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friends InternatIonal MagazIne noVeMBer 2009
friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 1 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 editor’s note Dear FIM readers, 48 issues and counting! Published by Smart Way International Ltd 5D Sun King Building 580 Queen’s Road West Hong Kong Tel: 5182 5569 Email: editorial@friends-intl-mag.com INTERNET www.friends-intl-mag.com PUBLISHER / EDITOR Capt. Rosendo C. Herrera MANAGING EDITOR Arnold P. Grospe ART DIRECTOR Willy Castañar We are thankful to you, our dear readers, for your continued support and patronage. Difficult times becomes easier because we know that you are always behind us. A lot of people may have doubted us, but you did not. That is why we persevere, as always to give you the best publication that you deserve for always sticking with us. We would not have come this far if it were not for the inspiration that you continue to give us. Whatever is contained in this magazine is all you. Our gratitude also extends to our columnists and contributors. Without them, there won’t be an FIM. They devote their time and efforts so that you will have a worthwhile magazine to read. Be it messages of hope, good news or timely advise, they see to it that they give you much needed information to help out in your day-to-day life. COLUMNS Bro. Eddie Villanueva Bro. Rolly Estrella Barrister Ody Lai Noel Asinas Cora Carsola Dra. Gertrude P. Chan, FPDS Ruel Y. Quezon Words cannot express our appreciation for all of you. We are grateful. Thank you. PHOTOGRAPHY Bobby Campus Jo Mabalot Nery/Leo Jimena Rodel Concha Letty Romero The Christmas season is at hand too! A lot of our countrymen need our help. We all have different ways on how we can be of help. The most important thing is we can do something to brighten one’s day by sharing what we can. CONTRIBUTORS Adelaida Mogol Bernadette Benitez April Joy Remely Valdez Violy Pascual Noemi Paniza Julia Buen Terry Lucida Maingpis My dela Roca Riza Acosta This month, we feature a number of organizations who have just celebrated their founding anniversaries as well. Most of the activities of different associations now are geared towards helping our less fortunate countrymen, especially the victims of the recent typhoons that left parts of our country in ruins. Last November 14, our very own Manny Pacquiao made us all proud to be Filipino again. He knocked out Miguel Cotto to win a 7th title in a 7th weight division. A record he now shares with no one. Even though he had a tough task at hand, his determination never wavered and with us, his countrymen behind him, he fought gallantly for our country. Many now consider him as the greatest of all time, but the greatest thing about Manny is that he remains a humble champion. Like Manny, we at FIM always think of the greater things that we can accomplish but stay grounded and always remembering what brought us to publish this magazine in the first place, and that is to be of service to the Filipino community here in Hong Kong. PRINTING Smart Way International Ltd You can count on us, that in the coming isues of FIM, we will continue to give you the very best to sustain the trust that you have bestowed on us and hope that our bond long continues. No part of this publication may be reproduced in whole or in part without the prior writtent consent of the publisher. Opinions and comments of writers, columnists and contributors do not necessarily reflect those of the management’s or any staff of Friends International Magazine. Maraming Salamat Po! We welcome editorial articles, photographs and illustrations for publication. Please send all communications and materials to: Friends International Magazine, 5D Sun King Building, 580 Queen’s Road West, Hong Kong. 2 This issue marks our fourth year anniversary. Time flies fast. It was just a few years ago since we started publishing your favorite community magazine. friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Mabuhay ang lahing Filipino! Happy reading. Arnold P. Grospe Managing Editor 3 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 friends Co mm uni t y B oa r d Dano crowned Ms. Barkadahan `09 by Arnold P. Grospe James Blanco, joined the candidates and became the most applauded part of the show. Got an announcement to make ? Let everyone know. Have your upcoming association activities published here for FREE ! Call us on 254I –25I0 during office hours or email details to editorial@friends-intl-mag.com or sms 69740836 To all Association Leaders in Hong Kong. You are all invited to join the newly formed Council of Filipino Leaders (CFL) for more info pls call Gen Sec Medy Borlaza at 6773 1021. Announcement The Island Evangelical Community Church is offering free Cantonese class every Saturday (except the 3rd), at 10:00 a.m. to 11:30 a.m., at its church located at 8/F 633 King’s Road Quarry Bay (MTR Quarry Bay Station Exit C). For more information, contact 2864 9337, 2864 9360 and look for Riza Guevarra. Nurses who are interested in taking the National Licensing Examination in Hong Kong on December 12 and 13 are urged to attend the refresher courses by the FNA-HK. Getting the approval to have the examination here will depend on the number of examinees. For more information please call 95180835 for registration. In celebration of our 3rd LAWA anniversary, we are inviting everyone to join our Search 4 Champions 09 Competition in Modern, Ballroom, Show Dance, and Singing (Duet) contest which will be held in Oct. For more details, call Menard at 6335 2837. The Integrated Midwives Association of the Philippines (IMAP-HK) is calling all underboard midwives to join its review for the upcoming midwifery board examination to be held in Hong Kong. The review will be held every Sunday from 9:00 a.m. to noon at First Metro, United Centre, Admiralty. For details, contact 94397853 and 68966517. DAMAYAN OFW-HK invites all interested parties, groups or individuals who wants to join the Christmas Lantern Competition. DAMAYAN OFW-HK “Pamaskong Handog 2009” will be held on Dec. 6, 2009 at Bayanihan Centre Kennedy Town at 9:00-12:00pm. Please contact Ms. Luz Penaranda with her tel.# 60673869 for more details. Balaoanians - Hong Kong Association will be having its search for Mutya ng Balaoan-HK 2009, Balaoan-HK popularity 2009 at Causeway Bay Community Hall on November 22. Contact person: Mila 95370801 or Mylene 91660143. Attention all Marinduquenos. Those who are interested 4 Last year’s third-place winner, Rubilyn Misoles, joined Tadeo during the coronation. to join the Marinduque Migrant Workers Association, please don’t hesitate to contact Nos.91757513 / 93420937 / 63405147. DOMOHK presents 4th anniversary celebration and LookA-Like Singing Contest at Rose Kitchen Johnston Road Wanchai HK, Dec 13, 2009. For more details contact Medy Borlaza - 67731021 The Management and staff of Friends International Magazine wish to thank the following volunteer contributors and distributors for sharing their talent and support to the Magazine. Gina Montero Gie Ignacio Mayvie Acosta Olive Lasat Juvy Aldea Fely Bunso S. Naoe Mario de los Reyes Distribution Team IMAP-HK LOFM BOWA CFCB DOMOHK Black Eagle Calabarzon Novo Ecijano Association OFWIE GOAL LOFWA MIGA WOMED FILCOMSIN FILREFLEX PMS FNA Mindanao Alliance KUSOG LEBAK BENGFED ANIBA-HK Oriental Mindoro Society Damayan LUZFED BSK-HK MMWA Contents Cookie Micaller, of Hong Kong News, Vinzon Gonda of Gen Ex and Joel of Sun Cellular Philippines, were some members of the Board of Judges. Ms. Maricel Dano bested all nine lovely candidates vying for the crown of Ms. Barkadahan 2009 in the seventh season of the Search for Ms. Barkadahan sa Smartone. Number eight proved to be lucky for 26year-old Dano, who hails from Kidapawan and representing Mindanao (HK) Migrants Alliance (MinMa), when she was crowned as champion. Dano took home HKD 10,000 worth of loads, tricycle and other cash prizes from different sponsors. The reigning Ms. Barkadahan 2009 Jenny Tadeo shared her memorable experience during her farewell walk and passed on her crown to Dano who outshined all other candidates during the coronation night on Oct. 18 at Queen Elizabeth Stadium in Wan Chai. Before the final night, all the lovely candidates toured the famous Windows of the world and had their pictorial which was presented during the competition. The search has introduced a new portion to the delight of the audience especially the gentlemen as the candidates paraded and show their body in the swimsuit competition where celebrity guests, hunks and top models from Philippines, Luis Alandy, Brent Javier, Marco Alacaraz, John Hall and Special guests were Deputy Consul General Kira Danganan Azucena and vice consul Joy Banagodos, of the Philippine Consulate in Hong Kong. Other guests included the members of Bankers Group, Sun Cellular Philippines, Cargo and forwarding companies, Finance Industry, supporting organizations and VIP members of the Barkadahan sa Smartone. NOVEMBER 2009 issue 48 3Editor’s Note 5 Dano Crowned Ms. Barkadahan ‘09 6 Cover Story 7Tribal Filipino Migrants Against MSP Delisting 8 Mga Kuro-Kuro at Palapalagay 10At Your Service 11 Pains and Aches We Should Not Ignore 12Leyte Achievers Club 6th Anniversary 13OMCA 2nd Anniversary 14Oras ng Himala 15Legal Matters 16 Jesus The Living God Church Sagip Buhay Project 17 PCADE Visits Home of Loving Faithfulness 18 Snapshots 20 Meaningful Life 21 Kuwentong OFW 22On Improving the Helping Hand 23 Philippine Culture & Arts Month 24 Balitang Showbiz 29 featured Poems 30Laugh Lines 31 FIM Outlets 33 Horoscope and Mind Games Birthday Corner / Just 4 Kids / Text From The Heart 34 Dano was the crowd favourite and had the whole stadium cheering for her every time her name was called and for every appearance on stage. Before the Barkadahan Smartone competition, Dano joined numerous beauty contests and has won many. She is the reigning Mutya ng Mindanao. Cheryl Coyme won the 1st runner up title. Coyme, representing Love, Peace and Unity hails from the city of smiles (Bacolod). Reymalyn “Reyma” Alcantara of Nueva Vizcaya got the 2nd runner up title. She represented the Confederation of Ilocano Associations (CIA-HK) and the Filipino Livelihood Organization for Reintegration (FLOR-HK). Alacantara was applauded by the the audience with her guitar rendition of “What’s up” and “Panahon na para Magsaya”. While special award for best in talent was awarded to candidate no.10, Elvie “Live” Rescuento, who performed a hip hop sing and dance which made the stadium come alive and impressed the judges in the talent portion. friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 5 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Tribal Filipino Migrants in HK against MSP Delisting by Julia Buen Terry Leaders from different Tribal Filipino Migrant Groups in Hong Kong unite to push for the reversal of the Commission of Election decision in delisting the Migrante Sectoral Party to represent migrants in the forthcoming 2010 Philippine National Election Party List Race. Thank you. . . about. It’s our 48th issue, marking our fourth anniversary. We couldn’t have gone this far if it was not for your unfailing support. Now that we are celebrating another anniversary, we could not help but express our sincerest gratitude to everyone of you who continue to patronize FIM. First and foremost, we put you our readers ahead of everything else. After all, FIM is yours more than it is ours. We strive to give you the best possible magazine that you will heartfully appreciate. You can always rely on us to bring you nothing but the best that you expect out of us. We will continue to improve to keep up with the times and to relentlessly serve and please you. It wasn’t that long ago when we started all these. You were the one we had in mind. Thinking, what’s the best way to convey and communicate messages, events, news, fun and games to ease boredom and provide useful information. That was when the idea of publishing FIM came We would also like to thank our advertisers who continue to trust us to effectively communicate their products and services through this publication. Our indefatigable columnists and contributors also deserve credit for everything you read in FIM. Their untiring efforts and generous sharing of their time to provide advise, messages, happiness and spiritual well-being has encouraged and helped a lot of our dear readers. The road is long and you can count on us that we will be with you the rest of the way. Again . . . Maraming Salamat Po! A few greetings from different leaders who are avid readers of Friends International Magazine Happy 4th anniversary FIM. On behalf of Kennon Road Overseas Workers (KROW-C TUBA) and Benguet Federation our heartfelt gratitude and warmest congratulations to the whole staff of FIM and contributors, keep up the good pages, it’s really amazing and very helpful for us OCWs, reading it subsides our boredom and homesickness. Congratulations, Happy 4th anniversary, Sana patuloy kang tagahatid ng magagandang tula at inspirasyon namin sa aming trabaho, patuloy na pagbibigay ng payo sa mga problema ng OCW na sumusulat sa inyo... God bless Everyone. Ms. Helena Velasco Bokod Assocation Blessed Anniversary. Gerald Antonio Benguet Federation Salamat po FIM dahil ikaw ang nagbibigay sigla sa aking pang araw-araw na gawain at nagpapalakas ng mga pinanghihinaan ng loob sa mga nabasang isinusulat ng kapwa OCW. Good luck.... Happy anniversary. Rose Abra 6 reference and souvenirs, good luck... more power FIM... keep up the good work... God bless. Happy Anniversary! What a great magazine. Norma Capsula ANIBAHK & Members From Canada with Love! Sir Editor, We enjoy every page of it, the articles, poems, stories are beautiful and heart warming. We crave for monthly copies. The staff and contributors have truly compiled tremendous amount of wisdom, it’s content provide great things especially for us OFWs, its really a wonderful gift to our love ones and friends. Rest assured, we will keep our monthly issue for our family and friends back home, for them to know our life here abroad, keep as On 13 October 2009, ComElec delisted Migrante Sectoral Party along with 25 other partylist groups without due process. The Commission said, MSP failed to participate in the last two preceding election and failed to obtain at least two percentum (2%) of the vote casts in the two preceding elections. Time does not stop and so do we. Hopefully, we can continue to rely on your support to keep us motivated, as always, to bring you the best friendtastic magazine that you have come to know and love. Happy Anniversary Friends International Magazine ! Dear Editor, Migrante Sectoral Party- Hong Kong headed by Vicky Casia Cabantac initiated the petition through a signature campaign jointly signed by leaders of various Filipino Organizations attending the Tribal Filipino Sunday held on 18 October 2009 at Belcher’s Park, Kennedy Town, Hong Kong. Happy 4th anniversary FIM, we would like to thank FIM for its existence, my friend sent me a copy here in Calgary, we love reading it, as if we are still there in Hong Kong. We could still see our friends, the photo activities and inspiring, informative articles. We’ve learned a lot from it through the writers, columnists’ articles shared in it. Mabuhay Friends International Magazine. Rose, Glory, Benith, Shionda, Jacky and Marilou According to MSP, it participated in the 2004 election and had not run in the 2007 election so that it can prepare itself better for the 2010 elections. Hence, ComElec’s interpretation is flawed and nullifies the participation of MSP in the next year’s election. Worse, this was done without prior notice or hearing as required by the partylist law. MSP’s delisting smacks of political motivation. For over three decades now, Migrante has become the severest critic of the Philippine Government for its labor export policy. The government stands to benefit from stopping MSP in its bid to have a seat in congress through partylist race. MSP had already filed a petition to ComElec and vowed to bring their fight to the Supreme Court if ComElec turns down their appeal to be reinstated in the list and be qualified for participation before the official campaign starts on February 2010. “Is this the way the government is treating what it hails as modern day heroes? Migrante had done a lot during the Overseas Absentee Voting Registration in helping the ComElec, yet this de- listing happen without a valid reason. This is not acceptable.” Said Cristy Casia, one of the Filipino Leaders attending the program. There is an estimated 9 Million documented Filipino Migrant Workers in 203 countries around the world but yet there is no single migrant representative in the congress until now. friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 7 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Mga kuro-kuro at palapalagay dito bibigyang buhay . . . hatid ni April Joy “Sa iyong palagay, may pagbabago kayang mararanasan ang mga Pilipino sa paghahanda sa nalalapit na kapaskuhan?” Melanie Ragot – Shatin “Sa aking palagay malaki ang pagbabagong mararanasan ng mga Pilipino ngayong nalalapit na ang kapaskuhan lalo na doon sa mga nasalanta ng mga kalamidad nitong mga nagdaang mga buwan. Mas iisipin na lang ng bawat isa na unahin ang mga importanteng bagay sa buhay lalo na yung kanilang pagkain kesa sa mga dekorasyon na pwede namang wala. Sa mga nawalan ng bahay at kabuhayan ay mararamdaman nila ang kalungkutan kumpara sa mga nagdaang pasko na walang kalamidad sa buhay nila na nakaapekto ng malaki sa bawat isa, at kung walang tutulong sa kanila paano sila makabangon sa pagsubok na dumating sa kanila? Doon naman sa mga mayayaman at yung mga hindi naapektuhan ng kalamidad ay tuloy pa rin ang kanilang masaya at magarbong pasko at wala itong pagbabago.” Adelaida Barcelona – Chai Wan “Mararamdaman ang pagbabago ngayong nalalapit na ang kapaskuhan kumpara sa mga nagdaang mga taon na talaga namang ilang buwan pa ay naghahanda na ang mga Pilipino. Una kasi yung mga naranasang mga bagyo sa Pilipinas na sumira sa maraming kabuhayan at mga tirahan, gustuhin man nila wala silang magagawa kundi makuntento kung ano lang ang kaya dahil karamihan sa mga napinsala ng kalamidad ay hindi pa nakaka recover. Dagdag na rin ang lalo pang pagtaas ng mga bilihin at lahat ng kailangan sa pang araw-araw subali’t ang pinagkukunan naman ng kita ay hindi nagbabago. Sa pagiging Flexible naman ng mga Pilipino ay magagawa nating maging masaya ang ating pasko kahit na hindi masyadong marami ang christmas decors at handa. Saka aanhin natin ang 8 bonggang paghahanda at dekorasyon kung pakitang tao lang naman ito, basta kumpleto ang pamilya at magpasalamat sa dakilang lumikha isang masayang okasyon na yun at kalimutan na rin ang mga pangyayari sa buhay na hindi maganda at magpatuloy lang tayo sa alam nating magandang bukas na naghihintay sa bawat isa.” Jovita Pascua – Tokwawan “Totoo na maraming pagbabago ngayong taon na ito sa pagsalubong sa kapaskuhan dahil sa katatapos pa lang ng mga kalamidad sa bansa mayaman man o mahirap ay naapektuhan, pero mapalad ang mga mayayaman dahil sa kanila walang pagbabago sa buhay dahil marami silang pinagkukunan subali’t ang mga mahihirap na lalo pang naghirap ay hindi na siguro aasamin ang magarbong okasyon mas iisipin na lang siguro nila at uunahin ang kanilang kakainin. Hihintayin na lang nila na sumapit at lumipas ang pasko ganon na lang. Ang ibang mayayaman siguro sa halip na gastusin sa magarbong pasko at dekorasyon ang kanilang pera pipiliin na lang siguro na ihandog at itulong na lang ito sa mga mahihirap na kababayan, doon mas kalulugdan pa sila ng Diyos at dakila pang matatawag ang kanilang pasko dahil may mapapasaya silang mga kapwa Pilipino. Sa mga OFWs naman, siguro hindi na rin masyadong magbibibili ng mga bagay na pwede namang wala. Mas uunahin na lang siguro nila ang mga importanteng bagay na ipapadala sa kanilang pamilya.” Nora Concepcion – Yuen Long “Kaugalian na nating mga Pilipino eventhough nagka problema ay pipilitin pa rin nating baguhin ang takbo ng ating mga buhay lalo na sa pagdating ng kapaskuhan. At lahat ay gagawin maging masaya lang ang kanilang pasko dahil minsan sa isang taon lang iyon dumating. Isa rin sa kainaman sa ating mga Pilipino ay iyong pagiging matatag sa mga pagsubok sa buhay at pipiliting bumangon para makapag simula muli, at lalong nagiging malapit sa isat-isa sa mga okasyong katulad ng pasko. Sa mga salat naman nating kababayan na naapektuhan ng sunodsunod na bagyo ay magiging masaya rin ang kanilang pasko kahit na sa isang simpleng paghahanda at salo-salo. Sa pamamagitan ng mga simpleng bagay na nagpapasaya sa kanila para na rin itong nagbigay ng pag asa na darating ang araw ay makakaahon din sila sa pagdurusa at magkakaroon ng mas maganda gandang buhay. Sa mga katulad ko namang OFW, gusto talaga nating ibigay ang mga bagay na magpapasaya sa ating pamilya pero siyempre dapat may hangganan at doon lang sa abot ng ating makakaya. Sa ganong paraan kasi magiging masaya na rin tayo at parang naipadama na rin natin na nandoon tayo sa piling nila sa mga okasyong gaya ng pasko.” Ruth Ramos – Tsing Yi “Sa aking palagay kung magkukusa lamang tayong mga Pilipino na magkaisa at mataimtim na manalangin sa Diyos at sabayan natin ng ng gawa at sikapin nating makaahon sa mga naranasang pagsubok sa buhay , magkakaroon tayo ng pagbabago sa darating na pasko kesa naman umasa tayo sa gobyerno nating walang magawa sa pangit nating ekonomiya. At sa mga kababayan nating naapektuhan ng mga kalamidad, sana naman mag share ang mga nanunungkulan sa ating gobyerno ng kaunti nilang karangyaan sa buhay. Para naman makapag bigay sila ng saya sa mga kababayan. Sa mga katulad kong OFW siguro wala namang magbabago ganon pa rin tulad ng mga nagdaang taon, wish ko lang sana tayo naman ang yumaman at ng makauwi na tayo sa Pilipinas.” Lorina Antipatia – Meifoo “Para sa akin merong pagbabago ang pasko sa taong ito kung dati ay magarbo ang paghahanda sa mga nagdaang taon sa ngayon siguro magtitipid na ang mga Pilipino. Isa pa ang sobrang taas na ng mga bilihin ngayon sa Pilipinas, dagdag na rin ang mga pamilya na sobrang naapektuhan ng mga kalamidad mapapansin ang maraming kakulangan kumpara sa mga nagdaang mga pasko. Pero totoo naman na sasapit at lilipas ang pasko simple man o marangya ang paghahanda, isipin na lang na hindi naman sa materyal na bagay mararamdaman ang tunay na diwa ng pasko kundi sa sayang dulot kung sama sama ang buong pamilya.” friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 9 At Your Service By: Rolando E. Estrella friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 MAGTANONG PO KAYO The author has been in the public service of the Filipino Overseas Workers in Hong Kong for the past 20 years. He gives free advice and counsel, as well as practical solutions on employment-related problems, family matters, etc. Mr. Estrella or Brother Rolly, as most people call him, is currently the Vice President of INSURANCE OF THE PHILIPPINE ISLANDS CO., INC. For free counseling, please send your letters/inquiries to: AT YOUR SERVICE COLUMN, c/o Friends International Magazine, 5D Sun King Building, 580 Queen’s Road West, Hong Kong. (Attention to Bro. Rolly) FEELING LIKE A LOCAL Dear Bro. Rolly, My Filipino father was married to my Chinese mother whose parents are Chinese who migrated from Taipei to the Philippines when they were young. In all appearance I am Chinese and while I speak fluent Tagalog I also learned to speak Fookien and Mandarin. I am also good at cooking Chinese dishes due to the influence of my grandparents. When my father passed away four years ago, I decided to seek employment abroad to support my younger brothers and sisters. Since I didn’t finish college, the quickest job abroad is that of being a domestic helper. It wasn’t difficult for me to get that job when my Chinese employer learned that I speak Mandarin and I know how to cook Chinese food. I came to Hong Kong towards the end of 2006 and have been with my present employer since then. They really like me since I do my job well and there is no cultural difference at all because of my Chines blood and upbringing. When I finished my first year contract in November, 2008 my employer decided to hire me as a sales clerk in one of her beauty parlors in Hong Kong. She said nobody would suspect that I am a Filipina helper since I speak Chinese and I look like a Chinese. She gave me a salary of HK$7,000 a month which is almost double the salary I received as a domestic helper. I was very much thankful for that opportunity she gave me as I was able to send more money to finance the schooling of my brothers and sisters. She increased my salary to HK$7,500 beginning May of this year. I should have been happy because of that increase but instead I got so disappointed when I learned that my co-worker who is a genuine Hong Kong national but is a mere parlor cleaner or janitress is paid HK$9,000 a month. This is unfair to me since I hold a higher and more responsible position in the shop. May I seek your advice so that I could get a fair treatment from my employer. Rita, Kowloon DEAR RITA, Do not fool yourself by believing that you should be treated like a local Chinese resident of Hong Kong. 10 Quite frankly I will tell you now – you are illegally employed. You have been permitted by the Immigration Departrment to work and stay in Hong Kong only as a domestic helper in accordance with the terms and conditions of the standard employment contract. Any other kind of job outside of your domestic duties is ILLEGAL and subject to imprisonment and fines or BOTH and you will not be permitted to work again in Hong Kong in the future. Adding more misery to my problem is when I learned that my 7-year old daughter has speech problem as relayed to me by her teacher. My advice – talk to your employer, who is also in violation of the law and who is liable to prosecution and penalty as well, and tell her frankly that you do not want to violate the condition of your stay and that you just want to stay in her flat to work as helper as per contract. DEAR MS. SERY, If you are doing good in your household duties, why not perform better. If you are doing good-tasting Chinese dishes, why don’t you do better-tasting dishes. The quality of your work will speak for yourself and your employer is not blind not to recognize it – and then your salary increase will naturally follow. Bro. Rolly DON’T BLAME ME Dear Bro. Rolly, I have recently signed up for my 3rd contract with my employer. For the past four years of my employment with my Chinese employer, I was able to save and at the same time to buy a low-cost house in Bulacan. I have four children aged 7, 9, 15 and 18 years all of whom are going to government schools. My husband is a jeepney driver and if not for my job as a domestic helper, I don’t think we will be able to buy any property and enjoy a comfortable life. In early March, my oldest daughter texted me from Bulacan informing me that my husband gets drunk almost every night and sometimes beat them for no apparent reason. That surprised me because from the time I have known him, he never drinks. She also noticed her father putting my old underwear under his pillows for reasons she could not understand. She also told me the problem about my 15-year old son who does not want to study anymore. His grades in the school are failing and he lost interest to continue further. Pains and Aches We Should Not Ignore by Bernadette M. Benitez Fellow OFWs “Our Health Is Our Wealth”. See to it that we eat healthy food, have a balanced diet, enough sleep and maintain cleanliness. I can only blame my husband for his failure to do his job as a parent while I am away. I will appreciate to receive your advice. Miss Sery, Chaiwan Most husbands I know get drunk due to several reasons: 1) bad habit; 2) wanting to forget a bad feeling or memory; 3) sad and lonely. Your husband’s attitude falls under Category 2 and 3 – wanting to forget a bad feeling and sad and lonely. It cannot be Category 1 because as you said he was never a drunkard ‘cause he never s drinks. What is happening to your husband is what I term – ATTENTION CALLER. Your husband’s message is clear he wants you home. He needs help because he could not cope up with the parenting job alone and he miss you so much as shown by his placing your undies under his pillows. Your attention is also being called by your 15year old son who does not want to continue studying anymore. His grades are failing and I am sure this is intentional on his part just to tell you that he needs the care, love and aid of a mother – YOU. My advice – GO HOME before it’s too late that you might find your husband in the arms of another woman because you cannot provide the love and affection he needs from his wife – YOU. Bro. Rolly However, being an OFW, we sometimes can’t avoid late sleep. Others don’t even have enough food supply by employers, an unbalanced-diet and incorrect time for meals, so pains and aches arise. At any rate, let’s find ways and means to survive. Always inject our faith in God in every circumstance. In my research, I came across kinds of pains and aches we shouldn’t ignore. PAIN IN THE LOWER BACK OR BETWEEN SHOULDER BLADES - Most often it is arthritis but the other possibilities are heart attack or abdominal problems. One danger is aortic dissection which can appear as nagging or sudden pain. Those who have high blood pressure, with history of circulatory problems, smokers and diabetics are at risk. People at risk are menopausal women and elderly men with high blood pressure. PAIN/DISCOMFOURT IN THE CHEST, THROAT, JAW OR SHOULDER, ARM OR ABDOMEN - Chest pain could be pneumonia or heart attack, heart conditions typically appear as discomfort not pain, heart patients talk about pressure like an elephant sitting on their chest, heart disease can masquerade as stomach trouble such as bloating or discomfort in the abdomen, pain associated with heart disease could also be in the upper chest, throat, jaw, left shoulder or arm accompanied by nausea. Don’t take it lightly. Have it diagnosed. VAGUE, COMBINED OR MEDICALLY UNEXPLAIN PAINS - Various painful and physical symptoms are common in depression. Patients will have vague complains of headache, abdominal pain or limb pain, sometimes in combination. The pain maybe chronic and not terribly debilitating depressed people, their families and health care professionals might dismiss the symptoms. Loss of interest in activities, inability to work or think effectively and difficulty in getting along people are symptoms of depression. BURNING FEET OR LEGS - People don’t know that they have diabetes. Peripheral neuropathy could be one of the first signs. Burning or pains and needle sensation in the feet or legs can indicate nerve damage. But what is Pain? Pain - is the body’s way of greeting your attention when something is wrong; you are probably in tune enough with your body to know when pain is just a bother, perhaps the carrying of everyday heavy loads or having indigestion after eating unhealthy food. You know that an alaxan or an alka seltzer will solve the problem. Its when pain might signal something begins, so when in doubt, don’t self medicate… see a doctor. Here are the kinds of pains we shouldn’t ignore: THE WORST HEADACHE OF YOUR LIFE - If we Experience this we must see a doctor. It could be an aneurysm, brain hemorrhage or brain tumor. If that person has a cold, it could be a sinus headache. Otherwise, it could either be an aneurysm or sinus. CALF PAIN - This is one of the lesser known dangers in vein. It affects millions of people. It can be threatening because a piece of the clot could break loose and cause pulmonary embolism (a clot in the lungs) which could be fatal, cancer, obesity, immobility due to prolonged bed rest or long distance travel, pregnancy and advance age, swelling or painful calf muscles, see the doctor quickly. SEVERE ABDOMINAL PAIN - Don’t flirt with the possibility of a rupture, if you still have your appendix, gall bladder, pancreas and stomach ulcers, intestinal blockages are some possible causes of abdominal pain that need attention. friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 11 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Leyte Achievers Club International Marks its 6th Anniversary by Ms. Remely Valdez of the crowd. A special day as well for the 8 graduates of food and meat processing and 11 graduates of the fashion jewelry making, who recieved certificates for the completion of their livelihood training program. The highlight of the celebration was the Coronation of Miss Leyte Achievers Club Int’l 2009. “Matamis na Bunga ng Pinaghirapan Dapat Ingatan” is the theme of the group which inspired them to achieve the goals of the association. November 1 proved to be an enjoyable day to reminisce while witnessing the wonderful presentation from the Leyte Achievers Club International. LACI marked its 6th year of existence since it was organized in October 2003. The unforgettable celebration was held at Belcher Bay Park, Kennedy Town. Battle of talents in singing and dancing added merriment and entertainment for the benefit the judges. Bebot Bello and Ms Susie Burce got 2nd place and Lealyn and Janeth got 3rd place. by Fely Payat Idos; Secretary: Erollen B. Galvan; Asst. Sec: Melone O. Vinluan; Treasurer: Felicitas S. Bautista; Asst. Treasurer: Clarissa Martinez; Auditor: Brenda D. Atrero; P.R.O.s: Edna R. Garcia, Cristina C. Paloma, Suzette A. Pisarro; Bus. Manager: Marilou A. Esperanza, Evelyn D. Santos, Thelma R. Bandong; Sgt. & Arms : Alejandro M. Bautista, Vinnet A. Villamin, Mar R. Garcia, Maria M. Anib; Muses: Melona R. Rosales, Shirley B. Besa, Felicitas S. Bautista, Cora U. Villegas; Adviser: Enrico T. De Leon, Nimfa C. Dulfo, Nora D. Lozano. In the solo dance competition, Ms. Rinna Lyn Abalos from Pangasinan was proclaimed winner with her amazing performance of belly dancing. Ms Veronica Lumayno was 2nd place and Ms. Annabelle Sabalbaro was 3rd place. The winners from the competion received cash prizes, trophy, RCBC coupon and PNB bags. The celebration started at 10:30 am with a thanksgiving mass officiated by Rev. Father Emil Lim, followed by Bible Enthronement and Candle lighting. One of the amazing performances which moved the crowd to tears was a pantomime entitled “Give Thanks” performed by Sister Cristy Kwan of the Glory Mission. After her performance, she cited “Shine with glory and shine whatever situation, we will not afraid coz we are one family in the eyes of God”. In the duet singing competition, Ms. Cristina Intia and Desiree Santiago garnered a high score from the board of judges and were proclaimed winners. Their rendition of the song “Tell Him” dazzled the crowd and impressed the board of The OWWA Migrant Cantonese Association (OMCA) celebrated their 2nd year Anniversary last 25 Oct. 2009 at Bayanihan Kennedy Town Center with a Coronation of the first Miss OMCA 2009. A competition on Fashion Jewelry Making also added merriment to the celebration and 9 succesful students modeled and showed their own finished products and their different fashion styles. Ms. Wilma Miguel won the 1st place, followed by Ms. Maricel Lukban as the 2nd place and 3rd place went to Ms. Marilyn Ramos. In the coronation ceremony, Ms. Regina Talagtag was crowned Miss LACI 2009, Ms. Virginia Pesano got the 1st runner-up and 2nd runner-up went to Ms. Marichu Beliber. Honored guests included Labor Attache Romy Salud, Mr. Jaypee de Guzman of BDO, Mr. Rolly Cruz of PNB, Mr. Vinzon Gonda of Genex Cargo, Mr. Richard del Valle of Dr. Smith, Mr. Bernie Dagum of RFC and other guests gave inspiring, remarkable and heartwarming messages for the group and to all OFWs that were present on that day. The program was ably hosted by Mr. Arnold Grospe of Friends Int’l Magazine, Ms. Pinky Rivas and Ms. Remely Valdez. The Leyte Achievers Club International wish to convey their profound and sincere gratitude to the following donors and sponsors who made the event a success: PNB, BDO, Gen-Ex Cargo, First Metro, BPI, A-Freight Forwarders, Dr. Smith/OWTEL, RCBC, Jollibee, IPI/Chimeco Trading Company, Natino Employment Services and Trading, Brastel, RFC, Forever Living and TP3. Acknowledgement goes to all dance groups from A-freight, Bohol HK Assn, DOMOHK, Dancing Friends, Beauty Fat, Marinduque Migrant Workers, Filguys, Junior Dance Club, PNB Pangarap, RFC and Bohol Federation who entertained the crowd. Special thanks to all guests from Macau, Canada, Las Vegas and New York, USA. To the following employers Ms. Fanny Hung Wai Fun, Ms. Cristy Kwan and Mr. Hafezah Khan. The active officers of LACI are: President Babelonia Bagaipo; Vice President - Elizabeth Cheng; Secretary - Regina Talagtag; Treasurer Norie Bernardino; Auditor - Gina Jaballa; PRO - Eliza Torres; Business Managers - Evelyn Ashraf and Perla Tagyamon. 12 OMCA Celebrates 2nd Year Anniversary Guests and visitors from different organizations participated and rendered intermission numbers. Best Health International gave away prizes to lucky visitors who participated in the event. Congratulations to all the officers and members of OMCA who gave their very best to make the event a memorable one. More power and wishing you more anniversaries to come. OMCA would also like to express its sincerest gratitude to Guest of Honor Labour Attache Romulo V. Salud, OWWA Welfare Officers Ms.Manuela Pena and Ms.Aniceta Cataran. The 2 judges of the Chinese Dress by the 6 candidates of Miss OMCA 2009 - Mr Philippe Lueng, Vice Pres. of Sun Hung Kai Properties and Prof. of Hong Kong University and Miss Debbie Fong, Consultant of Nomura Bank. Special thanks to generous sponsors: Mr.Rolly Cruz of PNB, Chato Carlos of Cashsense and Best Health Australia International and to all the Candidates of Miss OMCA for a successful coronation. A big thank you to Evelyn Santos for the refreshments, to the President of OMCA Miss Helen Agbanlog and her wonderful Vice Pres. Mildred Grota for their tireless efforts and hard work showing the true meaning of leadership in the organization, Emcee Luz Pulicay and to Adjudicator Cora Sebastian. Good Luck and God Bless. “Humbleness is the key to success of an Organization”. Newly Elected Officers of OMCA are: President: Helen V. Agbanlog; Internal VP: Mildred R. Grota; External VP: Lourdes friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 13 Legal Matters friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Mission of Love to the Typhoon Victims by Apostle Renato D. Carillo / ORAS NG HIMALA staff Please Join Jesus Is Our Shield Worldwide Ministries in Helping Typhoon Victims in the Philippines After the devastating Typhoon Ondoy (International Name: Ketsana) battered Luzon and Metro Manila on September 26, 2009 which took away innumerable lives and properties, Typhoon Pepeng (International Name: Parma) followed on October 3, 2009 and caused disaster to northern tip of Luzon, hitting the province of Isabela. It turned back on October 8, 2009 and wrought more destruction in Northern Luzon, mostly in Cordillera Administrative Region (CAR). It had weakened into a tropical depression, bringing strong winds and heavy rains that caused unimaginable damages through widespread landslides in the northern mountain province of Benguet and Baguio City. In Pangasinan, several dams were forced to release a vast amount of water, making 60% to 70% towns in under floodwaters and submerging some 70% towns. Wide hectares of crops were damaged. It has been reported that more than 50 towns were hugely affected and in great distress. They lost their homes, properties and livelihood. The death toll has been continuously increasing and many were injured and declared missing. Thousands upon thousands of people have been displaced in a number of evacuation centers. Pastors and ministerial staff arrived at the place ahead to share the comforting word of God first before the Mission of Love team came to distribute the relief goods. The people were led in repentance and acceptance to our Lord Jesus Christ as the sick and afflicted also were ministered. They were so grateful as they received bread, rice, canned goods, noodles, drinking water, and clothing. 14 Rights of the Victim of a Crime - Part 2 A number of evacuation centers have been reached out wherein thousands of flood victims have been helped. Relief goods which include bread, rice, canned goods, noodles, drinking water, and clothing have been distributed to the victims. They were also comforted with the word of God and the sick and afflicted were ministered. Presently, thousands of families are still waiting for our helping hand as their homes and properties were all devastated by flood. Thus, we appeal to you today to do your part in fulfilling this great commission. Please do something to give for our countrymen who are in dire need of our love and care. You can give through financial gifts, in-kind offerings, and material donations. To make a financial contribution, please make checks or send money order payable to: Recently, the MISSION OF LOVE team distributed relief goods to another severely affected area in Tatay, Rizal. Flood victims in this area informed us that they were not able to receive any relief goods from other groups due to it’s seem not passable location. But despite of it, we were able to come and distributed goods with the assistance of the Philippine Military group. APOSTLE RENATO D. CARILLO P.O. Box 40, Araneta Center, 1135 Cubao, Quezon City, PHILIPPINES Or send through bank account: Account name: Jesus Is Our Shield Worldwide Ministries Bank name: Banco de Oro Universal Bank Peso Account number: 397-003-7047 For material donation such as clothing, canned goods, noodles, biscuits and others, we request that your donations can be sent to the ministry’s main church: The Philippine government extends its declaration of a nationwide state of calamity that may last one year. Damage caused by both typhoons reached over P20 billion and is expected to augment in the coming days as the entire extent devastation unfolds. Got questions regarding legal matters? Write us and we’ll get your queries answered by our knowledgable columnist. Send all correspondence to Friends International Magazine by post or email. I arrived in Hong Kong after my annual leave and found out that my best friend, Melinda, also on OFW, became a victim of an attempted rape. In the struggle, she suffered cuts and bruises all over her face, neck, shoulder and arms. I do not know what to do and say to her. Please help me. In this great distress, the JESUS IS OUR SHIELD WORLDWIDE MINISTRIES in the Philippines has been continuously expressing “Love In Action” through MISSION OF LOVE headed by the Man of God, Apostle Renato D. Carillo together with his whole family, Ministerial Staff, Pastors and congregation. Jesus Is Our Shield Worldwide Ministries Cinema 21, Gen. Roxas Ave. corner Times Square Ave., Araneta Center, Cubao, Quezon City. And May God richly bless you and your family as you give generously out of love and compassion… by Barrister Ody A. Lai Wendy of Chai Wan Hong Kong has a Charter for Rights of Crime Victims that is applicable to Melinda who was a victim of attempted rape and wounding with intent. Wendy should be able to help Melinda by telling her about the various rights and obligations of the victim and the different government authorities, law enforcement agencies that will protect her. Despite Melinda suffering much pain and aguish, she has a paramount duty to help maintain law and order in Hong Kong. She needs to report and cooperate with the police department to enable them to properly investigate the matter. It takes courage to discuss an attempted rape to a total stranger such as police officers so Wendy needs to encourage Melinda that doing so is the best thing that a victim could do. There will be high confidentiality involved during the investigation process and Melinda will be handled by professional people who are sensitive to her experience. Her privacy and dignity will be protected. The enforcement people will be courteous to her. Reporting a crime should not be a scary proposition to any victim and it is not meant to put the victim on further possible acts of violence. Melinda should not put herself to risk by personally handling her own investigation. She should give as much information as she can reasonably remember and know about her assailant and the offence committed against her person. If the prosecution is to proceed, Melinda has a duty to appear in court and become a witness. Melinda should take further precautions on her everyday safety. If necessary she should consider living in another boarding house where the assailant will not be able to track her. Changing telephone number is easily done same as changing the lock and key of the door where she lives. Even though we lived in a civilized society such as Hong Kong, it is advisable that Melinda should not attract would be assailants. She should dress modestly and not create trouble for herself. When there are suspicious circumstances, she should call the police by dialing 999. Prevention is better than cure. Hong Kong autorities should efficiently respond to Melinda’s complaint and instigate fair and proper investigation on the crime committed. Melinda may need the assistance of a Philippine Interpreter who can speak her mother dialect while giving her police statement. She has the right to speak in the language she is most comfortable. The police will oblige and they will call the required interpreter without any costs involved for Melinda. She will have to prepare herself by giving truthful and full details of the incident and in so doing her criminal record if any will be checked. I assume that Melinda is of clear record in Hong Kong and in Philippines. If the statement taking cannot finish within one session, Melinda will be requested to come for another session to continue. At the end of each statement taking, Melinda will be provided with a copy of her statement be it in video form or in hard copy. She will also be provided with the details of the persons who took her statements such as names, staff numbers, rank, telephone and fax numbers. Anytime, she can get updates from her Case Officer. If Melinda suffered physical injuries, she will be referred by the police officer for medical treatment and certification of her injuries. Where appropriate she could be referred to social welfare departments and other legal services. Melinda should be aware that the prosecution of the case may not proceed especially if the evidence as assessed by the prosecution is not sufficient to make out a prima facie case. The assailant may not be in the territory, cannot be identified even by Melinda, there is a good alibi that the assailant was in another location at the material time of the crime, the evidence is so circumstantial that it hangs on a thin thread. Melinda will be informed of the progress of the case and the ultimate decision to proceed or not. Melinda will be given orientation as to court procedures, her role as the main witness to the crime, the date and place of the trial, the final disposal of the case and any appeal outcome if any. If the prosecution successfully got conviction in court, Melinda will be informed about the sentence imposed and also when the friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 defendant gets out of custody. In the court, Melinda will be provided facility where she and other witnesses can remain while waiting to be called. There will be separate facility for the prosecution and defence witnesses. Witnesses who are summoned to attend and gave evidence are entitled to daily witness allowance to cover their traveling and food expenses for the day. Melinda may want court protection that her name, address and identification details not published in any mass media like newspapers, radio or television. The prosecutor will apply to the court, justifying the need for privacy and confidentiality. The court will then order the court reporters present not to mention the personal details of Melinda. In some instances, the victim of a sexual offence may not want to personally face the assailant again. Then a request for a CCTV link trial can be made and if the court approves, Melinda can give evidence through video link. After trial, Melinda can get back her personal property used during the court proceedings. In some high profile cases, Victims may request for Witness Protection from the authorities. I do not foresee this applicable to Melinda. Melinda can opt for compensation from her ordeal through a civil claim under appropriate circumstances. But this will be protracted and it involves further legal cost for Melinda. If she claims less than 1million, she files her claim at the District Court. More than 1 million, she files her claim at the High Court. If Melinda is intent on pursuing compensation for damages after the trial, she should approach the Legal Aid Department and apply for their services. She being a domestic helper and out of job at the moment, she cannot afford private representation to pursue her civil claims. Other options include the court to order monetary compensation from the defendant to the victim for her injuries. Restitution Order can also be awarded if Melinda suffered property damage. These 2 orders are quick and done when the defendant is sentenced by the judge. Melinda can also seek compensation from the Criminal and Law Enforcement Compensation Scheme offered by the Hong Kong Government. The amount will not be as high as a successful civil claim but the paper requirements are minimal. 15 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Jesus The Living God Church “Sagip Buhay Project” by Ms. Remely Valdez PCADE Tinikling Chapter visits the Home of Loving Faithfulness are in very critical condition, parents visiting their children, some have no parents at all, abandoned in the streets. PCADE members were introduced to the Home by Pui Yee a Chinese voluntary nurse who has been working at the Home for over 30 Years. “But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” in a grieving situation and outcry coz nature disaster can not be controlled. But, despite all these trials that came in our country, we never lose hope, coz we know that God loves us, He just set a reminder to all of us.. Did you know that an eagle knows when the storm is approaching long before it breaks? The eagle will fly to some high spot and wait for the winds to come. When the storm hits, it sets its wings so that the wind will pick it up and lift it above the storm. While the storm rages below, the eagle is soaring above it. The eagle doesn’t escape the storm, it simply uses the storm to lift it higher. It rises on the winds that bring the storm. Jesus The Living God Church launched the Sagip Buhay Project for the victims of the typhoon Ondoy and Peping. JLG Head Pastor Gerry Vallo who gives no limit in spreading the goodness of God, go home to Philippines to help and provide necessities to the victims of the typhoon. The Sagip Buhay Project was supported by Calvary Church Filipino Congregation, JOL Church, PHILRADS, OB Philippines, JLG Church and friends.. They provided following goods such as 50 sacks of rice, used and new clothings, water, sugar, coffee, milk for babies, cereal, matches, caps, bags, slippers, dried fishes, shampoo, toothbrush, noodles and many others for daily needs.. The PCADE Tinikling Chapter performed at the Home of Loving Faithfulness (HOLF), an adopted organization in Sheung Shui last Oct. 11, 2009. she could not understand Filipino language. Members of PCADE were touched by how this kids struggle in their trials in life. Some PCADE dancers met with some of the Filipino workers there, they said that they are enjoying working in HOLF even it’s far from Central. Some of them have been working for more than 10 yrs here in HK and considered HOLF their 2nd home. They do love and care the HOLF children and treat them as their family members. And it also shows that all of us are children of God coz of the aids and undying helped from all walks of life, from other nation, other countries, cultural differences, race, color, beliefs, traditions never been a hindrance to help our beloved country Philippines. When the storms of life come upon us and all of us will experience them it may not be easy but we can rise above them by setting our minds and our belief in Jesus, our God and daily committing and trusting our life and way to Him. The storms do not have to overcome us. We can allow God’s power to lift us above them. God enables us to ride the winds of the storm that bring sickness, tragedy, failure and disappointment in our lives. Remember, it is not the burdens of life that weigh us down, but rather, how we handle them. As God’s Word says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”Admittedly, this can take time. Our country was in state of calamity due to typhoons that was terribly devastated some areas in Manila and Northern Luzon. It was 16 HOLF opened their doors to severely mentally and physically disabled young people in 1965. The children cleanly dressed in simple uniform gowns, were well fed and looked after, although in barren and colorless surroundings. But the pain of seeing over 50 faces unlit with any expression in their eyes or smile on their lips was a feeling they were to recall repeatedly in years to come as one of their most devastating experiences. The PCADE met new friends namely: Ping Pong, Emmanuel a blind child since birth, Tongtong 8yrs old, Shau Ming, Evan 14 yrs old is blind also, You Ching 50 yrs old, Anna 21 yrs old, and Fafa 18 yrs old, this girl is cute and friendly. When the PCADE performed the “BAYAN KO” (an interpretative dance), you could see the tears steaming from the eyes of Fafa she said she could feel the tune of the music even friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 17 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Do you want your photos on this page? Group pictures, special gatherings, association activities are most welcome. Send them to us by post or email and you just might find yourself in our next issue. 18 . . . friends snapshots friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 19 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Meaningful Life drowned after saving most of his neighbors when Typhoon Ondoy wrecked havoc in their community. We mourn his death, yet we celebrate his life as well – and etch him in that special place in our hearts where we keep and honor our heroes. yet their lives continue to individually touch our own and collectively affect our generation. These are the people who wisely made it count during their life time and made their investment of time and purpose outlast their earthly existence. We see this in the example of a father who left a lasting legacy to his family; a teacher who made an achiever out of a known delinquent student; a faithful friend who did not sell out on a commitment; or a boss who never gave up on a physically-challenged worker. It is a fact that we need not die for another in order to make our lives meaningful; we only have to live honorable lives – by daily purposefully living with integrity and dignity, without duplicity and deceit, especially decidedly going the extra mile or taking the high road. All things considered, we are still infinitely blessed – because we still have the opportunity to make up for any failures, step up to our destiny, keep up with our present commitments, and move on to wherever our purposes, choices, decisions, and actions may bring us. ***** In life, we can absolutely make a difference. Let us begin by becoming the change we want to see in this world. Let us begin today. by Bishop. Eddie Villanueva While there are those who criticize the seeming “commercialism” attached to the occasion, the annual remembrance of our dearly departed loved ones during All Saints/Souls’ Day celebration definitely has become a valuable part of the traditional Filipino culture. And despite the criticisms, it can be said that the remembrance of our dearly departed remains a binding force that keeps family ties much stronger. Beyond the customary exercise of going to memorial parks and offering flowers and candles in their memory, however, the occasion also calls for a much deeper appreciation of life. The message that the grave so loudly reinforces is the fact that life has its ending, and it’s the inescapable fate of all men – great or small. We shall pass this way but once. The difference maker, really, is how we live it out. There are two checkpoints by which we may measure our progress on our earthly journey. ***** First, we ought to daily live like we’re dying. We may mirror the truth that life has its end, and that we should make every second of every day count, in the lives of those who are critically and terminally ill. I personally have had numerous encounters and dealings with people who were at the brink of death. They would plead for prayers and ask God for healing so that they might get a new lease on life. In their death bed, they would bargain for more time because they wanted to make up for lost times with longneglected loved ones, fulfill a long-overdue promise, or pursue a long-delayed passion. In all these instances, a tinge of regret could always readily be discerned. There are so many people who died ages past Mga Kwentong OFW ni Violy C. Pascual Samaritans Nilipad man ang bubong ng bahay nina Laarni sanhi ng bagyong “Pepeng”, hindi siya gaanong naapektuhan dahil sa ipinakitang malasakit ng kanyang mga amo. Nang kumalat ang balitang kalunos-lunos ang dulot ng delubyong nagdaan noong huling linggo ng Septyembre sa Pilipinas kung saan nasa pangunahing pahina ng mga pahayagan, radyo o telebisyon, nakatutok sina Mr. & Mrs. Arthur Janoyan, amo ni Laarni sa Discovery Bay, mga tubong Australia. Anim na buwan pa lamang si Laarni sa kanyang pangalawang amo sa halos tatlong taong paninilbihan dito sa Hong Kong. Hindi niya sukat akalain na ganoon na lamang mag-alala ang kanyang amo para sa kanyang pamilya. Tubong Cagayan Valley si Laarni, dinaanan, pinaglaruan at sinalanta ng husto ng bagyong “Pepeng” at tinangay ang maraming bubungan ng mga bahay, kasama ang kina Laarni. Nang kumustahin ng amo niya ang kalagayan ng pamilya nito, binanggit ni Laarni ang tungkol sa bubong at pagkabasa ng kanilang mga kagamitan. Sinabi nito na ang matinding problemang kinakaharap ay ang matagal-tagal na kawalan ng kuryente sa kwentuhan nilang mag-amo, uso sa kanila ang generator danga’t napakamahal kaya hindi makabili-bili ito. Nagtanong ang amo kung magkano aabutin kung bibili ay humigit kumulang HK$6,000 sa kwenta ni Laarni. Nagulantang si Laarni ng sabihan siyang sasagutin ang kalahati upang makabili siya agad at nang hindi masyadong magdusa ang kanyang pamilya pati na ang ilang mga kapitbahay na kayang idamay sa grasya. Kagya’t lipad si Laarni upang ipadala ang pera kinabukasan at tuwang tuwa ang kanyang asawa at tatlong anak sa balitang makakabili na sila ng generator at hindi na magdusa sa kawalan ng kuryente na malimit mangyari bago pa man dumalaw si “Pepeng” sa lugar nila. Samantala ang amo ni Mila Quintos na sina Mr. & Mrs Aaron Danzer, na taga Bel Air Pokfulam, sinabihan agad siya na gusto nilang magbigay ng perang donasyon. Nakahinga sila nang malaman na hindi apektado ang pamilya niya sa Abra, ngunit sa nakitang kaawa-awang kalagayan ng mga binaha hanggang bubungan, inutusan siyang maghanap ng matinong pagbibigyan ng donasyon na makakarating agad. May hipag siyang miyembro ng Balikatan sa Kaunlaran Hong Kong Council (BSK) at doon inabot ang HK$1,000 na agad naman ibinili lahat ng iba’t ibang pagkain, mga pangunahing kakailanganin ng mga nabaha at isinama sa dalawang jumbo box na libreng kahon bilang donasyon ng A-Freight na ipinadala noong Oktubre 4 at ibabagsak sa Balikatan sa Kaunlaran National Foundation. Kabilang ding maituturing ang mga amo ni Elsie Miana, na sina Mr. & Mrs. Ben Bulmer, tubong Scotland. Wala pa siyang isang buwan sa kanila upang mag-alaga ng panganay at ipapanganak pa lamang, ipinaubaya ang linya ng telepono upang gamitin maya’t maya sa pagsubaybay sa kalagayan ng pamilya at ang bahay na nalubog sa baha. Nasa likod bahay nina Elsie ang dike na sumabog sa Natividad, Pangasinan. Nagmukhang disyerto at halos lahat ng mga pananim ay kinalbo ng malakas na agos. Nagkataong matibay ang pundasyon ng bahay ni Elsie at kung pangkaraniwang simpleng kahoy ay tiyak na natangay din ito sa matinding alon. Si Aida Villanueva ay likas na matulungin. Gumupit siya ng mga eksenang lubog ang mga bahay at mga taong tila mga pato na naglulutangan sa tubig baha, upang ipanghingi ng donasyon. Sa simula ay hindi natinag ang kanyang madam, na mahigit 21 taon na niyang pinagsisilbihan. Hindi siya nawalan ng pag asa, patago niyang sinubukang magsabi sa mga kamadyong ng kanyang amo at bawat isa ay nagsipagbigay. Nagkwento rin si Aida sa mga anak at mga kamag-anak ng amo na dumadalaw sa kanila at nakalikom siya ng mahigit HK$1,000. Bandang huli, nakita ng amo habang kausap ng kanyang pamangkin si Aida na inaabutan ng HK$100 at isinusulat ang pangalan, biniro niya ang tiyahin na siya na lang ang walang pangalan sa listahan ng nagbigay tulong. Tinablan ng hiya sa paglalambing ng kanyang pamangkin kaya nag-abot na rin ng HK$100 ang amo ni Aida. Marami ang taos pusong nagbigay tulong na makapagpapadali sa pagbangon ng ating mga kababayang nasalanta ng bagyo. Filipino Friendship Team joins CyberRun for Rehab The Filipino Friendship Team, a group of health conscious OFW hikers, joined the CyberRun for Rehab, a 5km run and 4km walk event held at Cyberport Port Pokfulam last November 1, 2009. We need not come to the point of death in order for us to realize that when it comes to the issues of life, there is more than meets the eye. May we discover what is truly important to us, before we finally hit the point of no returning. ***** Second, we ought to daily live with, and for, a purpose. The real essence of life can never be measured by how long we’ve lived, but how well. What good is a life of a hundred years if it has failed to touch another’s? It is a tragedy when we go on living, unmindful of the opportunities presented to us to make a difference in the lives of other people. This is probably why we naturally mourn the death of those who sacrifice their lives for others. It is impossible not to be moved by the story of a 19-year-old boy from Marikina who 20 and consultation services for people with disabilities and chronic illnesses in China and Hong Kong. Cyberfun Ambassador, Mr. So Wah-wai, gold medal winner of 200m Run 2008 Paralympic Games, led the event. It was a fund raising project of the Hong Kong Society for Rehabilitation and was co-organized by Cyberport Tenants Club to support training 11 females and 4 male members of FFT finished together along with the Chinese participants, among them a 5 year-old child who was the youngest participant, guided by his parents. friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Edith “mighty lola” Ebreo, founder of the group, recently took home the silver medal at the Athletic Veterans of Hong Kong 2009 (AVOK). A 3 series, 5km run along the slopes of Wanchai Gap, Tai Tam Reservoir and Bowen Road. Interested runners who wish to join the group may contact Julie at 90182526. 21 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 November 2009 is Philippine Culture and Arts Month The Philippine Consulate General in Hong Kong SAR, in cooperation with the Philippine Arts and Cultural Society, Haraya Visual and Media Arts Society, Hong Kong Musicians Union and the Philippine Association of Hong Kong (PAHK) will launch on 14 November to 16 December 2009 the Philippine Culture and Arts Month, a series of events that will showcase the highlights of Philippine heritage in Hong Kong, with the support of the Hong Kong Visual Arts Centre (HKVAC), Hong Kong Arts Centre (HKAC), Leisure and Cultural Services Department (LCSD) and the Philippines’ National Historical Institute (NHI) and National Commission on Culture and the Arts (NCCA). The 2009 Philippine Culture and Arts Month will consist of two art exhibitions of the works of contemporary Filipino artists based in Hong Kong and the Philippines; a concert by Filipino musical bands based in Hong Kong; a lecture on Filipino culture and national identity by renowned Filipino historian Dr. Ambeth Ocampo of the National Historical Institute of the Philippines; and, a Filipino independent film festival. “Haraya: An Exhibition of Contemporary Works by Hong Kong-based Filipino Artists” 17 - 30 November 2009, 10:00 am - 9:00 pm. Hong Kong Visual Arts Centre. 7A Kennedy Road, Central. “Beyond Borders” Art Exhibit 30 November - 4 December 2009, 9:00 am 4:00 pm. Philippine Consulate General. 14F United Centre, 95 Queensway, Admiralty and 6 - 16 December 2009. Experimental Gallery, 3/F Hong Kong Arts Centre, Harbour Road, Wan Chai, Hong Kong. “Concert in the Park 2009 Goes to the Piazza” 22 November 2009, 1.00 pm - 7:00 p.m. Hong Kong Cultural Centre Piazza, Tsim Sha Tsui. “Lecture on Filipino Culture and National Identity” by Dr. Ambeth Ocampo 21 November 2009, 10:00 am - 12:00 am. Hong Kong Visual Arts Centre, 7A Kennedy Road, Central. “1st Philippine Film Festival” 14 - 22 November 2009. Level 4, Hong Kong Visual Arts Centre, 7A Kennedy Road, Central. The film festival will screen the following: 14 Nov 2009, Saturday, 10:00 am - 2:00 pm 1. Inang Yaya (Mother Nanny), 100 minutes 2. Brutus, 110 minutes 15 Nov 2009, Sunday, 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm 3. Boses, 98 minutes 4. Forgotten War, 99 minutes 22 Nov 2009, Sunday, 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm 5. Namets, 90 minutes 6. Jay, 84 minutes Entry is on a first come, first served basis (70 seats only). Admission is free. For more info, please contact the Philippine Consulate General. 22 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 23 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Balitang Showbiz ni Noel Asinas Jennylyn, walang bagong boyfriend DINEDENY ni Jennylyn Mercado na may karelasyon siya ngayong band member. Single daw siya ngayon at ayaw pang ma-in love muli. Tama na munang asikasuhin niya ang kanyang baby AJ at ang yumayabong na career sa GMA 7. Patrick wala pa ring sustento sa love child nila ni Jennylyn Tungkol sa kanila ng napapabalitang band member, categorically na in denial si Jen. Aniya: “Wala akong nami-meet na musician. Wala akong bagong boyfriend. Masaya na ako sa buhay ko.” Tungkol sa role niya sa Ikaw Sana bilang api-apihan lagi ni Pauleen Luna. Nasabi ni Jen na totoo lahat ang sampal sa kanya ni Pauleen luna. Pero, aral naman ang pagsampal. Di gaanong masakit. Di puedeng dayain ang sampal kay direk Joel (Lamangan). Kasi, magagalit iyon. Mapapagalitan ka.” Ani Jen: “Naiintindihan ko si Pauleen sa ginagawa niya sa akin sa istorya. Trabaho lang. Kaya sana sa mga nakapapanood ay huwag kayong magreak sa ginagawa ni Pauleen.” Ayon kay Jen, ayaw na niyang pagusapan pa ang sustento sa bata. At least na bubuhay niyang sarili ang love child nila ni Patrick. Masaya na siya na kapiling niya araw-araw si AJ. Sa eksenang pinuntahan namin sa isang mall sa Morato, nakita namin kung paano sabunutan si Jen ni Pauleen. Totoong natanggal ang extension hair ni Jen sa pagsabunot ni Pauleen. Kitang-kita sa kamera ito. Ganyan kabagsik si Pauleen. 24 Worldwide talaga ang Bitoy’s SHOwwwTIME dahil mula sa mga bansang California, USA at Drammen, Norway ang mga tampok na videos last Nov. 7 sa isa sa mga segment ng programa sa pangunguna ng Asian TV Awards winner na si Michael V. Exciting ang programa dahil hiphop dancing brothers, rap artist at isang magic act artist mula sa magkakaibang panig ng mundo ang magpapakitang-gilas ng kanilang galing na in-upload sa mga links tulad ng http://www.bitoystv.com at http://www.youtube.com/bitoystv. SPEAKING of Jennylyn Mercaco, nakuwento niya sa press na wala pa ring sustento siyang narereceive mula sa ama ng anak niyang si AJ na si Patrick Garcia. May insidente kay Pauleen nang nasa SM North Edsa siya ay may humataw na matandang babae sa kanyang kamay. Nagulat si Pauleen. Tinalakan si Pauleen ng babae. Bakit daw inaapi niya si Jen. Huwag daw siyang manakit ng ibang tao. Sa insidenteng ito, natuwa si Jen dahil nagpapakita lang na epektib na kontrabida si Pauleen. Saka, maraming sumusubaybay sa kanilang soap. Programang ShowwwTime ni Michael V pang-international Nakausap namin si Jen sa set ng Ikaw Sana!, ang soap opera na muling pinagtambalan nila ng ex-bf na si Mark Herras na ipinapalabas © Copyright FHM Philippines bago mag-24 Oras. Masayang kausap si Jen sa set ng Ikaw Sana sa may Morato Ave., sa Quezon City kasi super taas ng ratings ng kanilang show. Naungusan na nila nang husto ang pinakamalapit na programa. Napansin namin kay Jen na super sexy siya ngayon. Kasi, katatapos lang niyang mag-pictorial para sa FHM issue niya na siya ang cover. Gulat siya sa naglalabasan na super sexy ang pictorial niya. Ani Jen: “Kaya ko lang gawin ay ang magsuot ng one piece swim wear. Di ko pa kaya ang two piece. Di pa ako kumportable.” Mark Herras, nakarecover na sa minor accident Si AJ ang inspiration ngayon ni Jen para pa siyang magsikap pang magtrabaho para sa future ng bata. Kasama si Patrick sa bagong soap ng GMA, ang Full House.. Pagbibidahan ang Full House nina Richard Gutierrez at Heart Evangelista. NAKARECOVER na si Mark Herras sa aksidenteng tinamo niya sa Tagaytay City habang sumasakay sa long board. Ibang klaseng skateboard ito. Mas mahaba at mas matulin. Kaya lang sinawing palad siyang tumaob at nasukagatan ang magkabilang braso ng actor. Buti na lang hindi siya napilayan. Sugat lang ang kanyang tinamo. Dahil sa sugat niya sa braso, hindi siya nakapaglalabas ng ilang linggo sa SOP. Nagpahinga talaga si Mark para gumaling ang suga agad. Sa inteview namin kay Mark, pinagkukumento namin siya kung bakit ang mga ex niyang girl friend ay di niya nabubuntisan. Tulad ni Jennylyn Mercado, si Patrick Garcia ang nakabuntis. Ngayon naman ang ex-gf niyang si Lian Paz ay nabuntisan ng present boyfriend nitong si Paolo Contis. Nag-usap na sila ni Paolo, nasabi ni Mark na siya ang magiging ninong ng anak ni Lian. Ano ba ang sekreto ni Mark? Sa dinami-daming girls na na-link sa kanya ay di siya nakabutis? Ayaw sagutin ni Mark ang tanong. Tumawa lang ang actor. Ang sikat na kantang “I Gotta Feeling” ng Black Eyed Peas naman ang dance hit na sasayawin ng iba’t-ibang grupo para magwagi ng premyo sa segment na Gaya Nyo Yun? Samantala, mula naman sa Nueva Ecija ang tampok na nakakatawang video sa Facemuk! At sa Talbugan segment, hahataw muli ang apat na Bida na sina Boy Tusok ng Rizal na nagtutusok ng pin sa mukha, Boy Nogtu ng Lucena, ang beat-boxer na may kasamang pagkukwento; Boy Mantika ng Rizal na naghihilamos ng kumukulong mantika at Boy Nginig ng Paranñaque na nagpapakuryente ng 220 volts sa buong katawan! Pero tatlo sa apat na Bida ang hahamunin ng mga Atrebida! Sinu-sino kaya ang magwawagi at mag-uuwi ng P75, 000 na cash prize? Sino ang matatanggal? At may tatanghalin na kaya ang Bitoy’s Showwwtime na kauna-unahang Bida Best? Samahan sina Michael V at Mang Enriquez ngayong Sabado sa Bitoy’s SHOwwwTIME pagkatapos ng Celebrity Duets sa GMA-7. Lovi, nakipag-date sa anak ni Gov. Chavit Singson GAANO ang katotoo ang balitang nasagap namin na hindi lang daw isang beses nakipagdate si Lovi Poe sa anak ni Gov Chavit Singson na si Ronald. Bagkus nauulit pa ito hanggang ngayon? Sa kabila ng denial ng young actress na nakasama niya si Ronald sa isang gimikan lang. Wala namang masama kung makipag-date na si Lovi sa ibang boys. Naihayag na niya sa national television sa programang Showbiz Central na hiwalay na talaga sila ni Jolo Revilla. friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 25 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Richard, pinalitan na ni Dingdong bilang host ng Family Feud; Dennis Trillo, bagong host ng StarStruck 5 SI Dingdong Dantes ang kapalit ni Richard Gomez bilang host ng season 2 ng Family Feud . Kakandidato si Richard bilang congressman ng Ormoc City. Samantala, si Dennis Trillo naman ang bagong host ng StarStruck 5 at makakasama ni Carla Abellana na magsisimula na rin ngayong Nov.2009. Napaaga ang pamamaalam ni Goma sa programa dahil ngayong November ay kailangan na nilang magfile ng kandidatura sa Comelec. Kapag nagfile ka na, officially dapat kailangan mong umalis sa anumang programang kinaaaniban para mawala ang insinuation na nangangampanya ka sa show mo. Matunog na lumalabas sa mga showbiz column ngayon na si Dingdong Dantes ang makakapalit ni Goma. Wala pang confirmation iyon. Mag-a-announce ang GMA ng kapalit ni Richard sa isang presscon daw. Ngayong Friday kasabiksabik ang line up ng celebrity na kalahok, kablang sa maglalaban ay ang Alvarez family vs. Co Family. Siempre na nangunguna sa Alvarez ay mag-asawang Paul Alvarez at ang asawang si Almirah. Sa Co naman ay ang basketbolistang si Atoy Co at Fort Co. More than half a million na ang nakatayang premyo sa show. 26 Ms. Earth 2009 candidates, super gaganda Pauleen nail-link sa apo ni Henry Sy BLOOMING ang beauty ni Pauleen Luna nang nakausap namin sa taping ng Ikaw Sana! Sa Il Terrazo sa Morato Ave., Quezon City, last Friday. Paano raw ay may baong suitor siya ngayon, ang apo ni Henry Sy,ng SM Malls. Bungad pa lang namin kay Pauleen sa issue, react agad ang dalaga sa amin. Di siya nag-deny na kilala niya yung binatang apo ni Henry Sy, bagkus sinabi pa niyang nagkita sila sa ribbon cutting ng isang kabubukas na store ng Save and More na pag-aari rin ng mga Sy. Ani Pauleen: “Naku, nagkita lang kami at magkatuwang kami sa ribbon cutting. Tapos, siyempre, nagkakuwentuhan kahit paano. Pero, hanggang ganoon lang iyon. “Di ako ngayon nag-e-entertain ng suitor. Ayokong magulo ang showbiz career ko ngayon. Naka-sentro ang utak ko sa pag-aartista ko.” Ang lalaki raw ay iyon din ang naging ex-bf ni LJ Reyes. Balitang split na yung binatang Sy kay LJ. Tapos si LJ naman daw ngayon ay balitang nakikiapagdate kay Paolo Avelino naman ng StarStruck 4. Happy at contented si Pauleen ngayon dahil maganda ang reaction ng fans at televiewers sa pagiging kontrabida niya sa Ikaw Sana!. Di malilimuan ni Pauleen na dahil sa pagiging kontrabida niya, nahampas siya ng isang lola nang nakita siya sa SM North Edsa. Sinabihan siya ng lola na salbahe siya at laging pinaiiyak si Jennylyn Mercado. Mag-aagaw ng lalaki na ang tinutukoy ay ang role niya sa Ikaw Sana. Inagaw ni Pauleen kay Jennylyn si Mark Herras. WALANG itulak kabigin sa Mr. Jaime Acosta sa pagbisita sa opisina niya ng walong contestants ng Ms Earth 2009 dahil lahat sila’y magaganda. Pero, may tatlong bets siyang sa tingin niya ay papasok ang pangalan sa semi-finalist. Napisil niya ang mga delegate mula sa Greece, Costa Rica at El Salvador. Iba pang candidates na pumasyal sa Psamstre office ay ang mga representative ng bansang Scotland, Kosovo, Slovinia, Nepal at Puerto Rico. As usual hinanda ni Mr. Acosta ang mga local delicacies na puto, sapin-sapin, pitsi-pitsi at ang beef somai at spaghetti na may sandwich. Ang inumin naman ay ang paboritong lemon ice tea. Sa pangunguna ni Jim Acosta, CEO/President ng Psalmstre Enterprises Inc., malugod at mainit ang naging pagtanggap para sa mga Ms. Earth delegates. Masaya namang nagpaunlak ang mga kandidata para sa maikling interviews at photo opt ng mga bisitang media mula sa print at broadcast. Ang Psalmstre Enterprises Inc. ay ang kumpanyang nasa likod ng matagumpay na New Placenta beauty products. Ang Psalmstre ay isa sa mga malugod na taga-suporta ng tinaguriang “Beauties for a Cause”. Sa kasalukuyan, ang New Placenta ay ini-endorso ni Ms. Melanie Marquez na dating Ms. International at tinaguriang Philippines’ Ambassador of Beauty. Para naman sa pre-pageant activities, isa sa mga competitions nito ay magbibigay ang Psalmstre ng “special award” para sa tatanghaling “Face of New Placenta”. Ito ay pamumunuan naman ng CEO/President ng Psalmstre na si Jim Acosta. Mahigit kumulang 90 na kandidata mula sa iba-t-ibang bansa ang makikipagtagisan para sa titulong Ms. Earth 2009 na kasalukuyang hawak ni Karla Henry ng Pilipinas. Ang coronation night ay magaganap sa November 22 sa Boracay Ecovillage Resort and Convention Center. Ang mananalong Ms. Earth 2009 ay magsisilbing spokesperson para sa Miss Earth Foundation, United Nations Environment Programme at iba pang mga environmental organizations. Jolina in love na naman WALA nang itinatago si Jolina Magdangal sa kanyang bagong karelasyon ngayon. Di tulad nang dati na ayaw pa niyang sabihin at identity ni lalaki. Aba, nang nakita namin siya sa Star Awards for Music sa Skydome ng SM North Edsa ay willing siyang magkuwento kay lalaki. Ani Jolina: “Di ko alam kung kalian kami naging mag-on. Basta, masaya kami ni Mark (Escueta). Di na mahalaga kung kalian pa. Basta, naka- move on na ako sa huling karelasyon ko ( Bebong Muñoz). “Dahil naka-move on na ako, ayaw ko nang iditalye kung ano ang dahilan ang split up namin. Past is past na sa aming relasyon. “Masaya ako kay Mark, pareho kaming mahilig sa music. Nagkakaintindihan kami. “Pero, ang kasal, wala pa rin. Hindi ako nagmamadali. Masaya lang ako.” Bumata nga si Jolina nang nakita namin. Nag-iba agad ang aura niya kapag binabanggit ang present love life niya. Regular si Jolina sa SOP tuwing Sunday. May Dear Friend sila ni Marvin Agustin na mapapanood pagkatapos ng SOP. Ang feature episode ngayong buwan aya ng Special na tampok sina JC de Vera, Jewel Mische at Ynna Assistio. friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 27 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 Marian di pupunta sa laban ni Manny Pacquiao DEFINITELY di raw makakasama sa America si Marian Rivera para sa taping ng Show Me Da Manny. Magkakaroon ng special episode sa America ang sitcom na doon mismo kukunan. Ewan lang namin kung buong episode ito dahil di nga buong cast ang makapupunta doon. I hardly understand this kind of feeling Something in my heart i knew is missing Though i`m sorrounded with friends and family Sadness inside of me still i can`t deny This kind of feeling kept on bothering me But afraid to show and share this to anyone Pretending i`m fine and think them i`m happy knowing not i got a heart that is so empty Samantala, double purpose ang pagpunta ng staff and crew ng GMA 7 sa Nov. 11 sa fight ni Manny Pacquiao laban kay Miguel Cotto. Una’y para mag-ulat ng blow by blow account ng mga nangyayari kay Manny before and after ng fight na magaganap sa Nov. 15 ( Nov. 14 sa US) sa MGMGrand Arena sa Las Vegas. Pangalawa’y para sa pagti-taping ng episode ng Show Me Da Manny mismo sa lugar na pinuntahan ni Pambansang Kamao. In quiet times someone tells me to change my life`s direction For darkness is what i`ve seen most on my sorroundings Wasting not this awakening call whispered on me Tears began to flow as i silently uttered my pray`rs Nakaalis sina Benjie Paras at Onyok Velasco at susunod na si Paolo Contis. Di makasama si Pekto dahil walang US Visa. Ang tanong: Makasunod din kaya si Marian Rivera sa taping doon ng Show Me Da Manny? In my heart i realized i was all wrong Blinded for so long to the world i thought i belong Knowing now the deeper purpose of why i`m living Leads me to abide with my master who`s there from the beginning Maraming pang happenings na magaganap kay Manny sa US. Hindi lang fight niya kay Miguel Cotto dahil may dalawang concert pa siyang gagawin doon. May schedule siya sa Las Vegas at Los Angeles, California. Anyway, ang Show Me Da Manny ay tuluy-tuloy na mapapanood si Manny sa sitcom tuwing Sunday pagkatapos ng Bandaoke dahil maraming reserbang ginawa si Pacman sa show. Wally at Jose, nabibigyan ng magagandang role sa Wow, Hayop WALANG kakupas-kupas ang pagiging komedyante ni Wally Bayola. Nakilala si Wally bilang ka-tandem ni Jose Manalo sa noontime show na Eat Bulaga. May iba’t ibang character na ipinakikita si Wally sa noontime show nang panahong nasa EB pa si Jose. Ngayong nawala na si Jose, medyo nabawasan ang character na ipinakikita ni Wally. Bumawi si Wally sa Wow, Hayop, ang Wednesday night feature ng Bilib Ka Ba Nights ng GMA 7. Nagagawa ni Wally ang mga characters na ginagawa niya sa EB dahil kasama niya sa Wow, Hayop si Jose. Magandang panoorin ang episode ng Wow, Hayop dahil elimination na naman sa Greatest American Dog reality show May matatanggal na magpartner na aso’t amo dahil di sila maaasahan sa panahon ng kagipitan. Latest test sa mga aso ngayon ay paano nila ire-rescue ang kapwa nila aso sa panahon ng kagipitan. May darating ding manghuhula sa show, ano kaya ang mahuhula nito? Maapektuhan kaya ang pagsasama bilang tandem nina Jose at Wally? 28 THIS KIND OF FEELING ni Blandee Ancheta Now i knew what kind of feeling i am missing And what my heart is yearning and my soul is searching A life with my master after all that i am seeking The one who breathed me life and gave me my life`s meaning Trahedya ni Elsie Ella Ako’y isang dalaga na may maraming pamangkin Sa lahat sa kanila sa isa ako’y nagigiliw Siya ay morina at may nakakaakit na mata Malambing na boses at malumanay magsalita. O, pamangkin kong parang anghel ngayon ay bali THE ART OF FRIENDSHIP by Ms. Hazel M. Napuaga, Victoria Canada A friend of mine was so dear to me With fortune live rough and lean coz I just began to know that friends are treasure Nor gold, silver or bronze can’t measure The bondage of promises are kept to remember No insults, no gossips, no backfights, no rusty words Instead; encouragement, praise, loyalty, and understanding And nothing to measure afterall the promises. A true friend never say I can’t instead I will... Never disappear when needed & never will in a day Favors you in times of arguments and troubles Sadness comes they never run. Friendship that binds two through likes & dislikes They together agree to keep secrets & not to reveal But only TRUST can do the magic of Friendship And so the story of friendship keeps on .... Revealing day by day!!! DEAREST LOVE by Ms. Hazel M. Napuaga, Victoria Canada When darkest comes and I’m alone Your presence gives me hope And when I faint and can’t cope I feel the need inside of me. I never understand before you came That your love could be a mystery But every part of me, you give light And I feel your love inside of me. Simulat sapol siya’y aking kasa-kasama Karga-karga at kinakantahan pa Siya’y malapit sa akin at napamahal ng sobra Sa puso at isipan ko’y lagi siyang naaalala. Ngunit isang araw may nangyaring trahidya Sa pamangkin kong mahal siya ay nadisgrasya Dahil sa nangyari siya’y nagging suwail na bata Mga lambing lambing niya ngayon ay wala na. At subrang sakit na nangyari sa kanya na di niya makaya Sa araw-araw ng paggising siya ay lumuluha friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 featured Poems No greater love to hold too Than your life you’ve offered me Before I knew you gave it all to me And I feel the peace inside of me. I will hold you now, because I care.. No more pain, no more doubts, no more fears Just hold on.... my dearest.... Coz I feel your LOVE inside of me. MAZE OF LIFE ni Blandee Ancheta Walking in the maze of life I barely see the light Like a thief in the night That`s wandering around Puzzled in what direction to take Bothers me so much along my journey Am i going to see the light That would bring me to my destiny Where this maze leads me Will it ever solve this mystery On the crossroad that is too many which i`m going to fallow Can someone hear my voice That i utter silently in mind Am i stock in this maze of life Without reaching for my dreams Weak and tired of wandering around In this so-called maze of life I lay down and rest for a while As i prayed in silence to the One above Puzzled as it is to the crossroad of life But with a new streght that born in my heart In solving for the maze of life I will be still now i knew that God is my guide Want to get your poems published? Share it with us. You might just see your literary creation on this page. Send all your poems by email to editorial@friends-intl-mag.com 29 Laugh Lines . . . Pilya si Sister Madre: Ano ang apelyido mo iho? Lalake: Alam niyo na po yun sister! Lagi niyo pong hinahawakan yun! Madre: HA!? BAYAG ANG APELYIDO MO??? Lalake: sister naman! Rosario po ang apelyido ko. ==== Green minded na madre Madre: Father, ang lamig no? Father: Oo nga eh. Gusto mo gawin natin yung ginagawa ng mag-asawa kapag nilalamig sila? Madre: Sige, sige (kinikilig) Father: Sige, pagtimpla mo ko ng kape!?! ==== Bakit ka nagpari? Madre: Father, ang gwapo-gwapo mo naman bakit ka nagpari? Pari: eh yung nanay ko kasi di ako pinayagan mag-madre eh!?!? ==== PANSARILING SALAWIKAIN BUHAT SA PANAHON NGAYON NO. 1: Pag binato ka ng bato BARILIN MO!.... (pesteng taong to...ano akala sa yo bobo!) NO. 2: Ang buhay daw ay parang gulong, well for me its like a RING. (a gold ring) NO. 3: Ang hindi lumingon sa pinanggalingan may dipirensya sa tainga.... (maglinis ng tainga... luga lang yan) NO. 4: Ang karukhaan ay syang gabay sa pagpatay... (nawlan na kasi ng pera....) NO. 5: Ang hindi marunong magmahal sa sariling wika, ay mahigit pa sa mabaho at malansang SHARK. (woahhhhh.....hehehhe) NO. 6: Ang umaayaw ay di nagwawagi, ang nagwawagi ay di umaayaw.... (kita nyo na ha? kaya dapat pag hingi ng bf nyo ng kiss wag na kayo umayaw, di kayo magwawagi nyan...hehhe) NO. 7: Ang taong walang kibo, ay kino COMATOSE. (angeeee) NO. 8: Huli man daw at magaling, still...huli parin.... (waheheh) NO. 9: Habang may buhay, may pag-asa. (Pero pag wala ng bigas tiyak mamamatay ka....) NO. 10: Aanhin pa ang damo kung butil ng bigas ang hanap mo???? (Take mo bang kainin yung grass instead of rice???...think...hehehe) NO. 11: Matalino man daw ang matsing..... MAS matalino parin si GLORIA.... (wahahaha) No. 12: Kung anu ang puno, sya ang bunga... katulad ni GLORIA kagaya sa ina nya.... (heheehe..mapagkamalan ba....) No. 13: Nasa ky GLORIA ang awa, at ang tao ang mga 30 friends International Magazine NOVEMBER 2009 kawawa....(huhuhu) ni Manny. NO. 14: “Manny ! may me seeds ka.” Huwag kang magtiwala kahit kanino, just like ==== GLORIA, stranger kase siya eh... nakaminiskirt na bakla (manloloko pa!...wahehehe) Sabi ng baklang naka miniskirt: ==== “Di baleng makita ang legs, Alam ko ang totoo huwag lang ang eggs!” Anak: Mom i know the truth ==== Mom: ha?? eto P500 huwag ka lang maingay sa A visit to a hypnotist Dad mo!! A woman comes home and tells her husband, Anak: Dad i know the truth “Remember those headaches I’ve been having Dad: ha?? eto ang P1000 huwag ka lang all these years? Well, they’re gone.” maingay sa Mom mo “No more headaches?” the husband asks, Anak: (ok pa ito... subukan ko nga sa katulong) “What happened?” Inday i know the truth!!! His wife replies, “Margie referred me to a Inday: SA WAKAS!!! YAKAPIN MO AKO ANAK!!! hypnotist. He told me to stand in front of a ==== mirror, stare at myself and repeat ‘I do not have Kunwari ang pangalan mo ay “IKAW”, tapos ang a headache, I do not have a headache, I do not pangalan ko ay “AKO” have a headache.’ It Worked! The headaches Ang tanong.. Sino ang panget sa ating are all gone.” dalawa??? The husband replies, “Well, that is wonderful.” Isipin mong mabuti.. Pasagot... His wife then says, “You know, you haven’t been ==== exactly a ball of Fire in the bedroom these last kung ibebenta ko ang sarili ko.. few years. Why don’t you go see the hypnotist tataasan ko na ang presyo... and see if he can do anything for that?” matawag mo lang akong MAHAL... The husband agrees to try it. ===== Following his appointment, the husband comes Sa sabungan walang entrance fee ang may home, rips off his clothes, picks up his wife and dalang panabong.. carries her into the bedroom. Si juan para makalibre pumasok may dalang He puts her on the bed and says, “Don’t move, sisiw.. I’ll be right back.” Bantay: hoy!! ano yan? He goes into the bathroom and comes back a Juan (galit pa) manok!! bakit? few minutes later, jumps into bed and makes Bantay: alam ko.. eh bakit sisiw?? passionate love to his wife like never before. Juan: heller?? may laban ang ama niya His wife says, “Boy, that was wonderful!” siyempre moral support.. tanga!!! The husband says, “Don’t move! I will be right ====== back.” Math love story... He goes back into the bathroom, comes back Boy: do you know that my love for you is like and round two was even better than the first the limit of a constant over a variable as the time. The wife sits up and her head is spinning. variable approaches zero?? Her husband again says, “Don’t move, I’ll be Girl: ano yun? right back.” With that, he goes back in the Boy: infinity :) bathroom. Girl: ganun? eh alam mo bang ang lab ko sau ay This time, his wife quietly follows him and parang limit of a function of x as x approaches ‘ there, in the bathroom, she sees him standing a’, f d function of x s equal to ‘c’ f x s gretar than at the mirror and saying: “She’s not my wife, a en s equal to d nd f x s less than or equal to a? she’s not my wife, she’s not my wife…” Boy: ano namn yun ? ==== Girl: syntax error!!! what women say about their love lives ===== Three women were talking about their love Ang Sardinas lives. Nanay: nak lutuin mo na yung sardinas.. The first said: “My husband is like a Rolls-Royce, AnaK: kakaliskisan ko po ba? smooth and sophisticated.” Nanay: tanggalin mo na rin ang hasang ng The second said: “Mine is like a Porsche, fast masulit ang katangahan mo hayup ka!!! and powerful.” ===== The third said: “Mine is like an old Chevy. It Libring tuli ni Mayor Binay needs a hand start and I have to jump on while NANAY: Anak, masakit ba ang libreng tuli? it’s still going.” ANAK: di nman po. huhuhu! Share your Jokes NANAY: eh bakit umiiyak kpa? ANAK: kasi po nilagyan pa nila ng tatoo ung and put a smile pototoyko! ang haba ng nakasulat.. “A project of Mayor Binay”. on someone’s face Ganito kami sa Makati. Sana ganito sa buong today! bansa! ==== Ice Cream Kung ikaw ay isang ice cream.. Huwag mong hayaang matunaw ka ng hindi ka man lang nadidilaan.. ==== Dionisia Me Seeds Sabi ni aling Dionisia ng tumunog ang cellphone Available at the following outlets Worldwide House Outlets Shop 128 1/F Your Shoppe Shop 134- 136 1/F Victory Shop Shop 138 1/F Sun Fung Trading Shop 125-126 Philippine Product Store Shop 241- 2/F Royal Ventures Shop 262 2/ F Little Divisoria Shop 245 2/F Santiagos Alteration Shop 246 2/F Annies Shop Shop 369 3/F Kabayan Remittance Shop 363 3/F Nelias Store Shop 366-368 LBC Mabuhay Hkg. 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Emotions: Good ~ Money: Good ~ Wellness: Good Power Numbers: 46, 43, 5, 4, 8, 38 Libra (Sep 23 - Oct 23) Ask and you shall receive, so if you want it, go for it. Part of it is about intuitively knowing just what to ask for, what’s really available, and who’s in the mood for giving. Go with your feelings and you’ll be surprised at what’s at your command and how they respond to your charm and energy. Emotions: Fair ~ Money: Good ~ Wellness: Good. Power Numbers: 12, 24, 47, 31, 6, 22 . WHAT WE’RE ALL ABOUT….. For many years, Balingit Home Furnishing, or BHF, has been anonymous to furniture and appliance that suite every kind of home. Our stores, located in key cities of Northern Luzon and Metro Manila, carry products which are not only of high quality but have the best value for your money. At BHF, we only get products from reputable suppliers. We are accredited distributors of well known appliance manufacturers such as Sony, JVC, National Panasonic, LG Collins, Sharp, AKIRA, Standard, WhiteWestinghouse, BElectown, Imarflex, La Germania and Carrier; and furniture such as Salem, Mapres, Poly Foam-uratex, Jeff & Joy, Jenshyl, Scenic and SCF Eurotech (Sanwa). We select our items with care to make sure that every customer who walks into our stores would find something that would suit their needs. Our staffs are also trained to make shopping easy and convenient. Being a progressive company, BHF has not initiated itself in Home Furnishing, it is also into Pawn shop, Jewelry and Watches sales, Rural Banking, Supermarket and Department Stores business, for which it has earned quality service, honesty and credibility. All of our BHF Stores offers friendly installment terms to our clients. We believed in making our products accessible and affordable to today’s money-smart buyers. We also accept all major credit cards. BHF is not just a furniture store, We are keeping our name to remind us of our humble beginnings when hard work, diligence and honestly proved to be the ideals that would bring about our company’s prosperity and success. This continuous to be our guiding philosophy at BHF. Virgo (Aug 23 - Sep 22) Withdrawing from emotional social contact is favored now, for even when you are with others you are likely to feel separate and alone. Sadness and disappointments in your personal life are also probable now. It is a time to be quiet and to look objectively at how your relationships are going. Though not a pleasurable time, this can be a beneficial period in which to learn more about love and what you truly value. Emotions: Good ~ Money: Fair ~ Wellness: Good Power Numbers: 49, 24, 42, 30, 3, 26 Leo (Jul 23 - Aug 22) Your intuition is what the energy is about for you today. Let your sweetie in on how you feel rather than to assume they already know. And if you’ve been keeping your eye on someone that you’d like to have in your life, it might not be so bad to take a risk and let them know, but do follow your intuition. Emotions: Fair ~ Money: Fair ~ Wellness: Good Power Numbers: 33, 20, 41, 8, 5, 18. Mi nd Games by Kuya Willy Cryptograms ... alamin ang iyong kapalaran Gemini (May 21 - Jun 21) Something you’ve awaited can now be successful. You’ve worked hard and played just as hard as well and in any case you can start to reap the benefits of your efforts and the investment of the past few months. Take care of your health at this time as there’s also a need for relaxation and time out from the daily grind. Emotions: Good ~ Money: Fair ~ Wellness: Good Power Numbers: 46, 32, 21, 14, 33, 10 Cancer (Jun 23 - Jul 23) It may be difficult to maintain your perfect image when other distractions draw your attention elsewhere. Save your stage appearances for later and check the mirror only after you’ve finished with necessary business. Work clothes are the order of the day -- there will be time for dress up when the evening rolls around. Emotions: Good ~ Money: Fair ~ Wellness: Good Power Numbers: 13, 47, 48, 11, 42, 3. Taurus (Apr 19 - May 20) Release from restrictive circumstances and pressures is the main issue at this time with regards to your love life. Obligations and responsibilities are not so demanding now, and you are able to enjoy a greater level of freedom in your daily life. Emotions: Good ~ Money: Fair ~ Wellness: Fair Power Numbers: 20, 40, 38, 21, 24, 45. Capricorn (Dec 21 - Jan 19) You are very clear and perceptive now. It’s a good time to make a decision or come to an agreement, negotiate, exchange your views with others, present your case. If you are in a profession dealing with words, ideas, or communication, this is a very productive time for you. Emotions: Good ~ Money: Good ~ Wellness: Fair Power Numbers: 13, 31, 17, 9Power Numbers: 46, 28, 4, 13, 17, 39. Aries (Mar 21 - Apr 19) A good time for starting off on a fresh footing. Make sure you’re not demanding too much of yourself in the long run, you will not always have this much drive, and you don’t want to burn out because you can’t keep up with yourself. A good plan is determined by whether you can keep it going on an off day. Emotions: Fair ~ Money: Fair ~ Wellness: Good Power Numbers: 9, 17, 46, 16, 20, 36. Aquarius (Jan 20 - Feb 18) This is an excellent time to eliminate whatever is unnecessary and outworn in your life especially if it’s an unhealthy relationship which keeps you from going after what you really want in life. You are also more perceptive than usual. You can see other people’s true colors more clearly and you may discover a secret or the hidden aspect of some situation. Emotions: Good ~ Money: Good ~ Wellness: Good Power Numbers: 5, 19, 17, 12, 4, 6. Sagittarius (Nov 23 - Dec 21) You are optimistic, hopeful, and forward looking at this time. You can see connections and possibilities you may have overlooked before. Now is a time for communicating your enthusiasm, sharing your plans and dreams and also being more receptive to the thoughts and points of view of that special person in your life. Emotions: Good ~ Money: Good ~ Wellness: Fair Power Numbers: 1, 27, 43, 9, 29, 5. Pisces (Feb 19 - Mar 20) Draw your strength from a partner where you can, as relationships will give you a great deal of energy you as long as you don’t allow yourself to be drawn into an argument. In return, be protective and watch the backs of the ones you care for, as they may need it. Emotions: Good ~ Money: Fair ~ Wellness: Fair Power Numbers: 22, 15, 19, 28, 41, 4. Scrabble Can you guess the highest scoring word? (enter row and column place of first tile) Decode the quote using substitution cipher. Replace each letter in the message with a different letter of the alphabet. Some letters are revealed as clues. 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