Journey to the Land of the Exodus Jews of the Alamo Twin Values
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Journey to the Land of the Exodus Jews of the Alamo Twin Values
Link The magazine of the Borehamwood & Elstree United Synagogue Community Pesach 2009 - 5769 Journey to the Land of the Exodus 40 Jews of the Alamo 92 52 Twin Values 44 Biggin’ it up in Berlin 2 Link Pesach 2009 editor’s note David Onnie 7 Regulars Editor’s note 5 David Onnie From the Rabbi 7 Chief Rabbi 9 Chairman’s Report 10 Anthony Arnold Wardens’ Report 12 David Newman and Ian Skolnick Vice Chairman’s Report 13 Judy Woolf Features Junior Editor 11 Felicity Ginsburg Letter from Canada 14 Rochelle Miller Letter from Israel 18 Raymond Jayson The Cukier Report 22 David Cukier looks at his family’s military service The Obama Effect 24 Jeremy Newmark reviews the President’s relationship with Israel Book Review 26 Rabbi Brawer’s A Brief Guide to Judaism Mission Fulfilled 28 Stephen Newton’s trip to the Madras War Cemetery ¿Hablas Ladino ? 30 Neville Levy explains Ladino Au pair ! Oh no ! 32 Deborah Clayden interviews some au pairs Clapping in shul 34 Marc Shoffman on why we shouldn’t catch the clap An unexpected poet 35 Dina Brawer profiles the poet Rachel Luzatto Mopurgo ReflectionsonaweekinPoland 36 Natasha Rosenfeld visits Poland with her school Refusenik 38 Lionel Leventhal remembers Soviet Jewry Welcome to another edition of Pesach Link. As we sit around the Seder table singing songs, learning, discussing, and, ok, eating, I’ve always found that the youngest children ask a bewitching array of innocently simple questions as they try and comprehend the characters and events comprising the Pesach story. Indeed, part of my enjoyment of the Seder is watching the eagerness on the children’s faces, the delight they show when they answer a question correctly and the genuine interest they display in understanding the story of the exodus from Egypt. And the funny thing is that every year the story remains the same but the children’s questions change, they become a little more sophisticated and challenging (the questions, that is!) as the children grow older. So, just imagine the scene – the Seder table, family, friends and of course the children, faces flushed with excitement, all gathered around. That’s the easy part, a nice wholesome image, and one that we’re all proud and happy to associate with. Now imagine a classroom, a few children are sitting quietly, others are larking about, disrupting, annoying, play fighting and generally not paying attention. They have books, some open, some closed, there’s a “teacher” figure at the front, occasionally a helper, but many of the children are ignoring them. When the children leave the room, the “teacher” figure is occasionally verbally abused by a visiting parent. Can you imagine this unpleasant scene ? Some would say I’ve just described a typical classroom in a deprived, inner-city school with high truancy rates. Actually, it’s a scene from one of Elstree & Borehamwood United Synagogue’s Shabbat morning children’s services (children = all those up to and including Year 7). It’s not a palatable image and I’m sure you think I’m exaggerating but I’m not. Why do the volunteers who lead the children’s services continually have to experience disruption, disrespect and bad behaviour from the children? Now I’m not saying that a children’s service must be an extension of a school classroom with all its connotations of strict discipline. What I am saying is that the synagogue children’s services are an environment where religious education (whether taught in school or at home) is continued in a relaxed atmosphere of songs, some davenning and discussions followed by a Kiddush – all in a brief period of forty five minutes or so (for the younger kids). If a child goes to the synagogue on a Shabbat morning the intention Cont. on P. 5 LinkPesach 2009 3 weston kay Chartered Accountants NOT EVERY FIRM OF CHARTERED ACCOUNTANTS IS THE SAME! Let us help you to deal with the current demanding climate of compliance and at the same time, assist you in planning for your own, your family’s and your business’s future. For more information, contact us at: Tel: 020 7636 7493 Fax: 020 7636 8424 E-mail: accountants@westonkay.com Partners: 4 2009 2008 4 Link Link Pesach Rosh Hashanah Joseph Weston, Melvin Kay, Kiran Patel, Jill Springbett, Paul Rayner Photo courtesy of Executive Shots editor’s note David Onnie cont. Jewish Museum London 39 New home for the museum Journey to the Land of the 40 Exodus Howard Green follows in our forefathers’ steps Biggin’ it up in Berlin 44 Daniel Weston’s alternative Berlin tour Over the top 46 Daniel Levy visits the WW1 battlefields Viva Las Vegas (and L.A) 50 Lauren Krotosky lives the American dream The Jews of the Alamo 52 David Onnie on the Jews fighting at the Alamo Theatre Review 54 Oliver! Restaurant Review 56 Tutti Gusti in Edgware Taste test : olives 57 Something to tingle Marc Shoffman’s taste buds The Jews of Kos 58 Mark Massias looks at a true Greek tragedy The road to Rhodes 60 Leah Silverman island hops Contemplative Prayer 62 Rabbi Brawer on the meaning of prayer Act One 64 Lyricist Alexander Bermange on his compilation of songs My hobby 67 Benjamin Clayden displays his models The 21st Century Student 68 J-Soc President Emma Stone on campus issues BEST 69 Jodi Gothold on the new group Father Patrick Desbois 70 A priest’s journey to find the mass graves of eastern Europe Crunched 72 A survivor’s guide to redundancy Pesach:MakingNumbers 73 Count Daniel Skolnick finds a fifth son at the Seder is surely to learn, practise and enjoy a “religious” experience of some sort ? I mean we are Jewish aren’t we and aren’t the children in the synagogue for a purpose ? Or is it that the synagogue’s children’s services have become a crèche for some, the equivalent of a David Lloyd tennis club without the sports facilities ? Yes, yes, yes, of course children enjoy the social occasion of meeting up with their friends in the synagogue but they also see their friends at school and I bet their behaviour in the school classroom is better than at Croxdale Road. So, parents, instead of persuading yourselves that your little angel is chirping away merrily in a children’s service, come and check on him/her from time to time. Oh, and whilst you’re there, don’t verbally abuse the person taking the service, it’s not their behaviour which needs correcting. But look, it’s not all doom and gloom in our Community, far from it in fact – Link has a sparkling array of articles including contributions from Rabbi and Dina Brawer, Michael Freedland, composer and lyricist Alexander Bermange, Daniel Weston’s “alternative” trip to Berlin, Leah Silverman and Mark Massias’ respective Greek odysseys, Daniel Levy’s superb recounting of his trip to the battlefields of the First World War, and a review of Rabbi Brawer’s book by Oliver Ralph. Lauren Krotosky visits Vegas, Marc Shoffman analyses why we shouldn’t clap in shul, and the Link team evaluates and cogitates on its tasty meal at Tutti Gusti. If you like musicals read the review of Oliver!, dip into history with a look at the Jews who fought for Texan independence at the Alamo, and have a serious meander through Jeremy Newmark’s political comment on U.S President Barack Obama. There’s just about enough space here to mention Deborah Clayden’s revealing interview with various local au pairs, the Cukier Report, Torah thoughts from Daniel Skolnick, Howard Green’s Puzzle Corner and (topical for this time of the year !) his Nile trip, profiles and photos of all those (children through to adults) who were Eshet Chayal and Chatanim this year, together with extensive features on what the Community has been up to over the last few months. Read the table of contents for a full listing. Wishing you all a very happy Pesach on behalf of the Onnie family, Lisa, Jared and Taryn. David Onnie Editor Cont. on P. 7 Link Pesach 2009 5 6 Link Pesach 2009 Anyone for atheism ? 74 David Miller asks if atheism and Judaism are mutually exclusive A snipit for your seder 76 Anon The Kerem Schools 77 Howard Frankfort on the birth of Jewish schooling Right and Wrong 78 Amanda Pollock on whether it’s right to do a wrong Recipes 79 Denise Phillips Lost in New York 80 Hannah Minsky finds the way in New York Fun and Games 82 Quiz, word search, code breaker, spot the difference, maze Community watch 82 Chatanim and Eyshet Chayil 86 Youth 90 Twin Values – Benji and Jessica Rubens 92 Brownies 94 Rainbows 96 Scouts 96 The Southside 97 Gilah 98 Football 99 Barmitzvah twinning 100 Kisharon 100 HOD whisky tasting 101 Chesed 102 Kolot 102 Community Learning 103 Holocaust Memorial Workshop 104 Community Care 105 JACS 105 View from the office 106 Listings – every number you need 110 THE ADVERT INDEX Novelties Direct 2 Party novelties Weston Kay 4 Chartered accountants Parker Cavendish 6 Chartered Accountants Jason Millan 8 Catering A&A 13 Podiatrists Adrian Mullish 16 Dental Care All Aboard 17 Charity Donations Lander & Co 19 Chartered Surveyors Cedar House 27 Financial Services White House 43 Dental Dental Care New Israel Fund 49 Potters Bar Golf 51 Club Chai Cancer Care 53 Proactive 55 Medical Insurance Sovereign 61 Photography Photographer Neil Samuels 63 Catering Voyana 66 Travel Agent Photos by Gayle 76 Photographer Orli 76 Bakery English Garden 107 Gardening Kellmatt 107 Printers & Designers Rocks 108 Jewellery Executive Shots 109 Photographer HBFS 111 Financial Advisers Let’s Meat 112 Restaurant from the rabbi Naftali Brawer esach is one of the most observed Jewish festivals particularly here in Britain. Families that would not otherwise describe themselves as observant go out of their way to banish all forms of chametz from their homes. They transform their kitchens and purchase only strictly kosher for Pesach food at considerable expense. What is it about this particular festival that so captivates the Jewish conscience? Perhaps it is the fact that Pesach celebrates our emergence as a people. Regardless of one’s knowledge or level of Jewish observance we all feel part of a single people. Differences abound but Pesach is a time to highlight what we have in common. The idea of a single people links neatly to the theme of banishing chametz from our homes. Chametz by its very nature rises and so it symbolizes personal ego. It is important to have a healthy dose of self confidence; self absorption however, is detrimental to personal growth and developing relationships. Along with the act of banishing real chametz from our homes we must try to rid ourselves of excessive ego. It is through negating our own ego that we are able to make room for others in our lives and appreciate their value. As a people pesach is our time to reconnect with each other and to value the role each Jew plays as part of our people. The idea of making space for the other is central to the future success of our community. We are fortunate to be one of the largest communities in the country and with our size comes a certain vibrancy and diversity that other smaller communities do not have. But is precisely because of our size and diversity that we must learn to be flexible and make room for others. Practically our shul site, as it currently stands, is not large enough to contain all our many activities and programmes. It is understandable that P each specific interest group feels that its activities are important and should be given priority. As a leader I am delighted that so many of you are involved and passionate about your areas of community work. All I ask is that we each try to see the other’s perspective so that we cooperate instead of clashing. Please God in the fullness of time we will realize our ambition to redevelop the site. In the meantime though, let us all think a little less about ourselves and a little more about others. Together we will achieve great things. With warm personal regards and best wishes for a chag kasher ve-same’ach, Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer Magazine design by Erica Morgan Link Pesach 2009 7 8 Link Pesach 2009 office of the chief rabbi Sir Jonathan Sacks The very existence of the state of Israel after 2000 years of exile is as near to a miracle as any you will find in the sober pages of empirical history. Faith brought the Jewish people back to the land. Faith has sustained the people and state of Israel through some of the most agonising threats and dilemmas faced by any nation in the contemporary world. And faith will one day bring peace, whatever the setbacks and obstacles. Not by accident does the Seder service, at least as we observe it today, end with God's victory over the angel of death. So as we relive our people's history, we gain strength for the struggles ahead. For what Jews, Judaism and Israel represent is not a small thing. It is nothing less than the proposition that a nation can survive against all the odds by the power of its faith in freedom and the God of freedom, in life and the God of life, in ultimate peace and the God of peace. This year, as we lift our glasses for the four cups of wine, as we sing Dayenu and thank God for all the miracles of our survival, let us also have in our hearts a prayer for the people and state of Israel. May the angel of death be defeated by the God of life, and may Israel and its people find the peace for which they and we long. Why was it so hard? Why was the Jewish journey to the land of promise and freedom so fraught with obstacles, setbacks, diversions and delays? That is a question that must haunt us as we prepare, again, to relive our ancestors' journey from slavery on Pesach, the world's old- est ritual, the West's most powerful story. No sooner does Abraham arrive in the land than he is forced to leave because of famine. Isaac too faces difficulties. There is another famine, and there are quarrels about wells. Jacob dies in exile, as do his children. A new pharaoh, one who forgets how Joseph saved his nation from starvation, afflicts his people, turning what was once a refuge into a vast labour camp. Even when God has chosen Moses to lead the people to freedom there are further delays. Pharaoh increases the people's burdens. He defies God's request to let the people go. Plague after plague hits the Egyptians, but still Pharaoh refuses and hardens his heart. Even after he has finally given them permission to leave, days later he pursues after them with his chariots and army. Might it be that the difficult events of the past few months and years contain an answer? Israel has suffered much: first the years of the suicide bombings, then the Katyushas from Lebanon, then the missiles from Gaza and the agonising conflicts each has involved. Could it be that, at the very dawn of our history as a people, God was telling our ancestors and us that the road to freedom is never easy? That it involves much suffering along the way? That it needs faith and courage, memory and hope? Could that be why we tell the story every year and pass it on to our children, so that they will never forget that freedom must be fought for, and that whatever setbacks there are along the way, to be a Jew means never to lose hope? - 3 1 1 LinkPesach 2009 9 chairman’s report Anthony Arnold Members will by now have received their accounts for the renewal of their membership and will note that there is no increase over last year. We have struggled extremely hard to cut our expenses to enable us not to increase fees this year and indeed we have even absorbed the increase in the Funeral Expenses Scheme and the amount we pay over to the United Synagogue to achieve this. We do, however, ask for your cooperation by ensuring that you make your payment as quickly as you can and where possible, if you are a higher rate tax payer, you even consider topping up the fees payable to the extent that Gift Aided payments have given you a tax benefit. One of the ways that we can cut costs is to make more use of Email. Whilst we do have the Email addresses for many of our members there is still a large number for whom we do not have an address. I urge you all to ensure that we have your up-to-date Email address. If you are not getting the weekly link to the Newsletter then we do not have your correct address!! The Synagogue office does get very busy at certain times of the year, particularly in August and September prior to Rosh Hashanah. In the past we Anthony Arnold have employed temporary help to tide us over this busy period but with our tight budget it is unlikely that we will be able to do so this year. We are, therefore, looking for voluntary help and if you have office skills and time available, at any time of the year, we would appreciate hearing from you. As everyone who has been to the Shul site can testify we make very good use of our buildings. We have a large number of groups who meet regularly and we also need to accommodate other programmes which are organised throughout the year. In order to meet the Community’s needs in the best way possible we do occasionally have to move meetings around. We do try to give as much notice as possible and the flexibility of the organisers is very much appreciated on these occasions. In the longer term we are planning to see how we can redevelop our site but we have to take into account the difficult economic conditions that currently prevail and the need not to impose any additional financial burdens on our members. In the meantime we did take the opportunity to redecorate the Old Shul and adjoining hall with the cost being sponsored by interested families to whom we give our grateful thanks. Following last year’s success we again held Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur services at Yavneh College. Whilst we were not able to use their newly completed Synagogue because it was too small we are using it for the weekly Friday night minyan which we have launched. Thanks go 10 Link Pesach 2009 again to Gary Yantin, Dan Grose and Simon Berman who not only acted as local wardens but were also largely responsible for the whole organisation. The weekly Friday night minyan continues in Elstree at the home of Helena and Ken Freedman and our thanks goes to them for allowing us in, even when they are away on holiday. At our main site on Croxdale Road we again ran 3 complete services plus services for our youth and children. My thanks goes to all those who helped with the organisation and the running of all these services. Great progress has been made with the efforts to build the Borehamwood & Elstree eruv. The fund raising target has almost been reached and final details are now being negotiated with Hertsmere Borough Council and Hertfordshire County Council. I hope that by the time you read the next edition of this magazine the eruv will have been built and be in regular use. Given how late Succoth was this year we were relatively lucky with the weather. Apart from the traditional celebrations we also repeated the Simchat Bet Ha’Shoeva function where a large number of children enjoyed entertainment, hot dogs and candy floss. Succoth also saw the first function for the newly formed BEST Group with a Cheese & Wine Evening hosted by Rabbi Brawer in his Succah. This group of married and singles have formed a mainly social group but with some fund raising objectives and they will be working closely with our New Members team. Whilst on the subject of new members we revived our New Members Evening with a special event at the Shul attended by nearly 100 people. We do expect to make this a regular occurrence. Once again we ran our winter education programme but despite there being a choice of subjects for each evening the support from the community was very poor. Whilst we were obviously most disappointed with the outcome, we have listened to your feedback and we will look to find the format and the speakers which will appeal to our community and I do hope that you will give us your support. We held a very successful Chanukah event for our younger children with arts and crafts where they had the opportunity to make doughnuts and shape candles and listen to stories. The morning was well supported by some 200 children and they all seemed to enjoy themselves. By the time that you read this magazine we will have welcomed the Chief Rabbi and Lady Sachs to our community for a Shabbat. The programme we put together in conjunction with his office was designed so that as many members as possible would have the chance to meet our guests in an informal way and I hope that this objective was achieved. You will also have had the opportunity to hear from Henry Grunwald, President of the Board of Deputies, and learn of the important work that this organisation does which is funded by the voluntary contributions that Shul members make. For the first time this year we ran an event to help students learn about the Holocaust where we hosted in excess of 175 young people from 5 schools in Hertfordshire. There were two sessions each including a new film on Kristallnacht and a talk by a survivor and they were followed by small workshop groups. Northwood Synagogue had run the programme previously and assisted with the organisation of our day for which we thank them. Decorum continues to be a problem during Shabbat morning services particularly when the Shul is full for a bar or bat mitzvah. No-one likes the continual pauses to request quiet which in any event lengthens the service. Rabbi Brawer has tried giving short explanations for the different parts of the service in the hope that this will stimulate interest and reduce noise. However, with this in mind we have now started an explanatory service which is being held every other week. It has been planned by Rabbi Brawer and is being led by our members. It lasts for just one hour and is followed by a Kiddush. It is not a ‘beginners’ service and all members would find the discussions interesting. All the Honorary Officers and their families wish you and all your families a very happy and kosher Pesach. Anthony Arnold from the junior editor Felicity Ginsburg We are always trying to encourage people, young and old, to write for Link. We are therefore delighted that this edition contains contributions from various children and youth of the Community and are also thrilled to welcome Felicity Ginsburg as Junior Editor. AN AUTOBIOGRAPHICAL POEM Felicity Ginsburg Pretty tall, Short hair, Loves football, Plays lots, Very childish, Hates sister, Annoys brothers Wants dog, Quite kind, Helps out, Bites nails, Detests school, Enjoys writing, Talks rubbish, Adores reading, That’s me Felicity Ginsburg. I was taught how to write an autobiographical poem . Each line is only allowed two words. You cannot repeat any words except for your name. THE LISTENERS “Is there anybody there?” I heard a voice. A quiet, soft sort of voice. A stomping of hooves On the cold stony floor. A clattering of shoes Out in the courtyard. “Is there anybody there?” He said, this time a little louder. BANG on the door went his hand. Inside we stood quietly Whilst he stood out in the courtyard. This time, now very impatient he shouted, “Tell them I came, But no one answered, that I kept my word!” And with that he was off. Across the courtyard And out in the night Went the traveller. The Listeners is a poem that was written in 1912. We had to pretend we were a phantom inside the house. Then we had to write either a poem or a story about what we thought happened. THE RHYME SHOP In the Rhyme Shop we sell anything: Funny looks, Nasty crooks, Smelly cheese, Rotten peas, Singing owls, Dogs’ howls, Yellow mustard, Boiling custard, Sad clowns, Miniature towns, Novel books, Dirty cooks, Some DVDs, Nintendo Wiis Jack in a Box, Smelly socks, Best friends, Turning Bends. It all gets sold in the Rhyme Shop. THE DISASTER KA-BOOM! Everyone in Pompeii turned their heads towards the mountain. A load of molten lava poured down the sides of the mountain covering the small houses below. Ash poured down from the sky and Pompeii became full of shrieks and screams. Mothers hurried their children here and there. Pompeii was filled with panic. “Father we have got to leave!” “No!” said the impatient voice of Emperor Caecilius. “We are staying here to show we are not weak and feeble.” “But ,father we will get killed. It is just too dangerous.” “Tea is ready in the garden.” Sang the cheerful Empress. The Emperor ran outside whilst Quintus walked as slowly as he could. That night Quintus slept badly. He kept dreaming of being killed or dying of thirst or hunger. He dreamt about his father being killed and all sorts of other horrible happenings. The next morning he found out it was true. His father was going to die and the house was half buried. He made his way to the quarter where Felix the slave slept. He woke him up and told him the news. “We must get to safety,” was his reply. “I’ll carry the Emperor and you look after your mother .” A few minutes later, the family set out to find a safe place. They walked miles and miles. After about thirteen miles, the family could walk no more. Felix placed Caecilius under some great big rocks for shelter and Quintus helped his mother lie beside him. As Felix knelt down to say goodbye to his master he heard Caecilius say his last words, “ Felix, you are free, take my ring for Quintus.” As he fell back,Quintus embraced him.Felix took the ring and they went off leaving their glories behind them,and entering a life of sorrow. HOW TO SURVIVE A HOLIDAY WITH DAVID ONNIE! If you are thinking about going on a holiday with our editor David Onnie, you might want to consider this advice: Remember to bring:• a helmet with a flashlight as you will be doing a lot of trekking though tunnels • crocs or waterproof shoes as the tunnels will always be flooded • spare batteries as your video camera will run out after a day filming another one of David’s long lectures • a dentist as David will injure himself on a piece of chewy steak • a pencil and paper to do all the extra homework that David will set • a body board as David will always try to teach you how to surf • sleeping tablets as David will keep you up late chatting and then wake you up early for another trip • an empty tummy as David will always find room for another shwarma • a mobile phone charger as he always forgets to pack his. That’s all the bad things and now for the good: -he comes with Lisa, Jared and Taryn. -he’s David Onnie! Felicity Ginsburg LinkPesach 2009 11 wardens’ report David Newman & Ian Skolnick It would appear that David is destined not to complete an elected twelve month term of office uninterrupted! He is most grateful and appreciative of the good wishes, tefillot, cards, visits etcetera during his periods of hospitalisation and recuperation and extends his renewed thanks to all who have chauffeured him about .Hopefully this will no longer be necessary and he will be able to fully resume his duties in perfect health. Once again thanks has to be given to the stand in wardens who have most ably filled David's position in the box. It must seem to Ben and Paul that they never left office! We have been maintaining a comprehensive record of all aliyot on Shabbatot and Yomim Tovim (excepting Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur which are always separately considered because of the number of services in different locations) since the last AGM. The intention is to endeavour to ensure that we spread around the mitzvot to as many members as possible. There are, of course, a number of members who are chiyuvim (having halachic priorities) and for this reason it may appear that some people are "favoured". This having been said we apologise to those whom we have not as yet honoured with a mitzvah and apologise unreservedly to David Newman congregants we may have inadvertently offended. The community is, thankfully, growing and we are unable to know every individual; therefore do please make yourself known to us and, if possible, we will endeavour to remedy our omissions. Our shul is blessed with an inordinate number of s'machot each year and, where possible, we do try to give the families concerned a few mitzvot for their visiting guests. On this subject we would remind members who are expecting visitors to attend to inform them of a few ground rules, in particular to strictly respect the rights and access of our neighbours, especially in Croxdale Road. Similarly to Ian Skolnick remember that the services are religious occassions so that the highest level of decorum, especially refraining from speaking, should be maintained at all times. Children are always welcome in the shul but should, for some reason, the child become restless it would be most appreciated if he or she could be quickly taken outside in order to minimise any disruption to the main service. Of course these ground rules continue to apply to our members as well. .We are fortunate in having a choice of services - Limmud, Hashkama, youth, numerous children's services (for which adult adult assistance is often required), explanatory and off site Friday evening services. These are held at Yavneh College and Ascot Close, the latter for which our grateful thanks go as ever to Helena and Ken Freedman for their con- 12 LinkPesach 2009 tinuing hospitality. Thanks also go generally to the wardens and leaders of all of our various services throughout the year. One bone of contention - members of the Limmud minyan should please not come into the main service whilst it is in progress. Boxes have been provided for tallitot and books to be kept so there should be no need to enter the main shul either upon arrival or at the termination of their service. Likewise, other members should not use the Gilah hall as a shortcut thoroughfare. Over the High Holidays the officiants at the various services are all members. Indeed, we "export" people to other communities. This has led to criticism from some of the membership. We do listen of all comments that are made known to us and shall endeavour to take them on board for the future. The choir now sing Shema B'ni to all barmitzvah boys and, even if there may be absences especially in the holiday seasons, there should always be one chorister able to do a solo. Our thanks go to all the choral team. Whilst we have many b'nei mitzvot who recite a Haphtarah we would like to ensure that as many members as possible who are able are given a Maftir aliyah. Please let us know if you would be prepared to accept this mitzvah. Whilst there are certain requirements for both Balei Koreh (leining) and Tefillah (davening), we cannot possibly know the talents of all of our male membership. We try hard to ensure that we do not operate a closed shop of officiants so, if you are not already on our rotas and would like to be, it is up to you to make yourself known to us. The membership often seem to take for granted the shammas. We therefore wish to place on record our gratitude to David Miller. The shul services, especially on Shabbat and Yom Tov, do not just happen. We are forever grateful to the office staff who assist with paperwork preparation for the services (yahrzeit lists, announcements &c) and also, of course, our tireless caretaker Bernie who, together with his assistant Joe, ensure that the shul is regularly cleaned and opened for services and Kiddushim. The Ladies' Committee also should be acknowledged for their unstinting efforts in preparing and clearing up the weekly Kiddushim. One bug bear we have is the failure of congregants to return siddurim and chumashim at the end of services. For ladies it could not be simpler; all that has to be done is to replace them in the trays in front of their seats We are ever grateful to the Brownies and their Owl leaders for occasionally tidying the ladies' books and also for cleaning the Sifrei Torah silverware. Our thanks go to Michael Davis and Philip Belchak for clearing up the books that are not put away by our menfolk. We must again express our appreciation to Michael and Philip as our regular early morning openers for the weekday services. As wardens we try not to become complacent and are always open to suggestions and constructive criticism. We are ever grateful to the Rabbi for his support and, of course, to our fellow Honorary Officers for their encouragement and assistance. Finally please do remember that ultimately the quality of all of the services depends on you the members, whether you lein, daven or participate as a congregant; please let the forthcoming year see the standard expected of a community such as ours to be maintained David Newman and Ian Skolnick Wardens . David Newman and Ian Skolnick, Wardens vice chairman’s report Judy Woolf When a few of my closest friends (?) suggested a female vice-chair, I asked who in their right mind would take on such a seemingly thankless task? Well, eight months later, the challenge has been an interesting experience. I had no idea just how much was involved in the management of a shul of our size - thirteen hundred families, with potentially as many opinions! In addition, as a voluntary position, the combination with working full time has proved the greatest challenge. Aside from monthly Board and Honorary Officers meetings, communication with the Rabbi, office, Board members, portfolio holders and Bernie is constant. The ladies in the community have been especially supportive, since a great number of our friendships go back some 25 years and over that time, we have all seen the community grow whilst being an integral part of its development. There have been many changes over the past year, some more popular than others. It is still early days, people are suspicious and hesitant of change, and it will take time, but who would have expected a lady to give Judy Woolf shabbat announcements or make the address to the Chatan on Simchat Torah. Copious information in respect of activities within the community is available on the re-vamped website 24/7 and there is something for everyone. Hopefully, in the Rosh Hashanah edition there will be reports from the many new initiatives recently introduced. One of the difficulties in any large organisation is communication. Lots of discussions and comments about the facilities/ events/ organisation/ running of the shul are made both within and outside shul hours, between members who attend regularly and not so regularly, during kiddush, after kiddush on the walk home, etc but unless the Board members are aware of your comments, there is no way that we can investigate and instigate new initiatives and/or improve matters. The Board of Management are your elected voices, please use them by emailing either the HO's directly (email addresses now on the website) or the Board member holding specific portfolios (information on website). In these very difficult times, we are doing our best to both cut and avoid expenditure wherever possible, whilst still providing a service to the commu- nity - one of the best methods is to encourage volunteers in all aspects welfare, information distribution prior to yomtov, uniform group leaders, chesed etc - projects which involve time rather than financial commitment. BES still has so much potential, your involvement is crucial and much appreciated, so I appeal to you to come forward, and be an integral part of the continued growth and development of this flagship community. Wishing Rabbi and Dina, Rabbi and Miriam and all of the community a Pesach sameach ve kasher. 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(Something that’s not so easy in this current climate) I have written a synopsis of my week (Jan 5th-Jan 12th) to try and explain what life is like here and why the grass may be a slightly different shade of green rather than greener! A Monday Jan 5th. Arrived home from holiday at 1.00am this morning to thick snow and -10 degrees C. Kids went back to school today and I was on car safety duty, so after a few hours sleep off we went to school. We have to get ready 15 minutes earlier in the winter than in the summer as the kids need to wear full ski gear to school (ski jackets/snow pants/snow boots/mitts/scarves etc) They put it all on to get to the car, strip off inside the car as they complain they are hot, re-dress as we approach school and then strip off again once inside the school building (only to go through the same process each time they go out at play time) So, not only are they perhaps not learning as much academically as I feel they should be, but they are spending up to 45 minutes of school time getting dressed! Next it was time for a grocery shop. In the UK I was a devotee of Tesco internet delivery. Amazingly enough internet shopping has not yet reached Canada and I actually have to go the store. This is the complete bane of my life and I totally cannot understand why internet shopping is not done. Additionally there is no chip and pin system on credit cards so we are still signing for everything. Again just another example of how technology has not yet reached these parts. Once the shopping is done it’s back to school as I am running the Pizza lunches this year. A great fundraising initiative, basically the kids pre-order pizza slices (it’s $2 a slice) which get delivered to the school. We end up ordering over 55 pizzas from the pizza place and they obviously do a great deal on pizzas and the school keeps the profits… takes a bit of organization but it’s really fun and the kids love it. I now navigate the snow storm and get home only to return to school a couple of hours later to collect the kids and start the round of after school activities (it’s gymnastics tonight) and homework. Tuesday Jan 6th Drop the kids at school going through the usual dressing routine and then return home to attend a music and art class with Freddy. Music classes have been interesting as not one nursery rhyme has been the same as the UK and even those that are similar have words changed. So I always look a complete fool when I don’t know the words to the most basic nursery rhymes! Today the temperature is a positively warm 2 degrees so the fact Freddy wants to stay and play in the snow at the park after his classes is not so terrible except he is 14 LinkPesach 2009 “Amazingly internet shopping has not yet reached Canada” dressed appropriately in full ski gear and I am not- hence I am now wet and cold! After school the girls have skiing lessons. It is very strange to have a ski hill about 15 minutes from your house! (And it is just a hill; we don’t live in some mountainous range as someone once asked) So lucky me gets to stand for an hour in the snow watching them ski by floodlight. The Israel situation is currently worsening so a few friends have asked me today whether I think the school should have some form of security (currently there is none). I have always thought there should be security at the school but I figured it was my British background making me feel this way, but current Canadian chatter is that things are changing here and anti semitism is on the rise. Wednesday Jan 6th Huge snow storm overnight but thank g-d our drive has already been cleared by the lovely man we pay to do it for us! (Once the snow is 5cm high you are legally obliged to clear your driveway) Spencer had the bright idea that we should do it ourselves and I stupidly agreed, until the first snowfall mid December found Spencer out of town on business and me sweeping the drive at 6.30am for half an hour. (Calling it sweeping is the biggest misuse of a word ever, it is shovelling, digging and smashing the ice and the biggest cause of heart attacks in Canada in the winter months). Needless to say I quickly called the gardener (summer job is gardening and winter job snow shovelling!) and employed him. Take the kids to school and nursery, and continue with a fairly uneventful day. Except to say I am in my ‘healthy super mum stage’ and decide to spend the day cooking healthy food for the kids. When I say cook for the kids what I actually mean is cook for the waste disposal and garbage bin as inevitably 2 out of 3 children (and it’s different each time) say yuck, and refuse to eat it and opt for the banana option instead (the only alternative ever offered). Whilst I am typing this up an email has come through from the school saying how they are going to increase security and we can now expect a uniformed guard outside the premises at all times. Oh well, will feel just like being at home! Letter from Canada Rochelle Miller Thursday Jan 7th The usual morning routine passes uneventfully and I go to my Tehillim group. In the wake of the Mumbai tragedy and inspired by Jackie and Yael in Borehamwood I set up a Tehillim group. Currently we meet monthly but we get a really good turnout so it’s done in 25 minutes. Then I take Sabrina to the orthodontist. North Americans are very obsessed with their teeth. Since we have been here Sabrina has had a retainer fitted and I have had more dental treatment than you can imagine! My next task is to buy a new bath plug (somehow the other one has disappeared). Anyway you would think this would be a fairly mundane task however it has turned into an absolute nightmare! If I was in the UK I would go to Tesco’s they would probably have one and if not I would try Boots and I am sure between the two shops (both about 5 minutes from my house) I would have found what I am looking for. Here not so simple. First it takes me at least 5 minutes to explain to the assistant what I am looking for. I get shown an electrical plug and when I tell them I want the thing for inside the bath I get told about the dangers of electricity and water! I then explain I don’t want a plug but the thing that stops the water going down the drain of the bath. I phone a friend from the shop to ask her what it’s called. “A bath plug.” I say, she says” what’s that?” Now I just want to get on the first flight home. Eventually I establish that what I am looking for is a tub stopper!!! But the shop doesn’t sell them anyway and tells me to try the drug mart. I get back into the car and head for the drug mart (nothing is close!) no they don’t sell them either I need a specialist homeware shop. By now Freddy is creating, the girls need to be picked up from school, the snow is falling thick and fast so I guess its showers again tonight. The activity of choice after school today is dance classes so all children get deposited at the required activity, and the end of the day is in sight!!! “here texting is like alien technology” taking Ivrit lessons as I need to help the girls with their homework. As I think I have said before half the day at school is in Ivrit and whilst Jasmine started at the beginning with everyone else Sabrina had to catch up 2 years and this has really proved quite hard. Then it’s off to the supermarket (again the lack of internet shopping annoys me!) As everyone finishes early on a Friday we all go ice skating after school. Now if I was in England I’d probably text a few friends to see if anyone wanted to come, here texting is like alien technology, no-one knows how to text! Now I will forgive anyone over the age of 60 and under the age of 10 for not being able to text but texting (and facebook!) is my life. How can these people not know how to text? Anyway I phone a few friends and off we go to skate. Luckily we are out at friends for dinner tonight so we bundle up and walk round for dinner. Saturday Jan 9th Given that we rent and there was not a lot of choice when we arrived we do not live in the best area Jewish-wise. Imagine if where you want to be is Elstree B’wood but where you live is Shenley (before they had their own shul!). That is our situation. Chabad have started a shul in our area but it’s still a 30 minute walk and in the snow. And with moaning children it’s not ideal so Saturday tends to be a stay at home in our pyjamas type of day! That is one of the really big things I miss about England… going to shul seeing all your friends, perhaps a bit of davening, Shabbat lunch etc. It’s always on a Saturday that I feel most ‘out of it’ here. In the evening we have tickets with friends to see The Sound of Music at the theatre. What is amazing is that we can be at the theatre and parked (for $10) within 30 minutes and that’s not because we live downtown, far from it. It’s because there is no traffic, the roads are always clear and there is always somewhere to park. The key difference about theatre here is the audience! I think maybe in my life in the UK I have been to the theatre about 30 times and in that time I have Friday Jan 8th Today is bin day. This could be worth an article all itself. I’m all for recycling but here it is implemented with sadist glee by the bin men and more importantly the people who work at bin central. Obviously we have 4 different bins collected on alternating weeks, if you are lucky and haven’t accidently put the wrong thing in the wrong bin in which case it is not collected. Additionally you are allowed one black bin liner of garbage every other week and all additional bags must be paid for by putting a sticker on the bags. The stickers can be purchased, not from your local supermarket or online, no that would be far too easy, from your local (not local to me!) home hardware store. Incidentally the same place I had to go to purchase the bath plug! Anyway you can override the system by purchasing a bin that holds 4 bin liners at a time and pay a yearly charge on your water bill. However getting one of these bins has so far proved impossible. I have phoned bin central almost daily for 6 months only to be told they are out of stock, my request has been noted and one will be delivered to me within 6 weeks. Honestly this has been going on since May 08 and I still haven’t got one. Either it is my accent or they hate me or I am going to appear on candid camera, but running down the road in the snow at 7.00am yelling at the bin men to take your garbage is not a fun experience. Drop off at school, nursery etc. all goes without a hitch and then I am off to my Ivrit lesson. Since being here I have been seen one standing ovation. In Toronto I have been to 4 shows and seen 3 standing ovations (and one was for the pantomime!) Sunday Jan 10th Swimming lessons in the morning followed by a family outing sledging! What an absolute disaster that turned out to be! Sabrina got snow in her boots and moaned constantly she was cold. Freddy liked it the first time and then wanted to go home, Jasmine spent her time complaining her sledge didn’t work and she wanted Sabrina’s. So I basically stood there LinkPesach 2009 15 Letter from Canada Rochelle Miller shouting “do you think I want to be here in the freezing cold tobogganing down a hill, we’ve only come here for you etc etc etc.” So you see no different to London at all really! So in conclusion wherever you are in the world as a mum (or mom as my kids now spell it) of a young family, you run around like a lunatic taxi service most of the week, you spend a vast proportion of the time questioning your ability as a parent, your kids don’t eat healthily, you shop, you cook, you eat (chocolate-lots of it and nowhere near as good as Cadbury’s), you try and sort out household issues and you defend Israel. Are we coming home? I hope so. Am I desperate to leave Canada? No. Have I made some good friends here? Yes but I do miss my family and friends immensely. However I have learnt just to live each day as it comes and not look too much into the future, as who knows where it will take you. Spencer mentioned something about Singapore the other day. G-d help me!!!! Wishing you all a happy and kosher Pesach. Hope to see some of you for Pesach in Netanya and please g-d this is the last time you will reading my letter from Canada as we may be back by Rosh Hashanah.. Or maybe not! “Are we coming home? I hope so. Am I desperate to leave Canada? No.” Adrian Mullish Dental Care 107 Hempstead Road Watford WD17 3HE 01923-231861 www.smile4.me.uk 16 LinkPesach 2009 Wishing your community a Happy & Kosher Passover LinkPesach 2009 17 Letter from Jerusalem Raymond Jayson Who committed the War Crimes? I am writing this article very shortly after a somewhat tenuous ceasefire has ended our War with Hamas in the Gaza Strip. But even as I write news is coming through that the Palestinians have killed an Israeli Bedouin army tracker and seriously wounded another officer thereby seriously threatening the already fragile ceasefire and provoking the inevitable Israeli response with an attack on the tunnels in the area known as the Philadelphi corridor, through which Hamas are smuggling arms into Gaza, some of them very sophisticated and lethal. During this war we have seen the disturbing use of double standards against us. Everyone has agreed that Israel exercised overwhelming restraint in not forcefully responding to the almost 6,000 Kassam and other more dangerous rockets and almost 4,500 mortars which were fired at our civilian population over a period of more than eight years. As a result 1 million civilian Israeli citizens, many of them children, were forced to live in shelters and caused many schools to close from time to time. It was clearly unacceptable and had to be stopped. Maybe if we had responded in force much earlier Hamas would have got the message and toned down its actions. Perhaps then the War would not have broken out. However while we have seen widespread acknowledgement of Israeli’s “right to defend itself”, this right was effectively neutralized by many in the media and by so-called Human Rights Organizations attacking Israel for using disproportionate force and committing war crimes. These “knee jerk” reactions against the Jewish state are not new, but they do wrongly twist the language and intentions of the Geneva Conventions and laws of war. Many of those who accuse Israeli actions have a long and predictable history of demonizing Israel but are remarkably quiet about other conflicts where both the actions and casualties are very, very much greater than even what they claim we have done. These organizations have been unbelievably quiet about Russia’s violent destruction of Chechnia or its recent attack on Georgia. What about the conflicts and Genocide in Darfur, Rwanda and Nigeria to name but a few? What about NATO’s obliteration of Serbia, a country which was almost bombed back into the Stone Age and with whom they weren’t even at war! They have also consistently exaggerated Arab casualties – remember the battle of Jenin in 2002 when we were accused of a civilian massacre, but which later turned out to be 52 dead of whom 45 were Palestinian fighters. The credibility and impartiality of the media and Human Rights Organizations is severely open to question. The terrible consequences of this are that real human rights violations and disasters are frequently ignored and not pursued. In the case of the current war, Article 51 of the UN Charter entitles Israel to take action in self defence against the violence perpetrated against her, such as the many rocket attacks from Hamas, provided Israel acts out of necessity and proportionately. Despite what has been reported “proportionately” is not a scoresheet comparing the number of deaths. It is permitted to hit back very hard and even to overwhelmingly win! According to the Geneva Conventions and laws of war proportionality means using such force as is necessary to achieve a military advantage and to disarm any threat that is being faced, while trying to minimize civilian casualties as best it can. 18 LinkPesach 2009 “Maybe if we had responded in force much earlier Hamas would have got the message and toned down its actions.” In WWII German towns were bombed to smithereens but no one suggests that British and American aircrews violated the rules of war. Hamas justifies its terror and rocket attacks on Israel as part of its political objective which is the destruction of Israel. Unfortunately for them this is not recognized as a permitted action. We also need to remember that Israeli civilian casualties were so much less than Arab casualties because Israel built shelters for its population and instructed them to use them and the Israeli population dutifully followed these instructions. Instead of doing this, Hamas built bunkers for its leaders and seemed to have no concern for the safety of its population, trying to use civilian casualties as part of their propaganda war. Indeed we now know that much of the Hamas leadership did not fight with their people but took refuge and established their headquarters in their bunkers under Shiva Hospital in Gaza, as they knew that we would not attack them there. I am sure that many of you have now seen the videos and aerial photographs showing how Hamas turned entire civilian neighbourhoods, including houses, mosques, schools, UN facilities and even hospitals into military compounds from which it waged war against Israel and the IDF. Hamas fired from in and around these places, stored weapons and ammunition there and placed booby traps in houses and other buildings so that much of the damage resulted from “secondary explosions” from such weapons. Even worse are the videos showing Hamas fighters grabbing protesting children and pulling them along to be human shields. (I suppose this is really a tribute to the Jewish soldiers, as the Arabs know we won’t fire in such circumstances!) Professor Irwin Cotler, an ex-Minister of Justice of Canada and one of the world’s leading and highly respected human rights lawyers has pointed out that firing from a civilian area turns that area into a permitted military target and is a war crime since it endangers the civilian population there. He has made it clear that the intention is what is important. This means that it is a war crime when Hamas intentionally fires at a civilian area (which it constantly does). When Israel responds against a military target and unintentionally causes civilian casualties that is very distressing but it is not a war crime. In fact Israel always tries to minimize such “collateral” civilian casualties and has often refrained from attacking such targets even when the laws of war permit her to do so, thereby frequently putting our own soldiers at risk. Indeed Professor Cotler states quite clearly that when Hamas fires from a civilian area (thereby endangering its own civilians because of the inevitable and permitted response) into an Israeli civilian area, Hamas are actually committing a double war crime. As the dust clears and the actual numbers are becoming better known, and it is clear that (once again) the true number of civilian casualties has been exaggerated. Determining the actual number of civilians killed has been made very difficult because many Hamas fighters took off their uniforms at a very early stage in the war, merged into the civilian population and fought from there (itself another war crime because of the danger created for the non-fighters). As I write it seems that about 1,150 people died of whom about 700 were Hamas fighters, 250 civilians and the identification of the remaining 200 is not yet clear although most of these are men in their twenties. This is really a tribute to the accuracy of Israeli pin-point fire. Letter from Jerusalem Raymond Jayson It is always terrible to see on the TV or in the newspapers dead and horribly wounded civilians especially children and some of the pictures we have seen are truly harrowing. However it is now clear that the responsibility for this awful situation lies not with Israel, which has consistently tried to minimize such casualties, but with Hamas which has intentionally turned civilian areas into military areas and has therefore exposed it’s own civilians to danger. Chag Pesach Kasher ve'Sameach “...firing from a civilian area turns that area into a permitted military target...” Raymond Jayson, lived in Elstree with his family for eighteen years during which time he served for sixteen years on the Synagogue Board of Management including seven years as its Chairman. A Terrorist of Palestine A Soldier of Israel Greetings from Lander & Co LANDER & COMPANY Chartered Surveyors Telephone: 01923 606169 Mobile: 07860 319452 E-mail: surveys@landerco.com Gregory Lander F.R.I.C.S. LinkPesach 2009 19 Remembering his own family’s military experience David Cukier looks at the impact of serving in the army. The Cukier Report In an article I wrote for the September 2006 Link magazine I described a ‘personal journey’ back to my father’s birthplace, Warsaw, my experiences in visiting the Ghetto area, and the story of his unlikely escape from Warsaw. Following his ensuing orphaned survival in the Soviet Union and Eli Cukier Small figure at top ( smiling ) in Russian Army at Krinica Poland 1945 Eli Cukier (bottom right, with cigarette in his mouth) in Sarafand/Zrifin Army base Israel 1948 Eli Cukier in in Sarafand/Zrifin Israel 1949 Eli Cukier on the Home Front in Israel 1948 22 LinkPesach LinkRosh Hashanah 2009 2009 Esti Cukier in Kibbutz Hasolelim / Kibbutz Mayan Baruch in 1982 consequent enlistment in the Red Army below the minimum required age, he was then sent for officer training to the far east of the Soviet Union only to return and be part of the liberation of Lodz and Warsaw. Recently I looked again at some old photos boxed away in storage and came across some of my father in the Israeli army during and after the war of independence (see below). The recent military events in Gaza, and attendance last November at the annual Borehamwood Remembrance Sunday service at the town cenotaph, together with many children and adults from the EBOR community, AJEX, cubs scouts and brownies/guides, started me thinking again about military service and the impact and experience of serving in the army. Recently, I also went to see the film ‘Defiance’ which portrays the incredible and unbelievably brave story and events surrounding the Bielski brothers and their troupe of partisans (comprising about 1200 escapees) who fought the Nazis and survived by hiding out in forests of eastern Poland/ Belarus during the war. These events have brought home to me once again, if one needed reminding, of the struggle of the Jewish people and more especially today of Israel for its own survival and the right to live in freedom and peacefully. It also reminds me of some of my own family’s connections to military service and soldiering, and the very heavy burden that soldiers and Proudly wearing the yellow star footbal kit (with cap) in the displaced persons camp in Bad Reichenhall in Bavaria Gernmany 1946, (as the Goal keeper in the centre of picture) Parade at the Hashomer Hatzair Camp Peterswald 1946 their families face, either by those who have fought and survived, or been lost in battle, or who even to this day have been, or are being held, captive. Picking through these recently re-discovered photos of my own, and my wife’s family’s connections to the military, I was reminded of my own father ‘s service as a soldier in the Soviet Red army and his ultimate participation in the liberation of Warsaw, his birth place, and where his family perished. I also recalled my grandfather who survived the war having served in the French army which had unsuccessfully defended the Franco- German border where he was stationed at the start of the war. My father- in- law had enjoyed distinguished service in Portsmouth, as part of the British Royal Engineers in Normandy, and in post war reconstruction work in Germany. Likewise, but not least, my own wife Esti served in the Israel Defence Forces (IDF) for just over two years during the Lebanon conflict in 1982. Clearly many in the community have had similar personal experiences of war and have served in the armed forces as loyal British/foreign citizens and Jewish patriots all around the world, each with a different tale to tell. My own father’s story illustrated in the accompanying pictures shows him located in various areas between 1944 and 1948 in the Soviet Russian Red Army and his journey through the European displaced persons camps after the cessation of hostilities. After the war he joined Hashomer Hatzair in Poland (a Socialist - Zionist Kibbutz centred movement which played a leading role in the Eli Cukier Camp A.KM in Israel 1948 Warsaw Ghetto uprising), transited through the displaced persons camps in Bad Reichenhall, Lansberg, in Bavaria, Germany, and finally ended up via Cyprus in Israel to fight in the War of Independence in the Palmach (strike force) as part of the Haganah (Defence). The accompanying photos show him pictured in Sarafand (Tzrifin ) a big army base in central Israel, east of Rishon Le Zion. Other pictures show places on his journey from Poland to Israel between 1944 and 1948. Also pictured in one of the more recent shots is a relaxed pose of my wife Esti who in some way followed in my fathers footsteps, and shows her in her army uniform as part of a Nachal unit ( a Kibbutz based infantry branch) 34 years later. The recent 60th year Israeli independence ceremonies and remembrance memorial events are always moving tributes to the sacrifices made by individual soldiers and their families, and remind us of the significant military, rather than civilian, contribution which Jews have always made on behalf of their birth and adopted countries, and also today as Jews fighting for the right to live in peace, freedom, and justice in Israel. Jews in the Diaspora have always as loyal citizens played a very proud and distinguished role in military conflicts throughout the ages, and the Jewish Military Museum is a good starting point to discover more about this. The museum, in Hendon, offers visitors a way of gaining a personal insight in to the history of more recent Jewish soldiering and the opportunity to learn about the proud military service history which Jews have played throughout the ages and around the world. Indeed, notwithstanding the various battles fought and which we read about in the Tanuch, Jews can rightly claim a proud military history throughout the ages. These days, the admiration, esteem, and respect given to soldiering and military personnel is, in some quarters, not as unequivocal as it used to be. Indeed in the UK recently, British servicemen from RAF Wittering near Peterborough were banned from wearing uniform to avoid any hostile reaction from some members of the surrounding local population. Today it seems that support for a soldier’s national service cannot be taken for granted whether it is in Iraq, Afghanistan, Gaza, or Lebanon. In some quarters there is some ambivalence to supporting our soldiers in combat. Equally or more regrettably, IDF commanders and soldiers now face the prospect of arrest and possible prosecution in potential war crimes trials in Spain and UK. This may lead one to think that military service is increasingly misunderstood by the younger generation and the public at large, and that education through establishments like the Jewish Military Museum and the Imperial War Museum, and all the very fine educational museums throughout Israel, are not only a worthwhile, but an essential part of education and upbringing which children should encounter, and with which adults should be re-acquainted. Judaism unambiguously preaches peace as it highest principle, seeking the peace, both personally, of the city, and nationally. However, Judaism also recognises the legitimate use of self defence against aggressor individuals and countries. Fighting in self defence is a moral imperative whilst recognising that innocent civilians must not be targeted but be allowed the means to escape the battle zone. Judaism even goes so far as to rule that trees must be spared in battle. A very interesting recent article by Daniel Yates, a British intelligence officer who served in Afghanistan, and published in the ‘Spectator’ illustrates the difficulties faced by the IDF in their recent Gaza operation ‘Cast Lead’ (http://www.spectator.co.uk/coffeehouse/3286561/a-british-soldiers-view-of-operation-cast-lead.thtml ). Clearly a better understanding of the difficulties faced by the military and individual soldiers is called for. Let us hope that future generations will not have to serve as soldiers, and that Israel will achieve a peaceful future, as will the UK, spared from the threat of terrorism. David Cukier Eli Cukier in Cyprus 1947 LinkPesach 2009 23 Chief Executive of the Jewish Leadership Council, Jeremy Newmark, analyses Barack Obama’s intentions towards Israel The Obama Effect The annual policy convention of the American Israel Public Affairs Committee (AIPAC) is attended by over seven thousand of Israel’s most ardent political supporters, both Republican and Democrat, from across the pro-Israel community in the USA. This annual Jeremy Newmark 24 LinkPesach LinkRosh Hashanah 2009 2009 grouping of political high-flyers rarely portrays anything other than unified sense of purpose and confidence when they come together to celebrate their achievements and plan for the year ahead. As Chief Executive of the Jewish Leadership I have been privileged to attend a number of these conventions which is why I was particularly surprised to detect a slightly different tone at this year’s event – held days before Senator Barak Obama formally won the Democratic nomination as their candidate in the 44th Presidential election. At this point in the process it was already clear that the Hilary Clinton campaign was effectively over, and that the AIPAC convention would become the venue for one of the most significant speeches in the Presidential campaign. The fact that the Republican Nominee John McCain had spoken to the delegates the night before added to the sense of occasion. The morning of the Obama speech delegates were handed a letter, which in the politest possible way asked them to show respect for all external speakers and immediately before the big speech AIPAC officials repeated this request – it was clear that AIPAC were worried that Barak Obama would not receive a positive reception from the assembled representatives. I found this bizarre – surely the crème de la crème of American political activists would realise the importance of treating a potential President in-waiting with the respect that he deserved. Speaking to many of the participants it became clear that the nervousness of AIPAC officials was rooted in a kind of collective schizophrenia within organised American Jewry about the Obama candidacy. This scenario is rooted in a dilemma that Rabbi Brawer alluded to in a sermon earlier this year – should Jews support political candidates who display a firm track record and positive intentions on issues of concern to the Jewish community (support for Israel, opposition to antisemitism etc.) or should Jewish people support election candidates who personify and promote Jewish moral social and ethical values, even if their position on matters such as the Middle East is less solid that one might wish. This summed up the debate within American Jewry around the Obama candidacy – there is no doubt that his outlook on social policy, the economy and related matters chimed with the default position of large sections of American Jewry. Additionally, the symbolism of supporting a candidate whose election would mark a turning point in the long, painful saga of American racial conflict and reconciliation was hugely appealing to those Jewish voters who were keen to focus on the moral and social attributes of the candidates. However on the meaty policy issues such as strategy on Iran he was perceived to be less supportive than both Hilary Clinton and John McCain. He was dogged in the early months of his campaign by rumours that he was secretly a Muslim (prompting the American Jewish Committee to organize a nonpartisan effort to set the record straight), then questioned about his ties to a long-time pastor whose liberation theology sounded themes critical of Israel and the United States. As it happened, despite the initial nervousness Obama’s AIPAC speech was a huge success, he delivered solid commitments on Iran, the Middle East Peace Process and the role of Israel in the region and received a warm standing ovation from the entire audience. According to the exit polls, Jewish voters overwhelmingly chose Obama over Senator John McCain, and actually played a significant role in the outcomes in key states. The initial polling showed 78 percent of Jewish voters supporting Obama, and 21 percent McCain. Substantial portions of the Obama margins in Florida, Ohio, Indiana, North Carolina and Pennsylvania, all battleground states, can be attributed to Jewish votes. Florida, however, which George W. Bush won by fewer than 2,000 votes in 2000, and by more than 400,000 in 2004, flipped this year to the Democratic candidate – by a little more than 200,000 votes; with roughly half a million Jewish voters in Florida, Obama’s advantage among Jews was clearly a factor in his winning the state’s 27 electoral votes. Because of the issues outlined earlier, Obama’s strength among Jewish voters wasn’t obvious throughout the long campaign. It climbed after he wrapped up the nomination last spring and grew again after, the late-summer Democratic Party convention; a survey taken in mid-September had him at 57 percent among Jewish respondents, to 30 percent for McCain and 13 percent undecided. By the following month, the gap had widened – with 74 percent favoring Obama and 22 percent McCain. In the end, according to exit polls, the Illinois Senator received support from Jewish voters at levels similar to those recorded by recent history’s most popular candidates within the Jewish community, comparable with the figure of Bill Clinton in 1992 (80 percent), and Al Gore in 2000 (79), although well short of the number achieved by Franklin Roosevelt and Lyndon Johnson which some put at over 90 percent. (It should be noted that Jews do not automatically support Democrats – and, when they do, not always by a wide margin; Jimmy Carter, in his failed bid for re-election in 1980, won the backing of 45 percent of Jewish voters, to 39 percent for Ronald Reagan.) Nevertheless, as the official transition period is now well under way, the debate as to whether or not President-elect Obama is “good for the Jews” is one that continues to grip American Jewry. So, what are the early indications? There are a number of different indicators, but here we will look at two of a few of those identified as the most significant by analysts at the major American Jewish organisations concerned with both American domestic and foreign policy. Early analysis of what the Obama Presidency means in terms of U.S. foreign policy in the Middle East, must begin with the recognition that in the year since the Annapolis Conference, Israeli-Palestinian negotiations and security cooperation have shown promise, the realities of Islamist rejectionism and violence have prevented any serious progress. Confirmation of Hilary Clinton as Secretary of State is viewed as a tremendously popular move by American Jewish leaders, but the real focus and attention is on Obama himself. As he reminded the AIPAC convention, Obama’s Senate record and his many statements on Middle East policy throughout the campaign evidence a sympathy and familiarity with Israel’s security needs. Little, if any of this body of material indicates a radically different approach to that taken during the Bush and Clinton years. This is unsurprising given the bipartisan mainstream of American political opinion on Israel. Differences are nuanced. Congress is now likely to have an increased influence. The extent to which the Israeli/Palestinian track will be linked to progress on Iraq and Afghanistan, the war against Al Qaeda and its enablers, and combating the menace of an Iran, racing toward nuclear-weapons capability, (and committed to Israel’s destruction) all remains to be seen. On the Iran question, it is unlikely that direct talks with Ahmadinejad will be anywhere near the top of Obama’s to-do list. It is far more likely that he will begin to deliver on his election pledge of direct diplomatic engagement with Iran via discreet and offradar exploratory contacts will be made with those close to the real decision maker in that regime, Ayatollah Khamenei. This will certainly overlap with the interests of the (at the time of writing) soon to be elected Israeli Government which (whoever heads it) will be keen to avoid public disagreement with the US on this issue and will want to have serious input into the agenda for any such talks. On the domestic front President-elect Obama seems to echo many of the policy positions of organised American Jewry on the often controversial issue of the separation of church and state. Unlike McCain he opposed vouchers that would allow public funds to be used to pay for tuition at private and religious schools. Nevertheless, the President-elect has evidenced comfort with religious voices in the public square – and (in a manner totally alien to the conventions of politics in the UK) is very comfortable to root his major speeches and discourse overtly in religious principles and language. For example, in mid-2007, Obama spoke in positive terms of the central role that religious faith can play in politics. He highlighted the moral element in, fighting poverty or expanding access to health insurance. “Doing the Lord’s work is a thread that runs through our politics since the very beginning,” he said, “and it puts the lie to the notion that separation of church and state in America means somehow that faith should have no role in public life.” All of this is a far cry from Alastair Campbell’s famous remark to Tony Blair that “we don’t do God”. Obama has also supported the idea partnership between government and faith-based social provision. He has said that he will work to enable faith-based groups, secular nonprofits and government to work together in this area. (This mirrors similar indications recently given by our own Communities Secretary, Hazel Blears). A week is a long time in politics, and some months will pass between this article being written and published. During this period President-elect Obama will be inaugurated into office, general elections will take place in Israel and a new government may have been formed. Presidential elections will be looming in Iran and it is possible that some progress will be made on the Israel-Syrian track following the recent Middle East visit of Foreign Secretary David Milliband. However all of these events pan out there is no doubt that American Jewry will continue to debate the extent to which their new President Jeremy Newmark is Chief Executive of the Jewish Leadership Council and a member of Elstree and Borehamwood Synagogue. This article is written in a personal capacity and does not reflect the views or opinion of the Jewish Leadership Council LinkPesach 2009 25 book review Oliver Ralph A Brief Guide to Judaism By Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer. Rabbi Brawer is clearly a man who likes a challenge. First he decides to represent the Chief Rabbi in the fraught area of Jewish-Muslim relations. Then he takes over at one of the UK’s largest and fastest growing communities (replacing an incumbent who had held the position for ** years.) For his next trick Rabbi Brawer has attempted to condense Judaism, its theology, practice and 5000 years of history into a 250 page paperback book. So how, then, does the book stack up as an introduction to Judaism? Would it leave the novice reader with a good grounding in what is an ancient and wide ranging culture? And if it does such a good job for the novice, would it have anything to offer the active shul-goer, who is already likely to be well versed in the basics? Rabbi Brawer attempts to please the two groups. He starts, not unreasonably, with God. He explains the theology that lies at the core of Judaism, exploring God’s nature and his relationship with man in general and with Jews in particular. He also examines the Torah, Mitzvot and the Land of Israel. It is absorbing reading, addressing subject matter which is often glossed over in formal Jewish school education. Here we have a taster of the debates that have raged between Jewish sages throughout history, a flavour of the context in which Judaism exists. It’s a logical first step, which is clearly written and easy to read. And yet it is a challenging start to the book. Those already familiar with Judaism will find it a good way in. But the uninitiated might stumble at the first hurdle. Part two deals with Jewish history, starting with Abraham and going all the way through to the current state of the Jewish diaspora, 3800 years and 88 pages later. It is, unsurprisingly, a breathless journey. I went to a Jewish school and attended (what seemed like) endless Jewish history lessons, so much of the material was familiar to me. This was a mixture of things I knew, things I used to know but had forgotten, and things that I never knew. Rabbi Brawer is a good storyteller, and he excels at bringing history to life. He takes the reader through the Biblical period and the two temples, followed by the start of the exile and the establishment of the diaspora, and the dispersal of the Jewish people around the world. He pauses along the way to explain the development of various theological strands in Judaism, from Hillel and Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakai to Hasidism and the Mitnagdim in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries. Squeezing so much material into such a short space is never going to be an easy task, and Rabbi Brawer devotes more attention to some topics than to others. Hasidism, for example, is discussed in much detail over fourteen pages. But Zionism and the Holocaust get just two pages each. While Hasidism has no doubt been a major influence on the development of Judaism, does it really out- 26 LinkPesach 2009 weigh Zionism and the Holocaust to such an extent? The third section deals with Jewish practice – the Jewish day, year and life. Rabbi Brawer runs through the daily prayers, the Shabbat routine, the festivals and significant events such as births, bar mitzvahs, weddings and the rituals surrounding death and mourning. Here the regular (or even not so regular) shul attendee will be on familiar ground while the newcomer to Judaism will find a handy introduction to the life of a Jew. Thankfully, this is not simply a dry run through of the laws surrounding various occasions. Rabbi Brawer illustrates the festivals with traditional stories and also more personal tales (such as the occasion when Shabbat guests of his were shocked when Dina served them gazpacho rather than chicken soup as a starter). For me, the most interesting part of the book was the Epilogue: Judaism in the 21st Century. Here, Rabbi Brawer sets out his views on the current state, and the future, of Judaism. The Jewish community, he argues, is in flux. Modern Jews, rather than simply putting themselves into boxes marked “orthodox”, “reform” or “conservative”, are now discerning shoppers, choosing which parts of which ideology they wish to identify with. While the community still has an active and committed core, life beyond that core is becoming ever more complex as Jews pick and choose their style of Judaism. “The post-denominational Jew thinks about his Judaism,” he argues. “He does not just take it for granted.” He also notes changing attitudes towards the rabbinate and towards education in general. While Jewish learning is flourishing through growing numbers of yeshivot and the growth of the internet, he argues that the authority of the traditional Rabbi as the centre of knowledge is diminishing. Rabbi Brawer’s conclusion returns to the start of the book and to the heart of Judaism. For all of the debate surrounding Zionism, Israel, orthodoxy, reform, the rabbis, the internet, intermarriage and anything else that occupies our minds today, the central theme of Judaism remains unchanged. “It is our duty to demonstrate through our own behaviour,” Rabbi Brawer concludes “how it is possible for man to create out of this lowly world a dwelling place for God.” Oliver Ralph LinkPesach 2009 27 Visiting Sidney’s grave - Madras War Cemetery Stephen Newton makes an emotional visit to his uncle’s war grave in Madras Mission Fulfilled I was named Shlomo after my uncle whose given name was Sidney. My first name was chosen so that it would begin with the same letter. Sidney was my father’s younger brother, there being a middle sister to complete the siblings. I have always felt a close kinship to Sidney, yet I never met him, never got to know him and was unable to speak to him about his experiences – my uncle Sidney died aged just 23 whilst in the service of his country. Sidney was born in 1922 and when war broke out in September 1939 he was 17. Shortly after his 18th birthday he received his call-up papers, he joined the Royal Air Force Volunteer Reserve (RAFVR) and trained as a pilot. As far as I can gather he was neither a fighter pilot nor a member of a bomber crew, 28 LinkPesach 2009 After spending a week touring northern India, we flew from Delhi to Chennai early on Sunday morning and after checking in at out hotel we set about finding a taxi driver who knew where the cemetery was. Luckily for us the hotel had a travel desk which operated its own fleet of drivers and they soon worked out where we needed to get to. After a twenty minute journey we saw the cemetery and proceeded to locate the side entrance which the manager had indicated in his email would be open. On entering the cemetery we instantly saw Sidney’s grave and I was immediately overcome with the pent-up emotion of the occasion. After reciting the memorial prayer and kaddish I lit a Yahtzeit candle and we placed the traditional stones on the headstone. The cemetery is mixed in the sense that both Jewish and non-Jewish servicemen are buried there each with a headstone inscribed “I was immediately overcome with the pent-up emotion of the occasion.” Flight Sergeant Sidney Newton 1922 - 1945 but flew reconnaissance missions and delivered planes to where they were needed. During his time in the RAFVR he served in Southern Rhodesia (now part of Zimbabwe), Egypt, Israel (then the British Mandate Palestine) and India. Serving in Israel had an immediate impact on Sidney, he wrote home – “Have you ever walked into a town, village, or even a shop or street, and felt that this is where I belong. This is where I feel most at home? Well, that was the very first feeling not only when I entered Tel Aviv, but Palestine itself. I can’t explain it. The first time on the train as soon as we crossed the border, even though it was at night. I felt it when I flew to Palestine. I just don’t know how to say it, but there it was. I felt happy ..... it was like a heavy weight off my shoulders. The thing that amazes me is I was never a Zionist, yet I felt at home. My ambition is to return to Palestine after the war and live there and if I could get the whole family to do likewise, it would be simply terrific. But if I have to go alone, go I will. They say that seeing is believing – well, I’ve seen and I believe”. Alas Sidney was unable to fulfil his dream of settling in Israel. On July 27th 1945, just two months after VE Day and three weeks before VJ Day, whilst flying solo he was taken ill and passed out at the controls. His plane crashed in the area that was known at that time as the Madras Presidency, now the Indian state of Tamil Nadu. As was the usual practice during wartime, military servicemen were buried wherever convenient and most practical. Sidney was buried with full mili- tary honours in a local cemetery at a place called Vizagapatam, the service being conducted by a Rabbi Busill. A short while after the war ended the Imperial (later to become the Commonwealth) War Graves Commission (CWGC) established a purpose built military cemetery for those who had fallen during the conflict and who were buried across the region. Sidney was finally laid to rest in the Madras War Cemetery in the city now known by its modern name of Chennai. Over the years no member of my family has managed to make the journey to visit Sidney’s grave and this was something that I had wanted to rectify for some time. The opportunity to visit the Madras War Cemetery arose out of a discussion with my wife Vivien about how we should celebrate our thirtieth wedding anniversary. We eventually decided that we would go to India during the summer and would arrange the itinerary around visiting Sidney. I knew, thanks to the CWGC’s website, exactly where in Chennai the cemetery was located and from their database and plan of the cemetery I was even able to determine the precise location of Sidney’s grave. Before leaving for India I contacted the CWGC to ensure that the cemetery would be open to us on for our intended visit and they put me in touch via email with the cemetery manager, who assured me that we would be able to visit as planned. I chose to visit Sidney on Sunday 10th August 2008, corresponding to 9th Av (Tisha B'Av) as this is my father’s Yahtzeit. All other arrangements for this trip of a lifetime were designed to get us to Chennai on this day. with the badge of the armed service which they served with, their name, rank and serial number, a personal message from family and friends and in Sidney’s case, a Magen Dovid. We were approached by the manager and his staff who are employed to maintain the cemetery and by the look of it they do a splendid job. They asked if we would like to visit other Jewish graves, which we did. We took photos of all of the graves with view to trying to trace the families once we returned home, to let them know that their loved ones had been visited. After an hour or so we made our way back to the waiting car, signing the visitor’s book on the way out and thanked the staff again for all their hard work in looking after the cemetery. Tisha B’Av is always an poignant day for Jews everywhere, for me it has an additional significance because of my father’s Yahtzeit, but this year was something so special in that the emotions I felt that day will be with me forever. Stephen Newton LinkPesach 2009 29 Neville Levy explains what Ladino is and tests your proverbial knowledge. ¿Hablas Ladino? I wrote a piece about my trip to Istanbul in the last edition of Link, and included in the article a few words of Ladino (Judeo-Spanish). Since writing the article, I have been asked about the language and thought it would be interesting to explain a little about Ladino. I have also a set out a variety of Ladino proverbs (together with their English translation). History Ladino is perhaps 60%-70% medieval Spanish with the incorporation of vocabulary, grammar and syntax from the indigenous communities where Jews exiled from Spain settled (mainly the Ottoman Empire). Thus the Ladino spoken in Turkey would be slightly different to that spoken in Greece, Bosnia, Macedonia or Bulgaria, but each community would be easily able to understand the Ladino spoken by another. The main non-Spanish influence is of course Hebrew, followed by Turkish, Greek, Arabic, Portuguese and some French. Perhaps a good way to appreciate the relationship between Ladino and modern Spanish would be to imagine a conversation between twenty first century man and one of Shakespeare's leading characters – of course you would be able to follow the conversation without too much difficulty, but you would have to concentrate hard and find the phrasing unusual. Certain words would only be understandable given their context: “I beg thee, kind fellow, pray tell whither is the road to the nearest house of imbibement,” is clearly a request for directions to the nearest pub, but you need to think about it! Another common difference is that sometimes words with an “r” in the middle have the order of the letters changed, so the Ladino word for poor is prove rather than povre or fat is godro rather than gordo. Other differences include the use of the letter “m” instead of “n” in such words as mueve (nueve in Spanish), meaning “nine”. Having such differences is useful in linguistic terms in finding out whether people of Spanish descent were originally “Conversos” or “Marranos” (hidden or converted Jews). Interesting enough, this type of syntax is much more common in Central and South America, where it is thought “former” Jews settled to build new lives in the early 16th Century, than in mainland Spain. In addition, the Spanish word for God is Dios (a plural noun), but in Ladino it is El Dio (for we believe there is only one god). In Central and South America, many remember grandparents who used this unusual term when referring to God (often they were the same grandparents that would light candles in a cupboard every Friday night, or who would never eat milk and meat at the same meal!). Because of the language's relationship with Hebrew, as well as incorporating a number of Hebrew words, Ladino also took some Hebrew constructions so instead of referring to esta noche (this night), in Ladino one would say la noche la esta with reference to the famous phrase from the Ma Nishtana - “ha layla ha zeh”. The Written Language Pronunciation and Syntax As well as differences in linguistics, there are some key differences between the pronunciation of Modern Spanish (Castillian) and Ladino – the most notable being that in Ladino, a “j” is sounded as a j or “zh” whereas in modern Spanish, it is sounded as a “ch,” like the letter . 30 Link Pesach 2009 As with Yiddish, Ladino was used both as a language spoken at home and in the community, but also for the study of Torah. Most Ladino religious texts were written in Rashi script (commentaries on Tenach, liturgical poems, etc.) although some secular texts were written initially in the Greek or Cyrillic (Russian) alphabet, or more commonly the Latin Most people think about destruction of the shtetles and the rich tapestry of East European Jewish life destroyed by the Nazis, but significant communities of Ladino speaking Sephardim were also deported to the death camps and murdered. Salonika's 50,000 Jews were deported to Auschwitz in the Spring of 1943 (a 9 day journey), only some 5% surviving the war. The 2,000 Jews living on the islands of Kos and Rhodes were deported on 20 July 1944 (some three months before the islands were liberated) – only 150 survived. However, many of the 3,000 or so Jews living in Athens were hidden through co-operation between the Chief Rabbi and the Greek Orthodox church. The Jewish community in Bulgaria was also not as badly affected as their cousins in Greece, with over half of them surviving (the community numbered over 70,000 before the war). However the communities scattered throughout former Yugoslavia were decimated. Although many survivors settled in Israel (together with a large Aliya from Turkey), the legacy of the Shoah was the effective destruction of Ladino speaking communities and with their demise, their language was also dealt a heavy blow. Ladino Today Although there are perhaps around 100,000 Ladino speakers alive today, most are elderly. The largest Ladino speaking single community in the world (Istanbul) only numbers some 20,000 and Ladino is spoken by very few people under 40 years old, the younger members preferring to learn and speak English and Hebrew. Perhaps 50 people speak it in the UK. However, there is slight resurgence, with web based Ladino forums (www.ladinokomunita.com) and a renaissance in Ladino music, led by international stars such as Yasmin Levy from Istanbul and Los Desterrados from the UK. Tragically there is now almost nobody alive who just speaks Ladino. The Future The future for the language does not look bright, but in this digital age, we are at least able to preserve what we have, so that there will always be an enduring record of what was from the 17th Century to 19th Century, the most widely spoken language in Eretz Yisrael. The Quiz I have set out below 50 Ladino proverbs. Translations are set out on this page although this quiz is not open to Spanish speaking readers! Many of the sayings are still have relevance today, but give a flavour as to how Ladino speakers thought in generations gone by. You will notice quite an anti-feminist theme, but these proverbs are from times gone by, when attitudes were somewhat different from today. Spelling is also a little arbitrary as these sayings were originally written in Rashi script. Good luck. 1. A la mar se va, agua no topa 2. Abasha un escalon para tomar mujer, suve un eskalon para eskojer un amigo 3. Al buen entendedor pokas palavras abastan 4. Azno kayado por savio kontado 5. Dies amigos es poko, un enemigo es mucho 6. Dime kon ken vas, te dire ke sosh 7. El ke oye a su mujer es bovo, el ke no la oye es loko 8. El ken da al prove empresta al Dio 9. El ojo kome mas ke la tripa 10. I un siugo lo ve 11. Kada uno por si, i el Dio para todos 12. Kaveyos largos, meoyo kurto 13. Ken kon gato djuga arekuniado sale 14. Kon ti no lo vas a yevar 15. Kuando el guerko no puede ir algun embiya el vino para ke aga su mision 16. Kuando el padre da a ijo, riye el padre i riye el ijo. Kuando el ijo da al padre yora el padre i yora el ijo 17. Kuando ya sos anzo, todo te se embinayan ariva 18. La boka aze, la boka dezaza 19. La manseveza es un vez, el ke no se la goza loko es 20. La mujer fragua, la mujer deroka 21. La mujer i el vino kita al ombre del tino 22. La noche, todos los gatos son pretos 23. Luna en kinze 24. Mas da el prove ke el riko 25. Mujer buena e la ke poko avla 26. Mucho bien te kero, ma mi bolsa no tokes 27. Muy bueno ser no es bueno 28. Nunkua es tarde para bien azer 29. Onde el rey va kon su piezes 30. Sos rikos? Sos mi tiyo! 31. Tanto lavora el provi k'el riko si enrikese 32. Vistidos emprestado no kaintan 33. Yerno bueno es el ke ve ke la esfugra se esta kemando i la salvo 34. El ken de otro aspera ya puede asperar 35. Ermuera es dolor de muela 36. Es su kostiya 37. Esta mas de aya ke d'aki 38. Esto no es boka, esto es makina 39. I un siuego lo ve 40. Ken nase kon mazal i ventura, ken kon potre i kevadura 41. Kuando se kere eshuegra kon ermuera 42. Kuelevra morio a su esfuegra 43. Kunyadika – kulevrika 44. La palavra es de plata i la kayades de oro 45. La roza tyene pinchones ke areskunyan 46. Las palavras bolan, las eskriuraas kedan 47. Lo que ve la esfuegra 48. Loka la madre, loka la ija 49. Refran mintirizi no ay 50. Salir de la kashkara del guevo Answers The Shoah Questions A He goes to the sea but does not find water B Go one step down to take a wife, go one step up to take a friend C To one who understands, only a few words are needed D A silent donkey can pass for a knowledgeable person E Ten friends are too few; one single enemy is too much F Tell me with whom you go, and I will tell you who you are G Who listens to his wife is stupid, who does not is crazy H Someone who gives to the poor, lends to Hashem I The eye eats more than the belly J Even a blind man can see it K Everyone for himself, and Hashem for all L Long hair, short brain (generic term for a woman) M Whoever plays with a cat ends up scratched N You will not be able to take your fortune to the grave O When the devil cannot go to a certain place, he sends wine to accomplish his mission P When the father gives to the son, the father laughs and the son laughs. When the son gives to the father, the father cries and the son cries. Q When you are a donkey, everybody rides on you R The mouth does, the mouth undoes S Youth happens only once – the person who does not enjoy it is crazy T The woman builds, the woman destroys U The woman and the wine make a man lose his mind V At night, all the cats are black W The moon on its fifteeenth day (said of a beautiful young girl) X The poor give more than the rich Y A good woman is one who speaks little Z I love you very much, but do not touch my wallet AA It is not good to be too good BB It is never too late to do good CC Where the king goes on his own two feet (the toilet) DD You are rich? You are my uncle! EE The poor employee works so hard that the rich man gets rich FF Borrowed clothes do not keep you warm GG A good son-in-law is one who sees his mother-in-law burning and saves her HH Who waits (for help) from another (person) can keep waiting II The daughter-in-law is a pain in the tooth JJ She is his rib (she is the right wife for him) KK He is more here than there (He is half dead) LL This is not a mouth – it is a machine (someone who talks too much) MM Even a blind man can see it NN Some are born with good luck and fortune, others are born with a hernia and bad luck OO When is there much love between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law (i.e. never) PP The snake has bitten its mother-in-law (said when two vile people fall out) QQ Sister-in-law – a snake RR Speaking is silver but silence is gold SS The rose has thorns that scratch TT The words fly, the writings stay UU What the mother-in-law sees (said where what is on show looks great, but what is behind is a shambles) VV Crazy the mother – crazy the daughter WW Proverbs do not lie XX Freshly hatched (a young know it all) alphabet. However, almost all modern Ladino writings are in Latin characters. Link Pesach 2009 31 Au pairs arrive in this country full of hopes and fears. But after living here, what do they really think of our community? Deborah Clayden asked them. Au Pair ? Oh no! Imagine this: you are 18 years old and fed up having spent the last 13 years in full time education. You can’t quite decide what to do with the rest of your life – you don’t know where you want to live; what job would like to do etc so you choose to offer your services as an au pair. You picture your- Clayden and Scolari families. Au pair, Lucille Scolari is back row, third from the left. 32 LinkPesach 2009 self at the heart of a loving home in a foreign country, doing a little bit of housework and playing with some adorable children. You are fed and lodged for free and get paid in exotic foreign cash,(not quite so great if you are being paid in pounds and you come from a country whose economy is faring rather better than ours), and you get loads of free time to learn the local language and to PARTY!!!!!!!!!. Sounds like a winner. So off you go to an agency (on-line or real!) and find a host family in the country of your choice. Hey presto…you are an au pair. Growing up, we had a stream of wonderful and not so wonderful, memorable and not so memorable au pairs. My parents remember Malka, the Israeli, who had a great talent for breaking plates, and Annelise, the Swiss girl who failed to understand the instructions to, “Keep your arms in!”,whilst on a family boat trip. Daniel and I have been extremely fortunate in the girls who have come to our home. They have made my job as a mother and parttime teacher much easier and have all had a wonderful rapport with the children. We are in regular contact with most of them and our first au pair has already been back to stay twice. There have been moments of tension as you would expect when a stranger first comes to live in your house but these have been very few and far between. There have also been many amusing situations. Misa, our Deborah Clayden with husband Daniel. first au pair, once came running into the kitchen saying that she couldn’t find any knickers and she really needed them immediately. After about ten minutes of her insisting on her urgent need for underwear, I gave her a dictionary and we realized that she had confused the word knickers for plasters! The same girl told us that when she went home to the Czech Republic for the holidays, she asked her mother where she kept the meaty washing up bowl! Sandra, a Polish 19 year old, coined a new nickname for my father. She was unsure as to how to spell Howard and so wrote his birthday card to Hogwarts! We now all refer to him by this name instead. Clayden language also enjoyed the addition of a new verb during the era of Viki, the cleaning obsessed Slovak. Viki loved to clean but had a very poor command of English. She would always put things in what she felt were appropriate places. When asked where something was, she would always shrug her shoulders, raise both hands and with a huge smile on her face, say “I don’t know”. Hence the verb to viki, only used in the passive voice, eg It’s been Viki’d. But what are the realities of au au pair life within our community? I distributed a questionnaire to a number of local au pairs. Most of them were either too busy working or too busy having a good time to respond, and one was absolutely terrified that if she wrote the truth, the mother of her host family would send her packing. So here are my findings from the six lovely girls who were only too glad to help. The girls mostly came because they felt that it would be the easiest and cheapest way to live abroad and learn English. One felt she could no longer live with her parents and her irritating little brother! They came to this area because it was close to London and in one case; the agency chose the location for the girl. Some have subsequently arranged for friends to come and live in other local families. They like the town and its amenities and the easy transport links to London. Most girls are incredibly nervous when they first arrive. On the whole, they have never lived away from home and are very worried about the language barrier as well as fitting in with a new family. Most of the girls I spoke to were aware that the host family was Jewish before coming to the UK. When searching for our current au pair using an on-line agency, Daniel and I felt that a number of girls rejected us for this reason. Our au pair actually did some internet research about the religion before she arrived. None of the au pairs or their friends had ever met a Jew before but did not feel that Jewish people would be any different to any other people. The girls did not feel that the family’s religion affected their daily life. Most were just happy that they were not often required to babysit on a Friday night or on a Saturday night in the summer! The au pairs all understood the main ideas of kashrut within a few weeks of being here. One host mother told me that when she had a girl with very little English, she resorted to drawing a picture of a pig with a line through it! One of my girls arrived just before Pesach and clearly thought we were mad. I don’t think the feather and candle in the Bedikat Chametz helped! They find it strange that we walk to shul in the rain without an umbrella and that once a year we sit in a hut in the garden when it’s freezing cold and choose to eat there instead of in the warmth of the house. However, on the whole, the girls feel that the benefits of living with a Jewish family far outweigh any difficulties. Four of the six au pairs who responded to my questions enjoy regular Shabbat (and some other) meals with their families and really enjoy this opportunity to embrace the host family’s culture. They all go off to the pub afterwards! The majority of the girls I spoke to are incredibly happy to be here. They have good relationships with the family and often extended family. They have made good friendships with other au pairs and are having a great social life. Most have travelled extensively in London and around the UK and have really enjoyed this. Their English has improved tremendously and they feel that they now have far improved job prospects for the future. Sadly, one girl I interviewed did not feel that she was being treated so well. She was never allowed to eat with the family, was made to work more hours than originally agreed and most shockingly was not allowed to eat the same food as the rest of the family. She was told only to take from a particular shelf in the fridge and freezer and only to use food from one cupboard. This food was clearly much cheaper and of an inferior quality than that enjoyed by others in the home. I asked her why she chose to remain with the family. She said that she was scared to move families in case the new family was even worse. Also, she adores the children and does not want to let them down. Ultimately, all she wants is to be part of a family. The other girls said that they would not really change anything about their experience here – well apart from the cost of a travel card and mobile phone bills! Being an au pair should be a positive and enriching experience. In our community, for the most part, it is. Let’s keep it that way! I thank all the girls and families involved in my research and wish them the best of luck for the future. Deborah Clayden LinkPesach 2009 33 The dictionary tells us that nobody wants to catch the clap so why do we do it? Marc Shoffman investigates. Clapping Five books, 52 weeks, 54 parshas, and a whole load of nervous Bar and Bat mitzvah contestants, ladies and gentleman, welcome to the X-factor, cue music. Ok maybe not, but sitting in Borehamwood and Elstree synagogue dictionaries will tell you that a clap is a sign of approval or encouragement. So is it alright to clap or cheer after you have heard a decent recital? Surely you would show approval after a decent song at a rock concert or when your football team scores a goal so why not give the same treatment to Bono on the bimah? Unsurprisingly there are a few Jewish views on clapping, particularly on the Sabbath and Yom Tov. Many Jews refer to the clapping prohibition listed in the Talmud where Rabbi Yosef Karo warns that clapping may be representative of playing a music instrument or calling on someone to make an instrument. However, the Talmud later suggests that clapping may be done to recognise a mitzvah, this has been particularly picked up by Chassidic Jews. So that doesn’t really solve the puzzle. I decided to ask Rabbi Brawer what he really thought about it. He said: “There is no halachic source that prohibits applause as such although there is a source that prohibits all manner of clapping on Shabbat. This is not generally accepted as standard halachic practice. “My main problem with applause is that it turns the service into a spectator sport. It’s like watching a ball game or going to the theatre. It is just not appropriate for a religious service.” And maybe he has a point. Let’s say we welcome clapping with a round of applause if you will. As much as I am sure most Bar Mitzvah boys wouldn’t mind Cheryl Cole as a mentor, once you allow clapping should there also be big foam hands to wear during the leinings or a warden offering popcorn and kosher hotdogs? Once you clap for a Torah reading do you have to clap for the rabbi’s sermon, and if you clap for one and not the other, is that offensive? Should you clap for the way someone opens the ark or reads the Amidah? It’s all a mitzvah so why not applaud it? And if you disapprove of a performance is it alright to boo or throw your united synagogue membership onto the pitch/floor? Luckily there is a compromise in the less intrusive phrase of “Yasher Koach” or “Shkoyach,” meaning good job! And then there is the popular shout of Mazel Tov! As tempting as it may be to applaud, it is worth remembering that there are those who may find it uncomfortable, particularly if it means that Louis Walsh will be turning up at the Kiddush to steal all the schmaltz herring. And as the dictionary tells us, nobody wants to catch the clap. on a Shabbat can sometimes feel a bit more Hairspray than halachic. Not that there is anything wrong with a good performance, but it is what follows that takes the meshuginah out of the mishnah for many shul-goers. In recent months renditions of Bar mitzvah portions, Shema B’ni and dvar Torahs have been followed by claps, stamping, cheers and even flying sweets. One congregant has even reported seeing Simon Cowell give a standing ovation before he ducks out with a smarmy grin to the Limmud service. Sitting on the back row, it is a weekly ritual as a Bar Mitzvah boy finishes his sedra to scan the room and guess whether a recital will be Marc Shoffman followed by claps or cheers. More often than not, some sort of applause will emerge, leaving us cringing with embarrassment for whoever has just finished praying or for Rabbi Brawer who more often than not has warned people not to applaud just minutes before. Without trying to make this article sound like a sermon (I’ll leave that to Rabbi Brawer), I thought I would discover what a clap actually means. © Image from BigStockPhoto.com Aside from a slang word for a nasty sexually transmitted disease or to be put in jail, most 34 LinkPesach 2009 Dina Brawer profiles the nineteenth century Italian scholar and poet Rachel Luzatto Mopurgo, who worked to revive Hebrew poetry in Italy An unexpected poet One of the seven synagogues in the Ghetto of Venice was the “Scola Luzzatto”, named after the distinguished Luzzatto family. Luzzatto was a large Venetian family with branches in Padua and Trieste, whose members made scholarly contributions in the realm The Scola Luzzatto in Venice (Luzzatto synagogue) of Torah, Hebrew poetry, Kabbalah and Philosophy. Simone ben Isaac Simhah Luzzatto was Rabbi of the Venice Ghetto in the first half of the seventeenth century. The Luzzatto brothers of the 18th century were talented poets and physicians; Ephraim served in the hospital of the Spanish and Portuguese Hebrew Congregation in London, and Isaac from Trieste often corresponded with him in the form of poems. Perhaps the best known among the Luzzattos are Moses Hayyim Luzzatto (1707-1746), known by the acronym RaMHaL, and his cousin Shmuel David Luzzatto (1800-1865), known as ShaDaL. Rachel Luzzatto was born on April 8th 1790, in Trieste, shortly after the old ghetto gates were opened. Both her parents were members of the Luzzatto family: her father Barukh, was the son of Isaac Luzzatto, and her mother Berakhah, was the sister of Hezkiah Luzzatto (father of the above mentioned ShaDaL). Thus Rachel’s was undiluted Luzzatto blood. Surrounded by uncles and cousins who were very talented poets might have been a great inspiration, and she composed numerous Hebrew songs and exquisite poems from the age of 18. An avid scholar from a young age, Rachel did not attend school, but was tutored privately. Like her brother and all her male cousins she studied bible, Rashi, and “Hovat HaLevavot” (Duties of the Heart) with her uncles Hezekiah and David. A teacher from Mantua was hired to teach her Talmud at the age of 14, and she gained knowledge in Italian literature and mathematics from the numerous scholars who frequented her home. Later on Rachel studied with her cousin ShaDaL, who was ten years younger than her. ShaDaL recounts that she begged him to obtain a copy of the Zohar, and when he finally did, she asked him what she could do for him in return. ShaDaL asked her not to believe anything written in the book!! To that Rachel replied “What you have asked is exceedingly difficult!” Rachel refused many of the scholarly men who were after her hand, and at the “late” age of 29 she married Jacob Mopurgo, a businessman of whom her parents did not approve. There are different views on the success of Rachael’s marriage. Some write that she was very happy with her choice, others that she lived in poverty and spent her time caring for her four children, taking care of household chores and was able to take time off to write her poetry only on Rosh Chodesh, traditionally a holiday for women when chores such as laundry and sewing are not permitted. Her daughter Perla wrote that her father, Jacob, had no appreciation for his wife’s talent and found it surprising that other Jewish scholars wanted to meet her or sent her correspondence. However, her poems were published in a Hebrew journal called ‘Kohavey Yitzchak’ (stars of Isaac) and she was very much admired by contemporary scholars. Some even sought her literary opinion, while others believed that her signature R’M’H’, Rachel Mopurgo Haketanah (The Small One), in reality concealed a man’s hand. Rachel Luzzatto Mopurgo died in 1871 at the age of 81. In 1890, Vittorio Castiglioni, Chief Rabbi of the Jewish community of Rome and a native of Trieste published some of her letters and poems in a book called “Ugav Rahel” (Rachel’s Harp). Rachel’s poems were written in Hebrew as her goal, shared with her family, was to revive Hebrew poetry in Italy. Her work is unusual as it is modern poetry in Hebrew that covers secular subjects rather than Jewish or religious ideas. Below is one poem translated into English by Nina Davis Salaman; From a distance, I look upon the eternal hills, Their face covered with glorious flowers. I rise high, as if on eagle's wings, to cast a glance, Raising my head to view the sun. Heaven! How beautiful you stream forth, Winds sweeping across your stage, Revealing the place where freedom ever lives. Who, who can express its sweetness! Dina Brawer LinkPesach 2009 35 Natasha Rosenfeld spends a week in Poland with her class from Immanuel College Reflections on a week in Poland It was always an accepted fact that when I reached year 12, I would go on my school’s Poland trip. I didn’t question it; I didn’t even think about not going, and I most certainly didn’t realise how much the trip would mean to me. Beforehand, friends and family asked me how I Natasha Rosenfeld 36 Link Pesach 2009 was feeling about going to Poland, the deathplace of millions of our ancestors. Naturally, I replied saying how nervous and excited I was, but I wasn’t sure what to expect, other than cold weather. When people put “Holocaust” and “Poland” in the same sentence, one immediately thinks of Auschwitz . I could never understand why Auschwitz is so famous. The drive up to Birkenau is strange. For one, it’s on a main road and there are signs casually saying “Auschwitz” similar to the signs I see at home pointing towards Elstree. Unlike Elstree, where I look out my window and see fields with horses, the people of Auschwitz look out of their windows and see a death camp where over 1.5 million Jews were murdered. Whilst standing by the remains of the gas chambers, I looked around me and to my left, about 100 feet away, were houses with washing lines, gardens and windows overlooking the remains of humankind’s worst crime .At first I was angry. I couldn’t understand how people could live their everyday lives with a constant reminder of the terrible things that happened but now, in retrospect, I wonder whether the average Pole even knows what happened there. The other thing that struck me about Auschwitz was just how vast it is. It is so big that it looked never ending. Bunkers to the left, bunkers to the right, gas chambers straight ahead. The only thing I could focus on was how the people would have felt standing in this place, separated from their friends which are about this place. What first seemed like a picturesque Sunday morning walk in a nature reserve really had a much more serious purpose. As we stopped in front of a massive monument, I started realising where we were and what had happened here. I can’t read Polish but numbers are universal - and I could read 800. Any number as big as that could only mean we were at a mass grave. I know my family was shot and buried in mass graves in Lithuania so, for me, I find visiting them particularly difficult. As we continued walking, we saw a colourful sealed off area - a children’s mass grave. My younger brother and I don’t always get on but standing there made me think of him. 800 children just like him, and younger, were cruelly taken from their parents and shot there. That for me was the hardest place we visited. So now, when people ask me about Poland, I say “my ancestors were killed there. People live there. It’s not a place I would ever wish to go back to, but every Jew has the obligation to go and make sure they understand so it will never happen again”. Natasha Rosenfeld (age 16, Year 12, Immanuel College) and family, not knowing what was going to happen to them, and there I was, knowing that I would be with my family in just over a week. If I had been born 60 years earlier, that could have been me. People always try to bring in personal connections to the holocaust in order to understand better, because the holocaust is the most incomprehensible thing that I know of. At Auschwitz, they have converted some of the bunkers into exhibitions. One of these was of suitcases. In order to pay my respect, I started to read the names on the suitcases, and then out of nowhere I saw “623 ROSENFELD”. As far as I know, my family wasn’t at Auschwitz, but seeing my name in white marker, boldly written across a brown, used suitcase in a bunker at Aushwitz is going to be a shock to anyone’s system. Even if it isn’t my family, that is one family out of millions, one normal family with a normal life, cruelly destroyed by the Nazis. Another exhibition that struck me was hair. I knew previously about the displays of shoes and glasses but I had no idea that they had a hair exhibition. Being a typical teenage girl, I am very attached to my hair. I hate having it cut because my hair is part of me and it helps me to be individual. In front of me were piles and piles of hair: long, short, curly, straight, plaits. And all the hair was grey. We were told that the grey was a side affect of the Zyklon B but I personally felt that the grey represented the loss of life and colour of the victims of the Shoah. The other place I am going to talk about is Zbilitovska Goura. You probably haven’t heard of it; not many people have. If you google it, you get just over 100 hits, only 4 of Link Pesach 2009 37 Lionel Leventhal looks back on the Borehamwood Community’s assistance to Soviet Jewry Refusenik The telephone call was from Claude Blair, the distinguished curator in charge of arms and armour at the Victoria & Albert Museum, and a good friend. It was the spring of 1972. 'Lionel', Claude said, 'One of your authors needs help'. My publishing firm had published RUSSIAN PISTOLS IN THE SEVENTEENTH CENTURY by Dr Leonid Tarrasuk, Keeper of Western Arms and Armour at the Hermitage in Leningrad, and it was Leonid who he was referring to. 'Leonid has applied for permission to emigrate, and has asked me to spread word'. Claude continued 'I would help, but I cannot get involved officially'. So I volunteered, and became the international anchorman of the campaign to secure Leonid's freedom from the Soviet Union. I formed three groups. The first was of his co-religionists in Elstree, Borehamwood and Radlett. The second was of museum officials around the world. The third was in North America, of museum officials and collectors and those interested in firearms. The Borehamwood and Elstree group had many members, including Delysia and Raymond Jayson, Angela and Barry Reis, Marilyn and Henry Paul, Miriam and Kenneth Keller, Myra and Alan Fish, Linda and John Wolffe, Judy and Leon Marks and Helena and Ken Freedman, and they and others provided an essential lifeline to Leonid. We set up a regular weekly telephone call to him. Those were the days before direct dialling and we were sure that all calls were being monitored, but we wanted them to be monitored so that we knew that the Soviets knew that Leonid was known to the West and could not therefore suddenly disappear. The second group drew from and built upon those who had met Leonid in Leningrad, especially because a year or two before there had been an international arms museum conference and Leonid had met with his professional colleagues from around the world and they had got to know him both professionally and socially. There was a letter of appeal on his behalf published in the Times with forty signatures of the most distinguished people representing the international museum antique arms community. The third lobby in North America was run by Larry Wilson, a noted firearms author and collector. The American lobby was the loudest and gave the most visible support and was able to reach the political world Leonid had lost his job at the Hermitage when he applied to emigrate, as he became a non person as a consequence of his application. His timing was exquisite for he had waited until his catalogue of the collection was published, and he sent copies inscribed to many of his friends, including me, before filing his papers to emigrate. The authorities then had to withdraw his ANTIQUE EURO- 38 LinkPesach 2009 PEAN AND AMERICAN FIREARMS AT THE HERMITAGE MUSEUM for, of course, a non person could not be named upon an officially published work. The catalogue was a handsome book, with much colour, and it fell within the interests of my publishing company. I started negotiations with the Soviet Trade Delegation to purchase copies. These were successful, whilst at the same time I was running what the Soviet authorities must have regarded as a lobby against them. But there are times when you must rise above your principals, and commerce (and a hard currency) won. After months and months of tension, problems and suspense word reached us that Leonid and his family had received permission to emigrate! Permission came through just days before a summit meeting in Moscow between Brezhnov and Nixon. It was the autumn of 1973. I wanted to see him and his family upon release, to believe that they all had been allowed to emigrate. The problem was that Refuseniks were flown to Vienna, and in those days the passage through Austria of people who had elected to leave what was supposed to be a perfect society was an embarrassment and the Austrian authorities did not publicise the matter, and rather kept it quiet. So I flew to Vienna but did not go through immigration or collected any baggage. I stayed 'airside', which is remarkably quiet and empty when there are no passengers disembarking. But I had timed my flight to be shortly before the flight that Leonid and his family were on, and sat awaiting it quietly trying to look as though I belonged. When the flight from the Soviet Union arrived I went out on to the tarmac and greeted Leonid and the family as they walked from the plane. On my return to Elstree a gathering was arranged for all of those who had been involved in the campaign, and a film that I had taken of him in Vienna thanking everyone was shown. I don't believe there was a dry eye in the house. Leonid took up a museum appointment in Israel, but shortly after moved to New York and the Metropolitan Museum of Art. I visited him when in New York. One of the events that he helped curate was the 'blockbuster' Met show of Russian costume with Jacqueline Onassis. Sadly, tragedy then struck. In September 1990 Leonid and his wife Nina were on holiday in France, and were involved in a car crash. Both were killed. Lionel Leventhal The Jewish Museum reports on its new home. For more information contact Esther Nelkon at esther.nelkon@jewishmuseum.org.uk or 020 8371 7361. VolunteeryourtimebringJewishculturealive Pesach Bite No. 2 Whenever I go on holiday I make a point of going to the Jewish quarter and museum of the city I’m visiting. This autumn sees the relaunch of the Jewish Museum London after a £9m building project lasting two years and we need volunteers to help us make it a real visitor attraction for all. For those of you who missed us in our old incarnation, you might be surprised to know that the Jewish Museum London has been around since 1932. Until the 1990s we were in Woburn House in Euston, but nowadays we’re based in the slightly more lively Camden Town. We will be moving back to our expanded site in Albert Street, having taken over a Victorian piano factory behind our old building. It’s all change as far as our displays and exhibitions go as well. Of course we’ll still be showcasing our beautiful and important collection of Judaica, but for the first time visitors can see all our collections on one site. The new history gallery will bring the story of Jews in Britain to life – from the medieval period to today – and our Holocaust displays will tell the story of British-born Auschwitz survivor Leon Greenman. As well as expanding the floor space of the museum the redevelopment allows us to create interactive and audiovisual displays for both children and adults, such as the East End street which includes Yiddish theatre, synagogue and East End home displays. For the statisticians among you, you might be interested to know that our projected visitor numbers in our first year of opening are 113,000. Of this, 62% are not Jewish, and when it comes to education 94% of school groups aren’t Jewish either. We play a hugely important role in helping people understand Judaism and Jewish life. This all sounds great, but the Jewish Museum London is not opening for months – what does it have to do with you right now? Of course we are a charity and exist solely thanks to private contributions, but we are not asking you to part with your hard-earned cash (although all donations are gratefully received). It sounds hard to believe, but this exciting new museum needs to fill 100 (no, that’s not a typo!) volunteer slots per week, and this is where you come in. We are looking for people of all ages from across the community to give us at least one morning, afternoon or evening per week to help us provide visitors to the Jewish Museum London with the best possible experience. In the main, volunteer roles will be in gallery stewarding, shop assistance and cloakroom attendance. No prior knowledge or experience is needed, just a willingness to work, learn and develop. Training will be offered across the board, from Health & Safety and Customer Care for all, to basic Jewish history and giving guided tours. All in a name Our Torah (Vayikra 23.5) list the festivals as follows: “In the first month on the fourteenth of the month , at afternoon time, a Pesach for the L-rd”. The 8 day Pesach that we celebrate from 15th- 22nd Nissan is actually referred to in the Torah as Chag HaMatzot – The festival of Matzah. (Vayikra 23.6) We celebrate Pesach because we are thanking G-d for his kindness in skipping over (in Hebrew-“PeSaCh”) the Jewish houses in Egypt when exacting judgment on the Egyptians and for G-d’s kindness in delivering us from slavery and forging us into the Jewish nation. The reference in the Torah to Chag Ha Matzot is how G-d remembers the Jewish people, namely, for having left Egypt in a big hurry with their unbaked bread and, for “the kindness of our youth when in great love we followed Him into a desert where nothing grows” (Jeremiah 2.2) For the sake of completeness the “Pesach for the L-rd” celebrated on the 14th Nissan in the afternoon, was the offering of the Pesach lamb by each family group during periods when the two Temples stood in Jerusalem. The offering was slaughtered and prepared in the Temple courtyard and was subsequently roasted and eaten on the night of the 15th Nissan - just like the original Pesach sacrifice in Egypt. Such notions of “In G-d we trust” followed by a slap up Thanksgiving family gathering seems to have predated the United States of America by 3000 years! Bites by Paul Finn. Next Bite on page 75 Link Pesach 2009 39 Howard Green takes a more leisurely trip around Egypt than our forefathers. Journey to the Land of the Exodus After visiting our family in Israel, we decided to fulfil a longstanding desire to visit Egypt - Misr (Mitsrayim?), the Arabic and modern official name of Egypt. We flew Air Sinai from Tel Aviv to Cairo, where we met by our tour guide, a charming and affable gentleman named Ashraf, a devout Coptic Christian whose favourite pastime, he informed us, was watching reruns of the film “The Ten Commandments”. He claimed to have seen it thirty-five times! Our plan was to spend one full day in Cairo sightseeing before flying to Luxor for a cruise on the Nile. We told Ashraf that we wanted to see the Pyramids, the Ben Ezra Synagogue, the old Bazaar and the Egyptian Museum but had no desire to visit churches or mosques. Making an early start, we arrived at the plateau of Giza to see the Pyramids and the Sphinx, truly an awesome sight. After an exhausting tour we stopped for morning coffee at the Mena House Hotel – one of Cairo’s most famous, visited by Winston Churchill, President Roosevelt and many other Heads of States and celebrities. Sipping coffee on the terrace in the shadow of the Pyramids is a memorable experience. Next on the agenda was the Ben Ezra Synagogue, originally a Coptic Church sold to the Jewish community in 882 CE. It was here that the famous Cairo Genizah was discovered: a repository for books, papers and any document with sacred writing, its contents are an invaluable insight into Jewish life for over 1000 years, most of which can now be viewed at the Cambridge University Library. We were pleased to be able to explain to the (non-Jewish) custodian the inscription over the Ark. A visit to the Khan al-Khalili Bazaar followed, reputedly the sight of public judicial mutila- 40 Link Pesach 2009 of Medinat Habu, in near perfect condition the vibrant colours of the intricately painted carvings are still visible today; the village of Deir alMedina, home to the artisans who worked on the royal tombs whose own tombs are exquisitely decorated. We were back on board ready to set sail at midday and were advised to relax on the sundeck for the afternoon. However, it was very difficult to rest while Egyptian country life rolled by. As our vessel made slow and ponderous progress, we stood on deck and watched as a constantly changing vista of rural, pastoral, peasant life passed us by. Indeed it was like viewing some latter day Bayeux tapestry slowly unrolling before us: fields full of sugar cane, shepherds tending their flocks, and primitive villages of mud-brick cottages – scenes that have probably changed very little in hundreds of years. One can imagine Moshe seeing similar sights 3500 years ago! “One can imagine Moshe seeing similar sights 3500 years ago!” tions and executions under Ottoman rule. After a delicious vegetarian lunch, the Egyptian Museum was next on our list – a beautiful, rambling and extraordinary building filled brimful with Pharaonic artefacts, including the famous death mask of Tutenkhamun and many other priceless objects never seen outside Egypt. We returned to our hotel exhausted. Early the following morning we ploughed through Cairo’s unbelievable traffic to the airport, where we boarded our flight to Luxor, some 420 miles south, for our cruise on the Nile. Our boat, the “Oberoi Philae”, modelled on an Edwardian paddle steamer, was like a small luxury floating hotel. All meals were taken on board and a vegetarian diet was no problem. The cruise was extremely well organised. There were about 80 people on board and for touring we were split into small groups of 14-16, each with our own qualified Egyptologist as a guide. A brief time was allowed for us to settle in before our first excursion: a visit to the Temples of Karnak and Luxor. Our first impression of Karnak was its sheer size and state of preservation. It was built some 3400 years ago and was almost completely buried in sand before it was discovered in the 19th century when excavation work began. Whilst listening attentively to our guide explaining the meaning of various hieroglyphics, we came across one depicting the victories of Pharaoh Tuthmosis III, commemorating his defeat of the enemy at the battle “Ulat”, or Eilat as we now know it. Then on to Luxor Temple, connected to Karnak Temple via an avenue of Sphinxes in near perfect condition. Although the temple was built in the 18th Pharaonic dynasty, it was enlarged 200 years later in the 19th dynasty by Ramses II and two enormous statues of him front the entrance to the temple. Back on board it was dinner and an early night. The following day started with a very early breakfast. At 6 am we left for Thebes, the ancient capital of Upper Egypt, to visit the Valley of the Kings, the necropolis of many of the Pharaohs, including Ramses II who ruled at the time of the Exodus. The Valley also contains the tomb of Tutenkhamun, whose mummified remains are still there although the majority of the magnificent artefacts discovered there can be seen in the museum in Cairo. To date 62 tombs have been discovered and excavation work is still continuing. There are many other notable sites in Thebes of which we were able to see only a few, namely: the Colossi of Memnon, two enormous statues of Amenhotep III rising 60ft from the barren ground; the beautiful temple We processed at a stately pace (for the boat was certainly not fast!) to Edfu, the halfway point of our cruise along the Nile, where we visited the Temple of Horus, continuing on to Kom Ombo where we moored overnight and visited the temple whose state of preservation was enhanced by seeing it floodlit. In the evening we were all encouraged to dress up for a costume party which was enjoyed by all. Finally, we embarked on the last stage of our trip, reaching Aswan in the early morning. Aswan is the most southerly town in Egypt, populated by many Nubians who were displaced by the building of the Aswan High Dam and the creation of Lake Nasser causing the flooding of settlements on both banks of the Nile. A trip on a felucca, a small sailing vessel, was arranged. We passed the famous Old Cataract Hotel, where Agatha Christie wrote “Death on the Nile”. Then on to Kitchener’s Island which was given to Lord Kitchener in the 1890s in recognition of his help to the Egyptians in their successful campaign in the Sudan. He turned the island into a botanical garden planted with species from around the world, a peaceful and idyllic spot with views across the river to Aswan in the east and the mausoleum of the Aga Khan to the west. The afternoon began with a visit to the site of the Unfinished Obelisk. This is contained in a granite quarry. When it was three-quarters dug, a crack was discovered and it was abandoned. Had it been completed, it would have weighed nearly 1200 tons, and stood 135ft high! We then continued to the Aswan Dam and the High Dam. The Aswan Dam was built by the British in 1898 to regulate the flow of the Nile. At the time of its completion in 1902 it was the largest dam in the world. Perhaps the highlight of our visit to Aswan was a sunset trip by boat to the Temple of Philae. The evening light on the island temple turned it to the colour of burnished gold. Link Pesach 2009 41 Our Nile cruise was at an end, but we embarked on one last excursion: a visit to the temples at Abu Simbel. We caught the early morning flight from Aswan to Abu Simbel, a distance of some 200 miles and close to the Sudanese border. Hewn out of solid rock over 3000 years ago, the façade of this immense monument has four statues of Ramses II which stand over 100ft high. There are a further four statues of Ramses and two of his favourite and reputedly most beautiful wife, Queen Nefertari, at the front of the adjacent temple which is dedicated to her. The sight is quite breathtaking. In the 1950s, during the building of the Aswan High Dam, these spectacular monuments were threatened by flooding and would have been lost to the world without intervention by UNESCO. They were moved over 600ft back and more than 200ft above their original position. Our trip was over. A flight to Cairo, overnight in a hotel, and back to freezing London: an unforgettable experience. Howard Green 42 Link Pesach 2009 WISHING OUR Wishing ALL all our patients a happy and PATIENTS A HAPPY healthy new year PESACH DENTAL SURGEONS Dr Jonathan Schwarzmann BDS Dr Anthony Rosenfeld BDS Dr Ian Kangisser BDS Dr Michael Lewis BDS COMPLEMENTARY THERAPISTS Andrew Gall (Osteopath ) Gideon Hajioff (Acupuncturist) White House Dental, The White House, 70 High Road, Bushey Heath, Herts. WD23 1GG Tel: 020 8950 9560 www.whdental.co.uk LinkPesach 2009 43 Think of Berlin and you may conjure up images of World War II or the cold war. Can it escape this heritage and finally attract a new generation? Daniel Weston went to visit. Biggin’ it up in Berlin “The Germany in which we found ourselves travelling at the end of April presented a scene that was almost beyond human comprehension. Around us fifty great cities lay in ruins...Many had no electric light or power or gas or running water, and no coherent system of Daniel Weston and friends Adam Grossman and Josh Sacofsky 44 Link Pesach 2009 government. Like ants in an ant- heap the people scurried over the ruins, diving furtively into cellars and doorways in search of loot...Everyone was on the move, and there was a frantic ant- like quality about their activites. Life was sordid, aimless, leading nowhere.” Correspondent Alan Moorehead, reporting from Germany near the end of the Second World War. It is impossible to conjure up the images that confronted Berliners at the end of the Second World War. The ground battle for Berlin was one of the bloodiest the world had seen. Between November 1943 and March 1944, Bomber Command staged 16 major air raids against Berlin leaving 4000 dead, 10000 injured and 450000 homeless. After the Russians entered the city, there were reports of 100,000 women being raped. Around 30 concentration camps were discovered by Berlin’s liberators, of which more than half were filled with women. History books give us statistics, but only those who saw the damage with their own eyes can know the true carnage that engulfed Berlin during and after the war. It was with some trepidation then that I travelled to Berlin for the first time, wondering how this city had reinvented itself. Visitors to Berlin today would be highly recommended to participate in the alternative Berlin walking tour which is what I, Adam Grossman and Josh Sacofsky did on our interailing holiday last summer. The tour takes about 5 hours and takes you all across the city by foot and on public transport. This all began at ten in the morning, however at midnight that night we found ourselves still chatting over drinks with our tour guide and group, such was the friendliness of our multinational group. The aim of the tour is not to give a history lesson, but rather gives a fascinating insight into the explosion of art and youth culture that has taken place in this once rent and war torn city. When you think of Berlin you generally think of the lynchpin of the Third Reich, of Hitler’s bunker, and death and destruction. However, our day on the Alternative Berlin Tour opened up an entirely different and altogether more modern side to the city which I will definitely never forget. Berlin struck me as an amazing place to live as a young person. The liberal nature and lack of licensing laws allows constant partying throughout the week which gives the city a massive buzz. This is combined with great music and clubs to give a vibrant atmosphere that really rubbed off on three boys looking for just such a good time. The clever thing about the tour was that so much of the alternative scene has evolved as a result of the war and the ensuing history, which was all pieced together for us as the tour went on. One place that stuck in my mind particularly was an area called Zapatas. This was a bombed out factory which was turned into an artists squat. Above the archway entrance were stone gargoyles that had their heads blown off by Russian soldiers when ground forces entered the city. We went in, checked out the art and chatted to the were hanging off the sides. They all waved and we waved back,; a truly surreal moment, and not one I’ve ever seen in all my years as a Londoner. The guide said they would still be going on Monday! After about 10 miles of walking, and the longest tour in the history of the company, the guide wrote down where we had been and circled all the sites we had seen on our maps as it was impossible to remember them all. The success of the tour was in a big way accredited to the guide. He was a young guy not much older than us, yet his knowledge of Berlin was so wide reaching and his enthusiasm and depth made it come alive. We were enthused by everything we saw. It also gave us the opportunity to have some historical and political insight and discussion with Europeans of a similar age. As we shook hands and bid farewell to one another, an amicable “Every German will defend his capital. We shall stop the Red hordes at the walls of our Berlin. Just try and stop them.” artists. This was raw underground Berlin at its most creative. The interesting thing about Zapatas was that we had actually been there two nights before on a bar crawl organised by our hostel, but it was the fact that we were on the alternative tour that we had the opportunity to go in and meet the creators and see the galleries. The artists’ lease on the building is to run out in 2010, after which there are plans to turn it into a shopping centre. We signed the petition against this because it seemed like a shame to close a place teeming with such energy and creativity. We were led into another bombed out factory which had been turned into a skate park and youth centre. We took some time in here just wandering around, watching the skaters and swapping stories with the group. As we walked through, with each turn we were faced with the most fascinating murals decorated across whole walls. Some of them were huge, spanning around 30 feet in height with fantastic detail. The penultimate stop was along a stretch of the Berlin wall which was adorned with the most incredible street art and graffiti we had ever seen. As we walked along the mile stretch our jaws kept dropping at piece after piece of politically inspired and incredibly original artwork. I was surprised to learn that the wall had been erected and the border closed in little over a day. Civilians caught on the wrong side of the wall the day they closed the border were stranded, cut off from their families and jobs. An account from a soviet correspondent soon after the war saw Goebbels’ appeals scrawled in white paint across the walls of houses saying ‘Every German will defend his capital. We shall stop the Red hordes at the walls of our Berlin. Just try and stop them’. Little did Goebbels know that ‘Red’ troops would occupy half of this city for the next forty five years. This is in stark contrast to the generally peaceful, antiwar slogans that now adorn the Berlin Wall. It was as the group followed the wall that we stumbled across a live hip hop festival, with hundreds of people milling about outside flyering and spraying new graffiti. We then crawled under a crack in the partition between what was East and West, and walked along the No Man’s Land, where not twenty years ago you may have been shot dead. The tour finished at a beach bar, and we sheltered from the rain on the patio at the edge of the river. No one felt like going home, and so for the rest of the night we sat and compared cultures with our group from across the globe. At some point during this, in the pouring rain, a barge sailed past on the river blaring out filthy techno with 200 people dancing on top of it. Some of them Dutch student pointed out that a little over sixty years ago, each of us would have been carrying rifles or piloting bombers in the worst war the world has known, now we were listening to Austrian cyber- funk and sharing a beer. It was a sobering thought to such an enjoyable trip, but one that needed saying nonetheless. On a trip that took us through Holland, Germany, Czech Republic, Slovakia and Croatia and led to so many different experiences, that day out in Berlin was definitely the high point and something that I will not forget. This was my first taste of travelling and I can definitely say I am hooked. Interrailing is an excellent way to travel Europe, the flexibility of the ticket means it is easy to get anywhere and your route can change momentarily. Check out www.alternativeberlin.com. Just avoid the Austrian cyber- punk. Daniel Weston Link Pesach 2009 45 Daniel Levy visits the trenches, cemeteries and battlefields of the Great War Going over the top Last summer, my father and I visited the First World War battlefields in Ypres and The Somme. I had previously visited Ypres on a short tour with Scouts, led by Judith Gamse. I found it fascinating and decided that I wanted to spend more time there. Daniel Levy 46 Link Pesach 2009 The journey to Dunkirk was uneventful and soon we started to see signs reading “Commonwealth Cemetery - Great War”, in English and French. The first cemetery we reached was the Mont Noir Military Cemetery in St Jans-Cappel. Although I had visited several war cemeteries with Scouts the year before, the raw emotional power of such places was still there. The Cemeteries are all beautifully maintained in the style of an English country garden. On a tour of the battlefields on the fifth anniversary of armistice, King George V gruffly declared that each of the fallen should be buried in cemeteries the style of a traditional English Garden, with the shadow of a rose across each grave-stone. This wasn’t quite achieved but many of the grave-stones are shadowed by a rose. Mont Noir is a mixed cemetery with both French and British burials reflecting the joint nature of the war. It contains 232 burials, the majority of them British, with some graves unknown (an unfortunate but all too frequent sight), these bearing the sombre inscription “Known unto God”. Soon we reached Ypres town and the campsite that we were staying at. Ypres is a Belgian town near the French border that stood between invading German forces in 1914 and the North Sea ports. The British army saw it as being strategically vital as the ports were needed to ferry troops across the channel. They needed to defend the area at all costs, Cloth Hall then and now Jewish headstone War cemetery regardless of the damage done to the town and its surroundings. The town was totally destroyed by shelling during the war, including its beautiful 14th century central area, most notably the Cloth Hall, a vast cathedrallike structure built in the Gothic style. However, all of this was accurately rebuilt after the war, due to mayor (who escaped with the medieval plans) and a photographer who intensively photographed the town and escaped with the negatives. After pitching our tent, we spent the afternoon at the In Flanders Fields Museum, which is housed in the beautiful Cloth Hall in the town centre. There are many excellent exhibits about topics as diverse as medical care, night-time, no-mans land and gas attacks. The one about gas was particularly poignant. It is in an area of the museum bathed in a yellow light containing long pipes and gas-masks and steam and smoke rises up from ground level. A recording is played of Wilfred Owen’s famous poem, Dulce Et Decorum Est Pro Patria Mori (It is sweet and right to die for your country): Gas! Gas! Quick, boys! – An ecstasy of fumbling, Fitting the clumsy helmets just in time; But someone still was yelling out and stumbling, And flound'ring like a man in fire or lime . .. Dim, through the misty panes and thick green light, As under a green sea, I saw him drowning. In all my dreams, before my helpless sight, He plunges at me, guttering, choking, Somme trench drowning. The exhibit stirs up a feeling of tension and fear which is heightened by the dull, yellow light and choking sounds heard in the background. Another exhibit depicts the Christmas truce of 1914. It shows two men, cast in plaster of Paris, shaking hands through a glass wall. This represents how the men at the front tried to overcome their natural prejudices, but there was still a wall between them that was created by their commanding officers. After finishing at the museum, we went to Essex Farm cemetery to place an AJEX grave marker next to the grave of a Jewish Sergeant killed in the area. I had visited the cemetery the previous year and remembered seeing his grave and strongly felt that I should return to properly commemorate him. Afterwards what was quite an intense and emotional afternoon, we returned to the campsite. After a quick supper we went to the Menin Gate to hear the Last Post being played in memory of the fallen. Menin Gate is a huge memorial arch built across the main road into Ypres, to commemorate the thousands of allied soldiers who died in the area but have no known grave. There are 54,896 names inscribed on the walls Every evening at 8pm buglers from the Ypres Fire Service sound the Last Post, which is followed by a minute of silence. This has happened at Menin Gate every evening since 1927. The only exception was during the Second World War, when Ypres was occupied by the Germans, but even then, the ceremony took place in England. From the day the town was recaptured by Allied forces in 1945 the ceremony restarted. We arrived at 7.30pm to find the area busy. Just before 8pm, six buglers in smart uniform stepped forwards and on the dot of 8pm, played the Last Post. The crowd fell silent and remembered the losses of the young men who gave their today for our tomorrow. I thought about how the Germans had also had massive losses, in fact more than the British, and how they were ultimately human beings too. After the ceremony finished, I walked around the memorial and was very moved to see a note pinned to a small wreath, in very spidery writing saying “to my brother, I miss you every day – you will not be forgotten”. The next day we took a tour to the Somme (some 80 miles from Ypres) with Over The Top Tours. The Somme was the area that saw the bloodiest day in British military history. The first site we visited was the Pozieres tank memorial where there was a slightly raised platform that gave you an overview of the battlefield. It was a chilly morning and I shivered as I looked over the battlefield, but not perhaps through the cold. Across the twelve and a half mile front, at 7.30am on the morning of the 1st July 1916, tens of thousands of young men clambered out of the trenches and started walking across no-mans land. They were mown down in their droves by German machine-guns. On that day alone there were 60,000 casualties of which 20,000 died and by the end of the day, there was no change in the position of the German or British front line. When darkness fell, the survivors combed the battlefield for wounded. Even a general participated in the search. Next, we drove to Dartmoor Cemetery, where lies Lieutenant Henry Weber, the oldest British soldier to die in the war (he was 67 years old). Also in this small cemetery, side by side, lie George and Robert Lee, a father and son who served in the same artillery battery and died together on the same day, probably killed by the same shell. The two head-stones next to each other cannot fail to move even the hardest of hearts. Then on to to the Devonshire Cemetery. On the 1st July 1916, a company of the Devonshire Regiment some 150 strong went down a hill, platoon by platoon. All 150 killed within half an hour and rest together in this cemetery. As you walk down the rows of white head-stones the date is always the same – 1st July 1916, 1st July 1916, 1st July 1916 ...... Repeated another 147 times. Each one a tragedy. Afterwards we went to visit the main German cemetery in the area - Fricourt. Fricourt contains the remains of 17,000 German soldiers, of which 11,970 lie in four mass graves. At one point the legendary Manfred von Richtoven, the Red Baron, was buried in this cemetery but his body was later moved to Germany for a reburial as a national hero. 14 Jewish soldiers lie in this cemetery, all of them in individual graves under a tablet shaped head-stone (unlike non-Jews who are buried under black crosses). Fricourt is a very dark and shadowy place. It doesn’t stand out Link Pesach 2009 47 at all, like the French and British war cemeteries do. This is because one of the many conditions placed on Germany by the French government was that their cemeteries were to be unobtrusive and blend into the country-side. As a result all German war cemeteries are very dark, hidden and unobtrusive. From a distance they just look like any other part of the surrounding area. We then went to visit the Lochnagar Crater, one of the enormous craters made on 1st July 1916 when several huge mines were detonated just before the British “went over the top” – a very helpful warning to the Germans. Most craters were filled in by farmers as soon as war ended, but this one survived the war and it remains a tourist attraction. The crater is massive– over 100m from lip to lip and 30m deep. You could easily fit several large houses in it. The sheer size of it amplifies the horror of modern warfare and how dreadful it must have been to live through it. After our visit to the Crater we went to Le Tommy Café for a coffee. Le Tommy Café is amazing as in the café gardens, the owners have build a small trench system consisting of various scenes of everyday trench life, with realistic sound effects. I really liked the visit to the café as it gave me a quiet place to think “It is estimated that in the week before the battle started on 1 July 1916, over 1m shells were fired at the German positions” about what I had seen earlier, but also it gave me a view of life on the Front - the mud, the filth and above all the noise, with whistles of shells, the explosions as they fall and the rattle of gun-fire. It also contained an impressive display of shells. Outside the café is a two metre high wall full of unexploded shells (I hope!). It is estimated that in the week before the battle started on 1 July 1916, over 1m shells were fired at the German positions and around half of these shells failed to explode. Many of these are still lying buried in the mud and regularly surface as the land is cultivated. The next site we visited was the Newfoundland Memorial Park at Beaumont Hamel. On the first day of the battle, the 1,000 strong Newfoundland Regiment attacked the German forces, who were dug in on the site of the Memorial Park. By the end of the day, over 900 were casualties. After the War, in view of this enormous loss suffered by this Regiment, the 90 acre site was dedicated to the memory of the thousands of soldiers from Newfoundland who died for “the Mother country”. At the heart of the Memorial Park is a statue of a Caribou (a Newfoundland reindeer), seemingly mourning and calling skywards. The Caribou is the national signal of Newfoundland and symbolises the entire 48 Link Pesach 2009 nation mourning for its lost men. From here we travelled to the Delville Wood Memorial, which was perhaps the most impressive memorial we visited. Delville Wood was considered to be of key strategic importance, so a South African brigade of 3,500 men was ordered to take the German held wood. A week later less than 800 came out unharmed, having held the wood successfully but at huge cost. Since then Delville Wood has had a place in the heart of South Africa. In 1926 a memorial was unveiled in and in 1986 a fantastic museum was opened, commemorating all the South Africans who died fighting for the Commonwealth of Nations. The most impressive items in the museum are the brass carved frescos on the walls depicting South African valour in both World Wars. From here we returned to Ypres – a long journey back gave me time to think about all I had seen that day, and realise how lucky I am not to have been born 100 years earlier. Our third day was spent around Ypres and once again, guided by Andre. First stop was to return to the Essex Farm cemetery to visit some preserved bunkers. They were very dark and claustrophobic, with only a small doorway and a very low ceiling. It was in one of these bunkers that the Canadian army doctor and poet, John McCrae wrote In Flanders Fields, one of most famous poems of the First World War. In Flanders fields the poppies blow Between the crosses, row on row, That mark our place; and in the sky The larks, still bravely singing, fly Scarce heard amid the guns below. We are the Dead. Short days ago We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow, Loved and were loved, and now we lie In Flanders fields. Take up our quarrel with the foe: To you from failing hands we throw The torch; be yours to hold it high. If ye break faith with us who die We shall not sleep, though poppies grow In Flanders fields. It was a funny feeling, being on the spot where the beautiful and moving poem was actually written. Andre then pointed out to us some of the notable graves in the cemetery. The most well-known is that of Valentine Joe Struckwick. He was only 15 when he was killed. That’s just 10 months older than I am at the time that I’m writing this article. As I saw his grave I felt a whirl-wind of emotions. Slightly proud that this boy had chosen to sacrifice himself for his country but mostly resentment and anger with the system of the British army that had definitely not stopped and even encouraged under-age teenagers to join up. Next we went to visit another German cemetery - Langemark. Langemark now contains the remains of 44,000 soldiers, but was originally much smaller. In the 1960’s the Belgium government closed down numerous German cemeteries & ordered that the remains be moved to Langemark. Eventually a huge cemetery evolved. Like Fricourt in the Somme, Langemark is very dark because the Belgians also wished to impose humiliating conditions on Germany, and instructed the designers to make it unobtrusive and blend in with the surrounding areas. At its entrance there is a large flower bed, half the size of a tennis court, which is in fact a mass grave containing 25,000 bodies! I was unable to even grasp in my mind that 25000 people were buried in such as small place. Once inside the main part of the cemetery, there lie many headstones, small, flat and black in colour (a real contrast to the white stones which fill the British cemeteries). Under each stone are buried five to eight men. This is both to save space and also to symbolise comradeship in death. I was particularly touched by this idea. On the way to our last cemetery, Tyne Cot and the Thiepville Memorial, we drove past a barn where there was a pile of old ordinance lying outside waiting to be collected by the Belgian army for disposal (known as the Iron Harvest). We stopped and went inside, where the farmer showed us some memorabilia he had found whilst ploughing the fields over the years. He had grenades, shells, detonators, helmets, bullets, grenades and a rusty rifle all the explosives were still live! I found this quite frightening and although I knew that the whole area is littered with live ammunition and explosives that could go off at any moment, to be actually so close to dangerous items was scary. Soon we reached Tyne Cot. The vast cemetery contains 11,954 burials and seems to stretch on forever. The area was captured by Australian troops on 4th October 1917. That date bares special significance to me as it is my birthday. When I first visited this cemetery the year before, I found the grave of an Australian Jewish medic, Private Marcus Leslie Marks, who died on that date. At the foot of his grave-stone was the Hebrew inscription “Mordechai, son of Moshe fell on Chol Hamoed Sukkot 18th Tishrei 5678”. I found this particularly moving. Seeing Hebrew in such a place made me feel proud that Jewish soldiers had also made sacrifices in this war. I laid a Magen David grave-marker in the shadow of the headstone and shed a tear as I walked away. Our final destination that day was the preserved trench system at Sanctuary Wood. In 1916, the Canadians dug into the hill just before the battle of Mount Sorrel. The trench system survived after the war (unlike most trenches which were filled by farmers and returned to cultivation as soon as the war ended) and was bought by a Belgian who had the vision to preserve the trenches. The shattered wood was planted with new saplings but the numerous shell-holes and craters were left. It was made into a piece of living history and opened to the public. The trenches are extremely muddy and about six feet deep and two feet wide. The corrugated iron has rusted over the years and been replaced, as have the wooden duck boards to prevent you from sinking into the mud. Only one thing has stayed the same - the mud. In certain places it is two – three foot deep. I slipped off a duck board and unfortunately fell in and was soaked with mud up to my thigh! Although I was muddy when I came out from the trenches, it gave me a little taste of the conditions seen by the soldiers who lived in them. Before our trip, I saw a film called The Trench (starring Daniel Craig and well worth watching), so I had some idea of the filth but I never realised how deep it was if you fell in! On our last morning, we visited the newly opened Passchendale Memorial Museum. As a modern museum, it exhibits artefacts in a way I did not see at any of the other more established museums we visited. For example, in the display on gas, it shows a cabinet full of gas-masks but next to that are three tubes labelled mustard gas, chlorine and phosphogene. If you smell the tubes, you can detect the strong odour of the gases. Although you know it is not real, it’s still terrifying and I could not stop coughing! There is also a fantastic full size basement exhibit, which is a re-created underground dugout system. I climbed down a steep ladder into a badly lit and dingy dugout system, showing how life was life underground. As soon as I reached the foot of the ladder, I felt an over-powering sensation of claustrophobia, as if I wasn’t going to ever be able to get out of it again. This made me think about how soldiers would have to go underground for days or even months without seeing sunlight. Every so often I heard the sound of an explosion and the ceiling, walls and floor vibrated. I spent 10 uncomfortable minutes in the system before leaving it . When I climbed out and I stood at the entrance, I really thought how lucky I was to be able to just walk out and get back into the car and drive home, back to my comfortable life. Millions were not able to make that journey. 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Welcome to the City of Angels, where the sun always shines and the fun never wanes. When most people envisage LA, they think of a celebrity-ridden, wealth-driven mecca that merely attracts the bold and the beautiful. Before jetting off there, Alex and I were asked several times why we had chosen to venture to such a place. And after spending ten days there as well as four in Las Vegas (more on that later), I can reaffirm that LA certainly has its fair share of bling. But it has so much more to offer than most people realise, and the media definitely doesn’t do this fabulous city justice. For starters, LA has an almost year-round perfect climate. So you can book your holiday safe in the knowledge that none of your plans will be rained off – just as well because we had a jampacked itinerary just waiting to be followed. On the day we were due to fly out there, we woke up excited and eager with anticipation. What would LA really be like? And although I had previously been to Florida and New York, I’d never flown quite this far west before. Eleven hours takes quite some doing for a fidgety person like me. But we flew American Airlines who provided an endless array of films, kosher meals and snacks to keep us going so the time soon passed by. As we arrived at LAX airport and picked up our luggage, we hopped on a shuttle and made our way to the first of the three hotels we would be staying in on our trip. And how different each of them turned out to be! The Millennium Biltmore hotel in Downtown LA is a grand hotel with great transport links nearby. A number of people had advised us to hire a car for the duration of our holiday as there is apparently “no public transport in LA”. But we didn’t heed their warnings and 50 Link Pesach 2009 happily got around by bus and metro, so I am not sure how such rumours started! So what did we actually do in LA? Well, we barely had a spare minute there was so much to do. We visited Universal Studios, which gave us a fantastic day out with rides, film sets and thrills galore. In Hollywood, we took a three-hour tour of the Hollywood sign and over sixty celebrity homes, and strolled along the mile-long Walk of Fame picking out all of our favourite celebrities’ stars. We also went to the Kodak Theatre, at which the annual Oscars awards ceremony is held and saw the handprints of film, television and music stars from years gone by. LA has some beautiful beaches, two of which we visited. Santa Monica beach is great for topping up your tan whilst people watching and Venice Beach is an eclectic beach lined with stalls that rather reminded me of Camden Market. There is even a shul there called The Shul on the Beach! For the shopaholics amongst us, there is the famous Rodeo Drive, home to Tiffany, Dior and other mega-brands, and for the more frugal there are various shopping malls such as the Beverly Centre which offer more affordable wares. There is also Disneyworld for the big kids in all of us. Our second hotel in LA was the boutique-style Maison 140 in Beverly Hills. This was situated just minutes from Rodeo Drive and provided an excellent base for our numerous trips to Pico Boulevard – home to the majority of LA’s cornucopia of kosher restaurants. Think Golders Green Road but ten times the size, half the price and even with its own glatt kosher Subway which Golders Green certainly doesn’t have – heaven! And let me tell you, low prices do not equal small portions in LA. After vastly over-ordering on our first night there, we quickly learned our lesson and were more sensible for the rest of our holiday. With such amaz- ing food on offer, I couldn’t help but wonder where all the skinny plastic surgery-enhanced people I had read about in the papers were. And the truth is that there are just not as many of them as we are led to believe. Midway through our holiday, we flew to Las Vegas for a four-day excursion. And in Vegas, seeing really is believing. Firstly, the weather is like nothing you have ever experienced before. It is literally like stepping into a hot oven, and there are water spritzers located all over the place to cool you down. Vegas hotels are not simply hotels – they are hotels, casinos, shopping centres, restaurants and cafes all rolled into one. Each has a theme, and various attractions that make it different to the others. For instance, we stayed in Planet Hollywood which has a ‘Miracle Mile’ of shops. There are lions in the MGM and a rollercoaster at New York, New York. A must-see is the spectacular fountains at the Bellagio. We also took a trip to the phenomenal Stratosphere hotel, which has a bar at the top entitled Romance at the Top of the World – a definite for all love-birds – where we enjoyed cocktails whilst overlooking the entire city lit up at night. We also managed to fit in a show – namely Ice – at the Riviera hotel. This was a fantastic performance involving acrobatics on ice which we would wholeheartedly recommend. And in the city that never sleeps, the 24-hour lifestyle means that it is not unusual to see people gambling at 3am, sitting in Starbucks at 4am or just soaking up the atmosphere at 5am. You can easily forget what time of day it is as there are no windows or clocks in any of the casinos. Although it is “Vegas hotels are not simply hotels they are hotels, casinos, shopping centres, restaurants and cafés all rolled into one.” amazing in every sense of the word, we decided to use one of our days in Vegas to enjoy a day trip to the Grand Canyon which provided breathtaking views and was a truly humbling experience. We stopped off at the Hoover Dam on the way, and travelled along the iconic Route 66. After what can only be described as a surreal experience in Vegas, we headed back to LA for the remaining five days of our stay. On our first Shabbat there, we enjoyed Friday night at Chabad, and on our second we went to a nearby shul where we were fortunate enough to be invited back to some people’s house for lunch after the service on Shabbat morning, and treated to some superb hospitality. One of the best things about going to somewhere like LA is that you don’t for one minute have to worry about sourcing kosher food – from the string of restaurants to the OU-marked products found in most shops and supermarkets we really were spoiled for choice. There is an eighthour time difference between LA and London, but we only really felt jetlagged upon our return and even then it wasn’t as bad as people made it out to be. I hope that I’ve given you a positive insight into this incredible place. If you’re after a fun-filled, exciting holiday destination which will leave you with memories to treasure forever, LA and Las Vegas is an ideal combination. You’ll enjoy thrills, spills and will well and truly live the American dream for however long you’re there. Have fun! Lauren Krotosky Potters Bar Golf Club Darkes Lane, Potters Bar, EN6 1DE Tel 01707 652020 Welcomes you to visit our fabulous Golf Club. Green Fees from £20.00 Societies Welcome Membership Available Link Pesach 2009 51 Texans say “Remember the Alamo!” but at the end of Seder it’s always “Next year in Jerusalem!” David Onnie profiles the Jews fighting for Texan independence and asks whether any were at the final battle for the Alamo. The Jews of the Alamo © Image from BigStockPhoto.com © Image from BigStockPhoto.com People visit members of their family all over the world these days. It’s simple really, you pay for an extortionately priced ticket, squeeze into the sardine tin masquerading as a passenger aircraft and arrive at your destination to spend your hard earned precious holiday time with the relatives (family to some, out-laws to others, to be more precise). But it’s the destination that I’ve always been interested in. And when I heard friends and other members of the Community talking about visiting relatives in Dallas, Texas, my interest was transformed into curiosity. To be honest it’s not so much the Jewish community of Dallas (unfortunately Dallas appears to be synonymous in this country with the tacky but riveting 1980’s soap of that name along with stetsons, oil and cattle) which caught my attention but somewhere else in Texas, not actually a town or city, but a huge name nevertheless – The Alamo. So, what about the Alamo ? It was an eighteenth century mission in San Antonio, Texas, the scene of the most famous battle in the Texan Revolution against Mexican control which took place in March 1836. The battle has been the subject of various films (many will have seen John Wayne, Richard Widmark et al dramatically fight General Santa Anna’s troops to the death in the 1960 version in glorious technicolour) and much historical research. But apart from the battle for the Alamo taking place on the eve of Pesach one hundred and seventy three years ago what interest does it have to we Jews as we sit around the modern Seder table ? If I was being argumentative I would say that there’s an obvious parallel between the flight of the Jewish people from the bonds of slavery in Egypt and evil Pharoh and the fight (come on, 52 Link Pesach 2009 give me a break, “fight” is the same as “flight” but without the letter “l” !) of the Texans to wrest control of Texas from the Mexicans and the despotic dictator Santa Anna. But today I’m not being argumentative (for a change !), just honest, and actually there’s no obvious parallel. There is, however, a Jewish connection with the battle at the Alamo and the fight for Texan independence which funnily enough isn’t featured in Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer’s 1960 blockbuster. So, was there a Jew fighting at the Alamo for Texan independence ? The answer is not that the legendary frontiersman, Davy Crockett, who died at the Alamo was a Jew and that his real name was Dovid Crockett. The correct answer is a little more interesting than that ! There were actually several known Jews who fought for Texan independence – notable examples include multi lingual (seven to be precise) German-Jewish immigrant Nicholas Adolphus Sterne who eventually became a state senator after a distinguished career helping to finance, organize and fight in the Texan revolution – upon being captured by the Mexicans and sentenced to death his Masonic connections led to the Texan Masons intervening with the Mexican Masons on his behalf and a release being negotiated. Dr. Albert Moses Levy, another immigrant from England and Holland became Surgeon-General of General Sam Houston’s regular Texan army. At the Mexican massacre of over three hundred Texan prisoners of war at Goliad, three Jewish soldiers, Herman Ehrenburg, Benjamin Mordecai and M. K. Moses managed with a few others to escape. The rest including nineteen year old Jewish soldier, Edward Isaac Johnson, were not so lucky. However, my brief and narrower focus is merely on two other Jewish volunteers who were present at the siege or fall of the Alamo. Like other Texan volunteers their reasons for fighting the Mexicans ranged from a belief in the right to freedom to more commercial reasons – the offer of land. One of these, Avram Wolf, was a widower and previously from England. Accompanied by his two young sons, Michael and Benjamin, he arrived in Texas in 1835 but all three were killed at the Alamo. The other was Louis “Moses” Rose who actually fought at the first battle of the Alamo (when it was liberated from the Mexican army) and was also there in the days leading up to its eventual capitulation to the returning Mexican forces (the nickname “Moses” was given to Rose due to his age – 51 ) . Rose actually survived the fall of the Alamo although how he escaped has not been corroborated by historical records (it is believed he escaped through an open window the evening before the final onslaught and evaded the surrounding Mexican forces). Neither has his background been completely verified by the curators of the Alamo museum although it is believed he was a French Jew, originally from AlsaceLorraine. European records apparently show that Rose fought in various campaigns (Portugal, Spain and Russia) with Napoleon’s army and was a mercenary. After the Alamo, part of his fame (apart from being known as “The Coward of the Alamo” in Texas history) rested on his recounting of what became the legendary story of Colonel B.Travis (the commander of the Alamo garrison) drawing a line in the sand floor with his sword and challenging all those who were willing to remain at the Alamo to cross it and fight to the death. Rose was the only man not to cross the line (watch the John Wayne film version of the Alamo and although I think the line in the sand moment is recreated I don’t recall anyone not stepping over it!) and, when asked years later as to why he didn’t do so, his response was, “By God, I wasn’t ready to die”. This statement obviously didn’t help his reputation, especially in Texas, and indeed there is a song named after him – the first verse comprises the following words : "He's Moses Rose of Texas, and today nobody knows, he's the one who left the Alamo, the night before the foe, came storming in up across the walls, and killed the men inside, but Moses Rose of Texas is the one who never died." Louis “Moses” Rose died in 1851 without having married and his relatives presented the Alamo museum with his old musket in 1927 which remains there today. During the months which followed the fall of the Alamo the famous words “Remember the Alamo” became an often heard battle cry and, to this day, the Alamo has become one of Texan history’s enduring legends. “Remember the Alamo !” – that’s some slogan but no, Texan Jews don’t utter the words “Remember the Alamo” at the end of their Seder. No matter where you are, whatever your destination, whether you’re having Seder with the in-laws or not, it’s the same everywhere – “Next year in Jerusalem”. Thanks are due to our very good friends Elana and Alan Hirschowitz who, after being forced to listen to me during dinner wittering on about the impossible to buy “Pioneer Jewish Texans” by Natalie Ornish (an excellent read eventually), sprang into action and procured it via sister-in-law, Hilary Bernhardt, in Texas. Appreciation is also due to Jerry Klinger of the Jewish American Society for Historic Preservation who pointed me in the right direction. 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I hadn’t seen a musical production of Oliver Twist since Sam Mendes’ production in the late-ish 1990’s so it was a pleasant surprise when my daughter, Taryn, at the all girl North London Collegiate School, came home one day to announce that her year 2 together with year 1 and reception were putting on their equivalent production - Olivia! – and she was to Nancy & Fagin Taryn Onnie as Bet 54 Link Pesach 2009 play the part of Bet. Thrilled with her first ever speaking part and generally enchanted by the songs, she hummed, sang, trilled and bopped her way around the house. With this Olivia! mania sweeping through the house I was therefore persuaded to book tickets for the real thing – Oliver! A brief background check is probably appropriate here. Oliver Twist was the second of Charles Dickens’ novels and reads as a criticism of 19th century Victorian England, especially the poorhouses and effect of industrialization on society. There’s much symbolism and pairing of themes throughout which I am pleased to say has translated onto the stage effortlessly – good versus evil, food (the half starved poorhouse wretches and the fat governors who administer it), sin and redemption (Nancy redeems herself at the cost of her life), crime and punishment (Bill Sikes is chased to his death, Fagin is hanged) and various others. Dickens also dished up, for good measure, a variety of extreme caricatures such as Mr Bumble who, despite his own self importance, mixes things up, and Mr Sowerberry, the undertaker, named for his permanent facial expression. But on to the show! Dominant characters are of course Fagin, Nancy and the Artful Dodger. However, Nancy is dominant for very different reasons to the other two. Played with gusto and with an immensely powerful voice by reality TV winner, Jodie Prenger, you can’t help but warm to her gutsy and strong performance. She can also act, convincingly displaying a woman torn between giving up Bill Sikes and saving Oliver. She also sings a thumping “As Long As He Needs Me” and “Oom Pah Pah”. The Artful Dodger and Fagin are central because, put simply, they have roles where they court the audience with their dances and lively songs (for example Dodger’s “I’ll do Anything” and “Consider Yourself”, Fagin’s “You’ve Got To Pick A Pocket Or Two” and “Reviewing The Situation”). This leads me on to Rowan Atkinson. Let’s face it, the role of Fagin will always be Ron Moody’s, no matter who tries to interpret or play the role differently (and I’m not sure there are many interpretations – the role is either darker, à la Moody, or is injected with a little more comedy as Atkinson tries to do). But Rowan Atkinson does do well and there are only a couple of occasions when you see Mr Bean’s mannerisms revealing them- selves, especially when he sings Reviewing The Situation. Fagin was viciously caricatured as a Jew in Charles Dickens, the novel, although he is mainly portrayed with humour on stage – his vocation, miserly nature and Yiddush sounding accent (Rowan Atkinson’s attempt sounded almost South Africanin places) are an obvious giveaway, even on stage, as to his ethnic background. And what about Oliver ? The character is both a gentle and genteel orphaned boy, struggling at the poorhouse and with his lot in life. Playing the good un’ with a pure heart is never easy but Oliver leads the poorhouse children into a thrilling “Food Glorious Food” in the opening scene and his “Where Is Love?” is flawless (it really is a lovely song). Of course Dodger always overshadows Oliver in the scenes they play together but, as mentioned above, the Dodger has the advantage with his cocky character and chirpy songs which are always endearing to an audience. The other characters are generally well played according to type – Bill Sykes, the criminal, is a vicious bully with an explosive temper, Bet is an almost permanent companion to Nancy on the stage (she is actually present in more scenes than one realises), Mr Bumble a robust caricature of pomposity and excess, and then there’s Mr Sowerberry, the undertaker. The latter’s role is always a nice little turn and “That’s Your Funeral” is a fun song accompanied by Mrs Sowerberry and Mr Bumble. One other song worth a mention is “Who Will Buy” – it was sung with a fantastic vocal harmony by the vendors and traders in the street scene outside Mr Brownlow’s house. A brief mention of the stage sets is also necessary. Dickens portrayed a brutal existence in his novel and this is reflected well in the dark, dimly lit London streets (as well as corrupt Fagin’s dark underground lair) on stage, contrasting with the light open areas where the good Mr Brownlow lives. 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Tutti Gusti, a kosher Italian in Edgware, is one of a new breed of restaurants aiming to turn this image on its head. The difference is obvious as soon as you walk in. For a start, this place really feels like an Italian restaurant, from the oversized bottles of Chianti hanging from the ceiling to the black and white photos of Italy that adorn the walls and menus, to the basic but comfortable wooden chairs and tables. And, when we visited on a Sunday night, it was packed. Like all good Italian restaurants there were large groups of people taking excessively long over their meals, delaying everyone else in the process. There were children running amok, threatening calamity through a series of near misses with the good-natured serving staff. And it was noisy – the volume made it feel like Shul on a Shabbat morning. So far, so Italian. But what about the food? The menu is classic Italian, with light starters followed by pizzas, pastas and tempting desserts. Not a savaloy or a slice of picked meat in sight. In fact, the only difference with a traditional Italian restaurant is the lack of meat – Tutti Gusti is mostly vegetarian, although it does serve fish. The appetisers were a decent, although not stunning, start to the meal. Mozzarella in Carozza, was a thin, slightly dry slice of mozzarella cheese deep fried in breadcrumbs. Probably not the buffalo mozzarella so beloved of Italians. The oddly-named Art to Heart was a refreshing salad of mango and avocado, inexplicably arranged into a heart shape. Peperonata was cooked mixed peppers, served in a warm tomato sauce. It was tasty but it came with lettuce (which tasted strange in the hot sauce), but not any bread, which it could have done with. The main courses were a great improvement. Certainly, there was no skimping on the portion sizes and none of us managed to finish. I had Papardelli ai ceci, an unusual pasta dish cooked with chick peas. It had a dense, nutty flavour, finished with rosemary. My only complaint was that the pasta was overcooked 56 Link Pesach 2009 (the Italians would have been horrified), and started to disintegrate as the meal progressed. The other pasta dish we sampled was the lasagne. It looked the part, coming bubbling hot in its own dish. There was a good range of vegetables, and a generous helping of sauce. Two of our party had pizzas, baked in the restaurant’s wood-fired oven. Both were excellent. The tuna pizza came with lots of tuna (which can’t always be taken for granted), was nicely moist and had lots of flavour provided by an abundance of capers. The smoked salmon pizza (this is a kosher restaurant, after all), had a generous amount of salmon although there was perhaps too much rocket sprinkled on top. Then came the dessert – always a highlight of any Italian restaurant. Sadly, there was no dessert trolley (these cream-laden tributes to all that is unhealthy have probably been outlawed by health and safety regulations). However, there is a wheel of ice cream. Yes, a wheel. The first sight that greets you when you enter Tutti Gusti is a circular freezer filled with ice cream that rotates to display its wares. There are 12 flavours available, all home made. The ice cream had a dense, almost sticky consistency and again there was no skimping on the ingredients. The chocolate ice cream was very chocolatey and the coffee really tasted of coffee. Ice cream enthusiasts can even take the stuff home. The restaurant has polystyrene boxes at the ready. All in all then, a refreshing change from the standard haimishe fayre which will satisfy all but the most committed carnivores. Our marks out of ten were: Service: 7 Atmosphere and décor: 9 Starters: 6 Main courses: 8 Desserts: 10 Overall: 8 Marc Shoffman gets his taste buds all tingling. Olive Tasting Putting together Link magazine sure makes us peckish. And with a Greek theme running through this section we thought we would dig in to the traditional Mediterranean treat, olives. The olive has become part of the staple diet amongst the Jewish people. It is one of Israel’s key exports and is often used as a symbol for the nation and its desire for peace. It can be found at most Jewish events alongside the schmaltz herring and that embarrassing uncle who wears white socks with black shoes. The fruit even gets several mentions in the bible. In Genesis a dove brings an olive branch to Noah after the flood and olive oil is described in the Chanukah story as the type of fuel used to light the eternal flame for eight days. The Ancient Greeks were just as crazy about the olive. The poet Homer mentions it in his work, the Iliad. It is referred to as a luxury of the wealthy and a reward for warriors. So one Sunday afternoon in 2009, the good old warriors who fight to put Link magazine together sat down to put these ancient appetisers to the test. Olive forks at the ready, (thank-you John Lewis Gift List), here we go… Crespo pitted dry black olivesWhen it comes to looks these olives definitely hit a few ugly branches on the way down from the tree. And the taste wasn’t much better. They were salty and strong enough to knock Popeye out and would most likely obliterate anything in their vicinity. Taste 1 Texture 2 Appearance 1 Overall 1 Beit Hashita marinated XL black olivesThese olives arrived with so much promise. But even before we could dig a fork in there were calls for trading standards to inspect. Rather than the XL size as touted on the tin, this dish was more of a little S for surprisingly small. While we are on descriptions, they weren’t even that black to be honest! In fact, they were more of a light brown. This taste test was quickly turning into a Greek tragedy. Us warriors were sure disappointed by this. However, as all fighters know, size isn’t everything. The olives actually tasted quite nice and would go well in a Greek salad Taste 3 Texture 3 Appearance 3 Overall 3 Manna Deli Herbs and Spices These saucy little olives went down really easily. There was a slight chilli taste which got the taste buds tingling but all in all it was a succulent treat that would be comfortable as a starter or nice snack. But be warned, it is a messy dish and will require a fork and a nice piece of bread to mop up leftover juice. Taste 4 Texture 4 Appearance 4 Overall 4 Manna Deli plain olives Ah the good old reliable plain olive, like those 20 year-old slippers that still fit or that childhood photo that always makes you smile. Even before you dig in your fork you know what you are going to get with this olive, a nice soft texture and satisfying aftertaste. These would go nicely in a salad or with a cheese board. Taste 3 Texture 3 Appearance 3 Overall 3 Manna Deli with lemon This style of olive was definitely like manna from heaven. Each refreshing bite took us to the Mediterranean seafront enjoying a nice summer lunch washed down with a glass or two of red wine. In fact it was a shame to come back afterwards. Taste 5 Texture 5 Appearance 5 Overall 5 Crespo green olives stuffed with pimiento Attend any Jewish event and these are more often than not the olive of choice. The taste, like a plain olive is pretty standard. It makes a good nibble dish and would live well on a pizza or pasta. This olive is nothing to write home about but it is easy enough to eat and keep your gran happy the next time she serves them. Taste 3 Texture 3 Appearance 3 Overall 3 Bene Dorone fresh green olives from a packet Most foods can be found in packet form these days from pasta sauce to mash potato. But why do olives need to be packed when they can stay just as fresh in a jar? These olives rolled out of the pack looking rather small and feeling quite soggy. Its only hope was to have a good taste. But unfortunately all we found was a big pip with a coating of sour olive. Taste 1 Texture 2 Appearance 2 Overall 1 Marc Shoffman Link Pesach 2009 57 Mark Massias explores a real Greek tragedy on the island of Kos The Story of the Jews of Kos Last summer, my family and I went to the Greek island of Kos. To a large extent this happened by accident, since we originally had intended to visit Crete, but left it rather late. We were not disappointed. The beautiful island of Kos is in the Aegean Sea, barely 4km away from the Turkish mainland. It is part of a group of islands called the Dodecanese, named since there are twelve main ones. There are also about another 150 smaller ones to keep you busy. Kos is over 40 Km long and is an ideal location for a family holiday. Bike hire is cheap and there is a lot to see in and around the island. Kos is also the birthplace of Hippocrates, the father of Medicine and there is considerable focus on this wherever you go. Kos is surrounded by other magnificent islands, some of which only have a few dozen inhabitants. If you have time, you can visit Kalymnos, an island famous for its sponge divers or Nissyros, where you can walk into the crater of a dormant volcano and feel the earth moving under your feet. Travelling between the islands is facilitated by a large number of ships which offer a frequent service. If like myself you love the sea, this is heaven on earth; beautiful scenery with thousands of years of culture as a backdrop. On the other hand, if like my wife you suffer from sea-sickness, I would suggest you have a light lunch! Before going on our trip to Kos, I bought a book entitled “The Rough Guide to the Dodecanese and East Aegean Islands” by Marc Dubin. This is a great book which gives you a good complement of both content and style. It was this book that opened my eyes to the Jewish community of Kos, which according to the book was murdered during the Second World War, with the exception of one individual. It is to those martyrs that I dedicate this piece. 58 Link Pesach 2009 All that remains of a former Jewish presence on the island is a Synagogue and an old Cemetery. The Synagogue is an art deco building constructed in the 1920s, by what one would think was a wealthy Jewish community. It is currently used as a “multi-purpose community hall” and when we went to visit, there was an exhibition of local art work. There is a small courtyard with palm trees, which reminded me of the Shuls of my native Gibraltar, which follow this style, although much older in origin. The eyecatching Shul is quite small, but in line with a community, which at the time was in the region of 120 people. As soon as you go into the Shul, on the right hand side there is a plaque with the names of the Koan (native of Kos) Jews who were murdered during the Second World War. From the names on the plaque, such as Benveniste, Capelluto and Romano, it is clear that many of them were of Italian extraction. This is not surprising since Kos was for many years under Italian control. Before the Second World War, there was a Jewish population of just over 120, with a large involvement in commerce. Italian occupation of the islands was not a great concern for the Jews, since the Italians were not pre-occupied with the Nazi racial agenda. When the Germans assumed control of Kos in October 1943, the fate of the Jews was to change direction. The Italian chief of police, a man by the name of Dante Zuchelli, was aware that it was only a matter of time until Jews would be deported. He created fake documents, in order to portray some of the Greek Jews as being Turkish nationals and hence, spare them temporarily from the Germans. When the Germans rounded up the Jews into the town hall, the names of the six Jews who were Turkish nation- als were called. The German commander then went onto calling out the names of the Jews with falsified Turkish documents and there was some panic and calls of “all or none”. At this point, the German commanding officer decided that the first six would be spared and proceeded to deport all the others. Dante Zuchelli did his utmost in trying to convince the Germans that they might be making a huge mistake, but his words fell on deaf ears. In July 1944, the Jews of Kos were walked to the harbour and from there they were taken to the port of Piraeus on the Greek mainland, where together with a larger number of Jews from the island of Rhodes, they were transported by rail to Auschwitz. Only one Koan Jew survived the horrors of Auschwitz and he eventually returned to his home where apparently, he inherited most of the wealth of the Jewish community. He died in the early 1990s and with him went away all Jewish life in Kos. It is quite saddening how much evil existed in a place of such beauty and how a Shul without congregants is like a body devoid of a soul. On my return to the UK, I contacted the Central Board of Jewish Communities in Greece (www.kis.gr) and they were kind enough to send me their magazine. I would like to thank them for providing me with invaluable information. The magazine also made me realise how Kos was a small part of the horrors inflicted on the Greek Jewish community, where 67,000 out of a population of over 77,000 perished. The plaque in the entrance of the Shul in Kos states “We will remember them for ever” and in writing this article I would like to think that I am helping to perpetuate their memory. Plaque at the entrance of Kos Synagogue Ester Aldaheff Salomone Franco Caden nee Pila Menasce Jehuda Aldaheff Regina nee Sadi Franco Giuseppe Menasce Matilde Aldaheff Amelia nee Levi Galante Guiseppe du feu Mauris Menasce Miru Aldaheff Bocor Galante Haim Menasce Mose Aldaheff Eleonora Galante Josef Menasce Vidal Aldaheff Johevet Galante Mardoche Menasce Caden nee Mizrachi Aldaheff Rachel Galante Gidia nee Israel Menasce Levi Benosiglio Sara Galante Marco Menasce Caterina nee Menasce Benosiglio Sultana Galante Ester nee Levi Menasce Mose Benosiglio Asher Hanan Mauris Mose Menasce Rachel Benosiglio Bohor Hanan Nissim Menasce Alberto Benveniste Gioia nee Avzaradel Israel Rabeno Menasce Clara Benveniste Mazaltov nee Beru Israel Rafael Menasce David Benveniste Aurelio Levi Rica nee Hasson Menasce Ester nee Franco Benveniste Giuda Levi Renata Menasce Elia Benveniste Caden nee Alalouf Levi Stella Menasce Alberto Capelluto Isacco Levi Jacob Palombo Bernardo Capelluto Giovanna nee Galante Levi Violetta nee Galante Palombo David Capelluto Isacco Levi Bocora nee Ganon Romano Giuditta Capelluto Sara nee Alcana Levi Giacobbe Romano Elsa Capelluto Giuseppe Levi Maria nee Cardanel Romano Ester Capelluto Glavina nee Hasson Levi Matilde Romano Guido Capelluto Hanula nee Romano Levi Mauris Romano Giullia Capelluto Mose Levi Sharhon Zimbul Guidallia Capelluto Nissim Levi Luna nee Israel Capelluto Estrella nee Pilas Levi Haim Capelluto Salvartore Levi Elbonara nee Menasce Danon Vittorio Levi Rachel Danon Boas du feu Haim Menasce Salomone Danon Boas du feu Marco Manasce Bocor Franco Danon Caden Menasce Rosa nee Galante Franco David Menasce David Franco Elisa Menasce Isacco Franco Ester Menasce Nissim Franco Guiseppe Menasce Mark Massias Link Pesach 2009 59 Leah Silverman hops skips and jumps around the Greek islands. The road to Rhodes This year, Trevor and I decided to expand our horizons and visit somewhere different. So we booked a holiday to Greece, in the hope of finding a blissful mix of sun, sea, history and culture. We were not disappointed. Our first stop was Athens, home to the famous Acropolis, Parthenon and other beautiful buildings such as the Hephaisteion and the remains of the Temple of Zeus. We walked around the whole city amazed by the sheer size of the columns that remain. Yet, we were reminded of the following passage by Mark Twain; “The Egyptian, the Babylonian, and the Persian rose, filled the planet with sound and splendor, then faded to dream-stuff and passed away; the Greek and the Roman followed, and made a vast noise, and they are gone; other peoples have sprung up and held their torch high for a time, but it burned out, and they sit in twilight now, or have vanished. The Jew saw them all, beat them all, and is now what he always was, exhibiting no decadence, no infirmities of age, no weakening of his parts, no slowing of his energies, no dulling of his alert and aggressive mind. All things are mortal but the Jew; all other forces pass, but he remains.” We spent Shabbat in Athens together with the wonderful hospitality of Chabad, who provided meals for all the tourists who needed some warm food and Jewish atmosphere. We met at the Beth Shalom shul for Maariv and then shared a delicious meal with some fellow English friends who happened to be in Athens at the same time, a very friendly American couple, Israelis and a large group of French tourists. It was a lovely feeling knowing that Jews of all levels of orthodoxy, from all over the world will always come together for a traditional Friday night meal. We enjoyed ourselves so much we returned the following day for lunch! The Jewish community in Athens numbers around 3,000, although only a handful came to the shul for the service. The rest of the week was spent on a few islands. We left Athens by ferry to our next destination, Ikaria, a beautiful island in the Aegean Sea barely touched by tourists. Food was not a problem – we had brought with us everything we needed and we certainly never went hungry! We then visited Patmos and finally arrived at our last stop, Rhodes. We arrived in Rhodes by ferry as the sun was 60 Link Pesach 2009 setting and slowly adjusted to the sudden change; Ikaria and Patmos were quiet, tranquil and peaceful – Rhodes was bustling, full of tourists and busy high streets. We spent the day walking around the main attractions in Old Town, a place very similar to the Old City of Jerusalem. It is walled, with cobbled streets, huge doorways and arched windows. Yet the signs of Jewish life are much more hidden in Rhodes! However, you only have to look beyond the market place to discover what Jewish life was like on the island before World War II. We first stumbled across Plateia Evreon Martyron, Square of the Jewish Martyrs. There stands the Holocaust memorial to the victims from Rhodes and Kos. 1673 members of the Jewish community were arrested and deported to Auschwitz in 1943. Only 151 survived. Close by is the Kahal Shalom, the oldest synagogue in Greece and the only remaining one on the island of Greece. Built in 1577 there are no longer any regular services, as only 38 Jews remain in Rhodes today. The shul is beautiful; mosaics cover the floor and the walls are decorated with paintings. Jews have been living in Rhodes since the time of the Macabees. In 1492 the biggest influx of Jews arrived on the island to seek refuge from the Spanish Inquisition. They brought with them their culture, customs and traditions. By the early 1920s, some 4,500 Jews lived in Rhodes and enjoyed a full Jewish existences with bakeries, yeshivot, Mikvaot and kosher meat. Today, the shul houses a museum in order to preserve the heritage of the Jews of Rhodes. It was fascinating to see photos and artefacts documenting the lives of those who had lived there. Unfortunately, there were no services or Chabad hospitality on the island, so we enjoyed Shabbat in the hotel, with some interesting ‘self-heating’ meals – it’s amazing what you can buy in the kosher shops that allows us to have a hot meal without a kitchen! We even had chicken soup! Once again we contemplated the idea that despite the loss of Jewish life in Rhodes, we are able to travel the world, live a comfortable life and keep Shabbat properly where others before us could not. Leah Silverman Link Pesach 2009 61 Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer reflects on the meaning of prayer. Contemplative Prayer There is a painting that remains etched in my mind. It is by the late Hasidic artist Zalman Kleinman and it depicts a number of Hasidim on a summer Shabbat at prayer in a small shtibel in Breneau France. Two things about the painting are unusual. The first is that the men appear to be praying individually and not together. One man is absorbed in prayer at the front of the room. Another is sitting in deep contemplation with his tallit over his head. A third is pacing the small room apparently in preparation for prayer his tallit still unfolded resting on his shoulder. The second unusual detail is the 62 Link Pesach 2009 clock in the room which reads 2:30 in the afternoon! Who are these men? Why are they praying alone? And why are they still at prayer at 2:30 on a Shabbat afternoon when everyone else is finishing lunch or having a nap? The image that Klienman depicts is one that I have seen many times as a child. It is of Chabad Hasidim engaging in what is known as hitbonenut or contemplative prayer. Unlike organized communal prayer, hitbonenut is an intensely personal experience. It begins with the individual rising early on a Shabbat morning, immersing in a mikveh and then spending the next several hours deeply immersed in Torah study. This is followed by an hour or more of silent meditation in which the individual contemplates spiritual ideas. Only after this does he actually begin to pray and such prayer can last hours and hours. One can emerge from such prayer literally a changed individual. Witnessing such prayer on a regular basis as a child it was only natural that I aspired to it myself. While I can’t say that I succeeded, the experience left an indelible mark on me. I would forever after measure the sincerity and intensity of my own prayers against the standard of someone engaged in true hitbonenut. Despite my failure to develop the art of hitbonunet I do recall one very intense prayer experience I had in the forests outside Kiev in the Ukraine in the summer of 1991. I, along with number of my friends from Yeshiva, ran a Jewish summer camp in the outskirts of Kiev. One Shabbat morning I took a long walk in the woods and came upon a deserted tree house. I decided to pray. There alone surrounded only by the sounds of the forest and the sight of golden shafts of sunlight breaking through the majestic birch trees I poured out my soul. Time melted away and I was transported. Walking back to the camp hours later I felt an inner tranquillity and elation that I had never experienced before. I have since tried to duplicate that experience, particularly when I am on holiday, to varying levels of success. Last summer while in a beautiful seaside village in Sardinia, Dina and I rose before dawn one morning to pray on a little cliff overlooking the ocean. It didn’t work for me at all. Partly because when the sun rose I found myself baking under my tallit and partly because I hadn’t really prepared myself mentally for the experience. Meaningful prayer is not something one can just switch on and off. It is something that one must work hard at and prepare for. Meaningful prayer is an art form. It is a skill that takes time to learn and develop. I am still astounded that many Jewish primary schools don’t teach prayer. That is not to say they don’t hold morning or even afternoon prayers, it is that they don’t teach children how to converse with God and how to make routine prayer meaningful and uplifting. I often return to the issue of decorum in our synagogue. Over the past year there have been improvements. Unless my mind is playing tricks on me I think there has been a slight decrease in talking during services, but we still have a long way to go. While I will continue to maintain a strict no talking policy in the Synagogue I have come to realize that this alone is not enough to stop people from chatting during the services. What is required is a deeper understanding of the nature of prayer and the possibilities it presents for a deeper and more meaningful Jewish life. To this end we have launched a new initiative; the Explanatory Service. Many of you will have already experienced this new service. It runs from 10:00 to 11:00am on Shabbat morning at the Synagogue and it is designed to break down and explain the prayer service. It is aimed at intelligent people who for one reason or another have never had a chance to really explore the structure and meaning of prayer. The service is deliberately informal with many readings in English along with plenty of singing and discussion. It is led by a rotation of knowledgeable and dedicated volunteers who wish to share their passion for prayer with others. The service currently runs on alternate weeks so please check the shul diary for the next one. I hope you will take advantage of this wonderful opportunity to learn more about the meaning, purpose and power of prayer and that you will ask your friends to join you. Together we can transform our synagogue services into uplifting spiritual experiences for everyone even if they don’t have the luxury of praying in a Ukrainian Tree House. Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer Link Pesach 2009 63 Composer and lyricist Alexander S. Bermange goes behind the scenes of the production of his latest CD Act One The Making of an Album February 2004 - The specialist musical theatre record label dresscircle.com releases the CD Weird & Wonderful, a collection of my comic songs performed by 16 West End musical stars. The album includes Jewish-themed witty ditties such as I’ve Just Started Working In A Kosher Deli and Saturday Morning Prayer, and proves to be extremely popular, even helping to land me the role of resident songwriter on BBC Radio 4’s Broadcasting House programme. In the subsequent few years, I also continue my work as a musical theatre writer, and am fortunate enough to write shows that enjoy success around the UK, the USA and Europe. This leads dresscircle.com to propose releasing a CD of songs from my musicals, featuring even more West End artists than Weird & Wonderful. I secure the backing of The Mackintosh Foundation, the NJL Foundation, The Really Useful Group and Superbreak and take up the challenge of co-ordinating what we hope will be the only album in existence to feature brand new recordings by such a large number of today’s musical theatre stars. 25th March 2008 - I meet with Mike Dixon, one of the most significant musical forces in London’s West End and on British television. Mike has been kind enough to show great enthusiasm and support for my writing since we first worked together a year and a half ago, and agrees to produce the album, which is to be titled ACT ONE. 14th May 2008 - Having been in Germany for the last month and a half rehearsing my newest musical, King Drosselbart, which has just opened over there, I meet with Mike again. We put together a “dream list” of musical theatre stars whom we would love to record each of the 20 songs which we select during the course of the meeting. As they vary in style - from big anthems to comic numbers to power ballads to bombastic rock songs - a range of different voices is required. 64 Link Pesach 2009 In the ensuing weeks we submit demos to our wish list of artists, and are delighted at their readiness to lend their considerable vocal talents to this project. We aim to record the album at Winterbrook Studios, London in the week commencing 21st July, and set up an appropriate schedule. I also arrange to meet with each of the singers for a 90 minute rehearsal and an hour long chat about their respective songs a week or two prior to their recording session. 11th June 2008 - Today, unexpectedly, is our first day in the studio! Several performers whom we were keen to have on the album are unavailable in our planned recording week, and so we have set up various sessions between now and then to accommodate their schedules. Today’s artist is Jon Lee, who has just starred as Marius in Les Misérables, having had four top 5 albums as a member of pop group S Club, meaning that he is no stranger to recording studios and the session goes very well. Over the next few weeks, prior to our designated recording week, we fit in further sessions with Mark Evans (who recently appeared on BBC 1’s Eurovision - Your Country Needs You, having previously starred as Troy in High School Musical), Susan McFadden (currently starring as Milly in Seven Brides For Seven Brothers, having just starred as Sandy in Grease after winning ITV’s Grease Is The Word), Lara Pulver (soon to be starring as Isabella in BBC 1’s Robin Hood, having just starred as Lucille in Parade) and Joanna Ampil (just starred as Fantine in Les Misérables). I am becoming increasingly starstruck by the artists whom I am hearing perform my work and mesmerised by their wonderful performances of it. Also during this time, I oversee the design of the CD artwork, which is being done by Mark Baker at Barbel Graphics, who previously designed (among other things!) the Weird & Wonderful CD sleeve. We develop various ideas using different photographs, fonts and colours. 14th July 2008 - The start of the rehearsal week - at least for those performers who have not already had to rehearse or record their tracks! I have worked with a number of the artists before, while I am working with others for the first time. During the rehearsals, I not only teach the artists the songs, but also discuss with them their interpretation and the characters who sing their song in the musical from which it is taken. In many cases we experiment with different keys and styles of singing so as to find the approach that suits both singer and song best. The week gets off to a great start, as I rehearse a trio with Ricardo Afonso (currently starring as Galileo in We Will Rock You), Cassandra Compton (currently starring as Elizabeth in Dirty Dancing, having become popular through ITV’s The X Factor) and Sabrina Aloueche (currently starring as Scaramouche in We Will Rock You), and a solo with Linzi Hateley (currently starring as Donna in Mamma Mia!). I spend the week gravitating between Patisserie Valerie in Marylebone High Street (where I meet each of the performers for our informal chat) and The Music Studios nearby (where we rehearse). It all goes smoothly, and the week ends with a terrific final day with Oliver Tompsett (currently starring as Fiyero in Wicked), Dean Chisnall (just starred as Ash in Never Forget), Daniel Boys (currently starring as Princeton/Rod in Avenue Q, having become popular through BBC 1’s Any Dream Will Do) and Summer Strallen (currently starring as Maria in The Sound Of Music, having become popular through Channel 4’s Hollyoaks). 21st July 2008 - The first day of our week in the studio! As I have already talked through and worked through the songs with the respective singers, and as I am also playing the piano on the album, I take more of a back seat now and hand over the artistic controls to producer Mike Dixon and engineer Andrew Lynwood. We have a terrific first day recording a trio with Ramin Karimloo (currently starring as the Phantom in The Phantom Of The Opera), Dianne Pilkington (currently starring as Glinda in Wicked) and Shona Lindsay (just starred as Rose in Aspects Of Love), and a solo with Janie Dee (currently starring as Susan in Woman In Mind). Thankfully, everything runs to plan and to schedule during the week, and we are all very excited by how everything is sounding. The week ends on a high with sessions recording a duet with Ben JamesEllis (currently starring as Link in Hairspray, having become popular through BBC 1’s Any Dream Will Do) and Alexia Khadime (just starred as Elphaba in Wicked), and solos with Oliver Thornton (soon to be starring as Adam/Felicia in Priscilla, Queen Of The Desert) and Sally Ann Triplett (just starred as Amelia in Take Flight). Yet there is still a little more to be recorded… 31st July 2008 - …..for, just as some artists could only record before our designated recording week, others can only record after that week and so we have scheduled today to get these final four performers in the studio: Jenna Lee-James (currently starring as the Narrator in Joseph And The Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat), Earl Carpenter (currently starring as Javert in Les Misérables), Dean Collinson (currently starring as Pharaoh in Joseph And The Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat) and Jon Robyns (currently starring as Marius in Les Misérables). The album is now recorded! But a lot of work remains to be done… 8th September 2008 - Andrew Lynwood and I begin mixing the tracks, after a delay necessitated by my rehearsing my newest musical in Bradford and by an overseas recording project Andrew has just undertaken. This mixing week involves checking all of the balances and levels, and selecting vocals for songs where we have several “takes” to choose from. Having had some time away from the tracks, we are pleased - and relieved! - that we still love the sound of them every bit as much as we did when we recorded them. Having mixed the album, I send a copy to triple Oscar-winning lyricist Sir Tim Rice, who has kindly agreed to write the sleeve notes for the CD. 8th October 2008 - After carefully listening to the mixes of all of the tracks, and making a few adjustments with Andrew on the basis of Mike Dixon’s and my thoughts, I take the CD to Simon Haram at Silent Age Sound to do the “mastering”. This ensures that the CD is of the highest possible sound quality. The CD includes a song recorded earlier, but never previously released, by James Gillan (just starred as Boq in Wicked), and Simon also makes some adjustments to the sound of this track so that the sound is consistent with the rest of the album. The mastering works its magic now, listening to the CD is just like having the singers perform right in front of us! 5th November 2008 - Thankfully, Tim Rice has loved the CD, which is reflected in his sleeve notes, which include his endorsement, “Alexander S. Bermange is going from strength to strength. I urge all lovers of contemporary musical theatre to add this album to their collection pronto”. His full sleeve notes have been inserted into the sleeve design, which Mark Baker and I have been continuing to tinker with but are now happy with. So, today, the master CD and artwork are finally sent to the manufacturer! 1st December 2008 - ACT ONE is released! Sales are swift, this being - as was intended the only album in existence to feature brand new recordings by such a large number of today’s musical theatre stars. The tracks start receiving a pleasing amount of airplay and I am called on to give radio interviews about the project up and down the country. But there is little respite for my creative juices, as I am soon busily composing the music for Plague Over England, opening at the Duchess Theatre in the West End in February 2009. Who knows - a song from this might eventually find its way on to ACT TWO…! Further information about the ACT ONE CD can be found at www.dresscircle.com. Full details about all of Alexander S. Bermange’s work can be found at www.bermange.co.uk. 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I have taught some of my friends how to do k’nex. If you have never tried k’nex, give it a go…you never know, you might like it too! Here are some photographs of my models Benjamin Clayden Aged 7 Link Pesach 2009 67 Emma Stone, President of Birmingham J-Soc, highlights the problem facing Jewish students on campus. The 21st Century Student I believe that one of the most important characteristics that was lost between the past generations to this generation is a sense of identity. There was no question about staying in on a Friday night, nor going out with other friends; not eating non-kosher food, in order to Emma Stone 68 Link Pesach 2009 remain the perfect child our parents expect us to be - whilst at the same time, gaining our own independence and choosing our path in life. As a fresh faced student; just off my gap year in Israel with FZY I was facing challenges that I would never have expected to face. I believe that I am an ideological person quite set in my beliefs, religiously, Zionistic and otherwise. But for the first time I was asking myself the big question of WHY. I had been brought up in a traditional Jewish home, had always attended Jewish schools, and am an active member of FZY, but never really asked myself, why? This is the most important question of all. Whilst the main reason of being a student away at University is to graduate with a Degree for our parents to schlep some real nachas; it is also about independence and finding out, who we are as people. in order to find our place in the scary big world. To be a student on campus in the last generation meant to be radical, when to be ideological and radical was cool. In this generation it is clubbing, socialising and drinking excessive amounts of alcohol; whilst university societies still exist and so does protesting; it is not to the extent of the last generation. Ultimately radicalism is seen as fanatical and weird. The struggle of being a Jewish student is more internal than external; rather than projecting Zionism and Judaism on to others, it is grappling with the ideas yourself. The frontline for assimilation begins on campus; which is a melting pot of society. The concept of marrying out is a real problem that many students grapple with; it is not uncommon for nice Jewish girls to say “it doesn’t matter that he isn’t Jewish, it’s not like I am going to marry him”. It is this frontline that the 21st Century Student has to fight. To convince Jewish peers to fight on the same side is a tough fight. Radicalism and Societies at many of the main universities are still very prominent and as much as high school may prepare you; the anti-Israel feel on campus is something that cannot be fully explained or prepared for. To be Jewish on campus necessitates defending Israel; this is not even a question anymore. The emergence of PALSoc (Palestinian Society) and ISoc (Islamic Society) is well and truly in place at many universities, and upcoming at others. This is the other type of frontline that students have to face. The backlash for students on campus is massive. However with the help of UJS and JSoc, we are very successful with our campaigns although, this takes a lot of work on the part of many dedicated students. This leads conveniently on to the work of the Jewish Society, which although I am slightly biased does fantastic work. To deal with the problems mentioned within this article, JSoc creates a counter- culture to the norm of student life. It is a forum for the issues raised, to be discussed, to allow Jewish students to create a Jewish identity, have Jewish friends and express their Jewish beliefs without having to explain themselves. Each JSoc have Friday Night events; at some universities they take place every week, in others, it is once a month. The aim is to create a family away from our families back at home. The Birmingham Jewish Society is not just a regular society; it is a way of life at University which boasts around 1500 Jewish student members. We also work with other JSocs around the country and many different organisations by sponsoring such Friday Nights, for example, organizing or bringing a speaker for an event. All activities for Jewish Students are advertised in our weekly News4Jews. Birmingham JSoc not only helped me find my feet as a student but is allowing me to make a difference in the “student bubble”. I am excited to work with such fantastic group of people on my committee, and will hopefully enjoy a successful year in office. For More information on Birmingham JSoc please don’t hesitate to email info@bhamjsoc.com Emma Stone Jodi Gothold explains what BEST is and finds out that BEST is really good. BEST by name... BEST, the newest group set up by Borehamwood and Elstree shul members, has revolutionised the local social scene by giving young adults a way to get involved in shul life and make new friends in the area. Here we find out a bit more about this new initiative. The cheese and wine event held in the Brawers’ succah attracted hordes of twenties and thirties Why was BEST set up and who is it aimed at? BEST stands for Borehamwood and Elstree Shul Twenties and Thirties. BEST was established by a group of friends who felt the need to create a group that can exist within the greater community who can come together and attract others to organise their own social events as well as a support network. Is there a committee or is it a free-for-all? The BEST philosophy is to give everyone a chance to get involved to whatever extent they want as often as they like. There is a main committee who coordinates the running of BEST and then each of the main committee members handles a sub-committee. These subcommittees are made up of volunteers who wish to get involved by being part of a committee that interests them. The sub-committees include an Event and Fundraising group, Mums and Kids group, a Support group and a Welcome group. These are similar to groups already set up within the main shul structure, however the point is not to compete with, but to assist and support each other to attract more people to get involved in shul life through BEST. What has the general reaction been like? The general reaction has been extremely positive and encouraging from all sides. The Rabbi and Rebbetzin have been directly involved, from kindly hosting our first event – a Cheese and Wine in the Succah which attracted nearly 70 people – to having nights out for the boys and girls respectively. They have also supported and advised us on various matters in order help with the development of BEST. The board invited us to present our ideas at a board meeting and board members attended one of our general BEST meetings. We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received and look forward to continuing to grow the relationship between BEST and the shul. Word seems to have spread about BEST and we are even being asked to advertise various events within the wider London community to our members. What progress has been made so far and what plans are in the pipeline? As already mentioned we had a very successful Cheese and Wine in the Succah last year and the BEST Friday dinner at the shul with the Brawers was a great success and even attracted members of the Fed which is lovely as it opens up the general networking objectives of the group. The mums and kids group meets up regularly and attends children’s groups together, and is already introducing mums who live in the area to each other. As the weather gets warmer we hope to have a picnic for all BEST members and their families as well as start some fundraising events so that we can contribute towards the eruv scheme. Even though there is a special BEST Facebook page, plans have been devised to create a special BEST page on the shul website where members can message each other and events and activities can be promoted. We are also going to publish a newsletter. The Welcome group will work with Clare Saffer and the official shul Welcoming Committee to encourage young adults to join BEST, and also intends to create a Welcome Pack including a directory with general info about living in the area, however this is still in planning phase. How are activities, events and suchlike funded? Until now events have either been sponsored by the shul or paid for by attendees. Hopefully as time goes on we will be able to have more fundraising events to grow a fund for BEST in order to subsidise events and activities. Please remember that we are open to new ideas and ask that anyone who wishes to get involved or has any questions to email bestshul@hotmail.co.uk. Wishing you a happy and kosher Pesach! Jodi Gothold Link Pesach 2009 69 One man’s quest to find and reveal the “forgotten” mass graves of the Jews murdered in eastern Europe - David Onnie meets Catholic priest Father Desbois. Father Patrick Desbois I met Father Patrick Desbois after his address to the Hertfordshire Learning Exchange late last year. He appeared a quiet, modest man as surely befits a priest. From reading his book (“The Holocaust by Bullets”) there is nothing in his upbringing in France to suggest that a Father Desbois Photos ©Erez Lichtfeld & Guillaume Ribot 70 Link Pesach 2009 spiritual position awaited him and certainly nothing to even hint at what has become his focus. And he is the first to admit this. He became interested in the mass shootings after hearing his grandfather (who had been a French prisoner of war in a labour camp) recount various stories of his life in the camp but only that it had been worse for the “others”. Years later when trying to locate his grandfather’s camp at Rawa-Ruska, he realised that the “others” of whom his grandfather had spoken were the Jews. Amongst other posts Father Desbois is the President of the Yahad-In-Unum Association created in 2004 to increase the knowledge and cooperation between Jews and Catholics. One of its main projects (and indeed this is also his determined quest) is to locate the mass graves of the Jews murdered by the death squads in the Ukraine and Belarus areas. Father Desbois has an intensity about him, perhaps from his dark, penetrating eyes or perhaps from the seriousness of his task. The question he asks is simple – where did the estimated 1.5 million Jews of Ukraine and Belarus disappear ? The crumbling remains of the death camps and slave labour camps are evidence of the location of the heinous crimes which were perpetrated there but what of those who were killed by the bullet ? As he says in his book, he has collected the bullet cartridges (see the photograph of the white sacks of cartridge casings opposite) as proof of the Holocaust which took place outside the camps where there were , “No gas chambers, no automation, no socalled “mechanization”. A man assassinating another man.” But Father Desbois’ work does not just stop at finding the mass graves – that’s actually hard enough. He has taken it upon himself to actually find witnesses to the mass murders and to video their testimony. These witnesses would have been children or youths during the war, perhaps playing in the woods, in the street, in the fields. Nobody in the villages and hamlets of the Ukraine, most trapped in a time warp, has spoken about the mass murders since the war and why would they ? Who was interested and, anyway, anti-semitism was rife (and still is). But the evil secrets hidden in the vastness of the Ukraine and rumours always persisted, and if there was a person who could gently investigate, who better than a Catholic priest to approach these quasi religious villagers and townsfolk . Now, these witnesses would of course be in their eighties and nineties now, their memory requiring to be unlocked and rewound to remember events they would much rather forget. When commencing the interview Father Desbois always tries to recreate the atmosphere of the time, the individual’s family, the person’s age, where they lived and then, crucially, “Who lived in the village? Was there a Jewish school ? Were there Germans in the village ? Which road did the Germans use ? What happened to the Jews ? How were they taken from the village ?”. Step by step he gets closer to the question of the mass murder until the witness is able to point to or show where the massacre took place. The photographs opposite show various witnesses, all in their twilight years, being interviewed and revealing, sometimes with much emotion, the locations of the killings. But this article does scant justice to Father Desbois’ mission. Buy the book and read for yourself. In the meantime let me leave you with the following words which powerfully and clearly illustrate the context and objective of just what Father Desbois is trying to achieve : “While the mass graves of the thousands of Jews who were shot are untraceable, every German killed during the war has been reburied and identified by name. The cemeteries are on the scale of the Reich. Magnificent cemeteries for the Germans, including the SS, little graves for the French, white stones covered in brambles for the tens of thousands of anonymous Soviet soldiers, and absolutely nothing for the Jews. Thus, under the ground, everything is still in order according to the hierarchy of the Reich. We cannot give a posthumous victory to Nazism. We cannot leave the Jews buried like animals. We cannot accept this state of affairs and allow our continent to be built on the obliterated memory of the victims of the Reich”. Page 34, The Holocaust by Bullets”. David Onnie Link Pesach 2009 71 Not a breakfast cereal but a serial case of the blues. Crunched... but still standing... a survivor’s guide to redundancy You may have ‘seen it coming’ – but being made redundant is a thoroughly unpleasant experience. After the initial shock, emotions are overwhelming. Paying bills? Telling family and friends? Your structured routine suddenly wiped out? In the words of Lance © Image from BigStockPhoto.com 72 Link Pesach 2009 Corporal Jones from Dad’s Army “don’t panic!” but follow these tips ONE – Finances - speak to organisations where you have a financial obligation - banks, building societies, schools and synagogues. Get advice from your Citizens Advice Bureau and Job Centre about relevant benefits. TWO – Get support from family and friends – this also kick-starts networking opportunities to find work again. If someone is negative – stress that you need positive support right now. THREE - use time constructively - Call the Employment Resource Centre (ERC) -who help unemployed Jewish people return to work. The ERC provides help for everyone over the age of 17 – and we see people from all backgrounds, people who have been made redundant, those who are returners to work after raising a family or caring for elderly dependants, people newly arrived from abroad providing they are eligible to work in the UK, as well as students who have left school or university and are unsure how to proceed in a working world. For returners and graduates, there are additional support seminars which focus on their particular needs and requirements. The ERC service covers all types of employment – manufacturing, commerce, the professions and public/ voluntary sectors. Since 1992, over 7500 people have been helped by the ERC. One-to-one support from skilled Advisors and a wide range of relevant seminars help clients with CVs, interview skills and networking opportunities. The ERC advises on career transitions and starting your own business. It builds confidence, encourages self-development, study and volunteering to keep clients active during job search and provides a professional, welcoming place that is confidential and FREE. With the right support, negatives are transformed into positives and clients are helped to think laterally about opportunities opening doors for a better future. If you are unemployed and think the ERC can help - call 020 8883 1000 or email office@ercentre.org. Whilst the ERC is not a recruitment agency and does not directly find jobs for people the centre does have a dedicated networking team who have strong relationships with employers looking for interns and new employees. The charity works on the understanding that the ERC will give its clients the tools to enable them to find a job in the most efficient and effective way possible. We are pleased to market jobs free of charge and signpost our clients to you. If you are not unemployed, but know someone who is please tell them about this article. If you want to help the ERC by volunteering, giving our clients jobs or by funding please let us know www.ercentre.org 020 8883 1000 Registered charity No 1106331 “We Jews do have a duty to do some thing about this mess we are all in” Daniel Skolnick questions whether four should be five at the Seder. Pesach: Making Our Numbers Count The number four features prominently on Pesach. We drink four cups of wine at the Seder table, ask the Four Questions in Ma Nishtana and try to understand the festival from the points of view of the Four Sons. Daniel Skolnick The symbolism of the four cups of wine has to do with the four different expressions of redemption used in the Torah’s description of how the Children of Israel would eventually leave Egypt. “Therefore say to the Children of Israel: “I am Hashem and I shall take you out from beneath the burdens of Egypt. I shall rescue you from their service and I shall redeem you with an outstretched arm and with great judgements. I shall take you to me as a people and shall be to you a G-d.” We drink the four cups of wine in order to recall these four different aspects our freedom. Intriguingly, the Talmud relates Rabbi Tarfon’s opinion that there should, in fact, be a fifth cup of wine at the Seder table. In the ensuing legal debate amongst the commentators regarding this opinion, the Tosafot did not rule in accordance with Rabbi Tarfon. However, the Rambam allows for this option by codifying that “a person may pour for himself a fifth cup of wine” and the Rayvad goes even further by insisting that one absolutely must drink a fifth cup. The Talmudic acronym “Teyku” was devised for just such a tricky situation. Thus, to prevent discord, the fifth cup is filled in order to satisfy the opinion of Rabbi Tarfon but, in order to satisfy the opposing view, we do not drink from it. The cup is, literally, a Cup of Elijah. Nevertheless, the question arises as to why anybody should assume there to be a fifth cup of wine if the cups correspond to four expressions of redemption. Interestingly, a closer examination of the above account of redemption reveals what some consider to be a fifth expression; “I shall bring you into the land” . This must have been the rationale of Rabbi Tarfon; five cups corresponding to five expressions. If so, we may now turn to the Four Questions of Ma Nishtana to see if a fifth question existed but has now been omitted. The source of Ma Nishtana is a Mishna listing the questions that a son should ask his father at the Seder table. Astonishingly, it contains a fifth question! “On all other nights we may eat meat, roasted, boiled, or cooked, but on this night we may only eat it roasted.” It seems as though the emerging pattern is highlighting the significance of the number five. If so, is there a fifth son who should be present at our Seder table but has been forgotten? The Lubavitcher Rebbe taught that there is indeed a fifth son and that he is the product of the four generations preceding him in an assimilated family. The first son, who in his wisdom understood the importance of a relationship with his Creator, is called wise. The second generation broke away from such a relationship and is therefore called evil. The third generation, who saw their grandparents valuing Judaism and their parents not doing so, became ‘tam’ meaning somebody who gradually drifts away from behaving in a positive manner but nobody realises this until it is too late . The fourth generation was so far removed from authentic Jewish education that the son didn’t even know how to ask a Jewish question. The Lubavitcher Rebbe taught that the above trend has caused a fifth generation where the son has assimilated to such an extent that he doesn’t even “The Lubavitcher Rebbe taught that there is indeed a fifth son and that he is the product of the four generations preceding him in an assimilated family.” come to sit at the Seder table any more. At the time of the Exodus, only a fifth of Jews were willing to leave Egypt . We would surely have thought such a level of apathy and disinterest impossible were it not so evident in today’s Jewish society, highlighted by alarmingly high levels of intermarriage and assimilation. Our challenge is to bring back the missing fifth child, whether directly or by helping those who can do so, in order that our collective family will merit to celebrate “next year in Jerusalem” together as one. Daniel Skolnick Link Pesach 2009 73 David Miller asks if Judaism and atheism are mutually exclusive Anyone for atheism? Being an atheist used to be easy. You didn’t have to indulge in archaic rituals. You could have a cheeseburger without worrying about mixing meat and milk and you didn’t have to accept all the rules and regulations devised by people who denied the existence of dinosaurs, David Miller 74 Link Pesach 2009 whilst doing a very good impression of actually being one. Best of all, you didn’t have to worry about your immortal soul, because it wasn’t. But as I get older - perhaps because I am getting older and therefore nearer to meeting my maker, or not as the case may be, the question arises: what if I am wrong? Just as believers can sometimes have a crisis of faith, non believers can have a similar crisis of, er, non faith. Well, you know what I mean. If a Jew stops believing in God, he asks his Rabbi for guidance. If a non believer starts to question his non beliefs, who can he turn to? Maybe he should call up a Priest, a Rabbi and an Imam and tell them that they all have five minutes to make a presentation and the winner gets to save his soul. It’s Britain’s latest reality TV show - The God Factor. Simon Cowell never thought of this one! For an atheist struggling to cope with the loss of someone, the concept of God suddenly becomes very appealing. If there is a God who will guard that person’s soul for all eternity, then the process of mourning is made that much easier. I have said a prayer to God in just such a situation, but it was in hope, rather than the expectation, of being heard. If you are an atheist, but God really does exist, then you face potentially serious consequences when you come to take your terminal breath. Although Jews do not believe in the existence of Hell (anyone who has been to Bournemouth recently might argue differently), why should God protect your soul if you have denied his very existence? It is believed that the souls of the non righteous wait for up to a year before ascending to heaven, but a God who creates souls can just as easily destroy them as if they had never been. Do you really want to take that risk? Atheists will argue that if God exists, why does he not just show himself and silence all the non believers once and for all? Perhaps he has been trying? According to the Torah, God spoke directly to Moses. Today, anyone who claims to have had a conversation with God is locked up in a secure environment and declared a lunatic. For believers, the creation of the universe is simple. God snapped his fingers and created heaven and earth. The detail is all there in chapter one of Genesis. Atheists, however, are stuck with the Big Bang theory which would have you believe that the universe, billions of light years in diameter and still growing, started out the size of a pin prick. But if the universe is expanding, what is it expanding into? What was space before it was space? On the face of it, creationism is a much easier concept to accept than evolution. Evolutionists ask you to believe that something was created out of nothing which common sense tells you is not possible. Creationists argue, more logically, that there could never have been nothing, for if there was nothing, then nothing could ever exist. Therefore there always had to be something and that something must be God. Of course philosophers will argue that nothing is in itself something and by the time you have got your head around that concept, the nice men in white coats are ready to administer your next injection. Scientists cannot tell us why the big bang occurred on the precise date that it did. Nor can they say what happened on the day before. So perhaps we are merely part of an elaborate experiment by a vastly superior life form who wishes to be known as God and who occasionally peers at us inside his goldfish bowl. Descartes said “I think, therefore I am.” What he should have said is “I think I think, therefore I think I am.” The first question we have to answer is not whether God exists but whether we do. How can we prove that we exist? We think we do but perhaps we are just a consciousness and everything and everyone around us is merely a figment of our imaginations. Well, a figment of my imagination because I could just be imagining that you are reading this. Whilst we occasionally ponder the meaning of life, we do not generally question our own existence. We simply accept Descartes’ view that we are. And if we can accept that we are, then why can atheists not accept that God is as well? How can I claim to be Jewish when I do not accept the very basic principle of faith? The short answer is that Judaism is not just about God. It is a way of life. Judaism represents a set of moral values that many of us are happy to subscribe to, and explains why an increasing number of parents send their children to faith based schools even if they are not observant themselves. I go to Shul, not in the expectation of divine enlightenment, but because it provides an opportunity for personal reflection and meditation (which would easier to attain if those members of the congregation not wishing to pray or meditate would be quiet during the service!) You don’t have to believe in God to find the Rabbi’s sermons thought provoking and spiritually uplifting. Yes, I know they are now available to download as a podcast, but live shows are always better! It might be quite nice to find out what a ham sandwich tastes like, but I won’t die feeling that my life was somehow unfulfilled for not having tried one. If Judaism would only prohibit chocolate and crisps from our diet, I wouldn’t need to keep having buttons sewn back onto my clothes! I am as proud to be Jewish as the most orthodox Jew, but I do not consider that Judaism and atheism are mutually exclusive. Of course it would be easier just to say that I believe in God, but you simply can’t fake faith. Either you believe or you don’t. But whereas the believer who loses his faith hopes one day to regain it, the non believer who starts to question his non beliefs does not necessarily want to remain an atheist. After all, who wouldn’t want there to be a God? David Miller Pesach Bite No. 3a The Pesach Sacrifice in this year of 5769 Definitely …Why not?? …..’Tis the Season of our Redemption, not only from Egypt but throughout history: Just a century or so before the destruction of the First Temple, the mighty empire building Assyrian army laid siege to Jerusalem and then on Seder night it literally dropped dead. This act of Divine deliverance has been cited by historians as a turning point in world history because, after the destruction of the First Temple by the Babylonians, the Jewish People did not follow conventional practice whereby the vanquished exchanged their defeated gods for the gods of the victors . Our people had realised, albeit too late, that G-d could have delivered them, as He had done a century earlier, but on account of our sins we were exiled from our land . Our people therefore resolved to return to their Jewish faith throughout that exile, contributing to its survival and the eventual spread of monotheism worldwide. Shortly afterwards, the Babylonian Empire was defeated by the Persians on a Seder night when its last emperor read the Writing on the Wall. In the Persian Empire, the unfolding of the events of the Purim story actually took place around Pesach time when on a Seder night the King’s sleep was disturbed etc.(Esther 6.1) Closer to our time during Pesach 1945 the first of the concentration camps on German soil, symbols of a latter-day Haman’s determination to destroy, kill and wipe out our people ,were liberated by the Western Allies. On Pesach 1948 in the Land of Israel, the strategically valuable city of Haifa , gateway to the Galil and the northern coastal plain was secured by the army of the soon to be born State of Israel . At the time of writing this article , the same brave army is trying to secure the safety of the Negev and the southern coastal plain . May G-d guard them and bless their endeavours, and grant consolation to those mourning the loss of their soldier sons, loved ones , friends and neighbours who made the ultimate sacrifice for His Name, People and Land. Bites by Paul Finn. Next Bite on page 81 Link Pesach 2009 75 So many rules? 1) Took us out of Egypt when we were slaves 2) Gave us a stunning land filled with milk and honey 3) Sustained us in the desert for 40 years The Wise Son Looking for something clever to say at the seder? This snipit should help and hopefully make you look extremely intelligent at your meal!! It will have a very quick look at a section of Pesach seder that is a little odd – the wise son’s question. We say it year on year but many never stop to actually look at the question and realise how much the question makes absolutely no sense. The son asks: ‘What are these edut, chukim and mishpatim (three types of mitzvot/commandments) that Hashem instructed you?’ The Ibn Ezra asks, ‘Why does he ask such a simple and average question?’ This guy is the supposed to be the wise son. He should know what all the mitzvot are. We would expect this sort of question from the simple son. Doesn’t the wise son know all the rules and commandments that Hashem gave us? What is he playing at?! There is clearly something deeper going on with his question and the following answer is given by Rabbi Zeff Leff: What the son is asking is: ‘What are all of these laws which we, the Jews have been given? SIX HUNDRED & THIRTEEN. It seems a bit excessive! Why was it only the Jews who got given so many rules? The non-Jews only have 7 so it begs the question: Who did we annoy so much that we ended up with 613?! What did we do so wrong to deserve this heavy burden? To answer this question, it helps to look at the track record of the person who gave us these rules (the Torah). Hashem: Photos Phot os b by y Gayle Gay yle Capturing y Capturing your ur special da day y ou friendly service Reliable and fr riendly ser vice Beautiful Be autiful photobooks photobooks Flexible packages packages Gayle Cohen Gayle C ohen www photosbygayle photosb bygayle cco o uk 76 Link Pesach 2009 Why did he do all of these things? What is the common theme? He did all of these things for our good – this is the nature of God’s actions. So in this light, it suggests that the Torah which Hashem gave to us is for our good and therefore not a yoke or a burden. This argument is backed up by the pasuk (verse): ‘Vayiten et kol hachukim ha’aylu l’tov lanu… lachayosainu kayom haz’e’ “however in order to get this gift, you need to learn Torah and do Mitzvot.” (Translation: God gave us all these commandments for our good... to give us eternal life). It is not 613 tasks but 613 opportunities. Hashem knew that as a people we have the ability to attain a share in Olam Habbah (the world to come) – a share that no other nation could attain. However in order to get this gift, you need to learn Torah and do mitzvot. So to go back to the original question: The wise son asked: ‘What are all these commandments that Hashem gave us?’ Hashem gave us 613 mitzvot to give us 613 opportunities as opposed to a mere 7. There are 613 doors to fix the world and all that we need to do is to tap into them. With this little thought, I wish everyone a happy, healthy, kosher Pesach. Anon WITH BEST WISHES FROM ORLI BAGEL BAKERY (under the supervision of the Federation) 53 SHENLEY ROAD, BOREHAMWOOD Tel : 020 8207 6203 the first claim on Jewish resources was to help the Jewish communities of Palestine (soon to become the State of Israel). Finally in 1948, Barbara (mother of former Kerem pupil and local member Andrew Zucker) and I, together with three of our cousins and a group of other children became founder pupils of Kerem House. The name Kerem, meaning “vineyard”, was chosen because of an incident that occurred during the Roman siege of Jerusalem, which led up to the destruction of the second temple. The great Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakkai had himself smuggled out of the city in a coffin by some of his students. He realised that even without a temple, Judaism would survive if there were places of learning. He created a situation where Vespasian, the Roman Commander, owed him a favour and he requested that he be given the town of Yavneh. There he assembled many teachers and students in schools that became known as Kerem b’Yavneh, which is translated into “the vineyards of Yavneh,” and where, it is suggested, the pupils sat in rows ‘like vines in a vineyard.’ By 1950, Kerem House had outgrown the premises allocated in the Shul. A local school building came on the market in Kingsley Way, which was purchased for Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, Chief Rabbi Jacobowitz and Stanley Frankfort £7,500, after much fund raising. Kerem House remains at this site today. But a kindergarten was not enough and my father’s next challenge was to establish a primary school in the area, which again involved much campaigning and fund raising. In the fullness of time this, too, was achieved and Kerem School was launched in Norrice Lea Shul hall, where it remains, today, following a number of disappointments in trying to find and finance suitable premises elsewhere in the locality. Both the kindergarten and the primary school continue to flourish and have high religious and secular standards; they are well respected by the authorities. There are an increasing number of Jewish schools in North West It's a safe bet that a fair number of our own Shul London, Hertfordshire and elsewhere in the country. Most are well members are former pupils of Kerem House or Kerem supported. School. The recent establishment and obvious success of Yavneh College, My mother is regularly invited to be guest of honwhich is close to my home, makes me think of a time, shortly after the Second World War, when the idea of a our at many Kerem functions and over the years has become a dab hand at presenting awards at their Jewish school was not so fashionable and was viewed annual prize giving events. with contempt by some members of the Jewish Currently, one of her great grand children is a pupil Community who thought it would lead to segregation. of the school, and another will be joining when he is My parents, Sybil and Stanley, were brought up in old enough. London's East End, where their fathers were founder Sadly, my father passed away five months before the members of the Dzikover Shtiebel. They moved to Kerem Schools celebrated their fiftieth anniversary, but Hampstead Garden Suburb in 1942, when they married. My father was in the army at that time where, in he has left a wonderful legacy for the Community. He addition to his military duties, he acted as an Honorary was Life President of the schools which he visited regularly and was always warmly welcomed by staff and Chaplain and was able to organize religious services pupils. whenever possible for his fellow Jewish soldiers. Both schools are still going strong and last year He was demobilised in 1946 and went into business. another milestone was reached with their sixtieth Even before the war, both my parents were well anniversary. involved in various ongoing communal activities, but So, they are half way there – ad me’ah ve’esrim my father’s vision lay in the direction of Jewish educashana! tion. By this time my sister Barbara and I were approaching school age and our parents wanted us to go to a HowardFrankfort Jewish school. As there were none nearby, there was only one thing to do. The very Anglicized members of Norrice Lea Shul, at that time, expressed their horror at the thought of such a school in their midst with kids running around with peyot and tzitzit blowing in the wind. It was OK in Stamford Hill, but not in the Suburb! Nevertheless, supported by the right team he was able to collect enough money to establish a kindergarten, in the Shul hall. This was in 1947, soon after the war, when money was scarce (even in HGS) and Howard Frankfort’s parents were instrumental in establishing the Kerem schools in Hampstead. Here he tells their story. The Kerem Schools Link Pesach 2009 77 Every day we blur the boundaries between right and wrong. Amanda Pollock asks if we’re really doing the right thing. Two wrongs and a right It’s become a bit fluid, hasn’t it? When we were kids, it seemed really clear cut. There was a right way of doing things and a wrong way, and doing the right thing made us feel good about ourselves, and doing the wrong thing made us feel a bit sick. And we really had high hopes Amanda Pollock 78 Link Pesach 2009 of doing the same things with our kids. But it started so early on. Those places where you had to pay for children over 2 years old. And the price for the over 2’s was so exorbitant, that it didn’t feel wrong to claim that our 3 year old was still 23months. We open our mail in the morning to bills, mortgage statements, and charity requests, and we all do what we can. At the same time the newspaper drops on the mat, and there is a front page story about a single mother of 13 kids who’s just been given a 9 bedroom mansion and a minibus to get around in. And while we congratulate ourselves on an entrance fee saved, or vent about the evils of the state funded elements of society, we forget that there are small pairs of eyes on us. And I have a feeling that they are getting the hang of this fluidity too. And my kids are still too small to see the newspaper headlines about financiers squandering other people’s money. They don’t take much notice of articles about social security fiddling and fraud that seem to be commonplace in the press. But even at their ages, the world is not as black and white as it was when we were small. They see that everyone is out for themselves. Of course I can justify calling in sick when it’s my child’s chanukah play, but it’s hard to ask the children to tell me the truth about who threw the paint on the floor, when they’ve heard me putting on a “sick voice” and then putting the phone down and putting on my makeup. And I’m not suggesting for a second that I shouldn’t have gone to that play. You know what I’m saying here. I was dishonest. And, deep down, it’s hard to reconcile that with the way I want my kids brought up. It’s not a religious thing, although I think that being Jewish tends to put you in the frame of mind that there are things that you do, and things that you don’t do. For example, I have a friend who went to a coffee evening a while back while she was dieting, and she knew that her willpower of being on the diet alone would not be enough to stop her from eating a chocolate biscuit. So she had a meat meal for supper, because that way she knew there was just no way she would eat the biscuit (those Rakusens parev ones aren’t worth breaking a diet for anyway!). It’s a moral thing. And life makes our decisions and our choices so much more complicated than they used to be. Yes, of course, there were always white lies. Our parents told us about the Tooth Fairy too. They warned us of dire consequences of not eating vegetables, and bucked teeth if we sucked our thumbs for too long. But it seems that kids are growing up faster these days, and what was once a white lie has expanded into an industry built to sustain the lie, and that feels a bit more dangerous. Take the Tooth Fairy. I used to put a tooth in a tissue under my pillow and the next morning there was a 20p piece lying there waiting for me. Not for our kids. The internet markets a special tooth bag to put the old tooth in. We print certificates congratulating them on keeping the tooth so clean, and explain in detail how it will be used to build up the walls of the Tooth Fairy’s castle. Yes, it’s sweet, but that white lie is getting darker. And when they take the certificate into school, to show their classmates, and there is the inevitable jaded 6 year old with a 10 year old brother who knows everything about everything, of course he witheringly brings them down to earth with a bump. And your child comes home and looks at that certificate a little differently, no matter what you say. These are hard times, shouldn’t we be doing everything we can to make them just a little easier? Doesn’t the stress of bills mounting up and our salaries becoming less reliable make our decisions that bit more open to interpretation? If we were held to account for every phone call we put through on the work line, or every letter sent from the office franking machine, would each of us be able to hold our heads up and say we’re squeaky clean? So one part of it is how everyone now thinks it is their “right” to get a little extra. If they are working for an organisation, and they do a really good job, why shouldn’t they claim a little extra on their expenses – come on, we all know it goes on, and if everyone else is doing it….. And another part of it is that all we want to do is give our kids the start in life that we never had. Our generation has the “Life is short – Play More” attitude that gives rise to wanting to grab every moment of happiness, steal ourselves a bargain, enjoy the precious present, get our priorities right, because we’re worth it. Will our kids thank us for this blurring of the rights and wrongs? Will they suffer for it? Don’t ask me – I’m busy convincing the kids that it really is Eliyahu drinking the wine from the centre of the table, not us spilling it out when they’re not looking! Amanda Pollock Denise Phillips cooks up a Pesach feast. Recipes Apple Squares Mixed Fish Passover Casserole Potato and Mushroom Pie I am always looking for something different to cook over Passover that is quick and tasty to make. I find that apple recipes are always popular, especially if they are parev and can be made in advance. This recipe is similar to apple clafoutis, a cake mixture cooked in an egg and matzah meal batter. Pears and fresh apricots could be substituted should you prefer. Note that this recipe has the advantage of being Nut Free. At Pesach, I feel especially sorry for anyone with nut allergies, because so many recipes, whether sweet or savoury, use nuts. Serve this recipe in squares and it is delicious for tea or as a dessert during Passover I always feel sorry for the people with special dietary requirements during Pesach – it can be quite a challenge to find variety and nutrition during this time. So this is a tasty fish stew that does not contain nuts and it is an ideal recipe for entertaining – most kosher restaurants are shut for the holiday so I find myself cooking even more than usual. This recipe works just as well with other fish combinations; try your own mixture and I also like to crumble matzah over the top just before serving. I have sautéed a mélange of mushrooms, surrounded it with some mashed potato and baked it; giving a new meaning to mash! Try using oyster, brown cap, shiitake and button mushrooms for a good ‘mushroom’ flavour. When you start to fry the mushrooms they suddenly release a lot of liquid. For the best results continue to cook so that all the liquid is absorbed back into the mushrooms. Preparation Time: 20 minutes Cooking Time: 45 minutes Makes: 16 squares Ingredients 1 tablespoon margarine – to grease the tin 1/2 teaspoon salt 120ml /1/2 cup vegetable oil 200g/1 ¼ cups fine matzo meal or cake meal Zest and juice of 1 lemon 5 eggs separated 2 large dessert apples, peeled, cored and thinly sliced 225g/1 cup sugar 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon Garnish: Icing sugar Method 1) Pre-heat the oven to 190 C/ 375 F/ Gas mark 5. 2) Line the base of a 20 cm/ 8 inch square tin and grease the sides. 3) Combine sugar, cinnamon, salt and matzo meal. 4) Add eggs yolks, oil and zest and juice of the lemon and whisk together until the mixture is thick. 5) Whisk the egg whites in a separate clean bowl until stiff. Combine the egg whites into the egg yolk mixture. 6) Pour half of this batter into a greased tin. Cover batter with thinly sliced apples. Sprinkle with remaining batter. 7) Bake for 45 minutes in the pre heated oven until the mixture is firm and set in the middle. 8) Cool completely before cutting into squares. To serve the stylish way: Stack up the squares up high and dust with icing sugar. Preparation Time: 20 minutes Cooking Time: 30 minutes Serves: 4 people Ingredients 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil 3 garlic cloves – peeled and finely chopped 2 red onions – peeled and roughly chopped 4 sticks celery chopped 1 fresh fennel – trimmed and sliced 5 salad tomatoes, roughly chopped 1 tablespoon tomato paste 100ml red wine 100ml cold water Large bunch fresh parsley – roughly chopped 1 tablespoon sugar or to taste 1 tablespoon fennel seeds Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste 900g fish, (e.g. cod, haddock, sea bass, salmon and red snapper fillets – skinned and cut into large cubes Topping: 2 large matzah – crumbled Method 1) Heat the oil in a large deep saucepan. Sauté the garlic and onion for about 3 minutes or until soft but not brown. 2) Add the celery and fennel, and sauté for about 3 minutes. 3) Add the tomatoes, tomato paste, wine, water, parsley, sugar, fennel seeds, salt and pepper. Simmer for about 15 minutes. 4) Add the fish, cover the pot and cook for about 5 minutes, or until fish is cooked through but still firm. To serve the stylish way: Serve immediately in heated, shallow soup bowls. Crumble some matzah on top. Preparation Time: 20 minutes Cooking Time: 50 minutes Serves: 6 Ingredients 1.35 kg (3 pound) potatoes – peeled and roughly chopped 750g mushrooms, - brown cap, oyster, shiitake, button – cleaned and sliced 10 spring onions- trimmed and chopped 2 tablespoons olive oil 3 eggs 200ml milk Pinch of nutmeg 2 tablespoons grated Parmesan - optional Salt and freshly ground black pepper Garnish: Chopped chives Method 1) Pre-heat the oven to 200 C/ 400 F/ Gas mark 6. 2) Cook the potatoes in boiling water until very soft. 3) Drain and mash using a ricer or fork. Stir in 50ml milk, 1 egg, salt and pepper and mix well. Spoon the mixture around the sides of a 23 cm/ 9 inch flat pie dish. 4) Heat the olive oil in a large frying pan. Sauté all the mushrooms and spring onions until soft and all the mushroom liquid has been absorbed. 5) Spoon the mushroom mixture into the centre of the potatoes. 6) Mix the remaining milk (150ml), 2 eggs, nutmeg, and salt and pepper together. Pour this batter over the mushrooms. Sprinkle over the grated Parmesan cheese – if using. 7) Bake the pie in the pre-heated oven for 40 minutes or until the mushroom mixture has set in the centre. To serve the stylish way: Snip some chives over the top and serve immediately with a green salad topped with toasted almonds. Link Pesach 2009 79 Hannah Minksy tries to find her way in the Big Apple Lost in New York There is a well known saying that ‘England and America are one nation divided by two languages.’ Well, since I arrived here in New York back in September to study my masters I have come to appreciate the real meaning of this. Take what should be a simple trip to a clothes store as an example and you’ll hear people proudly asking one another ‘what do you think of my vest and pants?(!)’ Now, in England people definitely are more discreet, but are Americans really THAT open?! It doesn’t take too long until one finds out that in the USA, a vest is a waistcoat or a tank top, and pants are trousers! 80 Link Pesach 2009 However, it’s not only the language that differs. Being in a new country has meant that I, the innocent unsuspecting individual, have been caught unprepared in torrential rains, been driven to my bus stop without the doors opening and so been stuck on the bus (no one warned me that you actually have to push the doors to open them yourself here!!!) and have found that the cars drive towards you in your lane, when attempting a test drive! Despite being very familiar with the States, it is often clear that I don’t really belong or come from here and, along the way, I have met many others like myself. The most noteworthy was when I was being driven by a kippa wearing driver who had a foreign accent. I thought he was Israeli. We both exchanged the usual question to each other, ‘Where are you from?’ His reply to me was ‘Russia.’ ‘Oh,’ I replied, ‘You’re Russian,’ (nothing like stating the obvious!) His reply however threw me, ‘No’, he said. I asked him to clarify, ‘Didn’t you say you were from Russia?’ ‘Yes,’ he answered me, ‘but I’m not Russian….I’m Jewish.’ This conversation struck me. Having been defined by my birthplace since I arrived in the States, I finally was talking to someone who clearly had his perspectives in life straight. On Pesach, we recall how we were slaves in Egypt and we thank H-shem for redeeming us. Our Rabbis teach us that during the slavery we were on a very low spiritual level, however we had three redeeming factors. 1) We kept our language, 2) we kept our dress, we didn’t adopt the Egyptian dress code and 3) we kept our Jewish names. In short, we held on to our identities, we held on to the fact that we were Jews in a foreign land. With the ten plagues that H-shem struck the Egyptians with in order to make Pharoah free us, we were not only exposed to the magnitude of H-shem Himself, but there were many other lessons from each of the plagues that we can learn from. Having suffered 6 plagues already, Moshe told the Egyptians that another plague was about to arrive, hail. He warned the Egyptians that anything left outside would be destroyed, and we are taught that many brought their animals inside and saved them. However there were also those who did not. Surely, having experienced the previous plagues, the Egyptians would take Moshe’s threats seriously, so how could some people ignore his warning?! The answer I read from Rabbi Frand explains that those who didn’t take heed were the types of people who did not stop to think! They didn’t take notice of what was going on around them! This seems ridiculous, how could they not have noticed what was going on around them?! The answer is that it is possible to go through one’s life and not notice the personal and national happenings, and not make changes because of them. The great Rabbi Akiva originally knew nothing about Torah, he was an ignoramus until the age of 40, when he observed that due to the constant dripping of water on a rock, over many years, the rock had become smooth. He thought to himself, if water dripping on a rock is able to affect a hard rock, then surely the Torah will be able to penetrate into my head. Due to noticing this, he began right from the beginning, having to learn the hebrew alphabet until he became the great Rabbi Akiva. Now, how many of us have ever passed by a rock and changed the course of our lives because of it?! How many of us even see the news and are changed by it? This idea of ignoring what happens around us is something that isn’t so far removed from us at all… When we did eventually leave Egypt, Hshem gave us some commandments. The things he commanded us in were the laws of dealing with slaves. This seems like a strange choice of command, given that they were not practical for us at that moment in time! Wouldn’t giving us a different commandment have been more beneficial? Rabbi Chaim Shmuelevitz explains a general concept. When big things happen to us, there are two possible outcomes, either we can forget about them, or we can change based on them. In that inspiring moment, one can change his life forever, or, one can continue his life, and lose that opportunity. Having just experienced years of slavery it was the right time to capitalize on that, and to teach us how we should treat slaves, as we fully understood what it meant to be a slave. Wherever we happen to find ourselves in the world, we are Jews, and the responsibility of a Jew is to not only realize he is a Jew, but to realize that H-shem is constantly giving us messages that we should notice. More than that, these messages are ones that are giving us the opportunity to become bigger and better people. Every day, every Shabbos and every festival provides us with these gifts. Pesach is exceptional, as we devote two nights (outside of Israel) to telling what happened to us, to appreciating our freedom and to appreciating our G-d and what He did and does for us. Whilst we are no longer slaves, we are still Jews, lost in countries that are not our own. We are different to those around us, yet through these differences, we are able to retain our identity, and to not only observe the happenings, both good and bad, around us, but to allow ourselves to change as a result of them, and hopefully bring ourselves closer to the full and final redemption. May it come speedily in our days! Hannah Minsky Pesach Bite No. 3b The Pesach Sacrifice in this year of 5769 Everyday we believe that the Final Redemption in Messianic times is getting closer. In every Amidah prayer we pray that G-d restores the service of His most holy Temple and receive with favour our offerings and prayers. So when the Third Temple finally descends from Heaven on top of Har Ha Bayit …...Well! Pesach in Jerusalem is a lovely time of year! In anticipation of the Pesach sacrifice, should the Messiah tarry , not only would we wait daily for his coming , we would also continue to follow the custom handed down since Temple times not to eat anything on Seder night resembling a sacrifice that has to be offered up in the Temple such as roast lamb. However this is not so with our Holy Land neighbours the Samaritans. These people occupied the Land of Israel after the destruction of the First Temple and later adopted a sort of Jewish religion in the Second Temple period. To this day their descendents, who live principally near Shechem, gather at their holy place on Mount Gerizim on 14th Nissan to carry out the ritual of the Pesach sacrifice . The Pesach sacrifice eaten with traditionally baked Sephardi Matzot, which are far floppier than our brittle stuff, together with some bitter herbs and charoset resembles a shwarma in a laffa with salad (which you may eat on all other nights except Pesach) Bites by Paul Finn. Next Bite on page 94 Link Pesach 2009 81 fun & games quiz & answers , your , who brought you out of the ”. 2. “I put before you and , the and the , therefore choose ”. 3. “The day is , the task is ”. 4. “Be fruitful and , and ”. 5. “Honour your and your “. 6. “Hear O , the Lord our , the Lord is ”. 7. “You shall love the Lord your G-d with all your and with all your and with all your ”. 8. “You shall love your as yourself : I am the Lord.” History 1. The best known commentator on the Torah and Talmud was : (a) Akiva (b) Solomon (c) Rumbum (d) Rashi 2. The late Rabbi Menachem Schneerson was : (a) spiritual leader of the world Ashkenazi Movement (b) spiritual leader of Lubavitch (Chabad) Hasidism (c) the head of Israel’s National Religious Party (d) the Chief Rabbi of Israel 3. After the Roman destruction of the Second Temple some Jews continued to hold out against the Romans for three more years, until their collective suicide at the fortress of : (a) Nablus (b) Acre (c) Masada (d) Jericho 4. The French army captain falsely accused in 1894 of spying for Germany and imprisoned on Devil’s Island in what was widely regarded as an anti-semitic act was : (a) Emile Zola (b) Leon Blum (c) Pierre Mendes France (d) Albert Dreyfus 5. The “Golden Age” in Jewish history refers to the period of the tenth to twelth centuries in which country : (a) Portugal (b) Germany (c) Spain (d) Holland 6. The term “ghetto”, referring to a section of a city in which Jews were obligated to live, originated in 1516 in which of the following countries : (a) Poland (b) Austria (c) Czechoslavakia (d) Italy 82 Link Pesach 2009 ANSWERS 1. “I am the True or false 1. False – the fourth Lateran Council in 1215 ordered Christian communities to pass laws prescribing distinctive garments for Jews. Such rules were enacted in the 13th Century in England, France, Spain, Italy and Germany, either in the form of a special outer garment, a coloured badge, or a distinctive hat. 2. True 3. False – the destruction of the Second Temple in Jerusalem occurred in 70 C.E. (Common Era) 4. True – in 1965 the Catholic Church at the Vatican II Council formally dropped the charge that the Jews were responsible for the death of Jesus. 5. False – the Jews of England attained complete equality in the 19th Century, long after other European countries. Quotes – fill in the blanks 8. After the death of Moses, the leader of the Jewish people was : (a) Joshua (b) Joseph (c) David (d) Solomon Quotes – fill in the blanks 1. “I am the Lord, your G-d ,who brought you out of the land of Egypt”. 2. “I put before you life and death, the blessing and the curse, therefore choose life”. 3. “The day is short, the task is great”. 4. “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth”. 5. “Honour your father and your mother“. 6. “Hear O Israel, the Lord our G-d, the Lord is One”. 7. “You shall love the Lord your G-d with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might ”. 8. “You shall love your neighbour as yourself :I am the Lord.” 1. When the Nazis forced the Jews to wear the yellow star or badge, it was the first time in history that this was done to Jews. 2. Like Jews, Muslims trace their lineage back to Abraham 3. The destruction of the Second Temple in Jerusalem occurred in 70 B.C.E 4. In 1965 the Catholic Church formally dropped the charge that the Jews were responsible for the death of Jesus. 5. The first country in Europe to grant equal rights to Jews was England. 7. As a result of the Spanish Inquisition, many fleeing Jews found refuge in : (a) the Ottoman Empire (b) England (c) Iraq (d) France History 1. (d) Rashi 2. (b) Lubavitch (Chabad) Hassidism 3. (c) Massada 4. (d) Albert Dreyfus 5. (c) Spain 6. (d) Italy 7. (a) Ottoman Empire 8. (a) Joshua True or False fun & games spot the difference Answers on following page Link Pesach 2009 83 L G S S G A A E S D E R R O R A M H G Q U T E R N I W C K P B U B D A I D N M H L E E F E C N H E E O H I D N S X S X I R N E M O K I H P A T P R L P N E T W A E S H A Answers A S E E L R A S E P M O Spot the difference P E A P O A E N W I S H 1. Jewish Music Institute, word missing 2. Man on right has only one tsitsit 3. Man on balcony removed 4. Accorion letters missing 5. Ladies white hat changed to black 6. Middle stilt man has watch on 7. Left stilt man has buttons removed from tunic 8. Flag has design removed 9. Left stilt man has no middle finger 10. Middle stilt man - tsitsit moved from left to right N D N R Z O Z T A M O P PESACH SAMEACH E E H A G H N E W Z S E Code Breaker 84 Link Pesach 2009 T R S H A D A G G A H R Word Search + (+ () (, . . + (+ (' (+ / (' / Use the code above to fill in the spaces below. : ; < = > ? @ A B (+ * (' )( . )- ( / (( , (* )) (, E F G H I J K L M N O 0 (. () - )+ + )' ) ), (- (0 )* (/ P Q C D Word Search 9 Pesach Maror Pharaoh Matzo Wine Ten Plagues Aphikomen Haggadah Seder Red Sea 8 Code Breaker fun & games word search & code breaker fun & games maze Link Pesach 2009 85 link community what’s been happening? BIRTHS MAZELTOV ON THE BIRTH OF Rabbi and Miriam Plancey on the birth of a great grandson in Israel Rabbi and Miriam Plancey on the birth of a granddaughter Naomi and Martin Wyman on the birth of a son Fiona and Jonathan Brickman on the birth of twin daughters Beryl and Rev Stanley Brickman on the birth of twin granddaughters Gloria and Leon Turschwell on the birth of twin granddaughters Debbie and Martyn Slyper on the birth of a grandson Simon and Warwick Blake on the birth of a daughter Jennifer and Howard Caplan on the birth of a grandson Sandy and Alan Cohen on the birth of a grandson Jacqueline and Joseph Gaffin on the birth of a son Judy and David Newman on the birth of their granddaughters Lucy and Gideon Rose on the birth of a son Georgina and Craig Lesser on the birth of a son Monica and Michael Kaye on the birth of a grandson and a granddaughter Rachael and Marc Jackson on the birth of their daughter Muriel Bass on the birth of a great 86 Link Pesach 2009 granddaughter John Blank on the birth of a granddaughter Emma and Gary Dickenson on the birth of a son Pauline and Gerald Dickenson on the birth of a grandson Maureen and David Lobel on the birth of a grandson EmmaandRussell Sherron the birth of a son Jacqui and Brian Bowman on the birth of a grandson Gillian and Gerald Taylor on the birth of a grandson Paula and Brett Lewis on the birth of a son Martine and Bradley Sherman on the birth of a son Kate and Benjamin Arnold on the birth of a daughter Susan and Anthony Arnold on the birth of a granddaughter Miriam and Danny Bermant on the birth of a daughter Shula and Len Rickman on the birth of their granddaughters Sue and Greg Lander on the birth of a granddaughter Vivien and Stephen Newton on the birth of a grandson Hannah and Gary Harman on the birth of a daughter Trudie and Eddie Harman on the birth of a granddaughter Emma and Ronnie Phillips on the birth of a granddaughter Caron and Matt Dias on the birth of a son Gemma and Jonathan Shelley on the birth of a daughter Lauren and Damian Schogger on the birth of a daughter CHATANIM / EYSHET CHAYIL Profiles of Chatanim / Eyshet Chayil this year Rabbi Brawer, Chatan Bereishit This past Simchat Torah the rabbi and I were very honoured that he was chosen to be chatan Torah. We were overwhelmed by the community’s participation in our simcha. So many of you sent us thoughtful cards, flowers and bottles of wine. One afternoon I stepped out to the shops and when I returned there was enough wine on our doorstep to take us to Pesach! Simchat Torah evening was very lively. There was a rumour that the rabbi was turning summersaults but I can neither confirm nor deny these reports. The highlight of course was imchat Torah day during keriyat ha-Torah when the Rabbi lained the last verses of the Torah followed by Paul's opening verses of Bereshit moments later. The luncheon was very well attended and we were moved by all the effort the community put into it. We are especially grateful to our co-chatanim Paul and Amanda Finn as well as to the Ladies committee for all the work they put into ensuring that the celebration was such a success. wrong person or mixing up names, he would just smile and apologise and most of the time he got away with it, with the exception of….. Seriously though, Paul has an ability to put people at ease, to guide them with his vast knowledge of Torah and Halacha and to make members feel special when they are celebrating a simcha and cared for when they are in mourning or otherwise fragile. He has patience to help those who are not used to being in Shul; this is demonstrated by his willingness to guide those of us who lose the page or are confused with order of the service. Paul was absolutely thrilled to be given the honour this year and looked forward to the great day with much anticipation. Simchat Torah night following mincha was celebrated in the Kol Rinah hall, with a beautiful Kiddush kindly set up by the ladies guild together with our wonderful caretaker Bernie. Following that, Hakofot and davening were held, and we all stumbled home rather late in the evening. The next day dawned rain free! The service was amazing, enhanced by our family and friends. I watched and listened with pride as Paul clearly and precisely layend Parshat Bereishit with both our sons Yaacov and Daniel together with my father by his side. Following the service, there was special lunch open to the whole community. We must thank Judy Woolf, Tanya Seshold and Denise Lederman for all their assistance. The beautiful setup encouraged the strong ruach that was felt by all. The speeches were amazing and the whole event ended on a high! We feel privileged to live in such a special community and would like to thank the Honorary Officers for giving Paul such a special honour, and the community for supporting us over the last 21 years. Rabbi Brawer Paul Finn, Chatan Torah Paul received the wonderful honour of being Chatan Bereishit this year, together with Rabbi Brawer who was Chatan Torah. Paul has been warden of our shul for 5 years and finally retired at the last elections. However, he is still serving in the box at present due to the ill health of David Newman, his successor. We would like to wish David a Refuah Shalaima. Paul was born in Manchester. His father Sholom has always been involved in the running of his local shul, the Higher Crumpsall where he has been a warden and for many years also held the position of president. Paul’s brother Simon who lives in Israel is also warden of his local Shul and now his younger brother Lawrence has also become involved in shul activities, so it was obvious that eventually Paul would slot into a position in his local shul! The fact that he stayed in situ for so long is another thing altogether. Paul’s focus was and still is, to help members in shul whenever he could, and if he got it wrong, as he often did in the early days…… such as calling up the Paul Finn Harry Ginsburg Harry Ginsburg was chosen to be Chatan Torah for the Year 5 and 6 children service. He is currently in Year 7 at Yavneh College. Harry is a keen footballer, normally to be found in goal and an eternal optimist as he is a Spurs fan. He loves watching Formula One Motor Racing and also watching anything that features Jeremy Clarkson in, which seems to be quite a lot on that TV channel named Dave! Harry also likes badminton and cycling and is to be found cycling to school daily. He is a wonderful artist and can often be found sketching racing cars and fighter jets, both of which he is quite knowledgeable about. His ambition is to be a formula one racing driver or to design racing cars so if anyone reading this is a friend of Bernie Ecclestone, please get in touch! Now on to the serious business- Harry is a professional shwarma eater as can be attested by the fact that he has eaten them the length and breadth of Israel! He can relay all the facts and figures about Israeli fighter jets,, formula one grid placings and Spurs fixtures – but strangely still gets stuck on his times tables! Harry is a wonderful son, grandson, and big brother to Felicity, Beatrice and Alec and we are all really proud of him - a bit of cringe is allowed especially if you make your Mum write such an article! A big thank you from all the Ginsburg family to all the lovely people who give up their time each week to take the Shul children Services. We really are a very lucky community. Ryan Peysner Ryan is in Year 5 at the Michael Sobell Sinai School. He enjoys football (supports Spurs) and computer games. Recently, he has joined the “7 Up” club at Belmont Shul. Ryan enjoys attending shul on a Friday night where he often sings Yigdal. He also attends Bnei Akiva and can’t wait until he is old enough to go to BA camp! Ryan is an avid fan of Dr Who; there is not much he does not know about any of the characters of this newest version of the series. He can often be found watching the DVDs, reading manuals or searching the web for more information. He even visited the exhibition in Cardiff. The spinoff series, Torchwood, runs a close second as favourite. Ryan was delighted to be chosen to be Chatan Torah this year and was sorry that he missed the celebrations but he was in Israel over Succot. Ryan Peysner Harry Ginsburg Sophie Album Sophie (9 yrs old) is in Year 5 at Hertsmere Jewish Primary School. She has two older sisters, Talia (14 yrs) and Abby (12 yrs) both who attend Yavneh College. Sophie enjoys swimming and has weekly lessons. Her favourite holiday destination is Israel which she visits about five times a year. She loves going to the beach in Tel Aviv and especially swimming in the sea. Sophie regularly attends Bnei Akiva on Shabbat afternoons and also goes to Brownies. Sophie enjoys eating her Mummy’s home-made double chocolate cookies! Lottie Stankler really like going to Shul with my Mummy, Daddy and brother Ben and was so pleased to become Eshet Chayil. I like collecting Teddies and GoGos and playing Netball. I also like drama and singing in my school choir. I even like football and support Manchester United even though it upsets my Daddy who supports Leeds with my brother. I am really lucky to have been to Israel a few times recently and I love it there! My favourite pop group is Girls Aloud and best films are High School Musical I, II and III (I know ALL of the songs as Mummy and Daddy know only too well!). Lottie Stankler Chantelle Freeman Sophie Album I like going to the children’s service every week because I enjoy the Shabbat prayers and songs. I also Jayne and Joel Waxman on the birth of a daughter Caroline and Craig Levison on the birth of a son Stephen Slater on the birth of a grandson Rochelle and Stephen Davis on the birth of a granddaughter Betty and Michael Davis on the birth of a great granddaughter Esmond and Hilary Rosen on the birth of a grandson Leanne and Jonathan Kleinot on the birth of a daughter Hayley and Julian Myers on the birth of a daughter Rachel and Nicholas Mandel on the birth of a daughter Debra and Jonathan Lebovits on the birth of a son Dalya and Marc Wittenberg on the birth of a son Caron and David Plein on the birth of a son Melanie and Joe Arazi on the birth of a son Estelle and Darren Talberg on the birth of a son Sandra and Ian Feeney on the birth of a son BEREAVEMENTS WE WISH “LONG LIFE” TO Karen Ainley on the loss of her mother Lydia Graham Amanda Kyte of the loss of her father Anthony Grant The family of Brenda Myers Hazel Leventhal on the loss of her sister Frances Shertzer Aron Sager on the loss of his father Bernard Sager Simon Michaelson on the loss of his mother Ruth Michaelson Louis Helper on the loss of his wife Deborah Helper Paul Rosen on the loss of his father Edwin Rosen Jeffrey and Paul Simmons on the loss of their father Alfred and the loss of their mother Matilda Simmons Gloria Solomon on the loss of her mother Patricia Marks Keith Gordon on the loss of his father Maxwell Gordon Adam Joseph on the loss of his father Leonard Joseph Diane Miller on the loss of her mother Teresa Leitz Janis Sher on the loss of her mother Monica Charkin Sandra Sharpe on the loss of her father Maurice Moscow Linda Marks on the loss of her mother Rita McKelvey Elaine Regan on the loss of her father Harold Harris Andrew Boas on the loss of his brother Jason Boas To the family of Sylvia Coburn Michael Davis on the loss of his sister Joan Newman Philip and Simon Levinson on the loss of their father Cyril Levinson Miriam Shaviv on the loss of her mother Judy Shaviv Linda Black (Anthony Road) on the loss of her father Basil Greenstone Rebecca Rubenstein on the loss of her father Sid Lowi Carol Monjack on the loss of her brother Leslie Conn Stuart Green on the loss of his father Ivan Green Debbi Livingston on the loss of her mother Mary Flack Esme Landsberg on the loss of her brother Dennis Frankel Link Pesach 2009 87 link community enjoy seeing my friends. My favourite part is the Kiddush in the synagogue especially the jam biscuits. My favourite TV programmes are Peppa Pig and SmART. I love drawing and painting especially in my after school art class. I love playing power rangers with my little brother Eytan. I love reading all my magic fairy books and I am a magic fairy too! I was so excited to be Eshet Chayil and my mummy and daddy are very proud of me things. Ariella also enjoys playing with her younger brother, Rafi. Rebecca. I am a keen sportsman I play for London Maccabi Lions and for my school. At school I also play rugby,cricket,badminton and table tennis I also enjoy playing tennis and cycling. At home I like watching top gear on the television. I really enjoyed being Chatan Torah because I felt like I was given a really big honour. Ariella Yantin Gilad (Gilli) Newmark Chantelle Freeman Rafi Zac Jacobs Born 27th November 2000 Year 3 @ HJPS Rafi is an avid Arsenal fan and is football crazy! He loves coming to shul, and being part of the community! Rafi was delighted to receive the honour of being a Chatan on SimchatTorah .........we are all extremely proud of him! My Hobby Is playing on my DS. I like Super Mario Brothers and FIFA ‘08 Things I like: I like doing flips Things I do not like: Spurs, and Mushrooms My favorite holiday is: Going to Israel My favorite tv programme is: Doctor Who My favorite Food is: Sausages My Favourite football teams are: Manchester United and Chelsea My favourite toy is: Match Attax My favorite book: Ben 10 Fire and Fur My favorite film is: Mamma Mia My defining charactistics are: teasing my sisters What being chatan torah meant to me: It was a fun experience and I got to wear my smart suit How I enjoyed the occasion of simchat torah: It was great fun to celebrate with my family and all my friends Sarah Kass Harry Cohen Harry is a lively, fun person and a loyal friend who always looks out for opportunities to help other people. He loves playing football, watching Arsenal and singing, usually very loudly or in a silly voice! His three brothers were delighted when he was made Chatan Torah, and so was Harry. "When I first heard I felt special and proud," he said. "I told all my friends at school and they all congratulated me. My parents and grandparents were proud of me too. When I actually received my certificate and gift I turned around to find everyone applauding me and at that point I felt like a superstar!" Rafi Zac Jacobs Gilli Newmark Harry Cohen Ariella Yantin Sarah Kass Ethan Frieze 5 year old Ariella attends Edgware Jewish Primary School and is currently in Year 1. She was delighted to be chosen to be Eshet Chayil for her service this year. Ariella attends the children service almost every week, as she loves to come to shul to daven and see her friends. Ariella is a very conscientious student in school and is particularly enjoying learning to read both English and Hebrew. She loves her modern Ivrit lessons in school and can communicate in Ivrit by discussing a variety of foods that she does and doesn’t like to eat! Out of school Ariella attends weekly swimming lessons as well as ballet and tap classes. Ariella loves to dance, is very creative and spends a large amount of time doing artwork, cutting, sticking and making My name is Sarah Kass and I am 10 years old.I am in year 5 at HJPS. I have a sister called Rachel who is 14.My favourite football team is Chelsea and I also enjoy playing football with all my friends.I have a dog called Rolo who is adorable and very naughty.He eats everything even if it is not edible.He especially loves his piece of challah on Shabbat!My favourite holiday place is Israel and I love going to see all the places that I have learnt about. Thank you for giving me the chance to be Eshet Chayil,it was great being part of all the fun with my friends. My name is Sammy Kingston and I am in year 7 at Yavneh College. I live at home with my mum Lisette and dad Mark and my two teenage sisters Emma and Name: Ethan Paul Frieze (Eitan Yehuda) Date of Birth: 1st December 2ooo School: Hertsmere Jewish Primary School Year 3 Favourite Football Team: Arsenal Favourite Jewish Item: Shofar that his parents gave him to celebrate the honour of being Chatan Torah Hobbies: Drawing, Piano, Supermario Kart on the Wii, staying up after bedtime Favourite holiday destination: Eilat, 7 times, not bad for an 8 year old Most inspirational places visited: The Kotel, The Emirates Stadium, Daddy’s office in Canary Wharf Most likely to say: “I’m just saving this Pokemon battle on the DS” Least likely to say: “I’m tired, can I go to bed please” Most Favourite/Most Irritating: 4 year old: his sister 88 Link Pesach 2009 BEREAVEMENTS WE WISH “LONG LIFE” TO cont. Jemima Plans for the future: To be a car designer or architect Rebecca Josephine Fisher Hebrew Name: Rivka Yosepha Date of Birth: 17th September (not the 18th!! On the shul calendar) School: Yavneh College I enjoy singing, spending time with my friends, playing on my computer, doing “art and crafty stuff” and watching movies. I was very pleased to be given the honour of Eshet Chayil and thank you very much. I recently celebrated my Batmitzvah at Elstree and Borehamwood Synagogue and afterwards enjoyed a party with all my friends and family. Ethan Frieze Joel Samuel Marks Name: Joel Samuel Marks School: JFS Gap Year – Would like to spend a year in Israel University – Would like to go to Manchester to study History. Little bit about me: I’m a twin and also have an older brother. Deputy Head Boy at JFS. Would like to become a Lawyer. Wants to make Aliyah before I’m 30. Like to watch lots of movies Heavily involved with FZY Favourite: Favourite Film – The Shaw Shank Redemption Favourite Artist – Michael Buble Favourite Restaurant – Met Sui Yan Favourite Destination – Israel, Ein Gedi Favourite Toy: I-pod. Rebecca Fisher Gaby Sacofsky Name: Gaby Sacofsky School: JFS Year: 13 Currently studying: Next year I plan: to go to Midreshet Harova (sem in Israel!) After that I want: to study history in uni My biggest fear is: dogs My favourite film is: Mamma Mia Gaby Sacofsky Ellen Steel Joel Samuel Marks Alastair Livingston Name: Alastair Livingston Age: 18 Birthday: 25th October 1990 Interests: Football, Cricket, Rugby, Music and Politics Favourite Meal: Sushi Favourite Movie: Lucky Number Slevin Favourite Band: The Script Future Plans: Go to university for a politics degree and then take a gap year after university Name: Ellen Steel School: JFS Year: 13 Currently studying: Geography, R.S., Sociology Next year I plan: to go to sem in Israel (MMY) After that I want: to study sociology in university My biggest fear is: daddy long legs My favourite film is: Notting Hill Ellen Steel Stuart Asher on the loss of his mother Rose Asher Jackie Asher on the loss of her mother Rose Asher Lucy Levy on the loss of her husband Norman Levy Yvette Segal, Lynsey Weisser and Alison Wearne on the loss of their father Norman Levy Debbie Slyper on the loss of her father Sam Chesler Shirley Rubin on the loss of her husband Joe Rubin To the family of Lucy Alge Gina Rubner on the loss of her father Ivan Roseman Morris Roseman on the loss of his father Ivan Roseman MAZEL TOV BAT MITZVAH Jill and Philip Hamilton on the Batmitzvah of their daughter Olivia Emma and Stephen Portnoi on the Batmitzvah of their daughter Talya Stacey and Adam Rubens on the Batmitzvah of their daughter Jessica Eve and Daniel Album on the Batmitzvah of their daughter Abby Bianca and David Golding on the Batmitzvah of their daughter Celine Debra and Howard Jackson on the Batmitzvah of their daughter Sophie Debra and Jonathan Fisher on the Batmitzvah of their daughter Rebecca Karen and Bryan Seaton on the Batmitzvah of their daughter Sophia Helen and Simon Gale on the Batmitzvah of their daughter Jessica MAZEL TOV BAR MITZVAH Emma and Stephen Portnoi on the Barmitzvah of their son Ari Lincoln and Gillian Hirst on the Barmitzvah of their son Tom Tracey and Andrew Schapira on the Barmitzvah of their son Ben Stacey and Adam Rubens on the Barmitzvah of their son Benjamin David and Judith Freedman on the Barmitzvah of their son Dan Vivien and Martin Frey on the Barmitzvah of their sons Zachary and Joshua Nadia and Ian Steiner on the Barmitzvah of their son Myer Ira and Ashley Kaye on the Barmitzvah of their son Elliott Sue and Tony Cohen on the Barmitzvah of their son Simeon Penny and Julian Low on the Barmitzvah of their son Yoav Eva and Ray FoleyComer on the Barmitzvah of their grandson in Israel Alison and Jeffrey Simmons on the Barmitzvah of their son David Rona and Daniel Rhodes on the Barmitzvah of their son Barney Suzanne Lipton and Andrew Lipton on the Barmitzvah of their son Sam Link Pesach 2009 89 link community Carol and Johnny Arkush on the MAZEL TOV marriage of their BAR MITZVAH daughter Miriam to cont. Harris Lorie Ben Summerfield on his marriage to Katie Shelley and Darryl Wilder Melvyn and Janice Colmans and Esterman on the Russell and Carol engagement of their Brin on the daughter Louise to Barmitzvah of their Alex Grainger son Zachary Brin Sandra and Ian David and Lynn Polin on the BarmitzSilver on the aufruf of vah of their son Adam their son Bradley Anne and Malcolm Shaya Hotter and Gordon on the Charlotte Klein on Barmitzvah of their their marriage Susan and Jack son Samuel Sharon and Stephen Miller on the Lewis on the marriage on their Barmitzvah of their daughter Lisa to son Joshua Robert Benson Sharon and Robert Sandy and Alan Gold on the Cohen on the engageBarmitzvah of their ment of their daughter son Sam Louise to Noam Ariella and David Lederman Anne and Simon Shohet on the Serota on the engageBarmitzvah of their ment of their daughter son Adam Amanda and Gary Amy to Joshua Bernstein on the Freedman Angela and Keith Barmitzvah of their Lack on the forthcomson Gideon Sandra and Spencer ing marriage of their Sharpe on the daughter Lauren to Barmitzvah of their Dean Silver Sara Foley-Comer on son Ricky the engagement of her son James to Sara Miller Stephen Taylor on his MAZEL TOV Aufruf SPECIAL ANNIVERSARIES Sorrelle and Richard Kafton on the engagement of their daughter Rachel to Liz and Jeff Azizoff Dean Gerschlowitz Es and Hilary Rosen on their Silver on the marriage of their Wedding anniversary Monica and Michael daughter Naomi to Phil Kaye on their Coral Goldstein JacquiandMichael Wedding anniversary Martine Levine on Jacobsonon the engagehis 75th birthday ment of their son Simon to Sarah Horowitz Jean and Howard Weiss on the engageAUFRUFS, ment of their daughter WEDDINGS & Joanne to Paul Mitchell ENGAGEMENTS Ian and Beverley Kangisser the Baby boy foron the marriage Ralphs forthcoming it should be a Ruth and Laurence of their son Ryan to credit with names and Cohen onpicture the Michelle Gallow dates as it makes it much more engagement of their daughter Emma to for intresting Marc Hazan 90 Link Pesach 2009 COMMUNITY YOUTH Doron and wife Dina Reflections on Borehamwood Youth Community Doron Luder Borehamwood has lots of teenagers! Over the past months I have made contact with most of the children on the youth list, encouraging them to get involved in our wide range of activities which may be social, cultural or religious in nature. At the same time we have ensured that our activities appeal to the full spectrum of teenagers which we have in our community. The “Survival of the Fittest” event which we held in late December cultivated a strong sense of teamwork and friendship amongst the players. It also attracted less regular attendants of the youth service to participate in what was a fun and enjoyable time for everyone. This event generated a real buzz amongst the kids. Tactics and strategies were being planned carefully by each team and I offered ‘inside knowledge’ to each team – though nobody knew exactly where my loyalties lay. The ice skating event which we held in January also generated a strong ruach as well as attracting less regular attendants, who were made to feel welcome. The thrill of the city at night set the scene and the glamorous location – Canada Square – contributed greatly to a buzzing atmosphere. Children from Borehamwood participated in the Tribe Weekend Away – a fantastic opportunity for children in years 7 & 8 to meet other children in their year from all over the country. Set in the picturesque setting of Kingswood Activity Centre in North Wales, the weekend started on Thursday afternoon and went through to Sunday. Friday was filled with incredible activities like rock climbing, giant zipwire, high ropes, fencing, caving and many other great team initiatives. Shabbat was full of song and food, including an oneg, and a very special seudah shlishit. Borehamwood kids could be heard loud and clear during meal times, regularly leading the singing and starting new songs. The Winter Friday night oneg programme has provided a warm and secure atmosphere for regular and less regular shul attendants to socialize. In a community as large and diverse as Borehamwood, it is difficult for all the youth to hang out together. Kids go to a wide range of schools and associate in so many other contexts. It is therefore vital that we have a warm and sociable environment where the children from our community can interact with each other on Shabbat outside of shul, as well as providing opportunities for less regular shul-goers to engage in communal activities. At the same time the monthly Friday night youth service has developed and impressed upon the youth a real sense of community, and has encouraged the youth to attend Friday night services. The children from years 7 & 8 have been involved in a new and exciting project, coordinated by the UJIA called Project Chesed. The aim of the project is educate and instill the value of giving charity, with the aim of developing our teenagers into young philanthropists, giving of both their money and their time. Activities have varied from clothes drives to shiurim on tzedaka. Throughout the course of the year Borehamwood sixth formers have participated in the Tribe Ambassador programme – a year long contest designed to head hunt the future leaders of our community. In fact two of our participants have even made it to the final stages of the contest to be held in Israel, where contestants battle against each other in various initiative challenges, such as Israel advocacy and promoting Israeli tourism. As the snow fell on Borehamwood and kids were stuck at home, a spontaneous snow fight was organized. Pizza and hot chocolate was served to snow-ballers. In the middle of the snow fight I announced a 30 second window of complete attack on me! After I was readily brought to the ground - by someone who shall remain nameless! - I was duly pelted. In the spring and summer there will be lots more fun and welcoming events. Doron Luder COMMUNITY Brett Bernstein Since Doron Luder’s arrival, the youth community of Borehamwood and Elstree shul has gone from strength to strength. Previously existent activities such as the Barmitzvah Boys’ Sunday morning breakfast have continued to flourish, as has the ever-popular youth service. Under the dynamic leadership of Joel Sager, attendances have been consistently above seventy, meaning even more siddurim had to be bought, to accommodate the consistently high numbers. On Simchat Torah, the youth service waved farewell to its senior gabbai, David Shaw, a loyal servant to the youth service for two years, leaving Ben Gordon, his successor to fill his shoes, along with the new senior gabbai, Brett Bernstein. The rebranded Friday night youth services have also attracted large attendances, as have the many Friday night Onegs. They certainly entertain the youth on those long, lonesome Friday evenings in the midst of winter with their food, singing, divrei torah, and general ambiance. The N’shei Chayil Lunch in November was also very popular, and was a tribute to Gaby Sacofsky and Ellen Steel, who have dedicated much of their time and effort to the welfare of the youth community throughout the past few years. In addition, the special screening of “Quantum of Solace” was extremely popular with the youth community of all ages. Moreover, all are looking forward to taking part in the youth play, due to be performed in the coming months. In 2009, we hope to build on these successes, and, in the same vein, produce even more events for the benefit of the whole youth community. Brett Bernstein. COMMUNITY Maccabiah Youth Cricket Daniel Cohen Daniel Cohen, stalwart member of the Youth Minyan, has been selected to be a member of the Youth Cricket team at the 18th Maccabiah in Israel in July 2009. The cricket team will play up to 10 games, including 50 over and 20:20 matches. Daniel is a member of Radlett and London Maccabi Vale Cricket Clubs and a former captain of Radlett U15s County Champions. As a 13 year old, he was selected to play in the Maccabiah warm ups in 2005. The whole Maccabiah Squad departs on July 7th for training and acclimatisation. The trip includes educational visits as well as training, matches and the opening and closing ceremonies. All participants, including team managers and coaches pay equally for the honour of being part of Team GB. To this end, a fundraising Supper Quiz was held in February which we anticipate will raise approximately half the required £2,795 he needs to be part of Team GB and attend the Maccabiah Games. If you would like to make a donation, please contact Sue or Tony Cohen (Sue 07971 400653 Tony 07968 567172 ). Daniel Cohen Link Pesach 2009 91 link community COMMUNITY Twin Values David Onnie Twins Benjamin and Jessica Rubens celebrated their respective Bar Mitzvah and Bat Mitzvah together on the same day, a unique occasion for them, their family and the Community. But is their relationship a case of sibling rivalry or are they the best of friends ? Link editor David Onnie went to meet the twins to find out and also just how much they really know each other and themselves. The twins perched comfortably on the sofa in the living room occasionally glancing at each other as they spoke to me. It was very much a relaxed family occasion with Mum, Dad and also 8 year old sister, Amelia, joining in. I had been present at the Bar/Bat Mitzvah but close up it was refreshing to see two teenagers comfortable with each other and the rest of their family in a warm and welcoming atmosphere Jessica Rubens Jessica on Benji Benji Rubens 92 Link Pesach 2009 He’s a typical boy with a messy bedroom, untidy, disorganised but lots of common sense. But he’s also amazing and worships me ! As brother and sister we get on really well and he actually is the best brother one could have (Mum interjects at this point and says that Benji would give his last Rolo to Jessica but perhaps not vice versa). When I’m in trouble he comforts and looks after me and is very caring. In fact he’s a big softie who is also calm and rarely shouts at me. We’ve shared some great moments together over the years including our Bar/Bat Mitzvah party, joint birthday parties and holidays. We even shared a bedroom up until last year where we enjoyed playing fighting games (I’d always win! ) and getting up to mischief! Benji’s worst habit is telling boring stories which drone on for so long that we all pretend to fall asleep. He’s probably the more inquisitive out of the two of us although I think I’m more mature. Even though he’s only older than me by one minute (and always says he’s older anyway) he does have a better sense of direction than me. However, even though he says he is more streetwise than me I’m definitely the more organised. In fact, even if I am slow, very slow at everything, and need a long time to get ready and eat, I’m organized ! We both enjoy action films, actually we like all films ! The same goes for our tastes in music – R and B and pop generally. I don’t have any particularly favourite singer but I like Rihanna, James Morrison and also enjoy listening to Israeli music. I think my Bat Mitzvah marked the occasion of me growing up and becoming a woman, becoming more responsible and if I had a message to give to the world it would be, “Peace”. My message to Benji is to have a long and healthy life and I hope that we stay friends forever. Benji on Jessica She’s caring, sweet and always there for me when I need her. I’d give Jess my last Rolo but I’m not so sure she would give me hers! (editor – Mum obviously knows her children ! ). Oh and yes, (pointing his finger in Jessica’s direction), she’s slow at everything, getting dressed, having a bath and eating. I think that she only worships me sometimes but I definitely worship her all the time! I also believe that I am more mature than Jess and would say I am the oldest in the relationship. I have a nice personality (Mum interrupts at this point with “He’s a mensch” ) and although I’m not that organized or tidy I am getting better ! We share the same tastes in music and films – when we’re choosing a film to watch on Sky we always go to the action section and look at the rating. If it’s a “PG” we ignore it but if it’s a “12” or “15” we’ll probably choose it to watch, especially if there’s moderate violence. Like Jess, I enjoy most music (although I also enjoy rock). My Bar Mitzvah meant to me that I had become a man and with that comes the need to learn responsibilities - for example, visiting the elderly, trying to be a good person and following the Jewish religion. If I had a message to give to the world it would that I hope everyone is healthy and that I hope I have a lovely wife and children ! And if I had a message for Jess (editor – at this point Jessica turns to Benjy and says, “It had better be good”) I would say “Do well in your exams, be happy and I hope we’ll always be the best of friends”. David Onnie Link Pesach 2009 93 link community Pesach Bite No. 4 Of Matzah and Chametz The nearest thing to Chametz on Pesach is Matzah ! Both contain just flower and water, except that with Chametz the ingredients have been given time to rise. Similarly, in the Hebrew spelling of Chametz and Matzah both words consist of the letters “M” and “TZ” the difference is that when the space in the left hand side of the Hebrew letter “H” in Matzah has been closed off the Hebrew letter becomes a “CH” as in Chametz. In practical terms, though, the ease by which Matzah can become Chametz has led to the two equally kosher ways of Matzah production, namely hand baked or machine made - both processes must be completed in 18 minutes. It has also led to a stringency by some Rabbinical authorities of not bringing Matzah into contact with other liquids or use it for cooking (non gebrocht). With the advent of state of the art machinery and state of the art Pesach supervision to match, other Rabbinical authorities have ruled that Matzah can come into contact with liquids and can be used for cooking as it is impossible to reconstitute Chametz from fully baked Matzah Matzah is known as the bread of affliction, but is also the original freedom food which the Israelites took out with them from Egypt. Whilst the Israelites were slaves they did not have time to sit around and wait for their dough to rise as they were whipped back into work by the taskmasters. Similarly at the end of the slavery the Israelites had to also hurry from Egypt without sitting around waiting for the dough to rise. The message is: even in freedom we must not delay in trying to improve ourselves,to live life modestly , not risen like Chametz as to think ourselves big and important, because in our freedom we became and still remain servants of G-d. Bites by Paul Finn. Next Bite on page 96 94 Link Pesach 2009 BROWNIES - THE OWLS 4th Borehamwood Brownies Report 2008-2009 Once again this has been an exciting and full year for all the Brownies. Our programme is always based on having fun indoors and outdoors, keeping healthy, thinking of others and being of service to others and our community. This year has been no different in this respect as we have tried to fulfill all the aims of the guiding programme for Brownies. Giving service to others is a difficult thing to accomplish if you are seven. We managed to achieve this by using the scouts activity centre at Well End, where we walked a mile, and learned some outdoor games. Each of the Brownies came equipped for all weathers and brought a £1 coin which we donated to the Macmillan Nurses Foundation. This was a joint activity with our sister pack (9th Borehamwood Brownies) and together we were able to donate £50 to this very worthwhile cause. As a unit, we have been supporting this and other charities for several years and any parent or sibling is welcome to join us on our next walk for Macmillan which will take place during warmer weather in the summer term. (Don’t forget to bring £1 each and wet weather gear as we walk in all weathers!). We also resumed our usual “good turn” and were able to give service to our community by cleaning the shul silver. This is a very messy and fiddly job which requires the precision that only small fingers can offer, and the Brownies are excellent and willing helpers. Much of the silverware is old and delicate, and the Brownies have been taught how to respect and clean it with loving care. We hope that you have noticed how beautiful the silver looked at Rosh Hashanah and that you will be suitable impressed again at Pesach. We have shared our meetings this year with our sister pack and also with a pack from Edgware. They are not as lucky as us to have large premises to run around in, and during the winter they are somewhat restricted in their activities. We invited them to join our Chanukah meeting and a great (and messy) time was had by everyone. We visited them later on in the year and had a wonderful time making new friends and learning new games. Crafts are an important part of our programme and we have also incorporated the chaggim into many of the activities we have done this year. We have made Chanukah biscuits, pictures for the succah, mishloach manot to share, as well as trying out some new ideas which involve sewing for Pesach. We also enjoyed a wonderful afternoon of fun at the Jewish Brownies and Guides Craft “dabble day”. This summer we were lucky enough to once again go on a fabulous pack holiday to Willow Tree Guide Activity Centre in Harefield. We all had three fun filled, action packed days, with lots of good food, crafts and entertainment. The Brownies lived together as a family and undertook all the jobs which have to be done to keep a family healthy and happy. Every Brownie participated in the cooking of at least one of the meals, learned how to use the vacuum cleaner, broom, dustpan and brush and how to keep the bathrooms clean. Yes, they really did learn how to clean a toilet and a shower cubicle and to take pride in their achievement. As always, the Brownies earned a number of interest badges on pack holiday - cooking, house orderly, craft, hostess and entertainers badges were earned, and the Brownies entertained each other and the guiders and visitors excellently on the last evening. Thank you to Rabbi Brawer for joining us for our barbecue and for telling the Brownies all about what he got up to when he went to camp! (It’s all right Rabbi, we won’t tell any of the secrets which you shared with us!). Going on pack holiday is one of the best parts of being a Brownie and we hope that they take the wonderful opportunity of joining Jewish Brownies and guides in a huge pack holiday in 2010 to celebrate 100 years of girl guiding. Being involved in running a Brownie pack is not an onerous task. All it requires is a commitment to come into a very attractive uniform, spend two hours each week working with our wonderful girls and a planning meeting once a term. (A sense of humour is an advantage too!). No experience is necessary. You do not need to have been a Brownie or a guide, you do not have to be a teacher or youth worker. We will train you to help our children to achieve a happy, purposeful and productive time in Brownies, and in return they will give you back so much more. Our team of dedicated leaders would like to extend an invitation to any ladies (of any age from 14 upwards) who would like to come forward and help us keep Brownies going. Without guiders, our unit will have to close, so please come and join us; we promise that you’ll have a rewarding and enjoyable experience. We would like to take this opportunity to thank all the guiders, parents and talented ladies and gentlemen who have given their time and expertise to our pack this year. They all give their time voluntarily and without them our meetings would not be so exciting. Please note that Mrs Antonia Grant is now in charge of our waiting list for Brownies and all parents wishing to register their daughter for a place should contact her directly. THE OWLS The Owls Borehamwood Brownie Packs – How to Get into Brownies Girls aged 7-10 years Admissions Criteria Due to the ever increasing numbers of girls wishing to register for Brownies, we have found it necessary to instigate strict guidelines for acceptance into our Brownie units. We currently run two packs, Monday and Wednesday evening, from 5.30-7pm. Girls will be offered places strictly according to the following criteria: 1. Priority is given to the daughters of leaders 2. Child is halachically Jewish 3. Members of Borehamwood & Elstree United Synagogue 4. Length of time on the waiting list. Names cannot be added until the child’s 6th birthday 5. Strictly by age 6. Member of Radlett or Shenley United Synagogue Depending on places available, your daughter will be offered the choice of attending the Monday or Wednesday pack. Where you require a place for a specific day and no place is available, your daughter’s name will be held over for one term only for the first available place on your preferred day. Please note that participation in the Rainbow packs will not automatically entitle your daughter to a place at Brownies. Please register your daughter’s name separately on the Brownie waiting list as soon as possible after her 6th birthday. Registration for Brownies only: Antonia Grant Telephone: 0208 953 4966 Email: Antonia@familygrant.fsnet.co.uk Please note that Rainbow and Guide units hold their own registration lists which are independent of Brownie lists. Please refer to the shul calendar for their details. Link Pesach 2009 95 link community Pesach Bite No. 5 As if we have come out of Egypt The Exodus from Egypt coupled with the Divine Revelation on Mount Sinai seven weeks later was witnessed by 600,000 grown men ,their wives and children – close on to three million people ! These events did not happen that long ago – actually the year 2448 corresponding to 1312 BCE. Those in the secular world that measure the earth’s existence in terms of dinosaurs and destructive comets would have to agree that according to their reckoning the Exodus took place very recently indeed!. The 10 Commandments start off with “I am the L-rd your G-d who took you out from the land of Egypt and the house of slavery”(Shmot 20.2). Similar words were used in in R.Yehuda Halevi’s “ Kuzari” for the opening words of the rabbi who believed in the G-d that brought us out of Egypt as the rationale for his beliefs. He continued to explain that the Exodus from Egypt was a matter of fact whereas the Creation of the World was a matter of faith. Remembering our sojourn and slavery in Egypt and subsequent Exodus features in a large array of our religious practices from Shabbat to social legislation so that this nation building experience and the lessons we have to learn from it are always at the forefront of our minds. Bites by Paul Finn. Next Bite on page 99 96 Link Pesach 2009 COMMUNITY Rainbows Report Sharon, Michelle, Emma & Caroline This has been another fun-filled six months for the Rainbows group! We have enjoyed many arts and craft activities including making lei necklaces, magnets and many other arts and crafts activities. We especially enjoyed a wonderful barbeque with the Brownies and we had another actionpacked Sports Day with all participants winning prizes. Our Rainbows Masterchef evening proved very popular and supported our healthy eating programme. We also held an in-house talent contest and discovered many stars of the future! Perhaps the most exciting evening was our trip to the Pet Store in Borehamwood, where the girls were given a guided tour of the shop and were able to learn how to care for a rabbit and hamster. All the girls enjoyed being able to handle the pets. If you have a daughter approaching her 5th birthday, we would be delighted to welcome her to our friendly Rainbows pack. For more details of how to register your daughter for Rainbows, please call Georgina Lesser on 020 8953 3358. We look forward to meeting you soon! Sharon, Michelle, Emma and Caroline COMMUNITY 3rd Elstree & Borehamwood Scout Group. GSL’s Report Clive Butchins Well it’s been another busy year for all sections of the group – and for the leaders. For details of the exciting activities enjoyed by the various sections please read their individual reports. As I write we are in the process of bidding farewell to our Scout Leader, Judith Gamse after 15 years of dedicated service. There are currently around thirty members of the section and, with many being younger scouts, they require more input than an older troop would. So it is a big thank you to all the leadership team (including Alan and Mike), but a special one to Judith for taking the Troop further than it’s gone before – recent trips to Scotland and Belgium come to mind. The Beaver Colony continues to go from strength to strength despite being short of leaders. At the start of the January term numbers are up to around twenty and they are quite a handful. Miles Redbart is doing an amazing job, and we welcome on board Lisa Kanter as A.B.S.L. Without the parent helpers as well it would not be possible to operate safely, so please think hard whether you can give up some time on a regular basis and take on a leadership role. I have been assisting, but don’t expect this to continue indefinitely – see below. The Cub Pack is as popular as ever, with a terrific group of leaders (Karen, Lisa, Alex and Martin). So another big thank you must go to all who have worked so hard in both of these sections. I am pleased also to welcome Rochelle Newington who is about to join the group, probably in the cub section as an assistant leader. Each section also benefits from the assistance of young leaders who are usually helping as part of a social educational course or for a DoE award. And we must not forget those who have worked hard behind the scenes on the Executive Committee. Our chairman Paul Marco, Treasurer Colin Levene and Ros Summers are the current incumbents. Many thanks must go to all of them also. Finally I have to announce that I am relinquishing the position of Group Scout Leader after twenty years as I feel very stale in the role and need to move on. However I shall be continuing as a member of the District Appointments Advisory Committee and hope to continue being associated with such a successful Scout Group as the 3rd Elstree for many more years in one way or another. A sincere thank you goes to everyone who has supported the group in whatever manner during my tenure. Clive Butchins. COMMUNITY The Southside Damian Schogger Damian Schogger lifts the lid on what really happens on the other side of Borehamwood “The Southside”…a phrase you may have heard mentioned fleetingly in recent times, but one which you may not still not be clear about. Well, let me let you into a bit of a secret; “The Southside” is where it’s happening…and don’t let anyone tell you any different! In the middle of 2007, three hardy souls – Gary Yantin, Dan Grose, and Simon Berman – decided they’d try and initiate a local Friday night minyan on “The Southside” (rather than shlep 15-20 minutes to Croxdale Road!). With nearly 20 people turning up for the first such minyan, the signs were promising. Building upon this early success, everyone decided that the minyan should continue on a fortnightly basis. With it being in close proximity to several young families, Kabbalat Shabbat The Southside Shul at Yavneh began to take on a special ruach as the several toddlers in attendance – unsure what to make of their first exposure to the Friday night service – flitted between the playroom and dining room where davening was taking place. With Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur fast approaching, it was agreed, with the support of the then chairman, Stephen Foreman, and honorary officers, that Southside services would take place at Yavneh College. This was to build upon the success of the Friday night minyan, and relieve some of the pressure on the overcrowded Croxdale Road site. The atmosphere was incredible, with 250-300 adults and nearly 100 children being present on each of the three days. This major milestone in the development of “The Southside” generated further enthusiasm amongst Friday night regulars, though it was disappointing not to attract many new people who’d enjoyed the Yavneh experience. In spring 2008, as news filtered out that the new shul at Yavneh College was nearing completion, the three hardy souls and their growing minyan embarked on a new challenge by committing to weekly services at Yavneh. Not many people have the opportunity to really be part of building a new minyan in a beautiful modern shul, so we’ve all grasped it with both hands. For those of us involved in establishing and maintaining “The Southside” minyan, there are several important and hugely positive outcomes. Firstly, 75% of attendees get to enjoy a special Kabbalat Shabbat that they probably wouldn’t usually do, since they couldn’t as easily get to Croxdale Road. Secondly, a very special ruach has been generated. Thirdly, several people are now confident chazzans. But perhaps the most significant result is that a minyan worth of kids aged 3-6 turns up on a weekly basis and are increasingly familiar with the tunes, and eager to participate. Please G-d these youngsters will continue the good work established by the current crop of “Southsiders” and help this minyan grow and flourish for many years. Damian Shogger Link Pesach 2009 97 link community GILAH Jane Rose and Susan Gray September, 2008, the beginning of the current school year, saw the introduction of the new Early Years Foundation Stage, the curriculum common to all pre-schools, nurseries and reception classes. Gilah had already begun planning towards the EYFS goals, but this term we have also incorporated ‘child led’ activities. This will give us the opportunity to use the children’s own interests to further their learning towards the EYFS goals. As far as pupil numbers go Gilah remains full. We have many children registered awaiting the offer of a place. We have criteria displayed on our website (www.gilahnursery.com) which we use to offer places. Priority is given to the children of Elstree and Borehamwood Synagogue members and to date we have been able to offer all eligible children a place. This may not always be a morning place; we also have successful afternoon sessions. In the term before they start, all ‘new’ children are encouraged to attend the settling in mother and toddler play sessions with their carers so they become familiar with the nursery and it has been wonderful to see grandmothers as well as mothers come with their charges. The staff work exceptionally hard to provide every child with a happy and stimulating session of activities. They have recently received training for the EFYS, outside play, child protection, storytelling and Brain Gym! Considerable thanks must go to them all for their dedication and stamina. They give freely of their time outside nursery hours to train and 98 Link Pesach 2009 to plan and prepare the activities which make Gilah a vibrant and exciting place to learn. We have also continued to involve parents and the wider community in nursery activities. Our Shabbat celebrations with guests have included Rabbi Brawer, as well as parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles and the occasional visitor from Israel. We were pleased to have the help of ‘Magic Moments’ who came into the nursery complete with games which they had prepared for the children. Which made an for an exciting morning for the children and a linguistically challenging one for us all! At the Chanukah Coffee morning, we had our annual present collection for our adopted charity,‘With Love From Louise’ which is allied to GIFT, a young Jewish Volunteer Organisation. This provided five large bags of games, toys and books which this year were distributed through the charity to less fortunate children in this country as Chanukah gifts. Also, we have have collected over £300 for the charity at our weekly Tsedaka collection. To begin the winter break the fundraising committee organised a Chanukah Music and Munch, with musical activities provided by Joe Jingles and plenty of delicious doughnuts to munch, which we shared with the mother and toddler group. The fundraising committee has organised activities which are both fun to attend and help to raise much needed cash for additional equipment for the nursery. At present we are refurbishing the home corner in the Gilah Hall. The proceeds from the Chanukah Music and Munch providing new bedding and flooring. We will also be refurbishing a screen and buying a new bed base. We are hoping to compile a recipe book and would welcome dona- tions of favourite recipes from anyone in the community. These could be starters, main courses or deserts or a favourite cake or biscuit recipe, vegetarian, vegan and suitable for adults as well as children. All donations will be tried tested and enjoyed! We were delighted to have a substantial donation from Wendy Notowitz, enabling us to buy a set of new library books for the rising threes, the proceeds from a book signing which she kindly organised at her beautiful home. Thanks to an additional Capital Grant from Hertfordshire County Council we will, this term, be able to purchase new laptops. Although we have many discs which we use to provide letters shapes, colours and numbers to supplement the curriculum themes, we struggle to find suitable programmes with Jewish themes, particularly chagim focused ‘educational games’. Any help, ideas or suggestions would be greatly appreciated! The culmination of this term’s work will be our unique Gilah Seder. This year we will be back in the newly redecorated Kol Rinah Hall and (much to Rabbi Brawer’s relief) we will have all the Gilah children and their guests at one Seder. As we look forward to next term, we hope for more settled, warmer weather, with more opportunities for outdoor play and hopefully a calmer security situation to make this a peaceful possibility. One of the most popular themes in the nursery is our Summer term animal theme. This is introduced by ‘Appreciating Animals’, who arrive with a variety of farm animals, usually babies and pets, which the children are encouraged to hold, feel and feed, with bottled milk, pellet food and carrots. The whole nursery COMMUNITY Pesach Bite No. 6 Excel Football League Four and one more During the week and on Sunday many boys from the community train or play for their respective Excel football teams. It’s a great set up, well organised and the kids (apart from when they lose!!) enjoy it nearly as much as the watching fathers! The photos below show a few moments during team “Stanmore’s” season. enjoys this visit, although the bravery of the children is holding the animals sometimes surpassed by the staff, some of whom seem to be quite at home with rats on their shoulders! This is closely followed by our trip to Aldenham Country Park an experience we happily share with all available Mothers, Fathers and Grandparents, who help to give this outing a particularly family feel. We are most grateful to have the support of extra adults on this trip, all of whom make for a safe and successful morning for the children. The rising fours visit Paradise Wildlife Park and last year we were joined by one of the governors visiting from Canada. Rochelle Miller and her children, Sabrina, Jasmine and Freddy, complete with their newly acquired Canadian accents spent a very happy day with us. Much of the work needed to run our large and successful nursery is done voluntarily, behind the scenes, by our Governors and I would like to take this opportunity to thank them all for their ceaseless hard work:- Jane Rose as Chair, Ray Rubenstein our Treasurer, Paula Kass for Child Protection, Michael Abrahams our security governor, Nicky Saville for her help with HR, Eve Hoffman as staff governor and Alex Gold as elected Parent Governor. Jane Rose, Susan Gray, Gilah Nursery To help us focus on the Pesach experience the number four and one more continually crops up throughout Seder night and Pesach . Four cups of wine are drunk to correspond with the four expressions of Divine deliverance “I shall bring you out”, “I shall save you”, “I shall redeem you” and “I shall take you” which correspond to the ancient empires of Egypt, Babylonia, Persia and Greece who had ruled over us but no longer do so. The additional fifth cup, known as Elijah’s cup, corresponds to the fifth expression of Divine deliverance “I will bring you into the land” .This will be drunk at the Final Redemption from the present Roman exile. Though the pagan empire that destroyed our Second Temple has long gone its legacy lives on in its European, American, Christian and Western Secular successors. Though we have been blessed to see the beginnings of the Final Redemption with the rebirth of the Jewish State in the Land of Israel , not all Jews are able to get there. Some are held captive in the lands of their exile, others are just disinclined to going there. In the Hagada of Rav Nebezahl, the present Chief Rabbi of the Old City of Jerusalem, he mentions that all five expressions of Divine deliverance were addressed to the original generation of the Exodus which ended up having to die out in the desert without reaching the Land of Israel. At the Revival of the Dead, Gd’s promise to them will be made good and, only then we can all drink (continued on page 100) Link Pesach 2009 99 link community (continued from page 99) the additional fifth cup of wine. Until that time we can ponder on another set of four and one more. The Hagada introduces us to the four sons, the wise son, the wicked son, the uncomplicated son and the one son who does not know how to ask. These sons’ comments represent the four times mentioned in the Torah of sons talking to their fathers about Pesach. You can visualise all four sons in the Hagada being round the family Seder table, even the wicked one who ends up getting told off! However there is a fifth son, the one that does not make it to the Seder table …….. Our Rabbis through their choice of Torah readings during Pesach address this problem. On the 6th day Pesach which is actually the 5th day Chol Moed in Israel, the Torah reading deals with those who missed the offering up of the Pesach sacrifice on 14th Nissan. They are given a second chance to offer it up a month later on the 14th Iyar namely those ritually impure and those who are a great distance away. Without the opportunity of the Pesach sacrifice to date, we have started each Seder by lifting up the modest and unpretentious piece of Matzah and inviting those in need to come and celebrate Pesach – thereby opening the door to the fifth son who until that point felt he was far too great a distance away, spiritually, to take part…. As stated in the closing words of the Prophets read on the Shabbat before Pesach “Behold I will send you Elijah the prophet… and he shall turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the heart of the children to their fathers” (Malachi 3.24) Chag Kasher V Sameach to all of us wherever we are! Bites by Paul Finn. 100 Link Pesach 2009 COMMUNITY Rabbi Brawer Tours Kisharon Rabbi Brawer Rabbi Naftali Brawer of Borehamwood synagogue joined Rabbi Daniel Roselaar (Belmont), Rabbi David Mason (Muswell Hill) and David Kaplan (Community Division Director of Tribe) on a tour of Kisharon’s services in November last year. The US rabbis joined the new Chief Executive of Kisharon, Dr Beverley Jacobson, and Rabbi Yitzchak Freeman, Director of Learning Services, as they visited the special needs charity’s Tuffkid nursery in Golders Green, and the Adult Day Opportunities service and Asher Loftus Business Centre located in Hendon. During their tour, the Rabbis were shown the extensive services available at the Day Opportunity Centre which include a synagogue, optimusic, exercise and art rooms, a wood workshop and horticulture centre. At the thriving integrated nursery, Pam Lerner, the Head teacher, explained the advantages of integration with the added benefit of early assessment and therapeutic intervention where necessary. The Rabbis participated in making cakes with the children as they prepared for Shabbat. The Rabbis then visited the commercial hub of Kisharon, the Asher Loftus Business Centre which houses a bicycle shop, a print shop and a woodturning and book binding business. There, the Rabbis witnessed the production of a number of the items including benchers, invitations and greetings cards. The tour concluded with an inspiring talk from Moishe Goldblatt who has been involved at Kisharon for 20 years and now works at the Business Centre’s woodturning shop. Moishe presented each Rabbi with a wood besamim spice box (used in the havdalah service after Shabbat) which had been made by the service users. Dr. Beverley Jacobson, Chief Executive of Kisharon, commented: “We are grateful to the Rabbis for investing their valuable time in visiting Kisharon. We are determined for Kisharon to become the first port of call for anyone with a special need in the Jewish community. With a better insight into our services, the Rabbis can now confidently direct their appropriate congregants to Kisharon.” Rabbi Brawer commented: “It was very moving to see firsthand the wonderful work of Kisharon.” Joshua Lewis with his father and a few canine friends. COMMUNITY HOD Whisky Tasting Highland, Lowland, Campbeltown, Speyside Islay, Island, Orkney and Skye Bourbon, Light, Golden and Peaty Blended, Vatted, Malted and Rye The variations are ever expanding and, despite some distilleries' production output falling, the number of bottlings of cask strength whiskies never diminishes. The biennial Hebrew Order of David Whisky tasting was another success and testimony to the dedication of the seasoned drinker. However, despite the complete absence this time of female tasters, it should not be considered an all male preserve. Judging by the number of ladies who imbibe the elixir at the Shabbat Kiddush, we look forward to their renewed participation at our next event. It is amazing to see how many serious tasters there are who quizzed the presenter from the Scotch Malt Whisky Society although, of course, there were those who were present just for the drinking experience. Our thanks go to Jason Millan (JM Kosher Caterers) for their provision of the usual repast to enable some of the alcoholic excesses to be soaked up. It was another social success with profits going to Zaka. It would appear that this is now an established fixture in both the HOD and BES calendars. Rabbi Brawer with Kisharon Chief Executive, Bev Jacobson and others. (left) COMMUNITY Joshua’s Bar Mitzvah Twinning My name is Joshua Lewis. I am 13 years old and I attend Yavneh College in Borehamwood. On 20th December 2008, I was lucky enough to celebrate my Bar Mitzvah surrounded by my extended family and by my friends. My Parsha was Vayeshev, the beginning of the story of Joseph and his multi coloured coat. I read Shevii and the haftarah from the book of Amos. Rabbi Brawer addressed me and I was proud that he commented on my voice and on my leining. He told Joshua Lewis walks the dogs (right and bottom) Richard and Simon enjoy the whisky (below) me to always progress and develop, something that I hope I can do from now onward. Long before my Bar Mitzvah date, I decided that I wanted to help raise awareness of those less fortunate than myself by raising money to twin my Bar Mitzvah through the charity World Jewish Relief. My Bar Mitzvah twin, Lenia, lives in the Zaparozhye Children’s Home, which is in Zaparozhye in the Ukraine. His life could not be more different from mine as he is alone without his parents to care for him. Lenia is in the Bar Mitzvah class at the Children’s Home so he is able to learn about Jewish History much like I do at Yavneh College. However, it must be very hard for him to have a Bar Mitzvah without his close family there. In order to raise money for WJR, I decided to organise some dog walks around Aldenham reservoir. I contacted all the people we knew locally and further away who have dogs and arranged a pick up and drop off service for Sunday morning walks. All in all, I managed to raise over £300 and had a great time walking the dogs and keeping healthy. I made sure all the dogs received a certificate saying that they had taken part in the charity walk. Wizo Twinning Joshua’s grandparents twinned his Bar Mitzvah through Wizo. His closest friend, Sam Gold, also celebrated his Bar Mitzvah in December, a week after Joshua, also twinned his Bar Mitzvah through Wizo. They run a regular twinning programme and have a class Bar and Bat Mitzvah graduation twice a year for those less fortunate than Joshua and Sam. Joshua Lewis Dani Jacobson meets Zac Ephron of High School Musical fame Dani Jacobson meets the Queen Link Pesach 2009 101 link community KOLOT Chesed Abby Album and Zara Shaw An exciting new initiative has recently been launched to educate our young people – specifically those entering their barmitzvah or batmitzvah year and those in year 8 who have recently completed their barmitzvah or batmitzvah year– in the volunteering and charitable culture. This will enable them to participate in one of the basic tenets of Judaism, giving to others, and will hopefully be a start to a life of Jewish responsibility. The programme has two strands – ‘Chesed’ or kindness which will relate to giving of time, and ‘Tzedakah’ which involves educating them on decisions about charitable giving. The first of these is a project spearheaded by our community, while the second is a project of ‘UJIA myfund’ aimed at the same age-group. It therefore seemed appropriate to link the two. At an extremely well attended launch the project was delighted to welcome Leonie Lewis from the Jewish Volunteer Network as the guest speaker. Together with presentations from Rabbi Brawer, and Elaine Robinson from UJIA myfund, the children heard about the importance of giving their time and how the smallest act of kindness can make a significant difference to someone’s life. Our first event was held on 16th November. Twelve very enthusiastic Year 7 and Year 8’s participated in ‘Mitzvah Day’ by holding a ‘packathon’ for the new All Aboard shop in Borehamwood and a toy drive for GIFT. Over 100 bags of clothes and toys were enthusiastically packed and sorted!! January saw the first of the programmes delivered by UJIA where children participated in a very stimulating and motivating educational session on philanthropy. Hopefully, by the time you read this we will have provided musical entertainment for the Buckets and Spades respite centre in Hendon. Should you wish to find out more about this exciting project or have any ideas, either in our community or within the wider community, that you think we can participate in please do not hesitate to share them with us. We even have our very own e-mail address! chesed@borehamwoodshul.org Over the past year about 15 girls and their mothers took part in the Borehamwood Kolot programme run by Dina Brawer. We were doing this to make becoming Bat Mitzvah a more meaningful and enlightening experience. Every fortnight, we met and learnt about a Jewish woman who did something in their lives that could motivate us. At the beginning, Dina would give us a text from the Talmud, Torah or a Megila and we would go and study it with our mums. Dina also gave us questions to think about. This was a great opportunity for us to spend quality time with our mothers. We would then have a break which involved lots of nosh! We were then pulled away from the food in order to have a group discussion about what we had previously learnt with our mums. During this discussion Dina told us what the text meant and what was going on. We then discussed it. We asked loads of questions which Dina always had an answer to. We never wanted to leave at the end because we were so intrigued by the conversation. This course inspired us significantly. Examples of women who we learnt about are Hannah Senesh and Miriam. We then went onto talk about these women in our Divrei Torah at our Bat Mitzvahs. Abby was fascinated by the fact that Hannah Senesh gave up her life to save others around her in World War II. She was imprisoned by the Nazis, tortured and even her mum was brought into prison. Zara loved to learn about Miriam’s caring characteristics. This is shown by the fact that at the beginning of the book of Shemot, she saved Moshe by watching over him in the Nile and when she offered to find Ba’atya a nurse, bought his true mother, Yochebed, to nurse him. We found out that it wasn’t just the men who had a significant impact on the Jewish people, but in fact the women had an equal impact. For example, Esther from the Purim story saved the Jewish people by defeating Haman using words and not violence. Unlike Moshe and Abraham who were selected by Hashem to do these duties, Esther took it upon herself, without being appointed. As well as all the serious matters, we also did some fun activities such as Israeli Dancing and Chalah baking. These two evenings were also so much fun. At the end of the year we had a fabulous Siyum with all the other Kolot groups. We all enjoyed Kolot so much and learnt a great deal. So much so that we managed to persuade Dina to put on an “after Kolot programme” for us. We recommend this course to girls of Bat Mitzvah age and would like to thank everyone involved, particularly Dina for inspiring us. The Chesed Packathon 102 Link Pesach 2009 By Abby Album and Zara Shaw Nikki Millan winning Strictly Limmud Dancing Photos ©Israeli Dance Institute COMMUNITY Learning Report 07/08 By Anthony Rosenfeld Our aim at the beginning of the year was to try and create a culture of learning within our community. We decided to do this within a modern orthodox framework, which we felt would appeal to a large number of our members. With this in mind, we have established a working partnership with the London School of Jewish Studies. We were thus able to have access to their teachers and resources as well as their organisational and educational experience. A large and varied series of educational programmes have taken place within this arrangement. It was decided that we would experiment with various formats and themes to see what worked best and what appealed to the community and then use this as a basis for future planning. During the week before Rosh Hashanah and during the week before Yom Kippur, we ran an Elul programme featuring Rabbi Brawer and Dina as well as Rabbi Binyamin Tabori and Rabbi Dr Joshua Berman, the international featured speakers from the LSJS Elul programme. All the shiurim were text based, with handouts provided (This became for format for most of the programmes which took place during the year). A high level symposium on the subject of Agunot took place, chaired by Rabbi Brawer and featuring Professor Bernard Jackson and Rachel Levmore, two internationally renowned experts on the subject, as well as Dayan Ivan Binstock of the Beth Din. It is hoped that this type of symposium could become an annual event hosted by our Shul. Early in the new year, a four part programme entitled “4 rabbis who transformed the Jewish world” took place. Rabbi Akiva, Rambam, Rashi and Yosef Caro were discussed by Adam Taub, Rafi Zarum, Lindsay Taylor Guthartz and Rabbi Brawer respectively. Amanda Bradley led a 6 week Tora l’am (Torah for everyone) crash course, where 10 participants learned how to give a dvar torah and examined the whole torah methodically, making it structured and accessible for further study. Rabbi Brawer gave a four part basic Judaism course, where one innovation was the introduction of a system of accessibility for the hard of hearing. We hope to incorporate this in future courses. Two weeks prior to Purim, Rafi, Zarum and Maureen Kandler visited our community for a learning Shabbat entitled “All about Purim”. A pre-Pesach programme was held one evening at Yavneh College, in partnership with Yavneh as well as the LSJS. Yavneh proved to be an excellent venue, many Yavneh parents attended, and we would be very keen on using this venue in the future. There was a choice of speakers from our shul and LSJS as well as Yavneh. During May, a very successful four part course was given by Lindsay Taylor-Guthartz. Her subject was “Making Prayer Meaningful” and among the topics she discussed were informal prayer, the origins of formal prayer, aleinu and kaddish.Her easy going, engaging style is aimed at directly involving the audience and the course was enjoyed by a consistent, loyal group of attendees. On Shavuot, we hosted Adam Taub and his family .Adam fulfilled the role of scholar in residence and as well as speaking to nearly 150 people at a superb tikkun leil, he also gave several shiurim during the 2 days of the chag. The 2008 Ellul programme had a similar format to the previous and featured Rabbi Brawer and Dina as well as Lindsay Taylor-Guthartz and Rabbi Avi Scharf .It was entitled “More than apple and honey” and dealt with themes relating to the “Yamim Noraim”. An Autumn programme was recently held. Topics included philosophy, tanach and basic Judaism, again in conjunction with the LSJS. Other Shiurim which take place are the lunch and learn programme, Rabbi Suffrin’s Shiur, Rabbi Bambergers shiur and the Ladies’ Shiur. There was also a very successful Tu Bishvat Seder. Every second Shabbat, there is an explanatory service aimed at increasing understanding of the Shabbat morning service. It is run by members of the community under the guidance of Rabbi Brawer. It is our aim to provide programmes for as large a cross section of the community as possible.If you have any suggestions, please contact Rabbi Brawer or myself, via the shul office. We would like to thank Rabbi Brawer and Dina for all their work and enthusiasm in putting the programmes together, as well as Rafi Zarum and Maureen Kendler from the LSJS for their help. Anthony Rosenfeld Link Pesach 2009 103 link community COMMUNITY Holocaust Memorial Day Workshop Mark Faerber The event was organized under the umbrella of the Northwood Holocaust Memorial Day (NHMD) programme which has been running for the last 8 years and attracts approximately 2,000 school students from local schools in London, Middlesex, Buckinghamshire, Hillingdon and Hertsmere. This year, for the first time, I initiated the programme at the request of Rabbi Dr Brawer. The day was divided into two sessions, morning and afternoon, at which 154 school students attended accompanied by about 12 teachers including the Head of Hertswood School, Borehamwood. The participating schools were: Haberdasher's Girls, Chancellors, The Princess Helena College and Mount Grace Schools in the morning, and Hertswood School in the afternoon. The day was opened by the Mayor of Hertsmere, Cllr Sandra Parnell who attended the whole of the morning session. The students were welcomed by Rabbi Brawer who made an opening address. This was followed by a short film about Kristallnacht (Night of Broken Glass) which was the theme of this year's introduction to the day. Alec Ward, who is a survivor well known in our community, spoke movingly for 45 minutes about his experiences. After a short break, the students were divided into 4 workshops which were facilitated by members of the community who had been specially trained to do so at the Imperial War Museum and at Northwood. The session ended with a short closing ceremony, which included candle lighting and the reading out of the names of 20 children who had perished, and a closing address delivered by Rabbi Pete Tobias of Elstree Liberal Synagogue. The afternoon session consisted of the same format but the students were addressed by the survivor, Jack Kagan, whose story was also recounted with emotion. Jack had fought with the Bielski Brothers about whom the recent film, Defiance, was made, and he spoke of his survival and fighting with the Russian Jewish partisans in Belarus from 1941-1944. Needless to say the students listened with great interest and it had been very rewarding for the facilitators to see how stimulated and responsive they were later on in the workshops. This had made all the effort worthwhile and was deemed to be a success. The event was ably assisted by a dedicated band of volunteers who had given up their time to help and without whom the event could not have run so smoothly. Mark Faerber 104 Link Pesach 2009 COMMUNITY Community Care Rebecca Brummer The Community Care Service has been in great demand during the last 9 months. Before Rosh Hashanah volunteers delivered honey cakes to over 70 senior members of the community as well as telephoning all of our members aged 80+ to wish them a Happy New Year. For Chanukah, together with US Project Chesed and World Jewish Relief, we organised a toy and nappy collection which was extremely successful. Thanks to your generosity we collected over 50 black bin bags of items which will be distributed to children in Eastern Europe. Right now I am busy preparing for a senior tea party to be held at the shul. For several years two longstanding volunteers in the community have been holding regular tea parties in their own home, and thanks to them many of our senior members have already been able to get together with their friends. Due to this successful initiative it was felt that, in addition, we should invite all of our senior members together perhaps two or three times a year. The response so far has been very good and I am hoping that these tea parties will become a regular feature at BES. I am currently in the process of setting up a ‘Mother and Baby Support’ programme. It is a wonderful time when someone has a baby, and in most cases both the mother and baby are doing well. However, on some occasions the mother struggles to cope with her new circumstances and can suffer emotionally due to factors such as hormonal imbalance and sleep deprivation. This can result in feelings of insecurity, social isolation and depression. Community Care hopes to reach out to these women and their families and offer them both emotional and practical support. As usual none of the above would happen without the fantastic Community Care Volunteers, who readily give up their own time to help others in the community. I would like to say a big thank you to all of them for the great work they have been doing! I am always looking for more people to be part of the Community Care Network so if you are interested in helping other people in the community, please do not hesitate to contact me. You will receive training, support and be very much welcomed here at BES Community Care. In between these projects, I am also dealing with the welfare needs of individual members of the community. Increasingly people are calling the Confidential Care Line, a sign that the message about Community Care is reaching people. I am sure that no one is surprised that many of the recent calls relate to the financial crisis and its effects including members who are struggling to pay their mortgage, have been made redundant or are generally finding things difficult financially. Financial problems often result in depression, social isolation and tension in relationships which can have a devastating impact on the whole family. Many of the people with whom I have been in contact talk about feelings of embarrassment that they are unable to afford what others can. I have met with young mothers in tears that they, amongst other things, could not afford the type of birthday party that other children were having. I have spoken to parents who are worried about how they can afford the Bar Mitzvah presents that they are ‘expected’ to give. Whilst no one can solve the actual financial problems immediately, maybe we as a community can still help, even if it is just in the way that we talk to other people. By trying to remember that some people amongst us are experiencing real hardship at present, and by showing sensitivity in the topics that we choose to talk about, we may make it easier for these people to deal with their current situation. Confidential Community Care Line 020 8207 5741 Rebecca Brummer, Community Care Coordinator JACS Looking for lively (or not so lively) retired people, whether they be boobas, zeidas, aunties, uncles or just ordinary human beings who would like to be part of JACS on a Wednesday afternoon and listen to an interesting speaker, or hear nostalgic music, followed by a piece of cake and a cup of tea and a bit of a gossip. Sometimes we have outings related to our speakers and recently had a person from Bletchley Park telling us about the Enigma codes and we followed that with a visit there, which was a huge success. Another day we went for coffee and painted clay plates, chanukiahs,mezuzot, bowls, etc. and had a great time. Of course, we were so proud of our work that we exhibited it at our Chanucah Party and everyone was very impressed that we are going again another day to produce even more heirlooms! We also went to the Jewish Film Festival in Borehamwood in December and a good weep was had by all! If this seems like your sort of thing, please present yourself, and a friend or two if you like, to the Kol Rinah Hall, Wednesdays from 1.30 to 3.30 pm. Including tea and good company the cost is only £2 If you would like to know what the programme will be, please see the Newsletter for exact details, or phone the Chairman, Ray Kay on 8953 2779 See you there! Link Pesach 2009 105 link community Esmond Rosen COMMUNITY The View from the Shul Office Es Rosen So much happens in our community that we often find it difficult to reflect upon the developments and advancements which have only recently occurred. My last Link Report was written months before Rosh Hashanah and concerned itself with the synagogue heating repairs and the fantastic celebrations marking the 60th anniversary of the State of Israel. This report, written in the middle of January, can therefore only look back on events from the Yomin Noryim. From a personal perspective these last months have been the most memorable I can ever imagine. Hilary and I have witnessed the birth of our first grandchild, Aron Tzion, in Jerusalem, and the marriage of our daughter Naomi on the first night of Chanukah. Despite these most wonderful distractions we have been able to oversee the planning and management that is necessary for the efficient organisation required in the shul, for all the services and activities associated with the High Holydays. This also included the services held at Yavneh and whilst there remain some minor teething problems they are dwarfed by the fact that there are several thousand visitors to the shul during this intensive and important period. In recent months we have also seen the painting and decorating of the Kol Rinah Hall and it is hoped that further improvements to the windows and cupboards can be accomplished. We have also had to direct repairs to the boiler and heating systems in both the Gilah Hall and in the New Building. These developments are a visible indication of the expenses required to maintain our premises and there have also been numerous smaller but other necessary improvements made to the site. Just as every individual, charity, business or commercial enterprise has been affected the dramatic events afflicting the world economy have affected the finances of the synagogue. We rely primarily on membership income and in the current economic climate we are aware that our members are not immune to what is happening around us. We therefore have to manage within our means, whilst still providing an efficient and effective service. Proposals to develop and modernise the site will obviously have to wait but in the meantime we will press ahead with plans and drawings, so that whenever the economy improves these exciting ambitions can be realised. 106 LinkPesach 2009 We are proud that BES is to be honoured once again by the presence of many distinguished leaders of the Jewish Community none more so than the Chief Rabbi, Sir,Jonathan Sacks, the President of the Board of Deputies of British Jews, Henry Grunwald, and the new Chief Executive of The United Synagogue, Jeremy Jacobs. These VIP visitors once again provide evidence of the high esteem our community is held. This year, under the direction of Mark Faerber, the shul also hosted over 160 students from local schools at a Holocaust Memorial Day Educational Workshop . We have experienced some small changes in the office staff as we welcomed Michelle Lassman to support the work of the Youth Director, and also Helena Freedman to assist in the administration team but, whilst Amanda has been unwell, to fill the void. We also wished Mazeltov to Estelle and Darren Talberg on the safe arrival of their new son. Joe, Edna and Tiago De Susa comprise our caretaking, cleaning and security personnel providing much needed support to the community’s fantastic caretaker, Bernie. A mention also for Barry Winterman who works quietly but incredibly hard with Ken Keller to ensure we remain financially secure in these difficult times. Care Coordinator colleague Rebecca also brings great, energy, enthusiasm and experience to this developing and important task and Youth Director Doron provides a vital link and role model for the youth of our community. As always I wish to thank the support I receive from our chairman Anthony Arnold, his officers and all my Board of Management colleagues, for their voluntary efforts to pro- vide policy and direction which often go unrecognised and unrewarded. As we prepare to celebrate Pesach and recall our emergence from slavery we once again find ourselves in difficult and unsure times but we look to the strengths of our families and our community to provide those support structures necessary to maintain our identity and our faith. 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