A glimpse of Sister Miriam Teresa`s journey to beatification. A
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A glimpse of Sister Miriam Teresa`s journey to beatification. A
FALL 2014 www.SCNJ.org A Publication of the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth A glimpse of Sister Miriam Teresa’s journey to beatification. NEW Dimensions is the quarterly magazine of the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth, a congregation founded by Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton, in the spirit of Saint Vincent de Paul and Saint Louise de Marillac, in Emmitsburg, Maryland in 1809. In 1859, Mother Mary Xavier Mehegan founded the New Jersey community known as the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth. Today the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth are engaged in education, health care, pastoral and social service ministries in 19 dioceses within the United States and El Salvador and Haiti. The Congregation currently numbers 327 vowed members. The Seton Associate relationship has 274 affiliated lay and religious women and men. NEW Dimensions Staff Editor/Director of Communications Donna Sartor Graphic Design/Layout Scott Garibaldi Council Liaison Sister Joan Repka Advisory Board Members Sister Kathleen Koerner Tina Lesher Sister Noreen Neary Wendy Relation Welcome Dear Friends, In these times of instant communication, rapidly evolving technology, growing international awareness and significant social change, another “new dimension” in our lives will be realized when a Sister of Charity, born and raised in a Slovak family and community in Bayonne, N.J., and a graduate of the College of Saint Elizabeth, is recognized by the universal Church for her holiness. On Oct. 4, at 9:30 am in Sacred Heart Cathedral Basilica in Newark, N.J., Sister Miriam Teresa Demjanovich will be “raised to the altar” or beatified, a major step toward becoming a saint. She will be known as Blessed Miriam Teresa Demjanovich. This honor touches all of us whose lives connect with hers as family, friends, religious community and members of the Eastern (Ruthenian Rite) and Western Church. Sister Miriam Teresa did not live and breathe in rarified air. She grew up and breathed in the fumes of the oil refineries of Bayonne, and the fresh and fragrant country air of Convent Station, N.J. . During her short life, she also breathed in God’s Spirit of joy and breathed out God’s Spirit of love to those she met each day. She did the ordinary things of life with deep love and faith and believed in the universal call from God to each of us to do the same. These stories reflect some of the key events of her life – in many ways quite simple and ordinary. She entered into these ordinary events with an openness to God who, she felt, was always present to her. Whether in sports, academics, household tasks, relationships or prayer, she found the strength to bring God’s Spirit of love to others. God makes saints out of the simple events of life. Holiness is not beyond any one of us in our daily, ordinary lives. Miriam Teresa made it clear that the grace of God is given to each of us freely. Each day we are given the invitation and strength to live in union with the Spirit of God found in each and every one we meet and in all creation. The articles in this issue of NEW Dimensions provide opportunities to learn something about how one young woman “did it .” Sister Miriam Teresa is one of us. This is a time of great joy and hope for all of us! Many blessings, Sister Rosemary Moynihan - General Superior FALL 2014 www.SCNJ.org Letters to the editor, comments and photos are welcome. The staff reserves the right to edit for space and readability. Make submissions to: Sisters of Charity Communications Office, P.O. Box 476, Convent Station, NJ 07961-0476. Phone: 973-290-5345. Fax: 973-290-5337. E-mail: escharity@scnj.org. www.SCNJ.org www.SCNJ.org 2 A Publication of the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth On the cover: Blessed Miriam Teresa Demjanovich, SC. In the background, Holy Family Chapel, Convent Station, N.J. FALL 2014 Blessed MiriamTeresa Demjanovich, SC On October 4, 2014, New Jersey will have its first woman to be proclaimed Blessed by the Roman Catholic Church. In her short life, Sister Miriam Teresa Demjanovich showed deep reverence for God’s presence and action in her life. In response, she led what the Church has called a life of heroic virtue. Expressed in love of God and love of neighbor, her life is a model for others, especially today in our world torn apart by hatred, greed and lust for power. This issue of NEW Dimensions will allow you a glimpse of Blessed Miriam Teresa’s journey to beatification. Sisters of Charity in 1925 on the Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes. As a novice she took the religious name Sister Miriam Teresa in honor of the Blessed Mother and Saint Thérèse of the Child Jesus. Alexander and Johanna Demjanovich by Sister Noreen Neary, SC Born in 1901 in Bayonne, N.J., Teresa was the last of the seven children of Alexander and Johanna Demjanovich, who had emigrated from northeastern Slovakia. As an infant, she was baptized and chrismated in the Byzantine-Ruthenian Rite of the Catholic Church. Teresa attended the Bayonne public schools and received two hours of religious instruction after school each day. Following her graduation from high school, she cared for her ailing mother and oversaw the household before entering the College of Saint Elizabeth. In 1923 Teresa graduated summa cum laude and was awarded a Bachelor of Literature degree. She then taught English and Latin for one year at the Academy of Saint Aloysius in Jersey City. Having delayed her entrance to religious life due to her father’s illness and subsequent death, Teresa entered the As a postulant and novice, Sister Miriam Teresa taught at the Academy of Saint Elizabeth in Convent Station and wrote prolifically – two short plays, letters, meditations, several poems and part of her autobiography. Aware of her extraordinary spiritual gifts and confident that “one day she would be ranked among the saints of God,” Reverend Benedict Bradley, OSB, her spiritual director and confessor, requested that she write the conferences for her fellow novices, which he delivered as if they were his own. In early 1927 Sister Miriam Teresa’s health failed and she was hospitalized several times. In April she took perpetual vows of poverty, chastity and obedience in Saint Elizabeth’s Hospital in Elizabeth, N.J., where she died on May 8, 1927. Her body was buried in Holy Family Cemetery in Convent Station and, 52 years later, exhumed and interred in a crypt in the Motherhouse chapel. After her death Father Benedict posted a note on the Sisters’ bulletin board: “The conferences which I have been giving to the Sisters were written by Sister Miriam Teresa.” The conferences were published posthumously in 1928 as 3 Left: Miriam Teresa’s birth certificate, Center Top: St. Elizabeth’s Hospital, Elizabeth, N.J., Center Bottom: Teresa in front of her home in Bayonne, N.J. Right: Sister Marian Jose Smith with His Eminence, Jan Chryzostom Cardinal Korec, S.J., the Bishop of Nitra, Slovakia on Feb. 25, 1992. Greater Perfection: Being the Spiritual Conferences of Sister Miriam Teresa and have served to spread her message that each person is called to holiness and that prayer, contemplation and union with God are compatible with an active daily life. The Long Path to “Blessed” The spiritual gifts of Sister Miriam Teresa were recognized in her lifetime and, following her death,many of those who knew her felt that her extraordinary holiness should be recognized by the Church. Among them were her brother, Msgr. Charles Demjanovich; her friends from the College of Saint Elizabeth, Agnes Spinella and Margaret Conklin, and her confessor in religious life, Father Benedict Bradley, OSB. Another staunch believer was Sister Mary Zita Geis, SC, who spent four decades working toward the beatification and canonization of Sister Miriam Teresa. Conferences written by Sister as a novice were published posthumously as Greater Perfection; through this book she has promoted devotion throughout the world to the presence of God in the lives of all people. The Cause for the Beatification and Canonization of Sister Miriam Teresa Demjanovich was officially introduced in 1945, 18 years after her death. Most Reverend Thomas McLaughlin, the first Bishop of Paterson, petitioned the Holy See to allow the initiation of her Cause. The following year Mother Mary Benita, SC, founded the Sister Miriam Teresa League of Prayer 4 and appointed Sister Esther Maria, Sister Marie Dolores, Sister Anne Lucille and Sister Mary Zita as its first officers. In addition to a Postulator working for the Cause in Rome, throughout the years there have been Vice Postulators here in New Jersey who coordinated the efforts of the Cause at the local level. Father Stephen Findlay, OSB, first held this post, followed by Sister Rosemary Smith, SC, a canon lawyer and Assistant General Superior. Sister Marian Jose Smith, who served tirelessly as Vice Postulator for more than two decades, succeeded Sister Rosemary. Today the role is filled by Sister Mary Canavan, formerly the General Superior (1987-1995) of the Sisters of Charity. The first step in the process toward beatification is the informative phase, which is conducted at the diocesan level. The Diocese of Paterson gathered testimony about the life and virtues of Sister Miriam Teresa, while her public and private writings were collected and examined for orthodoxy. It also needed to be demonstrated that no public veneration of this Servant of God had taken place. The diocesan tribunal judged that the Cause of Sister Miriam Teresa met these requirements. In 1955 and 1977 Pope Pius XII and Pope Paul VI, respectively, gave their blessings to the Cause. In July 1978 an official decree was issued for the exhumation of Sister Miriam Teresa’s remains from Holy Family Cemetery FALL 2014 Top Left: (l to r) Sister Mary Ann Tierney, Mrs. Anne McLaughlin, sister of Sister Miriam Teresa and Sister Hildegarde Marie Mahoney at the exhumation. Top Right: Crypt located in Holy Family Chapel, Convent Station, N.J., Bottom Left: Prayer service before placing coffin in crypt. (l to r) Sisters Mary Ann Tierney, Kathleen Timothy Cronin, M. Angelica Doris, Hildegarde Marie Mahoney, M. Zita Geis and official witnesses, Bottom Right: (l to r) Sister Francis Maria Cassidy and Sister Eileen Dolan in Convent Station. In May 1979 the exhumation took place over a 24-hour period and all pertinent materials found in the grave were identified, labeled and placed reverently in a new coffin that was sealed and placed in a crypt in Holy Family Chapel, adjacent to the Motherhouse of the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth, where it remains today. When the authorities in Rome agreed that the Cause had met the first two requirements, it was time for the writing of the Positio Super Virtutibus. Sister Francis Maria Cassidy, SC, and Sister Eileen Dolan, SC, spent nearly 10 years preparing this document that showed that Sister Miriam Teresa practiced the four cardinal virtues (prudence, justice, temperance and fortitude) and the three theological virtues (faith, hope and charity) in a heroic manner in her lifetime. The Positio was submitted to the Congregation of the Saints in 1999 and, because it was known that there was a possible cure attributed to Sister Miriam Teresa, it was 120th in line for consideration. After scrutinizing the document, theologians, cardinals and bishops found the Servant of God to be of heroic virtue. On May 20, 2012 Pope Benedict XVI declared Sister Miriam Teresa Venerable. The Positio Super Miro was sent to the Congregation of Saints in July 2004. Largely the work of Mary Mazzarella, M.D., who has served as the Medical Consultant for the Cause for 17years, this document described the case of Michael Mencer, a young boy living in New Jersey in the 1960s, whose juvenile macular degeneration was cured miraculously through the intercession of Sister Miriam Teresa…soon to be officially known throughout the universal Church as Blessed Miriam Teresa! Beatification Ceremony and Liturgy The Cathedral Basilica of the Sacred Heart in Newark will be the site of the beatification of Sister Miriam Teresa Demjanovich, SC, on Oct. 4. Angelo Cardinal Amato, SDB, the Prefect of the Congregation of Causes of the Saints will preside as the Papal Delegate at the ceremony in which Sister Miriam Teresa will be declared “Blessed.” This extraordinary event – the first beatification to take place in the United States – will involve our Congregation and friends, the Archdiocese of Newark (in which the miracle occurred), the Diocese of Paterson (in which the Cause was initiated) and the Byzantine Catholic Eparchy of Passaic for the Ruthenians (of which Sister Miriam Teresa remained a member all her life). Archbishop John J. Myers (Newark), Bishop Arthur J. Serratelli (Paterson) and Bishop Kurt R. Burnette (Eparchy of Passaic) will concelebrate the liturgy with Cardinal Amato. The Sisters of Charity will be joined by members of the League of Prayer, the Seton Associates, our long-time friends and Dr. Silvia Correale, Postulator of the Cause, on this joyful occasion for which we have waited so long. 5 In her sophomore year at CSE, Teresa had a room in Santa Rita Hall on the fourth floor, the third window from the right Sister Miriam Teresa - The Tale of Love by Fr. Terrence J. Moran James Martin, the popular Jesuit author of My Life With the Saints, has written: “The lives of the saints, parts of which seem confusing, bizarre and misguided, are - when you know the whole story - really tales of love.” As we celebrate the beatification of Sister Miriam Teresa Demjanovich, it’s good for us to reflect a bit on her tale of love – the influences and circumstances that made her the kind of person that the Church wants to offer as a model to others. Teresa Demjanovich’s earliest and deepest influence, as for all of us, was her family. Her parents practiced the simple, solid Christian life that was typical of early 20th century European immigrants. From her parents’ daily practical devotion to their faith and their family, Teresa learned the demands of a life of Christian holiness. She had a special rapport with her brother, Charles, who would later serve the Church as a priest. Even as a Sister, she signed her letters to him with her childhood nickname, “Shrimp.” Teresa was marked by her friendships as well. She wrote 6 a poem celebrating her childhood friendship with Elizabeth Szabo, daughter of the parish priest. At the College of Saint Elizabeth, Teresa met Margaret Conklin and Teresa Spinella, who supported and encouraged her and who worked tirelessly after her death to spread interest in her and her spirituality. Raised in the narrow confines of an immigrant neighborhood in Bayonne, Teresa thrived on the intellectual and cultural formation that she received at the College of Saint Elizabeth. The spirituality of the Eastern Church was profoundly formative of Teresa. She spent time every day after school in religious instruction in her Ruthenian parish, learning the theologically rich texts of the Eastern liturgy. Sister Miriam Teresa would later say that she preferred the liturgy FALL 2014 of the Eastern Church because it allowed an active participation of the laity that was not then possible in the Western liturgy. Raised in the narrow confines of an immigrant neighborhood in Bayonne, Teresa thrived on the intellectual and cultural formation that she received at the College of Saint Elizabeth. She wrote papers on Japanese theater, the social work of the Middle Ages, and Irish political history. She learned Spanish well enough to take a starring role in a Spanish play. Her teachers encouraged her to develop her talents for art, music and poetry. It’s important to remember that it was only during Teresa’s first year at the College of Saint Elizabeth that women were given the right to vote. Long before women’s suffrage, the College of Saint Elizabeth was a place where women were encouraged to develop their talents to the fullest. Contemporary feminist theory gives an interesting perspective with which to look at Sister Miriam Teresa’s development. Feminism encourages us to take seriously women’s experience of life and history and not to identify male experience as normative. Sister Miriam Teresa’s experience of the workings of God in her life was the main source of her spirituality rather than extensive study of scripture and theology. She was fortunate to have a spiritual director, Father Benedict Bradley, OSB, who recognized the validity of her spiritual experiences and encouraged her to take them seriously. By giving the conferences that Sister Miriam Teresa had written, Father Benedict was the rare man who was willing to become the voice of a woman’s spiritual experience. In the early 20th century, spiritual books were written almost exclusively by men. Retreats were given only by men; there were no women spiritual directors. Yet Father Benedict encouraged Sister Miriam Teresa to write conferences based on her spiritual experience; they were published after her death as Greater Perfection. The book enjoyed a remarkable popularity at a time when women spiritual writers were rare. It won first prize from the Catholic Press Association in 1928 – winning over two books by priests. Father Benedict encouraged other sisters to consult Sister Miriam Teresa about their spiritual lives, in effect, empowering her to be a spiritual director. Sister Miriam Teresa felt little natural inclination to join the Sisters of Charity although she admired them as educators and counted many of them as friends. Her natural contemplative bent led her to prefer the life of Carmel and she entered the Sisters of Charity in obedience to what she perceived the will of God. Nevertheless, she was deeply formed by the apostolic spirituality of the Vincentian tradition from which she learned that holiness consists not in prayer or in mystical experiences but in the self- giving of love. As a college student, she wrote a tribute to one of her deceased teachers, Sister Louise Marie, which shows her grasp of the Charity charism of loving service: “Love is the sun of our spiritual life… Growth in spirituality is growth in love….The life of Sister Louise Marie may be expressed in the single word, service – a love of service in regard to her companions; a service of love toward the least members of God’s creation.” Sister Miriam Teresa’s way of holiness has little to do with exceptional mystical experiences but rather with generous response to God in the ordinary circumstances of life. She uses the beautiful image of hospitality as a model for the spiritual life: Used with permission by Most Reverend Kurt Burnette, Bishop of the Eparchy of Passaic. Part of the Heritage Museum and Library of the Byzantine Catholic Eparchy of Passaic. “Progress in prayer or advancement in perfection simply means that we learn more and more graciously to play the part of an attentive and courteous host, who eliminates herself as far as possible, in order that the beloved and honored guest may be at full liberty to express himself freely with regard to the interests dearest to his heart.” May her life and words teach us to become what she was: the gracious and receptive host to the God who longs to enjoy our company. 7 The Mencer Letter This letter, postmarked December 8, 1971, was addressed to Fr. Stephen Findlay, O.S.B., at Delbarton School in Morristown. Sr. Augustine is Sister Mary Augustine Flanagan (left), who taught at Saint Anastasia School in the 1960s and 1970s. Mrs. Mencer enclosed a school picture of her son (on right), on the back of which is written “Mike 9 yrs. St. Anastasia School”. The letter was transcribed by Sister Noreen Neary, archivist, on February 11, 2013. Dear Father Findlay, The November 19th issue of the Trenton Diocese Monitor contained an article which I read with great interest since I had never known of Sister Miriam Theresa (sic) before 1964. At that time my nine yr. old son was diagnosed to have a condition medically termed macula pigmentation. This involves the blood vessels and nerve endings in the area of center vision. He had only peripheral vision and was termed legally blind. This is a degenerative process and I was told in six months the area would be totally blackened. He was a third grade student at St. Anastasia School in Teaneck, N.J. and Sr. Augustine sent me a prayer card with a request for special favors. I had never heard of Sr. Miriam Theresa and knew her only from her picture on the card. Over the next five yrs. Dr. Vincent Carter, Cedar Lane in Teaneck, examined him at 6 mo. to 1 yr. intervals. Superimposed on this condition is his ability to have 20-20 vision. I attribute the fact that my son now 16, in spite of the circumstances of his birth, is a good student in public high school and participates most effectively in all sports due to the efficacy of prayer to Sr. Miriam Theresa. However, may I add, I believe it to be only one of her many intercessions on my behalf. Sincerely, Barbara P. Mencer (Mrs. John Mencer) 8 FALL 2014 St. Anastasia School, Teaneck, N.J. A Special Devotion to Sister Miriam Teresa In addition to one of our Seton Associates and a former CSE administrator, there is a long list of sisters who volunteer in the Sister Miriam Teresa office in the Motherhouse in Convent Station. You can call this office if you would like to ask for prayers through the intercession of Sister Miriam Teresa, to make an appointment to visit Holy Family Chapel and the crypt of Sister Miriam Teresa, to order books and other materials and for any information regarding the process for beatification of Sister Miriam Teresa – (973) 290-5467. We lived on Kings Court, a cul de sac with 12 houses. Diagonally across the street lived the Mencer family. Recently, Barbara Mencer and Michael recalled the fond memories they had of their time living on the court, the kids playing ball in front of the Culhane house, the time spent playing Hide and Seek in the hedges at the local church, Central Park with the swings and wheel of fun, and Mr. Culhane giving them the Daily News each night. They remembered so much about my brother, my parents, and me. Sister Mary Culhane is one of the sisters who volunteer in this office. Like many other volunteers, Sister Mary does so because she has a special devotion to Sister Miriam Teresa. This is her story: Is it any wonder that when Michael told me his story I realized my mother was praying for him all these years? I need to help in any way I can, continuing the devotion to Miriam, answering the phone, and telling all the story of Sister Miriam Teresa. Indeed the example my mother set for me had a profound and lasting effect. “The influence of a mother upon the lives of her children cannot be measured. They know and absorb her example and attitudes…” Reverend Billy Graham. Mae Culhane (my mother) was a close friend of Sister Mary Augustine Flanagan, a teacher at Saint Anastasia School who frequently visited my home in Teaneck. It was Sister Mary Augustine in 1955 who introduced my mother to the League of Prayer which at that time was the name given to the cause for the canonization of Miriam Teresa Demjanovich. My mother crocheted the mementoes, read the prayers, and sent donations to the League. We often heard the phrase, “Please put five or ten dollars in an envelope and send it to the League, and don’t ever forget to do this as we are blessed with many favors and we need to thank Sister Miriam Teresa.” My mother prayed frequently to Sister Miriam Teresa and had asked, “Please don’t disturb me when I am praying.” I observed this practice and realized the intensity of the devotion my mother had to Sister Miriam Teresa. Sister Mary Culhane sets up appointments for tours of Sister Miriam Teresa’s crypt in Holy Family Chapel. 9 Things you may not know about Sister Miriam Teresa. . . • Among the famous people who read and admired Greater Perfection are Dorothy Day, founder of the Catholic Worker movement, Mother Teresa of Calcutta, and Fr. Virgil Michel, OSB, leader of the pre-Vatican II liturgical movement. • Her closest friend as a child was Elizabeth Szabo (later spelled Sabow), daughter of a Ruthenian priest. Miriam Teresa wrote in a poem that Elizabeth was “dearest of youthful friends…that felt my every subtle mood and understood.” Elizabeth was deeply moved to read the poem from her childhood friend and wrote her appreciation to Sister Miriam Teresa’s brother, Fr. Charles. Elizabeth moved to Cleveland and was the secretary at the Royal Hungarian Consulate there. She died in 1983. • Even as a Sister, she signed her letters to her brother with his nickname for her, “Shrimp.” • Sister Miriam Teresa said that as a child she liked boys’ games the most and was particularly good at baseball. She was also a cheerleader. • She spoke Spanish so well that she acted in a Spanish play and for a short time substituted as a Spanish teacher in a Jersey City high school. • She went to her Senior Prom with a young man from Fordham and wore a green velvet dress with a Greek key design around the neck. • She anticipated the movement for better education for sisters and wrote, “It would be better to close ten missions than to send a sister out unprepared to teach.” • She took a course on “The Political History of Ireland,” and got an A+ on a term paper “The Irish Free State.” • The crucifix that she held when she died belonged to a famous priest, Fr. Harold Purcell, who had been a Passionist, but left and became a diocesan priest in order to devote himself to the founding of a social service center for African-Americans in Montgomery, Alabama – the City of St. Jude – for which he raised 5 million dollars. 10 FALL 2014 Rev. Peter VB. Wells officiates at a Mass in Holy Family Chapel. To his right is Rev. Martin Rooney. Both are Seton Associates Q and A with Seton Associate Rev. Peter Wells, Pastor of Saint Clare’s Church in Clifton, NJ by Rosemary Lalevée Carroll Q. How did you first become acquainted with Sister Miriam Teresa Demjanovich? the difficult periods of her life, particularly while in religious community, that made an impression on me. A. While I was a student at Bayley-Ellard High School in Madison, our librarian was Sister Anne Lucille, SC. She was very involved in the Miriam Teresa League. She made sure every student knew about and learned about Sister Miriam Teresa. Q. What significance or impact will Sister Miriam Teresa have on our faith? The Church? Q. What is it about her or her writings that inspired you? A. I actually did not read her writings until I was in seminary. I used her writings while taking a seminar on stress as the basis for a final paper in the course. It was the way she dealt with A. She was a strong woman of faith who responded to the voice of God in her life, first as a teacher, then in her desire to be a contemplative, and then responding to God calling her to be a Sister of Charity of Saint Elizabeth. God speaks to each of us in different ways and at different times in our Faith journey. If we are patient and wait, God will direct us as to our life’s calling, whatever it is. 11 Sr. Miriam Teresa’s watercolor painting The beauties of the natural world were especially nourishing of the spiritual life of Sister Miriam Teresa. Growing up in an industrial section of Bayonne, NJ, she was deeply moved by the splendor of the rural campus of the College of Saint Elizabeth and the motherhouse of the Sisters of Charity. Many of her poems celebrate the glory of God present in nature. In her Ode to Nature, she writes: What miracles are wrought before our eyes! What mysteries of nature do we see In each unfolding tree! And hour by hour A smiling, living earth…invokes the Divinity. She once surprised her friend Sister M. Dolores Martínez by exclaiming during a walk in Nazareth Park, “God is in the trees!” As a novice, she painted a delicate watercolor of the first violets of spring for an Easter card for her friend Margaret Conklin. As a college student she was chosen to give a speech on the occasion of the planting of two mulberry trees in tribute to the deceased College of Saint Elizabeth professor Sister Louise Marie Lemée. She highlighted her professor’s love of nature in her tribute, “ Sister Louise Marie found time for enjoying, and for making others delight in, the beauties of nature…Witness her love for God’s feathered creation a love that excludes none; that was so thoughtfully kind in feeding the birds of the air…And so in this springtime, the first after her death, we wish to perpetuate her memory by planting two mulberry trees, that the birds she loved so well, may find shelter and food in their branches…She shall dwell forever amid the beauties of Eternal Spring!” Sister Miriam Teresa now enjoys the beauties of Eternal Spring; she invites us, as she did, to take time to marvel at God’s presence in the world of nature and to expend our efforts to protect and preserve it. Nazareth Park 12 FALL 2014 Like us on Facebook Beginning September 1, 2014, a FaceBook page specifically dedicated to Sister Miriam Teresa was launched. You can find it by typing Sister Miriam Teresa League of Prayer in the search bar. This is the only authentic page sponsored by the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth. Please visit the page and feel free to leave comments. Most of all, please remember to LIKE us! Blessed Sister Miriam Teresa League of Prayer P.O. Box 476, Convent Station, NJ 07961 Prayers • Visits • Books/Pamphlets • Information In Memoriam Please visit “Remember Our Deceased Sisters in Your Prayers” at www.SCNJ.org for reflections on the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth who died between March 1, 2014 and September 1, 2014. May our Sisters enjoy the fruits of their labor as well as peace with their God. Sister Teresa Marie Mahon April 1 Sister Alice Lubin Call 973-290-5467 for the following • To ask for prayers through the intercession of Sister Miriam Teresa • To make appointments to visit Holy Family Chapel and the crypt of Sister Miriam Teresa • To order books or other materials • For information regarding the process for beatification of Sister Miriam Teresa CALL 973-290-5467 or visit www.SCNJ.org June 5 Sister Thérèse Martin Hanily June 12 Sister Mary Alicia Mullins June 15 Sister Mary Celeste Conti July 14 Sister Ann Michele Texido July 23 Sister Alice Elenita Barry July 28 13 Awards & Announcements Sister Regina Martin Keane Sister Jacquelyn Balasia Sister Theo Furniss Mother Seton Regional High School, Clark, NJ, honored six women at the Gala Evening of Celebration. Three of these women were Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth: Sister Regina Martin Keane (In Memoriam), Sister Jacquelyn Balasia, and Sister Theo Furniss. The school paid tribute to these Sisters for “nurturing our school and our souls.” Sister Rosemary Smith traveled to Lusaka, Zambia in August to present to the major superiors of the ACWECA (Association of Consecrated Women in East and Central Africa) who were gathered at their triennial Assembly. The countries from which participants hail were Eritrea, Ethiopia, Kenya, Uganda, Malawi, Sudan, South Sudan, Tanzania and Zambia. The topic was canon law and how it effects/impacts religious. Sister Rosemary was given several areas of focus which the participants had identified as particularly problematic/of interest. She worked with a woman civil attorney from Kenya. In recognition of Sister Regina Martin Keane’s significant contributions to the advancement and support of education, the College of Saint Elizabeth posthumously awarded her the Doctor of Humane Letters Degree, Honoris Causa at the 2014 commencement ceremony. Sister Regina Martin entered into eternal rest on December 25, 2013. She was a Sister of Charity for 57 years. Sister Eileen Clifford, SC, MD, was the recipient of the 2014 Distinguished Health Care Service Award, Passaic County, presented by the Northern New Jersey Council, Boy Scouts of America, at the Service Awards Dinner on June 3, 2014. Dr. Eileen Clifford was saluted for her outstanding commitment and efforts on behalf of the communities of Passaic County. William McDonald, President and CEO at St. Joseph’s Healthcare System said, “Dr. Clifford is an exemplary physician and an inspirational leader.” If you know of a sister or an associate who was honored or recognized in any way, please pass it on to Donna Sartor at dsartor@scnj.org or 973-290-5345. Thank you. 14 FALL 2014 An Interview with Russell Burns by Wendy Relation Russ went on to graduate from Seton Hall Prep and the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School. He enjoys a successful career in investment banking on Wall Street. A few years ago, he renewed his ties with the Sisters of Charity when he contributed to the renovations at Saint Anne Villa. His financial gift reconnected him with the sisters, who recognized Russell’s many talents and quickly put them to good use. Russell Burns As a supporter of the Sisters of Charity, Russell Burns can be described as “all in.” Russ says, “The Sisters of Charity have always been there to provide a helping hand. It is now important for us to assist them whether our support is financial or through the use of our time and talent. I would like to think that I am trying to do both.” Russ first encountered the Sisters of Charity when he attended St. Vincent Martyr School in Madison, N.J. From kindergarten through eighth grade, many of Russell’s teachers were Sisters of Charity. He stated that he will be eternally grateful for the positive influence the sisters had on his life. “There were many difficult lessons along the way, but good lessons nonetheless. The disciplines you establish early in life serve as a foundation for your future.” Two of his teachers particularly stand out: Sister Grace Gonzaga, who was always a calm, steadying, and encouraging presence, and Sister Regina Bernard, who had a knack for finding and celebrating each student’s special gift. The Sisters of Charity were Russell’s teachers as well as members of his parish and neighbors in the community. During his high school years and summers when he was home from college, Russ worked on the facilities and grounds of the parish, including the convent that served as the residence for the sisters. He recalled an instance when he was painting the ceiling of the third-floor level of the convent’s grand staircase. His ladder gave way, and paint cans (and Russ) went flying. The incident did not seem to faze the Sisters, “who just cleaned up in their very nice, caring way.” “When I can use my skills to assist the sisters in navigating complex financial and business issues it is especially gratifying.” Russ now serves on the Development Advisory Board and on other committees where his financial acumen, extensive business experiences and passion for the Sisters of Charity combine to make him an invaluable partner and friend. He derives great satisfaction from working with and for the sisters. “When I can use my skills to assist the sisters in navigating complex financial and business issues it is especially gratifying.” Each time that he attends a meeting or talks with sisters, Russ learns something new about their diverse programs. “The sisters are not inclined to promote themselves,” he says, “so it is critical for lay people to educate others on the mission of the sisters and how they serve important needs of the community.” Russ appreciates the need to provide high quality care for the sisters in Saint Anne Villa. He will always be grateful for the loving care that his grandmother received in a nursing home operated by Carmelite nuns in Florida. The experience with his grandmother makes Russ determined to support the sisters who now receive care at Saint Anne Villa. Russ says that “it is very easy to lose sight of what is truly important in life given the complexity of today’s world.” He is thankful to have re-established his relationship with the Sisters of Charity and to have the opportunity to partner with them in their mission of charity, which he believes is needed more today than ever before. 15 Spring Lake Luncheon Friends of the Sisters of Charity enjoyed a lovely afternoon on June 9 at the annual Spring Lake Luncheon. The luncheon is a wonderful opportunity for guests to renew acquaintances and reconnect with the Sisters of Charity. We were delighted to welcome many first-time luncheon guests who joined us to hear this year’s speaker, Fr. Leo Patalinghug. Fr. Leo, who is the host and creator of Grace Before Meals, shared a message about bringing people together through food. Guests also picked up some great cooking tips from Fr. Leo as he prepared a delicious dish from his book, Spicing Up Married Life. Fr. Leo Patalinghug (l to r) Sister Elizabeth Holler, Claire Mullen, Lois Monahan and Jackie Higgins Armando and Cecelia Giuliano 16 FALL 2014 (l to r) Ellen V. Kelly, Sister Rosemary Moynihan and Vince Gilligan Golf Outing (standing) John Richel and Vic Richel (seated) John D’Angelo, Sister Thomas Mary Salerno and Marilyn Ryan Sal Davino On Monday, June 16, over 100 golfers enjoyed a glorious day at Echo Lake Country Club as they participated in the Sisters of Charity Seventh Annual Golf Outing. The weather was picture perfect for a day on the links, followed by cocktails on the patio and a delicious buffet dinner. The evening was capped-off by the awarding of prizes and a live auction. Thanks to the many friends who sponsored and attended this great event. A very special thank-you goes out to golf co-chairs, Ellen Kelly and Vince Gilligan, who once again went “above and beyond” to make the Golf Outing such a success! Doug Harris 17 SISTERS OF CHARITY WINDOWS REPLACEMENT PROJECT Thank you to our many friends who have completed their pledges. We still need additional help to reach our Windows goal. Thanks for your support! Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth Development Office, P.O. Box 476, Convent Station, N.J. 07961-0476. 973-290-5409/5454 Remember the Sisters of Charity in Your Will With a gift through your will, you can support the Sisters of Charity and ensure that the mission of boundless charity will continue into the future. Your gift may be truly transformational, enabling the sisters to bring the word of God and the compassion of Jesus Christ to a world so in need. Here is an example of bequest wording to remember the Sisters of Charity in your will: I give, devise, and bequeath to the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth, a not-for-profit organization located in Convent Station, New Jersey, Federal Tax ID #22- 1487343, the sum of $_______________(or _______________ percent of the rest, residue and remainder of my estate) for the unrestricted use and general purposes of the Sisters of Charity. Remembering the Sisters of Charity or other charities in your will allows you to use the gifts God has given you to make a difference far beyond your lifetime. It is a good idea to let your heirs know the charities that are most important to you. Many people suggest donations to the Sisters of Charity or other charities in lieu of flowers. If you have already included the Sisters of Charity in your will and would like to inform us, or if you would like more information about giving to the Sisters of Charity in your will, please contact: Wendy Relation Director of Development (973)290-5480 wrelation@scnj.org 18 Letters r o t i d E e h t to We just received the NEW Dimensions magazine. Please forward my best wishes to Sister Jane Brady for her 55 years of service. I have very fond memories of serving with her many years ago on the 100 member Board of the Bergen-Passaic Health Systems Agency when she was heading St. Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson , NJ. She was smart, dedicated, and tough when she needed to be, especially when health care topics concerned serving the poor and Hispanics in Paterson . The women of the Church are its strength! ~ Anita Siegenthaler, Bergen County, NJ Just wanted to say that the NEW Dimensions magazine is beautiful! The layouts, the many pictures and the information are attractive and well done. Kudos! ~ Sister Mary Culhane, SC Thank you for the copy of NEW Dimensions. Love it! ~ Rosemary Goulet, IHM, Scranton , PA FALL 2014 If you would like to renew your membership to or join the Sister Miriam Teresa League of Prayer and receive a year’s subscription to the quarterly Bulletin, please fill out this membership form, include a check for $15.00 and return to the address provided. The Sister Miriam League of Prayer Please check one of the following I wish to begin/continue (circle one) my membership in the league for July 2014 to June 2015. I wish my name removed from the membership list. Please Print Name Address City & State Zip Code Offering A minimum offering of fifteen dollars entitles a member to a year’s subscription to the quarterly Bulletin. Please include this form with your donation: Sister Miriam Teresa League of Prayer P.O. Box 476, Convent Station, N.J. 07961-0476 We invite you to partner with us in any of the following ways: Consider becoming a Sister of Charity Contact our Vocations Office vocations@scnj.org • 973-290-5331 Consider becoming a Seton Associate These are our lay affiliates who live a life of charity in ministry to others. setonassociates@scnj.org • 973-290-5336 Participate with financial support Gifts may be designated for Ministry/General Support, Retired/Infirm Sisters or for specific ministries. For more information, please contact the Development Office at 973-290-5409/5454 or srcharity@scnj.org. Online donations may be made through www.SCNJ.org. Request prayer support Send a request online by selecting Prayer Requests from our website home page menu. Learn more about the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth at www.SCNJ.org. 19 Non-Profit Org. U.S. Postage Paid Permit #1278 Caldwell, N.J. Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth P.O. Box 476 Convent Station, N.J. 07961-0476 www.SCNJ.org Upcoming Events For all up coming e vents please co ntact: The Sisters of zabeth D Charity of evelopm P.O. Box ent Offic 476, Con e Saint Eli Harvest Festival Madison Hotel Thursday, October 23, 2014 Honorees include: Caritas Award – Mary Mazzarella DeMayo, M.D. Mehegan Award – Tim Mc Loone Fall 50/50 Raffle Drawing takes place on Wednesday, December 3, 2014 There will be 1st, 2nd & 3rd place winners! Cathedral Sounds Annual Christmas Concert Holy Family Chapel Sunday, December 7, 2014 Featuring The Masterworks Chorus Under the Direction of Andrew Megill vent Stati on, N.J. 0 7961-047 454/540 6 9 • srcha rity@scn j. o r g www.SC NJ.org 973-290-5