdorfs PLUS Our First Annual BEST in BEAUTY ANNUAL BEAUTY ISSUE SPRING, 2011 Wendy and Don before surgery in July 2004 Wendy and Don in 2009, two years after successful bariatric surgery Why choose the Center for Weight Management and Bariatric Surgery for your weight loss procedure? • Designated by the American College of Surgeons as a Level IA Accredited Bariatric Center • Multi-disciplinary team including nutrition and behavior counseling, exercise, and support groups • Options for bariatric surgery and medical weight loss • Experienced surgeons performed more than 2,000 successful surgeries Change your body, change your life! Learn how surgical and medically supervised weight loss could help you change your life! 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Our readers enjoy reading articles written by local professionals and this provides our advertisers with a unique opportunity to establish a relationship with our readers and share their expertise. Our advertising package provides for a FREE editorial page and an ad. All for a small fee. Editorial topics are awarded on a first come, first serve basis. If you have an expertise that you think local women will be interested in feel free to contact us. We invite you to become an APPLAUD Columnist. CALL 603-895-4699 for details. 72 Beauty - Tips, Trends and Information for 2011 91 WE TRIED IT Is Loosing Weight a Challenge for You? It is for Me. 92 104 Cinderella Makeover-2011 106 Girl Meets Bra, The Saga of Ill Fit. 108 Beauty & Aging; The Makeup Solution. 114 Best in Beauty Contest Winners. Hunger Triggers Park 3: The Diet Food Effect. 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No permission will be given for any unauthorized person to remove any pages, sections or series of pages from the pdf file which has been generated for this publication. 12 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Hello Readers, This is our annual beauty issue and a personal favorite of mine. This is the issue where each year we, along with other local businesses who volunteer their time, and a nonprofit organization that helps local women achieve their personal best, work together to provide one young lady with a total makeover, helping her to see both her outer and inner beauty. Sometimes that can be so crucial to achieving self confidence and self esteem. Some of us, myself included, are so concerned with not looking as good as we would like on the outside that we feel we are not at our best on the inside either. It takes that eye opening moment — when these young women can see that they are truly beautiful — for them to realize it actually started on the inside all along. I am so grateful to have the opportunity to facilitate this project. I believe it is so important that people, women especially, have the opportunity to achieve their goals because in the end they bring more to society as a whole; and as their children see them succeed, they in turn are motivated to become goal-oriented members of society also. I am pleased that I can do my small part to participate in the process and I applaud those organizations that see the potential in these women and help them to achieve it. Okay, off the soapbox. Read on to find out what else we have in store for you in this issue. Samantha Arroyo has written a fabulous article with beauty tips, trends and information. Find out about the new pill to get rid of gray hair, how to keep long hair healthy, vitamin therapy, what to do with those puffy eyes, acne, anti-aging tips, and much more. I’m sure there is something here for everyone. We also have a great article on correct bra fitting; Dr. Jennifer Warren’s article on Hunger Triggers-The Diet Food Effect; the latest in my weight loss battle and our Best in Beauty winners. Plus, my very own makeup makeover with Kriss Soterion who shows us how we can look younger just by using the right makeup. She did a fabulous job on my face!!! Make sure you check out the articles that our regular columnists have written about both inner and outer beauty. We have more exciting new writers starting with this issue: Alexandra Morrill writing in the Parenting section about Children and Reading; Peggy Nolan who shares advice for Step Moms; and Christine Davis writing about being a Single (Again) Mom in our Dating section. I have also started a new We Tried It project with Dr. Holly Ruocco of Advanced Allergy Centers of NE. Dr. Ruocco offers a breakthrough technology for patients with allergies. This technology and the information that I have gleaned from AAC of NE is fascinating. We also have a fantastic article for those of you who are providing long-term care for a family member. Read these tips on managing and creating balance. Finally, we have an article for those of you are interested in learning about Flower Essences and how they are used in the wellness process. Keep up with our regular columnists who continuously provide interesting and valuable information, whether it’s new recipes; life, business or fashion advice; help with finances; seniors; parenting; or just for fun sections like our “To Dream or Buy” fashion section from Neiman’s, Saks & Bergdorf’s. And the best for last, as always we have interviewed inspirational women who are deserving of our “Applauds” and we hope will inspire you to find and follow your dreams if you are not there already. As always we want to provide you with the best product that we can so please feel free to call or e-mail me personally with suggestions at (603-895-4699) or applaud@comcast.net. 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I think your magazine is wonderful especially for businesses in New Hampshire, it’s great to know that such a nice magazine is within our community and areas! UNBELIEVABLE! ASTOUNDING! INCREDIBLE! FUN, INFORMATIVE, SUCH DIVERSITY OF TOPICS A Memorial for all of us who have lost friends and family to devastating diseases. FOR WOMEN OF ALL AGES! GREAT LAYOUT AND USE OF TECHNOLOGY! I just sent this off to about 100 or so people. Susan I can’t believe you do all that you do. This is great! I’ve already got responses that they loved this magazine and couldn’t find it any longer in the stores. I told them to sign on. Spring 2011 www.anniesangels.net www.anniesangels.net www.Applaudwomen.com 13 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication THE APPLAUD WOMEN Advisory Board We would like to take this opportunity to thank the members of our Advisory Board for taking the time to assist us in our mission to provide information to the women of NH and MA. We have invited women from different ages, areas and in different relationship statuses so that we can we have an understanding of the information that will be helpful, interesting, entertaining and relevant. Shelly Berman-Rubera, President of SBR-Small Business Results; Newton, MA, A Certified Small Business Coach, Emotional Intelligence Leader and Professional Speaker. The companies signature program “Rock Your Business World” is a systematic framework which provides commitment, focus, skills, and structure to develop business owners and entrepreneurs SBR has the magic touch for recharging your batteries, building momentum and helping you stay focused on the results that matter most. For more information visit www.smallbusresults.com or www.smallbusresults.com or call 617-969-7224. Diana Pinkham is the CEO of With You in Mind Gift Basket Company. Her passion for small businesses and word of mouth referrals led her to Gold Star Referral Clubs where she quickly established over eight clubs throughout the state of NH. She is currently, the Regional Dir of NE and about to launch her second company called Diana and Company which will help with small business marketing strategies and execution. With many years of networking combined with her advanced marketing skills,she is helping small businesses establish the foundations they need to be successful! She believes a company should not survive, it should thrive. To contact Diana email: dianapinkham@yahoo.comor visit www.nenetworkers.com Liz Vagenas is the President of Path Defined, Inc. and a Life Coach specializing in Career, Transition, Grief, and Mid-Life Dating/Relationships. She has managed a number of corporations as the Vice President of Training, Staffing, and Coaching. She has taken her previous employers, and clients, to an increase in profit by 200-300%, through her consultative and creative management style over the past 20 years. She has become a trusted advisor and coach to clients globally. She is a member of the International Coach Federation, North Shore Women in Business, DWC Advisory Board of the North Shore. For more information contact her at 617-733-4456 or liz@pathdefined.net. Visit her website at www.pathdefined.net Rosaleen Doherty is the co-owner of Right at Home, In Home Care & Assistance, which. has provided senior home care services from offices in Haverhill, Salem and Wakefield, MA since 2002. The agency was created due to the emerging desire of seniors to live in their homes safely and now serves 500 families throughout Northeastern MA. Rosaleen is a past president of North Shore Women in Business, President-Elect of the Rotary Club of Marblehead Harbor, a past nominee for the Lydia E. Pinkham Award for Businesswoman of the Year. Reach her at 978-744-5151 or rdoherty@rightathomemass.com. Visit her at www.rightathomemass.net/ 14 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication MAKE SURE YOU DON’T MISS ANOTHER ISSUE OF APPLAUD WOMEN! Look for the image below in the upper left corner of this webpage or at www.applaudwomen.com under the cover image of the current issue of the magazine. It’s quick, easy and safe. We do not sell or transfer your email address. FREE SUBSCRIPTION Click Above Privacy by SafeSubscribeSM Applaud Womenwww.CaritasHolyFamily.org expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication that is perfect for you. ADVISORY BOARD- continued Lori J Gaff is a Program Manager for a nonprofit and a consultant/coach to individuals & business owners. From 2000 to 2008, she was a successful business owner of a postsecondary career institute providing training & consulting services to NH businesses, government & state funded agencies. Lori has been recognized as Woman of Achievement, Outstanding Women in Business & An Inspirational Woman in Networking. She holds leadership positions in the following organizations: Concord Chamber of Commerce; BITS ETC; Girls Inc & the Dept. of Labor Rehabilitation Advisory Council. She can be reached at 603-490-5254, lorigaff@comcast.net. Maureen Campaiola is a Business Coach and Founder of DARE To Be Phenomenal. Known as “The Dare Coach” by her clients, she coaches women entrepreneurs, and business owners to move beyond dollars for hours and develop systems so that they can have the freedom they crave! Go to her website at www.DareToBePhenomenal.com and sign up for your FREE Report “7 Quick and Simple Tips To Move You Towards a Phenomenal Life” or call her at 978-794-4991. Visit her website at www.DareToBePhenomenal.com Melissa Lesniak is your local Realtor on the Seacoast of NH & Maine with Keller Williams Coastal Realty The Melissa Lesniak Group. With over 15 years in sales and customer service experience, Melissa has learned the importance of building your business through relationships and referrals. Her focus is on working with 1st Time Home Buyers, Seniors looking to Downsize, Residential & Commercial Rentals, and helping homeowners through the Short Sale process during times of hardship. Visit her website at www.TheAgentYouKnow.com or www.OneMoreReferral.com. Layne Case is the owner of AMITY Publications, a small publishing company in Barrington, NH. Layne has published her two children books, “Charlie” and “Charlie and His New Friend”; as well as her poetry book, “Inspirations from My Family & Friends”. She developed a literacy program called Read UP! Write ON! Literacy RULES!, where she offers storytelling and teaches children how to write and publish books. Layne also speaks to groups, sharing her poetry through her message “The Journey Traveled”. Layne can be reached at info@amitypublications.com. For more information visit www.amitypublications.com. Rhiannon Fenstermaker is a Personal Chef working in the Greater Seacoast Area, providing Heat and Eat, Supper Solutions. Her service is an in home cooking service that works with each client to help customize a menu that suits their needs. She brings all her own equipment, containers, shops for all the groceries and will cook meals for a week to be heated when you’re ready! No more having to worry about what’s for dinner. Reach her at 603-679-2412 or chefrhiannon@thedinnergoddess.com. Visit www.thedinnergoddess.com. 16 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Learn The Secrets To Attracting Your Perfect Mate If you’re tired of struggling for love, tired of the match.com and eHarmony promises, or tired of the countless disappointing dates you’ve been on, then let Cheri Valentine, Relationship Mastery Expert, help you experience a more satisfying approach. • • • • • • • • Shiftyourresistancetohappinessthat’skeepingyoufromlove Createalastingbondwithaperfectmate Releasepastemotionaltraumaandblockages Befullyavailabletoyourperfectmate Overcomeyourbarriersandexcusestofindingtruelove Healfromthepainofpastrelationships Changeoldrelationshipthoughts,beliefs,andpatterns Avoidthebiggestmistakesthatsinglesmakeontheirjourney toattractingaperfectmate • Andmuch,much,more! ARE YOU READY TO MAIFEST THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE - YOUR PERFECT MATE? 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For more information visit Susan’s website at www.agreatnewlook.com or call (978) 807-0577. Nancy Blake, Dover, NH, owner of “Mother Hen Antiques” online at www.rubylane.com/shop/motherhenantiques. Most recently Nancy was Membership and Education Manager at the Women’s Business Center in Portsmouth, NH. Nancy has a customer service background in non-profit, retail and manufacturing, is former Director of Volunteer Services for the New Hampshire Symphony Orchestra, and former Board Member of New Generation, Greenland, NH. E-mail Nancy at motherhenantiques@comcast.net. For more information check out her website at www.etsy.com/shop/motherhenantiques Debra LeClair Psy.D. is a life/executive coach, corporate trainer and psychologist who partners with organizations and individuals around making positive and sustainable change. Debra helps those seeking career satisfaction, enhanced communication skills and improved team/individual performance. She owns Full Spectrum Wellness LLC, a holistic health and learning center and co-owns Platinum Principle Training & Development, a company that specializes in interpersonal effectiveness training for organizations. Visit her on-line at either www.fullspectrumwellness.com. Helen Donington. is the Chair and Co-Founder of Catapult Seacoast. In addition to her work with the young professionals’ organization, Donington is full-time member of the marketing team at alternative investment firm, Lincoln Vale. Helen is an alumna of Leadership Seacoast and served on Governor Lynch’s Task Force for the Retention and Recruitment of Young Workforce. Currently, she serves on the Board of Stay, Work, Play NH. Helen has great appreciation for community, the entrepreneurial spirit and the importance of social capital. For more information visit www.catapultseacoast.org. Dana Sonia is a wife and mother of 4 children, ages 5-19; a volunteer in her community and owner of Gift Baskets by Your Design LLC, a company specializing in NH products. Named A Top 50 Gift Basket Company, Featured as a Regional Expert in the “Gift Basket Design Book” and named Applaud Magazine’s Amazing Woman of 2007, she loves helping others find the passion in their business. Baskets by Your Design, 1 Broadway (By Appointment), Concord NH 03301. www.NHGiftBaskets.com. 603-365-6101, 877-248-GIFT. 18 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication i lifestyles/ Real Stories Reflection By layne case I met this amazing woman a few years ago. She was a business colleague whose energy and bright smile just complimented her intelligence in the world of marketing. Somehow, we clicked personally as well. I don’t remember what exactly made us click but I do know “who” made it happen. I’m a firm believer that people come into your life for a reason…she is one of them. We shared some lunches…even met for breakfast one morning so her twin girls could meet an “author”. Oh, they were delightful…so excited to sit with me. I can’t begin to tell you how excited I was and honored that she would think me important enough to allow me to meet her precious daughters. Our “business” paths have since shifted, but we have remained connected and I am truly grateful for that. I wrote this poem to her before that shift to help her through some challenging moments in her life. Layne Case James 1:2-4 Difficult Days Dear brothers, is your life full of difficulties and temptations? Then be happy, for when the way is rough, your patience has a chance to grow. So let it grow, and don’t try to squirm out of your problems. For when your patience is finally in full bloom, then you will be ready for anything, strong in character, full and complete. To a dear friend, age 40, who suffered a heart attack… Reflection Moments like this, when we can’t imagine the why We are forced to reflect on the what. What now? What will I do? What is in store for me? And the where… Where do I go from here? Where is my path leading me? Stopping isn’t an option nor is changing the course! Layne Case is the owner of AMITY Publications, and author of “Inspirations from My Family & Friends”, a collection of poems and Bible verses written during times of crisis or celebration to help comfort and bring a sense of peace to the recipient. For more information, visit www.amitypublications.com. A A PPLAUD omen W Yet, it is times like this that we learn we are not in control. Only God is in control. And, sometimes… HE decides it’s time to change your course. now that we are totally on-line we can offer you so much more than the magazine. We have resource listings: Restaurants, Female doctors, Wedding and Beauty Service professionals, Hotels, and articles, RSS feeds and links on all the subjects we cover in the magazine. So, consider… What is important? Where is HE leading me? Why does HE need me to change my ways? Know Him, trust Him, believe in Him For HE is all knowing and all loving. And, you are His child, for whom HE has designed a plan. Reflect on HIS purpose…not yours. Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 19 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication lifestyles/ Food Irene’s Spring Recipe i ORANGE ROSEMARY CHICKEN By irene clothier Infused with fresh herb and citrus flavors, this Orange Rosemary Chicken recipe will be perfect for your next family dinner. It’s easy enough to make on a weeknight, or enjoy over the weekend and use the leftovers in salads, sandwiches, or pasta dishes. The carcass can also be used in making a delicious homemade stock. Orange Rosemary Chicken Serves 5-6 Ingredients: 1 whole chicken, 6-8 lbs, thawed 1 large orange, cut into quarters 2-3 sprigs fresh rosemary 1 ½ cups Chicken broth 2 tbsp Extra Virgin Olive Oil 1 tbsp dried rosemary Salt and pepper Irene Clothier Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Remove gizzards and rinse and pat dry chicken; place on oven rack in deep baking dish, breast side up. Stuff chicken with whole rosemary sprigs and orange segments. Add broth to pan. Drizzle oil and massage into top of chicken; season with remaining ingredients. Specialty Teas Tea Lectures Tea Tastings Tea Functions Danielle Beaudette, Owner/Certified Tea Specialist 40 Mountain Road, Brookline, NH 03033 603-249-9111 info@TheCozyTeaCart.com www.TheCozyTeaCart.com www.TheCozyTeaCart.com Bake chicken for 30 minutes, covered with aluminum foil. Remove foil and bake an additional 1 ½ - 2 hours, until top is browned, plastic meat thermometer has popped out (if one came with the bird, that is) and juices run clear. Let chicken rest for at least 20 minutes before carving; remove orange segments and rosemary sprigs from the cavity and discard. While meat rests, transfer liquid from baking dish to saucepan, and simmer over medium heat until sauce is reduced by about half, 15-20 minutes (use a splash of chicken broth or orange juice to thin sauce if it becomes too thick). Serve alongside carved chicken. Irene Clothier is a freelance food writer, personal chef and owner of Bright Eyes Catering. BEC which specializes in catering parties and home cooked pre-made meals With more than a decade of restaurant industry experience, Irene combines her knowledge of food and drink with creative writing. A UNH honors graduate, Irene enjoys food writing and has created and published more than a dozen original recipes; she hopes to eventually write a cookbook. She currently lives in Dover,NH. Irene can be reached at reenie1224@comcast.net. Visit her website at www.brighteyescatering.com A 20 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Chef Oonagh’s Corner o One Saturday in February after yet another New Hampshire snow storm, I went for lunch with some girlfriends to the Bavaria Restaurant in Hooksett, NH. I had trained in Switzerland as part of my Culinary Arts degree and enjoyed the dishes prepared in Switzerland, Germany, and Austria. At heart, it is real peasant fare. That isn’t a bad thing. It just means good, hearty food that doesn’t need fancy garnishes, sauces or extravagant ingredients. Even though I haven’t been to Bavaria, when I walked in the door, there was an immediate feeling of recognition. It was like an elegant Bier Keller without the noise and smoke I remembered from my student days. The walls are plain but decorated with old cooking utensils, beautiful spoons, and copper pans. Near the entry is a 3-4 foot long, hand-carved wooden, crucified Christ. I had seen many carvings like this in Austria and Switzerland in both homes and churches. Dark wood tables and chairs reflect the wood around the walls and windows. A flag of Bavaria was mounted behind the bar. Ceramic steins (beer mugs) are arranged on shelves. And if you are waiting to eat, spend the time to take a good look at the old black and white photos on the walls. It wasn’t crowded at lunchtime, but enough people were there so you didn’t feel you were rattling around on your own. They do advise making reservations for Friday and Saturday night. lifestyles/ Food RESTAURANT REVIEW-Bavarian German Restaurant By Oonagh williams home to my husband. A major advantage is that all the sausages tasted ‘real’ unlike too many German sausages in a supermarket. The sausages all tasted different, two were more of the hot dog texture but with flavor, one was crisply grilled and one was definitely s p i c y. We always check out the menu in advance and start deciding what to choose. Plus we try to order a variety of dishes to share, so we can experience even more taste sensations. The online menu has photos of some of the dishes, but none that we tried. The soup of the day ‘Tagesuppe’ was a rich, creamy leek soup ($4.50) that Connie and Allyson chose. I had made leek soup recently so I wanted to try some of the sausages. Of course, I did get to taste the leek soup and it was wonderful, but definitely made with cream, none of that non-fat milk here. I chose Münchner Wurstplatte ($13.90) – literally Munich sausage plate. It is described as a variety of Bavarian sausages, served with sauerkraut or Bavarian potato salad. The very friendly, knowledgeable waitress told us it was one of each of the sausages on the German sausage specialties list: Nürnberger Rostbratwürstl, Bratwurst, Wienerwürstl, and Regensburger. They are all listed just as sausages so you have no idea what you are getting, but I wanted to try a variety, share with Allyson and Connie, and still have some left to take I asked for Bavarian potato salad rather than sauerkraut. I was told that Bavarian potato salad was not like the German potato salad we are used to here, with vinegar, onions and bacon. You can see it in the photo the four sausages with the potato salad. The salad looked a bit like over cooked mashed potatoes, but it was cold, with a tang from some vinegar and just a little bit of onion. Quite different but with the mustard, everything married well together. For our entrées, I looked forward to a real Wiener Schnitzel. This is normally a thin piece of veal, breaded and fried until crisp and golden. Apart from eating a lot of these in Switzerland and Austria, the last time I had a really good schnitzel was in London. Schnitzels are listed under ‘vom grill und aus der pfanne’ (from the grill and Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 21 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Continued from previous page. pan) and on the menu are only listed as made from pork. That day, veal was offered as an alternative to some of the pork dishes. They charge $5.50 to substitute veal for pork. I chose Jägerschnitzel ($21.80 +$5.50), a lean boneless piece of veal, coated in breadcrumbs, topped with a mushroom cream sauce and served with homemade spätzle (fresh noodles that look like a mis-shapen coffee bean). Allyson had the same dish but with breaded pork and Connie was good and had the pork without breading. You had the option of roast potatoes, which might sound quite boring. However, while we were waiting, we of course were looking at the other customers’ meals as they were served. The roast potatoes were like massive, crunchy, obviously pan fried, home fries, not just thrown in a deep fryer. They’ll do for next time. In case you think this is expensive for a lunch, the portions are the same at lunch as dinner and so are the same price. I didn’t take a photo of our entrées as they arrived. The portions were so big, we were rendered speechless, and smelt so good that we just started eating straight away. The men would be quite happy with that amount of food, but we all took home half of our entrée. Silence fell while we mmm’d our way through lunch: the meat was tender and juicy; the light crispy breadcrumb crust wasn’t overcooked; our really indulgent, creamy mushroom sauce was made from fresh mushrooms, no canned mushrooms here. Plus the pleasure of home made spätzle we hadn’t cooked ourselves. And a silly thing that ladies would notice, we really liked the white china with a raised white pattern; the soup bowls were an attractive shape as well. There are a variety of traditional German dishes on the menu – potato pancakes ($7.00), cucumber salad in a sour cream dressing ($4.50), spätzle ($13.80) with cheese gratin, topped with roasted onions, fresh mushrooms in a cream sauce ($12.80), served with a bread dumpling, Sauerbraten ($19.90) which is marinated, roasted beef, boiled in a wine based sauce, with a special gravy and served with a bread dumpling and red cabbage. Allyson had just left beef in a sauerbraten marinade for dinner and I had the ingredients ready to make it as well, so we didn’t choose that. OK, we should have tried it to see how ours compared but then it would have been the same taste two days running. I was also curious to try their Rinderroulade ($21.90) which is rolled slices of tender beef, filled with mustard, onions, bacon and pickles, braised in its own juice and served with homemade mashed potatoes and red cabbage. Yet another dish that Allyson and I both make. And my husband loves my red cabbage made from scratch. I said we always check the menu out in advance, so we knew what we were going to have dessert: Apfelstrudel ($7.50). This is a traditional Bavarian apple strudel (think apple 22 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication pie) served with vanilla ice cream and whipped cream. The waitress brought a single portion on a large plate with 3 spoons arranged around the edge so we could easily share it. Frequently in America, strudel is made with filo pastry. This was made with traditional strudel pastry. It was a bit thick on the bottom of the pastry, but somehow the whole dessert vanished. And the coffee served with it came in a good, large mug. We were also considering ordering the Pfannkuchen ($7.90) which is a freshbaked thin pancake (crèpe) filled with vanilla ice cream and topped with chocolate sauce and whipped cream. But again, we all make crèpes. And my husband had no problem devouring the substantial leftovers I brought home. He even offered to stop on the way home one night since it is so close to Manchester and pick up take-out. So there’s a recommendation for you all. Plus for the men (and yes the ladies as well), there is a small bar where they could sit and drink from the beer list. This included German beer on draft, plus at least 8 imported beers, - and to real beer drinkers, Bud Light and a non-alcoholic beer don’t count as beer but at least they are available for the others in your party. If you go to the website they actually state the flavor profile and alcohol content of each beer so you can research them in advance and do a beer tasting there. They also offer a small selection of German red and white wines, Italian red wine, some liqueurs, sodas and juice. “Bavaria serves authentic German cuisine to residents and visitors in the New Hampshire area. Bavaria Restaurant is owned and operated by Anton and Monika Berger, recently arriving in New Hampshire from Germany. While residing in München (Munich), they owned a restaurant with 200 seats and a Beer Garden t with 600 seats. Anton Berger has been a chef for nearly forty years and, only having been in the US for a year, has already opened up a restaurant serving the food from his homeland. They hope to offer you a glimpse and a taste into authentic German history with many of their delicious and memorable recipes.” Bavaria-NH.com 1461 Hooksett Road in Hooksett NH, (603) 836-5280 Monday-Tuesday closed Wed.-Thursday 4:00 pm– 10:00 pm Friday-Saturday 11:30 am – 10:00 pm Sunday 11:30 am – 8:00 pm. From southern NH/Mass border, direction Manchester NH. In Manchester take Rt 101E to I-293. Merge onto I-93 towards Concord NH/ Portsmouth. Merge onto US-3N/ RT-28 Hooksett Rd via exit 9N towards Hooksett. The restaurant is in a plaza on the right, one mile north of Shaw’s Supermarket, with large sign for Granite Hill Estates at entrance to plaza (somewhat hidden by the snow banks at the moment). Entrance to restaurant is in the back of the building at ground level, so drive around to the back of the building. At the front of the building, the restaurant appears on the second floor and has no entrance. A Directions: The restaurant is very easy to find. OONAGH’S Spring Recipe ASPARAGUS IN AN ORANGE VINAIGRETTE The first day of Spring will have come and gone by the time this issue is published. I know we have frequently had sledding birthday parties even after the first day of Spring, but let’s hope that the snow will soon be over. Soon the daffodils will be peaking through the soil, followed by crocus, and then it will be time for me to get the fresh herbs onto my deck and fill the window boxes and containers with the flowers that attract the humming birds to our deck. We love sitting and eating on the deck at night, as well as weekend breakfasts. Nothing beats a warm evening, a bottle of wine, and even just plain bread and cheese. But for something a bit more special try out my recipes. None are that difficult or expensive (except for the lobster of By Oonagh williams course), but you can wow your friends with a meal that tastes wonderful and can be made in advance, so that only the cream for the dessert needs to be done as your friends arrive. This menu would be great for part of a graduation party – I know the kids (of any age) just want burgers and chips; or for a Girls’ weekend, bridal shower, wedding rehearsal dinner or a small wedding. I will be making these recipes as part of a Royal Wedding Breakfast on Wednesday 27 April (just 2 days before the Wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton) on WMUR’s ABC’s Channel 9 Cooks Corner. ASPARAGUS IN AN ORANGE VINAIGRETTE (6-8 portions) – naturally gluten free Using orange zest as well as orange juice concentrate makes a really tangy orange vinaigrette that I love. Leave out orange zest if you prefer vinaigrette to be less tangy. Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 23 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Continued from previous page. Buy enough asparagus for 3-5 pieces per person (or more) depending on whether it is thick or thin stick spears of asparagus. 1/3 cup olive oil - not extra virgin - it is far too strong 1 tablespoon white wine vinegar or champagne vinegar – make sure it says made from grapes or wine on the bottle, some wine vinegars are now made from ethanol. ¼ c orange juice concentrate undiluted (I buy Tropicana or Kirkland frozen concentrate and decant it into a container in the fridge or freeze it in an ice cube tray. It lasts for several weeks in the fridge. Do taste it each time you use it to check it hasn’t started fermenting. I also use the orange concentrate for the base of hot orange sauce for duck and other recipes.) 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard 2 teaspoons maple syrup or honey Grated zest of ¼ or ½ orange ½ teaspoon salt or to taste; freshly ground black pepper 2-4 tablespoons finely chopped fresh parsley 1-2 tablespoons ends of green onions or fresh chives Chopped salted cashews - quantities to taste - optional 1. In a small jug mix together oil, vinegar, orange juice concentrate, mustard, honey or maple syrup, orange rind, salt and pepper. Stir well until honey/maple and salt are dissolved. Add fresh parsley and chives or green onions. 2. Alternatively put dressing ingredients (except parsley and green onions/chives) in small blender and run. Add herbs and run just to chop. If you run the blender too long then the dressing will turn pale green. The dressing will stay thick mixed in a blender. If you just mix it in a jug it tends to separate out on standing. The dressing stays a more orange color if you don’t use the immersion blender to chop the herbs. Or, you can add some sour cream or mayo to give both a creamier texture and a lighter color. 3. Break asparagus at the bending point, discard ends and cook in single layer in a skillet of boiling water until tender. Just keep taste-testing the asparagus to your preference, roughly 10 minutes, but keep testing. 4. Drain and rinse in cold water containing some ice, then drain again. This helps keep the bright green color of asparagus. You can cook the asparagus the day before. 5. Pour about half of dressing over cooked asparagus in 9” pie plate or similar size container where asparagus can lie flat in one layer. Refrigerate for about 2 hours. (Decant leftover dressing into jam jar or plastic container. It will last in the fridge for about 2 weeks. Stir well before use.) 6. Remove asparagus from fridge about half an hour before arranging on plates. Arrange asparagus spears 24 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication together on individual plates, with tips pointing in one direction 7. Top with sprinkling of chopped cashews and serve with additional vinaigrette for those that like plenty of dressing. You can also top asparagus with tiny, cooked salad shrimp, smoked salmon, crab, lobster etc. Note: Asparagus goes through the body very rapidly and has a very strong ammonia smell. Don’t choose asparagus by how thick or thin it is. The thickness difference is due to different varieties of asparagus - consider Granny Smith v. Gala apples. Choose based on how tight the flower tips are (should be closed) no wetness/sliminess visible on the flower tips and firm stalks without wrinkles. Chef Oonagh Williams is an award winning British Chef/Instructor based in Merrimack, NH with a gluten and lactose intolerant adult son. Chef Oonagh has always cooked from scratch with all real ingredients so cooking gluten free meals is not a problem. Chef Oonagh focuses on gluten free baked goods that have to replicate the taste of her regular flour baked goods, since muffins, bread, pizza, cakes etc made from wheat are what people miss the most. A Quick & Easy Recipes w turkey cutlet & roasted green beans By RHIANNON FENSTERMAKER When we think spring, we think new buds and flower blossoms, green leaves, and birds chirping. As the once serene blanket of glistening white snow now turned dismal and dirty slowly melts, and the chill of an icy winter is lifted like a veil, life and color return to New England. The vibrant colors spring offers are a joy to see as it puts an end to what can sometimes turn out to be a dismal winter. I can’t wait to hear the sounds of life awakening and to smell the fragrant scent of spring’s sweet blossoms, buds, leaves, and grass. It’s that time of the year when we all come out of hibernation! Spring is a good time to plant your gardens too. I’ve only just begun down this road, but for an amateur I do know a few things that are easy to grow. In conjunction with my recipes, I’d like to encourage you to try and grow a few things for yourself this year. Whether it’s in a pot, garden or hanging basket, you can have fresh herbs and veggies at your fingertips. There is nothing like using what you have grown yourself, not to mention it’s sometimes cheaper too. Bush Green Beans I have found are quite easy to grow. They are very abundant and I can usually get them to produce fresh green beans until the end of summer. Try it! Plant them in rows and see what happens. I always grow my own fresh herbs. Did you know that if you plant chives, scallions or parsley in your garden they’ll come back year after year? It costs pennies and it’s satisfying when it returns each year. My recipe calls for horseradish which I’ve yet to try and grow myself, although I hear it’s quite easy. So, you may want to give it a whirl! Typically, when you think turkey, you think Thanksgiving. Turkey doesn’t always have to be a heavy, sleepy meal. Here’s a recipe with just as many bright notes as spring itself. Its clean, jazzy, horseradish awakens your palate and the sweet tangy cranberries are a burst of flavor that is then finished with cream, making the sauce velvety smooth and luscious. Turkey Cutlets with Cranberry Currant Sauce-4 Servings 8-3 oz. Turkey cutlets 1 tablespoon oil 2/3 cup currant Jelly ½ cup heavy cream 1 cup turkey stock ¼ cup cranberries, dried 3 teaspoons horseradish, prepared 1 ½ teaspoons Dijon mustard salt and pepper to taste 2 tablespoons chives, minced Wash and dry turkey cutlets. If necessary, pound to 1/4 inch thick. Heat oil in a large sauté pan over medium-high heat and add turkey cutlets in a single layer. Cook briefly on each side, just until cooked through. Remove from pan, place in containers and cool in refrigerator. Sauce: In a small saucepan, heat the currant jelly, cream, turkey stock, and dried cranberries and cook un- Rhianno n Fenste rmaker til thickened and syrupy. Then add the horseradish and mustard and season to taste with salt and pepper. Let cool. Pour over turkey slices, and garnish with minced chives. When your green bean harvest comes in, try out my recipe for roasted green beans is a great way to jazz up the typical steamed method! They are baked in the oven with onions and garlic making them quite healthy and the tang of balsamic vinegar at the end is a nice touch. Roasted Green Beans – 4 Servings 6 sups green beans, cleaned & trimmed 1 large onion, sliced 6 garlic cloves, sliced 3 tablespoons olive oil salt and pepper to taste 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar Preheat oven to 450 degrees. Combine the green beans with the onion, garlic, and olive oil. Season to taste with salt and pepper. Spread combined ingredients onto a foil-lined shallow roasting pan. Bake for 30 minutes, stirring once or twice. When done baking, toss with the balsamic vinegar. Rhiannon Fenstermaker is a Personal Chef working in the Greater Seacoast Area, providing ;Heat and Eat, Supper Solutions. Her service is an in home cooking service that works with each client to help customize a menu that suits their needs. She brings all her own equipment, containers, shops for all the groceries and will cook meals for a week to be heated when you’re ready! Reach her at 603-679-2412 or chefrhiannon@ thedinnergoddess.com. Visit her at www.thedinnergoddess.com. A Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 25 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication lifestyles/ Food The Fine Art of Making Whole Leaf Tea By danielle beaudette w Withering tea leaves at tea estate in Sri Lanka taken by Danielle Beaudette.(c) We enjoy this incredible brew on a daily basis, but do you really know how the leaf gets from the field to the cup? The story of tea has been clad in mystery, since it was first discovered around 5000 years ago. Emperor Shen Nong, while scouting the far reaching lands of China for medicinal herbs, came upon the tea leaf that just happened to fall directly in his cup of boiling water. His curiosity and delight in the taste of the brew led to the cultivation of the tea plant Camellia sinensis. This plant is indigenous to China; however, it is grown and harvested in temperate climates all over the world. Many are surprised to hear that the tastes, textures and aromas of the different varieties of tea all come from the same plant. What gives us these qualities is the unique terrain, climate, culture, and taste preferences that each country offers. However, the magic begins to happen beginning with the cultivation and ending with the processing of the leaf. The Plucking of the Leaf: The tea pluckers rise in the early morning hours. They work incredibly hard, plucking by hand the top two leaves and a bud, placing them in bamboo darker oolongs. They are then panfired and dried to stop the oxidation process. baskets or in plastic aerated sacks. These top three leaves are the newest shoots and produce the healthiest and best tasting teas. Black teas undergo a rolling or cutting process and are then sorted on a series of different screens and separated into evenly sized grades. They undergo a full oxidation process which can be anywhere between 30 minutes to 8 hours, with each time producing different flavor profiles, aromas and caffeine content in the tea. When the tea expert feels the exact aroma has been reached, the tea is fired to stop oxidation. The Estate Manager will then determine through a cupping process whether the leaves are perfect enough to leave his factory. After production, the leaves are packed in vacuum-sealed bags and transported to the auction centers, where the tea importers bring them to your favorite local tea shops for you to appreciate. The Sorting and Weighing: The tea leaves are carried to the weighing stations where they are sorted on widespread plastic sheets and then weighed. From here, the leaves are brought by truckload down to the factory. Withering: The tea leaves are spread out on screens in long ‘withering troughs’ about 4 inches deep. Air is blown under them, while the tea leaves on top are being constantly turned over to promote the drying (withering) of the leaf. This 12-15 hour process reduces about 50% of the moisture, making the leaf flexible and limp. From here, the process changes depending on the type of tea. White teas are sent through a firing process to immediately keep any oxidation from occurring. This completes the White tea processing. Green teas from China are pan-fired while the green teas from Japan are steamed which stops the oxidation of the leaf, allowing it to keep its green color. The leaves are then rolled and shaped, sometimes by hand or more commonly by machine. Danielle Beaudette Oolong teas are shaken or rolled in baskets to bruise the leaf edges, allowing the essential oils to be released. They are oxidized (laid out in temperature-controlled rooms exposed to the air) for a specific amount of time producing lower oxidized/ greener oolongs and higher oxidized/ 26 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Danielle Beaudette is the owner of The Cozy Tea Cart in Brookline, NH. One of the first 15 in the world to be certified as a Tea Specialist, she continues to broaden her knowledge of tea through on-going studies with the Specialty Tea Institute, the World Tea Expo, and travels to tea countries around the world. For more information call 603-249-9111 or visit www.TheCozyTeaCart.com. A i Sadie Jackson-Dry Spell lifestyles/ Dating By Cheri Valentine It had been a real dry spell – not a date in weeks. There weren’t even any offers for me to turn down. There had not been a single possibility in sight for weeks. I was feeling pretty vulnerable at this point. So when the handsome young man seated at the café table next to me in the mall dining area began to talk to me, I perked up. To be honest though, I was not paying much attention to what he was saying; rather, I was enjoying the visual feast before my eyes, and the fact that he was putting all his attention on me. Oh, I love the undivided attention of a handsome man! already there. It was 7:25 – good thing I left early. He handed me a card with an address written on it and asked me to meet him at that address at 7:30 that evening. He had invited me to a singles event that he said was very refreshing. Well, if most of the guests looked anything like him, indeed that would be refreshing. I smiled graciously, accepting the card and promised to see him later that evening. The look of dismay must have been plastered all over my face, because a cute thirty-something woman walked up to me and asked if I was all right. “Is this an event for singles?” I asked her while desperately hoping she would tell me that I was in the wrong place. I couldn’t wait to call Lindy, my best friend in the whole world, who is happily married to the best man ever, and tell her the drought was over! I rushed home to get ready for my big night. Not wanting to be late, I made sure to print out the directions to the address he had given me, and left a little early to allow for my usual mess ups when driving. When I arrived at the address he had written, I was a little surprised at the non-descript building. I guess I was expecting something flashy situated next to a big parking lot. This lot was not large, yet there were several cars I walked in to a rather small, unassuming space. There was a small table with some bottled water, and soda, chips, and plastic cups. So far this was not getting my engines running. About ten people were seated in metal folding chairs in a large circle. My handsome hunk had not arrived yet, and of the men who were, let me assure you, they bore no resemblance in age or looks to the stud muffin who invited me here. I was beginning to feel very disheartened. “Yes, it is,” she said brightly. “Is this your first time here?” “It sure is,” I replied. “Welcome! I’m Sandy! I come every week. This group has helped me so much. You’re in good hands here.” Obviously we had different visions of good hands. Just then, my handsome maverick came in and announced, “Welcome everyone! Let’s get started. Oh Sadie, I see that you made it. This is Sadie and it’s her first visit with us.” Everyone looked up and said, “Hi Sadie!” I smiled, awkwardly wondering whose dream I was in. The handsome young man who invited me began to speak, and I again was not listening to him. I was trying to figure out where I was and why I was here, when I heard someone say, “Amen. I am so glad you helped me find Jesus.” Find Jesus? Are you kidding me? I stood up, and announced very loudly, “There must be some mistake. I know right where Jesus is – in my heart. I did not come here to look for Jesus. I came here to find a man!” Continued on Page 30. Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 27 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication lifestyles/ Dating Single Again i If you had asked me back in 2003 when I was pregnant with my second daughter what I thought the chances were of my getting divorced, I would have said less than zero. It’s true. I was one of those people that truly believed that it couldn’t happen to me. Not because I didn’t understand how tough marriage could be, that was clear. It was because I thought I was smarter than everyone else who ended up divorced. Yup, I will admit it now, I thought I knew better and that I had made better decisions than the other 50% who ended up divorced. I didn’t get married too young, we dated for four years and we had both gotten our educations taken care of. We waited another five years before we had our first child, Madeleine, and we had enough money to not only pay the bills but I was able to stay home with our new baby. Life was good and I thought it was because I made good decisions. Now I’m not saying life was easy. No ma’am. We lived in Georgia and our families were in New Hampshire and Florida. My husband traveled out of state every week and I was alone a lot. It was hard, often lonely and sometimes scary but it was still good. We laughed, had lots of friends and a comfortable lifestyle. Emma, my second child, was not planned. We had said we would have a second baby but weren’t thinking it would happen so soon. I was really nervous about the thought of raising two babies alone but my ex seemed happy about our second arrival and promised to The Beginning By christine davis look for a job that didn’t require so much travel. It didn’t happen. I have another confession. It’s bad too. I can still remember a time when I was with my ex and talking about divorced couples. I said (and I will never forget it), “I feel so sorry for single moms, their lives must be so miserable. I am so happy that it won’t ever happen to me.” Holy crap. It’s true, I said those words and I believed those words. I am still embarrassed about that one. A lot of confessions in this article, huh? I could write a book just about my divorce alone but this isn’t about the divorce and the events that led up to it. I’m not afraid to talk about it and will continue to share bits and pieces as they fit into my stories, however, this is about life after the divorce. This is about the fun, laughter, success and happiness that I found after the divorce. I never would have believed that I could go through a divorce and raise two girls alone and still be happy. Life is still not easy. Actually it is incredibly challenging and sometimes it is miserable but it is good, really good. I have had adventures that never would have happened if I had continued to live the life of a stay at home mom in Alpharetta GA. I have a whole new circle of friends that I never would have met if I had remained married. I have grown up a lot too. I have learned not to be so judgmental as I now know what it feels like to be judged and labeled. I have learned that I am a lot tougher 28 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Christine Davis than I thought I could be. I have learned to let other people help me. Helping others makes you feel good so I have learned to help other people feel good. Hmm, this dialogue seems to be getting a bit too serious. I really want to share the good stuff about being “single again.” There is good stuff, lots of it. Dating when you are older is actually way better than dating when you were young. I would prefer to not have to shell out for a babysitter every time I go out on a Saturday night but other than that it is so much preferable to dating in your twenties. The men are more settled now and less preoccupied with climbing the corporate ladder. Another great thing about dating older men is that you don’t have to wonder if they are going to lose their looks. If it was going to happen it already did. If they were going to get paunchy, they are there now. If they are going to lose their hair, it’s gone. No mysteries. You Continued on page 30 lifestyles/ Dating Mr. Right Let Him Find You h By Cheri Valentine How do you begin your day? Do you jump out of bed, dash to the gym, and then rush to work from there? When the alarm wakes you from slumber, do you give yourself a moment before the mad rush of your day takes over? You have so many responsibilities between work and family. Most of the time you are rushing from one place to the next without stopping, then fall into bed exhausted at the end of the day, or lie awake with your thoughts spinning with all you did not get done. Who has time to find Mr. Wrong, let alone Mr. Right? day going to help me find Mr. Right?’ you may be thinking. The answer is simple. While you are breathing you will be focusing your attention on that which you are creating, in this case a loving and healthy relationship to enjoy. You will be feeling how wonderful this is and expressing gratitude for the opportunity to invite love into your life. This will trigger joy in your body, and you will begin your day in a happier state. Over time you will experience this happiness through more of your day. Happy people attract happy people. I’d like to suggest that you try something new. Let him find you. Put the Law of Attraction to work for you. Wake ten minutes earlier each day. For those ten minutes, breathe slowly and deeply. As you do this, smile and feel the pleasure in your body and mind. You are giving yourself several gifts in these ten minutes. More importantly, by deep breathing and focusing on your breath, you quiet your mind from the constant chatter of thoughts that reside there. So your mind is receptive to new thoughts, which translates into a newer energy. You are less resistant to holding onto the old non-supporting thoughts that go unnoticed most of the day, yet take up residence in your energy body and mind and create your experiences. You are filling your body with nourishing breath, releasing tension and relaxing your body and mind. At the same time, you are also energizing your cells, bringing the deep fresh oxygen in and taking toxins out. You are also setting your day in a positive way. You will be centered, relaxed, and energized from a sense of calm rather than a frenzied mad dash. You are creating healthy cells for a healthy body. You do want to feel great when you meet Mr. Right, don’t you? ‘This is all well and good, but how is breathing deeply at the start of my You will program your sub conscious with loving thoughts of being ready for love. After several slow, deep breaths, begin repeating, “I am love. I am ready for love.” As you exhale repeat, “I am love. I am ready for lasting love.” Use any affirming words that resonate with you. Do this for ten minutes every morning, and raise that energetic flag to the universe to send this message of readiness to your soul mate. You are engaging your energy in Cheri Valentine a positive and loving way. You are speaking to your subconscious mind and creating a new thought pattern, which will create new pathways in your brain. These pathways create a network that spreads into your cells, creating new cellular memory. In addition, activating all of these energies in your mind and body raises your vibration and this energy is felt in the universe. That’s why it is so important to be mindful of our thoughts and feelings. What we put out is what we receive. By activating the feeling and visualizing being in love and happy in a healthy relationship, you begin to create that reality by design. Beginning each day in stillness, breath and visualization meditation is one way to do this. Continued on page 30 Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 29 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication lifestyles/Dating - Continued Sadie’s Dating Adventures continued from page 27. Everyone laughed as if I had made a joke. This was not my idea of fun, and I wanted to leave. Yet, my sense of decency kept me glued to my seat. Once I got over my shock, I tried to have an open mind. I was at a church divorce group, and the people there seemed to be very grateful for this place. At the first break, when everyone went up for a drink, I took the opportunity to slip out. There are many ways to cope with divorce and loneliness, and it was gratifying to know that there are such groups available for those who wanted that support. Who knows, the day may come when I go back and join them, yet for now, I’ll keep plugging along in my own way. It’s working well enough for now. Cheri Valentine is a Relationship Intuitive and Love Strategist, who is always cooking up recipes for attracting ideal relationships. She has successfully guided men and women through the maze of Relating, Dating & Mating on a transformational journey to love that is perfect for them. She is the creator of 90 Days 2 Love Attraction Collaborative and will be releasing her book, 90 Days 2 Love – Transforming Your Love Life from the Inside Out this fall. You can reach Cheri by e-mail, ccv@cherivalentine.com or check out her website at www.cherivalentine.com. A Single AgainThe Beginning continued from pg 28. may even know if they are going to be good dads because most of the guys you date when you are older have kids too. See? This dating thing really does have its upside. No college loans to pay off (although there might well be alimony and child support but that is temporary), no more crappy apartments and college buddies hanging out and sleeping on your couch. Well, actually it could be that way but now you are older and wiser and can be back in your car before he reaches for the remote to watch Sports Center during dinner. Ick. So here we are, single again and it isn’t all that bad. If you take advantage of all the wisdom your years have bestowed upon you it can actually be pretty good. Oh yeah, are you wondering where I got the idea for “Single Again?” Maybe not but I will share it anyway. When I was going through the divorce I really hated the term “divorced”. It sounded negative, bitter and ugly and I didn’t want to check that box when I was filling out my personal information. My church in Alpharetta had these little cards you could fill out with prayer requests at each service. It asked for your name, if you had children and your marital status. The options were: single, married or single again. I liked that, it’s much more positive and optimistic. Yup, that’s me, single again. 30 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Christine “CJ” Davis is a proud single mother of two happy and lively girls in Exeter NH. She is glad to be back with her family where she grew up even if it meant giving up long summers and men with a southern drawl. Ms. Davis loves to be outdoors skiing, cycling or hiking one of the 4000 footers. She can be reached at cjdavis2000@comcast.net. A Finding Mr. Right continued from pg 29. So stop chasing after Mr. Right and start activating your energetic attraction tower to invite him home to you. You can check out the many benefits of deep breathing in the article, “18 Benefits of Deep Breathing and How to Breathe Deeply?”. Another more in depth article boasting the health benefits, is Deep breathing — the truly essential exercise. Cheri Valentine is a Relationship Intuitive and Love Strategist, who is always cooking up recipes for attracting ideal relationships. She has successfully guided men and women through the maze of Relating, Dating & Mating on a transformational journey to love that is perfect for them. She is the creator of 90 Days 2 Love Attraction Collaborative and will be releasing her book, 90 Days 2 Love – Transforming Your Love Life from the Inside Out this fall. You can reach Cheri by e-mail, ccv@cheri- valentine.com or check out her website at www.cherivalentine.com. A lifestyles/ Parenting 5 Simple Steps to Encourage Your Child to Read c By Alexandra Morrill Children who are reluctant readers typically struggle for two reasons; either they experience difficulty with one or more of the technical aspects of reading (decoding, fluency, comprehension, etc.) or they find it boring. While each can seem daunting for parents and children to overcome, with a little planning, creativity and perseverance, you can help jump start your child’s interest. 5 Simple Suggestion to Get Your Child Reading (Yes, your child!): RECONSIDER YOUR DEFINITION OF READING Allow your child to base reading choices on what captures his/her interest - whether it is a friend’s recommendation, an interesting topic, a colorful cover or a catchy title. Getting caught up in reading levels will only succeed in squeezing the fun out of reading! And consider non-traditional reading sources. Magazines, cookbooks, comics, books on tape, and television with the closed-captioning feature activated and the volume off are great ways to build interest in reading. KEEP BOOKS EVERYWHERE! Books should be prominent throughout your house! Keep a wellstocked bookcase in your child’s room, their play area, near the living room armchair, and beside the potty. Keep a stack of books by your bedside table to entertain early-risers while you try for a few more minutes of shuteye. Stuff the backseat of your car with books for road trips and errands, and your purse for trips to the doctor’s office or restaurants. TAILOR THE EXPERIENCE TO YOUR CHILD Allow your child’s interests to inform their book choice. Do you have a daughter who loves Disney’s Cinderella? Use that as a springboard to explore Cinderella stories from other cultures and fractured fairy tales based on Cinderella, as well as other classic fairy tales. Encourage your budding readers to explore books in a way that is comfortable for them. Do they choose to ask “why” at every opportunity, flip through pages in random order, focus solely on the illustrations, or move around while you are reading? Let them! CREATE VALUE IN BOOKS Give books and books become desirable! Take every opportunity to alter your child’s mindset so that they begin to view books as a welcome and coveted commodity. Subscribe to a monthly magazine, join a Bookof-the-Month Club, and take regular trips to the library and book store. Use books as a reward or bribe! Allow children to stay up a little later as long as they are reading. Build an association between reading and coveted time with a parent. LEAD BY EXAMPLE Let your children see you enjoying books! Read aloud to them at night, giggle with the absurd rhymes of Dr. Seuss, bring to life the voice of Eloise, and revel in the magic of Harry Potter. Build a fort of pillows to curl up in, Alexandra Morrill read under the sheets with a flashlight or in a tent outside. And be sure to let children see you enjoying reading. Curl up with a novel in the evening or flip through the newspaper after breakfast. Enjoy a magazine article about your favorite sports team, share books with your friends, and discuss favorite stories with anyone who will listen! Children who see their parents derive enjoyment from reading are more likely to pursue reading themselves. If you try all of these strategies and are still faced with a reluctant reader, don’t despair. Growing lifelong readers is a marathon, not a sprint. Keep at it and your child will eventually come around. Happy reading! Alexandra Morrill is a former reading specialist made entrepreneur who turned her expertise into a second career as the owner of Laughing Giraffe Books. Laughing Giraffe Books provides quality children’s literature in the form of themed book bundles or book-of-themonth gift collections to encourage a love of reading. To hear more of Alexandra’s tips and thoughts for motivating young readers visit www.LaughingGiraffeBooks.com/blog. A Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 31 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication lifestyles/ Parenting b Baseball, softball, track, tennis, golf, and lacrosse… what do all these things have in common? They are all spring sports! No matter what sport your child enjoys, everyone is happy to get playing outdoors. But as you prepare for the spring sports season make sure your child is ready to play safely. Has your child had a physical lately? If it has been a year or more, schedule a physical for your child. Many schools or private sports leagues require a current physical or have a form that requires your physician’s signature stating your child is healthy enough to play. The earlier you make an appointment or get that form signed, the earlier your child can participate. Does your child have the right equipment to play? Cleats, batting gloves, sliding shorts, helmets, eye protection, mouth guards – each sport has specific safety equipment. Make sure your child has the appropriate gear that fits correctly. If the safety gear is too big or too small it may not provide the same level of protection as equipment that is the correct size. Check with your child’s coach or the head of the athletic or recreation department if there are equipment swaps or sales in your area. Don’t forget the sunscreen or insect repellent! The sun can be just as damaging in May as it is in August. Be sure to pick up sunscreen and insect repellent while shopping for sports gear. Many of us spend our afternoons shuttling kids from one field to another, often providing our children Preparing Your Child for Spring Sports By Gail Klanchesser snacks or meals in the car. It can be difficult, but make time for healthy snacks and good meals. It can go a long way in helping your child do better in school and perform better on the playing field. Show your child how proud you are of how they’re doing by attending games or practices. Some days it may not be practical for you to be there due to work or other family activities. But show your support for their activities by taking in a game or practice when you can. Be supportive of your child no matter whether they win or lose. You are helping build their selfesteem and your positive attitude teaches them good sportsmanship. • SPF – this is the Sun Protection Factor. The higher the number the longer the amount of time you can theoretically spend in the sun. However, this length of time is approximate. So a sunscreen with an SPF of 20 means you could stay out in the sun 20 times longer without incurring sun damage (sunburn) than you could if you were outside without a sunscreen. Keep in mind that everyone’s skin is different. If you have fair skin, that time frame may be shorter than for someone who does not sunburn as quickly. • You must apply sunscreen at least 15-30 minutes BEFORE going out in the sun for it to work effectively 32 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication • You need to reapply sunscreen frequently, every few hours. If you’re really active or in the water, you’ll need to reapply more frequently. • How safe is the sunscreen for your skin? If you have allergies or sensitive skin you need to be more careful in your selection of the products you use. A good site to check for safe sunscreen products is the Environmental Working Group’s Sunscreen Guide (http://www.ewg. org/2010sunscreen/). Gail Klanchesser Gail Klanchesser is a CPR & First Aid instructor and the owner of Coastal CPR & First Aid, LLC located on the NH Seacoast. She is a mom of 4 and an active community volunteer. She writes on CPR, First Aid and Safety topics as well as her random life with kids. You can follow Gail on her blog (http:// cprmom.blogpost.com), Twitter (www.twitter. com/CPRMom), and Facebook (www.facebook.com/CoastalCPR). A Five Easy Steps to Effective Change s (Parents & Stepparents, Take what you need from this and leave the rest) Step 1: Be clear and specific about what you want to accomplish. Reducing stress and disengaging from your stepchild’s turmoil should be your first priority because the resulting stress is damaging to your physical body. By communicating your concerns and needs to your husband, together you can work out a strategy to effectively deal with your stepchild or stepchildren. Step 2: Take baby steps. Research, know that you are not alone. Change doesn’t happen overnight and there are no magic pills. Take some time to research any health or behavior problems that may be affecting your stepchild. It’s also important to understand the effects of divorce on children. Suggested reading is Kevin Leman’s Have a New Kid by Friday: How to Change Your Child’s Attitude, Behavior & Character in 5 Days, in which he suggests a solid parenting strategy. Understand that things may get worse before they get better. Baby step #1: Don’t react when your stepchild is purposely trying to create chaos. If he/she behaves badly either you or your husband should dispassionately send him/her to his/her room until his/her behavior is appropriate. lifestyles/ Parenting By Peggy Nolan waving her pom-poms, whatever feels like celebrating to you. Make sure you celebrate every victorious baby step forward! Step 4: Be flexible Three steps forward, two steps back is still forward progress. It’s important to change your thoughts around success and failure. Make a commitment to doing your best to reduce the stress resulting from the interactions with your stepchild. Some days will be better than others. Celebrate the good days and practice self-care on the offdays! Step 5: Remember that change is a process, not an end result The only constant is change. In learning how to dispassionately deal with your stepchild’s antics, you will not only effect change in your stepchild, but also in yourself and your husband. Once your stepchild realizes he/she can no longer spin either of you to the moon, the behavior will stop. Basically, your behavior must change before your step child’s; you become the behavior model for him/her to follow. Step 3: Celebrate often Is there something in your stepfamily life that you tried to change but you weren’t successful? We would love to for you to share. Every time you are able to deal dispassionately when your stepchild is in a crazy making mode, celebrate! Whether it’s by doing a little happy dance (out of eyesight); a high-5 between you and your husband, or just your own inner cheerleader Peggy Nolan, Stepmom Coach & Mentor, shares her experience and expertise on feelings such as fear, uncertainty, and doubt. Through private coaching sessions and her recently created program, “The StepMom’s ToolBox Membership Program,” Peggy helps stepmoms work through life situations by deliver- Peggy Nolan, ing powerful monthly conference call sessions, tutorial on-line programs, priceless resources and tips, and a lot of TLC! Also hear her every Monday at 8:00pm at The Stepmoms Toolbox Radio Show. Peggy uses her own experiences and the knowledge she has gained as a stepmom. Nearly five years ago, Peggy Nolan became a stepmom. She had two young adult children from her first marriage and her husband gifted her with three young adult bonus children and one very angry fourteen year old boy, Junior. Four months into their marriage, Peggy’s rose colored glasses came off and her delusions of being the next best Carol Brady dissolved into thin air. In 2007 Junior acted out in ways that created chaos, drama, and intense conflict. As the chaos and conflict escalated with Junior, Peggy realized that she was oozing hostility and she knew that something had to give. That something was her. She realized that she had to be the one to change because Junior wasn’t changing anytime soon. Peggy succeeded in turning things around and now A shares her tips with other stepmoms. Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 33 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication lifestyles/ Health t There are no needles involved, there are no drugs or prescriptions to take, and it’s non-invasive. In fact, the entire procedure is painless—and yet people who have suffered for years from symptoms associated with allergies and sensitivities are finding incredible, in some cases instant relief. Advanced Allergy Centers of New England is the first office in New England to offer a breakthrough technology for patients with allergies—and we, at Applaud Women Magazine, were able to experience it first hand! “I’m really impressed with the doctor,” said Susan Caldwell, president of Applaud Women, at the beginning of her treatment process. “This is a relatively new process in terms of normal medicine. It’s avant-garde even as alternative medicine goes. I’m really excited to see what happens.” Statistically there is an 87% success rate in helping individuals with symptoms like hay fever, chronic sinusitis, asthma, heartburn, gas and bloating, headaches, fatigue, skin conditions, animal allergies and food allergies. We are all familiar with allergies. In fact, approximately one in five people, or more than 50 million Americans, suffer from allergic responses. Although we welcome the warmer days and the beautiful flowers that burst through the soil every spring, most of us find ourselves coughing, sneezing, congested, and rubbing our itchy eyes. By definition, “Allergies WE TRIED IT-With Advanced Allergy Centers of NE By Samantha Arroyo are abnormal or inappropriate reactions of the nervous system that occur in response to otherwise harmless substances.” – Alternative Medicine Encyclopedia. “I have had asthma since I was two,” Caldwell said. “I assumed it was genetic because I was so young. Neither of my parents had it and the closest thing to allergies was when my maternal grandfather had hay fever. However, after talking to Dr. Ruocco, it makes much more sense that my asthma was the body reacting to some type of trauma.” “I also have other chronic conditions,” she continued. “[I have] Reflux and IBS which, according to Dr. Ruocco, can also be caused by allergies. I had no idea.” Often times, our allergic reactions begin when we are exposed to a trauma while we are simultaneously experiencing certain foods, stimuli or substances. Susan Caldwell from Applaud Women Magazine checked in and ready for her first scan at Advanced Allergy Centers. “The nervous system is responsible for interpreting whether a substances is a threat or beneficial to the body,” Dr. Ruocco said. “The problem is when the nervous system is under stress.” The body will associate the stress, whether it is physical, chemical, emotional, or hormonal, to the substances it is exposed to at the time of the stress. As a result, the body will continue to react negatively when exposed to the substance or stimuli in the future. 34 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication For example: a young boy is playing outside, eating ice cream and playing with his dog. Suddenly, he sees his father storm out of the house, with his mother right behind him screaming and hollering angry words. The little boy is experiencing a trauma. In a matter of seconds, his nervous system decided that dogs and ice cream and even the Bermuda grass phenolics are negative substances. Now, when the child consumes dairy products, his stomach rejects them. Bottom line? A negative association commonly causes allergies and other chronic conditions. “Once this Neurological Stress Reduction Therapy (System) detects the stres Dr. Ruocco performs the Body Balance Scan before Susan personalized treatment. sors, those micro frequencies are imbedded into a low level light laser, and placed at certain points on the body. This results in the body’s producing endorphins and enkelphins which create a feeling of well being and the negative associations to those substances are then broken. The body now generates positive rather than negative associations to these substances,” Dr. Ruocco said. Homeopathic remedies and flower essences are also used to help support the body through the procedure. Flower essences are subtle energy signatures, collected from specific flowers, which are used to address emotional health. The essences restore harmony in the body and infuse positive energy in response to stress. After the exposure, Dr. Ruocco says, “A normal, appropriate response will occur upon subsequent real world exposure. The memory will still be present, but the necessity to run the inappropriate program will not be.” Each piece of matter—every molecule—contains energy that vibrates at specific frequencies. Our nervous systems take in hundreds of thousands of frequencies and determine what is good for the body, what is unhealthy, and what is unnecessary. When a trauma occurs, the nervous system incorrectly labels particular frequencies as harmful due to the underlying situation occurring outside the body. In 2008, Dr. Ruocco learned of a new technology which she has brought to New England to reverse the errors that the nervous system has made by using cold lasers and micro frequencies. Above: Susan Caldwell from Applaud Women Magazine has checked in and is ready for her first scan at Advanced Allergy Centers. “Once the reset has taken place, any symptoms associated with those substances will stop,” Dr. Ruocco said. “There can be layers of substances causing stress on the body. The 10-visit protocol works through 100,000 substances, stimuli and emotions.” The 10-week program has an 87 percent success rate. In many cases, patients respond quickly and achieve long-term results within the first few treatments. However, each case is different and some patients require additional treatment. “I am amazed at how this technology has helped people,” said Suzanne Duval, a nurse with Advanced Allergy Centers of New England. “I have been interested in holistic medicine for a long time and have raised my three children with this philosophy.” Above: Dr. Ruocco explains the different lists that are scanned and treated for over the recommended protocol. Above: Dr. Ruocco applying Low level Light Therapy to Susan during her treatment at Advanced Allergy Centers As we went to print, Susan had undergone two of the ten treatment sessions. Between appointments, Dr. Ruocco encourages Susan to stay hydrated, use the homeopath sprays as directed, and avoid food one hour Continued on page 37 Above: Susan learning about Flower Essences from Dr. Ruocco. Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 35 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication f Flower Essence Therapy for Emotional Well Being By Catherine (Allen) Markovsky Flower Essences are a gentle, safe and effective therapy that heal at an emotional, spiritual level. They are extremely diluted extracts from flowers that fall under the umbrella of vibrational medicine and are related to the use of acupuncture, aromatherapy, and homeopathy. Rather than using the herbal properties of flowers for healing purposes, the process actually imbues a tincture with the energetic signature of the plant life. Working on your emotions and mental state, it can bring healing to all levels, just as Homoeopathy does. Flower Essences are very similar in theory to Homoeopathy and actually stemmed from Dr Bach’s study of Homoeopathy. History Dr. Bach, the founder of the Bach Flower Essences, studied medicine at the University College Hospital, London, and obtained a Diploma in Public Health at Cambridge. He practiced for over twenty years in London as a Harley Street consultant and bacteriologist. While he found success in the conventional medical world he began to focus less on the diseases and more on the people who had them. It was the patient and their underlying emotions that held Dr. Bach’s true interest. He observed that people had 38 different dysfunctional emotional patterns and came to the conclusion that if you fixed their emotional health then their physical health would improve. With the belief that all emotions can be cleared by nature, he set out to the English countryside in search of plant based remedies. “It is only because we have forsaken Nature’s way for man’s way that we have suffered, and we have only to return to be released from our trials. In the presence of Nature, disease has no power; all fear, all depression, all hopelessness can be set aside. There is no disease of itself which is incurable.” ~ Dr. Edward Bach The story goes that Dr. Bach was naturally impatient and easily agitated if he had to wait for anything. According to Julian Barnard, author of Bach Flower Remedies: Form and Function, ‘Bach carried in himself the vibratory pattern of the Impatiens mental state. There was a natural resonance between Bach, the man, and Impatiens, the plant. He recognized it.’ Bach then went on to find the remedies from flowers that resonated with the other personality types he had categorized. How are they made? Flower essences (or ‘remedies’ – the terms are used interchangeably) are the vibrational imprint, or energetic pattern, of particular flowers or plants prepared in liquid form. Science tells us that everything, the Earth, a crystal, your husband, the dog, etc., consists of vibrations of energy. Bach discovered that the vibrational healing pattern of each flower can be ‘imprinted’ in pure water through certain preparation methods – one used most often is the infusing (like making tea) of fresh flowers, just picked, in glass bowls of spring water sitting in bright 36 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Catherine Markovsky sunlight. The water then takes on the vibration of the flower, resulting in the water becoming the remedy or essence. What do they treat? Do you have difficulty saying no? Centuary is for you. Do you find yourself wishing for what was and living in the past? Perhaps it’s time for Honeysuckle. Or you could try Wild Oat if you just can’t figure out what to do with your life. There are subtle, negative patterns that we all have carried for years. The Flower Essences aid us in shifting and releasing the old patterns. How do they work? Unlike standard medications or even herbs, flower essences address WE TRIED IT-With Advanced Allergy Centers of NE- Continued from page 35 before treatment and three hours afterwards. emotional and spiritual issues. They target emotional patterns that we pick up as defense mechanisms on our way through life. If these patterns aren’t addressed they will manifest physically as disease and disorder. Bach discovered that, for example, no two cases of eczema were alike. One may be based in fear while another one is sadness. However, anxiety can manifest in a hundred different ways but only needs one remedy. Once the emotional pattern is identified it can be released and the body can begin to heal itself. “There is no true healing unless there is a change in outlook, peace of mind, and inner happiness.” ~ Dr. Edward Bach, 1934 How do I use them? A growing number of healthcare providers have begun to integrate Flower Essences into their practices. They realize that a patient’s attitude and outlook can make all the difference in their outcome. A more balanced, peaceful patient will heal faster and have fewer future reoccurrences. There are virtually no physical, chemical or plant materials in the essences so there is very little risk of adverse effects. The Flower Essences have been widely used to treat pets as well with great success. While self prescribing is often done, it is wise to find a practitioner who has worked with and understands these intricate, subtle and yes – powerful remedies. The essences can be used on their own or, due to their vibratory qualities, can be used with 21st century technology using Laser Light Therapy. The discovery that laser therapy can harness and transmit frequencies and vibrations has opened up brand new uses for the Flower Essences. They can now be administered via laser into the patient with amazing therapeutic effect. Catherine (Allen) Markovsky, L.Ac, Dipl. NCCA, C.H. NCCA practices at the Advanced Allergy Centers of New England. Catherine has been providing people with quality care and education since April of 2010. Her patients have seen incredible results as their health challenges improve using these breakthrough technologies. Catherine is committed to helping people of any age reach their health goals. For more information she can be reached at 603-894-0656 or by email at holly@drholly.net or visit their website at www.advancedallergytreatment.com. A “There are people who will detox through this process so they may have symptoms like fatigue, vomiting, diarrhea, or they may cry,” she said. “These are all things the body does to get rid of ‘stuff’ and it is common, but it will pass.” Susan has experienced many health problems throughout her life and it is Dr. Ruocco’s intent to remove what is causing her unpleasant symptoms. In time, the doctor also hopes Susan will be able to go off her medication under the supervision of her health care provider. “Dr. Ruocco has been great to work with,” Caldwell said. “She explains everything as she goes along. It’s quite technical, scientific and fascinating. I’m very excited to see the end results.” For additional information, visit: www.advancedallergytreatment.com. To schedule an appointment, call (603)894-0656 or email Dr. Holly Ruocco at holly@aatcofnewengland.com. A Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 37 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication lifestyles/ The Self w We live in a society that dictates how important physical beauty is. Whether we are slim enough, pretty enough, or match up to the standards that are set by Hollywood: hair color, styles of clothing, how much we weigh, do we have wrinkles or grey hair, what jewelry are we wearing to go with what we are feeling? It seems all around us we dress, look, and go by what culture has brought to our attention as what is ‘in style or fashion’. This is a struggle which I believe rests and sits deeply in the hearts of all modern day women. We have drifted away from the importantance of grasping the most significant aspect of why we’re here on earth; to be happy, joyous and free in the expression of whom and what we really are. When we are at peace and have arrived at the serenity of acceptance of who we are, there should be an exuberating and exhilarating flow of it that shows on our face and in our physical expression of how we respond to life. Our eyes should be sparkling with vitality; we should have a permanent smile on our faces. There should be a glow that resonates what and how we’re feeling. This is the foundation of what should be going on in our emotional makeup before we become concerned with our physical appearance. Are we at peace, happy, content, and satisfied with our lives and who we are? If we don’t experience this core value of who and what we are to ourselves, there is no amount of money, makeup or physical things that can give us the substitute of what we need to be 38 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Inner Beauty By Christa Ryan feeling on the inside. Where are our self-love, self-worth, and self-respect registering in the importance of how we live our lives? Do we have enough self-respect to not allow people, friends and love ones to abuse us? Do we love ourselves enough to place boundaries up where they’re needed? Because we teach people how to treat us. And ultimately if we don’t know how to love ourselves, we are incapable of being able to love others. I have been spending time meditating on the second commandment which clearly says ‘we are to love our neighbor as ourselves.’ But if we are at a loss on ‘what’ loving ourselves means, we aren’t capable of loving another person. As I have grown to love and respect myself, the capacity and ability to love my friends and loved ones has grown also. When we intimately come to this inner core of peace, serenity, and beauty within ourselves, it shows on the outside. Our insides finally match the outside. We are told that we are ‘pretty, glowing, rich in substance, and exceedingly beautiful’. It takes more work to take care of our souls than it does our physical appearances. Ten times out of ten, if we feel good on the inside, we are more willing to take care of the outside. Our behavior reflects what we are truly feeling. How do we respond to negative and stressful situations? What do we do when we are faced with complications and uncertainty? Do we collapse or lash out? Do we Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Crista Ryan become reclusive and unreasonable? What is our initial reaction to life when we can’t cope? Do we act out and do things that ultimately hurt us? Over eating, drinking, shopping, or any thing else that is in excess that will hurt us down the road. What we do under stress pretty much tells us how we feel about ourselves. Walking, praying, reaching out to a loved one are new behaviors that help me teach myself that I love myself and don’t want to hurt or sabotage what’s important to my core value of my self-love. I have been told by childhood friends that I’m more beautiful now at 54 than they have ever seen me….. I know I‘m on the right track! Chapter 12 Lesson # 3 Forgive But Don’t Forget From Award Winning Best Seller Silent Screams from the Hamptons What I had observed through my work with the rich and famous was that money could not buy happiness or health. It couldn’t keep the loved ones from dying of cancer, unexpected tragedies from happening, or marriages together. Money could not solve all problems. People could try every new fad under the sun in an attempt to make themselves whole, but the end result was generally the same. No matter A PPLAUD omen W A website built with you in mind! The Largest, Most Comprehensive Resource Website and On-line Publication Created for Women in New Hampshire & N. Massachusetts. how big the diamond or how lovely the new clothes, materialism could not fill the emptiness that so many people experienced. This was the loud lament that echoed throughout the Hamptons. Wealth and arrogance allowed people to show a false sense of happiness, but a huge void lay underneath it all. w w w . silentscreamsfromthehamptons.com Christa Jan Ryan was born into a chaotic family enduring alcoholism, drug overdoses, and violence. The youngest of six children, three of her sisters are triplets, all born with Cerebral Palsy. She has been a professional landscape designer and consultant to the rich and famous of the Hamptons for the last thirty years. Following her heartwarming first book, From the Depths of a Woman’s Soul, Ryan is writing her third and fourth books with a renewed sense of purpose. She now lives in the Berkshires of Western Ma., while pursuing her film adaptation and now play/musical production of Silent Screams from the Hamptons. Written By Christa Jan Ryan Author of From the Depths of a Woman’s Soul and Award Winning Best Seller in 5 Categories www.christajanryan.net A • • • • • • Articles, Links & Lists for: • Health, Female Doctors, • Parenting, Restaurants, • Fashion Weddings, • Business, Beauty, • Dating, Hotels • Celebrities & More! 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G., interior designer, Pembroke, NH Life Coaching for career and life transitions, attracting greater prosperity, improving communication and finding work/life balance. www.fullspectrumwellness.com Debra LeClair Psy.D. Certified Life/ Executive Coach Licensed Psychologist 603-296-0830 x2 www.fullspectrumwellness.com Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 39 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication lifestyles/ Life Do I Love You Because You’re Beautiful – The Magic of Inner Beauty By Liz Vagenas, CMC i Liz Vagenas, CMC In the movie version of Cinderella, the Prince asks, “Do I love you because you’re beautiful, or are you beautiful because I love you?” He continues, “Do I want you because you’re wonderful, or are you wonderful because I want you?” Cinderella asked the same of him. Both characters recognized the dimensions of beauty. Aside from what each lover saw when they looked at the other, they saw signs of inner beauty. Right after the Oscars beauty is a hot topic, as the stars were on display at their glamorous best with 37 million of us watching the broadcast. The Hollywood brand of glamour has come to help define beauty in our society. Even if you don’t care about movie stars, you may react to how they look. The question is, however, “Is physical beauty enough?” Without judging anyone who happens to be gorgeous and famous, you may wonder about the truth of the old cliché “beauty is only skin deep.” Do people who are beautiful always exhibit qualities you want to see in your friends or in yourself? Do they live happier lives? Based on the scandals, the divorces, the bad behavior reported in the media, your answer would probably be “no” on both counts. When we approach the subject of inner beauty, most of us freely admit that externals are not enough. Just because you have a pretty face does not mean you are beautiful on the inside. However, what is internal goes out. A kind person who is not necessarily beautiful externally, can appear more attractive. An ill-tempered beauty won’t seem kind just because of how she looks! Fortunately, you don’t have to make a choice between being attractive and being the type of caring, generous, goal-directed person you strive to be. Attending to your body and your appearance can actually affect how you feel about yourself. Feeling that you look your best can give you confidence and self esteem. As you apply the creams and the makeup to enhance your outward appearance, remember to work on your inner qualities. So, what are the aspects of inner beauty and how do you achieve it? 40 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication 1. First, you need to define the concept. What are the characteristics you want in yourself? You may see your “best you” as non-judgmental, willing to help others, and generous. Or you may value honesty, self-direction, and enthusiasm. Once you have defined what you value, strive to cultivate those characteristics in yourself so you become more like the person you want to be every day. 2. As you are becoming that person, learn to value yourself as someone who is successful. Like yourself. Empower yourself. See your own true beauty. Just like you might look approvingly in the mirror when you know you’re looking good, give yourself permission to acknowledge and embrace your unique beauty. 3. As we said before, what’s inside will surface eventually. Ever try to wear a mask? After a while, your face gets hot and off it comes. It’s hard to project that you are someone you aren’t for very long. While you are working on the good qualities you want to see in yourself, be conscious of how you come across to other people. Aim to be a positive force that sees the good in others and acknowledges them, versus someone who adds an element of negativity to the room. 4. Look for the beauty in others, and whether you think you see it or not, embrace and promote it. Think back to the Prince and Cinderella. If you 90% OF BABY BOOMERS WANT TO STAY IN THEIR HOMES AS THEY AGE; ARE YOU ONE OF THEM? CREATING AN AGELESS LIFESTYLE COMMUNITY believe in the goodness of other people, you can influence them to be better people. In return, they will seem more beautiful and wonderful. Always encourage others by recognizing their inner beauty and acknowledging it verbally. 5. As you work on yourself, don’t forget to give back. If you have a spouse and children at home, start the giving at home and enjoy it. Reach out and do something for others. Do more than you are paid for at work. Mother Theresa may never have won a beauty contest, but she enriched the lives of others. Developing inner beauty is hard work, but the results are amazing and can enhance external beauty in yourself and in the world around you. Liz Vagenas is the President of Path Defined, Inc. and a Life Coach specializing in Career, Transition, Grief, and Mid-Life Dating/Relationships. She has managed a number of corporations as the Vice President of Training, Staffing, and Coaching. She has taken her previous employers, and clients, to an increase in profit by 200-300%, through her consultative and creative management style over the past 20 years. She has become a trusted advisor and coach to clients globally. She is a member of the International Coach Federation, North Shore Women in Business, DWC Advisory Board of the North Shore. For more information contact her at 617-733-4456 or liz@pathdefined.net. Visit her website at www.pathdefined.net. 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If you’re stuck in a clothes rut, it’s time to spruce up your style. And the change of seasons is the perfect time to get some fresh new ideas. Here are 10 easy ways to get inspired! 2. Buy fashion magazines: Just as you might clip home decorating ideas from 3. Create an inspiration board: Start a scrapbook or poster with photos and magazine clippings of outfits that catch your attention. Take note of what you see (styles, color combinations, accessories, etc.) and add the pieces to your spring shopping list. 42 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication 4. Take photos of your own outfits: My clients love it when I coordinate and take photos of outfits using pieces from their own closet so they can create their own “look-book”. 6. Polyvore www.polyvore.com This site allows you to play virtual dressups with their data base of clothes, shoes, handbags and accessories. You will have a great time creating different outfits and checking out the creations of other Polyvore members. Look for my Polyvore page under Fashioncoach. 7. Books: My favorite fashion books which give tons of outfit ideas and tips for dressing for your body shape: The Lucky Shopping Manual; How Not to Look Old (Charla Krupp); In-Style’s Instant Style; and Dress Your Best: The Complete Guide to Finding the Style That’s Right for Your Body by Clinton Kelly & Stacy London (of What Not to Wear). wash jeans, great jackets, good quality layering tees and tanks and of course a little black dress! 9. Great accessories: Nothing makes an outfit “pop” like an eye-catching piece of jewelry, scarf, shoes or handbag. A great accessory will turn a plain outfit into a fabulous one! 10. Hire a wardrobe stylist! 8. Simplify your clothes: The Having a visual guide makes it easy to get dressed in the morning and eliminates the “I have nothing to wear” days! You can do this yourself or enlist the help of a stylist or friend. simpler your clothes are, the easier it is to put different looks together. Make sure that your wardrobe contains basic pieces such as good 5. Go on-line: There are so many great fashion sites and blogs that are chock full of style tips. Many stores also have wonderful on-line look-books such as J. Crew, Ann Taylor, Ann Taylor Loft, and Banana Republic. Some of fabulous fashion sites to check out: www.closetcouture.com www.weardrobe.com www.stylehive.com/ www.chictopia.com/ http://everywomansstylist.blogspot.com/ (my blog) neutral color pants and skirts, fabulously fitting dark Susan Kanoff is a Wardrobe Stylist with a passion for fashion and a flair for style. She has an innate ability to create fabulous outfits for women of all shapes and sizes. Her warmth, sensitivity, and positive energy make her the perfect partner for a wardrobe make-over. In addition to working with private clients, Susan’s styling can also be seen on television and in catalogs. For more information visit Susan’s website at www.agreatnewlook.com or call A (978)807-0577. 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After years of searching relentlessly and failing to find a line of holistic products to meet her needs, Girardo determined to open her own business. With more than 20 years of experience in the corporate world, she was ready to use her research and connections within the holistic community to bring New Hampshire a line of naturally derived products— products that worked. “It was extremely challenging to find products that were truly natural,” said Girardo, who opened her first retail location in Amherst, N.H. 3 1⁄2 years ago. The business owner spent a number of years in banking, new product development, and marketing, to which she credits her success today. “That’s really where I gleaned a lot of my background,” she said. Girardo began Just Naturals & Co. from her Bedford, N.H. home nearly six years ago and in 2010, moved to a permanent location in Bedford. “From the time I started this business we have made five different moves,” she said. “We went from running a business out of my home, to a small spot in Salzburg (Square), to a bigger spot in Salzburg to an even bigger spot, to here.” The many transitions have been one of the greatest challenges for the entrepreneur. But it has also lead to some of her greatest successes. “The fact that we have grown considerably each and every year since we started—even in a down economy— has been very notable,” she said. “We are also starting to bring in holistic practitioners such as massage, Reiki, a number of different of healing arts that people are now practicing on a part time basis in our therapy room.” Girardo, both a wife and a mother to a 17-year-old son, says the key to her success is balance. “It is so easy to kind of let the busi- 58 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Karen Girardo ness overcome you,” she said. “There is always so much to be done, so the biggest challenge is keeping myself in check so I have a nice balance between my personal life and my work life.” When she’s not at work, the New York native enjoys spending time at her summer home in the Adirondack Mountains, gardening, cooking, play- “Never be afraid to take a risk; never be afraid to go after you passion,” Girardo said. “So many of us are looking at our past or our past mistakes or looking to the future and being fearful of what lies ahead. If you live in the present, you will end up happier and much more successful. ” ing tennis and spending time with her family. “When my son is home, my husband and I try to be home,” she said. Girardo looks to a number of her colleagues as role models. “There was an individual I worked for that really shaped and formulated the way that I run the business today,” she said. “I learned a lot from him and apply those practices today. The whole business planning aspect—having the fortitude and the foresight to look and understand what the business needs, and being creative and finding ways to bring those needs into the business.” Another important mentor, Dr. A. Douglas Nicoletti, a naturopathic practitioner, was also instrumental in guiding her in the healing arts and in the natural direction over the course of many years. Girardo is extremely fortunate to have an amazing team of co-workers. Together they make it all happen to form her line of products. Each item’s fragrance provides a unique therapeutic benefit. The organic rosemary mint foaming soap, a best-seller and one of her favorite products, improves clarity and focus, helps reduce mental fatigue and reduces pain asso- ciated with headaches. Needless to say, the business woman has a lot of support—including a friend from junior high who encouraged her to pursue her dreams. friendly products are so effective, they were featured on “The Today Show” in 2009 after being chosen for the “Emmy Bag” for the 2009 Emmy nomination event. “She said to me, ‘Karen, just do it. You have already got what it takes to do it. You can learn all the details of the business as you go.’ I was like, ‘oh my gosh, I can do that,’” Girardo recalled. Her new shop in Bedford is now considered a “community wellness epicenter.” The walls are saturated in watermelon pinks and lime greens and are adorned with funky light fixtures that create a cool vibe for shoppers. As Girardo was putting the holistic, “green” business together, she said she often looked to other women in the field. Whether she needed guidance or hard advice, Girardo said she was impressed by the outpouring of support from women she hardly knew. “You are part of all that you have met,” she said. “No one or any situation is perfect, but you take the best of what you have learned over the years and work it into something that is you.” Since establishing her line of natural products, Girardo has seen more of her ideas and concepts come to life. Her full line now features household, pet, aromatherapy, and personal-care items made with the finest natural ingredients. Her nontoxic, “We have had tremendous success,” the owner said. “The exposure here is really significant. Suffice it to say, it has exceeded my expectations. It is the perfect spot for us.” Her success has proven that hard work pays off and that anything is possible. “Never be afraid to take a risk; never be afraid to go after you passion,” Girardo said. “So many of us are looking at our past or our past mistakes or looking to the future and being fearful of what lies ahead. If you live in the present, you will end up happier and much more successful.” Just Naturals & Co. is at 176 S. River Road. For more information, visit www.justnaturalproducts.com or call 603-606-1345. A environmentally Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 59 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Jill Cartwright, Entrepreneur & Inventor By Samantha Arroyo sultant for a small firm. She soon was hired at Capital One where she gained her first genuine exposure to startup companies. a Jill Cartwright As a young girl, Jill Cartwright watched her father climb the ladder of success. Having worked with the same company for 38 years as a nuclear engineer, Cartwright knew what it took to be successful; however, she had not been exposed to entrepreneurial ventures or non-corporate enterprises. Cartwright enrolled at Duke University as an undergraduate student to pursue environmental law and regulation policy with the drive to “save the world and every tree in it.” Though it was initially what she had set out to do, the eager student was disappointed by the politics of it all. “It really is a bureaucracy,” she said. “I became frustrated that jobs I was doing as an intern I couldn’t be hired for without seven years of experience.” Cartwright then turned down the business route working as a con- “At that point, Capital One was trying to figure out how to apply their information base strategy to something other than credit cards,” she said. “So they started a team called New Business Sales.” Cartwright and her team were expected to launch a brand new business every 90 days. “I was being thrust into a completely new industry every 90 days,” she remembers. “I had the benefit of rolling up my sleeves and figuring out how to make it happen.” The experience she gained from the opportunity gave her a “thing” for marketing and strategizing images and words to make a product sell. But after a number of years in the corporate world, Cartwright realized the environment wasn’t a good fit. “I was selling products that I didn’t necessarily believe in, or I didn’t agree with the way they were being positioned,” she said. “I decided that I wanted to make a go of starting my own business and creating products that I felt good about and that were having a good impact on people’s lives.” And then the Go GaGa Bag happened—a fully functional, stylish and ergonomic baby bag for moms on the go. What started as a sketch on the back of a cocktail napkin, erupted into a global name with more than 200 boutiques and online retailers selling her products. 60 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Since launching the line in 2007, Cartwright has attracted a Hollywood following, moved her warehouse from her third-floor apartment to a facility just north of Seattle, and has worked with designers of the highest caliber. The idea for a baby bag came forward when she learned the plight of many of her friends who were new to parenting. She often heard her friends say things like: “One day I was carrying a Louise Vuitton bag and now I’m carrying this denim Winnie the Pooh bag around filled with diapers.” The loss of self, in combination with the lack of style and functionality in parenting products, gave Cartwright the idea for a multi-purpose product that parents would enjoy carrying. “A lot of these folks were actually getting hurt,” Cartwright said of the products and bags parents had been using. “The products are geared to the safety of the child, but without regard to the safety of the caregiver.” Cartwright investigated these stories through the National Electronic Injury Surveillance System, a database that catalogs every hospital emergency visit involving an injury associated with consumer products. According to Cartwright, parents were suffering from hearing loss, dislocated shoulders, torn ACLs, and carpal tunnel syndrome, simply by using products designed specifically for the safety of the child without regard to the needs of the parent. “If I could create a really stylish bag that would be durable and safe for “Be honest with yourself .... The biggest challenge for women facing an entrepreneurial opportunity is being honest with themselves. Understand your strengths and your weaknesses. I think that’s really hard for women because we don’t want to be seen as (weak); we take great pride in doing it all, but we can become our biggest obstacle.” parents . . . well, I thought that was the real sweet spot,” she said. Her products are designed for everyday life and for both males and females. Her patented ergonomic shoulder strap suits both men and women and comfortably spreads the weight of the bag across the back and shoulders. The Go GaGa bags are available in a variety of styles including the Slide tote bag, the Gondola bag, the Messenger bag, and the Urban Sherpa Strap. They are even versatile enough to use as a laptop bag, yoga bag or travel carry-on. “That’s one of the things that I love most about what I do,” Cartwright says. “Our products have really struck a chord with people and they have really have made our products their own.” Though the journey has been worthwhile, it has had of a number of ups and downs. Just last year, Cartwright began paying herself—a mere $1,000 per month. Prior to that, she went unpaid, relying on credit card purchases and scaling back her living expenses. “I know where you can get 10 packs of Ramen Noodles for $3,” she said. “I knew it was going to be hard, but I didn’t know it was going to be that hard for that long.” The entrepreneur continued to press forward though, eventually hauling over 3,000 bags up three flights of stairs to her apartment where she initially housed her products. What is her one piece of advice? Rent a first floor apartment. All joking aside though, she does recommend that individuals pace themselves when starting a new business. The first 18 months of launching Go GaGa, Cartwright was relentless— until she landed in the hospital. “I worked myself to the point that I landed in the hospital,” she said. “I was really lucky; it was nothing too severe, but it was a good wake-up call—I needed to go about this in a way that was more sustainable financially, emotionally, and physically.” Since her bout in the hospital, Cartwright has learned to seek advice from the professionals around her. “It really took me a while to look to other people and to have the confidence to build those relationships and realize that they wanted to help, that it wasn’t an imposition,” she said. She now has a network of professionals and CEOs to which she turns to for advice and direction. Starting this business on her own has both enlightened Cartwright and challenged her as well. A perfectionist through and through, she says that she often is so focused on where she wants to be that she forgets where she came from. For Cartwright, making a mistake is often difficult to cope with as she sees it as a personal reflection or as if she is letting down the company. But she holds onto the advice of her father: if you aren’t making mistakes, than you aren’t making enough decisions. It’s something she has always clung to and will continue to fall back on during the challenging moments of entrepreneurship. “Something that my parents always taught me is that you really can do anything that you want to, you just have to break it down into small pieces,” she said. “Be honest with yourself and to be realistic. The biggest challenge for women facing an entrepreneurial opportunity is being honest with themselves. Understand your strengths and your weaknesses. I think that’s really hard for women because we don’t want to be seen as (weak); we take great pride in doing it all, but we can become our biggest obstacle.” Cartwright is a living testimony that dreams are possible. In June 2009, the company created a firm foundation in one market, and has in turn, grown substantially. This year, she will be venturing further into the global market and making “Go GaGa” a household name. “I am not a mom-prenuer, I have never had kids, and I’m single,” Cartwright said laughing, “I like to think I have a maternal instinct, but the fact that I am in this industry is an oxymoron.” It just goes to show that all you need is a whole lot of drive, a willingness to learn, and little bit of humor to make an idea go from cocktail napkin to diaper bag. For more information on Go GaGa visit http://www.goGaGalife.com .A Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 61 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication lifestyles/ Senior Staying at Home y I Need My Sleep! By Barbara Trimble You used to love crawling into your bed after a hard day’s work and sleeping like a baby; but, not anymore. Actually you have no trouble falling asleep; in fact you can barely stay awake past 9pm. It’s staying asleep that’s the problem. At about 2 or 3am you wake up and that’s it; you’re awake for the rest of the night. If the above scenario sounds like you, you are probably a woman and you have probably gone through menopause. Research has looked at the relationship between sleep and aging, and experts find that individuals who sleep an average of 7 to 9 hours a night have the longest life expectancy. Basically we are designed to spend a third of our lives sound asleep. Sadly, however, nearly half of us are not getting enough sleep, and this can lead to attention and memory problems, muscle soreness, and can exacerbate psychological stress. There are several contributing factors to why older adults tend to have trouble sleeping. Many older adults take medications that can affect sleep habits. Stress, depression and anxiety are other things that can play a role in sleep patterns. A sedentary lifestyle and illness also can contribute to poor sleep habits. While over-the-counter sleep aids can help for short-term problems, many experts have agreed that a better solution is to incorporate lifestyle changes to help you sleep better. Some of the following suggestions have proven helpful in getting a better night’s sleep: Change your sleep schedule – If you find you are falling asleep earlier, allow yourself to do just that. Don’t fight your new natural patterns. Also avoid napping in the middle of the day. this will make you less tired during the night. thing you want to remember to do, write it down and then stop thinking about it. Empty your mind and let yourself fall back to sleep. Get some exercise during the day – Studies show that exercising, even light exercise, has many benefits for older adults, including better sleeping habits. Don’t exercise too close to bedtime though, as this can interfere with sleep. Try listening to a guided visualization tape while you are going to sleep. A best selling one to try is Healthful Sleep by Belleruth Naparstek. You can order this through Healthjourneys at 1-800-800-8661 or www.healthjourneys.com Create a peaceful sleep environment. Make it dark and quiet and not too hot. If you can’t block out noise, try a sound machine. Remove computers, papers and anything else that reminds you of work. If you keep your phone in your bedroom, make sure the light from the phone is not visible. Take everything except your covers off your bed. Buy a lavender scented pillow. Waking up early and being unable to get back to sleep before your body has gotten a full night’s rest is a symptom of insomnia. Other symptoms include taking more than 45 minutes to get to sleep, waking up many times throughout the night, and waking up feeling tired. If you suspect you might have insomnia, you should think about contacting your doctor. Relax before bed, and incorporate some relaxing rituals – drink warm milk or non-caffeinated tea, listen to soft music, take a warm bath or soak your feet in warm water, do some gentle stretches or meditate. Exchange back rubs or foot rubs with your partner. Change your eating and drinking habits – If you are hungry at night after dinner, eat only a light snack. Also, try to eliminate caffeine, alcohol, nicotine and excess sugars in your diet. Keep a pad next to your bed. If you wake up in the middle of the night with some nagging thought or some- Try to follow a few of these suggestions, and see if you can sleep a little later into each morning. Soon you could be on a new schedule that will leave you feeling rested, energized, and ready to face your day! Barbara Trimble RN, M. Ed. is Founder and President of Extended Family, a premium and comprehensive provider of support services, helping older adults stay home, while enhancing their independence, good health and engagement in life. Started in Portsmouth, Extended Family is currently expanding to new locations. (603) 834-4513 www.extended-family.net 62 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication A Caregivers – Giving Too Much? Ways to Manage and Balance as a Caregiver a Are you a caregiver? Are you one of the 29.2 million family members in the U.S. providing personal care to an elder relative? Almost 80% of people that are receiving their long-term care at home depend exclusively on family and friends for their care needs. If the services provided by families were replaced with paid services, it would cost an estimated $257 billion annually. Caregivers are often overwhelmed with their responsibilities and face challenges of being burnt out, stressed, and overwhelmed. Frustration, guilt and financial limitations can add to the stress. Up to 50% of caregivers report depression and many are at greater risk for high blood pressure, cardiovascular disease, elevated insulin levels, and an impaired immune system. Caregivers need to be aware of their own care needs to be able to provide adequately for someone else over the long term. You may be thinking that improving self-care is a lot easier said than done! The truth is that making even small changes in what we do for ourselves can have a dramatic effect on how we feel. Below are some useful tips to help you care take of yourself: • Ask For Help - Beyond asking your neighbors, friends, or relatives, contact your local Area Agency on Aging (AAA). Each AAA is federally funded and provides support through education, By Renee Merritt case management, referral services, and general assistance. You can find your local Area Agency on Aging by calling 800-677-1116 or through the website eldercare.gov. • Adult Day Services - Are services provided at a facility to care for your loved one. Even one day a week can provide respite time for a family member and give them a needed break. For a listing of all centers call 877745-1440 or visit www.nadsa.org. • Support Groups - Are invaluable free resources; they provide a safe space for caregivers to talk about their feelings, have access to appropriate advice, and learn from others with similar experiences. You may find local support groups by contacting hospitals, churches, and AAAs. • Attend a Class - Powerful Tools for Caregivers is one example of a short term class that helps caregivers learn to care for themselves. Your local AAA can provide valuable information about these education programs. • Attend a Conference - There are many local partnerships and organizations that host conferences to help caregivers gain valuable information and learn about supportive services and programs available to help them. Renee Merritt Renee Merritt, Family Caregiver Support Program Manager with Elder Services of the Merrimack Valley. Elder Services of the Merrimack Valley was established as a nonprofit by a group of citizens and advocates in 1974. Since then, Elder Services of the Merrimack Valley has been the first choice and the first call for elder care. We help older adults, caregivers and their families navigate a complex system of services and programs to address long term care needs. For more information call 800.892.0890 or visit www.esmv.org. Spring 2011 A www.Applaudwomen.com 63 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication business/ Finance Planning Tortoise and the Red Hot Hare By Robin Young er’s fashionable in an attempt to catch up, you’ve actually found two ways to get hurt. Many have experienced the mistake of panic over the last few years; now may be the time to talk about the mistake of chasing immediate past performance. Robin Young h Human nature being what it is, there is a natural cycle to our emotions about the markets. We tend to go from terror during a major decline to disbelief through much of the subsequent advance—and then to a sense of ‘I’ve missed it, and I have to run to catch up—gotta jump on what’s hot!’ as the bull market continues. Again, this cycle of emotions is very human—but it’s a formula for very bad long-term investment outcomes. First of all, remember that you can act your way to investment success, but you can’t react your way. If you react to falling markets by fleeing them, and then belatedly lunge at whatev- “Second only to panicking out of the markets, there may be no more sure way of getting substandard investment outcomes than by overinvesting in whatever has been red hot in the last block of time—and then, when that sector inevitably goes cold, chasing some newer v o g u e . ” Wa r r e n Buffett famously said that the investor of today does not profit from yesterday’s growth, and performance-chasing is the most painful way of demonstrating that truth to yourself. You are almost always trying to buy a track record that someone else already got, and that turns out not to be replicable. The most reliable approach to grow your wealth and achieve your longterm financial goals is to globally diversify your portfolio across several 64 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication sectors and then rebalance your portfolio back to its original allocations once a year around the same time. This is the tortoise approach to longterm equity investing. And although you will surely see a red-hot hare go whizzing past from time to time, as you continue to plod along you’ll sooner than later find that hare gasping in exhaustion at the side of the road—and you’ll pass him. Robin Young, CFP® - President of Northstar Financial Planning, Inc., Windham, NH. Fee-only Financial Life Planning and Wealth Management. Visit www.northstarfp.com or contact Robin at 603.458.2776. Provided by Nick Murray© A business/ Networking Networking Organizations American Business Women’s Association, 1-800-228-0007, www.abwanh.com., (NH)(MA) Business & Professional Women/NH, www.bpwusa.org, NH)(MA) Seacoast Women’s Network, www.jredweb.com/swn(NH, MA, ME) Women Supporting Women Center, (603) 772-0799, www.wswcenter.com, (NH, MA, ME) Southern NH Women's Business Network,mcstrasburger@snhwbn.org, www.snhwbn.org, (NH) The New England Seacoast Holistic Health Association - Contact Pauline M. Derby, 603-964-7471; www.NESHHA.org. Women Inspiring Women - Leslie Sturgeon, President, 603-744-0400; www.wiwnh.com.(NH) The Commonwealth Institute, Aileen Gorman, 617.885-6101, www.commonwealthinstitute.org.(MA) One More Referral, Melissa Lesniak, 603-475-7476, www.OneMoreReferral.com(NH) Northshore Women in Business, Peabody, MA, www.nswib.org(MA) Dare to be Phenomenal, Maureen Campaiola, 978-794-4991 or maureen@daretobephenomenal.com(MA) Downtown Women’s Club, Lisa Summerville, 617-803-0447. (MA) Catapult, Helen Donington, 438-7006. (Seacoast NH) Women in Business Connections, Shelly Berman-Rubera, 617-201-7224, www.wibconnection.or.(MA) Gold Star Referral, Diana Pinkham, 603-329-9900. (NH)(MA) Newburyport Mothers Club, Judy Speicher, 978-420-8820, www. newburyportmothers.com Homebased Business Women’s Network, Miriam Klamkin, 978-376-9164, www.h-b-n/org (MA) Nh Business for Socail Responsibility, Molly Hodgson-Smith, www.nhbsr.org (NH) WREN, Marilinne Cooper, 603-869-9736, www.wren.org (NH) NH Made, Laurie Ferguson, 603-735-6420, www.nhmade.com “Unblock Your Money Stream Now!” Discover the Proven Methods Guaranteed to Turn EVERY Goal or Desire You Have Into a DONE DEAL! written by Kerri Salls, • Doyouhavea businessyouare passionateabout, butcan’tseemtoget people to see how valuable you are tothem? How many of you are in some sort of transition, new job, relocation, new parent, new partner? • Haveyouspentafortuneinmoney andtimemarketingbutstillcan’t attractenoughcustomers to use yourservices,letalone pay you what you deserve? 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THE 4 KEYS TO SUCCESS: PLAN Every idea for a product or service should start with a plan – the beginning. It doesn’t have to be a volume or take a year. It can be just half a page sometimes. Planning lays out your business approach to need or opportunity. With good planning, you and your team can be efficient and clear about your objectives. You minimize risk. You make better decisions. Probably 80% of all businesses (any size) don’t plan. They do very well – up to a point – flying by the seat of their pants. Then the lack of planning handicaps them in competing and moving ahead, because they have no plans or methods to plan. SYSTEMATIZE Whatever your business is, as soon The Secret to Massive Results? By Kerri Salls Take a look at your business. How many of these keys do you have in place right now? When you put all four keys in motion, as it proves itself, start implementing systems. This is the middle. Most business owners skip this step, arguing that they and their team know what they’re doing and don’t need to take time away from money-making activities to systematize their work. Without systems, you immediately set a cap on how much work you can accept, how many customers you can support and how big your business can grow. To set your business up from the outset for explosive growth that you can handle, you must systematize. • Plan • Systematize • Leverage • Achieve that’s when you will position your business for unsurpassed success. LEVERAGE The key to multiplying your income fast is leverage. You can leverage many things: leverage your time, leverage your marketing, leverage your team, leverage your personal productivity, leverage your products and services, and even leverage your business models. To work smarter, not harder, and to maximize the ROI on everything you do, look for ways to leverage everything you do. Kerri Salls ACHIEVE The last key, the end result, but not the end of the story for your business, is to achieve every goal you set, in order to achieve massive results. To achieve your goals you must have a plan in place; systems to implement that plan; and the capacity to leverage every aspect of your business to catapult your business to the next level. At that point you are positioned for breakthrough results. It is essential to still follow through if your focus is to achieve your dream. 66 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Kerri Salls, a Business Advisor and Speaker, is President of Breakthrough Enterprise. Proven to be the Goal Achievement Expert, clients call her the ‘Business Accelerator’ and ‘obstacle mover’. She works with high-achieving business owners and entrepreneurs who struggle to build that strong foundation of systems, processes and productivity they need to achieve big bold goals. If you can conceive and believe in your business, you can achieve your business goals. Kerri can help make that happen. For a free copy of her ebook: 7 Ways to Easily Achieve Any Goal Now, go to http://achieveyourgoalnow.com. A m business/ Marketing Business Card Basics By Nancy Knettell Most business owners seem to treat business cards as an afterthought. They hand them out hoping they are kept in mind for at least a few days. But, secretly, they suspect that the cards are just tossed out anyway... Why bother with them then? In fact, business cards are key to an overall marketing strategy. Make them a powerful walking mini billboard for you. On the front, your name, business name, tag line if you have one, and telephone number are important…but, if you don’t have your picture there also, you are really reducing your card’s effectiveness. People only buy from someone they “know like and trust.” Your business card should support that goal. For example, at the next networking event you meet someone who is perfect for your business. You hand her your card (with your picture) and agree to keep in touch. When you follow up the one thing she will remember will be your face because of your picture. It will be easy for her to say, “Oh I remember her…” The “know, like, and trust” factor created in the first meeting is carried through. If the picture was not there, she might not remember who you are. Make sure your logo doesn’t overwhelm your contact information either. Making cards such a work of art that no one can read them is counterproductive. Also ensure that the font size is readable by most people. I have received some cards where I had to use a microscope to see the phone number. Always include your mailing address. (If you do not want to give that out, get a postbox.) Also include your email address, website address, and all the major social media sites you are a member of. You want to make it possible for anyone who wants to connect with you able to so as easily as possible. Now the back side… I turn so many cards over and I see blank space. What a waste. The backside is the most important side of your business card, believe it or not. I actually got one of my best customers on the spot when I handed her my card. She immediately turned it over, read my “call to action” statement written there and said “I need that!” She signed up for my biggest program the next day. The “call to action” statement gives your potential customer a strong inducement to contact you immediately. It should be in the form of a question that restates the major struggle that you are an expert in solving. The statement should be followed by all your direct contact information. For example: “Are you worried about ‘this major problem’ and need to fix it right now? Then call me at ‘phone number’ or email me at ‘email address’ or go to my website ‘www.mywebsite.com’ for more information on how you can get help.” Even though you have to put a lot of information on the back of your card, make sure there is still some white space below for people to write in. Do not make the backside a color or glossy for the same reason. Glossy no longer signals quality anymore. You Nancy Knettell are better off getting a heavier matt stock than paying the price for a shiny thin card. People will want to write information about you on your card and will do so on both sides. Nancy Knettell is a Small Business Consultant, Client Attraction Specialist and CEO of Help More Clients Now. Her business focuses on helping businesses rapidly grow their new client base so they can significantly increase their profitability. For more information e-mail her at Success@HelpMoreClientsNow.com or visit her website at http://www.helpmoreclientsnow.com Nancy is available to speak at your next event. A Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 67 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication home/ Gardening Spring Has Finally Sprung! By Crista Ryan used to mean 90 hours a week of hard work and then come home and get it from the clients on the phone. I used to call it a double barrel business. i Daffodils It has been many long years since I have been this excited over a Spring coming. My usual cry is ‘OH NO.....the daffodils are starting.....is the forsyth- Daffodils ia starting already...... please help me....the perennials are pushing forth.’ On and on I would lament, because Spring But not this year.......there is Joy in my heart at the new awakening of the earth. I’m truly looking forward to the richness and beauty of nature that Spring brings forth. It’s finally time, after the snow has melted, to put down any amending to the earth such as cow or any low nitrate fertilizer, and rake up any leaf debris that is going Prunus Serralata Earliest Blooming Cherry 68 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Crabapple to rot the plants. I love to leave the leaves and put mulch down on top of the leaves. I get out the peony rings now and put them up because by the time they’re needed, I’m entrenched with something else. Get those tools ready and sharpened. Thin and prune the dead wood off the roses and any other vine that is pushing off dead wood. Fruit trees should have been pruned by now for any suckers or heavy limbs that would drop when laden with fruit. Ornamental Grasses should be cut to the ground. I’m of Rhododendrons get everything looking fresh. Gravel from the plowing needs to be raked off the lawn and out of gardens. Thinning of perennials as they come should not be missed. It helps develop the flowers to their potential if they are not left to over-flower. Bradford Pear two minds here....some gardens need the fullness of the winter grass look; I cut them because of the mess they cause. It’s time to just clean up and More than anything, it’s time to get out and hear the birds and feel the freshness of the sun and air as we start to anticipate the excitement of getting to see all the hard work we did in the fall of all the transplanted material and newly planted material. Enjoy yourselves and see you in June. Take lots of pictures so you can remember what you liked and didn’t like, so you can rearrange it around this fall to get it the way you want. Happy Gardening! Crista Ryan Christa Jan Ryan, Professional Gardener and Author of: Silent Screams from the Hamptons and From the Depths of a Women’s Souls. www.christajanryan.com www.silentscreams fromthehamptons.com Spring 2011 A www.Applaudwomen.com 69 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication home/ decorating “Staging Your Home for Sale” l By Vicki Baer In this competitive market of home sales, it is important for your property to show well.If a home does not show well to BEFORE extended time.Homes that are creatively displayed sell a lot faster than homes that are not. This family room looks much larger without the cluttered bookcases and overdone mantel.The plant on the end table scaled down to a vase with flowers really opened up the beautifulwindow. BEFORE AFTER AFTER its perspective buyers it will remain on the market for an 70 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication In the before photo at the immediate right: The kitchen was very cluttered and it was difficult to appreciate elements such as thegranite countertops and colorful backsplash tile. Decluttering a space is an important BEFORE AFTER factor in staging a home for sale; it is the number one priority when getting a home ready for the selling market.“Less is more.” Below: This empty space is lifeless and does not give the prospective buyer any ideas on furniture placement or how to display artwork, plants, etc. This creative design shows a prospective buyer some possible options of where to place furniture and art as well as being cozy and inviting. E BEFOR AFTER Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 71 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication home/ decorating “Staging Your Home for Sale” Continued from previous page BEFORE This large empty family room needed a lot of work on limited budget; using existing furniture made it cozy and gave it the character it needed to show well. AFTER 72 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication BEFORE This condominium needed a lot of decluttering and some creative planning. Moving the furniture around to open up the space really made it show beautifully. Hanging some simple art pieces created interest and added some color and depth to this gorgeous place. AFTER Staging made simple:Here are some simple rules to follow if you are thinking of putting your home on the market: 1. Declutter- remove any personal mementos,photos, trophies, personal collections, etc. 2. Highlight architectural features - Fireplace Mantels, Columns, Millwork, Built-ins, etc. 3. Maximize use of space - open rooms up by moving furnishings around to create conversation areas. 4. Paint - make a room look fresh and alive by updating a paint color.Paint is the least expensive facelift. 5. Clean - make sure a home is spotless. Vicki Baer is an Interior Design Consultant. She has been a national member of Window Coverings Association of America, since 2002, Vicki offers consultations in all styles and tastes, she specializes in window treatments, textiles and space planning. Vicki studied Interior Design at St. Petersburg College, in Florida where she resided for 17 years. For more information you may e-mail her at vbinteriordesign@comcast.net or call 603.679.5118 Spring 2011 A www.Applaudwomen.com 73 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication B E A U T Y A 74 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication omen By SAMANTHA ARROYO SKIN: glass or a splash of cranberry juice. The more water, the better. VITAMIN THERAPY: Y You probably know it as Vitamin B3, but the beauty industry most commonly refers to it as Niacin. This beauty wonder is said to promote cell turnover, repair sun damage and strengthen the skin barrier and is truly a multi-tasking genius. Believe it or not, UV rays from the sun form free radicals that set off a domino effect of skin cell deterioration. You may not see it happening, but the effects are noticeable: dry skin, wrinkles, freckles, hyperpigmentation, and even skin cancer. Niacin reverses this damage by creating new cells that then generate more healthy cells. The vitamin also protects against skin dehydration and speeds up cells’ metabolisms to create new, healthy cells at a faster clip. Let’s face it (no pun intended), the healthier each cell is, the healthier the overall look and feel of your skin. Niacin-based treatment has only recently been transformed into a topical treatment and already there are a number of products to meet your individual needs. Between serums, scrubs and lotions, it’s easy to collect a set of Vitamin B3infused products to include in your skin care regime. SEVEN HABITS CONTRIBUTING TO UNHEALTHY SKIN: 1. Dehydration. As your body’s largest organ, you better be watering it! If you’re anything like me and drinking water seems like a chore, then drop a lemon wedge in the BEAUTY Beauty Information for 2011 2 Little Exercise. Working out stimulates your body. It doesn’t just speed up your metabolism, it keeps your blood moving—which is essential to healthy skin. 3. Smoking. Even if you are lathering your body in Vitamin B3 as we suggested in the previous section, if you smoke, you are draining your skin of Vitamin C. Depleting your body of this energy source will accelerate the rate at which collagen and elastin is broken down. If your skin lacks moisture, expect wrinkles. Period. 4. Poor Cleansing. It makes sense, right? If you don’t wash your face and body properly, blackheads, whiteheads and rough, cracked skin will emerge on the surface. Failing to cleanse your skin leaves dirt and dust particles on the skin surface which clog pores and oil-secreting sebaceous glands. Eww. That being said, be sure to cleanse twice a day. 5. Poor Eating Habits. Your mother may have told you that eating chocolate would cause you to break out. While that myth is still up for debate, the underlying message parallels the truth. What you eat DOES have an effect on your skin’s overall Article continued on page 76. Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 75 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication SKIN Beauty Information for 2011 Continued from page 75 well-being. So pay attention to what makes you feel sluggish and bloated. Those foods are usually harder for your body to digest, causing food to not be broken down properly. If this happens, you become tired and your skin looks the way you feel. So swap out the refined sugars and stock up on some salmon, blueberries, carrots, and green tea to give your skin that youthful glow. 6. Skiing. Okay, I just wanted to get your attention. I don’t just mean skiing, I mean snowboarding, cross country skiing, sledding, snow tubing, skating, and walking outside. repeated if it wasn’t SO important! Wrinkles, dark spots and even melanoma are all possible side effects to sun exposure if your skin is not protected. If you can see your shadow, the sun is out. So wear sunscreen. Scars: They may bring back memories of that epic snowboarding fall, or that horrifying pimple right before prom, but at the end of the day, scars are a nuisance. Sure, they hint of past events, but most people like a few photographs as a memento instead. Scars are a part of the body’s natural healing process, and though there is no way to remove them entirely, there are methods to soften their appearance. Topical treatments such as creams are an inexpensive way to help heal scars and are often available over-the-counter. Basically, I’m referring to any activity that involves exposure to the New England weather. Cold weather and harsh winds wreak havoc on the surface of the skin, so be sure to apply adequate moisturizer. 7. Sun Exposure. You’ve heard it time and time again: wear sunscreen. It seems like every summer the same message encompasses our reading material, but it wouldn’t be However, the best way to treat the appearance of scars is by prevention. Keep new wounds clean and apply antibacterial ingredients to the skin. Surgery, dermabrasion, radiotherapy, steroid injections, and laser resurfacing are reasonable treatment options de- Article continued on page 78. 76 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication www.lumeneusa.com Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 77 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication FACE Beauty Information for 2011 Continued from page 76 pending on the type and severity of the scar. But start with silicone gel and sheeting, proven ingredients that help shrink scar tissue, and cortisone-infused products that will reduce the irritation associated with scarring. FACE. PUFFY EYES: Though dark, puffy eyes are often genetic, there a r e s o m e r o o t causes and quick fixes to try to a v o i d the tired, under-appreciated look. Consider the foods you eat. Often, salt and alcohol aggravate under-eye puffiness, so avoid them when you can. Hydrate the under-eye area with collagen infused products that will help plump the skin. Sometimes the factors are more simplistic. Perhaps you are stressed or you are in the midst of allergy season or hormone changes. If so, your emotions can easily cause a tired appearance. So be sure to take a self-inventory about what’s really been going on. Sleeping in or treating yourself to the spa may be all it takes to get rid of those dark circles. If you can’t rid yourself of the baggy look, try adding volume to the area beneath the brow bone with filler injections. As always, talk to your doctor. GETTING THAT YOUTHFUL LOOK: Naturally, as we age, our face ages with us. Though we may be battling the scale over “the last five pounds,” that same type of fat would do wonders against the war on aging. Though “fat” is regarded as a negative word, it’s the secret to looking young. A thin face often gives the appearance of someone who is worn and older, while a fuller face is often tighter and more attractive. Think about it—a fuller face has more fat to fill out those lines and wrinkles. Make sense? Thin vs Full Jamie Lee Curtis, Born 1958Thin Face Christie Brinkley, Born 1954Fuller Face Essentially, as you age, your skin deflates like a balloon and the extra skin begins to sag, creating jowling. This is caused primarily by fat loss. It’s important to note, however, that fat does not just fill in extra space; it protects the underlying muscles and tissues, provides cushion and support, and allows the muscles to move. Facial fat begins to degrade in your mid to late 20’s, but there is not a significant difference in one’s appearance. However, by your 40’s you’ll see fat loss in the cheeks which causes the midface to start to droop, causing the jowling we mentioned above. 78 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication The Fat Transfer BEFORE AFTER Though nothing can prevent aging, there are some techniques to slow down the process. If you are an avid exerciser or a yo-yo dieter, you could be speeding up the process without even knowing it. The facial ligaments are constantly being stretched out and then relaxed, creating the effect of a weak rubber band. To keep your skin taut, don’t follow an extremely restrictive diet, pace yourself during your exercise routines, weight train to conserve muscle tone during weight loss, and exercise in combination with a healthy diet Just as a thin face can add extra years, a full face can have the same effect. Facial fat is good, but just like everything else, it should be kept in moderation. If there’s extra facial fat along the jaw line and chin areas where extra fat is stored, try cutting out salt and drinking more water to eliminate the excess. There are always surgical ways to restore youth as well. Consider a fat transfer procedure if you want long-lasting results and are willing to endure a recuperation period. Fat transfer involves removing fat from one area of the body and implanting it to another area. Fillers are also an option for those who want an immediate, noninvasive fix. Patients can choose short term, long term and permanent injections that restore volume to selected areas of the face. Most commonly known as a “liquid lift,” this procedure can be done in as little as 30 minutes. In an interview with WSVN 7 News, facial plastic surgeon Dr. Carlos Wolf said that liquid lifts allow surgeons to enhance a patient’s appearance without surgery. The Liquid Lift In broad terms, a nonsurgical Liquid Face Lift can be undertaken to accomplish any of the following: 1. Gentle lift of individual (or overall) facial features 2. Reduced wrinkles, creases or folds 3. Restoration of natural, curved facial contours 4. A more rested, energetic look 5. A friendlier smile BEFORE Text from www.LiquidLifts.com AFTER PHOTOS PROVIDED BY WWW.LOCATEADOC.COM Article continued on page 80. Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 79 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Beauty Information for 2011 Continued from page 79 “You could have the injection and really be out the next day,” he said. “With a facelift, you’re talking about eight to 10 days of recovery.” And finally, facial implants are an option for women looking for the most permanent treatment available. ACNE: Though often considered a “teen disease,” acne can follow men and women well into adulthood. Yes, hormones have a bit to do with it which may cause excess oil to form on the surface of the skin, but acne is primarily caused by clogged pores. Each pore contains a hair and an oil gland meant to hydrate the face and remove old skin cells, but when they produce too much oil, they become blocked. This produces swelling and inflammation causing red bumps to form. The most natural response to acne is to cleanse often. But this can actually exacerbate the problem because the pH levels of the skin are thrown off balance. Cleansing is imperative, but don’t overdo it. Use a mild, non-drying soap product one to two times a day and avoid over exfoliation which can irritate the skin. Keep exfoliation to a minimum: one to two times per week. Since oil forms over the rest of your skin, avoid touching and rubbing your face with your hands. Taking vitamins and minerals that have antioxidant benefits will help detox the skin and ward off inflammation. And finally, use a spot treatment for problematic areas or for individual breakouts with a product containing benzoyl peroxide or salicylic acid. 80 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Professional options include chemical peels, laser treatments, light treatments, and photodynamic therapy. A health care provider may discuss further treatment and stronger medication if breakouts are still a problem. While we’re on the topic, let’s address some of those common myths: 1. Myth: Popping pimples make them go away. Fact: Though it may, temporarily, make a pimple less noticeable, the action of popping a pimple pushes bacteria further into the pore. Dab on some benzoyl peroxide to dry it out instead. 2. Myth: Wearing makeup makes acne worse. Fact: Today, there are cosmetic products labeled noncomedogenic or nonacnegenic, which prevent acne. Some concealers even contain benzoyl peroxide or salicylic acid, which help to fight acne. You don’t have to forego wearing makeup, just make sure you choose the right products. 3. Myth: Acne is caused by poor hygiene. Fact: In a word? False. 4. Myth: Acne is caused by certain foods. Fact: There is not enough scientific evidence that there is a connection between food and diet. However, a deficiency of riboflavin—found in meat, eggs and green vegetables— can cause the skin to produce excess oil. Article continued on page 82 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 81 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication HAIR Beauty Information for 2011 Continued from page 80 HAIR GREY HAIR: Not sure what to do when your youthful tint turns to a harsh gray? It can be quite a predicament. A good hair stylist will know that gray hair is notoriously more difficult to dye than pigmented hair and needs to be treated with special care. Essentially, as we get older, the pigment cells in the hair follicle slowly fade away. With less melanin in each strand of hair, it is replaced with a more transparent color such as gray or white or silver. With fewer and fewer pigment cells to create melanin, your hair will eventually gray entirely. Genes are the determining factor as to when we begin to gray, but once we do, we want to begin locking in color immediately. Products that contain anti-oxidants ward off free-radicals that can cause color to fade and sulfate-free shampoos will help lock in your natural color. There are a number of products on the market that offer a quick fix between salon visits. Comb-in color wands can easily be applied to your roots. They are often packaged like mascara and can be slipped into a purse for emergency fixes. There are even shampoo products designed specifically with gray hair in mind. Most of these items can be found at your local drug store or supermarket. NOTE: Go Away Grey can be found on Amazon.com and Get a way grey can be found at www.getawaygrey.com. We have not tried either of these products so inclusion here should not be considered an endorsement or recommendation. KEEPING LONG HAIR HEALTHY: Your tresses are like personal crowns of glory. Long, luxurious, and supple, your hair is one of those timeless treasures that define your individual style and beauty. Whether straight and sleek or curly and textured, it is essential to keep these lengthy locks healthy if you want to maintain its bounce and life. To keep your hair healthy, make sure you condition thoroughly to prevent breakage. Think about it—if your hair is super long, the ends have been exposed to chemicals, sun, chlorine, and pollution for a number of years, making them especially fragile and delicate. So be sure to condition and comb gently. Before brushing use a wide tooth comb and begin by combing the ends first. Do a section at a time ending at the crown so your comb doesn’t get caught up in knots and tangles. There are products out there that will help hair grow to your desired length as well. But much of it has to do with your diet. Include folic acid which can be found in soybeans, Vitamin A, Vitamin B, and Vitamin C to ensure your tresses are nourished properly. For women over 40, be sure to keep up with regular trims and deep condition on a routine basis. Though many women keep their hair short when they hit their 40s, that doesn’t mean long hair isn’t do-able. In fact, by implementing the proper steps, long, healthy hair can be your signature style well into your 40s, 50s and beyond. Article continued on page 84 82 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 83 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication BODY Beauty Information for 2011 Continued from page 82 BODY. DIET AND EXERCISE Diet and exercise—there’s no more perfect couple! Let’s put it this way: there cannot be one without the other. If you want results, and you want them fast, it is essential to combine healthy eating habits with exercise routines that fit your lifestyle. Healthy eating is not about restriction. There is some truth to everything in moderation. If you tell yourself that you cannot have something, guess what? It will be all you think about! So set yourself for success. Don’t deny yourself anything at the starting line. Rather, take small, manageable steps. Start small by simplifying your meals and measuring portion sizes. And don’t be fooled by misleading words on grocery store items. “Fat-free” really means that the product’s fat has been replaced with artificial sweeteners and sugar. “Reduced Fat” Daily Food & Exercise Diary Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday can often be Breakfast translated to: “more carbs.” And Lunch “ S u g a r Free,” well, Dinner let’s just say it contains Activity chemicals that makes Make sure you GOALS: DIET EXERCISE have a snack the food SNACKS between each meal taste just as sweet as its sugar-induced twin. Keep a food diary, and don’t stress out when you slip up or go out for ice cream with friends. Eating healthy is a lifestyle change. So create a plan that you can follow for the long term. ing. Have you always loved rollerblading as a kid? Work in a few laps around the neighborhood every day! Always wanted to take up Zumba? Sign up for a class! The Latininspired dance fitness program has been taking the world by storm. Since its birth in 2001, the program has grown to become the world’s largest – and most successful – dance-fitness program with more than 10 million people taking Zumba classes every week in over 90,000 locations across more than 110 countries. With those numbers, there should definitely be one in your area. Remember, small changes can make big differences. Finding the exercise that’s right for you no matter your age, it what allows you to stick with it. With healthy eating comes exercise. If you’re like me, walking on the treadmill is about as thrilling as watching paint dry. So add something to your routine that you enjoy do- 84 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Article continued on page 86 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 85 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Beauty Information for 2011 Continued from page 84 VARICOSE VEINS. CELLULITE Otherwise known as “spider veins,” the purple-colored veins often show up on the inner and outer thighs. And yes, they are about as thrilling as a toothache. Varicose veins are often the result of pregnancy, hormone changes, or genetic makeup and are nothing more than enlarged veins. That being said, there is not much that can be done to prevent them; however, there are a few treatment options to erase them. Most women have them—the small, unsightly dimples that form on the upper part of the legs. Ah yes, the lovely cottage cheese mess that can be kept undercover most of the winter, but must make its appearance once beach season arrives. Sclerotherapy is a treatment that shrinks the veins, often hailed as the most effective treatment by some doctors and is usually a very quick procedure: a solution is injected directly into the vein which irritates the lining of the blood vessel causing the blood to eventually clot. Over time, the vessel forms into scar tissue that eventually fades away. Surface laser treatments can often treat varicose veins by sending strong bursts of light through the skin and onto the vein. This causes the vein to disappear in time; however, it often takes two to five treatments for it to be effective. Though there is no injection site, the laser can be painful for many patients. Radiofrequency and surgery are often processes used on patients with more severe cases and deeper veins. Exercising and a healthy diet can contribute to prevention. For more information, consult your doctor. Why does it happen? Well, it varies from woman to woman but it has less to do with how much you weigh and more to do with genetics and how connective tissue is distributed beneath the skin. Under the surface of the skin are columns of fibrous tissue that are surrounded by fat cells. When fat deposits push and distort the connective tissue beneath the skin, fat cells begin to bulge through, creating divots in the skin. To recreate the smooth look you had in your youth, keep exercising. Increasing blood circulation and muscle tone can help create cellulite-free legs. Other treatments include surgically cutting the bands that surround the fat cells— a procedure that smoothes BEFORE Provided by Real Self website and performed by Baltimore, MD AFTER Dermatologist Margaret Weiss, MD 86 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 out cellulite. Adding fat fills in dimples for smoother skin and is even more effective when combined with laser treatment. Finally, skin toners incorporate heat, laser and radiofrequency energy to even out fatty deposits. Article continued on page 88 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 87 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication TEETH Beauty Information for 2011 Continued from page 86 TEETH. GETTING TEETH STRAIGHT. Teeth shift around for a number of reasons: grinding, age, genetics, removing teeth, cavities, and decay. But there are ways to reinvent that important social asset. Traditional braces are almost a standard in orthodontic treatment. If there is severe misalignment, traditional, metal brackets connected with flexible wire is the best treatment. Though there is initial soreness and discomfort, it is the best way to steadily correct the positioning of your teeth. Ceramic braces are also an option for those who do not like the cosmetic look of metal. However, you should take into consideration that although they work like traditional braces, they are less durable and often take longer to see results. 4. Pick the Right Lipstick Shade: Certain lipstick shades can make your teeth look musty and dull. If your teeth are off-white or yellowish, choose a color that has a natural blush undertone and a nude base. 5. Sun-Kissed Skin: A tan can make your teeth pop! Try a sunless tanner to create a healthy glow. 6. Choose Silver Jewelry: The light color will help reflect the whites of your teeth, whereas gold jewelry will highlight those not-so-white crevices. 7. Use a Straw: By slurping through a straw, the liquids will miss your teeth (for the most part). We still recommend brushing soon after drinking wine and other stain producing beverages. For those with minimal crookedness, brackets or wire aligned to the back of the teeth is a great, invisible option. In addition, the lips and gums don’t come in contact with the metal, which can decrease potential irritation and discomfort. And finally, invisible braces (like Invisalign), provide repositioning for individuals who have minor to moderate cases. They are essentially clear liners that are only removed for brushing, drinking and eating; every two weeks or so orthodontists replace the set with a thinner version, and after a year, teeth are noticeably straighter. 7 SECRETS TO MAINTAINING THOSE PEARLY WHITES: 1. DIY Whitening Products: Toothpastes, chewing gum, mouth washes, kits, strips, baking soda—you name it. There’s a bunch of over-the-counter products that you can use in your own home to speed up the whitening process. 2. Quit Smoking: Nicotine residue causes brown stains that can be difficult to remove with daily brushing. Not only that, but smoking can cause oral cancers, gingivitis and bad breath. 3. Food: If it can stain a white t-shirt, it can stain your teeth, dentists say. Coffee, soda, tea, and even fruit juices are among the top offenders. So drink in moderation and consider brushing or using a mouth wash when you’re finished. Article continued on page 90 88 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 89 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication INNER BEAUTY Beauty Information for 2011 Continued from page 88 INNER BEAUTY. Cosmetic tips are all well and good, but there is no more attractive feature than a happy and cheerful woman. So, most importantly, foster your inner wellbeing and your natural gifts. True beauty is crafted from the inside. Let’s face it, inner and outer beauty go hand in hand. The woman who has all the “right” physical features can become ugly in an instant if her character does not match her appearance, but the less attractive woman becomes all the more beautiful when her joy and confidence shine through. Audrey Hepburn once said that “the happiest girls are the prettiest girls.” It’s so true. Physical beauty can fade with time, but inner beauty, when well cared for, can leave a lasting impression on those around you. Prayer, meditation, Reiki, and yoga are all wonderful ways to reduce stress and create feelings of peace and tranquility. And surround yourself with people that cultivate the same attitudes, perspectives and values concerning beauty. Having people around you that share the same healthy ideals make those ideals all the more attainable. A 90 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication WE TRIED IT! Is Loosing Weight a Challenge for You? It is for ME. By SUSAN CALDWELL M Most of us have seen the Nutri System commercials featuring Jennifer Hudson and Valerie Bertinelli. It looks so easy to go from heavy to looking fabulous. We don’t see the personal, individual struggles that they undergo in their journey. We just see the fantastic results. I know for myself that it is so frustrating. When the weight doesn’t come off quick enough or I slide off the ‘diet wagon’ I really beat myself up and think I’m the only one who has these problems. I’m sure I’m really not, but it feels that way in the moment. When I used to go to Weight Watchers, I would dread the scale and when the results were not positive, there was no one there to really make me feel any more positive. I guess the atmosphere just wasn’t conducive for me. What I’ve experienced in Dr. Warren’s office is so different. Everyone in the office works together with one goal in mind and the phrase that I think best describes this is “Positive Reinforcement.” At Dr. Warren’s they work very hard to circumvent problems before they happen and to question me to determine what the issues were each month. They share suggestions that make me look at things differently, definitely not beat up on myself, and share ideas that can help in the future. The last three months have been unusually crazy for me with situations that I had not realized would be a problem for my diet. I took part in four separate expos, each of which created problems with my diet. Most shared the problem of not having access to good, protein enriched food, and also not having the time to eat. When you’re on your feet all day or all afternoon greeting people, it’s difficult to find time to eat. I did bring South Beach bars which are my mainstay for high protein, low carbohydrate snacks, but a couple of bars don’t really provide the energy to stand on your feet all day. Being tired and stressed are often triggers for overeating or eating those things (for me carbs) that really are not conducive to losing weight. Another challenge has been attending networking meet- BEFORE AFTER ings which involve meals. Dr. Warren is very good about providing suggestions and in a perfect world, these would also provide solutions. However, often food selections at such meetings are limited, and offering pork, salads with rich dressings to eat, and amazing desserts, with a totally delicious dessert placed right in front of my face—chocolate no less. Could I say take it away? NO, but I did try to leave some on the plate and succeeded. So I cannot speak for Valerie Bertinelli or Jennifer Hudson. Perhaps they did not suffer any challenges. Certainly they can afford personal trainers and the time to spend hours exercising. For me each day is a challenge; most of them are met with success but some are not and I am grateful that the people I work with at Physicians Healthy Weight Center provide an atmosphere of support and tons of ideas to make the next month easier. Without that support — I know I would not have lost so much weight. And the count continues with the weight (and clothing sizes) dropping. For more info visit call 603-379-6500 or visit their website at www.physicianshealthyweightcenter.com. A Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 91 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication C 2011 inderella Makeover Sierra [Cheri] asked Sierra what she thought her sons would think of her new look, and she beamed, “My older son will be very excited! He always tells me I am beautiful.” Her son is absolutely right and I am sure as do all of that meet Sierra, that beauty runs very deep. THE BEFORE 92 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Photos Courtesy ofWomen Sharon Wardforbids Photography. Applaud expressly the removal ofwww.sharonwardphotography.com pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Cinderella Makeover - 2011 By CHERI VALENTINE E Everyone has a story of who they are. They tell this story and believe this story based on their experiences. Many also believe that their story defines them or confines them to repeat their story over and over again. Sierra could have believed her past would determine her future, and yet she chose to write a new story. Sierra had no idea that when she began to design a life that was rooted in love for herself and her children, that she would be the inspiration for several women who did not know each other to gather together in a collective effort of love. That is the magic of planting seeds of intention. When you water and fertilized them, the garden that grows is reflective of those thoughts and energy. Sierra’s garden includes an unlikely support system, new job, another level of education, children who are blossoming like their mother, and a makeover. Here’s the story that Sierra has begun to create. About a year ago, Sierra went to Marguerite’s Place in Nashua, NH where she met with Patty Joseph, one of the case managers for the women who come there for support in reaching their goals. Marguerite’s Place offers safe living arrangements, childcare, a structured environment, and support on many levels. You cannot show up there with no goals and no means of income. The women who are welcomed and nurtured there are motivated and self-sufficient but in need of stability and reinforcement while they are designing their new stories and creating a stable life for themselves and their children. Sierra is one such young woman. Her story began in Vermont in a very unstructured and abusive family life. She was bounced around between parents, stepparents, grandparents and foster parents. At 16 she became pregnant. She stayed in school and graduated, living on her own with the father of her child, and with no support from her family. She ended this relationship after three years of emotional abuse. Sierra went into another relationship and in the fall of 2006 went to Nashua with this man. They had a son together. He also had a son from another woman, and Sierra took him in and is raising him as her own. Although this relationship was initially positive, after several years Sierra realized that it was not a healthy relationship. She asked him to leave but it took him a year to do so, and when he finally did, he took everything including the financial support, leaving his sons with Sierra. On her own without warning left Sierra in a bind. She did her best to keep it together and make it work, but in the end she could not afford the rent and expenses and she found herself without a home. This powerhouse had already gone back to school when her second son, Andrew, was a year old and knew it was time to continue with her education. That is when she heard about Marguerite’s Place. Patty Joseph says, “Sierra knew what she wanted, and had already enrolled at Hesser College to become a medical assistant. She graduated with honors in nine months and then pursued additional certification.” Marguerite’s Place provided support to Sierra with an apartment, childcare, occasional rides to school, as well as weekly meetings to check in with her goals. When Patty was asked to recommend a woman for this makeover, she immediately thought of Sierra. “She does everything for her children and never puts attention on herself,” said Patty. Because her funds are so limited, all money goes into providing the necessities of daily life for her family, and Sierra does not buy anything for herself including clothes or shoes. That is where Susan Kanoff, fashion coach (www.agreatnewlook.com), comes in. Susan is a powerhouse herself when it comes to women in need. Sierra originally only had $20 to spend on her new outfit for the project. When Susan found this out she did what she does best by reaching out to her community of ‘people who care’. Susan was armed with donations she had Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 93 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Cinderella Makeover 2011 Continued from page 93 The Wardrobe Experience gathered from: Cindy Traverso $40 and a gently used small Coach bag, Sibella DeCarlo $25.00, Darlene Wermer $10.00, Luan Giannone $50 as well as her own generous contribution of well over $100. With a background in social work and life coaching, Susan offers far more than an improved wardrobe to women. She brings warmth, energy, innate fashion expertise and a very generous heart to the experience. Included in her list of private clients, are local television personalities. Susan participates in fashion events for women’s clothing stores, frequently runs fashion clinics for local groups and also heads a team of 17 local business owners in “The Project Makeover,” a nonprofit that provides a comprehensive makeover to women who give so much to others, yet forget to put that same care and attention on themselves. You can listen to Susan’s pearls of fashion and life wisdom on Monday nights. She co-hosts The Clothes Line, an Internet radio show focusing on style and fashion. (www. blogtalkradio.com/susan--kanoff) Susan really enjoyed helping Sierra pick out clothes that were flattering to her body shape. “She was sweet, and I could see that the clothes made her so happy!” Susan also acknowledged the saleswomen at Lane Bryant in The Mall at Rockingham. “They were wonderful, and helped maximize the shopping experience.” BEFORE As for this chapter in Sierra’s story, who had never had her mother or any other woman help her shop for clothes, the experience was pure joy. “She helped me pick out clothes that were flattering for my body type, and to feel more comfortable in my clothes that fit. She picked out styles I would not normally choose AFTER and I noticed how I looked and I felt like a mom and a professional. It felt good. Susan is one of the nicest persons I ever met!” Sierra enthusiastically told me. 94 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Article continued on page 96 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Susan Kanoff MAKE SURE YOU DON’T MISS ANOTHER ISSUE OF APPLAUD WOMEN! Look for the image below in the upper left corner of this webpage or at www.applaudwomen.com under the cover image of the current issue of the magazine. It’s quick, easy and safe. We do not sell or transfer your email address. In 10 minutes, a Zyrra Certified Fit Specialist takes the 10 measurements required to create a custom sewn bra that fits you perfectly. We guarantee it. For more information, including income opportunities or to host a Fitting Occasion, contact us at info@zyrra.com. A revolutionary new way to shop for bras! www.zyrra.com FREE SUBSCRIPTION Click Above Privacy by SafeSubscribeSM Or Join us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ applaudwomen.nh.ma Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 95 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Cinderella Makeover 2011 Continued from page 94 O On Tuesday, March 22, 2011, Sierra arrived at Sheer Elegance Hair & Beauty Salon to complete the makeover that began with her clothes. She arrived with two new outfits to showcase after her hair and makeup is complete. There is an excitement in the salon as several women have come together to give of themselves to this project and this amazing young woman. The Starting Team: Anita Poulin, Patty Joseph, Cheri Valentine & Sharon Ward’s clever self-portrait. Susan Caldwell directs in the background. This team includes, Guylian Tall, owner of Sheer Elegance, Anita Poulin, the stylist, Maria Rawlings, makeup, Sharon Ward photographer, Patty Joseph, case manager from Marguerite’s Place, Cheri Valentine, writer and love coach, and Susan Caldwell, brainchild behind the makeover and Applaud Women, and several behind the scenes contributors. Instantly I am drawn to Sierra’s radiance as she is sitting in the chair with silver foils adorning her head. Sierra’s inner beauty shines through and my heart is filled with love. This is the collective sentiment shared by everyone involved in this makeover, each offering their own specialty of support. The Hair - Anita Begins with a Combout & Initial Trim Sierra & Patty pose for another before photo Photos Courtesy of Sharon Ward Photography. www.sharonwardphotography.com 96 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Article continued on page 97 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Anita Poulin has fifteen years of experience as a hair stylist and has been at Sheer Elegance for nine years. She generously donated her time to color, cut, and style Sierra’s beautiful long locks. She used Schwarzkopf products, adding summer blonde highlights, which added depth as well as brightness around Sierra’s face, blending nicely with her warm, medium brown hair color. Anita explained, “The maintenance will be easy and she won’t see strong roots as her hair grows.” She cut several long layers into Sierra’s hair, taking only a few inches from the length. She dried her hair then flat ironed it straight, and the results were stunning. Sierra loved it, and when I asked if she would be able to maintain the style she told me, “Yes, I dry my hair and style it for work.” a bad or long day come in exhausted, when they leave, they feel so much better. As women, our hair is everything – the right style makes you feel so much better.” The Cut Anita cut several long layers to give Sierra’s hair better shape. She then dryed and straightened Sierra’s hair with a flat iron. Article continued on page 98 Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 97 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Photos Courtesy of Sharon Ward Photography. www.sharonwardphotography.com The Foils Anita adds some blonde highlights to add depth and brightness around Sierra’s face. Anita loves working with color because there is so much you can do with it, even “a few little touches of highlight, anything lighter than your natural tone, can make a difference.” What she loves about being a hair stylist is “you see people who’ve had Cinderella Makeover 2011 Continued from page 96 Photos Courtesy of Sharon Ward Photography. www.sharonwardphotography.com The Hair After At Left: Anita puts finishing touches and Above: Anita, Sierra and, Guylian Tall, owner of Salon Elegance, admire the results. A After hair is finished, Sierra meets with Maria Rawlings, an independent hair and make-up stylist, with space at Marc Anthony Hair & Nail Salon in Nashua, NH. Maria is working on creating her own line of organic cosmetics using all natural ingredients, yet for today uses what is in her existing artist’s toolbox. She patiently explained the steps to Sierra so that she could duplicate her new look on her own and the rest of us learned a few tricks as well. The Makeup - Maria patiently explained the steps so that Sierra could recreate her new look on her own. 98 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication At Right: Maria applies purple eye shadow with dots of silver to soften the effect. First Maria spackles the blemishes then uses a brush to add a neutral liquid foundation by Lancôme’. For eye color, Maria applied purple to the lids and dotted on silver to soften the effect. Rather than using pencil, she dipped an artist signature brush into water, and then used the same purple shadow color to line the lash line. It produced a much softer effect. She applied light strokes using a glimmer stick from Avon under the eye. Maria likes to use this because it is soft and forgiving with eye tissue For blush, Maria suggests that you can use any color as long as you stick with your tone and can match it to your clothes. “Tap the brush on your hand to get out excess before applying. Begin in the center of the cheek under the pupil of your eye, and feather outward,” Maria explained as she demonstrated on Sierra’s lovely face. To apply the mascara, Maria first held the wand vertically to get all the lashes, and then horizontally. Sierra does not like lipstick, so Maria used Maybelline Super Stay in rosy mauve, letting the first coat dry, then added the gloss. It was subtle and finished the natural look perfectly. “Wow, it looks beautiful. It does n;t look heavy,” Sierra exclaimed when her look was revealed to her. Above: Maria applies mascara and at Right: Maria puts the finishing touches on with lipstick. Article continued on page 100 Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 99 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Photos Courtesy of Sharon Ward Photography. www.sharonwardphotography.com At Left: Maria spackles blemishes then applies liquid foundation Cinderella Makeover 2011 Continued from page 98 The Makeup After Above: Sierra is clearly happy with the results. W With hair and makeup complete, Sierra changed into her first outfit, a casual daytime look of jeans, a bright floral blouse topped with a green jacket that zippered. Sierra wore a cute black wedge shoe. The outfit was completed with jewelry designed and created by Wendy dePenasse (www.naturesgemsshop.com). generously allowed her shop to be taken over by a bevy of characters participating in this chapter of Sierra’s story, was busy with her clients, she was a visible part of the whole scenario. My initial impression walking into the salon located at 15 Congress Street in Nashua, NH (off Northeastern Blvd, and next to Citizens Bank) was, “Wow. The energy in here is great! It is open, bright, inviting, approachable, and very welcoming.” My first impression was confirmed throughout the entire morning. Guylian and the three stylists who work there all agree that they want to contribute to Marguerite’s Place. Patty Joseph, Sierra’s case manager, often brings the moms and their children into the salon for haircuts. As Guylian expressed, “when your hair looks good, you feel good, and this helps with their confidence for interviews. After 24 years in the business I still love what I do!” Sierra could not have known when she decided to create a new story for her life and especially for her children, that she would be experiencing the generosity, creativity, and inspiration from so many characters, and yet we all agreed there was no where else we would have wanted to be that day! Susan Caldwell expressed, “when you invest in the right people the investment grows exponentially and affects the world.” Sharon Ward (sharonwardphotogrpahy.com) was on hand all day capturing the visual story of Sierra’s makeover. With the completed look, she took several shots from all angles of Sierra until she finally relaxed. Sierra is not one for having the attention on her, so she was completely outside her comfort zone having a camera snapping and flashing, all eyes on her. Last year, another young woman from Marguerite’s Place was the recipient of the makeover. I asked Patty how she was doing and it was so gratifying to hear that she is doing well. “Stacy graduated from the program and is now living in one of the condos, saving money for her own home. She is still working at her job of nine years, and doing very well and doing it on her own.” Sharon was at ease standing on chairs to take some pictures from a higher vantage point. “Using a bounce flash adds full and subtle light, although my preference is to use the ambient lighting in its natural environment,” Sharon explained as she clicked away capturing Sierra in several expressions. After two years of living in Marguerite’s Place apartments, the women graduate, yet those who are truly motivated and financially capable can rent 1 of 10 condos for 5 years. This gives them time to put some solid things in place for their families – most are saving for a home of their own. Sierra changed into an outfit of black pants with a black cardigan worn over a lovely deep purple and black blouse edged in black. Again, the outfit was completed with jewelry created by Wendy dePenasse, and Sharon captured the look in several shots. We all have no doubt that Sierra and her boys will be following in this track. She started as an LNA, is now a certified medical assistant, and would love to earn her bachelor’s degree to be an RN. Ideally, her dream is to be a Nurse Practitioner and own her own home. In the meantime, all her spare time is spent with her boys, Taylib – 3 years old, Andrew – 8 years old, and Xavyer – 9 Although Guylian Tall, the owner of Sheer Elegance who 100 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Cinderella Has Arrived years old. Taylib and Xavyer’s father has begun to be a presence and some help in their lives – a testament, no doubt, to the power of Sierra’s love. Sierra enjoys playing Wii and board games with her kids and to do arts & crafts projects too. “In the nice weather, we play ball and go to the park. I now have weekends off from work, and I love it because I have more time with my kids,” Sierra beams. “I wouldn’t be where I am without Marguerite’s Place,” she tells me appreciatively. Marguerite’s Place supports those who support themselves, and no doubt it was Sierra’s determination to write her own script that brought that support in view I asked Sierra what she thought her sons would think of her new look, and she beamed, “My older son will be very excited! He always tells me I am beautiful.” Her son is absolutely right and I am sure as do all of that meet Sierra, that beauty runs very deep. A. Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 101 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication THE AFTER APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Photos102 Courtesy of Sharon Ward Photography. www.sharonwardphotography.com Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 103 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Hunger Triggers Part 3: The Diet Food Effect T By Dr. Jennifer Warren This is part #3 of Dr. Warren’s answers for Allure Magazine’s “Hunger Triggers” April, 2010 article. Studies show that “lite” or “low cal” on the label can lead to people overeating these items, probably because they are fooling themselves into thinking these are “free” foods they can eat in unlimited quantities. It’s important to look at the calories, and very importantly the PORTION SIZE on the nutrition label, which can be deceptively small for many items. People can easily fool themselves into thinking they are eating 50 calories of something, when they may actually be eating a 200 calorie portion size. A few mistakes like this really add up by the end of the day. People often make the same mistakes with “healthy” restaurant meals such as salads or wraps. Certain salad items and many “healthy” wraps are very high calorie, sometimes very high in saturated fat, and may be very high in refined carbohydrates. Caesar salad can have 600 calories if it is covered with buttered croutons and high-fat dressing. Make it a Chicken Caesar Salad Wrap, and it could be even worse - 1200 calories, depending on how it’s made. People should check the calories, which they can often do at home ahead of time by looking up a menu of a particular restaurant online. They can use websites of chain restaurants, or a calorie counting website such as Calorie King, Sparkpeople, Dotti’s Weight Loss Zone (great for restaurants), or The Daily Plate. They should also plan ahead; if they go often to a certain type of restaurant, say Mexican, Italian, or Indian, using one of the websites to get an idea of the best choices ahead of time lets them go in knowing pretty much what they are going to do. It can give people a sense of control; knowledge is power. Hunger Triggers Part 4: Can Exercise Make You Hungry? The Gym Effect This is part #4 of Dr. Warren’s answers for Allure Magazine’s “Hunger Triggers” April, 2010 article. Exercise is great for us - it really is a “magic pill.” We know that exercise burns calories, keeps our bodies healthy and fit, slows the aging process, and is extremely important during weight loss (to help keep metabolism and muscle mass high) and for weight maintenance (over 90% of people who *keep* weight off long term exercise almost every 104 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 day.) So given all these benefits, how could exercise work against us? The simple answer: if we do not plan carefully, exercise can lead to overeating. How can exercise lead to overeating? 1) People may give themselves permission to overeat after a gym workout, thinking they’ve “earned it.” They forget that walking on a treadmill only burns about 70 calories a mile (a little more than one Oreo cookie). Exercise machines at the gym are notorious for reporting that you’ve burned *more* calories than you actually have - don’t believe them! To burn off 500 calories on the treadmill, you’d have to walk about 6 1/2 to 7 1/2 miles! People unfortunately often eat more than they’ve burned off, and don’t realize it. Don’t ruin a good workout with a bag of chips afterwards! 2) Really intense workouts can lead to increased appetite if you don’t plan ahead. It is important to have a snack (containing protein and carbohydrates) 1-4 hours *before* a workout, so you are not “starving.” A snack will help prevent you from becoming “hypoglycemic” (having low blood sugar) during the workout, so you’ll feel better and have a more effective session. After an intense workout, it is a good idea to have another small, balanced snack (containing both protein and carbohydrate), for two reasons. First, you need some carbohydrate to “restock” your muscles with glycogen (stored energy in your muscles). You need this so you’ll have a good workout tomorrow! It is also important to have some protein, so your muscles can repair the tiny tears that occur during a workout - this is how you build muscle. Besides the muscle benefits, a balanced snack will also help calm your appetite later. If you skip it, you will feel ravenously hungry. But remember - watch the calories, so you don’t eat too much of a good thing! Jennifer Warren, M.D. is the founder of Physicians Healthy Weight Center. She is a nationally recognized expert in medical weight management and is the only Physician in New Hampshire certified by the American Board of Bariatric Medicine. Since founding PHWC in 2004, she has helped her patients lose more than 34,000 pounds. She can be reached by calling 603-379-6500 or visit her website at: www.physicianshealthyweightcenter.com. Physicians Healthy Weight Center has offices in N. Hampton (64 Lafayette Rd., Ste. 2), Dover, NH, Doctor’s Park in BLDG A, 17 Old Rollins- Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication What everyone should know about breast cancer: • Approximately 178,480 women and 2,030 men will be diagnosed with breast cancer this year. • 40,460 women and 450 men in the U.S. will die from the disease annually. • There are over 2 million breast cancer survivors in the U.S. who have been treated for breast cancer. • Every 3 minutes, there is a new diagnosis of invasive breast cancer. • A woman has a 1 in 8 chance of developing breast cancer in her lifetime. • Every 13 minutes, a life is lost to breast I am in it to end it. This spring I will be walking nearly 40 miles over the course of two days as a participant in the Boston Avon Walk for Breast Cancer. I am honored to be walking with thousands of others who have made the same courageous commitment: to help raise awareness and funding for this devastating disease. In May I will walk in honor of my mom—my best friend. I’ve committed to raising $1,800 for this event which will be used to help advance medical research, and provide medical care, support services, educational seminars, and early detection programs. To support my efforts, please go to my personal page “Samantha Arroyo.” and then “Donate Now” to make an online donation. Thank you in advance for your generosity and support. Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 105 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Girl Meets Bra, the Saga of Ill Fit By Meredith Cagnetta T The classic girl meets bra story: One day you outgrew a training bra and put on a bra that seemed to fit. As an impressionable young woman, you read that tag and carried on through life thinking “This is my size, I am a 36C.” You may have heard this before but there is more than an 80% chance that your bra size is incorrect and professional bra sizing may not be the easy answer. Each bra company’s sizes run differently and finding a brassiere expert well trained enough to know this (especially in a department store or one of the bra giant retailers) is next to impossible. After learning the ins and outs of bras, I was shocked to find that I not only had been wearing the wrong bra but my real standard size doesn’t exist in the United States. This is not uncommon and can be seriously frustrating. I have met with countless women who have been turned away from the go-to bra stores. Some went home, and in their anguished state, chopped up two bras and sewed them together to create “frankenbras.” Others have tried to learn enough Japanese so they could order a bra from a country that actually carries their size. However, most give up. There is no need to go to extremes, you are not alone. Poor bra fit happens to women of all sizes and shapes as the combinations of breast, back, shoulder, and ribcage dimensions are endless and standard sizing cannot account for every permutation. Yet all women are lumped into a few size categories that assume “if your breasts are this big, your shoulders and ribcage are this big.” The key is to focus on what a bra is doing on your body, not what the tag says. Ask yourself these questions and find out if your bra is fitting like it should: -Does the back of your bra ride up or move when you move? The back should be horizontal to the floor and stay in place, at the smallest part of your back. -Can you pull the back of your bra out more than 2”? You shouldn’t have any more give than that. -Does the underwire on your side sit in the spot exactly where your breast tissue ends and your ribcage starts? This is a crucial and rarely addressed point of fit. You shouldn’t be able to feel the underwire. -Do your straps dig into your shoulders? This generally means that your band is too big. It’s the band that should be holding your girls up, not your straps. Meredith Cagnetta -Does the bridge (the piece between your breasts) sit flat against your breast bone? This is a hallmark of a good fit. A well-built bra is like a well-built building. There has to be a perfect combination of support points to maintain suspension. Add on the task of finding comfort with good structure, and good bra fit becomes a momentous challenge — but a rewarding one when you do succeed. Bras are an article of clothing worth investing a bit of time and money into because a great fitting bra not only makes your clothes look better and improves posture, it can help circulation and remedy everyday aches and pains. Oh, and did I mention it can make you look 10 lbs. lighter? Maybe it’s time to reevaluate what your bra is doing for you. Meredith Cagnetta manages operations and is a bra fit expert at Zyrra, a Boston based company that creates custom sewn, made-to-measure bras with 10 unique measurements and patent pending technology. Her passion for fashion and history of personal bra woes drive her to help women get into a bra that fits. For more information on Zyrra custom made bras contact info@zyrra.com or visit www.zyrra.com A 106 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication FINANCIAL PLANNING INC. 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By liating with Bakin alternative is exfo ffing in cirwith water and bu mixing as paste surface for will create a full cular motion, this your makeup. the application of Tip: THE BEFORE A Aging problems you might be experiencing… Skin: • Dull, dry, lack luster appearance • Sensitivity with redness, broken capillaries or rosacea • Fine lines and wrinkles • Hyper pigmentation and age spots from sun damage Eyes: • Dark circles, veins and thinning skin • Drooping and loss of elasticity • Thinning and fading eyebrows Face Color and Structure: • Pale dull skin tone • Change in face shape due to weight gain or loss Lips: • • • • Thinning Dryness Lines Fading natural lip pigment Kriss’ {Kriss Soterion of Kriss Cosmetics} secrets to looking younger with makeup: When it comes to perfecting aging skin, the key is products that illuminate and techniques that are impeccable. Ditch all your matte products and follow these steps to see how Kriss created Susan’s Makeover. Photos Courtesy of Kriss Soterion of Kriss Cosmetices 108 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication DID YOU KNOW? That Kriss’s signature “Miracle Canvase Kit” was first worn to perfection and viewed by millions, when Kriss used it to create Hillary Clinton’s transformation at the 2007 Presidential Debates. for creating Technique tips Part 1. The Glow: Kriss uses her four step Miracle Canvas Kit – the kit that has all the elements to make your skin look youthful. as: the perfect canv motion for the wnward stroking do in p eu ak m ard like • Blend lls point downw ce n ki S – ok lo no makeup of. shingles on a ro ols are convas essential to an C – s ol to ur • Use yo and the cute little smetic sponges cealerbrush, co kabuki brush. Primer: Your first step to perfection. Primer hydrates, calms, fills fine lines and wrinkles and creates a radiant glow. • Camofleur Canceler: Concentrated enough to hide a tattoo, yet light enough in texture to look like you’re not wearing any. Power to erase imperfections and brighten the eyes and paint some sleep on. • ts remember to mineral produc ith w ng ki or w When blend a lot. use a little and ch your canvas professional mat Always have a r we are not ction – remembe rfe pe ith w ts uc prod n seasons emember, whe R s. ve el rs ou objective of changes. ne of skin often rto de un e th ge chan Light Diffusing Foundation: Velvety, dewy, high power coverage with the look of second skin to even out uneven pigments. Kriss formula is loaded with moisturizers. Mineral Powder Foundation: Fine milled, invisible all natural coverage that seals and water proofs and protects your skin with natural sun protection of spf 20. AFTER THE GLOW TO GET THIS LOOK The “Miracle Canvase Kit” Article continued on page 110 Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 109 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Beauty & Aging: The Makeup Solution Continued from page 109 Part 2 Face Color and Structure: Create a push up bra “for your face” by sculpting and warming with bronzer. Focus your application of bronzer on top of your cheek bone NOT under to create lift. Bronzer or brush worn in the hollows of the cheeks creates the look of jowels. Kriss chose to use her “Kiss of Sun” bronzer specially designed for fair to medium skin tones so Susan DIDN’T look like a pumpkin. If your skin is warm or already tan “Sun Goddes” is your color. Choose blush that is lighter, brighter and slightly luminous and apply directly to the apples of the cheeks to create brightness and lift. Kriss blush colors in “Spirit” and “Zen” are her go to plush colors for apple popping. Bronzer and blush with dance together in perfection to give you an amazing lift. TO GET TH IS LOOK The Bronzer ABOVE: CREATE A PUSH UP BRA “FOR YOUR FACE” WITH BRONZER. AFTER THE BRONZER Photos Courtesy of Kriss Soterion of Kriss Cosmetices 110 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Part 3 The Eyes: Eye makeup can create the look of a surgical eye lift! Use four quick steps to brighten your eyes. 1. Kriss applied the black curling mascara first. With mascara first in the lineup you can easily clean up any messes before the rest of your eye artwork. Black mascara opens the eyes regardless of hair color, power lashes are like a morning cup of coffee for your eyes. This curling lash formula gives a power lift to the upper lash line. 2. Avoid bright colors or overly glittery eye shadows. Combine textures by adding light reflecting mineral shadows to the lid to give the illusion of a more open eye. Combine with natural matte shadows in the crease. Blending up toward the brow bone for maximum lift. oduct that won’t Looking for a pr smudge? Tip: ver l eyeliners will ne Kriss’s paint on ge dal Ti south! Try Kriss smudge or move on eyes. Ivy League Wave liner on blue n ow br Venamous on green eyes and site ic favorite Marca eyes – or our class on all eyes. 3. Choose color liners to brighten tired eyes. Always apply more liner to the top lash line to add lift to the eye area. A thin line on the bottom to enhance the appearance of lashes will make eyes look bigger. Be careful not to create heavy liner on the bottom lash line which can create a drooping effect. 4. Dramatically change the appearance of the eye area by creating a well-shaped and defined eyebrow. Professional brow sculpting combined with Kriss’ brow pencil can create the lift you need. AFTER THE EYES TO GET THIS LOOK The Eye Shadow Article continued on page 112 Spring 2011 www.Applaudwomen.com 111 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication Beauty & Aging: The Makeup Solution Continued from page 111 Part 4 Lips: akeup ti-aging m n a h it W Tip: g you do ery little thin technique ev in the matic result ra d a e k a m will and do to sit, relax end. Be sure ho relax . Women w p eu k a m r you application r makeup during thei lication precise app re o m a te crea over the who bend than women It takes k in a hurry. n si m o ro bath se time. time to rever Avoid matte lipstick which are drying, dry looking and lifeless. Do not fear moist dewy lips which will give you a healthy moist finish. By choosing mineral based lip sticks, liner and gloss, product will not travel into fine lines. Keep your liner, lipstick and gloss in the same color family The and avoid Lipstick bright colors that can look tacky, d a r k e r shades can m a k e y o u l o o k t h i n e r. Kriss magical mix for lips that she used on both Susan and Hilary Clinton is her Delice lip liner with Debate lipstick and ruby slipper mineral gloss on top. TO GET THIS LOOK FOR THE COMPLETE LOOK - Susan is wearing Kriss Cosmetics refreshing primer, Camoufleur concealer in fair, light diffusing in porcelain, pressed mineral power in barely there, kiss of sun tanning powder, pressed blush in sprite, black curing lash mascara, blonde brow pencil, pressed eye shadows in aheading south and deep thought, loose mineral shadow precious angle, onyx eye liner, Delice lip liner, debate lip stick and ruby slipper mineral gloss. Photos Courtesy of Kriss Soterion of Kriss Cosmetices 112 APPLAUD Women Spring 2011 Applaud Women expressly forbids the removal of pages or any manipulation of files used to create this publication M Makeup application is a powerful transformational journey of beauty, self-confidence and special effects that can turn back the wear and tear of time. Women do not need to choose invasive procedures to get powerful results. PAM BEFORE PAM AFTER Pam has beautifully balanced features. The goal was to bring some color into her complexion and to brighten up her eyes. Kriss used “Kiss of Sun” tanning powder to sculpt and warm Pam’s complexion, with a dab of “spirit” blush on her apples to add glow and lift. Her eyes were really opened by extra coats of “curling lash mascara” in black and defined with marcasite gel eyeliner. A subtle brow fill with “blonde” pencil gives the look of an eyelift! Diva has divine bone structure. Makeup focus is on brightening eyes and finding the perfect lip color to bring balance into her look. We focused on creating a flawless glowing canvas with the “miracle canvas kit.” Eyes were enhanced with the golden glow of “heading south” eye shadow all over and accented with “Spluge” in the crease. To top off her look Diva is wearing “firefly” lipstick, glossed over with “Ruby Slipper” to create full and luscious lips! About the Artist: Kriss is a master makeup artist whose creative talents don’t end there, she is also a creative portrait photographer. As CNN’s Chief of Makeup for Special Events, Kriss has traveled the country for every presidential debate and both the democratic and republican national conventions where she worked her magic. With her expertly trained staff of assistants Kriss has managed the makeup needs for the past four NH primaries, for CNN, NBC and FOX networks. Additionally, Kriss was the head makeup artist for CNN for the Democratic National Convention in Boston and the platform artist for the Republican National Convention in NYC. Trusted in the political realm, Kriss has painted the faces of the past five Presidents of the United States and several other White House dignitaries. She is the artist behind Hillary Clinton’s much-acclaimed makeover at the June 3, 2007 presidential debate. Every face she paints is embraced with love for the person, and with respect for the gift of her artistry. Kriss seeks a non-invasive approach to solving beauty issues. Such as the effects of aging and physical imperfections that threaten self-esteem. Her secret weapons are her amazing products, Kriss Cosmetics and her signature technique for applying them. -Hair design for this article done by Pamela from Bliss By Design in Merrimack, 380 Daniel Webster Highway, Skyline Mall, Phone 603-262-3900. 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