here to a PDF version of our latest newsletter
Transcription
here to a PDF version of our latest newsletter
The Open Door A look inside our Clubhouse October 2016 www.howardlevinclubhouse.org A Publication of the Howard Levin Clubhouse Welcome to the HLC, Brant! By Pat Tokar Howard Levin Clubhouse A Program of Jewish Residential Services 2621 Murray Ave. Pittsburgh, PA 15217 (412) 422-1850 Member Services is back in action with the addition of our new hire Brant Meehan. We’ve been unstaffed for many months and now we have an enthusiastic, talented, friendly, compassionate, and energetic new addition to our family. Brant has brought a lot of excitement and fun to the daily work. He started at a very busy time… the beginning of Bowl-A-Rama. Thankfully, Brant has had a lot of experience in fundraising as he ran and organized the Homeless Art Show for Allegheny County called ―Street Art.‖ Being such a talented artist he is integrating his love of art and his Art Therapy degree into our exciting theme for Bowl-A-Rama and generating a lot of excitement with the members and getting them engaged in the projects. Newsletter Staff: Deb Charochak Jan H. Mike Hogan Sarah Hughes David Kent Thom M. Brant Meehan Susan O. Francis Pesanka Zara Sayles Eric Sc. Betsy S. Ed Tipton Pat Tokar I knew Brant when I was in WPIC outpatient program. I worked with him when he was a student at Carlow and doing an internship at WPIC. He was able to relate to me in a way many therapists couldn’t because of his past struggles with depression and anxiety which he is very open about. While he was living in New York City in 1998, he suffered a breakdown. During his recovery he was introduced to art therapy and was hooked. It helped him to express his feelings he couldn’t verbalize in other ways. I worked on an art therapy project with Brant at WPIC and it made an immense change in my life. While I worked with Brant he opened up new ways for me to express myself. I will be forever grateful and I know he will help so many Clubhouse members with his kind and empathetic manner. Welcome to the HLC, Brant! 1 Rodef Shalom Biblical Botanical Gardens; Songs that Lift My Spirits 2 NAMI Experience 3 The Jewish Federation of Greater Pittsburgh Annual Meeting Let Us Love One Another; Pet Therapy 4 You Gotta Keep Moving 6 Save The Date! 7 Labor Day at Camp Run Labor Day at Camp Run continued; Labor Day Picnic at the Clubhouse 8 Bargain Bin Record Reviews 10 Cases of Books 11 5 9 Brant is a jack of all trades and master of many. Brant grew up in Ellwood City, PA. When he was a kid, he owned and operated a lawn and gardening business. At 13, he sold art and he started a clothing line at 16. His clothing was sold in a few stores by 1991/1992. In 1992 the small town boy moved to the big city of Pittsburgh where he worked as a waiter. In 1994, Brant moved to New York City. To support himself Brant worked as a waiter, a Macy’s elf, at the Empire State Building, and as a cleaning person. He started a cleaning service and an art consultant business. Several years later, Brant suffered his breakdown and began his struggle with depression and anxiety. After working on his recovery and art therapy, he moved to Ft. Lauderdale and managed a craft store. In 2001, he went back to school to pursue a career in art therapy. He started out at Community College of Beaver County. In 2002 he started at Carlow University for art therapy and social work. In 2007, he graduated from Carlow and started the master program at the University of Pittsburgh in social work with a concentration in mental health. While he was at Pitt, he interned at the Cancer Caring Center. Brant currently owns/ operates three businesses. An art business ―Dusty Curtains,‖ M2 counseling and artful healing and Meehan Cleaning. How he can do all the things he does and do them well is a testament to his character and work ethic and love of people. We are truly fortunate to have Brant here at the HLC. PAGE 2 HOWARD LEVIN CLUBHOUSE Rodef Shalom Biblical Botanical Garden By Thom M. The Biblical Botanical Garden at Rodef Shalom Temple is located in the Oakland section of Pittsburgh. Several Clubhouse members took a tour of the garden on a hot, humid day in August. Our tour guide was Rabbi Walter Jacob. Rabbi Jacob was one of the founders of the Garden in 1978. 2016’s summer special exhibit is the forests of Ancient Israel. Featuring small trees derived from, or relating to, the trees of Israel in Biblical and modern times. At the start of the 21st century, Israel was one of the few countries that entered the new century with an increase in forestry instead of a decrease. Thanks to the Jewish National Fund and support from Israel’s government, more than 240 million trees have been planted in both and new and previously existing forests. This year’s botanical garden features trees which are now grown in Israel. There are some lovely small ponds in the Garden. After the tour we got a surprise - we were privileged to go inside the Temple. Rabbi Jacob told us the history of the congregation. We were awed by the beauty of the Temple. We all enjoyed the visit despite the humidity. There was some shade, thankfully. Songs That Lift My Spirits By Susan O. 1. Cake by the Ocean—DNCE 2. Can’t Stop the Feeling! - Justin Timberlake 3. Celebration—Kool and The Gang 4. Check it Out—John Mellencamp 5. Eye in the Sky—The Alan Parsons Project 6. Eye of the Tiger—Survivor 7. Hold On—Wilson Philips 8. Hold the Line—Toto 9. Hysteria—Def Leppard 10. I’ll be There for You—The Rembrandts 11. Love Song—The Cure 12. Party in the U.S.A.—Miley Cyrus 13. Peace of Mind—Boston 14. 1999—Prince 15. September—Earth, Wind, and Fire 16. Caught up in You—38 Special 17. Two Princes—Spin Doctors 18. We Built This City—Jefferson Starship 19. Year of the Cat—Al Stewart 20. You’re the Inspiration—Chicago THE OPEN DOOR PAGE 3 NAMI Experience By Betsy S. Two women came to HLC representing NAMI wanting us to tell the story of our own lives and symptoms of mental illness and present it to legislators. Betsy B. and I gave our testimonials. I was hesitant at first but was told it would be just one on one. I thank God that most of the time I feel fine because of taking my psych meds correctly every day. Also because of my many friends and family support. I have Bipolar Disorder and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder but my pills take the symptoms away. The Clubhouse has also helped me over the years too. For example, fellow members and staff whom showed me how to do tasks at the Clubhouse and my counselors helped me with personal problems that I may have had. Now I usually go the Clubhouse for yoga and for outings that interest me, like our visit to Chatham University to see the whole campus. I am sure that with all the help from everything from learning the reception desk to recording daily notes on the computer, I have become a better person because of it. I volunteer now two days a week with the elderly in a dining room and I like it very much. I get Social Security Disability Insurance which pays my rent because I have had many jobs in the past. I have lived in my own one bedroom apartment for twenty-three years and love it. I do my own cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping and driving. My father helps me with money matters, but I am a very independent person. I have belonged to HLC for about twelve years and it is always there if I need it. After I wrote this article I tore my rotator cuff in my shoulder from a fall and I have a heel spur which I do exercises for. I will get physical therapy for both them. I have been out of commission for a while going to doctors but still getting out some. PAGE 4 HOWARD LEVIN CLUBHOUSE The Jewish Federation of Greater Pittsburgh Annual Meeting By: Mike Hogan ―See the Good.‖ That was the slogan of the annual meeting of the Jewish Federation of Greater Pittsburgh (J-Fed) which was held on August 30th, 2016. Few organizations live up to their slogan to the extent that J-Fed of Pittsburgh does. Their annual meeting showed just how important this philanthropic group is to the Pittsburgh Jewish community. Ms. Cynthia D. Shapira, the Chair of J-Fed, welcomed the guests warmly, then, the assembly sang the national anthems of Israel and the USA. Cantor Michal Gray-Schaffer of Congregation B’nai Abraham of Butler, PA gave the D’var Torah (blessing). Ms. Shapira then retook the rostrum to present the annual J-Fed report. In the report, Ms. Shapira covered the many programs that J-Fed funds and guides. They ranged from planting trees in Israel, to providing camps for Jewish youth, to aiding in the obtaining visas for talented young men and women from around the globe. The list of programs demonstrated that J-Fed is integral to the success of most of the programs in the Squirrel Hill area. After the report, several awards were presented. The Emanuel Spector Memorial Award was presented to Stephen Halpern. A video tribute was made to JRS’s recently retired Executive Director, Debbie Friedman, among others. The video was overwhelmingly well received by the highly appreciative crowd. Numerous other awards and recognitions were presented to prominent members and volunteers of the Greater Pittsburgh Jewish Community. The assembly gave all the recipients warm applause and appreciation for their selfless devotion to the Jewish community. After the meeting, the J-Fed held a reception outside the grand ballroom of Rodef Shalom temple. Along with the camaraderie, the Federation provided a dessert spread that was bound to give everyone toothaches. There were cookies, fudge candy, and chocolate-covered cake lollypops—enough for everyone to get ―next-day a bellyache!‖ Fortunately, the whole audience was willing to say ―L’ chaim!‖ to life —and the Jewish Federation of Greater Pittsburgh. Shalom. THE OPEN DOOR PAGE 5 Let Us Love One Another By Deb Charochak Sometimes we (me included) are in the storm, the darkness of life and we remain there for a while – much longer than we want to do so. We then need to, in my mind, somehow pick ourselves up by our bootstraps and continue on in a positive direction. Things that can be helpful are‖ saying a prayer or a mantra (I recite the ―Our Father Prayer‖). Also, we can have something pleasurable to look forward to. The head of my treatment team, Suzanne, encourages me to formulate a schedule daily by writing it out the night before (it can be flexible). Then we can see what we are getting up to and what we need to say and do the following day. It is very good and pleasant to know what is coming our way the next day. Also, it is good to call a close friend(s) during the day. Coming to the Clubhouse is amazing and awesome. Just being here among colleagues can be helpful. Participating in the work-ordered day is also good. Getting up at the same time and going to bed at the same time assist in proper circadian rhythm. If one needs a nap, they should fall asleep in a chair and not in a bed – I learned this from my doctor and it helps my mom and me immensely. Going to church, synagogue, or another place of worship is a very good thing; I begin my day in this regard. A good breakfast is a winner. Taking medication with food, unless otherwise noted, can also be helpful; and taking medications the same time every day is an awesome thing. Getting together with friends and family is very nice. Spending time alone and in silence is also rewarding. Going to the doctor’s on a regular basis is important as well. Getting some r & r, rest and relaxation, is wonderful. Participating in interests and hobbies is also nice. Favorite pastimes are favorites of mine. Let us conquer the darkness and try to the utmost to live in the light. Let us do our best, it’s worth it. We are extremely worth it – each individual is precious and special. Pet Therapy By Jan H. It was a Sunday afternoon, July 31st, an Open Sunday at Clubhouse. I had forgotten that we were having a therapy dog until I looked through the door as I knocked. As I waited to be let in, I saw this large dog with the most beautiful white hair. The door opened and the dog and I locked eyes: it was love at first sight for me and for Chloe. I knew that we were meant to spend some time together that afternoon. I sat in the chair and she came right to me. It felt so good petting and interacting with her. Her hair was wonderful, very soft. She was incredibly gentle and just ate up the attention, as did I. I don’t have pets, nor have I ever wanted one. However, dogs typically immediately take to me. I’m not sure why, most of the time I love talking to them as I watch their tails wag while looking at me. Petting this dog was so good for me that day. I finally got down on the floor so that I could bury my face into her fur. Hugging her felt so good, so right and just like it was supposed to be. It was truly therapeutic. I want her to come back. And I anticipate a repeat of that special day. PAGE 6 HOWARD LEVIN CLUBHOUSE You Gotta Keep Moving By Ed Tipton Don’t stop believin’/Hold on to the feelin’-the band Journey, from the album ―Escape‖ (1981), writers, Johnathan Cain; Steve Perry; Neal Schon We all go through something. I am going through something big as I write this. Will this change for the better or worse? I’m hoping for the better, but right now any change is good. One thing that I know about myself as I am on this journey (unintentional pun) of life is that I have held stuff both good and bad in me for too long. Don’t do that for yourself! I know a long time ago I had an article about ―talk it out,‖ but in this case I say, at least acknowledge it. We hide stuff from ourselves and others. It’s a great thing to talk to others but sometimes you have to talk to yourself. Not always out loud either but within the confines of your mind. We’re always too busy either trying to do this or that, or worse yet, trying to put a smile on the pain and confusion inside that we never begin to realize who we are both good and bad. Down the journey (intentional pun this time) of your path, no matter what happens, keep moving. That’s my general advice of the day. The road gets rough, the road gets smooth, the road gets rough, the road gets smooth … and so forth. I know that there is a poem or essay (I forget which) entitled ―Things I Learned in Kindergarten,‖ which you can look up for yourself online or wherever, that essentially state the basic children’s truths and rules we forgot as adults that would help make us better human beings. So when I state the obvious here, it’s not to insult you or degrade me. It’s just to say the truths we forget. So acknowledge the truth about yourself. Don’t hide it from you first and don’t hide it from others second. Life brings joy and pain and happiness and sorrow. And sometimes a lot at one time. Be honest and walk the best you can. Get the supports you need including here from members and staff, and, on a personal note, thank you all for caring. No matter what happens, do what you can and don’t stop believing in yourself (hey, I had to tie the lyrics in somehow), but what I am saying is true. Believe in yourself no matter what and care about yourself no matter what. Let it out as best you can. Thank you all for caring. THE OPEN DOOR PAGE 7 Save The Date! It’s that time again! The Howard Levin Clubhouse is excited to announce the date for our BOWL-A-RAMA Fundraiser! When: Sunday, November 27th, 2016 Where: Forward Lanes in Squirrel Hill Participants will receive: A reserved space in a lane to bowl in for an hour and a half A brightly colored commemorative T-shirt A raffle ticket, with the chance to win great prizes Delicious Kosher munchies! Clubhouse members bowl for free (in HLC lanes) If you have any questions, please contact the Howard Levin Clubhouse at 412-422-1850 Clubhouse members: If you would like to be a part of the Bowl-A-Rama planning process, please join us on Wednesdays at 1:30 PM at the Clubhouse as we discuss the event! Specific area meetings also take place on Tuesday and Wednesday mornings at 11:00 AM in the Business and Member Services Areas, respectively! Baking for Bowl-A-Rama occurs every Monday afternoon after the touch base meeting. Canvassing for Bowl-A-Rama occurs every Thursday after the touch base meeting. Come in and get involved in planning our big fundraiser! PAGE 8 HOWARD LEVIN CLUBHOUSE Labor Day at Camp Run By Francis Pesanka Larry and Pat picked me up after breakfast on Saturday, Sept 3rd, before Labor Day. We left about 9:00 am to Bear Run campground and took the Parkway to 79 north to 279 to Erie, north of Youngstown. At mile 80/Porterville we took exit 488. It took one hour to get there. We stopped at a gas station to pick up lunch. The chicken smelled great for dinner. Larry got out to stretch his legs, since we had been sitting in the car for almost two hours. I showed him a picture of me and him shoveling snow last year. Pat said she will put it on the refrigerator. In the picture, the hat I had on was of the Steelers and had a white tassel. Some girl stole that one from me in Miami three years ago. It took us two hours to get to camp. After she parked the car, I got out to help Pat. Larry can’t walk up steps too good. He walks with a cane to balance himself. I put all the cushions on the chairs and went looking for small twigs for the fire while Pat started lunch, lunch was hot dogs and hamburger – they were delicious! Then, we went to the pool area. There was a band playing, and Larry bought me some ice cream in a cup chocolate chip. The band was Eugene and the Hermits. It was a beautiful weekend! Larry and I sat on two chairs at the pool. Then Pat showed up, and we went to the other side. The pool temperature was 81 degrees – just a slight chill in the water. Pat sprayed Larry’s arms and my arms with sunscreen. ―Wrong steps,‖ Pat told me. Then the owner gave Larry and me a ride in his golf cart. When we got back from the pool, I got my camera and went out and took a picture of the camper. When I showed Pat the picture, she said she’ll take a better one at sunset. Pat told me to sit on the porch, but I went in to get dressed. She gave me two quarters to go down to take a shower. After the shower, it was dinner time! We had chicken and potatoes. Larry gave me a beer. I drank it and gave him a magazine from Post-Gazette, and it was all about the Steelers and Big Ben! After it got dark, Larry went outside and started a fire. I went out to put another log on the fire. When it was cooking great, Pat went over and got little skinny sticks and put marshmallows on the skinny sticks. I stuck them in the fire to melt them. She put hers in and sizzled them black. I put mine in and it came out light brown and melted on the inside. I don’t like blackness on my marshmallows. It was a great fire then, so Pat put more marshmallows on a stick. She was the chef. She put the crackers on the bottom, a piece of chocolate next, then the marshmallow, then another graham cracker on top. she told me to ―smoosh‖ it together, I ate four of them! Then she said, ―That’s it; no more.‖ Continued on Page 9 THE OPEN DOOR PAGE 9 Continued from Page 8 At 9:30 pm we went over to talk to their neighbors. It was a nice conversation with those people. During that, the car race was on the TV. Larry was watching the race then. A great conversation was going on with the neighbor woman. Her mother was a schoolteacher and her mom was 67 years when she started teaching. I thought that was quite an accomplishment for someone that age. Her husband gave me a beer. He had a fire on his campsite. At 10:00pm we went to bed. I put my radio on low till 3 am. The front door opened at 7:00 am, and I got dressed. Larry gave me a protein bar, and I ate it with a cup of coffee. I helped pack everything that was upstairs. There were cushions that Larry was taking off the furniture and passing to me to put in the storage area. I had helped him put them out when we got there. I also took the trash down to the gate. We left a little before noon, and we got back to the Pittsburgh area around 2ish. They got me back to McKeesport in time for Labor Day dinner at Quiet Ridge. We had hamburgers, hotdogs, and potato salad and Bush’s baked beans and a glass of Pepsi cola. I said to all my people friends, ―HAPPY LABOR DAY EVERONE!‖ Labor Day Picnic at The Clubhouse By David K. My friend and I arrived at the garden for the Howard Levin Clubhouse’s Labor Day picnic. Then, we thought maybe it was cancelled because no one was there. So, we went to the Clubhouse, lo and behold, people were getting aboard the van for the picnic. Well, there was picnic food to eat, and lots of it! We had kosher hot dogs, macaroni salad, and homemade coleslaw. Then we also had egg salad wraps and plenty of succulent watermelon. For entertainment, we played ladder ball and bocce ball. Since I’m the competitive type, bocce ball was right up my alley, so to speak! Bran, Sue, and I had some fun with playing that underrated game. It was a perfect day weather-wise, and nobody left the picnic hungry. PAGE 10 HOWARD LEVIN CLUBHOUSE Bargain Bin Record Reviews By Mike Hogan Recently, I profiled the rise and fall of ragtime music. Much of it was written and arranged for the piano. Likewise, the piano has been an integral component of jazz from the dawn of its creation. This month I would like to profile some of the early jazz pianists. No one knows who was the first jazz pianist, but it is easy to speculate that the piano was a part of most jazz groups in New Orleans. Bars and brothels usually had a piano and the early jazz groups undoubtedly took advantage of them. The first pianist who we can say with certainty who played jazz was Fate Marable. We know this because he gave Louis Armstrong his first gig in the early twentieth century. Marable played mainly on riverboats. In the 1920s, Louis Armstrong employed his wife, Lil Harden Armstrong, on his famous Hot Five and Hot Seven recordings. These songs were mainly blues. Lil was a decent pianist, but not great. Bessie Smith also employed several pianists to accompany her on her early blues songs. The real breakthrough in Jazz piano came in 1929 when Earl Hines accompanied Louis Armstrong on two extraordinary songs—‖West End Blues‖ and ―Weather Bird.‖ These two songs pointed the direction that jazz musicians would follow for decades to come. The pianist had secured his/her place in jazz by the end of the 1920s. But, there was another movement in jazz going on. In Harlem and Kansas City a new form of music was being played. It was called ―Stride.‖ The stride pianists were very flashy. They employed a strong left hand to handle the rhythm, while doing outlandish chords and runs with their right hand. There is little recorded music of the stride style, but Willie “The Lion” Smith and James P. Johnson were recorded. These records are hard to find, but the search is worthwhile. One of my favorite records in my collection has Smith teaching the stride style of playing to his protégé Michael Lipskin. While stride has gone out of fashion, it was highly influential. Both Thomas “Fats” Waller and Art Tatum started out as stride-style pianists. So there you have it. Pianists, like guitarists, have a long and honorable position in the development of jazz. Out of the two streams of jazz piano—blues and stride—developed the modern jazz style. Today’s pianists still honor their forbears in the modern jazz styles of pianists such as Keith Jarrett and McCoy Tyner. The past always lives on in jazz. AS ALWAYS KEEP ON SWINGING! THE OPEN DOOR PAGE 11 Cases of Books by Eric the Redologist In this article, I will be reviewing book three of the poem Aeneid, by Virgil. This part of the epic details the sea-bound journey from the fallen city of Troy to a land that the Trojans think will offer a foundation for a new, and eventually prosperous, country. What is intriguing about this part of the tale is how the Trojans turn to the gods for advice, but are unsure how to interpret their omens. Leaping to conclusions based on primitive assumptions, the Trojans meet near disaster before they realize the error of their ways. Before they become rigidly convinced of the gods’ true meaning, Aeneus and his people first sail to Crete, an island under the auspices of Jupiter himself, but later find disastrous circumstances that force their departure, causing them to reinterpret the prophetic words issued to them on a broader basis. Throughout this epic, it is interesting that though the gods are able to harness power inaccessible to men, they still need the cooperation of men. The Trojans become convinced of their course only when it appears that the gods are favoring it. While the men have willpower, there are many things out of their control that they attribute to the doings of the gods. This stolid belief that disaster is due to divine will also prevents any thoughts of mutiny, and there is never any questioning of Aeneus’s leadership in this book. Aeneus, perhaps because of his semi-divine heritage, is also subservient to the gods, but at many places he appears just as out of the loop of their intentions as his men. Strongly sprinkled throughout the poem are encounters with mythological creatures, and this book features both harpies and cyclops creatures. The encounter with harpies serves to indicate an errant landing on evil-infested shores, while at the same time forebodes their future revenge on the men for disturbing them, once and should the Trojans ever settle down in their proper lands. As for the pack of the cyclops creatures, a band of men manages to blind one, leaving it thrashing about in the waters, but the comrades of this wounded wight overwhelm the hindering humans, again forcing a retreat. The language of this section of the poem is filled with the names of the lands the Trojans temporarily tread in, as a part of their ongoing quest to find the land that is fit, and fated, for them to settle in. As they thread about the spots of terrain in the sea, they also find danger in the sudden volcanic action of Etna in the land of the cyclops creatures, as well as sea creatures that induce dangerous waves and aquatic maelstroms. As this section winds to its end, it leaves the Trojans at their divined point of debarkation on shipwrecked sands. This book of the epic actually is a retelling of their ordeals, at a decadent feast provided by the matriarch Dido. Aeneus’s recollection influences his hostess, and sets the stage for some of the dire events to come. HOWARD LEVIN CLUBHOUSE JEWISH RESIDENTIAL SERVICES INC. 2621 MURRAY AVENUE PITTSBURGH, PA 15217 NON-PROFIT ORG. US POSTAGE PAID PITTSBURGH PA PERMIT NO 34 Save the Date! Our Bowl-A-Rama fundraiser will take place on Sunday, November 27, 2016 at Forward Lanes in Squirrel Hill