Leaders Digest Vol 2 No 3
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Leaders Digest Vol 2 No 3
Professor Eric Aseka International Leadership University Nairobi, Kenya I rose to the position of full professor and became dean of social sciences at a prestigious national university in Kenya. Currently, I serve as the Deputy Vice Chancellor of Academic Affairs at the International Leadership University (ILU) in Kenya. I teach courses in the Master of Governance and Organizational Leadership programs at the Bright Leadership Centre. Apart from being an administrator, I am actually doing what I am passionate about—teaching courses in governance and leadership. As a young person, I grew up in a Christian family, but did not make a commitment to serve as a Christian simply because I was following the religion of my parents. I was versatile in the public domain as an academic and activist in the political arena and also consulted by the government. In 1994, I made a personal confession to follow Christ and accepted Him as my personal Savior. I began rethinking my life. Am I just here to teach in a beautiful way, wake up, take children to school, go to work, and come home? I thought there had to be something more significant in my life, something that had eternal value. I wanted to make my life meaningful in terms of the purposes of God for my life. I emphasize teaching people the importance of the Word for transformation which is bound to impact them... As a political historian, I had written biographies on the fathers of the independent Kenyan State and began to view their lives as bare discussions without having meaningful impact. They made contributions but I thought there must be something more significant in terms of the values and principles that can impact people. On this basis I began to look at what leadership should be driven by and developed an interest in carrying out research on transformational leadership. The Ford Foundation gave funding for me to do field research on six communities in each country of Uganda, Kenya and Tanzania. Through these studies, I began to see what those societies thought about leadership. They had ideas of what leadership looked like and certain aspirations of what they wanted their leaders to do for them. I identified their values and the kind of behavior they wanted to see in their leaders in the communities. Enriched about leadership from an ethnographic perspective, I listened to their voices and compared what they said with the paradigms of leadership. I began to reconstruct a triad theory of consciousness informed by my biblical readings on leadership involving the spirit, soul and body. I came to understand that leadership is a matter of competencies: spiritual, intellectual, and physical, which require development. I am involved in many activities at the personal, institutional and community levels. Teaching is not just a duty, but it is an opportunity to develop an interactive relationship with people whom you should positively impact. In my classes I teach with a passion seeking to guide and impact students. I view it as a God-given opportunity to mentor and encourage them to rise to high levels of leadership. I like to inspire Leaders’ Digest Encouragement and inspiration for leaders Welcome to Leaders’ Digest, Volume 2, Issue 3. and empathize with them. I emphasize teaching people the importance of the Word for transformation, which is bound to impact them at two levels: the spiritual level (where people change and realign their ways of thinking and producing spiritual capital) and at the level of reason, (whereby God wants us to have the ability to think and solve problems). He uses us to open their eyes to see and their ears to hear; therefore, our intelligence is important. I want my students to increase their intellectual capital so they can be smart as followers. It is good to be a leader who is smart. I have seen students who have risen to very high levels of leadership in various capacities. I talked with some of them and impacted them during student leadership training seminars. I persuaded several from going on the path of destructiveness to becoming responsible and exercising restraint. It is my belief that a leader who does not produce other leaders is a failure. I do not want to produce people who do not rise to anything. I want to produce leaders who will excel beyond what I have been able to do. I still have the conviction that my relationships with people and impact on them should make them greater. ©2012 In the last issue, our focus was on the anatomy of a transformed leader from the head. We discussed Head Knowledge, Reflective Thinking, and Journaling. Now, we will move from Head Knowledge to Heart Knowledge. This focus on the anatomy of a transformed leader from the heart (Figure 1) entails character building, double-loop learning, mentoring, and encouraging the hearts of others. Mike Wicker, PhD Editor photo: mads abildgaard-istockphoto.com photo courtesy: prof. eric aseka Life Story volume 2, issue 3 International Leadership Foundation 29 Ambassadorial Enclave, East Legon, Accra, Ghana website www.transformingleadership.com figure 1: the anatomy of a transformed leader: heart editor-in-chief Dela Adadevoh, PhD editor Mike Wicker, PhD design + illustration J. B. Dasalla bleed line International Leadership Foundation Building Leaders of Integrity to Transform Africa and Beyond volume 2, issue 3 Learning to Lead: With Heart from the Inside Out D id you know that the heart is the hardest working organ in our entire body? The heart is responsible for pumping blood throughout the body by repeated, rhythmic contractions. The average human heart is beating 72 beats per minute and will beat approximately 2.5 billion times during an average 66 year lifespan. The human heart1 has an estimated mass of 300 grams and is only about the size of a closed fist. Much of our well-being in life as in proper diet, exercise, and stress-free lifestyle relates to the care of the heart. If we have a strong heart, we will have a long and full life. Just as a strong heart is vital to the human body, a transformed heart is critical to exemplary leadership. walls down.” In order to avoid having a hard heart, we should ask forgiveness from God and then be reconciled to others. True forgiveness, as former Nobel Peace Prize laureate Desmond Tutu describes, is the grace by which you enable the other person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew. In the act of forgiveness we are declaring our faith in the future of a relationship and in the capacity of the wrongdoer to change.4 Hence, our journey is to travel from a self-serving heart to a heart for serving others. In our leadership, we need to serve others with wholehearted integrity, based on sound moral character. Heart Knowledge Learning to Lead: Getting to the Heart of the Matter How do we measure one’s heart? In the last issue, we discussed measuring head knowledge by the intelligence or I.Q. test. Groundbreaking research from Harvard University on effective leaders revealed the importance of emotional intelligence (E.Q.).2 The measurement of E.Q. is divided into the following categories: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management. Can we learn to lead by the heart? In order to get to the heart, we can learn to be transformative leaders through double-loop learning. Most learning is cyclical in nature and occurs in a feed-back and feed-forward loop system. Once around is called single-loop learning where twice around refers to double-loop learning (Figure 3). The heart of leadership is the heart of the leader. Transformational leaders envision and spearhead holistic transformation by inspiring the hearts of people. To model this kind of change, leaders must have strong moral values and character. The only way to change society is to change the hearts of people. Transformational leadership is concerned with the emotions, values, ethics, and long-term goals of individuals and communities. Passionate leaders assess peoples’ motives, satisfy their needs, and treat others as dignified human beings. Such leaders penetrate the heart and influence others to do more than what is expected. They build character by raising the level of morality of those around them. A Heart of Character A leader who leads wholeheartedly is one who has character. The word, character in Greek refers to an engraving instrument. The picture is of an artisan who uses a sharp tool and makes a groove on a metal plate by etching repeatedly over the same place.3 An image begins to form and take shape. In the same way, the formation of our character is forged as one of many distinctive marks that design a portrait of who we are (Figure 2). photo: joefotois-istockphoto.com figure 2: character engraving Every time you make a decision, you make an impression. Every time you respond to a need or defensively react in a crisis, you cut a groove. Every time you positively influence or manipulate others, you mold a shape. Every time you show gratitude or bribe people, you form an image. Every time you speak truth or deceive others, you are cutting the pattern of your character. Every time you stand up to peer pressure or give in to temptation, you are carving your character. These images from our hearts make the deepest images–whether for the welfare or demise of others. As with character, even the best artist has an errant stroke. We need to monitor our behavior. For some, private or relational habits will need to be examined while for others, it might be tempting to compromise convictions in the workplace. If we slip, we should apologize and seek forgiveness. Some East Africans refer to this as “roof off- Single-loop Double-loop Behavior Core Values & Attitudes Change figure 3: single & double-loop learning Single-loop learning looks at solving problems and answering the what question. What is wrong with my behavior? Single-loop learning is similar to head knowledge. On the other hand, double-loop learning answers the why question. Why am I behaving the way I am? Double-loop learning looks inward, into our heart knowledge.5 First time around the loop often involves a change in outward behavior. However, the second time around the loop penetrates deeply and involves changing our core values and attitudes, the very thing driving our outer behavior. recognized that his son needed to be coached on how to be the next king. A trusted friend named Mentor was hired to be Telemachus’ tutor. Mentor was said to be wise and sensitive, two important ingredients of successful mentoring. Likewise, to be a mentor you need to be wise and sensitive. A mentor should speak truth into one’s life and reach down to the heart and soul and help develop one’s character. It takes trust—trust for a protégée and trust for a mentor. In building trust, words and behavior come from a heart of character. It is character and not merely what we say or do that builds trust. Our focus should be on words, behavior and attitudes that spring from a sincere heart and strong character. Encouraging the Heart Another way to instill change is to encourage the hearts of others. What do we mean by encouraging the heart? The word encouragement has its root in the Latin word cor, which literally means heart. Courage means to have heart. To encourage others is to give them courage and heart. As mentors we are called to be an encouragement; to help, counsel, comfort and guide others. We need to help others be wholehearted. Often, encouragement is given to those who have lost heart. Several passages in the Holy Scriptures link the word encourage with heart: encourage the faint-hearted;6 do not lose heart 7 and God heals the broken hearted.8 People get discouraged and lose heart due to increased conflict at home and in the work place. Eternal factors outside of our control such as famine, earthquakes, tsunamis, health and economic problems can be quite discouraging. This results in loss of strength, loss of vision, loss of security and loss of hope. Encouragement can lift despair and motivate the hearts of people. The world needs an army of encouragers and mentors. We need to come alongside and inspire courage so that others can get up and march forward in life. Application What are the principles to help you shift from Head Knowledge to Heart Knowledge? Do you know someone in your community who excels in mentoring and encouraging others? Interview them and learn how you can develop a heart for mentoring and encouragement. According to the anatomy of a leader, the distance from the head and heart is only 18 inches. However, the greatest distance for measuring real life change is from the head to the heart—from head knowledge to heart knowledge. Taking what we know and turning it into actions that elicit changes in hearts around us is true transformation. The heart is the key to unlock real change in our lives. Notes: 1 MacDonald, Matthew (2009). Your Body: The Missing Manual. Sebastopol, CA: Pogue Press. Transforming Hearts by Mentoring 2 Goleman, D. (1995). Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than I.Q. New York, NY: Bantam Dell. One way to encourage a heart-felt change is to learn from more experienced and wiser people who have journeyed farther along the road of life. We learn from good role models. Character counts in the professional world. Corporate coaches help keep leaders accountable to their growth and development and ultimately in their roles at the workplace. We need to be mentored and to mentor others. 3 Garves, S. (2006). Your Character Speaks Volumes from Deep Within. Life@Work Groupzine, Volume 2: The Essentials. Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson. 4 Tutu, Desmond (1999). No Future without Forgiveness. New York, NY: Doubleday. The word mentor comes from Greek mythology. As King Odysseus was preparing to fight the Trojan War, he realized he was leaving behind his only son Telemachus. Odysseus 7 2 Corinthians 4:1, 16 5 Argyris, C. (1991). Teaching Smart People How to Learn. Harvard Business Review (May-June 1991). 6 1 Thessalonians 5:14 8 Psalm 147:3