Get Calm, Be Calm, Stay Calm! Why Horses
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Get Calm, Be Calm, Stay Calm! Why Horses
S AVTVI M Y ECS L UB G OLD M E M B E R Get Calm, Be Calm, Stay Calm! Why Horses Have Trouble With People CCRSS For The Human D I G I TA L ISSUE 4 Savvy TOUCHSTONE 4 Calm, Connected, Responsive, Supple, and Successful. How do we get our horses to be successful, to optimize their potential? Well, they need to be Calm, Connected, Responsive, and Supple. Every great horseman brings these qualities out in their horses. 46 SPORTS SPOTLIGHT Cowboy Mounted Shooting 40 BREED SPOTLIGHT Gaited Horses 39 QUIZ Calm, Connected, Responsive, Supple 4 6 14 Why Horses Have Problems With People Get Calm, Be Calm, Stay Calm! Exploding The Myths About Horses Pat Parelli Linda Parelli Pat Parelli 26 10 20 Three Reasons Horses Have Trouble Dark Horse To Dream Horse CCRSS For The Human! Linda Parelli Kristi Smith Dr. Jenny Susser 19 MEMBER SPOTLIGHT LT Umfleet 13 CENTERFOLD Remmer 36 TRAIL TIP All For One & One For All 50 LIFESTYLE Home On The Road 35 DID YOU KNOW Jumping Facts 52 JUNIOR SAVVY Body Language Word Puzzle 30 FLASHBACK Pat’s Special Horses ISSUE 4 28 ARENA TIP Stay Close To The Rail HOME Why Horses Have Problems With People BY PAT PARELLI HOME Let’s Get The Obvious Out Of The Way First: People Are Predators, Horses Are Prey Animals. They Know We Can Eat Them! As If That’s Not Enough Reason For Having Trouble… Most problems horses have with people stem from this most primal of relationships, the prey-predator gap, but I think more important is a heightened awareness of how we trigger it. If you’re a Parelli student, I know the last thing you want to do is scare your horse, or punish him, so it’s the unintentional messages we need to become more self-aware of. This is not easy because we have to overcome our own natural instincts – as predators. Simple, right? Just do that! Of course it’s easy to say, harder to do, but that’s what this program is all about because first and foremost, this is a training program for humans. The techniques are easy, it’s changing our habits, instincts and attitudes that is hard. But if we can truly put the relationship first, horses “magically” have less trouble. Hmmm. How interesting! When things don’t go as we want, or planned, it’s natural for us to do what’s in the chart below. Do you do any of these? These are the first things I want to encourage you to become more aware of and learn to overcome: A powerful thought I regularly share around the world is: “If you want to be good with horses, just watch what everyone else does… and do the opposite!” So now, what would the opposite of all those be? 8 Get Firmer 4 Get Softer 8 Get Faster 4 Get Slower 8 Hold Tighter 4 Release Or Soften 8 Get Annoyed Or Angry (with the horse or even with ourselves – horses can’t tell the difference) 4 Be More Emotionally Fit (in control of your emotions – faking doesn’t work either! You have to truly not be bothered. You need to be more understanding.) 8 Apply More Pressure 4 Back Off – Retreat and then re-approach in a better way. 8 Get Scared (horses can’t tell if you’re afraid or attacking) 4 Get Off (if you are riding) or get to a safe place if you’re on the ground. 8 Correct The Horse 4 Well That Didn’t Work… Try Again! Remember, horses don’t know they’re wrong. It’s your job to help them be right. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 5 HOME Get Calm, Be Calm, Stay Calm! BY LINDA PARELLI HOME Kinda Funny Having An Exclamation Mark After The Word Calm, Isn’t It? But I put the exclamation mark there to be emphatic! When things are not going as we planned, the calmer we can be, the better. We have to be able to think during chaos… to respond rather than react. This does not come naturally to most people, it’s something we have to learn. As a child and teenager I had a very short fuse and blew up easily, and did so regularly. Don’t worry, I wrote my parents a big apology letter when I was 23! But back to the point of my story… In my early 20s I somehow discovered “self development” and over the ensuing years attended some very powerful seminars and courses with great teachers such as Robert Kiyosaki, Stephanie Burns, and Glynn Braddy. They changed my life as a person, in relationship to myself, but I didn’t know how to apply it with my horses. The first clinic I did with Pat in 1989 brought it all together for me the moment I learned about the horse’s mind. What a revelation… I can apply what I’d learned in the human world to horses! Doesn’t get any better than that. Even though I didn’t get mad with my horses I sure got frustrated and lost my way a lot. Those kinds of emotions have a negative effect on a horse because that energy is frightening. I have a favorite saying when things go awry: At least one of you has to stay left brain! And I’m not talking Horsenality, I’m talking about confidence… the ability to think, to not panic, to take appropriate action. It’s easy for us to get distracted or focus on what the horse is doing when it’s having trouble, but what we really need to do is take command of the situation. Last year (2014) we hosted a trail ride for the Parelli Foundation in historic Mesa Verde, CO, famous for its ancient Anasazi ruins. I was riding one of Pat’s young horses and as we were returning from lunch and riding down the side of the mesa on a narrow track, my water bottle bounced off the saddle horn and flew down the lead rope part of my reins. My mistake, I didn’t secure it properly – I’ll never do that again! The poor horse got so startled by this thing that was attacking her, she panicked and started running backwards. Parelli Foundation 2014 Ride in Mesa Verde National Park, Colorado, USA. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 7 HOME I knew I had to take control of the situation… there were horses in front of me, horses behind, a rock wall on my right and a sheer drop on my left. And the trail was only 12 feet wide! Here’s what I did: “Use Adrenaline To Fuel Effective Reactions Rather Than Be A Victim Of The Situation.” 2. 3. In that split second, my years of mental rehearsals and horsemanship experience kicked in. There was no time for thinking. 1. I Instantly Matched Her Energy. I Kept The Horse’s Nose Facing The Cliff, To the degree that she panicked, I took charge. no matter what. You’ve learned this in the Controlled Catastrophe exercise! I had to be fast and strong because if she turned her tail to the cliff we would have both gone backwards over the edge. “The Ability To Get Calm, Be Calm And Stay Calm So We Can Be The Leader Our Horse Needs, Is Something That Will Not Only Connect Your Horse More Strongly To You, It Will Help You Connect Even More Strongly To Yourself.” 8 | www.parellisavvyclub.com It took about 10 seconds and suddenly she stopped, front feet braced, shaking and staring at the water bottle hanging on the lead rope under the right side of her neck. I stayed quiet and calm and waited for her to start breathing. Then I slowly stepped off. Phew! Pat looked at me with a wry smile and said “Good job.” Not his “first rodeo” either! I’ve since done reenactments of this incident at several courses I’ve taught, because realizing how fast you have to act and what it takes to match that energy and stay focused on the result can be quite eye-opening. But the main point of the story is about staying calm enough to think. Sure, the adrenaline is up, but I used that to fuel effective reactions rather than be a victim of the situation. As the horse’s leader I believe emotional fitness is the single most important quality to develop, the capacity to be LB in a RB situation, to develop the ability to stay conscious and in control in a scary situation. I Didn’t Focus On The Horse, I Focused On The Result And What Had To Be Done To Achieve It… and I did whatever it took – mentally, emotionally, and physically, without hesitation. If we’d been in a larger area I would have jumped off immediately, but this was such a small trail I didn’t feel I had the choice. HOME www.parellisavvyclub.com | 9 HOME Dark Horse To Dream Horse BY K RISTI SMITH 4-STAR SENIOR PARELLI PROFESSIONAL HOME In 2008 I Had The Opportunity To Travel To Dubai To Help Share The Parelli Program. While I was there I played with some amazing horses. Among those horses were Andalusians and Lusitanos, and I instantly fell in love with the Iberian breeds. When I returned from my trip, I started telling everyone who asked me about Dubai about how much I was in love with Iberian horses and how desperately I wanted one. Saturi is by nature a fairly extreme Left Brain Extrovert. Adding fuel to that flame, she is also an orphan. Her mother died within 24 hours of her birth of septicemia, and never had the chance to teach her about common horse language, or how to be successful in a herd. Being an orphan has exaggerated all of the qualities that we use to identify an LBE. She is mouthy, naughty, playful, and smart all to an extreme degree. One such conversation was with a very dedicated Parelli student. Her name is Laura Nelson. reflex. She would rear, kick out, pin her ears, wring her tail, and scream out for her herd mates. I was going to be at the Colorado campus that summer, so I reached out to Linda for help. She learns very quickly and is easily bored. Our journey together has been very challenging for me. There was even a point in our relationship that I had to wonder whether or not I was over-horsed. That lesson was a turning point in our relationship. She has always been a joy to play with on the ground, but when it came to riding I was lacking in the knowledge and confidence to be the kind of partner that she could trust. I wasn’t being progressive enough for her and felt really uncomfortable matching her while riding. Lucky for me, I have access to some incredibly wonderful mentors. First up was Linda Parelli in 2012. As I was declaring my new found affection for these breeds, Laura declared that she had three such horses, and would be happy to give me any one of them if I felt that it was a good match. I couldn’t believe it! I had thought that it was going to take me several years to save up to be able to afford such a wonderful partner, but here was someone willing to gift her to me! It was a dream come true. I fell in love the moment I met Saturi. She is an Iberian Warmblood (Lusitano X Thoroughbred) and was only six months old when we met. She was all legs and full of sass and I LOVE that! Left Brain Extroverts are also very selfconfident, so it can be difficult to earn the role of leader. Saturi is generally convinced that she has the best ideas and that humans are here to amuse her. In the summer of 2012 I was at a breaking point with my ability to ride Saturi. Saturi – six months old, extreme Left Brain Extrovert, all legs, and full of sass! Every time I asked her for more she would get annoyed and express some pretty intense opposition The reason I was getting in trouble with her was because I was being too careful with her. I have complete trust in Linda and her horsemanship and once she showed me how to make progress with Saturi, I was able to get things back on track. Another burst of progress for Saturi and I came last summer while I was at the Colorado campus riding with Pat. I knew that Saturi and I still had lots of room to grow our partnership and was looking for a way to put our relationship to a bigger test. Turns out that test was cows! I have no plans for doing anything competitive with cows with Saturi. The cows turned out to be a stimulus that resurfaced an old fear in me that I am not capable of being the leader she can rely on. That age-old voice we all have that says, “You are not enough” was getting loud enough that I knew I needed help. This time www.parellisavvyclub.com | 11 HOME it came in the form of Pat Parelli himself. The lesson began with a group of us trying to move the cows from the Arena Grande to Pat’s playground. Saturi was manageable as long as the cows were moving away from her. But, whenever a cow would turn in her direction, I felt as though we could potentially bolt in any direction. I mustered the courage to tell Pat that I was really nervous, and he created a situation that would help me see that not only could Saturi handle this intense learning opportunity, but so could I. Pat had the other riders herd the cows into his 180-foot round corral. Then, he had me take Saturi in and turn her loose. He then played with her at liberty from his saddle horse. She was pretty terrified and it took him nearly 45 minutes to convince her that he could help her. It was hard to watch her struggle and search for an answer. I wanted so much to rescue her. But, once she accepted Pat’s leadership, progress with her confidence came quickly. This lesson ended with me riding her and following a cow all over Pat’s playground. The confidence I gained in what she can handle grew, and this has helped me to encourage her to experience more things that might make us both a bit uncomfortable, in an effort to expand our comfort zones. I am so thankful to Linda and Pat Parelli for their guidance on this journey with a horse that has caused me to reach deep into myself and grow as a horseman and modify what I believe about myself and what is possible. Saturi’s partnership means the world to me. Without Parelli Natural Horsemanship this horse would be my worst nightmare. Saturi is my dream horse every day and I will always be grateful to the Parelli program for that partnership. 12 | www.parellisavvyclub.com Kristi Smith is a 4-Star Senior Parelli Instructor who is available for lessons, clinics, and camps all over the world. For Kristi’s details/ schedule, and more information on the Parelli Professionals program, check out professionals.parelli.com HOME HOME Exploding The Myths About Horses BY PAT PARELLI HOME Age Old Secrets And All Kinds Of Advice Have Been Handed Down Through The Ages, And Very Little Of It Is Based On Understanding The True Nature Of Horses. This is part of the reason why people tend to have so much trouble with horses. Here are some of the most common myths. Myth 1. “Horses are not smart.” TRUTH: Horses are actually very intelligent (on the prey animal scale). They are quick learners and they never forget. They are prey-animal smart, so it’s unfair to measure them on the scale that includes predators such as people, dolphins, and dogs. Their whole existence, and therefore the way they think, is very different. Have you ever been out-smarted or out-maneuvered by a horse? It happens every day and not only to the inexperienced! Horses are born to out-think predators. This is why people can have so much trouble with them. They can’t catch them, can’t shoe them, can’t control them, can’t bridle them... they get kicked, bitten, struck, or charged at. Horses can make a million moves to avoid being trapped and they can read people like a book. They know what you are going to do before you do it and their brain is programmed to do exactly the right thing to foul you up and get away! Once on a horse’s back, there’s not much that they can do to defend themselves except run, buck, rear, or throw themselves down. They run out of options and of course the good rider is still there. But on the ground, they are quicker and wilier than anything. Fredy Knie, world famous horse trainer from the Swiss Circus Knie, told me that of all the circus animals he’s trained, horses are the most difficult to train well. Myth 2. “Punishment and reward is an effective training approach – you have to show a horse who’s boss.” TRUTH: Punishment does not work for prey animals, and “showing a horse who’s boss” in our predator way only causes intimidation and resentment. What does work with horses is reinforcement. Here’s the difference. Reinforcement is instant. It’s like an electric fence. It gives you instant feedback about your decision to touch it and you learn your lesson fast. Also, reinforcement has no emotions or attitude attached to it. It’s hard for people to get firm without getting mean or mad, and when a horse reads this emotional charge to the action it will result in one of two reactions: fear, or aggression. Pretty soon a smart horse will recognize the emotions as your weakness, and he’ll start pushing your buttons because he knows you lose control. The more you can do with a smile, the better. Use comfort and discomfort, and reinforcement. Don’t get upset or angry. In fact, if you feel that way, pet your horse and apologize to him and then leave him alone. Start again only after you’ve calmed down totally and developed a new perspective. See every challenge or resistance your horse puts up as an invitation to improve your skills and savvy. Treat it as a game – your horse does! About showing your horse who’s boss... There’s a different way to do this. Prove to him that you are alpha, by his definition. This means you have to be calmer, smarter, braver, and more athletic than he is, as well as more mentally, emotionally, and physically fit. You need to have leadership qualities and offer friendship, security, and play. Then your horse will respect you and follow your lead – without question. This is what becoming a Horseman is all about. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 15 HOME Myth 5. Myth 3. “Horses are safe and simple.” TRUTH: They are safe and simple, but only when you have savvy. The ‘safe and simple’ assumption is a dangerous one, and it’s the reason so many new horse owners get hurt. It’s also why 80% of all new horse owners get out of horses in their first year. They start feeling unsafe, get hurt, or become totally frustrated through lack of understanding, and the fun starts to fade. Savvy means safety. It’s what you put in your head rather than on your head that will keep you safe. You need to understand horse psychology, their behavior, their instincts, their needs, their nature. Then very little will surprise you and you won’t make the common mistakes and misjudgments that are responsible for 99% of horse related accidents. You’ll know what to do, and what not to do. Myth 4. “Carrots and kindness will spoil a horse.” TRUTH: Carrots and kindness are important. They show a horse you care, they bring out the soft side of you, which in Parelli terms is The Friendly Game #1. It’s also important to note that kindness without control can be dangerous. Once a horse is no longer afraid, he can learn very quickly how to play dominance games with people. It is the most important game because “horses don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” This is where The Seven Games gives you a great balance of kindness, friendship, and dominance. 16 | www.parellisavvyclub.com “You shouldn’t work with a horse for more than 20 minutes.” Truth: You can’t work a horse for more than 20 minutes – but for how long can you play? The key word here is play. Working is not fun for a horse. They get bored, they stop putting in effort, they probably dream of being in the pasture playing with their buddies. Some horses will play all day long. Playing The Seven Games, giving your horse challenges to work out, and giving him a chance to think his way through things becomes very stimulating for him. You’ll see his expression change and he’ll start looking forward to his time with you. A dull horse will come alive, and an emotionally insecure horse will become braver. Sometimes cutting off the session too soon doesn’t get you the result you need. I often play with horses for two or three hours at a time and, using the following secret, the results are fantastic... The secret to spending more than 20 minutes with your horse is this: make it fun, intersperse plenty of Friendly Game #1, have periods of rest (even five to ten minutes can do it), use him as an armchair, for transport, or just hang out. Make sure you spend undemanding time with your horse as a balance. HOME Myth 6. “You just saddle up and get on, no preparation is needed. You just kick to go, and pull to stop.” TRUTH: Don’t just saddle up and get on. Preparation is the key. This is what pre-flight, or in this case, pre-ride checks are all about. how to tell when your horse is mentally, emotionally, and physically ready to accept a rider on his back your riding experiences will be ten times safer. You need to check your horse out mentally, emotionally, and physically on the ground to see what side of the corral he got up on. If you don’t kick to go, and don’t pull to stop, what do you do? How is he feeling today? Is he good natured and willing, or feeling a bit disrespectful? Is he full of vip and vigor, or a bit slow? Is he limping, stiff, or sore in the back? You need to check all of this out, and using The Seven Games is the best way. Sort it all out before you ever get on his back. The easiest bucking horse rides are made from the ground! If you can learn If you were a horse, would you like to be kicked and pulled, or would you rather be softly squeezed and lightly lifted? The technique you use will make all the difference to your relationship. Instead of kicking you will learn how to teach your horse to respond to the softest squeeze to go. He’ll learn to stop when you quit riding and lightly lift the reins. In higher Levels, you won’t even need the reins. Myth 7. “Tough horses need tougher bits.” TRUTH: Do tough horses really need tougher bits? Big bits are used when the common belief is that to get control of a horse, you have to overpower him. Having to use a bigger bit is a sure sign you have little or no communication with your horse’s mind. By following the Parelli Program, you’ll be guided into developing real communication with your horse and, ultimately, any horse. When you have this you won’t need big bits because your horse won’t be running away or trying to escape from you. In fact, you won’t need any bit to have control. You’ll be able to choose a bit for greater refinement, not greater force. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 17 HOME Myth 8. “Spurs are for speed.” TRUTH: One of the questions I’m often asked is: “My horse is lazy and slow, should I get spurs?” Spurs are not designed to make a horse go faster, if they did, jockeys would wear them! A lazy horse may respond to the use of spurs at first because they are sharp, but it won’t take long before he returns to his lazy ways and becomes resentful! Spurs are designed for enhancing lateral maneuvers (going sideways) and increasing suspension. They are most valuable in higher Levels of horsemanship. I recommend that you complete the first three Levels of this Program without spurs so you learn how to motivate a horse using communication, understanding, and psychology rather than mechanics. When you and your horse are ready, spurs will be introduced for greater refinement, not for greater force. For communication, not pain. Myth 9. “Lean in the direction of the turn.” TRUTH: Why is it that we do the opposite to change directions when on a horse’s back than what we naturally do on our own feet?! If you walk a straight line then make a turn to your right, which foot are you leaning on to push off with? The left foot. Your weight is on your left foot so your right foot can lift and shift its position to take up the new direction. It’s the same for your horse. In this Program we’ll teach you how to ‘push’ your turns instead of leaning into them. It will feel so much more natural for your horse. Your turns will improve, and your horse will start to use his hindquarters, rather than lean on the forehand. Myth 10. “English and Western have nothing in common.” TRUTH: The difference between English and Western is like the difference between a violin and a fiddle. It’s the same instrument, you just hold it in a different position and play a different style of music. The horse is the common instrument in English and Western. He doesn’t care what you wear, but the communication signals are the same. There might be some different maneuvers, but ultimately we are looking 18 | www.parellisavvyclub.com for a soft, willing, well-balanced horse that works from his hindquarters. We can learn a lot from studying other styles of riding. The English rider could learn about better stops and turns. The Western rider could learn about lead changes and lateral movements. Being open to a universal form of teaching, you will develop an equine athlete that you can do anything with, do it well, and have your horse enjoy it. HOME HOME CCRSS For The Human! BY DR. JENNY SUSSER HOME Do You Get Lost Focusing Only On Your Horse? Do You Focus Too Much On The Goal Instead Of The Process? Do you get frustrated with yourself or your horse, and wish he/she was a car that you could just kick the tires in anguish? Don’t feel badly if you do, because we all get a little tunnel vision sometimes. Being a horseman doesn’t make one immune from the power of wanting to achieve our goals and objectives. Even I get lost in the result I seek, forgetting why I’m doing something, only to discover that I’m doing it to my horse instead of with my horse. A valuable tool that has helped move my horsemanship experience (as well as goals) to the next level is Linda Parelli’s genius grid of Calm, Connected, Responsive, Supple, and Successful (CCRSS applied to Horsenality). CCRSS is a template for what to look for during the warm-up and even during the training parts of your sessions. I have used this as a guide for sessions with my horses for a while now and I find it very helpful to keep me organized, as well as to know when I am “there” with him and we are ready to ride. ad as n be misre Over-Flexed ca Supple I learned this from the master herself, Linda, when she was visiting us and swapping brilliances with Mette Larsen. I am not a life-long horsewoman, so I don’t share the level of horsemanship that Linda and Mette do, but I am ever the eager student, looking to take my game to the next level. When Linda taught me this grid, I was immediately empowered with my horses. You don’t have to be a Parelli student to look for Calm, Connected, Responsive, or Supple in a horse. You do need to learn what each quadrant of the grid looks like, however, because each of these “states” has a secret double agent hidden within, ready to fool you into a false sense of security. As Linda, Mette, and I sat around one evening, we talked about CCRSS and horses. Linda and Mette went over each of the horses they played with and looked for ways they met the criteria, and ways they failed. It was fascinating. As they looked deeper, what they found was the secret double agent of each isread as Quiet can be m Calm Successful e misread as Reactive can b Responsive Obedient can be misread as Connected quadrant, and how we can look at and read a horse one way, when really the energy is another—a secret double agent! This, of course, prompted me to think about each of the quadrants from a human perspective. For each of the quadrants: Quiet can be misread as Calm, Obedient can be misread as Connected, Reactive can be misread as Responsive, and Over-Flexed can be misread as Supple. When one part is misaligned, they all are, preventing the desired center of Successful. Do we have our own secret double agent lurking inside, pretending to be OK when really we are not? Do we look one way yet feel another? And what tools do we need to help us align our energy with our actions, behaviors, and goals? The answer to all of these questions is an emphatic “Yes!” www.parellisavvyclub.com | 21 HOME See, humans have this unfortunate (ha, ha) ability to hide our feelings, to pretend we feel one way on the surface when we feel a different way underneath. In other words, we have the ability to lie. Horses do not have any of these abilities. I promise you they do not, because they do not have the cognitive or brain capacity for this kind of advanced thinking (yes, lying is advanced thinking). The equine brain is smaller (but perhaps mightier) and does not have the frontal lobe that humans have. The frontal lobe or prefrontal cortex is where all abstract thinking occurs, and where the trouble begins for humans! Sparing a neurobiology lesson, just know that horses cannot lie. So, where does that leave us? We need to increase our horse psychology and learn how to read our horses better. Let me just tell you that learning to read a sentient being that does not have a frontal lobe is incredibly difficult for the being that does! That sentence is basically the origin of the phenomenon “anthropomorphizing.” Because we can make things up, we do, and because we are in the same place as a horse, we make stuff up about them. Oh, it’s a tangled web we weave… The take away here is we need to use our frontal lobes better to read our horses better. And it takes time, lots of time, and 22 | www.parellisavvyclub.com lots of patience. I have been working on my skills in Horsenality for almost three years now, and have been fortunate to have the best teacher in the business (Linda). And every time I think I’ve got it, some new puzzle appears. But that’s the great part about horsemanship: there is never anywhere to “get,” yet always room to grow. ALL THIS TALK ABOUT READING HORSES, LET’S START WITH HOW GOOD ARE YOU AT READING YOU? This is where Emotional Fitness comes in. Linda and I have been talking about Emotional Fitness for some time now, so let me give you a quick update on our progress. What is Emotional Fitness you ask? Let me ask you this first: when you become emotionally elevated, good or bad, what happens? Do you know? Have you thought about this? What I see everywhere I go is that any elevation in emotion creates disequilibrium in the person. Emotion creates excitement physically, which can drastically distract the mind. Emotion creates excitement mentally, which also distracts the mind. All these distractions create a “disengagement,” or a disconnection, from whatever you are working or focusing on. This process happens so rapidly and so automatically, that we miss it and don’t “come to” until after the event is over and the opportunity has passed. This is the core of working on Emotional Fitness: to be able to experience an increase in emotional energy and remain mentally, emotionally, and physically stable…with the ultimate goal of remaining powerful. Calm vs. Quiet If I hooked a heart rate monitor up to you, would your heart rate tell the story of Calm, or Quiet? Quiet is not the same as Calm… Calm is an energy, not just a physical appearance. Quiet is a physical lack of noise masking a blend of nerves, upset, worry, or un-confidence mentally and emotionally. Humans are not unlike horses in that underneath a Quiet horse can lay an explosion, because the energy is not Calm, but more likely very noisy and just trying to keep it together. A Calm human has a low heart rate, a thinking mind as opposed to a reactive mind, and remains connected to the goal or objective while being able to evaluate the process and make changes deliberately. That is quite the sentence, I know, but stay with me. The key to remaining Calm is to notice when you drift out of Calm (which you WILL do because you are alive – so will your horse). Look for what your thoughts and resulting physical energy does. You will feel different when you are Calm vs. when you are simply managing to look Quiet. I would bet that if you were really paying attention, your horse will tell you when you move out of Calm and start pretending to be Quiet. HOME Connected vs. Obedient Just like Calm, Connected is an energy, a feeling. Obedience is behavioral and requires no emotional connection because it is simply action and can occur without any feeling at all. We Obediently write a check to pay our taxes with very little Connection to this event. Now, some may become frustrated, mad, or emotional from this Obedience, but that is not a Connection, it is a reaction (try Emotional Fitness training for this event!). Writing a check to a charity, a rescue, or a loved one you are helping out is the same physical action as paying taxes but with a very different Connection to the event. A Connection requires an investment mentally and mostly, emotionally. Now, an emotional Connection is not always filled with tears! Sometimes, that Connection will move us to tears, but it is not a requirement. Connection seems to come from someone offering themselves up first. If you sit around waiting for your horse to Connect with you, your butt will get sore. As the leader, you need to offer your Connection first. When your horse sees and feels your mental, emotional, and physical investment in him/her, then they can safely step into that space. The other thing about Connection is that it lives only in the present – you have to re-Connect each day Think about this with your because the half-life is minutes horse…when you are with him/ long. So, if you have a great her, do you remain Connected to Connection one day and then the tasks you are asking of them expect it to be there the next day, or does it become a “to-do” list you might land in Obedience and with items to check off or get through? If you are not Connected sadly, disappointment. Oh, and by the way, it works the same way to the task, your horse can with other humans (darnit). only be Obedient, guaranteed! Responsive vs. Reactive The difference in these two states originates in our brains. Stay with me here, though, because this is important and at the heart of Emotional Fitness. When we become emotional, our brains undergo a physiological change. It’s the same thing we notice in our bodies when we become physically elevated, whether it be from fear, or anxiety, or excitement. Think about what happens to your body: your heart rate goes up, you might shake, get stomach discomfort, sweaty palms, etc. All of these changes are Reactions that our body does automatically to survive (it’s called the Sympathetic Nervous System). Horses do the same thing. When your horse gets excited or scared, all of a sudden, he’s 18 hands tall, doesn’t notice you, and all his hair is sticking up! The thing most of us don’t know is that a similar process occurs in the brain – emotional elevation creates the same set of issues in our brain, hijacking our ability to Respond and making us React out of fear, frustration, anger… survival. So, a Reactive horse moves quickly, which is what we want from a Responsive horse, but the energy is different. They are quick but dis-Connected. They move as a fearful Reaction to pressure instead of a willing and Calm Response. Same thing in humans (yep, you knew I was going to say that). Reaction is void of thought but not emotion. Response is when you have both working together in harmony. Of course, the energy and the feel are completely different when you are Responding because it is wonderful and easy, vs. upsetting and difficult. HOME Supple vs. Over-Flexed Think about a body builder on a stage. Now that is Over-Flexed! Nothing Supple about it, right? It’s not relaxing or soothing to watch, it’s more tough and forced. It’s correct though because the purpose is to look like a marble statue, not a soft, flowing, Supple body. Think about the way an OverFlexed horse looks: it’s the same thing, there is an element of force, rigidity, tension. There will often be a tense or frightened look in that horse’s eye, jaw, and mouth. The feeling you get watching an Over-Flexed horse is not one of Connection or Calm, is it? When you watch a Supple horse, they are Supple physically because they are Supple mentally and emotionally. The human is Calm, Connected, and Responsive, allowing the body and spirit of the horse to be Calm, Connected, Responsive, and what do you know, Supple. What do you look like? I bet if you paid attention, your horse would tell you. Are your movements and actions flowing or jarring? Are you breathing and moving with your thoughts and intentions, or holding your breath and bumping up against yourself and your horse? The key here is you. You need to figure out what you look and feel like when you are Supple. It will not look like Pat, it will not look like Linda, it will only look like YOU. When you stumble upon this, then you can find what Supple looks like for your horse. This is where it is at and what I call Success. One more thought about Success: it is an individual event. What Success looks like to you is NOT what it looks like to anyone else, so don’t be fooled by trying to be someone else’s version of Success. I happen to live with an outstanding horsewoman, Mette Larsen. If I tried to make my Success look like hers, I would NEVER Succeed! We have very different goals… because we have very different abilities. I don’t ever let myself get trapped by comparing my level of skills, abilities, or accomplishments to hers. I would never touch my horses if I did! I learn from her in the physical skill world, and guess what, she learns from me in the emotional skill world. THE MORAL OF THE STORY IS ALL ABOUT YOU. What is your definition of Successful? Is it competing at Grand Prix? Is it having great walks or trail rides? Is it in the relationship you have with your horse? It doesn’t matter to anyone but you and your horse. Once you define this, begin to work backwards from there. Look for the energy and feel of Calm, Connected, Responsive, and Supple in you first, and then in your horse. Know that you must cause all of these things to be each and every day – in you and in your horse. Know that they are fleeting, in the present elements, and they will come and go seemingly at will. But don’t let that stop you. Find your flow and work endlessly with it. Dr. Jenny Susser is a long time Parelli student and Clinical Psychologist. Her specialization in sports psychology has led to working with top football teams, Olympic athletes, and equestrians. She is a top presenter of the Corporate Athlete based on the work of the great Jim Loehr. More recently, she and Linda have teamed up to present a groundbreaking series of Emotional Fitness Super Clinics. Learn more by visiting www.jennyrsusser.com HOME Live Your Dream at the Parelli Campus! HOME There Are Only Three Reasons Horses Have Trouble BY LINDA PARELLI HOME There Are Only Three Reasons Horses Have Trouble: Fear, Dominance, Or Confusion. When horses act up and don’t do what their told, most people think this is disobedience, that the horse is wrong. But when you take a clearer look, with psychology in mind, there are really only three reasons horses do what they do: fear, dominance, or confusion. I want to encourage you to think about your issues with your horse differently, to acknowledge that the reason for your horse’s actions may be about fear, dominance, or confusion rather than disobedience or stupidity. Therefore, both the immediate solution, as well as the prevention of problems in the future, lies in fixing the root of the problem. You need to: 1. Build Your Horse’s Confidence And Trust. 1. Fear Horses often react out of self-preservation, survival, self-defense. Being prey animals, their instinct is to fly from fear… to get as fast and far away as possible. If a horse is afraid of you or an object, or a noise or a movement, it is going to do something you don’t like! Solution: Build Your Horse’s Confidence And Trust. 2. Dominance If horses are not afraid, they will argue. This means they are challenging your leadership. Solution: Develop Your Leadership, Earn Your Horse’s Respect. 3. Confusion When a horse is confused and doesn’t know what to do, it is likely to become emotional and afraid, or emotional and fight. Solution: Be Clear In Your Communication. 2. D evelop Your Leadership, Earn Your Horse’s Respect. 3. Be Clear In Your Communication. Horses are highly emotional animals and think very differently from humans. We need to learn how to think more like a horse. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 27 HOME ARENA TIP Stay Close To The Rail BY LINDA PARELLI HOME FIX IT RIDER IS CROOKED HORSE IS CROOKED Have You Ever Had Trouble Riding Next To The Rail In An Arena? Just like people, horses can be ‘lefthanded’ or ‘right-handed’. This means they are not quite straight and will travel a little bit crooked. actually stay close to the rail on the side they are more crooked! You can see this when playing the Circling Game, especially because one way will be easier than the other. When it comes to riding along the rail, your horse will For example: If the horse looks to the right when on a left circle, they will stay close to the rail better when going around the arena to the left (with the rail on the right)! And vice versa. This is because the nose will be naturally pointed more Being a balanced rider is one of the most important qualities we can offer our horse. Think of this, if you were carrying a child on your back, how would it affect your ability to walk in a straight line, if they hung off to one side? for any crookedness in our body by placing more weight in one stirrup compared to the other. The moment we press one stirrup harder than the other, we influence the horse’s direction. It also makes the saddle go crooked! We tend to be better, more balanced riders when riding bareback because when in a saddle it’s easy to compensate For example: If you have more weight in your right stirrup, your horse will tend to veer right, and therefore stay close The immediate solution is easier than you think, and can be as easy as putting a little more weight in the stirrup closest to the rail – and you should do this before even touching your reins! Don’t lean over, just press your foot a little firmer in that stirrup. The real solution, however, lies in becoming a more balanced rider, and helping your horse become more supple. You can do this by: 1. S tanding in your stirrups for a few mins each time you ride as a regular exercise to improve your overall balance. 2. B ecoming conscious of your horse’s straightness or crookedness. 3. O bserving your horse’s tendencies and then thinking about how they might be mirroring yours! 4. E qualizing the weight in your stirrups – especially if your saddle tends to slip to one side. How nice it would be to blame the saddle, but rider error is easily proven as soon as you ride towards the rail than away from it. Here are some reasons a horse can be crooked: • Unequal muscle development • Not level in the shoulders or hips • Injury • Weakness • Rider is crooked. to the rail when going left. This might sound confusing at first, but once you think about it, you’ll see how it works. If a horse naturally veers, or is caused to veer to the right, having the rail on its right side will keep it straight. But going in the other direction with the rail on the left, the horse will veer away from the rail. without stirrups. Interestingly, it will feel like you’ve got a lot more weight on the weak side for a while, but only because you’ve become used to the opposite feeling. You can even shorten the more dominant side for a while to help. 5. S traighten your shoulders. You might be surprised to find out that your shoulders are carried at an angle, instead of facing squarely ahead, so your horse will do the same with his shoulders. Have you noticed that it’s better in one direction than the other? Why is that?! TRY THIS QUICK TEST Ride next to the arena rail at the walk or trot on a loose rein. First to the left, then to the right. Which way was harder for you and your horse – in which direction did your horse have more trouble staying close to the rail? In most cases, one way is harder than the other because either the horse, or rider, or both… is crooked! www.parellisavvyclub.com | 29 HOME My Special Horses BY PAT PARELLI HOME I Was Asked The Other Day About My Favorite Horses... I would like to start by saying one of my favorite horses was a mule! Thumper Thumper was so special; she was a Right Brain Introvert with a heart of gold. The reason her name was Thumper is because, when the first Bishop Mule Days event (in Bishop, California) started back in the late 60s/early 70s, Shirley Green had a little mule named Rabbit, and Rabbit won everything! Now, you have to understand Bishop Mule Days started off as a fun day for “packers” in the late spring just before they would head to the mountains, so everyone was competing on their pack mules. Well along came Shirley and Rabbit who could do everything – run barrels, rope, do ranch work, and outdid everyone. When Gene Hammerlin approached me to train his mule he asked: “Who’s the most famous Rabbit?” Thumper of course! From the Walt Disney movie, Bambi. So that is how Thumper got her name and I have a saying: “Mules are just like horses only more so,” and Thumper was amazing. I rode in the prestigious Snaffle Bit Futurity in 1979 where she earned the third highest reining mark out of 375 horses. The spectators were excited but all the owners of the horses she beat were upset! The rules committee decided to take action and as a result established a rule that still stands today: “Your entry must be a horse.” Thumper is still close to my heart. We did many competitions and inspirational bridleless demonstrations together, including an invitation to the 1980 Futurity – the year after that rule was written! Salty Doc Next came Salty. Salty Doc’s registered name was Fresno Salty Doc, by a horse called Doc’s Dynamo, who was by a very famous horse called Doc Bar. In those days a son of Doc Bar was highly desirable. Salty Doc was an effervescent gold buckskin, which is the only way I can describe it. He gleamed from the inside and had long black socks. There was something really spectacular about this horse, not just his looks. Salty Doc (LBE/I) is the horse that changed my life as a horseman. He helped me truly learn about horse psychology under the guidance of my mentor, Troy Henry. Salty Doc is the first horse I ever did any bridleless demonstrations on, and it all started one day when Mr. Henry saw me having terrible trouble with him and told me to take off the bridle. Well… did he take me for a ride! But it was the change Mr. Henry needed to make in me that changed the relationship between Salty and I. We did countless demos together, inspiring the start of natural horsemanship everywhere, in fact… he was in the video that Linda talks about seeing in the tack store that made her come to my clinic! Now remember, I was already doing bridleless demonstrations on Thumper, and another mule named Sissy, but Salty Doc was the first horse for me. He could ride and slide, spin and win, turn and burn as well as any performance horse that I’d ever ridden – an incredibly powerful horse. His owner, Mr. Showalter finally gave me Fresno Salty Doc as a gift, because he so loved the job that I did with him and wanted him to have a great home. Salty lived until he was almost twenty and he passed away naturally at my friend and Parelli Professional Dave Ellis’ ranch near Bakersfield, California. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 31 HOME Scamp Scamp’s real name was Roan N Royal. I was starting a lot of colts for a man in Clovis, California and he sent me this little muscle bound, red roan filly. She looked like a walking meatball and was just full of it – LBE, as you can well imagine! I started her when I first moved to Clements, California and on her first ride I was riding from the round pen to the arena and came across a cow. Sparky Next came “Sparky” whose real name was King Grey Links. I got Sparky from the famous horseman and cutting horse trainer, Shorty Freeman. He was out of Royal Weeks, a great daughter of Royal King. I actually bought Sparky for a customer of mine, Tyke Carleton. Bobby Ingersoll, now a legendary stock horse and bridle horse horseman was the agent and he recommended Sparky to me. He said, “Pat this is your kind of horse, he gets into every kind of mischief, likes to play with everything, likes to open every gate, and I know you are going to do well with him.” Can you guess his Horsenality? That’s right... LBE. I trained and showed Sparky successfully at many Snaffle Bit Futurities around the 32 | www.parellisavvyclub.com country, and he won or placed at every event we went. Of the three phases of Reined Cowhorse competition – reining, herd work, and down the fence – he could do it all. Even more special, Sparky also was the horse that really helped my son Caton learn how to ride. I had Sparky do everything with voice cues so Caton could cluck once and Sparky would trot… double-cluck and he’d canter… say “Walk” and he would walk… “Whoa” and he’d stop… “Back” and he would back up. Caton had a lot of trouble walking, but I would strap him to Sparky and we would go gather cattle all over the country! We did several “father and son” demos when Caton was quite small. Sparky is now in horse heaven and, as you can imagine, is still very close to my heart. I felt her swell up, she felt like a cat that had just seen a mouse, and she went over there and started to play with the cow. I think she totally forgot about me on her back, that’s how strong her cow-horse instincts were! She put her ears back, drove that cow, and started playing. From that moment, I knew this horse was really special. Everywhere I went, people tried to buy her. Scamp starred in several of my videos over the years, and traveled all over the country with me to clinics, along with Salty Doc and Sparky. Scamp lived until she was 27 years old and is the horse that is now responsible for getting Caton interested in riding cutting horses. She gave him the bug! HOME Casper Casper is for sure my most famous horse, along with Magic. Linda and I saw him in Alberta, Canada at a clinic in 1995. At lunch, we both looked at each other and said at the same time: “Did you see that black stallion?!” He was the most stunning horse I’d ever seen, and the bucking-est horse I’ve ever seen, and I had a rodeo career for 14 years! His owner, Hazel, said to me the reason she rescued/bought him was because he’d been starved down by some trainers him the blank check and told him if he ever reconsidered, please give me a call. Two months later he called and said you’re right, she should be yours. who just couldn’t get him to stop bucking. He had allowed her to ride him but only because he trusted her. She knew it was not safe, and not right, that’s why she brought him to my clinic. Even though she rode him during the clinic, I knew it was not good for the future and offered to check him out and do more with him that evening. Casper was a real “saddle bronc,” as we’d say in rodeo, because it was the cinch that caused him to buck. We played on the ground a little and then I saddled him. When he stepped off, he exploded… He bucked hard, and bucked, and bucked, and bucked for 45 minutes. I kept playing with him on the ground and he finally came over to me and I petted him. I felt him connect, so I crawled up into the saddle and we rode together. We asked Hazel if we could buy him and she and her husband said no. She really loved Casper. But a month or so later she decided he would have a more successful future with me, and the rest is history. His real name is Dial Bar Hemp Moon. His friendly but very spooky nature is why they called him Casper, after the famous cartoon, Casper The Friendly Ghost. Casper (LBE) captured hearts everywhere with his spectacular presence and charisma. He became my super liberty horse. Magic This story cannot end without my all-time favorite horse, Magic. In 1989 I was in Launceston, Tasmania, and Magic (RBI) was one of the horses brought along to choose for the demo. She came with a long list of problems, after going through a long list of trainers – all of them had said she was no good. Magic was hard to catch, and if you did catch her, she would bite and kick you, and was tough to ride. She was spooky about everything – hyper-sensitive, everybody’s nightmare… but after a few minutes I knew I had found my dream horse. I remember riding up to Linda and saying “I want to buy this horse.” At the end of the demo, I gave the owner (a Parelli student who first helped Magic find kindness) a blank check and I asked if I could buy her. He said no, but I handed She lived in Australia for about a year with one of my top students at the time, Phillip Nye. Then we flew her to the USA. Magic’s registered name was Maloga Cut The Deck. Her nickname was Spider – after the black widow spider! I immediately named her Magic, because that’s pure and simply what she is. Pure Magic. She was fast, could work a cow, ride and slide, flying lead changes, piaffe, and jump four foot with this cowboy aboard a western saddle. I’ve taken her all over the USA, and flown her twice to the UK for our mega event at the NEC Birmingham… and once to Germany for Equitana. I have yet to find another horse as special as Magic. She is 25 this year (2015) and Caton still plays with her and rides her a couple times a week. We wanted to breed her because of who she is, and she just loves foals, but she never ‘took,’ so she happily lives with the mares and babies as the caring matriarch of them all. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 33 HOME HOME Types of Releases when Riding: Basic Release, Short Crest Release, Long Crest Release, Automatic Release. Some Types of Jumping Sports: Show Jumping, Cross Country Jumping, Fox Hunting, Steeplechase, Hunter Over Fences. Cross Country jumping takes place on an outside jump course with a variety of obstacles and requires bravery, scope, endurance, speed, and accuracy. “I choose, we approach, you jump.” – Linda Parelli The world record for highest jump successfully completed by a horse is 7 feet, 10 inches. The unofficial highest jump is 8 foot, 3 inches! ‘Bascule’ is the shape of the horse’s body through the air over the jump, specifically the curve in his neck and back. Show Jumping takes place over a jump course in an arena, it is a timed event in which the goal is to have a clean round, meaning not knocking down any rails or going off course. Jumping is one way to play the Parelli Squeeze Game. Jumping Facts To best judge the jump a horse is approaching, he must look down his nose at it. DID YOU KNOW...? Phases of a Jump: Approach, Take-off, Flight, Landing. The longest jump successfully completed by a horse is 28 feet. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 35 HOME TRAIL TIP All For One, And One For All! BY PAT PARELLI HOME “All For One, And One For All...” I Love That Call From TV’s Three Musketeers In The 1970s, And It Is Especially Relevant On The Trail. Your horse is jigging and over-excited but everyone just keeps on riding down the trail. Everyone takes off up the hill and your horse goes berserk! People and horses get in trouble when they ride for themselves and are not conscious of what’s going on for others. I strongly believe and teach that everyone has a responsibility for everyone’s safety and enjoyment. Don’t ride with people who don’t care. Be sensitive to what’s going on for your fellow trail riders. You can be part of the solution, instead of part of the problem. Your horse won’t cross the stream and nobody waits for you. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 37 HOME Find your Parelli Professional at professionals.parelli.com HOME 1.We Often Mistake When The Horse Is Calm, Connected, Responsive, Supple For When He’s Actually: CCRSS Quiz 4.Left Brain Extroverts Need To Become More: 8.How Long Is A Session Supposed To Be? a.Calm. b.Connected. c.Responsive. a.As long or as short as you like, because it all depends on your outcomes. b. An hour for extroverts, two hours for introverts. c. 30 minutes. d.Until the horse can do everything perfectly. 2.A Horse That Is Responding Through Obedience Rather Than Connection May Be: 5.Right Brain Extroverts Need To Become More: 9.The Four Ways A Horse Can Respond To Pressure Are: a.Fearful. b.Distrusting. c.Uncomfortable. d. All of the above. a.Calm. b.Connected. c.Responsive. a.Does not yield, yields, seeks comfort, unity. b.Does not yield, yields quickly, seeks safety, unity. c.Yields slowly, yields quickly, seeks comfort, harmony. d. Slow, medium, fast, very fast. 3.What Is The Goal Of A Warmup? 6.Left Brain Introverts Need To Become More: 10. What Are The Three Kinds Of Goals? a. The horse is confident and calm. b. The horse’s muscles are loose and ready to work. c. The horse is tired and therefore safe to ride. d. The horse is calm, connected, and responsive. a.Calm. b.Connected. c.Responsive. a. Realistic, unrealistic, optimistic. b. Big goal, short term goal, session goal. c. Dream goal, short term goal, 5 year goals. d. None of the above. 7.Right Brain Introverts Need To Become More: a.Calm. b.Connected. c.Responsive. Answers 1. a., 2.d, 3.d, 4.c, 5.a, 6.b, 7.b, 8.a, 9.a, 10.b. a. Quiet, Obedient, Reactive, Over-Flexed. b. Quiet, Shut-Down, Reactive, Over-Flexed. c. Quiet, Obedient, Reactive, Shut-Down. d. None of the above. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 39 HOME BREED SPOTLIGHT Gaited Horses HOME Gaited Horses Come In A Variety Of Breeds And Offer A Variety Of Ways Of Going. “The Tennessee Walking Horse, also called Plantation Walking Horse, is a breed of horse that derives its name from the state of Tennessee and from its distinctive gait—the running walk. In a broad sense, it originated from all the ancestors that could do a running walk. Some of the popular breeds include the Tennessee Walking Horse, Missouri Fox Trotter, Rocky Mountain Horse, Spotted Saddle Horse, Kentucky Mountain Horse, Paso Fino, Peruvian Paso, and Icelandic Horse. Allan F-I (foaled 1886), a Standardbred stallion with several crosses of Morgan breeding, had the greatest influence on the breed. The walking horse is heavier and stouter than, and lacks the refinement and style of, the American saddle horse.” Many of the gaited breeds are known for their unique and beautiful coat colors as well as their invariably smooth way of traveling. Non-gaited horses have four distinct gaits, the walk, trot, canter, and gallop. Gaited horses can also perform a variety of other gaits depending on their breed. Here are some of the gaits and a few examples of the breeds that perform them: pace (Standardbreds, Icelandics, Peruvian Pasos), fox-trot (Missouri Fox Trotter), rack (American Saddlebred), running walk (Tennessee Walker), tolt (Icelandic Horse), and revaal (Marwari). This month we’ll take a closer look at the Tennessee Walking Horse. source: http://www.britannica.com/animal/ Tennessee-walking-horse “Characteristics: The Tennessee Walking Horse is a noble looking animal with a straight profile and an upright build. In the running walk, each hoof hits the ground independently; the gait can be as fast as the canter. The smooth canter is often described as a “rocking chair” canter. The horses are shown flat shod (Plantation Walker) or with weighted shoes (Performance Horse). The Tennessee Walker stands from 15 to 16 hands high and can be found in the following colors: black, bay, chestnut, sorrel and white.” source: http://www.horsechannel.com/ horse-breeds/profiles/tennessee-walkinghorse-horse-breed.aspx www.parellisavvyclub.com | 41 HOME Classic Rogue GAITED HORSE PROFILE Color: Black with a large star, snip and near hind pastern. Height: 16 hands high. TENNESSEE WALKING HORSE with 3-Star Parelli Professional Jenny Trainor Sports: English, Western, Driving, Trail, Packing, Hunting. Horsenality: Medium Spirited Right Brain Extrovert. Registered Name: Classic Rogue, by 10 WorldChampion Classic Generator out of an Ebony Masterpiece mare. Parelli Level: Level 4 Complete - Level 5 skills. Age: 15. Best Savvy: Liberty, he is eye catching! Breed: Tennessee Walking Horse. Partner: Jenny Trainor, 3-Star Instructor. 42 | www.parellisavvyclub.com About Classic: Classic has been a great partner to teach me how to help gaited horses in the Parelli Program, as well as those that are not! He is not the most talented of TWH, don’t tell him that. He is a bit on the trotty end of the gait scale for my liking, but through the program he has developed into a horse with a strong flashy head shaking walk that is able to bring home blue ribbons! True to his breed, he is very versatile and does well with trail riding, jumping, demos, driving, family horse, and has packed out a lot of game. He is sensitive, a blast to ride, has a big heart, a very pretty head, is tall and elegant to look at, and has amazing eyes that you can see deep into. HOME Gaited Horses And Anti-Soring Initiatives By Lori Northrup, 2-Star Parelli Professional and President of the Parelli Foundation Gaited horses are a deep love of mine. This love started in one of my first businesses, when I was 17 years old and operated a trail riding stable with a string of 25 horses. I had 24 registered Quarter Horses and Appaloosas, and one big gangly gelding without papers that all my customers always wanted to ride. Turns out he was a Tennessee Walking Horse, and that started my love affair with gaited horses. Three years later I met my husband Bill, a customer on one of my trail rides, while I was riding a tall black walker mare named “Lady.” Years later, a Tennessee Walking Horse mare “Maggie” was my Parelli Level 1 partner, although our audition ride wasn’t very refined and our canter to an emergency dismount was a bit wild. Then I read the book which changed my life: “From the Horse’s Mouth,” by Eugene Davis. This is an exposé into the ugly world of soring abuse, which is rampant in the traditional show world for gaited horses, radiating from the epicenter of Tennessee Walking Horses in Shelbyville, Tennessee. Soring is a cruel technique of using pain, intentionally caused pain, to teach a horse to exaggerate his gait into an awkward, exhausting caricature that wins in these types of show events. I joined a nonprofit organization FOSH (Friends of Sound Horses) that is active in advocating against soring abuse, and offering a sound, natural show circuit to people who want an alternative. I served as President of FOSH for about 12 years, and I am now the Vice President of Anti-Soring Initiatives. During those years, a Tennessee Walking Horse filly, “Magnolia,” was born in our pasture early one May morning, and she went on to become my levels partner all the way through achieving Parelli Level 4 and becoming a 2-star Parelli Professional. When Pat Parelli invited me to start the Parelli nonprofit, now the Parelli Foundation, I was intrigued because it combined my love of Parelli philosophies along with my desire to truly help horse welfare, including stamping out the horrors of soring done to gaited horses. www.parellisavvyclub.com | 43 HOME The efforts to end soring abuses are various, and include everything from federal legislation, to social media and public protests, to TV exposés, supported by volunteers, FOSH, the nation’s Congressmen, the largest veterinarian organizations, and national humane organizations. We organize national conferences every few years, and a high level working group that meets monthly on these issues. A few recent highlights are listed below, in the efforts to end soring, along with the action you could take to help the cause. The PAST Act would outlaw the “big lick” or performance style of showing, with heavy shoes and chains, as well as toughening up the penalties for soring violations. The reintroduced PAST Act in the Senate (S. 1121) now has 48 co-sponsors. Recently introduced in the House, by Republican Ted Yoho, a large animal veterinarian, the matching PAST Act (HR. 3268), the House bill has 190 co-sponsors already. For a current update, just go to www.Congress. gov and type in the bill number. Contact your Congressmen and get them as cosponsors. Soring made the news big time when Big 44 | www.parellisavvyclub.com Lick Tennessee Walking Horse Trainer Mr. Jamie Lawrence of Vinemont, Alabama was booked into the Maury County Jail on July 24, 2015, after being indicted on Aggravated Assault with A Deadly Weapon charge by the Grand Jury. Lawrence had swerved his truck and horse trailer toward Ms. Teresa Bippen, President of FOSH, at the end of May at a performance horse show, where Ms. Bippen and others were protesting the cruelties of the big lick. Read the recent news on soring, always posted on www.StopSoring.com. FOSH maintains this website, and has over 1,000 articles, dating back to 1956 with Sports Illustrated coverage. downright painful. This may have been an accepted style 50 years ago, but these days we know better. There is just no excuse for causing an animal as much pain as these horses are subjected to in order to get such extreme and artificial movement. I’m glad there are people who love these horses enough to say it’s time to be training them with natural methods and to accept them for their natural beauty and movement. Thank you for posting this video, it’s very helpful.” If you would like a daily blog sent to you with soring news, check out www. BillyGoBoy.com and register at that site. Social media is on fire with news about efforts to end soring … make sure you avail yourself of the late-breaking news. Groups and individuals are gathering each month to work on the issues of soring. Comments continue to pour in from the general horse-loving public about the style of the big lick, such as this commentary. Our thanks to this viewer, who posted these words after watching the Big Lick compared to a natural gait on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=UObsbjyHxt8 “That “Big Lick” movement makes it look like the horse is trying to crawl uphill. When the horse is cantering, it looks totally artificial and If you want to get involved, or learn more, you could join FOSH for $30 per year, or stay current at www.FOSH.info, or check out www.hpadata.us, where trainers with soring violations are publically listed. Along my horse journey, I was lucky enough to meet the positive influences of natural horsemanship, and learn lots about the Parelli methods in conjunction with the challenges of bringing a gaited horse through the program. I’ve met many Parelli enthusiasts who have asked the same questions that I once did: “Will it ruin my gaited horse to trot?” “Must I have a different horse from my gaited horse to accomplish the Parelli levels?” “What gait is my horse doing right now?” We were able to offer a Gaited Horses Naturally course this November (2015), at the Parelli Ocala Campus. I am attending as a full student, along with my barn manager, and a friend who now owns one of the Tennessee Walking horses that we bred and raised. Keith Dane, VP Of Equine Protection, Humane Society of the United States, is a long time Parelli student and the driving force behind making a better world for horses, and especially the gaited horse. Read more about the Humane Society’s Gaited Horse Investigations in the Parelli Blog > Photo: Presenting Pat with HSUS Horseman of the Year at the 2009 Savvy Conference. Being able to study again with 5-Star Parelli Professional David Lichman, along with 3-Star Parelli Professional Jenny Trainor, with special sessions from some of the FOSH judges, who are well trained in gaited horse talents, will be a great treat. It will be lovely to ride our barefoot, gaited horses with other Parelli students of like mind, and have those days together to just enjoy the ride. And what a ride it is! HOME THE PARELLI FOUNDATION Help make the world a better place for horses and humans with the Parelli Foundation, an independent, non-profit organization for the natural horsemanship community! The Parelli Foundation is focused on providing programs and assistance, financial and otherwise, in the following areas: • Youth Horsemanship • Horse Welfare • Therapeutic Horsemanship • Equine Talent & Career Scholarships This wonderful organization is dedicated to fulfilling Pat Parelli’s lifelong mission of providing natural, effective horsemanship education to students all around the world, for the benefit of horses and the humans that love them. Visit parellifoundation.org to learn more! HOME SPORTS SPOTLIGHT You Can Shoot A Gun Off Any Horse... Once! J ESSE PETERS 4-STAR SENIOR PARELLI PROFESSIONAL HOME Jesse Peters Grew Up On A Small Farm In Ohio, Three Miles From The Birthplace Of Annie Oakley. Growing up he spent countless afternoons playing cowboys in the hay mow of their big hip roof barn. The Peters boys and neighbor kids all came together and built hay forts on each side of the hay mow and proceeded to use their cowboy imaginations to shoot at each other using toys and the sound of their voices, “Boom!” You could say that Jesse always had a bit of a romantic dream that the silver screen cowboy inside of him would get a chance to come out one day! Fast forward to the year 2001 and Jesse was just getting started in a program called “Parelli” and around that same time was also introduced to the sport of Cowboy Mounted Shooting by friends in Cincinnati. Cowboy Mounted Shooting is the fastest growing equestrian sport in America. Mounted contestants compete in this fastaction, timed event using two .45 caliber single action revolvers each loaded with five rounds of specially prepared blank ammunition. The Cowboy Mounted Shooting Association (C.M.S.A.) has a variety of levels of competition for everyone, ranging from novice levels to the seasoned professional. Jesse got started in the sport while borrowing both guns and a seasoned shooting horse from a friend to figure out if the sport was really for him or not (Parelli Principle #7, Horses teach humans and humans teach horses). It turned out, the sport was for Jesse and he competed in the CMSA for four years. He quickly rose from a beginner level 1 shooter all the way up to a level 4 Open Men’s division and Midwest Regional Champion. In 2005 he left shooting to follow his Parelli Professional career pathway as a Parelli Center Faculty Team member and then Parelli Instructor in the field. It can be hard to be serious about shooting when all the competitions are on the weekends, because it is during the same time customers want their clinics scheduled. Jesse used his years away from CMSA to work on advancing his horsemanship. He knew he had to figure out a way to help his horses to be competitive in a speed and control sport, all the while keeping his Parelli Principles in sight and putting the relationship first. In 2013, with some urging from his wife Stacy, Jesse prepared his 2006 AQHA gelding, Great Pine Whiz (GPW), for shooting. The pair attended a couple Cowboy Mounted Shoots in Florida and Ohio when time was available. The competitive mounted shooting bug slowly started to wake up inside Jesse again and he worked hard to get his talented horse ready to become competitive. Many folks are running big fast Gymkhana bred horses, where Jesse’s horse had a talent for spinning and slide stops in the reining pen. Jesse helped GPW become more and more tolerant of the sport, eventually accepting the gunfire, patterns, and speed required to be respectable in www.parellisavvyclub.com | 47 HOME Cowboy Mounted Shooting events. Pat Parelli always says, slow and right beats fast and tight (fast and wrong). If there was ever a recurring theme in every lesson Jesse has ever taken from Pat it was always, “Jesse, slow down!” One of Jesse’s dreams was to not only compete in CMSA competitions, but he wanted to be able to do it bridleless one day while being competitive! He knew that if he was ever going to be able to accomplish this goal that he and GPW would have to start working together as not only a team, but as ONE. By following the Parelli Program and taking his time with GPW and putting in lots of practice, soon the team was ready for stepping their competition up a few notches. In 2015 Jesse got the opportunity to shoot in a national competition in Louisville, KY at the North American Livestock Exposition (NAILE). One of Jesse’s friends, CMSA Hall of Famer, Bobby Ruwe knew that Jesse had a dream to shoot from his horse bridleless one day. Bobby asked Jesse if he had ever practiced 48 | www.parellisavvyclub.com shooting bridleless at home, and if he was interested in shooting bridleless for the NAILE crowds. Jesse thought about it for maybe a whole second-and-a-half before he said, “SURE! Let’s do it! I’ve never tried shooting bridleless before but I bet everyone here would LOVE to see me try!” A rider should never take the bridle off unless they know without a doubt that they have full control to turn and stop and get off if needed. A picture is worth a thousand words, so here is a video of Jesse’s very first bridleless shooting attempt EVER at the NAILE in November 2014: https://youtu.be/ hD112z4S-fM. The next big public demonstration was at a Parelli Tour Stop in Murfreesboro, TN and then Tampa, FL which can be viewed here: https://youtu.be/XnADJg2gZXg. By this time Jesse and GPW were having a blast in 2015 shooting at several CMSA competitions bridleless whenever they had the chance. Some may wonder why Jesse would even want to shoot without a bridle when his runs are slightly slower. The answer? He loves to spread the Parelli message and it sure caused a stir amongst many of the competitors to see him compete in such a high speed, accuracy based sport as Mounted Shooting! There was such a buzz about it that many clubs said they would forbid Jesse to take the bridle off in competition. However, a national director for the CMSA organization enjoyed seeing the bridleless runs so much that he suggested and nominated a “bridleless riding rule.” The ruling created a nationwide rule that permits anyone and everyone to shoot without a bridle on their horse in all CMSA competitions except for the costume driven class called Calvary Class! Just one week after the new rule was in place, Jesse and GPW wowed a county fair crowd with bridleless shooting in the shotgun competition all evening. The result? Overall Shotgun Champion out of 14 shooters and Overall Champion in the regular match! Jesse’s takeaway message for everyone doing anything with their horses is that horses will run faster and jump higher out of heart and desire!! Follow Jesse and GPW on Facebook and learn more about Jesse’s details and schedule at professionals.parelli.com HOME BEHIND THE SCENES Pat & Linda’s Home On The Road Have you ever wondered what’s inside Pat and Linda’s bus and trailer? Click on the play button and they will take you on a personal tour! 50 | www.parellisavvyclub.com Upcoming Events > HOME J U N I O R S AV V Y Body Language Word Puzzle Have you ever wished your horse could talk and just tell you what he is thinking? It sure would make things easier, wouldn’t it? Did you know horses really do talk? It’s true! They just don’t speak our language, they speak the horse’s language. Horses speak by nickering, whinnying, snorting, and blowing, but most of their language is spoken with their body. It is called body language and horses use it much more often than sounds. If you watch closely, you will see that horses use their eyes, ears, nose, mouth, head, neck, feet, and tail to communicate with each other and with us. All these parts of the body say something about what the horse is thinking. If we want to have a really good relationship with our horses, it is very important for us to learn their language. After all, they can’t really learn ours, can they! Look at the puzzle here and see if you can find all the words that have to do with how horses speak their language. Words run across, down, and diagonally. Have fun! 52 | www.parellisavvyclub.com HOME HOME Level 1 On Line = Red Savvy String Level 2 On Line + FreeStyle = Blue Savvy String VIEW A LIST OF OUR MOST RECENT LEVELS PATHWAY GRADUATES! The Parelli Levels Program began in 1991. It was the first ever horsemanship home study “college” course of its kind designed to teach people how to become a horseman and professional, comprising four levels in “Four Savvys”: On Line, Liberty, FreeStyle and Finesse. Each month, students who graduate these official levels are awarded certificates. See this months list of official graduates! If you are new to the Savvy Club, the Levels Program is built into the curriculum. But if you are ambitious or have professional goals, you may want to get more in depth and participate in Levels tests as well. You’ll learn more about this option in Touchstone 5 - The Four Savvys. 54 | www.parellisavvyclub.com Level 3 On Line + Liberty + FreeStyle = Green Savvy String Level 4 On Line + Liberty + FreeStyle + Finesse = Black Savvy String HOME The Parelli Web Shop Check out our online shop for the latest and greatest in Parelli products! From education and equipment to apparel and accessories, and everything in between, the Parelli Web Shop is your one-stop shop for all things Parelli! Introducing our Parelli Partners! Dear Savvy Club Member, We are happy to introduce our official Parelli Partners! Each of these wonderful companies share our dedication to improving the horse industry, and the quality of their products is matched only by the strength of their principles and values. To our Parelli Partners - thank you for doing what you do, and for helping us make the world a better place for horses and humans! —Pat & Linda Parelli www.parellisavvyclub.com | 55 HOME Pat’s Top 13 Favorite Cowboy Movies of All Time! 1. 1972 The Cowboys - Shows how natural humans are until they are 12. 2. 1988 The Rounders - Fairly realistic for the times, and turned into a TV sitcom where the horse was the best comedian! 3. 1953 Shane - The song - Mariah (They call the wind Mariah). 4. 1966 The Appaloosa - The hill climb of all times! 5. 1948 Red River - The river crossing. 6. 1974 Blazing Saddles - I like the campfire scene - the beans! 7. 1967 The Good, The Bad, The Ugly - The theme song! 8. 1969 Butch Cassidy & The Sundance Kid - The cliff scene. 9. 1972 Judge Roy Bean - Many years later I aced someone who was the judge at a rodeo I competed at, and they said, “You know, Judge Roy Bean!” I had no idea, but then I went to see the movie. 10. 1973 High Plains Drifter - The fact that it took me three viewings before I figured out ‘he’ was a ghost. 11. 1990 Dances With Wolves - I loved how much the muleskinner loved his mules. 12. 1966 Texas Across The River - That Texas had oil where water should be! 13. 1976 The Outlaw Josey Wales - A friend of mine, Harley May, was the stunt rider on the bucking horse! 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