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Fall /Winter 2016 Photo Supplied by Treasured Moments Photography WEDDING MINISTER Rholey Tailoring Alterations WEDDING GOWNS | DRESSES | SUITS SandyPowell No generic vows. Let me tell “Your Love Story” with custom vows Non-Denominational Prices start at $200 Getting married next week or next year, contact me. 910-352-5176 spowell@ec.rr.com Our goal is to satisfy the customer with all their tailoring and alteration needs. 910-685-5995 4414 Wrightsville Ave | Mon-Sat 8:30 - 6:00pm (910) 508-2517 HISTORIC TILESTON Wedding Receptions • Rehearsal Dinners Parties • Meetings From its grand entrance, to its high ceilings, wooden dance floor and elegant chandelier highlighting its historic art and exquisite architecture, The Upper Room 1871 makes a lasting impression. 412 Ann Street • Historic Downtown Wilmington Contact Victoria Hudson: vhudson1871@gmail.com 910-538-9885 • www.upperroomnc.com ADA Accessible Facility Visit us on Facebook 2 HISTORIC (910) 793-4044 TILESTON wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com CoralCloudsPhotography.com The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 By The Sea DJ & Event Planning Wedding Ceremonies Receptions Rehearsal Dinners Commitment Ceremonies Anniversary Parties Bachelor (ette) Parties 4 Hour Packages Starting at $550 Over 11 Years of Experience Jonathan 910-250-0133 www.bytheseadj.com bytheseadj@gmail.com (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 3 from elegant SIMPLE to the most Catering to suit your budget and taste. “The grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, someone to love, and something to hope for.” - Joseph Addison Congratulations You’re Getting Married! Now comes the exciting but trying time when you have to shop for all the things that will help make your wedding day everything you want it to be. How will you remember everything you need? How can you be sure of getting expert, friendly advice? Start right here! The Perfect Wedding Planner magazine and your area wedding professionals have compiled this guide to help you find the wedding products and services to suit your taste and budget. 910-392-7167 910-399-3811 The Perfect Wedding Planner magazine and your local wedding professionals wish you all the best as you shop for your special wedding needs. 1319-CC Military Cutoff Rd, Ste 198, Wilmington, NC 28405 910-793-4044 contact@theperfectweddingplanner.com diamondfoodenterprises@gmail.com www.diamondcateringservices.com Beautifulof Wilmington Brides Best Wishes Tom Wunder, Publisher In Business for Over 35 Years We are the areas oldest single owner bridal shop - experienced and caring. Your one stop for everything you need to perfectly coordinate and plan your wedding. Quality dresses at discounted prices for every budget from $100 up, with 100’s of styles to try on and 1000’s we can order. Stop in today and see what we have to offer. University Centre 412 S College Road, Ste 53 A few doors down from Sam’s Club (910) 395-0052 BeautifulBridesofWilmington.com 4 (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 The areas most elegant bridal show is back! Wilmington’s Wedding Showcase presented by Magazine Meet all the wedding vendors you need in person. Sample their food, hear their music, see the dresses, sit in the limos and more... Sun February 26, 2017 | 12 noon until 3 Holiday Inn Resort 1706 North Lumina Ave, Wrightsville Beach Admissions $5 | Free Parking For more info call (910) 793-4044 www.theperfectweddingplanner.com The Perfect Venue 801 Ocean is the ideal ocean front wedding and reception venue. 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Ample off street parking Perfect for weddings, receptions and events large and small Catering: 343-9902 Restaurant: 763-1791 853 S. 17th Street • Wilmington, NC 28401 (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com 1704 Market St. Wilmington, NC 28403 ( Corner of Market &17th St.), 762-5790 | www.angiesbandb.com The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 7 Congratulations, You’re Getting Married! Now comes the exciting but trying time when you have to shop for all the things that will help make your wedding day everything you want it to be. How will you remember everything you need? How can you be sure of getting expert, friendly advice? Start right here! The Perfect Wedding Planner magazine and your area wedding professionals have compiled this guide to help you find the wedding products and services to suit your taste and budget. The Perfect Wedding Planner Magazine and your local wedding professionals wish you all the best as you shop for your special wedding needs. We Offer The Most Sought After Wedding Resources In Wilmington Alterations Cakes Catering Entertainment Favors Fitness Florists Formal Wear Gift Registry Hair Salons/Spas Invitations Jewelry Lingerie Lodging Make-Up Ministers Officiants Photographers Reception Facilities Rentals Transportation Travel Agents Videographers Wedding Planners Need Help Planning Your Perfect Wedding? Visit our website and sign up to get all the resources you need for your perfect wedding. www.ThePerfectWeddingPlanner.com 8 (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com Click The Register Here Button The Perfect Wedding Planner MAGAZINE Fall/Winter 2016 Every event Middle Of The Island caters is treated the same – with top priority, because catering is all we do. 910-256-4273 or 910-540-1457 www.MiddleOfTheIsland.com Serving Wrightsville Beach & Wilmington Since 1959 V ’s Event Planner Understanding your style, your vision. An elegant, intimate chapel for weddings, baptisms, and interfaith services. 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Front Street Inside the Cotton Exchange email: occasionsjustwrite@gmail.com www.occasionsjustwrite.com 10 (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com Ph: 910.256.5438 The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 PRIMARY Limousine Service Ride in Style on Your Special Day Weddings Proms Graduations Birthdays Most of our limos can accommodate up to 15 people and there’s a large door available for the Bride’s Wedding Gown 910-262-8470 primarylimo@yahoo.com Rules For A Happy Marriage 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. Never both be angry at the same time. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly. Never bring up mistakes of the past. Neglect the whole world rather than each other. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled. At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life’s partner. 9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness. 10. It takes two to make quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking. (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com TapSnap gives your wedding guests unforgettable moments. It inspires laughter and provides an exciting alternative to the dance floor. And, ultimately, it brings your guests closer together as they pose for photos with relatives and friends. TapSnap is the New Photo Booth 252-522-5255 www.tapsnap1143.com The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 11 12 (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 All Oceanfront … All Suites… All The Time 910.256.8696 910.344.0888 www.shellisland.com Experience Your Own Treasured Event by the Sea! Oceanfront Ballroom & Soundview Ballroom Weddings . Corporate Events . Special Occasions 2700 N. Lumina Ave, Wrightsville Beach , NC 28480 910-344-0888 sales@shellisland.com Design & Rental Indoor & Outdoor Events Chandeliers Edison Lights Up Lighting/ Wall Washing Gobos & Pin Spots FREE CONSULTATION Tammy Bunn | 919-796-4644 www.treasured-moments-photo.com www.budgetbrides.org | 5tinytreasures@gmail.com (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com 910-777-1741 www.IlluminatingEventsnc.com Keith@RegisterServiceGroup.com The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 13 Countdown to Your Wedding Day To help you get a better understanding of how to plan a wedding and when you should be making certain decisions, here’s a timeframe you can follow that should ensure that your wedding goes off as smoothly as possible. 10 - 12 Months Before 2 - 3 Months Before If you haven’t done it already, this is a good time to announce your engagement and introduce your respective families. Since most reception halls and churches have busy wedding schedules, it is also important to book both as early as possible, preferably at least a year in advance of your wedding day. It’s also a good idea to start putting together a guest list around this time and ask your parents whom they’d like to invite as well. Also, since your budget will determine just about every aspect of your wedding, sitting down and determining what you can spend, and developing a savings plan should be first and foremost. Finalize your guest list and mail out your invitations. If your guest list includes a considerable amount of people who are spread out geographically, mail the invitations as close to 12 weeks in advance as possible. This is also a good time to finalize your menu choices for your guests, and find all your wedding accessories such as the ring pillow, candles, etc. Also, since it is tradition to provide gifts for those in the wedding party as well as the parents of the bride and groom, this is a good time to decide on and purchase those gifts. Just to be safe, confirm that all groomsmen have ordered their tuxedos and finalize all transportation, both to and from the wedding and to the airport for your honeymoon. 6 - 9 Months Before This is the time when you want to start booking some services, such as a florist, caterer, a DJ/band, photographer and videographer. However, some of the more experienced DJs and bands as well as photographers and videographer might have their schedules booked a year in advance, so this might be something you’ll want to consider doing shortly after you get engaged and choose a date. Also, this is a good time to inform any guests who will be traveling significant distances of the date of your wedding. The earlier your guests can book a flight, the less expensive that flight will be. Now may be a good time to consider dance lessons for the bride and groom, if they are not comfortable dancing. Wouldn’t it be fun to schedule a class for the whole bridal party? It could be a fun way to relieve some anxiety. This is also a good time to order gowns for both the bride and bridesmaids, as some manufacturers require a few months to ship to bridal shops. You might want to ask someone such as your priest or rabbi to be the officiant of your wedding. And much like out-of-town guests will save travel dollars the earlier they learn of your wedding date, you will likely save money, too, if you book your honeymoon around this time. 4 - 5 Months Before 1 - 2 Months Before Schedule the first bridal-gown fitting. Also finalize the readings you’d prefer during the ceremony and mail them out to anyone who has agreed to do a reading. If your family prefers to host a small gathering for close family and friends after the wedding rehearsal, the night before the wedding, this is a good time to order any food or drinks you might want to serve that night, or make a restaurant reservation. This is also time to make reservations with a hair salon and make-up artist. 3 - 4 Weeks Before Confirm your honeymoon arrangements and see if your wedding rings are ready. This is also when you should get your marriage license and check the guest list to see who has and hasn’t RSVP’d. For those who have yet to RSVP, you might want to contact them so you can get a closer idea of what the head count will be. You should also prepare and order your wedding program around this time. 1 - 2 Weeks Before Get a final attendance count and submit it to the caterer as soon as you know of it, while also providing a final seating chart. Pick up the wedding gown and tuxedo. Make sure the wedding party picks up their attire. Also, finalize your vows and confirm all wedding-day details such as transportation, photo schedules, and addresses. And don’t forget to pack for your honeymoon. This is a good time to decide on wedding invitations, of which there are many styles to choose from. Also, now is ideal to start hunting for a wedding cake by sampling a number of different The Day Before bakeries and their style of cakes before ultimately making a decision. Just to be sure, confirm that all of the bridesmaids have orThis is mainly when you rehearse for the ceremony and make any final confirmations you might have to make. Also, make sure dered their gowns and start looking for a tuxedo for the groom as to get some sleep so you’ll look good in all of your wedding-day well as the groomsmen. If you haven’t done so already, purchase photos. your wedding rings and let any other people you’d like to participate in your wedding (ushers, readers during the ceremony, etc.) know of your intentions. wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com 14 Fall/Winter 2016 (910) 793-4044 The Perfect Wedding Planner Beautiful Flowers by June RACINE COMMONS 250 RACINE DR. SUITE 10 28403 We have a variety of different event spaces that can accommodate groups of 25 to 200. 910-617-7687 910-769-4596 www.riverwalklandingnc.com • 910.343.0408 • 2 Ann Street Wilmington, NC Photobooth Services June Sweeny Designer Schedule Your Consultation Today! Unparalled views from both our indoor/outdoor space and our waterfront deck. Known to locals for our exquisite food and 30 years of reliable service. 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How do I decide which one to walk me down the aisle? Got ideas? ~ Jennifer, Wilmington My wedding coordinator said, “no artificial flower petals” for my beach wedding. Do you know why? Thanks for your help! ~Mary Ann, Lumberton Hello Jennifer, Yes, fake flower petals are made of polyester which is plastic. The don’t decompose, but sea turtles and birds sometimes mistake them for food…which is fatal. So fake petals are pretty trash on the beach, and you can get a littering ticket for using them there! Use real flower petals instead. Use fake ones indoors only on tables, around centerpieces, or serving dishes, on the floor, hallway, or the honeymoon bed. Good news, there are many solutions! You discuss and choose which is best for your family: • if they get-along with each other, then both can walk with you, one on each side, and answer the Officiant give-away question together as “we do.” • If they don’t get-along, one can walk you halfway, stop to step aside, and you allow the other one to step up to finish the walk. Hi Mary Ann, • Mother can walk you instead, or a sister, brother, uncle, grandmother, grandfather can too. Do two Dad & Daughter Dances with both men and request each say a toast or a blessing at reception. • You & your wedmate can walk together instead, and Officiant can loudly ask Everybody “And who gives their blessings to this new marriage?” and Everyone answers “We do!” Hello Wedding Whisperer, We want my nephew and his dad to be a part of our wedding, but they are both SOOOO shy they are afraid to speak. And that ours is a gay wedding makes it more awkward for them. Is there a way for them to still be a part without a fuss? Thanks in advance for your suggestions! ~ Michael and Rayshon, Shallotte Dear Wedding Whisperer, We have a lot of guests of all ages coming to our destination wedding here, so what do we offer for entertainment without breaking the bank? ~ Amy, Charlotte Hello Amy, You have several options: the beach is one free entertainment for days or hours, and so are many public parks, and some street festivals around here. Meals: finding a fun, large restaurant and “going dutch” will take up 2-4 hours. Ask your local wedding vendors for more ideas, or surf your hotel website for “Things to Do” or surf on TripAdvisor and Yelp for more popular suggestions. Also, hotels often have card racks of Attractions in the lobby for this purpose. Hi Mike and Ray, There is lots they can do without saying a word, or be in the limelight too long: • Ringbearers – don’t have to say one word, just hand over the goods to the officiant • Groomsmen -- stand behind you silently during ceremony, hands folded, no fidgeting, breathe, relax • Ushers – escort ladies to their seats beforehand, offer them an elbow and wait for her to sit before leaving • Play a musical instrument or man the audio/PA system for ceremony music or DJ the dance music 18 (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com Pastor Margo Ross Sears is the Wedding Whisperer, a certified life coach, photographer, senior pastor of her church, and wedding officiant with her husband, Rev. David at www.beachpeopleweddings.com Send your wedding questions to Margo Ross Sears at wedwhisperer@hotmail.com. The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 Precious Gems& Jewelry Appraisals, Estate Consultations, Brokering & Fine Jewelry Design/Repairs By Appointment Deanne Karnes Hoffman Owner, Appraiser 115 N. Howe Street Southport, NC 910.815.3455 gemsplease@gmail.com preciousgemsandjewelry.com gilttripvintage.com We put the ART in PARTY! Full Service Catering Serving Wilmington to Myrtle Beach Receptions Rehearsal Dinners Bridal Luncheons Full Service Caterer MercysDryBar.com Blow Dry Bar &Salon Mercy Herradon - Owner - Hairstylist (910) 769 0303 (910) 515 6586 1221 Floral Pkwy. Suite 106 Wilmington, NC 28403 *TRIAL RUN FOR THE BRIDE ONLY. MUST BE PERFORMED IN THE SALON Photographer: Marcus Anthony Photography (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com STAFF • RENTALS • LINENS CHINA • ABC PERMIT 910.755.6642 www.artcatering.net artcatering@atmc.net 111 Cheers St. Shallotte, NC 28470 The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 19 at Airlie Gardens Candles Etc. is Wilmington’s Premier Destination for High Quality, Earth Friendly Candles and Accessories. Whether it is wedding favors, reception centerpieces or unity candles, Candles Etc can work with you to customize your candle needs. We can tailor our candles with personalized labels, unique containers, and more. Call or stop by to today to see how we can help personalize your event! 910-763-1703 Market Street `is Where “Happy Ever 25 After” Begins Downtown Wilmington www.CandlesEtcOnline.com Host your wedding at the historic, charming Mt. Lebanon Chapel 300 Airlie Road, Wilmington, North Carolina St. James Parish at 910.763.1628 www.stjamesp.org The Vintage Cupboard is a vintage style rental service offering unique and creative tablescapes for all the special events in your life. Photograph by Aria Images Poplar Grove Plantation Nostalgic breezes blow over the 1850’s Manor House; moss draped oaks and magnolias exude a sense of timeless elegance, captured in a country setting. Romance awaits amidst the ambiance of a by-gone era. Majestic trees shade expansive lawns, brick walkways and ponies graze in the pasture. It's the perfect place for your special day. 10200 U.S. HWY 17 North, Wilmington, NC 28411 Contact Christina Fennell, Wedding Coordinator 910.686.9518 x101 | chrissy@poplargrove.org www.poplargrove.org 20 (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com Proposals | Bridal Luncheons | Weddings Baby Showers | Anniversary Parties www.VintageCupboard.net tammy@vintagecupboard.net 910-408-2286 The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 Exquisite Catering FOR ANY STYLE EVENT www.atlanticcoastcatering.com atlanticcoastcateringnc@gmail.com Chef Raynor 910.617.4454 With over 30 years of combined restaurant, catering and event planning experience we can accommodate any occasion size, from a small private party to a large corporate event. Let our team of experts make your affair a memorable one! www.ItalianBistroNC.com italianbistronc@gmail.com 8211 Market St Wilmington, NC 28411 910.686.7774 Your Wedding Professional: The Vintage Cupboard If your wedding theme is a nostalgic one and you want something other than the usual table settings, Vintage Cupboard is your key to creating unique tablescapes. You can choose from a simple package of tableware To celebrate 34 wonderful years of perfect for a light luncheon, to complete full marriage, the Tice’s decided to renew course meal settings of several plates, tea their wedding vows. They opted for cup with saucer, crystal glassware, napkins a vintage country theme with an Irish and all the necessary silverware. Or, if none feel. But it turned out that the items they of the “packages” fit your needs, Tammy is hoped to find for the event were not easily more than happy to work with you to create Tammy Tice & Mary Tice accessible. Tammy Tice found that she a totally unique tableau. And there is never a needed to either purchase or create everything she envisioned minimum order requirement or a cleaning fee. for their special day. That experience turned on a lightbulb of an The Vintage Cupboard isn’t just for weddings! They rent their idea. If they were having that much difficulty finding vintage style vintage dishes, linens, etc., for any event. Think of them for the dishware and decorative items, others must be having the same next get-together you host; baby shower, engagement party, issue. And “The Vintage Cupboard” was born. anniversary dinner, luncheon, tea party, even just a special The Vintage Cupboard is a rental service provider based in romantic dinner for two! Wilmington, NC, providing unique vintage, antique, creative Seeing Tammy’s collection of beautiful yesteryear table settings tablescapes for the special events in life. A visit to The Vintage and decorations is like having the ability to travel back in time Cupboard website – www.vintagecupboard.net, will reveal SO and peeking into great grandmother’s cupboards and trunks. To many distinct pieces of available vintage dishware, silverware, have one of The Vintage Cupboard design team help you create linens and decorative items. Some items are reproductions, as the tablescapes you imagine, contact Tammy at The Vintage originals are sometimes extremely difficult to find. Cupboard, call (910) 470-9086. ~ by Sue Fryt Many business owners have some great stories about the impetus that caused them to start their new ventures. This one is sweet. (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 21 WE WILL GO THE “EXTRA MILE” TO MAKE SURE YOU ARRIVE IN STYLE! The Finest Selection In Wilmington Transportation 22 (910) 793-4044 www.AzaleaLimo.com | 910.452.5888 The Perfect Wedding Planner wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com Fall/Winter 2016 Your Wedding Professional: L&L Tent & Party Rentals Just a few months ago the folks at L&L Tent and Party Rentals brought in the ETC Party Rentals team under their wing. The merger has created the largest, strongest, most innovative premier rental company in the New Hanover County area and beyond. Now all under one roof, the new L&L Tent and Party Rentals is better positioned to provide the items and services their customers require, for any event, any size, including weddings. Brides and all clients can now meet with L&L at their newly remodeled showroom at 3701 Wrightsville Avenue Wilmington. They have it all – popular farm tables, tablecloths, linens (in every color of the rainbow) skirting, runners, chairs and covers, then for the tabletop – silverware, china, glassware, candelabras, decorative pieces. If you dream it up, chances are that L&L will have it for you! A quick walk through at their Design Center warehouse proves L&L can adorn a wedding venue in most ANY style, theme and era. (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com Think a vintage cigar store Indian is just what you need to greet your wedding guests? No problem. Really! Creating a magical, memorable day for you, in your style, is the L&L goal. If you go to the L&L website (www. llrentals.com), but don’t see exactly what you want featured on the list, L&L invites you to just call and ask. Their inventory is too expansive to list everything, and they add new items to their stock constantly. L&L Rentals is dedicated to providing exceptional service with a personal touch to all of their clients. To schedule a free wedding consultation, contact the staff at L&L via email lltentrentals@aol.com or give them a call – (910) 791.4141. The L&L goal is to do everything they can to surpass your expectations! ~ by Sue Fryt The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 23 Friends, family, food and fellowship.... ...combined with a lovely bride and handsome groom make for an spectacular wedding. And that wedding held at the beautiful garden at the New Hanover County Arboretum is a dream come true. From lovely flower gardens, roses, waterfalls, koi filled pond, the Arboretum is a wedding paradise in the middle of Wilmington! The Arboretum is perfect for the small wedding to a full scale wedding and reception for up to 250 people. Feel free to check us out – call today at 910.798.7662 to schedule a tour. • Elizabeth Dean and Jonathan Stevens ~ May 24, 2015 @ 4pm. • The photographer is Erin Whittle • Hair – Bangz Salon and Spa • L&L Tent & Party Rentals • Kindred Spirits Event Coordinator • Creative Cuisine – Cake, food, beverages • K38 Baja Grill – grilled food Dealing With the Jitters You are about to take the plunge. You should be a glowing bride, but instead you are breaking out into a cold sweat. You are panicky about more than just whether the flowers will look right and if your mom or your mother-in-law will do anything to embarrass you on your big day. You are worrying about your spouse-to-be. Can you live with the fact that he can’t be interrupted during a baseball game or how he leaves water all over the bathroom sink? Are you ready to spend the rest of your life with the same person? Relax! Pre-wedding jitters are common among those about to get hitched. Occasionally, there are real reasons to call off a wedding. But more often than not, it’s just a case of cold feet. What should you do? First, go to a quiet place to think. Do some deep breathing, and get in touch with your emotions. Ponder things like: • What you enjoy most about your spouse-to-be • The moment you knew you wanted to spend the rest of your life with him/her • What you look forward to during your marriage • Couples who have been married for years as a source of inspiration • Changes in your partner Things like less bedroom activity or petty annoyances like the fact that he didn’t empty the dishwasher this morning are related to wedding-planning stress. However, if your partner is really acting in a way or doing things you don’t like or didn’t know about him, such as abusing drugs or alcohol, speak to him or a counselor. Assess if these are short-term issues or ones that may persist after the big day. Serious problems may warrant that you postpone or call off your wedding. Most likely, you are both having the same jitters. If you have time, arrange a romantic evening with your partner that is free of talks about florists and photographers and away from both of your mothers! It will ease the stress and reaffirm the reasons why you are getting married in the first place. Indoor Banquet Space - Outdoor Courtyard - Custom Catering Menus Full Bar - Heated Pool - Outdoor Fireplace Weddings by With so many wedding styles from elegant to quirky, we realize the most important style is yours. Courtyard by Marriott Wilmington Photo by Renee Sprink 26 (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com Downtown/Historic District 1,879 sq. ft. Indoor Banquet Space 229 North 2nd Street, Wilmington (910) 632-2900 carrie.deal@marriott.com www.marriott.com/ilmwc The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 Catering to you... From 50 to 5,000, we can coordinate all your catering needs. Our professional staff offers twenty-seven years of experience and can assist you in selecting the most appropriate menu for you and your guests. Let our professional staff “cater to you!”... • Videography • Limousine • Wedding Cake (no charge for cake cutting) For your convenience, we offer a complete list of services to assure that your special day is memorable in every way. • Flowers • Coordinate Tent Set-up • Music • Photography • Bar B Ques • Shrimparoos • On site cooking & grilling CLIENT LIST AVAILABLE Jerry Rouse Catering www.jerrysfoodandwine.com 7220 Wrightsville Avenue (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com 910-256-8847 The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 27 How to Get Your Marriage License To be legally married while in North Carolina, the couple must have a marriage license from a North Carolina Register of Deeds only. If you are a destination bride, do NOT get one from your home state—all marriage licenses are filed at ceremony location only. You must have the license physically present at the ceremony so simply hand it to the officiant BEFORE you start the ceremony and it is that person’s job to fill it out and file it for you, too. WITNESSES: two witnesses are required. They may be anyone over the age of 18 years. This includes relatives, friends, foreigners, or friendly strangers who agree to sign for you. If eloping privately, your officiant might help you get witnesses. WHERE AND HOW: you two may get your license in ANY North Carolina courthouse Register of Deeds office, within 60 days before your wedding date. That license is valid to use absolutely anywhere inside the state. Here is how: • No blood test, no medical exam, no waiting period, no residency or US citizenship required. • License is valid immediately to use at wedding, but only for next 60 days. • Both bride and groom must be present in office. • People over age 18 years or older--both must show 2 identifications: such as social security card (or they supply an affidavit to sign stating why not) and driver’s license (or government photo ID), or certified birth certificate, or US passport, or military ID. • If either of you are divorced within last 60 days, the clerk might request to see a copy of divorce decree. Otherwise you will swear a legal oath you are legally single, upon penalty of perjury. • NC license fee is $60 cash, and some counties let you pre-pay the additional $10 for the certified copy (which happens after the ceremony). OR, you may order the certified copy of your license about 10 days AFTER the ceremony, from the issuing courthouse • FYI: your officiant does NOT issue copies. She or he only returns your license to the issuing courthouse within 10 days, usually by snail mail. You can start the application process online too at nearby courthouses: New Hanover County (near Wilmington, Leland, Wrightsville, Carolina, Kure, Ft Fisher, Figure 8 and Topsail) Brunswick County (near Southport, Oak Island, St James, Supply, Shallotte, OIB, Sunset, Calabash) Go to www.nhc.gov/.com/ROD/Pages/.aspx Click on “Marriage Lic” You both must appear in person with IDs via the following address: Go to http://rod.brunsco.net/marriages.html You both must appear in person with IDs via the following address: 320 Chestnut Street, Wilmington, NC 28401 230 Government Center Dr, Wilmington, NC 28403 75 Courthouse Drive Bldg I Bolivia NC 28422 Ph: 910-253-2690 Ph: 910-798-7758 28 (910) 793-4044 wwww.theperfectweddingplanner.com The Perfect Wedding Planner Fall/Winter 2016 Blessings Events Event Planning | Decorating | Ice Sculptures DJ Services Available The Willie Wilhelmsen Pavilion The American Legion Post 129 1500 Bridge Barrier Rd, Carolina Beach NC 28449 The perfect and affordable setting for your wedding or special event just minutes away from the beach, lodging and other amenities. 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Or they want non-religious wording. Here are some alternative wedding phrases, which you may borrow or modify for YOUR taste: VOWS: • I (name), take you (name) to be my husband/wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our union and love you more each day. I will trust and respect you, laugh and cry with you, loving you faithfully through good times and hardship. I give you my hand, my heart, and my love, from this day forward, for as long as we both shall live. • (Name), I take you to be my wedded husband/wife. Before these witnesses I vow to love you, respect you, and care for you as long as we both shall live. I take you, with all your faults and strengths, as I offer myself to you with all my faults and strengths. I vow to do my best, and ask you do the same for me, for the rest of our lives. • (Name), my soul has two parts, the half I was born with and the half I found in you. From this day forward you shall not walk alone. Let my heart be your shelter and my arms be your home. I will love you, comfort you, honor and keep you and forsaking all others, be faithful to you. So today I take you as my dearest friend, soulmate, and wife/husband for the rest of my days. • (Shortness) I, (name), take thee (name), to be my wife/husband. I promise to always be faithful and loving to you for the rest of my life. HUMOROUS: All of your vows don’t have to be funny. You can insert a few funny phrases or quote related movies: • “to have and to hold...to be financially responsible for...” • “…in sickness and in health...and when he wants to buy expensive toys/play video games all day/watch football all day...” • Instead of “’til death do you part” use “to infinity and beyond.” • Mentioning your hobbies or interests will make your vows funny & personal. For example: I, (name), take you (name), to be my wife even while (on the golf course/shopping online/at the gym) for as long as we both shall live. RINGS WORDING: • (from movie “Corpse Bride”) With this candle I will light your way in the Darkness. With this hand I will lift your sorrow. Your cup will never be empty for I will be your wine. And with this ring, I thee wed. (combined with Unity Candle ceremony). • Come health, happiness and prosperity, I will stand with you. Come illness, challenges and change, I will stand with you. So I give you this ring as an everlasting sign of my love and commitment to you. • (from “The Princess Bride”) Mawage! Mawage is wot bwings us togeder tooday. Mawage, dat bwessed awangment, dat dweam wifin a dweam… And wuv, tru wuv, will fowoe you foweva… So tweasure your wuv. (also: “As you wish”) • This ring I give you, my personal gift and my personal promise, of love and trust, and pride that you are my husband. We will wear these rings, and the world will know that I am yours and you are mine! • This ring is a sign of my love and my commitment to you. For with this ring, I thee wed, and the world will know, that you live in my heart, my home is in your arms, and our souls share the same sweet journey forever. FINAL PRONOUNCEMENTS: • So as you declare your love, promises and commitments today, so shall you remain united from this day forth in the eyes of God/our Creator/Jehovah/All that is Holy and those who love you from this day on, into the fullness of time, thus I pronounce you… • (Shortness) As a symbol of my love, with this ring I thee wed. • May these two soulmates remain heart-bound as One in the eyes of all those who love you from this day forth and into the fullness of time as I pronounce you… KISS COMMANDS: • Therefore it is my honor to pronounce you now, as your hearts have always been, husband and wife. • I ask you now to bless each other with a kiss. • Ahoy worthy gentleman--Skipper, you may kiss your mermaid bride! • Ahoy me proud Beauty, you may kiss your salty sailor! • I ask you now to seal the promises you have made, with a kiss. • Friends, you may seal your vows with a kiss! • I ask you now to start your new Journey together, with a kiss. 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