APFL: New Moniker for CenterOne
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APFL: New Moniker for CenterOne
Pa g e 12 Black History New Pride! GLAAD’s Resource Kit The Factory Expands January 20, 2003 www.ExpressGayNews.com Pa g e Q12 Volume 4, Number 3 APFL: New Moniker for CenterOne HIV Services Organization Becomes AIDS Project Florida By John Bryson News Editor The oldest and largest AIDS service agency in Broward County has a new name. Norm Kent, the newly appointed executive director of Community Healthcare/CenterOne, announced on Friday that the HIV organization would hereafter be known as AIDS Project Florida (APFL). In a second related move, Kent appointed Michael James, the former managing editor at The Express, to serve as director of public relations. First, Kent said, the new name better communicates to clients—and potential clients—the function of the organization and its place within the community. “We are an HIV/AIDS service, outreach, educational, medical and preventative health agency,” Kent said. “The name change eliminates any euphemisms, and communicates that to the public.” Second, Kent added that the appointment of James “allows for APFL to get the message out to the public about who we are and what we do.” Currently the attorney representing the privacy interests of patients in Broward circuit court, Kent is now working full time at the center, and has taken immediate steps “We are cleaning up our act, aesthetically, cosmetically and clinically,” Kent said. “People need to feel welcome, and our clients deserve a first-class facility that addresses their needs and calms their concerns.” Immediately after becoming APFL’s executive director, Kent authorized the redesign of the agency’s new website (www.APFL.org), with the Photo by Steven Shires assistance of Tom Forcella, who was appointed to work at APFL as Michael James, former managing editor of The its information technologies Express, has been appointed director of public director. relations for AIDS Project Florida. “The website is sometimes our to upgrade the physical appearance of the first contact with our clients,” Kent says. facility. This week alone carpenters, painters “We now have well-written information to and electricians have been working inside effectively communicate with our existing the offices. clients and to better showcase our services to those who are looking for an HIV healthcare provider. Clients who are not ambulatory will eventually be able to communicate with their case workers and physicians through e-mail.” Kent said that APFL needs to actively reassert its position in the gay community, develop a senior citizens HIV-care center and open a satellite office in the heart of the minority communities “whose AIDS rates are growing exponentially.” He added that HIV testing needs to be more proactive, and outreach needs to expand. Kent declared, “We must have the courage to say what we are doing is not enough— as a country, as a community and as an agency. As much as we have done, we still need to do more.” Before the end of the week, Kent had addressed a symposium, attended by state leaders, on the future of healthcare at Nova Southeastern University. James, the new public relations director, has extensive knowledge with dealing with the media and the public at large. He stepped down from his full-time See APFL on page 4 Express Announces Staff Changes, Promotions By John Bryson News Editor The Express announced last week that Features Editor Philip A. LaPadula has been appointed the new managing editor at the paper. “Phil brings 20 years of experience to the table, which I believe will be beneficial to the growth of the paper,” said Norm Kent, publisher of The Express. “I will remain the publisher, but with a more hands-off approach.” “I have really enjoyed being features editor for the past year—especially profiling interesting people, everyone from local artists to national political figures,” LaPadula said. “I plan to continue writing about the unique people, places and events of our community. As managing editor, I hope to help The Express continue to grow into a top-notch, cutting-edge, mainstream gay publication, with comprehensive coverage of the arts, healthcare, politics and religion. I very much appreciate the support and Express Features Editor Phil LaPadula has been promoted to managing editor. encouragement I’ve received from everyone at The Express and in the community.” Kent also announced that local writer Andy Zeffer, who has been contributing entertainment and feature stories to The Express, will be the new features editor. “I’m exciting about the opportunity to work with such a quality paper and a great team, which is representative of the people I have met in the South Florida community. I look forward to profiling more interesting people, places and events. Everyone at The Express has been really wonderful to me.” Former Managing Editor Michael James stressed that he will not be leaving the newspaper completely, saying he will continue contributing articles as health editor and will also oversee the transition with LaPadula. “I will still be on hand over the next few months, doing what I have been doing for the past three years and sharing that experience with Phil. By making this a smooth transition, it will assure that the paper will change for the better and expand into new and exciting areas.” Andy Zeffer is the new features editor for The Express. www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 1 THE EXPRESS Volume 4, Number 3 Inside Broward News Issue 112 Page 6 The Express Gay News, Inc. 1595 Northeast 26th St. Wilton Manors, Fl. 33305 Phone: 954.568.1880 Fax: 954.568.5110 www.ExpressGayNews.com Publisher Norm Kent Publisher@ExpressGayNews.com Rabbi Nemirof f ’s Installation Moves to Hollywood Managing Editor Phil LaPadula Phil@ExpressGayNews.com Scheduling Conflict Results in Relocation to Temple Beth El Health Editor J. 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The Express Stylebook Policy For the sake of readable newswriting, the word “gay” in The Express should, when relevant, be interpreted to be inclusive of gays, lesbians, bisexuals, transsexuals, transvestites, transgendered people, two-spirited people, intersexed people, men-who-have-sex-withmen, women-who-have-sex-with-women,queers, homosexuals, sexual minorities, and people who are unsure of their sexual orientation, but think they might be gay. Here is an example: “Toronto’s gay-pride parade is bigger than Vancouver’s.” 2 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK “This Above All... To Thine Own Self Be True. And it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man.” • Shakespeare / Hamlet / I / III Sports Memorabilia Raises Money for Charity How Wilton Manors Resident Lou Kendrick Is Making a Difference By John Bryson News Editor Have you ever imagined what it would be like to live in a world where the written word made no sense, a simple sentence too difficult to decipher? Most of us cannot. But that was Lou Kendrick’s world at one time. Today, thanks to Cal Ripken’s Literacy Center in Baltimore, Kendrick no longer lives in that world. Kendrick suffered from dyslexia, virtually unable to read until 10 years ago— even though he graduated with a high school diploma from Baltimore’s public school system. He moved home 10 years ago, to support his nephew Chris who suffered from leukemia. While there, he flipped open the phone book and found the Ripken Center. Kendrick, who is also gay and HIV positive, has made it his own personal crusade to give back to the community in a most unique way. It might seem unclear at first: He works for a modest salary as a VIP food service manager at Pro-Player Stadium—catering Marlins and Dolphins games, as well as special events and concerts. However, given the unique opportunity to meet stars and athletes alike, he makes the most of that contact. Quickly, you see how he makes a difference. By securing signed bats, balls, etc. from those celebrities and athletes willing to assist him, life on Easy Street could have been a lock. But rather than sell these items for personal gain, he donates them to several assist. It wouldn’t be charities, including CHC/ possible without them.” CenterOne (now AIDS And the CenterOne Project Florida), Roads to Chairman, Steve Steiner, Recovery and the Ripken says without Kendrick’s Literacy Center—so they efforts tens of thousands of can auction the items at dollars would end up elsewhere. Their largest fundraisers and use the fundraiser now draws a money to assist those in crowd anxious to see need. what’s up for auction in the Each of these charities ‘Celebrity Athlete Corner.’ has impacted his life directly “The way he has in some way, and it’s a debt that he is eager to pay back helped spread the word in any way he can. about our program and “I see life as an educate the community opportunity to give back,” about CHC/CenterOne has Kendrick says. “Just a small been invaluable,” Steve effort can make a tremendous Steiner, Chairman of CHC/ difference in someone’s life. CenterOne, says. “He is so There were those who were passionate about our work. I can’t tell you how much willing to give to me, so I all of the bats, balls and think it’s my privilege and gloves he’s donated have responsibility to give back in any way I can.” Lou Kendrick displays just a few of the many letters of thanks he has furthered our work. The donations are so amazing His office is filled with received from the service agencies he has helped. that even sports collectors memorabilia—lots of Cal Ripken items, as you might imagine—from You don’t get far before you notice the are attending our Art for AIDS auction just various sporting events that he has signed footballs from Dan Marino, Johnny to see what we’ve got.” attended. Some of the items are in boxes – Unitas and others. Finally, there’s the fullUltimately, Kendrick wants people to properly catalogued and authenticated - size autographed poster of Brady Anderson see one person can make a difference if they waiting to be sent off at the end of the month and the Kevin Brown autographed bat. really put their mind to it. to one of his charities. “I want people to see how easy and fun “I collect these items from players and There’s the framed picture autographed athletes who are willing to help out,” it can be to make a difference,” he says. “Do by Craig Counsell, the one where he steps Kendrick says. “They have heard about my what you can, it will almost certainly come on home plate to clinch the ’97 World Series. efforts and are almost always willing to back to you at some point. I’m living proof.” www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 3 SunServe to Launch New Psychotherapy Program Services will be Provided to All Gays and Lesbians Regardless of Income By John Bryson News Editor On Wednesday, Jan. 22, Sunshine Social Services (SunServe) will open the doors of its newest program aimed at serving the gay and lesbian community of South Florida, SunServe Counseling and Psychotherapy Services (SCPS), at a community reception on the campus of the Sunshine Cathedral. Services offered by SCPS, which will be located on the campus of the Sunshine Cathedral, include individual counseling, couples counseling, therapy groups, mentoring and referrals. Under the direction of Dr. James LoPresti, the former director of Mental Health and Addiction Treatment Services at Washington D.C.’s Whitman-Walker Clinic, the program aims to be a comprehensive mental health program that can provide therapeutic services to all lesbian and gay clients—regardless of their ability to pay. “Too many lesbians and gay men in our community have encountered demoralizing obstacles to getting the kind of counseling and mental healthcare they need,” Ron English, co-chairman of SunServe’s board of directors, said. “SunServe’s unique and innovative program, successfully tested in other parts of the country, will greatly help to change that landscape by providing powerful linkages between private practice providers and a nonprofit central intake, assessment, treatment and referral facility.” SCPS is a 501 (c) 3 nonprofit organization and will be operated under the direction of licensed clinicians. It will be guided by an 4 Jim LoPresti, Dino Georgiou, Herbert Rosenberg and Ron English, board members of Sunserve advisory board of South Florida gay and as well as referral services. Anyone who lesbian therapists familiar with the needs of receives treatment that can be offered onthe community. The central facility will site will pay on a sliding scale that is pegged provide intake assessments for new clients, to the federal poverty rate—meaning this program should be affordable for any gay or lesbian person in need. “Our primary target population are those who do not earn enough to afford mental health insurance benefits, but also do not qualify for governmental assistance such as Medicare or Medicaid,” LoPresti said. “Our secondary target populations are those who can afford insurance, but don’t know where to turn to find gay affirming, gay identified or gay knowledgeable therapists.” A main objective of SCPS will be to network with other agencies such as substance abuse treatment centers, trauma centers, eating disorder programs, etc. to make efficient and effective connections that reduce obstacles facing gays or lesbians seeking treatment. In addition, the program will actively seek to monitor the needs of the community, and periodically re-evaluate the services it offers—ensuring that they can provide effective treatment in the areas it targets for its efforts. For more information about the program and how to access its services, contact the agency’s office at 954.764.5557. APFL from front page position at The Express to accept the position with APFL. “I have really enjoyed the opportunities the newspaper has given me over the past few years,” James said. “But, now I have been given new and exciting challenges by joining the APFL team, challenges that I will take-on and address with the same energies disease is constantly changing and evolving, and we have to change and evolve with it, and against it.” For more information about AIDS Project Florida, visit the organization’s website at www.APFL.org or call Michael James at 954.537.4111, ext. 141, or e-mail APFLrelations@hotmail.com. www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK and fervor that I did with The Express.” James began his new job at APFL on Jan. 14. He says that one of his first objectives is to “reach out to every media outlet and the public at-large, so that they are aware of exactly what services we currently offer and the directions in which we are going to grow and expand. This Local Classic Car Show to Benefit Kids In Distress By Michael James Health Editor Road Knights of South Florida keep the spirit of the ’50s and ’60s alive with classic cars and music to benefit Kids In Distress (KID). Their first 100% Plus Benefit Classic 1953 Chevy Truck Car Show for kids will be on Sunday, Feb. 16, 11am-4pm on the KID Campus in Wilton Manors, 819 NE 26th St., Wilton Manors, between Dixie Highway and Andrews Avenue. Lance Jeffrey, sergeant at arms of the Knights, explains that although such shows generally split the income with a charity, this event will solely benefit KID. “We’re paying for everything ourselves,” he said. “The food is being donated, the trophies are being recycled and we’re paying for the plaques ourselves to make sure every dime goes to Kids In Distress. Everyone who enters a car in the show will get a trophy.” Those interested in participating in the event can register their 1969 or older car for a donation of $15, and they can show off their spirit and provide support for abused and neglected children within the community. All clubs are welcome to participate. A car, however, is not necessary to participate. Anyone can take their family and friends to gaze at the collection of cars. Over 150 trophies and DASH Plaques will be given away during the event. Food, drinks, and music will be available for sale, with all proceeds benefiting KID. D.J. Rockin’ Rich will provide entertainment. Membership in the 30year-old Road Knights organization costs $25 a year. But membership is not required to participate in the fundraiser. Kids In Distress is a leading force and authority in the treatment of abused children and a premier agency advocating for the development of children’s services. Since 1981, programs and services have been developed and extended to reach more children in hopes of preserving the single most important thing in their world, their families. For more information, call Howie, 954.476.8665; Danny, 954.733.4519; Lance, 9544.252.1512; or Larry, 954.571.2324. www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 5 Rabbi Nemiroff’s Installation Moves to Hollywood Scheduling Conflicts Results in Relocation to Temple Beth El National Correspondent Congregation Etz Chaim, a spiritual home for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender [gay] Jews and their friends in South Florida, announced last week that the installation of Rabbi Cathy Nemiroff as the Rabbi of Etz Chaim will be held at Temple Beth El, 1351 South 14th Ave. in Hollywood, a change from previous announcements. The change was necessary because the Unitarian Universalist Church of Fort Lauderdale, where the Synagogue holds its Friday night services, will be unavailable that evening. Rabbi Nemiroff’s Installation will still be held on Friday, Feb. 21, at 8:30pm. Joining Nemiroff and Cantorial Soloist Michael Greenspan on the bima will be Rabbi Stacy Offner of Shir Tikvah Congregation of Minneapolis, who will be officiating at the installation. Offner was the founding Rabbi of Shir Tikvah, a mainstream congregation committed to full inclusion of Jews of all lifestyles in all areas of congregational life. Nemiroff was one of the founding lay leaders of that congregation in 1988, and served as its president for three years. Working closely with Offner in developing Shir Tikvah profoundly affected Nemiroff’s vision of the rabbinate. “Rabbi Offner, the founding board, and I envisioned a congregation that would be truly a house of worship, house of study, and house of assembly welcoming all Jews without judgment or prejudice,” says Nemiroff. “I am honored to have Rabbi Offner as mentor 6 Photo by Steven Shires By Robin Richards development of the congregation. I know what is possible in a congregation and I hope to be a force for greater growth at Etz Chaim.” “We are thrilled to have found Rabbi Nemiroff, an outstanding leader who is a perfect match for our congregation and our Community,” says Doree Benson, President of Congregation Etz Chaim. Greenspan concluded, “Rabbi Nemiroff’s scholarship and wonderfully infectious love of Judaism will elevate our congregation to new levels of spirituality.” Dean Trantalis Picks Up Crucial Endorsement from City Police Group By John Bryson Rabbi Cathy Nemiroff of Congregation Etz Chaim, will be installed on Feb. 21 and colleague. Periodically returning home to Shir Tikvah and witnessing its ongoing development, true to its mission, I am thrilled to have been part of its beginnings. Likewise, I am thrilled to have Rabbi Offner officiate at my installation as Rabbi of Congregation Etz Chaim.” Offner was the first woman rabbi in Minnesota (1984) and, in 1987, was the first pulpit rabbi in the country to come out as a lesbian. She has been active in many community-wide endeavors. She served as adjunct professor of Jewish Ethics at Hamline University for over a decade and currently www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK serves on the Ethics Committee of Children’s Hospital and as chair of the Socially Responsible Investing Committee of the Reform Pension Board. She recently completed her term as the first rabbi ever to serve as the officially elected chaplain of the Minnesota State Senate. “I am excited about being the Rabbi of Congregation Etz Chaim,” says Nemiroff. “In my first months I have found warmth and welcome and a group of congregants sincerely committed to working on the needs and work over the past five years on the Citizens News Editor Review Board has fostered a mutual respect In the campaign for Fort Lauderdale between myself and the department, as we District 2 City Commission, have each come to learn and candidate Dean Trantalis understand the needs of the received a major boost last public and the men and week, receiving the women who work on the endorsement of the Fraternal force.” Order of Police, Lodge #31, Trantalis continued, which represents the Fort “The levels of crime are still Lauderdale Police Department. unacceptable in our city, and According to a as commissioner, I will look campaign press release, forward to working with the Thomas Mangifesta, department by fillings its president of the Order, said ranks with long-needed the endorsement “is not Dean Trantalis personnel and by devising something members take initiatives that will root out lightly,” and he looked forward to the criminal activities in our neighborhood.” moment when they could begin their work The city’s primary election will be held together. Feb. 11, and the general election follows Trantalis happily accepted, saying, “My one month later on March 11. The Show Must Go on at Cathode Larry Wald Contemplates the Future of His Business and Life Without Dick Fasenmyer By Jeremy Jones Broward Correspondent If you walk into Cathode Ray Club or its restaurant, Bar Amici, things seem to be quite normal. People are having a good time, drinks are still being served, dining is still among the best on Las Olas Boulevard and that ever so popular show Pick a Trick is still setting people up on dates they’ve always wished for, or wished upon someone else. That’s because, just weeks after the Dec. 26 death of his business partner, best friend and soul mate, business owner Larry Wald is coping with the loss the only way he knows how—and the only way Richard “Dick” Fasenmyer would have wanted it— by continuing on. Wald and Fasenmyer met in Provincetown some 16 years ago and soon became friends. A few years later, Wald decided to join Fasenmyer in Florida to help run Cathode Ray. Wald got the call from the Cleveland Clinic that Fasenmyer had passed away. “When they called me, it was early in the morning, and I was still sleeping. After I had hung up with them, I couldn’t believe it,” Wald says. “I was in such total disbelief and shock that I picked up the phone and called them back to make sure that I wasn’t dreaming.” The death of his friend has put Wald in what some see as an awkward and tough position. Wald must now decide what to do with the business that he and Fasenmyer have had together for some five years, how Fasenmyer had discussed just days before to that. It will go on as Dick and I had to keep it going and what to do next. the death. According to Wald, he is discussed. We are here for the long haul. But to Wald, there’s Cathode Ray and Bar Amici nothing tough or awkward will be here for another 20 about it. “Dick and I years. We are not closing, prepared so that there were and we are not moving!” no surprises,” Wald says. During their time as co“We always had an upowners of the business, front and honest the two knew everything relationship.” that was going on made Though the loss has plans together. Neither of been tough on Wald and them had more the staff of Bar Amici and responsibility than the Cathode Ray, he is doing other when it came to his best to remain strong running the business, and positive to keep the operationally or popular and successful financially. Fasenmyer business going. owned the property that It seems that Bar Amici and Cathode everything is business as Ray occupy, and Wald usual. But some members owns the name and of the community had everything inside the begun to speculate that buildings. Fasenmyer once the place might close. said, “Larry runs the place, Wald, however, put those and I do the drinking.” rumors to rest. So as far as Wald’s Jean, Larry Wald of Club Cathode Ray and Jody Ihme of AIDS Project “We are perfectly role in the business is Florida at the 2002 Miss Florida Pageant in July 2002 stable,” Wald declares. “It concerned, nothing will will go on.” Wald, who had really change. He will still owned a bar and restaurant be doing everything he did in Provincetown before selling it in February committed to continually providing a place prior to Dec. 26. “We never had a monetary 2002, is no stranger to running a successful where people can dine, be with friends and relationship,” Wald says. “We were lovers establishment and making wise business have a great time. but never had sex. We were enemies but decisions. “Dick and I talked about a lot of plans never hit each other.” Even with the absence of his partner, and options while he was in the hospital,” In fact, they were equals in every sense Wald will continue with plans that he and Wald says. “Nothing has changed in regards See CATHODE on page 12 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 7 ‘Gayopoly’ Release Party to be Held at Twist Jan. 21—Twist nightclub will host “Gayopoly: The Versatile Boardgame” for its official South Beach release. Giveaways include the game itself, and more info can be obtained at www.gayopoly.com. OP/WM Chamber to Hold Breakfast Meeting Jan. 22—Beginning with networking at 7:15am and immediately followed by a breakfast at 7:30am, the Oakland Park/Wilton Manors Chamber of Commerce will host a breakfast meeting featuring Michael Ashley, a former Mr. Universe, to discuss health and fitness. The event is open to all interested business persons. The cost is $15. Contact Mike Levy at 954.568.7755 with any questions. ‘A Course in Miracles’ Jan. 24-26—“The Advent of a Great Awakening,” in which the Master Teacher of A Course in Miracles will teach and extend healing of the mind and body through the message of Jesus Christ, will be held on Friday from 7pm to 9pm, Saturday from 9am to 5pm and Sunday from 2pm to 5pm. Religious Science Fort Lauderdale is located at 1550 NE 26 th Street, Wilton Manors. For further information, contact Sudie Shipman at 954.566.2868 or e-mail her at sshipman@rsiftl.com. Admission to any of the weekend sessions is on a donation basis. Miami Antiques Show Admission is $10 for the entire weekend, Features Over 400 Dealers and children under 12 are admitted for free. Jan. 24-26—The 26th Annual Miami Antiques Show and Sale will be held at the Radisson Expo Centre, adjacent to the Miami Merchandise Mart, from noon to 9pm on Friday, noon to 8pm on Saturday and noon to 6pm on Sunday. The event will showcase select dealers from across the U.S., Canada, Europe and South America with a wide range of high-quality antiques and fine arts, including period furniture, crystal, sterling, bronzes, art glass, Orentalia, Art Noveau, Art Deco, porcelain, paintings, engravings, jewelry, rugs and more. For more info, call Bob Smith and Dolphin Promotions at 954.563.6747. The Acting Studio to Hold Open House Jan. 27—The Acting Studio, 2450 Hollywood Blvd., will hold an open house from 7pm to 9pm. Guests can meet the instructors, check out the facilities and learn about current workshops and seminars focusing on commercials, TV/film and theater. Anyone who wants to attend should call Deborah Whitebrook to RSVP at 954.929.4553. A - DE 8 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK Gay Male Empowerment Project to Hold Program ‘Music of the World’ at Broward County Library Jan. 28—The Gay Male Empowerment Jan. 30—Singer Ken Stuart will perform Project of Greater Fort “Music of the World” Lauderdale will hold the first from 7pm to 9pm at the of 12 programs designed to Dania Beach/Paul foster self-discovery and DeMaio Branch, 255 personal growth among gay E. Dania Beach Blvd., males from 7pm to 9pm at Dania Beach. ArtServe, 1300 E. Sunrise Stuart will Blvd. perform songs made The program, popular by great sponsored by Better Bodies entertainers of the Gym, is designed to aid gay past and present, males who want to improve including Frank their quality of life and gain Sinatra, Dean Martin, the skills necessary to Tony Bennett and Nat successfully navigate pitfalls King Cole. Friends of commonly found in studies the Dania Beach Paul on gay male psychology. DeMaio Library will For more info, contact provide refreshments. Richard Del Prete at For more information, 954.768.0434 ext. 1100. call 954.926.2420. Defending the Caveman Feb. 6-16—The world-famous peacemaker in the ongoing misunderstandings between men and women, Rob Becker, will return to South Florida for a farewell performance of his wildly popular show, Defending the Caveman, to be held at the Parker Playhouse in Fort Lauderdale. After running for 2½ years and 702 performances at the Helen Hayes Theater, Caveman entered the record books as the longest running solo play in Broadway history. Tickets for the event are $49.50 and are available for in-person purchase at the Parker Playhouse box office, at all Ticketmaster outlets and by calling Ticketmaster at 954.523.3309, 561.966.3309 or online at www.TicketMaster.com. For group discount information, please call Encore Tickets at 888.317.4864. Imani Winds to Perform in Hollywood Feb. 7-8—The quintet Imani Winds will perform on both Friday and Saturday at 8pm in the Hollywood Central Performing Arts Center, located at Federal Highway and Monroe Street. The group will feature a composition that bridges European and African musical traditions, exploring repertoire from diverse cultural backgrounds and reflecting upon their rich experience as classical musicians of color. Tickets for the event are $15. For more info, call 954.924.8175 or visit www.artandculturecenter.org. DE - LI www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 9 GLCC’s ‘Girls Night Out’ at Cinema Paradiso Staff of PALS Project Get Recognition Feb. 13—The next Girl’s Night Out, presented by the GLCC Women’s Program and sponsored by She magazine will be held at 8pm at Cinema Paradiso, 503 SE 6th St. in Fort Lauderdale. The movie is called Girls On Film and is a collection of award-winning short films from lesbian directors. Tickets are $7 and benefit the GLCC Women’s Program. Rodriguez and Lydon Receive Awards For Work with HIV Community Immigration Rights Group to Hold Fundraiser Feb. 14—The South Florida chapter of the Lesbian and Gay Immigration Rights Task Force will hold a Valentine’s Day fundraiser from 6pm to 10:30pm at the European Guest House, 721 Michigan Ave. in South Beach. Cost of Attendance is a $20 donation at the door, or RSVP online for $15 at www.EuropeanGuesthouse.com. Miami International Film Festival Feb. 21-March 2—The Miami International Film Festival will feature 60 feature films from around the world, including movies from Spain, Brazil and Iceland. Many of the films are either U.S. or North American premieres. Complete information is available at www.MiamiFilmFestival.com, or call 305.348.2232, or e-mail Todd Simmons at todd@miamifilmfestival.com. By Michael James Rodriguez for his “exceptional commitment Health Editor to HIV/AIDS prevention and public health.” The PALS (Positive Action for Living Project SHARE is a collaborative effort Safely) Project, whic is part of AIDS Project Florida, is a prevention and education program designed exclusively for HIVpositive gay men. They offer a bi-weekly workshop series for HIV-positive men who have sex with men (MSMs) and now offer one-on-one sessions. In 2002, PALS hosted 30 workshops (held at hotels, art galleries, gyms, guesthouses and private houses). The workshops offer relevant, specific HIVpositive information and address issues such as sex, self-esteem, dating, trust, discordant and concordant relationships, sexual navigation, family, honesty, adherence, erotica, going back to work, HIV responsibility, fitness, food, hypnotherapy, visualization and energy healing. The team behind the success of the project have recently received awards for their David Lydon and Manuel Rodriguez work within the HIV community. between the Miami-Dade County Health Department, Office of HIV/AIDS and the Manuel Rodriguez In November 2002, Manuel Rodriguez University of Miami’s Drug Abuse and AIDS of AIDS Project Florida’s (formerly Research Center. Rodriguez is the PALS project’s Community Healthcare) PALS Project received recognition for his efforts in the HIV community liaison and is a very visible community from Project SHARE (Sharing member of the community. Born in Venezuela, HIV/AIDS Research Efforts) in Miami-Dade he has mastered English as his second County. SHARE presented the award to language. He is chair of the youth committee for the Broward County Planning Partnership; he holds a seat on the AIDS Advisory Committee for the Community Foundation of Broward. Additionally, he is the alternate representative for Broward County at the Florida HIV/AIDS Community Planning Group. Manuel Rodriguez can be reached by calling 954.537.4111, extension 110. David Lydon The Community Foundation of Broward presented David Lydon of the PALS Project with its “Footsteps in the Sand Award” in the Leadership Category. “The award is presented to HIV-positive individuals in recognition of their outstanding efforts in improving the lives of others with the virus,” says Jo Bull, vice president of programs for the foundation. Lydon is project coordinator of the PALS Project and has been living with AIDS for 17 years. He is vice president of the People With AIDS Coalition (PWAC) of Broward and secretary of the Broward County Planning Partnership (BCPP). He began his career in HIV education after he joined the first of three University of Miami HIV study groups in 1985. He also writes semi-autobiographical columns about living with HIV. David Lydon can be reached by calling 954.537.4111, extension 143. MO - Z 10 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 11 GLAAD Releases Black History Resource Kit Partnership with Black Gay Organizations to Promote Accurate Representations in Media By Robin Richards National Correspondent The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD), in partnership with several lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (gay) organizations around the country, last week released the 2003 edition of its Black History Month Resource Kit, a comprehensive online guide designed to encourage inclusive coverage of gay people of color. The complete kit for Black History Month—which is February—is available at www.glaad.org. “From the scientific innovation of George Washington Carver to the voice of blues great Bessie Smith to civil rights icon Bayard Rustin, black [gay] people have played critical roles in shaping our nation’s history,” said Loren R. Javier, GLAAD’s cultural interest media manager. “Exploring and celebrating the black [gay] experience exemplifies the spirit and intent of Black History Month...” She said that the Black History Month Resource Kit serves not only as a springboard to encourage media to be inclusive of black [gay] people in their coverage of the month-long celebration, but also offers tools that can be used year-round to avoid misconceptions and stereotypes about [gay] people of color. In developing the resource kit, GLAAD partnered with several black [gay] organizations, including the Institute, the National Black Lesbian & Gay Leadership Forum, Gay Men of African Descent (GMAD), 12 recognized for its accomplishments and contributions as part of Black History Month.” As part of its focus on inclusive Black History Month coverage, GLAAD joined with the Black Coalition on AIDS and presented a special preview screening of Brother Outsider: The Life of Bayard Rustin, a film by Nancy Kates and Bennett Singer. The screening took place on Jan. 16 in the Rainbow Room at the San Francisco LGBT Center. The movie will air on PBS on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, Jan. 20. The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) is dedicated to promoting and ensuring fair, accurate and inclusive representation of individuals and events in all media as a means of eliminating homophobia and discrimination based on gender identity and sexual orientation. For more information, visit www.GLAAD.org. millions of dollars from his partner, close shop and move out of town. “People are saying things like I killed Dick, and that I’m going to get all this money and just forget about the business and walk away. After all, I’d be rich, so why would I need the bar and restaurant anymore. This is not the case whatsoever,” Wald says. According to Wald, he expects nothing when the last will and testament are read. “I don’t expect anything, nor do I believe that I will inherit anything.” Much of Fasenmyer’s estate is actually expected to go to charities, and other portions will go to his family. Fasenmyer was well-known for his generous gifts to charities. Over the years, he had donated countless dollars to such organizations as The American Cancer Society, the Gay and Lesbian Community Center, Gamma Mu Foundation and Penn State-Erie, where he received the Distinguished Alumni Award for 2000. Despite the loss of Fasenmyer, it seems clear that the future is bright for Cathode Ray and Bar Amici. The bartenders will continue to pour the drinks, the waiters will still be there to take your orders. Wald suggests that those who really want to know what’s in store for Bar Amici and Cathode Ray should “come see for yourself.” “The Black History Month resource kit celebrates diversity by promoting inclusion of all people...” —Mandy Carter Southerners on New Ground CATHODE from page 7 of the word. Wald says the two were so close that they often talked on the phone to each other at least four times a day. Very rarely was there a “Dick free day.” Under plans that the two had made, Wald will purchase the property of the bar and restaurant from the Richard J. Fasenmyer Foundation. Set up before Fasenmyer’s death, the foundation donates money to charitable organizations. The purchase is expected to be completed soon. There are other issues regarding Fasenmyer’s will that Wald addresses firmly. Rumors have spread that Wald will now inherit www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK Southerners on New Ground (SONG), the Black Coalition on AIDS (BCA), People of Color Against AIDS Network (POCAAN) and United Lesbians of African Descent (ULOAH). “The Black History Month resource kit celebrates diversity by promoting inclusion of all people,” said SONG Development Coordinator Mandy Carter. “We are proud to partner with this kit and hope that the media take full advantage of its content. The black [gay] community is wonderfully vibrant and should be www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 13 Gay Film Fest Presents Movie Premiere and Party MGLFF to Unveil Image for 2003 Festival at Jan. 22 Fundraiser By Mary Damiano Arts & Entertainment Editor The Miami Gay & Lesbian Film Festival (MGLFF) will host its first fundraiser of the year Wednesday, Jan. 22, in an event that will feature a new film, a reception and the unveiling of the official image for the 2003 festival. The Business of Fancy Dancing, a film that focuses on the Native American gay community, will be screened at the Regal South Beach Cinema on Lincoln Road in South Beach. The film is from Sherman Alexie, who wrote the popular film, Smoke Signals. Michelle St. Cloud, one of the stars of The Business of Fancy Dancing, will appear at the MGLFF event, and she will answer questions from the audience at the post-screening party. MGLFF Program Director Carol Coombes saw the film at Outfest in Los Angeles last year. “It’s well told with wonderful moments of humor, and it portrays a community we don’t frequently see on film,” Coombes says. The Business of Fancy Dancing won the Audience Favorite Award at both the San Francisco Gay & Lesbian Film Festival and the Philadelphia Lesbian & Gay Film Festival. The film also garnered acting and writing awards at Outfest. Those who attend the film will also get to witness the unveiling of the official image of the 2003 festival. MGLFF held a competition last December to find an image that embodied the three major themes of the festival: the Miami, Latin, tropical locale, advancing the art 14 Photo by Larry Estes Gene Tagaban and Evan Adams in ‘The Business of Fancy Dancing,’ written and directed by Sherman Alexie of cinema and the gay community. According to Festival Director Jaie Laplante, MGLFF received over a dozen entries, and the marketing committee voted on finalists and the winner. The committee deliberated for several weeks on the winning entry. “Living with the decision over a few weeks makes you realize how much staying power the image has, which was another consideration,” Laplante says. The winning artist and the image has been kept secret, and no details will be given until the big unveiling on Jan. 22. The post-screening party will be held at www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK the newly restored Jackie Gleason house, which is close to the theater. Jackie Gleason lived in the house while he did his television show in Miami Beach, and the famed June Taylor dancers featured on the show rehearsed in the house. The party will be catered by Dionette Kalkhofer, who catered last year’s MGLFF party after their Kissing Jessica Stein presentation. Use of the Jackie Gleason house was donated by its current owner, Craig Eberhardt. “A big part of the festival in April is the social aspect, and what we wanted to do with our seasonal galas is to re-create the festival for a night,” Laplante says. “We wanted to find someplace glamorous that would fit the type of gala we had in mind.” The house is regarded as an art deco masterpiece, featuring a sunken oval dance floor, and a 2,000-square-foot living room beneath a 25-foot dome. The Business of Fancy Dancing screening, the unveiling of the MGLFF official image and the post-screening party will take place Wednesday, Jan. 22, at the Regal South Beach Cinema on Lincoln Road. The festivities will begin at 7:30pm. Tickets for screening only are $20 for nonmenbers, $15 for members. Tickets for the screening and the party are $40 for nonmembers or $30 for members. Tickets can be purchased with a credit card through the festival office by calling 305.534.9924. South Beacher Admits Lying to Leona Charles Bell, a former employee of hotel magnate Leona Helmsley who is suing her on charges of antigay bias, admitted to a New York City court on Wednesday that he lied on his resumé when he applied for a job at one of Helmsley’s hotels, Newsday reports. Bell, 48, said his resumé falsely reported that he had been a general manager of a hotel and that he had received a bachelor’s degree from the University of California, Berkeley. Bell, it was revealed, had actually worked as food and beverage manager at the Delano Hotel on South Beach, where he claimed to have been general manager, and he had completed only two years of college. “It was a mistake, sir,” said Bell, who admitted he “beefed up his resumé” and “embellished it” in an attempt to make himself look better. “I should not have done it.” Bell, a former general manager of Helmsley’s Park Lane Hotel in Manhattan, is suing Helmsley for $40 million, saying she verbally harassed him and fired him in 2001 upon learning that he is gay. Helmsley, often referred to as “the Queen of Hotels,” denies the allegation. Unfair Fairways? Gay Women Sue Country Club Over Spousal Rights By John Bryson News Editor In its most recent edition, Golf for Women magazine, a publication distributed by Golf Digest, highlights the plight of two lesbian women in San Diego who have taken their country club to court over its refusal to recognize them as a married couple. According to the magazine, B. Birgit Koebke and Kendall E. French filed a civil action against the Bernardo Heights Country Club last year on the grounds that its refusal amounts to discrimination based on sexual orientation. It’s being hailed as the first civil case of its kind, bringing the issue of sexual orientation and marital status within the country club framework into a court of law for adjudication. This case may become the landmark that defines the rights of gay couples at California country clubs, with nationwide implications that could affect the rights of every gay or lesbian American. In the story, Koebke and French state that they consider themselves a couple after 10 years together. Even though California doesn’t recognize same-sex marriages, the legislature passed and the governor signed a “sweeping” domestic partnership law, which they have utilized. Enacted in January 2002, the law is touted as one of the most progressive in the country. It provides for health insurance, inheritance and disability rights, the right to adopt a partner’s child and the transfer of property from one partner to another. “Under California law, Kendall and I can do just about everthing but play golf together at Bernardo Heights Country Club,” Koebke tells the magazine. Koebke began her efforts to gain equal privileges for her spouse back in 1994. Hoping to gain approval of a “significant other” or “buddy” membership category, she formed a plan of action. She sought out club members who were widows or widowers, believing them to be natural allies, mainly because many of them have steady companions of the opposite sex but choose to avoid the complications of a marriage late in life. Ultimately that attempt was derailed by higher ups, who successfully engaged in a concerted effort to defeat the change. Koebke was left feeling like “a door had been slammed” in her face. Over the years, other attempts to hammer out a compromise were met with disappointment as the club refused to budge. Deciding not to walk away from what they called “blatant discrimination,” the couple filed suit. “I didn’t want to look in the mirror in 10 years and say, ‘You know, I walked away because they scared me off.’ Because I know in my heart that we’re right.” In the story, French adds, “Even though it’s been challenging, expensive and emotionally draining, I think standing up for what you believe in is very empowering.” On May 11, 2001, the lawsuit Koebke and French v. Bernardo Heights Country Club was filed in the Superior Court of San Diego. According to Golf for Women magazine, the club’s board, upon learning of the lawsuit, decided to take a hard line. Its legal counsel, who was also a member, sent out a letter to all the members except Koebke that asked them to voice their opposition to the suit and to reaffirm its policies as a “familyoriented” organization. Calling it a turning point, Koebke and French are now determined to see the suit out to the end. The suit was defeated in Superior Court and appealed. It now awaits a review and decision by a panel of judges. Perhaps the couple’s steely determination is best portrayed by their own words. At a club meeting with 200 attendees, someone stood up and asked, “Why don’t you join another club.” Koebke quickly replied, “For the same reason Rosa Parks didn’t sit at the back of the bus.” So much for the controversy at Augusta National. For more information on the case, visit www.GolfDigest.com/gfw. Gays Want Smoking Banned in Bars Survey Also Shows 34 Percent of Gay Adults Smoke by Matt Johns 365Gay.com Seventy percent of gay adults say they would be willing to pay extra for smoke-free bars and clubs, according a new poll. The survey, conducted by Witeck-Combs Communications/Harris Interactive, also shows that 34 percent of gay adults continue to smoke cigarettes, compared with 24 percent of heterosexual adults. “The good news is, lesbians and gays seem willing to put their money where their mouths are when it comes to eliminating smoke in bars and clubs not yet covered by smokefree laws,” said Colleen Dermody, vice president of Witeck-Combs Communications. “The bad news is that 34 percent of gays are still smoking cigarettes despite 2001 survey results which showed 98 percent of GLBT smokers and tobacco chewers understand that smoking increases their risk of lung cancer and heart disease. They know smoking is unhealthy, but, according to these latest results, a third of them continue to smoke.” Of those who said they smoke cigarettes, 47 percent of the GLBT adults said they smoke more than one pack each day, while 36 percent of the heterosexual smokers said they smoked more than a pack a day. “This survey underscores the critical need for anti-smoking awareness and education campaigns developed by and targeted to the GLBT community,” said Kathleen DeBold, executive director of the Mautner Project, a national lesbian health organization. The survey was conducted online within the United States by Harris Interactive between Nov. 22 and Dec. 2, 2002. www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 15 ‘Deeds Not Creeds’ Inclusive Motto of Unitarian Universalists Church Has Attracted Many in Gay Community By Phil LaPadula Managing Editor The sign on the front lawn announces that you are entering a “Hate-Free Zone.” Inside, a spokesperson from the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) is addressing the congregation. Toward the end of the service, a collection will be taken for GLSEN. It’s a typical Sunday at The Fort Lauderdale Unitarian Universalist Church. In fact, the church devotes one or two of its services each year to the gay and lesbian community. It has also devoted services to AfricanAmericans, Hispanics and other groups. Moreover, it has used its services to address hot-button issues such as racism, homophobia and economic justice. In keeping with the church’s longstanding tradition of community activism, “Deeds not creeds” is one of the primary principles of the Unitarian Universalist Church, and, in many ways, a tagline for the entire Unitarian movement. During the 1960s, the church was at the forefront of the civil rights movement. In fact, it even produced a martyr, the Rev. James Reeb, a Unitarian minister, who was murdered 16 actually a prominent presence at the table of power during the founding of the United States. In fact, Thomas Jefferson, John Adams and John Quincy Adams were all Unitarians. Some other famous UUs included Paul Revere, Adlai Stevenson, T.S. Eliot, Charles Dickens, Isaac Newton and Alexander Graham Bell. While many conservative fundamentalists claim that they represent “traditional values” and the nation’s “religious heritage,” the historical record reveals that some key people who shaped the American nation were far from soul mates of Jerry Falwell, Pat Robertson and their elk. “The founding fathers were very much the free thinkers of their time,” Tapscott says. “Very few of the founding fathers were the The Free-Thinking devout types that the fundamentalists would Founding Fathers “What really binds us together like to depict them as. They were enlightened is acting for a more just world,” says thinkers. They were very much not fundamentalists.” Lauderdale. The church also takes at least one collection a year for the People With AIDS Coalition of Broward County. For the past two years, Tapscott has emceed at the PWAC dinner at the Signature Grand Hotel. The UUs—as they affectionately refer to each other— are open to all beliefs and faiths, as long as they seek to uplift the human condition and do not promote violence or discrimination. Southern Baptists, Catholics, Jews, Presbyterians, Buddhists, Muslims, atheists and agnostics have all found a new home in the church. “What really binds us together is acting for a more just world,” says the Rev. Gail Tapscott, pastor of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Fort Lauderdale. “No scripture should take precedence over life experience.” in 1965 while visiting Selma, Alabama, for a civil rights demonstration. Lately, the church has been active with the Cooperative Feeding Program, a feeding and nutritional education program geared to the working poor on NW 19th Street in Fort www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK the Rev. Gail Tapscott, pastor of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Fort Lauderdale. “No scripture should take precedence over life experience.” That last statement may sound like a radical, New Age notion. But Unitarians were A Place at the Table As part of that free-thinking tradition, the Unitarians have not only made gays and lesbians feel welcome in their congregations but have offered them opportunities to become actively involved in church business. Currently, the Fort Lauderdale church’s board of directors See UNITARIANS on next page UNITARIANS from previous page includes an open lesbian and a transgender person, Gloria Stein, who served as chairperson of the building and grounds committee and is still active on the board. In the past, gay men have also sat on the board. In fact, GLBT people have become so accepted in the church that they no longer feel the need to have a separate support group. “At one time, Interweave [the church’s gay and lesbian group] was very active,” Tapscott says. “We still have a substantial number of gay members, but they’ve become so assimilated into the power structure and social structure of the church—serving on the board and as committee chairs, for example—that they haven’t felt a need to have a separate organization.” While the Fort Lauderdale church is “Ambiguity is hard for people to embrace,” Tapscott says. “I think many people would rather hold onto an idea in the face of vast contradictions.” Tapscott contends that the Bible is full of contradictions. “To take [the Bible] as an absolute picture of the truth, it borders on delusion,” says Tapscott, who has taught a class on “Biblical Literacy for Liberals.” “They have discovered new gospels, and you get a totally different portrait of Jesus and God in some of them. Jesus made a different impression on different people.” But different interpretations of the Bible is something that most of the mainstream denominations discourage rather than celebrate. In fact, Tapscott and many liberal theologians believe the Sept. 11 attacks have illuminated the divisiveness of the three mainstream religions. “I think the liberal churches will have a much bigger role in the future,” she says. “The fundamentalist movement is so totally opposite of what we need in a global village. The fundamentalists think they have the absolute truth, and everybody else is going to hell in a handbasket.” Falwell’s Permanent Soap Box an official “welcoming congregation” for gays and lesbians, Tapscott says there are some individual UU churches with more conservative congregations. “There are some pockets of a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ kind of thing, especially in some of the New England congregations,” she says. But no one has to bite his or her tongue at the Fort Lauderdale church. “Straight friends don’t even flinch when my partner and I hold hands or hug in the church,” says Sara Keeley, a lesbian who has been a member of the Fort Lauderdale church for six years and now serves on the board. “The Rev. Tapscott doesn’t stand up there and say, ‘This is the word of the Bible, and this is what you have to believe in.’ Some churches are more Christian, but they accept everyone. You can be Buddhist, atheist, Hindu, anything.” Of course, such an open-door, openminded policy has its critics. Unitarian Universalism has been criticized as a “light-weight” religion because it does not have a creed. Although the church does have a set of principles that it urges members to live by, Unitarianism is more about a search for truth as opposed to a blind acceptance of unprovable “absolute truths.” “It leaves the burden on the individual to find what works for them in a spirit of community,” Tapscott explains. “I think a liberal denomination like ours is kind of a microcosm of how people can live together in relative peace with very different viewpoints.” Despite its inclusive nature, however, the Unitarian Church in the United States is small compared with the major mainstream Christian and Jewish churches. But unlike many mainstream protestant denominations that are losing members, the church is growing by about 2 percent a year. Still, the Unitarians total only about 240,000 nationally, including 200 members at the Fort Lauderdale congregation and 130 at Weston’s River of Grass Unitarian Church. Yet Tapscott concedes that in the wake of Sept. 11, the fundamentalists and other spokespeople from the big three religions have continued to dominate the airwaves. Although Bill Sinkford, president of the Unitarian Universalist Association, did appear on a PBS show, the mainstream media has generally ignored the Unitarians as well as other alternative religions while continuing to grant Falwell and his fundamentalist friends their permanent soap boxes on the cable stations. “It’s partly because we’re a relatively small movement,” Tapscott says. “They tend to ask the groups that are larger in numbers.” But she also suggested that it has a lot to do with money and the current conservative bias of the media. “I think they’re terrified of what we might say, frankly,” she says. “The media is run by powerful people, and there are lots of monopolies there. They don’t really want to have dissenting voices. Nobody wants to hear anybody say anything right now except these trite, patriotic things, either politically or religiously.” Tapscott also points out that liberal churches such as the Unitarians don’t have the money to buy the political and media influence that would allow them to compete with groups such as the Southern Baptists. “Progressive thinkers have long since stopped putting their money where their mouth is,” she says. “The ’60s burned out a lot of people. People grew comfortable, and now they’re horrified, but they don’t know what to do.” But she also sees signs that the pendulum is starting to swing back to a more liberal view of religion’s role in society. For example, she notes the membership rolls of the Americans for Separation of Church and State have surged lately. With sectarian religious violence escalating throughout the world, Tapscott is hopeful that more people will reject the closed systems with their “absolute truths” and divisive dogmas and turn to more inclusive churches that provide guidance for living a good life without claiming to have all the answers. The UUs may be just one small ripple in a growing tide that will eventually open the floodgates of a spiritual revolution. “Once you open a gate,” Tapscott says. “It’s very hard to go back into a closed system.” www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 17 EXPRESSITORIALS EDITORIAL CARTOON Expressitorials by Ron Williams Publisher’s Editorial In Fort Lauderdale, Tim Smith Embraces Diversity Kinsey Turns 50 Women’s Sexuality Is Focus of National Exhibition, Conference In l953, the publication of Alfred Kinsey’s Sexual Behavior in the Human Female changed forever the way the world viewed women’s sexuality. In 2003, the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction at Indiana University (IU) Bloomington will mark the 50th anniversary of this event with a series of programs and presentations titled “Women’s Sexualities: Portrayals and Perspectives.” Sponsored by several IU departments and community organizations, the events will reflect the impact of sexuality on art, film, literature, theater, health, education, law, philosophy and science. A complete list of events is available at www.KinseyInstitute.org. The opening event, “Oh! Dr. Kinsey!: Media Reaction to the Kinsey Report on Women,” features magazine covers and articles about the 1953 release of the book by Kinsey, an IU biology professor who became the world’s leading expert on sexuality. The exhibition will run from Feb. 1 to April 30 at the Monroe County Historical Society Museum in Bloomington. “The 50th anniversary of Kinsey’s book is an opportunity to look back on the contributions made in 1953 to the public’s understanding of sexuality,” said John Bancroft, director of the Kinsey Institute. “This is also an opportunity to evaluate our current understanding of female sexuality. We are in the middle of a debate, fueled by pharmaceutical companies, about the nature of female sexuality. Our goal and responsibility as a research institute is to help clarify the issues. What are the ways that women experience difficulties in their sexual lives, how do they define their own sexuality, and what makes for a healthy sexual life?” Series highlights will include a keynote address by noted feminist Gloria Steinem, Feb. 6; an art exhibit, “Feminine Persuasion,” Feb. 14-March 14; a women’s history luncheon address by author Wendy Sanford on “Our Bodies, Ourselves,” March 12, and a conference next November on women’s Don’t give me that old-time religion; it’s sexualities. For more information on the 50th not good enough for me. That’s what a growing number of people anniversary events, call 812.855.7686 or visit the Kinsey website at are saying in the post-9/11 world. Many people are reevaluating their own spiritual www.KinseyInstitute.org. beliefs as well as the role of religion in society. Others are sticking with lifelong belief systems. But with religious strife escalating in many parts of the world and talk of “holy war,” religion and spirituality is something that people are talking about. In the interest of fostering a real inclusive debate on religion, The Express is proud to introduce its new Religion and Spirituality section. In the coming weeks, The Express will feature a wide array of religions and spiritual groups that welcome members of the GLBT community, ranging from mainstream denominations to various Letters to the Editor: alternative religions that are rarely given 1595 NE 26th Street much of a voice in the mainstream press. The Wilton Manors, FL 33305 latter include the Unitarian Universalists E-mail: Publisher@ExpressGayNews.com This Above All... To Thine Own Self Be True! EXPRESS YOURSELF! Or by 18 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK Our paper reaches from South Beach to Palm Beach, with 350 stops in between. This week we begin a partnership with CitiSolutions, a modular news rack company, to add a wealth of locations in Palm Beach and Broward counties. We are on a short waiting list in Miami-Dade to add even more stops. Like the gay community in South Florida, our newspaper is growing exponentially. And very much like the community we serve, the epicenter of that growth is in greater Fort Lauderdale. In communities like our hometown, Wilton Manors, we have seen the election of a gay mayor. There is even a gay majority on the city commission. The city of Fort Lauderdale has become home to a number of gay communities, from Victoria Park to Lake Ridge to Poinsettia Heights. Gay men and women serve in the civic associations, on parks commissions and on city boards. On the beach, we have seen the establishment of over 30 gay guesthouses, from only about five as little as five years ago. The Rainbow Lodging Association, an organization of the guesthouses, with its newly released guide, has become a positive force in promoting tourism nationally and internationally. In the city proper, no less than 25 gay bars and watering holes populate our community, generating state tax revenues and enhancing our nightlife. Gay professionals abound in business as well. The lobby of the popular Cumberland Building at 800 East Broward Blvd., for example, houses opticians, lawyers, eye doctors and dermatologists who are friends of Dorothy. Look at the list of donors to the opera or the playhouses or the city art fairs. Gay men and women all are featured prominently. And in healthcare, clinics like the newly renamed AIDS Project Florida (formerly CenterOne), on East Oakland Park Boulevard, serve thousands of clients with HIV, many of whom are gay. In a city such as this, its commissioners and leaders have a duty to reach out to the gay and lesbian community. It is not enough to simply say you recognize “gays have made a contribution to the development of our city,” as Mayor Jim Naugle has. In a city such as this, the mayor should be an individual who embraces diversity fully and forthrightly. The mayor should be inviting, enticing, encouraging and supporting the participation and partnership of the gay and lesbian community. The mayor should be Tim Smith. He has done all this and more. Tim Smith, already named once as man of the year by the Gay and Lesbian Community Center, has made gay advocacy a routine extension of his daily work. He endorses domestic partnerships, supports benefits for partnered city workers and spoke out against exclusivity in the Boy Scouts. Very simply, he visibly embraces diversity, while his opponent, the incumbent mayor, does not. When you are elected to city commission, your tasks are often mundane and ministerial, not global. You worry about neighborhood development, garbage pickups and local parks and schools. You worry about FPL cutting trees down in your neighborhood. In many respects, on these issues, for over 15 years, Mayor Jim Naugle has served Fort Lauderdale well. But in his years on the city commission, Tim Smith has also been a hard worker, diligently doing his duty as a community advocate for all groups and all people, from all walks of life. And he has not allied himself with forces that clearly oppose the dignity of gay citizens; of who we are, and what we have accomplished. We currently have a mayor who represents some of the city all the time, and part of the city none of the time. Let’s try to elect someone who represents the entire city all of the time. Let’s try to elect Tim Smith. Express Introduces New Religion and Spirituality Page (see page 16) (featured this week), the independent Catholic Churches, gay-friendly Orthodox Jews and the Church of Religious Science. The religious groups that we will feature differ in many ways, but they share some basic values: They are inclusive rather than divisive, and they are nonjudgmental and open-minded about many of the mysteries of life, including homosexuality. Some may be fairly structured, with creeds and fixed belief systems. Others, such as the Unitarians, see religion and spirituality as more of a personal search for the truth, as opposed to a blind acceptance of some “absolute truth.” In fact, many of the alternative religious groups are more about the here-and-now than the hereafter. Here at The Express, we don’t pretend to have all the answers to the weighty questions of our existence. But we hope this new section generates thoughtful debate, and we welcome input from our readers. Expressions A Martha Stewart Holiday By John Templetion John2 John and I celebrated the holidays this year with family. His children and grandchildren were here the weekend before Christmas, and mine for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. They were our reason for returning to Atlanta, and we are getting what we came for—richer and deeper relationships with our families. I have reconnected with my son and his family, and John has developed a real relationship with his grandson. for the Siegel/Templeton family. Perhaps my first clue that things were not going to be so picture perfect came when John and I tried to schedule our families— one couple had to be with their in-laws and couldn’t come at all, another needed to arrive late as they were coming from a mountains weekend, another couldn’t arrive until late on Christmas Eve and one needed to arrive early and leave early. How could we have ever hoped to coordinate the eight separate families of our children? Finally agreeing on the best possible dates for the most possible people, John and I happily anticipated the visits. We didn’t even entertain the idea that I would run a temperature of 102 or that John would have a stomach virus; that one daughter would have a migraine and one teenager would have the flu; that another son-in-law would be throwing up and that his infant son would be sick. None of that ever entered our mind, but it should have. Our house did indeed have a green wreath upon the door (a gift from my sister). Nothing Ever Goes as Planned... Our Christmas tree all decked out with lights and For weeks and even months before the tinsel and colorful balls was fake. Even holiday, I imagined the wonderful Christmas though I had sworn that we would never, that we would all share. I say that John is never have an artificial Christmas tree—we obsessive about things, but he says that I had one. John and I just didn’t want to cope am even more obsessive than he about with tree needles on our new floor. things that I really care about; and I must There was no scent of pine filling the confess that he is right. In my mind, I house. The turkey roasting in the oven was planned and re-planned, and re-planned actually smoked a few days before the again the beautiful Christmas we would have holidays, and the baking ham was bought in our new home. from The HoneyBaked Ham Company. The Our house would be picture perfect—a cakes and cookies were purchased at the green wreath on the front door tied with a bakery, and the fruits were washed and sliced large red bow; the Christmas tree all decked and served unpeeled. The vegetables simply out with lights and tinsel and colorful balls were forgotten. and handmade stars; the smell of pine filling The sound track of Lord of the Rings the rooms. Our kitchen would be the center filled the rooms instead of John’s Christmas of a great deal of activity—a turkey roasting carols, and the carefully wrapped packages and a ham baking, the mixing of cakes and under the artificial tree were ripped open by the stirring of cookies, fresh fruits peeled one hand while the other hand reached for and crisp green vegetables washed (a another gift. At the end of the day, wrapping kitchen much like the kitchen on the Publix paper filled the room, teenagers played their ad with the family all working together to games and small children pulled on their prepare a marvelous Christmas feast). toys. John would be at the piano playing When it was all over and all had gone, carols that all of us would happily hum as and John and I were alone again, we sat on we went about our work. Underneath the the bottom step of the stairway. We looked Christmas tree, packages would be wrapped at each other exhausted and yet exhilarated. in brightly colored paper and carefully tied It was not a Martha Stewart Christmas; it ribbons. Our house would be the traditional was a family Christmas—infants crying, Christmas house in the best sense of the teenagers playing, adults talking, music and word—a marvelous blend of sight and laughter. In the midst of the confusion, a sound and smell. family enjoyed being together. I anticipated John and me welcoming This is what I/we need to remember. It our children at the front door, helping the is not the perfection of the event that makes smaller grandchildren place cookies and milk it special; it is the love and the care that we for Santa, smiling as each child and have for one another that makes any day or grandchild carefully opened their Christmas holiday special. gifts and seemed to be really thrilled by our selection. Oh, the joy of Christmas with the John H. Templeton lives with his partner family; laughter and hugs and memories for of fourteen years, John M. Siegel, in years to come. Indeed Martha Stewart could Atlanta, Georgia. He can be reached at not have planned a more perfect Christmas JHT1938@Bellsouth.net. Read EVERY Issue of The Express Online OurWeeklyNews.com www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 19 Expressions Webb’s World Stop! In the Name of Love I was recently counseling an aggressive, successful, Ivy-educated MBA. He related a “dating story” about how he did his best to impersonate a “dumb blonde” to impress a potential date. He tried some of his best moves. He had developed a false persona that he felt would impress his “target.” He feigned interest in the other person’s interests, activities and pursuits. However, at some point the “target” became visibly uncomfortable and sensed that something was wrong. There was a “meltdown” in the dating process, and my client went home alone and dejected, vowing to understand what went wrong. My client had “sold himself out” in order to attain love. It didn’t work because he was not letting his potential date see his real persona. His target sensed dishonesty and became skittish. In the name of love, we often do things that betray our true nature in order to become “acceptable.” Not only do we bend our bodies and our looks, but we also bend our personalities. However, as we mortgage our true selves to attain the promise of love outside of us, we may be paying a high price individually and as a community. We have created a community based on cloning. If we fit the mold of the clone, then we are acceptable and desirable. If not, we are thrown away like a used tissue. This tendency does not help to create a loving, wholesome environment that enables the LGBT community to be the utopia of acceptance that we have not found in society at large. 20 Each generation has had a standard of desirability that many within the LGBT community try to emulate. At the risk of dating myself, I still remember the LaCoste shirted clones of the ’70s. As I write from the sands of South Beach, I am surrounded by buffed, plucked, perfect bodies. Society has always had standards of perfection. In truth, these standards are an illusion. Very few people meet these standards, and very many people make themselves miserable trying (plucking must be painful). When we morph ourselves into the stereotypical clones that we feel are acceptable, we betray our true selves, and this betrayal subtly undermines our own self-esteem. As we slide down the slippery slope of “esteem-erosion,” we become more willing to compromise other aspects of ourselves. Perhaps that is why otherwise rational men will endanger their lives by knowingly engaging in risky sexual behavior. Could they believe that this is part of the price they have to pay for love? On a larger level, this phenomenon could alienate those of us who fall outside the range of perfection, fracturing and thus weakening our community’s solidarity, purpose and strength. By building walls between us based on false divisions such as www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK By Rev. Jim Webb appearances, we ultimately weaken our community. This is an even larger price to pay, for as our collective self-esteem and solidarity is compromised, we are less likely to desire and demand the full rights of our citizenship. It might be argued that this is a problem of society at large. However, we as the LGBT community have a unique opportunity to impact our culture because it is so new and, therefore, still malleable. According to many historians, our culture only began to form after World War II when isolated rural gays came together in large urban centers to find each other and strength in their numbers. Our culture continued to coalesce through the postStonewall ’70s. Our community defined itself further through the AIDS Crisis. The psychology of our community has not been entrenched for numerous generations, but is still forming, and can be molded to be more beneficial to our ultimate purpose of contentment and full rights. So what can we do as individuals? First we must take steps to heal our individual self-esteem. Healing occurs when we become aware of our unconscious motivations, identifying those actions that are based on a lack of complete, unconditional love for ourselves. I applaud columnist Michael Alvear, who recognized subconscious selfrejection when he found himself laughing at a homophobic ad. When we identify those spaces in the recesses of our minds, we can use the tools available to us to heal every level of our mind. Self-awareness is not the narcissistic, New Age navel gazing that many are quick to ridicule. Self love is not selfish— It heals us and others. This healing will ultimately spill out onto the overall community, creating the safe, accepting environment that we dreamed of when coming out. As we heal our individual selfesteem, we help heal the collective self-esteem of the overall LGBT community. A community that has collective self-esteem will not be denied its full rights, for there will be doubt that full citizenship is its birthright. When there is not doubt, then the debate becomes winnable. Therefore, full rights come from full esteem. As we baby boomers move into our maturity, we have seen how we have shaped our society. As gay baby-boomers, we must understand that self-awareness, self-healing and a renewed focus on healing our community can help us to forge the affirming community that will embrace us (and not reject us) in our maturity. For more information, visit www.LavenderLight.org or call Joia Jefferson Nuri at 301.920.0670 or at inthepubliceye@starpower.net. Expressions Price Lines Mother Defends Gay Daughter More Parents Demanding Respect for their Gay Children A mom sticking up for her 14-year-old daughter, who attorneys say was senselessly kicked out of gym class simply for being gay, represents a powerful and encouraging new trend: More and more parents are learning very early on that their children are gay and are unabashedly demanding that those kids be treated with respect. “I would do anything for my own kid,” says Amelia Massey of Banning, California, a rural community about an hour from Los Angeles. “Ashly is a person like everybody else.” Amelia has long been comfortable around gay people. Both she and her husband were supportive when Ashly told them at 13 that she’s gay. So, the next year, when Amelia felt Ashly was being discriminated against by school officials, the 39-year-old mother didn’t cower in embarrassment over her daughter’s sexual orientation. Instead, like a protective momma bear, she instinctively fought back. Taking a cue from other supportive parents, Amelia didn’t just get mad, she sued. Her lawsuit alleges that, for a week and a half, eighth-grader Ashly was ordered to sit in the principal’s office rather than attend gym class. The suit is the latest warning to school officials that they must ensure gay students aren’t harassed or otherwise mistreated. School officials ought to have already learned that costly lesson. In 1996, Jamie Nabozny won nearly $1 million in damages from Wisconsin high school officials found By Deb Price Once, being a gay young person almost invariably meant trying to hide the truth from family members. liable by a federal jury for ignoring increasingly violent attacks by anti-gay bullies. A year later, the U.S. Department of Education warned schools that they can lose federal funds if they don’t stop sexual harassment of gay students. And in 1999, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that schools can be held liable if principals react with “deliberate indifference” to student-onstudent sexual harassment. Once, being a gay young person almost invariably meant trying to hide the truth from family members. But times are indeed changing. A wonderful new generation of parents like Amelia Massey is much more likely than its elders to be so unprejudiced that children know they can safely share the truth with them right away. Amelia wisely says: “Ashly has to live this way [being gay] the rest of her life. If you are 13 or 14, you have to start preparing for life. You need to feel good about [yourself], face the public. You can’t walk around fearful. Fear won’t make you a successful person. You have to stand up and be strong.” She advises others parents to tell their gay kids: “I don’t care what others say. You are a wonderful person, and we support you.” Ashly says that last March, she was in the gym locker room when a friend told another girl that Ashley is gay, and the entire class heard the exchange. The next day, she says, her gym teacher started making her sit in the principal’s office rather than attend class. Hurt and embarrassed, Ashly initially didn’t tell her mother. Ultimately, Amelia Massey intervened, but the damage had been done: Ashly says friends had turned against her. “In front of teachers, they would be like, ‘There is the fat dyke,’ and the teachers acted like they didn’t hear anything,” says Ashly, now 15. “I got depressed, and I didn’t want to go to school. I felt like scum, and it was very degrading.” (The school district’s superintendent declined to return my phone calls about the case.) Amelia Massey searched the Internet to find the National Center for Lesbian Rights, which informed her that she did indeed have state and federal grounds on which to fight back. California is among the first states to explicitly outlaw anti-gay discrimination by public school officials. Gay kids now have more help available when they try to stand up for themselves. And, thank goodness, a growing number can count supportive parents as their most valuable resource. Deb Price of The Detroit News writes the first nationally syndicated column on gay issues and is the co-author of Courting Justice: Gay Men and Lesbians v. the Supreme Court. www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 21 Watching Washington Government & Politics Howard Dean 2004 Presidential Candidate Is No-Nonsense Kind of Guy Howard Dean was here last week, and the blinders on Congress. The president is writer James Fallows introduced him to a all wet about the tax cuts, he says. The $350 National Press Club audience as “the billion deficit projected does not even include interesting candidate,” which is code for a the $200 billion bill for the war forecast by novelty candidate in the presidential bazaar. It’s someone who is more likely to be fun than president. On the face of it, Dean is pretty preposterous. He is a middle-size doctor from Vermont, a small state where he was a five-term governor and which has three electoral votes. He has raised $100,000 (New England rival Sen. John Kerry has $3 million), and nobody knows his name. But commentator Mark Shields says that when he speaks around the country, he gets more questions about Dean than about any of the other five Democratic contenders. He has other assets: For instance, enormous self-confidence—a fellow Vermonter delicately calls it “a doctor’s certainty”—and the gumption to say what Howard Dean Speaking in Fort Lauderdale he thinks in a manner he hopes will remind in July 2002 Photo by Steven Shires voters of John McCain or even of his hero, Harry Truman. economic adviser Larry Lindsey, who, Dean Democrats are, in the words of New noted, got sacked for his politically incorrect Yorker editor David Remnick, “cowed, math. confused, incoherent,” but Dean is none of The country needs health insurance, the above. He speaks out boldly against the says the doctor, yet Congress is arguing war in Iraq—his senatorial rivals all voted about the wrong thing, the Patient’s Bill of for it, a fact that Dean stresses. Rights, which would not make the slightest At the National Press Club, before a difference because “it would not bring health forum sponsored by The Atlantic Monthly, insurance to a single American.” Dean gave a brisk review of Washington’s Using no notes, he strode smartly mistakes, the blunders of the president and through the issues. On education, he derides 22 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK Bush’s education bill as “no school left standing” because it is all mandate and no money. On the war, the president “has not made the case for a clear and present danger in Iraq” and should be telling us instead his postwar notions of occupation in Afghanistan and the nation-building he once rejected. “We need an energy policy,” he told the large, attentive crowd. “We need to discuss this stuff.” “Words make a difference,” he said, in discussing the Bush Doctrine on preemptive strikes. “We’ve done them before,” he noted—in Grenada, Panama, Haiti—but by enunciating pre-emption as a doctrine, Bush had inadvertently encouraged the Chinese to claim a “clear and present danger” in Taiwan. In a city where it is considered unpatriotic to question a paragraph in the Homeland Security Bill, this is pretty strong drink. The questions about Dean, called “Hoho” in the Green Mountain State, are: Will he be this year’s new star who wins primary plaudits but burns out early? Will he be a slightly less eloquent version of Adlai Stevenson, whose goal was to talk sense to the American people, or John McCain, with his straight-talk express? Will he just provide therapy for liberals whose only comfort is derived from The West Wing’s lefty Yankee president Josiah Bartlet? Liberals would have to swallow, hard, Dean’s A rating from the National Rifle Association, but they may weigh that against his stand against the war. “I intend to win,” Dean says, which is By Mary McGrory what they all say—except he lists his constituencies. One, of course, is the gay community, which is grateful for his signing of Vermont’s civil unions act. This could make white Southerners see red, but Dean says those alienated could be balanced out by a showing by blacks, who “respond to my message that I want everyone to be free.” One of his African-American Yale roommates is organizing for the South Carolina primary. He thinks he will appeal to fiscal conservatives, because he is the only Democrat in the field who has balanced a budget: He was governor of Vermont. He’ll have doctors, he says. They would obviously like one of their own to preside in the overhaul of the health insurance situation. A less defined constituency, and one that would not mind his deficits of fame and fortune, is that group of people who have a low threshold on guff in their political candidates. So far Dean is the class of the field in that respect. “They’re looking for authenticity,” he said. We don’t have to hear about his family, either. He told Vermont Seven Days columnist Peter Freyne that he doesn’t believe in bringing his family into campaigns. His doctor wife, Judith Steinberg, doesn’t do politics. Mary McGrory has been a national columnist since 1960 and won the Pulitzer Prize for commentary in 1975. Health & Fitness Government Hiding Health Information Man to Man Bush’s Censoring of CDC Fact Sheet Speaks Volumes As the U.S. economy sputters, unemployment is rising. But crash-test dummies Vince and Larry never suspected that they would be next to face the ax. “After all, we don’t even collect a paycheck,” complained Vince. The two were furloughed when Health and Human Services Secretary Timmy Thompson ordered the Ad Council to cease and desist its popular “Don’t Be a Dummy” seat belt awareness campaign. Former Presidential candidate Ralph Needler argued that censoring the safety program would raise highway fatalities. Since the Ad Council instituted the seat belt education program in 1985, seat belt use has risen from 21 percent to 73 percent. Thompson nonetheless commented, “Seatbelts don’t protect lives in all situations. Our studies show that if a cement truck falls off a bridge and lands on your Hyandai, a seat belt won’t protect you.” In a separate announcement, U.S. Attorney General John Ashcraft declared that his office would be terminating the Poison Prevention Packaging Act of 1972, and would no longer require manufacturers of poisonous liquids to post warning labels on their packaging. “The Fed has no right to impose its will on law-abiding citizens,” he said. “If people want to drink some Windex or take a shot of Raid in the privacy of their own homes, we believe those rights should not be violated.” Child safety advocate Frederick Rogers called Ashcraft’s announcement “unneighborly,” and noted that child deaths from accidental poisoning have declined 90 percent since the packaging act was passed. Ashcraft retorted that poison warning labels are an “unproven and controversial” method for protecting the public: “Three-year-olds can’t read warning labels, so what’s the point?” I’m kidding, of course. These stories are complete fabrications. Our federal government would never be so Orwellian as to hide proven safety tools and messages from the public, would it? Well, here’s one more story. See if it sounds as outlandish. Since 1996, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s website has posted information detailing the effectiveness of condoms in protecting against HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. Activists were dismayed when this fact sheet suddenly disappeared from the website in October. Now it’s back, but without the medical citations proving that condoms work, and without the step-by-step instructions for proper condom use. The new fact sheet declares that condoms “can reduce the risk of STD transmission. However, no protective method is 100 percent effective, and condom use cannot guarantee absolute protection against any STD.” California Representative Henry Waxman and 14 other lawmakers recently sent a letter accusing the Bush administration of “playing politics” by By Stephen Fallon, Ph.D “eliminating key information” on condom efficacy and use. Why would the CDC censor a fact sheet that has stood scientific scrutiny for years, even when no new studies question any of its facts? Dr. David Fleming, CDC’s deputy director for science, defended the actions of the Bush administration: “This [revised] fact sheet is designed to be as scientifically accurate as possible. We specifically tried not to nuance it in the direction of either encouraging or discouraging use of condoms.” According to Fleming, the omissions are intended solely to provide a “more neutral” introduction to the topic based on “mixed evidence” of condom efficacy. Fleming did not specify how the evidence had suddenly become “mixed.” In fact, condom failures are almost always caused by improper use. Though only four out of 1,000 condoms pop in tests simulating proper use, inexperienced users break condoms in 10 percent of uses. That’s why the previous fact sheet included stepby-step user instructions. Posting a fact sheet without these lifesaving instructions sounds almost too silly to believe, doesn’t it? Unfortunately, this story is true, and muddying the message of condom effectiveness will inevitably lead to less consistent condom use. People won’t bother using condoms if there’s no stated proof that they work. Unfortunately, inconsistent use leads to more infections than occasional condom breakages ever could. The largest study of its kind found 10 percent of inconsistent users in mixed HIV status relationships eventually became infected, while none of the consistent users did. Setting the facts straight, it’s true that seat belt use has climbed as stated above, largely because of the safety belt awareness campaign. Also true, safety packaging has decreased accidental poisonings as stated. Have condoms and HIV prevention programs made any difference? A new study finds that HIV prevention programs in place through the 1980s and 1990s have prevented at least 200,000, or perhaps 1.5 million, U.S. infections. David Holtgrave, who conducted the research, worked at the CDC for many years. He released these findings from his new post teaching health policy at Emory University in Atlanta. That’s information worth announcing, not hiding. Stephen Fallon is the president of Skills4, Inc., a Florida-based consulting firm. Stephen speaks on gay lifestyle and health issues, and provides technical assistance and grant writing services to community organizations, health departments and schools. Visit his website at www.Skills4.org. He can be reached at SFallon@ExpressGayNews.com www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 23 Guidelines for Treatment of Gay Patients Is Released Gay and Lesbian Medical Association Publishes Report Regarding ‘Serious Health Disparities’ By Michael James orientation or gender identity. This needs Health Editor to change. When someone seeks medical Earlier this month, the Gay and Lesbian care, they are entitled to informed, Medical Association (GLMA) released a set nonjudgmental treatment. For the most part, of guidelines for physicians and others who [gay] people are not getting it.” provide healthcare to the public. Creating a The eight-page GLMA document Safe Clinical Environment for Lesbian, Gay, covers a broad range of issues — including Bisexual, Transgender and Intersex how to create a welcoming office (LGBTI) Patients is the first comprehensive environment, educate staff, conduct look at the specific steps providers should culturally sensitive interviews and develop take to gain competency in healthcare knowledge about the specific health issues delivery to LGBTI (gay) people. that face members of the gay community. “Serious health disparities exist for the The guidelines also include a sample intake [gay] population,” said GLMA President form and a list of additional resources. Kenneth A. Haller, Jr., MD. “This fact has Many of us delay care, or we receive “What we’ve learned,” Haller said, “is that been verified by several studies, and has inappropriate or inferior care, because of real almost everyone in our field wants to provide been documented by the federal government. or perceived discrimination based on sexual the best healthcare possible to everyone. Unfortunately, not everyone understands how to do that when it comes to gay patients. GLMA has now provided a tool that can help develop this kind of competency. It is important, and it’s free.” The guidelines are available for download on the website at www.glma.org and by calling 415.255.4547. The largest organization of its kind and a recognized authority and leader in gay health, the GLMA “exists to make the healthcare environment a place of empathy, justice and equity.” The organization, founded in 1981, represents the concerns of millions of gay patients and thousands of gay health professionals throughout North America. Considering the HIV Transmission Risks of Oral Sex By Michael Irwin Youth Correspondent Many adolescents don’t consider blowjobs sex, so they may say they are remaining abstinent while engaging in oral sex. A survey of teens conducted for The Kaiser Family Foundation found that 26 percent of sexually active 15- to 17-yearolds think there is no risk of contracting HIV from oral sex, where 15 percent did not know. There is a chance, albeit a smaller chance than anal sex, that you can be infected with HIV through oral sex, contrary to previous research. Some factors that increase the risk are oral ulcers, bleeding gums, genital sores and the presence of other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). In fellatio (blowjobs), there is a 24 theoretical risk of transmission for the Anilingus (rimming) carries a theoretical person giving the blowjob because the risk of transmission for the insertive partner presence of semen in the if there is exposure to mouth. For the person getting infected blood, either the blowjob, there is a through blood stool or cuts/ theoretical risk of infection sores in the anal area. The because of infected blood from receptive partner (one a partner’s bleeding gums or getting rimmed) an open sore could come in theoretically can be infected contact with a scratch, cut or if blood in saliva comes in sore on the penis. contact with anal/rectal Cunnilingus (oral to vagina lining. contact) carries a theoretical risk According the the of infection for the insertive foundation, there have partner because infected been documented cases of vaginal fluids and blood can get all three causing HIV into the mouth. The receptive infections as well as other partner is at theoretical risk if STD infections, even in blood from oral sores or bleeding gums touches fellatio when the person receiving the blowjob did not ejaculate. One case of vulvar or vaginal cuts or sores. www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK infection from rimming has been published. Oral sex doesn’t just pose a risk of infection of HIV, but herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, genital warts (HPV), intestinal parasites, hepatitis A and other STDs can be spread as well. Ways to avoid becoming infected through oral sex is to use a barrier. Using a condom, plastic food wrap (i.e. SaranWrap), a dental dam or cut open condom can prevent infection when participating in oral sex. Since most individuals who engage in unprotected oral sex also participate in unprotected anal/vaginal sex, the true risk of unprotected oral sex is unknown. It is believed that the likelihood of being infected while having unprotected oral sex is not very likely, but still a risk factor. Health Top GLBT Medical News of 2002 To Your Health Gays, Straights Equally Happy By Lee Strausberg cites the recent development of tests that detect HIV and hepatitis in blood within hours of exposure and the current threat of terrorist actions as cause to change the antiquated ruling. The FDA currently permanently bars any man that has had sex with a man anytime since 1977 from ever donating blood. Heterosexuals that live high-risk lifestyles are not permanently barred. Removing this ban could ease or eliminate blood shortage problems that are seen several times throughout the year, according to Caplan, without increasing the risk of transmitting diseases. The Journal of Sex Research recently announced results of a study that compared the answers of quality of life questions posed to 1,500 men and women. The study also asked the gender of sexual partners since they were 18. The only difference found was that gay and bisexual adults bar hop more than our heterosexual counterparts. No significant differences in mental health or life satisfaction were found between the two groups. Dr. David L. Weis, a professor of family and consumer sciences at Bowling Green State University in Bowling Green, Ohio, co-author of the study, notes Anal Cancer on the Rise that subgroups such as closeted gay men in Gay Men While most men who have sex with men and women may suffer a lesser quality of life because of a less extensive support network. have some form of the human papillomavirus SOURCE: The Journal of Sex Research (HPV)(the virus that causes genital warts), the Centers for Disease Control and 2001;38:205-218. Prevention now say that 38 percent have a Anti-HIV Med Users not dangerous strain linked to anal cancer. HPV‘Safer’ Sex Partners 16 has long been associated with 50 percent “The traditional message has been, treat of all cervical cancer cases in women. In April everyone ‘as if’ [they had HIV], but that of 2000, Dr. Stephen Goldstone reported an strategy only worked so much. We need to alarming increase in the rate of anal cancer among gay men. “The incidence of cervical cancer in women has plummeted because of aggressive screening and early treatment,” said Stephen E. Goldstone, M.D. “HPV is a major health threat that all gay men need to know about in order to stem the rise of anal cancer.” Gay men are urged to get a painless anal pap smear and HPV test every year if HIV-positive and every three years if HIVnegative. If you need to find a gay or gayfriendly doctor, go to www.glma.org for a referral. Drug Resistant HIV develop programs around the decisions that people make.” says Dr. Troy P. Suarez, director of scientific services at MediSolutions. Results from his anonymous survey of 472 HIV-negative men attending a Gay Pride Festival this year were recently published in the Journal of Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndromes. The results show that men are likely to judge risky sexual activities with an HIV-positive man taking anti-HIV drugs to be less risky than with an HIV-positive man not taking anti-HIV medications. Many people assume that if a person’s viral load (measured in blood) is low or undetectable there is less risk of spreading the disease. Current reality is that a person’s viral level in semen and the anal lining may remain high even when blood levels are undetectable. Even if you are already HIVpositive, “you may get infected with a strain that is resistant to everything we have and more virulent,” he explained. SOURCE: Journal of Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndromes 2001; 28:471-477. Gay Men Should Be Allowed to Donate Blood Arthur Caplan, Ph.D, director of the Center for Bioethics at the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia, says men who have sex with men, gay men and bisexual men should be allowed to donate blood. He One out of every seven people newly infected with HIV have a strain that is already resistant to drugs. “This research has to put into question widely held assumptions that infection with human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) can be easily treated with available drugs,” said Dr. Frederick Hecht, associate clinical professor of medicine at the University of California, San Francisco. “We are seeing some patients who may need to begin therapy with salvage regimens.” Between 1996 and 1999 only 1 to 2 percent of patients had a drug-resistant strain of HIV. In 2000-2001, 13.2 percent of patients had drug-resistant strains. HIV is developing resistance to every type of drug we are currently using. The notion that HIV is an easily managed chronic disease is quickly disappearing. Syphilis on the Rise New York City is the latest to announce syphilis rates are climbing after 10 years of decline. The most alarming increase is in men who have sex with men. Many blame the recent trend, also reported in Miami, Los Angeles, Seattle, Chicago and San Francisco, on prevention burnout and cofactors such as depression and substance abuse. Lee Strausberg is a member of the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association and the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association. He can be reached at ToYourHealth@qtm.net. www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 25 Office: 954.568.1880 • Fax: 954.568.5110 • Email: Classifieds@ExpressGayNews.com CORAL RIDGE Best priced deep water canal home in Coral Ridge. 71’ dockage. Charming and spacious, this 3 bedroom, 2 bath features a family room and an intimate fireplace. $739,000. MLS F438435. Call Mike at 954.993.0118. Realtor. ESTATE PLANNING for unmarried couples will be providing you and your significant other with valuable information on the estate and financial planning issues facing unmarried couples. 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Balcony, city view, private parking. $132,000 call Mike 954.993.0118 RIVER REACH Waterfront 1/1 excellent condition. Overlooks pool w/ security, dockage, pets ok $132K Riverwalk Property 954.462.2462 CORAL RIDGE COUNTRY CLUB Gaze down the canal from this exquisite waterfront home. 4/3.5, custom cherry kitchen and designer baths, deep water, 50’ dockage, no fixed bridges. MLS F457591, $769,000. Call Mike at 954.993.0118. Realtor. CORAL RIDGE POOL HOME 3/2, open floor plan $399K, see virtual tour on: Jimsellsouthflorida.com James MacDonald Coldwell Banker 954.647.8636 NORTH DADE/ MIAMI LAKES AREA Lakeside villa, 3/2, $199,900 100% financing call Gay at 305.441.8299 great location, qualified buyers FEATURED PROPERTY 3 BR/2 BA Wilton Manors Homes In Need Of "Fairy Dust"!!!!!! Tropical yard with deck and recessed spa! Possible Guest/In-Law Suite. Great Location and Investment!! Roof & A/C, 4 years old $229,900.00 For Quick Sale!!!! Terry Bush Re/Max Partners 954.661.4550 COARL RIDGE ISLES Like a brand new home! Completely renovated. Charming and spacious floor plan, 3/2 split bedroom, 2 car garage, sparkling in-ground Jacuzzi, Room for a pool. $349,000. MLS F466665. Call Mike at 954.993.0118. DAVIE/ HOLLYWOOD Rarely Available lakefront 4/2 .5 home. Many upgrades, call for details. Don't miss this fabulous opportunity. 269,000 Call Mike 954.993.0118, Realtor. THE SECRETS OUT! Jeneda Isle/Villa homes from $199,500.00 to $359,500.00 Call Terry Bush REMAX PARTNERS 954.661.4550 OAKLAND PARK NE36 ST 2/2 on canal, ocean access, pool, dead end quiet street, plus more! 954.553.0765 OAKLAND PARK DUPLEX 2/2, freshly painted, new appl, new kitchen , baths , excellent location, small petsallowed, pool, $845 mo. 954.579.4534 or 954.565.2676 3 BED/2 CITY VIEW TOWNHOME City View Ft Lauderdale, 3/2, New appl, CAC, lndscpd patio, pool. $1,400 mo. f/l/s, ref/bckgrnd check. Doug 954.522.5883 or 954.818.2956 MIDDLE RIVER TERRACE 3/2 Pool Great Location/ Great Space $1500 f/s inc yard & pool service. 954.661.4550 BEAUTIFULLY RENOVATED 2/1 in the "new" Progresso, central A/C Large backyards, pets o.k. $850$950 /mo. $500 rebate on 1st mo. rent Call David @ 954.566.6681 LUXURIOUS LAS OLAS CONDO 2/2 deepwater 45 ft dock, private elevator, $20K under appraisal. owner will consider lease option (agent) Beth 954.540.2384 FT. LAUDERDALE BEACH 1/1 Condo Mar 1st to Dec 1st non-smoker, no pets, nicely furnished with TV's & stereo, large pool- workout room in secure building with 24hr security and assigned parking. 3rd floor- elevatorcity view. 1 block from beach. 600 N. Birch Rd. and Terra Mar St. $850. incl. telephone and Cable TV 1st mo and $1000 security. George 954.565.3569 or 860.227.4321 26 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK 1/1 $625 MO LARGE PET OK Tropical landscaped in gay friendly comm. New Everything; gated, to Wilton Manors www.ehassociates.net Eric Hammonds Realty Inc. 954.568.0300 NO SECURITY DEPOSIT NEEDED Large pets ok, Key West style 2/2 newly remodeled, must see www.ehassociates.net 954.568.0300 Eric Hammond's Realty Inc KEY WEST STYLE 2/1 new appl. cold AC beautifully landscaped won't last long www.ehassociates.net Call Eric Hammonds Realty 954.568.0300 2/2 180 DEGREE OCEAN VIEW furnished / unfurnished, longterm, short term right on FT Laud beach www.ehassociates.net call Eric Hammond's realty 954.568.0300 WILTON MANORS 2/2 Condo, W/D in unit, Berber carpet screened balcony, pool. Good parking great for 2, BR's on opposite sides. $950/mo 954.467.3391. 2450 NE 15th ave. Olivewood Condominium FT. LAUDERDALE BEACH 1/1 condo, pool, 2nd fl. Beautiful parquet floors throughout. Balcony, city view, private parking. $850 call Mike 954.993.0118 HOLLYWOOD CONDO Nice 1/1 in secure elevator bldg, east location,lg rooms, CAC, just painted, big BR w/ new Berber.Balcony, sep dining, covered pkg, huge closets $650/mo 1st/last/sec 954.772.8380 OAKLAND PARK 2/2 condo, great for roommate setup, includes washer/dryer, $900, Call Mike 954.993.0118 FT. LAUDERDALE BEACH 1/1 condo, new kitchen, pool, 5th floor. Enjoy beautiful sunset views over the Ft Lauderdale skyline. $850 Call Mike 954.993.0118 VICTORIA PARK Sunny and charming large end unit 1/1; just painted inside, free parking and laundry useage. Walk to Los Olas and Holiday Park, small pet OK...Only $675/mo + call owner/agent at: 954.873.2035 VICTORIA PARK ALL NEW 1/1 Beautifully updated w/ stone tile, new kitchen, cabinets & appl, D/W, micro, WIC, F/L/S $675/mo. Jay 954.270.0304 DOWNTOWN TOWNHOME 2/1, UPDATE, close to Downtown and beaches. Private security fence big yard, call Mark 954.553.0765 GATED PRIVATE 1/1 COTTAGE Charming w den, 3 BLKS to Wilton Dr, 1 yr lease, $725 mo. $1450 move in. Other Properties Avail:2/3 Pompano, 2/1 Riverside, 954.803.7777 WILTON MANORS 2 BEDROOM This is a good value. 2/1 duplex apt. Newly renovated, cleaned and painted. Kitchen has dishwasher & disposal, all new appl. tiled kitchen and bath, carpeted living areas. W&D included in unit. Central air, private rear patio. Spacious yard.most pets OK off street parking $795mo. first and security. Steve 954.614.6450 EAST WILTON MANORS Great location! Close to dining, shops, & beach! Two 1/1 apts. avail immed in small complex on quiet street. starting at $650 mo. Call 954.523.7733. THERE’S NO PLACE LIKE HOME! Purchase/Refinance? Credit Problems? Call Mario at 954.240.8090 WILTON MANORS 2/2 DUPLEX Newly renovated, new kitch, W/D, cen AC, fans, priv garden,carpet, tile, no pets $895 mo. 954.568.9273 DOWNTOWN Large ground level 1/1, 5 min from Las Olas, 10 min from beach small pets ok $625 mo 954.296.1677 HARBORDALE 1/1, rent/lease $750 mo. central a/c, new kitchen, and Appliances includes DW, beautiful tile floor, excellent location close to beach, Las Olas, airport, Downtown, restaurants and shopping. Corner unit with front and back entrance. most pets OK 954.612.4381 WILTON MANORS 2/2 Duplex near Storks. Freshly painted, new kitchen cabinets and appliances. w/d on premises. Pets considered. $950.00 a month, F/L/S or $1000.00 F/S. Call Tony 954.560.3335 VICTORIA PARK 1/1 large garden apt, private entrance 1 pet allowed, $800/mo utilities incl. 954.629.0097 VICTORIA PARK 2/1 hardwood floors, very spacious $1200/mo utilities incl. 1 pet allowed 954.629.0097 LAKE RIDGE Spacious cottage apartment. 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Call 954.873.5082 TRAVERTINE Approx 100 tiles ea 16X16 huge savings over Home Depot price. Will sell for $350 call 954.525.2520 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 27 CYMK 28 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 29 CYMK Sunday Sunday Tuesday Tuesday Thursday Thursday The Stonewall Knights Motorcycle Club has decided to hold a monthly local Lunch Ride on the last Sunday of each month. Non-members who would like to meet the Knights before joining the Club are welcomed on these Lunch Rides. For more information visit the Club's Yahoo Group page at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ gaymotorcycleftl or email the group at Stonewall-knights@gay.com Open Mic Readings for Writers- Novelists, short story writers and poets are invitedto share their work the third Sunday of every month at 5 p.m. at Fantasia’s of Boston Dessert and Coffee House, 1826 E. Sunrise Blvd next to the Gateway Theater. Sign-ups begin at 4:30. There is no charge, but delicious coffee drinks, relaxing teas and scrumptious desserts and meals will be for sale. Hosted by local author Karen Dale Wolman. For more information call 954.522.4886. Services at The Sunshine Cathedral- Each Sunday at 9:15 a.m., 11a.m. and 6p.m. The Sunshine Cathedral was founded in 1972 and offers a spiritual home to all people in a loving, nurturing and nonjudgmental environment. 1480 SW 9th Ave., Fort Lauderdale. (954) 462-2004. Positive Attitudes – Join our weekly discussion/support group open to all gay/ bisexual men living with HIV. Our informative and upbeat group meets every Tuesday night from 7 – 9 p.m. at the GLCC, 1717 N. Andrews Ave. Stop in or call Paul at (954) 463-9005 x224. The South Florida Bondage ClubMeets the first Tuesday of each month at The Ft. Lauderdale Eagle, 1951 NW 9 Ave.(Powerline Rd.), Ft. Lauderdale, at 8:00 PM. There is a $10.00 admission fee for non-members. Meetings begin with a short business session followed by a demonstration or organized play time. Open play time wraps up the evening. Contact SFBCPubRel@aol.com for more information. Art Therapy – Held the third Thursday of each month. 6:30 p.m. at CenterOne, 2817 East Oakland Park Blvd. For information call (954) 5374111 x117. Reservations are required. Tai Chi- 5:30 p.m. at CHC, 2817 E Oakland Park Blvd. Call (954) 537-4111, ext. 100 for a reservation. B.L.I.S.S.- Experience B.L.I.S.S. (Buddies & Lesbians in Sacred Session), a GLBT meditation class offering spiritual meditation and study of the great masters. No charge. Sundays at 2 p.m. in N. Dade. Call Frank 954.391.3103, or William 305.947.9115. Sisterhood of Etz ChaimJewish women's social group meets the third Sunday of each month at the Sunshine Cathedral - Social Hall, from 14:30pm. For more info please call 954.564.9232 Southern Country South Florida - Country Western Dancing & Lessons Sundays at 6 p.m. at Red White & Country in Pompano Beach. www.SouthernCountrySouthFlorida.org. The Flamingo Freedom BandOur communities premiere gay and lesbian concert & marching band is now rehearsing at the GLCC on Sunday nights at 6 p.m. Rehearsals are open to all, at any level of playing ability. For more information, stop by the community center at 6:00p.m. on Sunday night, call 954-792-1320 or visit www.flamingofreedomband.com/ Gay Day at Busch Gardens Tampa- The folks in Tampa have been making the last Sunday of each month into Gay Day at Busch Gardens since ‘98. The park is open from 9 a.m.-8 p.m. Adults/$50.83, Kids/ $41.29. For information go to www.geocities.com/tom813fl/ SAA Front Runners Ft. Lauderdale - Running, in-line skating and walking begins at 6 p.m. in Holiday Park. Meet in the parking lot next to the Park Ranger’s Parking lot. Dinner afterwards. Call 954-462-7425 or 954-566-8413 or www.saafrontrunners.org for more information. (Also meets at 7 p.m. on Wednesdays.) PFLAG- Meets the second Sunday of every month from 3-5 p.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Church. For information call PFLAG at 954.916.9252 or visit www.geocities.com/pflagftl. Monday Proud Speakers Toastmasters – Public speaking group consisting of mainly gay and lesbian members. We meet every Monday night from 7:15 – 9:15pm. Come and develop your speaking, thinking and listening skills. Learn how to run meetings and develop self confidence in the interim. Call Ted for more information: 954.566.2074. MCC Sunshine Cathedral, 1480 SW 9th Avenue, Fort Lauderdale. Broward Youth Group BoardFirst and third Mondays of the month at Denny’s. (954) 463-9005 Latin American Information Exchange – Mondays at 2 p.m. at CenterOne, 2817 East Oakland Park Blvd. For information call (954) 537-4111 x117. Freeing The Writer WithinMonday nights at Unity of Hollywood from 7-8:15 p.m. This is a drop-in group and all are welcome. Free/donation for the space. For further information call Lori Cardona at (954) 632-0605. SPIRIT- Meets the first and third Monday of each month at 7:30p.m. at the Science of Mind Center in Wilton manors. This is a group of Lesbians, gay men and friends who come together in a joyful, healthy and nurturing atmosphere to network socially, grow spiritually and better understand issues that affect our community and ourselves. For more information call Rev. Steve at 54.568.5074. MAN 2 MAN TALKMeets every Monday from 7:00 8:30p.m. at the GLCC. Meetings are followed by dinne at a different restaurant each week and then coffee at Stork’s. For further information call the GLCC (954) 463.9005 BINGOCome play bingo just like you were in the bingo halls! Local celebrity callers and cash prizes. This monthly GLCC event is held on Saturdays at 7 p.m. Please call the center for dates and monthly themes, 954.463.9005 Society of Creative Anachronism- Meets the first Monday of each month at 7:30 p.m. at Borders. The group is dedicated to researching and recreating the Middle Ages in the present. 2240 East Sunrise Blvd., (954) 566-6335. Tuesday Men’s Fellowship and Support Group- This group meets the 1st and 3rd Sunday at the GLCC (SouthEast Door) from 6-8 p.m. Yoga- 12:15 p.m. at CHC, 2817 East Oakland Park Blvd. Call (954) 537-4111 ext. 100 to make a reservation. Coming Out Support GroupMeets every Tuesday at the GLCC from7:30 –9:30 p.m. (954) 463-9005 Catholic Mass- Every Sunday at 10 a.m. with Father John Joseph Reid at The Rectory, 2749 NE 10th Ave, Wilton Manors. (954) 561-4545. Everyone is welcome. Spirituality Workshop – Tuesdays at 6 p.m. at CenterOne, 2817 East Oakland Park Blvd. For information call 954.537.4111 x117. Southern Country South Florida- Country Western Dancing & Lessons Tuesdays at 7:30 p.m. at Red White & Country in Pompano Beach. www.SouthernCountrySouthFlorida.org. Open Writers’ GroupThe Open Writers’ Group, coordinated by John Seigfried, is open to all and any participants. Writers are asked to bring copies of new work to be read and discussed in a casual and friendly atmosphere. There are novices reading as well as seasoned published artists reading from their works. Meeting days are the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month except for January when the group will meet the 2nd and 4th Tuesday. 4:30 – 6 p.m. at the Stonewall Library and Archives, 1717 N. Andrews Ave. For more information call Stonewall at (954) 7638565,or John Seigfried at (954) 767-0104. Gay SkateAt Gold Coast Roller Rink, every Tuesday from 8 p.m.-12 midnight. $$giveaways. 2604 S. Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale, (954) 523-6783. Open Mic Night With Charlotte- Bring your own instruments and your friends for a good time every Tuesday night at 9 p.m. at Partners Café, 625 E. Dania Beach Blvd., Dania Beach, (954) 921-9893. Newly Diagnosed Group Meets at 7 p.m. at CenterOne, 2817 East Oakland Park Blvd. For further information call (954) 537-4111 or just drop in. Gold Coast Homeopathic Study Group- Meets every third Tuesday at Borders at 7 p.m. Learn different techniques in natural medicine. 2240 East Sunrise Blvd., (954) 566-6335. Small Business Counseling, by SCORE Tuesdays and Wednesdays (except holidays) from 1 to 4 p.m. at the Main Library, 100 S. Andrews Avenue, Fort Lauderdale. To pre-register call (954) 357-7565. Sponsored by Broward County Library/Bank of America Small Business Resource Center. GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network)- “Working to keep schools SAFE for all youth!” Meets the last Tuesday of every month at the Floridian Restaurant 6:30-8:30p.m. Tuesdays Angels - Meets the first Tuesday of each month for dinner at Chardees, 7 p.m. All proceeds benefit PWAC. Pride South Florida- Meets every second and fourth Tuesday at 7:00 p.m. at the GLCC, (954) 463-9005. Wednesday Women in Network General Meeting – WIN meetings are held the first Wednesday of each month at the Italian American Civic League, 2310 NE 7th Avenue in Wilton Manors. Members free, non-members $5. Networking, socializing, speakers and programs. For information call 954.564.4946 or visit www.womeninnetwork.org. Incest SurvivorsA support group designed to help survivors of childhood sexual abuse meets Wednesdays, from 9:00 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. at Jewish Family Service, Inc. of Broward County, 100 South Pine Island Road, Suite 230, Plantation. Subjects dealt with include coping skills, strategies, and adapting after the trauma of childhood sexual abuse. The group is facilitated by Deborah C. Fox, Licensed Clinical Social Worker. For more information on fees and registration, please call Ms. Fox at (954) 370-2140. SAGE Men Drop-In Every Wednesday at the GLCC. 1-3 p.m. (954) 463-9005. www.sageofbroward.org Southern Country South Florida- Country Western Dance Lessons for beginners 7 p.m. - 9 p.m. every 1 st and 3 rd Wednesday at the GLCC, 1717 N. Andrews Ave., Ft. Lauderdale, (954) 463-9005. A Taizé ServicePlease join us for our Evensong Service every Wednesday at 7:00pm. It is a blend of music for meditation, using Taizé music, plainsong and Gregorian Chant. It is held at Sunshine Cathedral, MCC, located at 1480 SW 9th Ave, in Fort Lauderdale. Call (954) 462-2004 for information or directions. Healing GroupEverybody is welcome to attend this weekly meeting for mental, physical and spiritual healing with Father John Joseph Reid of the Holy Spirit Catholic Community 7:30 p.m. at the Rectory, 2749 NE 10 Ave., Wilton Manors, (954) 561-4545. No fee. Counseling, by SCORE Tuesdays and Wednesdays (except holidays) from 1 to 4 p.m. at the Main Library, 100 S. Andrews Avenue, Fort Lauderdale. To pre-register call 954.357.7565. Sponsored by Broward County Library/ Bank of America Small Business Resource Center. Broward County Youth Group- Youth ages 14-23 meet every Thursday 7:30 9:00 p.m. at the GLCC. (954) 463-9005 Food for Life Network – Nutrition classes for Food for Life Network clients and the HIV/AIDS community to help participants acquire the necessary cooking skills and additional menu ideas for utilizing the foods that clients receive from the food bank program. Classes alternate between English and Spanish instruction. For more information, dates and times please call the Nutrition Dept. at Food for Life Network: (305) 576-3663 ext.108/109. Sister Speak- Writers and performers of all levels and styles are invited to perform at this spoken-word open-mic. This is a fun, relaxed atmosphere. Last Thursday of the month at FREEZ, 909 E. Cypress Creek Rd. The doors open at 8 p.m. and performances start at 8:30 p.m. Admission is $5, and $3 for performers. All proceeds benefit a women’s charity. For more information please call (954) 772-0324 or visit www.sisterspeak.org. Slipping and Sliding Workshop for Gay Men – Meets Thursdays from 7-10PM at GLCCSF. Call Wayne at (954) 981-9400 x207 or e-mail waglcc@aol.com. Acoustic Open Mic NightAcoustic open mic will take place the last Thursday of each month. Sign-up starts at 7:30 p.m. and time slots are limited. For details and guidelines call (954) 566-6335. Performances start at 8 p.m. at Borders’ Café Espresso, 2240 E. Sunrise Blvd., (954) 566-6335. Free. Human Rights Campaign – HRC Steering Committee meets the last Thursday of every month at the GLCC at 7 p.m. No fee. Lauderdale Soccer Club Open Tryouts - Sunset Park at 7 p.m. For further information call Susana at (954) 752-1834 The GLOW Project (Gays and Lesbians Offering Warmth)- Meets at 7:00 p.m. the first Thursday of each month at GLCC. Dispel negative perceptions of the gay and lesbian community while assisting others. 954.463.9005 SAGE Members and Guests Drop-In - Meets at 1 p.m. Thursdays at the GLCC, (954) 463-9005. Oakland Park/Wilton Manors Chamber of Commerce Monthly Breakfast and Business Card Exchange -meets the third Thursday of every month. 7:15 a.m. at the Holiday Inn Express, 3355 N. Federal Hwy. 954.489.0307. Healing Through Writing7 p.m. at CenterOne, 2817 East Oakland Park Blvd., (954) 537-4111. Make a reservation at the desk on Wednesdays. Long-Term Survivors – Gay Men’s GroupDrop-in group meets at 6:30 p.m. at CenterOne, 2817 E Oakland Park Blvd. For further information call (954) 537-4111. Friday Jewish Family Services BEREAVEMENT GROUPA Bereavement SupportGroup, conducted by a licensed therapist, meets on Fridays at 1:30 p.m. in the David Posnack Jewish Community Center, 5850 South Pine Island Road, Davie.For more information, please call (954) 370-2140. Drama Kings- Drag King show, featuring some of our local talents. It's every First Friday of every month, located at J's. The show starts around 10:30 pm, and admission is free before 11 pm. For more info, contact us through our website http:// www.sisterspeak.org or through our telephone number : 954.772.0324 Crystal Meth Anonymous – CMA is a 12 step group fellowship of people for whom crystal meth has become a serious problem. The members meet regularly, share support and create a safe environment in which to stay clean. There are no dues or fees for membership. CMA is open to anyone with the desire to stop using drugs. Fridays from 7:15 – 8 :15 p.m. at Lambda South – Little Room, 1231-A East Las Olas Blvd in Fort Lauderdale. (Enter through the back alley.) For more information call Fred at (954) 764-1488. Free HIV Testing - 1st and 3rd Fridays from 2-7 p.m. at the GLCC. Anonymous and Confidential testing available, as well as testing for Hepatitis A,B,C and Syphilis. Please call (954) 463-9005 for further information. Saturday Flea Market – The GLCCSF is the place to be the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month for antiques, bric-abrac, food, clothing, jewelry, plants and yard sale items. Vendors are welcome to call Kobi at (954) 565 7752. The Flea Market is from 8 a.m. – 2 p.m. and the GLCC is located at 1717 N. Andrews Ave., Ft. Lauderdale, (954) 463-9005. Golf-Out- Gay/Lesbian golf league meets every other Saturday to play 18 holes, then meet for lunch. They also meet monthly for outings such as putt-putt night golf, parties & attending other events. All levels of players are welcome to attend. For more information email golfoutwpb@aol.com. Sage Luncheon & Program - Meets the first Saturday of each month at 12:30 p.m. at Sunshine MCC. Call (954) 786-5893 for reservations and information. www.sageofbroward.org To update, add or remove your non-profit listing email Calendar@ExpressGayNews.com or fax listing to 954.568.5110 30 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 31 CYMK ACCOMMODATIONS ATTORNEYS (cont.) CARPET CLEANING (cont.) DERMATOLOGY The Cabanas at Wilton Manors 2209 NE 26th St. Wilton Manors…….....................954.564.7764 The Deauville Inn 2916 N Ocean Blvd. Fort Lauderdale ..........................954.568.5000 Flamingo Resort 2727 Terramar Street Fort Lauderdale.......................... 954.561.4658 Gigi’s Resort By The Beach 3005 Alhambra Street Fort Lauderdale...........................800.910.2357 Indigo Beach Resort 4053 S Surf Road Hallandale Beach....................... 954.457.9550 Inn Leather 610 SE 19th St. Ft. Lauderdale…….....................954.467.1444 Liberty Apartment & Garden Suites 1501 SW 2nd Ave Dania Beach ..............................954.927.0090 Orton Terrace 606 Orton Ave Fort Lauderdale........................ 954.566.5068 Pineapple Point 315 N.E. 16th Terrace Fort Lauderdale.........................954.527.0094 Richards Inn 1025 NE 18th Ave. Fort Lauderdale........................954.563.1111 The Royal Palms Hotel 2901 Terramar Street Fort Lauderdale.........................954.564.6444 Venice Beach Guest Quarters 552 N. Birch Rd. Ft. Lauderdale……….................954.564.9601 Margaret Broenniman, Esq. Wills, Trusts, & Estate Planning mb_esq@bellsouth.net Fort Lauderdale........................954.288.4064 Jerome & Fischer, PA 4331 N. Federal Hwy. Ste 403 Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.489.1011 David L. Jacovitz, Esq. South Trust Building - 1 East Broward Blvd. Fort Lauderdale.......................954.630.8847 Bruce J. Kirsch - Attorney at Law 3800 S. Ocean Drive, Ste. 218 Hollywood................................954.456.0220 Rainbow Mediators & Legal Services, P.A. Jerome R. Siegel, Esq. 100 West Cypress Creek Rd., Ste. 930 Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.568.6846 Elizabeth F. Schwartz, P.A. 407 Lincoln Rd. Ste 4D Miami beach.............................305.674.9222 Jeffery Seth Selzer, PA • 2550 NE 15 Ave. Wilton Manors.. ……….........… 954.567.4444 Loring N. Spolter, P.A. Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.728.3494 Randy Strauss Wilton Manors..........................954.566.5297 Dean Trantalis • 2255 Wilton Drive Fort Lauderdale.......................954.566.2226 Pye Law Firm/Thomas Pye, Attorney at Law 2787 E. Oakland Pk. Blvd., Ste. 301 Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.561.2100 Pride Carpet Cleaning Bill Thornton, Owner Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.832.0799 Peter Babinski, M.D., PH.D. Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.463.5406 CEMETERIES The Electrician 1536 NW 5th Ave Ft. Lauderdale Broward, Palm Beach, Dade....954.522.3357 ACCOUNTANTS/BOOKKEEPERS AUTOMOTIVE REPAIR Bottom line Accounting & Tax Services, Inc. Incorporations, Individual & business acct & Tax Svc West Palm Beach................................561.627.7778 Nelson Sabbagh, CPA Accounting & tax services Miami ................................................305.632.0865 Thomas Marshall Madison, Jr. CPA, P.A. 2701 E. Oakland Park Blvd. Ste. C Ft. Lauderdale …....................… 954.561.8959 AIR CONDITIONING ACA Air Conditioning 4700 West Prospect Road, Ste. 109 Fort Lauderdale ……..........…..….954.492.5510 All Year Cooling & Heating 1345 NE 4th Ave Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.566.4644 APARTMENTS FOR RENT Palmetto States Properties, Inc. Studios – 2-Bedrooms; $600-1500 Fort Lauderdale……..….….……954.525.0210 APPLIANCE SERVICE & PARTS A-1 Appliance Service Service & Parts Since 1965 2512 Davie Blvd. Ft. Lauderdale...........................954.587.6360 ARTISTS Luminosity Studio & Gallery • Tony Beall 981 NE 45th Street Oakland Park, Fl............................954.202.NEON ARTS & CULTURE Art and Culture Center of Hollywood 1650 Harrison Street Hollywood, FL ........................ 954.921.3274 Studio Gallery 425 David Mulvenna proprietor Hollywood, Fl............................954.924.8574 Visions’ Path Metaphysical Art Gallery 2059 Wilton Drive Wilton Manors…………..........…954.564.3776 ATTORNEYS--IMMIGRATION LAW Shari L. Moidel, Esq. 3471 N Federal Highway Suite #300 www.en-vision.com/ShariMoidel Fort Lauderdale ………........… 954 566.1610 For Brakes and More • 160 E. Prospect Road Fort Lauderdale..................…. 954.563.7254 Ford of Pompano Collision Center.......................954.818.9720 Parts Dept................................954.781.9800 Service Dep.............................954.868.5833 Impact Paint and Body 5700 NW 9th Ave. (Powerline Rd.) Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.491.1142 Low Price Auto Glass 1819 South SR 7/441 Ft. Lauderdale….……….……….954.321.0622 Personal Automotive Service 5095 NE 12th Ave Fort Lauderdale …..........…… 954.772.7780 Rosen’s Prestige Automotive 600 W Broward Blvd. (1-mile E of I-95) Fort Lauderdale ……..........… 954.467.2234 AUTO SALES ATCO Autos Ft. Lauderdale………................954.462.7514 Braman BMW - Jay Estis 2901 Okeechobee Blvd. West Palm Beach.......................561.436.1261 BICYCLES International Bike Shop Fort Lauderdale ……............... 954.764.8800 BOAT CHARTERS Airboat Tours Fort Lauderdale ……............... 954.389.0202 Florida Gay Cruise Ft. Lauderdale ........................954.524.1234 Miami......................................305.933.GAY9 BOOKS/VIDEO/AUDIO All Books and Records Wilton Manors..........................954.537.4899 Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.761.8857 LAMBDA Passages Bookstore Dade...........................................305.754.6900 ATTORNEYS BONDSMAN THE HIRING OF A LAWYER IS AN IMPORTANT DECISION THAT SHOULD NOT BE BASED SOLELY UPON ADVERTISEMENT, BEFORE YOU DECIDE, ASK THE ATTORNEY TO SEND YOU FREE WRITTEN INFORMATION ABOUT HIS OR HER QUALIFICATIONS AND EXPERIENCE. Brandy Bail Bonds Ft. Lauderdale………….…........954.463.4333 Robert P. Bissonnette, P.A. 800 East Broward Blvd. Suite310 Fort Lauderdale……….…......…954.522.1015 Law Offices of Robin L. Bodiford, PA 2550 N. Federal Hwy, Suite 20 Ft Lauderdale...........................954.630.2707 32 CARPET & TILE SALES Pino Tile Inc. Pompano Beach ………............954.971.0992 Margate .................................. 954.978.9908 Delray Beach ..........................561.243.9898 CARPET CLEANING House Carpet Cleaning•Tim House, Owner Ft Lauderdale...........................954.360.0069 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 Lauderdale Memorial Park 2001 S.W. 4th Ave. Fort Lauderdale ……............….954.745.2158 CHIROPRACTORS Cabieses Chiropractic Centers 1776 N Pine Island Rd Plantation. 456 W 51st Place Hialea.........954.559.1999 A Place of Health/ Dr. Donna Watson 2655 E Oakland Park Blvd. Fort Lauderdale ....................... 954.568.9355 Chiropractic Center & Rehab Dr. Lisa M. Totino 20 NE 8th Avenue Ft. Lauderdale…..................….954.767.0993 Monaissa Chiropractic & Wellness Center 11200 Pines Blvd. Ste 101 Pembroke Pines........................954.880.0101 Dr. Michael Cohen, D.C 2631 E. Oakland Pk. Blvd., Ste. 104 Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.537.5558 Gimbel Chiropractic Center Dr. Bruce Gimblel/Dr. Denise Gimbel 1907 North Andrews Ave. Wilton Manors..........................954.567.1924 Peele Chiropractic Dr. Kathy Ragone/Dr.Beth Cooper 3296 NW 9th Ave. Oakland Park …….................... 954.566.7222 CHURCHES/SYNAGOGUES Church of the Holy Spiritsong Deerfield Beach 33442 ............ 954.418.8372 Congregation ETZ Chaim 3970 NW 21st Ave. Fort Lauderdale ....................... 954.564.9232 Sunshine Cathedral, MCC 1480 SW 9th Ave. Fort Lauderdale ....................... 954.462.2004 House of Divine MercyNew Catholic Communities 2749 Northeast 10th Ave. Wilton Manors.......................... 954.561.4545 COMPUTER SERVICES K-Laser Information Technologies, Inc 1256 5th St. West Palm Beach West Palm Beach, FL ….......... 800.785.9399 www.StartComputing.cjb.net Affordable in Home Training / Trouble Shooting Broward/ Dade / West Palm....... 954.522.2593 CONSIGNMENT SHOP ELECTRICIANS EMPLOYEE ASSISTANCE EPS Business Solutions, Inc. Fort Lauderdale ….............……954.755.9980 EVENT PLANNERS EVENTors, INC. Event & Meeting Planning for Any Occasion Fort Lauderdale…..................877.9.EVENT.5 FENCE SERVICES A-Hinze Fence Contractors Marty Hinze, Owner 721 NE 12th ST Ft Lauderdale..........954.763.7658 FINANCIALSERVICES Edward Jones Investments Darcy J. Beeman Fort Lauderdale.......................954.566.4252 Morgan Stanley Stephanie Small - Financial Advisor Fort Lauderdale.........................954.267.5672 Prudential Securities Daniel Pye • Vice President-Investments Toll Free......................................800.231.2510 Ft. Lauderdale…………….....…...954.713.0768 A.G. EDWARDS • Matt Gill matt.gill@agedwards.com Ft. Lauderdale, Fl......................954-761-1060 Salomon Smith Barney David Starkey Senior Vice President 350 E Las Olas Blvd, Suite 1200 Fort Lauderdale ………............ 954.762.3012 Financial Asset Management Corp. Sean R. Cherry, Certified Financial Planner® Fee-only financial planning West Palm Beach.......................800.435.2463 Strategic Planning, Inc. 5900 N Andrews Ave, Suite 250 Fort Lauderdale…….….............954.351.5409 FLORIST Boat Blossums Wholesale Florist 3001 Griffin Rd. FT Lauderdale, FL....................954.961.9141 FUNERAL ARRANGEMENTS Infinity Cremations 2101 S Andrews Ave Suite 105 Fort Lauderdale……............…..954.779.3478 FURNITURE & ANTIQUES Joe Gallo Construction, Inc. 840 NW 7th Ave. Fort Lauderdale …….....…..… 954.766.9850 Jonathan Campbell (licensed/insured) Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.915.0457 Steve Freiser, (licensed/insured) Electrical Tri-county..................954.471.0561 Cargo 2301 NE 26th St. Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.568.5944 Decades 2651 N. Federal Hwy. Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.564.0454 Las Olas Carriage Trade 1304-1306 E. Las Olas Blvd. Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.525.5353 Bar & Stool Emporium 2201 N. Dixie Hwy. Fort Lauderdale…….................954.566.7966 CREDIT COUNSELING GRANITE & MARBLE Fresh Start Foundation More info www.freshstart4debt.org Free analysis, call ................... 954.765.1222 Financial Asset Management Corp. Sean R. Cherry, Certified Rinancial Planner(R) Fee-only financial planning West Palm Beach ..................... 800.435.2463 Best with Granite Kitchen & bathroom counter tops Oakland Park.............................954.733.5541 Road to Retro 263-B Commercial Blvd Lauderdale by the Sea ............954.771.0062 CONTRACTORS- GENERAL DENTISTS ST 21 Century Dental Don Nadel, D.D.S, M.P.H 3038 N Federal Highway Build H Fort Lauderdale.......................954.568.9788 Andrews Dental 2654 N. Andrews ave. Wilton Manors……........….....…954.567.3311 Bal Harbour Dental Center 2026 NE 19th St. Fort Lauderdale.……........…….954.566.5428 Oakland Park Dental Howard R. Cunningham, D.D.S. 2020 E Oakland Park Blvd Fort Lauderdale.……..........…..954.566.9812 GRAPHIC DESIGNS Printing Xcetera • 145 SE 11th Street Deerfield Beach…….………..….954.420.0084 HAIR SALONS Heclynn’s Barber, Beauty & Nail Studio 3801 N Andrews Ave Oakland Park Blvd...............….954.566.9776 Personal Hair Studio 2713 E Commercial Blvd Ft. Lauderdale……............…..954.776.7577 Styling & Profiling Hair Emporium Hollywood.….....954.923.1818•954.791.8159 HEALTH/FITNESS/BEAUTY William Borawski • hlthnutrtrnr@aol.com Ft. Lauderdale...............800.211.1202 x12955 The LaserWorks 2480 E. Commercial Blvd. Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.202.5870 HOSPITALS-PSYCHIATRIC MOVING/STORAGE PLUMBING REAL ESTATE (cont.) Fort Lauderdale Hospital 1601 E Las Olas Blvd Fort Lauderdale ………........… 954.463.4321 Always Moving (licensed/insured) Dade..............................................305.650.9080 NationStorage, Inc. 812 NW 1st Street Fort Lauderdale……..........……954.525.4767 Akro Plumbing Miami......................................305.378.2504 Jonathan Campbell (licensed/insured) Ft. Lauderdale........................... 954.915.0457 4 Star Plumbing, Inc 181 NE 32nd Street Fort Lauderdale ..........................954.767.8999 Patrick R. Volkert • Ocean Shores Realty 934 N. Victoria Park Road Ft. Lauderdale……...................954.684.4900 Ocean Wave Realty/ Gregory S. Isaacs 2765 E. Oakland Park Blvd. Fort Lauderdale.......................954.529.7552 John Castelli - Re/Max Partners 1507 E. Las Olas Blvd. Fort Lauderdale........................954.661.2334 Howard Elfman—Distinctive Homes Realty 1512 E Broward Blvd., Suite 201 Fort Lauderdale………..……....954.764.4552 Infante & Associates/Mark Watson Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.609.3371 Infante & Associates J.D. Pryor Fort Lauderdale…….………….954.253.3193 Keyes/Todd Paulk 1520 E. Sunrise Blvd Ft. Lauderdale.........................954.523.0796 Keyes Company/ Al Kuntz 10101 S. Dixie Highway Miami........................................305.596.3991 Kim Garvy, Broker/Remax Consultants 1625 SE 17th Street Causeway Ft. Lauderdale………...…….…...954.767.1166 Russotto Realty Inc. Craig White 2242 Wilton Drive ....................954.296.4236 Re/Max Partners/Dan O’Flaherty 2810 E OaklandBlvd Fort Lauderdale..……........…...954.396.5965 Terry Bush/Re/Max Partners Fort Lauderdale…….............….954.661.4550 WholesaleProperties.com Mark Cheeley Licensed Real Estate Broker Fort Lauderdale………....…….954.525.5579 INSURANCE Allstate/Oliver Insurance Group Michael & Linda Oliver 1040 Bayview Drive, Ste. 130 Fort Lauderdale……..…......….954.565.3100 INSURANCE (cont.) Allstate Insurance/Karl Grace 2171 Wilton Drive Wilton Manors………….....……..954.537.5321 Correct Coverage Insurance/Jim Rakvica Ft. Lauderdale………................954.565.1731 State Farm Insurance/Cathy Blanchard 850 SE 7th St., Ste C Deerfield Beach.......................954.427.9680 Singer & Associates, Life & Health Insurance Life, Health, Annuities, LTC, Disability Income West Palm Beach......................561.624.6325 LANDSCAPING Blue Zebra Landscaping • 1017 SW 15th Ter Ft Lauderdale,FL......................954.764.1149 Exotic Landscaping Design PO Box 4580 Ft. Lauderdale, FL....................954.567.4133 Tropical Theatre 1139 NE 17th Way Ft. Lauderdale Fl. ....................954.524.1112 R.H. Ireland & Sons 3080 S. Oakland Forest Dr. Fort Lauderdale ……............... 954 240.9701 LAWN SERVICES A+ Lawn Service Ft. Lauderdale Fl..................… 954.294.8911 Above & Beyond Lawn Service 1231 NE 9th Ave Ft. Lauderdale Fl.................... 954.540.6496 LEGAL EXPENSE PLANS Pre-Paid Legal Services, Inc Cynthia Lyle………............…... 954 916.2031 Curtis McCoy …................…… 954 723.7745 LIMOUSINE & CAR SERVICES Sterling Services Broward & Dade Counties..........888.239.9200 Chauffeur Service/Custom transportation Broward, Dade, West Palm .....954.336.7849 LONG-TERM CARE PLANNING IMS FINANCIAL SERVICES Ita Schenkel, CLTC, CSA Long-Term Care Insurance Specialist N. Miami Beach........................305.653.5116 MASSAGE THERAPY The Art of Massage Jeffrey S. Weeks, BA, LMT Lic. # MA 30273...............….....954.815.8179 Gloria L. Carlson, LMT Lic. # MA 0006360..............…..561.395.7382 Terry DiVincenzo, LMT Swedish & Therapeutic Massage Lic.# MA 022936 …............…..954 491.8180 Tom Clephane, LMT Lic.# MA0019978.....................954.579.5044 Brian L. Wright MS, LMT, CR Shiatsu, Reflexology, Deep Tissue Lic.# MA33341..........................561.582.1177 MORTGAGES Alliance Mortgage Funding, Inc. Brian "Tyler" Leonard 2500 Wilton Dr. Ft. Laud............954.568.0108 Certified Realty Management, Inc. 110 NE 51 St Fort Lauderdale ....................... 954.776.6400 O Brien Financial Group, Inc./Bruce Howe Ft. Lauderdale ......................... 954.683.9200 O Brien Financial Group, Inc./Darryl Davis Fort Lauderdale.......................954.253.2900 Scott Brill/GMAC Mortgage 500 W Cypress Creek Rd Suite 190 Fort Lauderdale.......................... 954.771.4420 Summit Mortgage/John Iarussi Ft. Lauderdale ......................... 954.567.2939 Toby White, Inc. 4330 Tradewinds Avenue, East Lauderdale-by-the-Sea ........... 954.491.5900 Transcontinental Lending Group • Mario Petri Ft. Lauderdale.........................954.240.8090 MUSEUMS Art and Culture Center of Hollywood 1650 Harrison Street Hollywood, FL ….........…..…....954.921.3274 Museum of Art Fort Lauderdale 1 E Las Olas Blvd Fort Lauderdale…..............…...954.525.5500 MUSEUMS Museum of Discovery & Science 401 SW 2nd Street Fort Lauderdale…..….......….....954.467.6637 OFFICE EQUIPMENT Copyco 1700S Powerline Rd. Suite H-I Deerfield Beach, FL.............… 954.881.7013 OPTICIANS Downtown Opticians 800 Broward Blvd Fort Lauderdale…….............… 954.764.6962 Dr. Jeffrey C. Hilton, O.D. Broward.....................................954.524.9400 South Beach............................305.534.0539 PAINTING/WALLCOVERING Affordable Painting Solutions Clarke Jenkins Fort Lauderdale…................… 954.854.1987 Broward Boy’s Painters/ Jerry Fort Lauderdale...................... 954.720.9605 Do. It. Rite Wallcover + Painting Ft. Lauderdale………................954.786.0287 Professional Interior Painting Bill Mears Wilton Manors.........................954.309.4089 Professional Speedy Painting Gus Flores Painting & general repair work around the house Fort Lauderdale.........................954.467.9929 PEST CONTROL Harper Bros. Termite & Pest Control 2122 SW 60th Terr. Miramar, FL ………...............… 954.983.4149 Hugh Turner Pest Control, INC. 840 NW 33rd Street Oakland Park...........................954.564.0037 PETS Brenda’s Birds Inc. 324 NE 3rd Ave. Delray Beach…...................... 561.278.5394 The Bone Appetite Bakery 3045 N Federal Hwy Suite 60-F Fort Lauderdale……….........… 954.565.3343 PET GROOMING Rover the Rainbow 929 North Federal Hwy., (Sears Town) Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.525.6988 Yuppy Puppy & Co. Show & Pet Grooming Catering to those who want the Very Best! Coral Springs.............................954.753.7647 PHARMACIES Commcare Pharmacy 2817 E. Oakland Park Blvd., Ste# 303 Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.568.6212 StatScript Pharmacy 2605 N. Dixie Hwy. Wilton Manors…................…...954.568.3789 ProScript Pharmacy Services, Inc. Fort Lauderdale.......................954.797.5041 PHOTOGRAPHY Shires Photography Fort Lauderdale.......................954.523.4527 Andy Armano Fort Lauderdale.......................954.854.5679 Dennis Dean Fort Lauderdale…...…........….. 954.463.8299 Noel de Christian Ft. Lauderdale.........................954.485.6659 Miami...............…...….........….. 305.553.2099 PICTURE FRAMING Budget Framer • 263 E. Commercial Blvd. Lauderdale by the Sea……......954.267.9202 Smith’s Picture Framing and Art Gallery 719 E. Broward Blvd. Ft. Lauderdale............................954.462.4391 POOL SERVICES Skimmer's Pools Service and Repair P.O. Box 70021 Oakland Park, FL 33307 Broward County.................................954.938.0208 POSTAL SERVICES Plaza Postal Center • 52 W Oakland Park Blvd. Wilton Manors ......................... 954 561.0333 P.I. & DETECTIVE AGENCIES Intracoastal Detective Agency 1511 E Commercial Blvd Fort Lauderdale…..…...............954.564.5455 PSYCHOTHERAPY & COUNSELING Asher Center - Couple Counseling Dr. Jay Asher ............................954.565.1901 Anita MacGregor, M.S., IMT........954.254.2972 Dr. Carmine Pecoraro, Psy.D. & Assocs. Counseling, Evaluations & Psychological Testing Fort Lauderdale........................954.463.2723 Orlando J. Gonzalez L.M.H.C., P.A. 407 Lincoln Road Suite 2F Miami Beach............................305.531.1400 Joseph Munafo, M.D • Board Certified Psychiatrist 1940 Harrison St. Hollywood................................954.648.0232 Mari Alschuler, LCSW, RPT Hypnosis, Career Counseling, Journaling Dade & Broward .................. (954) 243-5288 Cora Wujceak, LCSW•1909 N. Andrews Ave. Wilton Manors………................954.567.1008 Lisa C. Niebling Ph.D., LMHC, CST 11388 Okeechobee Blvd. Royal Palm Beach......................561.798.2310 Diana Promuto, LCSW, ACSW 218 Commercial Blvd., Ste. 208M Lauderdale by the Sea.............954.771.5040 Robin Traiger, LCSW•2624 NW 6th Avenue Wilton Manors.........................954.565.8650 Michael G. Mele, LCSW, P.A. Ft. Lauderdale.…......................954.564.8997 John Marszalek, PhD, LMHC 1212 E Broward Blvd. Suite 204 Fort Lauderdale ....................... 954.829.9480 Patrick Mulhall, L.C.S.W., C.ST, C.HT, PA 3475 Sheridan Street Suite 312 Hollywood………...........……..…954.894.8024 M. Ross Seligson, PhD,PA 915 Middle River Drive Suite 401 Fort Lauderdale ……...............…954.563.2800 Jack M. Seelin, M.S. Mental Health Counselor Intern, Lic. # IMH 2739 300 S. Pine Island Rd., Ste. 230 Plantation…………....…..…….954.683.2043 Psychological Alliance, Pl 7501 NW 4th Street, Suite202 Fort Lauderdale ………...............954.584.6044 Arthur Strauss, LCSW West Palm Beach......................561.721.0842 Susan A. Smith, L.C.S.W. 6250 N. Andrews Ave Suite 108 Fort Lauderdale …………........... 954.730.4902 The Women’s Institute for Incorporation Therapy Hollywood Pavillion 1201 N 37 th Ave Hollywood, FL ...………..........… 954.962.1355 Mark Rutherford, LCSW West Palm Beach.....................561.835.6821 REAL ESTATE Coldwell Banker G.D. Smith www.gdsmith.com Aventura/ Hollywood/ Ft.Laud ...305.798.2203 Coldwell Banker/Tim Singer Realtor & Associates Ft Lauderdale..........................954.463.1373 Coldwell Banker/Andy Weiser 2495 E. Commercial Blvd Fort Lauderdale ………............ 954.566.1015 Darrin Spardello Community Real Estate email: darrinsells@yahoo.com Palm Beach/WPB/Lake Worth...561.262.4780 RETAIL OUTLET Leather Werks 1226 NE 4th Ave. Ft. Lauderdale..........................954.761.1236 RETIREMENT Treemont on the Park 3881 NE 3rd Ave., Oakland Park Fort Lauderdale …..............…954.563.0276 ROOFING Ed Hobel Roofing Lic # CCC029553 Fort Lauderdale.......................954.563.9687 SCREEN PRINTING Lauderdale Shirthouse Inc • 1087 NW 53rd St Fort Lauderdale …….............…954.491.1018 Fastsigns • 1747 N. Federal Highway Fort Lauderdale.......................954.566.8500 TAILOR th Cassini Tailor Shop • 934 NE 20 Ave Fort Lauderdale.......................954.764.5245 TITLE COMPANIES All County Title Company 4875 N Federal Hwy 10th Floor Fort Lauderdale.…..............…954.629.5525 TRANSLATORS Rio Bravo Translations, John Chellino Miami…....................….......… 305.576.0031 TRAVEL Island Mountain Travel 2852 E. Oakland Pk. Blvd. Ft. Lauderdale..........................800.622.4262 Rita Olwell Travel • 1828 E Sunrise Blvd Fort Lauderdale………..............954.764.1570 VETERINARIANS Capital Plaza Animal Hospital 2372 N. 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Geri Posner, Interfaith Minister Hollywood……….......................800.850.0358 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 33 34 www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK January 20, 2003 Volume 4, Number 3 Photos by Steven Shires Bill Beaton, Marshall Silk and Ted Emery Ed Nichols and Andy Weiser Ernie Gazaile and Ben Dee Tim Smith Paul Lanchbery and Chuck Williams Colin DeAngelis and Ray Vino Mary Hughs, Jack Lantona and Roberta Weinstein Sherwin Goldman, Alan Cohen, Chris White and Laurie Cowall Christine Lane and the new GLCC President, Linda Wood www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 35 CYMK January 20, 2003 Volume 4, Issue 3 Call 954.568.1880 for Advertising Information or Online at ExpressGayNews.com Ann Bannon: Godmother of Lesbian Pulp Novels Celebrated Author to Appear at Stonewall Library and Archives in Fort Lauderdale By Mary Damiano Arts & Entertainment Editor As she sat at her typewriter in the 1950s, Ann Bannon never imagined that decades later, people would still be interested in her work. “If the ghost of readers yet to come told me that people would be reading these books half a century down the road, I would have retired to the fainting couch,” she says with a laugh. But people are still reading. Bannon’s books, which include Odd Girl Out and Women in the Shadows, are regarded as some of the best lesbian pulp fiction ever written. They have been reissued over and over again, each time attracting a new generation of young women yearning for accurate portrayals of lesbian life. Most recently, the books have been repackaged by Cleis Press as gorgeous trade paperbacks, complete with the pulp cover art. South Florida fans will get a chance to meet Bannon when she appears at the Stonewall Library and Archives Friday, Jan. 24. 36 Bannon never set out to make history; she simply wrote from her heart. “Often you end up writing the book you wanted to read,” she says. Growing up in Chicago, Bannon looked for books about lesbians but found only the infamous novel, The Well of Loneliness. “I joined the army of women who read it in the library stacks because I was too afraid to check it out,” she says. Later, she discovered the book Spring Fire by Vin Packer. Bannon could relate to the story, and began corresponding with the author. When Bannon mentioned that she was writing a novel, her mentor offered an introduction to a New York editor. So Bannon showed her 500-page conventional “college novel” to the editor, who advised her to concentrate on the love story between the young women. Bannon took her editor’s advice, and Odd Girl Out was born. She found out years later that Odd Girl Out was the number two top-selling paperback of 1957. For her next novel, Bannon tried to go www.ExpressGayNews.com • January 20, 2003 CYMK Pulp author Ann Bannon “straight” with a mainstream novel, but her editor urged her to follow one of her characters to New York City. In her second novel, she introduced the popular character, Beebo Brinker. Bannon’s fan mail grew as readers clamored for more, and her novels turned into a series. “At a time when most of the books about lesbians were so negative, mine at least had a glimmer of hope and some happy moments,” she says. While Bannon was writing about illicit college love affairs and the fledgling gay community in Greenwich Village, she was living the alleged American Dream, married to a man and raising two daughters. “I was Harriet, but my husband was a very controlling Ozzie,” she says. She wrote under a pen name, afraid that if she wrote her books under her real name she would endanger her family. Her husband told her she could continue writing, as long as no one knew what she was doing. Bannon says the plots of her books grew from her vicarious nature, always putting herself in situations and imagining what it would be like if she could go off and live that life. “I wanted so much to be there, but I couldn’t,” she says. “I was married. I had children. I did what was expected of me, like so many of the women in my generation. We’re glad of that, but we gave up a lot.” These days, Bannon is busier than ever, writing articles for magazines, including Curve and The Lambda Book Report. She lives in Sacramento, but spends a large amount of time touring and lecturing. In the past year, she has lectured in Seattle, Chicago, Los Angeles and San Francisco. Bannon’s appearance at the Stonewall Library will mark her first trip to Fort Lauderdale. Bannon is philisophical about her enduring popularity and her current renaissance: “I think if you are a survivor, and you last long enough, the world circles back around to have another look at you.” Ann Bannon will appear Friday, Jan. 24, at 7pm at the Stonewall Library and Archives, 1717 N. Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale.