BERITA HOSPIS - Hospis Malaysia
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BERITA HOSPIS - Hospis Malaysia
CELEBRATING 25 YEARS OF PALLIATIVE CARE IN MALAYSIA KDN PP8369/10/2012(031505) BERITA HOSPIS 1st ISSUE 2016 PALLIATIVE CARE: BEYOND DEFINITION TO OUTCOME By Dr Ednin Hamzah, CEO, Hospis Malaysia T Fast forward to 2016, and palliative care is available in some government hospitals, communities and taught in some universities. We have a National Adviser for palliative care at the Ministry of Health, most of the essential drugs for pain and symptom control are available, a few doctors are recognised as specialists in the Ministry of Health and Malaysia sponsored a palliative care resolution at the World Health Assembly. Over the past 25 years or so since palliative care was introduced to the country, some patients have received good palliative care but many have not. In that time, many have been diagnosed with cancer and other debilitating illness and suffered from pain and other symptoms. People have died, children have grown older and a younger social media dependant generation has been fostered on society. IN THIS ISSUE Due to the lifestyles we have chosen and for other reasons, many in our society are at risk of being diagnosed with a debilitating disease in 2016. So what if you or your loved one needs palliative care today? EDITORIAL NOTE Palliative Care: Beyond Definition to Outcome NEWS Hospis Malaysia Announces New Medical Director PALLIATIVE CARE NOTES Why is Palliative Care Research Needed? THANK YOU 1 2 3 4 PHOTO CREDIT: SC SHEKAR he origins of palliative care in Malaysia dates from the early 90’s when the first formal palliative care services started in Kuala Lumpur and Penang. Since then, much has taken place and as a society, we can take some solace in that palliative care has taken root in our healthcare systems. If I need palliative care tomorrow, will the ones responsible for my care act in my best interest Our media typically brings out articles on what palliative care is (mostly at a superficial level). The Ministry of Health may inform us about the number of doctors, location of services and drugs available in connection to palliative care. Is this sufficient to guide us when care is needed? For a baby born today, within 25 years, he or she would have matured and hopefully have graduated and entered the workforce. In the 25 years or so that palliative care was ‘born’ in Malaysia, has this area of care matured? ADVOCACY Moving Forward – Serving The Palliative Care Needs of The Nation Sustainable Development Goals 6 9 EDUCATION The Need for Palliative Care Training 7 Hospis Malaysia’s Palliative Care Nurse Emily Yap joins teaching faculty for Lien Collaborative Programme in Sri Lanka 8 FEATURE Don’t tell patients what they could be doing to cure themselves 11 UPCOMING EVENTS & UPDATES National Palliative Care Awareness Week 5 Calendar of Events 12 Caregivers Workshops 2016 12 Newsletter Feedback Survey 12 continued from page 1 Are we responsible for the care that we receive? If we are, what should we do about it? If we take the big brother stance, then the government should act in our interest. Palliative Care is the most important healthcare issue that affects us when a loved one is suffering. There are some questions that we should start addressing now. So, if I need palliative care tomorrow: ●● Will the doctor that sees me be competent in understanding me, my care preferences and relieve my suffering? ●● Will the nurse and other health care workers that I see, respect me as a person and not simply as a disease? ●● Will the doctor and palliative care workers be able to negotiate my goals of care with me and my loved ones and provide me with all the information I need? ●● If I chose to stay home, will my suffering be attended to and be relieved? The World Health Organisation’s resolution on ‘Strengthening of palliative care as a component of comprehensive care throughout the life course’ calls for participating countries to integrate palliative care into their national health systems. After 25 years of palliative care in the country, it would be good if Malaysians were informed about what care they could expect today and the months and years to come, wherever they reside in the country, in hospitals and at home. For adults and children with life limiting illness and their caregivers, just knowing what palliative care is, is not enough. They need to know that their pain and suffering will be relieved, psychological, social and spiritual needs be addressed and that help is at hand wherever they are. HOSPIS MALAYSIA ANNOUNCES NEW MEDICAL DIRECTOR Hospis Malaysia is pleased to announce the appointment of Dr Sylvia McCarthy as its new Medical Director. Dr Sylvia takes over from Dr Ednin Hamzah, who has held the post as well as that of Chief Executive Officer (CEO) for the past 19 years. Dr Ednin will continue on as the organisations CEO. Dr Sylvia joined Hospis Malaysia in 2003 and subsequently was appointed Deputy Medical Director. Together with Dr Ednin, they have worked tirelessly to develop and enhance the clinical services of Hospis Malaysia, steering the organisation to deliver the best possible quality of care to those in need in our community. Over the years, Dr Sylvia has also worked closely with her other colleagues to advocate for the imposition of minimum standards in the provision of palliative care in the country and has helped develop Hospis Malaysia to become not just a key service provider, but also a major education and training centre for medical professionals in the area of palliative care. COUNCIL MEMBERS Chairman: Brig. Gen (Rtd.) Dato’ Richard Robless Vice-Chairman: Datin Kathleen Yeoh Secretary: Dr Michael Adaikalasamy 2 Treasurer: Ms Fairly Yap Swee Eng Members: Mr James A. Menezes Tan Sri Lim Leong Seng Dr Ednin Hamzah Dr Azlina Abdul Aziz The Council of Hospis Malaysia are confident that Dr Sylvia will continue the good work of her predecessor and looks forward to her further contributions to the clinical work of the organisation. HOSPIS MALAYSIA (223675-X) 2 Jalan 4/96, Off Jalan Sekuci, Taman Sri Bahtera, Jalan Cheras 56100 Kuala Lumpur Tel: (03) 9133 3936 Fax: (03) 9133 3941 E-mail: info@hospismalaysia.org Website: hospismalaysia.org HospisMY HospisMY PALLIATIVE CARE MALAYSIA an initiative by Hospis Malaysia Website: palliativecare.my PalliativeMY PalliativeMY PALLIATIVE CARE NOTES WHY IS PALLIATIVE CARE RESEARCH NEEDED? PHOTO CREDIT: SC SHEKAR By Dr Lim Zee Nee, palliative care doctor, Hospis Malaysia I n an extensive 18-month consultation which included 1, 400 patients, carers, health and social care professionals in the United Kingdom, top 10 research questions* in order of priority were identified as follows: 1. What are the best ways of providing palliative care outside of working hours to avoid crises and help patients stay in their place of choice? 2. How can access to palliative care services be improved for everyone regardless of where they are? 3. What are the benefits of advance care planning and other approaches to listening to and incorporating patients’ preferences? Who should implement this and when? 4. What information and training do carers and families need to provide the best care for their loved one who is dying, including training for giving medicines at home? 5. How can it be ensured that staffs, including healthcare assistants, are adequately trained to deliver palliative care, not matter where the care is being delivered? Does increasing the number of staff increase the quality of care provided in all settings? To what extent does funding affect these issues? 6. What are the best ways to determine a person’s palliative care needs, then initiate and deliver this care for patients with non-cancer diseases (e.g. heart failure, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, dementia, AIDS, motor neurone disease)? 7. What are the core palliative care services that should be provided no matter what the patients’ diagnoses are? 8. What are the benefits, and best ways, of providing care in patient’s home and how can home care be maintained as long as possible? Does good coordination of services affect this? 9. What are the best ways to make sure there is continuity for patients at the end of life, in terms of the staff that they have contact with, and does this improve quality of palliative care? Would having a designated care coordinator improve this process? 10.What are the best ways to assess and treat pain and discomfort in people at the end of life with communication and/or cognitive difficulties, perhaps due to dementia, brain tumour, motor neurone disease or head and neck cancer, for example? 3 continued from page 3 The absence of evidence-based practice in many areas of palliative care is partly due to major challenges faced in designing palliative care research. This includes the fact that patients are often unwell, have multiple comorbidities, may be emotionally distressed, as well as having cognitive impairment, which creates challenges for informed consent. Families may be unsupportive of participation as studies may be time consuming and tiring. In addition, the predominance of investigatorled over pharmaceutical company-led research in palliative care limits financing opportunities for researchers. Well-designed research to answer important questions relating to issues affecting palliative care patients, their families and caregivers is still deficient in Malaysia. Patients may have unique palliative care needs not addressed by research in developed countries. Hence, how can we ensure best possible care is provided if there is lack of evidence-based practice? Interestingly, studies have shown that most palliative care patients want to participate in research. The commonest reasons for participation include altruism, enhancement of personal value, the assertion of persisting autonomy and the value they placed on a commitment to optimising care by research. There is a clear need for collaboration between palliative care researchers, patients and families to identify research questions that are of priority in Malaysia. Palliative care researchers have to maximise existing resources, leverage expertise and capability to produce excellent, internationally competitive research. This will hopefully ensure standardised quality care for palliative care patients living in Malaysia. *Source: www.ehospice.com/uk/Default/tabid/10697/ ArticleId/13664/ December 2015, Blue Inc. Media’s ICON Christmas Party Recognising the work and support Hospis Malaysia provides in caring for those living with life-limiting illnesses and their families; JANUARY Hospis Malaysia is grateful for the continuous support it receives from the individuals and corporations that support us through the years. We truly believe that these organisations and individuals recognise the important role Hospis Malaysia performs in the community and for that we are grateful. Thank you for including us in your festive givings! 4 Mitraland Group’s 17th Anniversary Annual Dinner Chinese Chambers of Commerce Annual Chinese New Year Celebrations FEBRUARY Genting Malaysia Bhd Chinese New Year Luncheon Hospis Malaysia was elected to be one of the beneficiaries of the event. UPCOMING EVENTS NATIONAL PALLIATIVE CARE AWARENESS WEEK An initiative by Hospis Malaysia, in conjunction with its 25th year anniversary By Rini Vella, Advocacy & Media, Hospis Malaysia Most Malaysians are unaware of the importance of palliative care and how they can benefit from it. ‘How can one ask about something one didn’t even know existed?’ THE INAUGURAL NATIONAL PALLIATIVE CARE AWARENESS WEEK Concerned about the need to raise awareness of palliative care in the country, in 2014, Hospis Malaysia introduced an identity for palliative care, in the form of a symbol. In April 2014, Hospis Malaysia held its first palliative care awareness campaign displaying the symbol and testimonies from patients for the public to better understand how palliative care can make a difference. In 2016, Hospis Malaysia aims to step up its awareness campaign. This April, Hospis Malaysia will launch the inaugural ‘National Palliative Care Week’ in conjunction with its 25th year anniversary; the week aims to raise the profile of palliative care nationwide through an exhibition. This year’s photo exhibition offers a glimpse of the work that we do. Our campaign will address why there is a national need to improve standards of care provision and highlight our increased emphasis on training of palliative care practitioners. ‘NATIONAL NEEDS ASSESSMENT OF PALLIATIVE CARE’ STUDY RESULTS: Although palliative care has been operating in the country since the early 90’s; the level of awareness, perception, integration and delivery of palliative care in the country is still uneven and not clearly defined. In response to this situation, in 2015, Hospis Malaysia undertook a study to look at the underlying palliative care needs at a national level and public awareness at a community level. The aim of the study was to look at growth trends of demand and delivery of palliative care services, identify gaps and define quality standards in palliative care services. Organised by Hospis Malaysia and in conjunction with its 25th year anniversary, the launch of ‘National Palliative Care Week’ will see the release of the results of this study. COME JOIN US! 5 ADVOCACY MOVING FORWARD – SERVING THE PALLIATIVE CARE NEEDS OF THE NATION by Wendy Loo, Fundraising & Advocacy, Hospis Malaysia From left: Dr Chitra Rajendran, Palliative Care Association of Kota Kinabalu; Dr Lee Chee Chan, paediatric palliative care trainee; Datuk Victor Rajasekran, Persatuan Hospis Tawau; Dr Ummi, palliative care trainee; Dato’ Dr Ziaudin, Perak Palliative Care Society; Dato’ Seri Dr T Devaraj, Penang Hospice Society; Dr Ednin Hamzah (CEO), Hospis Malaysia Tham Su Ming (GM), Hospis Malaysia I n 2014, Malaysia was one of the signatories to the groundbreaking World Health Assembly resolution in support of palliative care. The resolution targets to help drive national action to reduce barriers to the accessibility and availability of palliative care. In support of the resolution, and as part of its long term vision, Hospis Malaysia has embarked on an initiative to work with like-minded organisations to build a framework on which existing services can work cohesively to build capacity, upgrade services and work towards formulating national standards for the delivery of palliative care to the people. It also recognised that the Malaysian palliative care community leadership had voiced that after more than 20 years of existence in the country, it did not want to still be “at its infancy”. In February this year, we asked for feedback from the various service providers in the country on the structure and types of services they currently provide. 6 This was followed by a meeting of the hospices to facilitate discussions about where we are currently, and what may be required to move forward. Feedback has been shared with the rest of the palliative care community and submitted to the national advisor on palliative care at the Ministry of Health (MOH). There is a recognition that much still needs to be done. The country’s palliative care services continues to be fragmented with the bulk of community services supported by non-governmental organisations who enjoy uneven support from the community, and in-patient units in MOH hospitals lacking in trained personnel. This year marks Hospis Malaysia’s 25th anniversary. In the last several years we have embarked on several projects including adopting a webbased patient management system, as well as conducting a national public perceptions survey on palliative care and a needs analysis of palliative care in Malaysia. We have also done an audit of our internal processes and are now looking at both process and quality indicators to measure how well (or badly) we are doing. We are aware that our stakeholders are looking for governance and outcomes. Our patients are concerned with the quality of care that we provide, and our financial supporters are watchful over what we spend their money on. In 2014, a symbol was developed to embody palliative care, and to drive an awareness campaign which will carry even more significance in our 25th year. We are now confident that we have developed sufficient expertise and experience that we may be able to share with others. Over the years, we have also cultivated partnerships with other organisations both nationally and internationally that are friendly to palliative care. We are now reaching out to the rest of country – how can we help? EDUCATION THE NEED FOR PALLIATIVE CARE TRAINING by Wendy Loo, Fundraising & Advocacy, Hospis Malaysia C urrent healthcare systems around the world have often been criticised for focusing on curing a disease rather than treating the patient. Palliative care is an approach to medicine that manages the patient’s pain and the many physical and psychological symptoms associated with the illness. The increase in demand for palliative care remains a challenge, particularly as awareness and understanding are limited. In Malaysia, ‘most medical schools do not offer compulsory courses in palliative care. There are only seven certified palliative care experts, with the bulk of palliative care services delivered by charitable organisations, with support from volunteers who receive minimal training.’ So how can the best possible care be provided to patients with life-limiting illnesses or minimal standards of care adhered to if the majority of palliative care workers have minimal training? To address this, Hospis Malaysia has in the last 10 years built a comprehensive teaching and training faculty with a mission to develop the much-needed human capital to meet the needs of the country. Part of this is the series of seven core workshops conducted annually in collaboration with the Asia Pacific Hospice and Palliative Care Network (APHN). Each workshop provides healthcare professionals with training in a particular palliative care area – nursing care, communication, pain and symptom management, suffering and hope, grief and bereavement care, and palliative care for children. Being able to deliver appropriate and timely PARTICIPANTS COMMENTS: “The workshops have a lot of practical information that is useful, and that can be applied when I return to the hospital. The information shared is concise and practical.” Look Mei Ling, internal medicine doctor, Hospital Sultanah Nora Ismail, Batu Pahat “Attending these workshops is a good way to review and keep updated with the latest practices.” Maria Zi, nursing practitioner information, encouraging hope, acknowledging suffering, while ensuring the grief and bereavement processes are occurring are crucial skills in improving the patients’ quality of life. “The goals of palliative care are to relieve suffering and improve the quality of life, not only of the patient, but also their family members,” said Dr Sylvia McCarthy, Medical Director of Hospis Malaysia. “Pain is unavoidable in many patients, but we can look to treat and reduce the level of pain, and address the numerous and other trivial symptoms associated with their disease.” These workshops provide up -to - date k nowledge, and evidence-based best practices via a combination of lectures, group work and case studies to maximise and internalise learning. Participants also bring up and discuss common topics and difficulties faced in their work setting, whether in a hospital or in the community. Due to the evolving landscape in healthcare, Hospis Malaysia recognises the need to complement its core training programme with specialised workshops. One of these is the ‘Clinical Ethics in Palliative Care’, which discusses the legal and ethical issues surrounding palliative care and end-of-life care. In 2015, it held the nation’s first ‘Train the Teachers in Palliative Care’ workshop focussing on ways palliative care specialists could effectively deliver knowledge and skills to their students. Members of Hospis Malaysia’s teaching faculty include specialists in their respective areas from Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, UK, India, Singapore and Hong Kong. To find out more about these workshops or to register for them, please visit hospismalaysia.org 7 EDUCATION HOSPIS MALAYSIA’S PALLIATIVE CARE NURSE EMILY YAP JOINS TEACHING FACULTY FOR LIEN COLLABORATIVE PROGRAMME IN SRI LANKA by Rini Vella, Advocacy & Media, Hospis Malaysia ‘Train the Trainers’ Sri Lanka teaching faculty and participants Sri Lanka Collaborative Programme Faculty: Prof. Ghauri Aggarwal (Programme lead); Chairperson of APHN A. Prof Cynthia Goh; Emily Yap (Malaysia, palliative nurse); Dr Allyn Hum (Singapore), Dr Shirlynn Ho (Singapore), Mr Joshua Cohen (Aus, nurse clinician), Mr Weng Wai Yau (Lien Collaborative Project Manager) CULTIVATING LEADERS IN PALLIATIVE CARE Hospis Malaysia formed 25 years ago to address a common growing concern for the suffering of people living with life-limiting illnesses in the community. Despite operating in an environment where service provision, delivery and clinical outcomes in palliative care remain largely unregulated; the organisation uncompromisingly abides by international guidelines in the implementation of its services. Hospis Malaysia actively supports the overall development of palliative care globally, with a unified aim of achieving universal access to palliative care into all countries healthcare systems. As such, the multidisciplinary medical team at Hospis Malaysia are constantly exposed and encouraged to teach their evidence-based skills through various training and educational channels. “It is not enough for our nurses and doctors to be able to provide palliative care. They need to be able to teach it, model it and be leaders in their respective areas” says Dr Ednin Hamzah, CEO of Hospis Malaysia. LEADERSHIP IN NURSING Carrying with her almost a decade of experience in community palliative nursing, Hospis Malaysia’s palliative care Nurse Emily Yap recently joined the teaching faculty of a ‘Training of Trainers’ initiative in Sri Lanka led by the Lien Collaborative for Palliative Care. Over six modules, the three year programme aims to 8 establish a multidisciplinary team of leaders within Sri Lanka to champion the development of palliative care services. “Emily has come into the fourth module of the Sri Lanka Collaborative programme in a very good solid way” says Associate Professor Ghauri Aggarwal, Head of palliative care; Concord Hospital, Sydney and country lead for the programme. “She brought her community experience to the programme and her involvement with paediatric palliative care, an aspect that we had not covered previously. She very quickly developed a good rapport with the nurses there. This is important in the ‘empowerment’ that is part of our role for the nurses in Sri Lanka.” DEMONSTRATING KNOWLEDGE AND COMPETENCE One of Emily’s teaching sessions included clinical bedside teachings, a session that demands an experienced practitioner. “I observed that only routine clinical assessments were conducted; there was little attention paid to the patient’s psychosocial well-being. It’s so important to ask something as basic as, ‘how are you today?” says Nurse Emily. “Such sessions are extremely valuable in palliative care to teach practical procedures and communication skills”, she stresses. Reflecting on a teaching session on how to approach a dying child patient, Nurse Emily pointed out the need to be aware of making assumptions when conducting clinical assessments. “We need to clarify and continued from page 8 communicate with the individual, especially children,” Emily points out. “Some nurses confided that they did not know what to say to a dying child and were afraid to approach the matter. This is common; we are not really taught this in nursing or medical schools. Sometimes simply by asking the child how they feel or finding out their interests could offer a deep understanding about the child and their wishes. Communication is vital” Emily advised. The Lien Collaborative Programme: Codeveloped by the Asia Pacific Hospice Palliative Care Network (APHN) and funded by the Lien Foundation. On her experience as a mentor in Sri Lanka, Emily noted: “This was a two-way learning experience for me, I am now aware of the cultural, language and economic barriers in the country and how nursing is practiced based on those barriers.” With the support of the Sri Lankan Ministry of Health and Sri Lanka National Cancer Institute (in Sri Lanka). The programme is designed to strengthen palliative care leadership and capacity. Similar programmes have effectively been carried out in Myanmar and Bangladesh. ADVOCACY SUSTAINABLE DEVELOPMENT GOALS by Rini Vella, Advocacy & Media, Hospis Malaysia Throughout history, health has been a primary concern for human beings. Good health and wellbeing is the essential ingredient to human happiness. ‘Within societies, good health makes an important contribution to economic progress as healthy societies tend to live longer, have a better quality of life and are more productive’. If you or a loved one were seriously ill, would you want to receive care that is affordable, effective and of sufficient quality? UNIVERSAL HEALTH COVERAGE Consequently, the concept of ‘Universal Health Coverage’ (UHC) or ‘healthcare for all’ has been a popular objective in many countries globally. The World Health Organisation defines UHC as ‘ensuring that all people can utilise the health promotion, prevention and treatment, rehabilitation and palliative care health services that they need, of sufficient quality to be effective; while also ensuring that the use of these services does not expose the user to financial hardship.’ SUSTAINABLE DEVELOPMENT GOALS I n September 2015, world leaders adopted the Sustainable Development Agenda which includes a set of 17 Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs), teamed with their accompanying targets aims at building a better world by 2030, by putting an end to poverty, fight inequality and injustice, and tackle climate change. ❝ If you or a loved one were seriously ill, would you want to receive care that is affordable, effective and of sufficient quality? ❞ 9 continued from page 9 ❝ Palliative care is a fundamental aspect of achieving Universal Health Coverage (UHC), as well as in achieving other targets under Global Goal 3. Universal Health Coverage (UHC) has been identified as part of the Global Goals; however more action is needed to achieve UHC. GLOBAL GOAL 3: GOOD HEALTH & WELLBEING Global Goal #3 focuses on ‘good health and well-being’ and aims to ensure healthy lives and promote well-being for all, at all ages. A target of this goal positions that ‘By 2030, reduce by one third premature mortality from noncommunicable diseases through prevention and treatment and promote mental health and wellbeing’. How can the inclusion of palliative care contribute towards achieving this target? On why quality healthcare should be available for all: ‘Health is a human right. No one should go bankrupt when they get sick. 17% of people in low middle-income groups are pushed or pushed further into poverty by health spending. Achieving UHC reduces poverty and fuels economic growth’, explains The Global Coalition for UHC. Palliative care is a fundamental aspect of achieving Universal Health Coverage (UHC), as well as in achieving other targets under Global Goal 3. The recently published ‘Palliative Care and the Global Goal for Health Report’ identifies challenges to a strong focus on palliative care as part of the Global Goals: ‘These include a lack of political will and a global civic movement to promote it, funding challenges, lack of an indicator for monitoring palliative ❞ care, the need for integration into primary health systems, and workforce education gaps’. The report further recommends: ‘governments must create an environment that welcomes citizen advocacy, people must demand a voice in the local, national and global discussions and empower themselves to work towards rightful access to palliative care as part of the Global Goal for Health.’ The Global Goal for Health (and its accompanying targets) advocates for a focus on improving palliative care for people with lifethreatening and life-limiting illness globally. Each country defines its own path to pave in achieving UHC and the Global Goal for Health. In defining this path, each will have to consider many factors such as its own state of politics, its existing health and financing structures, to its engagement with various stakeholders to devise a sustainable strategy towards providing affordable, quality health services for its people. In 2014, Malaysia helped sponsor a resolution at the World Health Assembly in support of palliative care. Challenges to a strong focus on palliative care as part of the Global Goals have been identified. What steps are we taking to lead our country onto a sustainable path to achieve Global Goal #3? 10 FEATURE DON'T TELL PATIENTS WHAT THEY COULD BE DOING TO CURE THEMSELVES Rephrased with permission from an article written by Steven W Thrasher, published in theguardian.com on 26th March 2016 D on’t tell someone with a lifelimiting illness that if they’d just drink juice (or take vitamins, or pray or have a “positive attitude”) that they could cure themselves. My sister lived with a rare type of sarcoma tissue cancer for 15 years. Since she’s been gone, I’ve been able to understand that my sister wasn’t alone in a particular burden she bore. I’ve been hearing from friends with cancer and other serious illnesses that they are overwhelmed when concerned people toss suggestions at them for homeopathic remedies they “should” be doing. Over the years, it was painful for me to see people tell my sister (and me) that she could just cure herself if she really wanted to. Didn’t she know that if she just drank lemon juice every day she could wipe out her cancer cells? That if she were only willing to take vitamins, or do yoga or look on the bright side of things, her illness would go away? Let’s put aside for a moment that none of these claims have been validated by peer-reviewed science – and that none of them are true. Let’s instead confront the three reasons I think it’s an act of violence every time someone suggests a simplistic, unproven and fantastic cure for another’s life-limiting disease: First, it’s condescending. If lemon juice really cured cancer, don’t you think we’d all be dancing around citrus trees? More importantly, when someone has had cancer or serious illnesses for months or years – maybe living through hours of doctor appointments, days in hospitals and months in bed – facing mortality, or telling them they’ve missed a simplistic way they could have avoided their fate, further isolates and shuns them. don’t you think they’ve had time to consider every possible option with the seriousness their own mortality deserves? Second, it could be argued that people giving advice are just trying to “do something” and kindly offer help. But I reject this: if you want to do something to help someone in distress, as George Carlin famously riffed, unplug their clogged toilet or paint the garage. Don’t tell a sick or injured person what they should do, because it’s a sneaky and harmful way of dealing with your own fear of death. Finally, giving advice to people with cancer blames the sick person for your discomfort with their reality and shifts any accountability you feel back on to them. As the authors Barbara Ehrenreich and Sarah Schulman have shown, we have ethical responsibilities to the vulnerable in our communities – and we find excuses to avoid them. Having cancer or caring for someone with it understandably causes fear, anxiety and depression. Expecting someone to have a Positive Attitude™ when they are As anthropologist S Lochlain Jain wrote in Malignant: How Cancer Becomes Us, “the huge and punishing self-help industry preys on fear and adds guilt to the mix. As one woman with metastatic colon cancer said on a retreat I attended, ‘Maybe I haven’t laughed enough.’ Talking at someone with cancer about what they should do, rather than being with them in a state of disarray with no easy answers, is not you helping them. It is you unfairly shaming them for having failed at self-help, which isn’t even a thing. It is hard to be with people in grief. It is hard to be with people who are facing death, or with their caregivers. The next time you are, don’t give them stupid advice – they aren’t stupid. Trust they’ve given more thought to their course of treatment than you did listening to that public radio story. Trust yourself to just be with them in the unknown. Trust yourself to love them in the condition they’re in, instead of ignorantly and egotistically giving useless advice that won’t ultimately change their prognosis. One of the last and most frightening lessons I learned with my sister in her final days was the importance of being with another when there is nothing to say or do. It is terrifying; to just be with a loved one and to admit you’re powerless to stop their death. But it can be the most powerful, quiet and loving gift you can give each other. 11 2016 UPCOMING EVENTS APRIL 16th -17th Ethics in palliative care Workshop 20th -24th National Palliative Care Awareness Week SEPTEMBER 23rd -25th Paediatric palliative care Workshop APRIL MAY 14th Treasure Hunt 28th -29th Communication Skills Workshop OCTOBER 14th Hospis Malaysia 25th Anniversary Gala Dinner JULY AUGUST 13th-17th Palliative Care Awareness Roadshow @ Bangsar Shopping Centre (BSC) 7th Standard Chartered KL Marathon (SCKLM) NOVEMBER DECEMBER 4th-6th Pain & Symptom Management Workshop 19th-21st Suffering & Hope Workshop 4th Annual Charity Bazaar @ WIP, BSC 17th-18th Grief & Bereavement Workshop CAREGIVERS WORKSHOPS 2016 Held once a month, the caregivers’ workshops are designed to introduce the caregiver to some basic caregiving and nursing skills needed to help them better manage the symptoms and effects of a disease at home. Visit hospismalaysia.org for the schedule. The recent ‘Stoma and Fistula’ Caregivers Workshop aims to help improve caregivers’ skills and confidence in stoma and fistula management at home NEWSLETTER FEEDBACK SURVEY We are interested to know your feedback regarding our newsletter. Kindly fill in the short survey inserted in this newsletter, or complete the survey online on: surveymonkey.com/r/beritahospis. Survey closes 30th July 2016. 12 Printed by: Hup Lee Printing & Services | Address: 36, Jalan PBS 14/9, Taman Perindustrian Bukit Serdang 43300 Seri Kembangan, Selangor| Tel/Fax: (03)- 89414044
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