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IN THE LOOP PAGE 2 JUNE 2013 01 MONDAYS 1 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: Happy hour prices until 8:30 p.m. 5 p.m. @ Fugazi: Monday Madness: Martini specials; $2 well/domestic. 7 p.m. @ DBGB: Open Mic with M.E.L., then Ladies’Night with DJ BearSkinRug. 8:30 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: Big Ass Drink Night: $6.50 mason jars of specialty drinks. 12 a.m. @ Underground: Karaoke with DJ Ryan. TUESDAYS 1 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: $3.50 Absolut cosmos and martinis all day. 1 p.m. @ Evergreen Center: Testing Tuesdays: Free STD screenings until 7 p.m. No appointment needed. 5 p.m. @ Fugazi: Stoli Night: Half-off all Stoli drinks and martinis. 5 p.m. @ Evergreen Center: Life Changes: Men’s networking group weekly meetup. 6 p.m. @ Online: Trans Health Chat: Call 852-7743 ext. 3412 for more info. 7 p.m. @ DBGB: Neo Soul Night: featuring Michael DiSanto and Verse, followed by DJ Charlie the Butcher and Shuteyes. 10 p.m. @ Q: Karaoke with DJ Ryan. ...continued on PAGE 13 Leather Night @ Underground Saturday, 10 p.m. Everyone wears their favorite skins to this party, hosted by the Buffalo Bulldogs following the group’s monthly meeting. This month’s theme: Military Night. Admission: $2. 03 Movie Night @ Walden Galleria 16 Monday, time varies based on movie. Email the Buffalo Movie Club at movingman@live.com to vote on movie choice. Join members for dinner before the show. Discount movie passes available. Next Monday-night movie: June 17. 05 WTF Wednesday @ Underground Wednesday, 10 p.m. Tia Marie presents an anything-goes drag production. Shows at 10:30 p.m. and midnight. 06 OUTspoken For Equality @ El Museo Thursday, 6:30 p.m. – 8 p.m. Monthly meeting of a group of socially conscious and politically-minded individuals who seek to spread awareness regarding issues that affect the LGBT community. 07 Cruising: Mixed MediaWorks @ 464 Gallery Friday, 6 p.m. - 11 p.m. Spark Magazine featured artist C.J. Szatkowski reveals his new body of provocative and engaging work. Exhibit on view through June 19. LGBTQA Prom @ Babeville Friday, 7 p.m. - 11 p.m. The first-ever Gay and Lesbian Youth Services prom for Western New York teens, ages 14-19. Proof of age required for admission. $10. The Bash @ American Red Cross Friday, 8 p.m. – 12 a.m. The annual military themed event where more than 4,000 people revel in amazing foods from some of the area’s top restaurants, the music of Lance Diamond and DJ Mike Setlock. All proceeds support provisions for disaster preparedness education and response to WNY communities. $75. Black Light Open Mic @ Code Blu Juice Bar Friday, 9 p.m. All are welcome to come out and showcase their talents at an open mic night. 08 Allentown Art Celebrations @ Various Locations Saturday and Sunday, all day. Stop in before and after the Allentown Arts Festival for drinks and good times at various bars including, Q, Cathode Ray, Funky Monkey and Fugazi. Allentown Arts Festival @ Allentown Saturday and Sunday, 11 a.m. - 6 p.m. Local artists display and sell their work. JUNE 2013 Food and alcoholic drink vendors on site. Festival perimeter runs between Trinity Place and North Street from Elmwood Avenue to Franklin Avenue. Buffalo Gay Bingo @ Westminster Presbyterian Saturday, 7 p.m. – 10 p.m. Miss Gladys Over hosts a “Party Like It’s Oh ’69” themed evening of Bingo. Line reservations at 5 p.m. Doors open at 6 p.m. Not your grandma’s bingo. $5 admission; $20 play packets available. Proceeds to benefit HIV/AIDS organizations in Buffalo. Bear Night @ Ohm Saturday, 10 p.m. The biggest and burliest party in Allentown, hosted by the Buffalo Bears following the group’s monthly meeting. Admission: $2. Hot Body Contest @ Underground Saturday, 1 a.m. The sexiest guys in the bar take it off for cash and prizes in the most chaotic contest anywhere. Special guest performers and co-host Vanna Toy help Chevon Davis and the audience pick the winner. 10 Open Mic Night @ 464 Gallery Monday, 7 p.m. Showcase your talents. Open to the public with light refreshments. ...continued on PAGE 13 JUNE 2013 IN THE LOOP PAGE 3 Girls rule, guys do too at first ever Ambush Pride Party MICHAEL RIZZO Zachary Busch walked into the Buckin’ Buffalo on April 19 as a guest of Ambush, Buffalo’s only “guerrilla gay bar,” and after an hour or so, it was like he had entered an alternate universe. He wasn’t in his typical gay-bourhood; he was at a straight bar. He stood shoulder to shoulder with hundreds of lesbian woman of “all shapes and sizes.” Some he recognized from Roxy’s and (back in the day) Adonia’s, but the rest seemed to have come out of the woodworks. “The general feel in the community is that this is a lesbian thing,” he said. “It’s definitely a lesbian event. But I felt very welcome and had a really good time.” Ambush started in October with a Facebook invite, and in nine months, it’s grown to be what many recognize as the face of the lesbian community. Every month, organizers Christina Holdsworth, Tee Fregeaux and Dana Fauth get a different straight bar on board to host the party, providing women in the community an additional or alternative option to what the current bar scene has to offer. It’s a mix of people, some just old enough to buy alcohol and others that have been in retirement for years. I’ll definitely check it out.” Some come just for happy hour, some For some in the community, like adjust for late-night dancing, and others mitted homebodies Robyn Gerow, 44, are there from beginning to end. and Erica Borowicz, 35, it’s the event This month’s Pride Party at Cobble- that will get them out and about stone on May 31 is the biggest Am- during Buffalo Pride Week. bush yet, and the ladies “For one reason or anwant to make sure the other, we haven’t come “We want boys know that they’re to Pride in a couple of invited, too. years,” Gerow said. “This all our guys “It’s really the entire is definitely getting us community that’s made back into the scene.” there with us, this what it is,” HoldThe couple has atworth said. “We want celebrating with tended other bars in all our guys there with the community, she us, partying said, and just didn’t us, celebrating with us, partying with us. It’s a feel comfortable. But with us.” way to say thank you.” when they attended It’s a really big thank Ambush’s Ugly Sweater C hristina Holdsworth you. Party in December, they Ambush organizer Kristen Becker emgot a completely differcees a show with four ent feel, and now they live bands (including God-des and are loyal Ambushers every month. She, Bitch and The Stamplickers), two “Everybody was comfortable,” she DJs, burlesque entertainment and said. “Gay, straight, single. You can go drag king performances. There’s an by yourself, or go in a group. It’s very outdoor party tent, a VIP area and lots peaceful and very fun.” of extra party favors thanks to sponRather that trying to expand their alsors like Pabst Blue Ribbon and Mich- ready overflowing happy hours, open elob Ultra. a lesbian bar or regularly throw largeCall it the Ambush of the Year. scale parties, Fregeaux said she sees “They’ve really come out of no- the movement growing in other ways. where,” Busch said. “I think it’s a really Potential ideas include doing food great thing. It’s fun. It’s a lot different. and toy drives or other fundraisers for causes like pet rescue. The group may explore Ambushing the bars in Rochester or throwing an event outside of the bars. “I know we want to do a family event,” she said, “so people with kids can come. Maybe we go to a park and do a picnic-style Ambush. You bring your kids, play games — something that’s not totally focused around drinking.” Like all their events, the organizers won’t earn money from the Pride Party, but they’re spending a lot of time on it. Promotion is key, they said, noting the power of social media. The grassroots operation has already garnered local and national attention in Buffalo Spree and on Advocate.com. “It’s a positive thing,” Fregeaux said. “We’re going to all these different Buffalo businesses. We’re making money for them. We try to only go to places that are supportive of the gay community.” Ambush happy hours are usually organized for the third Friday of every month. The invitation has always been an open one, but for their Pride Party, the girls want to celebrate with everyone, especially the boys. “I am definitely a gay boy inside,” Gerow said, “so it would be fantastic to have them at the party!” IN THE LOOP PAGE 4 JUNE 2013 IN THE SPOTLIGHT Buffalo theater isn’t as gay as you’d think, but it should be presents ON STAGE NOW! May 29 - June 17 Nunsense II: The Second Coming @ O’Connell and Company Productions Saturday, 7:30 p.m. The all-male cast from last season don their habits again. Six weeks after the sisters have staged their first benefit, they are back presenting a “thank you” show for all the people who have supported them in the past. Show are Wednesdays, Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays at 7:30 p.m. and Sundays at 2:30 p.m. No performance on June 2. Tickets range from $15 to $25. May 31 - June 8 The Normal Heart @ BUA Theatre Friday, 8 p.m. An outrageous, unflinching and completely unforgettable look at the sexual politics of New York during the AIDS crisis. A quarter century after The Normal Heart was written, it still remains one of theater’s most powerful plays. Shows are Fridays and Saturdays at 8 p.m. Tickets range from $15 to $25. May 31 - June 15 JosephandtheAmazingTechnicolorDreamcoat@ Lancaster Opera House Saturday, 7:30 p.m. The Biblical saga of Joseph and his coat of many colors comes to vibrant life in this delightful musical parable. Set to an engaging cornucopia of musical styles, from country-western and calypso to bubble-gum pop and rock‘n’roll, this Old Testament tale emerges both timely and timeless. Shows are Fridays and Saturdays at 7:30 p.m. and Sundays at 2:30 p.m. Tickets range from $20 - $22. June 6 - June 23 Into The Woods @ New Phoenix Theatre Thursday, 8 p.m. An amazing and magical musical that blends some of the best-loved fairy tales of all time. Directed by Chris Kelly. Shows are Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays at 8 p.m. and Sundays at 2 p.m. Tickets range from $20 to $25. June 11 - June 16 The Book of Mormon @ Shea’s Performing Arts Tuesday, 7:30 p.m. The Broadway phenomenon from South Park creators Trey Parker and Matt Stone, and Avenue Q co-creator Robert Lopez. Shows are Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday at 7:30 p.m., Friday at 8 p.m., and Saturday and Sunday at 2 p.m. and 8 p.m. June 14 - July 14 I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change @ The Kavinoky Theatre Friday, 8 p.m. A musical by Joe DiPietro and Jimmy Roberts that celebrates the modern-day suburban mating game. Shows are Thursdays and Fridays at 8 p.m., Saturdays at 4 p.m. and 8 p.m., and Sundays at 2 p.m. Tickets range from $35 to $39. June 22 MF24H @ 710 Main Theatre Saturday, 8 p.m. MusicalFare Theatre presents four original musicals written, rehearsed and performed within 24 hours. $25. “Of course you like live theater -for many reasons, but Buffalo’s theaters you’re gay!” are the jewel in the region’s cultural I can’t tell you how many times I crown. And just because you’re gay, have heard that. doesn’t mean you don’t have options. For some reason, people assume While companies like Buffalo United that most gay men are “Musical Artists produce material that is specifTheater Queens” — that we meander ically relevant to the gay community, through our lives singing the scores of if that’s not what floats your boat, try Wicked and Sweet Charity (look it up, something else. younglings!) at the tops of our lungs. If you have children, treat them to a Yet I can honestly say that I know far show at Theatre of Youth in Allentown. If more straight folks who attend live you like contemporary or classical dramas, DOUG WEYAND theater — musical or otherwise — try Irish Classical Theatre on Main Street or than gay folks. the Kavinoky at D’Youville College. Local theater audiences are overwhelmingly If you like new works or cutting edge material, try populated with baby boomer, heterosexual couRoad Less Traveled in the Market Arcade or Torn ples, many of them attending multiple theaters in Space on Fillmore Avenue. If you like musicals, hit the region, seeing everything from musical revues up MusicalFare in Amherst. I could go on and on. to avant-garde productions. Not sure where to start? Look at this publicaWhile there is certainly gay representation in our tion’s Theater Page every month. theater audiences, there is much less than I would Theater events are now listed in a separate expect or hope to see. calendar area, and each month, we’ll introduce Am I saying we should live up to the stereotype? you to local actors, actresses, directors, choreograNo. phers and writers who are at the forefront of our What I’m saying is we should make more of an community’s contribution to the art form. effort to expose ourselves to new and diverse culWe’ll highlight productions that feature issues tural experiences. We should stop staring at our that are important to our community, and we’ll computers and smartphones, get out and enjoy a try to have some fun as we journey through our communal, enriching experience. theatrical adventure. Did you know that Buffalo has more than 20 Hopefully we’ll help inspire you to take a chance professional theater companies? That’s second and see a show. Stop letting the straight folks only to Manhattan in the state and far above have all the fun! and beyond the national average for cities of Buffalo’s size. Doug Weyand is on the executive committee of the The Western New York region is a cultural mecca Theatre Alliance of Buffalo. IN THE LOOP JUNE 2013 PAGE 5 MyBuffaloPride stretches the rainbow to west end of Allen JEFF HERAS The owners of MyBuffaloPride opened a physical location at 224 Allen Street on May 28, after two and a half years of business in Buffalo’s LGBT community. General Partner Michael Rizzo purchased the building on May 2 for $188,000. The storefront, which used to house the art gallery Space 224, will now serve as the offices of this publication and MBP, its parent company. “An actual storefront is something we wanted from the beginning,” Rizzo said. “It just wasn’t practical. But the newsletter has shown such potential over the past 20 months that the idea can finally be a reality.” The location will also be a small retail store specializing in pride merchandise and novelty gifts, which is how MBP got its online start in November 2010. Rizzo plans to share the rest of the space with the community to host art openings, social events, organization meetings and forum discussions. Previously consisting of a two-block strip, Buffalo’s gay-borhood has now expanded to the west side of Allen Street, something Rizzo has regarded as a goal for the community for a long time. He said his “proudest moment” was raising the rainbow flag on the day he bought the building. “What’s most interesting and fun, really, is watching people’s reactions when they walk passed now,” he said. “They see the pride flags hanging and a big drag-queen buffalo in the window. I think we’ve made it pretty clear that we’re the other side of the rainbow.” Rizzo envisions the space as a social and informational hub that serves Buffalo ‘s LGBT community by providing an outlet of resources for LGBT issues. He doesn’t want MBP to be just a pride store or just the publisher of a newsletter, he said. He hopes the business will eventually be a recognized entity in the community. “When people list off businesses and organizations like Club Marcella and Cathode Ray, or the Imperial Court of Buffalo, embraceWNY and Evergreen Health Services — I want MyBuffaloPride to be on that list,” he said. Right now, In The Loop is the popularly recognized face of MBP. It’s been in print since November 2011, and has since expanded from a two-page, letter-size monthly calendar of events to a 14-page, tabloid-style newsletter that offers opinion pieces, news stories and event announcements focused on the LGBT community. “It’s a good source of information not only for our customers but certainly for the community as a whole,” said Jimmy Hall, manager of Funky Monkey Niteclub. “I often direct people to the publication when they are visiting Buffalo and want to know what is going on at the various bars and nightclubs.” Local entertainer Mike Blasdell reads every issue, he said, and noted the publication’s attention to detail. “I hope it gets a lot bigger, because In the Loop brings attention to the progress that is going on in the gay community,” he said, “and it brings us together.” Rizzo enrolled at Buffalo State College for journalism in 2005 knowing he eventually wanted to own his own publication, he said, and he quickly decided he wanted to cover the gay community. When he graduated in 2010, he worried his idea wasn’t quite ready for fruition in Buffalo because of the many resources needed to make it successful. After the launch of MBP, he said, those resources started being acquired through networking and collaboration. “The idea behind the newsletter when it first started grew out of a sense that, at the time, all the gay bars and different elements of the community seemed very disconnected, almost unsupportive of each other,” Rizzo said. “Rather than every event, every party being a competition, what if we could get all these businesses and organizations to advertise for each other? And that’s what our calendar still is to this day.” Since June 2012, the newsletter has started offering more content each Kevin Kuh/Special to ITL Executive Editor and MyBuffaloPride General Partner Michael Rizzo called raising the Pride flag at 224 Allen Street on May 2 his “proudest moment” in two and a half years of business. month than just the calendar. As the publication explores new topics, Rizzo hopes that he can be more inclusive and provide a publication that everyone in the gay community can relate to, whether they are bar dwellers or LGBT professionals. “Ultimately, I would want each month’s newsletter to be a snapshot of what different members of Buffalo’s gay community are actively involved in that month,” he said. “That can mean the pageant that’s running this weekend, the lobbying by Stone- wall Democrats in support for the trans community next week, or the development of the Medical Corridor and how it will affect our community in 10 years. It can mean a lot of things.” For now, Rizzo has a building to renovate, a grand opening to plan, a staff of contributing writers to build, and a desire to pull his company’s website “out of the Stone Age.” “I think anything that can better promote us as a community and become more inclusive is a good thing,” Hall said. IN THE LOOP PAGE 6 JUNE 2013 IN THE LOOP c/o MyBuffaloPride 224 Allen Street Buffalo, NY 14201 MyBuffaloPride@gmail.com intheloop.mbp@gmail.com EXECUTIVE EDITOR Michael Rizzo PROUDLY PRESENTS PHOTO EDITOR Clinton Hodnett COPY EDITOR Angelica Rodriguez Pride Special 2 for 1 Tickets EVENT COMPILATION Caitlin Kupiec on Pride Weekend ry Kra mer By Lar v ie r d By Ja D ir e c t e B u s t il l os when you mention In the Loop CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Gerry Downs Jeff Heras Doug Weyand SOCIAL MEDIA MANAGER Travis McMaster In The Loop’s circulation is 2,500. Distribution is to more than 50 sites in downtown Buffalo, Elmwood Village, Allentown, college campuses, and online. In The Loop is an independent publication supported solely by advertising sales. Views expressed herein are not necessarily the views of the publisher. Publication of any person or organization in articles, advertising or listings in In The Loop is not to be construed as any indication of the sexual orientation of such persons or members of such organizations. SUBMISSION POLICY: In The Loop publishes events from all venues on Allen Street and the surrounding blocks, as well as queer-friendly organizations in the City of Buffalo and its surrounding suburbs. Submissions are edited for spelling, grammar, style and space, and a submission does not guarantee publication. To submit events, email eventsintheloop@gmail.com. Deadline is the 25th of every month, but early submissions are appreciated. If needed, event invitations on Facebook may be considered as submissions. Advertising inquiries should be sent to advertiseintheloop@gmail.com. Final Performances May 31st, Jun 1st & 7th at 8:00 p.m. Jun 9th at 7:00 p.m. Photography by Cheryl Gorski 119 Chippewa St. (between Delaware and Elmwood) Call 716.886.9239 to Reserve www.buffalobua.org Design by Nicholas Vitello IN THE LOOP JUNE 2013 PAGE 9 She’s got both genders down to a T The first time Gerald Paul Downs, Jr. heard his second-grade teacher swear, he was eight years old. Mrs. Lotempio was wearing a pair of Espadrilles. He died for the gorgeous wicker heels and sexy rainbow-colored fabric that spidered up her ankle and tied off in an enticing bow. “These goddamn shoes!” exclaimed Mrs. Lotempio when her trip down the stairs was less than comfortable. Those goddamn shoes, Gerald thought, are fabulous! I want to wear them. And that was the birth of Miss Gerry. I am the Ta-RANS-ula of all spiders, and I’m here to get you unstuck. I found my mother’s closet. She had her own Espadrilles, a pair of brown, faux-leather slip-ons, and a pair of lilac purple satin heels. They looked great, and I felt great. A few years into high school, I got bold and started wearing light foundation. I experimented with my clothes and wore feminine Capri pants and women’s T-shirts. I was 18 the first time I purchased an outfit that all around was something I wanted to wear: girls’ denim shorts cuffed at my thigh and a striped, graphic, knee-length top painted with iridescent palm trees. I finally felt comfortable in the skin I was in. It’s been 24 years now that I’ve lived my life as a full-time trans woman, and in that time I’ve become the best of both worlds. I’ve experienced the things that both men and women think, fear, love and desire. You see, no matter who you are, I’m just like you. And like me, you are all just like spiders. You spend your life weaving your web, collecting the things you want, and releasing the things you don’t. Even though you control everything in your web — what comes in and what goes out, including yourself — sometimes you get tangled up. Stuck. Well, I am the Ta-RANS-ula of all spiders, and whether it’s with family, friends or relationship problems, I’m here to get you unstuck. So my little spiders, here’s the three questions I find most of your inquiring minds want to ask me. My answers are always truthful, honest and maybe even a bit brass. So next month, when I start answering the questions you submit, you’ll be aptly prepared for my sharp tongue. Send your questions to AskMissGerry@gmail.com. “Ask Miss Gerry” is for entertainment purposes only, and is not meant to be regarded as professional advice. If you need professional advice, get a shrink! Photo Illustration/Brent Ricci How can I tell is someone is transgender? Is it OK to ask? I’m not sure why you need to be able to tell, but it’s usually not hard. Facial features, hands and an Adam’s apple (or lack thereof) are the biggest giveaways. With many post-operative trans persons, you can’t tell. It’s called “passing” and comes as a huge weight off a transgender person’s shoulders, no matter how broad or narrow they are. But mind your own business, Sherlock. It’s not your God-given right to know. They’ll tell you whenever, and if ever, they want. Which bathroom do you use, and do you pee standing up? As a law-abiding trans woman I only use a female bathroom when I know that those around me accept me for what I am — a lady. For trans persons like myself, it is against the law to use a bathroom that is not designated for the sex we were assigned at birth without a doctor’s “permission slip.” So unless I want to get cuffed (and maybe sometimes I do), that limits me to peeing with dignity at gay and lesbian functions, where 90 percent of guests use each other’s bathroom anyway. And sweetie, a lady always sits when she pees. It’s only appropriate. What’s the difference between a “good tranny”and a“bad tranny?” Watch your tongue, before I bite it off. Tranny is as dirty a word as faggot, and it better not be rolling off your lips like it’s as natural as you are ignorant. Those that are truly trying to pass always conduct themselves with class, remaining true to their gender identity’s look, demeanor and attitude. But learning to pass takes time and experimentation. And at some point we’ve all looked a hot mess. That’s why a trans person never runs out of Windex. The mirror at home never lies. JUNE 2013 IN THE LOOP PAGE 11 NIH stops administering 505 vaccine MICHAEL RIZZO After two years of research and the participation of 115 volunteers from Buffalo and Rochester, the National Institutes of Health halted further injections of the 505 HIV-vaccine trial on April 22 because it did not prove to be effective. The Rochester Victory Alliance, a University of Rochester group involved in HIV-vaccine research since 1988, headed up the study in Western New York as a member organization of the global HIV Vaccine Trials Network. The 505 vaccine showed promise during preliminary studies, and researchers hoped to prove that it could significantly reduce HIV-infection, or at least reduce the viral load in study participants who did become infected. The vaccine had neither effect, according to a third-party expert monitoring board who reviewed sets of data collected from participants who received the vaccine and from those who received a placebo. “Results showed that the chance that the study will show a beneficial result is extremely small, even if everyone involved received all their injections,” said Catherine Bunce, RVA clinic coordinator. The data showed more new HIV infections among participants who received the vaccine than those who received the placebo after the full vaccination series: 21 infections in the placebo group, compared with 27 in the vaccine group. The difference is not significant, according to the scientists and statisticians at the HIV Vaccine Trials Network, meaning that the number of infections in each group is likely due to chance. At this time, nothing suggests that those who received the vaccine are now Michael Rizzo/Executive Editor RVA representatives held a cocktail reception at Just Vino on May 14 to say thank you to volunteers and explain the next steps for all study participants. Left to right: Michael Keefer, principal investigator; Catherine Bunce, clinic coordinator; William Coughlin, research nurse. more likely to contract HIV. “It is important to realize that this is not known with certainty, and it is still very important to avoid exposure to the virus,” RVA officials told study volunteers in an April 26 letter summarizing the monitoring board’s findings. “All participants should continue with study visits for HIV testing and monitoring of their well-being.” A 46-year-old Buffalo gay man who volunteered for the study and received the 505 vaccine said he feels confident he’s no more likely to contract HIV now due to his participation than he was ever before. “I’m definitely not concerned that there’s going to be complications,” said John, who asked his last name not be used. “I haven’t noticed any ill effects in the past two years, and even the after-effects when I first received the injections were pretty innocuous. My arm was sore for a day or two. That was it.” During the next six to 12 months, researchers will be analyzing data for reasons the vaccine did not work, said Dr. Michael Keefer, principal investigator at RVA who has specialized in infectious disease and HIV-prevention research for 22 years. One possibility could reveal itself to be the “insert,” Keefer said, or the synthetic pieces of HIV to which the vaccine makes a person’s body respond. “It’s hard to know what the correct mixture is,” he said. “The insert may have been too narrow, meaning that the vaccines were not directed at a broad enough scope of HIV strains.” The next frontier for HIV-prevention research seems to be showing itself in microbisides, or compounds applied inside the vagina or rectum to block HIV-transmission, Keefer said. Preliminary studies in predominantly heterosexual communities in South Africa have shown promise, and Keefer hopes RVA can involve the gay community if the study makes its way to the United States. “We’re committed to this work,” he said. “We’re committed to this community. We’re not going to disappear.” IN THE LOOP PAGE 12 JUNE 2013 OPINION Taking back the rainbow: How religion destroyed the beauty of our community’s beloved icon Once upon a time, angels fell from the sky, took on human bodies and started bedding all the women they could find. A race of unrighteous giants was spawned, and God got very angry. He got so angry that he decided to kill all but eight people in the world, and he did it by flooding the earth and letting them all drown — one of the most desperate, painful ways for a person to die. He didn’t say he was sorry; he said they deserved it. But he did promise to never cause a flood again. As a symbol of his promise, he magically created the rainbow. It’s often plagued me that people can believe that something as beautiful as the rainbow was born out of genocide Can I ask that we please take this opportunity to rewrite the rainbow’s blasphemous legacy? and then bequeathed to unrighteous giants and make humankind by an omniGod very angry, so that wasn’t present deity with anger an option. But abolishing my management issues. natural desires and inclinations Although I am now an proved completely impossible. atheist, I was once one of I became depressed, Jehovah’s Witnesses, and a distanced myself from friends very good one at that. and family, contemplated I was knocking on doors suicide more than once, and at 4 years old, giving ultimately stood back as I five-minute talks from the watched all the color fade podium at age 6, leading from my life. MICHAEL RIZZO the congregation in Dark clouds rained a fury on prayer at 12. my mind more tumultuous “Fear God, and give him glory, because than whatever Noah had weathered, the hour of his judgment has come.” and the storm was rising. I was desIt’s one of the scriptures in Revperate. It was painful. elation that my parents made me So much for God’s promise. I guess memorize to remind me that God is he was just that angry with me. I always watching and that one day, guess he thought I deserved it. the people of Earth will be held acAs the current tossed me around in countable again, just not by a flood. a myriad directions, it felt like a miraScary stuff. cle when I realized that keeping my It scared me so much that once I start- head above water was so much easier ed puberty and realized my compass if I used my arms to tread the waves, only pointed true north when the same rather than reach out for God. sex was in front of me, I lost my way. Amid my epiphany, the heavens The homosexual “lifestyle” would parted, and with my mind’s eye I put me in the same class as those watched fire and brimstone turn into sunshine — and rainbows. I know a lot of people who have found God and are happier because of it. It’s helped them find purpose, direction and strength at times when they might otherwise feel hopeless. That’s a good thing. I also know a lot of people who have found God and, in the interim, lost their minds. That’s a bad thing. To each their own, but can I ask that we please take this opportunity during Buffalo Pride Week to rewrite the rainbow’s blasphemous legacy? For me, it’s no coincidence that an arc of color is now the icon that represents what I call my family — the LGBT community. Whenever I see that Technicolor flag, I’m reminded that my compass works just fine, and that whenever I need them, I have beacons of safety — places I can be fearless, where no hour is one of judgment. The rainbow is my promise to myself that I will never let God drown out my color again. What’s it to you? Michael Rizzo is the executive editor. IN THE LOOP is soliciting Letters to the Editor on timely topics that affect the LGBT community. Letters should be sent to michaelrizzo.mbp@gmail.com. IN THE LOOP JUNE 2013 JUNE 2013 11 15 Great American Quiz Night @ Merge Tuesday, 9:30 p.m. Show off those smarts as teams of five compete in four rounds of trivia: general knowledge, sequence, performance and video. Hosted by Scuzz and Trash Boat. Cash prize for the winners. $5 per person to play. 12 Karaoke with Jim & John @ Underground Wednesday, 7 p.m. The only happy hour karaoke in gay Buffalo. Next karaoke day: June 26. Pure Ink Poetry Slam @ Merge Wednesday, 9:30 p.m. Brandon Williamson hosts an evening of poetry competition for all ability levels. $5 entrance fee builds the pot for the winner each month. Sign up early. 13 Movie Night @ Market Arcade Cinemas Thursday, time varies based on movie. Email the Buffalo Movie Club at movingman@live.com to vote for the movie. Join other members for dinner before the show. Discount movie passes available. Next Thursday-night movie: June 27. 14 Spectrum @ Unitarian Universalist Friday, 7 p.m. A monthly support group for transgender persons. Email ...continued from Page 2 spectrumwny@yahoo.com for more information. Beers & Queers @ BUA Theater Saturday, 12 p.m. – 1 p.m. Jesse Strash presents a history of the Buffalo gay bar scene. Free admission, refreshments, historical map and discount drink ticket to Underground Niteclub. 16 PFLAG @ Kenilworth United Sunday, 2:30 p.m. – 5 p.m. Parents, friends, and families of lesbians and gays meet monthly for support, discussion and social events. Softball Party @ Q Sunday, 5 p.m. Come congratulate your favorite Queen City Softball League players on games well played, and enjoy food and drink specials. 19 Vegan Meetup @ Merge Wednesday, 6 p.m. Eliza Schneider hosts a dinner party and informal educational session about eating on a vegan diet. WTF Wednesday @ Underground Wednesday, 10 p.m. Tia Marie presents an anything-goes drag production. Shows at 10:30 p.m. and midnight. 20 PAGE 13 Transgeneration @ TBA Thursday, 6 p.m. The group meets monthly for discussion, friendship, social activities and support, while promoting the exploration of gender in a positive and affirming environment. Visit www.PrideCenterWNY.org for more information. Litter Mob @ Fat Bob’s Thursday, 6:30 p.m. Allentown Landscape hosts a monthly “Clean Up The Streets” event. Food at Fat Bob’s after everyone gets back with their trash. Prizes for Best Find and Most Trash. 21 Ambush # 10 @ TBA 23 Full Moon Party @ Cathode Ray 25 Stonewall Democrats @ El Museo 28 Radiation @ Underground Friday, 5:30 p.m. The ladies take over a different straight bar every third Friday for this lesbian-geared, but inclusive, happy hour event. Sunday, all day. Howl at the full moon with happy hour prices all day and night. Tuesday, 7 p.m. – 9 p.m. A monthly meeting for LGBT democrats interested in creating change in WNY politics. Friday, 11 p.m. Special guest DJ spins the hippest tracks all night long with dancing and rotating drink specials to quench the thirst. WEDNESDAYS 1 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: All-day Happy Hour. 4 p.m. @ Troop I: Happy Hour: 2-4-1 well/ domestic until 7 p.m. 5 p.m. @ Fugazi: Pitcher This: $5 personal pitchers of specialty drinks. $6 Long Islands. 10 p.m. @ Roxy’s: Karaoke with TJ: singers get a free shot with each performance. THURSDAYS 1 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: Happy hour prices until 8:30 p.m. 3 p.m. @ Q: Customer Appreciation: $2 well/Canadian beer all day. 8 p.m. @ Funky Monkey: Therapy Thursdays: $1.50 bar brands and local beers until 2 a.m. 8:30 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: Big Ass Drink Night II: $6.50 mason jars of specialty drinks. 9 p.m. @ Fugazi: Get Your Drink On: $1.50 well/domestic; $3 cosmos. 10 p.m. @ Club Marcella: Next Drag Superstar: $2.75 well/domestic; $2 with college ID; $3 >21; $5 <21. 11 p.m. @ Roxy’s: Stripteasers Burlesque: $3. FRIDAYS 1 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: All-day Happy Hour. 5 p.m. @ Underground: T.G.I.F.F.: Drink specials and guest drag performances. Hostess Chevon Davis is back! 9 p.m. @ Funky Monkey: Fishbowl Fridays: $5 fishbowls of specialty drinks, $1 off everything else; $2 shot specials after 12 a.m. 10 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: Big Ass Drinks, chip redemption; $4.25 select shots specials. 10 p.m. @ Club Marcella: Life’s A Drag: Shows at 11:30 p.m. and 2 a.m. DJ Charles Masters. >21: free before midnight; $4 >21; $7 <21. 10 p.m. @ Roxy’s: DJ Eva. SATURDAYS 1 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: Happy hour prices until 8:30 p.m. 6 p.m. @ DBGB: Groove in the Grove: Live jazz/funk until 9 p.m., then live music and DJs. 8:30 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: Redemption Night: Drink chips accepted all night. 9 p.m. @ Funky Monkey: Allen Street Dance Party: $1 off everything; $2 shot specials after 12 a.m. 10 p.m. @ Club Marcella: Salvation: Hot Underwear Contest at midnight. >21: free admission before midnight; $5 >21; $10 <21. 10 p.m. @ Roxy’s: DJ Charles Masters. SUNDAYS 1 p.m. @ Cathode Ray: All-day Happy Hour. Free drink for uniformed QCSL players until 6 p.m. 5 p.m. @ Fugazi: Bucket Bliss: $10 buckets of any domestic beer. 5 p.m. @ Funky Monkey: $3.50 well/local beer, Bloody Mary’s and mimosas until close. 7 p.m. @ Funky Monkey: Karaoke with DJ Ryan. BUFFALO PRIDE WEEK 2013 May 28 June 1 June 2 Tuesday, 1 p.m. – 5 p.m. After Pride Week commences with the Flag Raising Ceremony at Niagara Square in front of City Hall, stop by 224 Allen St., MyBuffaloPride and In The Loop’s new digs. It’s the first time the storefront doors will be open to the public. Light refreshments available. Saturday, 1 p.m. – close. Celebrate Pride with Pabst Blue Ribbon Pounders (16 oz) now only $2.75 every day. Sunday, 3 p.m. - close. Retro dance party with DJ Bill Strach. $3.50 Bloody Mary’s, mimosas, bar brands and local beers. Karaoke with DJ Ryan starts at 7 p.m. Open House @ Space 224 May 30 5K Run Reception @ Funky Monkey Thursday, 8 p.m. A post-run celebration after the Gay 5K, with $1.50 bar brands and local beers. May 31 Pride Weekend Kickoff @ Underground PBR Party @ Cathode Ray Open House @ Space 224 Saturday, 3 p.m. – 7 p.m. Stop by MyBuffaloPride and In The Loop’s new storefront at 224 Allen St. before the Dyke March steps off, watch the march with us from the front stoop, or check out the space before you head to the Allen Street Festival. Light refreshments available. Street Fest Fun @ Funky Monkey Saturday, 5 p.m. Party indoors and out with fun drink and shot specials, contests and prizes. Absolut Vodka Party @ Q Saturday, 6 p.m. - 7 p.m. Free shots, giveaways and drink specials. Second chance at the fun from 8 p.m. – 9 p.m. Saturday, 5 p.m. The gayest T.G.I.F.F. happy hour of the year. Balloons, confetti, glitter and everything gay. R&R Barbeque food truck on site. Drag shows at 7:30 p.m. and 9:30 p.m. Dyke Tracy @ Nietzsche’s Back Lot Bash Buffalo, Pt. 1 @ Roxy’s Back Lot Bash Buffalo, Pt. 2 @ Towne Ballroom Friday, 9 p.m. Special guest Whitney Mixter from Showtime’s “The Real L Word.” VIP ticket includes artist meet and greet. Special guests include Uh Huh Her, Alison Pipitone and Pamela Ryder, DJ Eva, The Stripteasers, and special guest bartender Amie Zinzola. $12, at-the door. “The A List” Pride Kickoff @ Ohm Friday, 11 p.m. A red-carpet, dress-toimpress affair hosted by Waki, with cash prizes and surprise special performances. Photographer and videographer on site. Saturday, 9 p.m. The Stripteasers celebrate Pride alongside local bands Irving Claws, Old Light, and Randle and the Late Night Scandals. $6. Post-Parade T-Dance @ Funky Monkey Post Pride Cookout @ Q Sunday, 6 p.m. - 8 p.m. Stop in for some food, drinks and a Svedka vodka party with shot specials. After Canalside Party @ Cathode Ray Sunday, 7 p.m. – close. Head back from the Pride Festival and enjoy $3 well and local beers all night. After Pride @ Underground Sunday, 7 p.m. All-night DJ starting at 6 p.m. with a drag show at 7 p.m. hosted by Melody Michaels and Chevon Davis. June 3 Pride Spangled Happy Hour @ Cathode Ray Monday, 1 p.m. Beloved bartender John Spangler joins the bar’s happy hour crew with shot specials and happy-hour prices all day. Saturday, 9 p.m. Uh Huh Her performs with special guest appearance DJ set. VIP ticket includes artist meet and greet. $20, at-thedoor. First Saturday @ Ohm Saturday, 10 p.m. In addition to Ladies Night, it’s the Allen Street Festival after party with drink specials and DJ all night long. For information on Pride Center of WNY sponsored festivities, visit www.BuffaloPrideFestival.com, and see the ad on Pages 7 and 8.