October 2015 - Jewish Federation of New Hampshire
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October 2015 - Jewish Federation of New Hampshire
Published by the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire Volume 36, Number 2 October 2015 Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 A Gift to You From Your Jewish Federation According to the Talmud (Avodah Zarah 19a), “One should always learn Torah in the place one’s heart wishes.” This has two different interpretations: 1) that the environment and actual location where one studies helps prepare or enable one to learn; or 2) in order for any learning to take place, one’s hearts must be touched by the specific text or topic of study. The Board of Directors of the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire is pleased to announce a special gift to the local congregations and communities. We are excited to sponsor a NH visit by Mark Lazar, an Israeli educator-in-residence, for four weeks from mid-November through mid-December 2015. Mark will be available to visit congregations and organizations throughout the state and to offer programs and workshops on many topics that will touch your heart. He engages with people of all ages, exploring Jewish identity and history, modern and ancient Israel, and the Holocaust. Synagogue, chavurah, and organization leaders will have the chance to speak with Mark prior to November in order to tailor his sessions to meet specific community’s needs and interests. Through both formal presentations and lively group activities, Mark will bring new excitement and joy to Jewish learning and living. Mark’s career as a Jewish educator began in California, where he taught at supplementary and day schools, as well as at Camp Ramah, the University of Judaism, and the Bureau of Jewish Education in Los Angeles. In 4 Campaign Dollars at Work 5 From the Bimah 7 In the Community 9 Israel 11 World Jewry 12 Arts & Entertainment 13 Book Review 14 Recent Events 15 Obituaries 16 Tributes 17 Business & Professional Services 18 Nashua -- The past couple Jews, or Jewish judges have a of years have seen an unusudistinctive view of these matal number of religion-state ters? matters debated in the U.S. On Wednesday, Oct. 14, at Supreme Court and the po6:30 PM, Temple Beth Abralitical process. Same-sex marham will host a conversation riage, objections to covering Professor Noah Feldman between Rabbi Jon Spira-Savett contraceptives through mediand Professor Noah Feldman cal insurance, prayer before governmental of Harvard Law School. The conversation is meetings, accommodation of religious dress titled “Religion, Law, and the Constitution in the workplace -- these issues and more Today: A Rabbinic Discussion With Profesraise constitutional questions as well as ethi- sor Noah Feldman.” cal ones about the relations between reliRabbi Jon and Prof. Feldman met in colgious groups and secular society, and be- lege at Harvard University, and they took tween religious majorities and minorities in their first two courses in constitutional law our country. Do American Jews, religious together. Noah Feldman is Felix Frankfurt- er Professor of Law as well as a columnist for Bloomberg View. He clerked at the Supreme Court for Associate Justice David Souter. In 2003, he served as senior constitutional advisor to the Coalition Provisional Authority in Iraq, and subsequently he advised members of the Iraqi Governing Council on the drafting of the interim constitution. Professor Feldman’s books include Divided by God: America’s Church-State Problem -- and What We Should Do About It and After Jihad: America and the Struggle for Islamic Democracy. A donation of $10 is suggested to attend. Temple Beth Abraham is located at 4 Raymond Street, Nashua. The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Jewish Federation of New Hampshire 1361 Elm Street, Suite 403 Manchester, NH 03101 3 Calendar TBA Hosts Discussion on Religion, Law, and the Constitution Today Change Service Requested Federation Voices addition to professional Jewish education credentials, tion Conference at Hebrew University. He has been the Mark has been a member of the Screen Actors Guild, scholar-in-residence for the North American Alliance the Writers Guild of America, and the American Guild for Jewish Youth, the Dead Sea Conference for Inforof Variety Artists. He often combines his theatrical tal- mal Educators, and Arachim in Hungary, as well as a ent with the exploration of Jewish history and texts and guest lecturer at Limmud gatherings around the world, is a featured presenter on pedaCoalition for the Advancement of Jewish gogic techniques at the Bergman Education (CAJE) conferences, and local Seminar for Jewish Educators in conferences in the United States, Europe, Israel. and Australia. Mark is a favored teacher Since moving to Israel in 1993, in gap-year programs of Nativ, Nifty/ Mark has worked extensively for Netzer, and Young Judaea and has guidthe two service partners of the ed over 50 journeys in Poland for all ages. Jewish Federation movement, the Mark enjoys and offers leadership sesJewish Agency for Israel (JAFI) sions dealing with communications, proand the Joint Distribution Comgram and schedule planning, group dymittee (JDC). Mark served as namics, and mapping community needs. Mark Lazar, Israel Educator the director of the JAFI MaHe has facilitated sessions for synagogue chon Madrichei Chutz La’Aretz (Institute for Youth leadership, organization and community boards, reliLeaders From Abroad); and as both the deputy direc- gious school leaders, and classroom teachers. In discussing his work, Mark says, “I am looking for tor of the Buncher Community Leadership Program and educational consultant for the JDC in Bulgaria the engagement of ideas. I really strive in every session and Hungary. These programs train leaders to rebuild I do, no matter what the topic, for each individual to Jewish communities destroyed by World War II and find meaning. I don’t want to talk about something that is flat, two-dimensional; I want it to be alive and stifled by the Iron Curtain. Mark has guided numerous Taglit-Birthright Israel impactful.” For more information about the upcoming visit, see and March of the Living programs as well as worked as the senior educator in Israel engagement at the General the back page of this issue of The Reporter and feel Assembly of Jewish Federations and the Israel Educa- free to contact the JFNH office with any questions. PERMIT NO. 1174 MANCHESTER, NH PA I D US POSTAGE ORGANIZATION NON-PROFIT CONGREGATIONS JRF: Jewish Reconstructionist Federation URJ: Union for Reform Judaism USCJ: United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Volume 36, Number 2 AMHERST HANOVER MANCHESTER CONGREGATION BETENU Rebekah Goldman (Rabbinic Intern) 5 Northern Blvd., Unit 1, Amherst Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 886-1633 www.betenu.org Services: Friday night Kabbalat Shabbat services at 7:30 PM Saturday morning twice a month, 9:30 AM CHABAD AT DARTMOUTH COLLEGE Rabbi Moshe Gray 22a School Street, Hanover Orthodox, Chabad (603) 643-9821 www.dartmouthchabad.com chabad@dartmouth.edu Services: Friday Evening Shabbat services and Dinner Shabbat morning services Call for times CHABAD LUBAVITCH Rabbi Levi Krinsky 7 Camelot Place, Manchester Orthodox, Chabad (603) 647-0204 www.Lubavitchnh.com rabbi@lubavitchnh.com Services: Shabbat Services Saturday morning at 9:30 AM Sunday morning minyan at 9 AM BETHLEHEM BETHLEHEM HEBREW CONGREGATION 39 Strawberry Hill Road PO Box 395, Bethlehem Unaffiliated-Egalitarian (603) 869-5465 www.bethlehemsynagogue.org davegoldstone1@gmail.com Services: Contact for Date/Time Info President Dave Goldstone (516) 592-1462 or Eileen Regen – (603) 823-7711 Weekly Services: July through Simchat Torah Friday: 6:30 PM; Saturday: 10 AM CLAREMONT TEMPLE MEYER DAVID 25 Putnam Street, Claremont Conservative (603) 542-6773 Services: Generally the second Friday of the month, 6:15 PM, April to November. CONCORD TEMPLE BETH JACOB Rabbi Robin Nafshi 67 Broadway, Concord Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 228-8581 www.tbjconcord.org office@tbjconcord.org Services: Friday night - 7 PM Saturday morning - 9:30 AM DERRY ETZ HAYIM SYNAGOGUE Rabbi Peter Levy 1½ Hood Road, Derry Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 432-0004 www.etzhayim.org office@etzhayim.org, rabbi@etzhayim.org Services: Fridays 7:15 PM Please check the website for the Shabbat Morning schedule PAGE 2 UPPER VALLEY JEWISH COMMUNITY Rabbi Edward S. Boraz Roth Center for Jewish Life 5 Occom Ridge, Hanover Nondenominational, Unaffiliated (603) 646-0460 www.uvjc.org uvjc@valley.net Services: Friday night Shabbat services at 6 PM, led by Dartmouth Hillel Saturday morning Shabbat services at 9:30 AM, led by Rabbi Boraz KEENE CONGREGATION AHAVAS ACHIM Rabbi Amy Loewenthal 84 Hastings Avenue, Keene Reconstructionist, Affiliated JRF (603) 352-6747 www.keene-synagogue.org rabbi.ahavas.achim@gmail.com Services: Regular Friday night services at 7 PM Monthly Shabbat morning services at 9:30 AM Check the website for time variations LACONIA TEMPLE B’NAI ISRAEL Rabbi Boaz Heilman 210 Court Street, Laconia Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 524-7044 www.tbinh.org Services: Every other Friday night at 7:30 PM TEMPLE ADATH YESHURUN Rabbi Beth D. Davidson 152 Prospect Street, Manchester Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 669-5650 www.taynh.org templeadathy@comcast.net Services: Shabbat services the first Friday of the month at 6 PM All other Friday nights at 7 PM with some exceptions. Alternating Shabbat services or Torah study Saturday mornings at 10 AM TEMPLE ISRAEL Rabbi Eric Cohen 66 Salmon Street, Manchester Conservative (603) 622-6171 office@templeisraelmht.org Services: Friday night 7:15 PM Saturday 9:30 AM Mon. - Fri. 7 AM daily service/minyan NASHUA TEMPLE BETH ABRAHAM Rabbi Jon Spira-Savett 4 Raymond Street, Nashua Conservative, Affiliated USCJ (603) 883-8184 www.tbanashua.org rabbi@tbanashua.org office@tbanashua.org Services: Friday night services 8 PM 1st Friday family service 7 PM Saturday morning 9:30 AM Mon. - Thur. minyan 7:30 PM OCTOBER 2015 Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 Published by the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire 1361 Elm Street, Suite 403 Manchester, NH 03101 Tel: (603) 627-7679 Fax: (603) 627-7963 Editor: Fran Berman Layout and Design: Tim Gregory Advertising Sales: 603-627-7679 info@jewishnh.org The objectives of The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter are to foster a sense of community among the Jewish people of New Hampshire by sharing ideas, information, experiences and opinions, and to promote the agencies, projects and mission of the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire. The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter is published monthly ten times per year, with a deadline for submissions of the 10th of the month before publication. There are no January or July issues. All items, including calendar events, for the December-January or June-July newspaper must be submitted by Nov. 10 or May 10, respectively. Please send all materials to: thereporter@jewishnh.org Send items for the print and online JFNH Calendar and E-News to events@jewishnh.org Opinions presented in the paper do not necessarily represent the views of the Federation. Photos submitted by individuals and organizations are published with their permission. Neither the publisher nor the editor can assume any responsibility for the kashrut of the services or merchandise advertised in this paper. If you have questions regarding kashrut please consult your rabbi. The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter is overseen by the JFNH Publications Committee, Merle Carrus, chairperson. All materials published in The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter are ©2015 Jewish Federation of New Hampshire, all rights reserved, unless noted otherwise. Shabbat Candle Lighting Times: (Manchester) October 2 October 9 October 16 October 23 October 30 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter 6:06 PM 5:54 PM 5:43 PM 5:32 PM 5:22 PM Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 Reflecting on Anti-Semitism and Our Role in World Affairs We live in New Hampshire. We are fortunate. As our state motto “Live Free or Die” suggests, the people of New Hampshire generally tend to be tolerant of one another’s differences, following the advice of Voltaire: “Think for yourself and let others enjoy the privilege of doing so too.” Living here openly and without fear, as Jewish citizens of our state, we may sometimes forget that life is not as relaxed and unworried for many Jews living in other places throughout the world. In last month’s issue of the Reporter, we published a highly informative letter written by Rabbi Tom Cohen of Synagogue Kehilat Gesher in Paris, France, about the Paris bombing earlier this year, and subsequent events of religiously inspired violence that have so affected the lives of France’s Jewish population and Rabbi Cohen’s congregation. Rabbi Cohen’s description of the events that Message from the Co-Chairs Bob Selig Jeff Crocker have transpired in France since the bombing -- the continuing fear of violence, the need for soldiers to provide armed protection -- all of those things should remind us of the good fortune we daily take for granted here in New Hampshire . Recently, we read with concern that the number of recorded anti-Semitic incidents in Great Britain escalated in the first six months of this year as compared with 2014. There were 473 recorded incidents between January and June of 2015, including two classified as “extreme violence,” which represents a 53% rise compared to the same period last year. According to a recent report released by researchers at Tel Aviv University, the number of violent anti-Semitic attacks around the world surged nearly 40% last year. We also read with great dismay about the stabbing death this summer of a 16-year-old girl, Shira Banki, by Yishai Schlissel, a Haredi Jewish man, at the Jerusalem Gay Pride Parade. According to reports, Shira did not identify as LGBT, but in their eulogy her parents, Uri and Mika Banki expressed support for “the right of everyone to maintain their way of life and customs. Our fight,” they said, “is with the lack of tolerance, the hatred, and the sanctifying of one’s goals at the expense of other people’s pain.” In a recent email conversation with JFNH co-chair Jeff Crocker, JFNH cochair Bob Selig wrote, “We in New Hampshire are not alone in the world of Judaism. We have responsibilities.” He posed the following questions: “How important is Israel to Jewish life in New Hampshire? How important is defense against anti-Semitism in the world to Jewish life in New Hampshire? How important is defense of defenseless Jews in the world to Jewish life in NH? What can JFNH do to help?” These are important questions to contemplate, especially at the beginning of a new year, for each of us individually and for our statewide organization. Please tell us what you think. We invite your comments. Please accept our best wishes for a happy, healthy, and peaceful new year. Federation Makes a Difference Worldwide and at Home The Jewish Federation of New Hampshire offers a variety of programs and services to communities and congregations throughout the state. These range from our preschool, the NH Jewish Film Festival, and the NH Jewish Reporter newspaper to support for religious schools, Israel travel, camp, and more. Through our grant process, organizations can request start-up or special event funding twice a year. During the next few months, I’ll be traveling to each community to learn about your needs and interests. By the end of the year, I’ll work with the Board of Directors to develop an action plan in response to my learning. I’m encouraged to find some commonalities among the places I’ve visited thus far, and I am confident that JFNH will be able to develop and support useful and meaningful initiatives in the near future. If we choose, the impact of our local Federation can extend far beyond its geographic borders. We are part of a community of 150 other Federations and 300 small communities in the United States and Canada. Together, we raise over $900 million through our annual campaigns and emergency campaigns, and through our central organization, the Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA), we distribute over $2 billion from JFNA-managed foundations and endowments each year. Federation impact in the United States emanates primarily from our Washington, D.C., office, where staff and volunteers advocate for a variety of social service and vocational programs, as well as legislation that expands support for people with special needs. Onefourth of 130,000 Holocaust survivors in the United States live in poverty, and the Washington office seeks basic services, home health assistance, and emergency aid to increase their quality of life. In addition, the Jewish Federation Secure Community Network (SCN) works with the F.B.I. and Homeland Security. The SCN puts out weekly alerts and runs workshops with Jewish organizations to improve their safety. To care for people outside of the United States, JFNA works with several partner agencies, most notably the American Joint Distribution Committee (JDC) and Jewish Agency for Israel (JAFI). Our service provider to “a world of needs” is the JDC, which operates in over 70 countries regularly and is always ready to respond to emergencies in other locations. The JDC is a most impressive organization, with myriad programs. It Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 The New Hampshire Laurie Tishler Mindlin Executive Director cares for homebound elderly in Ukraine who are so poor they don’t have resources for both food and medicine. It was among the first agencies to arrive in Haiti and Nepal, bringing emergency supplies and working to rebuild communities. When Fidel Castro allowed religious practices in Cuba after it was illegal for two generations, the JDC taught Cuban Jews how to create and run synagogue communities and to lead prayers and life cycle celebrations. The JDC works in Europe to revitalize Jewish communities that suffered under Communist rule and educates future generations of Jews at community centers, summer camps, and family retreats. In Sderot, Israel, the JDC developed therapeutic programs for children and adults living under stress from constant rocket attacks. The JDC, the Jewish Federation’s partner, is so capable that when the religious movements in the United States have campaigns to help victims of disasters, they are funneled through the JDC to implement the response. The Jewish Agency for Israel serves as the main link between the Jewish state and Jewish communities everywhere. JAFI connects the global Jewish family, bringing Jews to Israel and Israel to Jews, by providing meaningful Israel engagement and facilitating aliyah. Our local Jewish Federation has participated in the JAFI Sheliach (Israel ambassador) program in the past, and we hope to participate again very soon. The JAFI continues to be the Jewish world’s first responder, prepared to address emergencies in Israel and to rescue Jews from countries where they are at risk. JAFI has seen a 300% increase in aliyah since January 2015, primarily from France and Ukraine. I am so proud to be a part of this worldwide network. No matter how our donors and directors choose to distribute our charitable support, the Federation offers us many high-quality, well-managed opportunities to make a difference. Do you live in Keene, Laconia, Bethlehem, Hanover, or another NH community and want to help produce the Jewish Reporter? We are looking for people all over the state who are interested in writing about their local Jewish community. To get involved, contact thereporter@jewishnh.org Jewish Reporter PAGE 3 Friday, October 2 Geoffrey Brahmer presents “Windows to the Holocaust in the Netherlands” 5 PM, Bethlehem Hebrew Congregation, Bethlehem This presentation is based on the diaries and letters of Etty (Esther) Hillesum, a 27-year-old writer, and Philip Mechanicus, a young journalist, both transported to Westerbork when Holland (a long-time refuge for Jews) changed as Germany occupied the Netherlands in May 1940. Free and open to the public. www.bethlehemsynagogue.org. Pot Luck Dinner in Sukkah Sukkot-Shemini Atzeret and Yizkor Evening Reform Service 6 PM, Upper Valley Jewish Community, Roth Center, Hanover More information: 646-0460 or uvjc@valley.net. Monday, October 5 Upper Valley Jewish Community Services Wednesday, October 14 10 AM, Sukkot/Shemini Atzeret and Yizkor, Roth Center, Hanover 6 PM Simchat Torah Community Celebration, Roth Center, Hanover More information: 646-0460 or uvjc@valley.net. Religion, Law, and the Constitution Today: A Rabbinic Discussion With Professor Noah Feldman Tuesday, October 6 7:30 PM, Congregation Betenu, Amherst More information: 886-1633 or www.betenu.org. Center, Hanover More information: 646-0460 or uvjc@valley.net. Sunday, October 4 Sunday, October 11 Temple Beth Abraham Sisterhood Paid-Up Membership Brunch SNHJMC Breakfast and Speaker: “Setting an Example: Teaching Our Children and Grandchildren About Gender Roles in Tomorrow’s World Simchat Torah morning service Musical Sukkot Service led by Sarah Noyovitz 10 AM, Upper Valley Jewish Community, Roth Simchat Torah Service 6 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester More information: www.taynh.org. PAGE 4 Hadassah Book Club 7 PM, Jewish Federation of NH, 1361 Elm St. Suite #403, Manchester More information: Michele.bank@gmail.com or 488-5657. 6–7 PM, Etz Hayim Synagogue, Derry More information: 432-0004 or www.etzhayim.org. 9:30 AM – Noon, Temple Beth Abraham, Nashua Relax, schmooze, and enjoy the entertainment while eating a delicious meal. Your dues can be paid at the door. RSVP deadline was September 29. More information: Carol Kaplan at 860-4163, cakaplan@ hotmail.com or Carol Mann Cohen at 216-2849, carolmanncohen@gmail.com. Tuesday, October 13 9:30 AM, Temple Beth Abraham, Nashua The Southern New Hampshire Jewish Men’s Club hosts Rabbi Jon Spira-Savett speaking about the Jewish perspectives on gender roles and their place in the modern world. A hot breakfast of eggs and potatoes is included, accompanied by bagels, lox, whitefish salad, and more. Cost: $5 for paid-up members, $10 for others. For more information, visit www.snhjmc.org. The New Hampshire 6:30 PM, Temple Beth Abraham, Nashua Rabbi Jon Spira-Savett and Professor Noah Feldman of Harvard Law School will discuss constitutional and ethical questions about the relations between religious groups and secular society, and between religious majorities and minorities in our country. Do American Jews, religious Jews, or Jewish judges have a distinctive view of these matters? $10 per person suggested donation. Friday, October 16 Musical Shabbat 7:15 PM, Temple Israel, Manchester A wonderful musical service led by Cantor Sarra Spierer. No cost, all are welcome! More information: Christine at the temple office 622-6171. Saturday, October 17 cost, all are welcome! More information: Christine at the temple office 622-6171. Sunday, October 18 L’Chayim Food Festival 12–3 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester Delicious Jewish food. More information: www.taynh.org. Friday, October 23, 2015 Family Shabbatl 6 PM, Temple Israel, Manchester A family Shabbat service followed by a catered meal. Registration is required by 1 PM on Wednesday, October 21. More information and to RSVP contact Christine in the temple office at 622-6171 or office@ templeisraelmht.org. Monday, October 26 Sisterhood Paid-Up Dues Dinner 6 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester More information: www.taynh.org. Wednesday, October 28 Fall Rummage Sale Temple Beth Abraham, Nashua This is the Sisterhood annual Fall Rummage Sale. Drop off and set up will be on Tuesday Oct. 27. More information: Ricki Klopfer 465-7654 or rickik4@aol.com. Junior Shabbat 9:30 AM, Temple Israel, Manchester Temple Israel’s Hebrew School students will assist in leading a children’s service with Kiddush to follow. No Jewish Reporter www.jewishnh.org Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 Camp Stories Elliott Frank, son of Mandy and Barry Frank of Bedford, is a sixth grader and a member of Temple Adath Yeshurun in Manchester. He received a first-time campership grant through the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire and the Foundation for Jewish Camp. Elliot Frank The URJ 6 Points Sci-Tech Academy is one of Union for Reform Judaism’s camps. It’s set in a classic New England landscape at the Governor’s Academy in Byfield, Massachusetts, just 45 minutes north of Boston. This camp has five core values: kesher (connection), sakranut (curiosity), taglit (discovery), kavod (respect), and savlanut (patience). They incorporate these five values to help make camp a better place. The camp offers six different workshops: Earth and Sky, Forensics, Robotics, Video Game Design, Web and Graphic Design, and Digital Film Production. I picked Digital Film Production and learned a lot about how to make an awesome movie. They also have you choose four chugs (electives), two for each week. They switch every year. This year they had rocketry, flight, food science, the chemistry of making things, Rube Goldberg, 3D Printing, Makerspace, Magic, and more. They split you up by age and gender for your halls. A hall is a floor of a dorm. They have separate halls for girls and boys. They use three dorms. They have The Rosie Dorm, The Ramon Dorm, and The Baer Dorm, named after Ralph Baer, the father of the video game, who recently passed away as a member of Temple Adath Yeshurun in Manchester. I was in a two-person room with a bunk bed with a kid from New Jersey. My session had 114 kids from 20+ states and three countries. We started off the day by waking up at 7:10 and witnessing the Boker Big Bang. It’s a science experiment that often ends up with a bang. My favorite one was when we launched 1,200 ping pong balls with liquid nitrogen. Then we went to breakfast, and let me just say that the food is spectacular. Then we had our workshop. Next we had a chug, and then we had livnot, building time. This could be designing, learning, or building sci-tech mezuzot with test tubes and rulers. Next came lunch, resting time, and sports. And yes, 6 Points even has sports! Adam Klein, MANTY’s advisor, was one of the sports directors. Every day we had choices such as tennis, quidditch, gaga, and capture the flag. Chug, workshop, and shower hour follow sports. It is a requirement that you shower every day, as well as make your bed. In the evening, we had dinner and then a song session. Then we had a night-time Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 • Emma Plater Elliott Frank at 6 Points Sci-Tech Academy event. We could watch a movie, play games, or go to the pool (which we got to do three times.) Next, we sang some songs like “Hashkiveinu” and went to bed. On Shabbat, we did a couple of different things. We had a Shabbat dinner of brisket, salad, and matzo ball soup, and a fun service afterward that was almost all songs. On Saturday, we slept late and had a Shabbat “Shelective” after services. Some examples are Israeli navigation, challah making, stump the Rabbi, and predict the future of the prayerbook. After lunch, the whole afternoon was based on a theme. Ours was Superhero Shabbat, where we visited the world of AntMan and played giant games and did obstacle courses. On one of the days in the final week, we had “trip day,” where each workshop visited a different place and then we all met up at the Boston Museum of Science. Digital Film Production went to New England Studios and got a tour of the facility. We got to go into the rafters of the sound stage. The Earth and Sky group provided an interesting twist for the whole camp as we got clipped by the edge of a real tornado as we were leaving the Museum. On the final night, we had TECH talks, where each workshop presented what it did. I would definitely recommend 6 Points Sci-Tech Academy. There has been some talk about adding either Makerspace, Food Science, or Aerospace as a new workshop. So come to 6 Points SciTech and give it a try! Thank you to the Jewish Federation of NH for providing me with a first-time camper grant. The New Hampshire This summer I went to Crane Lake Camp. It was so much fun because I got to do so many different things, like sports, dance, gymnastics, climbing, seeing the animals, and zip lining. It made me a better Jewish person because they taught me blessings before meals. We also said blessings after meals. This was to help me to be thankful for what I have to eat. We also learned Shabbat prayers. We sang songs before bed. One of the songs was called “Hashkiveinu” and that was my favorite song. Shabbat at Crane Lake was different than at home because we had a service and we could sit anywhere with our friends. We learned many blessings. Each week at camp was a different theme (curiosity, love, and peace), and we spent a lot of time on Shabbat talking and learning about this theme. After the service, we had a dance and a celebration. We also had a special dinner before Shabbat services. Every year, they have a Color War. During Color War they split the camp into two parts. The team colors were white and blue in honor of the Israeli flag. It was four days long. Each day there was a different activity for the whole group and for the smaller group. The names this year were “Blue Uprising” and “White Empire.” I was on the “White Empire” team. One of the activities they did was called “chop.” Chop was when they had a piece of wood (all teams had the same size piece of wood) and there was a little hand axe, a pair of goggles, and a pair of gloves. The older campers worked on cutting the log, while the rest of the team cheered them on. My favorite activity was “tug.” It was a game of tug of war, and whoever’s side won the most won that game for their team. Every team member could help with tug of war. There were many other fun parts of camp, but the ones I wrote about were my favorites. I was lucky enough to win one of the four puppies. Her name is Tess and she is six months old. I can’t wait for next summer so that I can go back to Crane Lake Camp. Emma Plater, a resident of Chester, is nine years old. She received a first-time campership grant through the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire and the Foundation for Jewish Camp. • Russell Plater When I went to URJ 6 Points Sci-Tech Academy, there were a lot of different fun things there. I took the Robotics class. There were four activities that you chose called chugs. I chose virtual world design, Minecraft, LARPing (live action role play), and 3D printing for chugs. A couple of sports I did while at camp were rock climbing, tennis, swimming, and gaga. We learned about prayers and Judaism at camp, and we also learned how it is important to have a balanced life and stay active and fit. Camp Stories continued on page 6 Creating Family Memories to Last a Lifetime 60 Canterbury Street • Andover, MA 01810 AAndoverCountryClub.com d C t Cl b • 978 978-475-1263 475 12 Jewish Reporter –Wedding Receptions –Bar/Bat Mitzvahs –Corporate Functions –Fundraisers –Family Celebrations PAGE 5 Camp Stories Camp Stories continued from page 5 In Robotics we made three robots. At first, we learned about robotics by building a simple robot. Then we made the second one for the first challenge, and the third one we built for the second challenge. My team’s robot collected fake brains and foam blocks. We learned five Hebrew words in Robotics; kavod is respect, kesher is connection, sakranut is curiosity, taglit is discovery, and gemishut is flexibility. Our team had to learn to be flexible (gemishut) and work together to get the robot finished. We also had to show respect (kavod) for ourselves and for other campers and their ideas. Our connection (kesher) was that we all wanted to build a robot. Learning about robotics showed curiosity (sakranut), and by building our robots and learning through our mistakes we demonstrated discovery (taglit). Every Shabbat morning we had a twohour service, and after the service we had to make a connection to another part of our lives. For example, we had Superhero Shabbat. On this day, we played games, designed our own superhero, and got to do other special events. We did all of this to help us remember to keep Shabbat as a day of rest. We also sang songs at bedtime to show our thankfulness for the fun day. I am excited to go back to Sci-Tech for a fabulous second year in the Robotics program. I hope to be able to go back for many more years. Russell Plater, a seventh grader from Chester, is 12 years old. He received a first-time campership grant through the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire and the Foundation for Jewish Camp. • Jacob Savage I’d like to begin this article by thanking the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire for the grant toward my first experience at Jewish sleep-away camp. This grant helped me experience something that totally changed me for the better. I can’t imagine what my summer would have been without having gone to Camp Derryfield students have a passion for learning— and colleges know it. • 72% admitted to top choice • Average merit aid $32K (per student, per year) • 100+ colleges visit campus each fall • 1-on-1 personalized college counseling Jacob (center) enjoys the last Shabbat at camp with two friends Tel Yehudah -- it made my summer one that I will always remember. To start off, everything good anyone says about sleep-away camp is true. It is an experience like no other. This year was my first time, at 16, going to overnight camp. I was nervous. After the first night, all of my fears dissolved. I quickly made a bond with four other guys, and we have been best friends ever since that night. The prime benefit out of going to camp is making friends like no others. During the three weeks, I made friends from all over the world, ranging from Texas to Israel. I had the opportunity while at camp to go on a couple of different overnight trips. For the first overnight trip, we went camping. During our camping trip we had to make our own food and set up our own tents. I know this doesn’t sound fun, but that night turned out to be one of the best nights of camp for me. On our second trip, we went to Washington, D.C. During this trip our goal was to make a change, and we did! Both trips taught me very important things that I will never forget and made me a better person. My favorite part of this whole experience was Makabia. This is a competition between all of the regions. I was part of the New England team, along with a couple of good friends; we were so close to winning. Makabia lasted about two days -- it was amazing. It was the climax of the three weeks. Other then Makabia, we did many activities. For example, we boated down the rapids, raved nightly, hung out in the Bet camp, and much more. Because I went this year, I plan on going to Israel next summer. I cannot wait for what my future with Camp Tel Yehudah holds. Jacob Savage, son of Alyse and Chris Savage of Nashua, is 16. He received a first-time campership grant through the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire and the Foundation for Jewish Camp. OPEN HOUSE Sunday, November 15 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. The Derryfield School is a coed, independent, college-preparatory day school in Manchester, NH, for students in grades 6–12. PAGE 6 Contact us at: 603.669.4524 admission@derryfield.org www.derryfield.org/passion Five bus routes available. The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 Sukkot Connects Us With Life’s Fragility and Joy Moadim l’Simcha – Happy Sukkot! Whether it is called Chag ha Asif (the Feast of Ingathering), or Z’man Simchatenu (the Time of Our Joy), or Chag ha Sukkot (the Festival of the Booths), Sukkot is a wonderful holiday! The ancient spiritual joy of Sukkot stemmed from relief and gratitude at an abundant harvest. Our survival these days does not depend so heavily on each year’s harvest. Even so, appreciation of what the earth brings forth unites us all, as the leaves are turning and the cooler breezes carry the scent of apples. On the Shabbat of Sukkot, we’ll break with the usual cycle of readings and read from Parashat Ki Tissa, which mentions Sukkot. Our reading doesn’t begin with Sukkot, though. We start reading when G-d has forgiven the Israelites for the sin of the golden calf. G-d offers the people a second chance, offering Moses a second set of luchot, tablets of the commandments. I imagine that the Israelites were partly reassured when Moses returned with the “good news,” but also partly wary. Rabbi in the House Rabbi Amy Loewenthal Congregation Ahavas Achim, Keene Was the rupture they created through building the golden calf irreparable? Would their sin be held against them forever? A little later, surrounded by Sukkot abundance, they realized their great fortune: They had truly been forgiven. We, too, arrive at Sukkot with a sense of starting the year with a clean slate, looking forward to being our new, improved selves. One of the most beautiful and mysterious passages is found within this reading for Shabbat Sukkot. Moses asks to know G-d more deeply. Moses says, “Please, help me to know Your ways; please, show me Your presence.” G-d responds, “I will go before you on your journey, I will travel with you, and I’ll be good to you, but you cannot see My face and live.” G-d hears Moses’s yearning and disappointment, and consoles him. Moses can’t look at G-d directly, but he can stand safely in the crack of the rock, sheltered, and see G-d’s back as G-d passes by. This sounds strange to modern ears. Is “G-d’s back” part of an anthropomorphized anatomy? Maybe, instead, we can see this as metaphor -- as if to say “G-d’s contrail” or “G-d’s vapor trail.” Although we can’t directly behold G-d in the world, we can behold traces of G-d. As a chaplain, I saw that when life is hard, when tragedy and illness happen, people sometimes ask, “Why did G-d do this to me?” and really, there is no completely consoling answer. One of the kinder answers is that life is a mystery and we simply don’t know. We don’t know how G-d works. Just like Moses, we might yearn with a great aching loneliness to understand the ways of G-d. This ache can be most profound at times of tragedy. Still, sometimes we can find traces of G-dliness, of holiness in the world. When tragedy strikes and we are brought low, we may find ourselves surrounded by a caring community. Without understanding why misfortune happens, we can see that people who carry us and shelter us when we need them most can be G–d’s “back.” This is one way G-d can be manifest in the world, through people’s goodness. Even in happy times, we are aware of our own vulnerability, which we can sense as we sit in our fragile and temporary sukkahs. We can never truly understand G-d’s ways, but in the sukkah we also sense G-d’s protection. We say, “Ufros alenu sukkat shlomech”a -- spread over us the Sukkah of Your peace -- protect us. We are grateful to be alive in this glorious season, and we are offered this festival as a time to feel pure joy -- z’man simchatenu -- the time of our happiness. May we rejoice in our festival and have nothing but joy! V’samachta b’chagecha v’hayita ach sameach ! Temple Israel Has a New Portable Ark By Steve Saulten Manchester — Many months ago, Rabbi Eric (Cohen) and I were in one of our meetings, and he mentioned that Karen Jacobs (religious school director at Temple Israel) and he were beginning to refine the curriculum for the older students to become more familiar with the Shabbat Torah services. We thought, wouldn’t it be great if we had a small ark for one Torah that could be placed in a classroom? I decided right then and there that I would build an ark. Not the Noah variety, but the Moses and the Tablets variety. I researched the instructions that God gave to the recently freed Jewish people, and it became apparent that there was no way that I could replicate the original ark. Acacia wood and gold were just not in the budget. However, I knew that I could use black walnut and make a stunning ark that the Temple and the kids would be proud of. It took several months of work in my shop, but the end product is just the right size and looks great! Rabbi Eric plans to have a ceremony after school starts to sanctify the new ark. 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We are blessed, for there are synagogues in this world that don’t have the advantage of owning as many scrolls as we do; they may only be able to afford one or two scrolls, maybe even fewer. Torahs were created to be used, and scrolls that are not used on a regular basis are neglected and disrespected. Usually, scrolls are used for the weekly parshah readings, along with special holidays. Any scroll that is not used on a regular basis should be occasionally rolled to prevent the ink from fading and cracking. A Torah scroll can acquire a “memory” if left in one spot for too long. This can cause waviness to form in the parchment, with wrinkling and creases, and it can damage the writing. With the PAGE 8 ownership of multiple Torahs comes the additional responsibility of maintaining the scrolls. Periodically, the Torah scrolls should be inspected by a qualified scribe known as a “sofer” and have damaged sections repaired. Approximately 20 to 25 years ago, two of Temple Israel’s Torahs were evaluated for major repair work. At that time, the temple board decided to repair only one of them, known as the “Mandel Torah.” There were numerous reasons for the decision, including better condition and less damage to repair. Plus, a family with temple membership had a personal interest in that scroll’s health. The temple’s rabbi at the time deemed the second Torah scroll no longer kosher. What made this scroll no longer kosher? Scrolls become “pasul,” or no longer kosher, when letters are damaged, chipped, or faded to the point of being unrecognizable. There are 304,805 letters in the Torah, and most scholars believe it is critical that every letter be perfect. Every book you read and every website you visit on the subject will state that the The New Hampshire Torah must be 100% perfect or it is 100% “pasul.” This second Torah scroll has numerous locations that show damage to the writing, with chipped lettering, large areas of fading, and letters that are just unreadable. This scroll has been unused, unread, and unloved for close to three decades, left sitting in the corner of the ark gathering dust and continuing to deteriorate. This Torah does have many good qualities, though. The scroll is short in stature, making it light in weight. It shows very few signs of wear and tear, besides the deteriorated writing. There are hardly any signs of edge fraying or tears. The sheets that make up the scroll are well sewn together and show little sign of separation. The scroll rolls up very well and overall is in good shape. Declaring a Torah scroll not kosher is paramount to filling out a death certificate. All that is further required is to sign the document and bury the body. The fate of this Torah needed to be decided. The situation was just not right and was very disrespectful. If the heartbeat of the temple is its membership, then the Torah scrolls are its soul. This Torah scroll’s soul has been neglected and disrespected for too long. Since a long time had elapsed since the last inspection, a sofer reassessed the unkosher Torah to determine the feasibility of bringing this scroll back to a kosher condition. This reevaluation gave the temple’s religious committee and board members a starting point in deciding the fate and feasibility of undertaking such a project. There were several arguments in favor of restoring the Torah. The long-term project of rejuvenating a Torah back to kosher condition would give this temple’s congregation the opportunity to perform Jewish Reporter multiple mitzvot. First, repairing and making kosher a neglected sacred scroll -- giving back its soul -- so that we might use and appreciate it. Second, educating our youth about the importance of maintaining and appreciating their temple’s sacred Torah scrolls. One way to supplement the financing of this Torah Restoration Project and to allow temple members to contribute is to hold a fundraising campaign similar to the one for the Mandel Torah repair project, which culminated back in 1997. It was suggested that the fundraising could be directed through the Hebrew school, thus allowing our students to lend a hand in the mitzvah. Member contributions could also be accepted for the purchase of letters, words, or whole sheets. A large temple gathering to celebrate the finalization of the project could be organized, with special guests. At the ceremony, the last letters would be added to the rejuvenated Torah scroll, with certificates handed out to contributors. With all of this information at hand and with thoughts to the future, the temple’s religious committee and board members decided to initiate the Torah Restoration Project. Rabbi Eric has been in touch with a sofer who is able and willing to take on this project. He has visited Temple Israel, inspected all of the Torahs for insurance evaluation, and has a very positive opinion on the feasibility of returning this Torah to a kosher condition. The Sofer has scheduled a tentative date of Sunday, December 6, to visit with the Hebrew School students, lecture, and demonstrate his trade. All are welcome to attend and help Temple Israel kick off the Torah Restoration Project. All are invited to help us perform this wonderful mitzvah. Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 Making the Jewish Connection When You Least Expect It By Brenda Johnston On August 24, I met three troop planes landing to refuel at Pease Airport in Newington, NH, at 12:30 AM,12:45 PM, and 2:45 PM. Over the years, I have had the honor and joy of meeting hundreds of flights and tens of thousand of men and women soldiers on their way to and returning from war in the Middle East as a member of the Pease Greeters. The 2:45 flight was coming in from Kuwait, but as I had an appointment with my accountant, I was only staying to welcome and thank each soldier, and I left after the moving ceremony held for each group, feeling sad not to stay and see all of the troops onto the plane. Sitting in my car in the parking area sorting through my financial records, I looked up and saw two soldiers walking by, well away from the others, so I called out to them, laughing, “Come on, climb in my car, maybe they won’t notice.” We laughed and chatted, and then I got out and we hugged. One of the soldiers was from Miami and one was from Puerto Rico. I said I was married in Miami in 1966, and I often traveled to Puerto Rico as a manufacturer’s representative. Then the Puerto Rican soldier looked at my necklace and said, “ Are you Jewish?” “Yes,” I replied, “I am Jewish.” He said, “I have a story -- I’ll make it short, My grandmother was Jewish and she escaped from Corsica to Puerto Rico, but she had to convert to Catholicism in order to be able to buy land in PR. They lived outwardly as Christians, but secretly kept some Jewish traditions. Later, my family were some of the founders of the Jewish community in Puerto Rico.” His name, he told me, is Matthew Muentes, but the Jewish family name is Shimek. What an exciting synchronicity, one I am always hopeful for when greeting troops. Matthew went on to say, “I am a very involved Jew,” explaining that in Kuwait he helped set up Shabbat services and made every effort to make the holidays meaningful for the Jews serving their country such a long way from home. They had 50 soldiers participating for last Pesach, he said. “They could really use some help over there,” he said, and he gave me the name of a nonmilitary man (Sheldon Daitch), who brings what is necessary for Shabbat and holidays to give the Jewish soldiers a connection to home and tradition (while serving in the 125- to130-degree heat and 95% humidity) a very long way from home. This was an incredible meeting, and Matthew was as thrilled as I was to share some moments with a fellow Jew. I did stay and walked with them all the way to the plane, then I gave him my card and said we here in New Hampshire will send packages to Kuwait for Rosh Hashanah. By the time you read this, our packages hopefully will have made their way to our Jewish soldiers serving abroad. Please keep these brave and dedicated troops and their families in your and your family’s prayers during the holidays and throughout the year. You can share in the extreme nachas of greeting and thanking our troops by going to Peasegreeters.org for the schedule. Brenda Johnston is a resident of Rye, NH, and a very active Pease Greeter. You can reach her at 603-396-5310. Water, the Source of Life, and Etz Hayim Synagogue Derry — The weekend of August 22 and August 23 was a wet one for Etz Hayim Synagogue in Derry, NH – and in a good way. On Saturday, August 22, folks gathered at the lakeside home of EHS president Steve Soreff and Peggy Tucker for a fantastic day of fun and spiritual renewal. There was canoeing, kayaking, and a sunset cruise on a pontoon boat, a bonfire, horseshoe playing, lounging and, of course, a lot of eating. The day concluded with a Havdalah service led by Rabbi Peter Levy. On Sunday, August 23, the synagogue held Etz Fest 5775, a giant yard sale and festival at which dedicated EHS mem- bers of all ages sold wares, manned a Jewish bake sale, held multiple raffles, made balloon animals, played folk music, grilled kosher hot dogs, face painted, and had lots of laughs. The rainy weather necessitated a move indoors, but it didn’t dampen anyone’s spirits, and the event was a huge sucCanoeing on Lake Pawtuckaway at the EHS annual cess: Etz Fest 5775 brought the communisummer picnic. Jewish Genealogy From the Shtetl to the 21st Century Derry — Jennifer Shoer, a professional Jewish genealogist, will present “Jewish Genealogy From the Shtetl to the 21st Century,” at Etz Hayim Synagogue, 1 ½ Hood Road, Derry, on Sunday, November 8, 9:30-11:30 AM. Her passion and goal is to help people reconnect with their roots and living family members. Jennifer specializes in assisting Jewish individuals in finding family members with whom they have lost contact due to time, memory loss, family conflict, and the devastation of the Holocaust. Her talk covers current genealogical stan- Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 dards; organizing and building a family tree online; talking with relatives/meeting cousins; finding living relatives; genetic genealogy; tracing your family back in time; how to craft a research question and common United States resources; identifying your ancestor’s name and place of origin; Jewish-specific resources and New England-specific resources; and free online tools and how to share your findings. For more information, contact Etz Hayim Synagogue at http://www.etzhayim.org/ or call 603 432-0004. The New Hampshire ty to the synagogue for a day of fun and raised money both for EHS and Elijah’s Table, a joint project of EHS and the Episcopal Church of the Transfiguration that provides free meals to the community. Many people and local businesses contributed to the success of the day, but EHS wishes to especially acknowledge its sponsors, Enterprise Bank & Trust, HPM Insurance, Roy Aboody/ Staffing Sense, and Jill McAlpine of Berkshire Hathaway/Verani Realty. For more information about Elijah’s Table, or to donate to the cause, please go to the Elijah’s Table blog at http:// freemealsinderry.blogspot.com. Keeping you connected eNEWS jewishnh.org Jewish Reporter PAGE 9 Gender Roles Will Be Focus of Men’s Club Nashua — On Sunday morning, October 11, at 9:30 AM, the Southern New Hampshire Jewish Men’s Club proudly presents Rabbi Jon Spira- Savett of Temple Beth Abraham, who will engage in lively conversation related to Jewish perspectives on gender roles and how we connect those views in the modern world. His talk is entitled “Setting an Example: Teaching Our Children and Grandchildren About Gender Roles in Tomorrow’s World.” We live in a time of unprecedented gender equality. Yet we know that there are messages, sometimes unspoken, that we send to both boys and girls about career and parenting. What are we conveying to our children and grandchildren about what we value in their futures, as family members and people with career ambitions? Do you want to advocate the life pattern you have lived in your family, or something different? Rabbi Jon will reflect a bit on his upbringing and the Spi- ra-Savett synthesis, followed by a discussion with those attending. As always, a hot breakfast of eggs and potatoes will be served, accompanied by bagels, lox, whitefish salad, and all the trimmings Cost is $5 for paid-up members and $10 for others. The breakfast talk will take place at Temple Beth Abraham, 4 Raymond Street, Nashua. The Southern New Hampshire Jewish Men’s Club has been operational since 1982, meeting monthly for Sunday brunches. The mission has been loosely based on building a fellowship of likeminded men who wish to share their commitment and values to those in the greater NH Jewish community. The SNHJMC has been a nonprofit organization serving all of southern NH’s Jewish communities, regardless of synagogue membership, for over 30 years. Anyone interested in joining the Men’s Club should contact SNHJMC president Mark Dickens at president@snhjmc.org or visit www.snhjmc.org. Speaker Asks, ‘Is the Two State Solution Dead?’ Nashua — On Sunday, November 8, at approach to resolution of the conflict. 10 AM, renowned Middle East scholar What then? Bernard Avishai will review the Israel/ All are invited to join in this thoughtPalestinian conflict and ponder the ques- provoking discussion on the future of the tion, “Is the two-state solution dead?” at Israel/Palestinian relationship. A light Temple Beth Abraham in brunch will be served folNashua. It has long been lowing the talk. RSVP is held by diplomats that esrequested to Omanut@ tablishing a Palestinian aol.com. state including the Gaza Bernard Avishai is visitStrip and the West Bank ing professor of governalongside Israel would rement at Dartmouth Colsolve the Israel/Palestinlege and adjunct professor ian conflict. This premise of business at the Hebrew has been the official posiUniversity. A Guggenheim tion of the Israeli governfellow, he is the author of ment, the Palestinian AuThe Tragedy of Zionism, thority, and many in the A New Israel, The Hebrew international community. Republic, as well as dozens Middle East scholar The unilateral withdrawal of articles on politics, Bernard Avishai by Israel from the Gaza business, and the Middle Strip followed by rocket attacks and re- East conflict in such publications as taliatory wars, and the breakdown of Harper’s, The New York Review, New governance/increase in extreme violence York Times Magazine, and The New in places like Syria, Iraq, and Libya have Yorker, where he is a regular blogger. He led some to think that establishing a Pal- is a former editor of Harvard Business estinian state may not be the preferred Review and international director of in- tellectual capital at KPMG. His new book, Promiscuous: Portnoy’s Complaint and Our Doomed Pursuit of Happiness, was published in 2012. Hadassah Plans Book Discussion and More Manchester — The Manchester Chapter of Hadassah Book Club is reading The Tin Horse by Janice Steinberg. A discussion will be held on Tuesday, October 13, at 7 PM, at the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire Office at 1361 Elm Street, Suite #403, Manchester. Hadassah’s next chapter meeting will be held on Thursday, November 5, at 1PM at the JFNH Office. At this meeting, a drawing will be held for two gift certificates, one for $75 and one for $25 for a restaurant of the winner’s choosing. Tickets cost $5 each or five for $20 and are available by contacting Linda Feinberg, chapter treasurer, at 645-6762 or lhfeinberg@gmail.com. Donations will go toward completing and equipping Hadassah’s Sarah Wetsman Davidson Hospital Tower in Ein Kerem, Jerusalem. Your participation and support will be appreciated. Hadassah has an ongoing promotion of a Gifting Campaign to introduce new women to the organization. Current Life Members and Associates may give free, unlimited gifts of an annual membership to women 17 years of age or older. Each annual membership will last for one calendar year from the date the gift is processed. This campaign will expire on December 31, 2015. Hadassah is still offering a lovely sterling silver open heart necklace on a chain with a minimum donation of $100. The proceeds go toward completing the operating rooms of the Sarah Wetsman Davidson Tower. For additional information about Hadassah, the ticket drawing, the Gifting Campaign, or the open heart necklace, please contact Michele Bank, chapter president, at Michele.bank@gmail.com or 488-5657. Mark Lazar, Israeli educator, will visit New Hampshire Nov. 12 - Dec. 15 under the auspices of JFNH. He can custom design any session on any theme for most age groups (see a few suggested topics below). Contact JFNH at office@jewishnh.org or 603-627-7679 to arrange for Mark to visit your community. FOR ADULTS ISRAEL A Bridge Too Far? A Look at Israel/Diaspora Relations Is Zionism Dead? From the Precursors to the Founders to Post-Zionism Too Many Cooks? Israeli politics Israel Update: Current events hitting the news JUDAIC STUDIES Jewish Values Auction: An activity prioritizing Jewish values and setting goals in community Personal Reflections and Pirke Avot, The Sayings of Our Fathers The Sun Also Rises: Selections and discussions based on Kohelet (Ecclesiastics) Jewish Identity: Past, Present and Future Creating a Page of Talmud: A contemporary exploration of an age old method PAGE 10 HISTORY The Story of the Jewish People...standing on one foot! Yochanan Ben Zekai and the Survival of the Jewish People Theatrical Reflections of the Holocaust Deciding the Jewish Future, circa 1850 Poland...1,000 Years of Jewish Presence FOR TEENS Dilemmas of an Israeli Soldier Connecting to Israel...an interactive workshop Israel/Diaspora Relations...and how do I fit in? Jewish Values Auction: An activity prioritizing Jewish values A Look at Jewish Sexual Ethics: From tradition to contemporary to self G-d Wrestling: An interactive session of traditional and contemporary views of G-d Personal Reflections and Pirke Avot: User friendly text looking at ourselves Cycling Through Life Jewishly: An interactive session on the Jewish life cycle The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Youth and the Holocaust: Exploring the Shoah through the testimony and poetry of youth The Meaning of Life ...through the words of Kohelet FOR YOUTH (School Age to B’nai Mitzvah) These sessions usually are comprised of a few opening games, storytelling, and creative drama. The themes below work well within this framework: Israel Torah Jewish Life Cycle Jewish Values Holidays Prayer History Jewish Identity Holocaust (age appropriate) TRAINING AND CURRICULUM DEVELOPMENT Board Leadership Training Teacher Training Camp Staff Training Family Programming Program Planning:Yom HaAtzmaut, Yom HaShoah Pedagogic techniques using Drama and Games Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 The Shabbat Project Aims to Unite a Million Jews Worldwide At a time when the Jewish world seems more polarized than ever, The Shabbat Project (https://www.theshabbosproject. org) is seeking to mobilize more than one million Jews worldwide to pause and observe the Sabbath together this Oct. 23-24. The goal of The Shabbat Project (also referred to as The Shabbos Project) is to allow Jews from all walks of life to share in one of the most profound and central Jewish traditions -- to rest, reflect, and rejuvenate -- “keeping it together” as a global community. Currently, the Shabbat Project is scheduled to take place in more than 500 cities around the world, from Australia to the United Kingdom, from France to Israel, from Russia to the United States. “Modern life has become fragmented; we are constantly pulled in different directions by distractions, demands, and onerous responsibilities that pile up with increasing speed. We seldom get the chance to be truly present. In a world of fragmentation, Shabbat enters to offers us that chance to connect and unite as a community,” said Dr. Warren Goldstein, Chief Rabbi of South Africa and the founder of the project. The Shabbat Project was born two years ago in Johannesburg, quickly proving so popular that it spread across social media and grew into a global grassroots movement. To date, thousands of special local events are planned, including synchronized challah baking, communal meals, prayer services, concerts heralding Havdalah (a ceremony marking the end of the Sabbath), and even weekend-long celebrations. In many ways, The Shabbat Project is a holy global flash mob, a coordinated action, taking place at the same time around the world. For those who have never experienced a traditional 25-hour Jewish Sabbath, The Shabbat Project website offers plenty of user-friendly instruction as well as channels to connect with other participants -- both in real and virtual space. “Shabbat enables us to momentarily set aside the distractions, demands, and pressures of daily life, offering us the time and space to renew our inner selves, and to revisit and reinvigorate our most important relationships,” said Rabbi Goldstein. “We thought that Jewish unity was actually a pipe dream and some kind of utopia that we would never get to. And yet The Shabbat Project gave us a taste of the possibilities of what could be. The Israel Photo Gallery With this issue, The Reporter begins a new feature: The Israel Photo Gallery. Send us your very best photo taken in Israel, with an identifying caption, and we will publish it. These photos can be of scenery, people, or historic sites. Only one photo per person, so choose carefully! Please send your high-resolution jpeg photo to thereporter@jewishnh.org. Friday shoppers during Purim were greeted by bunny-eared salesmen in Jerusalem’s Machane Yehuda. This photo was taken by Fran Berman while on the JFNH Mission to Israel in 2006. Planning a Trip to Israel? If you are planning a trip to Israel, JFNH has a special gift to send you on your way: a Sister City luggage tag! Designed to incorporate photos of New Hampshire and Hof Hacarmel and featuring the Hof HaCarmel Connection logo, this luggage tag can serve as a reminder of the link between our communities -- and help you find your bag Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 when it’s on the carousel in the airport. So let us know if you are planning a visit to Israel by stopping by or calling the JFNH office at 627-7679. We have a luggage tag just for you. And if you want to visit the beautiful region of Hof HaCarmel while you are in Eretz Yisrael, we can suggest places to go and people to meet. The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 11 JPPI’s Annual Assessment: Six Top Trends Affecting the Jewish People Worldwide Jerusalem — Changing Jewish demographics and power structures, the polarization of American Jewry, growing antiSemitism in Europe, and the BDS (boycott, divestment, and sanctions) movement highlight the six top trends affecting Jewish people worldwide, according to the Jewish People Policy Institute (JPPI). These trends are detailed in JPPI’s 2014-2015 Annual Assessment of the Situation and Dynamics of the Jewish People, which also includes a deep analysis of the geopolitical situation and its impact on the Jewish people and Israel. In late June, an executive summary of the Assessment was presented to Prime Minister Netanyahu and the full Israeli cabinet by the Institute’s chairmen, Ambs. Dennis Ross and Stuart Eizenstat. with Avinoam Bar-Yosef, JPPI’s president, and Dr. Shlomo Fischer, the project’s head. Avinoam Bar-Yosef emphasized: “27% of American Jewish kids (0-18) are Orthodox, most of them Haredi, and 64% of this age cohort in New York City, are being raised in ultra-Orthodox households. This is a trend that should not be ignored. The good news is that in the next decade we may see an enhanced connection to Israel. The bad news is that it may generate deeper rifts within the broader Jewish community and risks weakening Jewish impact in American society. The ultra-Orthodox community is lower income and less prepared for 21st century realities and challenges. This creates an urgent need to develop policies and to re-think the investment of resources to encourage and better prepare the young generation for assuming responsibility for the global future of the Jewish people.” Here are some of the Assessment’s additional findings: BDS The most pressing concern is that today’s colleges will produce tomorrow’s leaders and opinion shapers and alter deterioration of civil security, Europe is public perceptions. Therefore, the threat in the throes of political turmoil and lies in the general erosion of Israel’s very identity crisis. Anti-Semitic incidents legitimacy in the United States, which doubled in France and the United Kingcould spread to the wider public opinion dom last year, and more than 1,700 jithrough constant demonization and vili- hadists have returned to Europe from fication, which has Syria. Despite keen become more acceptefforts made by the • The increase in the number able in the mainFrench authorities to of the American ultra-Orstream. protect them, many In order to overFrench Jews do not thodox requires policies to come polarizing potrust their governengage them in the general liticization, the top ment to do so, and Jewish community and the Jewish leadership in feel excluded from the Diaspora and Isfull civil participation larger American society. rael should undertake in the country. Most • Greater connection to Israel a community-wide French Jews have inis seen in the future generadialogue in order to vestigated emigradistinguish between tion. French immitions, but enhanced risk of legitimate criticism of gration to Israel has polarization exists within Israel’s policies and grown from 3,300 in the Jewish community delegitimization of 2013 to 7,300 in 2014. the State of Israel itOut of 480,000 self. Such a determination will enable the French Jews, more than 9,300 are expectorganized Jewish community to effective- ed to move to Israel by the end of 2015. ly fight BDS and expose its genuine antiDemographics, a Positive Development Semitic face. Today, there are 14.2 million Jews in American Jews Polarized the world. Taken together with the “parin Support for Israel tially Jewish” and the Russian immiThe latest data show that the American grants in Israel, who are of “no religion,” Jewish community is becoming more po- but fully integrated in the Jewish Israeli larized in regard to its support for Israel. life, the number reaches 16 million. This For the first time studies show that liberal is very close to the number of Jews in the views correlate with more “distance” world in 1939, on the eve of the Holofrom Israel and that the liberal American caust Jewish community finds unequivocal Chabad is growing and may become support for the policies of the Israeli gov- one of the strongest Jewish streams in ernment more problematic. America Younger Jews in general have a greater There are 959 Chabad Centers in attachment to Israel, in large part be- America, while only 595 Conservative cause of their participation in Taglit - synagogues and a little over 800 Reform Birthright and Masa programs. Temples. And, Chabad Centers are a The Rise of Anti-Semitism in Europe worldwide phenomenon, serving Jews and the Movement of Jews From Europe globally, a claim that no other stream The outlook for Jewish communities in can make. Europe is not positive. Due to economic Chabad plays by different rules than downturns in some countries (France in mainstream Jewish organizations and inparticular), demographic shifts, and the stitutions. They are not concerned with “membership,” nor with group and denominational boundaries. They are much more concerned that individual Jews do mitzvot and endow the world with divine purpose and meaning through individual acts of tzdedakah, tefillin, and Sabbath observance -- without demanding membership fees and long-term commitments. Chabad thus seems particularly suited for to an individualist fluid age of “symbolic ethnicity. Preliminary research indicates that involvement with Chabad encourages Jewish engagement and commitment in ensuing years. Growing Orthodox Population Orthodox Jews today make up only 10% of the American Jewish population, but they are significantly younger than the American Jewish population as a whole, and their birth rates are much higher. Orthodox Jews are more attached to Israel than other Jews are: 61% say that they are very emotionally attached to Israel, while only 27% of other Jews indicate the same feeling. Analysis of the Pew reports on American Jewry shows that the growth of Orthodox Jewish children signals a trend of growing support for Israel in the coming years but less influence on the general American society, as ultra-Orthodox Jews, who make up 62% of the Orthodox population, also affirm social isolation and believe that secular education and culture is less important than their tradition. Therefore, they have a narrower and less instrumental engagement with the larger American society and political agendas. JPPI is an independent policy planning think tank established by the Jewish Agency for Israel. The mission of the Institute is to ensure the thriving of the Jewish people and the Jewish civilization by engaging in professional strategic thinking and action-oriented policy planning on issues of primary concern to world Jewry. Keeping you connected eNEWS PAGE 12 The New Hampshire jewishnh.org Jewish Reporter Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 Klezmer Music and Dance Coming to Nashua Nashua — Temple Beth Abraham is excited to announce a weekend of klezmer music and Yiddish dance classes and performances in Nashua on Saturday night, November 21, and Sunday morning, November 22. Steven Lee Weintraub remembers, as a young child, dancing along with his parents as they Lindy hopped in the living room. He also remembers the hora danced at family events. Later, in his twenties, “Dancin’ Steve” studied ballet and modern dance with Alvin Ailey and Erick Hawkins. From that experience, Weintraub decided that dance should be easily accessible and that one shouldn’t need a page of notes to be able to follow a dance routine. Weintraub moved on to work with a Jewish dance company, mostly performing Israeli dance. He then became inter- ested in klezmer music and Yiddish dance, which he researched by watching old movies and interviewing older people who remembered the dances. He now teaches a contemporary version of Yiddish dance. He has taught his approach to Yiddish dance at KlezKamp, KlezKanada, and other festivals and workshops. He has also taken his dance instruction around the world, including Krakow, Furth, London, and Paris. Dancin’ Steve says, “Yiddish dance speaks to all people, even outside of the Jewish culture. They can relate to the bitter sweetness and joy of the dance.” Klezmer music has been called the soul music of the Jewish people. In the early 18th century, klezmer musicians traveled from shtetl to shtetl playing at Jewish weddings. Throughout Eastern Europe, these Yiddish dance tunes were used for drink- ing songs, love songs, wedding processionals, and liturgical melodies. Over the last generation, they have seen a surge in popularity and international acclaim. When the music is played slowly, it can make you want to cry, and when it is played to tempo, the urge to dance is irresistible. Steve Weintraub, also sometimes called the “Pied Piper of Yiddish Dance,” will be teaching the dances using a followthe-leader technique that will get everyone up and moving. Israeli dance is different than Yiddish dancing. Israeli dancing or circle dancing follows a structure, with choreographed steps. “Yiddish dancing is more of a kaleidoscope, a freilach that may seem chaotic when you are doing it right,” Weintraub says. “It is more about where you go in space, about the use of your body and space.” Some of the dances are similar to barn dances, square dances, or clap dances, with circles turning into lines. “You will be having fun before you know it,” the Pied Piper of Yiddish Dance says. “I have a lot of goodies in the attic.” The fun begins on November 21 at 7 PM and continues on November 22 at 10 AM at Temple Beth Abraham, Raymond Street, Nashua, NH. For more information or to purchase tickets, contact Heidi Lovitz, Director of Education and Programming, at 8839844 or email director@tbanashua.org. Reservations are also available by visiting the Temple Beth Abraham website, tbanashua.org. These events are cosponsored by the Temple Beth Abraham Religious School, the TBA Life-Long Learning Committee, and The Southern New Hampshire Jewish Men’s Club. Temple B’Nai Israel Hosts Benefit Jazz Concert Meredith -- Boston College’s BC bOp! will perform its first NH concert on Saturday, November 14, at The Winnipesaukee Playhouse, Meredith, NH, as a fundraiser that is part of Temple B’nai Israel’s “We Care” program. Proceeds from the concert will benefit Central New Hampshire Visiting Nurse Association & Hospice. Complimentary delicious snacks and desserts can be enjoyed at 7 PM; the concert begins at 7:45 PM. Wine and beer will also be available at a cash bar. Created almost three decades ago at Boston College, BC bOp! includes a 20-piece band plus vocalists. This awardwinning ensemble performs traditional and contemporary instrumental and vocal jazz with music from the 1940s right up to present day -- all designed to appeal to a variety of musical tastes. It has consistently placed among the top 10 college instrumental vocal ensembles in national competitions. Competitive auditions of instrumentalists and vocal performers are held each academic year in September to determine who is qualified to become a member of this talented group. BC bOp!’s musicians have performed and captivated fans at Carnegie Hall, Jazzfest in Orlando (FL), and the Reno (NV) and Lionel Hampton jazz festivals. In addition, they have performed internationally at resorts in Cancun, the Bahamas, and Jamaica. The organizer of this event, Temple B’nai Israel (TBI) of Laconia, will con- Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 Boston College’s jazz band, BC bOp! tribute the net proceeds of the BC bOp! performance to Central New Hampshire VNA & Hospice (www.centralvna.org), whose mission is “promoting dignity, independence, and well-being through the delivery of quality home health, hospice, and community-based care services.” Central New Hampshire VNA & Hospice serves Lakes Region communities in Belknap and Southern Carroll County and provides home care (nursing and rehabilitation services in the home), pediatric care (direct health care, education, and support services for children and families), and a comprehensive, teambased hospice program. Central New Hampshire VNA & Hospice is a not-forprofit, Medicare-certified provider of home care and hospice services, licensed by the State of New Hampshire. The agency is governed by a volunteer board of trustees and receives grants, state and federal funding, and private and corporate donations. Ranked the highest-qual- The New Hampshire ity home-care provider in Belknap and Carroll Counties, Central New Hamp- shire VNA & Hospice provides homecare, pediatrics, and hospice services to over 3,000 individuals every year. Anyone purchasing a $25 ticket can enjoy great music, food, and drink while supporting a local and deserving agency whose services you, too, may want to access one day. Wine and beer will be available at a cash bar. Only 200 tickets are available, advance purchase of tickets through the Winnipesaukee Playhouse box office is recommended at 279-0333. The Winnipesaukee Playhouse is located at 50 Reservoir Road in Meredith. For more information, contact tbinh.org. Peter Pan Comes to Manchester Manchester — Manchester Community Theatre Players will present the classic musical Peter Pan on November 13, 14, 15. 20, 21, and 22 at the MCTP Theatre, 698 Beech St., Manchester (the former Federation building). Based upon Sir James M. Barrie’s 1904 play about the boy who refuses to grow up, the play begins in the London nursery of Wendy, John, and Michael Darling, where the three children are visited by Peter Pan. With the help of his tiny friend, the fairy Tinkerbell, Peter takes the three children on a magical flight to Neverland. This enchanted island is home to Peter, Tink, the Lost Boys, and Tiger Lily and her Native Jewish Reporter American nation. Also in residence is the scheming Captain Hook, who is as intent on defeating Peter Pan as he is from escaping the tick-tocking crocodile, which once ate his hand that Peter Pan cut off and which loved the taste so much. The crew and cast of over 50 includes Jewish community members Alan Kaplan (director), Steve Short (company manager), Loren Hallett (choreographer), Arielle Kaplan (flight choreographer), Brooke Flanders, Tzipora Yellin, Zosia Yellin, Jess Miller, and Collin Moore. Fantastic flying, magical music, superb scenery, and colorful costumes await your arrival to Neverland. For more information, please see www.mctp.info. PAGE 13 Book Review Reviewed by Merle Carrus Sin and Atonement Featured in New Novel by David Liss Author David Liss once again has made history come alive. The Day of Atonement (Random House, 2014) is a quick-moving, suspenseful story of life in Lisbon during the Inquisition. The author’s ability to write about historical facts interwoven with a personal story makes the time period feel realistic and immediate. This is the story of what it was like to be a “New Christian” living and doing business during the 1700s in Lisbon, Portugal. When Sebastiao Raposa finds himself an orphan of the Inquisition at the age of 13, he escapes to London. There he is taken in by a benefactor, the notorious bounty hunter Benjamin Weaver. He apprentices under Weaver for 10 years and then returns to Lisbon disguised as an English businessman, now known as Sebastian Foxx. He is anxious to have his revenge on the men who imprisoned his family. Sebastian has become a practicing Jew in London even though his family had been New Christians, Jews who were forced to convert to Christianity genera- PAGE 14 tions before but are still the subject of the Inquisition. He wrestles with atonement and sin. He goes to Lisbon with the intention of making the priests atone for their sins, but as he begins to exact his violence, he is concerned that it will make him as evil as the Inquisition priests. “Yesterday I had killed in self-defense. Could I truly kill a man in cold blood? I had always believed that when the moment came, I would be equal to the task. Now here it was, and it was no longer simply a matter of rebalancing the scales of justice. A child’s life, a parent’s love, hung in the balance, and yet I found that murdering a man, even the most hated of men, was a harder thing than killing in the heat of conflict.” Of course all is not what it seems, as Sebastian finds out. He is ruthless and unafraid, feeling he has nothing to lose. But as time goes by and he becomes embroiled in many different business plots, The New Hampshire his feelings change and his hardness softens. This could be either an impediment to his success in exacting revenge or it could be his opening up to feelings of vulnerability again. He indeed has a conscience that guides him through life. This is a book of suspense, subterfuge, and romance. The reader is pulled in from the beginning and is left sitting on the edge of his chair until the final page. Characters who seem loyal may turn on you to save their own skin and fill their personal coffers. Sebastian learns he cannot trust anyone until the final ship has sailed. David Liss is the author of six fascinating novels, including, The Coffee Trader and A Conspiracy of Paper. Liss was born in New Jersey and raised in Florida. Once an encyclopedia salesman, he received a BA from Syracuse University, an MA from Georgia State University, and an MPhil from Columbia University. He left Jewish Reporter his dissertation unfinished to pursue his writing career. Liss lives in San Antonio with his wife and child. I would like to mention briefly two new books by New Hampshire authors. Be on the lookout for The Jews That I Knew: Voices From the Invisible Ghetto, by Ed Schwartz. Through a series of essays and poems, Schwartz shares memories from his childhood, revisions of Shakespeare from Yiddish theater, and even a psalm praising G-d and his lost children. Former columnist for the Concord Monitor and the NH Bar News, Nashua attorney Michael Davidow is the author of Split Thirty. “The back door beckons to a prodigal son,” writes Davidow in his new book, where politics meets advertising at the crossroads of hope and faith. The plot follows the main character as he weaves a path through bribery, burglary, and blackmail. Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 At the bottom of the TBJ Holocaust Memorial, granite and other pieces make a Star of David surrounding the memorial. The students designed the memorial after hearing from survivors and children of survivors, as well as viewing a montage of Holocaust memorials from around the world. Temple Israel recently inaugurated a new podium cover, donated by the Singer/ Sydney family. Want to see your organization’s photos here? Send them to thereporter@ jewishnh.org. The Temple Beth Jacob Holocaust Memorial, dedicated on September 13, was designed and created by the TBJ Gesher (high school) students last spring and summer. The tiles up the pole spell the word zachor, “remember.” In the TBJ Holocaust Memorial, the six rusted metal “flames” on the bottom each contain the name of a death camp. The pristine steel flames at the top contain a wire hand emerging, and the hand holds stones. I would like to thank everyone for the well wishes on my recovery. I should be up and running again soon! Etz Hayim Synagogue member and musician Laurence Bleicher (center), accompanied by his friend John (right) and EHS Hebrew School teacher and musician Irina Rubenshteyn (left), rocked at Etz Fest 5775 Learn more about JFNH by visiting www.jewishnh.org Thanks, Alane Sabel Tishrei-Cheshvan 5776 • October 2015 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 15 Neil Robert Singer Goffstown — Neil Robert Singer of Goffstown, 65, passed away on August 7, 2015, after a lengthy illness, surrounded by loving family. Neil was born in Hartford, CT, on December 10, 1949, a son of Solon and Miriam (Kollman) Singer. Neil will be deeply missed by his loving wife of 43 years, Mary; his daughter, Jessica Ecker and husband Sonny of Dover, NH; his son, Douglas and partner Sarah Bournival of Nashua, NH; and his two granddaughters, Kennedy and Joley Ecker. In Connecticut he is survived by his mother, Miriam; his brother, Howard Singer and wife Carrie; and his brother-in-law, Howard Schwab. Neil was preceded in death by his father, Solon, and his younger sister, Jodi Schwab. Neil’s daughter, Jessica Ecker, is a family practice lawyer with a focus on mediation and collaborative law at the firm of Weibrecht & Reis in Dover, NH. His son, Douglas Singer, works as an analyst in the corporate offices of Staples in Framingham, MA. Services were held on Monday, August 10, at Temple Adath Yeshurun, followed by burial in the Manchester Hebrew Cemetery on South Beech Street, Manchester. At the funeral, eulogies were prepared by his two children, Jessica Ecker and Douglas Singer, and read by Rabbi Beth D. Davidson, who conducted the service. Sol Rockenmacher and Ted Yegerman, who were members of the Temple Adath Yeshurun Brotherhood with Neil and also members of the small but dedicated Torah Study group that Neil and Mary participated in each Saturday morning, offered their remembrances of Neil. Tony O’Malley, a member of the Nashua Granite Statesmen Barbershop Harmony Society, offered remembrances. Rabbi Davidson also delivered a eulogy. Joseph Rojek, pianist and music director at Temple Adath Yeshurun, accompanied and provided incidental music. After the eulogies, 18 men from the Nashua Granite Statesmen and other choruses from around New England offered an a cappella song in four-part harmony in Neil’s memory. Many of them were friends of more than 40 years who had sung in quartets with Neil. Music in the ceremony and at the cemetery was led by Cantor Donna Gordon, cantor of Temple Sinai in Newington, CT. In 1986, Neil got Donna and her husband Max to try out barbershop singing after a community theater rehearsal; the two couples formed a quartet named “Mixed Company.” They practiced weekly and performed semiprofessionally for seven years, until the Gordons moved to West Hartford in 1993. After her move, Donna studied to be a cantor and has now been singing at Temple Sinai for over 20 years. In 1998, Neil and Mary found another couple to make harmony with, and they sang as “Side by Side” for another seven years, until Delbert and Jessie Smith of Nashua retired to Holiday, FL, in 2005. Neil’s contributions to his temple were legion, filling in as a cantorial soloist, running services when Rabbi Beth was away, singing in the choir, helping Mary with the enormous task of putting out the Temple Adath Yeshurun Bulletin…but best of all, providing jokes and witticisms that made everyone relax. Neil’s sense of humor fit well with his various theatrical performances at TAY (head of Lipsky’s Kosher Caterers) and at Manchester Community Theatre Players’ Fiddler on the Roof (Laser Wolf) and The Music Man (bass of the barbershop quartet). Douglas’s eulogy described his father’s love for family and history that made him light up when he was embellishing the legends of his life, such as the time he was babysitting for his little sister Jodi and he hit her in the head with a shovel. Daughter Jessica remembered that he would just completely make things up that were absurd, to the point where “we would have to ask our Mom all sorts of questions to determine if, for example, brown cows really made chocolate milk.” Ted Yegerman recalled the Saturday morning Torah study sessions he had shared: “It was at Saturday morning Torah study that I really got to know Neil and Mary. Doctor Mary knows her “stuff ” when it comes to religion. Neil, on the other hand, could come up with questions, comments, or better yet, theories, that could cross a rabbi’s eyes!” Rabbi Davidson summed up by saying, “Our tradition teaches us that the spirit of humanity is the lamp of God, and that not even the darkness of death can extinguish the light which God kindles in our souls. Therefore O God, we thank You for the musical, loving, laughing spark that lit the life of Neil Singer.” People who wish to remember Neil R. Singer are encouraged to donate in his name to the Janice Whitaker Music Fund at Temple Adath Yeshurun, 152 Prospect Street, Manchester, NH 03104; or to the Make-A-Wish Foundation of New Hampshire, 814 Elm Street, Suite 300, Manchester, NH, 03101-2230; or the charity of the donor’s choice. Please visit www.goodwinfh.com to sign the online guestbook. 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