Connections 22.3: November - Spiritual Directors International
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Connections 22.3: November - Spiritual Directors International
Connections The Newsletter of Spiritual Directors International From the Executive Director In this season of giving thanks, I am grateful for new voices and new perspectives. I find inspiration in the next generation of staff and spiritual directors who are coming forward to communicate the value of spiritual companionship for our time. New voices and new points of view are always emerging. Check out the new SDI website— designed and created by people under forty who care about spiritual direction—and read these words of wisdom from Katherine Hampton, our new communications and engagement specialist: As a new member of the Spiritual Directors International home office team, I watch and listen with open eyes and a receiving heart. While raised in a deeply religious home, the beautiful act of spiritual direction is less familiar to me. Meeting seekers and spiritual directors online, teaching people about the ministry and service of spiritual direction, and editing this publication have been an awakening and rejuvenating experience. I am slowly but surely connecting with seekers and members across faith traditions, generations, and time zones. I find myself in awe of the mosaic of people God has brought together to carry forward the sacred tradition of spiritual direction. Part of my role with SDI will be supporting the 2014 cohort of new contemplatives during the Emerging Wisdom conference. The cohort of new contemplatives is a group of people, under the age of forty, with a passion for spiritual direction. It has been thrilling to read applications from young contemplatives who have a strong passion to seek new and emerging wisdom. The common thread among the applicants has November 2013 Ω Vol. 22.3 been a deep trust in, and respect for, the ancient wisdom that we practice today. That consistent message resonates deeply with me; in order to see where we are going, we must first know where we have been. As a younger member of this community, I am thankful for the warm welcome I have received and the graciousness I have experienced. I am taking the time to read and study the history of SDI and spiritual direction so that I may listen with you to where the Spirit is leading the ministry and service of spiritual direction. I couldn’t be happier to be a part of an embracing community, who values the ancient traditions of the past, and is listening for new and emerging wisdom. Katherine will help Spiritual Direc tors International communicate and engage with a world of seekers and spiritual companions on the web, in print, and in person. With her background in higher education, Katherine has a keen interest in communicating more effectively with students and interns in training and formation programs. In this issue of Connections, you will find inspiring articles by a new contemplative and spiritual directors living in Ireland, Germany, South Africa, and the United States. Thank you for the many ways you provide spiritual inspiration and encouragement. You are transforming the world with your compassion and wisdom. Peace be with you, Liz Budd Ellmann, MDiv Spiritual Directors International www.sdiworld.org 01-425-455-1565 Page 1 God Is and Will Remain the Spiritual Director Rev. Dr. Michael Platig, OCARM [North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany] When I started working as a pastor, I had a key experience: Once I sat by the bedside of a man suffering from terminal cancer. I held his hand and recited the rosary all night long. Towards five o’clock in the morning, he had a fright and lay wide-eyed. I thought that he would pass away any moment, but he relaxed again and spoke the following words: “I thought for a moment that God had abandoned me, but you are still here, Father.” I felt that this was a key sentence for pastoral care, and I would now say that it also is for spiritual direction, because it shows something very important. This terminally ill man said that, to him, my presence, my simply being there had something to do with the presence of God. This was something that was obvious to him, that I need not explain; he had become aware of this connection intuitively. At the same time, he had defined my role as a pastor and spiritual director, as my presence will always indicate the presence of God. I would like to explain this further with the help of Carmelite spirituality. John of the Cross already recognized the risk when a spiritual director is made into a guru or that he or she tries to mould the spiritual directee according to his or her own standards, thus making the person receiving spiritual direction dependent on the spiritual director. These [spiritual] directors should reflect that they themselves are not the chief agent, guide, and mover of souls in this matter, but that the principal guide is the Holy Spirit, Who is never neglectful of souls, and that they are instruments for directing them to perfection through faith and the law of God, according to the spirit God gives each one. Thus the [spiritual] director’s whole concern should not be to accommodate souls to his own method and condition, but he should observe the road along which God is leading them, and if he does not recognize it, he should leave them alone and not bother them. And in harmony with the path and spirit along which God leads them, the spiritual director should strive to conduct them into greater solitude, tranquillity, and freedom of spirit. (John of the Cross, The Living Flame of Love, 3.46) November 2013 Ω Vol. 22.3 Spiritual accompaniment means to track down the Holy Spirit within a person and to help to find the individual’s path. Inevitably this way leads to tension because the spiritual director simply does not know what the other person’s path looks like. Even if it seems reasonable to him or her, giving outside advice always contains the danger of projecting something into the other person. To bear this emptiness and not to rashly fill it with one’s own wisdom, to resist the temptation of giving a simple piece of advice, to consistently look for the Spirit’s work in the other person, are the tasks and the demands of spiritual accompaniment as John of the Cross and the Carmelite tradition understand it. Spiritual accompaniment takes place in the tension between faith in the work of God in humans, and—in the words of John of the Cross—“the intelligence of the companion”. This tension cannot simply be eased by what the companion would decide or by framing it with a given concept. ❉ Spiritual Directors International www.sdiworld.org 01-425-455-1565 Page 2 Incarnate Justice and Holy Listening … for the Sake of Others Rev. Dr. Brenda Buckwell [Ohio, USA] Incarnation—the Word of God becoming flesh—is the picture that captivated my heart as I gazed at the restored edition of the Saint John’s Bible residing at Saint John’s Abbey in Collegeville, Minnesota, USA. My soul leapt with yearning as the constant call to become even more nearly formed “in the image of Christ for the sake of others” echoed through my mind. This definition of Christian spiritual formation, first coined by Robert Mulholland Jr. in his book Shaped by the Word, embodies for me the Wesleyan spirit of how God longs to love each of us into our most authentic self, and for us to live that deeply embodied divine presence of compassion and service to others. It is this foundation of incarnation that anchors justice, service, and faith formation in the United Methodist tradition. For over twenty-five years of pastoral ministry within this Wesleyan tradition, I have experienced the transforming power and presence of God leading those who hunger and thirst for something beyond self into profound and mysterious union with the Divine. At First United Methodist Church in Zanesville, Ohio, USA, the weary band of faint- hearted believers were ignited into the burning passion and flame of God’s presence as they gathered to pray together through the ancient practice of lectio divina. Listening deeply to the inner stirrings of the Holy Spirit, the leadership team birthed a community ministry, which shares the incarnate compassion and presence of God to more than ten thousand neighbors. congregation in a violent, poverty-ridden area of Columbus, Ohio, has brought to life the integration of spiritual direction and care for the marginalized. Through a program loosely based upon the twelve steps of recovery, Celebrate! Café feeds the body and nourishes the soul. Facilitators of small groups are trained in the art of holy listening. They gain the ability to hold lightly the stories of others and assist in opening space for the homeless, the marginalized, and those nearly forgotten, to experience a place of belonging in the divine embrace of community. These small groups of spiritual direction lend divine healing, wholeness of life, and encourage transformation of individual and community life. The wisdom of integrating spiritual direction as foundation to the institutional church provides a lived transformation as God quietly steers believers into the newest awakening of the holy of the twenty-first century. As holy listening and incarnate presence of God emerges in community, the reality of twentyfirst century wisdom is reborn, and the God-shaped emptiness within us that only God can fill, is birthed into its full beauty. ❉ The Wisdom of the Christian Mystics A card deck for the discerning * Quotes from 52 mystics with reflections to savor * Use as inspiration for yourself, group conversation starters, bookmarks, giveaways, wherever your imagination takes you ORDER ONLINE AT: www.awakeningthemysticinyou.com (Click the Christian Mystics tab) Or contact: Ramona Harris ramonarharris@gmail.com 209-988-1508 Westgate United Methodist Church, a small urban November 2013 Ω Vol. 22.3 Spiritual Directors International www.sdiworld.org 01-425-455-1565 Page 3 Walking in the Footsteps of Hildegard of Bingen Christine Valters Paintner [Galway, Ireland] Recently on the Spiritual Directors International pilgrimage to Germany, I had the opportunity to stand in the monastic enclosure where it is believed that Hildegard of Bingen, along with her mentor Jutta, spent many years beginning at age fourteen. The cell would have had two windows: one into the church so the women could participate in the community prayers and the other to the outside where food could be given to them and visitors could come to seek spiritual guidance and counsel. It was powerful to imagine this scene of pilgrims traveling there, with the questions and concerns of their twelfth century world weighing heavily on them. I imagine that many of their prayers were not so very different than our own today: a loved one who is ill, the sense of God calling them to something beyond their perceived ability, seeking solace for grief and sorrow, or the experience of doubt. Poetry Whatever the specifics of these concerns were, it was enough to compel them to make the journey up the hill to the monastery at Disibodenberg and seek the wisdom of these young women whose lives were O Moving Force of Wisdom Hildegard of Bingen [RhinelandPalatinate, Germany] O moving force of Wisdom, encircling the wheel of the cosmos, Encompassing all that is, all that has life, in one vast circle. You have three wings: The first unfurls aloft in the highest heights. The second dips its way dripping sweat on the Earth. Over, under, and through all things whirls the third. Praise to you, O Wisdom worthy of praise! ❉ November 2013 Ω Vol. 22.3 dedicated to this service of presence, devoted to the praise of God, and committed to offering solace to those with weary hearts. When Hildegard began having visions again in midlife, at first she resisted writing them down. With the wise counsel of her own dear mentors and soul friends, and the physical vitality which drained away in her time of resisting God’s call, she finally relented and wrote her first book of visions as a gift to the world. Hildegard experienced the power of receiving spiritual direction and guidance directly in her own life. Hildegard eventually left her enclosure to found her own community. But she had spent almost forty years in this place which had shaped her in profound ways. She continued living by the rhythms of the Benedictine life and as her fame grew, offered spiritual direction to lay people, other nuns, clerics, and even bishops and the pope. In monastic tradition, the cell is always meant to be an outward symbol of an inner reality—the place within each of us where we encounter the Divine most intimately. Time spent in the cell is meant to be on behalf of others and the world. Hildegard’s call was to move out from the enclosure which sustained her for half her lifetime and extend the creative and contemplative path even more widely. As spiritual directors, we too are called to spend time in this cell of contemplation and encounter with the sacred presence in our innermost being. Having a place of retreat and time of pause regularly is what nourishes us to return back to the community, with greater depth and wisdom to bring to our listening. Saint Hildegard was a remarkable woman in so many ways, steeped in “listening with the ear of her heart” the first line from the Benedictine Rule, which was foundational to her spiritual formation. We might consider her to be one of the patron saints of our call to the ministry and service of spiritual direction. ❉ The next issue of Connections will feature more stories, photos, and poetry from the Interfaith Pilgrimage to Germany: In the Footsteps of Hildegard of Bingen. 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Supplies and resources to support your spiritual journey and educate seekers. www.sdiworld.org November 2013 Ω Vol. 22.3 Spiritual Directors International www.sdiworld.org 01-425-455-1565 Page 5 Wisdom of the Seed Helen Kwon [California, USA] The ancient teachers of the historic spiritual traditions drew many of their insights from the cosmos and the earth around them. This path to wisdom is again renewing itself, lovingly and powerfully creeping up on us, like vines climbing up and surrounding concrete buildings that we have created to enclose ourselves in. I recently shared with a farm worker colleague about deep anxiety I was feeling in the face of ongoing work instability. I expressed frustration in my desire to “help” people, and feelings of shame that I’m not making more of my life. “Helen,” she slowly remarked, “I feel like you are a seed that is trying to immediately produce a plant and fruit in your life. It takes time, and maybe compost, to get there.” What followed from that invitation to reimagine my life through the lens of a seed was powerful interior messages about simplicity, humility, waiting, silence, and a downward journey into the soil that precedes any so-called upward growth. I experienced a not-knowing that pre-dates judgment, a terrifying aloneness that is yet surrounded by the womb of Gaia/Sophia/Life itself— and connected with November 2013 Ω Vol. 22.3 all other beings in nature. My act of non-violence in this moment is to accept myself. My work is to see myself, to be with myself, and to be with the overwhelming discomfort of uncertainty. The emerging impulse towards greater alignment with nature and ourselves is translating into expressions of non-violent resistance in modern life. Busy moms, professionals, and prisoners turn to yoga and meditation to connect to their breath—the silence of nature within their bodies. Urban communities of color are growing their own food creatively, collaboratively, and free of chemicals in places from which corporate supermarkets have fled. Social media, mimicking the vast network structures in nature, is playing a significant role in the grassroots movement against dictatorships in the Middle East and North Africa. Towards the end of his life, at his last speech to the Southern Christian Leadership Conference, Martin Luther King Jr. questioned the economic structures that contribute to poverty: “And one day we must ask the question, ‘Why are there forty million poor people in America?’ … You see, my friends, when you deal with this you begin to ask the question, ‘Who owns the oil?’ You begin to ask the question, ‘Who owns the iron ore?’ Spiritual Directors International www.sdiworld.org 01-425-455-1565 Page 6 You begin to ask the question, ‘Why is it that people have to pay water bills in a world that’s two-thirds water?’ These are the questions that must be asked.” Nature— reflecting our true being—in contrast to systems that concentrate wealth and defensively claim ownership of nature itself, is abundant and generous. Can un-dealt- with violence, including self-violence, in my heart and mind, not translate into violence on a social and planetary level? Ultimately, can the interior mystical path be separated from transformational work towards harmony with all people and planet? The seed, in all its humility, has at its powerful center, both the energies and expanse of the cosmos, and the simple surrender of self. ❉ On Grace Mags Blackie [Cape Town, South Africa] “Let God be God.” This is a phrase I have used for many years in the context of both giving spiritual direction and training spiritual directors. I cannot say whether the phrase is mine or whether I picked it up from someone else. For me, it has its origins in giving eight-day, individuallyguided retreats. Over time I began to notice that sooner or later, God would show up. Around day four, five, or six, something would shift in the dynamic of the retreat. Sometimes it would be a significant encounter with God, sometimes a shift in the central desire or issue that had been expressed earlier on, and sometimes some other change. Each time the change was notable and each time there was an element of surprise. This was the grace of the retreat. In recent years, I have noticed this dynamic of grace at work in on-going spiritual direction too. It is most evident in—although not limited to—those places of “stuckness” which we sometimes encounter. Those places where we have done the mental and emotional work necessary to overcome a problem, but there is still something which constrains us. In those times I have discovered a glimmer of hope. If I dare to own my stuckness and to hold it before God, I begin to accept my powerlessness. As intelligent and emotionally grounded as I may be, there are still things that are beyond me. When I can stand before God in the nakedness of that place, I can begin to pray for the grace to move through it. In my experience the grace is always given—although it may take some time—and November 2013 Ω Vol. 22.3 a way forward will open up. There is an important caveat though: the way forward rarely looks the way I expect it to. Even if I know that I need to let go of something, the lived experience of the letting go will not be quite what I anticipate. This element of surprise means that I could not have willed myself into freedom precisely because I was not able to envision what it would actually entail. I understand this transition to be grace. This process requires discernment: sifting out the things I am able to do from those over which I am powerless. To act where I can, but to acknowledge and own my incapacity when I uncover the heart of my problem requires that I am able to relinquish control and to trust that God will find a way through. In essence, it is the paradox at the heart of the practice of spiritual direction—intentionally holding the process, but having no fixed outcome in mind. Letting God be God is being true to the fullness of my humanity. This entails using all my giftedness and being present to my own limitations. In this space, the grace of God can flow unimpeded. ❉ May 25-May 30, 2014 Kanuga Conference Center • NC BlueRidge Mountains 12 PRESENTATIONS, 25 WORKSHOPS & 4 DREAM GROUPS 40 STAFF, INCLUDING: Eben Alexander, Best selling Author of “Proof of Heaven”, A Neurosurgeon’s Journey into the Afterlife. Jeremy Taylor, Past President of the International Association of Dreams and Author of “The Wisdom in Your Dreams” Pittman McGehee, Author, Priest and Jungian Analyst presenting “Dreams, A Conduit for the Transcendent” Larry Maze, Episcopal Bishop presenting “The Archetype of Apocalypse: Modern Fear, but Ancient Wisdom” Jerry Wright, Jungian Analyst presenting “Depth Psychology: A Modern Mystical Path” Howard Addison, Jewish Rabbi and author of “The Enneagram and the Kabbalah” Sheri Kling, Graduate work on “Dreams, Suffering and the Book of Job” Bob Haden, Author, Jungian Psychotherapist and Priest presenting “Theresa of Avila’s Interior Castle from a Jungian Perspective” Bob Hoss, Past President of The International Association for the Study of Dreams” and Author of “Dream Language” DREAM WORKBOOK: “Unopened Letters from God” USING BIBLICAL DREAMS TO UNLOCK YOUR NIGHTLY DREAMS AVAILABLE AT AMAZON.COM FOR INFO & TO REGISTER: www.HadenInstitute.com Spiritual Directors International www.sdiworld.org 01-425-455-1565 Page 7 G W N I I S G D R O E M M E April 24-May 2, 2014 Conference, Institutes, Pilgrimage, Contemplative Retreat, Free Community Event FE ATURING KE YNOTE PR ESENTER S Father Richard Rohr, ofm, is a globally renowned ecumenical teacher bearing witness to the universal awakening within mystical and transformational traditions. Roshi Joan Halifax is a Buddhist teacher, Zen priest, anthropologist, and author, focusing for more than three decades on engaged Buddhism. Eve Ilsen is a psychotherapist, rabbinic pastor, storyteller, and singer. Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi is widely recognized as perhaps the most important Jewish spiritual teacher of our time, committed to a post-triumphalist, ecumenical, and Gaian approach. E VER Y ON E SE E K I N G WIS D OM IS WE LC O M E Santa Fe Convention and Community Center, New Mexico, USA www.sdiworld.org Thank You! Spiritual Directors International is deeply grateful to all the donors whose contributions for the fiscal year helped grow the work of our global learning community. Many people rely on your big-heartedness. Your generosity supports membership and educational events scholarships and bursaries, tree planting, publications, outreach programs, and more. We are grateful for contributions of all kinds. Ms. Beth Beyer Abbott, MA Rev. Wendy Lynn Abrahamson Sandra Kathleen Adams Mrs. Linda Marie Adams Ms. Alegria Aquino Albers, MATS Sally Amundsen Rev. Jennifer Anne Amy-Dressler Dennis Anderson Rev. Andrea Young Andress Evan Ardley Deacon John C. Avery Francina Bardsley Mrs. Buff Barnes Mrs. Jane Bates Leah Batty Ms. Diana Beaudry Kathleen Ann Beaulieu Nancy C. Beaver, MSW, ACSW, LISW-CP Ms. Mary M. Becker Kate Bednarski, MS, MLA Cynthia Ann Bell Dr. Shirah Alice Bell, MBA, PhD Dr. Sam Benbow Rev. Mara Benner Mrs. Linda L. Bennett Laura Bennett Rev. Marilyn J. Benson Donna Bohlcke Yvette Boodhoo, PhD Ms. Nan C. Bouche, MA Rosalind Bradley Mrs. Peggy Brewer Peggy Hardaway Brooks Mrs. Christine Elaine Brosend Jesse J. Brown Theresa C. Browning Rev. Lynnsay Anne Buehler Dr. Ruah Bull Rev. Dr. Margaret Bullitt-Jonas Judith A. Bunker, MA Rev. Michael Thomas Buttner, STL Sr. Margarita Byron, FCJ Mr. Ken Cachat Mrs. Kathleen A. Cackowsky, MSW Ms. Mary S. Cadden Elizabeth C. Caemmerer Ms. Camille Caldwell, MS, ARNP Bruce C. Calvin, MDiv The Rev. Thomas George Camp, MDiv Ms. Kelly Patricia Carson, MDiv, JD Ms. Catherine S. Carstarphen, MDiv Rev. David Jay Cartwright Alexandra Lynn Caverly-Lowery, MDiv, MTh Bickley Chipman Wilson Mrs. Eileen Chwalibog Sr. Bernadette Anne Claps, CBS Laurel Clark Dawn R. Cogger Mr. Tom Lee Conditt Ms. Claire Conroy Ms. Marcia Mary Cook, MEd, MFA Dr. Ann Homer Cook Ruth Y. Copland Sr. Phyllis Corbett Rev. Dr. C. Karen Covey Moore, DMin Becky E. Cowart Rev. Marilyn Jean Crawford Catherine R. Crosby, MPS, RYT November 2013 Ω Vol. 22.3 Sr. Elizabeth Cummins, OSF Mr. Norman John Currie Sr. Tiziana Dal Masetto, PDDM Shari Dam, JD Mr. Mark A. Dannenfelser, LPC, LCADC Joan E. Davis Marilyn Dodge Ms. Melinda Brown Donovan Mrs. Celeste M. Dowling, MA Mrs. Valerie D. Downing, MA William Patrick Doyle, MEd, MA Michael Doyle Rev. Dr. Joseph D. Driskill, PhD Br. Joseph M. Dudek Dr. Nancy K. Dunkerley, DMin Susan S. Dunn Rev. Mary C. Earle Sandra Eckstein Rev. Tilden Hampton Edwards, Jr. Rev. Sharon H. Edwards Mary H. Ellmann Laurie Erickson Karen L. Erlichman, LCSW Ms. Mary Bartlett Espinosa Rev. Suzanne A. Fageol William Faiella, CSC George H. Faulk Dr. Vivian A. Feintech Ms. Margaret Fenton, MTS Sr. Pauline Margaret Ferguson, RSJ Kate Hennessy Finan Maggie Finley, MAPS, BCC Dr. Stephanie Anne Ford Ms. Terri S. Gaffney, MA Sr. Janet A. Gagnon, CSJ Fr. James S. Galluzzo Judy Galson Roberta Gannon, MFT Rev. Dr. Bob Gardenhire, III Ms. Vickie G. Garrison Chaplain Anne E. Gentile Robert J. Giers Sr. Jeanne Girardin, SSCH Rev. Betsy S. Godbold Rebecca Goff, MTS, CSD Br. Patrick George Gordon, CFC Mary Gracely Rev. Robert L. Graham, III Sr. Claire R. Graham, SSS Robert Eliott Graves Sr. Charmaine Ann Grilliot, CPPS Mrs. Karin Elizabeth Grosscup, MS, CNS Dr. Catherine I. Grytting, EdD Ms. Elizabeth Guss Dr. Diana W. Guthrie, PhD Hans B. Hallundbaek Priscilla L. Hanford Teresa Hanlon, MA Margaret R. Harris Ann D. Harris Jacobs, PhD Ms. Irena Anne Harrison Dr. Leslie A. Hay, DMin Christa Henrich De Fischler Herman Bee Herz Sr. Katherine A. Hill, RSM, DMin Lucy Buchen Hines John Hinton Nancy A. Hodgkinson Jennifer (Jinks) Hoffmann Rev. Kenneth O. Holderread, DMin Deanna Morgan Hollas Mrs. Susan J. E. Holm Andrea Comte Holmes Mrs. Libby Hore-Lacy Debbi Horton Mr. Dick Hubbard Mrs. Bonnie M. Hugeback Ms. Carole Pocza Hull, MA Regina Strader Hunt Martha Hunter Susie Idzik Sr. Patricia M. Irr, OSF Caroline Isaacs Rev. Beverly Isley-Landreth, MDiv, ThM Karen Luke Jackson, EdD Gerri C. Jackson Marylou Jacoby Cherri Jestmore Bernadette Jewell Rebecca Johnson Dr. Michelle Lucille Johnson, DC Dan Johnson Ms. Diane Fay Johnson Mrs. Nancy Johnson Jokerst Dr. Ruth H. Judy Susan Kaul, MDiv Deacon Joseph R. Kayser Sr. Marianne Keena, CSJ Ms. Dale Una Keenan Barbara F. Keffer, MA, LP Rev. Linda M. Kelly-Baker Rev. James Knutsen Sr. Marijka Konderewicz Judith Koons Michele Janet Krakowski Terrilyn J. 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