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Vol. 32, No. 10 November 2010 Cheshvan-Kislev 5771 An Affiliate of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte JCRC Annual Fall Lecture Bret Stephens Presents: Talking Peace in the Middle East Thursday, November 18 Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts, 7 PM You’ve seen him on television and all over the paper. His name is a household word among readers of the Wall Street Journal, the New York Times, and local papers nationally and worldwide. His face is a regular on CNN, the BBC, and FOX. And now, the Community Relations Council of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte is proud to welcome Deputy Editorial Page Editor and Principal Columnist on Foreign Affairs for the Wall Street Journal, Bret Stephens, for the 4th Annual JCRC Fall Lecture. Stephens began his career at Commentary magazine and later joined the Journal as an op-ed editor in 1998, where we worked first in New York and later in Brussels. From March 2002 to October 2004 Stephens was editor-in-chief of The Jerusalem Post, a position he assumed at age 28. At the Post, he was responsible for the paper’s news, editorial, electronic and international divisions. He also wrote a weekly column. Stephens is decorated with awards for his journalism and his leadership, including being named a Young Global Leader by the World Economic Forum. He has reported stories from around the world, including Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iraq, Lebanon, Gaza, Bret Stephens Egypt, China, Indonesia, Mexico and South Africa. He has interviewed dozens of world leaders, among them every Israeli Prime Minister since Shimon Peres. Stephens covers the current events in Israel extensively as well as the relationship between Israel and the rest of the world, including the United States. He will bring to us his firsthand experience cover- ing these relationships with Israel and the rest of the world, and will give us his opinion on whether or not peace is a viable option in the near future. For more information or to RSVP, please contact JFGC Director of Community Relations and Israel Affairs Sarah Ferrin at sarah.ferrin@jewishcharlotte.org, 704-944-6751. Y Sam and Berta Kaplan, Diamonds Direct, and David and Penny Lipsitz to be Honored at Chabad 30th Anniversary Event on December 5 On December 5, Lubavitch of North Carolina will celebrate its 30th anniversary with a gala event at the NASCAR Hall of Fame. The honorees have been chosen to reflect the night’s theme of past, present, and future. Each of the honorees is an integral part of the growth and success of Lubavitch of North Carolina. Sam and Berta Kaplan will be awarded with the Founders Award in honor of their extraordinary support during the past 30 years. Receiving the Benefactors Achievement Award for the Arobov family will be Itai Berger, Dovy Klarberg and the team at Diamonds Direct. Dr. David and Penny Lipsitz will be honored with the Talmud Torah Award for their vision and leadership in helping Chabad establish the successful Talmud Torah program at Ohr HaTorah. Also inside .. Charlotte Torah Center starts a new Hebrew school, see page 12. Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center continues its film series, see page 18. Sandra and Leon Levine endow the Levine Cancer Institute as part of the Carolinas Healthcare System, see page 24. David and Penny Lipsitz The event promises to be a joyous night filled with food, music, entertainment, and of course thanksgiving for all of the support Lubavitch of North Carolina has received from the honorees and the entire community. The hors d’oeuvres and artful desserts will be accompanied by live Chanukah music and the lighting of a huge Menorah at the entrance of the hall. Renowned performer and mentalist, Guy Bavli, will astonish the audience Sam and Berta Kaplan with his mesmerizing performance that will put them in touch with their “Sixth Sense.” His performance and the award presentation will be in NASCAR’s state-of-theart theater. A multimedia presentation will chronicle the history of Lubavitch of the Carolinas beginning in 1980 when Rabbi Yossi and Mariashi Groner arrived in Charlotte and established the first center for Lubavitch in North Carolina. Lubavitch has since grown both in size and in scope to now include the Jewish Preschool on Sardis, Congregation Ohr HaTorah, Friendship Circle of North Carolina and the Jewish Learning Institute of Charlotte. The growth has not been limited to Charlotte. There are ten Chabad centers across the Carolinas in Asheville, Cary, Chapel Hill – Durham, Greensboro, Raleigh and Wilmington, Charleston, Columbia, Greenville, and Myrtle Beach. The cost to attend the 30th Anniversary event is $118 per person. Sponsorships are available. It is suggested you make your reservations early as only a limited number of tickets will be available. To learn more and for reservations, please visit www.chabadnc.org/celebration30. Y 5007 Providence Road, Suite #112 Charlotte, NC 28226 Change Service Requested PRSRT STD U.S. POSTAGE PAID PERMIT # 1208 CHARLOTTE, NC The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 2 JEWISH FEDERATION NEWS Investigating Israel Federation Spotlight Fifteen Years Since Yitzhak Rabin’s on Arlene Goldstein Assassination When Arlene Goldstein was in high school, she made her first trip to Israel. “That trip changed my life and made living Jewishly even more a priority for me.” Since that time, her connection to Israel has deepened and Arlene now describes herself as a Zionist. She and her husband Milton have traveled to Israel many times with their whole family and also with Federation. Through Federation missions, they’ve made lifelong friends with people who share common interests. Arlene moved to Charlotte in 2006 from Birmingham, Alabama when she was hired as Vice President of Trend Merchandising and Fashion Direction for Belk Inc. Both she and Milton quickly got involved in the Jewish community and with the Jewish Federation. Milton shared his expertise as a solicitor and is currently the chair of the Men’s Campaign, while Arlene has connected through the Federation’s Women’s Professional Network. Arlene and Milton’s older daughter Alison Lebovitz is currently on the National Young Leadership Cabinet. In the Fall of 2008, Belk SouthPark sponsored the Women’s Professional Network Inaugural Event and two additional events since that time. “Sue Littauer didn’t have to sell me on getting Belk involved with the Women’s Professional Network. In fact, it was a match Arlene Goldstein made in heaven. We’ve created a wonderful relationship between Belk and the Jewish Federation, and in turn I’ve had the opportunity to make my own personal connections with women in the group,” said Arlene. In 2010, Arlene felt the time was right to fulfill one of her philanthropic goals, and became a Lion of Judah. She encourages women to get involved with Federation to enrich their own lives. “I hope women will consider joining the upcoming Federation’s Women’s Trip to Israel in June 2011 because they will have a life changing experience,” Arlene explained. For more information about the Jewish Federation’s Women’s Professional Network or Women’s Trip to Israel, please contact the Federation office at 704-944-6757. Y SHABBAT CANDLE LIGHTING FOR NOVEMBER 2010 Friday, November 5, 6:08 PM Friday, November 12, 5:02 PM Friday, November 19, 4:57 PM Friday, November 26, 4:54 PM The Charlotte Jewish News 5007 Providence Road, Suite 112 Charlotte, NC 28226 By Mor Green, Community Shlicha On November 4, 1995, (11th of Heshvan on the Hebrew Calendar), Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin was assassinated by Yigal Amir, a radical right-wing Israeli who opposed the signing of the Oslo Accords and believed he was saving the country from a dire fate. In 1992 Rabin was elected as chairman of the Labor Party. Rabin played a leading role in the signing of the Oslo Accords, which created the Palestinian National Authority and granted it partial control over parts of the Gaza Strip and the West Bank. He also oversaw the signing of the Israel-Jordan Treaty of Peace in 1994. But not everybody agreed with Rabin’s decisions. In his many speeches, Rabin addressed the increasing violence in Israel. He believed that the only way for the Jewish people to survive in Israel was to make an effort to embrace peace. In his last speech he talked about the importance peace to the Israeli. The last speech by Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin at a peace rally at the Kings of Israel Square, Tel Aviv November 4, 1995: “I have always believed that the majority of the people want peace, are prepared to take risks for peace. And you here, by coming to this rally, along with the many who did not make it Mor Green here, prove that the people truly want peace and oppose violence. Violence is undermining the very foundations of Israeli democracy. It must be con- demned, denounced, and isolated. This is not the way of the State of Israel. Controversies may arise in a democracy, but the decision must be reached through democratic elections. “This rally must send a message to the Israeli public, to the Jewish community throughout the world, to many, many in the Arab world and throughout the entire world, that the people of Israel want peace, support peace, and for that, I thank you very much.” After fifteen years this speech still speaks to us in the present. We are now in the middle of the peace talks between Netanyahu, Israel’s prime minister, and Abbas, the Palestinians president. Unfortunately, there has been no progress so far. There cannot be peace until our neighbors recognize the Jewish people’s right to live in Israel. I hope that one day Israel will find peace and will be able to stop fighting for its right to exist. I wish you all a peaceful month. Y Local, Global, Eternal CONTENTS Federation News..............................pp. 2, 3 Women’s Page......................................p. 19 Youth .................................................pp. 5-7 Mazel Tov.....................................pp. 20, 21 Synagogues and Congregations....pp. 8-12 Community News ............pp. 22-25, 30, 31 Schools ..................................................p. 14 Jewish Community Center.........pp. 26, 27 Jewish Family Services...............pp. 16, 17 Dining Out ....................................pp. 28-30 Levine-Sklut Judaic Library..............p. 18 Phone (voice mail after office hours) Office 704-944-6765 FAX 704-365-4507 email: amontoni@shalomcharlotte.org An Affiliate of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte Amy Krakovitz - Editor Advertising Sales Reps: Jodi Valenstein, 704-841-4040 & Rita Mond, 704-366-6632 CJN Editorial Board Chair - Bob Davis Members: Bob Abel, Evelyn Berger, Jeff Epstein, Ann Langman, Linda Levy The CJN does not assume responsibility for the quality or kasruth of any product or service advertised. Publishing of a paid political advertisement does not constitute an endorsement of any candidate, political party or position by this newspaper, the Federation or any employees. Published monthly except July I would like to make a contribution to demonstrate my support of The Charlotte Jewish News. Name....................................................................Phone ( .............) ................................. Address.............................................................................................................................. City .......................................................................State ..................Zip ............................. 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THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 18 JCRC Annual Fall Lecture 7 PM, Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts Guest Speaker: Bret Stephens, Deputy Editorial Page Editor, Wall Street Journal Topic: Israel: Peace at Last? Free and open to the community. The Jewish Community Relations Council (JCRC) promotes the interests of the Charlotte Jewish community by creating working relationships with our neighbors and serving as the collective voice of the Jewish community. THURSDAY, DECEMBER 9 Women’s Professional Network … forging relationships, building community 6–7:30 PM, Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts at Shalom Park Wine Tasting; PRP Wines RSVP Required by December 6 The Women’s Professional Network offers women the opportunity to engage socially and connect with a cause. The Network meets five times each year and is open to all professional women whether or not they are actively engaged in careers outside the home. Y For more information about all of Federation’s Outreach initiatives, please contact the Federation office at 704-944-6757 or info@jewishcharlotte.org Local, Global, Eternal Jewish Federation Announces the 8th Class of the Bernstein Leadership Group Applications Available Now and Are Due by November 30 Attending an event or two in the Jewish community is one thing, but becoming an inspired leader or board member is another. How do you jump in and take your involvement to the next level? For many young Jewish leaders in the Queen City, the answer is the Bernstein Leadership Group. Now entering its eighth class, the Donald H. and Barbara K. Bernstein Leadership Development Group is an 18-month program of the Jewish Federation that offers unique opportunities to its participants, including: * An inside look at local Jewish agencies and access to their lay and professional leaders * Interaction with renowned national leaders * The opportunity to develop tangible leadership skills * The fellowship of other emerging leaders Through monthly speakers and discussions over the course of a year and a half, Bernstein leaders become a tight-knit group. By “graduation,” many participants have developed their interests in local Jewish agencies and have started down a path to becoming engaged committee or board members. To learn more and obtain an application, please contact Tair Giudice at tair.giudice@jewishcharlotte.org or 704-9446759. Y The mission of the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte is to raise and distribute funds to support and to enrich the lives of Jews locally, nationally, in Israel and worldwide. Through education, planning, and community building the Federation's mission ensures that Jewish values, goals, traditions, and connections are preserved for current and future generations. Jewish Federation Now Recruiting for 8th Class of the Bernstein Leadership Group Applications due Nov. 30 Luck doesn’t buy & sell homes... Experience does! Jewish Community Relations Council (JCRC) ANNUAL FALL LECTURE Featuring Ann Langman 704-367-7240 BRET STEPHENS Deputy Editorial Page Editor, Wall Street Journal Thursday, November 18, 2010 7:00 PM Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts Please join us! Free and open to the community! w Life Insurance w Health Insurance w Dental & Vision Insurance w Disability & Long Term Care Coverage w Annuities w HSA’s 7 0 4 - 37 6 - 74 3 4 www.greenspon.com The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 5 Youth Visions Hebrew Highlights – New Beit Midrash and T’fillah Programs Debut The opening night of the 5771 Hebrew High school year was a rousing success. Our student body (200 strong), greeted old friends, met new classmates and began a journey into our wonderful tradition. The teachers and clergy have planned an amazing year of Jewish discovery for our teen scholars. An exciting new addition to the curriculum is a “Beit Midrash” program, designed for students who would like to learn to critically study our sacred texts. If you ever wondered what it is like to study the ancient texts of our ancestors and you want to discover where our Jewish wisdom and values come from, this is the class for you. Taught by rabbis and experts in the field, this alternative class is for students looking for a more serious learning environment. Students may substitute the Beit Midrash for either their elective or core class (permission from the director required). Come to the Beit Midrash and join a select group of students who want to connect with the rich legacy of Jewish thought. Youth Programs at Temple Beth El Temple Beth El recently expanded their youth programs to include 2nd-12th grades. All grade levels are off to a roaring start: KATANTY 23 (for 2nd and 3rd graders) hosted Pizza in the Hut to celebrate Sukkot. They ate pizza and had a terrific time playing in a newly donated Bounce House which we are sure will see many more hours of active fun. KATANTY 45 (4th and 5th graders) held The Amazing Race where they participated in an exciting scavenger hunt around the world (well, Temple Beth El, anyway.) LIBERTY 67 (6th and 7th graders) had a terrific kickoff event where they built edible sukkahs, ate ice cream sundaes, and got to know each other with fun mixers. LIBERTY hosted its kickoff event where teens caught up with old friends and made new friends. These 8th-12th graders were the force behind the High Holiday Food Drive. We are thrilled to report that our congregation donated 2,796 pounds of food, which will provide 1,596 individual meals. Well done Temple Beth El! LIBERTY also sent its highest number of participants ever to NFTY-SAR* Fall Kallah in Atlanta on October 1-3. These (Continued on page 7) Reuven Greene Rabbi Faith Cantor Another innovation at Hebrew High this year is our T’fillah sessions. Led jointly, by rabbis from Temple Israel and Temple Beth El, these, brief, monthly prayer sessions will give our students the opportunity to express themselves spiritually and create community. It’s not too late to enroll your 8th through 12th grade students. Don’t let them miss out on the Hebrew High experience. For more information call Roz at 704-944-6782 or email rcooper@ shalomcharlotte.org. Hebrew High! It’s the place to be on Wednesday nights! Y Charlotte BBYO By Lara Schewitz The past few months, Charlotte BBYO has been thriving. There have been over 60 new members who joined and are now a part of the organization. After the past few meetings, the new members are already starting to feel like they are at home in the chapters. Everyone worked hard to make sure that all new members registered for a convention called MIT/AIT which was October 2224 in Greensboro. MIT/AIT is an annual convention where all of the new members in Eastern Region (North Carolina and Southern Virginia) are invited. The new members met lots of new friends, learned about BBYO, and had lots of fun. If the new member couldn’t make it to MIT/AIT, they can still learn the essential elements of being a B’nai B’rith Girl or Aleph Zedik Aleph. Each chapter has taken on a new education program that is sure to explain everything about BBYO in a fun and efficient way. The girl chapters and boy chapters have been working together to have joint programs. Ohavim paired up with their brother chapter Hank Greenberg and played an exciting game of Family FeudBattle of the Sexes. Chai Chaverim and MBA had a program where the girls and boys took turns sitting in the middle of a circle and had the opposite sex discuss questions about the other sex. This game was very educational because they got to see firsthand about what the opposite sex thinks of girls/boys. For the coming months of BBYO, we are continuing to recruit new members and have more awesome programs We can’t wait for the year ahead. Y The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 6 What will you pass down to future generations? Live on and inspire future generations of Jews with a legacy gift. Planning this gift now will secure the education of our children, make certain our elderly will always be cared for, and assure that the Jewish traditions and culture we KROGGHDUZLOOOLYHRQDQGÀRXULVK&RQWDFWXVWR¿QGRXWKRZWREHJLQ &Žƌ ŵŽƌĞ ŝŶĨŽƌŵĂƟŽŶ͕ĐŽŶ &ŽƌŵŽƌĞŝŶĨŽƌŵĂƟŽŶ͕ĐŽŶƚĂĐƚ^ƵĞ>ŝƩĂƵĞƌ͕ĞǀĞůŽƉŵĞŶƚŝƌĞĐƚŽƌ͕ ŶƚĂĐƚ ^ƵĞ >ŝƩĂƵĞƌƌ͕͕ĞǀĞůŽƉŵ ŵĞŶƚ ŝƌĞĐƚŽƌƌ͕ :Ğ ǁŝƐŚ&ĞĚĞƌĂƟŽŶŽĨ'ƌĞĂĂƚĞƌŚĂƌůŽƩĞĂƚϳϬϰ͘ϵϰϰ͘ϲϳϱϱϴ͕ :ĞǁŝƐŚ&ĞĚĞƌĂƟŽŶŽĨ'ƌĞĂƚĞƌŚĂƌůŽƩĞĂƚϳϬϰ͘ϵϰϰ͘ϲϳϱϴ͕ ƐƵĞ͘ůŝƩĂƵĞƌΛũĞǁŝƐŚĐŚĂƌůŽƩĞ͘ŽƌŐŽƌWŚŝůtĂƌƐŚĂƵĞƌ͕džĞĐƵƟǀĞŝƌĞĐƚŽƌ͕ ƐƵĞ͘ůŝƩ ĂƵĞƌΛũĞǁŝƐŚĐŚĂƌůŽ ŽƩĞ͘ŽƌŐŽƌWŚŝůtĂƌƐŚĂƵĞƌƌ͕͕džĞĐƵƟǀĞ ŝƌĞĐƚŽƌƌ͕ &&ŽƵŶĚĂƟŽŶĨŽƌƚŚĞŚĂƌůŽƩĞ:ĞǁŝƐŚŽŵŵƵŶŝƚLJĂƚϳϬϰ͘ϵϳϯ͘ϰϱϰϰŽƌ ŽƵŶĚĂƟŽŶ ĨŽƌ ƚŚĞ ŚĂƌůŽ ŽƩĞ :ĞǁŝƐŚŽŵŵƵŶŝƚLJĂƚ ϳϬϬϰ͘ϵϳϯ͘ϰϱϰϰ Žƌ ƉǁĂƌƐŚĂƵĞƌΛĐŚĂƌůŽƩĞũĞǁŝƐŚĨŽƵŶĚĂƟŽŶ͘ŽƌŐ͘ Ɖ ǁĂƌƐŚĂƵĞƌΛĐŚĂƌůŽƩĞũĞǁŝƐŚ ǁ ĨŽƵŶĚĂƟŽŶ͘ŽƌŐ͘ The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 7 A Friends @ Home Experience One of the main programs run by the Friendship Circle, Friends @ Home, pairs one or two teen volunteers with a special child so that they can spend quality time once a week just “hanging out” together at the child’s home. The following excerpt recounts a visit to a child’s home from one of our Friendship Circle coordinators a few months ago (the names have been changed to protect the privacy of our families). By Rochel Groner It’s a sunny day here in Charlotte, but I’m feeling anything but calm. I’m on the way to observe Adam’s second visit, as he is a new volunteer. Adam has agreed to push up the visit so he can still make his basketball game tonight, and Steven’s mom (Steven is Adam’s special friend) has postponed their trip to the aquarium until later this afternoon. I just got off the phone with Adam to make sure he has the directions straight, as I’d hate for any of the carefully scheduled hour and a half visit to be wasted in a car. But now that I’m on my way, I’m thinking, “Is this really helping? Are they just doing me a favor?” I usually only go to the first visit and then for a check-in later on, but last week I had two visits scheduled for the same time and obviously couldn’t be at both. Not wanting to cancel, I told Adam and Steven that I’d come for their second visit instead. Now though, I feel bad that I didn’t go last time. What if the schedule conflicts were because they didn’t have a good time last week? Okay, I know that’s not true; they told me it was fine and Steven had a good time, but still…. Steven is an eight-year-old boy with autism, but in Friendship Circle’s world, that just means he’s unique, like all of us, and that his special talents and abilities make him outstanding. I turn into the neighborhood and pull up to the house. Adam’s car is already there. As I’m about to turn off the car, I see something which makes me stop. I suddenly regret all my previous thoughts and thank God for giving me the chance to see this myself. There’s Steven, run- ning ahead of his new friend Adam, with a fishing rod in hand and a smile from ear to ear. Not wanting to miss anything, I drive around to the other side of the neighborhood pond (I’m kicking myself that I didn’t bring my camera). I park and get out of the car to watch as Adam casually and comfortably introduces Steven to the world of fishing. From where I’m standing I can see them but they can’t see me, and frankly, I’m glad because I have tears in my eyes. I stand there for a bit just watching the two of them talk and laugh and cast the fishing rod. One thing is clear: To Adam, Steven isn’t a “disabled” child who needs sympathy—Steven is a friend with plenty to offer. Y Temple Beth El Youth Groups (Continued from page 5) weekend conventions bring youth together from the entire Southeast region to learn, worship and explore their Jewish identities. This is one of the most meaningful, engaging opportunities for solidifying relationships and connections to Judaism. Our kids literally count down the days until the next one (January 14-17 for Winter Regional). Keep your eyes open for information regarding Spring Kallah on April 29–May 1 because – we are hosting it. We will need support from the entire Charlotte Jewish community to successfully run this exciting event. Having a high school age child is not required. Below are two testimonials from teens expressing their appreciation for LIBERTY and NFTYSAR. Jake Kalik: “I’ve been a member of Temple Beth El for 13 years. I love this Temple with all my heart, but LIBERTY really started it off. “My first LIBERTY event was with Holly Gainsboro, who I love dearly. The events that Holly planned ranged from movie/pizza nights to Hanukkah parties and Havdallah. These events made me how I am now, energetic, social, and exciting. “Next came Sara Bryan. She always knew how to bring the fun to LIBERTY. From rock-climbing to bowling, LIBERTY is where it’s at! She also got me hooked on NFTY (North American Federation of Temple Youth). I went into my first kallah not really sure what to expect, but I met a ton of new friends and had the time of my life. “I immediately hit it off with our new youth director, Andy Harkavy. His wit and humor took me by surprise. He really steered me down the NFTY path. We just got back from Fall Kallah. I can’t wait to go back to experience more of the awesome song sessions and mixers, Torah studies and host homes. NFTY really showed me how to be Jewish. It made me want to better help our community here in Charlotte. “I look forward to my next four years in LIBERTY and NFTY. The Temple Youth Katanty 23 makes sukkah decoraProgram can surely change tions for “Pizza in the Hut.” one’s life in a short amount of time.” Rachel Rappaport: “Joining LIBERTY and NFTY are two of the best choices I have ever made in my life. I couldn’t imagine my life without them. “At my first Kallah, I didn’t know what to expect other than what my older friends had told me. I heard all these great things but didn’t understand why this is what s What long term care is and why you and your loved people live for. As soon as I ones are at high risk for needing care at home or in a arrived I was greeted by many facility. people, and introduced to so many new friends. I immediately felt at s Why the limited benefits from Government (Medicare home, these people were all just or Medicaid) are not a good choice for your long term like me. I couldn’t believe how care needs. nice and fun everyone was. Then it got better, I got to assist my amazs At what age should you consider buying long term ing new friends in song-leading and spent time with old friends care insurance. You will be surprised to know why and while making new ones. I underhow buying at a younger age is better for you. stood pretty much an hour after we got off the bus why everyone was so obsessed: NFTY was the most If you don’t want to put the burden of long term care on amazing experience I’ve ever had. your family then contact me for alternative solutions. I continue to keep in touch with my friends and am suffering from severe NFTY withdrawal. I encourage everyone to try it because I guarantee you will never look back. NFTY and LIBERTY Certified Long Term Care Specialist provide a great way to make friends, learn about Judaism, and Charlotte, NC: (704) 442-5618 about yourself. I cannot even Birmingham, AL: (205) 907-0670 imagine what my life would be E-mail: miltgold@bellsouth.net without NFTY and LIBERTY.”Y *NFTY-SAR – North American Visit my Web Site: www.goldsteinltc.com Federation of Temple Youth – Southern Area Region. ARE YOU PREPARED FOR LONG TERM CARE? Find Out Milton Goldstein, CLTC The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 8 & SYNAGOGUES CONGREGATIONS Temple Beth El’s Sadie Levin Scholar-in-Residence Shabbaton on Social Justice with Rabbi Emeritus Jerry Davidson Please join us on November 19 and 20 for a Shabbaton featuring guest scholar Rabbi Jerry Davidson who will share his expe- rience and wisdom on the topic of Social Justice and Action. By B y JJove! ove! I think think I’ve I’ve found found the the perfect p erfect A Assisted ssisted Living Living Community! C ommunity! Here’s Here’ ’s tto a Happy, Happy y, Hea Healthy althy New Year! 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He serves now on the faculty of the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, of which he is both president of the Rabbinic Alumni Association and member of the Board of Governors. In 1994, Rabbi Davidson was chosen by the New York Board of Rabbis as “Rabbi of the Year,” the first Reform rabbi to receive this award. This special Scholar Shabbaton also marks the tenth yahrzeit of Rabbi Judy Schindler’s father, Rabbi Alexander Schindler. On Friday evening, Rabbi Davidson will reflect on the late Rabbi Schindler’s leadership as President of our Reform Movement for more than two decades and whether we have fulfilled the vision he articulated for us. The weekend will include the following presentations: Friday, November 19, 8 PM “Where We’ve Been and Where Rabbi Jerry Davidson We’re Going: Rabbi Alexander Schindler’s Vision for Reform Judaism and Have We Fulfilled It?” (in observance of his tenth yahrzeit) Saturday, November 20, 9 AM “Repairing Our World: The Seeds of Social Justice in our Sacred Texts” Saturday, November 20, 11 AM D’var Torah at our Congregational Shabbat Services: “Jacob’s Struggle and Ours” Saturday, November 20, 5-6 PM Havdalah and Discussion: “Beth El - Are We Making a Real Difference in the World?” Y Attention Shalom Park — Temple Beth El Religious School Can Put Extra Gelt in Your Pocket Turn your gold into gelt. Gold prices are at an all time high nearing $1,300 per ounce. This is the perfect opportunity to cash in and help the Temple Beth El Religious School at the same time. Hanukkah is early this year so we are bringing SouthPark Jewelers to school on November 14, 8:30 AM-1 PM, in the Bobbi and Don Bernstein Education Building (Religious School lobby) to turn your gold into gelt. Get top dollar for all your broken, old and unwanted gold, silver or platinum jewelry or objects. SouthPark Jewelers will hand you a check on the spot and make a contribution from their profit to the school. It’s an early Hanukkah present for all. Cashing in your gold for gelt will benefit the school and give you some added income to get ready for the holidays. Just walk in. No appointment necessary. The entire community is encouraged to support the school and take home some extra cash. Gold Sale at Temple Beth El Religious School November 14, 8:30 AM-1 PM Bobbi and Don Bernstein Education Building Y The Temple Beth El/St. Peter’s Catholic Church Dialogue will meet on Sunday, November 14 at the Essex Condo Clubhouse, 4900 Sardis Rd. at 5 PM. 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Sterling Flatware Sterling Flatware S Sets ets average average from from .....................$200 ................... $200 – $1,000 Hollowware H ollowware IItems tems aaverage verage ..... ... $52 – $500 Tea Sets Tea S ets aaverage verage ................. ............... $500 – $5,000 Please, P lease, no no silverplate silverplate items items unless orr unusual. u nless very very unique unique o unusual. 22'44;¶5 '44;¶5 Fine, F ine, A Antique ntique & Estate Estate Jewelry Jewelry Buying H Buying Hours: ours: Mon-Sat Mon-Sat 10:00-6:00 10:00-6:00 PM. PM. 704-364-1391 7 04-364-1391 w ww.perrysjewelr e y.com www.perrysjewelry.com The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 10 Interfaith and Outreach Shabbat Weekend at Temple Beth El December 17-18 At Temple Beth El, we have a continuing commitment to welcome all into the community. Jews-by-Choice and Interfaith families continue to make great contributions to our culture and religion, and have become a truly valued part of the Jewish community. This year, at our annual Interfaith and Outreach Shabbat, our own Jews-by-Choice and Interfaith family members will have the chance to tell their stories. Please join us on December 17 as members of our congregation will discuss the experiences and choices that put them on the path toward Judaism during the 8 PM PICK A ROSENFELD for All Your Real Estate Needs ~ Over 35 Years Experience ~ Home 704-321-0220 Barbara Marshall Helen Adams Realty Queenstowne Realty 704-517-1547 704-517-1073 service Friday evening. The following morning, Saturday, December 18 at 9 AM, we will hold a dialogue on choosing Judaism and fostering Judaism in your home, followed by a delicious Congregational Brunch at 10:15 AM (by reservation at www.beth-el.com/rsvp) and our musical, participatory Congregational Shabbat service at 11 AM. We appreciate everyone’s sup- port and look forward to seeing you there. Questions? Please contact Shari Hackman, Membership and Outreach Director, at shackman@beth-el.com or 704-7493051. Y Havurat Tikvah’s Kabbalat Shabbat: Welcome the Sabbath with Friends and Family F O OT D I S CO M F O RT? Find F ind expertise, expertise, answers answers & comfort comfort at Foot Foot Solutions. Solutioons. O ur custom-molde ed inserts, inserts, therapeutic & Our custom-molded yourr unique needs: specialty shoes fit your The month of November is a notoriously busy one for most families. Our antidote: take a break from life’s hectic pace at our November 12 Kabbalat Shabbat. We’ll gather at 6:30 PM to welcome the Sabbath with song, to enjoy a festive Shabbat meal, and to relax and unwind with good friends and family. We invite you to join us as we enter into the “oasis” of Shabbat. For more information, or to reserve a place for this family-friendly event, call or e-mail us (see the contact information below). November is also a month for planning and changing at Havurat Tikvah. Our planning involves the just-around-the-corner Hannukah holidays. This year, we’ll celebrate on December 4 with Shabbat morning services and a full evening of holiday fun including our annual community menorah s&LAT&EETs$IAB s&LAT&EETs$IABETESs3PORTS)NJURIESs BETESs3PORTS)NJURIESs s!RTHRITISs5NEVEN,EG,ENGTHs s!RTHRITISs5N NEVEN,EG,ENGTHs s(EEL0AINs!CHILLES4ENDONITISs s(EEL0AINs! !CHILLES4ENDONITISs s(IGH!RCHESs'AIT0ROBLEMSs s(IGH!R CHESSs'AIT0ROBLEMSs s5NUSUAL3IZESs s5NU USUAL3IZESs +%AST"OULEVARDs#HARLOTTE.# +%AST"OULEVARDs#HARLOT TE.# 704-335-4070 70 4 - 335 - 4070 w w w.footsolutions.com www.footsolutions.com CHARLOT TE FFOOTSOLUTIONSCOM OOTSOLUTIONSCOM CHARLOTTE “Hear, O Israel: the Lord is our G-d, the Lord is One” lighting, a Hanukkah play, and latkes for all. Save the date, mark your calendars, and check our website or contact us by phone or e-mail for updates. The changes involve our annual Board rotations. This year we extend our warmest thanks and deep appreciation to those who are rotating off the Board and have served us so well during their terms: David Holloman (as Rosh), Helen Lipman, Ellen Myers, Martha Brenner, Phyllis Woollen, and Pat Burnham. We also extend a welcome and thank you to those who are joining the Board for the coming term: Alan Kaplan, Allen Saxe, Anna Offerdahl, Carol LeBaron, Karen Shelton, and Lannie Mathews. Whatever the month, members of Havurat Tikvah continue their involvement in various mitzvah activities. A team, led by Pat Burnham, participated in this year’s CROP Hunger Walk. And havurah members continue to work with the Dilworth Soup Kitchen which provides nourishing meals and a warm welcome to those in need. If you’d like to join us, visit the soup kitchen’s Facebook page at http://www. facebook.com/group.php?gid=771 34194660. We’re also delighted to have helping hands at our “Project Linus” group. The group meets once a month to produce handmade “security-blankets” for children who are seriously ill, traumatized, or otherwise in need. For information about the upcoming call or e-mail us. Havurat Tikvah is an affiliate of the Jewish Reconstructionist Federation, providing a comfortable, family atmosphere where all Jews can feel welcome. We encourage participation in the community and in our services. Our Sunday School, with its exciting new curriculum, and B’nai Mitzvah preparation are available for children. Feel free to visit, get to know us, and become part of our growing congregation of nearly 60 households. For an updated calendar or to find out more about Havurat Tikvah, our worship services, Sunday School program, and community activities - please visit our website at www.havurattikvah.org or contact new member chair, Brian Feinglass, at bcfein1@gmail.com or at 1-877203-5848. Y Beth Shalom Introduces Tot Shabbat Program Exclusively at Karat Patch Jewelry 901 Providence Road 704-334-3188 www.karatpatch.com Beth Shalom of Lake Norman (www.bslkn.org) announced the creation of a monthly Tot Shabbat program beginning on Friday, November 5 at 5:30 PM, prior to Shabbaton services for babies through children aged five. Parents and children will meet at St. Alban’s Episcopal Church in Davidson. The goal of the program is for parents and children to welcome Shabbat and other Jewish holidays through music, prayer, and many fun activities. There is no charge for the program. All members and nonmembers are welcome. In addition, any participants are welcome to stay for the evening service starting at 6:30 PM. For further information, please contact Jamie Tannenbaum at jamie9227@ gmail.com.Y The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 11 Why Do the Rabbis Want Us to Say 100 Brachot Every Day? To make sure thanksgiving is part and parcel with our Jewish practice, we ritualize thankfulness in every hatima that ends our liturgical prayers: Blessed are you, Holy One, who brings the evening, who creates the day, who gives wisdom, who… There are countless things to be thankful for and far more than 100 ways to respond. Take the grand sweet gum tree whose five fingered leaves glow bright green in the morning light. Each leaf is an earthly star turning dark and then light again as the clouds pass overhead. The blessing is spontaneous, heartfelt: “Blessed are you God who also puts stars on trees.” Every day has these moments, these opportunities for us to stop and realize that we have plenty to be thankful for. What if every time we experienced the surprise of biting into a new kind of apple or of driving down a scenic country road we took a moment to express our thanks? “Blessed are you Adonai, king of the universe who gives me a gift every time I turn a corner.” Of course, Shabbat is a designated twenty-four hour span of intensive thankfulness that occurs every week. At Temple Or Olam, we make a point of trying to expand our Shabbat–consciousness. The rabbi reminds parents not to forego the pleasure of blessing their children on Friday night. We take a moment in our Kabbalat Shabbat service to ask what revelation, what wonder, what blessing we may have received during the preceding week. Thankfulness is year-round, every day, 100 times a day. Happy Thanksgiving! Temple Or Olam serves University City, Harrisburg, and Cabarrus County, and is an independent congregation where Dr. Barbara Thiede, senior rabbinic student with ALEPH (the Alliance for Jewish Renewal) leads two Shabbat services each month. For information on our services, please visit our website, www.orolam.org and subscribe to our mailing list. You can also email us at info@or-olam.org, or call 704720-7577. Y Temple Israel Honors Life Presidents: November 13 Temple Israel will honor our Life Presidents at Shabbat services. These are: I.D. Blumenthal z”l, Sol Levine, Hugo Rosenberger z”l, Harry L. Schwartz z”l, Isaac Ashendorf z”l, William Gorelick, Robert Abel, Morris Speizman z”l, Sol Jaffa z”l, Aaron Gleiberman z”l, David Miller, Ben Jaffa, Sr. z”l, Sam Strause, Jerome Levin, Steve Hockfield, Sam Bernstein (z”l-zichronam livrakha-of blessed memory). Following services, a wonderful Kiddush luncheon will be served. The entire congregation is encouraged to attend services that morning and invited to stay for the luncheon. As part of the tribute, a keepsake 8 ½” x 11” soft cover journal containing pictures of the Honorary Life Presidents, together with biographical and service information for each will be produced for distribution to the congregation, free of charge. Nationally known artist and local Charlotte resident, Paul Rousso, is designing a piece of art especially for the occasion that will be reproduced as the journal’s cover. Temple Israel Adult Education Series Conversations with Dr. James Howell of Myers Park United Methodist Church and Rabbi Ezring: Angels and Demons in Jewish and Christian Tradition: Tuesday, November 9 at Myers Park UMC, 7 PM Did Biblical Miracles Really Happen?: Tuesday, November 16 at Temple Israel, 7 PM Classes are free and all are welcome. PALS Hanukkah Event, November 28 at 10:30 AM For more information contact Rabbi Faith Cantor at 704-3622796. Temple Hanukkah Events We have a full schedule of Hanukkah events for all ages. November 28, we invite young families to join us for the PALS pre-Hanukkah program. Temple Israel Book Club DAY AFTER NIGHT BY ANITA DIAMANT Monday, November 15, 7:30 PM, Temple Israel Historical fiction readers tend to be pulled into a story and are often compelled to search for more information about the incidents depicted. Such is the case with Anita Diamant’s Day After Night. Based on the true story of the October 1945 rescue of more than two hundred prisoners from the Artit internment camp - a prison for “illegal” immigrants run by the British military near the Mediterranean coast south of Haifa, Day After Night tells the stories of four young Jewish women, survivors of four different kinds of hell and how they grapple with a new life in a new land. Described as “an astutely imagined story … Diamant opens a window into a time of sadness, confusion, and optimism that has resonance for so much that’s both triumphant and troubling in modern Jewish history.” Readers may remember Diamant as the author of the compelling The Red Tent, a TI book club favorite. Day After Night is available at the public library, the LevineSklut Judaic Library and local book stores for about $15, making it relatively easy to obtain a copy for discussion at the November 15 book club meeting. Temple Israel book club meetings are open to all members of the community, including “dropins” and those who haven’t read the book. For additional information contact Linda Levy at 704/366-6362/levyollie@ aol.com.Y Providing Wednesday night, December 1, we invite the entire congregation to join Rabbi, Ezring, Rabbi Cantor, Cantor Roochvarg, the choir, special guests and Temple Israel’s Consolidated Hebrew High School students to light the first candle, sing our favorite Hanukkah songs, and taste the sweetness of Hanukkah treats. The celebration begins at 7 PM. Friday evening, December 3 we will host a special candle lighting followed by services at 5:45 PM and a wonderful Hanukkah Shabbat Dinner, highlighted by stories and songs. Sunday, December 5 the Temple Israel Social Club will host its annual Hanukkah lunch. Tuesday evening, December 7 Temple Israel Religious School will host a special Hanukkah assembly for the families of the school. The Temple Israel Social Club We invite active couples and singles, affiliated with Charlotte area synagogues, to join our social group. Meet friendly people and enjoy our interesting programs and trips. Call Janine Rosner at 704-366-5631 for more information. Join us on Sunday, December 5 at 12:30 PM for our Annual Hanukkah Luncheon with entertainment. Y PERSONAL FINANCIAL PLANNING For more than 70 years Waddell & Reed, Inc. Member SIPC Jennifer Sperry, CFP(R) Financial Advisor 5950 Fairview Rd. Suite 200 Charlotte, NC 28210 (704) 553-7220 x 127 jsperry@wradvisors.com 8985 (06/09) Healthy Alternative to Holiday Stress Lifeform® Ultimate Executive Mid Back Office Chair Zero Gravity Recliner with leg extension Inversion Table PARK TOWNE VILLAGE 4435 PARK ROAD Between Montford & Woodlawn Near Starbucks 704-523-3377 relaxtheback.com The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 12 Winter Fun Days at Chabad of Ballantyne Transform winter break into a fun and exciting Jewish experience. Are you looking for something fun and educational for your kids to do during winter break? 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In addition, staff will be arriving from out of town who are experienced camp counselors, love working with children and of course have lots of energy. Monday through Friday, December 27– December 31, 9 AM-3 PM; Extended Day available per request A hot, nutritious, homemade, Kosher lunch will be provided. For children ages 5 – 11. Pricing per child: $40 a day or $175 for the week. ***Early Bird special ends December 1, 2010: $35 a day or $150 for the week*** To register or for more information contact Leah Levin Leah@JewishBallantyne.com – 704-246-8881 or visit our website www.JewishBallantyne.com. Y Sukkot Celebrations at Chabad of Ballantyne From Sushi to Mac and Cheese everyone had something to enjoy on Sukkot. Saturday night Sushi in the Sukkah was a great time for all. Delicious food, interactive games, and meaningful discussions. Tuesday afternoon featured a family style Sukkah Party with more delicious food and a fabulous carnival for the kids. Sand art, sukkah cookies, tzedakah games, tic tac toe and prizes were some of the Making sand art was part of the Sukkot fun at booths that were featured. Chabad of Ballantyne. A special thank you to Paige Rabinowitz, Shannon Applegate, Steven Applegate for all their help Aislinn McShane, Matthew in running the booths. Y Rabinowitz, Benny McShane, and Kids in the Kitchen: A Cooking Club for Kids! Hey, kids! Roll up your sleeves and get busy. Experience the joys of Kosher Cooking at Chabad of Ballantyne. Kids in the kitchen will give you an opportunity to cook, bake and decorate fabulous foods, take home your own handmade creations and collect delicious recipes in your own recipe box. With hands on cooking, Jewish learning and yummy tast- ing how can you resist? Our first session will be six weeks on Mondays starting November 8, 6- PM for grades K 5. $8 per day or $40 for entire session. To register or for more info contact Leah Levin Leah@Jewish Ballantyne.com 704.246.8881 or visit our website www.Jewish Ballantyne.com.Y New Hebrew School Opening in Charlotte tt/VSTF4VQFSWJTFE /VSTF 4VQFS WJTFE t4QFDJBMJ[FE%FNFOUJB$BSF t 4QFDJBMJ[FE%FNFOUJB$BSSF t'MFYJCMFUPIPVS$BSF t ' MFYJCMFUPIPVS$BSF tt1FSGFDU$BSFHJWFS.BUDIJOH 1FSGFFDU $BSFHJWFS .BUDIJO OH Charlotte: C harlotte: 704-503-4660 704-503-46660 Cor Cornelius: nelius: 704-987 704-987-1802 7-1802 www.homewatchcaregivers.com/charlotte www w.home . watchc h aregivvers.com/c e harlotte By Marcy Goldstein, Ph.D. I don’t know about you, but from what I remember about Hebrew School, it wasn’t the most riveting intellectual or spiritual experience. When I recall the many great “aha!” moments during my years as a student, not much comes from my time at At Charlotte Country Day School, every voice is unique. Discover how we will develop your child’s abilities and talents. Open House for Grades 9-12 November 11, 1:30 pm RSVP: charlottecountryday.org or (704) 943-4530 Charlotte Country Day School 1440 Carmel Road Charlotte, North Carolina 28226 Grades JK–12. Tuition assistance available. (704) 943-4500 charlottecountryday.org Hebrew School. Instead, what comes to mind is a vision of myself begrudgingly studying a boring history book and happily reciting Hebrew at my Bat Mitzvah though I did not know what most of it meant (which didn’t bother me at the time, but now I wish that I had understood what I was saying). Maybe you had a similar experience, or maybe you never went to Hebrew School. And maybe you are now a parent like me who wants to provide some kind of Jewish education for your children, and you would like it to be a great, meaningful experience. Or maybe you might like a first or second chance to go to Hebrew School so you don’t end up knowing less than your curious children who will start asking questions about the holidays that you wish you could answer more thoroughly. Here in Charlotte, a new kind of Hebrew School opportunity is knocking that might meet your needs. Started by Rabbi Chanoch Oppenheim, Director of the Charlotte Torah Center, the Charlotte Torah Center Hebrew School differs from the other wonderful options in Charlotte for children’s Jewish education: 1) children and their parents will be students together and 2) enrollment does not require affiliation or membership with any religious institution. The CTCHS will be partnering with P.A.T “Parents Are Teachers” run through the National Jewish Outreach Program, which introduced the idea that parents should study alongside their children so that they too learn about Shabbat and Jewish history and how to participate meaningfully in weekly services. Parents who have participated in P.A.T. say that the experience is so empowering because it gets them up to speed in their Judaism, and their children look up to them more because of their knowledge. Watch this nine minute P.A.T. video with interviews of parents and administrators who say that incredible transformations occur in the families that learn Judaism together: www.youtube.com/watch?v=YiIG rw8He8U. This creative educational format will be paired with a curriculum using teaching material from ToTal, a project of the Afkim Foundation. ToTal describes itself as a “series of educational programs steeped in the wisdom of the Torah and designed to provide cultural, historical and social enrichment to Jewish youngsters and their families.” In his conversations with people around Charlotte, Rabbi Oppenheim has spoken with many Jews who choose not to affiliate with any institution but would still like to give their children some form of Jewish education. He recently said, “Over the past year I have heard from a number of people who, even though they’re not very connected ‘Jewishly,’ feel awful that they aren’t giving their children any form of Jewish education. Therefore, we wanted to create a school that didn’t require affiliation with any institution. At this new school there are no membership fees or building funds, just a onetime tuition. So it will be more affordable for many families and will give them the opportunity to ‘taste’ the benefits of giving their children the gift of education and pride in being Jewish.” (Continued on page17) www.chestpainnetwork.org F. Scott Valeri, MD | Sanger Heart & Vascular Institute | CMC-Mercy Being well-connected can save your life. The region’s most responsive Chest Pain Network connects nine area hospitals and local EMS agencies through our exclusive Yellow Phone system. When the phone rings, a well-orchestrated series of events and protocols are begun for the swift transport of heart attack patients to a waiting catheterization lab. The result is an amazing 33 percent faster response time than the national average. And another example of how our integrated network brings together people and technology to save thousands of lives every year. Only at the Chest Pain Network of Carolinas Medical Center. If you experience chest pains, call 911 immediately. THE CHEST PAIN NETWORK of CAROLINAS MEDICAL CENTER | Carolinas Medical Center | CMC-Lincoln | CMC-Mercy | CMC-NorthEast | CMC-Pineville | CMC-Union | CMC-University | Cleveland Regional Medical Center | Kings Mountain Hospital The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 14 Schools Todah, Todah, Todah! By Elka Bernstein, Director, Charlotte Jewish Preschool Thanksgiving is a time for us all to reflect on the things we’re thankful for – our good health, our beautiful families, and the close community we’re all a part. Thanks Being thankful is not just a theme taught in November at the preschool, but an action that our preschoolers participate in each day at school. During the school day, our preschoolers say WORK WITH A LEADER IN CHARLOTTE REAL ESTATE EXECUTIVE REALTY 704-926-2544 office 704-975-8500 cell www.LepowRealtors.com SouthPark Pediatrics Welcoming new patients to our old-fashioned pediatric practice! www.southparkpediatrics.net 704-522-6656 4601 Park Road, Suite 100, Charlotte, NC 28209 Dr. Katie S. Fine is excited to announce that she will be joining SouthPark Pediatrics this Fall! Dr. Fine is an experienced pediatrician and author who shares Dr. Wyrick’s philosophy of comprehensive pediatric care coupled with personal attention to nurturing children and families. Please call for a complimentary prenatal or “get to know you” visit. Susan D. Wyrick, MD Katie S. Fine, MD Elementary school thought that the December holidays had arrived early. The school counselor called us the “Special Supply Fairy.” The giving continued in October with a special food drive for Jewish Family Services. And this Learning about tzedakah at the Charlotte Jewish month, CJP will sponsor the 2nd Preschool. annual Hanukkah Toy Drive to help “Todah,” thank you, to God for Jewish Family Services provide their snack, and their lunch. The gifts for families in our communichildren say “Todah” to teachers ty. Though CJP students are the for being helpful and to friends for youngest members of our commusharing. Each Friday at CJP, our nity, the joy they feel when they students sing the words, “Baruch give to others is revealed in their Atah Adonai, thank you God.” faces. These 230 beautiful voices ring Prayers with appreciation for Shabbat, At many Thanksgiving tables toys, friends, teachers and parents. around Charlotte, families will Giving reflect on what they are thankful. Learning to give back to the Families will say special prayers. community is part of the education At CJP, our young students offer goals for our preschoolers and many insightful prayers. The Prefamilies. Each year, a tzedekah K Class is made up of four and calendar is developed, so that five year old students. Some of every month, the children can per- these prayers hold wisdom, and form acts of Tikkun Olam (repair- some hold laughter. Either way, ing the world). Even though, we our teachers do a great job teachare only into our third month of ing our children to say traditional preschool, the acts of loving kind- Jewish Prayers, as well as teachness have already made a positive ing them to talk to God using their impact in the Charlotte communi- own words. ty. In September, CJP collected Ella: I am praying for my dad, school supplies that were than dis- my mom, my sisters and me to tributed to Temple Beth El and read a prayer book together. Temple Israel’s partner schools. Tamma: I am praying for my The teachers and students at family to be healthy. Huntingtowne Farms and Sterling Zack: I pray for a bowling ball. Charlotte Jewish Day School Celebrates $500K Prize By Mariashi Groner, director, CJDS Six hundred people attended a party on October 10, to celebrate Charlotte Jewish Day School’s award of $500,000 from the Kohl’s Cares program. One might think the celebration was about the money. It could have been, but it wasn’t. One might think the celebration was just about winning. It could have been, but that wasn’t the real reason, either. From looking at the diversity of the crowd, it appeared to be more about people supporting people and people caring about others. The majority of the people who Serving Travelers Since 1979 M E M B E R SH I P rewards 704.556.8322 Park Road 704.541.0943 Arboretum 704.892.9020 Lake Norman Diego: I pray for my teachers. Olivia: I pray to keep my family safe. Vincent: I pray for my pool. Sam: I am praying for a pumpkin. Noah: I am praying for a monster toy. Sasha D.: I’m praying for animals not to be sick. Evan and Rachel: I am praying for a rainbow inside. Sarah: I am praying for toys. Sasha L.: I am praying for little dolls. Owen: I am praying for a skateboard. Isabel: I am praying for messages from God. Hazel: I am praying for the Kotel. Oren: I am praying for a pet tiger. Anastasia: I am praying for a new dress for mommy. Come join our special community at the Charlotte Jewish Preschool to Learn. Grow. Connect. For enrollment information, please contact Alyson Kalik, CJP administrar, at 704-944-6866 or aklaik@shalomcharlotte.org.Y It’s Royal Ca Caribbean aribbean month at Mannn Travels! Trravels! We’re We’re e celebrating celebraating with onboard credit, free gifts and more!! Call C your favorite Mann Travels Trravvels agent for details or visit www.manntravels.com/royalcaribbean wwww.ma . anntravels.com/royalcaribbbean were at the party were not going to benefit directly from the money. They did not have children or grandchildren attending the school, nor had they ever had children or grandchildren who attended the school. They were simply people who cared about the Jewish community, Jewish continuity, Jewish education, and Charlotte Jewish Day School. It is not often that we see such altruistic actions. That is what we celebrate, and that is what we must celebrate every day. But the question still is asked— so, what is Charlotte Jewish Day School going to do with the $500,000 from Kohl’s Department Stores? Five hundred thousand dollars is a lot of money. It can buy a lot of things. It can feed a lot of people. Unfortunately, there are rules and guidelines we are required to follow when spending this money, and we must stay within those boundaries. An additional limitation is that Kohl’s asks that we use the money within the next 12 months. So, when deciding how to spend the money, we made it a goal to improve and enhance the education we already provide so that our students can have even CJDS celebrates their win. more opportunities. We hope that making these choices will entice and attract more students to the school so that we will have the opportunity to educate more Jewish children. We hope that the choices will, in turn, save us money in the future so that we do not have to increase our “asks” from the community, the Federation, and our donors. We hope that these choices will help the community be proud of the day school in their midst. We would like to use the award to provide financial assistance and a Jewish education for more students, but we can’t. We would like to use it to endow a middle school, but we can’t. We would like to use it to give our teachers the raises they deserve, but we can’t. (Continued on page 21) www.cmc-mercy.org/events CMC-Mercy Seminar Series You are invited to attend our free wellness seminars in the CMC-Mercy auditorium, located at 2001 Vail Ave. Complimentary meals will be provided. To register for these events, please call 704-512-3820. 6 – 7:30 p.m., Tuesday, Nov. 9 – Healthy Holiday Eating Optimal nutrition is one of the cornerstones of good health. Join YMCA dietitian Alicia Fogarty, MS, RD, LDN, for a discussion on how to eat healthy during the holiday season. Learn tips for snacking smart at holiday parties and how to create a healthy yet appetizing holiday menu. 6 – 7:30 p.m., Tuesday, Dec. 14 – Code STEMI F. Scott Valeri, MD, FACC, from Sanger Heart & Vascular Institute discusses ST segment elevation myocardial infarction (STEMI), a type of heart attack. CMC-Mercy also offers Zumba fitness classes, massage therapy and wellness assessments. Visit www.cmc-mercy.org/events for details. The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 16 JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES Help Struggling Families for Hanukkah The Hebrew letters of Nes Hanukkah, the miracle of Hanukkah, allude to tzedakah, charity. This holiday is a wonderful opportunity for your family to teach the importance of tzedakah, social responsibility and compassion for those less fortunate. Many families in our Jewish community are still struggling financially. You can help by donating gifts to JFS which would provide some essentials as well as luxuries that many families can no longer afford. JFS will distribute your gifts to needy families and seniors in our community. The following are some great gift ideas: Gift cards to movies, restaurants, grocery or retail stores, drug stores, book stores, or toy stores. Gift certificates to beauty salons or barber shops. Tickets to a recreational activity. Hanukkah candles and holiday items. These are all things that would be greatly appreciated by a family who is undergoing a tough time financially. Gifts can be dropped off to the JFS office at Shalom Park, Monday–Friday, 9 AM–5 PM. Thank you for helping JFS build a stronger community! Seniors Need Transportation Mecklenburg County has discontinued subsidized transportation for senior citizens. Due to this, Jewish Family Services is receiving many calls from individuals who are stranded and have no transportation. We are in great need of drivers to take our clients to their appointments. We also need drivers for our monthly Simchas for Seniors program. Please contact JFS if you are able to become a volunteer driver. If you have a few hours every so often this can make a huge difference in the life of an older adult who can no longer drive. Please contact Natalie Tunney at 704364-6594 or Natalie.tunney @jfscharlotte.org. Y The Bea Gibbs Senior Outreach Fund Over the course of eleven years, Bea Gibbs grew the JFS Senior Jewish Outreach Program to be one of the most valued of all JFS programs. Taking care of the Jewish Seniors in the Charlotte community was not just a job to Bea, it was her passion. Bea lived and breathed her work until her untimely death on February 21, 2010. Bea is mourned by so many – her family and friends, her co-workers, the many seniors that she provided for, and the entire community that benefitted from her hard work and caring nature. In honor of Bea’s legacy of caring, JFS has started the Bea Gibbs Senior Outreach Fund. This fund will ensure the continuation of the Senior Outreach Program for many years to come and will perpetuate Bea’s goals and dreams. We are asking you to honor Bea by supporting the Bea Gibbs Senior Outreach Fund in honor of Bea Gibbs, who developed a vital connection for many isolated seniors in our community. Our goal is to raise $25,000 to ensure that JFS can continue to support our current program and funding over the September and October Cooks Suzy Catenazzo, Ruth Goldberg, Lottie Goldman, Katherine Goldstein, Marilyn Lippman, Linda Levy, Jenny Rosenthal, Francie Serbin, Marcia Stern, Lori Wojnowich next few years, and also enable JFS to expand services to seniors as the population grows. Please help us continue Bea’s vision of maintaining a vital connection for our older Jewish adults. You can make a donation to this fund by calling JFS at 704-364-6594 or you can mail a check to JFS, 5007 Providence Rd., Ste. 105, Charlotte, NC 28226. *Please make out checks to JFS with a notation for the Bea Gibbs Senior Outreach Fund. Please contact Linda Bass, Development and Communications Director at JFS, for further information .Y JFS Mitzvah Baskets were purchased for The B’nei Mitzvah of Jacob Usadi, Jacob Swimmer, Aaron Lipsitz and the Bat Mitzvah of Emily Lerner The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 17 Donations to Jewish Family Services in September 2010 WISHING A FULL AND SPEEDY RECOVERY TO Denny Freeston from Shirley and Eddie Goodman Julie Lerner Levine from Evelyn Berger, Jill and Ed Newman, Marion and David Kronovet Nora Wolf from Jill and Ed Newman Your son Charlie to Dana and Andrew Kapustin from Marion and David Kronovet IN APPRECIATION OF Linda and Morris Spil from Laura and Barry Reich IN HONOR OF Eddie Goodman from Fay Sinkoe Jewish Family Services from Mark Perlin and Michael Van Glish Rebecca and Scott Goodman from Laura and Barry Reich MAZEL TOV ON Jacob's Bar Mitzvah to Shirley and Edwin Goodman from Mildred Silverman The birth of your granddaughter to Lenora and Mike Barchardt from Shevi and Donald Herbstman The Bar Mitzvah of Jake Usadi from Suzanne Rosenblith and Kim Sholly and family HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Jeffrey Stein from Stephanie and Jonathan Simon Lisa Vogel from Brian Spector, Jami Beere, Laura Milgrim, Rochelle and Frank Weiner, the Finley family, the Freedman family, the Neuman family Michael Raffler from Fayne and Daniel Fischer Beverly Tirsun from Erika Prager Honey Kridel from Maureen Eckl Susie Bruck, Michelle Goodman and Pat Somerstein from the Wednesday Lunch Bunch IN MEMORY OF Allan Wolf to Nora Wolf from Audrey Madans, Bert Fleishman, Cynthia and Harold Turtletaub, Ellen and Steven Engelhardt, Jenny Meiselman and family, Lori and Ken Jackowitz, Lynda and James White, Lynn and Paul Edelstein, Merle and Alan Gottheim Cecile Rose to Sharon and Steven Hockfield from Patricia and Barry Golembe Jamie to Mr. and Mrs. Mitchell Goldklang from Marion and David Kronovet Jeanne Rauch to Marshall Rauch from Evelyn Berger Josef Sklut to Barbara Sklut and Eric and Lori Sklut from Casey Anderson and Michael Hugh Raus, Evelyn Berger, Rachel and Alvin Goodman, Shirley and Edwin Goodman, Susan and Maxwell Greenman Lillian Grunberger to Jim Lodge from Paula and Richard Klein Marsha Gottlieb to Dana Ditesheim from Debora and Ed Pizer, Susan and Maxwell Greenman Seymour Goodman to the ABOUT FACE & BODY ELECTROLYSIS INC. w 18 Years Experience w Competitive Pricing w Guaranteed Permanent Hair Removal w State of the Art Computerized Equipment w “New” Lash Extensions Charlotte Torah Center New Hebrew School My goal is to give you the most caring professional service in a very private relaxed atmosphere. 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Our program’s focus is on the entire family and giving the gift of positive bonding experiences through classic Jewish wisdom.” The CTCHS classes will be held on Sundays from 9:30-11:30AM at Charlotte Preparatory School beginning in January, and its first calendar year will run through May, which will give families a Manton family from Margie and Ben Liebstein Werner Moritz to Margot Moritz from Dorothy Coplon Your husband to Eileen Paroff from Lynn and Paul Edelstein Your mother to Lee Flamm from Meg Goldstein and Matthew Luftglass Your mother to Robert Ende from Roslyn and Martin Husney Your sister to Marlene and Allan Pomerantz from Marion and David Kronovet Y half-year curriculum to determine if this Hebrew School is best for them. For more information, see www.ctcschool.com and to register, call 704-367-1225. 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The discussion will be followed by a question and answer session, and then time to relax, eat and browse the library’s new books including: Freedom: A Novel by Johnathan Franzen (Oprah’s Book Club), Russian Debutante’s Handbook by Gary Shteyngart, Nemesis by Philip Roth, Great House by Nicole Krauss and many more. The event will take place in the Levine Sklut Judaic Library in Shalom Park at 7 PM. There is no admission fee and all are welcome. For more information, please call Talli Dippold at 704944-6780. Hanukkah Kits These Hanukkah Kits sold out last year, so call the library to reserve yours today. We are offering educational Hanukkah Kits that can be used to bring into a classroom to explain Hanukkah. The kits include: National Geographic’s “Celebrate Hanukkah” book, directions on how to play dreidel game, menorah and sample candles. For a nominal fee, dreidels and chocolate gelt can be added to the kits. Call to reserve your kit today, 704944-6780. The Fire Within: Jews in the Amazonian Rainforest Presented by the Charlotte Jewish Film Festival and the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library. Join the Charlotte Jewish Film Society on Sunday, November 14 at 5 PM as it hosts the second screening in the film series “Reel World: Films about the Jews around the World.” In her documentary, “The Fire Within,” filmmaker Lorry Salcedo Mitrani examines the history of the Jewish community of Iquitos, Peru over the past century. The fascinating story begins when a Sephardic sailor from Morocco on leave in a Brazilian port falls asleep in a bar and misses his ship home. Instead of catching the next ship home, Abraham Edery Fimat ends up sailing the wrong way and arrives hundreds of miles down the Amazon in the remote Peruvian city of Iquitos. To his amazement, Edery finds other Jews in the depths of the rainforest. Through the Charlotte Jewish Film Society, the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and the Charlotte Jewish Film Festival collaborate to bring quality, educational films to the Charlotte community throughout the year. There is a nominal charge of $4 for each film, which may be paid at the door. Passes for the series are available for $10. All are welcome. The third film in the series will be on Sunday, December 12 and the final film will be on Sunday, January 23. All screenings will be held in the Sam Lerner Cultural Arts Center in the LJCC at 5 PM. For more information regarding the Charlotte Jewish Film Society, please contact Debby Block at 704-944-6763. Levine-Sklut Judaic Library Book Baskets Celebrate Your Simchah with a Mitzvah Sponsoring a book basket is an easy way to make a lasting contribution to our community. The baskets are highly decorative and can be personalized for your simchah. Your donation directly supports the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and helps us enhance our book, DVD and CD collection. For information, contact Debby Block at 704 944-6763 or dblock@shalomcharlotte.org. Y Back issues of The Charlotte Jewish News are archived at www.charlottejewishnews.org The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 19 WOMEN’S NEWS Racelle Weiman on The Power of Jewish Womanhood The Charlotte Chapter of Hadassah orchestrated a thought provoking lecture in October “The Power of Jewish Womanhood: Stories that Transform and Inspire” by Dr. Racelle Weiman, the Senior Director for Global Education at the Dialogue Institute of Temple University. “The Power of Jewish Womanhood” was intended as a response to inquiries by women of varying ethnic backgrounds to explore a specifically woman’s way to transform the world—and, in particular, the Jewish woman. Those in attendance listen as Weiman weaved historic narratives which illustrated this power. She indicated that not only Racelle Weiman were women formidable in the Jewish resistance movements across Nazi Europe, as well as at the forefront of all social change and civil rights movements across the world including South Africa, Europe, Americas. Weiman reminds us that out of the 40 women which have received the Nobel Price seven were Jewish - most notably in the sciences. She pointed out how Jewish women have exerted a great influence on society in a multitude of areas, including in music, art, cinema, literature and theater. The vast evidence of an expressly “Jewish Woman’s Power” astonished and inspired the audience at Temple Israel and likely motivated the new generation of empowered women in attendance. Racelle Weiman, Ph.D. holds a B.A. in Jewish Studies from UCLA and M.A. and Ph.D. from Temple University in Interreligious Studies. She received accreditation at the Truman Peace Institute at Hebrew University, Jerusalem. Post doctoral research at the Fletcher School of Diplomacy at Tufts University in ethnic conflict resolution and the Program on Negotiation at Harvard University. Previously, she was founding Director of the Center for Holocaust and Humanity Education, Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, Ohio. Author of several textbooks, Dr. Weiman served on the faculty of the University of Haifa, Israel. Y Hadassah Celebrates Sukkot with “Sushi in the Sukkah” Sukkot inspired our local Hadassah chapter to bring a new dynamic event to Charlotte “Sushi in the Sukkah.” By blending Japanese culinary creativity with traditional festivities, over 50 women undeterred by rain, celebrated the season of our rejoicing at the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center. The evening kicked off with a joyous Sukkot observance the “Four Species Ceremony.” Complete with the traditional four species which are willow branches (aravot), myrtle branches (hadassim), palm branch (lulav) and citron (etrog) were waved in all six directions while a blessing was recited. Next, an interactive cooking demonstration led by Sushi 101 restaurant chef created a fun and delicious challenge. He inspired and aided attendees to learn how to create custom made sushi rolls. While enjoying wellpaired wine from Vintners Wine Market, the ladies experienced firsthand how to roll steamed rice, fish, vegetables and sesame seeds to create scrumptious delights. The fresh sushi rolls as well as the demonstration were generously donated by Sushi 101, accompanied by well paired wine from Vintner Wine Shop and topped off by fresh salad symbolizing the fruits of the harvest. Larry Horowitz, CLU, ChFC Join us for Serendipity Sunday Hadassah’s next great event is Serendipity Sunday which will be held on November 14 from 2–4:30 PM at Mickey & Mooch in the Arboretum. This will be a fun time with friends, light appetizers with a complimentary drink, (wine, tea, coffee) door prizes, raffles and Silent and Live Auctions. There will be a special fun Jewelry Exchange – come with a piece of costume Jewelry you no longer wear, donate it and buy another piece. Admission is just $20. Your L2 Financial 5950 Fairview Road, Suite 608 Charlotte, NC 28210 704-556-9982, Fax: 704-369-2918 reservation is your pre-payment by November 7. Please send your payment to Phyllis Korman, 11028 Round Rock Rd., Charlotte, NC 28277. Reserve your place at this fantastic event. Y Helping in the CREATION, PRESERVATION & DISTRIBUTION of your Estate Securities and Investment Advisory Services offered through Woodbury Financial Services, Inc. Member FINRA, SIPC and Registered Investment Advisor. L2 Financial and Woodbury Financial Services, Inc., are not affiliated entities. Hebrew Cemetery Association By Lorrie Klemons, publicity Hundreds of our fellow Jews reached a higher level on September 12 when they attended the Hebrew Cemetery’s Annual Memorial Day. What draws 300 people to the cemetery on the Sunday morning between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur each year? It is all about being part of a community. Being part of something bigger than oneself. Remembering those that came before us. Reaching higher and higher to a level of being and purpose and to a deeper connection to God. It’s hard to believe that the high holidays are behind us already and that before we know it, the days will be grower darker and colder as the prevailing winter season preys upon us. Brighten that darkness and strengthen the bonds that connect all Jews, both alive or dead, by becoming a member of the Hebrew Cemetery Association of Charlotte today. For more information about membership benefits, graves, prepaid funeral costs, donations, and/or including the cemetery in your estate planning, contact Cemetery Director, Sandra Goldman, at 704-576-1859 or 704-944-6854 or director@ hebrewcemetery.org. Visit the cemetery website at w w w. h e b r e w c e m e t e r y. o r g where you can learn more about the cemetery, make a donation, or get directions. Y What’s dinner without dessert? Delicious treats sweeten the evening. The ideal event created the perfect atmosphere to welcome the harvest. Many thanks to the LevineSklut Judaic Library and Resource Center for hosting the event. Motivated by the great turnout for this Sushi in the Sukkah event, Hadassah volunteers are hard at work planning for our next memorable event, Serendipity Sunday, November 14 for more information visit http://charlottehadassah.org/events. Y Charitable Gift Annuity Now Giving Doesn’t Have to Mean Giving it All Away... Current Rate: AGE RATE 65 70 75 80 85 90 5.3% 5.7% 6.3% 7.1% 8.1% 9.5% Let your tzedakah provide for you and the Jewish community ~ Low minimum amount of $10,000 ~ Fixed, guaranteed payments for life ~ A portion of the payments may be tax-free ~ May receive a charitable tax deduction in year of gift ~ May benefit multiple charities of your choice To learn more please contact Phil Warshauer, Executive Director of the Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community at 704-973-4544 or pwarshauer@charlottejewishfoundation.org At the Hebrew Cemetery’s annual meeting, September 12, more than 300 participated in a cross-denominational memorial service for the High Holidays. A copy of the latest Financial Report and Registration filed by United Jewish Communities, Inc. may be obtained by contacting Joseph Stalbow at United Jewish Communities, Inc., 25 Broadway, Suite 1700, New York, NY 10004, 212-284-6500. You may also obtain financial information directly from the following state agency: North Carolina: Financial information about United Jewish Communities, Inc. and a copy of its license are available from the State Solicitation Licensing Section at 1-888830-4989. The license is not an endorsement by the state. The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 20 Mazel Tov & Congratulations Charlotte Agent Receives Agency Hands in the Community Award Benjamin Helbein Donates $1,000 to Planned Parenthood Health Systems Inc. Allstate Insurance Agent Benjamin Helbein, whose office is located at 401 East Blvd., Suite 200 in Charlotte, has received the Agency Hands in the Community Award for his commitment to volunteering in the community. With this award came a $1,000 grant from The Allstate Foundation for Planned Parenthood Health Systems Inc. in Charlotte, where Helbein volunteers. “Benjamin is an active and respected member of the business community,” said Allstate’s Southeast Region Assistant Field Vice President John O’Donnell. “He also makes a point of getting involved personally by dedicating himself to making a difference in people’s lives.” Benjamin Helbein “Allstate believes that it is very important for corporations to take an active interest in the communities they serve. Allstate is proud of Benjamin and his efforts to support Planned Parenthood Health Systems Inc. through the Allstate Foundation,” concluded O’Donnell. Y BIRTHS Mazel tov to Lenora and Mike Burchardt on the birth of their granddaughter, Samantha Zoey Borchardt, on September 23. Proud parents are Marny and David Borchardt of Atlanta. Sherry and Jacquess Ganem pictured d arten) em (Kinderg nd nd with Emily (2 grade) and Max Gan Like man m y Charlotte fam mililies lies, wee had a numbe ber er of exce xcelllen lentt sch schooll cho h iices, but after careful considerration ion, n, we chose CJDS.. We wannte tedd Emily and a Max to have a seamless tr transition from the Jewishh Prescho chool on Sardis dis,s, and CJD DS S was ann excellent fit fo for ourr kids. We W are ver veeryy impressed witthh Ma M riasshi’ hi’ss individu vidduaaliz lizeedd approachh to to eduuca cat c tion ion,, level off involvement and gennuuine u concern for all of the students. CJDS has h instilled a strong se sens ensee of Jewish pride and a con fidence in ou our ur children. There is no greater joy thaann when our family gath g ers together to heaarr our children recite Sha S bbat prayers and share in the richnesss of our Jewish herita itag agee.. - Sherry and Jaccqu queess Ganem ingg applications. Now accepttin 8 7 4-366-4558 70 The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010 - Page 21 For her bat mitzvah project, Katie Brown organized a run to benefit Soccer for Peace, a non-profit organization which runs camps to unite Jewish and Arab children of war-torn areas in Israel in their shared love of soccer. Katie is an avid soccer player on a classic team at Charlotte Soccer Academy. Katie asked her friends to get sponsors per lap and then run 13 laps in honor of her 13th birthday/bat mitzvah on Sunday, September 26, her actual 13th birthday. The run raised close to $1,500 and Katie will be donating an additional portion of the money she receives as bat mitzvah gifts. Information on the organization can be found at their website, soccerforpeace.com. Katie is in the seventh from the left in the front row of the picture above. Charlotte Jewish Day School Celebrates $500K Win (Continued from page 14) We would like to share it with the rest of the Jewish community. Unfortunately, we can’t. But what we can do is very exciting and will benefit our students tremendously. We just sent off the proposal. And these are the highlights and the thought processes behind the choices we have made: Technology: This is the biggest item. Seven years ago we received a grant from Deutsche Bank which provided SMART boards for all of our classrooms, laptops for our students and teachers, and other technology items. It is seven years later and Quyen, our technology director, has used up all of the life of the computers in the school. In fact, it was just three months ago when she called me to her desk to tell me that we had to face the fact that we need to replace much of our technology. Although I knew that in order to stay competitive in the market of private schools, we desperately needed to stay current with our technology; I told her that we did not have the funds and that in these economic times we would have to make do. I gave her permission to buy three laptops a year at a maximum expenditure of $400 per laptop. Any more purchases would force us to have to start a capital campaign in addition to our annual fund. I think God must have heard that conversation. We are replacing the laptops and desktop computers, adding video cameras and cameras to every classroom, and creating a portable media/video/broadcasting center so that the students can produce films, movies, and broadcasts to the school or elsewhere. We are also upgrading our intercom system so that we can make announcements and play music throughout the school. We are installing a microphone in the cafeteria so we can hear people speak clearly when we have meetings and programs. We are finally going to have a new and improved website and school management system which will enhance school/parent communication, and we will actually begin moving toward becoming a “green” school. A science lab is in the planning stages and will be installed in the room across from the art and music room that was formerly the Txjnnfs!Jotvsbodf!Bhfodz The Felders and the Golds. teacher’s lounge. We are even exploring the possibility of putting up a greenhouse. Participating in the National Association of Independent School’s (NAIS) global classroom is another program for which we set aside money. This program connects classrooms from different countries as they solve world problems together. A School Bus: A thirty-seat school bus will be purchased with the proper school identification on the sides so that the city will always be reminded that there is a small, very special school in their midst. In addition to limiting the expense of hiring charter buses for our overnight trips which often totaled $5,000 a year, the school bus offers a flexibility which we never had before. Instead of being dependent on the schedules and availability of parents, we will be able to take advantage of programs and events in Charlotte and surrounding cities to enhance, reinforce, and support all that we teach our kids. The freedom this will give our teachers to take advantage of off-site opportunities is very exciting. Physical Education: Although there is no space on the playground to install additional equipment, we are purchasing a piece of portable equipment that is rugged enough to be outside and creative enough to lend itself to inspire new children’s play. Differentiated Instruction: We are purchasing the CATT Center which offers all types of strategies to assist children who struggle with one or more challenges in the classroom. What is so wonderful about this tool is that it meets the needs of a myriad of children, with or without diagnoses. A child does not have to have ADHD to occasionally need a squishy ball to help him sit still. One does not have to have a writing disorder to sometimes need special writing paper to help him organize his penmanship. Using these unique strategies will help all children. The art room, math curriculum, kitchen, and furniture are other areas that need some small upgrades. Each will directly benefit our students, whether it is in new math books, drying racks for their art projects, or new leanback chairs to help them sit still during story time. As you can see we have much to look forward to, and we have 500,000 reasons to thank and celebrate each and every one of you. Y XfÖwf!cffo!qspufdujoh!uif! Dibsmpuuf!Kfxjti!dpnnvojuz gps!pwfs!68!zfbst/ Xf!pggfs!bmm!mjoft!pg!jotvsbodf!jodmvejoh!Dpnnfsdjbm-!! Ipnfpxofst-!Bvup!boe!Mjgf/!Dbmm!vt!upebz!up!mfbso!bcpvu!! pvs!qfstpobmj{fe!jotvsbodf!qsphsbnt!up!nffu!zpvs!offet/ Ibssz!Txjnnfs! ¦! Ebwje!Txjnnfs! Dsbjh!Lbu{nbo! ¦! 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But we are able to look down an excavation hole The layers of hats on David and see several levels down to the Label’s head demonstrates the layCanaanite period. Fortunately, the ers of excavations in an archaeonarrow cavity is covered with logical dig. clear plastic, or else we would be tumbling not only 5,000 years into Hasmoneans a few hundred years the past, but hundreds of feet as before Herod I to bring water to a well. growing Jerusalem. Herod, When you walk through the though, filled it in, but it continued Western Wall tunnels, you take a to siphon water into pools below trip through your own history. The ground. The aqueduct was totally streets of the Herodian destroyed by Titus when he sacked period we walked were Jersusalem and destroyed the traveled by our ancestors Temple, but Hadrian later dug out as they went about their the pools and built vaulted arches daily business. Did they above them. The Strouthion Pool, think about the streets with its cool, dripping water, is the below them that were last thing we see in the tunnels. walked upon by their own We emerge again into the ancestors? bright, hot, sun in the Moslem We come to Wilson’s quarter of the Old City. But as we Arch, where the Western walk among the smooth, bright Wall itself extends under- Jerusalem stone that every buildground. Our group splits ing and wall is constructed of, we up here, as the men’s area pass through five of the fourteen The men’s prayer area underground at Wilson’s is below, at the wall Arch. itself, and the women’s area is Before we enter the Western above in a glassed-in gallery. Wall plaza, Doron gathers us to Here it is quieter, more give a quick explanation of exca- prayerful. I feel more peacevations. He gathers up hats from ful and spiritual at this part of many of us, places David Label in the wall as it is not as crowdfront of him, and says, as points to ed or noisy as it is above. The David’s head, “This is 3,000 years open area below is beautiful. As we traverse the tunnel, ago.” Then he places a cap on David’s head. “When the older we come to the spot where civilizations disappeared, the next the quarried stones end and residents built on top of that.” the wall around the temple The Strouthion Pool, an ancient underAnother hat goes on his head. mount is the actual standing ground water supply. “Then on top of that.” And anoth- stone of the mountain. Here I er. And so on, and so on, till David am overpowered by the stations of the cross along the Via is wearing at least ten hats. “The thought of nature itself building up Dolorosa. We turn southward and excavation levels under the wall this great height of granite. This return to the Western Wall plaza go down five levels,” Doron stone may have witnessed where some of us will visit the explains, “back 5,000 years to Abraham bringing Isaac to the Kotel for the first time. Y around 3,300 BCE, the Canaanite slaughter. Next month: The Kotel in dayOur underground tour ends light; the Davidson Center; the period.” We won’t be going down that far as the excavations that low through the aqueduct built by the City of David; Hezekiah’s tunnel. By Amy Krakovitz Wednesday morning in Jerusalem and it is hot. The sun is blaring down, the air is dry, and the heat is already close. “Does everyone have water?” Doron asks just before our bus pulls away from the hotel. There are extra water bottles for $1 at the front of the bus. The heat here is serious business; sunscreen, hats, and water are ever-present. We drive the short distance from the Dan Panorama to the Jaffa Gate. It is almost amazing the way the bus navigates the narrow streets. Cars are shooting everywhere, the turns are sharp, sitting in the middle of the bus, I am concerned that we will hit someone. But Benny, our bus driver, has been driving these streets for years. He was an Egged bus driver. 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C ontact Anna Anna Gunsher Gunsher 7 04-944-6729 Contact 704-944-6729 anna.gunsh her@charlottejcc.orrg anna.gunsher@charlottejcc.org www .charlo ottejcc.org www.charlottejcc.org 7YV]PKLUJL9VHK*OHYSV[[L 7YV]PKLUJL9VHK * *OHYSV[[L The Charlotte Jewish News -November 2010 - Page 24 Newly Formed Levine Cancer Institute Provides Innovative Model for the Delivery of Cancer Care Officials at Carolinas HealthCare System (CHS) announced a major gift from the Leon Levine Foundation that will be a catalyst for major innovations in the delivery of cancer care in communities served by CHS facilities. The Levine Cancer Institute (www.levinecancerinstitute.org) is made possible by a $20 million leadership gift from the Leon Levine Foundation, its largest gift to date. Additionally, to honor this extraordinary support from the Levine family, Carolinas HealthCare Foundation and community volunteers have pledged to raise $5 million in endowment funds in support of the Institute — representing a total commitment of $25 million. All totaled, Carolinas HealthCare System plans to invest more than $500 million over a ten-year period, supplemented by local philanthropy in communities served by CHS facilities. Joseph G. Piemont, President and Chief Operating Officer of CHS, said the first phase of development will include “the recruitment of nationally prominent leadership and medical teams, building on the outstanding base of medical teams that currently practice in the region.” It will also include, he said, “the start-up of new programs and treatment protocols that will significantly improve the quality of services available at CHS hospitals throughout the Carolinas.” Initial funding will be used to create an enlarged physical facility in Charlotte, expanding the Morehead Medical Plaza II building from one story to six. This expansion will provide a prominent and easily identifiable headquarters for the Institute on the campus of Carolinas Medical Center. Clinical activity there will focus heavily on rare and complex cancer conditions, in conjunction with extensive research and educational endeavors. The Institute will also facilitate an extensive outreach effort to build upon the achievements of CHS-affiliated hospitals and providers, according to Dr. Roger Ray, Executive Vice President and Chief Medical Officer for CHS. Dr. Ray said the Institute will serve as a catalyst in sharing preventive strategies and best practices on a System-wide basis. In addition, it will foster easier access to clinical trials and shared access to the latest clinical research protocols. In announcing the gift, Leon Levine noted that cancer is a disease that touches the lives of virtually every family in the United States. He said the time has come for Charlotte “to take a national leadership role in building a research and treatment model that provides enhanced benefits and offers more hope to greater numbers of people. “Instead of focusing on a more tradition model of centralizing cancer services at a flagship hospital, the Carolinas HealthCare System approach seeks to do the opposite — offering compassionate care at convenient locations using state-of-the-art equipment and protocols,” said Mr. Levine. “This approach positions CHS and its partners among the most innovative providers in the nation.” At a press conference to formally announce the gift and new institution, the Levines were joined by Michael Rose, president of Carolinas HealthCare Foundation, Michael C. Tarwater, CEO of Carolinas HealthCare System, Dr. Jeffrey Kneisl, medical director of the Blumenthal Cancer Center, Diane Glenn, a cancer survivor, and James E.S. Hynes, Chairman of the Board of Commissioners of the Carolinas HealthCare System. The day of the press conference was clear and cool, bright sunshine attesting to the good news that was announced. Autumn, traditionally a time for new beginnings, was evident in the blue sky and puffy clouds overhead. tunity to ensure that all CHS communities can benefit from the strength of programs already developed and the expertise of physicians and other specialists already in place. “The innovations introduced by Levine Cancer Institute are representative of an exciting model for detecting The Levine family: Eric and Lori Sklut, Leon and Sandra cancer, treating patients Levine, Alfred and Amy Dawson, Alvin Levine. and conducting cancer research. Putting all the pieces into place at Diane Glenn, a breast cancer CHS will require commitment, survivor who discovered her dis- foresight and teamwork on an ease when her child was just ten unprecedented scale. With the months old, brought tears to many support of our regional affiliates, as she talked of her struggle and physicians and community leaders final victory over the illness. like the Levines, I am confident of Fulfillment of the current success and convinced that the vision is expected to take a long-term benefits for our patients decade, according to Tarwater. will be truly extraordinary.” Y Tarwater said formation of the The Levine Cancer Institute Institute provides a timely oppor- Tarwater spoke admiringly of the Levines: “They are once again proving the deep sense of devotion they have to this city and to this region.” When Sandra Levine spoke, she talked of how she and her family were touched by cancer and how the experience moved both her and her husband to sponsor this gift. The Charlotte Jewish News - November 2010- Page 25 Have You Considered Your Legacy? “The greatest use of life is to spend it for something that will outlast it.”— William James By Phil Warshauer, Executive Director, Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community I recently stumbled across the above quote from William James, who at his death in 1910 was viewed by many to be America’s foremost philosophical writer. The quote made me think. My reflective state may have something to do with the strategic planning process that the Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community is currently undergoing or a result of having recently attended my 30th college reunion. I find myself asking a lot of questions of myself and of others. And, as I reflect on Mr. James’ quote I think about one of those questions, “What is my legacy?” In a blog, I read that legacy is something you create now, that will continue to benefit the lives of others when you’re gone. The author of the blog compared a legacy to a “footprint in the sand.” I’d prefer to think of a legacy as having more of a lasting impact unaffected by the ocean washing away that footprint. We should want our legacies to stand the test of time, impact others and “outlast us.” During our lifetimes we have the opportunities to leave our marks in many different ways. For many of us our greatest legacy is our children. We influence them each day with our actions or inac- tions, our laughter or sorrow and our successes or failures. We provide for them financially, with a commitment of time and provide spiritual and educational guidance. We hope that through our encouragement and support they will reach their full potential and not only build upon the foundation we have provided them but soar to even greater heights. And, when we are no longer around they will remember our influence, appreciate our contributions to their success and lead in the same manner that we tried to lead them. We also create legacies in our work. We establish and build our own businesses or leave our marks as employees. There are stories that will live forever about individuals working together to accomplish things many felt to be impossible. Many of us can look no further than our own ancestors to see the legacies that have been created from their beginnings as immigrants in a new country. And after their successes they enhanced their legacies as volunteers to serve the needs of our community with the gifts of time and money, determined to make this world a better place. We build and nurture these organizations in the same way we nurture our children and at some point must let go, left to watch them grow and prosper on their own. We can look no further than our own Jewish community to admire and appreciate the legacies created by others that continue to serve us and our children. The vision of Shalom Park, our Hebrew Cemetery and our synagogues are a tribute to those who preceded us. Like our own family members we have continued to nurture and provide for our Jewish community and future generations will judge us based on our contributions to its success. What will our legacy be for those whom we precede? What mark do we make or will we continue to make that will outlast us? In many ways the organizations that comprise our Jewish community are like another child. We have provided for them throughout our lifetime and should consider leaving a lasting gift to them to help secure their future. One of the roles of the Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community is to help you answer some of these difficult questions and assist you in providing for that other family member that will be part of our legacy, Charlotte’s Jewish community. We are here to assist you on that journey. Y For additional assistance in creating your own lasting legacy please contact Phil Warshauer at 704-973-4544 or pwarshauer@ charlottejewishfoundation.org. 35th Citywide Interfaith Thanksgiving Service A rabbi, a minister, and an imam gave a sermon together….. No, it’s not the beginning of a joke! It’s a very special 35th Annual Citywide Interfaith Thanksgiving Service. For 35 years, the Charlotte community has gathered in the days before Thanksgiving to pray, sing, and build community together. This unique expression of civic and religious pride includes scriptural readings from many faith traditions, a sermon delivered by a prominent clergyperson from the community, and participation by dozens of houses of worship. This year, in honor of this special anniversary, the service will feature an interfaith sermon presented by Rabbi Murray Ezring of Temple Beth El, Imam Khalil Akbar of Masjid Ash-Shaheed, and Minister Nicole Massie of the Park Church. As always, the Mecklenburg Ministries Interfaith Adult and Children’s Choirs will sing. The service is always moving and beautiful. We hope you can join us. This year’s Interfaith Thanksgiving Service will be held Tuesday, November 23 at 7 PM at St. Paul Baptist Church, 1401 Allen Street. Y Who may ascend the mountain of the incorruptible? And who may stand up in My holy place? A person with clean hands and a pure heart, who neither takes false oaths by My life, nor swears deceitfully. That one will bear blessings from the Source of All, vindication from God, who saves. - Psalms 24:3-5 The e Char Charlotte rlotte Preschool JJewish ewis sh Pres schooll wishes you y ppy Tha a Ha nks giving! 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The evening featured the premiere of the documentary film, “In The Footsteps of Elie Wiesel”; an on-stage dialogue with Holocaust survivor and Nobel Laureate for Peace Elie Wiesel and Echo Student Ambassadors; and the presentation of the 2010 “Echo Award Against Indifference” to Sandra and Leon Levine. A Patrons’ Reception at the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art followed. The “Sandra and Leon Levine Medal for Life” will be awarded to individuals whose actions call forth the best in human nature and inspire us all to reach our highest potential. Its creation is a tribute to Sandra and Leon Levine, whose generosity and vision has made an unequalled contribution to the quality of life in our community. The Levines may be involved in the recipient decision-making process, and will be invited to present the medal. The Echo Foundation anticipates the inaugural medal will be presented at the New York Premiere of “In The Footsteps of Elie Wiesel.” “Sandra and Leon Levine have given so much to the Charlotte region, they are more than deserving of this unique gift. Their names are synonymous with compassion and generosity. With the “Sandra and Leon Levine Medal for Life,” we not only express our gratitude to Sandra and Leon, but we create a path for recognizing those around the world whose generous spirit has made a substantial impact in the lives of othLisa Bixen of Serfina Custom Design Catering and her ers,” said Echo President Stephanie assistant, Maddie, stand by their sweet creations. Hugh McColl presents the award to Sandra and Leon Levine.Photo courtesy Mel Morganstein, Photos by Mel. The specially commissioned Sandra and Leon Levine Medal for Life. Ansaldo. The Echo Foundation commissioned world-renowned artist Mark Podwal to design the “Sandra and Leon Levine Medal for Life.” Podwal, known for his many illustrated books, stained glass windows, New York Times op-ed page drawings, and more, also designed Nobel Peace Laureate Elie Wiesel’s Congressional Gold Medal bestowed by President Reagan. Inspiration for the medal’s design came from the Levines’ philanthropic activities and their Jewish heritage. The front of the medal evokes an ancient Israeli coin, featuring a lyre and the biblical verse Psalm 89:3 in Paleo-Hebrew. The name of the medal, “Sandra and Leon Levine Medal for Life,” arcs halfway around the coin. The reverse side is inscribed with the same verse, which reads, “The world is built upon loving kindness,” in both Paleo-Hebrew and English. Many friends and family members joined the Levines at the Patrons’ Reception where they and Prof. Wiesel enjoyed tasty treats created by Serafina Custom Design Catering, including a special cake for Dr. Wiesel’s upcoming birthday. In addition, Serafina donated a cupcake for every attendee at “A Night to Remember” in celebration of Dr. Wiesel’s birthday. Y Errors - who can discern them? Cleanse me of hidden flaws. Restrain Your servant also from willful sins; let them not rule over me. Then I shall be sound, cleansed of great transgression. - Psalms 19:13-14 Great Wall Of China The Art of Fine Chinese Cuisine FREE LUNCH FREE DINNER Buy 1 Lunch Entree and 2 beverages and get second entree of equal or lesser value up to $6.25 Buy 1 Dinner Entree and 2 beverages and get second entree of equal or lesser value up to $9.95 11:30 AM - 3 PM Mon- Fri 12 Noon - 4 PM Sat Not valid with Sunday Buffet. Dine In only. Not valid with any other offers. 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This leadership award, established in 1998 at the JCC Maccabi Games hosted in Charlotte and named in memory of an outstanding leader and gentleman from our Charlotte Jewish community, is presented annually to a member or members of the Charlotte JCC Maccabi Games delegation who demonstrates tremendous fortitude despite adversity and who displays Aaron Whetstone, center, accepts his award as his parents proudly look on. To advertise in the Business Card Directory, contact one of our sales representatives: Rita Mond, 704-366-6632 Jodi Valenstein, 704-841-4040 Front row(L to R) Sarah Fellman, Mariah Bernanke, Melanie Zimmerman; back row(L to R) Carly Coben, Rachel Denenberg, Jenny Swerdlow, Rachel Hall, Sarah Klein, Coach Stephanie Garner, Talia Stier, Kelsey Jervis, Lydia Safir the perseverance to achieve goals that appear unattainable. The award recipients this year are: Mariah Bernanke, Carly Coben, Rachel Dennenberg, Sarah Fellman, Rachael Hall, Kelsey Jervis, Sarah Klein, Lydia Safir, Talia Stier, Jenny Swerdlow and Melanie Zimmermann. Recent previous winners of this award have included: Adam Levinson, Alex Widis, Andrew Fishkin, Matt Baron, Sammy Brown, David Plaus and Reid Worrel. For the eighth consecutive year, a newer award for the JCC Maccabi Games program in Charlotte was also presented. Named in memory of Amy Beth Rosenberg, former Associate Director of the JCC Maccabi Games who very sadly and very suddenly passed away in the spring of 2003 at the age of 36 and who was one of the key continen- tal staff insuring the success of the JCC Maccabi Games for many previous years, the award is presented annually to a member or members of the Charlotte JCC Maccabi Games delegation who displays “extra ordinary” behavior while participating at the annual JCC Maccabi Games. The winner of this award is Aaron Whetstone who exhibited extraordinary sportsmanship during his tennis matches. Aaron is a tenth grader at Ardrey Kell HS. He now joins recent previous Rosenberg award winners Brooks Corcoran, Sarah Platock, Max Wasser and Kyle Worrel. Congratulations to all of this year’s award winners for their accomplishments in earning these well deserved and prestigious honors. We will look for great future accomplishments from all of these young athletes. Y Levine JCC Highlights Jewish Family Life at Annual Meeting Levine JCC Highlights Jewish Family Life at Annual Meeting The 24th annual meeting of the Sandra and Leon Levine Jewish Community Center (LJCC) was held October 12. Marni Eisner and Elise Kosofsky, meeting co-chairs, introduced the Leadership Appreciation Awards. This year the Volunteer of the Year honor was awarded to over 70 individuals who coached during the 20092010 seasons. Philip Berman, LJCC CEO and Larry Schwartz, Board President, presented the President and Executive Director Award to Dr. Scott Menaker for his years of outstanding service to the J. Scott has served the community as a Director, Officer and President. Scott is stepping down from his position on the Board after more than 20 years of enthusiastic leadership. Scott led the D’Var Torah in which he emphasized the contributions of the coaches, who teach lasting lessons about teamwork, persistence, and success. He commended them for following God’s entreaty to care for the children who are entrusted to protect the Torah. A short video about the Levine JCC was premiered. Many of those filmed commented that the J is their “home away from home.” The LJCC is grateful to Glenn Fishkin and his team who donated BUSINESS CARD DIRECTORY ADAM ALTMAN Attorney at Law Business Formation, Contracts & Transactions s Litigation s Wills, Trusts & Estate Planning 704-544-2500 aaltman@gormlaw.com Gorman & Associates, P.A. www.gormlaw.com COSTA RICA TOURS, LTD. Costa Rica & Panama Specialists 704-541-8680 www.costaricatoursltd.com info@costaricatoursltd.com PRIVATE & 2011 GROUP TOURS Panama with Canal Transit: January 12-17 Costa Rica Variety: January 17-23 Costa Rica Nature: February 14-20 Costa Rica Gardens: March 11-18 Pictured are new Levine JCC Board Members, Michael Baumstein, George Cronson, Elaine Moody, and Mark Perlin, pictured with Judy August (past Board President, 3rd from right) and Larry Schwartz (current Board President, far right). their time and expertise to create the piece. Five departing Directors, Scott Menaker, John Baron, Larry Fleishman, Eric Kent and Michael Stier, were honored for their service to the LJCC. Judy August, past President, presented the new slate of Officers and Directors, which the general membership unanimously approved. Larry Schwartz will continue as President. Mark Lerner, Dana Kapustin, and Andy Cohen are the elected Vice Presidents. Members newly elected to the Board are Michael Baumstein, David Berger, Lisa Blau, John Box, George Cronson, Ken Golder, Jeff Gorelick, Elaine Moody, Mark Perlin and Jonathan Wilk. President Larry Schwartz put a delightful twist on his remarks by demonstrating how the J’s activities read like Robert Fulghum’s “All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten.” He thanked everyone who shared their time and resources this year, especially noting the increased participation in the Distinctive Member Circle, a LJCC philanthropic giving program. Larry commented on the LJCC’s extensive facility investments and the importance of The Butterfly Project which commemorates the 1.5 million children who perished in the Holocaust. He spoke of coaches helping our children learn to play fair and the love that bind us together as a community. CEO Phil Berman praised the Levine JCC employees for their exceptional work and commitment to excellence. Employee milestone anniversaries were recognized: Suzie DeSarno – 20 years, Stephanie Garner and Barry Schumer – 15 years, Mitch Ormand and Dan Vizzini – 10 years, and Eddie Gluck – 5 years. 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