Vicky Vossen - Kane Street Synagogue
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Vicky Vossen - Kane Street Synagogue
Kane Street Synagogue 156 years 156th Anniversary Celebration honoring VickyVossen and Chesed Awardee LaureveBlackstone Sunday, June 3, 2012 Kane Street Synagogue Brooklyn, New York CongratulationstoAnniversaryHonoree VickyVossen andtoChesedHonoree LaureveBlackstone Uponrecognitionoftheirtrailblazingservice to KaneStreetSynagogue FamilyofLillianandSolGoldman Congregation Baith Israel Anshei Emes Kane Street Synagogue in celebration of its 156th Anniversary honors Vicky Vossen and presents the Chesed Award to Laureve Blackstone June 3, 2012 13 Sivan 5772 Kane Street Synagogue about our honorees: laureve blackstone This year we take great pleasure in presenting the Chesed Award to Laureve Blackstone, who has been an inspirational chair of Kane Street Synagogue’s Social Action Committee for the past five years—practically from the moment she and her husband Jason joined the shul in 2006. Under Laureve’s leadership, the committee developed the ongoing Mitzvah of the Month project, which provides urgent help to many needy groups, while also giving members of all ages and family situations a way to concretely participate in a Tzedaka/Chesed project every month. She has worked closely with the Hebrew School and youth communities, and she encouraged and facilitated the involvement of new volunteers in Tzedaka and G’milut Chasadim programs. Traditional social justice projects like visits to the Cobble Hill Health Center now draw more members of different ages. Laureve’s modest but effective leadership, her calm and steady manner, and her genuine compassion have guided us to find our own better natures and to serve the greater community. about our honorees: Vicky Vossen Vicky Vossen has been an energetic and creative leader at Kane Street Synagogue for most of the 20 years that she and her husband David have been members. Her practical, no-nonsense approach to getting things done has served our community in countless ways. Whether she’s functioning as gabai on Shabbat morning, applying for a grant to provide a Scholar-in-Residence speaker, or teaching a Learners’ Service, Vicky has an infectious and inspiring vitality. Before becoming president in 2010, she served on the Prozdor Board and the Prozdor Long-Term Planning Committee, which led to a stronger, more rigorous Hebrew School. She chaired the Personnel Committee and worked on the Capital Campaigns for both Kane Street Synagogue and the Hannah Senesh Community Day School. She is also a member of the United Synagogue for Conservative Judaism METNY Board. Vicky’s resourcefulness and strategic vision, her warm smile and quick wit have helped shape our community into the rich and vibrant center for Jewish life that it is today. Rabbi Samuel H. Weintraub and the 2011–2012 Officers and Board of Trustees welcome you to the 156th Anniversary Celebration of Congregation Baith Israel Anshei Emes Kane Street Synagogue President Vicky Vossen Executive Vice President Harry Chevan Vice Presidents Tracy Makow Rena Schklowsky Adina Solomon Scheihagen Treasurer Susan Rifkin Financial Secretary Ellen Phillips Recording Secretary Ann Powell Trustees Ros Aaron Elise Bernhardt Laureve Blackstone Andrea Glick Gillian Kahtan Jonathan Katz Laurie Lieberman Sharon Neuman Penny Owen Al Romano Joanne Robinson Tim Rucinski Jonathan Sack Anne-Maureen Sarfati-Magill Jessica Schoengold Lisa Smith Charlene Visconti Leslie Wilsher Life Trustees Arnold Badner Allen Rubenstein Evelyn Rubenstein Howard Schneider Benjamin Zalman Past Presidents Ellen A. Bowin Jay Brodsky Herbert L. Cohen Isaac E. Druker Nancy Fink Stanley Friedman A. Seth Greenwald Judith R. Greenwald Jacob Hertz (1908–1992) Ralph Kleinman Arthur Lichtman (1932–2003) Donald Olenick Susan K. Rifkin Daniel Sarfati-Magill Michael Squires Ronald J. Stein Leonard M. Wasserman Robert B. Weinstein (1951-1999) Greetings from the 156th Anniversary Celebration and Commemorative Journal Committees Welcome! Tonight we honor Vicky Vossen, an outstanding, dynamic leader who has led our shul these past two years with a combination of smarts, infectious energy and a great deal of humor. We also celebrate our Chesed Honoree Laureve Blackstone, who took our shul’s social action work to new heights in her five years as Social Action Committee Chair. To you, our gracious guests and generous Commemorative Journal and Directory of Business Services contributors, a heartfelt “thank you” for joining us to recognize our honorees’ significant achievements. 156th Anniversary Celebration Committee Cindy Margul, Chair Linda Kass-Mahler 156th Anniversary Commemorative Journal Committee Marsha Z Solomon and Ann Powell, Co-chairs Debbie Polinsky, Captain Anne-Maureen Sarfati-Magill, Captain Rena Schklowsky, Captain Barbara Badner Lea Dias Stanley Friedman Judy Greenwald Tracy Makow Cindy Margul Julie Irwin Laurie Lieberman Sharon Neuman Penny Owen Chava Ortner Carole Rubenstein Evelyn Rubenstein Jessica Schoengold Lisa Smith Barbara Solomon-Speregen Charlene Visconti Elizabeth di Guglielmo, Designer Fred Terna, Design Contributor David Grupper, Design Contributor Naomi Berger, Design Contributor Directory of Business Services Committee Eliot Solomon, Chair Judith Alpert Elise Bernhardt Benjamin Galynker Andrea Glick Judith Gottfried Julie Irwin Roberta Kahn Jeffrey Macklis Albert Romano Carole Rubenstein Lisa Sack Anne-Maureen Sarfati-Magill Daniel Sarfati-Magill Rena Schklowsky Lisa Smith Diana Szochet-Chevan glitter and glue I A Tribute to Vicky Vossen by Ann Powell first met Vicky some 15 or 16 years ago Omaha—or for many of us, about a million and liked her immediately. Phil and Ellen miles from nowhere. Her mother, Maxine was Phillips had suggested that the four of a homemaker who also worked as a maid at us—my husband Barry and I, and Vicky and the local Best Western Motel. By all accounts David—would enjoy getting together, so (okay, by David’s account), Vicky inherited we met for dinner. In what now seems like a her mother’s warmth, understanding of the blink of an eye, our two families were soon necessity to do the hands-on, real work required routinely sharing holiday meals and packing to get things done, and her unerring “B. S.” up our young sons to make the annual trip to detector. Maxine always Camp Isabella Freedman for the Shabbaton. In had a cup the intervening years, I’ve taken note of a few things about Vicky. First, the obvious: she’s smart, amazingly smart. She was valedictorian not only of her high school class, but also of her class at the Joint Program between Columbia University and Jewish Theological Seminary, an especially impressive feat since she barely knew the alephbet when she applied, and all of the classes at JTS were taught in Hebrew. She went on to graduate from Harvard Law School. Second, Vicky does her homework. Whether she’s preparing for a board meeting, “It’ or interviewing parents of the next bat mitzvah cak s my party, Littl e.” Vic ky, tur e Brother. Ste for her congratulatory commentary from ns 6. p away from th the bimah, or writing grant applications for e synagogue programs, Vicky works hard to get of coffee at the ready it right and leaves nothing to chance. for neighbors and friends And third, she tells it like it is. Her who would drop by for a visit. Even the Midwestern directness is honest but never Jehovah’s Witness travelers who knocked at mean, forthright but not her door got a warm welcome and an open unkind. debate. Maxine passed away suddenly in 1978, shortly after Vicky graduated from the Columbia/JTS program. Vicky’s father, Bill, was a junior high school principal, who frequently moved the family around Nebraska and Illinois. In the late 60s they landed in Ottawa, Illinois, about 80 miles southwest of Chicago, and there Vicky started to explore her twin passions: human rights and religion. Raised an observant Catholic, Vicky began to question aspects of Catholicism, in particular, the doctrine of ’s a Cub visiting y k confession: It didn’t seem right to her that ic V . avana: lier this year H in n r people could to “do lousy things to others, oma ue ea Our w nagog y S to a You may not like confess, and not have to face the person who Patron what she has to say, but you had been wronged.” will recognize that her words are reasonable So she began a quest of sorts, reading and fair. about other religions, and she decided that Now a little background: Vicky Anne Judaism offered a better way of life in terms Vossen was born September 28, 1955, in of relationships with other people and with Sabetha, Kansas, about 100 miles south of G-d. There were only three Jewish families in Ottawa, but she got in touch with them, was invited to Shabbat dinner, and started going to a Reform temple 20 miles away. Vicky was keenly aware of the political climate of the times, and she had her heart set on going to Malcolm X Community College in Chicago. But dad said no. Instead, thanks to her academic record, she was offered a full scholarship to Augustana College in Rock Island, Illinois. Augustana proved to be a perfect place for Vicky, if only for one year. She discovered the Tri-City Jewish Center in Rock Island, Illinois, where she began to attend services and study for conversion. Her Hebrew teacher was a graduate of the JTS/Columbia Joint Program and he encouraged her to apply there. The fact that classes would be taught in Hebrew, a language she’d only just begun to learn, and that she had never been to New York City gave her pause, but only slightly. She was accepted, and the rest, as they say, is history. Vicky might have continued her studies at the JTS Rabbinical School, except for the fact that women were not admitted at the time. It was only in her last year of law school (1984) that JTS admitted the first class of female rabbis. After graduating, Vicky returned to New York where she clerked for Judge John Bartels and met David through a mutual friend. Two years later, in November 1987, they were married and moved to their Bergen Street apartment. It was 20 years ago that Vicky and David joined Kane Street Synagogue, and within a couple of years they were enlisted as volunteers. Their young son Caleb was enrolled in the Torah for Tots class of what was then called Prozdor. The principal hadn’t been able to hire a teacher, and somehow Vicky and David found themselves in the choir loft, seated on toddler-sized chairs surrounded by 4-year-olds, singing songs, coloring, and spreading massive amounts of glitter and glue on squares of construction paper. I love this story because it is a classic Vicky Vossen story and also a classic Kane Street story. It’s a story about seeing a need and supplying a solution. Whether it’s organizing a capital campaign that results in a modern education center, or starting a community day school, or reimagining a Hebrew school, or creating a preschool, members of Kane Street have a long history of making things happen. Vicky claims that she and Dave were eventually banned from that Prozdor class for excessive use of glitter, but more volunteer jobs awaited her. Vivien Shelanski asked David lost the bid, but two years later gets his wife back. Hawaii, 2012. her to work on ways we as trustees could work together to the Personnel be better leaders. This process produced three Committee, and new committees: the Strategic Fundraising then she joined Committee, the Kehillah Committee, and the the Prozdor Shabbat Enhancement Committee. The board Board and the concentrated on long range planning around Prozdor Longcritical issues: financial stability; recruiting and Term Strategic retaining new members; preparing volunteers Planning to be future leaders; and improving our core Committee. function—providing a satisfying spiritual life She worked of prayer and worship. on the The idea that Shabbat services could Capital be improved grew out of feedback from the Campaigns Measuring Success project (another project that for both Vicky supported and, along with the Rabbi and Kane other congregants, helped write the successful – 6 9 9 Street and application for in 2009). The survey results eb (1 icky, G li. V : y il Hannah provided a clear picture of our congregation— e fam -shy A All in th d the camera Senesh. She’s been and how well members felt the synagogue was n a , 2008) on the Board of Trustees so long serving them. The data got Vicky’s attention. that she can’t quite remember when she was Instead of one community, we were more like first elected. In typical Vossen style, before a fragmented collection of special interests: the agreeing to accept Jay Brodsky’s proposal that Friday night group, the Shabbat morning gang, she be his executive vice president in 2008, she the Hebrew School circle, Hannah Senesh set, waited until the synagogue auction that year Kane Street Kids faction, those who favored to challenge members to outbid her husband. the Singing Service, and so on. Our challenge, David was willing to donate $1000 just to as synagogue leaders, was (and is) to connect keep her at home—and away from the job people across these segments and engage them that would eventually lead to being president. in meaningful conversations about issues that Fortunately for us, David lost his bid, Vicky’s mattered. The series of focus groups conducted creative fundraising netted the auction another this past spring was an important first step in grand, Jay got his executive VP, and Kane that process. Street had an outstanding president. As president, Vicky has laid the Vicky began her term with two important groundwork for conversations like this initiatives. The first was to convince the to continue. She has used her smarts, her board of trustees that partaking of a modest resourcefulness, and her directness catered dinner before every month’s meeting to start an important was worth a $100 annual contribution. This discussion: seemingly small perk produced extraordinary What can we results: when our bodies and brains were do to make our nourished, we thought more clearly, spoke synagogue the more rationally, and had more patience with “true beacon of each other—okay, at least most of the time. Jewish life in We arrived a half hour early, enjoying Brooklyn?” our meal and each other’s company. Where others Vicky supplied the wine, which was also before her have conducive to collegiality and reason. led us to build Once we sat down to business, we were much needed ready to work together. buildings and Her second major initiative was schools, Vicky has to write and win a grant for a Board Relaxin guided us in building ga Development Workshop. Working with a Ali (top) ant home with the a more integrated, d Katie girls, . management consultant, the trustees—all engaged, and vibrant with different professional backgrounds— community. focused on the issues of lasting impact, on In ever more creative ways, she’s still strategic planning and goals, and also on the spreading glitter and glue. THE PERFORMER Questions for Laureve Blackstone Interview by Marsha Z Solomon* Although known for your leadership around performing Mitzvot, you actually come from a long line of performers of a different sort. My parents have owned a dance studio in Brick, New Jersey for almost 40 years. My father met my mother when he was a teacher at Fred Astaire. My brother is an up and coming choreographer who danced on Broadway in Wicked and choreographed a solo for the TV show So You Think You Can Dance. Can Jason dance? Jason loves music but he’s not a dancer. He’s a jazz aficionado. He was the first man I dated who was willing to critically review my dance performances. Did your parents coach you for your wedding dance? My father worked with us to dance to “Let There Be Love” by Nat King Cole. Jason was good and impressed my family. Besides having a full-time job as a labor lawyer, Photograph by Eliot Solomon you’ve got 9-month-old And your grandfather was a Shakespearean Rose. But how do you feel about becoming a actor. Yes. He was very handsome, like “rebitzen”? You don’t exactly look the part. Robert DeNiro—but even better looking. I like the idea of being the rebitzen. I like being My grandfather turned down a contract with at shul, talking to people and hosting them in Columbia Pictures to marry my grandmother. our home. We should mention that you, too, have a dancing background. In high school, I went to the Alvin Ailey high school program in Manhattan. I begged my parents to let me commute from New Jersey and they gave in. By my junior year I was pretty serious and had a scholarship. I wanted it so badly that I drove my grandmother’s old car to the bus stop and traveled an hour and a half each way, four days a week. Did you dance professionally? When I graduated from NYU, I danced with the Avodah Dance Ensemble, which was “dance midrash”—interpreting text through modern dance. My last dance performance before law school was with the Martha Graham Dance Company. I was part of a group of scholarship students at the Martha Graham School who got to perform with the company in its comeback performance at City Center. It was a personal thrill. Your husband, Jason Gitlin, is studying to become a rabbi. How did you two meet? My NYU Sufism class and his Arabic course were in the same classroom back to back. We’re told that you at first refused to take an aliyah. True. When I started coming to Kane Street, I was terrified to chant the Torah blessings. But over time and after lots of practice in the shower, I was able to say yes and have happily accepted the honor ever since. You’ve just been chosen as the Chesed Honoree for your five years as chair of the Social Action Committee. That’s quite an accomplishment for a girl from the Jersey Shore. How did that come about? We were members for less than a year when Rabbi Weintraub asked if I would take it on. Jason was about to go to Israel for six months so it worked out perfectly. I’m very proud of the projects I’ve led and worked on. It’s rewarding to see them take on a life of their own. What’s next for you? We heard that you like to travel. But now that you have a child, will that still happen? Before Rose was born, Jason and I walked from village to village in Hungary, staying in strangers’ houses and enjoying shots of Slivovitz. We may have to tweak the itinerary a bit but we’ll find something just as fun. *No relation to Deborah Solomon THIS INTERVIEW HAS BEEN CONDENSED AND EDITED. Greetings from Rabbi Samuel H. Weintraub W hen the construction of the ancient Mishkan (Sanctuary) was completed, Moses blessed the artisans, “tishre HaShchina b’ma’sei y’dei’chem”—“May G-d’s presence abide in the work of your hands.” This is my blessing and feeling today as I look back at another year of so many inspiring religious services, Shabbat and Holiday celebrations, life cycle events, social justice projects, formal and informal Torah learning, acts of mutual support, Tzedaka programs, and so much more. I can’t now acknowledge all who contributed their spirit, wisdom, talent, and material resources. However, I would like to acknowledge some community leaders. Vicky Vossen showed incredible devotion to our Kahal—yomam valayla, day and night. She sought to make sure that we were healthy spiritually, intellectually, and materially. Vicky has been especially tireless and visionary in implementing new ways for our Trustees and other lay leaders to serve even more effectively, knowledgeably, and collaboratively. Her passion for exploring and pioneering new models of leadership is an inspiration. It has also been a great privilege to serve this community with our Chesed Honoree, Laureve Blackstone. Laureve is a terrific exemplar of how the particular and universal commitments of being a Jew do not contradict but rather complement each other. She is a shomeret Mitzvot, ritually observant, and a deep lover of Israel, but also an extraordinarily effective organizer of projects for general Tikkun Olam. Under her leadership, members of all ages have brought food, clothing, educational training, tzedaka, and hope to hundreds of needy people. Executive Vice President Harry Chevan’s love of Yiddishkeit, sweeping command of our financial matters, commitment to Jewish learning and hospitality have benefitted me and our entire community. To all the other officers, trustees, and committee chairs, who give constantly and selflessly, Yashir Ko’ach! We are a model of a creative Conservative congregation because of you. Our staff are insightful, seasoned professionals and also kind and encouraging “mensches.” Executive Director Linda Mahler has graced my life and the lives of hundreds of other members and friends with her broad and freely shared knowledge of our organization and facilities, her administrative talents, warm embrace, common sense, and compassion. Rabbi Valerie Lieber is a cherished colleague, who in a few short years has developed our Hebrew School and family programs into first-class institutions, building Jewish joy, pride, and knowledge. Peggy Geller, our wonderfully upbeat and competent Kane Street Kids Director, guarantees that our preschool children (now numbering four score!) are enriched and challenged at just the right level. Joey Weisenberg, our Music Enrichment Director, with his passion for Torah, broad musical talent, and liturgical knowledge is bringing our prayer life even more strongly together. Pedro Sanchez leads our custodial crew with high energy, mechanical skill, and a cooperative spirit, and assures that our facilities are safe and clean for all programs. Finally, to all of you—our loyal and devoted members—Mazal Tov on another successful year. I look forward b’ezrat Hashem, with G-d’s help, to continued Jewish growth and celebration for many years. A DAY IN THE LIFE OF THE SYNAGOGUE PRESIDENT by Vicky Vossen 4:30 a.m. Awakened by my snoring pug, Ali. Cannot get back to sleep because I’m obsessing about getting volunteers to work on the Journal Campaign, one of the shul’s biggest fundraisers. Wonder why Al Qaeda has a line around the block of people willing to blow themselves up for “the cause,” but we can’t get five volunteers to work on the Journal. Resolve to study Al Qaeda’s motivational strategies. Pause to ask myself if it is appropriate to use them as a model. Decide that I must be open to all successful motivational strategies. Desperation is the mother of invention. 6:00 a.m. Alarm clock rings. Remind myself to call personnel chair to find out if staff contract is done. Against my better judgment, I check my e-mail. Three shul-related e-mails pop up immediately: the first is from some guy who was bar mitzvahed in the 1980s and is threatening to sue us for listing his bar mitzvah on the shul website without his express permission. Seriously? Forward e-mail to Stephen Colbert, this story will be perfect for The Colbert Report. Second is from a KSK parent writing to let me know how terrific Peggy Geller and the KSK teachers are. Love that! The third is from the Landmarks Commission. Hit DELETE. 8:00 a.m. About to leave the house to walk my other dog, Katie, when the phone rings. Linda Kass-Mahler, our executive director, is calling to let me know that a radiator has fallen off the wall in the sanctuary. No one injured, but plumber wants to check ALL the radiators now. I interpret this as a sign from G-d that we should install air conditioning units in the sanctuary. 9:30 a.m. At work, listening to testimony in a murder trial in the Bronx Hall of Justice (my day job). Rabbi Sam calls to let me know that we’ve just received a HUGE donation from a donor who loves us! Dreaming of rooftop playgrounds, new Machzorim, and other wonderful uses for the unexpected windfall while I try to focus on the medical examiner’s testimony about blood spatter at the crime scene. 11:00 a.m. Bat mitzvah next Shabbat, so I e-mail bat mitzvah Mom to ask her to tell me about her daughter. Receive 20-page e-mail singing the praises of the bat mitzvah. Last line: “But Rebecca can’t stand the thought of anyone talking about her in public, so all of this is really confidential.” Challenge. 1:00 p.m. About to leave for lunchtime exercise class when the phone rings. Emergency call from Bat Mitzvah Mom. Does beer need a hechsher? Refer to Rabbi as the most fun halachic question of the day! 2:00 p.m. Work on High Holiday speech. Seeking inspiration, I check the United Synagogue Presidents’ LISTserv for ideas. Find out that many congregations have abandoned the High Holiday speech and do all High Holiday fundraising at series of cocktail parties in July and August! Hello Martini Minyan! 3:00 p.m. Custodian Pedro Sanchez reports that he has been tracking the size of the cracks in the sanctuary ceiling and realized that several have become alarmingly longer and deeper. I tell him I’ve noticed the same thing about the wrinkles on my face during the two years of my Presidency...let’s call them “character cracks.” No money for facelift— for ceiling or me! 6:30 p.m. Executive Committee Meeting. Harry, Ann, Susan, Tracy, Ellen, Rena, Adina, and I spend three hours discussing the agony and ecstasy of Kane Street life. Over wine and pita chips, we wrestle with unexpected demands on the budget, the roof leaks that resist all explanation and repair, and complaints that resist all solutions. We celebrate our fully enrolled, fabulous Kane Street Kids, sold-out Israel Film Festival, joyous Friday night Singing Service, UJA grants for Synagogue Board Development, Measuring Success, and Shabbat Enhancement Initiative. We kvetch. We kvell. We argue. All the petty frustrations of the day lose their edge. We enjoy each other’s company and the love we all share for this great ongoing experiment called Kane Street Synagogue. 11:00 p.m. I thank G-d for giving me another interesting, challenging, wonderful day as the President of Kane Street Synagogue, and ask for the strength to do it all again tomorrow! Also ask if He has time to inspire someone to volunteer to Chair the Journal... remembering gerry gross Our longtime and devoted member Geraldine K. Gross died in January. Gerry, who married George Gross in our sanctuary in 1976, lovingly chronicled the resurgence of Jewish life in Brownstone Brooklyn with her first-person reflections and lively profiles—often of Kane Street members— in newspapers including The Jewish Week and The Brooklyn Paper chain of publications. Gerry had a long career as a copywriter and editor at Chemical Bank and was the author of two published books: a novel, The Door Between (as Geraldine Katay), and a wonderful collection of stories, The Persecution of Tante Chava. Because Gerry often wrote for our Commemorative Journal (she and George were honored in 2001), we thought it entirely fitting to print the title story from her collected stories in this year’s Journal. Enjoy it. —Marsha and Eliot W “The Persecution of Tante Chava” by Geraldine K. Gross hen someone at the cemetery office called my mother to tell her several headstones had been toppled by vandals and that Tante Chava’s headstone was among them, I was distressed, but I wasn’t surprised. Nor would Tante Chava have been surprised. “A Nazi did it,” she would have said. Aunt Chava had been haunted and, in her belief, hunted by Nazis for nearly all of her life. It was a long life, for she was already old when I was a small child. Although she may have seemed old to me just because I was a child. Searching memory, however, I cannot picture her with hair other than white, brushed severely back from her face and twisted into a knot at the nape of her neck. In later years, I recall, her hair took on a yellowish tinge— like linen that has been left in a chest for too long without exposure to air and with only mothballs for company. I think there was actually a faint odor of mothballs about her. It came from the folds of her dresses, which were all similar in style, long-sleeved and long-skirted, with little round collars at whose closings she always wore the same brooch—a circle of gold with a single pearl set in the center. It was a gift from a suitor, she told me. I longed to ask her about the suitor, why they had never married, but understood that such questions were prohibited. There was an aura of mystery about Tante Chava and it discouraged intimacy. Since she lived only a few streets away, she came to visit us at least several times each week. She generally arrived in the afternoon and departed before my father returned from work. My father wasn’t fond of Tante Chava, but my mother had a strong sense of obligation. “We are the only family Tante Chava has left,” Mama said. On those afternoons when she was expected, I hurried home from school. When Tante Chava rang the bell, I ran to open the door. My mother put the kettle on to boil. “How are you today, Tante Chava?” she asked. Tante Chava allowed me to take her coat, her hat, the long woolen muffler she wrapped about her throat at the first hint of cold weather. She spread her hands. “How should a Jew be, Leah?” I helped Mama set out refreshments. Tante Chava drew her chair close to the table, pulled her cup and plate almost to the edge of the table. She had a curious way of eating. Once, in the park, I had seen a squirrel eat in this manner, holding the nut very close to its mouth and turning its head from side to side, constantly alert. Tante Chava was also alert, watching and listening. Did she think someone would take the food from her, the square of sponge cake and the cup of tea? I wanted to tell her she had no reason to be fearful. If she Gerry and George Gross were active members of Kane Street from the time they moved to Brooklyn in the mid-70s. He was a trustee and she was the shul’s unofficial publicist, frequently profiling members for the local papers. Left: after their Kane Street wedding in 1976. wished, she could also have my piece of cake, my glass of milk. Tante Chava was the younger sister of my Grandmother Miriam, my mother’s mother, for whom I was named. From the stories told about Grandmother Miriam, I understood that she had been a lively and joyous woman, singing as she went about the house, laughing often with friends and family. There was very little joy in Aunt Chava. She smiled only rarely and then almost unwillingly. I never heard her sing, her lips moving silently even in synagogue when everyone else was chanting the prayers out loud. But I liked to sit next to her in synagogue, her skirts rustling when we rose because the doors to the Ark had been opened. This was another mystery—the Torah scrolls garbed in white linen in honor of the holiday, adorned with silver breastplates and elaborate silver crowns. I peered down at them from the women’s balcony, gazing also upon my father and my brother Arnold, seated in a pew near the reading stand on which the Torah scroll was placed. I wished we could be sitting with them, especially Tante Chava, who was almost totally deaf in her left ear and had to strain to hear the rabbi from our high perch. It had happened when she was a child, in the small Russian village where she and my Grandmother Miriam were born and lived before they emigrated to America. My Grandmother Miriam, lively even then, had taken Chava by the hand one morning and walked with her across town to the railroad station. There was no one else at the station except for the guards. The czar’s train was scheduled to pass through the town that morning, and all of the townspeople had been ordered to remain in their homes until the train left. But my Grandmother Miriam had never seen the czar and she decided she was going to at least catch a glimpse of the train that he rode in. “They won’t do anything to us,” she told her sister confidently. “They wouldn’t hurt children.” And so, when one of the guards shouted at them, my Grandmother Miriam didn’t turn to flee until he spurred his horse toward them, swinging his whip over his head. Miriam wasn’t injured, but the tip of the Cossack’s whip struck Aunt Chava on the left ear. Tante Chava said the reason the guard struck her was because he recognized they were Jewish children. “Oh, yes,” she said. “If he had thought we were Gentile children, he would have left us alone.” She still saw the man’s face in dreams, she said. “A wicked face with a great black Gerry and her sister Betty. mustache. He wore a fur hat and tall, polished boots.” “The Cossack,” my mother said, and Tante Chava shook her head. “The Nazi. Of course he was a Nazi.” “There were no Nazis in those days,” my father said, and Tante Chava looked angry. “There have always been Nazis, Simon, people who want to kill Jews.” “Why?” I asked, and she shrugged. “Because they hate us, Miriam. They drink in their hatred of Jews along with their mother’s milk.” The thought frightened as well as confused me—someone somewhere who hated me even though he didn’t know me, had never met me, who wanted to kill me merely because I was a Jew. I remember—I had gone to the bakery with Tante Chava to buy a loaf of bread and some rolls. The bakery owned a cat, a gray and white tabby by the name of Matilda. Matilda had a little collar around her neck to show she wasn’t a stray, and a little bell attached to the collar that pinged as she ran about. I was enchanted with the cat and with the sound of her bell. While Tante Chava chatted with the woman behind the counter, I knelt down to play with Matilda. When I looked up, Tante Chava had disappeared. I ran all the way home, sobbing hysterically. I burst through the door. “The Nazis took Tante Chava!” She was seated at the kitchen table, drinking a cup of tea. She didn’t try to comfort me. She had left me alone in the bakery to teach me a lesson, she said. I must always stay close to her when we were outside the house. I must always be vigilant. “Children are the seeds of the future, and so naturally the Nazis want to destroy all Jewish children.” My father was very angry when he found out what Aunt Chava had done. “She is filling the child’s head with nonsense,” he shouted at Mama. “She is frightening Miriam out of her wits.” Sometimes my father made little jokes about Tante Chava—ridiculing her fears, her odd way of dressing. The jokes bothered me. I realized Tante Chava was different from most people we knew but to me her eccentricities were part of her charm. Also, although she was old, I felt she belonged more to my world, the world of children, than to the world of adults. Her size may have had something to do with this. She was not much taller than I, with small hands and feet like a child’s. The lines in her face seemed deliberate, created by the tip of a felt pen rather than by time. Often on Saturday afternoons, after lunch, Tante Chava and I went to the park. The outing served to get us both out of the house so my mother could clear the table and wash the dishes and my father could enjoy his Shabbos nap undisturbed. Tante Chava and I sat on a bench in the sun. She directed my attention to a clump of blue flowers, to a tall tree with branches like wide, sturdy arms. She was not fond of animals. Dogs were kept only by goyim, she said. Cats were wicked because they caught and ate birds. She liked birds, small things like birds and butterflies, winged things. “I think you spend too much time with Aunt Chava,” my brother Arnold said. Arnold spent most of his time on weekends and after school playing baseball. His most prized possessions were a worn catcher’s mitt and a half-dozen autographed photographs of members of the New York Yankees. Arnold’s ambition was to become a professional ball player, to one day play for the New York Yankees. “That is not a job for a Jewish boy,” Tante Chava said. “Why not?” Arnold asked, and she shook her head. “Jewish boys don’t play baseball.” Jewish boys became doctors or dentists or lawyers. They worked in a factory like my father, or owned and managed a dry goods store like Uncle Milton. “What about Jewish girls?” I asked, and Tante Chava sighed. “They become wives and mothers.” She had never been either. I thought I knew why. In that moment when the Cossack’s whip struck her on the ear, Tante Chava had been instantly transformed from a child holding tight to her sister’s hand to a tiny old woman with white hair and wrinkles. The years between, gone in an instant, took with them her chance to marry the young man who gave her the brooch, to bear and raise children. S omeone tried to enter Tante Chava’s apartment by breaking a window. It was the window that opened onto the fire escape, where Tante Chava kept an assortment of plants and the bucket and mop she used to wash her floors. Luckily, she wasn’t at home. A neighbor heard the glass shattering and leaned out her window and screamed at the intruder until he ran away. “It was a Nazi, of course,” Tante Chava said. My father went to the hardware store and bought a window gate that could be unlocked only with a key. The key was hung on a nail that he banged into the wall next to the window. “So you will know where it is in case of fire,” he said. Tante Chava shrugged. “If there is a fire, Simon, the Nazis will have set it and they won’t allow me to escape.” Tante Chava and I were returning home from the grocery store where she had bought flour and sugar, a can of salmon, two cans of peaches and a box of soda crackers. A boy came running down the street—a tall boy, about fifteen years old—not looking where he was going. Before Tante Chava could move out of the way, he crashed headlong into her. The impact knocked her off her feet. The paper bag tore, scattering groceries across the pavement. The boy paused for a moment, stared, and then burst out laughing. I suppose Tante Chava did look funny, sprawled on the sidewalk, clutching the torn paper bag. In another moment, the boy was gone. People came hurrying over to help— Mr. Solar, the pharmacist; the counterman from the delicatessen. A woman collected the spilled groceries, except for one can of peaches that had rolled over the curb into the gutter. “It was probably the same Nazi who broke my window,” Tante Chava said. “They begin very young, you see, Miriam. It’s sport for them, great fun, to knock down an old Jewish woman.” “What would you do if the Nazis came?” I asked Arnold. “What would you do if they took you into a forest and you knew they were going to shoot you?” Arnold was tacking up another photograph of a baseball player on his wall—Joe DiMaggio, his greatest hero. “Nazis can’t shoot people in America,” he said. “It’s against the law and the police would arrest them.” “But what if they could?” I persisted. “What would you do?” Arnold stepped back to admire the photograph. “Don’t be stupid,” he said. “Have you been listening to Aunt Chava’s stories again?” It was Aunt Chava who had told me about the forest—about the Nazis marching Jewish men, women, and children into the forest, forcing them to dig their own graves before they shot them. Tante Chava was as knowledgeable about the horrors of the Holocaust as if she had experienced them personally. She knew the names of all the death camps and where they were located. She could describe the beatings, the torture, and killings as vividly as if she had witnessed them, had felt the smack of the truncheon on her own back just as she had once felt the slash of the Cossack’s whip on her ear. The Christmas season came. Hanukkah fell at approximately the same time as Christmas that year. My father took down the Hanukkah menorah from the top shelf in the closet and placed it on a small table that he moved in front of the window. He drew the curtains aside so the menorah could be seen from the street. The pointed flames were reflected in the window glass. In the apartment across the way, Christmas tree lights blinked on and off. The city’s commercial streets and schoolrooms were decorated for Christmas— green and red garlands strung from one side of the street to the other and in the school corridors. Drawings of snowmen and Christmas trees and Santa Claus were pasted on classroom windows. I tried out for the Glee Club and was accepted. Carmela Rizzio, whose father owned the produce store where we bought fruits and vegetables and who sat two desks behind me in class, was also accepted. We stayed after school to learn Christmas carols. “Noel, Noel,” we sang, “born is the king of Israel.” How could that be? I wondered. The week before Christmas, both Carmela and I were selected to join the special Christmas choral group. We were given long white robes to wear with red ribbon bows tied under the collars, and went from classroom to classroom singing a program of carols. When we entered a classroom, holding our candles aloft, the children applauded. I liked the attention, being singled out in this way. I enjoyed the sound of our blending voices, but when the name of Christ was sung, I kept my lips firmly shut. I hoped no one noticed. Carmela and her family were going to visit her grandparents in Scranton, Pennsylvania, for the Christmas holiday. “So we won’t see each other again until after the New Year, Mimi,” she said. I had asked her to call me “Mimi,” telling her this was what my family called me. Actually, I took the name from a story in a magazine. I thought “Mimi” sounded nicer than “Miriam,” was more appropriate for my new status as member of the Christmas choral group and Carmela’s friend. The Christmas holiday ended, and I returned to school. I saw Tante Chava’s galoshes in the hallway when I came home from school one afternoon—it had snowed all of the previous night and most of the morning. Tante Chava, who never permitted bad weather to keep her away, trudged stubbornly through snow and rain. I pulled off my galoshes and went into the kitchen. She turned in her chair to frown at me. “When I crossed the street, some boys threw snowballs at me,” she said. “Imagine, Miriam, little boys, but already Nazis. I was afraid one of the snowballs would hit me in the face and break my glasses.” She had begun wearing glasses only the previous year. She had not wanted to admit that she needed them. It was enough that she was deaf, she said, without also being blind. But she had started to walk into things, to misjudge distances. Going down the front steps of her apartment house, she missed a step and would have fallen if she had not caught hold of the railing. “It’s possible, of course, that someone came up behind me and pushed me,” she said. “That is a Nazi tactic, you know, to appear suddenly out of nowhere, do their mischief and then disappear.” Usually, I would have stayed to talk with her, but I felt irritated with her today, with the gloom she carried about as permanent baggage. Carmela had greeted me warmly in school this morning. A notice on the bulletin board announced the date of the next meeting of the Glee Club. I resented having my feeling of elation disturbed. I told Tante Chava I had a lot of homework to do, therefore, and fled the kitchen to my room where I closed the door firmly behind me—shutting out Tante Chava and her From 1990 to 1996, Gerry wrote a weekly column for The Brooklyn Papers. fearful world. Carmela and I went to the Glee Club meeting together. It was very exciting. Miss Bevin announced that for our next presentation, we were going to perform a musical play. The play’s theme was the arrival of spring, the characters all of the well-known harbingers of spring: crocus, robin, budding tree, a family of bears getting ready to stir from their winter’s sleep. Carmela was chosen for the role of Crocus—ideal casting, I thought, because her dark hair and complexion would set off the white petals of her costume marvelously. “Why don’t you try out for Robin, Mimi?” she suggested. I shook my head. Dora Lewis had announced that she wanted to play Robin. Dora was taller than me and pretty, with blue eyes and long, yellow hair. Carmela gave me a shove. “Oh, go ahead. We’ll be able to study our parts together. It will be fun.” The costume for Robin was lovely, almost as beautiful as the one for Crocus. The strips of material cut to resemble feathers looked almost like real feathers. We were called over to the piano in turn— first Dora and then me. Dora sang Robin’s song and read a few lines, and then I sang the same song and read the same lines. “Oh, my,” Miss Bevin said. “This is a very difficult decision.” But her index finger pointed unmistakably at me. Carmela whooped and hugged me. Dora Lewis glared at me. It happened the next day, in the lunchroom. Dora Lewis walked past the table where I was sitting with Carmela and knocked my lunch box to the floor. I was sure it was an accident, but when I bent to retrieve the lunch box, Dora was standing only a few feet away and laughing. So I knew it was deliberate. Carmela touched my arm. “Don’t pay attention to her, Mimi. Dora is jealous because you were picked to play Robin and not her.” We finished lunch, got our coats and scarves, and went out into the playground. Carmela ran toward the swings. “Come on, Mimi!” I ran after her. There were still two unoccupied swings, but just as we reached them, Dora Lewis plopped herself into one. “There’s no room for you here, Jew!” she said. I thought I had not heard her correctly—a phrase from one of Aunt Chava’s stories unexpectedly repeating itself in my head. “We don’t want you here, Jew, smelling up our swings. Do you understand?” She set the swing into motion, the toes of her shoes scraping the ground. Carmela sat in the second swing. Had she heard? But how could she not have heard? Probably everyone in the playground had heard—the whispered taunt as penetrating as a scream. “Christ killer!” It was a murmur of triumph. I started to walk away. All of the stories Tante Chava had told me were true then, I thought. There were Nazis lurking in every corner. I was not Mimi and Carmela was not my friend. A Jew could not have a Gentile for a friend. Arnold would never realize his dream of playing baseball with the New York Yankees. I walked closer to the edge of the fence, putting as much distance as I could between myself and the other children. Snow, cleared from the playground, was piled against the fence in uneven pyramids of gray ash. A ball came bouncing across the asphalt, stopped near my feet. “Hey!” The boy cupped his hands, waiting for me to toss the ball back to him. Why should I? I thought, but I bent, scooped up the ball, threw it as hard as I could. See? A Jew can throw a ball. My brother Arnold taught me, and he is the best ball player in the whole neighborhood. I was filled with anger—on Arnold’s behalf as well as my own. Clods of snow had stuck to my mittens when I picked up the ball. I rubbed my palms together to clean them, then walked back to the swings. “What do you want?” Dora’s blue eyes glittered. I said, “I can use the swing if want to.” “No, you can’t, dirty Jew!” I put my hand on the nearest chain, closed my fingers tightly around it. “I can if I want to. It’s a free country.” No Cossack would come riding down on me, swinging his whip. I wasn’t Mimi, but neither was I Tante Chava. Dora twisted on the wooden seat of the swing, pushed at my hand. “Get away!” “No,” I said. “Get away, kike. One last chance.” My anger glowed bright and warm now. I was aware of children gathering about us, a semi-circle of faces, of watching eyes. Good! I thought. I wanted witnesses. She came off the swing, but didn’t move toward me. I had never fought anyone before but assumed that, somehow, I would know what to do. Considering my inexperience, however, I decided it would be best not to postpone the combat. Better to start, to finish, to get it over with. I thrust myself at Dora, head lowered and aimed at her stomach. It was the surprise of my assault, I think, as much as its force that caught her off balance. She gasped and was abruptly on the ground. I was on her in an instant, straddling her, twisting strands of yellow hair about my wrists, pulling and pummeling. My fists, still in red mittens, pounded her chest. She stared up at me in astonishment. Tears welled in her blue eyes and rolled down her cheeks. Someone ran to fetch Miss Montgomery, or perhaps she had heard the noise of the battle and came to investigate, hastily pulling on her coat. The coat, unbuttoned, flew open as she tugged at me. “All right, Miriam. That’s enough.” Carmela said, “Dora started it, Miss Montgomery. It isn’t Miriam’s fault.” She was defending me finally, but I didn’t look at her. Dora was still crying. She had bruised her knee when she fell, and her stocking was smeared with blood. I remembered that the boy who knocked Tante Chava down had laughed. I didn’t laugh at Dora. I walked past her, past Carmela and the other children and into the building. Miss Montgomery would scold me, I was sure. A note would be sent home to my parents. My mother was shocked. “This can’t be true, Miriam!” she exclaimed. Tante Chava was even more incredulous. “You have always been such a good, quiet child.” Neither of them asked why I had been fighting and I didn’t tell them. I didn’t even tell Arnold but I saved my allowance, and, when his birthday came around, I bought him a new catcher’s mitt. Carmela and I became friends again. We weren’t as close as we had once been, but we ate lunch together sometimes or did homework together. I resigned from the Glee Club. When I was fifteen, my family moved to Flatbush. Our Manhattan neighborhood was changing, the apartment houses become shabby and rundown. Only one synagogue remained open and a minyan was assured only on the Sabbath and holidays. Aunt Chava refused to move with us. She was too old to pack up and start over, she said. She came to visit us every week, traveling on the subway. She arrived with empty shopping bags, neatly folded and held together by a wide rubber band. Most of the stores in the old neighborhood that had catered to Jewish customers were no longer in business. Tante Chava did her shopping for kosher food in Flatbush, stocking up on such items as bagels and cans of kosher salmon, pickled herring that the owner of the appetizing store packed for her in a glass jar she brought along for that purpose. She was mugged several times, but we still couldn’t persuade her to move. She accepted the muggings as part of the continuing pattern of persecution, wondering only that some Nazis now spoke with strange accents and that others had dark skins. I tried to explain to her that Hispanic and black people were also persecuted, but this was beyond her comprehension. She shook her head at me angrily. “Why should the Nazis want to kill Puerto Ricans?” She drank tea in the kitchen, more comfortable here than in our living room. She was very small in the tall-backed kitchen chair—an ancient doll in a rusty black dress, fine white hair like strands of white thread, the lines in her face deepened to furrows. “Did you hear on the radio yesterday,” she began. It was a disaster involving Jews, of course. She sat on the edge of the chair, her eyes darting, tongue darting. “Sometimes I think the only reason they let us have Israel was so they could get all of us together in one place, so it will be easier for them the next time they decide to destroy us.” S he was alone when she died, not in her apartment, but in the hospital where she had been taken when she suffered her last and final heart attack. I went to visit her in the hospital. A nurse was in the room. Tante Chava put a finger to her lips, cautioning me not to speak until the nurse left. The nurse was a Nazi, of course. They were all Nazis, the nurses in their white uniforms, the doctors in their white coats. They wore special shoes with rubber soles that made no noise against the carpeting so they could sneak up on her without her being aware of them. “They stick needles in my arms,” she said, showing me the puncture marks on her arms, the bruised and discolored flesh. I imagine that she saw death as a Nazi, too. I don’t think she struggled, astounded only that it had taken him so many years to come for her. She had been waiting for the slaughterer for a very long time, after all, ever since the morning when she was a five-year-old child in Russia, standing with her sister in a railroad station to see the czar’s train go by, and a Nazi in the guise of a Cossack swung his whip over his head and struck her deaf in her left ear. I can hear her voice clearly even now, a little impatient because of my lack of understanding. “Of course he was a Nazi, Miriam. Oh, they may call themselves by different names, come from different countries and speak different languages, but they are Nazis just the same.” She bobs her head at me, eyes narrowed behind her spectacles. “There have always been Nazis, Miriam, people who hate Jews. There always will be.” Perhaps she is right, but I refuse to accept the idea—the mob running wild and Jews the inevitable and eternal victims. Too many Jews have perished already, I think. Tante Chava impressed the number upon me: six million men, women, and children killed during the Holocaust. Her death makes it six million and one. © Copyright 2001 by Geraldine K. Gross. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be transmitted or reproduced by any means, electronic or mechanical, without written permission, except for quotations included in reviews. With gratitude the Kane Street Synagogue Community honors and thanks its staff: Linda Kass-Mahler Executive Director Carol Herbert-Lewis Clerical Assistant Marsha Masters Bookkeeper Pedro Sanchez Building Superintendent Daniel Baido Justin Simmons Porters The Kane Street Synagogue Community salutes the Kane Street Kids Preschool for a remarkable year of growth, learning, and creative expression. With heartfelt thanks for the professional skill and dedication of: Peggy Geller Director Sara Diamont Administrative Assistant Nari Gottlieb, Devin Lipsitz, Dinie Lowenstein, Olivia Kissin, Joanna Brown Head Teachers Jenny Ruiz, Yossi Lowenstein, Priscilla Murphy, Emily Silberklang-Marcus, Kristin Mark, Emily Santoro Assistant and Co-Teachers Moran Ben Shaul, Andrew Aprille, Madeline Vera, Sol Goldstein, Oran Etkin Specialty Instructors Old & Young 2s Reece Choi Miles Choi Gigi Coplan Lily Dembrow Haley Erlich Lucy Friedman Quincy Renaud Noam Subar Sylvie Suskin Noah Trokenheim Rafi Winer Max Akman Grace Filberto Mili Fletcher Roen Goldberg Eli Kotler Ruben Perez-Barreiro Hazel Price Charlotte Ryan Ellie Sherman Leah Shube Rebecca Belle Tavelin Leo Weissmann Young 3s Caleb Adrian Kaitlyn Carroll Dean Cohen Ezekiel Cohen Ruby Feuerstein Sam Grogins Lila Meranus Elie Myers Miles Paschke Zev Pollard Kate Proujansky Tali Sussmann Henry Woodcock Adela Woodcock Older 3s Stefin Bank Andrew Glick Eden Golomb Eve Harris Marlin Humphreys David Johnson Benjamin Levy Nadia McDonald Leela Miller Annabel O’Reilly Olive Price Dash Sigmond Max Silber Jacob Wolfson Pre-K Abigail Ben Ur Sadie Jacobson Noah Keuny-Lichtman Eliska Levisohn Arielle Lichtman Julian Loughney Noah Myers Maya Ortner Gabriel Rosenbaum Edward Segal Mandy Solomon Hannah Stoll Naomi Stoll Natan Subar The Kane Street Synagogue Community salutes the Hebrew School for another year of successful Jewish growth and learning Rabbi Valerie Lieber Director of Education & Family Programs Hadar Ahuvia, Nurit Barshai, Yoshie Fruchter, Moran Ben Shaul, Lauren Berger, Natalie Carmeli, Elena Hecht, Sonia Isard, Elana Roth, Meryl Zimmerman, Shai Zurim Teachers Matt Baldwin, Marah Birnbaum, Jeremy Elkayam, Aaron Giovanetti, Zoe Owens, Ethan Pomerantz, Alana Rettig, Shayne Rothman Teen Assistants Bogrim (Grades 8-11) Marah Birnbaum Jeremy Elkayam Ben Lefkowitz Alizette Llanos Zoe Owens Alana Rettig Danya Tracht Max Zolberg Miftan (Grade 7) Sophie Edelman Anna Farber Sophie Lieberman Max Rettig Gemma Sack Isabel Shriver Vav (Grade 6) Liana Chin-Drachman Michael Elkayam Mollie Gordon Jeremy Macks Zoe Martin del Campo Momoko Otani-Hudes Will Pomerantz Ruby Simon Hey (Grade 5) Lily Ball Yona Browne Doren Johnson Helen Lipsky Asher Simonson Alex Sufott Elias Zimmerman Dalet (Grade 4) Manny Birnbaum Esme Brauer Lily Edelman Sam Ehrlich Hadi Garfein Simon Kessler Jessica Rose Miles Shriver Lola Simon Leo Zolberg Gimmel (Grade 3) Max Abrahams Nola Ben Eli Charlie Block Julianne Chin-Drachman Eli Cohen Esayas Cohn Georgia Fumusa Nathaniel Greenberg Lucy Isaacs Josey Klein Caleb Kohn-Blank Sammy Nassau Bleu Parks Jake Salz Efrem Sidi-Shire Zac Taubenfeld Bet (Grade 2) Alex Baldwin Katelyn Brickner Caleb Browne Coby Cohen Caleb Coplan Lila Ehrlich Shae Hruby Sydney Johnson Bella Kortes Zoe Kortes Alef (Grade 1) Lion Brauer Abebech Cohn Noah Goodman Julia Halpert Nina Harris Eli Kessler Jones Millstone-Rivo Kai Otani-Hudes Lucas Paschke Benjamin Ryan Oliver Ryan Elena Shefsky Willa Umansky Gan (Kindergarten) Talia Ben Eli Simon Block Daniel Cleek Emily Cleek Will Cohen Yael Ezry Caleb Fumusa Sadie Gladstone Becca Greenberg Irving Hruby Max Isaacs Max Klein Sarah Kohler Talia Kohn-Blank Ivy Luders Eleanor Macks Ronit Nolte Lucas Parks Zorah Schlesinger Joela Susman Violet Westrom Charlie Winer Roshanim (Pre-K) Gideon Browne Sadie Jacobson Eliska Levisohn Ariel Lichtman Madeleine Riez Talia Salz The Kane Street Synagogue Community thanks all those who lead and serve on committees. Our mostly unspoken appreciation is keenly felt. Building Committee Cemetery Committee Communications Committee Hebrew School Committee Kane Street Kids Committee Kehillah Committee Ritual Committee Social Action Committee Strategic Finance Committee Strategic Planning Committee Young Families (“YaFA”) Committee The Kane Street Synagogue Community thanks the ingenious and energetic Social Action Committee and all the members of the Congregation who: sang and davened with those confined to the nursing home, cooked for and slept over at the homeless shelter, donated and delivered books, diapers, and clothing to the domestic violence center, collected and donated new toys to children with a terminally ill parent, contributed to a food drive, collected eyeglasses, donated gently worn business clothing, performed innovative “mitvah projects” and “Kiddush food rescues” and other acts of kindness great and small in public and in private. Yashir Koach on behalf of the Kane Street Synagogue Community to Rabbi Samuel H. Weintraub Joey Weisenberg Musical Enrichment Director and Congregants Judith Albert Matthew Baldwin Elise Bernhardt Iliana Brodsky Jay Brodsky Harry Chevan Sophie Edelman Rabbi Barat Ellman Joy Fallek Ari Fox Elijah Fox Mollie Fox Andrea Glick Kayla Glick Jay Golan Eric Gold Rabbi Josh Gutoff Rabbi Reuven Greenvald Leo Grunschlag David Grupper Meir Kahtan Rachel Kahtan Linda Kane Elliot Kleinman Lisa Kleinman Ralph Kleinman Arthur Kuflik Nathaniel Levine Andrew Levinson Evan Lieberman Sophie LIeberman Bob Marx Ira Mayer Noah Millman Mitch Mittman Jordan Owens Ellen Phillips Sheila Rabin Eytan Raz Benjamin Resnick Sam Rothenberg Allen Rubenstein Tim Rucinski Gemma Sack Lisa Sack Deborah Sacks Lani Santo Bayle Smith-Salzberg Danny Sarfati-Magill Eliana Sarfati-Magill Raphael Schklowsky Rena Schklowsky Sarah Schmerler Jessica Schoengold Ellen Shaw Ariel Sheetrit Isabel Shriver Shoshana Silverstein Adina Solomon Scheihagen Eliot Solomon Gella Solomon Marsha Z Solomon Sidney Solomon Barbara Solomon-Speregen Bernard Stanford Ron Stein Eric Steinhardt Nomi Teutsch Leora Trub Vicky Vossen Miryam Wasserman Rabbi Simkha Weintraub Thank you for leading services, reading Torah and Haftorah, and delivering Divrei Torah on Shabbat and Holidays. We pray each week through your leadership. Thank you to Idelle Abrams and her committee of greeters for welcoming one and all to services. Lay ritual leadership is a core value at Kane Street. If you’d like to learn to chant Torah or Haftarah or lead services, please contact Rabbi Weintraub at rabbi@kanestreet.org. Kane Street Synagogue thanks the Adult Education Faculty of dedicated leaders, volunteer teachers, and distinguished guests for a year of precious learning Gloria Blumenthal Jennifer Breznay Jason Gitlin Rabbi Reuven Greenvald Rabbi Josh Gutoff Jonathan Katz Lisa Kleinman Ralph Kleinman Bob Marx Noah Millman Benjamin Resnick Daniel Sarfati-Magill Rabbi Ray Scheindlin Rebecca Shiffman Adina Solomon Scheihagen Eliot Solomon Fred Terna Miryam Wasserman Rabbi Simkha Weintraub Kane Street Synagogue welcomes the following new members to our community this year Annette and Michael Akman, and son Max Jennifer Apodaca and son Zee Lindsay and Andy Ashwal, and son Levi Julie Bank and son Stefin Rachel, Lior, and Yaniv Baron Loren and Shira Berger Sarah Berger and Roy Goodman, and son Noah Sam and Jodi Brooks, and sons Jacob, Ryan, and Jonah Elizabeth and Andrew Cleek, and children Daniel and Emily Sarah Fader and Wilhelm Van Luyn, and children Ari and Samara Benjamin Galynker and Ester Bloom Sondra Goldschein and David Stern, and daughter Abigail Aviv and Jessica Halpert, and children Julia and Sean Jackie and Matt Johnson, and children Sydney and David Alan H. Kleinman Marc Kushner and Chris Barley Matthew and Melanie Lazarus, and daughter Minnie Lindsay and Noah Lukeman Eli Mark and Sinae Lee Chris and Melissa Paschke, and sons Lucas and Miles Adam Pollock and Michal Lewin-Epstein, and daughter Madeline Eytan Ras and Lia Tsarnas Jonathan Ratner and Alice Borghini, and son Zachary Steve Rivo and Jessica Millstone, and children Jones and Sylvie Diane Schlesinger and Robert Nassau, and children Samuel and Zorah ohft.n An accomplished woman, who can find? Her value is far beyond pearls. Her husband’s heart relies on her and he shall lack no fortune. —Proverbs 31 Angels With everlasting love and admiration, David ohft.n MAZEL TOV Vicky and Laureve Thank you for all you do for our community Angels Tracy Makow and Howard Brickner ohft.n Congratulations to Kane Street Synagogue on your 156th Anniversary and to the Honorees Vicky Vossen & Laureve Blackstone Angels The Baumrind Family ohft.n In honor of Vicky Vossen and Laureve Blackstone Light is sown for the righteous and joy for the upright in heart. —Psalms 97:11 Angels Judy and Seth Greenwald ohft.n The Officers and Trustees of Kane Street Synagogue congratulate Vicky Vossen for her creative and insightful leadership, her spirited and spiritual presence, and her tireless devotion to our community. We salute Chesed Honoree Laureve Blackstone for her steadfast commitment and passion for making the world Angels and our community a better, kinder place. ohft.n Congratulations to our women of valor, Vicky Vossen and Laureve Blackstone Thank you for your dedication to our community and the world beyond Angels Susan & Bill Rifkin ohft.n The Officers and Trustees of Kane Street Synagogue thank The Lillian Goldman Charitable Trust The Sol Goldman Charitable Trust The New York State Department of Parks, Recreation, and Historic Preservation The New York Landmarks Conservancy UJA-Federation of New York and Synagogues Together (“SYNERGY”), Dru Greenwood, Executive Director USCJ/METNY The Legacy Heritage Fund Angels and The Herman Goldman Foundation for their trust and support. ohpu.t Congratulations to Vicky & Laureve on jobs well done. Champions Nancy & Paul Fink ohrnu VICKY VISION VIGOR VITALITY VERVE Guardians VISHING YOU WELL VIVIEN AND MIKE ohrnua Our thanks to Laureve for her tireless work to make our community a just and caring place Guardians Vivien and Mike Shelanski ohrnu Mazel Tov to Miriam Samson on her 100th birthday Mazel Tov to Dov and Katherine on the birth of Ezekiel Alexander Scheindlin Guardians Shira Scheindlin and Stanley Friedman ohrnua Every generation needs Women of Valor. We at Kane Street have been blessed with two* Vicky Vossen for your tireless work and unwavering focus Laureve Blackstone for leading social action through thick and thin (and a wonderful pregnancy) Thank you for your efforts (*Actually, all Kane Street women are valorous.) Guardians Diana, Harry, Leah and Nate ohrnu Mazal tov to our wonderful graduate Leah Chevan We are so proud of all you’ve done and the beautiful woman you’ve become. On to Washington Oorah Mom, Dad and Nate _______________________ Our thanks to Linda Kass-Mahler You’ve been through thick and thin Guardians Construction and leaks Preschool and preteens Six presidents (but who’s counting) Best of luck on your next endeavor The Chevans ohrnua To two of our foremost Nashim Chayalot Vicky & Laureve You lead the way to making us what we are. You make us ALL very proud! Guardians With love, Marion & Ron ohrnu Congratulations Vicky and Laureve Guardians Ronnie and Dean Ringel ohrnua To Vicky, With much love and gratitude Guardians Phil and Ellen ohrnu Congratulations Vicky Vossen and Laureve Blackstone on this wonderful honor Guardians Gary Gottlieb and Mary Reventlow ohrnua Congratulations Honorees on a job well done. Guardians The Badners ohrnu Thank you, Vicky and Laureve, for all the work you do. Guardians Carole and Allen Rubenstein ohrnua Hannah Senesh Community Day School honors Vicky Vossen whose leadership has touched the whole community and Laureve Blackstone Guardians for all her important work. ohrnu . ולא אתה בן חורין להבתל ממנה,לא עליך המלאכה לגמור “You are not obligated to finish the work; neither are you free to desist from it.” —Rabbi Tarfon, Pirkei Avot 2:21 Congratulations to two women of valor who embraced challenging roles in the never-ending project of building and strengthening our community... Guardians To Vicky, on successfully completing two years of the toughest volunteer job at Kane Street—and making it look easy. You have left your mark on the Kane Street Community and can retire with a sense of accomplishment. Announcements will never be the same! To Laureve, whose great ideas and hard work have brought renewed energy to our tikkun olam efforts. Thanks to your leadership, we are helping to make our world a better place. Kol hakavod lachen! With love, Ralph and Lisa Kleinman Jacob, Roger and Elliot ohrucd . נותן לדורות,הנותן לדורו !איזהו אמן? הלומד תמיד והלומד מהכל ביאליק. נ.ח Who gives to their generation, gives to generations. Who is an artist? Whoever learns always from everything! H. N. Bialik Dear Vicky, Our deepest thanks and heartfelt gratitude. Another member of our august club has been tapped. Congratulations, you have survived! Dear Laureve, All the good work that you did both on the board and in the broader community deserves the highest praise. Your sane wisdom on Kane Street’s board will be missed. With much love, Heroes Anne-Maureen, Danny, Eliana, Na’ama & Uriel Sarfati-Magill ohrucd Vicky, we salute you! Your vision and dedication are extraordinary. Thank you for your devotion to the shul and for your fabulous sense of humor Heroes The Sack Family ohrucd Thank you, Laureve, for your dedication to social action and for finding ways for all of us to serve those who are less fortunate. Heroes The Sack Family ohrucd Oh, Vicky dear We think it’s clear You’ve been a golden asset. With charm and wit, With steely grit You’ve steered the Kane Street Knesset And so to you We bid adieu As president so dear, We won’t protest, We’ll let you rest (For maybe half a year?) Heroes And Ms. Blackstone So much you’ve done To organize deeds of Chesed You’ve left your mark We’ll carry that spark For that we’re truly blessèd The Schklowsky Family thanks Vicky and Laureve for their countless hours of service to our shul. ohrucd The DeRossi Singers congratulates Vicky Vossen for her all that she has accomplished during her two years as Kane Street’s President. And now that her term has ended, we’ll expect her at the next rehearsal! Elise Bernhardt Mort Cahn Nigel FeBland Ellen Gottlieb Sheila Rabin Lisa Sack Rena Schklowsky Marion Stein Steve Stellman Rob Stulberg Miryam Wasserman Laurie Yorr Heroes We also extend our gratitude to Laureve Blackstone for her devotion to Tikkun Olam and for giving so many of us the opportunity to perform acts of Chesed. ohrucd Tovah will be in our hearts forever. Heroes Fay and Daniel ohrucd VENI, VIDI, VICKY! You came, you saw, and you “Got ’er Done” with style and grace, and your wonderful sense of humor! Todah Rabah Heroes Ann & Barry Jacob & Eli ohrucd With tremendous appreciation for your unflagging energy, wicked sense of humor, and true dedication to our community. Thank you! Heroes Lisa Smith and Alan Salzberg ohrucd In honor of Vicky Vossen for her creative leadership of our Congregation and Laureve Blackstone for her energetic pursuit of mitzvot. Heroes Marjorie Pollack and Isaac Druker ohrucd In memory of Joyce “Tucky” Behrmann Druker Joshua A. R. and Essie Druker Paul R. and Rella Behrmann Frank L. and Ruth Pollack Joseph “Shika” Moldaw Esther “Golly” Pollack Marie M. Cedars James Stuart Pollack Adele Louise Starr We miss them. Heroes Marjorie Pollack and Isaac Druker, Jeremy and Alice Druker, Ari and Miho Druker ohrucd Debra Raskin and Michael Young Heroes congratulate the honorees ohrucd In Honor of Arthur Lichtman and Maier Perlman Heroes Adam Lichtman and Jaquelline Perlman-Lichtman ohrucd We remember Bob Rabin Beloved husband and father Gabbai and Teacher for Kane Street Synagogue Cantor and Hebrew School Educator Who always had a joke or story for every occasion Who sought to deepen our human bonds We honor Vicky Vossen Outgoing President Extraordinaire Who has shaken up the Shul But always has a joke or story for every occasion Rose Rabin, Sheila Rabin, Bill Bregman Heroes We honor Laureve Blackstone Whose work on social action has deepened our human bonds ohrucd In blessed memory of our parents Beno and Rivka Anavi, Hasko and Violette Zalman Heroes Desi and Ben Zalman ohrucd In Honor of Vicky Vossen, For exhibiting all the qualities of leadership, patience, and grace, we thank you. Enjoy your retirement! Heroes Mazel Tov! Adina and Torsten ohrucd In Honor of Laureve Blackstone, Congratulations to you and Jason Gitlin on the birth of your daughter, Rose. Thank you also for your advice, patience, and reassurance. We’re glad to be celebrating with you! Heroes Mazel Tov! Adina and Torsten ohrucd To Our Delight Hazel and Gabriel Heroes Mollie and David Zalman ohrucd To our esteemed honorees, Vicky and Laureve, You act, energize and inspire. That is what great leaders do. Heroes Carolyn and Noah Millman Heroes ohrucd ohrucd Talented, Tireless, Terrific Here’s to a job well done! Thank you, Vicky and Laureve! Heroes Mickey Green, Rob Stulberg Jacob, Joseph and Salome ohrucd Thank you, Vicky and Laureve, for keeping Kane Street alive and vibrant Heroes Desi and Ben Zalman ohgur Dear Mom, Thank you for all that you do for us, which is even more than you do for Kane Street! From us and from Geb, Ali, and Katie. We love you! Shepherds Jacob and Caleb ohgur Mazel Tov Vicky on an energetic presidency! Brava Laureve! Neither geography nor motherhood slowed down your good work coordinating the homeless shelter. I welcome my new granddaughter Chloe Belle Mori (Abigail’s 2nd baby) Shepherds Miryam Wasserman ohgur To Vicky Thank you for presiding over us with such great intelligence, humor and panache— and for raising the level of the bimah announcement to a fabulous new high. Shepherds Meir, Gillian, Ben, Rachel and Abigail Kahtan ohgur The Brooklyn Israel Film Festival Committee would like to thank VICKY VOSSEN and LAUREVE BLACKSTONE Here’s looking forward to the Ninth Annual Brooklyn Israel Film Festival in 2013! Shepherds who both so very much made the Eighth Annual Brooklyn Israel Film Festival a total success! ohgur *sung to the Tune of “Mr. Sandman” Vicky Vossen, before you go, We want to thank you, and we want you to know As President you have no equal. So tell us, Vicky, will there be a sequel? Shepherds Vicky, you sure did great— Most things are running only ten minutes late! So let’s give a hand and don’t you cry; Say “Good job!” but never, Never ever, Say “Good job!” but never… “Good bye”! With love, Ann, Cindy, Laurie, Leslie, Rena, Riva, Sandy, and Susan ohgur “yes I said yes I will Yes.” Molly Bloom’s soliloquy, James Joyce’s Ulysses Special love and thanks go to the tireless members of my Executive Committee: Harry Chevan Tracy Makow Ellen Phillips Ann Powell Susan Rifkin Adina Solomon Scheihagen Rena Schklowsky Your hard work and devotion made everything possible—and fun! Vicky Vossen Shepherds My heartfelt gratitude to everyone who said “YES I WILL” when I asked you to take time out of your busy lives to work for the synagogue! ohgur IN HONOR OF LINDA KASS-MAHLER “One might at times find the Jews’ rather hothouse family atmosphere, with its intensities and frictions, somewhat trying—but one could be sure of never being bored!” —British psychoanalyst Ernest Jones (1879–1958) You’ve been our part-time Prozdor Office Assistant, then our full-time Office Manager, and finally our Executive Director; you’ve managed, nurtured, cajoled, supported, organized, and disciplined us as we grew from a small, feisty shul in a rundown building to a large, feisty complex shul in a renovated building, with a full-time preschool and many exciting new programs. Shepherds During the past eleven years, we’ve certainly tried you with our intensities and frictions—but we hope you were never bored! Thank you so much for your devotion to every aspect of our shul! You’ve helped us become a bigger and better place—despite all our intensities and frictions! Vicky Vossen, David, Jacob and Caleb Bloomfield ohgur To Vicky and Laureve Mazel Tov on a job well done for the many years of service on behalf of the Kane Street Synagogue Community Shepherds with much appreciation, the Lieberman/Telzak family ohgur In memory of our beloved son Bob Weinstein Shepherds Blanche and Herb Weinstein ohgur Shimon the Righteous used to say: The World stands on three pillars: Torah Study, Worship and Kind Deeds. (Pirke Avot 1:2) For Vicky and Laureve, who sustain steadfastly all three pillars. Shepherds Rabbi Sam Weintraub ohgur Best wishes To Vicky and Laureve Shepherds Rebecca Shiffman Fred Terna Daniel Terna ohgur In honor of Laureve, who makes doing good Marsha & Eliot Shepherds look easy. Shepherds ohgur ohgur Congratulations to Vicky Vossen and Laureve Blackstone Shepherds Steven & Jeanne Stellman ohgur Congratulations and thanks to Vicky Shepherds Tamar & Jay ohgur In loving memory of Arthur Lichtman Beloved husband, father, grandfather, mentor, and friend. Shepherds Celia, Adam, Sarah Jaquelline, Rachel Ariel, Noah, Isaac ohgur Congratulations to Vicky Vossen You’ve done a great job! Many thanks to Laureve Your work is deeply appreciated Shepherds Laura Barbanel & Ernest Fried ohgur Kol hakavod, Vicky! And bless your family for putting up with it! Leslie Wilsher and David Freed and Family Hey, Laureve! Leslie Wilsher and David Freed and Family Shepherds You go, Girl! ohgur The Riverside Orchestra Brooklyn Car Pool offers its condolences to our longtime member Sandy Kryle on the recent loss of his mother, Myra Kryle, and sister, Lorraine Kryle. We also offer condolences to the latest member, Claire Golden on the loss earlier this year of her father, Joseph Golden. Shepherds May their memories be for a blessing. The Riverside Orchestra, an Upper West Side community orchestra has just completed its 41st year. Please visit our website at www.riversideorchestra.org this coming September for information on next season’s offerings. ohgur The Kane Street Kids Committee Salutes Vicky Vossen and Chesed Honoree Laureve Blackstone Gillian Kahtan, Adam Lichtman, Karen Luks, Tracy Makow, Chava Ortner, Penny Owen, Mary Pender-Coplan, Barbara Speregen-Solomon Shepherds  ohgur To my wonderful brother, Haim Tubi, who lost his life due to medical mistakes. I will always follow your kindness. Your extreme logic, your true religiousness, which is open to modern life. Your love of singing and your voice will remain with me forever. Shepherds Part of me was lost forever. I love you and miss you. Shoshana Tubi Silverstein and Family ohgur Congratulations to the Honorees Shepherds Steve Houck & Toni Lichstein Shepherds ohgur ohgur Mazal Tov to Our Highly Effective and Strategic President Arlene & Howard Schneider Shepherds Vicky Vossen ohgur Mazel Tov and Yasher Koach to Vicky Vossen and Laureve Blackstone for their dedicated service to Kane Street Shepherds Jack Levin ohgur We are pleased to honor Vicky and Laureve for their wonderful work for our Community and the larger Community. Shepherds Rachel and Melvin Epstein Shepherds ohgur ohgur In honor of Vicky Vossen for her extraordinarily skilled, energetic and dedicated leadership! and Yasher Koach to Laureve Blackstone with love, Jonathan Katz and Sara Porath Shepherds for all her contributions to our Kane Street Community! ohgur Mazel Tov Vicky Thank you for all you do! Mazel Tov to Laureve We appreciate your leadership! Shepherds Alissa, Mark, Zoe and Jordan Owens ohgur Congratulations Vicky on two wonderful years as President of Kane Street! Shepherds Leslie and George Tan ohgur Thanks Vicky, For your warm, engaging and energetic shul leadership, For the clever, positive and effective auctioneering style, For synagogue announcements that were enjoyable to listen to, imagine! Shepherds For the gushing, humorous Bnai Mitzvah tributes, your service was “all swish and no net” too. Enjoy a well-earned promotion to the most coveted position of ex-synagogue president. Jeff Macklis ohgur Congratulations Vicky Vossen Thank you for your energy, sincerity and commitment to the growth of Kane Street With much love to my jewels: Raya Josette Rubenstein Lily Rose Bowen Matthew Liam Bowen Jack Eric Bowen Evelyn Rubenstein Shepherds And always in our hearts Of beloved memory Jack Rubenstein ohgur MAZAL TOV TO OUR THREE INCREDIBLE DAUGHTERS ARIEL, EVE AND ILIANA * Congratulations on your recent graduations and on taking your next steps - near and far. We are so proud of each of you and your individual accomplishments. YASHER KOACH TO LAUREVE * Whose meaningful and lasting contributions have been a blessing to our congregation, to the Jewish community and to the community-at-large. OUR HEARTFELT THANKS AND ADMIRATION * To all those who have volunteered their time, effort and energy for the betterment of Kane Street Synagogue with no expectations other than to be a part of a warm, caring community. 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To Vicky, whose tireless efforts these past two years have been truly unifying, & To Laureve, who inspires us to keep “making a difference,” Kol HaKavod to All! Dan Klein and Jenny Breznay In honor of my new grand-nephew, Jonah Graham-Squire Lerman, born September 28, 2011, and his proud parents, Sharon and Mike. In loving memory of my parents May and Bernie Kahn, my grandparents Rose Friedman Kahn and Max Kahn, Bea Monoson Horovin and Meyer Horovin, and my uncles, Harold Kahn and Cyril Kahn. Mazel Tov to Vicky Vossen and Laureve Blackstone and thanks for all you’ve given. Roberta Kahn In honor of my mother, Gloria Neuman, and in loving memory of my father, Alexander Neuman, and my uncles Mendel Neuman and Louis Rosen, and my grandparents, Sarah and Harry Rosen, and Pearl and Chaim Eliezer Neuman. Congratulations and thank you to Vicky and Laureve. Sharon Neuman Vicky and Laureve, What can we say? Thank You! Mazal Tov, Andrea Glick and Seth, Sophie and Evan Lieberman We salute our partner LAUREVE BLACKSTONE For her steadfast kindness and generosity of heart to our women’s homeless shelter. BROOKLYN HEIGHTS SYNAGOGUE 131 REMSEN STREET, BROOKLYN, NY Heartfelt congratulations to Rabbi Wentraub on another successful year of steadfast and dedicated efforts for the Kane Street Synagogue and the general Jewish community. His abiding menschlichkeit deserves continuing praise. Mazel tov to Vicky Vossen on her dynamic leadership these past two years as president and her dedicated efforts in all the years before as well. Continued hatzlachah! Appreciatively, James Goldman Vicky, you are the best. Fay and Daniel Mazel Tov to Vicky Vossen, and thank you for all your hard work and valuable guidance. Congratulations also to Chesed Honoree Laureve Blackstone. Joanne Robinson and Adam Pomerantz, Ethan and Will The Kane Street Synagogue Hebrew School Committee thanks Vicky Vossen for her service to the synagogue. We have all thrived under her leadership. The Hebrew School Committee also congratulates Laureve Blackstone. Thank you! Congratulations, Laureve! You have found creative ways to involve all of us in social action and Tikkun Olam. Todah Rabah Ann Powell & Barry Nass Jacob & Eli Congratulations to Vicky and Laureve Deborah and Alan Polinsky Anonymous Congratulations to Kane Street Synagogue on its 156th Anniversary and to Honorees Vicky Vossen and Laureve Blackstone From your friends at Independent Neighborhood Democrats Hal Friedman, President Tom Predhome, Chairman of the Executive Board Assemblywoman Joan L. Millman In Memory of Maurice H. Blumenthal Genevieve W. Blumenthal Philip M. Blumenthal Norman Shulman Miriam Shulman Gloria & Bob Blumenthal Mazal Tov Vicky! Thank you for your many wonderful contributions to our community. Daniel and Tse Levy Dear Vicky and Laureve, Congratulations! Thank you for your dedication to the Kane Street community. Michelle and JJ To the Chevans, Our utmost gratitude for your help in making our transition into the next phase of life a smooth one. With love, Torsten and Adina KANE STREET SYNAGOGUE “Happy 156th” CONGRATULATIONS Vicky Vossen Laureve Blackstone Brooklyn Beep Marty Markowitz To our children and grandchildren Ariel, Eyal, Nerya, Ateret & Halleli Miryam Sheetrit Ami & Michelle Blumenthal All our love, Ima (Bubbe Gloria) & Abba (Sabob Bob) Vicky, A leader looks out not only for the good of the whole community, but the well-being of each member. When we needed a hand, you were there. We will always be thankful. Congrats on your great run as president. Laureve, May you continue to inspire young members of our community to take leadership and for all to get involved in chesed. For always showing us that chesed begins at home. Jason and Rose Batzion David and Lea MAZEL TOV, LAUREVE We love you, Mom & Dad Congratulations Honorees Seth Seifman, Jennifer Young and Malcolm Seifman Laureve, The lovely, caring person you are fills us with pride and joy every day. Congratulations Love, Ronnie, Alan and Rori Congratulations to Vicky and the Kane Street Synagogue The Luks Family Allan, Karen, Rachel, Nathan, David, Rebecca and Benjamin Vicky, You have inspired, encouraged, advised so many people! Congratulations on this well-deserved honor. David & Pat Squire To Vicky— With deep gratitude for your terrific service to this congregation, always with great intelligence and good humor. Mazel Tov to Laureve on your important new family member. With great admiration for your commitment to social justice. Arthur, Allison & Anna With much appreciation for your leadership and good work! With love and admiration for Vicky and Greetings to our Kane Street friends Betsy & Hai Knafo Steve Cohen, Elsie Stern, Sarah & Jed To Vicky and Laureve, two outstanding members of our community, with gratitude for your commitment and dedication To the ongoing life and spiritual energy provided by Kane Street Synagogue and thanks for Vicky’s marvelous tenure as President, To the continued memory of my beloved parents, Ellen and Alan Bowin Barnett Berger To Adina, who is round To Gella, who is learned To Sid, who is acting To Vicky, my fellow Sister of Redemptive Suffering… Mazal Tov! Barbara and Mike Best Wishes to All Ira M. Sherman and Howard Herzog The Sivin Family Grandparents Irv and Phyllis Parents Elijah and Jen and sister Molly celebrate the first birthday of our newest addition Lila Jane on June 21, 2012 Mazel tov and thank you, Vicky and Laureve Ellen Shaw Congratulations Kane Street Synagogue on your 156th Anniversary and to honorees: Vicky Vossen Laureve Blackstone From the Muslim Consultative Network MISSION: MCN empowers the diverse New York City Muslim population by connecting communities through dialogue, education, collaboration and social action. To learn more about us, please visit our website www.mcnny.org or join us at our 2nd Annual Gala on June 10, 2012. Vicky, You gave Governance a Spiritual Lift Kane Street Needed Mabrouk Sandy and Al Mazel Tov to Vicky and Laureve! Thank you to all Kane Streeters for another lovely year together. Joey Weisenberg www.joeyweisenberg.com Mazal tov on the marriage of Ami & Michelle Love, Abba & Ima (Gloria & Bob Blumenthal) In Memory of Bob Rabin Gloria & Bob Thank you, Vicky You have led us with vision and grace. Riva and Ira Job Well Done, Vicky! Penny and Danny Owen and Sarah Owen Robinson Yasher Koach, Vicky! With love and admiration From Your Chosen Family (Margie, Dave, Jonah, Eli, Sue, Lawson, Ellen, David And Marissa) Thank you Vicky and Laureve for your inspiring leadership. Kudos to Vicky for sharing her passion and spirit in leadership. Laureve, your daughter is lucky to have you for a role model. Charlene Visconti Love, the Shefskys Vicky, A great honor for a great woman! Congratulations! Tondra and Jeff Lynford Congratulations to two of my favorite women of valor! Hillary Dear Vicky and Laureve, Thanks for all your wonderful work and congratulations on this honor! Bronwen, Warren, and Lilah Haskel Thank you, Vicky, for your wonderful leadership at Kane Street. Thanks for all Vicky & Laureve, Francia Tobacman & Bruce Smith Best wishes to the Kane Street Chevre With admiration, the Myer/Genshaft clan from the Karp Rinsler Family Congratulations to Vicky and Laureve. Your Leadership and dedication to our community makes Kane Street a very special place. Thank you! Thank you, Vicky, for your leadership and dedication. Bob Marx and Debra Laks Reneé, David, Alana, and Max Rettig In loving memory of Phyllis Rutkin Mazal tov, Vicky and Laureve! Two women of valor! 1953–1992 Joy Fallek Susan Levy Yasher Koach to Vicky and Laureve Roberta Weisbrod Laureve and Vicky, Mazel Tov. Thank you for everything you do for Kane Street. With deep gratitude to Vicky and Laureve Simha, Simkha, Adin & Meirav Mazel Tov, Vicky. You’re the best. Howard & Miriam Steele The Susmans Congratulations to Vicky Vossen and Laureve Blackstone. Thanks for all you do for the Kane Street Community! Kol Ha’kavod Vicky and Laureve! Jerusalem salutes you. Andy, Elizabeth, Daniel, & Emily Cleek Beth Steinberg and Ira Skop Natan, Gabriel and Akiva Beatrice and Harry Klug Congratulations from the Inwood Family Kol Hakavod To a fearless leader Vicky Vossen Laureve & Jason Dear Vicky, MAZAL TOV! Sorry we can’t be there in person, but have a dance for us. The Elkinds Congratulations, Vicky and Laureve! All the best From the Elkayam Family Barry, Jacqueline, Sarah, Jeremy and Michael from the Carlin/Walker Family Vicky and Laureve Thank You!! Jeffrey, Ariel, Marah and Manny Birnbaum–Krasnow Vicky: Congratulations from the Hornick-Becker Family Vicky— You are a true eyshes-chayil in all aspects of your life. You deserve the party! Поздравляем тебе! Gitl and Meylekh Viswanath Anonymous Dear Mia, Mazal tov on completing your neurology residency at Columbia University Medical Center. May you have continued success in your neuropsychiatry fellowship. Love, Mom and Dad (Inagail & Maurice Minen) Congratulations, Vicky We really appreciate all you do for Kane Street. Best wishes, Susan Freed & Martin Brandwein Laureve, Yasher koach for always treating the stranger with chesed and teaching others to do so. Rabbi Sara Goodman Linda, through all the years… rehearsals, challenges, and simchas: Thank you! We wish you the best. Love, the Shefskys Congratulations, Joey! Rose, you’re a marvel. Happy 95th Birthday! Thank you for bringing love, joy and spirit to our music and to our community. Love, Laurie, Stephen, and Elena Love, the Shefskys Y’yasher Kochachem to both Honorees! Vicky, your mesiras nefesh is remarkable but your sincere concern for Klal Yisroel is inspiring. May HaShem richly reward you and grant you continued strength and success הנש םירשעו האמ דע in serving לארשי ללכand may you enjoy much תחנfrom your family. David Kirschner Mazel Tov to Vicky and Laureve Howard and Marisa To Vicky and Laureve In loving memory of Charles Barbanel Thank you so much for all your work and to the Kane Street leadership as well. Ellen Fleishman Liora Cobin and Adam Barbanel-Fried, and Meital and Doron Fried In memory of Gerry Gross A friend To a dynamic duo! Thank you and congratulations, Vicky and Laureve! Fondly, Barbara Zahler and Martin Gringer Special wishes to our Auntie on her 103rd birthday. Love always, Bernice & Adella D o u bl e C h a i Gordon and Nancy Baldwin The Benjamin Family Bernhardt/Giovannetti Family Woody Blaufeux Brickner/Makow Family The Fox Family Dominic, Ilana, Georgia and Caleb Fumusa Judith Gottfried Donna, Neil, David, Salley, Rebecca and Lily (the Boxer) Kafko Norman Korowitz, Nadine Kochavi, Linda Sussman (METNY) Peter and Gail Loibl Richard and Candace Mandel The Nemetz-Kane Family Marjorie, Joel and Sam Rothenberg Rabbi Charles Savenor and Julie Walpert The Solomon-Elam Family Jonathan and Jo Weber David and Barbara Werber our children — our jewels Jenny Aji Max Aji Rafi Aji Yesehak Badner Jack Eric Bowen Lilly Rose Bowen Matthew Lian Bowen Mira Liane Bowin Silas Brickner Katelyn Brickner Caleb Seigel Browne Gideon Seigel Browne Yona Seigel Browne Amelie Druker Liliana Druker Naomi Watanabe Druker Emily Hannah Falcon Zoe Ann Falcon David Richard Falcon Anna Farber Leo Feuerstein Ruby Feuerstein Katherine Fong Seth Francis Rose Batzion Gitlin Amelia Jordan Goldin Jonah David Goldin Adrian Halme Dina Gould Halme Ezra Louis Halme Eve Juno Harris Nina Devi Harris Benjamin Holladay Erin Holladay Evan Hollady Ryann Holladay Victor Holladay Caroline Kaplan Katharine Kaplan Elliot Max Kleinman Jacob Henry Kleinman Roger Samuel Kleinman Denise Kohn Caleb Kohn-Blank Julius Kohn-Blank Talia Kohn-Blank Nathaniel Solomon Koyfman Hannah Clara Koyfman Isaac Harry Kueny-Lichtman Noah Arthur Kueny-Lichtman Ariel Sadie Lichtman Daniel McCormack Moses Eli Millman Avishai Benzion Najman Eliana Hadas Najman Ephraim Meir Najman Menachem Tzvi Najman Eli Nass Jacob Nass Ronit Nolte Bleu Parks Lucas Parks Brian Rifkin Michael Rifkin Elie Romano Jordan Romano Judy Romano Leah Romano Jose Daniel Rubenstein Raya Josette Rubenstein Jake Sanders Remy Bernard Sanders Talya Gould Sanders Dahlia Scheindlin Dov Scheindlin Ezekiel Alexander Scheindlin Ellie Schneider Hannah Schneider Zachary Schneider Miles Xander Shapiro Tessa Rea Shapiro Bayle Smith-Salzberg Caleb Smith-Salzberg Fayanne Smith-Salzberg Abigail Goldschein Stern Julia Telzak Samuel Telzak Sarah Telzak Daniel Lev Weintraub Gabriel Jonathan Weintraub Jayna Ilanit Weis