January 2016 - Congregation Beth Ahm
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January 2016 - Congregation Beth Ahm
Congregation Beth Ahm WINTER 2016 What’s Inside? Family Havdallah Pray & Play at Beth Ahm Friday, January 15 at 6 p.m. Join us for a family oriented Shabbat service followed by dinner and an evening of family style games. $18 per household Advanced registration by January 11 to 248-851-6880 or ablau@cbahm.org is required For more info, contact Elissa Berg at 248-851-6880 or eberg@cbahm.org Generously sponsored by The Nadis Family Fund and Bingo Page 3 Tango and Tapas Page 4 Jewish Mindfulness Weekend Visions of the Jewish State Tevet - Shevat - Adar I - Adar II 5776 Page 7 Community Partnerships Page 8 Calendar of Events Page 10 Being Mortal Page 11 In Loving Memory Page 17 BIG ENOUGH TO ENRICH YOU. SMALL ENOUGH TO KNOW YOU. Winter 2016 XXXIX No. 3 Page 5 Mazal Tov Mazal Tov and Yasher Koach to: Sari & Jeff Blackman on the Bar Mitzvah of their son Mitchell Blackman. Proud grandparents are Linda & Sid Blackman. Alyse & David Schwartz on the birth of their son Ezra Michael Schwartz. Proud grandparents are Jody & Rich Grossman. Proud great-grandparents are Dorothy & Hershel Sandberg. Rhona & Rob Fidler on the birth of their grandson Evan Zachary Wald. Elizabeth Traison on her engagement to Ari Witkin. Proud parents are Janice & Steve Traison. Proud grandparents are Barbara & Larry Traison. Ryan Garber and Daniel Warsh on their marriage. Proud parents are Deborah & Richard Warsh. Nancy & Manny Kalef on the birth of their great grandson Henry Samuel Robinson. BIG A Welcome to our Newest Members Elaine and Seymour Cohen Lynne, Daniel and Grace Golodner & Asher, Eliana, and Shaya Schreiber Jerome, Michelle, Jacob, Thea, and Sara Seid Daniella, Igor, Pelli, Lev, and Mia Mechnikov The light of Hanukkah was bright at Beth Ahm’s Hanukkah party. It was the 4th night, 278 people shared in the mitzvah of lighting the menorah and over 1000 latkes were eaten. A dreidel contest, arts & crafts, cookie decorating, and Hanukkah magic show completed the evening. 2 Family Events Family Book Club Families with children ages 9-11 are invited to join our book club. In partnership with Bnai Moshe and Bnai Israel, we’ll focus on 4 books from the PJ Our Way collection. Each session will include a book discussion, activity and lunch. Book club meets 12:30 p.m. – 2:00 p.m. at Beth Ahm. Sunday, January 31 The Path of Names by Ari Goelman Sunday, February 28 When the Hurricane Came by Nechama Liss-Levinson Contact Elissa Berg at 248-851-6880 or eberg@cbahm.org to RSVP and to receive information about how to enroll in PJ Our Way and receive your free books. The book club is generously funded by a Berman Jewish Family Education Grant. PJs at Home Experience the PJ Library at home with friends. Children ages 5 and under will enjoy an evening with their moms and dads, bubbies and zadies, and other Beth Ahm families. Older siblings are welcome. Join us for dinner, playtime, project, and a story from the PJ Library. Sunday, January 10 at 5:00 p.m. At the home of Sheri and Evan Shapiro 35323 Glengary Circle in Farmington Hills Saturday, March 12 at 6:00 p.m. At the home of Amy and Adam Brode 26046 Hendri Blvd in Huntington Woods There is no cost to participate in PJs at Home but advanced registration to Elissa Berg at 248-851-6880 or eberg@cbahm.org is required. Havdallah and Family Bingo Saturday night, February 6 at 6:45 p.m. Bring the entire family for a camp style Havdallah followed by an exciting night of bingo! Ice cream, great prizes and lots of fun for everyone. Don’t miss it! No charge for Beth Ahm families/$18 per non-member family. For questions or to RSVP, contact Terri Stearn at tntstearn@comcast.net Sponsored by the Beth Ahm Sisterhood On January 23, February 27, and March 19 Join Rabbi Steven Rubenstein for: Tot Shabbat at 10:45 a.m. Parents and/or grandparents are invited to attend with their pre-schoolers! and Birthday Shabbat Kids will join us for end of service in the main sanctuary to receive a special blessing and gift during their birthday month. RSVP to Rabbi Rubenstein at 248-851-6880 or ravsteven@cbahm.org Save the Date - April 2 beginning at 9:30 a.m. Youth Shabbat Bring the family to Shabbat services and stay for lunch! All of our young people, pre-school through high school will be leading us in services. Childcare will be available for pre-school through kindergarten aged children. There will also be a family program presented by the Ramah fellows during the Torah service for K-5th graders at approximately 10:30 a.m. There is no charge for lunch but advanced registration is encouraged. Contact Elissa Berg at 248-851-6880 or eberg@cbahm.org to register or with questions. 3 Sisterhood & Men’s Club Tango and Tapas Saturday, January 9 at 7:30 p.m. Argentine Tango, 7758 Auburn Road in Utica Join the Men’s Club and Sisterhood for a night of Argentine dance and cuisine. World Tango Dancers Daniel & Amanda will perform and teach us how to tango. Enjoy tapas and wine throughout the night. Prior dance or tango experience is not needed. Come with comfortable shoes and ready to have fun! $24 per person (checks payable to the Beth Ahm Men’s Club) Advanced registration by January 4 is required. Contact Jorge Singman at 586-651-7009 or jsingman@sbcglobal.net with questions or to register. Let’s Do Lunch with the Men’s Club Tuesday, January 12 at noon Come join Rabbi Rubenstein and the Men’s Club at Beth Ahm in Mainster Hall for a chance to meet, greet and eat with the group. Lunch provided by Dish Kosher Catering for $12 per person which includes a turkey or tuna roll-up sandwich, coleslaw, fruit, bottled water, and a dessert. Please confirm your attendance (RSVP’s a must by January 8) by contacting Pat Ritchie at 248-285-1480 or pfunk1974@hotmail.com Zumba with the Sisterhood Tuesday, January 12 at 7:30 p.m. at Beth Ahm Join Sisterhood to chase away the winter blues with a fun night of Zumba! Cely Dias, Zumba instructor at Franklin Athletic Club, will get us moving and grooving! Start the New Year off right with your Sisterhood friends! Prior Zumba experience is not needed. $5 per person payable at the door. Please RSVP in advance to bahmsisterhood@gmail.com Contact Terri Stearn at tntstearn@comcast.net or 248-672-3207 with questions. Sisterhood Book Talk and Lunch in Mainster Hall Thursday, January 21 at 1:00 p.m. Rabbi Rubenstein will review “The Betrayers” by David Bezmozgis. “Bezmozgis has given us a complex moral thriller with weighty political implications regarding the continued effects of migration of Soviet Jews to Israel on global politics.” - New Republic The cost is $15 per person. For more information, or to RSVP, contact Shelley Shindler at 248-417-8000 or snslist@aol.com Men’s Club Intercongregational Dinner Thursday, February 11 beginning at 6:00 p.m. Temple Beth El, 7400 Telegraph Road in Bloomfield Hills Brotherhood will be celebrated at the 84th annual intercongregational Men’s Club dinner. Ilan Berman, Vice President of the American Foreign Policy Council in Washington DC will be the featured presenter. Mr. Berman is a security expert who has consulted for the CIA and the Department of Defense. He is a faculty member at Missouri State University and a columnist for Forbes.com and The Washington Times. $54 per person includes appetizers, cocktails, and dinner. Advanced registration is required. Contact Ron Jedwab at 248-892-8684 or ron@lincorpconstruction.com for more information. Men’s Club Theatre Night with The Village Players of Birmingham performing “To Kill a Mockingbird” Saturday, March 12 at 8:00 p.m. Following the play we will proceed to the Great Lakes Bloomfield Coffee Bar next to the Maple Theatre for an afterglow. Specialty coffee and one dessert per couple/individual are included. Tickets are $30 each. Limited seating available.To RSVP or for more details contact Ron Jedwab at 248-788-4950 or lincorp@comcast.net 4 Scholar In Residence Weekend A Weekend of Jewish Mindfulness with Rabbi Jordan Bendat-Appell from the Institute for Jewish Spirituality January 29-31, 2016 at Congregation Beth Ahm Friday night, January 29 Kabbalat Shabbat services begin at 6:00 p.m. followed by dinner and Rabbi Bendat-Appell’s presentation The Experience of UnEnding Revelation Is the revelation ongoing or has it stopped? If it is ongoing, what might this mean for our experience of God, study, and Jewish life generally? Circus skill workshop and supervised activities for kids following dinner $25 per adult • $15 per child ages 6-12 or $50 per household Children 5 & under are no charge Advanced registration by January 25 is required. Call 248-851-6880 or email ablau@cbahm.org to register. Saturday, January 30 8:45 a.m. - 9:30 a.m. The Torah speaks of Sinai and Horev interchangeably. Moses and Elijah both experience revelation on that mountain but their experiences are so different. We’ll compare the two experiences of revelation to see what they teach us. Shabbat morning sermon and afternoon teaching at 1:00 p.m. Shabbat as a Mindfulness Practice Rabbi Bendat-Appell will explore the experience of Shabbat. How do the traditional ideas of Zakhor et Yom HaShabbat (Remembering Shabbat), and Menuha (rest), help us create a lived, mindful experience that can enrich and sustain? About our featured guest: Rabbi Jordan Bendat-Appell is a Program Director for the Institute for Jewish Spirituality and is a co-founder and Director of the Center for Jewish Mindfulness. Jordan was ordained by the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College in 2008, after which he served as Rabbi at Aitz Hayim Center for Jewish Living. Prior to pursuing his rabbinical studies, Jordan studied Conservation Biology at the University of Wisconsin, Madison, spent several months at Zen centers in California and France, and studied Jewish text at the Conservative Yeshiva and Machon Pardes in Jerusalem. He is a 2014 recipient of the Covenant Foundation’s Pomegranate Prize for emerging Jewish educators. For more information about Rabbi Bendat-Appell visit www.jewishspirituality.org Special Mindfulness Workshop Foundations of Jewish Mindfulness: The Mechanics of Jewish Mindfulness Meditation Sunday, January 31 from 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. at Congregation Beth Ahm Rabbi Bendat-Appell will offer a day long workshop offering significant instruction in, and opportunities to practice, Jewish mindfulness meditation. We will explore foundational elements of this accessible practice which can support our capacity to feel awake, alive and present. Participants will learn how to engage in this practice as well as how to understand it as a deeply Jewish endeavor. Fee - $50 per person (includes lunch and snacks) Advanced registration by January 25 is required. Call 248-851-6880 or email ablau@cbahm.org to register. Jewish Mindfulness weekend is sponsored by the Schreier Shabbat Limud Fund Congregation Beth Ahm • 5075 West Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322 • 248-851-6880 • www.cbahm.org 5 Synagogue News You are invited to Beth Ahm’s next Havurah-Style Shabbat Dinner Friday, February 19 following 6:00 p.m. services Our havurah-style Shabbat dinners are informal, friendly get-togethers featuring light vegetarian fare which is prepared in advance in the Sisterhood kitchen by volunteers. Join us for delicious food, friendly conversation, Shabbat ambience and camaraderie. Everyone who attends will be asked to volunteer in some way - whether by food shopping, cooking, coming early to set the tables, or staying after dinner to clean up. Dinner will take place in Mainster Hall, so space is limited to about 35 people. Advance reservations are a must. To RSVP please call Alison at 248-851-6880 or e-mail ablau@cbahm.org by Monday, February 15 Cost for dinner is $12 for adults and teens, $5 for ages 5 through 12, and no charge for children under 5. Maximum cost per household is $36. Questions, last-minute concerns? Call or text Jeffrey Weiss at 248-202-7620 or e-mail jeffrey.weiss@homedics.com Sidney & Bee Kalt Israel Scholarship The Kalt Scholarship is a wonderful expression of the value that Beth Ahm places on both our youth and The State of Israel. The scholarship actively engages your child(ren) during their teen years and rewards them with funding for future travel to Israel. Each time your child dedicates her/his time towards a worthy project at Beth Ahm, they will earn credits towards this scholarship. There are a number of ways for your child(ren) to earn travel credit including: • Serving as a madrich/madricha in the religious school • Participating in Mitzvah Kids (social action) activities • Helping with Shabbat kiddush, the Purim carnival, Hanukkah party, and more Travel credit can be redeemed for travel to Israel in 2016, 2017, or 2018. For more information about earning or redeeming credit, please contact Elissa Berg at 248-851-6880 or eberg@cbahm.org Want a confident retirement? Call Al Sasson at Ameriprise Financial at 248.865.2006 or email at al.sasson@ampf.com. AL SASSON, CRPC® Financial Advisor Vice President 32255 Northwestern Hwy Ste 200 Farmington Hills, MI 48334 248.855.5000 al.sasson@ampf.com ameripriseadvisors.com/ al.sasson Ameriprise Financial Services, Inc. Member FINRA and SIPC. Confident Retirement is not a guarantee of future financial results. © 2014 Ameriprise Financial, Inc. All rights reserved. (1/14) 6 Drop In and Learn on DVD: “Why Evil Exists” Wednesdays at 1 p.m. in the Teen Lounge Free and open to the community no reservations needed, all welcome Now in progress – “Why Evil Exists” - 36-part lecture series on DVD from The Great Courses ® featuring Professor Charles Mathewes, Assistant Professor of Religious Studies, University of Virginia. We watch two 30-minute lectures each week, followed by brief informal discussion. Course will run through March 23. Syllabus available on request. Donations are welcome to help underwrite this free weekly learning opportunity. Each week’s session includes informal discussion facilitated by Nancy Kaplan. For more information contact Nancy at 248-737-1931 or nancyellen879@att.net or visit www.cbahm.org Adult Education Thumin Bet Midrash, in partnership with B’nai Israel Synagogue, Presents Visions of the Jewish State A Seminar with Professor Howard Lupovitch Mondays in January at 7:30 p.m. Zionism was far from monolithic as an ideology and as a movement; on the contrary, it was a complex tapestry of ideas and aims which added up to different notions of what the Jewish State should be. In this series, we explore the different and at times contradictory Zionist visions of the Jewish State and how the founders of the State of Israel wove these visions together into the complex and at times contentious Israeli Society and Politics. January 11 Herzl: Sovereignty, Honor and Refuge January 18 Ahad Ha’am, A.D. Gordon, David ben Gurion: New Jews in a New State January 25 Jabotinsky: Realism and Militarism $25 for the series RSVP to ablau@cbahm.org or by calling 248-851-6880 Who are the people in your Talmudic neighborhood? with Aron Wogel Besides their halachic teachings, the rabbis of the Talmud had unique ways of interacting with each other. We’ll explore these relationships through the lens of Talmudic storytelling (known as agadata) to try and understand a bit more of what life was like during Talmudic times and how we can internalize their lessons today. Personalities will include: Rabban Gamliel (the powerful president), Rabbi Eliezer and Rabbi Elazar (Rabbi Yochanan’s strongest students), Bruria (Rabbi Meir’s wife), and more! Four Sessions: February 1, 8, 22, 29 at 7:30 p.m. Fee - $25 RSVP to ablau@cbahm.org or by calling 248-851-6880 Aron Wolgel is the Director of Jewish Student Life at the Frankel Jewish Academy, where he has taught Judaic Studies for the last five years. Open Bet Midrash with Rabbi Rubenstein Can’t commit to a full course right now? Drop in for a session of the Open Bet Midrash at 7:30 p.m. on one of these dates. February 1 – Shabbat Kiddush Learn about the mitzva of reciting Kiddush on Friday evenings. Why do we say Kiddush? What does it tell us about Shabbat? February 8 – Dive into the Mishna We’ll take a look at the structure of The Mishna, one of the foundational texts of Rabbinic Literature. February 22 – What’s Bothering Rashi? Sometimes the best way to fully understand Rashi is to ask yourself, ‘what’s bothering Rashi about this verse?’ We’ll take a look at some of Rashi’s comments and become better readers of Torah ourselves. February 29 – A Text-Based Primer to the Mitzvot of Purim Using Maimonides’ Mishneh Torah as our text, we will explore the mitzvot (commandments) related to the celebration of Purim. $5 per session. All texts provided in Hebrew and English RSVP to ablau@cbahm.org or call 248-851-6880. 7 Community Partnerships PJ Library Tu B’Shevat Exploration Sunday, January 24 1:00 – 3:30 p.m. DNR Outdoor Adventure Center 1801 Atwater Street in Detroit * Explore the outdoors INDOORS * Reel in a fish, ride in a dune buggy or airplane, explore the outdoors and more * Learn about trees with DNR educators (1:30 or 2:30 sessions) * PJ Library Book Readings (every 15 minutes) * Enjoy birthday snacks In partnership with The Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit, Temple Israel, and Adat Shalom. Contact Gail Greenberg at greenberg@jfmd.org or 248-205-2536 with questions. Free for those who pre-register at jewishdetroit.org/pjtrees $2 per person at the door Save the date! February 25-28 Beth Ahm will be hosting the Central Region USY Kinnus. Join teens from throughout the Midwest for a weekend fun. Stay tuned for more information. Join the High School Collaborative to celebrate Israel and Tu B’Shevat by working with chefs to create cuisine using the seven species of Israel. Sunday, January 31 from 2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Mirepoix Cooking School (in Holiday Market) 1203 South Main Street in Royal Oak Advanced registration to gailgreen001@gmail.com is required and only 30 teens will be able to participate. $5 per person Generously funded by The Hermelin/Davidson Center for Congregational Excellence and co-sponsored by Beth Ahm, Beth Shalom, Temple Kol Ami, Temple Emanu-El and B’nai Moshe. “They call these days Purim…and they are celebrated throughout every generation...” March 23 at Adat Shalom Carnival and family Purim celebration begins at 5:30 p.m. Traditional Megillah reading at 7:30 p.m. With an abundance of hamentaschen, festive activities and friendship with Adat Shalom, B’nai Moshe, and B’nai Israel, we’ll celebrate Purim together, as a community. Morning Megillah reading and breakfast on March 24 will be at B’nai Moshe. Watch the Jewish News and synagogue communications for more information. 8 Minyan Matters Message from the President Dear Friends, We should be proud of our synagogue’s continued commitment to daily morning and evening minyanim. Approximately one hundred individuals attend one or more services each week. While the makeup of those attending changes over time as new mourners begin their periods of mourning and others complete theirs, there is a continuous need for new participants to get involved. As we enter the winter months when regular participants scatter to warmer climates, the need is even greater. What better time for you to get involved! I encourage you to join our minyan team as a regular attendee (e.g. one morning or evening a week) or on an on-call basis. Most morning minyanim run 35-40 minutes while evenings run 15-20 minutes. If you join us, you will be doing a mitzvah, feel a sense of community and know that you are helping to continue an important Jewish tradition. Heartfelt thanks to everyone who has been part of Kehillat Yom Yom / Daily Minyan at Beth Ahm since we launched our Minyan Matters project in the spring of 2006. It has been a great honor to work with so many dedicated volunteers and to get to know all of you wonderful people as together we built a strong, vibrant davening community. The Beth Ahm minyan is in very capable hands with our new coordinator Rick Emmer. I know that everyone will continue to give minyan your participation and support! To volunteer or for more information, please call or email me. Remember, it’s not how often one comes to minyan but that one makes the commitment. KOL HA KAVOD! B’yedidut / In friendship, Nancy I wish you and your family a Healthy and Happy New Year! Rick Emmer 248-660-4071 minyan@cbahm.org Shabbat Times Candlelighting Shabbat ends January 1 - 4:52 p.m. January 2 - 5:59 p.m. January 8 - 4:59 p.m. January 9 - 6:05 p.m. January 15 - 5:07 p.m. January 16 - 6:13 p.m. January 22 - 5:15 p.m. January 23 - 6:20 p.m. January 29 - 5:24 p.m. January 30 - 6:29 p.m. February 5 - 5:33 p.m. February 6 - 6:37 p.m. February 12 - 5:43 p.m. February 13 - 6:46 p.m. February 19 - 5:52 p.m. February 20 - 6:54 p.m. February 26 - 6:00 p.m February 27 - 7:03 p.m. March 4 - 6:09 p.m. March 5 - 7:11 p.m. March 11 - 6:17 p.m. March 12 - 7:19 p.m. March 18 - 7:26 p.m. March 19 - 8:28 p.m. March 25 - 7:34 p.m. March 26 - 8:36 p.m. Service Times Daily Minyan Monday – Thursday: 7 a.m. & 7 p.m. Friday: 7 a.m. & 6 p.m. Sunday & Major Legal Holidays: 9 a.m. & 5 p.m. * Weekday morning minyan starts at 6:45 a.m. on Rosh Hodesh (Monday, January 11, Tuesday, February 9, Wednesday, February 10, Thursday, March 10, and Friday, March 11) Shabbat Services Kabbalat Shabbat & Ma’ariv – Friday 6 p.m. Shabbat Morning – Saturday 9:30 a.m. Shabbat MinhaJanuary & February Minha 1:00 p.m. March Minha 4:30 p.m. 9 Calendar of Events Jewish Community Center of Metropolitan Detroit D. Dan & Betty Kahn Building • 6600 W. Maple Rd. West Bloomfield, MI • 48322 • 248.432.5579 Exploring the Figure A collection of Detroit artists celebrating the human figure Sunday, January 10 – Thursday, February 18 Opening Reception: Sunday, January 10, 1-4 p.m. Beautiful, expansive and relatable, the figure is often the most relevant means of sharing conceptual ideas. In this exhibit, artists challenge our perception of this traditional art form and bring a new understanding of what it is to be human. Featured Artists: John Hegarty Bruce Giffin Deborah Marlowe Kashdan Bowen Kline Camille LaMontagne Niagara Tony Roko Slaw Michelle Tanguay Paula Zammit In the Side Gallery Nathan Tonning: Starting Over Sunday, March 13-Thursday, April 21 Opening Reception: Sunday, March 13 1-4 p.m. Modest notions of storage and use are addressed through ceramic vessels, found objects, and constructed environments. Building upon humor, and language, Starting Over is an examination of the punctuations of life, history, and process as it relates to clay as an ever-present technology. The Janice Charach Gallery is open from 12 p.m. - 4 p.m. on Sundays. For information, call the gallery at 248-432-5448, go to www.jccdet.org or visit the Janice Charach Gallery on Facebook. 7 9 10 11 12 15 18 21 23 24 25 29 30 31 1 6 8 11 19 22 27 28 29 The Gallery is open to the general public at no admission. 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Now that I’ve read it, it seems to me a truly important book. While I think that Dr. Gawande’s book is wonderfully written and engaging, and that it has many insights about the way our society deals with the realities of aging, medical care, nursing care, hospice (and other issues as well), I believe that Being Mortal is important because it repeatedly calls on us to ask questions. Dr. Gawande brings wonderful stories of how individuals, families, and institutions deal with the challenges of disease and aging. He repeatedly shows his readers how important it is for individuals to ask themselves (or be asked) questions about what they want their life to be like when illness, disease, or injury derails their life plans. By asking questions, individuals are given the opportunity to make important choices about continuing/ending treatment, about where and how they will live, and what kind of treatment they would like done when they can no longer make these choices. This is difficult ground to cover. What makes Dr. Gawande’s book uplifting rather than depressing, is that he shows that having these conversations and making these choices create comfort and relief for individuals and for families in situations where one might assume that few choices remain, and little comfort is available. Rather than a book report, this article is a call to our congregation. We have not had many opportunities to tackle this issue, and to the extent that we have, we have not done it in a sustained way. Perhaps the time is right for us to help each other have these discussions or at least prepare ourselves for these discussions. These are conversations that are applicable to all of us because we are all mortal. You don’t need to be in an advanced stage of illness to want to explore ideas and your own feelings surrounding illness and dying. So, consider this an invitation to discussion. If you would be interested in shaping and/or participating in conversations like this, please let me know. Rabbi Steven Rubenstein 248-851-6880 ext. 17 ravsteven@cbahm.org Rabbi Rubenstein is sending out a call for those who would like to read Torah or a haftarah in the coming months. There are many opportunities for those who would like to read. He is happy to provide you with materials (and encouragement!). You can contact Rabbi Rubenstein directly at ravsteven@cbahm.org or by calling the synagogue office. Young Adult Dinner, Drinks and Havdalah Saturday, January 23 at 7:00 p.m. Young adults (22-40) are invited to join us for Havdalah, food, and drink. Hosted at the home of Illana and Noah Stern, 6851 East Knollwood in West Bloomfield. No cost to attend, but advanced registration is requested. RSVP to Rabbi Rubenstein at ravsteven@cbahm.org “Do Jews Have Horns?” and Other Awkward Questions A Conversation For High Schoolers January 7 at 7:30 p.m. in the Teen Lounge We are fortunate to live in a multi-cultural society where Jews can be Jews in whatever way they’d like. Still, since not everyone knows what it means to be Jewish, you may be asked questions which seem awkward or even insensitive. How should you respond? Join Rabbi Rubenstein for an open conversation about being Jewish in America today and what it means to find a comfortable way to field uncomfortable questions. Hot chocolate and snacks will be served. All welcome! Please RSVP to Rabbi Rubenstein at ravsteven@cbahm.org Save the Date First Night Seder Friday, April 22 Join Rabbi Rubenstein to recall the story of our freedom with family and friends. Special activities for the kids. Dietary laws observed. Seder details including registration information will be available in March. 11 Birthdays & Anniversaries January Birthdays 1 1 1 3 3 4 5 6 7 8 8 9 10 10 11 11 12 12 13 13 13 14 14 15 15 16 16 16 Madison Avery Ben Susan Fishman Lisa Papsin Eden Adler Marvin Kramer Eitan Giske Joshua Bernard Polina Stryk Arthur Smith Andrew Baskin Daniel Stryk Adam Brode Alexis Darmon Beth Nadis Julie Cohen Noah Geller David Eisenberg Arthur Lebedinski Vivian Friedman Samuel Kepes Andrew Langberg Richie Berg Kate Kurzmann David Kurzmann Bella Papsin Isabel Jacobson Hershel Sandberg Janice Traison 17 17 17 17 18 18 19 19 20 20 21 21 21 22 22 22 23 23 24 24 24 24 24 25 25 25 26 26 Eric Edelstein Bea Mondry Jeri Rope Helen Shapiro Jason Tamaroff Elisa Zabel Donna Farber Isabella Rosenberg Marilyn Fishman Marla Schmitz Susan Feber Anna Nedelman Alesa Silver Matthew Papsin Wendy Robins Beverly Sabbath Jack Beavers Arthur Gaba Maurice Davidson David Elkus Laurenne Kaufman Steven Shapiro Michael Stryk Kasondra Brittingham Robin Lewis Chloe Weisberg Masada Lakind Dorothy Last 27 28 28 28 29 29 29 30 30 30 30 31 31 Rachel Geller Alexa Lepsetz Francine Levine Casie Menuck Rachel Belsky Rona Rones Sandra Tamaroff Meredith Ben Karen Frehsee Maximilian Goodman Deborah Rubyan Jacob Ben Blake Ribiat March Birthdays 1 2 2 3 3 4 4 5 6 6 7 7 8 10 10 11 11 11 11 11 12 12 13 13 13 14 14 15 15 15 15 16 17 17 18 19 19 19 20 12 Ethan Weinfeld Eleanor Fradis Mark Wolf Rachel Israel James Sondheimer Martin Darvick Monica Rosen Noah Singman Mitchell Adler Danielle Jacobson Alvin Kwaselow Phoebe Mainster Luke Zeff Owen Farber Ellery Gnesin Jeffrey Leventhal Adam Riemer Margie Shapiro Lillian Soble Claire Tamaroff Annise Goodman Leo Weiss Howard Frehsee Anna Glik Karen Stryk Aden Cetner Peter LeWitt Helen Indianer Jeremy Kahan Asher Schreiber Shari Smith Marc Shindler Susan Poellet Harvey Zalesin Jordan Weinfeld Joshua Berg Marvin Kief Lindsey Lampear Douglas Woll 24 24 24 24 25 25 26 26 26 26 27 27 28 28 28 29 30 31 31 31 31 Robert Fidler Evan Shapiro Steven Stryk Elan Tamaroff Chris Gray Sidney Neuman Jeffrey Blackman Hillel Chudnow Rachel Kahan Donald Kirsch Jeffrey Adler Jeffrey Stilman Natalie Charach Paul Darmon Lawrence Shook Nancy Aal Adrian Elfersy Brandon Fishman Ariel Golnick Caleb Nusbaum Asher Steingold February Birthdays 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 2 3 4 4 5 5 5 6 6 7 8 8 8 9 9 9 10 10 10 11 12 12 12 13 13 13 14 14 Leslie Baron Laura Ellenbogen Alex Goldis Rita Levin Miles Menuck Chava Adler Adam Gnesin Allison Levick Ruth Moltz Benjamin Harvey Jeffrey Sondheimer Faye Braverman Justin Brittingham Daniel Zalesin Shirley Cykiert Joel Mazur Amanda Farber William Goodman Jill Menuck Florence Schreier Peter Harvey Jan Rubinstein Strul User Frances Fetter Marian Guttman Nadav Pais-Greenapple Jason Golnick Andrea Jacobson David Newman Daniel Shapiro Erica Gray Nancy Jacobson Deborah Warsh Moshe Koren Charlene Kott 14 14 15 15 15 15 16 18 19 19 19 20 20 20 20 21 21 22 23 23 24 24 24 26 26 26 26 26 27 27 28 28 28 Robert Levine Suzanne Sondheimer Emma Mientkiewicz Adam Shindler Paige Stearn Jason Weintraub Burton Applebaum Barbara Stryk Karen Davidson Chloe Gray Betty Klein Ainsley Hornung Sadie Schlaff Kerstyn Zalesin Sara Zwickl Amy Brode Sam Langberg Renee Nadiv Drew Edelstein Sarah Wolf Jodi Cranis Lisa Rothberger Audrey Sondheimer Samantha Darmon Ron Gaba Dina Kawer Alexander Lebedinski Lawrence Traison Joseph Jacobson Harry Tuchklaper Ilana Adler Leon Salomon Oliver Soble January Anniversaries 14 14 14 16 18 22 24 25 Elliot & Ronni Baum 5th Edward & Millie Rosenbaum 45th Jeffrey & Erin Stilman Roland & Venera Collins Steven & Kimberly Siegler Michael & Rachel Geller 5th Wallace & Sylvia Kinzer Edward & Betty Klein 27 Burton & Phyllis Applebaum 27 Arthur & Dolores Smith 29 Jeffrey & Nancy Adler February Anniversaries 2 2 2 4 7 10 Steven & Lisa Chaben Gene & Sherri Goodman Steven & Cara Schafer Howard & Lili Brode Ed & Julie Hersch Donald & Zita Kirsch 14 16 20 Sheldon & Florence Dulberg Andrew & Elissa Sternberg Adrian & Majorie Elfersy March Anniversaries 2 3 11 11 14 17 Mark & Theresa Migdal 30th Michael Rubin & Sidney Simonian Jarod & Amber Fischer Robert & Toby Kleinberg Alex & Cheryl Goldis David & Susan Feber 20th 18 18 25 28 Dennis & Anita Blender Jeffrey & Nancy Weinfeld Bernard & Florence Schreier 65th David & Terry Kahan Tributes Aliyah Fund Max & Mali Blum Sidney & Bee Kalt Henry Rubin Donation by: Senior Shut-in Fund Israel Scholarship Fund By: Elayne & Barry Moss In Memory of: Gladys Allen Barbara Cohen Reta & Bernie Sigal In Memory of: Maxine & Stephen Shoskes Ida Kurland Bee Kalt Ilene & Henry Rubin By: Pauline & Werner Seiferheld By: Steven R. Kalt Manny & Nancy Kalef Claude Superstine Morris Kurland Joseph Fetter By: Pauline & Werner Seiferheld By: Steven Kalt & Robert Heeren on Rosh Hashanah Heinz Seiferheld Esther Kawer Esther Kawer Minyan By: Noel Lawson By: Pauline & Werner Seiferheld Minyan Breakfast Fund Breakfast Fund Sponsors Donation by: In Memory of: Our ark opening Stuart J. Bricker Library Shelf Fund Laraine & Larry Deutsch Barbara Vine, Mother By: Lili & Howard Brode In Memory of: Seymore Resnick By: Sandy Vine-Sirlin In Honor of: Dina Superstine, Mother Nancy Kaplan By: Sharon Klein In Honor of: My maftir Aliyah By: Sharon Klein Thank You to our recent Marion Cohen My Aliyah By: Alfred D. Bricker By: Ruth Moltz Joel Shapiro My Aliyah Rose Neuman, Wife By: Lillian & Al Bricker By: Paul Darmon Itamar Moltz’s Bar Mitzvah By: Margot Efros Get Well Wishes to: By: Sidney Neuman Joseph Fetter Rick Emmer By: Lillian & Al Bricker By: Gladys Allen Louis Tamaroff, Father Elayne & Barry Moss By: Marvin Tamaroff In Memory of: Lee Rothstein, Mother Ronald Urbach By: Larry, Jay and Stuart Rothstein By: The Giske Family Harry Bricker In Memory of: By: Lillian & Al Bricker Stanford Gittleman By: Ilene Gittleman Fannie Bricker By: Dorothy & Hershel Sandberg Otilia Rosenthal, Mother By: Lillian & Al Bricker Helen Silverman By: Anita Zalesin Marvin Dubrinsky Jack Shenkman Rose Wiesenberg, Mother By: Lillian & Al Bricker Esther Sperber By: Bill Sperber Frances Warsh Henry Rubin Jean Brookenthal, Mother Fern “Fritzi” Rott In Memory of: Get Well Wishes to: Candy Davidson Joel Shapiro By: Toby & Rob Kleinberg By: Lillian & Al Bricker Clara & Irvin Charach, Parents Lena Dinnerstein Rose & Joseph Abraham Miller, By: Raye Dinnerstein Parents In Honor of: By: Toby & Rob Kleinberg Marv Tamaroff’s 90th Birthday Mildred (Mille) Chad By: Lillian & Al Bricker By: Jean Blau Walter & Shirley Cykiert Fund Meyer Millman Donation by: By: Margi & Morry Opperer By: Natalie & Manny Charach Monique Adelski Henry Rubin By: Paul (Bella) Brookenthal By: Dr. Linda Bolton & Sid Blackman Abraham Kleinberg By: Toby & Rob Kleinberg By: Claire (Marvin) Tamaroff By: Raye Dinnerstein By: Lillian & Al Bricker Beth Ahm Endowment Fund By: Miriam (Isac) User By: Adele Silver Rebekka Bunina, Mother By: Olga (Lev Lilov) Makar-Limanov Stuart Cykiert Lottie Salzman, Mother By: Dolores (Leonard) Farber Helen Schlachter Fitlow By: Toby & Rob Kleinberg In Memory of: Thank You to: Fern “Fritzi” Rott Bob Levine By: Stuart Cykiert By: Belle Hornung By: Marsha Lynn By: Hershel (Dorothy) Sandberg Max Schlachter By: Marsha Lynn Mildred (Mille) Chad Rebecca Sandberg, Mother Esther Sperber, Wife By: Bill Sperber By: Shirley Cykiert 13 Tributes Regina and Walter Litt Stella Skolnik’s Bat Mitzvah Ronald Urbach Julia Klein’s Bat Mitzvah Jewish Music Fund By: Bruce Skolnik & Michele Friend By: Nancy & Manny Kalef By: Mr. & Mrs. Stanley Frankel Beverly Fradis In Memory of: Candy Davidson Itamar Moltz’s Bar Mitzvah Eleanor Fradis Henry Rubin By: Nancy & Manny Kalef By: Emery Weiss Karen & Maurice Davidson By: Florence Schon Donation by: Malka Littman & Nahman Littman Bea Weinstein Henry Rubin Harry & Belle Ribiat Garden Fund By: Diane & Al Sasson Nancy Kaplan Nadis Family Fund In Honor of: Adele Silver By: Ila & Les Schonberg In Memory of: The birth of grandson Nancy & Manny Kalef Staci Giske and Family Lee Applebaum Ezra Michael Schwartz By: Sara & Maxwell Nadis to Jody & Rich Grossman Synagogue Fund By: Roz Winer Donation by: Willie Opperer Fund Cathy & Rene Lichtman Linda & Steve Jacobson Irene Slobin My Aliyah By: Jack Shankman In Memory of: In Memory of: Garry Parker Bruce Karp Gayle Rothenberg Susan Sills-Levey & Michael Levey By: Margi Karp Opperer By: Risha Ring, Nanette & Jason Gold Flo & Don Nitzkin’s and Morry Opperer Jared, Lisa and Amy Rothberger Harold Strom 60th Wedding Anniversary Gerald Naftaly By: Marcia & Ed Kersch In Honor of: Henry Rubin Jason Weintraub Rose Shoskes’ new home By: Risha Ring Richard Wolk Samantha Erin Rosen In Honor of: Our Home Our Future Youth Programming Fund Ilene & Henry Rubin’s Susan Rose In Honor of: In Memory of: 65 Wedding Anniversary By: Isaac Smith Ilene & Henry Rubin’s Sam Kaufer and special birthdays 65th Wedding Anniversary By: Helen & Sy Indianer By: Nancy Aal Rabbi Dorit Edut Anita & Harvey Zalesin By: Isaac Smith By: Margi & Morry Opperer David Goodman By: Henry Dodge and special birthdays By: Mr. & Mrs. Dennis Schwartz Joseph & Yetta Schlaff Pearl Dubin and Family Memorial Fund th Connie, Hal, Blair & Lindsey Schwartz Isabel Jacobson’s Bat Mitzvah In Memory of: The birth of grandson Get Well Wishes to: Joel Shapiro Ezra Michael Schwartz Edward Klein By: Bea Mondry to Jody & Rich Grossman Get Well Wishes to: By: Lois & Mark Langberg Rick Emmer Flo & Don Nitzkin By: Debi & Steve King By: Risha Ring In Honor of: Prayer Book Fund Clare Chait’s birthday In Honor of: By: Bea Mondry Elayne & Barry Moss’ By: Anita & Harvey Zalesin Linda & Sid Blackman The Bar Mitzvah of Warren Tessler’s grandson Jeff Silver Wedding Anniversary Shabbat Kiddush Fund Jonah Zisholtz By: Anita & Harvey Zalesin By: Marsha Barnett & Adrian Holmes In Honor of: By: Anita & Harvey Zalesin Nancy & Ira Goldberg Helen & Jack Berke Rabbi Rubenstein Ellen Schwartz By: Nancy & Manny Kalef Janet & Herb Pont The marriage of Anna & Len Stein Daniel Warsh to Ryan Garber Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund David Goodman Donation by: By: Nancy & Manny Kalef Cherie Lyons Guttman Herschel Wander In Honor of: By: Helene & Leslie Kohn By: Martin & Susan Rose Sharon Lampear Nancy & Jerry Reed Get Well Wishes to: being named Kallat Torah Marilynn & Rick Emmer Rick Emmer By: Ruthellen & Bob Singer Debi & Steve King The marriage of Etta Zivian By: Cathy & Rene Lichtman By: Nancy & Manny Kalef Rabbi Rubenstein By: Philip Elkus In Memory of: Ryan Cykiert to Stephanie Davis Debi & Steve King Esther Kalef By: Candy & David Cuttner By: Nancy & Manny Kalef 14 Linda Bolton Blackman Ed Klein By: Dolores & Leonard Farber Tributes Illene Wenner Linda & Steve Jacobson Beth Rich Joel Shapiro By: Tena Bobrin Barry & Betty Lou Barry Sandy & Jerry Helman By: Jane & Chuck Kessler Shelley & Joel Tauber Marisa, Gary, Shyah Joan & Neil Satovsky and Masada LaKind Alan Malbin Diana & Alex Kovnat By: Melissa Broadman In Memory of: Sharon Bergman By: Linda & Ron Jedwab Michael Kent By: Marilyn & Michael Rice Ronald Urbach By: Zita & Don Kirsch Joseph Fetter Aenetta & Gerald Fischer By: Linda & Sid Blackman Anita & Harvey Zalesin Henry Rubin Dolores & Leonard Farber Jean Blau By: Margo & Doug Woll Beck & Gary Sakwa Jennifer Lanxner Charlotte Dubin Yahrzeit Fund By: Marilyn & Michael Rice and Family Debi & Steve King In Memory of: Marilyn & Jerry Soble Dora Galer Sylvia & Wallace Kinzer By: Shirley Cykiert Helena Lebovic Sarah Gross By: Gail Lebovic By: Goldie Topper Thank You to: Else & Siegfried Siegler Helene & Leslie Kohn Sylvia Kasoff Tom Barth By: Charlotte Jonap & Henry Dodge Carol Frank and Nancy Frank Robert Stillman Rev. Joseph Mermelstein By: Marilyn & Michael Rice, By: Hannah Garton and Family Meredith Ben and Family Sandy & Jim Danto and Family Meyer Arbit By: Flo & Don Nitzkin Mrs. Pat Spadafore’s good friend Glen Rabbi Steven & Robin Rubenstein Eleanor Peltz By: Larry Shook TOSAT Fund Dr. Easton Brodsky In Honor of: By: Larry Shook The birth of grandson Ezra Michael Schwartz Murray Gittleman to Jody & Rich Grossman By: Marilyn & Michael Rice and Family By: Debi & Steve King By: Marion & Richard Menczer Muriel Kushner Ilene & Henry Rubin’s Flo & Don Nitzkin By: Flo & Don Nitzkin 65th Wedding Anniversary Alex Rubin Henry Rubin By: Nancy Aal By: Joanne & Michael Bellet By: Marilyn Rice Mildred (Mille) Chad By: Anna Nedelman By: The Flinks and special birthdays Harry Jacobson By: Zita & Don Kirsch Abraham Liber By: Vivian Friedman Carl Levy By: Hilde Dreifus Merle R. Silverman By: Selma Silverman By: Laurie & Danny Dubin Gail Silverman Cohen and Family Eugene Ketchel Marsha Lynn In Memory of: Candy Davidson Dorothy & Hershel Sandberg Harry Levine By: Sari & Jeffrey Weiss Margot Efros By: Marsha Lynn Linda & Ron Jedwab Maxine Berman Marcy, Daniel, Scott and Ruth & Alvin Kwaselow Henry Rubin Rachel Wasserman Marilyn & Michael Rice and Family By: Cherie Warsaw Cheryl & Paul Darmon Laila Azzouz Heidi Coffman Marc, Erin and Michelle Betman Lone Pine Villas Condos Chuck, Laura, Marissa Edith Wyman Judy Vine and Danielle Goldston By: Carol Wyman Lawrence Terebelo By: Gail Baron Rivka Salomon Chava Salomon By: Esther & Leon Salomon Joel Shapiro Marilynn & Richard Emmer By: Ada & Howard Yerman, Bylaina & Robert Lavine Louis & Fay Woll Albert, Claire and Ellie Flo & Don Nitzkin Memorial Bible Garden Fund Sandra & Richard Luboviski Jody & Rich Grossman In Honor of: and Family Libby Newman Margo & Doug Woll Fern “Fritzi” Rott Marilyn & Michael Rice and Family Bonnie, Henri & Steven Medwed By: Debbie and Brett Malbin By: Lois & Mark Langberg Linda & Sid Blackman Etta Zivian Dolores & Leonard Farber Andrea & Ely Tama In Memory of: Sharon & Shel Rocklin David Dunn Doris Halprin Jordan & Jason Light Ileene Zate Linda & Sid Blackman By: Anita & Bob Naftaly Ellyn & Marc Weiss Roz Winer Harry Rosenbaum Judy & Irwin Elson Tessa Goldberg By: Ira Rosenbaum By: Marc Terebelo By: Barbara Katzman 15 Tributes Sara Haar Joe Fetter Louis Browarny Merle R. Silverman By: Hannah Garton By: Dora Ackerman By: Goldie Topper By: Gail Silverman Cohen and The Freedmans Esther Auster By: Deede & Miles Auster and Family Mose Topper William Auster By: Goldie Topper By: Deede & Miles Auster Harriet Goldberg By: Steven Goldberg By: Anna Glik & Boris Drigant Otto Kaufman Joseph Fradis By: Minna Kaufman Eleanor Fradis By: Nety & Carl User Mary & Paul Rafales Lil & Jess Stearn By: Beverly Fradis Iacov Yanai Family members Sylvia Nedelman Richard Stearn By: Anna Nedelman By: Nita & Allyn Stearn Alma Levy Mother – Lottie Salzman By: Hilde Dreifus Father – Samson Salzman Liezer Leib Iancovici Morton Moltz By: Nety User Eva & Irving Lang By: Ruth Moltz Alan Schreier By: Phyllis & Burton Applebaum Sarah Zalesin By: Harvey Zalesin By: Merle Leserman Andrea Kalef-Brass By: Nancy & Manny Kalef Harry Goldberg By: Madeline Rosenfield By: Flo & Don Nitzkin Ronald Urbach By: Audrey & Jack Sobel By: Audrey & Jack Sobel In Memory of: My parents, sister and brothers Esther Sperber Mother – Lottie Salzman Father – Samson Salzman By: Kayla & Rob Stein By: Dolores Farber Bernard Iancovici Mother – Sadie Farber Weinstock By: Nety User Father – Samuel Farber Sister – Florence Tucker Eva Rubin Simonne Stern The Ruth Mermelstein Kitchen Fund By: Nancy Aal In Memory of: Henry Rubin Pesia Wecker By: Morrie, Karen and Joel Davidson By: Evelyn Wecker Freeman Illene Wenner and Fanny Yarzig By: Lisa & Michael Wais Nathan Bobroff Leonard Efros Shari & Craig Morgan In Honor of: Beverly Fradis Nancy Kaplan Eleanor Fradis By: Ruth & Alvin Kwaselow By: Margot Efros Anna Stein Get Well to: Yom Kippur Yizkor Harvey Schulist Lottie Salzman In Memory of: By: Karen & Morrie Davidson By: Dolores Farber Hermina & Benny Friedman Helen Silverman By: Anita Zalesin By: Jack Friedman Martha Nitzkin By: Rochelle Shindler Illene Wenner By: Morrie, Karen and Joel Davidson Our family By: Rena & Dave Kresch 16 By: Leonard Farber Hilde Frank Ruth Waserman By: Nancy & Ira Goldberg By: Amy, Peter and Benjamin Harvey By: Jack Friedman Henry Rubin Simon Eudovich Lewis G. Hyams By: Linda Schmier Shemini Atzeret Yizkor By: Carol Wyman By: Charlene Edelman By: Cherie Kohl-Warsaw By: Cathy Lichtman Irving Wyman Cecile Bass Alice Eudovich By: Charlotte Dubin By: Leonard Farber Barrow Bass Ilene Cohen By: Cherie Kohl-Warsaw Sister – Florence Tucker By: Lawrence Benton Ann Selig Keith A. Feldman By: Irvin Kessler Charlotte Cohen By: Bill Sperber By: Marlene Moss By: Robert R. Feldman Father – Samuel Farber Mariette Moscovici By: Manuela User By: Cathy & Rene Lichtman Mother – Sadie Farber Weinstock Al Tobin Barbara Glinski By: Les Baron By: Dolores Farber Morris Kurland Yahrzeits–In Loving Memory Sponsored by the Beth Abraham Cemetery Association, serving our congregation since 1912. *Denotes a plaque in the Kahan Memorial room January 2016 - Tevet/Shevat 5776 1/1/2016 (20 Tevet) Nellie Chad*, Ela Dzodin, Max Feit*, David Klein*, Rebecca Lieberman*, Laurence Larry Ribiat, Dora Saulles*, Ellis Sheplow, Pearl Zeltzer* 1/2/2016 (21 Tevet) Sonia Abramson, Hyman Berke*, Asco Dosu, Jennie Fishel*, Helena Lebovic*, Bernardo Luchtan, Dorothy Reisner*, Mae Robins, Harry Rosen*, Rose Silverman, Fannie Tartof* 1/3/2016 (22 Tevet) Mayer Adler*, Mehir Kahan, Zelda Markzon*, Elsie Robert, Karen Sicherman*, Jacob Wapner*, Bertha Weisner* 1/4/2016 (23 Tevet) Harry Horowitz*, Rae Katz*, Rose Kaufman*, Rochel Leah Klar*, Anna Silver* 1/5/2016 (24 Tevet) Miriam Gordner, Jack Kahan*, Neil Kalef*, Hugh Warsh* 1/6/2016 (25 Tevet) Michael Haron*, Bessie Rothenberg*, Blima Saltzman*, Charlotte Tessler 1/7/2016 (26 Tevet) Clara Charach*, Seliag Davidson*, Howard Guttman, Mina Kresch, Isaac Harry Newman*, Ruth Shapiro, Elliot Spiller 1/8/2016 (27 Tevet) Sophie Berman*, Harry A. Levy*, Toby Rope, Lillian Schon*, Kate Strassburger* 1/9/2016 (28 Tevet) Janet Bloch*, Shimon Goldis, Milton Irwin Kushnir*, Hilda Lacs*, Nathan Landgarten, Helen Mandell*, Ann Mitteldorf*, Helen Siegel Music*, Jacob Rothbart*, Isadore Shanbrom* 1/10/2016 (29 Tevet) Albert Layne, Harold Allen Rieger*, Joseph Sabbath, Vivian Seiferheld*, Kenneth Soble*, Gordon Warsaw 1/11/2016 (1 Shevat) Afia Awjio, Margareta Doiny*, Edith Kirschner, Harry Saferstein*, Richard Stearn* 1/12/2016 (2 Shevat) Malli Blum*, David Braverman*, Rebecca Freidgood*, Charles Kalt*, Solomon Stone, Molly Rappoport Surowitz*, Chayem Thurswell*, Morris Weiner* 1/13/2016 (3 Shevat) Samuel I. Bernstein*, Mary Levine, Avrum Moscovici, Alfred H. Schulist*, Sam Warsh* 1/14/2016 (4 Shevat) Rose Bakst*, Rhoda Wolberg Hochwald*, Maurice Lahr*, Eugenia Gusta Pokart*, Bertha Rubin, Beatrice Stein, Benjamin Sweet 1/15/2016 (5 Shevat) Moritz Bacharach*, Meyer Cohn*, Ann Dembs*, Morris Eder*, Morris Gerston*, Ravella Ratner*, Len Wanetik 1/16/2016 (6 Shevat) Herman Curtis*, Rose Lubin, Meyer Nitzkin*, Louis Opperer, Nathan Potach*, Richard Rader*, Rose Zakon* 1/17/2016 (7 Shevat) Edward (Ted) Allen*, Sidney Cohen*, David Finkelstein*, Sam Z. Hirschman*, Mina Inowlocki*, Sarah Jaffie*, Esser Korman, Molly Linder, Abraham Moses*, Brinnie Rubin* 1/18/2016 (8 Shevat) Morris Kief, Ann Kleinstein, Albert Kurzmann, Morey Patrick 1/19/2016 (9 Shevat) Ruth Baker, Clara Kurtzman, Ethel Mogill*, Mary Rosenzweig* 1/20/2016 (10 Shevat) Earl Israel Davidson*, Peter Zucca* 1/21/2016 (11 Shevat) Fred Baum, David Davidson, Jacob Dubrinsky*, Sol Goodman*, Anna Lasser*, Celia Margolis* 1/22/2016 (12 Shevat) George Berk, Shirley Utchenik 1/23/2016 (13 Shevat) Jack Cranis*, Abraham Leib Lilov, Jean Schechter, Joseph Leon Schechter, Yetta Schlaff, Milton Stein 1/24/2016 (14 Shevat) Maurice Curtis*, Joseph Kreekun, Harold Levin, Leibe Nitzkin*, Max Rosenberg*, Morris Silver, Vicki Lynn Utchenik 1/25/2016 (15 Shevat) Samuel Brodie*, Saul Golden*, Yetta Grunt*, Flora Levy*, Nettie Ring*, Mollie Rothenburg*, Esther H. Sussan* 1/26/2016 (16 Shevat) Goldie Berkowitz*, Anna Blazofsky, Henry Greenbaum*, Max Strassburger*, Samuel Weller*, Sadye Zucca* 1/27/2016 (17 Shevat) Jack Brecher*, Henrietta Hopfeld*, Sam Isaacs, Morris Rabinovitz*, Jacob Siegal*, Esther Stasofsky* 1/28/2016 (18 Shevat) Ben M. Brown*, William Darmon*, Joseph Lazarus*, Harry Left*, Morris Mohr* 1/29/2016 (19 Shevat) Bella Band*, Herman Doiny*, Katie Goldberg, Hilde Hurtig*, Jack Roberts*, Zina Sass*, Jac Spalter* 1/30/2016 (20 Shevat) Jerome Bennett Bernstein*, Dean Fine, Emily Schneider Greenapple*, Marcu Markowitz*, Sarah Revzin, Donald Samuels*, Lily Sell*, David Server*, Max Shiovitz*, Rhoda Sobel 1/31/2016 (21 Shevat) Dezso Biel, Louis Block*, Isabelle Finstein*, Max Friedman*, Phyllis Gilman*, Karen Lynn Gorge*, Harry Katzman*, Goldie Orechkin*, Edward Joseph Slater 17 Yahrzeits–In Loving Memory Sponsored by the Beth Abraham Cemetery Association, serving our congregation since 1912. *Denotes a plaque in the Kahan Memorial room February 2016 - Shevat/Adar I 5776 2/1/2016 (22 Shevat) Celia Antman*, Morris Galer, Jean Gittleman, Charles Rader, Mollie Ring*, Rudolph Robert*, Arthur Warsaw 2/2/2016 (23 Shevat) Morris Indianer*, Shirley Kaner*, Joseph Kukes*, Morris Rosner*, Boris Rozenfeld, Rose Schreibman* 2/3/2016 (24 Shevat) Gordon Abel, Phyllis Berman Damraur*, Andrew Friedman, Eleanor S. Manela, Beckie Metzger*, Marion Schulman*, Jess Stearn, Maurice Stern*, Edna Weinberg* 2/4/2016 (25 Shevat) Nori Geffen Braude, Seema Fischel, Hyman Grossman*, Fay Halem*, Harold Leonard Lupiloff*, Harry Ribiat*, Ida Schwartz, Anna Tamaroff*, Jonas Weiss, Lajosne Wiesner 2/5/2016 (26 Shevat) Meyer Blackman*, Yakov Kaushanskiy, Rachel Pucsyc*, Fannie Yaker* 2/6/2016 (27 Shevat) Lawrence Emmer*, Al Finstein*, Sally Ann Shiovitz Jackson, Chaye Dina Kawer*, Esther Kawer*, Hersch Leib Kawer*, Rochel Grossman Kawer*, Sam Linder, Max Lonnerstater*, Esther Patrick* 2/7/2016 (28 Shevat) David Blender, Morris Kersch, Rose Kinitzer, Irving Lang, Pearl Rose, Rose Sherer* 2/8/2016 (29 Shevat) Roslyn Goldfarb, Eugene Jacob Goodman*, Meyer Sawitz*, Henry Thumin*, Harry Zolkower* 2/9/2016 (30 Shevat) Harold Adler*, Gregory Drigant, Sarah Feistein*, Rachel Kinitzer*, Sylvia Zelma Sachs, Jennie Scheer* 2/10/2016 (1 Adar I) Ann Darmon, Frances Darvick, Saul Kopman, Jack Left* 2/11/2016 (2 Adar I) Sarah Cranis, Samuel David Klein, Morris Rothenberg*, Joseph Schon, Murray Shapiro 2/12/2016 (3 Adar I) Warren Harrison* 2/13/2016 (4 Adar I) Rachel Chusid*, Anne Frank*, Sam Grund*, Babs Kaufman, Ernest Klein, Evelyn Stearn 2/14/2016 (5 Adar I) 2/15/2016 (6 Adar I) Janet Kessler*, Gad Rosenbaum, Harriet Warsh* Harry Schreier, Ann Siegel* 2/16/2016 (7 Adar I) Marcus Adler*, Sadie Betman, Aaron Gertsman*, Yetta Gross, Fannie Luchtan, Herbert Racklin, Sonia Reznik, Selma Sweet, Sarah Opperer Zdanowicz* 2/17/2016 (8 Adar I) Mara Kheyfets, William Naftaly*, Harold Patrick, Manuel Gordon Yaker* 2/18/2016 (9 Adar I) Peggy Cutler, Isaac Korobkin*, Sophie Silverman* 2/19/2016 (10 Adar I) Bertha Hower*, Louis Hower*, Sidney Schlaff 2/20/2016 (11 Adar I) Feivel Schrager Malowany, Nathan Rose, Murray Sabin, Paula Urbach, Ethel Utchenik 2/21/2016 (12 Adar I) Edward Blau, Samuel Burnstine*, Jerry Lynn, Thelma Schulist 2/22/2016 (13 Adar I) Seymour Gross*, Pearl Herskovitz, Toby Mermell, Bernice Storch*, Milton Superstine*, Gertrude Tessler* 2/23/2016 (14 Adar I) Mona Elkin, Philip Freedberg, William Gottlieb*, Rose Kass, Ben Kawer*, Sonia Woll* 2/24/2016 (15 Adar I) David Blau*, Bertha Feldman*, Lillian Gornbein, Sara Zelda Horowitz*, Harry Leaderman*, Rose Levy*, Joseph Abraham Miller*, Rebecca Morros* 2/25/2016 (16 Adar I) Estelle Berkowitz, Sebastian Mainster Dittman, Harry Nedelman 2/26/2016 (17 Adar I) Itzak Ackerman*, Ann Barth, Belle Perlove*, Jacob Sandberg, Josef Sperber 2/27/2016 (18 Adar I) Eli Darvick, Max Krause, Abraham Nusbaum* 2/28/2016 (19 Adar I) Joseph Blau, Lena Rubin, George Silverman*, S. Walter Stern, David Howard Yanowitz 2/29/2016 (20 Adar I) Sarah Cranis*, Belle Curtis*, Alexander Frank*, Sidney Ring*, Gerald Title May their memories endure for a blessing Honor the memory of your loved ones by purchasing a memorial plaque in the Kahan Memorial Room. The purchase of a plaque will ensure that your loved one’s name will be read during the week of their yahrzeit. It is a lasting tribute of your love that links the generations of your family. Plaques are currently $500 each. We hope that you will take advantage of this opportunity to assure your loved ones will be forever remembered at Congregation Beth Ahm. Contact David Goodman at 248-851-6880. 18 Yahrzeits–In Loving Memory Sponsored by the Beth Abraham Cemetery Association, serving our congregation since 1912. *Denotes a plaque in the Kahan Memorial room March 2016 - Adar I/Adar II 5776 3/1/2016 (21 Adar I) Ethel Berman*, David Blazofsky, Manfred Gorge*, Maurice Hoffman*, Robert Adam Katz*, Leopold Kellerman*, Joe Metzger, Adele Sperber 3/2/2016 (22 Adar I) Mary Spalter* 3/3/2016 (23 Adar I) Sidney Kalt*, Alvin Daniel Topper*, Sara Yanowitz 3/4/2016 (24 Adar I) Bertha Friedman* 3/5/2016 (25 Adar I) Sidney Dines*, Ben Perlove* 3/6/2016 (26 Adar I) Anna Dembs*, Nathan Grunt*, Morris Israel, Edie Snyder Layne, Max Newman*, Solomon David Rubin, Mildred Berg Singer, Morris Weinman* 3/7/2016 (27 Adar I) Belle Nadis, Flora Pais 3/8/2016 (28 Adar I) Abram Borak*, Benny Friedman*, Becky Whitman 3/9/2016 (29 Adar I) Arthur Aal*, Visa Iancovici, Ida E. Lieberman*, Bess Manson Goldberg*, Alice Segal, Solomon Stone*, Frances Zucker* 3/11/2016 (1 Adar II) Moscu User* 3/12/2016 (2 Adar II) Freda Freedberg, Irving Haffner 3/14/2016 (4 Adar II) Frieda Citron*, Violet Kreekun 3/15/2016 (5 Adar II) Yehuda Chaim Marcus 3/16/2016 (6 Adar II) Lottie Halperin, Rose Lovinger, Carol Maisels 3/17/2016 (7 Adar II) Dorothea “Dolly” Bourke 3/18/2016 (8 Adar II) Abram Ber Stryk*, Ester User* 3/20/2016 (10 Adar II) Lena Schlussel* 3/21/2016 (11 Adar II) Rose Naftaly*, Sylvia Rothenberg, Joseph Steingold* 3/22/2016 (12 Adar II) Isadore Leib Rosenfeld*, Irving Norman Rubin, Jessie Stone* 3/24/2016 (14 Adar II) Nathan Fink, Abigail Kott 3/25/2016 (15 Adar II) Gertrude Fishman*, Eleanor Federman Greitzer, Sophie Mikon 3/26/2016 (16 Adar II) Max Halperin 3/27/2016 (17 Adar II) Anna Aft We Extend our Condolences to: Lori (Mark) Farber, Halli (Adam) Cohen, Carri (Adam) Riemer and Cody Farber on the passing of their mother and grandmother Fern “Fritzi” Rott. The Family of Mildred (Mille) Chad on her passing. The Family of Joel Shapiro on his passing. Frances Fetter on the passing of her husband Joseph Fetter. Steven (Esther) Davidson and Joshua, Daniel and Arielle Davidson on the passing of their mother and grandmother Candy Davidson. Ilene Rubin on the passing of her husband Henry Rubin. Lili (Dr. Howard) Brode on the passing of her brother Roger Hazan. The Family of Nancy Simon on her passing. Dorothy Last on the passing of her brother Morris Last. 3/28/2016 (18 Adar II) Kraindl Brenner, Bertha Rosenbaum, William Taitelbaum 3/29/2016 (19 Adar II) Walter Cykiert* 3/31/2016 (21 Adar II) Manfred Gorge*, Maurice Ronald Israel The Ruth Mermelstein Kitchen Fund helps with ongoing expenses such as cleaning and appliance maintenance for the Ruth Mermelstein Kitchen. The minimum suggested contribution is $10. Call Beverly Fradis at 248-661-8395 if you would like to make a contribution. Tributes are a great way to mark a special occasion, honor the memory of a loved one, or send good wishes to a friend. Beth Ahm has many tribute funds which support various congregational programs and provide scholarship assistance to members in need. Submit your tributes online at: www.cbahm.org/tributes Please remember to fill out yahrzeit and tribute forms completely. Thank you! Minimum suggested tribute amount is $18. If received after 12/4/15 tributes will appear in the Spring 2016 Bulletin. 19 Congregation Beth Ahm—Winter 2016 Rabbi Steven Rubenstein David Goodman Executive Director Congregation Beth Ahm 2015-2016 Officers Jeff Silver President West Bloomfield, MI 48322 Congregation Beth Ahm (USPS 052-040) is published quarterly by: Congregation Beth Ahm 5075 West Maple Rd. West Bloomfield, MI 48322 5075 West Maple Rd. www.cbahm.org Sandi Tamaroff First Vice President Periodical postage paid at Royal Oak, MI Beth Nadis Second Vice President Subscription rate 50 cents (included with dues) POSTMASTER: Send address changes to: Congregation Beth Ahm 5075 West Maple Rd. West Bloomfield, MI 48322 Maxine Berman Third Vice President Al Sasson Treasurer Staci Giske Recording Secretary Immediate Past President Risha B. Ring 2015-2016 Trustees Jeff Blackman Al Bricker* Amy Brode Aaron Ellenbogen Sandy Glazier Jody Grossman Manny Kalef Chuck Kessler* Debi King Lois Langberg Elayne Moss Jeremy Moss Robert Nusbaum Steve Ribiat Dahlia Schwartz Harvey Schulist Marc Soble David Stryk Jeff Weiss Margo Woll* Mission Statement Congregation Beth Ahm is a conservative synagogue with a belief in a common Jewish heritage, serving the Metropolitan Detroit area with a philosophy of equality of men and women fully participating in religious, cultural, educational, and social activities of the synagogue. Rabbi Emeritus A. Irving Schnipper Pre-planning for future needs makes good sense. Burial plots and perpetual care are available. For more information, please contact Risha Ring 248-763-7929 Emphasis is placed on a close family–like relationship between members working together to provide a community of caring. * Past Presidents Professional Staff Elissa Berg Alison Blau Lisa Gates Nancy Kaplan Professor Howard Lupovitch Linda Wright BETH ABRAHAM CEMETERY In Ferndale on Woodward Avenue Office Information phone 248.851.6880 • fax 248.851.6488 Hours Monday-Thursday 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. • Friday 9 a.m. - 1 p.m. Staff David Goodman-Executive Director • dgoodman@cbahm.org Elissa Berg Education and Programming eberg@cbahm.org Alison Blau Office Coordinator ablau@cbahm.org www.cbahm.org Linda Wright Accounting lwright@cbahm.org