15 YEARS OF... touching lives providing needs reuniting families
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15 YEARS OF... touching lives providing needs reuniting families
SPRING 2009 NEWSLETTER www.dreamfoundation.org The mission of the Dream Foundation is to enhance the quality of life of individuals and their families who are battling life-limiting illness. 15 YEARS OF... touching lives providing needs reuniting families bringing joy at the end of life’s journey dream foundation Spring 2009 | 1 A Message From The Founder People are a gift. Charity Navigator is America’s premier independent charity evaluator. They help charitable givers make intelligent decisions by providing in-depth, objective ratings and analysis of the financial health of America’s largest charities. Charity Navigator awarded Dream Foundation four out of a possible four star rating. The citation reads: “In earning Charity Navigator’s four star rating Dream Foundation has demonstrated exceptional financial health, outperforming most of its peers in its efforts to manage and grow its finances in the most fiscally responsible way possible.” IN THIS ISSUE From the Founder ........................ 2 We Get Letters .............................. 3 Dreams Come True ..................... 4 Above & Beyond .......................... 6 2008 Events ................................. 8 We here at Dream Foundation are reminded of this every single day. From our dream recipients who entrust us with their hopes and fears, to our donors who remind us of the selflessness of giving, to our volunteers who work tirelessly to ensure that we are able to continue our mission. All bring their extraordinary gifts and share them with us at this special place called the Dream Foundation. And we like to share these gifts with you too through our newsletter, From the Heart. In this edition we are proud to roll out a new design. They say a picture is worth a thousand words. If that’s true, then the montage of photos on the cover of this redesigned newsletter speaks volumes. In each issue, we relate a few of the stories that have so touched us over the months, yet the words often seem inadequate to describe the feelings we hold for our family of dreamers and those who support these dreams. And each time I come face-to-face with these special people, I feel I have been given a gift. Big or small, donations are equal when they come from the heart. Our donors, volunteers, and staff all know that the place from which the giving begins, is as meaningful as the place it ends up – in our case, fulfilling a last dream and comforting the hearts of those dreamers. This is our gift. As we celebrate our 15th year, I’d like to thank all of those who made year-end gifts to the Dream Foundation. Your continued support has enabled us to reach a milestone of over 8000 dreams fulfilled since our inception. It is pretty clear that we need your help now more than ever. The times are uncertain economically but one certainty remains – end-of-life patients and their families count on us to give them the gift of a final dream come true. And we count on you. Due to the current economic downturn, we have had to make adjustments to our budget and staffing for 2009 and we are concerned about our ability to fund all of the dreams for those hardest hit, not only by illness, but also by these tough times. As we welcome the gift of spring and look forward to the warm, sunny days of summer, think about all of the people who are gifts in your life. Please consider making a taxdeductible donation to Dream Foundation in honor or in memory of these gifts. As for the next 15 years, we are committed to upholding our acclaimed fiscal management, programs and services to ensure that dream dollars go toward bringing hope to the heart of those who need us. Thank you for your support. From the Heart, Founder’s Flashback..................... 12 In Memoriam .............................. 13 How to Help ................................ 14 Save The Date ............................ 15 2 Thomas W. Rollerson Founder/President making dreams come true for adults battling life-limiting illness Soul Food The return on your investment. “Before I got your life saving gift I was sitting in my room looking at the four walls and waiting to die. Now that I have my wheelchair I have some of my freedom back – enough to want to push myself to have some kind of life. No more waiting to die... now its trying to live. Thank You.” Lisa, Dream Recipient “I wanted to thank your organization for granting my brother, Peter Alden’s wish last year. He had been fighting leukemia for 6 years. He had so many health problems over the past 6 years that it had been a constant battle for him to live life. He worked so very hard to get his family into a larger home and he promised his children, with the move, he would buy them a new swing set. Well, he went on disability a few months later and used the swing set money for medical bills. Your Foundation helped. His dream was for his children to be able to play and enjoy life even though he was home bound. He asked for a swing set in the backyard where he could sit and watch them every day and he wore the Dream Foundation cap almost every day. Yesterday, Peter went to heaven. He is no longer suffering. This last week, under hospice care, he insisted that we keep his cap on and he requested to be buried wearing it. My family thanks you from the bottom of our hearts. In my brother’s honor we have requested donations to Dream Foundation. Now every time his children play they can think of their father and his wish for them to live, laugh and play. Thank you.” Jennifer Rathbone “It was the most wonderful gift to be able to be there to take care of my precious daughter during her most difficult battle. There are not enough words to thank you. She passed away peacefully, at home, on February 25th.” Candace, Mother of Dream Recipient, Carlah “I want to thank you so much for the trip to see my grandchild, It is the only grand baby I have. It was the most beautiful thing anyone has ever done for me.” Jeannie, Dream Recipient “We as a family were able to make so many memories that we will hold on to for the rest of our lives - something cancer can’t take away. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for making this dream come true.” Angie, Sister of Dream Recipient, Joe “Thank you so much for my eye exam and my new glasses. I didn’t know my eyes were so bad.” Nanni, Dream Recipient, age 84 “I have NEVER experienced such human generosity and love from total strangers. It is an overwhelmingly humble time in my life’s journey. With every ounce of gratitude..... “ Suzanne, Dream Recipient “Your generosity astounds me and I feel blessed to know that someone who cares is listening to these words, reading my last hope. I am grateful for the angels that have come into my life, and the promise, that in suffering, there is hope and peace to receive.” June, Dream Recipient “I am so glad that you are donating a trip. My grandpa -that is sick- will be happy to see me.” Kaitlyn, Age 7 dream foundation Spring 2009 | 3 dreams come true... CELEBRATION OF LIFE Donned in a pink sweater, cascading pink boa, a pink garland lei, pink glasses, and pink hair, Jo, 72, sat like a ‘million dollar baby’ greeting her guests, as they arrived for the unveiling of her newly published book of poems, “A Joy to Create”. “But, why so much pink?” she was asked. “...Because....it’s my favorite color!” Inside Jo’s tiny apartment in Goleta, CA., which was fashionably decorated in pink, guests arrived (in pink) and shared stories about Jo - her wit, her sarcasm, her love of life, her dear friends and family. It was a joyous occasion for Jo, battling breast cancer, who questioned aloud why all this fuss was being made for her. “I’ve written poems all my life. They were stashed all over my apartment. They were in drawers and boxes and closets - I really didn’t know what I had around here.” Towards the end of the afternoon, Jo sat in her pink chair, sipped pink punch and recited several of her favorite poems by memory, as her family and friends listened with love and amazement. It was, truly, a celebration of life! Included in the picture are Dream Coordinators Barbara Schoch and Sue Anderson and a social worker from Santa Barbara Visiting Nurses and Hospice Care. WISH UPON A STAR Danny is 52 years old with pancreatic cancer and lives on Orcas Island in the beautiful San Juan Islands of Washington State. To get there, one must take a ferry or a small ‘puddle jumper’ plane. Did this stop a group of Genentech reps from delivering a Disney dream to Danny? I should say not! Cherie Tofhagen, Molly Bissett, and Deon English donned their beautiful princess costumes, boarded a privately owned donated plane and flew to Orcas where they met Danny and his family. Cherie said, “...You can see how BIG Danny’s eye’s got when I showed him the picture of where they were staying. I put together a big fun Disney bag for them and a scrap book so they can add pictures. He was so grateful for what the Dream Foundation did for him. He could hardly believe the generosity. Our pilot Chuck was amazing. He brought along another man who works for him and he took a ton of pictures too. It would have been really hard to have pulled this off without Chuck’s help, he was so gracious.” When you wish upon a star...it makes no difference WHERE YOU ARE....!! Thank you Genentech volunteers for helping us make dreams come true. GRANDMA’S LOVE Jeannie, is 53, a resident of Cleveland, OK and diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. When her case worker asked Jeannie if she had any regrets she began to cry and said that she regretted she would not see her first newborn grandchild who lives with his parents in Boise, ID. Dream Foundation arranged for Jeannie and her husband to fly to Boise. The photo of Jeannie with little Shane tells the whole story of a grandmother’s love. WARM & COZY Anna, of Harper’s Ferry, WV is 95 years young. She has congestive heart failure. Anna is bright and sharp and full of good humor. She proudly told us she was one of the first Girl Scouts and has met President Franklin Roosevelt twice! Anna, although frail, still lives alone and is in hospice care. Her house is old and drafty and she has trouble staying warm in the winter months. Dream Foundation provided Anna with oil for the winter in addition to working with the New York based Warrior’s Wish Foundation, Christian Youth Corps and the local Faith Baptist Church, who arranged for a new airtight door to be installed in her home. Her home is now heated with love. 4 making dreams come true for adults battling life-limiting illness a special dream ambassador Jenni Excerpt from Tom’s travel journal... On February 18th, I walked into the church next to the home of 23-year-old dream recipient Jennifer Hargis in rural Bow, WA. Jenni has end-stage bladder cancer. Her father, Richard, is the church pastor. A gifted orator, Richard struggled for words and choked with emotion, he put his arms around his wife, Ruth, and said “Nothing prepares one for this, not even my work. Someone said take it day by day, but it’s more like minute by minute.” Then he said, “Together, we want to thank everyone that makes the Dream Foundation possible – for what you have done for our daughter. We don’t have much to give but do want to give our voices to carry on the legacy of Jenni’s advocacy to help make dreams come true for others.” My heart felt like it would explode. Super sweet, endearing and bright eyed Jenni, who despite her jaundice and sunken expression, looks breathtakingly beautiful, with a smile that fills the room and eyes that show her stunning spirit. Her liver is failing now, but we were able to visit together for about 5 hours. We were even able to get Jenni out for a short drive through towering pines to watch the sun set over Puget Sound. We looked through photos and mostly reminisced about her dream, as Jenni, one-by-one, recounted every name and face that she had met through Dream Foundation. “Do you want to pray together”, she asked. Jenni invokes in me closeness to God. I thanked God for the gift of love I was blessed to share with the Hargis family and I thanked God for bringing Jenni into my life and into the lives of all those whose lives she has touched. I asked God to comfort Jenni’s family and all of those who care for her. I also gave thanks for the lovely meal Ruth had prepared for us. Jenni prayed, “Thank you God for surprising me today with Tom’s visit.” Then her voice broke with emotion – “and bless all of the people I met through Dream Foundation and let them know how much I love them and thank you for sending them into my life”. Jennifer Faith Hargis, was 22 years old when she passed away on March 9, 2009-after battling cancer for the third time-the first when she was just 9 days old! She was a remarkably brave young woman who enriched the world with wisdom beyond her years and had the insight and intelligence to maximize every moment she spent on earth. Jenni is one of the thousands of adults Dream Foundation has worked with in the past 15 years. It has been my joy and pleasure to meet with many of them and to see, first hand, what a final dream granted has meant to them and to their families. The work of all of us here at Dream Foundation has nothing to do with sadness or sorrow and everything to do with life and valuing every moment of it. Please help us continue. From the Heart, Thomas W. Rollerson Postscript: Jenni passed away two months ago. A few weeks later we received a check for $500 from her savings account. Jenni wanted this money to be used to make dreams come true for others like her. Together with Jenni’s parents, we are using this money to start the Jenni Fund to facilitate dreams for young adults 18-35. We cannot imagine a more fitting tribute to this inspiring young woman. For more information on the Jenni Fund, go to www.dreamfoundation.org. dream foundation Spring 2009 | 5 & above beyond Every day wonderful people go “above & beyond” to help make dreams come true. We can’t list them all - but here are just a few.... Two of the many good folks that our friend and supporter, Marjoe Gortner, introduced to Dream Foundation are the lovely actress Mimi Rogers and her husband, Chris Ciaffa. Mimi has lent her voice as a spokesperson dozens of times and also introduced us to our Corporate Partners and volunteers at Genentech. Thank you, Mimi, for blessing us with your heart, compassion, talent and business acumen. Mimi Rogers The Scooter Store owned by Doug Harrison, has provided over 100 power chairs to dream recipients, free of charge. Mary Armbruster has been our very compassionate and supportive contact and she is truly one of our angels. Tim & Margie Sullivan have been consistent supporters since 1996 as Dream Maker Circle members. Becky Crews & The 4C’s Nursery of Palm Bay, FL, provided over $12,000 in plants, supplies and labor to rebuild a dream recipient’s garden and patio. Mary Armbruster Deb Leopold Deb Leopold of Washington D.C., president of First Class, Inc., has consistently, since 2000, donated a portion of her business proceeds to help make dreams come true. Her loyalty & support are deeply appreciated. Employees of Colony Capital in Los Angeles hosted a Holiday Wrap Party and wrapped and shipped toys and gifts to the young children of dream recipients. Dan and Jackie Encell have been members of Dream Makers Circle, contributing regularly since 1999. Bob Swartz and Rob Hancock, found Dream Foundation’s website in 2003 and instantly adopted 3 dreams. They have been generous and steady contributors ever since. Golden Bridge Community Choir Maggie Wheeler and Emile Hassan Dyer of the Gold Bridge Community Choir honored the memory of Sheri Norwood with a concert in Los Angeles in December 2008, along with Sheri’s mother Susan Jefferson. Sheri passed away in September 2008 of cancer. Proceeds from the concert were donated to Dream Foundation in the name of Sheri Norwood. Colony Capital 6 making dreams come true for adults battling life-limiting illness Diana Wilson, accepted the Chair of Dream Foundation’s Development Committee and joined the Legacy Dream Circle. Kirsten and Richard Weston Smith are serving as Co-Chairs of the Dream Foundation Marketing Committee. Victor Woo, V.P. & General Manager of Rancho Las Palmas Resort & Spa in Rancho Mirage generously provides accommodations for dream recipients and is a member of the Desert Dream Advisory Board. Vince and Marni Otte, proprietors of Barrister Executive Suites donate office space for our Los Angeles Office. Thank you, Vince and Marni, for your generous in-kind support. Victor Woo Kevin Brockman, Executive Vice President, Global Communications at Disney-ABC and Brad Jamison, Vice President, Corporate Initiatives at Disney ABC Television, are generous donors. Both have provided Dream Foundation with difficult to acquire set visits for shows like “Lost” & “Desperate Housewives” which we then auction to raise funds for dreams. They have also sent gift packages to dream recipients. Kevin Brockman corporate partner program Genentech, a leading biotechnology company, with facilities across the country, has partnered with Dream Foundation to create a volunteer program for interested employees. On February 14, 2007 an email went out to a group of volunteers asking if someone was available to make a Valentine’s Day delivery to a dream recipient in Germantown, TN. Within thirty minutes, a Genentech volunteer was on his way, flowers in hand. Since that day, 159 Genentech employees have volunteered to deliver dreams across the country. Armed with balloons and candy the volunteers make the delivery of a dream request an extraordinary experience. Some even dress as movie stars or Disney characters when delivering a dream. To date, Genentech volunteers have assisted with 121 dream requests, across the nation. One volunteer said, “ I had the opportunity to sit with the dream recipient and his family for an hour or so as he took me on the journey through his life as a cancer patient. I went in as a person wanting to give something back and make a difference in the world, but I came out with so much more. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of such a fantastic organization and helping make dreams come true.” Genentech volunteers: Annette Schautz and Rachael Hoake If your company is interested in working with Dream Foundation please contact us at 805-564-2131. dream foundation Spring 2009 | 7 2008events June May Long time supporters. Richard, Susan and Chandler Lutz, hosted the 7th Annual Angel Ball at their spectacular estate in Moorestown, New Jersey for a delighted crowd of 300. The annual event always includes dazzling talent, a live auction and proceeds benefit the work of Dream Foundation. 2009 Angel Ball Saturday, May 16, 2009 Chandler Lutz 8 Diane Warren’s incredible Hollywood home was the setting for our annual L.A. Dream Maker’s Circle Reception to thank donors who have adopted a dream. Guests enjoyed the music of Jessi Collins, American Idol’s Brooke White and rock & roll icons Jack Blades & Don Felder. Joely Fisher, was mistress of ceremonies and Kevin Nealon, a hilarious auctioneer. Thank you to the many other celebrities who supported the event. Sponsors of this event included Harman International, Wells Fargo, Absolut 100, Makers Mark, Barrister Executive Suites, Hope Bailey, Alex Alexander and Alex Events. Special thanks to Diane Warren and Michael Anthony. July Dream Foundation’s Marin Advisory and Event Committee hosted its 2nd annual, Visions of Dreams event at the Marin Country Club. This sellout gala included an incredible live auction and performance by “Unauthorized Rolling Stones”. An extraordinary group of women made the event a fantastic success, they are: MaryAnn Casler, Christine Miller, Maggi Morgenlaender, Maria Sebastiano, Dorothy Manson, Nikki Gelardi, Elaine Macaluso and Susan Federighi. The Quail Lodge in Carmel, CA was the venue for a Mothers Day event benefiting Dream Foundation. Quail Lodge’s parent company, The Hong Kong & Shanghai Hotels Ltd. became a partner in 2007 when Paul Tchen, Vice President of Operations & Support learned about our work. making dreams come true for adults battling life-limiting illness September The Montecito estate of Dream Foundation supporters Debbie & Dan Kass, provided the dramatic setting for the Santa Barbara Dream Makers Circle Reception. One hundred and fifty Dream Makers and guests enjoyed cocktails and spectacular ocean views. This annual thank you event for supporters featured Brooke White and Kevin Nealon who, once again, graciously lent their special talents. Sponsors included Tiffany & Co., Wells-Fargo, Absolut 100, Makers Mark, West Coast Athletic Clubs, Clay & Sally Dickens, Wells Hughes, the JWS Group of Merrill Lynch, Bryant & Sons, American Airlines, Brophy Brothers, Jerry Peddicord & S.R Hogue, Hope Bailey, Classic Party Rentals and the ever generous hosts, Debbie & Dan Kass. October The Seventh Annual First Ladies of the Dream Foundation Fashion Show, our signature event, held each year at the gorgeous Bacara Resort & Spa in Santa Barbara, featured iconic designs of designer Valentino. Legendary musical entertainment was provided by Kenny Loggins, along with additional performances by American Idol finalist, Michael Johns, violinist Lili Hadyn, acrobatic duo, Realis and vocalist Erin Hamilton. A live auction was conducted by the incomparable Layla Khashoggi and Dream Foundation Ambassador and Founding Ambassador Priscilla Presley and Kathy Ireland were inspiring speakers. The event was held for the first time, in the evening, so that gentlemen could attend. This event was sponsored by Harman/ Kardon, Mercedes-Benz and Wells Fargo. Genentech employees in Chicago hosted A Party With A Purpose and raised funds for dreams. 250 happy people danced to live music at 115 Bourbon Street. Planners and Hostesses were Mary Beth Jarka, Debbie McKeague and Kristie Traverso. Our deepest appreciation to all of the event sponsors and to the guests who came to provide support. Look to your email and our website for announcements of future events. dream foundation Spring 2009 | 9 LEGACY OF DREAMS CIRCLE Estate of Dr. Richard Cazen The Charlotte Doyle Davis Revocable Trust These are forward looking donors who have helped to secure a Legacy of Dreams by including Dream Foundation in their estate plans. Estate of Tracy Greene Thomas Rollerson & Michael Erickson Marilyn Cole-Schatz Kenneth & Elizabeth Slaught Diana Wilson For information about the Legacy of Dreams Circle and Dream Foundation’s Endowment Fund please contact Dream Foundation at 805-564-2131. CONGRATULATIONS! A BEAUTIFUL BABY GIRL! Congratulations to Leighton Hale, for joining the family of Jennifer Smith Hale and Nick Hale! Mom Jennifer is Publisher of Santa Barbara Magazine and doting grandmother is Santa Barbara’s beloved Anne Smith Towbes. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, CHRIS A Dream Foundation supporter since Dream Foundation’s very early days, Chris Edgecomb, CEO of Sirius Television, is celebrating the big 50! Happy Birthday, Chris and thank you for your many years of caring, and generosity. STAFF Thomas W. Rollerson Founder/President Carol Brown Chief Operating Officer Sue Anderson Dream Department Manager Cindy Hellriegel Finance Manager, part-time Megan Higgins Dream Coordinator, part-time Jacqueline Kronberg Grants Manager, part-time Adam Lichtenstein Manager Internet Technologies WOMEN IN FILM/TELLY AWARDS Amanda Moselle Donor Relations Manager Jennifer Muir Receptionist “The Garden”, a public service announcement produced pro bono, by Women In Film’s Los Angeles Productions Program for Dream Founda- Michelle Reid Dream Coordinator tion, has won a 2008 Telly Award. We were honored to be chosen by Women In Film and are now doubly honored by this prestigious award. The Telly Awards receives 13,000 entries annually from all 50 states and countries around the world. The Awards showcase the best work of the most respected producers of television content. Thank you, Women In Film, for this generous gift of time and caring and thank you Sonia Salazar Data Entry Specialist, part-time Barbara Schoch Dream Coordinator, part-time to the talented group who did the work: Tobie Loomis, Director & CoWriter, Roxanne Lane, Executive Producer & Co-Writer, Elizabeth (Tiggie) McKenzie, Producer, Christina Fiers, Cinematographer, Chris Dawson, Visual Effects Producer and Gerry Wormser, Casting Director. Watch the video at www.dreamfoundation.org 10 making dreams come true for adults battling life-limiting illness Jackie Waddill Programs Manager DREAMS ROCK! Two and half years after marrying his wife, and best friend, in the Graceland Chapel in Las Vegas NV, Chris, was diagnosed with metastatic colon cancer. At only 33 years of age, doctors expect that he has 3 months or less to live. Chris has always had a love for music - it is his passion. He especially loves to play the drums and his favorite musician is Tommy Lee of the Motley Crue Tommy Lee and Chris who he dreamed of experiencing a “jam session” with. Chris’ dream came true with the help of Dream Foundation when he, his wife Kyla, and Kyla’s parents drove from their home in Milford, OH to Erie, PA to attend a Motley Crue concert at the Erie Civic Center. Greeted by Tommy Lee, in his personal tour bus and taken to dinner, their rock star evening began. Back stage, before the concert, Chris, his wife, and family met the rest of the Crue and watched as the Erie Civic Center filled with excited rock fans. During the show, Chris stood behind Tommy Lee’s drums so Chris could experience what it was like to be a true rock star. Between encores Tommy Lee ran off stage and gave Chris a big hug. “It was like they were long lost brothers separated at birth,” said his wife, “This was definitely Chris’ greatest night!” After the show, Tommy Lee gave Chris his snare drum that he played on tour last year and said, “...You’ve got to fight this thing brother...” When asked how he felt about his dream Chris quietly said, “It was beyond anything we could have imagined...” CLASS ACT! DREAM FOUNDATION HAS WISHES TOO! Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers mended the heart of Dream Recipient Kandy, a long-time fan of the group. Tom Petty not only agreed to meet Kandy, age 49 from Flat Rock, MI battling breast cancer and mother of two grown Tom Petty and Kandy children, but he rallied his fellow members, Mike Campbell, Benmont Tench, Ron Blair, Scott Thurston and Steve Ferrone, all of whom were on tour and made special travel arrangements to reunite in Kandy’s honor. Here are a few of the things we need and wish for.... Meeting in their private “clubhouse,” they spent more than an hour sitting and talking, while Kandy recounted detailed memories of concerts and songs that impacted her life. Then, to the surprise of all, Tom and the band members reached for their instruments and jammed for Kandy. Her private concert lasted more than an hour. • New, Unwrapped Toys for the Children Founder Tom Rollerson said that in his 15 years of participating in Celebrity and Dream Meet & Greets, it was one of the most generous gifts of time he’d seen. As for Kandy, she said it was “beyond any dream I could have imagined—’thank you’ is not enough.” • Frequent Flyer Mile Donations • New Laptop Computers • Flat Screen Televisions • Gift Cards from WalMart, Target, Kmart • Disposable Cameras of Dream Recipients • Volunteers for dream management, office administration and public relations For further information please call us at 805-564-2131 Thank You! dream foundation Spring 2009 | 11 FOUNDER’S FLASHBACK When you are part of something that benefits from countless acts of giving, you can’t help but relive—in a vivid way—these acts of kindness. The memories don’t depend on a dollar amount; every gift is precious. They are shaped by the circumstances of the moment and the spirit of the giving. In this new section, the team is generously giving me space to reflect on some of the folks that have enabled us to exist today. We will never forget those who have chosen to give of their hearts. - Thomas unforgettable I’m one of the lucky ones who can say I met actor-turned-philanthropist Paul Newman. (And saying that is so non-Newman, for he was a humble man.) Yet I can’t help but share my experience with a philanthropist whose impact was so significant, that it forever left an impression on my life. You see, from 2004 to 2006, Dream Foundation was selected by PacificCare Insurance to benefit from their sponsorship of the Newman/Haas Racing Team’s CART races. At the kick-off race in Long Beach I was invited to speak. Needless to say, with Mr. Newman in the audience, I was feeling rattled. But thankfully the importance of our cause overcame the anxiety of the moment, and I managed to speak from the heart. Upon returning to my seat, Mr. Newman stood up to personally pledge a gift! I’ll never forget it. We were invited to bring a dream family to each of the races. While there, Mr. Newman, along with our Honorary Board of Governors member Howard Phanstiel, our Medical Advisory Board Member Sam Ho, and Dream Makers Circle Member Riva Gebel, often presented us with a contribution. What touched me the most was that despite being pulled in every direction, Mr. Newman always spent generous amounts of time with our dream families. Needless to say the cash contributions elicited equal parts of excitement and relief. But the emotional impact he had on me, and far more importantly our families, is harder to describe. When you race so hard to cross each dream’s finish line, and then this legendary philanthropist supports you like the wind at your back, the momentum drives you to succeed. Although his passing means the monetary contributions may not continue, his gifts will continue to deliver ample inspiration for us to stay in the race. Paul Newman was an inspiration and will be sorely missed by all of us who try to do well by doing good. - Thomas thank you hospice workers It was the work of a few hospice workers in our hometown of Santa Barbara that inspired me to want to help those at the end of life’s journey. Initially I wanted to be a patient advocate, knowing that very ill patients cannot navigate the complex, emotional last journey on their own. They need someone to advocate on their behalf. However, one of the first things one learns in care giving is to listen and, as I listened, I heard the heart pain of dreams and wishes unfulfilled and thought, I can help with that! Hospice workers are many things to their patients, among them, advocates and dream makers. Dream Foundation has formalized the process, but hospices have been doing it for years. When a request is not within the ability of the hospice to fulfill, Dream Foundation is available to step in and help. GRANTS Dream Foundation, its Board of Directors, Executives and Staff, are very grateful to the foundations that generously supported its work in 2008. They are: B & B Foundation Burns McCabe Foundation Capital Group Companies Roy E. Crummer Foundation Max & Victoria Dreyfus Foundation, Inc. Genentech Foundation Hammond Family Fund Linden Family Foundation Merrill Lynch & Co. Foundation, Inc. Montecito Bank & Trust Newman’s Own Odyssey VistaCare Hospice Foundation Office Depot Foundation Rotary Club of Santa Barbara Santa Barbara Bank & Trust Towbes Foundation Venoco Diana Warren Foundation Wood Claeyssens Foundation The work of Dream Foundation is funded, in part, by a grant from the Odyssey VistaCare Hospice Foundation We here at Dream Foundation are proud to honor hospice workers everywhere and to serve as an extension of the palliative care programs that hospices provide nationwide. - Thomas 12 making dreams come true for adults battling life-limiting illness A GOOD FRIEND in memoriam Dream recipients in memoriam 04-01-08 through 03-31-09 We met Stella Keane when we were given the opportunity to participate in the Celebrity Sports Invitationals produced by Marjoe Gortner. Stella was Marjoe’s “right hand gal” and Supervising Producer of the Invitationals. She was a beautiful, athletic South African who truly believed in our work and she never stopped advocating for Dream Foundation. We will always remember Stella’s adventurous spirit, her fearlessness and determination, her softer side, poise, grace and infectious smile. She lost her life doing something that gave her life - skiing. She is forever one of our Angels and the world is forever a better place because of Stella’s inspiration and accomplished work on behalf of countless charitable organizations. All of us here at Dream Foundation will miss Stella’s inspiration. “Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond of glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the mornings hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circling flight. I am the soft star that shines at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there. I did not die.” - Anonymous quotation Brenda Aberle Faith Adams Ruth Adams Peter Alden Cody Aldrich Gail Alexander Maude Alexander Raymond Alexander, Jr. Teri Alvarado Linda Anderson Andreas W. Armbrust Charles W. Armiger Jr. Rebecca Atlasy David Bachelder Gilbert Bader Laurie Barnes Vickey Barrett Raymond C. Baxter Jr. Leon Beard Wilbur Berthelot James Boots Janet Bordages Lillie J. Brantley John Bray George M. Brennan Sr. Noe Brito-Macedo Lois Buffalow Billy Burke David Bushong Reba Butler Ines Cabrera John J. Caffrey III James Cappetta William Carder Susan Carichner Creig Carlentine Rick W. Carlson Debra Kay Carpenter Judy Carrier Cellie Carter Ruth Cedeno Charles Christian Theresa Christiansen Mildred Cobble Robert A. Collins John Conner Lynda Cool Gary D. Cooper Jesus Correa Tina Crespo Talia Crowder Migdalia Cruz Richard Cummings Henrietta Curry Thomas Louis Daly Robert “Boone” Daniels Karen Daskam-Canaday Eddie Davis Joann M. Dean Sheryl Defendorff Leah DeGuire Tina Dennehy Jarad Dettmann Mamie DeVita Gabriela Dho Leroy Dickson Filigata Drake Sharon Drapal Richard Lee Ecker Nicasio Estrada Carolyn Farmer Linda Fee Dionne M. Flowers Richard Foss Michael Foster Charles G. Foster Angie Fry Takako E. Fujita Robert H. Funke Sr. William Furst Amelia Gaines Harvey Gamble John Gardner Eric Gates Leona Geller Mary Gentry Eugene Getchell Martha Gladish Robert Golden Transito Gomez Guadalupe Gonzalez Randall Gosnell Annette Hope Gothard Peggy Goudeau Shirley Grecian Albert Greene Megan Griffith Janine Grubbs Richard Haff Pearl Haggerty Kathleen Hale Lee Hall Joy Denise Ham Jean Hamlin Beverly A. Hardwick Jennifer Hargis Pamela J.K. Heinrich-Stephenson Sergio Hernandez Fred D. Hildebrand Sam Hindsman Charles “Chuck” Hodgdon Jr. Trena Hollins Roger Hollis Lynette Holtzclaw Andrew Horn Louis Houmis Alfred Howard Michaeleen Howatt Burton Howell Madelyn “Maddy” Huffman Mable Hughes Steven Hughes Patricia Inskeep Robert Jernigan Stephanie Johnson Mary L. Johnson Johnnie Jones David Jones Kyle Anthony Keith John King Bobby Dale Kinsey Christine J. Koth Alvin P. Krieger Stacey L. LaFrenz Heather M. Land Joseph Lanzello Wallace Lary Walter Laster Walter Lawrence Terence Lawson Ashley Lees Daniel L. Lesperance Frank N. Lewis John Lewis Sharon Linton Robert Loebe Jr. Lee Logan Lawrence Maurice Long Kevin Longo Guadalupe Lopez Robert Lopez James Lotz John Lougheed Katherine A. LuedkeAdkins Amalia Macias-Sanchez William T. Maher James L. Mallon Alfred E. Martin Salvador Martinez Monica MartinezLagda Carolyn D. Mathews John Mauldin Denise Maynard Stacey McDaniel Willis McElroy Barbara McGray Russell McGuire Jim McHale Robert McKenzie Sharon Meeks Bobby S. 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Wright Jr. Jeff Zastrow Jimmy Zollar dream foundation Spring 2009 | 13 HOW TO HELP ✓ QUOTE FROM LONG TIME DONOR “I first learned of the Dream Foundation in the July, 1998 issue of People magazine the article was called “Wishful Thinker.” I was so moved and completely touched by the story. I believe in Dream Foundation’s vision and that’s why I’ve been contributing to -Todd Nguyen. this cause since 1998.” DREAM FOUNDATION’S MOST RECENT AUDIT INDICATES THAT 86% OF DONATIONS ARE SPENT DIRECTLY ON OUR DREAM GRANTING PROGRAM. You can give to Dream Foundation and know that your gift is being used exactly as you wish. Donations to Dream Foundation, a 501©(3) agency, are 100% tax deductible ✓ DREAM MAKER’S CIRCLE With a donation of $1,000 or more you can make a dream come true for an adult at the end of life’s journey. You will receive a detailed report about the dream and the individual you helped. You will become a member of the Dream Makers Circle and be honored at the Annual Dream Makers Circle Reception. And, you will receive invitations to Dream Foundation events and its newsletters, both print and email. ✓ AMBASSADOR’S CIRCLE In honor of Dream Foundation’s 15th Anniversary in April, 2009, we have established the Ambassador’s Circle. Your gift of $10,000 will fulfill dreams for 10 adults who are at the end of life’s journey. You will receive a personalized dream book detailing the dreams you helped to make possible, you will become a member of Dream Makers Circle, you will receive an invitation to a dinner hosted by a Celebrity Ambassador and invitations to all Dream Foundation events and special recognition in printed materials. ✓ VISIONARY CIRCLE A gift of $5,000 will bring you into Dream Makers Circle and fulfill 5 dreams for adults at end of life. You will receive a personalized dream story book describing the dreams your gift helped make possible. You will also receive invitations to all Dream Foundation events and to the very special Dream Makers Circle Reception, and recognition in printed materials. ✓ CASH DONATIONS Dream Foundation depends on all of its donors to help make final wishes come true. Cash gifts of any size are most welcome and very much appreciated. ✓ IN-KIND DONATIONS For every cash dollar Dream Foundation raises we must raise $2 to $3 in kind. If you have an in-kind resource or know someone who does, please call us at 805-564-2131 or go to our web site at HYPERLINK “http://www.dreamfoundation.org/” www.dreamfoundation.org. In-kind donations can include, but are not limited to: hotel rooms, rental car vouchers, gift cards, restaurant meals or vouchers, spa services. In-kind donations enable us to keep cash costs low. ✓ DONATED AIRLINE MILES are the lifeblood of Dream Foundation. Without frequent flyer miles we cannot reunite families or fulfill dreams that require travel. United, Continental and Northwest Airlines bank donated miles for us. Each year we use several million miles to bring families together. To donate please contact Cindy Hellriegel at 805 -564-2131, ext. 105 ✓ GIFTS OF STOCK If you own appreciated stock it is often tax wise to donate it to a charity instead of paying capital gains tax. To donate stock, please contact Cindy Hellriegel at 8055642131. ext.105. ✓ PLANNED GIVING A Legacy Dream Circle has recenty been created to recognize those who include Dream Foundation in their estate plans. This can be done through a provision in your will or trust, or a beneficiary designation in an insurance policy, IRA or retirement plan. Dream Foundation Legacy Dream Circle members help to endow a future in which dreams will continue to come true for terminally ill adults and their families. For more information or to make an endowment gift please contact Amanda Moselle at 310-444-3070. ✓ JOIN THE DREAM TEAM You can help make a dream come true and become a member of the Dream Team with a donation of as little as $25. You will receive our newsletter, event invitations and information about opportunities to be a Dream Foundation volunteer. www.dreamfoundation.org 14 making dreams come true for adults battling life-limiting illness SAVE THE DATE... For Fun Events To Benefit Dream Foundation in 2009 May 16th The 7th Annual Angel Ball, held at a gorgeous estate in Moorestown, New Jersey, will again benefit making dreams come true. This glamorous event features wonderful food, great entertainment and dancing. For more information go to: www.angelball.org May 30th Dream Foundation joins forces with the Maximum Hope Foundation to present the All-In for All Good Celebrity Poker Tournament at the Commerce Casino in Commerce, California, presented by Brad Garrett & Friends. For more information go to: www.dreamfoundation.org or www.maximumhopefoundation.org May 2nd & 3rd Dream Foundation was the beneficiary of the 2009 Coolest 24 Hour Mountain Bike Race in Cool, California. Thank you to all the riders and sponsors and everyone who came out to show their support of us and this very cool event! For more information go to: www.globalbiorhythmevents.com Dream Foundation Board of Directors 2008 Jon Bull, Chairperson Santa Barbara, CA Senior Managing Director & Portfolio Manager, First Republic Investment Management David Glickman, Vice Chairperson Beverly Hills, CA President & Managing Director, Glickman Capital Thomas Rollerson, Santa Barbara, CA Founder/President, Dream Foundation Ronald R. Macleod, Secretary Carpinteria, CA Managing Partner, Baciu Family Capital Richard Burnham Mansfield, TX Co-Founder Odyssey HealthCare Mel Farber Honolulu, HI President, Creative Designs Hawaii David Johnson Los Angeles, CA The Johnson-Roessler Company Bill Kasch Santa Barbara, CA President & COO, IPC Media/Partner Concepts, LLC John F. Kelly Coral Gables, FL President & CEO, John F. Kelly Associates, L.L.C Retired Chairman and CEO Alaska Air Group Holly Murphy Santa Barbara, CA Co-Chairperson, Santa Barbara Advisory Board Merrily Newton Los Angeles, CA CFO, Entertainment Industry Foundation A.J. Rice Montecito, CA Co-Founder, Software.com Kenneth P. Slaught Santa Barbara, CA President, Investec, Inc. dream foundation Spring 2009 | 15 Nonprofit Organization U.S Postage PAID Santa Barbara, CA Permit Number 692 PARTNERS IN DREAMS Corporate Partners $100K and above Events $5K and above Dream Partners In Kind We are proud to feature some of our Corporate Partners in Dreams as well $50K and above as other companies that have graciously donated or served as Dream Foundation event $25K and above sponsors. This is a partial listing. All of our partners and donors are listed in our Annual Report. Flower Donors Airlines www.dreamfoundation.org NATIONAL HEADQUARTERS: 1528 CHAPALA ST., SUITE 304 SANTA BARBARA, CA 93101 805.564.2131 FAX 805.564.7002 LOS ANGELES OFFICE: 11500 OLYMPIC BLVD., SUITE 400 LOS ANGELES, CA 90064 310.444.3070 FAX 310.444.3071 16 GOgreen THINK ACT PROTECT It is our strong belief that every action is an important step towards the healing of the environment and that everyone should be able to participate in protecting our earth. If you would like to receive your next dream foundation newsletter paperless, email your request to: sonia@dreamfoundation.org