6 MB 2011 May - The Charlotte Jewish News
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6 MB 2011 May - The Charlotte Jewish News
Vol. 33, No. 5 Nisan-Iyar 5771 May 2011 An Affiliate of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte May 1 Yom HaShoa Commemoration Coordinated With the Butterfly Project Dedication This year’s Yom HaShoah commemoration to honor the memory of those who perished in the Holocaust will take place on May 1. The Yom HaShoah event will also include the dedication of the Margaret and Lou Schwartz Butterfly Garden. The focal point of the garden is a magnificent sculpture, designed by Paul Rousso and adorned with more than 2,000 vibrant hand-painted butterflies, honoring the tragic loss of 1.5 million children. The Butterfly Project is part of a worldwide effort, Zikaron V’tikvah, Remembrance and Hope, which strives to promote tolerance and understanding through education and artistic expression. Through the project’s educational workshops, faith and school groups as well as many other members of the greater Charlotte community created over 2,800 ceramic butterflies, each one crafted in the name of a specific child who died in the Holocaust. The garden and sculpture are the result of the perseverance, planning, and generous contributions of Butterfly Project volunteers and community members over the last three years. The garden is named for the parents of Larry Schwartz, current President of the Sandra & Leon Levine Jewish Community Center. Margaret Berger and Lou Schwartz were teenagers living in Chust, a Czechoslovakian village, when one day in 1943, they came home from school to find their entire families gone. Soon after, Margaret, 14, was sent to Auschwitz and Lou, 17, was sent to Dachau. They never saw their immediate families again. Both Margaret and Lou were deemed strong enough to work as slave laborers; Margaret made light bulbs and Lou built underground bunkers. By the time of their liberations, each had been starved to less than 100 pounds. They returned to their village to find it in ruins, with no family members left. Amazingly, they found each other and, with a great desire to move on with their lives, they married. In 1947, the young couple and their first child moved from Bratislava to Natanya, Israel, and in 1953 the family immigrated to the United States at the invitation of a relative. They eventually settled in New Jersey with their children, Jeffrey, Yaffa and Larry. Larry stressed that neither of his parents were bitter about their past experiences. Margaret and Lou Schwartz were always forthcoming about what they had been through, grateful that they had survived, and happy that they were able to make a better life for their children. Indeed, in 1967, Margaret and Lou started their own business, United Canvas & Sling, Inc., which flourishes as a family business to this day. They instilled a strong work ethic in their children and each child participated in the family business at a young age. Jeffrey, Yaffa and Yom HaShoah and the Dedication of the Children’s Holocaust Memorial Sculpture Sunday, May 1, 1:30 PM Margaret and Lou Schwartz Larry, in turn, had great love and respect for their parents and appreciated all they had gone through to give their children a better life. Despite all the hardships and heartbreak they endured, Margaret and Lou retained their love for God and Judaism. They both had great inner strength and a desire to educate others about the Holocaust. They often spoke to their children, grandchildren and student groups about their lives during those traumatic times. They participated in Stephen Spielberg’s Survivors of the Shoah Visual History Foundation by recording their individual stories. (DVDs of their testimonies will be available at the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library.) With this in mind, Larry Schwartz was immediately drawn to the Butterfly Project when he learned about it from Judy August, a Butterfly Project volunteer. He felt that the story and legacy of his parents, now deceased, would be greatly honored by a memorial for the children lost in the Holocaust. The dedication of The Margaret and Lou Schwartz Butterfly Garden, however, is only one aspect of The Butterfly Project. The educational workshops will continue, and with the ongoing participation of volunteers and Location: The Margaret and Lou Schwartz Butterfly Garden Join us at the entrance to the Blumenthal Education Building next to the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library for the unveiling and dedication of the Children’s Holocaust Memorial Sculpture that honors the 1.5 million children who perished. The educational programs are free, however space is limited. The ceremony will be followed by two educational programs. Tickets for these educational programs are available at the Levine JCC Customer Service Desk (704-366-5007). Who Will Tell Their Story: Passing on the Legacy Sunday, May 1, 2:30-4 PM Location: Gorelick Hall Appropriate for age 10+ This premiere performance was written by our local teens highlighting the stories of Holocaust survivors, Suly Chenkin and Irving Bienstock. Voices of the Children of the Holocaust Sunday, May 1, 2:30-4 PM Location: Sam Lerner Center A lecture by Dr. Racelle Weiman, Director of The Center for Holocaust and Humanity Education, Temple University Exhibit of artifacts related to Anne Frank and Children of the Holocaust Sunday, May 1, 9 AM-4:30 PM Location: Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center There will be age-appropriate activities for 5-10 year olds (1:15-4 PM in Levinson Family Place) and babysitting available, both by reservation (704-366-5007). For more information about the project and related events, please visit The Butterfly Project at www.charlottejcc.org. donors, they will continue in perpetuity. Further, it is hoped that area schools will designate The Garden as a field trip destination for Charlotte’s youth to learn about the Holocaust and to come Also inside... Yom HaZikaron, Yom Ha’Atzmaut Community Celebration, see page 15 Temple Beth El Mitzvah Day, see page 10 drumSTRONG, Drum to Beat Cancer, see page 26 to a deeper understanding of the consequences of racism and intolerance. The Shalom Park memorial to the children lost in the Holocaust and the Margaret and Lou Schwartz Butterfly Garden will become a lasting piece of the fabric of this community’s rich history. Your attendance at this year’s Yom Ha’Shoah Community Observance is welcome (please see details in sidebar). And so too, is your participation in the ongoing life of Charlotte’s Butterfly Project. As a volunteer or a contributor, you can make a difference. Please visit www.charlottejcc.org for more details. Y 5007 Providence Road, Suite #112 Charlotte, NC 28226 Change Service Requested PRSRT STD U.S. POSTAGE PAID PERMIT # 1208 CHARLOTTE, NC The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 2 JEWISH FEDERATION NEWS Israeli Firefighters Visit Charlotte Fire Pomegranate Society Inaugural Event Department The Jewish Federation Boat. The group also “Chocolate and Champagne” Pomegranate Pin Program of Greater Charlotte’s toured u p t o w n was the theme for the because it is one of the seven Partnership 2000 (P2K) Charlotte, experienced P o m e g r a n a t e S o c i e t y ’s fruits mentioned in the Bible program brought Israeli the NASCAR Hall of Inaugural Event held on and is said to have 613 seeds, firefighters from the Fame, and enjoyed the Thursday, March 24 at the representing the number of Hadera-Eiron region to opportunity to stand on Shain Gallery. Thirty three mitzvot referred to in the Torah. Charlotte for three days. In the court and welcome women rose to the challenge to The Pomegranate Pin accompartnership with the our Charlotte Bobcats become the first members of modates nine rubies inserted in Charlotte Fire Department, at Time Warner Cable Charlotte’s newly formed the center which represent the we welcomed our friends Arena. We thank Jenny Pomegranate Society by mak- seeds for each year of commitElisha Hosman, delegation and Rich Rosenthal, ing a new, increased or renewed ment. leader; Ofer Yitzhak, Alison and Mark gift of $1800 or more to the Alison Lerner, co-chair of the Deputy Chief of the Lerner, Roz and Ivan Women’s Annual Campaign. Lion of Judah campaign, preHadera Fire Department; Deputy Chief Rob Kinniburgh (center) of the Charlotte Cooper, and Jan Aniel sented the first pins to the Rami Halfon, Chief of Fire Department and Battalion Chief Scott Zander for hosting our guests co-chairs, who in turn preTraining and Operations (left) talk about fire equipment with Israeli firefighters while they were in sented the pins to the other for the Hadera Fire Rami Halfan, Oz Shoval, Maayan Shpirer, and Ofer Charlotte. For both our new members. Department; Oz Shuval, Yitzak during a visit to the CFD Training Academy on firefighter group and Then Jill Balick introHadera firefighter for Tuesday morning. David T. Foster III/The Charlotte for the Charlotte comduced guest speaker, Emily eleven years; and Maayan Observer. munity, this visit was Zimmern who shared her Shpirer, Hadera firefighter incredibly powerful personal story with the for four years and one of and will leave lasting group. Zimmern has a long the first female firefighters in all lations, reviewing heavy rescue memories in both cities. history with the Federation apparatus and rope-based rescue of Israel. P2K is about creating strong, serving as its President While in Charlotte, the group situations. They visited fire pro- meaningful, and ongoing relafrom 1990–1992 and as covisited the training facility, expe- grams unique to urban environ- tionships between Israelis and Left to right: Jill Balick, Shelly Fasciana, chair of the Federation’s riencing high angle rescue simu- ments, many also unique to Jews in the Diaspora. Charlotte Elaine Moody, Stephanie Brodsky, Lisa National Young Leadership Charlotte. Some of the highlights is proud to call Hadera-Eiron our Cohen Shapiro Women’s Cabinet from included: Urban Search and sister city of over eleven years. 1993-94. Rescue, the deployment ware- For more information, please The Pomegranate Society coDuring the inaugural event, house, the airport fire station, contact Sarah Ferrin at the co-chair Shelly Fasciana, wel- chairs are researching commuHazmat, Carolinas Medical Jewish Federation of Greater comed Charlotte’s first nity service projects to add Center’s MED 1 mobile hospital Charlotte. Y Pomegranates on behalf of her deeper meaning to the memberunit and facility, and the Fire co-chairs Jill Balick and Elaine ship. The projects will be rolled Moody, by saying, “Belonging out in the fall and will be co“TIP”s on to the Pomegranate Society sponsored by the Federation’s Professional connects you to a unique group Wo m e n ’s Advocating for of Jewish women who, like you, Network, many of whose memMaayan Shpirer (left), a firefighter in Israel are committed to bringing bers are Pomegranates. the Hadera urban area of Israel rappels For more information about Jewish values to life through down the side of the Drill Tower at the Alan Elsner of The the Pomegranate Society tzedakah.” Charlotte Fire Department Training please contact Sue Littauer, The Pomegranate Society Israel Project Academy, as Firefighters Rich Bellina was founded by two women of Development Director at the (center)and Billy Mitchell of Rescue 10 the Allentown, PA Jewish Jewish Federation at sue.litSponsored by the JCRC monitor while on a visit the facility on Federation in 1981 as a way to tauer@jewishcharlotte.org. Y Tuesday morning. David T. Foster Wed. June 1 at 7 PM raise the level of giving among III/The Charlotte Observer. women. Today more than 125 Gorelick Hall Federations in thirty- five states For more information throughout the country particiHABBAT ANDLE contact sarah.ferrin@ pate in the Pomegranate Pin jewishcharlotte.org Program. IGHTING FOR AY The pomegranate was select704-944-6751 ed as the symbol for the Friday, May 6, 7:54 PM S C M L 2011 Friday, May 13, 8:00 PM Friday, May 20, 8:05 PM Friday,May 27, 8:10 PM The Charlotte Jewish News 5007 Providence Road, Suite 112 Charlotte, NC 28226 Phone CONTENTS Federation News......................................pp. 2-6 Synagogues and Congregation.............pp. 6-12 Jewish Family Services......................pp. 12, 14 Levine-Sklut Judaic Library.............pp. 14, 16 Women’s Page.............................................p. 16 Jewish Community Center................pp. 18, 19 Mazel Tov ....................................................p. 20 Youth ...................................................pp. 20, 21 Community News................................pp. 21-23 Dining Out ..........................................pp. 23, 24 Schools.................................................pp. 26, 27 (voice mail after office hours) Office 704-944-6765 FAX 704-365-4507 email: amontoni@shalomcharlotte.org An Affiliate of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte Amy Krakovitz - Editor Advertising Sales Reps: Jodi Valenstein, 704-609-0950, Rita Mond, 704-366-6632, Scott Moskowitz, 704-906-2474 CJN Editorial Board Chair - Bob Davis Members: Bob Abel, Evelyn Berger, Jeff Epstein, Ann Langman, Linda Levy The CJN does not assume responsibility for the quality or kasruth of any product or service advertised. 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Sponsored by the Jewish Federation’s Community Relations Council, the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and the German Consulate General Atlanta. WEDNESDAY, MAY 11 Center City Jewish Professionals (formerly Uptowners: Nosh and Network) 11:45 AM–1 PM, The Light Factory Guest Speaker: Professor John Kunich Topic: Cubs Fans’ Leadership Secrets: Learning to Win from a “Cursed” Team’s Errors Center City Jewish Professionals is the Federation’s outreach initiative for the Charlotte business and professional community. Register online at www.jewishcharlotte.org by May 6 if purchasing lunch. The event is free if no lunch is purchased. SUNDAY, MAY 8 Yom Hazikaron Memorial Ceremony 4 PM, Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts TUESDAY, MAY 10 Yom Ha’atzmaut Celebration (Israel Independence Day) 6 PM: Israeli Dinner and Exhibits/7 PM: Special Musical Performance by Shorashim, Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts Help Federation Meet The Levine Challenge As one of America’s most trusted names in charitable giving, the Jewish Federation Annual Campaign is an incredibly responsive grassroots effort dedicated to strengthening and supporting our Jewish community from the ground up. Yet even during these difficult economic times, when our highest priority is helping people in financial crisis feed their families, pay their rent and get back on their feet, the Jewish Federation continues to ensure that the programs and institutions that enrich Jewish life here at home, in Israel and overseas, remain vibrant and strong. The Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte has been asking donors throughout the 2011 Annual Campaign the same question … “What does being Jewish feel like?” The answers have been as varied as kiddush and knishes, Jewish geography, Shabbat/holiday dinners, trips to Israel, tikkun olam and philanthropy. Whatever being Jewish means to you, chances are the Annual Campaign makes much of what you care about happen. The Leon Levine Foundation has pledged an additional $50,000 when the Federation reaches its campaign goal. Currently the campaign is at $2,167,216 toward the $2,950,000 goal. The Federation CAMPAIGN 2011 AT A GLANCE Campaign Total to Date..................$2,167,216 Number of Contributions Received ..................................................1365 Meeting/JCRC Speaker 7 PM, Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts at Shalom Park During the Annual Meeting, the 2011-2012 slate of officers and Board of Trustees will be presented, and an election will be held. Anyone contributing at needs the support of the entire community to raise the much needed dollars to provide new and innovative programming to benefit our beneficiaries. If you not had the opportunity to make your pledge, please pledge online at www.jewish charlotte.org, call the campaign hotline, 704-944-6895, or call the Federation office at 704-9446757. The mission of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte is to raise and distribute funds to support and enrich the lives of Jewish locally, nationally, in Israel and worldwide. Through education and community building, the Federations’ mission ensures that Jewish values, goals, traditions and connections are preserved for current and future generations. Y least $36 to the Annual Campaign is considered a voting member. For more information about all of Federation’s initiatives, please contact the Federation office at 704.944.6757 or info@jewishcharlotte.org. YESTERDAY, TODAY, AND TOMORROW Germany and the Jewish People With Special Guests: Opher Aviran Consul General for Israel to the Southeastern United States Lutz Hermann Görgens Consul General for the Federal Republic of Germany to the Southeastern United States Jen Algire WĂƌƟĐŝƉĂŶƚŝŶĂƚƌŝƉƚŽ:ĞǁŝƐŚ'ĞƌŵĂŶLJ sponsored by the Federal Republic of Germany Our panel will be speaking on Jewish life in Germany today and ŝƚƐĞǀŽůƵƟŽŶ͕ĂƐǁĞůůĂƐƚŚĞĞǀĞƌͲƐƚƌĞŶŐƚŚĞŶŝŶŐƌĞůĂƟŽŶƐŚŝƉ between Israel and Germany Thursday, May 5, 2011 Levine-Sklut Judaic Library 7:00 PM ^ƉŽŶƐŽƌĞĚďLJƚŚĞ:ĞǁŝƐŚ&ĞĚĞƌĂƟŽŶŽĨ'ƌĞĂƚĞƌŚĂƌůŽƩĞ͛Ɛ ŽŵŵƵŶŝƚLJZĞůĂƟŽŶƐŽƵŶĐŝů͕ƚŚĞ>ĞǀŝŶĞͲ^ŬůƵƚ:ƵĚĂŝĐ>ŝďƌĂƌLJ͕ ŽŶƐƵůĂƚĞ'ĞŶĞƌĂůŽĨ/ƐƌĂĞůƚŽƚŚĞ^ŽƵƚŚĞĂƐƚĂŶĚ ƚŚĞ'ĞƌŵĂŶŽŶƐƵůĂƚĞ'ĞŶĞƌĂůƚůĂŶƚĂ The Levine Challenge: The Leon Levine Foudnation has pledged an additional $50,000 when we reach our $2,950,00 campaign goal. Please consider a new or increased gift today. Percentage of Campaign Complete ................................................73.5% as of April 12, 2011 Luck doesn’t buy & sell homes... Experience does! Buying... Selling... Relocating... Connecting people to the Jewish Community Since 1972 Local, Global, Eternal Ladies Night Out at Apricot Lane In an ongoing effort to build community among Jews living in and around the Lake Norman area, the Jewish Federation invited women to a “Ladies Night Out” at Apricot Lane in Birkdale Village. Rhonda Nicholson and Sally Phillips were chosen to model special outfits chosen especially for them. Mimi Frank and Debbie Wood were the lucky winners of raffle prizes and everyone enjoyed shopping and getting to know each other over a glass of wine. Many thanks go to Leslie Benjamini and Bruce Hackel, owners of Apricot Lane, for opening up their store for this special event. 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DĞŵďĞƌƐŽĨƚŚĞ ŚĂƌůŽƩĞĐŽŵŵƵŶŝƚLJ share their thoughts ĂŶĚĨĞĞůŝŶŐƐ͘ The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 5 Jewish Federation Annual Meeting Set for May 16 Featuring Dr. Jonathan Adelman The Annual Meeting of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte will take place on Monday, May 16 at 7 PM in the Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts at Shalom Park. During the Annual Meeting, the 2011-2012 slate of officers and Board of Trustees will be presented, and an election will be held. Anyone contributing at least $36 to the Annual Campaign is considered a voting member. Following the meeting, please join JCRC guest speaker Dr. Jonathan Adelman. Dr. Adelman is a full professor at the Josef Korbel School of International Studies at the University of Denver. His recent book from Routledge in London, The Rise of Israel: A History of a Revolutionary State, fills a glaring gap in the Slate of Officers and Trustees as Nominated by the Board Development Committee of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte Nominated as Officers for 2011-2012 President - Sam Bernstein Vice-President - Alan Kronovet Vice-President - Linda Seigel Vice-President - Brad Winer Treasurer - Jen Algire Secretary - David S. Miller Past President - Todd Gorelick Board Members — Term Ending 2012 Josh Greenwald, Jonathan Howard, Jenny Stern, Mark Weintraub* Board Members — Term Ending 2013 Amy Augustine, Lisa Blau, Holly Levinson. Rich Osborne Board Members — Term Ending 2014 Steve Cohen*, Pam Levy*, Andy Nicholson*, Stacey Slomka* *nominees Dr. Jonathan Adelman study of Zionism and the Jewish state. Having taught at Hebrew University and the University of Haifa, he was invited this past summer for talks at both the Israeli Foreign Ministry in Jerusalem and the Israeli Embassy in Washington. Professor Adelman has extensive international experience. He has been an Honorary Professor at both Peking University and People’s University in Beijing and visited China 17 times. He taught at the Diplomatic Academy in Moscow, Central European University in Budapest and People’s University in Beijing. He founded and ran for four years both the China Center and the Israel Center at the University of Denver. We hope to see you on May 16. For more information, please call the Federation office at 704-944-6757. Y Local, Global, Eternal Constituent Agency Designees Levine Jewish Community Center Representative: Larry Schwartz Jewish Family Services Representative: Harry Sparks Foundation of Shalom Park Representative: Harry Lerner Piedmont Plastic Surgery and Dermatology proudly announces and welcomes the newest addition to our practice, Board Development Committee Todd Gorelick, Chair Jeffrey Bierer, David Epstein, Mark Lerner, Scott Menaker, Wendy Petricoff and Stacey Slomka Laura B. Rosenzweig, M.D. Tributes to the 2011 Annual Campaign The Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte thanks and acknowledges the following tributes which have been made to the 2011 Annual Campaign from January 11–March 31. In honor of Tair Giudice By Lake Norman Chavurah In honor of Sue Littauer and Sue Worrel By Cindy McLeod In honor of Rich Osborne’s birthday By Sue and Mike Littauer In memory of Dan Dubin By Jonathan Freeman If you would like to make a Tribute to the Jewish Federation, please contact the Federation office at 704-944-6761. Y %RDUG&HUWLÀHG'HUPDWRORJLVW Specializing in MOHS Surgery OUR PHYSICIANS Plastic Surgery Gregory A. Mantooth, M.D. Miguel Yanez, M.D. Dermatology Kristen B. Higgins, M.D. Patrick S. J. McElgunn, M.D. Tonya S. McLeod, M.D., M.P.H. Laura B. Rosenzweig, M.D. www.ppsd.com 5815 Blakeney Park Dr. Charlotte, NC 28277 (at the corner of Rae Road & Ardrey Kell Road) ph: (704) 542-2220 The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 6 From Memory to Zikaron By Mor Greene, Community Shlicha Feeling boxed Feeling boxed x in in by by tax and and acc counting accounting w orries? worries? We do not have Unknown Soldiers by Yehuda Amichai We do not have Unknown Soldiers. 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Yom Hazikaron is a day in Israel dedicated to the memory of family and friends who lost their lives defending their homeland. “Zakhor” (remember) appears multiple times in the Hebrew Bible, but the Israelite nation is also instructed there not to forget. 55200 200 Park Park R Road oad S Suite uite 1122 22 C Charlotte. harlotte. NC NC 228209 8209 Ph. Fx.. 888.286.0906 Ph. 704.527.2725 704.527.2725 Fx 888.286.0906 scott@ssboyarcpa.com www.sboyarcpa.com www.sboyarcpa.com scott@sboyarcpa.com With the reality in Israel of 18 year olds joining the army to defend the state of Israel, everybody knows how it feels to lose a loved one during the wars of Israel. Shahar, my neighbor, was my first soldier. I was almost 12 when Shahar was killed by enemy fire during a battle in south of Lebanon. He was only 21. Eight and a half years ago I became part of the “grieving families” community in Israel. My father’s brother served in the Israeli navy in the “flotilla unit.” His units used to train for battle in what was later discovered to be a polluted stream. As a result, he was diagnosed with cancer. He left behind a wife and two children. As the years past other names were added to my list. I realized that this is the reality in my beloved country. This is the way we are fighting our right as the Jewish people to live in the Jewish state. On May 10 we will be celebrating Israel’s 63rd Independence Day, only two days after Israel’s Memorial Day. It is difficult to explain to others why the happiest day of the nation follows the saddest day of the year. The thing is that Israel is a country where happiness comes with tears. This year in Charlotte we started a special project connecting Hebrew High 9th graders and Yad Labanim in Hadera, our sister city in Israel. Yad Labanim is a museum in memory of the local residents who have fallen in Israel’s wars. During the session the students and their families were connected to families in Hadera that have lost loved ones during the wars of Israel. The connection was made in order to forge a personal connection between the youth in Charlotte and Israel’s Memorial Day. Exposure to this harsh reality will be the bridge to bring Israel to the youth in the community. The teenagers will take a significant part in the Yom Hazikaron ceremony this year, talking about their experience and about their soldiers. Please come on May 8 to Israel’s Memorial Day Ceremony to show your support and join us for the celebration of Israel’s Independence Day on May 10. Y (See full page ad on page 15) & SYNAGOGUES CONGREGATIONS Make Your Own Edible Fruit Arrangements Another Jewish Women’s Circle event at Chabad of Ballantyne is coming up. This time, in preparation for the holiday of Shavuot. One of the special customs of Shavuot is to decorate the synagogue with an abundance of flowers to commemorate the flowers that made Mount Sinai a beautiful place to receive the Torah. Learn how to make your own gorgeous flower shaped fruit arrangements, enjoy a buffet of delicious dairy sweets, discuss how the Torah’s teachings shapes our lives, and spend an enjoyable evening out with other Jewish Providing PERSONAL FINANCIAL PLANNING For more than 70 years Waddell & Reed, Inc. women. Tuesday, May 17 7:30 PM, 11408 Snapfinger Dr.; cost: $15 per person. For more info or to RSVP contact Leah Levin at Leah@ JewishBallantyne.com or 704246-8881 or visit our website www.JewishBallantyne.com. The Jewish Women’s Circle is a night out just for you. Relax, socialize and meet new friends while exploring the practical and mystical aspects of our heritage. Through innovative workshops and creative activities, we will explore contemporary Jewish issues, and discuss subjects related Member SIPC to our tradition. Come together in this warm and inviting setting to share and celebrate our Jewish experience. Y Over 40 Children Baked Matzah in Ballantyne Jennifer Sperry, CFP(R) Financial Advisor 5950 Fairview Rd. Suite 200 Charlotte, NC 28210 (704) 553-7220 x 127 jsperry@wradvisors.com 8985 (06/09) Grinding, mixing, rolling, and baking - this is what all the bakers were doing at Chabad of Ballantyne. What were they so busy with? Making matzah at the Model Matzah Bakery of course. Not just any matzah, each child made their own matzah from scratch, starting from separating the wheat kernels, grinding them, mixing the flour and the water and rolling out the dough. To add to the excitement they traveled back in time to experience the story of Pesach and the reasons that we eat matzah. So much fun! For information on upcoming events for children or our Hebrew School in Ballantyne, please visit our website www.JewishBallantyne.com. The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 7 Havurat Tikvah Teens: Proud to be “MIA” Most parents might be concerned to hear teens describing themselves as “MIA.” At Havurat Tikvah, “MIA” has an entirely different and happy connotation. Organized for and run by our teens, “Mitzvahs In Action” is rapidly developing a program of interesting activities and projects to serve the community while providing a fun opportunity for social interaction. “MIA” teens were present at this year’s Purim Carnival, manning a booth and volunteering to enhance the festivities for families gathered to celebrate the holiday. Another recent activity found members of the group brightening the day for Carriage Club residents who were lucky enough to sample some of their home-baked challah. What’s on the horizon? Look for a screenprinting project to create the group’s signature t-shirt. To learn more about “MIA,” or any of the activities listed below, look to the end of this article for all our contact information. This month’s Community Shabbat service will begin at 10 AM on May 21. We’ll gather to take a break from the hectic routine of the week, to worship together, and to be part of the Havurah “family.” As always, services will be followed by a potluck lunch and an opportunity to relax with friends and new acquaintances over a kosher/ pareve meal. We’ve also recently expanded our religious programming to include a 2nd Wednesday monthly Minyan. The Minyan for this month will be held on May 11 at 7:30 and will be followed by coffee and a little nosh. In addition to services, we are always happy to invite participation in ongoing mitzvah activities: The Dilworth Soup Kitchen continues to provide nourishing meals and a warm welcome to those in need. Visit the kitchen on Facebook: www.facebook.com/ group.php?gid=77134194660 for more information about this vibrant community resource. And helping hands are welcome at “Project Linus” where Havurah members and friends meet to produce hand-made “security-blankets” for children who are seriously ill, traumatized, or otherwise in need. We welcome all willing hands; no experience is necessary and there’s a job for everyone. Havurat Tikvah is an affiliate of the Jewish Reconstructionist Federation, providing a comfortable, family atmosphere where all Jews can feel welcome. Our Sunday School, with its exciting curriculum and opportunities for B’nai Mitzvah preparation, is Grand Lag B’omer Fun Day on Sunday May 22 at Col. Francis Beatty Park in Charlotte Lag B’omer is a day of bon fires and outdoor fun in Israel as people throughout the country celebrate the life of Rabbi Akiva’s students and his prime disciple, Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai. Lag B’omer is the day that breaks the period of mourning between Passover and Shavuot and is a day reserved for fun, games and barbeque. Here in Charlotte there will be the recreation of the incredible experience that Israelis are used to, with a grand Lag B’omer festival and fun day for children and adults on Sunday, May 22. There will be lively Jewish/ Israeli music in the tradition of Lag B’omer followed by an extensive and delicious Kosher barbeque, accompanied by a variety of salads and cold drinks. The fun will include party inflatables and plenty of fun and games for children of all ages. In addition, the park provides lots of outdoor opportunities which will add to the fun of the day. The event is being co-sponsored by Lubavitch of North Carolina and Chabad of Ballantyne. It is open to the entire Jewish community will be held at Col. Francis Beatty Park, located at 4330 Weddington Rd., Matthews, NC 28105.. The festivities will begin at 5 PM. The food, fun, and entertainment will be outdoors, therefore participants are encouraged to bring blankets or beach chairs. Cost for the event is $12 per person or $45 for a family of four and up. For reservations and more information please contact either Brenda at Lubavitch of North Carolina, 704-366-3984 or Brenda@Chabadnc.org or Leah Levin at Chabad of Ballantyne, 704-246-8881 or Leah@Jewish Ballantyne.com. Y WORK WITH A LEADER IN CHARLOTTE REAL ESTATE open to Havurat Tikvah member families. We invite you to visit, get to know us, and become part of our growing congregation of nearly 60 households. For an updated calendar or to find out more about Havurat Tikvah, specific event locations, worship services, Sunday School program, and community activities - please visit our website at www.havurattikvah.org or contact new member chair, Brian Feinglass, at bcfein1@gmail.com or at 1-877-203-5848. Y EXECUTIVE REALTY 704-926-2544 office 704-975-8500 cell www.LepowRealtors.com CELEBRATING OUR 128th 500 Providence Road Telephone 704-332-7133 ANNIVERSARY Maria Sharapova and her Formula 1 Steel & Ceramic Chronograph with Diamonds The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 9 Vav Class Washington DC Trip The Temple Israel Religious School Vav Class (6th graders) are getting ready for their year-end trip to Washington DC. The students have been studying the history of the Jewish people with special emphasis on life in the Diaspora. They learned about the persecution of Jews and studied the Holocaust in great detail. The Washington trip over Memorial Day weekend will give the students and parents a chance to visit the Holocaust museum with their classmates and a parent. They will also have the opportunity to see Arlington National Cemetery where many of the American liberators of the concentration camps have been laid to rest. Visiting the many memorials and also the Marine Corps Museum will round out this exciting two day trip. The Vav class is especially thankful to the Men’s Club who generously helps to finance the trip. Save the Date for Temple Israel’s Annual Congregational Meeting Sunday, May 22 at 10 AM Come vote on the 2011 slate of officers and trustees Shavu’ot Services Erev Shavuot, Tuesday, June 7, 6:15 PM Shavuot, Wednesday, June 8 (Day 1), 9:30 AM and 7:30 PM Shavuot, Thursday, June 9 (Day 2) 9:30 AM, Yizkor, 11 AM (approx.) Minyan, 7:30 PM Temple Israel celebrates Shavu’ot Z’man Matan Torateinu, the moment in time during which the People of Israel received the Torah at Mount Sinai. The holiday begins Tuesday evening June 7. Temple Israel Torah Fest That evening Temple Israel will Sunday, May 22 participate in the Confirmation of Noon-3 PM the 5771 Confirmation Class. The service will begin at 6:15 PM. Congratulations to: Jeremy Abel, Eliana Berger, Ali Bolger, Brooke Davies, Jeremy Denenberg, Elise Eisner, Sara Hader, Jordyn Jaffe, Jill Levinson, Jacob Meyer, Sarah Rosenthal, Hayley Spitz, Daniel Willenzik The Confirmation Service will be followed by a celebratory dinner. Shavu’ot Showdown Later that evening, all Mechina Program students and parents assemble packages in March 2011 for the annual Yizkor Candle mailing. present will participate in the high energy Shavu’ot Temple Israel Social Club We invite couples and singles, affiliated with Charlotte area synagogues, to join our social group. Meet friendly people and enjoy our interesting programs and trips. Call Janine Rosner at 704-3665631 for more information. Join us for Social Club Shabbat on June 11. We will be attending “Hairspray” at CPCC Summer Theatre on July 17. Showdown. Part 3 promises to be as exciting and rewarding as previous editions have been. Prizes will be awarded to the winning teams. 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One review noted, “Mr. Jacobson stages a Mad Seder that brings Carroll’s Mad Tea party to mind.” Temple Israel’s May 23 meeting about The Finkler Question will feature, English professor Jay Jacoby, who travels from Asheville to lead a book discus- Temple Israel book club meetings are open to all members of the community, including “dropins” and those who haven’t read the book. For additional information contact Linda Levy at 704/366-6362/levyollie @aol.com.Y Drs. Tricia Rodney & Scott Menaker iiÀ>Ê`iÌ>ÊV>ÀiÊvÀÊ>Ê>}iÃÊUÊ*iÀÃ>âi`ÊÌÀi>ÌiÌÊUÊÛÃ>}Ê"ÀÌ `ÌVÃÊ iÀÌwi` >À}]ÊV«>ÃÃ>Ìi]Ê>`ÊvÀi`ÞÊ`VÌÀÃÊ>`ÊÃÌ>vvÊUÊ , ÊÃ}iÛÃÌÊVÀÜÃÊ iÀÌwi` /Ì ÊVÀi`Êw}ÃÊUÊÇ\ääÊÊ>««ÌiÌÃÊiÛiÀÞÊ`>ÞÊUÊ ÕÃÌÊw>V}Ê«Ìà SmileCharlotte.com : Drs. Menaker & Rodney, DDS 2711 Randolph Rd., Suite 205 : 704.377.2503 “I changed, you can too!” sion to the acclaim of book club participants. 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He has taught every generation from developing the Judaic cur- For more information about any of these upcoming events, please contact the Temple Israel office at 704-362-2796 or visit our website at www.templeisraelnc.com.Y riculum that excite our youngest students at CJP to engaging our teens in Sheva class and confirmation to intellectually challenging our SPICE members. Rabbi Streiffer’s sermons inspired us. His classes enlightened us. His warmth made our community more sacred. Join us to show our gratitude to him and Shoshi, Rami, Noam and Yair for all that they’ve given. To RSVP for the dinner ($10/adult, $8/child), please www.beth-el.com or 704-7493070. Y Mike Littauer Principal 704-970-3858 1115 East Morehead St. Suite 208 Charlotte, NC 28204 mike@littauerinsurance.com Auto - Home - Business - Life The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 10 Temple Or Olam’s Member Spotlight: Ruth Kingberg Private Suite FOR RENT Private suite for rent in townhome in centrally located neighborhood. Full bath, linen closet, phone jack, cable hookup, free WIFI, washer & dryer available, $450 per month including electric, gas and water. No pets, no smoking, no treif (though kitchen is not kosher). References, background check, and credit check required. Interested parties should call 704-756-9505. We often hear about what a congregation is doing or how they are celebrating, but it is, after all, the people who make the congregation what it is. To this end, we spend our column inches this month profiling the beloved matriarch of our temple, Ruth Kingberg. Ruth is 86 years old. She narrowly escaped the Holocaust by leaving Germany on one of the last Kindertransport trains, a program which helped approximately 10,000 children to leave Germany for the United Kingdom in the months just prior to the outbreak of WWII. Ruth lived in England during the war and eventually made it to America. She has lived in North Carolina for the past 28 years. Ruth is one of the founders of Temple Or Olam. She is the eldest member of our congregation, our matriarch, and for many years she has lovingly taken on the joyful Josh Rubin’s Plumbing, LLC LICENSED - BONDED - INSURED COMMERCIAL & RESIDENTIAL Layouts for slabs - Rough-in and Finish Water Heater Repairs and Replacement Kitchen/Bath Remodeling Toilets, Tubs, Faucets, Sink, and Disposal Repairs/Replacement Ruth Kingberg (photo by Angela Hodges) task of welcoming new members into our congregation. This tiny little woman not only welcomes new members, but takes their hands afterward and leads them in a dance of celebration. On Friday nights, Ruth takes the congregation’s children to light the Shabbat candles and not only leads them in prayer but offers each child a blessing and a hug. She is, in fact, so beloved that college students have been known to rush up to the candles in order to get their own hug and their own blessing. At Temple Or Olam, we know that the children who are now nine, ten, and eleven years old will grow up with the memory of being blessed at every Shabbat service by Ruth Kingberg. We can only hope that for these children, the tradition of being blessed on Shabbat will carry on and manifest itself in beautiful ways in their own Jewish lives. It is Ruth Kingberg who covered our leyning table with blue velvet and gold trim, the leyning table that her 86 year old husband - also a Holocaust survivor—built for the congregation. It’s Ruth who makes sure that every oneg is a healthy oneg, that there are always wholesome desserts on the table and gluten-free latkes at Hanukkah. It’s Ruth who reminds us to lift weights like she does every morning, and who brings fruits and vegetables from the Kingberg’s own garden to share with congregants. It is Ruth who calls to thank members who organize the oneg, and help out before and after services with set-up and clean-up. We feel so very blessed to have Ruth in our lives, but we don’t want to be selfish with her or the many gifts that she gives to our congregation, so we include here one of her healthy recipes. As Ruth always says, “Shake it easy!” For Healthy Eating — a Recipe by Ruth — Zucchini Squash You will need a 10” Pyrex pie plate or equal (not metal) 4 med. size squash cut to 1”, then cut crosswise to 1/8” 1 med. sized apple peeled and sliced thin 1/2 sweet onion, cut small 2 T. of olive oil 1 t. of Mrs. Dash (or equal) 1 T. organic ketchup 1 stalk of celery, peeled and cut to ½” in length Preheat oven to 330 degrees. Sautee onions in oven for 8 min. with oil. Remove from oven and put all veggies into the plate and toss with spatula till everything is combined. Bake for 30 min. then toss again (take care not to get burned). Cover it tightly with aluminum foil and bake for 25-30 min. till done. Temple Or Olam is an independent, egalitarian congregation that serves Cabarrus county and parts of Mecklenburg county (including University City, Davidson, and Huntersville). For information on our services, please visit our website, www.orolam.org and subscribe to our mailing list. You can also email us at info@or-olam.org, or call 704720-7577.Y ~ 10 YEARS EXPERIENCE ~ NC State Lic. #29197 SC State Lic. #M110508 704-517-4918 Call on People You Know and Trust Carolinas Wealth Management What do you want in an adviser? Someone to LISTEN to you. We believe that successful relationships begin with listening and understanding your needs. Jeffrey S. 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However, while TBE congregants and other volunteers work to make a difference in the lives of others, the volunteers themselves walk away from their experiences feeling renewed and changed forever. This year, Mitzvah Day participants will have the opportunity to select from 29 projects for which they can volunteer. In addition, there are a variety of ways to contribute towards collections projects, too. Since the downturn in the economy, many of Charlotte’s non-profits and other similar institutions have lost revenue, keeping them from completing muchneeded projects and having to cut back on services and programming for the most vulnerable in our community. This is the time to help. Mitzvah Day volunteers will be sprucing up the landscaping around International House, the Battered Women’s Shelter, Temple Beth El, the Hebrew Cemetery, and at the homes of senior citizens. Others will be hosting carnivals and parties at Alexander Youth Center, Thompson Child and Family Focus, and Florence Crittenton Services. Even more, there are projects to help Israel, Sterling Elementary School, Charlotte Community Health Clinic, and Bright Blessings … just to name a few. For those who want to donate blood, Community Blood Center of the Carolinas will have its blood mobile available. Also, for anyone wanting to clean house and dispose of items in an easy way, there will be collections tables to recycle used electronics and also to donate used books for Habitat for Humanity and pet supplies for Mecklenburg County Animal Care and Control. Open to everyone. Leave your mark on the community on Sunday, May 15. Register for Mitzvah Day online this year at the TBE website, and be a part of this wonderful tradition. Y OPEN HOUSE M E M B E R SH I P rewards Visit World Famous European Cities & Experience Jewish Heritage And Culture. 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Sterling Flatware Sets S average from ..... ....................$200 ............... $200 – $1,000 Hollowware Itemss average .... $52 – $500 Tea e Sets average ................ Tea . $500 – $5,000 Please, no silver silverplate rplate items unless very uniq que or unusual. unique Let us turn turrn your hidden treasurees into cash! treasures PERRY’ PER RRY’S FFine, inee, A Antique ntique u & Estate Essttaate JJewelry ewelry SouthPark, 4400 Sharon Road Charlo Charlotte, otte, NC 28211 s: Mon-Sat 10:00-6:00 Buying Hours Hours: www.perrysjewelry.com www.perrysjewelry.com 704.364.1391 704.364.13 391 800.339.0734 The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 12 Temple Beth Temple Emanuel Hosts Third Annual Wisdom of Solomon Award Dinner on June 2 El Anshei Temple Emanuel will be honoring than 90 homes have been renovated – Mitzvah Hope4Gaston with keynote speaker, Rev. replacing roofs, floors, walls and more. In Dickie Spargo, on Thursday, June 2, at addition, over 30,000 people have been pro2011 Rodi Restaurant at The Loft @245 West vided food, clothing and home items at free From generation to generation we carry on with the richness of tradition and the promise of tomorrow. The community is cordially invited to join Temple Beth El for Congregational Shabbat morning worship on May 15 at 11 AM, as the members of the 2011 Anshei Mitzvah class are called to the Torah. This dedicated group will lead the congregation in a joyous celebration of Shabbat culminating two years of intense study. The entire congregation is proud of their accomplishments and wishes a hearty Mazal Tov to the following participants: Scott Alpert, Jeffrey Meyers, Lisa Lorence Ostrow, Barbara Urban. John David Kling, a member of the class, will be called to Torah at a later date due to a calendar conflict. There will be a delicious congregational brunch prior to the service at 10 AM in the David Silverman Social Hall. Everyone is welcome. Adults are $8 and children are $6. Please RSVP at 704-749-3070 or online at www.beth-el.com.rsvp Any questions? Please call the Temple office at 704-366-1948. Y in Gastonia, NC. Started in 2009, Hope4Gaston was developed by Rev. Spargo and the congregants at Bethlehem Baptist Church. Recognizing poverty and need in our midst, they organized more than 5,000 volunteers from churches across Gastonia to fix decaying homes in the city’s Highland Community. Through their efforts, more Flea Markets and Harvest of Hope food bank. Hope4Gaston, as reflected in its motto, “God’s People Helping God’s People” truly embodies the wisdom of King Solomon. Please join us for this special evening. For more information, please visit our website, www.templeemanuelgaston.org or email us Last year’s Wisdom of Solomon award winner, Dr. Frances at templeemanuel@aol.com. Y Skinner, accepts her award as members of Temple Emanuel look on. Beth Shalom Announces 4th Annual Yom Hashoah Program Holocaust Day of Remembrance Event Highlighted by Keynote Speaker Professor Thomas Pegelow Kaplan Beth Shalom of Lake Norman (www.bslkn.org) announced the details of its fourth annual Yom Hashoah Program. This Day of Remembrance honors the 6 million Jews who were lost in the Holocaust. The program will be held on Thursday, May 5 at 6:30 PM at St. Alban’s Episcopal Church at 301 Caldwell Lane in Davidson. The keynote speaker for the program will be Professor Thomas Pegelow Kaplan of Davidson College. Professor Pegelow Kaplan teaches courses on Holocaust and genocide studies, in addition to other subjects at Davidson College. His research focuses on violence, mass media and constructions of selfhood in Nazi and postwar Germany and linguistic histories of comparative genocide in the modern world. He is the author of The Language of Nazi Genocide: Linguistic Violence and the Struggle of Germans of Jewish Ancestry (Cambridge University Press, 2009). In addition to Professor Pegelow Kaplan, other speakers will include Father David Buck of St. Alban’s Episcopal Church and Rabbi Corey Helfand of Beth Shalom of Lake Norman. The Beth Shalom religious school students will also participate in the program. Admission is free and open to the public. Y JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES JFS Donations for March 2011 WISHING A FULL AND SPEEDY RECOVERY TO Dorothy Schulman from Celia Mandel Zachary Shporer from Bette and Abe Bober, Lauren and Philip Stark Violet Winton from Nadine Winton Fox HAPPY PASSOVER TO Mae and Julius Goldman from Helen Josephs and family ARE YOU PREPARED FOR LONG TERM CARE? s What long term care is and why you and your loved ones are at high risk for needing care at home or in a facility. Find Out s Why the limited benefits from Government (Medicare or Medicaid) are not a good choice for your long term care needs. s At what age should you consider buying long term care insurance. You will be surprised to know why and how buying at a younger age is better for you. If you don’t want to put the burden of long term care on your family then contact me for alternative solutions. Milton Goldstein, CLTC Certified Long Term Care Specialist Charlotte, NC: (704) 442-5618 Birmingham, AL: (205) 907-0670 E-mail: miltgold@bellsouth.net Visit my Web Site: www.goldsteinltc.com Wendy and Frank Block from Helen Josephs HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Charlotte Watkins from Celia Mandel Bernard Manton from Rose Weisman Billy Schwartz from Cindy Siesel MAZEL TOV ON William’s Bar Mitzvah to Wendy and Franklin Block from Helen Josephs HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO Meg Goldstein and Matthew Luftglass from Paula Musler IN MEMORY OF Ben Raskin to Sandy Moskowitz from Helen Josephs Dan Dubin to Ellen Dubin from Deborah and Ed Pizer Gerta Rosenberg to Joan Rosenberg and family from Celia Mandel John Pransky to Baila Pransky from Doris Citron, Fred Glickman, Marisa Rosenfeld, Rita Mond, Susan and Ben Aizenman Julius Silverman to Ruth Silverman from Fred Glickman Marvin Levine to Audrey and Mark Mandel and family from Celia Mandel Ralph Geldbart to Madalyn Geldbart and family from Celia Mandel Sol Levine to Eric Levine, Miles Levine, Jonathan Levine, and Paula Musler from Margot Moritz, Shirley and Eddie Goodman, Doris Citron Stan Poliakoff to Beth Volk, Sandra Levine, and Gail Poliakoff from Mary and Simon Wojnowich, Helene and Alvin Levine, Jill and Ed Newman, Ollie and Sam Polk The father of Jason Gluck from Fred Glickman Y Kindness and truth shall meet; justice and peace shall kiss. Truth shall sprout from all the earth, and righteousness look down from heaven. You, Provider, shall surely grant all that is good, and our land bring forth its produce. Justice shall go before You, making a path for Your footsteps. – Psalm 85:11-14 CMC-Mercy Seminar Series You are invited to attend our free wellness seminars in the CMC-Mercy auditorium, located at 2001 Vail Ave. Complimentary meals will be provided. To register, call 704-512-3820. CMC-Mercy also offers Zumba fitness classes, wellness assessments, massage therapy, tai chi and yoga for seniors and beginners. Visit www.cmc-mercy.org/events for details. 6 – 7:30 p.m., Tuesday, May 3 – Successful Aging Sindy McCrystle, ANP-C, MSN, director of CMC-Mercy’s senior services, discusses successful aging, what is normal and what is not. 9:30 a.m. – 10: 45 a.m., Friday, May 13 – Grocery Store Tour Learn how to shop smart with a tour of Trader Joe's Midtown, located at 1133 Metropolitan Ave. Limited to eight participants. 6 – 7:30 p.m., Tuesday, June 7 – Healthy at Any Age Judi Tassone, MD, from Carolinas Back and Sports Specialists and Carolinas Rehabilitation discusses how to prevent functional aging of the mind, body and spirit. Noon – 1:30 p.m., Wednesday, June 8 – Staying Fit Join Harris YMCA’s wellness experience director Kate Wheeler and certified personal trainer and group exercise instructor Sharon Bailey as they teach new and exciting ways to exercise at home. They’ll focus on strength, balance, range of motion and flexibility and discuss the benefits of each. Wear comfortable clothing. Noon – 1:30 p.m., Wednesday, June 29 – Fun Ideas for Senior Fitness Remaining active and social helps keep the mind sharp and the body in shape. Join certified personal trainer Marcia Patience as she presents fun fitness ideas to improve daily living activities. www.cmc-mercy.org Join Prime Club at www.carolinasmedicalcenter.org/prime to receive free 24/7 nurse access and discounts to restaurants and stores. The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 14 “Changing Lives Together,” Jewish Family Services 2011 Friends Campaign For more than 31 years, Jewish Family Services has provided the community with high quality professional services proactively responding to the needs of our community. JFS remains a steady, reliable source of compassion, professional expertise, and hope. Jewish Family Services empowers all ages in all stages of life. JFS is here for you from the moment you are born. JFS is here for your entire family. JFS Parenting Place offers workshops and educational programs and the JFS Therapy Program offers therapy, assessments, and social skills groups for children and parents. JFS is here for singles, empty nesters, and caregivers. We offer educational programs, therapy, resources and support Txjnnfs!Jotvsbodf!Bhfodz XfÖwf!cffo!qspufdujoh!uif! Dibsmpuuf!Kfxjti!dpnnvojuz gps!pwfs!68!zfbst/ Xf!pggfs!bmm!mjoft!pg!jotvsbodf!jodmvejoh!Dpnnfsdjbm-!! Ipnfpxofst-!Bvup!boe!Mjgf/!Dbmm!vt!upebz!up!mfbso!bcpvu!! pvs!qfstpobmj{fe!jotvsbodf!qsphsbnt!up!nffu!zpvs!offet/ Ibssz!Txjnnfs! ¦! Ebwje!Txjnnfs! Dsbjh!Lbu{nbo! ¦! Csjbo!Nfmutofs % #>`]dWRS\QS@]OR1VO`Z]bbS<1 & % j %"!!!$$'" j aeW[[S`W\ac`O\QSQ][ groups. JFS is here for our seniors. JFS offers enrichment and outreach to seniors in the community who live in facilities or are homebound. We provide food, counseling, case management, support, and friendly visits. Your gift to JFS will help us reach your friends, your parents, your children … and everyone in the community. Your donation to the JFS 2011 Friends Campaign will allow our agency to serve the growing needs in the Charlotte Jewish community and to empower many people with the tools and resources to succeed. Right now…you can make an investment in your community. Every dollar makes a difference. Your donation will provide the means to: * Connect a homebound senior with a friendly visitor and hot kosher meals. * Provide therapy for a child with anxiety. * Assist a family coping with grief and loss. * Provide workshops, support groups and educational resources for parents, caregivers, and seniors. We need your support to continue these vital services. Funds raised through the Friends Campaign allow us to be the resource center accessible to the entire community; all ages, all incomes, and all stages of life. Last year’s campaign raised $270,000. With the increased demands for social services, JFS has set the 2011 fundraising goal at $280,000. You may make a secure donation online at www.jfscharlotte.org or you can mail your JFS 2011 Friends Campaign donation directly to Jewish Family Services at 5007 Providence Road, Suite 105, Charlotte, NC 28226. JFS is proud to announce that Jill Lipson will be the Chairperson of the 2011 Annual Friends Campaign. Jill works full time coordinating health education programming at Charlotte Community Health Clinic, a nonprofit health clinic for the uninsured. She has extensive experience in public health and social services. Jill has always had a passion for helping others and worked most recently on JFS’ Project Noah Task Force where she directed her focus on programming needs, and particularly, the Career Coaching series. In addition, Jill sits on the board of JFS and is cochair of Temple Beth El’s Social Justice and Action Committee and 2011 Mitzvah Day coordinator. Jill and her husband Marc have lived in Charlotte for five years, and they have one child, Spencer, who is seven. Jill says “JFS is an organization that does so much good for so many people. It’s an honor to chair the Friends Campaign this year. It’s the least I can do to secure JFS’ ability to maintain and grow its services in the years to come.” Y Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center Our recent Mother-Daughter Book Club to discuss Judy Blume’s “Otherwise Known As Sheila The Great” was a huge success. Our next Book Club, geared towards 3rd and 4th grade girls and their mothers will be held on Sunday, May 15 from 3:30-4:30 PM in the Library. It’s not too late to celebrate Mothers Day. The book that we will be discussing is “All of a Kind Family.” Please RSVP to Talli Dippold at 704944-6780 or tdippold@shalomcharlotte.org. comme mo COM g n i t a r May 8 MU pRO NITY -W 4:0 G RA IDE 0p M m <RP+D]LNDURQ Israel Memorial Day Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts May 10 <RP+D’DW]PDXW Israel Independence Day Sam Lerner Center for BR A Cultural Arts IT NG CELE m p 6:00 Exploring Israel im h o erf al P rm a 7:00 pm nce s Speci (Israeli dinner available) a r by sho Photos by Jason Gitlitz YƵĞƐƟŽŶƐ͍͍͍ŽŶƚĂĐƚDŽƌĂƚƐŚĂůŝĂĐŚΛũĞǁŝƐŚĐŚĂƌůŽƩĞ͘ŽƌŐ The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 16 Top Ten Reasons to Attend the Florence Melton Mini-School for Adults in Charlotte 10. Make up for lost time – Because you did not have the opportunity to study as a child or you did not pay attention at the time or you’ve forgotten a lot of what you learned 9. Study with other adults – Join a group of other adult learners who bring to the table a lifetime of living and experience 8. Know how to answer wellmeaning questions about Judaism – From non-Jewish friends, neighbors, family members, colleagues and strangers 7. Create a Jewish environment for your children and your grandchildren – Based on knowing and 2. Be a literate Jew – Know your way around the Biblical, Rabbinic, Medieval, Modern and Contemporary sources that are the foundation of Jewish belief and practice and 1. As Hillel said – If not now, when? Melton students enjoy a educational field trip to visit a community mikvah. understanding Jewish beliefs, practices and values 6. Become more comfortable with the tradition – So that you Call us today for a complimentary financial and insurance review. Melton students engage in conversation during a recent class. can more fully participate and make your experiences and practices personally more meaningful 5. Be a good role model for your children and be their partner in learning – You are sending them to Religious School; keep up with them and show them the way 4. Know more about Judaism than the other guys – AntiSemitism is on the rise. Combat their hatred with the pride and joy that come from knowledge and understanding 3. Participate in the on-going conversation about Israel – With increased confidence and integrity For more information, please contact Talli Dippold at 704-9446780 or tdippold@shalomcharlotte.org. Registration for morning and evening classes is going on now. Y USED BOOK SALE Stop by the Library to see our Used Book Sale. We have hundreds of books available from .50 cents to $2. Proceeds go to supporting the Library. We hope to see you. WOMEN’S NEWS (704) 846 9700 Happy 63rd Birthday, Israel three years ago Israel, a By Hadas Kasher, homeland for the Jewish president, Charlotte HOWARD EPSTEIN, MBA people,was a dream. Those Chapter of Hadassah PROVIDENCE RD & I-485 of us who are older than 63 The Hadassah misCHARLOTTE know Israel as a dream sion statement marks howardepstein@allstate.com come true- and for those of our commitment to the us younger than 63, Israel is centrality of Israel, a fact of our lives. Israel, based on the renaisServing the community for over 15 years. sance of the Jewish Hadas Kasher and Hadassah. Hadassah’s support of people in our historic Israel started 100 years ago. homeland. This month Israel will celebrate Before the dream of an independInsurance subject to availability and qualifications. Allstate Insurance Company and Allstate Property and Casualty Insurance Company, Northbrook, Illinois ©2009 Allstate Insurance Company 63 years of independence. Sixty ent country become a reality, Hadassah was there. Hadassah’s main focus is to educate and heal, support youth in need, and empower women. While the mission remains the same, the focus has changed over the years. First, we took orphaned children who survived the holocaust to a home Merrill Lynch is pleased to announce that David M. Van Glish in their homeland. Next, the youth TM has earned the designation of Certified Financial Planner from the former Soviet Union awarded by the Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards. lived in our Youth Aliyah villages when they arrived in Israel. Now the children from Ethiopia, who are literally taken from one world to a new world in Israel, live and David M. Van Glish, CFP®, CRPC®, CSNA learn in our Youth Aliya Villages. Financial Advisor Hadassah built a hospital in Jerusalem, and when it was taken by Jordan in the 1948 War of Independence, Hadassah built a (704) 442-4267 second hospital. The Hadassah Hospitals were reunited in 1967, The Van Glish Group 4500 Cameron Valley Parkway Suite 400 Charlotte, NC 28211 help2congratulate when Israel reunited Jerusalem in the Six Day War. But Hadassah has not stopped - we are now building a new hospital - the Tower. We are bringing Hadassah Medical Organization into the 21st century, and our second century. In the Hadassah Hospitals, we treat people from birth to death, providing cutting edge medical care to the patient and loving support to the family. Hadassah treats Israeli and Arab, Jew and Christian and Muslim. Our doctors and nurses, trained by Hadassah, make medicine a bridge to peace. These are examples of the impact Hadassah volunteers make, when we take action to fulfill our mission. Every day Hadassah makes miracles in Israel. and our work changes the life of millions. This month Hadassah members, with other members of the Charlotte community and Israel supporters around the world, will remember the sacrifices made for Israel. We remember the lives given so that Israel exists, and then we celebrate. We celebrate Israel, and Israel’s 63rd birthday. Please join us to show your support. Y www.fa.ml.com/the_vanglish_group Merrill Lynch Wealth Management makes available products and services offered by Merrill Lynch, Pierce, Fenner & Smith Incorporated (MLPF&S) and other subsidiaries of Bank of America Corporation. MLPF&S is a registered broker-dealer, member SIPC and a wholly owned subsidiary of Bank of America Corporation. Investment products: Are Not FDIC Insured Are Not Bank Guaranteed May Lose Value The CFP®, Certified Financial Planner™ marks are financial planning credentials awarded by Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards Inc. (CFP Board) to individuals who meet education, examination, experience and ethics requirements. ©2011 Bank of America Corporation. All rights reserved. Patty Hartman and Rabbi Faith Cantor lead the first women’s Seder to take place at Sun City in Indian Land, SC, in March 2011. Full story in June/July 2011 issue of The Charlotte Jewish News. Jewish People Don’t Think That Abuse Happens But It Does It can be as obvious as a slap or as subtle as an insult. It can include humiliation and bullying, control of finances, unwanted sex, isolation from friends and family, violence and more. We Believe You Rabbi Murray Ezring, Temple Israel Rabbi Michael Shields, Lake Norman Jewish Congregation Rabbi Yossi Groner, Congregation Ohr HaTorah Rabbi Chanoch Oppenheim, Charlotte Torah Center Rabbi Judy Schindler, Temple Beth El Come to Us for Help 704-756-9209 704-364-6594 For information and resources see www.shalombayit-nc.org MAY M AY @ The The J Enriching Lives and Building B Relationships thr through rough o Quality Jewish Experiences Exxperiences May Specia Special! al! N Joining No g Fee ! m i w S Splash! Refer Re efer a friend and receive receive a $50 $ gift card, card, gift. PLUS a special gif ft. ay! 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The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 20 Mazel Tov & Congratulations Carnival Cruise Lines Names Mann Travels 2010 “Funtastic” Travel Partner of the Year Carnival Cruise Lines has named Charlotte-based Mann Travels as one of its top partners for 2010. Only six travel agencies across the country are awarded this prestigious honor based on a combination of factors including overall sales growth and strength. “We are proud of this remarkable achievement,” said Gary Silverstein, co-owner of Mann Travels. “We have an extraordi- nary team at Mann Travels and all of us had a hand in this accomplishment. We value our partnership with Carnival and are committed to continue providing great value and service to anyone looking for memorable vacation experiences.” Mann Travels is the area’s largest independently owned travel agency, and ranks among the top 100 in the nation. It handles all aspects of vacation and corporate travel, as well as meetings and incentive travel for international companies. Mann Travels is an American Express affiliate and has earned the American Express Rep Excellence Award for the 11th consecutive year. It is the only agency in the Carolinas to receive this distinctive award. Y Mann Travels owners Maxine and Gary Silverstein enjoy a celebratory champagne toast with Carnival's Kirk Neal and Megan Morra. Phillip Brodsky and Kali Foxman ENGAGEMENT Foxman-Brodsky Mr. and Mrs. Mike and Sue Littauer of Charlotte and Mr. and Mrs. Bob and Shelley Brodsky of Atlanta announce the engagement of their son, Phillip Andrew Brodsky, to Kali Dawn Foxman, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Paul and Sheryl Foxman of Williston, VT. The couple resides in Brookline, MA, and will be married on October 23 in Burlington, Vermont. BIRTHS Julie Bing Kohlenberg Tache and Brian Novak of Charlotte are thrilled to announce the birth of their daughter, Gemma Bing Novak (Chasya Yosefa). Joyful grandparents are Karen and Ron Novak of Burghill, OH, and Sally and Martin Kohlenberg of Huntington Woods, MI. Proud great-grandfather is Keith Bahler of Kinsman, OH. Late greatgrandparents are Jessie and Sam Kohlenberg, Margold and Joseph S. Bing, James and Vera Novak and Helen Bahler. Gemma is named in loving memory of her paternal great-grandmother Jessie Kohlenberg and her maternal great-grandfather Joseph S. Bing. Mazel tov to Karen and Mel Labovitz on the birth of their grandchild, Cameron Rhodes Labovitz, on March 17. Parents are Allison and Joe Labovitz of Charlotte. TOV M’OD Emily Ashkin Elliot Dordick, Sydney Frankenberg, Adelaide Gorelick, and Abigail Smallman have been inducted into American Hebrew Academy’s prestigious Honor Society. Merrill Lynch South Park is pleased to announce that David Van Glish has earned the designation of Certified Financial Planner™ awarded by the Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards. David joined the firm in 2006 and is a Wealth Management Advisor for the Van Glish Group at Merrill Lynch. Y Youth Visions Hebrew High - Where Jewish Leaders are Created The Consolidated High School style at Charlotte’s Hebrew High. of Jewish Studies of Charlotte is a It is no surprise that the student supplemental school where stu- board of Hillel at almost every dents in grades 8-12 learn about college in the Carolinas has a their heritage and embrace their Hebrew High grad on it. Our goal tradition. Each week our students is to create the future leaders of study classical texts, learn about our community. To that end, we Israel, are encouraged to seek encourage open dialog and leadersocial justice, and bond with their ship skill building. If you come to peers. visit on a Wednesday evening you Our teachers are group of dedi- will meet outspoken and passioncated adults who are not only ate students, who are proud to be knowledgeable about the material Jewish. they present, but passionate about At Hebrew High, we are always transmitting their knowledge to developing new curricula to stimthe next generation. They give up ulate teens’ minds, get their crespending Wednesday evenings ative juices flowing and strengthwith their families to share their en their Jewish identity. We create love of Judaism and the Jewish the Jewish leaders of tomorrow, people with our teens. right here at Shalom Park every Every Wednesday, at Shalom Wednesday evening. Don’t let Park, 200 Jewish teens (Continued on page 21) are busily engaging in all sorts of Jewish learning. Some are studying from the ancient texts, some are listening to and translating Israeli rock music and some are cooking Israeli food and still others are interacting with bereaved families in our sister city of Hadera, Israel. There is something for every stu- Daniel Willenzik assists the Circus Kids with one dent and every learning of their tricks. The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 21 Hebrew High What’s Up with Charlotte BBYO Chapters By Melanie Zimmermann 2011 has been incredibly busy for our four Charlotte BBYO chapters. In early January, our teens participated in Winter Cultural, a competition convention for the Eastern region. All of the chapters competed in a variety of events. Each chapter spent many weeks preparing and the convention was an amazing experience for everyone. Thank you to the many families that hosted our out-of-towners so generously. Many of the awards went to our local chapters so mazel tov to them on a job well done. Currently, our Charlotte chapters have been hard at work planning and running some amazing programs. One focus of our BBYO teens is community service. One of the girls’ chapters has adopted a stream and has made it their project to clean up this stream creating a better environment for all to enjoy. The other girls’ chapter volunteered at Friendship Trays Garden where they helped clean out the old plants and made way for the new ones. Friendship Trays Garden grows the food and then passes it onto Friendship Trays where they try to feed as many home bound people as possible. The boys 2012 North Carolina BBG Board 2012 North Carolina AZA Board chapters made hundreds of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches to feed the hungry and also collected canned foods at each meeting to (Continued from previous page) donate to those in need. March was Advisor Appreciation month so we would like to take a moment to thank our advisors for everything that they do. Thank you for the countless hours you give to each of our four chapters and for the guidance you all provide. We owe our many successes to your devoted service. In the beginning of April, 50 teens from Charlotte attended North Carolina Spring Council convention, held in Greensboro. The 21st NC Council boards were elected and we want to wish congratulations to the following Charlotte BBYO members that were elected: Brian Blanco, Jason Blanco, Henry Gorelick, Daniel Willenzik, Brett Birnberg, Judith Cohen, Sophie Bergmann, Maddie Breen, Melanie Zimmerman, Caroline Baron and Sarah Mond. We are proud of our Charlotte teens and know they will do fabulous job in their new leadership roles.Y your child be left out. For more information about the 2011-2012 school year call Roz at 704-9446782 or email rcooper133@ aol.com. Or check us out at www.HebrewHigh.org. Y Hebrew High – It’s the Place to Be On Wednesday Nights Community News LJCC Coaches Fund for Sports Programs In honor of coaches Stan August and Scott Menaker from the 12th grade boys’ basketball team Musler Memorial Fund for Children’s Programs In memory of John Pransky from Paula Musler Y NOW ENROLLING CHILDREN 14 MONTHS+ • Extended Day options available • Experienced staff with degrees • On site enrichment classes • Low teacher-student ratios • Hands on center based learning in Early Childhood • Committed to nurturing your child's Jewish identity The Jewish Preschool on Sardis JEWISH EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUC s ATION Wh ere the journey begin To schedule a personal tour 704 364 8395 or info@JPSonSardis.org Visit our website: JPSonSardis.org The Charlotte Jewish News -May 2011 - Page 22 Community News Third Annual Book of Life Celebration Takes Place at Bechtler Museum of Modern Art By Phil Warshauer, Executive Director, Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community The Bechtler Museum of Modern Art was the venue for the Third Annual Book of Life Celebration on Sunday, April 3. John Boyer, the Bechtler’s President and CEO, delivered the keynote address for the event. Mr. Boyer’s remarks focused on the legacy of art established by Andreas Bechtler and his family– a fitting message for the Book of The Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community Proudly Recognizes and Thanks the 84 Members and Families in the Book of Life Society Their legacy gifts provide current and future support to the organizations and programs that serve the Greater Charlotte Jewish community. Judy and Stan August Philip M. Berman Adam Bernstein and Tamar Seigel Cary Bernstein and Alan Kronovet Don and Bobbi Bernstein Mark and E. Louise Bernstein Lee and Jeffrey Bierer Martin Birnbaum Alan and Lee Blumenthal Herman and Anita Blumenthal Tracy and Larry Brown David and Janice Cantor Dan and Ellen Dubin Marcy and Fred Dumas David M. and Aleen F. Epstein Larry Farber and Sherri McGirt Alan and Ruth Goldberg Margi L. Goldstein Meg D. Goldstein and Matthew Luftglass Shelton and Ellen Goldstein Brett and Leigh Anne Goodman Scott D. and Rebecca A. Goodman Bill and Patty Gorelick Rael and Gabi Gorelick Shelton and Carol Gorelick Todd and Stacy Miller Gorelick Fay and Dan Green Roslyn G. Greenspon Stanley P. Greenspon Bill and Gloria Grifenhagen Jonathan M. Howard Donald L. Jacobs and Susan Sachs-Jacobs Florence Kaufman Jaffa Sol and Janet Jaffa Lorrie and Barry Klemons and Family Sheila and Lee Kritzer Anita Strauss-LaRowe and Bruce LaRowe Harry Lerner Donna and Norman Levin Family Jerome L. and Barbara B. Levin Alvin and Helene Levine Julie Lerner Levine and Howard Levine Harry Kevin Levine and Louis Arnold Sinkoe Leon Levine and Sandra Poliakoff Levine Sol Levine Jack and Alison Levinson Marshall and Faylinda Lindner Robert and Inta Lidz Mrs. Jerome Madans Michael Meiselman The Meiselman Family The Menaker Family Paula Sigal Musler Dr. Edwin and Jill Newman Andrew T. Osborne Gale Osborne Richard J. Osborne Victor and Evelyn Osborne Nicki Fisher Ostrow Marcelle Buxbaum Oxman and Allan Oxman Marcelle Gorelick Peck Lee and Diggie Pesakoff Larry and Dale Polsky Frank and Wendy Rosen Gerald and Barbara Schapiro Michael Scharf Walter Schechter Larry Schwartz Linda C. Seigel Morey and Lynne Sheffer Marc and Mattye Silverman Eric and Lori Levine Sklut Leonard Slesinger Robert S. and Carol K. Speizman Norman Steinberger Dr. Joseph and Renee Steiner Alene Cohen Strause and Sam Strause Marilyn and Harry Swimmer Phil and Beth Warshauer Michael and Anne Weiss Kim and Sue Worrel Dr. Bob and Anne Yudell Herman and Barbara Ziegler Dr. Samuel and Emily Zimmern BUSINESS CARD DIRECTORY To advertise in the Business Card Directory, contact one of our sales representatives: Rita Mond, 704-366-6632 Jodi Valenstein, 704-841-4040 Life, which recognizes those individuals who have established permanent endowments or legacy gifts to support any of the Jewish organizations in the Greater Charlotte area. More than 60 members of Charlotte’s Jewish community were in attendance at the event, including 36 members of the Book of Life Society. The evening included tours of the Bechtler’s exhibits and collections, which feature some of most important and influential artists of the midtwentieth century. Book of Life Task Force members Margi Goldstein and Jill Newman served as the celebration’s co-chairs and did a fine job organizing the event. The Book of Life Society was established in 2008 by the Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community (FCJC). No minimum amount must be given or promised; the only requirement is a current or future financial commitment to support the future of our Jewish community. The Book of Life Society now includes 84 individuals and families who have combined to create a future pipeline in excess of $12 million. The evening honored and celebrated the generosity of all Book of Life members, with special recognition to the 23 new members, rep- Jeff Bierer, incoming president of The resenting a 37% increase Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community, John Boyer, director of the over last year’s event. In addition to Boyer’s Bechtler Museum of Modern Art, and Alan remarks, those in atten- Kronovet, outgoing president of The Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish dance were updated on Community at the Book of Life Event. FCJC’s accomplishments over the past year by outgoing board chair Alan Kronovet. process further clarifies FCJC’s This included FCJC surpassing role as a collaborative community $60 million in net assets under leader in an effort to raise longmanagement, record gifts of $9.6 term charitable resources to susmillion and more than $4.1 mil- tain the quality of Jewish religion, lion in grant distributions, another life and culture by linking the philFCJC record. Kronovet also anthropic intent of donors with the updated the audience on FCJC’s needs of the community. Y recently completed strategic plan which charts an exciting and ambitious new course for the organization and its efforts to ensure the long term viability of our Jewish community. The The Stan Greenspon Charitable Fund Accepting Grant Applications The Stan Greenspon Charitable Fund will begin accepting grant applications for the 2011 calendar year. Established in 2010 by Stan Greenspon, the Fund was created to assist nonprofit agencies in the greater Charlotte region, with special consideration given for established programming and services that: * Support Jewish organizations and Jews in need * Provide senior adults in isola- tion with the opportunity to interact with their peers * Support and assist individuals impacted by juvenile diabetes * Assist children’s hospitals All grants will be one year in duration up to $20,000. A preference will be given to grants that support existing programs with sustainable funding models. Grants in excess of $10,000 will be asked to complete a written grant application. Grants for endowments, sponsorships, travel, conferences or direct support of individuals are not eligible. Additional information and grant applications can be obtained by contacting Stan Greenspon at sgreenspon@aol.com. All completed grant applications must be received by June 15. Grant requests will be reviewed by the Fund’s Advisors with approved grants distributed in August. Y Encore Screening of “Hank Greenspun” on May 22 Ten days of the best in Jewish film from around the world flew by, but Charlotte attendees won’t soon forget these incredible films that graced the silver screen. Time and again, audiences were wowed by marvelous movies and scintillating speakers who added so much to the viewing experience. Almost 1,900 Charlotteans came out to be entertained and educated, a new attendance record for the Charlotte Jewish Film Festival. One film in particular, “Where I Stand: The Hank Greenspun Story,” drew rave reviews from audience members. Writer/director/producer Scott Goldstein was in attendance and marveled at the Charlotte turnout. As a result of this overwhelmingly positive response, the Charlotte Jewish Film Festival is pleased to offer an encore presentation of this fantastic film. “This is a first for us,” stated Jodi Werner-Greenwald, Festival Director. “We usually don’t bring a film back after the Festival, but we felt that this was such a special story that we want to give more people the opportunity to see it. So if you missed it the first time, or want to see it again, please join us.” Don’t miss this second-chance to see this remarkable documentary, narrated by Anthony Hopkins, about the most incredible man you have probably never heard of. “Where I Stand: The Hank Greenspun Story” will screen again on May 22, 7 PM at the Levine JCC. Tickets are $8 and are available for purchase at the door. See the film that left almost 300 people shaking their heads in amazement. The Charlotte Jewish Film Festival would like to thank you for your support in coming out in record numbers. We are pleased to announce the winners of the following prizes with our heartfelt thanks for helping to make the 7th Annual Charlotte Jewish Film Festival the most successful one yet. Winner of the Zoom Teeth Whitening Experience courtesy of Murray and Sturner DDS, Ellen Mandell; one night stay at the Ballantyne Resort and Spa, Sheryl Hollander; beer tasting for 6 from Vintner Vine, Glen Fishkin; gift bag from Trader Joe’s, Mort Turk. (Continued on page 27) The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 23 Israel, Part 10: Har Herzl and Hazon Yeshaya Soup Kitchen Meir, the first woman By Amy Krakovitz prime minister of Israel; It is beautiful Friday morning. Yitzchak Rabin, the great Clear, dry, warm. Again we are peacemaker who was reminded to wear sunscreen and shockingly and tragically hats and to drink plenty of water. assassinated; Hannah We are spending some of the day Senesh, poet and soldier, outside. who saved many lives We begin the morning at Har when she parachuted Herzl, Mount Herzl, a cemetery back into Europe during for dignitaries and well known the Holocaust. Her brilIsraelis. The center piece as you liant and insightful words enter the gates is the grave of the are still read and sung father of Zionism himself, IDF soldiers visiting Har Herzl cemetery. today in our modern synTheodore Herzl. A perpetual agogues. yahrzeit candle burns on the polWe go from the quiet, contemished stone that bears his name. and respect for the dead.” Here again, groups of soldiers plative atmosphere of Har Herzl Many visitors have stopped by; there are many stones left behind. have come to visit and pay into the heart of bustling The cemetery is beautiful, a bit respects to both the well-known Jerusalem to Hazon Yeshaya Soup unusual and different looking than and the obscure, many of whom Kitchen. Hazon Yeshaya is the premier humanitarian organization what we see in the US. in Israel, serving the poor with its There is much stone soup kitchen, vocational training, everywhere as well as free dental clinic, and more. It was many trees, plants and created by Abraham Israel, an bushes. Navigating American businessman, who was between graves is once a poor refugee himself. Born easy, one never feels in Egypt, his family fled after the uncomfortable and Suez War to Paris, where they wary that a grave were for a time dependent on the might be tread upon. local soup kitchen. When he “The most striking moved to Israel and saw the numdifference between ber of poor, hungry, and sick peothis cemetery and ple, he knew that he could now some you find here in pay back his debt to society. the USA, is personalThe soup kitchen patrons wait to be served. The soup kitchen feeds an enorized gardens found at mous number of the needy in many of the graves,” says Joel Blady, a funeral director. died in Israel’s many defensive Jerusalem: Holocaust survivors, “Flowers and plants of different wars. The young soldiers are quiet battered women, those with mensizes and varieties adorn so many and respectful. Some weep. All of tal or physical disabilities, and of the graves. Personal family them whisper personal prayers at others who find themselves on the outskirts of society. plantings make a world of differ- every grave they visit. We see the graves of Golda The huge kitchen is warm and ence and show a continuous love ers and take home their food. Plastic bags, Tupperware, and other types of portable containers are passed back and filled with rice, squash, and chicken. The cold salad is put in a separate container. They are then passed forward through the serving window. At the Shelley Pawlyk, Rich Gilbert, Lauren Label, Zach same time, trays are Gilbert, and Jake Gilbert cut up salad for the Hazon prepared and passed Yeshaya Soup Kitchen. forward as well. It is an organized steamy. Along the many metal chaos. Lots of shouting, people tables, scores of volunteers are moving, containers, plates, trays, chopping vegetables. There is bowls, pots and pans passing by. salad to be made, potatoes to be The chicken which I am serving is peeled, rice to be cooked, chicken searing hot. As fast as we need to to be prepared and served. We take move, it’s difficult to keep from our aprons and gloves and do what getting burned. we are asked to, some chopping, In spite of the difficult work some serving. Mostly Hebrew is and the pace we need to keep up, heard in the kitchen. we are all exhilarated by our I start out chopping green pep- efforts this morning. Knowing pers for salad. There are crates and we’ve made a difference puts a crates of peppers to be chopped. kind of pleasant glow in everyWe are in a line of half a dozen one’s eye. people chopping peppers. I am As the tumult diminishes, the starting to get an idea of the scale community is fed, we begin to of this operation and the number remove our aprons and hope that of people that served here. the smiles on our faces last the rest As soon as the needy begin to of the day. arrive for their mid-day meal, It’s time for our lunch and we some of us are pulled off the prep are headed just a few blocks away line and asked to begin serving. to Machane Yehudah, to pick up The clients push in great crowds some items from the stalls and towards the serving window. have a picnic. Y Some of them will not stay here to Next: Machare Yehuda, an outeat, they bring their own contain- door picnic, Birkat Shalom. 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There were those who came because they have have loved one or friends buried at the cemetery. There were those who came because they have purchased plots at the cemetery for future use. There were those who came because they wanted to learn more about the workings of the cemetery and how being a dues paying member of the HCA might benefit them and their families. HCA President, Kevin Levine, gave a brief presentation on the history of the cemetery which was purchased as an eleven-acre parcel of land back in 1867. It has remained the only Jewish cemetery in Charlotte for the past 150 years. He spoke about the cemetery expansion and of where the cemetery is right now. He spoke about the newly expanded interfaith section and also about the section of the cemetery designated for cremated remains. He shared that a new burial section under the auspices of Orthodox halacha is being considered and in cooperation with Rabbi Yossi Groner of Congregation Ohr Ha Torah is seeking to provide traditional Back row, L-R: Kevin Levine, president; Mark Vitner, Jacob Fuerstman, Brian Yesowitch (vice president), Norman Steinberger; front row, L-R: Hon. Judge Eric Levinson, Bill Gorelick (treasurer), Sandra Goldman (director), Lorrie Klemons, Jill Blumenthal, Sharon Hockfield, Marc Silverman Jewish burials for those members of the community who desire such interment. Also on the program was HCA Treasurer, Bill Gorelick, who presented the HCA’s plans for the future of the cemetery. A slide show presentation depicted the beautiful new Cemetery Building that is to be built on the grounds of the cemetery in the near future. The reception area of the new building will showcase the old marble ark from Temple Beth El which was lovingly donated to the HCA for such purpose. There will be a meeting room and bathrooms. Major funding has already been pledged for the building and a community drive will be launched sometime later on this year. A question & answer period was followed by a lovely dessert reception hosted by the HCA. Related historical artifacts and documents were enjoyed by all. Everyone in attendance came away with a deeper appreciation of just how lucky the Charlotte Jewish community is to have its own community burial ground and a volunteer organization like the Charlotte Hebrew Cemetery Association to orchestrate the management of those hallowed grounds. It is obvious that the The Charlotte Yiddish Institute, August 18-21, Wildacres Retreat Featuring an outstanding faculty for 2011: Ali and Gene Kavadlo, speakers and performers; Adrienne Cooper, world renowned Yiddish singer and entertainer; Joyce Rosenzweig, pianist and arranger; Paul Nitsch, pianist and professor of music and arts at Queens University; Hazzan Moishe Friedler, Yiddish, Hebrew, Ladino, and Spanish singer. Fees remain the same as last year! $330 per person, double occupancy; $200 for teens, 13-19; $150 single supplement. Fees cover tuition, room, kosher meals, and gratuities. Full fee must accompany registration. Cancellation policy: Full fee will be refunded if cancellation is made prior to July 30. An administration charge of $50 will be charged to late cancellations. Arrival and registration, Thursday, August 18 2-5 PM. Departure, Sunday, August 21 at 11 AM. Directions for travel by auto will be sent upon receipt of reservations. Bus transportation is available from Charlotte-Douglas Airport to Wildacres Retreat on August 18. Cost is $80 per person round trip. Please include this fee with registration. Bus departs airport promptly at 1 PM (August 18) and arrives back at the airport at 2:30 PM (August 21). Meet at baggage claim adjacent to Door “D.” For additional information, call Baila Pransky, 704-366-5564; Heshl and Etta Spindel, 704-8757324; Charlotte and Gerry Miller, 704-896-1644; Don an Shevi Herbstman, 704-752-1910. Please use the registration form below: 33rd Charlotte Yiddish Institute Reservation Form August 18-21, 2011 members of the HCA are individually and collectively passionate about and dedicated to maintaining the holy and sanctified grounds of the cemetery for all who precede them in eternal slumber and for all who have yet to be buried there. The HCA invites you to join them as they carry on their holy work. For just $72 per year ($6 per month) you can support the work of the cemetery and guarantee yourself and your family thousands of dollars in member discounts when the unthinkable hits you in the face. The Top 10 Facts about the Hebrew Cemetery Association are: 10. Being a member of a temple doesn’t automatically make you a member of the HCA. 9. The HCA is a Jewish community cemetery serving all Jews, affiliated or unaffiliated, throughout the Charlotte area. 8. The HCA’s religious policies are supervised by Reform, Conservative, and Orthodox Rabbis. 7. The HCA was established in 1867, well before the first temple or any other Jewish organization. 6. The HCA is the burial site for thirteen Civil War veterans. 5. The HCA will buy back plots if one moves out of the state. 4. HCA members can save thousands of dollars on cemetery burial fees. 3. The HCA offers traditional Jewish burial plots, as well as interfaith and cremation sections. 2. Jewish Law emphasizes that one should pre-arrange their final resting place and be buried in a Jewish cemetery. 1. HCA membership costs only $6 per month or 20 cents per day. The HCA would like to thank the following donors for their generous donations to the Norman Steinberger Funeral Assistance Fund: Robert S Friedman, Ellen Dubin, Ruth & Andrew Drucker. For more info on membership benefits, graves, prepaid funeral costs, endowments, and/or including the cemetery in your estate planning, contact contact Cemetery Director, Sandra Goldman at 704-576-1859 or 704944-6854 or director@hebrewcemetery.org. Y Summer Sum mme r PL A Y Days! 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C Contact ontact C CJP JP D Director, irector, Elka Elka Bernstein Bernstein r &#F FSOTUFJO!TIBMPNDIBSMPśFPSH r&#FSOTUFJO!TIBMPNDIBSMPśFPSH 5007 Providence Providence R Rd, d, B Bldg. ldg. F r 704-944-6777 FFor or Registration Registration Forms, Forms, please please visit visit tthe he C CJP JP offic officee or w w w.cjpkids.org www.cjpkids.org The Charlotte Jewish News -May 2011 - Page 26 Bhutanese Seek Freedom, Much Like Our Ancestors in Egypt Did By Karen Brodsky We have just completed the reading of the Haggadah at our Passover Seders and heard again of the story of the Jews in Egypt. This story is a collective reminder that through the millennia Jews have been persecuted, threatened, and expelled. At Carolina Refugee Resettlement Agency (CRRA), our staff is familiar with the persecution of our refugee clients, who flee because their lives are in danger, their personal freedoms are non-existent, and there is no future in their birth country. Their stories are familiar. The story is similar in Bhutan. According to the Center for Applied Linguistics, which provided this information, Bhutanese refugees, almost all ethnic Nepalis from southern Bhutan, have been living in camps in eastern Nepal since they were expelled from their homes in Bhutan more than 20 years ago. “Over the years we have settled refugees from different locations across the globe. It is vital that we understand how and why they became refugees so we can be sensitive to their needs,” said Ellen Dubin, CRRA executive director. The great majority of Bhutanese refugees are descendants of people who in the late 1800s began immigrating to southern Bhutan—lowland, malarial-infested regions shunned by the Druk Buddhist majority— in search of farmland. There they enjoyed a relatively peaceful life. Under Bhutan’s Nationality Law of 1958, the Lhotsampas enjoyed Bhutanese citizenship and were allowed to hold government jobs. In the 1980s, however, Bhutan’s king and the ruling Druk majority became increasingly worried about the rapidly growing Lhotsampa population. Concerned that the demographic shift could threaten the majority position and traditional Buddhist culture of the Druk, Bhutanese authorities adopted a series of policies known as Bhutanization, aimed at unifying the country under the Druk culture, religion, and language. The policies imposed the Druk dress code and customs on the Lhotsampas and prohibited the use of the Nepali language in schools. Nepali teachers were dismissed, and Nepali books were reportedly burned. The government also established new eligibility requirements for Bhutanese citizenship that disenfranchised many ethnic Nepalis, depriving them of their citizenship and civil rights. In 1990, large-scale protests led to violent clashes with the police and army and to mass arrests. Ethnic Nepalis were targeted by the Bhutanese authorities, who destroyed the Nepalis’ property and arrested and tortured activists. In December 1990, the authorities announced that Lhotsampas who could not prove they had been residents of Bhutan in 1958 had to leave. Tens of thousands fled to Nepal and the Indian state of West Bengal. According to the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR), many Bhutanese refugees said they wanted to return to their homes in Bhutan. Despite this desire—and despite numerous high-level meetings between the governments of Bhutan and Nepal to resolve the refugee crisis over the past 20 years—Bhutan has not permitted a single refugee to return home. These refugees cannot return home nor can they stay in Nepal. Of the more than 100,000 refugees in Nepali camps, the United States is considering for resettlement at least 60,000 in total. Since the spring of 2008, CRRA and Catholic Social Services have resettled 569 Bhutanese refugees in Charlotte. This figure is provided by the U.S. Department of State Bureau of Population, Refugees and Migration (PRM). They and ethnic Chin refugees from Burma (Myanmar) are the largest groups CRRA has resettled over the last three years. Passover is one reminder why we open our hearts and pocket- Drummers, Donors, and Volunteers Sought for Annual drumSTRONG Event May 21 and 22, Help drumSTRONG Exceed 29 Hours of Straight Drumming our-charities. In addition, the organization, DrumsForCures, supports PPPulse, a program that brings drumming right into the hospitals and clinics where young people with cancer are fighting their disease. “Drumming with young people (family and staff) creates a healthy, healing distraction from the sterile, scary, QUIET hospital environment,” it says on their website. “When drumming, all else is forgotten and we Drumming to beat cancer in 2010. live and play in the This year, the event will be big- moment. It is something every ger than ever. Planned to occur body can do regardless of physical simultaneously in many cities capacities or talent. Countless across the country and the globe, it health benefits ensue and the relais the goal this year to get into the tionships between ‘patient and Guinness Book of World Records caregiver’ change forever.” with a smashing 29 hours of conHow You Can Help tinuous drumming. Registration is $25 for individBut the record-breaking is not the real ultimate goal of uals 12 and over, $50 for families drumSTRONG. What Mason, his (2 adults and children 12 & parents, Scott and Carola, and his under), and special discounts for brother Toby hope to do is to raise teams. Registration is good for funds to support initiatives that both days of the event. Gates open support young people with cancer. at 10 AM Saturday (come early to The myriad of organizations that set up camp, have some lunch, are supported by this event are loosen up). Activities start at noon. While the plan is to drum for a listed here: http://drumstrong.org/ Nobody said it better than Mason Swimmer, when he told his parents, “Cancer just plain s*cks.” And he should know. He was diagnosed with an osteosarcoma in 2004. Now cancer-free, Mason and his family sponsor the annual drumSTRONG event, Drumming to Beat Cancer. full 29 hours, you don’t have to drum the whole time. Solicit “per-hour drumming” sponsorships and drum as long as you can. Come in and out of the circle whenever so moved. There will also be non-stop Yoga practice and instruction, reiki and massage. What you get: blisters (possibly), sore arms and hands (likely), and ultimately a healthy, elevated spirit. You are participating in your present and future health and the health of the community. You may even win a prize for playing the longest, raising the most funds or bringing the most participants. There are some beautiful percussion instruments donated as prizes. The annual “trophy drum,” a handmade djembe will be awared to the most dedicated participant to keep and play for the year. Special guests this year so far confirmed include John Kadlicek (of Dark Star and Further) and his wife Kate, who is a professional drummer, and Kris Myers, drummer of Umphrey’s McGee. Other guests will be added throughout the weeks leading up to the program. Visit www.drumstrong.org to see how you can help: drum, donate, volunteer. Everything and anything you do will help the cause. Don’t just beat a drum – beat cancer, at drumSTRONG. Y books to the less fortunate. We were strangers in a strange land, too. We know what it feels like to be a persecuted minority. CRRA welcomes refugees and asylees—in addition to the Bhutanese and the Chin—from Somalia, Liberia, Eritrea, Iran, Iraq, Colombia, and the Central Highland of Vietnam—home to the Montagnards. We help them to gain access to local social services, find them housing and provide them with food and clothing, teach them English, endeavor to find them work and help them become American citizens. An affiliate of HIAS Inc., CRRA believes that all refugees deserve to become selfsufficient and enjoy the same freedoms as other American residents. The agency always needs donated furniture and housewares and relies on a cadre of dedicated volunteers. CRRA will pick up large furniture items. Call 704535-8803 to make donations as well as volunteer. Donate online and learn more about CRRA by visiting www.carolinarefugee.org. Y Schools From A Former CJP Graduate to a Current CJP Graduate In May 1998, Jordan Leah Bernstein stood on the stage in Gorelick Hall as a new graduate of The Charlotte Jewish Preschool. In June 2011, Jordan Leah Bernstein will stand with the 467 graduates of Providence High School at Bojangles Arena preparing to take the next step into her Miss Ellen’s class in 1997: Jordan is in the back row wearing the jumper with the white blouse. future. Among the 85 preschoolers taking part at the Just imagine what I would look May 26th CJP commencement like if Miss Ellen had not taken the service, Jordan would like to time to teach me how to button, zipper and wear my backpack with impart the following words: Dear Aaron, Alexa, Allison, Amia, “swag.” She taught me to open my Amidan, Anastasia, Andrew, lunch and eat the healthy foods Annabelle, Austin, Ava, Bailey, first. Even to this day, I never eat Bari, Ben, Blake, Charlotte, Colin, my chips before my apple. I defiDavid K., David S., Delanie, nitely struggled with cutting. Miss Diego, Drew, Dylan, Eli, Elijah, Ellen worked with me so that I Ella M., Ella, T., Emily, Ethan, was not only able to cut the petals Evan B., Evan W., Gil, Grant, on my flowers, but I was able to Hannah, Hazel, Isabel, Isabel S., successfully cut through the water Isabella, Isaiah, Jack F., Jack S., when I swam and cut the strings Jacob, Jake, Jakob, Jesse, Kate, on my lacrosse stick. My life-long Lauren, Lev, Liliana, Matthew, friends all started in my four year Max, Maxwell V., Maxwell W., old class at the Charlotte Jewish Mia L., Mia V., Myla, Nathan, Preschool. Whatever school I Nina, Noah B., Noah F, Noam, attended, there was a familiar face. Olivia, Oren, Owen, Parker, CJP taught me to love learning, Rachel C., Rachel S., Rae Brooke, live Jewishly, use my words, Remi, Rose, Rosie, Sam, Sarah, always lend a hand to help and to Sasha D., Sasha L., Shayna, approach everything with a posiShotaro, Sydney, Tamma, tive attitude. Sadly, you will miss William, Zach, Zachary E., your Friday CJP Shabbat program and challah, but know that Temple Zachary K., Zoe, The Charlotte Jewish Preschool Beth El and Temple Israel is waitwill always live in your heart as it ing for you to join the religious has lived in mine. My favorite school. As you take your next step into teacher of all time is my fours preschool teacher, Miss Ellen. She PreK and kindergarten, I will be gave me tools that I have used taking my next step to college. throughout my years in the Please remember, no matter how Charlotte Mecklenburg Schools. old you get and no matter what grade you are in, your CJP teachers will be standing and cheering you on. Mazel Tov, Jordan For more information about having your child Learn, Grow and Connect with us, please contact Alyson Kalik, CJP registrar, at 704-944-6866 or akalik@shalomcharlotte.org. Half day and Full day enrollment for the 2011/2011 school year for children ages 1 to 5 is underway. Y The Charlotte Jewish News - May 2011 - Page 27 What Do Kids Really Learn in Preschool? ities, and refine their perception and motor planning skills. Wow all that in a little bucket of different-colored animals. There’s no doubt that our block center looks welcoming with the many kinds of blocks that are available. It is also where preschoolers learn basic mathematical skills and concepts. In the block center, children learn about shapes and sizes as they are building. Grasping, stacking, and carrying blocks helps children to develop eye/hand coordination. All this and so much more happens in the context of “playing.” As we set the stage for early Jewish education, JPS teachers also make Judaism come alive through play in their classroom. In a one-year-old room you might witness the Friends in the 2s class celebrate Shabbat in their group saying a bracha dramatic play center. or giving tzedakah. Go next door and you can as part of a group. The teachers’ observe the two-year-olds dancing job is to be there alongside each and singing while enjoying their child, asking appropriate ques- weekly Shabbat celebration. Join tions that help the child solve the three-year-olds as they experiproblems, make decisions, use his ence the Pesach story with handsor her imagination, and think on playing in the “Nile River” (at beyond what is obviously present- their sensory table) and watch them taking care of baby Moshe in ed to the class. At JPS, we are passionate about dramatic play. Down the hall, the learning and we are even more four-year-olds may be using their passionate about how we set the higher-level thinking skills as they stage for learning. For young chil- problem-solve to make a 3-D frog dren, play is their canvas. Play is project. Through all of this wonthe means to an end for preschool- derful early Jewish learning the ers. A high-quality preschool children are engaged in play. During their preschool years, classroom will offer play opportunities throughout the day and the your children are “working” very teacher will provide materials that hard to find their place in their litencourage, support and enhance tle worlds. The preschool classthe play process. After setting the room represents a safe place for stage for the children, the teacher them to make this discovery. Here will then take a step back to are some responses from my preobserve the children at “work” but school friends when I asked them can offer support and direction as “What did you learn in preneeded. When a child is involved school?” Sammy Sherman (five years with group play, they have opportunities to practice the many skills old): “I learned to invite someone needed to become lifelong learn- to play with me if he is playing ers. In a classroom, children are alone.” Oliver Halverstam (four years given the opportunity to use “play time” to practice conflict resolu- old): “I learned to use my body to tion, self-regulation, language make letters and it helps me skills, thinking and reasoning understand that the letter V has skills and their overall social skills two lines.” Harrison Cohen (five years that will help them become productive members of the classroom old): “I learned about Hashem by and the greater community. A listening to Morah Rochel.” Taylor Stern (two years old): “I complete preschool learning environment offers a balance between learned to play with play-doh.” Madeline Siegel (two years structured and unstructured time, ritual and spontaneity – all the old): “I learned how to read my while providing countless oppor- class book.” Mikkel Hertzberg (five years tunities for developmentally old): “We learned about F and all appropriate play. When you enter a classroom at of the letters.” Eli Lan (three years old): “We JPS, you will see many centers full of exciting and inviting toys. learn how to make up stories with On the surface, it looks like an Ms. Kate.” Y incredible place for children to spend the day, but did you know that every single item in the classroom has a purpose? Take for example one bucket of differentcolored animals with tongs inside. It’s really an opportunity for children to sort, categorize, use fine motor skills, work together with peers, practice their scanning abilBy Jen Lahn, director, Jewish Preschool on Sardis Preschool teachers set the stage for your children to become lifelong learners. At JPS, they create an environment that keeps a child’s inherit curiosity alive and intact. The classroom serves as an ideal place for children to explore, experiment, fail, succeed, learn and grow both as individuals and Planned Gift Left to Charlotte Jewish Day School Lorrie and Barry Klemons Children Were Not CJDS Students It was such a heartwarming surprise to open a letter one day from Phil Warshauer and find that a member of our community left a planned gift for Charlotte Jewish Day School. What made it even more meaningful was that this gift was not even from a parent, but from a community member for whom I had no idea that the Day School touched. Lorrie and Barry Klemmons made such a gift to CJDS. When Lorrie and Barry were raising their two boys in Charlotte, day school education was not available here. As they took the opportunity to examine their lives and their desires, hopes and dreams, they made this significant action to insure that in the future a day school education is available to every Jewish family and child who desires one. Deeds like this are indispensible for our existence as a school and instrumental in securing our Jewish future. -Mariashi Groner By Lorrie Klemons When ABC-Television was sold in 1985, Barry predicted a major upheaval in the broadcasting industry and resigned as ABC Technical Director. Realizing the limited opportunities in New York City for a 35-year-old guy with a young family and large mortgage, and seeking to change careers, we decided to search for a new city to relocate to. After reading an article about Charlotte in the Piedmont Airlines magazine, we decided to explore the city. After spending a weekend in Charlotte, we both fell in love and knew in our hearts that Charlotte was where we wanted to raise our family. The cohesiveness and strength of Charlotte’s tiny Jewish population of only 5,000 inspired us so quickly and so deeply. The JCC had just opened and the energy, spirit, and excitement of Shalom Park were awesome and contagious. Our journey to Charlotte was truly a leap of faith. In New York, we lived in a totally Jewish community with kosher restaurants and synagogues, all within walking distance. Yet, we never felt connected. When we moved to Charlotte, that connection sparked immedi- Lorrie and Barry Klemons ately and profoundly. We stepped out of a semi-Jewish life directly into a strongly connected Jewish lifestyle. Reaching out to Charlotte’s Jewish community in simple small ways, we were quickly consumed by its acceptance and warmth. On day ten of our new life here in 1988, Lorrie became Recording Secretary of the Charlotte Chapter of B’nai B’rith, and the saga continues today with both of us spending years and years involved in a variety of Jewish organizations and related committees. Both of our sons attended Talmud Torah and Temple Israel Religious School; they both assumed leadership positions with BBYO; they went to Jewish camps, toured and studied in Israel, and participated in Hillel activities at their respective college campuses. Our older son spent four years working for Hillel, reaching out to Jewish students. Quite honestly, as much as we love Charlotte and the Jewish lifestyle it offered our family, our biggest disappointment remains that there was no Charlotte Jewish Day School to send our sons to. We know in our hearts how such an exemplary educational experience would have impacted the secular and religious lives of our sons. While we are unable to change the past, we are committed to changing the future by assuring Charlotte Jewish Day School education for the children of others. It was our great joy and privilege to bequest CJDS with legacy money on our passing. I challenge you to consider doing the same. It is the vibrancy of our Charlotte Jewish community that makes us the connected Jews that we are today. We owe our spiritual lives to that community, and through our financial commitment to the organizations that have meant so much to us, we say Todah Rabah … thank you very much and L’ Dor v’Dor … from generation to generation … may each one of us continue to inspire and motivate Charlotte’s Jewish community to holiness and greatness. Y Film Festival Encore (Continued from page 21) Winners will be contacted individually about claiming their prizes. Young and old, newcomers and familiar faces - The Charlotte Jewish Film Festival was thoroughly enjoyed by a wide array of film lovers. We hope you’ll tell a friend about the Festival and help to set a new attendance record next year. Keep up-to-date on the Charlotte Jewish Film Festival on Facebook (Charlotte Jewish Film Festival) or sign up for our e-mail list at www.charlottejewish- film.com. 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