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February 2013
Volume 131 - Issue 1
Happy Valentine’s Day to all my lovely
sisters. I’ve mentioned before that this
holiday can be a great one or a lonely
one, depending. Remembering this,
it’s nice to recognize that someone you
know might not have a special someone to be their Valentine. In fact, this is
a perfect time to do a little extra secret
gifting. Look around you, see if there
is someone you know who might not
have a reason to look forward to Valentine’s Day, and think of one
thing you can do to brighten their day. It will remind them that they
may not have a “romantic” special someone, but they do have lots of
people in their lives who love them and feel that they’re special.
I have only one desire on Valentine’s Day, and that’s white daisies.
I don’t care if they are a bunch from the grocery store or an artfully
arranged floral creation. They’re all the same to me either way –
they’re a very cheap flower. But white daisies make me smile. I gave
out white daisies when my first niece was born instead of cigars (or
bubble gum cigars), so they are something I always link with happiness.
My chapter always plans something fun and usually “girly” for Valentine’s Day. This year we’ll have lunch at a restaurant in a restored
castle. It’s truly a Valentine’s event fit for a chapter full of queens,
so maybe those of us who have tiaras should wear them. Of course
there will be gifts, and of course there will be chocolate. But right after
that, we will start planning for election of officers, doing Rituals and
getting ready for Revealing day. My chapter is going back to the full
career chapter format in June, so we have to make plans for that. It’s
a busy time of year for chapters of all kinds.
I wish you all festive, happy Valentine’s Day celebrations and a
smooth progression to Founder’s day and the end of the sorority
year. I’ll let you know how we do with our format change if something
interesting happens. Until then, I wish you a Valentine’s Day full of
chocolate!
- Laura Ross Wingfield
FEATURE STORIES
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What Beta Sigma Phi Means to Me
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Stories From the Heart
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Sorority News
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Change of Heart
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2013 Beta Sigma Phi Endowment Fund Recipients
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Special Section
A sister’s passing causes one Beta to reflect on friendship.
Sisters celebrate Valentine’s Day in style.
Betas solve murder mysteries, hold auctions, and stomp on grapes.
How one sister ignored the signs of failing heart health
and lived to tell the tale.
Since 1947, the Endowment Fund has supported worthy organizations – you make it possible.
We honor our 2013 Valentine Royalty, with “The King” of Vegas as our presiding judge.
On the Cover
Meet Saskatchewan Xi Zeta,
Yorkton member Bree Rogoza.
Read more about this lovely sister
on page 11.
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Conventions
2013
Arizona (Phoenix)
September 13-15
Arkansas (Fort Smith)
June 21-23
British Columbia (Surrey) Conclave March 2
California (Temecula)
May 16-19
Carolinas (Myrtle Beach, SC) May 3-5
Colorado (Black Hawk)
July 12-14
Florida (St. Petersburg)
May 17-19
Georgia (Brunswick)
September 6-8
Iowa (Des Moines)
June 28-30
Kentucky (Louisville)
June 21-23
Louisiana (Gonzales)
April 14
Michigan (Flint)
October 11-13
Minnesota/N.Dakota (Fargo, MN) October 4-6
Missouri (Jefferson City)
October 11-13
Montana (Billings)
June 21-23
New Mexico (Cruise)
June 13-17
New York (Cooperstown)
October 4-6
Ohio (Akron)
May 17-19
South Dakota (Sioux Falls) September 20-22
Tennessee (Memphis)
June 21-23
Texas (Galveston)
June 7-9
Utah (Ogden)
June 21-23
Virginia (Roanoke)
September 27-29
Washington (Lynwood) Conclave April 7
Washington (Port Orchard, Bremerton) Conclave Oct 6
West Virginia (Fairmont)
August 9-11
Wisconsin (Kenosha)
October 18-20
September 13-15
Wyoming (Cody)
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Welcome These
New Chapters
Michigan Torchbearer Delta, Ludington
Missouri Gamma Epsilon Master, Sedalia
Nebraska Alpha Alpha Master, Omaha
Ontario Laureate Alpha Zeta, Trenton
Oregon Laureate Alpha Delta, Portland
What Beta Sigma Phi Means To Me
By Beverly Anderson
British Columbia Theta Eta, Campbell River
“This last summer British Columbia Theta
Eta, Campbell River lost a wonderful sorority sister, Nina Arrowsmith, who was only 52
years old. She was a very special lady and dear
friend to all of our members.
took a yellow rose to her hospital bedside and
one of the girls suggested each member could
write her a “letter of love” and share some special memories we each had. Then she and her
husband could share them together.
Five years ago, Nina battled breast cancer. She
had a mastectomy and chemotherapy and we
thought she had beaten this terrible disease.
And so we did. One member combined the
personal notes and delivered a copy to her husband. Her husband said Nina loved receiving
them and it made her very happy as they read
them together. It was so neat as each of us had
personal favorite memories and experiences
with Nina and got to share them in our letters
to her.
I believe it was November when she started to
have breathing difficulties and was being treated for asthma. Early that year Nina started to
notice things weren’t right and really started
pushing her doctor for some answers.
It was her turn to host our monthly chapter
meeting in May, which she readily did although
she was not feeling up to par.
Then in June, Nina started to feel very tired
and developed even more breathing difficulties – so much so that she could not attend
the social she had helped to organize.
The following week Nina was diagnosed
with bone, lung and brain cancer. What
a fighter she was - but by the time it
was diagnosed it was too late for
any treatment.
After only four weeks Nina
passed away in the hospital
on July 17.
While she was in the hospital our chapter knew we
could not do much for her,
but let her know how much
we loved her and how she
has influenced us all with
her sweet smile and positive attitude about life. We
It helped us feel like we were doing “something” to make her life a little brighter and lift
her spirits, which her husband said it did.
There is definitely a void in our close group
of women now. We all miss Nina very much
and she will never be forgotten. We are
keeping in touch with her husband to
support him if he needs anything.
We plan on celebrating Nina’s
life on the anniversary of
her passing each year.
It was so hard losing our sister, but
we were all grateful to have each
other for comfort
and support at
this most difficult time. This
is what sorority
means to
me.”
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6/1/2012 - 12/31/2012
ADDED 14 Pledges
South Carolina Epsilon Epsilon, Fort Mill
ADDED 13 Pledges
Texas Alpha Gamma, Amarillo
ADDED 12 Pledges
Georgia Kappa Beta, Douglas
ADDED 10 Pledges
North Carolina Kappa Rho, Fayetteville
ADDED 8 Pledges
Arkansas Beta Theta, Arkadelphia
Missouri Xi Xi Sigma, Independence
ADDED 7 Pledges
Louisiana Alpha Omega, Ville Platte
Missouri Alpha Beta Zeta, Lake Winnebago
ADDED 6 Pledges
Georgia Xi Delta Tau, Washington
Kansas Omicron Chi, Liberal
Missouri Omicron Theta, Memphis
Missouri Beta Mu Master, Jefferson City
Texas Alpha Tau Delta, Rockdale
“When you’re helping others and having a
good time, the excitement is contagious!”
said Susan Martoccia. It’s through this spirit that South Carolina Epsilon Epsilon, Fort Mill chapter of Beta Sigma Phi
has just inducted 14 new sisters.
This Fort Mill chapter in beautiful South Carolina focuses its efforts on serving and raising funds for local public school needs, for
the Fort Mill Care Center (which helps the
needy), and for other nearby organizations.
Also, like most sisters, they have a great
time together. “We enjoy our social time, but
we also learn a great deal from each other
and support each other. Who wouldn’t want
to be a part of that?” Susan says.
ADDED 5 Pledges
Florida Alpha Delta Omicron, Lake Wales
Illinois Beta Pi, Du Quoin
Kansas Xi Eta Epsilon, Neodesha
Nebraska Xi Gamma Alpha, Norfolk
Oklahoma Mu Psi, Ponca City
Oklahoma Xi Alpha Chi, Frederick
Texas Beta Lambda Kappa, Baytown
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Pictured here is Shelia
Padgett by the table all
set for tea.
Shelia
Padgett from
California
Laureate
Kappa Iota,
San Diego hosted
the annual
Preferential
Tea for new
pledges and
guests. Awesome tables!
Queensland Epsilon, Brisbane
in Australia has two new pledges.
Welcome Leanne Shuttleworth and
Tina Ogilvy. The members of Queensland Epsilon, Brisbane want to encourage our Australian members to
contribute more to The Torch. We
love to hear from our sisters Down
Under!
(l-r) Leanne Shuttleworth, Joan
Dean, Tina Ogilvy and Laurel
Featherstone.
- Submitted by Joan Dean
Florida Alpha Delta Rho, Clermont enjoyed a great outing with guests, attending the
Lakeridge Winery Event. They enjoyed mingling, tasting and enjoying the delightful treats
for the day.
Texas Alpha Gamma, Amarillo are a community college chapter. They had a recruitment
fair for student organizations with a table set up
where interested young ladies could learn more
about Beta Sigma Phi.
Claudie Biggers and Michelle Orcutt, the advisors, decided to host an ice cream social where
they made sundaes and answered questions
about Beta Sigma Phi. Those who were interested became pledges and they now meet weekly
throughout the semester.
Fabulous Alpha Gammas pulled out all
the stops for a glitzy Hollywood-themed
Sweetheart Ball!
- Submitted by Michelle Orcutt
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Stories From The
Valentine’s Day is usually associated with romantic love, but it’s
also a time to celebrate love of all varieties...and few kinds of love
are stronger than the bonds of sisterhood we find in Beta Sigma
Phi. Here are some ways our sisters celebrated this special day.
Bearing the Bear
If you’re in the vicinity of McCalla, Alabama, and you see a lady carrying
around a three-foot-tall Teddy Bear, stop her and ask her why. She’ll
use the opportunity to tell you all about Beta Sigma Phi.
Alabama Xi Sigma, McCalla, has a fun tradition surrounding the annual crowning of the chapter’s Valentine Queen. Many years ago,
members Syble Lamons and Diane Hyche started the tradition of
giving the Valentine Queen the huge Teddy Bear, which she must
carry with her for the whole year! The Queen passes it on when the
next Queen is crowned. The big bear is an attention-getter, and when
folks stop to ask about it or remark on it, the Queen tells you all about
Beta Sigma Phi.
Pictured is 2011’s Valentine Qeen, Ruth Brewster, “caught” with the Teddy Bear at a local shopping center. What a great way to promote Beta
Sigma Phi to others!
- Submitted by Syble Lamon
Sweetheart Ball
To celebrate Valentine’s Day, the Orlando
Area Council holds an annual Sweetheart
Ball at the Tuscawilla Country Club. The ball
features a silent auction, and at the last
event this garnered $2,342.94 for the International Disaster Relief Fund.
Here co-chairs Manina Taylor (left) and Stacy
Stewart (right) of Florida Preceptor Eta Gamma, Orlando, present a check to then council
president Susie Brock of Florida Xi Xi Phi, Orlando. The check went on to International to
provide relief for victims of natural disasters.
- Submitted by Stacy Stewart
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Heart...
Breakfast Fit for a Queen
Kansas Xi Iota Mu, Mission, crowned Nancy Purkey their Valentine Sweetheart
at a special breakfast. All members of the chapter were in attendance, and all were
treated as “Queens” while two chapter husbands cooked and served the ladies a
pancake breakfast with all the trimmings. The event was held at the home of member
Nancy AufDerHeide. She presented Purkey with a book full of nice things her sisters
had to say about her. Next was the fun of “gifts fit for a Queen,” including a small lighted
torch which Nancy held aloft in honor of her reign. Lots of fun was had by all!
- Submitted by Sharon Peine
Serenades for Sweethearts
Members of Florida Laureate Delta Chi, Melbourne, organized an event for the South Brevard
City Council – a Sweetheart Luncheon. The last one was held at the Tradewinds Restaurant in
Viera, Florida. Entertainment was from a barbershop quartet, Orpheum Circuit, who sang love
songs for this special Valentine’s Day event.
“The room decorations were just gorgeous,
using a red and white theme, and each of
us received a lighted long-stemmed red
rose as a favor,” said Jewell Patton, of
Laureate Epsilon Iota, Melbourne.
Sweethearts from several Melbourne chapters were honored, including Kae Wise of Laureate Epsilon Iota, Evelyn Kirchmaier, Laureate
Alpha Nu, Sharon Mischker, Laureate
Alpha Nu, and Regina Paquette, Laureate Omega Omega.
- Submitted by Jewell Patton
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A King for the
Valentine Court
Meet our judge, the world’s
foremost Elvis impersonator!
We are thrilled to have as this year’s judge the King
of Rock’n’Roll – well, the next best thing, anyway.
Matt Lewis is widely regarded as the world’s most successful Elvis tribute artist. He is, among other things, the headline act at the
ever-popular Legends in Concert show in Las Vegas. He’s also
the executive producer and lead performer in the Tribute Royalty
show at the Las Vegas Planet Hollywood resort and casino. Lewis
has played the King on stage, in film, and on network television,
and has taken his act to the international stage, performing before
packed houses in Singapore, Australia, Germany, and Switzerland.
Lewis’ uncanny ability to channel the King – not only through his
smoldering good looks and 6’2” frame, but with effortless moves
and smooth vocal delivery – have earned him a distinctive place
in a career fraught with peril.
In true Beta Sigma Phi tradition, Lewis
finds time in his grueling schedule to
perform numerous benefit concerts
throughout the year, raising money for local charities and bringing glitzy Vegas-style
shows to small communities that otherwise
might never host one.
Lewis admits to being occasionally perplexed as he walks on
stage and the crowds go wild,
as if he’s the real thing. “It’s
a strange phenomenon,”
Lewis told USA Today in
a feature article. “I know I’m not Elvis. They know I’m not Elvis.
But it’s fun when everyone plays along.”
Though Lewis did attend college to become a teacher, he’s been
impersonating Elvis since he was 12 years old, and never had
any real doubt about his destiny.
“Imagine my parents’ reaction when I came home and said, Mom,
Dad, I’ve dropped out of school to become an Elvis impersonator,” he laughed. “Someone once told me that if you have something to fall back on, you’ll probably fall back on it. So dropping
school really gave me no choice but to succeed in this career.”
Unlike the real Elvis, Lewis is committed to traditional family values and has never fallen victim to the pitfalls of rock and roll.
His wife is a dancer and choreographer who also works in the
entertainment business, but they’ve found ways to make time for
a “normal” family life with their two sons.
“I think my greatest desire in life is to bring joy to others and
make them smile,” he said. “If I can bring a smile to the faces
of my audience, it makes me feel like I am doing something to
brighten up the world.”
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Bree
Rogoza
Saskatchewan Xi Zeta, Yorkton
“Bree is an exceptional young woman who
brings a high level of energy and enthusiasm to her chapter. She is full of innovative
new ideas, as well as being compassionate
and considerate.”
Kelli J. Johnson
Florida Mu Omega, Perry
“Kelli is a beautiful young lady inside and out. She is a loving wife and
mother. She is also a great teacher who holds the hearts of those she
teaches.”
Jennifer L. Russell
Arkansas Delta Xi, Crossett
“Jenni is a beautiful sister inside and out. She always has a smile for
others and always looks at the bright side of things. She radiates love and
compassion.”
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Pamela
A. Hunt
Oklahoma Preceptor Gamma
Lambda, Stroud
“Pam is kind, compassionate and giving
and she is not unwilling to offer a hug,
a pat on the back and an “I love you” to
people in her daily life.”
Regina B. Maraist
Louisiana Beta Rho, St. Martinville
“Regina is a loving wife with three children and four granddaughters.
She is an intelligent and very caring individual.”
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Allison Carnahan
Texas Xi Epsilon Omega, Seguin
“Allison is the most benevolent of women, a devoted mother, an adoring
wife, and a compassionate friend. Her inner beauty shines through while
she handles life’s challenges with grace.”
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Mae E.
Beebe
Washington Laureate Alpha Delta,
Auburn
“Mae is our oldest sister, but she has more
vim and vigor than any sister in sorority.
She enjoys being involved and helping
people.”
Audrey Stroo
Wisconsin Xi Rho, Kenosha
“Audrey embodies what Beta Sigma Phi represents. She is someone
who truly lives her life following all of the 10 Commandments of our
Sisterhood.”
Marilyn M. Russman
South Dakota Laureate Upsilon, Sioux Falls
“Marilyn is a special member because she cares for everyone from the
bottom of her heart. She is the first one to volunteer to assist with anything
that needs to be accomplished.”
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Alice Carolyn Barnett
Alice Faye Capps
“Carolyn is a dedicated member, always ready to serve where needed.
She is dependable, friendly and gracious.”
“Faye’s attitude is the epitome of sisterhood. She is always there for her
sisters just as she is for all her friends and family.”
Texas Gamma Phi Master, Amarillo
Audrey A. Pari
North Carolina Preceptor Beta Rho, Havelock
“Audrey is a special person, she faithfully sends special cards to all members and participates in every way that she can.”
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Alabama Laureate Rho, Jasper
Barbara Rogers
Florida Zeta, Lakeland
“Barbara lights up a room with her bubbly personality. She is always looking out for her chapter’s best interest with ideas, supports in any project
and always makes any job fun.”
Carla Sue Jones
Cindy Wrenn
Virginia Eta Lambda, Emporia
Arkansas Preceptor Alpha, Little Rock
“Cindy lives by her 97-year-old grandmother’s advice ‘pretty is as pretty
does,’ combined with a positive outlook in all life’s situations and her ability
to put others ahead of herself.”
Helen Martinson
Janice A. Nelson
“Carla is a beautiful and charming woman from the South. She possesses
an undeniable natural charm, has a warm and dazzling smile, and impeccable manners.”
Florida Xi Xi Tau, West Palm Beach
“Helen goes above and beyond her duties as treasurer. Her loving heart
makes her an exceptional friend and inspiration to all.”
New Mexico Laureate Alpha Beta, Anthony
“Janice is a caring, loving sister. She is a leader wherever she is needed
and is depended on to keep the chapter on its toes.”
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Josephine Horvath
Virginia Preceptor Gamma Pi, Yorktown
“Jo is a kind, generous, loving person with a spirit for life. She is a wonderful example of all the virtues that signify Beta Sigma Phi.”
Lynn W. Hilson
Mississippi Xi, Jackson
“Lynn has an extraordinary personality, she brings laughter and joy to
everyone and is always eager to learn more about Beta Sigma Phi.”
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Kathy T. Phillips
Florida Lambda Master, Tampa
“Kathy is a sweetheart to everyone she meets. She has a heart full of
sweets to share everywhere she goes. Everything she does in life she
shows sweetness.”
Margaret “Maggie” Smith
California Preceptor Nu Xi, Anderson
“Maggie loves sorority, she enjoys her sisters, loves to laugh and
participate in all the social and service events.”
Mary Z. Carmichael
Sally A. Goss
“Mary is a beautiful person with a beautiful heart. She unselfishly took on
her inlaw’s two children to keep them out of the system. She is a remarkable person.”
“Sally is the “go to” person in the chapter. She has the answer to any and
all questions involving sorority and has a true love for Beta Sigma Phi.”
Alabama Xi Alpha Xi, Bessemer
Sharon “Shari” Fox
South Carolina Laureate Zeta, Charleston
“Shari has a heart of gold. She lives life to the fullest from her creative,
sometimes astonishing outfits to her willingness to try something new.”
Arkansas Preceptor Psi, Little Rock
Shirley Louise Moore
Pennsylvania Xi Epsilon Sigma, Lock Haven
“Shirley is a kind, caring and compassionate person. She is an active
member of many organizations, ever loyal and devoted.”
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Susie Holden
Oklahoma Theta Psi, Grove
“Susie is very special to her chapter. She can always be counted
on for a smile, an ecouraging word and help with all things Beta
Sigma Phi.”
Therese Shannon
Massachusetts Xi Omicron, Norfolk
“Therese comes from a large family; she has 12 brothers and sisters.
With Beta Sigma Phi her family has grown to include so many Beta
sisters.”
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Suzanne Smith Sanders
Texas Delta Zeta Master, San Antonio
“Suzanne is the definition of caring for others less fortunate and giving
freely of her time throughout her life to make this world a better place.”
Virginia Anne Reynolds
Idaho Xi Alpha Tau, Twin Falls
“Virginia is very creative and enjoys sharing her ideas and talents with
others. She has a warm, friendly smile and always makes those around
her feel welcome.”
Murder on the Menu
Members of Ontario Xi Theta Eta, Kitchener,
recently time-traveled to the 1920s to solve a murder!
The party game Murder at the Four Deuces fueled
an out-of-the-ordinary party. Sisters and their
significant others adopted characters, dressed in
period attire, and enjoyed 1920s drinks and food
while they attempted to solve a fictional murder at
Winning detective Julie Barlow and
a speakeasy/casino.
her husband, Ray.
“Since our chapter has had a recent
turnover in members, this was an
amazing and fun way to get to know
the new members,” said Anna Baldwin.
Member Katherine Silver organized
the event, which members said was
one of the more entertaining gatherings the chapter has had. Members
enjoyed prizes for the best dressed
and for the best actors.
“One of our newest members, Julie
Barlow, was the sleuth who solved
the murder,” Baldwin explained. “It Katherine and Gary
was a highly entertaining evening, and Silver, hosts of the
we recommend others give it a try!”
“murder.”
- Submitted by Anna Baldwin
From left to right: Stephanie Doyle,
Katherine Silver, Anna Anderson,
Amberlee O’Connor of Ontario
Delta Rho, Cambridge, Anna
Baldwin, and Jasmine Peters.
A Day at the Zoo
Envoy II Hagen Vickers, Legacy Gracie Vickers and Envoy II Hank Vickers enjoyed a day at the zoo in Birmingham, Alabama. They’re the grandchildren of their sponsor, Syble Lamons, of Alabama Xi Sigma, McCalla,
who celebrated 40 years with Beta Sigma Phi in November. When the kids
came from Starkville, Mississippi to visit their “Granny Syble,” the chapter
turned out to celebrate, holding a picnic, party and trip to the zoo. The
family and chapter wore Beta Sigma Phi t-shirts.
“The children had so much fun that it will go down in history as a great
Beta Sigma Phi day and the perfect way to let others see what Beta
Sigma Phi is all about!” Syble said.
- Submitted by Syble Lamons
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Quilts
for Furry
Friends
Going Once, Going Twice...
How much would you pay
for a purple bearded iris?
Sold!
California Preceptor Zeta Omega, Bakersfield, has
held an annual auction for the past 25 years as a Ways and
Means project. In the beginning, they would invite other
area chapter members to attend the auction, which would
be held at a member’s home and feature a variety of services or homemade goods. Each year, enthusiasm for the
project grew, as well as the variety and number of items on
the block. In recent years, about 75 items are auctioned each
year. Envoy Ronnie Holbert displays what his friends call his
“audacious personality” by conducting the live auction and
coaxing out every dollar those items are worth. There’s also
a silent auction, where attendees anxiously bid against one
another, watching to see if their item’s bid sheet is perused
by any competitors.
Members of Florida Xi Xi Tau,
West Palm Beach, helped cut and
sew donated quilts to fit dog kennels
for the Big Dog Ranch Rescue in Wellington, Fla. Dogs that are rescued
from harm or neglect, or those whose
owners can no longer care for them,
find a comfortable and safe home at
the ranch. The quilts make life a little
softer and cuddlier for man’s (and
woman’s!) best friends as they wait for
adoption.
This annual event has outgrown members’ homes, going
from a commercial tent to a rented banquet facility. Each
year, members provide a luncheon for their guests, and this
past year, a generous local restaurant, Frugatti’s, provided
an authentic Italian spaghetti feast. Home décor items, Waterford and Mikasa, glassware, a trip to Las Vegas, holiday
decorations, homemade dinners for four, personal service
gift cards, yard art, gardening supplies and restaurant gift
cards are just a few of the items that were on the block at
the last auction.
“Of course this event would not be complete without our Envoys,” said Devra Caminiti. “Who needs a Vanna White when
we have these charming men displaying auction items, encouraging the bidders or just adding a little spice to this very
successful event?”
The proceeds from this annual event go to fund local philanthropic ventures, as well as to contribute a hefty donation at convention to four state philanthropic projects. Betas
have just as much fun putting on this project as attendees do
spending the contents of their loaded wallets!
- Submitted by Devra Caminiti
- Submitted by Linda Smith
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“Maryann as Lucy”
“Lynn as Lucy”
Stomping the
Day Away
Members of Florida Xi Xi Tau, West Palm
Beach, had fun and laughs at the 12th Annual
Henscratch Farms Annual Grape Stomp and
Lucy Look-a-Like Contest. The event draws
more than 1,000 people each year to stomp
about 2,000 pounds of grapes. Wine from that
day is bottled and made available eight weeks
later. Participants can purchase their own bottles with personalized labels picturing them
stomping the day away. Chapter president
Maryann Hedrick took first place in the Lucy
Look-a-Like contest, winning three bottles of
wine, while member Linda Smith pulled third,
taking home a beautiful wine glass. All in all, it
was a winning day!
- Submitted by Linda Smith
Return of the Sea Goddess
Signe Gardner, of Maine Preceptor Beta, Rockland, recently garnered attention for Beta Sigma
Phi when she served as marshal for the 2012 Maine
Lobster Festival Parade. In a local newspaper article, fun-loving Signe requested a “good-looking
redhead in a blue Corvette” to escort her in the
parade – and that’s just what she got.
Signe is no stranger to attention. In 1949 she was
crowned Sea Goddess in the Miss Main Seafoods
competition, a beauty pageant for which she
sewed her own dress.
Sewing is more then just a hobby for Signe – she
operated a tailoring business out of her home
while her four daughters were growing up; she
also taught kindergarten through third grade for
12 years. But Signe always finds time for fun and
service to her community through Beta Sigma Phi,
which she’s been a member of for 56 years. She
was instrumental in starting the Lobster Festival’s
popular pancake breakfasts, which was a Ways
and Means project to fund a nursing scholarship in
memory of deceased sister Beryl Borgerson.
“Signe’s talents for decorating our Founder’s Day
tables have been enjoyed by us all,” said Dorothy Liberty. “She is beautiful, within and out, and
makes everything around us beautiful. You are
truly ‘among friends’ with Signe.”
- Submitted by Dorothy Liberty
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Chatter
Nebraska Luareate Upsilon, Omaha gave a check to Shawn
Neff of the Nebraska Autism Society. At the beginning of the
sorority year they had six members who worked hard to raise
money for the Autism Society. They will now have 11 members
and hope to raise even more money for a charity next year.
Pictured Sujin Stone,
Dawna Robertson,
Leslee Paquette,
Shawn Neff, Amy
Arvanis, Dianne
Severa, Jean
Larrick, LeeAnn
Smith, Carolyn
Schmidtke and
Candy Murcek.
Not pictured Pat
Brinkman and Susan Enerson. - Submitted by Dianne Severa
The members of Texas Xi
Kappa, Jacksonville
presented a donation to the
HOPE Back Pack Program.
The program provides back
packs filled with nutritional
meals and snacks for students whose primary source
of food is the school cafeteria.
- Submitted by Jessica Riner
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Once a year the members in
Delaware Laureate Gamma, Dover celebrate their
chapter’s birthday. Last year
members celebrated with a
Wine and Cheese Party!
- Submitted by Kathleen Adams
Fun and fellowship were the name of the game for
the Tennessee Preceptor Gamma, Memphis
chapter of Beta Sigma Phi during the weekend of
October 19-21 as they took a road trip to Cherokee
Village, Arkansas.
Staying at the home of sorority sister Bev Gooch was
a real treat. Her home has scenic views of the lake
and they were able to enjoy the gorgeous sunsets.
While there they ate lots of food, talked, laughed,
had a meeting, conducted a Pledge Ritual, shopped
and took many trips to see the sights. “One of
the most enjoyable places we saw was Mammoth
Springs,” says fellow member Dantzler Brunswick.
“It is spectacular and beautifully shows off God’s
artwork! The red, oranges, yellows, and greens God
used in his paintbrush were surrounded by the
beautiful blue waterfalls,” according to Dantzler.
Saturday evening they visited with Tennessee
Laureate Omega, Memphis. They enjoyed playing games, talking, and watching football together.
“There is nothing that compares with the laughter
and joy of sisters when we are together,” says Dantzler.
“The weekend was just what the doctor ordered,”
she continued. “We were so fortunate that all of our
sisters were able to attend this special weekend.
We enjoyed it so much that we plan to hold another
one in the spring.”
- Submitted by Dantzler Brunswick
North Carolina Pi Master, Havelock made a
donation to Hope For The Warriors in the amount
of $1,238.60. Hope For The Warriors is a Beta Sigma Phi Endowment Fund Receipient. The chapter raised the money by participating in the semiannual, 16-state Belk Charity Day sale. Through
other fundraisers such as Applebee’s Pancake
Breakfasts and 50/50 raffles and the generosity of
the members, the chapter has raised over $4,345
for this organization. Pi Master was instrumental
in starting the Carolina’s Torch of Hope. Due to
generous donations from North and South Carolina
chapters as well as the Beta Sigma Phi Endowment
Fund, more than $17,940 has been donated to
Hope For The Warriors (www.active.com/donate/
torchofhope). - Submitted by Sally Kelly
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Chatter Cont...
Florida Gamma Epsilon Master,
Niceville brought back the Fifties
when they went to the Gulf area in
Panama City.
l-r The late Jo Ann Jones along with
sisters Marge Ballon, Eunice Whitman,
Linda Michalowski, Dianne Wilbur and
Doris Olig.
- Submitted by Doris Olig
Ontario members of Beta Sigma Phi gathered after participating in the Sault Ste Marie 50th Anniversary International Bridge
Walk June 30, 2012.
- Submitted by Nancy McColl of Ontario
Laureate Alpha Omega, Sault Ste
Marie
South Carolina Laureate Eta, Greenville hosted
the Ritual of Jewels degree ceremoney for new chapter
South Carolina Epsilon Kappa, Travelers Rest.
Laureate Eta member Diane Kilgore had the pleasure
of being their adviser and pledge trainer. When Epsilon
Kappa’s new secretary asked Diane what she was to be
called in the minutes, Diane replied, Her Majesty! After
the Ritual, conducted by Diane, one of the newly inducted Ritual of Jewels members read a short poem aloud.
At this point Diane was given a “diamond” Tiara which
she wore the rest of the evening.
This group is off and running and having a great time.
“We’ll miss their meetings and the teasing we had with
each other,” says Diane.
After the meeting a cake with yellow roses and other
refreshments were served by Laureate Eta honoring the
new chapter and fellowship was had by all!
- Submitted by Diane Kilgore
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“Queen Diane came with wisdom and care
Training us to be a chapter with flare
Her patience and skill were thoroughly tried
But out of it came a chapter with pride
So we thank you Queen Diane for believing our cause
And give you this crown with great applause!
International Award of Distinction
Meet one of the newest recipients of the International Award of Distinction
(IAD), the highest honor that Beta Sigma Phi bestows on active members.
Sue has shown her enthusiasm for all things Beta Sigma Phi.
Sue Warden
Virginia Alpha Mu Master, Christiansburg
Member since 1980
Virginia Alpha Mu Master, Christiansburg, has selected Sue Warden to receive the International Award of
Distinction.
Sue’s sisters say she has always been extremely creative,
enthusiastic, and willing to go above and beyond – not
only taking on extra projects, but contributing more
than expected. She has contributed excellent service and
leadership through all of the offices she has held and the
committees she has chaired or served on.
“It is the overwhelming opinion of all members of Alpha
Mu Master that Sue is very deserving of the International
Award of Distinction,” writes Joyce Morgan. “Not only
for her outstanding service to Beta Sigma Phi, but also
for her humanitarian efforts for the care of her family
and co-worker.”
has twice received the honor of Valentine Queen. She’s
also known in her chapter as a scrapbook queen, preparOn the death of her father in 1971, Sue opened her home ing outstanding, eye-catching scrapbooks and yearbooks
to her mother, who she cared for until her mother’s death for the chapter and creating two cross-stitch yearbook
in 2002. Sue has also been instrumental with major fund- covers for each member.
raising efforts for a Virginia State Police co-worker who
had a terminal illness. She assisted him on the job until he She’s also worked to promote and grow Beta Sigma Phi,
passed away in 2010 at the age of 40. Sue has also been taking a major role in establishing Virginia Theta Xi,
extremely helpful with her mother-in-law’s illness.
Blacksburg and Virginia Iota Iota, Christiansburg.
Sue has also always been eager to volunteer for whatever
tasks are necessary for her chapter. She has had perfect
attendance 30 out of 31 years. From 1980 to 2000 she
worked rotating shifts as a dispatcher with the Virginia
State Police and took annual leave to attend the sorority
meetings that fell during her 3-11 p.m. work shifts. Sue
has received the Woman of the Year award six times, and
“Sue is a first-class person who represents Beta Sigma
Phi with the utmost of integrity and pride,” Joyce writes.
“She serves as a role model for her chapter sisters and
anyone with whom she has contact. She is most deserving of the prestigious International Award of Distinction.”
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Change of Heart
Heart disease is the number-one killer of
women in the United States. Here’s how
one sister ignored the warning signs,
paid the price, and lived to tell the tale...
In the end, after some further
complications in reading
backed-up medical data,
the cardiothoracic surgeon used arteries from
Roberta’s legs to replace
the torn and brittle ones.
By Seann McAnally
The surgery went well, and
was done by about 7:30
When Roberta Traylor, of California Preceptor Omicron Xi,
p.m. But for the rest of the
Camarillo, felt a tingle in her neck, she ignored it. The selfnight, Roberta was hooked
confessed “workaholic” was a busy bee, not only in her job as
up to an intubation tube and
an accountant but with a variety of activities as well. Chalking
a heart pump.
it up to normal aches and pains, she powered through it and
continued with her busy life.
“She was not expecting this at all,
and was hoping to be back to work
One day, Roberta’s daughter Joy, who is a nurse in a cardiac
on Monday,” Jennifer recalled.
care unit, noticed that her mother’s feet looked swollen. After
some exploratory questions, she advised her mom to make an Roberta agreed that the situation was not only unexpected,
appointment with a doctor right away. It’s a good thing she did. but fraught with drama. “The whole thing was just a comedy of
Roberta suffered from clogged arteries – a pretty bad case, errors, but it was also a miracle,” Roberta said.
where they were almost completely blocked with calcium deToday, she’s doing just fine, though she says she’s still “a little
posits. She needed surgery.
slow” to get moving, and sometimes has trouble focusing.
The problem was, her problem artery was oddly placed, and Though she’s dealing with some predictable physical fallout,
hard for surgeons to get hold of. Roberta’s aortic arteries were she’s slowly getting back to normal.
also very brittle, and didn’t have the elasticity doctors need for
successful surgery. Despite the best efforts of hospital staff, a “I just turned 60 and I’m not dead yet,” Roberta said. She
wire from the angioplasty procedure tore her artery. Roberta urges her sisters not to make the same mistake she did.
was awake when it happened.
“Well, when it tore the artery, of course things changed,” recalls her younger daughter Jennifer. “She coded on the table.
They had to use the paddles on her...”
“We ignore all those little signs that
people tell us not to ignore,” she said.
Roberta was lucky – her daughter was educated enough
to know what warning signs to look for. Not everyone has a
Roberta was technically dead. “I flatlined,” she said.
daughter who’s a cardiac nurse. Beta Sigma Phi endows two
The hospital had two heart surgeons. One had just started a “heart health” organizations that have a wealth of free inforsix-hour surgery with another patient. The other was on va- mation for the public. Go Red For Women is a new division
cation. Luckily, Roberta’s daughter Joy was knowledgeable of the American Heart Association (www.americanheart.org).
about what her mother was going through, and knew how The Mid-America Heart Institute at www.saint-lukes.org is a
to work a hospital’s chain of command. Armed with her cell nationally recognized treatment and research center. The links
phone, she contacted another hospital and jumped through on the web sites of both organizations have plenty of useful
some hoops with complications about insurance. Roberta’s links to statistics, prevention practices and other information
life was in danger, but she was stable enough to move. Soon that are vital – not just for women, but for everyone who has
enough, an ambulance blazed across town, blaring its sirens, a heart.
transporting Roberta to the hospital where Joy worked.
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Beta Sigma Phi Endowment
Congratulations, sisters, you have made the following endowments possible. If you need
further information regarding any of the funds listed below, or to submit a new project or
renew a project, please contact Sandra Newland at the International Office at 816-444-6800
or sandyn@betasigmaphi.org.
THE ENDOWMENT FUND projects benefit a variety of charitable and health organizations since the FUND was started
in 1947. These projects are approved by a majority vote of the chapters and councils. They are screened by the International Executive
Council. Your chapter should vote on the proposals presented. After the chapter votes, return the ballot to the International Office by
May 1, 2013. Ballots received after that date CANNOT be counted.
THE BETTY CENTER MEMORIAL DISASTER RELIEF FUND makes grants to members who are affected
by a natural disaster such as flood, hurricane, tornado or earthquake. Grants to members whose loss is verified and approved will be governed by the size of the FUND and the extent of the member’s loss.
THE DOROTHY AND WALTER W. ROSS MEMORIAL SCHOLARSHIP FUND, established in
1969, is for member’s children or grandchildren. Each scholarship is for $1,000.
THE EXEMPLAR SCHOLARSHIP FUND, established in 1989, is for all members in good standing interested in continuing their education. One hundred sixty-one $1,000 scholarships have been awarded to date.
THE MEDICAL LOAN FUND provides interest-free loans to members in times of illness or injury. The FUND is only for
doctor or hospital bills not covered by insurance.
THE BREAST CANCER RESEARCH FUND. When you pledge a new member to your chapter you may allocate
the expense allowance to this cause. Research conducted by the DANA-FARBER INSTITUTE in Boston is extremely important to every
woman in the world. This FUND is separate from the regular ENDOWMENT FUND grant to the INSTITUTE. For more information,
contact the RUSHING DEPARTMENT.
Contributions to the FUNDS are completely voluntary and no chapter is obligated to participate. If you wish to make a contribution, please visit the Beta Sigma Phi Charitable Foundation web site at www.betasigmaphi.org then go to the donation link, to find out more
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BETA SIGMA PHI ENDOWMENT FUND CURRENT PROJECTS
NOTE: Where applicable the charity website is listed for further information and updates on progress and research.
ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION – This grant is for research into the cause, treatment and prevention of the disease, treatments and ways to delay the onset and studies for the caregiver’s role with the disease. The grant is $10,000. www.alz.org.
ARTHRITIS RESEARCH CENTRE OF CANADA – Provides research seeking the genetic cause of rheumatoid
arthritis and developing treatment strategies to improve the quality of life for patients. The grant is $10,000 for 2013. www.arthritis.ca.
BAY AREA LUPUS FOUNDATION – Lupus, primarily a women’s disease, affects the immune system, as well as the skin,
joints and vital organs. Money for this grant provides education and support services for victims of Lupus worldwide. The grant is $5,000
for 2013. www.balf.org.
CAMP MAK-A-DREAM – Funding will be used to support the attendance of 50 children to Kids Camp at Camp Mak-A-Dream.
Children come from across the United States and Canada to attend this camp set under the beautiful skies of Montana. Kids Camp is
designed for children between the ages of 6 and 14 with cancer. Although the cure rates for pediatric cancer patients has improved greatly
over the past 40 years, the psychological and developmental effects of cancer and its therapy have a tremendous negative impact on quality of life. Countless days of school are missed. Grant is $10,000.00 for 2013. www.campdream.org
CYSTIC FIBROSIS – Over 30,000 children and adults are affected by this genetic disorder that causes the body to produce abnormally thick, sticky mucus, which can clog the lungs and lead to fatal infections. The grant is $5,000 for 2013. www.cff.org.
DANA-FARBER CANCER INSTITUTE – The institute’s single goal is research into the cause and cure of cancer and
observation of victims of the cancers under investigation. The grant is $10,000 per year, used to combat women’s cancer; including
breast, ovarian and lung cancers. www.dana-farber.net.
GO RED FOR WOMEN – A new division of the American Heart Association is designed to teach and assist women to improve
their lifestyles. Women are dying each year from heart disease and stroke at almost twice the rate as from all forms of cancer combined.
The grant is $5,000 for 2013. www.americanheart.org.
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Fund Recipients
HEART TO HEART INTERNATIONAL – Heart-to-Heart started in 1992 with a humanitarian airlift of medicines to
Russia. Since then, international airlifts involve volunteer delegations delivering multi-million dollar loads of medicines and supplies to
the worlds poor and needy. The domestic program provides help for those in need across America, i.e. homeless and domestic violence
shelters, inner-city clinics and elder care facilities. The grant is $5,000 for 2013. www.hearttoheart.org.
HOSPITAL FOR SICK CHILDREN,TORONTO,CANADA (ELLIS RESEARCH PROGRAM)
Researches viruses suitable for gene therapy of Bb-thalassemis and sickle cell anemia. Gene therapy provides an alternative cure that
would not rely on Bone Marrow transplants. This grant is for $5,000 for 2013. www.sickkids.on.ca
MID-AMERICA HEART INSTITUTE – The institute is a nationally recognized diagnostic treatment, surgical and research center for cardiovascular diseases. It leads in the development of new and innovative forms of diagnosis and treatment. The grant
is $10,000 per year. www.saint-lukes.org.
RANCH HOPE – The grant helps defray the costs of purchasing and renovating a building that will be used for a special educational school for girls of Ranch Hope. The grant is $10,000 per year for 2013. www.ranchhope.org.
RETT SYNDROME – A rare progressive neurological disorder seen almost exclusively in females and becomes apparent after
6-18 months of early normal development. It leads to lifelong handicaps which includes loss of speech and mobility. The grant is $10,000
for 2013. www.rettsyndrome.org.
SCHLERODERMA FOUNDATION – This disease is often called the HARD SKIN, but it can also affect internal body
organs. Any age, sex or race can be affected, but more than 80% of the victims are women between 25-55 years of age. The grant supports
the search to improve the lives of patients. The grant is $5,000 for 2013. www.scleroderma.org.
SEEDLINGS BRAILLE BOOKS FOR CHILDREN – Funding makes possible the purchase of hundreds of Braille
books at half the cost of printing. They are available throughout the United States and every province of Canada, as well as many other
English-speaking countries. The grant is $5,000 for 2013. www.seedlings.org.
ST. JUDE CHILDREN’S RESEARCH HOSPITAL – ST. JUDE mission is to find cures for children with cancer and other catastrophic diseases through research and treatment. ST. JUDE’S treats children from all 50 states and around the world.
No child is ever denied treatment due to a families inability to pay. The grant is $10.000 for 2013. www.stjude.org.
STANFORD UNIVERSITY KIDNEY RESEARCH FUND – Beta Sigma Phi’s support over the years has resulted
in the Beta Sigma Phi Research Lab to be established. We now have the opportunity to have our donation matched by the Lucile Packard
Foundation. Be assured that all monies, both from the Endowment Fund and the Lucile Packard Foundation WILL be awarded to the
Kidney Research Program. The grant is $5,000 for 2013. www.packardchildrenshospital.org.
WHEELCHAIR FOUNDATION – The Wheelchair Foundation is a non profit organization with a goal to provide a free
wheelchair to every child, teen and adult worldwide who needs one. Independence is being given to people deprived of their mobility by
war, disease, accident, natural disasters and advanced age at a rate of more than 1,000 per month. The grant is $5,000 for 2013. www.
wheelchairfoundation.org.
**UP FOR RENEWAL**
A-T CHILDREN’S PROJECT – Atazia Telangiectasia is a rare childhood disease causing progressive loss of muscle control,
immune deficienceies and high incidents of cancer. The grant is $5,000 for 2013, 2014 and 2015. www.atcp.org.
CROHN’S & COLITIS FOUNDATION OF AMERICA AND CANADA – Crohn’s disease and ulcerative
colitis are lifelong illnesses. They are chronic diseases of the large and small intestines for which there are no known causes. This disease
affects men, women and children. The grant, in memory of Gladys Turner Crain, is $10,000 per country for 2013, 2014 and 2015. www.
ccfc.ca and www.ccfa.org.
HOPE FOR THE WARRIORS - This organizations mission is to enhance quality of life for US Service Members and their
families nationwide who have been adversely affected by injuries or death in the line of duty, particularly with regard to the short and
long-term care of the severely injured. Grant is $5,000 per year for 2013, 2014 and 2015. www.hopeforthewarriors.org.
INTERMOUNTAIN CHILDREN’S HOME AND SERVICES is a nationally recognized non-profit organization
that provides treatment programs dedicated to children suffering from moderate to severe emotional disturbances. Since 1982, Intermountain has specialized in residential and outpatient services that effectively address the treatment and permanency needs of young
children. Intermountain offers highly integrated therapeutic and educational services for children and youth. Located in Helena, Montana, Intermountain has responded to the special needs of children since 1909. The grant is $5,000 for 2013, 2014 and 2015.
MEDICAL TEAMS INTERNATIONAL - This organizations mission is to provide medical care for people whose lives
have been torn apart by disasters, conflicts and poverty. They focus on improving the health of those they serve by sending volunteer
teams and shipments of donated medicines and medical supplies to more than 50 countries. Grant is $10,000 for 2013, 2014 and 2015.
www.medicalteams.org.
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We Love Our Pets!
By Idaho Laureate Alpha Zeta, Jerome member Jeanne M. Meyer
Name: Tigger
Species: Maine Coon
“Tigger” is a tiger. He is just 2 years old but has the maturity
and intelligence of a much older cat. We lost our beautiful
white cat “Lucky” of 16 years and we wouldn’t get another
pet, because it was so heartbreaking. Then my husband
got quite ill, had a stroke and was missing our Lucky. I went
to the animal shelter to get a small dog that was advertised
in the paper. When I got to the shelter they
said it was gone and 20 people asked
for it, so while I was there I looked.
Well, there was this darling kitten
that reached through
the bars of his
cage to
me. Common sense told me not to touch, but I did, and sure
enough I was hooked. It was Christmas time, and after he
was neutered I could take him. I bought a soft green fleece
kitty blanket and wrapped him up, I put him in my husband’s
lap (early gift) and he grinned from ear to ear. “That’s all I
want this Christmas,” he said.
That cute kitten kept growing and fur was everywhere on
his ears, between his toes and a huge fluffy tail emerged.
By one year he weighed in at 14 pounds. The vet said
“You have a Maine Coon Cat.” I even went and got a
book – sure enough that’s what he was. He wears a
harness and he sits up like a dog – it stated they were
the smartest and largest members of the domestic
cat family.
We took him on a trip through Canada to
Alaska and he charmed everyone. He has
a stamped health certificate given to him
by a Canadian Mountie and pins from Alcan Highway-Yukon, British Columbia and
Alaska. What a Cat!