Autumn 2012 Edition - Scottish DSD Network
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Autumn 2012 Edition - Scottish DSD Network
Autumn 2012 Edition 1 Contact Details Please do not put KSA on envelopes addressed to Committee Members unless they have specifically stated that they do not mind. Please notify the Membership Secretary of any change of email or home address, as soon as possible! Mrs Alison Bridges Chairperson & Activity Weekend Organiser Mrs Roslyn Heinze Membership Secretary Engineers Cottage, Homesford, Whatstandwell Matlock, Derbyshire, DE4 5HJ 30 Alandale Close, Reading Berkshire, RG2 8JP Telephone: 01629 534402 Calls charged at Local Rates Telephone: 0845 230 0047 Option 3 Email: Chair@ksa-uk.net Or activityweekends@ksa-uk.net Dr Povl Larsen Vice-Chair, Newsletter Editor and Web Administrator Tregunnus House, Torpoint, Cornwall, PL11 3BZ Calls charged at Local Rates Telephone: 0845 230 0047 Option 4 Email: membership@ksa-uk.net Or ksa-uk@hotmail.com Mr Robert Raby Treasurer 6 Kings Avenue, Brigg, North Lincolnshire, DN20 8DH Email: treasurer@ksa-uk.net National Helpline Options: Calls charged at Local Rates Email: WebAdmin@ksa-uk.net 0845 230 0047 Ms Julie Whistler Administration Secretary Adult enquiries: Option 1 Children & Family enquiries: Option 2 Membership: Option 3 Donations: Option 4 41 Breach Road, Marlpool, Heanor Derbyshire, DE75 7NJ Telephone: 01773 710858 Additional NEC Members Email: Administration@ksa-uk.net Mrs Vanessa Charter - Fundraising Officer Mrs Sue Cook National Co-ordinator and Helpline Officer Mr John Gallacher - Adult Support Officer Email: mwks@ksa-uk.co.uk 56 Little Yeldham Road, Little Yeldham Halstead CO9 4QT Mr Guy Williams - Facebook Support Officer Mr Paul Allnutt - Support Officer Calls charged at Local Rates Telephone: 0845 230 0047 Option 2 Mr David Cook - Support Officer PLEASE NOTE NEW EMAIL ADDRESS Email: ParentsandFamilies@ksa-uk.net Non-NEC Support Group Members Any opinions expressed in the KSA Newsletter are those of individuals and are not necessarily those of the Editorial Team or the KSA NEC. Mr Paul Dutton Administrator for www.KS/XXYTalk.com 2 Editorial Dr Povl Larsen Hi Members The front page of this Newsletter differs from our usual format in that the whole of the page is devoted to our latest medical conferences/shows poster. The KSA has been attending medical conferences from before I joined and this has proven to be an important method for increasing awareness of Klinefelter's Syndrome, as well as sourcing potential speakers/presenters at our Annual Conference. It used to be only the major British Society of Endocrinology (BES) Conference, but now we attend BES Nurses Conferences, the Royal College of General Practitioners’ Conference and the Fertility Show. Alison Bridges explains the thinking behind the poster later in the Newsletter under the heading "What Can I Be?" After this is something I have written to encourage some of you to do the same. You don't need to include a photograph or even your real name! Even a few lines would be great! This Newsletter features some of the presentations at this year's Conference. Although the majority of Newsletters are now sent out electronically (and available as downloads from the www.ksa-uk.net site) there are still members who either don't have internet access or prefer to receive a hard copy. The cost of printing these restricts the number of pages each Newsletter can have. So in this issue there is a brief overview of the presentation on infertility and KS and presentations by Paul Dutton on Being XXY and Ginnie Covers on a summary of her book on Klinefelter's Syndrome. The greatest change to be aware of at the KSA is the new dates for the Annual Conference and AGM. We have moved this event to June. 22nd of June 2013 to be exact! If you have any specific subjects you would like to learn more about or hear the views of specialists in some subject please contact Alison Bridges so that she can start the ball rolling. Many consultants need 3 or 4 months notice of such events. The cost of June's Conference is also much, much cheaper than this year's was. Venues in the South East are not surprisingly expensive and the last Conference at £45 per person was our most expensive to date. Next year's June 22nd Conference will be only £25 if booked before the end of April. A massive saving of £20 on this year’s cost! More information about the Conference is included later in the Newsletter. As usual we have an article "View From The Chair" by Alison Bridges providing an informative picture of changes to the format of the Newsletter and other points of interest. Alison goes on to explain her take on the last KSA Conference and how the NEC have risen to the challenge posed by various issues arising from the event. Roz Heinze our Membership Secretary provides an update on contact lists and requests possible new supporters. There are also articles by members featured in this Newsletter; Paul Collingridge writes a heartfelt article on why he and his wife will definitely be attending next year's Conference; and Guy Hulbert tells us about his own experience of being diagnosed with KS and how the Activity Weekend was a great support to him. In the Summer newsletter I asked "where in the World is this?" Why? I hear you cry. We have found in the past that our Conference clashes with many medical conferences and, given the choice most potential presenters attend their own speciality conferences rather than ours! Next year we are aiming to attract prominent speakers and/or experts in Klinefelter's Syndrome. Well the answer is: John O'Groats. 3 View from the Chair by Alison Bridges As some members find a large amount of text hard to follow, we are starting some articles with an outline of the key points. Please let us know what you think of this idea. • • • • • • • • • There has been a considerable increase in the number of adults joining the KSA Even better, many are offering help by setting up support groups and fundraising, for example. Many members have realised that to raise awareness of KS they have to tell people they know about the condition It is important to realise that there is a great variety in those affected by their extra chromosome Some KS men may have some viable sperm up until their early twenties. If they are diagnosed early it might be possible to extract and freeze sperm Raising awareness and supporting all affected by the condition. That is what the KSA is about We hope to run 2 Activity Weekends next year - 5th to 7th April and 13th to 15th September 2013 but this will depend on the early response from you! Contact me on 01629 534402 or alibridges@hotmail.co.uk Next year’s Conference will be on 22nd June 2013 at the YMCA in Derby In 1990 Sue Cook and Steve Hammett formed the KSA as a support group for all with KS. Steve and one of Sue’s 3 sons have KS. However Steve left and around 1994 he set up an adult orientated group, the Klinefelter Organisation (KO) which is still in existence. Partly as a result of this the KSA was considered by some to be parent orientated - despite having had notable KS adults including Howard Bell, David Hames, John Gallacher, Ed Charter, Paul Dutton and Povl Larsen as active NEC members. Similarly the Activity Weekends were initially perceived as being targeted at families. Well at last these perceptions have changed – at the Activity Weekend this year there were 24 adults with KS (including 9 aged between 17 and 23) and 9 parent groups. At this years' Conference there were about 28 sets of parents and a whopping 23 adults – many of them young adults! Even more importantly, many of our adult members are making an active contribution – there are now 3 on the NEC, including our editor, an extremely important position- others contribute to the Newsletter, help to support other members and work to set up support groups. Some even waived their anonymity to help raise awareness (and funds). Telling family, friends and work colleagues can be a huge step but they had realised that they wanted to raise awareness of KS – and the KSA – and they wanted to tell everyone that, although an extra chromosome – or two – can cause problems, those affected are as diverse as any other group of people. They are individuals – doctors, warehousemen, engineers, unemployed, gardeners, butlers, students, salesmen. The one thing they have in common is that they know what it is like to have that extra chromosome – they are the experts and they want to share their expertise with parents, young people, medics and one another. Many of you will be aware that it appears some KS men have viable sperm in their teens and early 20s. This drops off naturally but the use of testosterone speeds up the decline – although this is reversible. More about fertility issues are presented later in the Newsletter. We are considering holding an extra Activity Weekend next year but it will depend on the early response we get from you. The two dates are 5th to 7th April and 13th to 15th September. Please contact me to book for either – or both – or you would like more information. My contact details are inside the front cover of this Newsletter. 4 At the AGM it was agreed that the Conference date should be changed from September to June as many endocrinologists and GPs are already attending medical conferences in September and are unavailable to attend ours!. Therefore next year’s Conference will be on 22nd June 2013 at the YMCA in Derby. I do hope that most of you will be able to attend. Fundraising Officer and Guy Williams as member without portfolio. Although Vanessa lacks experience in the role she makes up for this with enthusiasm and Guy is already making a valuable contribution by monitoring Facebook for us. Thank you to all my fellow members of the NEC – it would be very lonely without you! Finally, I would like to welcome two new members to the NEC - Vanessa Charter as our new Conference 2012 Alison Bridges The Conference this year was a rather overwhelming success. It was full to capacity – and there were a great number of delegates who were attending their first Conference. It was held at the beautiful Easthampstead Park in Woking. The grounds were beautiful although few of us had time to explore. I got off to a bad start – by the time I found my satnav on Saturday morning (having put it in a very safe place) I was late and I never made the time up again! At least I didn’t (quite) get lost on the way there but many others did as the journey was down country roads and not well signed. As we had been unable to get access the previous evening displays had to be set up before the AGM. Enough to say that by 9.45, when the AGM was to start, just over half the delegates had arrived and the sound and display system hadn’t been checked! We rushed through the AGM, re-elected the National Executive Committee (NEC) who runs the KSA – and also elected two very welcome new members – Vanessa Charter who is now our fund raising officer and Guy Williams who is monitoring Facebook for us. The constitutional clause limiting the Conference date to September was removed. In future we intend to hold Conferences and AGM in June. Our first speaker was Mr. Minhas discussing fertility issues. Unfortunately he had to leave immediately after his presentation so members were unable to ask as many questions as they may have liked. Paul Dutton then gave a presentation on the issues of Intersex. This was very well received but did not give rise to as much discussion as I expected. After a welcome coffee break the Parents’ Partnership gave an interesting talk about their work and the help they can offer to parents. We hope to have a summary of this in the next Newsletter. Ginnie Cover, a member of the USA group KS&A and a retired social worker, then spoke about her book ‘Living with Klinefelter Syndrome’. Although the survey on which her book is based wasn’t scientifically conducted, it was very readable and interesting! Ginnie sold out of her store of books and made a very generous donation to the KSA. To round the morning off, Paul Allnutt, an NEC member and father of a 3 year old XXY son, spoke about the practicalities of setting up a local KS group – as he has in Sussex. I hope this will have encouraged other members to think about a group in their own area. Lunch time at last and a superb meal! We thought that we had stumbled into the wedding reception (which was going on at the same time) but, no, it really was for us! The only ‘down side’ was that we were all too busy eating to talk as much as we usually do. After lunch we had two workshops – one run by the Parents’ Partnership and one for adults with 5 KS. This was to be run by Sybilla Davis who had attended a previous Conference. The first workshop went well and many parents commented on its usefulness. The adults’ workshop didn’t fare so well as some parents of older boys were understandably keen to have the opportunity to talk to the KS adults. The result was that the adults had no time during the workshop for themselves. However, there was ‘free’ time before the raffle and home and most people found some time to chat. This was an excellent Conference and it was very encouraging to see so many XXY adults attending. Feedback generally was extremely good and the constructive criticism highlighted what we already knew. In response we will be making some important changes next year: Problem: • KSA Conferences have always been very friendly affairs – everyone is made to feel welcome. However this year we had so many ‘new’ members – especially XXY adults – that some went unrecognised and, not surprisingly – felt unwanted. This was also partially true of the Friday night ‘get-together’. Solution: • There will be a group of ‘experienced’ Conference goers to meet and greet members who have never previously attended a Conference and who do not know anyone there. They will be introduced to other members and made to feel welcome. Problem: • Due to the late start the Committee (NEC) were not introduced properly. They did have different coloured name badges but this was not explained! Solution: • An NEC member will be given responsibility for ensuring that the NEC and all speakers are properly introduced – and thanked! Problem: • At least one member was disappointed by a last minute change of programme. Solution: • Although delegates are encouraged to attend all of the AGM and Conference as it can be disruptive to have late comers if, in exceptional circumstances, someone needs to know the timing of a specific presentation they will be able to check on Friday night. Problem: • XXY adults need their own time to talk amongst themselves (possibly aided by a facilitator). Solution: Next year we will run 3 workshops – one primarily for parents of younger children, one for XXY adults only and one run by XXY adult volunteers for parents of older children and young adults I do hope you will be able to join us in Derby on 22nd. June 2013 to see how well we do there! SUSSEX SUPPORT GROUP The next Sussex KSA meeting will be held on Saturday, 24th November 2012 at midday in Salfords on the A23 in between Redhill and Horley. The venue is close to Salfords railway station and the 100 bus between Crawley and Redhill stops nearby as a request stop. This meeting is open to all members. For further details or information please contact: chair@ksa-uk.net or on 01629 534402 2012 KSA Conference On the following pages we provide an overview on the presentation on infertility, followed by the slide show presentations by Paul Dutton and Ginnie Covers. 6 . Infertility & KS Male reproductive system Male Infertility The male reproductive system is made up of the external genitalia. The shaft of the penis consists of two erectile bodies called the corpus cavernosum, which comprises a mass of smooth muscle, and endothelial-lined vessels and spaces (lacunae), richly supplied with nerve endings. The urethra, which is the channel for urine and ejaculate, runs along the underside of the corpora cavernosa and is surrounded by the corpus spongiosum. The enlarged, bulbous shaped end of the corpus spongiosum forms the glans penis. The foreskin is a loose fold of skin that adults can retract to expose the glans penis. The frenulum is the area under the penis where the foreskin is attached. Infertility is defined as the failure to conceive after one year of unprotected intercourse. Approximately 15% of couples attempting their first pregnancy meet with failure. In about 50% of couples seeking treatment, the infertility will be caused by a problem in the male. It is therefore important that both partners are seen and investigated together. There have been great technological advances in the development and success of assisted conception in the last two decades, such that many couples with infertility can now be offered treatment. New Treatments New techniques have helped improve outcomes in non-obstructive azoospermia (no sperm in the ejaculate because of a production problem) which is the problem for XXYs. The testes hang outside the abdominal cavity of the male within the scrotum. They begin their development in the abdominal cavity but descend into the scrotal sacs during the last two months of fetal development. This is required for the production of sperm because internal body temperatures are too high to produce viable sperm. The testes also produce the male sex hormones. The epididymis is a mass of tightly coiled tubes cupped against the testicles. It acts as a storage place for sperm before they enter the vas deferens - tubes that carry sperm from the testes to the urethra. Over the last decade, it has become evident that sperm production in abnormal testicles is not uniform, it can be limited to small pockets in some situations. Random testicular biopsies may miss a pocket of sperm production and fail to retrieve sperm in some men who may actually have a small amount of sperm production. A microsurgical approach allows these pockets to be visually detected and increases the sperm retrieval rate. This technique is called testicular microdissection or MicroTESE. Using this approach, sperm may be found in some men such as those with KS who have had prior negative random biopsies . Viable sperm are most likely to be present in younger KS men. It is quite a painful process and the chances of successful conception are low even when viable sperm are found. 7 Being XXY by Paul Dutton People have 22 pairs of chromosomes plus two sex chromosomes XX or XY, however, there are variations! So, what did Klinefelter actually observe? FEMALE 22 pairs of chromosomes plus sex chromosomes XX "These patients tend to be tall, with normal secondary sex characteristics; most have normal sexual function. ... these patients often have an entirely normal appearance save for their small testes, and I am sure many escape detection because the testes are often not examined in a general physical examination. (Several have) gynaecomastia..." The hallmarks of the syndrome, therefore, are small testes, sterility, and increased excretion of folliclestimulating hormone." MALE 22 pairs of chromosomes plus sex chromosomes XY So, where does this guy fit in? 22 pairs of chromosomes plus sex chromosomes XXY We call this Klinefelter's Syndrome? 8 Interview with “Kerry” It is often assumed that XXY refers only to ‘XY men’ with an extra X chromosome with no allowance made for the possibility that there may be ‘XX women’ who have an extra Y chromosome. Have we inadvertently and with the best of intentions encouraged the Medical Profession to a "One size fits all" approach? When XXY people are “treated” by means of breast surgery and long-term testosterone treatment are we just supporting the upholding of cultural stereotypes of what is meant by male and female? • I had felt different to my peers for my entire life. • I think they could tell at some level. • I was always last to be chosen in team games at school • When I was 37 I was told I had an extra chromosome • I thought I would be a “whole person” after the treatment; the doctor said it would “make you a man” Interview with “Kerry” • I had always thought of myself as “gender fluid” • Testosterone tipped the scales too far in favour of masculinity. • I felt I had lost “the real me”. • Doctors were not equipped to deal with an xxy person who rejected Testosterone so they referred me to a psychologist who specialised in treating transgendered people. • They decided that if I wasn’t male, I must be female. Should we have thought more about Intersex Individuals? Interview with “Kerry” Firstly, though, what is intersex? Intersex is where a person’s biological sex is not clearly male or female; a person might have characteristics of both or neither. It’s always congenital. Someone can find out or be discovered to be intersex at birth, puberty, when trying to conceive a child, or random chance. It’s not an identity: it’s not in our heads, although some of us will opt out of the assumed gender descriptions of "male" and "female". • This psychologist couldn’t help and I returned to my GP. • My GP thought I needed psychiatric help but couldn’t think of a suitable specialist. • So I went “cold turkey” with testosterone. • With each passing day I reclaimed more of my true self. 9 Interview with “Kerry” Interview with “Kerry” Testosterone improved memory, energy & concentration Andrology Australia say: It also had less welcome side effects: “In our experience, both in research and in clinical practice, the two terms – KS and XXY – are almost always used interchangeably. Yet, the study inquiries that we received highlighted an interesting issue: •acne on face and upper body, •libido with constant erections, •homosexual fantasies, •body odour, •loss of scalp hair, •growth of body hair and •weight gain of almost forty kilograms. Interview with “Kerry” At the Gender Centre I told them: “I need a hormone to ‘calm me’ and testosterone is not my choice. I will not be embarrassed by further breast development. I am intersex. My Y chromosome is a silent Y” Interview with “Kerry” On Oestrogen Kerry feels more at ease and has better energy, memory and concentration. Kerry dresses androgynously and maintains a strong emotional bond with her wife. KS defines characteristics that are only unusual if found in a male. Common symptoms, such as low testosterone and breast development, are not unexpected features (or symptoms) if identified in a female. Interview with “Kerry” Oestrogen was prescribed as an antidote to the high levels of anxiety I experienced through my use of testosterone, it also acted as a natural antidepressant and blended better with where I saw myself on the gender spectrum, which is not to say I saw myself as female but rather (as mentioned earlier) a combination of both genders or if you like ‘simply XXY. You see I'm one of those people who don't believe we HAVE xxy but rather we ARE xxy and Oestrogen allows me to be that person far better than any alternative. Interview with “Kerry” I see my gender as XXY, and I prefer to use ‘intersex’ wherever possible. My passport is stamped ‘X’ for intersex. My endocrinologist is required to include a gender type on all things medical, as such he refers to me as female, I’m okay with this description especially given how my concept of masculinity has always differed from my peers. 10 Interview with “Kerry” Andrology Australia “To provide patients with the most appropriate care and treatment, it is important to understand these potential differences amongst those diagnosed with an XXY karyotype. The role of testosterone replacement therapy in KS has numerous benefits, both medical and psychosocial(Simpson et al., 2003). For some men, especially those who have not fully virilised in puberty, it can be a life altering treatment. Interview with “Kerry” Organisation Intersex International OII Australia seeks the right for all adults to opt out of the gender binary and use neutral sex or gender markers on legal documents. Intersex is about an experience of the body, not identity. Intersex is not synonymous with androgyny. Any person, intersex or otherwise, may feel more comfortable with a non-binary identity such as intergender. We reject language, such as “disorders”. Intersex variations are a natural part of the human condition. Organisation Intersex International Why would we consider working with OII Australia? However, the reality is that it may not work for everyone, and especially for those individuals who may not consider themselves female, but do not wish to be more ‘male’ either. Whilst it may be argued that choosing not to have testosterone treatment could have a number of negative long-term medical consequences (Bojesen& Gravholt, 2007; Maggi et al., 2007), this may not be the most important consideration for those who feel they are being medicated to change them into a person whom they do not feel themselves to be. Interview with “Kerry” What do you think KSA UK should be doing for xxy persons that it is not already doing? Be more inclusive of the diversity and in doing so make people aware not everyone will benefit from testosterone usage. OII Australia board have said its okay for you to use whatever material you so wish and if need be, are willing to work with you in helping to promote that diversity. Why not a North American body? In 2006 with the support of the Intersex Society of North America the medical profession there stopped referring to "intersex" and similar terms and started using "Disorders of Sexual Development" (DSD), which many people found very offensive. OII Australia rejects the term "Disorders". OII already seeks to work with LGBTi organisations to oppose any discrimination and to encourage mutual What are the new challenges for the Klinefelter's Syndrome Association? Many xxy’s report their sexual orientation as “something other than straight” even as they report their gender as something other than male or female. The real questions for KSA going forward are: •How do we support the diversity of the xxy population? •Is it time to use our eXtra logo more and consider that it may be both an “extra x” and an “extra y”? - as the KSA professes to offer support to all its members isn't it time that it made links with LGBTi and accepted the help offered by OII? For more detailed information on Intersex Issues visit http://www.ksa-uk.net/ksa-health-issues/intersex 11 Ginnie Covers Presentation In the 1980s at age 37, Virginia Isaacs Cover became pregnant with her second son. Amniocentesis revealed a prenatal diagnosis of Klinefelter Syndrome. Ginnie and her husband had the best genetic counselling available, but she felt frustrated by the lack of readily available information in lay language, and made it her goal to develop a comprehensive guide for families and individuals to provide accurate and understandable information about KS and related genetic conditions. Her book is available via Amazon as either hard copy or as a download to Kindle. Better still use Amazon via the Give As You Live link below: www.giveasyoulive.com/invite/R9UsYQ42iHlKlO7AYYKd9BDYp1C-2FNQ3D-3D More information on how to use this under Christmas Shopping! This wasn’t a research study • The survey was done to obtain information from families and individuals affected by X and Y chromosome variations • Gathered basic statistical information about age, experience in school, medical symptoms • Gathered numerous pieces of information in open-ended responses Presentation WHAT THE SURVEY TELLS US ABOUT 47,XXY Data from the background survey for “Living with Klinefelter Syndrome, Trisomy X and 47,XYY” • A summary of statistical information • Not a scientific sample and therefore no statistical inferences should be drawn • Quotations and background gleaned from open-ended responses • Created a more interesting and alive book with direct quotations • Guided the writing of the book 12 Survey Size What Prompted Genetic Testing? Answer Options 47,XXY 46,XY/47,XXY Mosaic 150 10 33.1% 160 122 2 25.7% 124 39 33 9 52 60 34 60 16 105 2 1 0 3 3 0 4 0 5 8.5% 7.0% 1.9% 11.4% 13.0% 7.0% 13.3% 3.3% 22.8% 41 34 9 55 63 34 64 16 257 Genetic Signature Answer Options 46,XY/47,XX Response Y Mosaic Percent 47,XXY 47,XXY 46,XY/47,XXY Mosaic Response Count 477 0 95.4% 477 0 23 4.6% 23 Of 500 respondents for persons with 47,XXY, 163 were self-responding adults over 18, and 334 were parents, siblings or partners of XXY’s. Prenatal testing Small testes, undescended testes, and/or micropenis Speech delay Hypotonia and/or motor skill difficulties Seizures or other neurological problems Learning disability Behavioral or psychological problems Failure to progress through puberty normally Infertility Don't Know Other (please specify) Approximately 60% of respondents were from North America, and the remainder from around the globe, with about half from the United Kingdom Response Percent Response Count answered question skipped question 483 17 Quality of Genetic Counseling? Age at Diagnosis 180 160 160 140 140 120 120 47,XXY 47,XXY 100 80 100 46,XY/47,XXY Mosaic 80 46,XY/47,X XY Mosaic 60 40 60 20 40 13-18 years 19-29 years 30 years and over 13 No Opinion Prenatal 0-2 years 3-12 years Fair 0 Excellent 0 20 Major concerns from open-ended questions Special Help in School Answer Options • An emphasis on termination in prenatal counseling • Counselors and physicians reading from old texts or from sketchy internet printouts • Limited understanding of health issues • Dismissal of concerns/overemphasis on poor outcomes The child is not yet in school No, special help was not required. No, special help was required and requested, but not provided by the school Yes- 504 Accommodations (No special education classification) Yes-IEP (Individual Educational Program) Resource Room Self-contained Classroom (for special education students only) Inclusion classroom (for general education and special education students with programs provided for the students with disabilities) Speech therapy Occupational therapy Reading services Adapted physical education Don't know Early Intervention Services Answer Options 47,XXY 46,XY/47,XX Response Y Mosaic Percent 32 111 46,XY/47,XXY Mosaic 2 4 Response Percent 7.9% 26.6% Response Count 34 115 23 2 5.8% 25 47,XXY 46 2 11.1% 48 126 53 6 6 30.6% 13.7% 132 59 43 1 10.2% 44 42 1 10.0% 43 86 38 76 17 51 5 2 5 1 3 21.1% 9.3% 18.8% 4.2% 12.5% answered question skipped question 91 40 81 18 54 432 68 Bullying Response Count No services even though the person had been diagnosed with ASD or other disability or delay. 48 2 12.2% 50 Speech therapy 152 10 39.4% 162 Occupational therapy 67 6 17.8% 73 Physical therapy Behavioral therapy, such as Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) 65 6 17.3% 71 22 0 5.4% 22 General curriculum 60 1 14.8% 61 Not Applicable. The person was not diagnosed until after age 4 and also received no services. 143 7 36.5% 150 Don't know 18 1 4.6% 19 Did the person with SCA ever experience bullying in school or in group settings? 120 100 47,XXY 80 46,XY/47, XXY Mosaic 60 40 20 0 No answered question 411 skipped question 89 Yes, frequent Yes, occasional and severe bullying bullying 14 Don't know If an adult, has the person with XXY ever been granted disability benefits? Academic Performance 70 Answer Options 60 47,XXY 47,XXY 46,XY/47, Response Response XXY Percent Count Mosaic 50 46,XY/47, XXY Mosaic 40 30 20 Yes 29 1 20.4% 30 No 86 7 63.3% 93 Don't know 24 0 16.3% 24 10 0 answered question A 89%100% B 79%88% C 69%78% D 60%68% If an adult, did the person with XXY graduated from school? At what age did the person with XXY learn about his genetic condition? 47,XXY 46,XY/47,XXY Mosaic Response Percent Response Count Yes 124 8 54.8% 132 No 18 0 7.5% 18 Don't know 1 0 0.4% 1 The person with SCA is not yet an adult 85 5 37.3% 90 Answer Options 147 Less than Don't know 60% answered question 241 skipped question 259 90 80 70 60 50 40 30 20 10 0 15 Was the condition disclosed to relatives? 47,XXY 46,XY/ 47,XXY Mosaic Yes 299 21 79.4% 320 No 77 0 19.1% 77 Don't know 6 0 1.5% 6 Answer Options Medical Conditions Reported by 20% or more of adult respondents Response Response Percent Count Answer Options answered question 403 skipped question 97 Hypotonia (low muscle tone) or poor fine or gross motor skills Speech disorder (delay, dyspraxia, stuttering, etc.) Auditory processing disorder Flat feet Osteoporosis/osteopenia Dental problems Gynecomastia Obesity High cholesterol or high triglycerides Undescended testicle, hypospadias or micropenis ADHD/ADD Anxiety or depression Hypertension Medical Conditions Reported by 20% or more of respondents Answer Options Hypotonia (low muscle tone) or poor fine or gross motor skills Speech disorder (delay, dyspraxia, stuttering, etc.) Auditory processing disorder Flat feet Frequent constipation Dental problems Gynecomastia Obesity High cholesterol or high triglycerides Undescended testicle, hypospadias or micropenis ADHD/ADD Anxiety or depression Other (please specify) 47,XXY 46,XY/47,XX Response Y Mosaic Percent Response Count 181 15 50.6% 196 174 11 47.8% 185 111 116 75 167 83 96 80 9 8 3 7 4 3 3 31.0% 32.0% 20.2% 45.0% 22.5% 25.6% 21.4% 120 124 78 174 87 99 83 116 4 31.0% 120 107 181 6 7 29.2% 48.6% 113 188 145 answered question skipped question 387 113 Response Percent Response Count 39% 58 26% 39 20% 28% 32% 63% 315 46% 41% 30 42 49 94 46 69 61 38% 61 20% 69% 21% answered question skipped question 31 103 31 Concerns of Respondents in Open-Ended Questions • More training of primary care physicians in health risks of 47,XXY • More understanding by physicians of preventive measures to reduce cardiovascular and psychiatric complications • Better understanding of the impact of aging on XXY’s • Risk of early disability and the need to stop working before typical retirement age 16 149 39 Has the person begun testosterone therapy if he is age 13 or over? Answer Options Yes, the person has begun testosterone therapy 47,XXY 46,XY/47,XX Response Y Mosaic Percent Open-ended questions for adults Response Count 199 9 54.5% 208 Yes, the person began testosterone therapy, although he has now discontinued therapy Not yet, but he is being followed by a physician to determine the appropriate time for therapy 34 2 9.4% 36 20 2 5.8% 22 No, the person is age 13 but not yet started on testosterone therapy 15 0 3.9% 15 The person is not yet 13 94 6 26.2% 100 answered question 382 I asked four open-ended questions of adults only: • How has the diagnosis affected your life, if at all? • Do you believe that XXY has had any major impact on the quality of relationships, both friendships and intimate relationships, in your life? How would you say that it has affected these relationships? Open ended questions for adults Method of testosterone delivery Answer Options 47,XXY 46,XY/47,XX Response Y Mosaic Percent Response Count Injection 103 4 45.5% Gel 91 4 40.4% 95 Patch 10 2 5.1% 12 Implanted pellets 6 1 3.0% 7 Buccal lozenge 0 0 0.0% 0 Began testosterone, but discontinued 13 0 5.5% 13 Don't know 1 0 0.4% If testosterone was started but has been discontinued, please tell why, if you know. answered question 107 • Has infertility been a major concern? If this has provided a significant challenge, how have you dealt with this? • Do you believe that XXY has had any effect on your sexuality or gender identity? If yes, how do you believe it has impacted you? 1 61 235 17 Impact of diagnosis • For those diagnosed in teen or adult years, the diagnosis provided answers to troubling symptoms, learning difficulties, etc. • For some, hormone treatment was tremendously helpful; for some it was not • There is also sadness, particularly regarding infertility • Only a few would wish to have avoided diagnosis Has infertility been a major concern? • • • • Personal disappointment and grief Family reactions Impact on a marriage Variety of resolutions: adoption, donor sperm, in vitro technology, decision to remain childless • Expressed hope that medical advances can make fatherhood more possible in future Impact of KS on relationships • Communication difficulties can negatively impact all relationships, including intimate ones • A number of men thought that a more sensitive, less assertive male personality is attractive to women • Anxiety and depression, which may be related to KS, can also hinder relationships Living with Klinefelter Syndrome, Trisomy X and 47XYY: A Guide to X and Y Chromosome Variations Available through www.genetic.org and www.amazon.com VIRGINIA ISAACS COVER MSW VCOVER@OPTONLINE.NET 18 Klinefelter's Syndrome Association AGM The following nominations for the National Executive Committee were supported: Chair (Alison Bridges) Vice Chair, Newsletter Editor & WebAdmin (Povl Larsen) Treasurer (Robert Raby) Secretary (Julie Whistler) Membership Secretary (Roz Heinze) Fundraising Officer (Vanessa Charter) National Contacts Co-ordinator (Sue Cook) Member of NEC (Paul Allnutt) Member of NEC (John Gallacher) Member of NEC (David Cook) Member of NEC (Guy Williams) KSA Conference 2013 - YMCA Derby 22nd June 2013 Please get your diaries out and put a large red circle round this date! • • • • • • Friday night get together at Travel Lodge, Pride Park Derby Rooms available at Travel Lodge from £32 Childcare available £10 Provision for young adults who prefer to socialise but not attend the Conference £10 Possible activity on Sunday 23rd June! Cost £25 if booked by 30th April 2013. Later bookings £35. The Friday Night ‘Get-together’ will be held at the Pride Park Travel Lodge in Derby which has rooms available from £32 per room. There will be childcare available for over 4s. For young adults who prefer not to listen to speakers, there will be a room available where they can chat or play games. They could go to the cinema in the afternoon if they wish.. Similarly, if you will find it difficult to get to the Conference please contact me. If there is enough interest from Scottish members it may be feasible to hire a mini-bus! If there is sufficient interest I will also arrange an informal meeting/meal on Saturday night and an activity for Sunday 23rd – perhaps bowling or a walk round Chatsworth or Kedleston Hall and a pub lunch. We hope this may encourage members to travel further to attend the Conference. We hope that the very low cost of this Conference will encourage members to travel further to attend. It would be great if we could set up a ‘transport sharing’ scheme so, if you are coming and have a spare seat in your car please let me know. And now for the best bit – the cost of the Conference will be £25 if booked by 30h April 2013. Later bookings £35. For booking forms please visit the website or contact our Secretary Ms. Julie Whistler. All contact details are inside the front page. I look forward to seeing you there. Alison 19 Why I’m Determined To Go To Next Year’s Annual Conference & AGM. Paul Collingridge • • • • • • • • • • When I arrived at the KSA 2012 Conference I felt I had come home I have a 23 year old son with KS We contacted the KSA when he was diagnosed aged 7. We have attended many Conferences and we felt that we became part of the KSA ‘family’. Sadly, due to family circumstances, we almost lost touch with this special ‘family’. This year the Conference was very close to our home – and we didn’t have to collect our son from University that weekend so we were able to go! At the Conference we swapped stories with old friends, met folk we’d not seen before and struck up conversations that had us saying “yes, yes, it is the same for us!” We made new friends, had conversations. So why am I going to the Conference next year? Because living alone with KS leaves questions unanswered and smiles unshared. Someone will pass on a small fact that will be a revelation to me, and maybe I can do the same for someone else. But mostly I will go for that big smile on greeting, to meet friends that have something in common. Like families.... shared chromosomes. I’ll see you there. This year I went home; I did! Home was a fabulous Conference centre in a beautiful location in Berkshire, though I had never been there before. As we all know, home is not a building but somewhere we go to find friends, family, security and an honesty that cuts to the soul. These are, genuinely, characteristics that I would attribute to the fabulous team of people that run our Association and carefully put together our Annual Conference. They had become family, though I may not have realised it, and arriving at the 2012 Conference felt like the return of the Prodigal. Maybe I should give a bit of background. My wife & I are the parents of a 23 year old son with KS who was diagnosed at age 7 following the usual trauma, uncertainty and confusion that is well documented in KS history; however, back then it was much less common for children to be diagnosed at birth and we regarded ourselves as fortunate in comparison with the many others who were given a diagnosis as adults. Nevertheless this was a major and life-changing event in our family, the bitter-sweet madness of having one question answered and a thousand new questions spring to mind. We made early contact with the KSA, learned of their Annual Conference and signed up. Maybe it was chance, maybe more, but at that Conference a new Committee was put together that comprised some of the most determined, hard working and caring people that the KSA could ever have imagined. And we met some fabulous new friends, Paul Dutton, Alison Bridges, Sue Cook and Pauline Stoodley. Over the following years the visionary “chairs” of the Committee and their loyal team have put together plans to raise awareness in KS. Although I was not on the Committee myself I was inspired and encouraged to join in the work. As well as being a botanist I’d just finished my Master’s Degree in Education Research and a qualification in Special Needs Education so I was encouraged to use those skills to provide information, write a few articles, speak to a few parents, there was plenty of work for anyone who wanted to join in; so in this way, though on the outside, we became part of the family. Each year we eagerly attended the Conference, occasionally even presenting something, but mostly we listened, learned and shared stories. Each year we would meet familiar faces and new faces, we would support each other and laugh or cry at 20 what had taken place over the previous year. When Alison started the activity weekends we went along and there they were, the same faces and families in an environment where physical activity, messing about on the river and communal meals strengthened the bonds. Then, in late 2007 my father became critically ill, we were unable to attend the Conference and he died a few days later. There was a lot to do, paperwork to sort out, I was now trying to maintain my own house and my mother’s; a merger at work had doubled my workload and I was going under, so I let the communications slip and lost contact with the Association. But they never let go of me. Paul and the others continued to keep in contact through the occasional letter or Paul’s jottings on Facebook; and they always challenged me through their writings in the magazine. By now my children were at university and Conference exactly coincided with the long haul from Surrey to Durham with a car full of student-life, Conference was out of the question. Then it suddenly all changed one day; Sue asked me to provide Education Support to a healthcare team & family in Edinburgh.... I LOVED it! And this year the Conference was not only just a few miles from home but, more importantly, it was a week BEFORE the university trip to Durham; so we booked our places for Friday and Saturday and with no commitments we went to the Friday night “get-together” in Reading. Almost the first person we met was Alison – she beamed with delight to see us and immediately I knew that THIS was what made the KSA so special, they are family, we are in this together, we share a common task, it was as if we’d seen each other only last week. Soon Paul Dutton arrived and Povl, then more and more old friends.... we were back! Next day we drove to the Conference and it was if we’d never missed a single one.... except it was better and slicker than ever before. The talks were superb and spot-on for everyone, the information was faultless and the atmosphere was joyful, but the real strength to me was the friendships. We swapped stories with old friends, met folk we’d not seen before and struck up conversations that had us saying “yes, yes, it is the same for us!” And so we made new friends, had conversations that opened up new topics to explore, met people who live with KS a little more comfortably than the day before. So why am I going to the Conference next year? Because living with KS alone leaves questions unanswered and smiles unshared. Someone will pass on a small fact that will be a revelation to me, and maybe I can do the same for someone else. I will get a few hours to spend with some of the most dedicated people in the world of KS who are determined to raise the quality of life for us all, irrespective of what we can bring ourselves. But mostly I will go for that big smile on greeting, to meet friends that have something in common like families shared chromosomes. I’ll see you there. Please send us your current email address! Now that postage rates have shot through the roof it is even more important than ever that we minimise the number of Newsletters we have to post. If you have an email address could you please, please let us have it so that we can email your Newsletter to you. Of course you can still print it out if you prefer a hard copy. Email also makes it much easier for us to contact you regarding local meetings, Conferences, activity weekends – or anything else which may crop up. You don’t want to miss out! If you have received this Newsletter by post that means we have no email address for you. Just send your name via email to Roz (details inside front page) and she will update her records. The less we spend on postage the more we can spend on raising awareness and supporting members! 21 Upcoming Activity Weekends! Due to the huge success of recent Activity Weekends at the Duke’s Barn at Beeley in Derbyshire, we propose to run TWO this year 5th to 7th April 2013 and 13th to 15th September 2013. Members under 19 or diagnosed KS/KS/XXY £80 Members over 18 who are not KS/KS/XXY £135 Non-members: £310 Please book early as one weekend is half full already and I can run the second one only if there is enough advance interest! There is more information about Activity Weekends on the website – see the report on the Activity Weekend 2011. Contact me as soon as possible if you want further information or wish to book a place by phone on 01629 534402 or activityweekends@ksa-uk.net Alison The Activity Weekends-What an Experience? By Guy Hulbert After reading the last Newsletter (Summer 2012), I felt I must write this article. I was diagnosed with Klinefelter's Syndrome at 35 years of age through a fertility test. After diagnosis I went through a rough 5 years or so. At first I refused to acknowledge my KS, I buried my head in the sand. I suffered with anxiety and depression; I left my wife and got divorced. When I was about 38 to 39 years old I decided it was time to find out more about my KS. I was in a new relationship but still coming to terms with not being able to have children & to be honest not dealing with it very well. I went to see a counselor and I told her how I felt. She had never heard of KS, neither had my G.P. It made me feel more upset and angry. I felt I had no support. However I kept on seeing the counselor as she helped me with my anxiety and depression and how to organize my life in a better way. Through talking to her I typed Klinefelter's Syndrome into Google and found the KSA website. I contacted the KSA and Sue Cook sent me information on Klinefelter's Syndrome and told me about the activity weekends. Well that was over 3 years ago now and I have been to the last 3 activity weekends and I have thoroughly enjoyed every one of them. I have done things that I have never done or had the courage to do before. I have abseiled, done rock climbing, caving, stream walking, archery and many other activities and best of all I have met other KS men and boys. The activity weekends are a great place to talk to other men and boys and parents of KS boys about our condition. I feel normal at these weekends and at ease with myself and the people around me. It’s a great place to talk to other KS men and share our stories and experiences. It’s good to hear that many of us have had similar experiences regarding our physical and mental health. I find the weekends immensely enjoyable and beneficial. Afterwards I feel physically and emotionally wasted! But they are so beneficial for my self-esteem. Everyone I meet at these weekends are truly special people and I feel honoured to be amongst them. I would like to say a big thank you to everyone involved at the weekends especially other KS men and boys, Sue Cook for informing me about the weekends, Alison for organizing the weekends, all the instructors at Dukes Barn and the cooks for looking after us in the food department. I would just like to say thank you to everyone for making my life so much easier and for all the support. Cheers. PS see you next April or maybe September at Dukes Barn! 22 What Could I Be? • • • • • • In the USA half of KS/XXYs diagnosed before birth were aborted The KSA wants to tell parents-to-be that this is wrong Our new poster shows how successful those with KS/XXY can be – look at the front cover! We want you to help by telling us something positive about you Just a word or a sentence will do – but you can do more if you want! Contact Povl on WebAdmin@ksa-uk.net or Alison chair@ksa-uk.net or 01629 534402 A 2002 literature review of elective abortion rates in the United States found that approximately 50% of pregnancies with a diagnosis of Klinefelter's Syndrome were terminated. It is likely that the same is true for the UK. This means that of our 250 members, 125 might have been aborted. Someone like you, your son, your husband. The KSA feels that we need to address this problem. Much of the old literature about KS/XXY mentions prison populations and substantial learning difficulties. Although some KS/XXYs are more severely affected than others they are very much the minority and many of them still lead very rewarding lives. KS/XXYs often find life difficult but then so do many other folk. KS/XXYs often struggle at school but with a bit of help and support – and, yes, extra effort many become successful in their fields. We regularly highlight the negatives associated with KS/XXY – lack of energy, poor social skills, difficulty with concentration, etc – but now the KSA wishes to highlight the achievements of those with that extra chromosome. At both the Fertility Show and the Society of Endocrinology Clinical Update Conference earlier this month (which we were able to attend thanks to the support of Bayer) the KSA has displayed its new poster ‘What could I be?’. The quotes on it are all from members of the KSA. Not all are positive – some mentioned depression, being unemployed, not having a family; those things can happen to anyone, not just those with KS/XXY. Overall the poster is intended to show that KS/XXYs can be as successful as anyone else and that abortion should never be promoted on the grounds of KS/XXY alone. The next step is to create a page on our Member's Only section of the www.ksa-uk.net website to give parents and parents-to-be an idea of what their child might achieve; to dispel the myth that those with KS/XXY should not be given the opportunity to have worthwhile and successful lives. If you would like to contribute to this ‘What Could I Be?’ web page please email either the webmaster, Povl, or myself. It can be a word, a sentence, a paragraph or a page – it is up to you. Don’t worry about spelling or grammar, as any article will be checked for spelling, grammar and offensive language and any necessary alterations made. What we need most is your thoughts on how you see yourself! Please do contribute – this is your opportunity to make a real difference – and it doesn’t cost anything! You don't need to add a photograph, you can adopt a false name or request to have your name removed from publication (but we do need to know who you are when you send it in). 23 What could I be? Hi, my name is i Povl Larsen and I was diagnosed in 2004 with Klinefelter’s Syndrome at the ripe old age of 51! That was eight years ago and means I have lived most of my life not knowing why I was different. I say not knowing why I was different because I have always felt that I never quite fitted in. I was a shy, introverted schoolboy who never said much, seldom asked any questions in class, tended to be bullied, lacked confidence when it came to sports, and generally had only one or two friends. ds. Being good at sports seemed to me to be the way to have lots of friends, particularly girls! However, I was very good at art, winning many prizes at school, and this earned me a certain amount of fame and in the process, other kids wanted to know me – so I had found a way around being different. I was quite clever academically but not brilliant and left school with qualifications that weren’t good enough to get me into a University, but were good enough for Art School. Here I blossomed. Arty people were e generally my kind of people, much gentler, softer, respected the individual, and there were a lot of girls! I went on to leave home and study at Art College in Loughborough for 3 years, finally gaining a BA (Hons) Hons) degree in 33 Dimensional Design specialising ing in Silversmithing & Jewellery. After Art School I won an Anglo Danish scholarship to tour Denmark visiting silversmiths and gained further experience working for a goldsmith. It was a good move as it forced me out into the world where I had to communicate communi and fend for myself. On my return to England I used the money I had saved working for the goldsmith to set-up set in business for myself and over the next 12 years I progressed from a ‘nobody’ to become one of the UK’ss leading innovative designer silversmiths. silvers Over the years I exhibited in most of the best galleries in the UK and represented the UK in a variety of prestigious exhibitions arranged by Goldsmiths’ Hall in the UK and the US. However, this wasn’t enough. I felt the need to give something back so decided to teach disabled people Silversmithing. I applied and was awarded a South West Arts Artist-Craftsman Artist in Schools Residency contract at the Royal School for the Deaf in Exeter for a term. The idea proved so successful with positive feedback from students and parents, as well as TV and Newspaper coverage that the headmaster invited me back for 3 more years! I also started teaching Adult Education classes in Cornwall and even offered one to one courses at my own workshop. Then one day I spotted an advertisement for the chance to study for an MSc in Computer Integrated Manufacturing with sponsorship from the Ford Motor Company. I had been fascinated by computer technology for some time and how it could be used in my silversmithing business but had never ever had the time to follow up on it. Now I thought, “I can afford to take a year off; hey I might even win the sponsorship”. So I applied, I was accepted on the course, didn’t get the Ford sponsorship but there was some other funding and spent the next year ar studying at Cranfield with trips to Ford factories in Cologne, Wulfrath, Bordeaux and Dagenham!! It was an eye opener! Being my own boss I often worked an 80 to 100 hour week whereas in industry people were only working 40 hours! In academia it was even more of a doddle! On finishing the MSc I enquired about working in academia and met Prof David Hughes of Plymouth University who said that to succeed I’d need a PhD, which would take around 3 years. I mentioned I’d just finished an MSc at Cranfield and his attitude changed (Cranfield has a very high reputation as the best place for management 24 study) – he had an opening for a Research Assistant to work on a project looking at cost evaluation of new technology would I like to take it on? Yes please. The pay was awful but lecturing pumped it up a bit and of course, I could carry on part-time with the silversmithing. Three and a half years later I was Dr Povl Larsen, but there were no jobs at Plymouth University. I must have applied for over fifty jobs across the UK, from Aberdeen to London to Bath and everywhere in-between. I saw a lot of the UK and did at one stage think of becoming a professional interviewee - after all, you always get your expenses paid! In 1995 I started work at Portsmouth Business School (PBS) researching accounting and small and medium-sized enterprises. In order to be considered a success as a Research Fellow I had to publish 4 research papers in International academic journals. I actually produced 6 such papers with another twelve in other publications/conferences and won the first ever (for PBS) Chartered Institute of Management Accountants research award. However, the mood at PBS had changed and research was not the main focus. If I were to stay on I’d have to move towards lecturing. Standing up in front of a class of 40 to 60 plus students filled me with dread. Other members of staff would tell me how they too had dreaded that first lecture but with time they got used to it. Well not me. Every time I had to give a lecture I would go wobbly at the knees, I’d feel faint, I’d break out in a cold sweat, I guessed I was just different. However, I did go and discuss my concerns with my GP pointing out I felt ‘different’ although I couldn’t exactly explain why. All he suggested was that I lost weight and took more exercise. I decided to leave PBS but not until I found another job. This proved a wise decision as it took 18 months to find the ideal job. In 2001 I moved to Cardiff and started work at the National Centre for Design and Development Research (PDR) located at Cardiff Metropolitan University as a Senior Research Officer with absolutely no teaching at all! Heaven. I knew when I attended the first interview that this was where I wanted to work. Robert Brown and Alan Lewis the two directors of the centre were passionate about the importance of design, they believed in the value of research, they also offered me a very generous salary! Over the years both Alan and Robert continued with their determination to encourage the best out of their staff. It was the best place to work. After I’d been at PDR for about 4 years I noticed I was feeling rather tired, irrespective of how much sleep I had. I found it hard to concentrate. My mind wandered. Work was suffering. This was when I was diagnosed with Klinefelter’s Syndrome – my levels of testosterone were low but after about a year of TRT I was back on form. I continued to publish research papers in International journals, attend conferences and present papers and won many funding awards, as well as gaining experience supervising PhD students. The future looked rosy. However, my mothers’ health took a turn for the worse and, although Alan was very understanding and made enormous allowances for me to care for her, I eventually decided it was better to resign. That was two years ago. Mum is still with us and I’m still looking after her. I do still dabble in silversmithing but my fingers are not so nimble and years in academia have made me soft! Silversmithing is hard work. Nevertheless, I’m too young to hang up my boots so have now embarked on a ‘training at home’ course in bookkeeping. By the time I finish I shall be a fully qualified ICB (Institute of Chartered Bookkeepers) accredited bookkeeper authorised to practise bookkeeping for sole traders, limited companies, partnerships and charities!, I've already passed Level 1 with a Distinction and am three-quarters of the way through level 2 and I hope to be finished next summer. Then I plan to be able to offer bookkeeping services from my home and still look after mum. I do not blame KS for how my life has been, nor do I blame my parents, or GP or anyone else. I was dealt a set of cards and I’ve made the best of the hand I have. However, maybe I’ve been lucky. I have a loving family who didn’t judge me and supported me in doing what I wanted to do. I’ve lived a long time knowing I was different but not why. I guess I just got used to it! And I am proud to be different. 25 How are you doing? Would you like to be on our contact list? If so, please contact Roz for a form – contact details below KSA Contact Lists The time has come to update the lists that are currently in circulation whereby members can contact one another for support or friendship. We would really like to see these lists expanded, though we know many folk are in regular contact through instant messaging and/or email, keeping friendships made at Conference and Activity Weekends alive. We operate two lists for circulation within the membership that are valued by new members: One for XXY (or similar karyotypes) aged 18yrs or over, to have contact with one another The other for parents of XXY family members, enabling them to have contact with other families Details included on each list are designed to enable members to match similar experiences by virtue of the age of the XXY member or make contact with someone living relatively close by more possible, though this is not always the case. Included on the list is: First name, phone number and email address (either or both, depending on entrant’s preference), the year of birth of the XXY member and the town the contact lives in or near. Members within the same category of membership are then free to contact any listed person by phone (at a time of day stated) or via email. Currently the following people appear on the Contact Lists. XXYs over 18Yrs: England: Tony (Stockton); David (Watford); Paul (Ormskirk); Jimmy (East Sheen) Scotland: Ken (Hamilton) Parents: England: Roz (Reading); Caroline (Slough); Daniela (St Ives): Alison (Matlock): Rachel (Clacton-on-Sea); Geoff & Teresa (Gloucester); John & Wendy (Bury/Manchester); Gil (Nottingham); Vanessa (Nottingham); Sarah (Louth); Sheila (Enfield); Tracy ( Nottingham); Liz (Croydon); Julie (Farnham); Christine (Guildford); Paul & Diane (Woking); Paul & Angela (Crawley) Ireland: Meta (Tullamore) Wales: Pam (Llandudno) Swiss/French Border: Sarah (Geneva) Spain: Richard & Ana (San Sebastian) I also currently have completed forms for 3 over 18s – James (Ilkeston), Fergus (Winchester) and Mike (Howden) and 2 family members for inclusion in the next list – Jane (Worcester) and Lizzie (Leeds) Contact details: Post: Roz Heinze, 30 Alandale Close, Reading, RG2 8JP. Email: membership@ksa-uk.net Telephone: 0845 230 0047 If you think you could speak with others about your experiences and would like to be included on one of the ‘Contact Lists’ please contact me, Roz Heinze, for a form to complete and return. Likewise, if you no longer wish your name to appear, please let me know. NOTE: Names will be removed if a membership lapses. Any additions or removals will be indicated in future Newsletters. Please notify all changes by 1 January 2013 – Thanks 26 Christmas Shopping Everyclick - a charity search engine. Surf the internet and help the KSA Most people use search engines to find things on the internet, but did you know that every click of your mouse generates income? If you use Everyclick as your search engine, then that income can be donated to KSA. Simply visit: http://www.everyclick.com/klinefelterssyndromeas sociation and start searching! Or visit the www.ksa-uk.net website and click on (On the right hand side of the page) I use my computer every day, I send and receive emails, I write articles and I research all sorts of things but I don’t ‘Google it’, I ‘Everyclick it’ because that way I can raise money for the KSA – without it costing me anything! I just use ‘Everyclick’ as my default search engine because ‘Everyclick’ gives 50% of all the money it raises to charities and when I set it up I chose the KSA as the charity which I wished to benefit. Now as I surf the net I raise money without it costing me anything! Everyclick also have a shopping facility called ‘Give as You Live’. If you download it and shop with one of over 2,200 stores such Amazon, John Lewis and Expedia you can trigger a donation to the Klinefelter’s Syndrome Association – and it will not cost you anything! To use 'Give as You Live' go to: www.giveasyoulive.com/invite/R9UsYQ42iHlKlO7 AYYKd9BDYp1C-2FNQ-3D-3D Then select the 'Install Now' link and follow the online instructions. When asked for the charity name please use our full name - Klinefelter’s Syndrome Association. You will then be asked to 'Activate' your account. Once this is achieved you can bookmark the page for ease of further use. Good luck. If you use the link above, Give as You Live will add a one-off bonus when you spend more than £10! Every time you search or shop with Everyclick, KSA will benefit. Get started and click away every penny adds up! Buy presents for your friends and family – and help the KSA at the same time! Thank you all! Alison PLEASE, PLEASE Notify us of any change of address, email address or phone number. There are dozens of members whom we have been unable to contact and who do not receive a Newsletter because their details have changed! If you feel this might apply to you please contact our Membership Secretary, Roz to check! Her email is: membership@ksa-uk.net 27 The 2013 KSA AGM & Conference Venue 22nd June in Derby 28