Care Guide - Premier Health
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Care Guide - Premier Health
Multiple Miracles Care Guide Introduction....................................................................................................... 2 Morning Sickness*.......................................................................................... 4 Prenatal Testing*.............................................................................................. 5 Fetal Movement Count*............................................................................... 6 Preeclampsia*................................................................................................... 8 Preterm Labor*...............................................................................................10 Pregnancy Activity Levels*.........................................................................13 Bed Rest Exercises for Pregnancy*.........................................................15 Bed Rest Exercise List*.................................................................................16 Breathing Techniques for Labor*............................................................24 Tips on Caring for More than One Baby*............................................25 Breastfeeding More than One Baby*....................................................29 Bottle Feeding Your Baby*.........................................................................30 Common Questions about Formula*...................................................31 Bottle Feeding More than One Baby*...................................................34 Essentials for Multiples*............................................................................35 New Baby Resources for Parents*..........................................................38 New Baby Resources for Children*........................................................40 Multiple Baby Resources and Books*....................................................43 *Revised with permission. © The Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center, Columbus, Ohio, Patient Education. All rights reserved. The Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center is not responsible for any consequences resulting from the use or misuse of the information on these handouts. Perinatal Partners Jiri Sonek, MD, RDMS Christopher Croom, MD David McKenna, MD, RDMS Christine Kovac, MD Melanie Glover, MD Richard O'Shaughnessy, MD Samantha Wiegand, MD 1 2 Welcome to Multiple Miracles, Premier Health’s specialty clinic for pregnant women carrying more than one baby. Our goal is to work with your obstetrician to provide the safest and healthiest birth experience for you and your babies. exams and regular visits. Finally, we will suggest when and what type of delivery your obstetrician should perform. We want you to know that your babies’ and your safety are of utmost importance to us as we care for you. Multiple Miracles provides an all encompassing approach to your care from conception to delivery. This begins by using ultrasound to find out the number of placentas and dividing membranes present (see illustration on next page). For certain types of multiple fetuses (babies not yet born), this step is critical since it can tell your doctor if your babies are at risk for conditions that can be very serious. You will also receive a thorough assessment of your nutritional needs. With this information, a special diet, exercise and activity plan will be designed just for you and your type of pregnancy. You will be offered screening for birth defects as well as those of the placenta (afterbirth) using the most advanced techniques available anywhere in the world. Throughout your pregnancy we will follow you closely with ultrasound Multiple births are always high risk pregnancies and there are a number of health problems that may occur with either the babies or the mother. Our doctors have in depth training and over 100 years of combined experience caring for women pregnant with multiple fetuses. Our care team is unique in the region and provides you the opportunity to receive the best care possible anywhere, right here in your community. In addition, Miami Valley Hospital has the most experienced, nationally recognized Level IIIB Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) in the region. Should the need arise, please know that our NICU offers the highest quality care and the latest technology possible to care for your new babies. Knowing that many health problems can occur with multiple fetuses, our team will do our very best to identify them as quickly as possible. If problems develop, we will discuss them with you and your family and perform any special treatments to achieve the best outcome possible. Thank you for choosing our team to care for you and your family. What Kind Of Twins Do I Have? Dichorionic Diamniotic Dichorionic Diamniotic Two placentas, two sacs Two placentas (fused placentas), two sacs Monochorionic Diamniotic Monochorionic Monoamniotic One placenta, two sacs One placenta, one sac 3 Morning Sickness Nausea and Vomiting during Pregnancy Diet Eat small meals more often to prevent an empty stomach. Foods that are easy to digest include: Nausea and vomiting during early pregnancy is sometimes called morning sickness. Morning sickness: • dry foods • Can happen any time of the day. • saltine crackers • Usually begins about the 6th week of pregnancy and gets better by the 13th week. • cereals • Most likely happens because hormone levels in your body change rapidly during early pregnancy. • Can be caused by stress, not eating for several hours, or certain odors. If morning sickness is a problem, you may worry about the health of your baby. If you are in good health before pregnancy, your growing baby will have enough nutrients for the first months of pregnancy. Tips on what to do: Rest Take rest periods or naps more often. Keep a slice of toast, saltine crackers, pretzels, or dry cereal at your bedside. It may help to eat something before you get out of bed. • toast • bagels • pasta • potatoes. Drink water, juices, and other fluids between meals. Liquids When vomiting occurs, take sips of clear liquids only. As the nausea passes, increase the amount of liquids to ½ cup every hour. Some examples of clear liquid are JELL-O®, clear soft drinks (7UP®), apple juice, tea, and broth. Avoid greasy or highly seasoned foods High fat foods or highly seasoned and spicy foods may cause your morning sickness to get worse. It is best to stay away from these foods. Follow-Up Call your doctor, clinic, or go to the Emergency Department if: • You cannot keep liquids down for 24 hours. • You have abdominal (belly) pain, fever, dizziness, severe weakness or feel faint. These may be signs of a more serious problem. 4 Prenatal Testing First Trimester Screening Most times, the first trimester screening occurs between the 11th and 14th week of pregnancy. This screening uses a blood test and ultrasound measurements to help predict the risk of chromosomal problems such as Down syndrome. Ultrasound can confirm the baby’s age, the type of twins, and find other problems early in the pregnancy. Also, this is the only screening that can find chromosomal problems in triplets and higher multiple pregnancies. Quad Screen At 4 to 5 months, a quad screen, sometimes called an AFP test, is offered. A blood sample will be taken. The tests tell whether the baby is at risk for some birth defects of the brain, the spinal cord, or the chromosomes such as Down syndrome. An abnormal test does not mean that your baby has any birth defects. It does mean that more tests may be ordered to check for problems. Glucose Challenge Test At 6 to 7 months, a "Glucose Challenge" test is ordered by your doctor. During your pregnancy, your body must make more insulin to take care of the food that you eat. If your body does not make enough insulin, the sugar level in your blood will rise. Ultrasound The ultrasound machine uses sound waves to outline and photograph the developing baby in your womb. The test is painless. You will lie on your back. A probe is gently glided across your abdomen (belly) by your doctor or a technician. This test identifies the number of babies and the baby's position in the uterus. It shows the outline and organs of your baby. Most times, an ultrasound is done in the second half of your pregnancy and may be repeated if your baby is having problems. Your doctor may order other tests that, include the non-stress test and the biophysical profile test. Non-stress Test A non-stress test records your baby's heart rate on a special machine called a "Fetal Monitor." You may be asked to push a button every time the baby moves. The test is painless and most times lasts 30 to 45 minutes. Biophysical Profile A biophysical profile test is a special ultrasound, which is used to check your baby's movements, breathing and amount of amniotic fluid (bag of water) surrounding the baby. It may follow a non-stress test. You will be given a sweet soda to drink. You will be asked not to drink or eat anything for one hour following the soda. Do not chew gum or smoke. The nurse will check your blood sugar level by drawing blood one hour after you have had the sweet soda. If your blood sugar is high, you will be scheduled for more testing. 5 Amniocentesis An amniocentesis is a procedure where the doctor puts a needle through the mother's abdomen to remove a small amount of amniotic fluid, which surrounds the baby. Ultrasound is used to find the best place to insert the needle. The fluid is then sent to the laboratory for testing. In women at risk, an amniocentesis is done during the second trimester to test for some genetic diseases in the baby. It may be done during the third trimester to test for the lung maturity of the baby. Fetal Echocardiography A fetal echocardiogram is a special ultrasound of your baby's heart. This test can be done in our ultrasound department or by a pediatric cardiologist (heart doctor) at Dayton Children's. It is a test to check for certain heart defects in your baby. Fetal Movement Count What does fetal movement count mean? Fetal movement count (also called a kick count) is the number of times the baby moves during a given period. Babies do not move all the time. They may sleep for about 20 minutes and then wake up and move around. One way to check on your baby's health before birth is to count the number of times he or she moves for a certain period each day. You can feel movement as the baby pushes against the wall of your uterus (womb). You can also feel the baby move by placing your hands on 6 your belly. Sometimes you can see a ripple or little bump on your abdomen when the baby changes position. Some women describe the movements as "rolling", "stretching" or "pushing". Each feeling of movement counts as one movement. Write the number of movements down on the record provided or make your own record. How should I record the movements? Choose a time twice a day to count your baby's movements. Try to plan your fetal movement counts at the same time each day. After you eat a meal is often a good time. Follow these steps for this simple, but very important test of your baby's health. • Get into a comfortable position. Lie on either your left or right side to move the weight of the uterus off the large blood vessels. Oxygen is carried through these blood vessels to your uterus and to your baby. • Use the record sheet on the next page to record the movements. • Look at a wall clock, watch, cell or smartphone and write down the time you start counting. • Each time the baby moves make a mark on the paper. • After one hour, count the number of marks you have made. − If the baby has moved 8 to 10 times or more, you may stop counting. − If the baby moves less than 8 to 10 times in an hour, count the movements for another hour. If there are still less than 8 to 10 movements in that hour, call your doctor, nurse, or Labor and Delivery at (937) 208-2408. Fetal Movement Counts Write down each time your baby moves in one hour. Please do movement counts two times a day, after meals. If you notice the movements are less than 8 to 10 in a one hour period, continue to count for one more hour. If you still have less than 8 to 10 movements, call your doctor, nurse or Labor and Delivery at (937) 208-2408. Date Time Movements Total 7 Preeclampsia Preeclampsia is a condition that only happens while you are pregnant. Symptoms include severe swelling, high blood pressure, and protein in your urine. Preeclampsia may be called by several different names. You may have heard it called toxemia, high blood pressure of pregnancy or PIH (pregnancy-induced hypertension). What causes preeclampsia? The cause of preeclampsia is not known. Preeclampsia begins at conception, but symptoms do not usually show until after 20 weeks of pregnancy. Women who are at risk for developing preeclampsia include those with: • Diabetes • Obesity • Chronic high blood pressure Signs of Preeclampsia You or your doctor may notice these symptoms: • Protein in your urine • A rise in your blood pressure • Low urine output (not passing much urine or less than usual) • A lot of swelling in your feet, face, eyes or hands • Kidney disease • Weight gain greater than two pounds per week • African American More severe symptoms are: • First pregnancy • Severe headache • First pregnancy with a new partner • Hard time breathing, getting your breath • Two or more fetuses • Mothers and/or sisters who had the disease • Seizures (convulsions) • Age 17 or younger or 35 and older • Blurry vision or seeing spots • Severe heartburn If you notice any of these symptoms, call your doctor right away. Do not wait until your next scheduled appointment. 8 Treatment Treatment for this condition is very important for your health and the health of your baby. For example, your baby may not grow well because your body is not supplying enough oxygen and food. In severe cases, it may cause the baby's death. • If often rest periods do not lower your blood pressure, and decrease swelling, you will need to remain in bed at home. − Take rest periods often, lying on your side. Rest or nap for 1 to 2 hours mid-morning and 1 to 2 hours mid-afternoon. − Eat well-balanced meals that include high-protein foods such as meats, fish, eggs, peanut butter, milk, and beans. Foods high in protein will help increase nutrition to your baby. If you have questions, ask your doctor, nurse, or dietitian. • Drink plenty of fluids such as water, juices and milk • For most women, preeclampsia ends with delivery and blood pressure returns to normal within several days. • However, you may be at risk for developing preeclampsia with future pregnancies. Postpartum Preeclampsia For most women, preeclampsia ends with delivery and the blood pressure returns to normal levels. In some cases, often within 48 hours of childbirth, blood pressure is still very high. Your doctor may take a number of blood and urine tests to check your health. Medicines may be given to lower blood pressure and to prevent seizures. Late term postpartum preeclampsia is possible, but very rare. It starts about 4 to 6 weeks after delivery. If you have been at risk for preeclampsia and do not feel well, call your doctor right away. Do not wait until your postpartum visit to be seen. • Keep all appointments with your doctor so he or she can monitor your health. • If bed rest at home does not improve your symptoms, you may be admitted to the hospital for bed rest, medications, and close observation. • If preeclampsia continues to become worse, the doctor may suggest that delivery of the baby is needed. • You may be given medication such as magnesium sulfate to decrease your risk of seizures. 9 Preterm Labor Preterm labor is labor that starts more than three weeks before your baby is due (before 37 weeks of pregnancy). An early delivery can cause the baby to have problems with breathing, eating and keeping a normal body temperature. Early treatment of preterm labor may prevent a preterm birth. The cause of preterm labor is not known. It can happen to any pregnant woman during any pregnancy, but some conditions may increase the risk. Who is at Risk for Preterm Labor? These conditions may increase your risk of preterm labor: • A history of preterm labor or preterm delivery in a past pregnancy. • Twins, triplets, or more with your current pregnancy. • Two or more second trimester abortions or miscarriages. • A weak cervix. • Previous surgery on the cervix, such as a cone biopsy. • Severe kidney or bladder infections. • Bleeding problems with this pregnancy that happen after 14 weeks into the pregnancy. • Cervical dilation (opening) or thinning before 30 weeks. • Many uterine contractions before 30 weeks. 10 Signs of Preterm Labor Each of the following may be a sign of preterm labor. If you have even one of these signs, call your doctor right away. • Uterine contractions every 10 minutes or more often: Uterine contractions are the tightening and relaxing of the muscle of the uterus. Contractions occur normally throughout pregnancy as the uterus stretches and grows. These "normal" contractions happen a few times a day and when you change your position. Uterine contractions that cause preterm labor occur in a regular pattern and are frequent. I f your uterus is contracting, you will feel your entire abdomen get tight (hard) and then relax (soften). It may also feel like the baby is “balling up.” They may be painless but can cause your cervix to open. • Low, dull backache: Backache may come and go or be constant. It may happen along with a “balling up” feeling of your abdomen. It can be felt below the waist and is not relieved after lying down, a change in position or a heating pad. • Menstrual-like cramps: The cramping feeling occurs in the lower abdomen just above the pubic bone. It may come and go or be constant. It may feel like the beginning of your menstrual period. • Increase or change in vaginal discharge: Vaginal discharge is normally thick and white during pregnancy. It may increase in amount or become more watery, pink or tan, like your mucous plug. • Pressure in the lower abdomen, back or thighs: This pressure may feel like heaviness in the pelvis or like the baby is pushing down or falling out. • Intestinal (bowel) cramping, with or without diarrhea: You may have the feeling of "gas pains.” Treatment for Preterm Labor Your doctor may ask you to try some of these behaviors to see if they help with preterm labor: • Stop what you are doing. Lie down on your left or right side for one hour. • Quickly drink several cups of fluid that do not contain caffeine during that hour. • If you have four or more contractions in one hour or any of the other warning signs after rest and fluids, call your doctor or Labor and Delivery. Do not wait any longer than one hour for the symptoms to go away. You need to go to the hospital to get medicine to stop the preterm labor. • Call your doctor or Labor and Delivery right away if you have: − Bleeding − Fluid leaking from your vagina − Change in vaginal discharge − Frequent contractions (every 5 minutes or less) Managing Signs of Preterm Labor If you are at risk of having preterm labor, your care during pregnancy may be changed: • Your doctor will see you more often. You will be asked about symptoms of preterm labor and your cervix will be checked on each visit. These findings will be discussed with you. − Talk to your doctor about attending childbirth education classes. If you have been placed on bed rest, ask if you can attend or be part of the birth activity portion of the class. 11 • Work outside the home may have to be decreased, changed, or stopped. This depends on the type of job you have and your risk of preterm labor. Discuss your job with your doctor early in your pregnancy. − No heavy cleaning should be done, including mopping or scrubbing floors, vacuuming, changing curtains, and moving furniture. • Physical activity may need to be changed or stopped, including but not limited to these activities: • Sexual activity may have to be decreased or stopped, depending on your medical condition. Report any symptoms of preterm labor that continue for more than one hour, after sexual activity. − Do not do physical sports or activities including jogging, bicycling, tennis, long walks, or frequent trips up and down stairs. − Do not lift heavy grocery bags or laundry baskets. − Long trips by car or plane should be discussed with your doctor. • Breast massage or preparing your nipple for breastfeeding should not be done until three weeks before your due date. Breast stimulation releases hormones that may cause contractions. • In some women, stress may add to preterm problems. If you are feeling stressful or anxious about things, be sure to talk them over with your support person, doctor, or nurse. If needed, your doctor can refer you to someone to help you cope with those issues. Beginning at about 28 weeks, your doctor will work with you on planning for your delivery. Also, our staff can assist your doctor with this planning. If so, please give our office a call. Important Phone Numbers ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ 12 Pregnancy Activity Levels When you have a high risk pregnancy, your doctor may order more rest until your baby is born. There are several levels of activity from light activity (Level 1) to bed rest (Level 3). These levels are used to protect your health and the health of your baby. About Your Activity Level • Depending on your needs, your doctor may change your activity level during your pregnancy. • Your emotional health is as important as your physical health. It is important to find ways to manage both your physical activity and stress. • Do not do stressful exercise. First, talk with your doctor or nurse about any activities you may want to do. • Your doctor or nurse will talk with you about sexual activity. Level 1 Level 1 has the fewest limits. You can do some activities, like walking, but not others, such as playing sports. Balance each activity with time for rest. • Get 8 to 10 hours of sleep each day. • Rest one hour in the morning and one hour in the afternoon. When you rest, lie down on your left side. • Do light household chores only 15 or 20 minutes at a time. Get help for heavy cleaning or activities that involve bending, stretching, lifting, pushing, pulling or standing on your feet for any length of time. • If desired, take short walks (2 to 3 blocks). Talk to your doctor about other light exercises you can do. • Go on short errands or shopping trips, but pay attention to the amount of movement for the activity. Use an elevator or escalator instead of the stairs. Find activities that involve sitting, such as going to a movie or dinner, instead of walking. • Talk with your employer if you work outside of the home, and your doctor advises you to decrease your hours or to change to working part-time. • Other:_______________________ ____________________________ Level 2 This has more limits than Level 1. In Level 2, you need to spend most of your day lying down. • Get 8 to 10 hours of sleep each day. • Rest most of the day. Lie on your left side as much as possible. You may get up to go to the bathroom and take a short 10 to 15 minute shower. • Talk with your doctor about light exercises you can do to keep your muscles strong. See Bed Rest Exercises for Pregnancy on the following pages. 13 • Make simple meals that do not take a long time to prepare for you and your family, or have family and friends bring meals so you do not need to cook. • You will need help with housekeeping, laundry, and grocery shopping. Any activity that keeps you on your feet, or involves, bending, stretching, lifting, pushing, or pulling needs to be done by someone else. • If you work outside the home, you must stop work and be on sick leave. This is for your health and the health of your baby. • If you have other children who need care, talk with family and friends, or a child care provider to get support. • Other: _______________________ ____________________________ Level 3 If you have been placed on Level 3 activity, this means you need to be on bed rest all day. Level 3 activity can be very hard as you want to be up and about, but for your health and the health of your baby, lying down is best. • Get 8 to 10 hours of sleep each day. • Rest in bed all day. Lie on your left side as much as possible. • You may get up to go to the bathroom and take a short 10 minute shower. • Climb stairs slowly and only if absolutely necessary. • You will need help at home for all chores and family care. • Eat meals in bed, lying on your side. • Leave the house only for doctor visits. • Other: _______________________ ____________________________ Coping with Bed Rest If you are placed on bed rest, it is very important for your health and the health of your baby. It can be hard to stay lying down. Try these tips to cope with your activity level: • Find activities you can do lying down, such as puzzles, games, watching TV, reading, talking on the phone, skype™ or video chat with friends. • Join an online support group. Use a handheld device, such as a smartphone, tablet, or laptop computer to make it easier to stay connected. • Talk to friends on social networks, or start a blog about your pregnancy. • Take an online course through your local college or see if there are free webinars you can watch. • Contact your local bookstore to see if they have an online book group you can join. 14 Bed Rest Exercises for Pregnancy A simple exercise program will keep your muscles toned and improve your circulation while you are on bed rest. It helps your body: • Tone muscles to reduce stiffness and muscle strain that occurs with bed rest. Muscles need to be strong for getting into or out of bed and to help with recovery after delivery. • Use an online website such as Helping Hands and help direct family and friends who want to help with meals, transportation, housework or other support. • Work on a hobby that you can do lying down such as scrapbooking, hand sewing, knitting or crocheting, play video games, and write in a journal or paint. • If you have small children, find activities you can do with them, such as reading, playing with small toys, or singing. Use your computer to play music and watch them dance. You do not have to move. Your kids just want you to be part of these activities. • Remind yourself, that you are doing something wonderful by taking good care of yourself and your baby. • With good posture. • Keep from having problems with blood flow, such as blood clots in the deep veins of the legs, called DVTs. It can also help increase blood flow to the uterus (womb) and fetus. • Reduce the stress and boredom that comes with less activity and lengthy bed rest. How to Exercise Safely • Do each exercise slowly. Movements should not cause you to work hard or get tired. See how your body responds. Spread out exercises during the day. • Do not use your stomach muscles, strain or hold your breath. • Report any uterine contractions, bleeding or amniotic fluid loss to your nurse or doctor. • If you are allowed to walk, keep good posture. • Do warm up exercises while sitting on the side of the bed. 15 Bed Rest Exercise List Try to do each set of exercises two to three times a day. Go slowly and if you notice stress or strain, STOP. Do not use your stomach muscles for these exercises. Exercises to relax your neck and shoulders (repeat each exercise 5 to 10 times) These exercises can be done lying down or sitting up. If your doctor has limited your time sitting up, then you may do them lying down. Slightly turn on one side or the other. 1. • Bring your chin in towards your chest. • Pull your shoulders up towards your ears. • Slowly roll your head towards the left and then the right. Relax and repeat. • Roll your shoulders forwards in a circle, then, backwards in a circle. Relax and repeat. 3. • Pull your shoulder blades together in the back of you. Relax and repeat. 16 2. 4. • With your arms straight out in front of you, reach forward as far as possible. Relax and repeat. Bed Rest Exercise List Try to do each set of exercises two to three times a day. Go slowly and if you notice stress or strain, STOP. Do not use your stomach muscles for these exercises. Arms (repeat each exercise 5 to 10 times) These exercises can be done on your back or side, depending on how you are to told to lie in bed. 5. 6. • Tuck your chin and push the back of your head into the pillow. Then, stretch your arms down toward your knees, one at a time. • Lying on your left side, use your right arm to draw a large circle in the air making the circle bigger and then smaller. Next, lie on your right side and use your left arm to draw a large circle in the air making the circle bigger and then smaller. • You may also do these exercises on your back, depending how you are told to lie in bed. • Tighten and release your fists. • Bend and straighten your elbows. 17 Bed Rest Exercise List Try to do each set of exercises two to three times a day. Go slowly and if you notice stress or strain, STOP. Do not use your stomach muscles for these exercises. Legs, knees, ankles, and feet (repeat each exercise 5 to 10 times unless it says something else) 7. 9. • Bend your right leg at the hip and at the knee. Keep your heel flat on the bed. Slide your heel up towards your buttocks. • Keep your left leg straight. • Bend your right leg so the heel is flat on the bed. • Then, straighten out the leg and repeat this with your left leg. 8. • Bend your right leg at the hip and at the knee. Keep your heel flat on the bed. Slide your foot to one side then back to the middle. Repeat with your left leg. 18 • Place the right heel on top of the left ankle. Slide your right foot up the left leg until it reaches the knee. Then, slide it back down to the ankle. Repeat with your other leg. Bed Rest Exercise List Try to do each set of exercises two to three times a day. Go slowly and if you notice stress or strain, STOP. Do not use your stomach muscles for these exercises. Legs, knees, ankles, and feet (repeat each exercise 5 to 10 times unless it says something else) 10. To help your leg muscles, try these exercises lying on your back. 11. To help your leg muscles, try these exercises sitting up. • Keep your legs straight and toes pointed towards the ceiling. • Bend and straighten your right knee 5 to 10 times. Repeat on your left knee. • Tighten your thigh muscles by lifting your right leg in the direction of your waist. Hold for five seconds and release. Repeat with your left leg. • Now, straighten your right leg in front of you and move your foot and ankle up and down. Repeat with your left leg. • Do this activity if you can sit up for meals or if you can get up to use the toilet or bedside commode. 19 Bed Rest Exercise List Try to do each set of exercises two to three times a day. Go slowly and if you notice stress or strain, STOP. Do not use your stomach muscles for these exercises. Legs, knees, ankles, and feet (repeat each exercise 5 to 10 times unless it says something else) 12. 13. • For your knees, keep your legs straight on the bed, and roll your knees inward and outward. • For your ankles, move each foot up and down in a pumping motion about 15 to 20 times every 1 to 2 hours. 20 • Keeping your legs on the bed, move your left foot in a circle and then move it in the other direction. Repeat with your right foot. Bed Rest Tips Getting In and Out of Bed When on Bed Rest Move slowly and ask for help when getting out of bed. Do warm up exercises before you get out of bed, such as ankle circles and leg pumps. This will get your body ready for movement. • To move from side to side in bed: Keep your head on the pillow and roll like a log. • To sit up in bed: Keep your head on the pillow and use the up button on your electric hospital bed. • Use both arms to push yourself up to a sitting position while you swing your legs over the edge of the bed. I MPORTANT: Never sit straight up without using your hands or turning to one side first. • Then roll to one side. 21 Bed Rest Tips Using a Bedpan Comfort during Bed Rest Use pillows and the electric bed controls to reduce muscle strain, this will help prevent muscle pain, soreness, or stiffness from staying in bed. Be aware of how you are lying in bed to keep yourself comfortable. Below are some ways to keep your joints supported. • Lie flat on your back in bed and keep your head on the pillow. Slightly raise the head of the electric bed. This will make using the bedpan more comfortable. • When you are in bed, try to keep your spine as straight as possible, no matter how you are lying. If your spine is twisting or sagging, this can cause muscle strain. • Bend both knees, put both your feet flat on the bed, then lift your bottom. • Slide the bedpan underneath you. With the bed flat, remove the bedpan the same way. 22 • Place a small towel roll under your lower back for added support. • Lying on your left side is the best position for the most blood flow to your uterus and the baby. To prevent strains, place a pillow under your belly and between your knees or behind your back. Ask your nurse for extra pillows. Bed Rest Tips Deep Breathing and Relaxation • Lie on your side or back with knees bent. Rest one hand on your belly. Breathe in deeply through the nose so your hand is raised up by your belly. Breathe out slowly through your mouth. Repeat deep breathing five times. • Ask your support person or one of your health care team members to give you a massage. • Close your eyes. Beginning with your toes and feet, relax each body part as you work your way up your body. Relax your thighs, buttocks, back, shoulders, neck, jaw, eyelids, and forehead. Now imagine yourself enjoying the feeling of calm. 23 Breathing Techniques for Labor There are different breathing techniques for labor. You may learn many of them in a childbirth education class. A few examples are shown on the this page. Slow Paced Breathing • Take a "cleansing breath" as your contraction begins. Breathe in (inhale) through your nose and then let the air out (exhale) through your mouth, letting your body completely relax. • Keep your eyes focused on something, such as a picture on the wall or by thinking of some beautiful place in your mind. • Breathe in through your nose (count 1, 2, 3, 4) then exhale through your mouth (count 1, 2, 3, 4) as if gently blowing a candle flame. Pace yourself at one-half your normal breathing rate. • As your contraction ends, take another cleansing breath. Modified Paced Breathing • Take a cleansing breath and totally relax. • Keep your eyes focused on something, such as a picture on the wall or by thinking of some beautiful place in your mind. • Inhale through your nose (silently say 1000 in) and exhale through your mouth (silently say 1000 out). • As your contraction ends, take another cleansing breath. Patterned Paced Breathing • Take a cleansing breath while relaxing your entire body. • Keep your eyes focused on something, such as a picture on the wall or by thinking of some beautiful place in your mind. • Inhale and exhale with 3 to 4 shallow upper chest breaths (AH-HEE), followed by softly exhaling (AH-BLOW). • As your contraction ends, take another cleansing breath. 24 Tips on Caring for More than One Baby Caring for your new babies will be exciting, but also can be very tiring. For this reason, it is important to have lots of support. Ask for help from friends, relatives, your local place of worship, or a teenager you trust from the neighborhood. Tell them the type of help you need, such as household chores, feeding babies, or to just have a break from the daily routine. Do not try to be super parents, ask for help. Feeding Your decision to breast or bottle feed should be based on what method best meets the needs of you, your babies, and your family. • The feeding method you choose during your pregnancy may need to be changed to better meet you and your babies’ needs. • While breast milk is best, talk with your bedside nurse, lactation (breastfeeding) specialist, La Leche League, or baby’s doctor for questions you may have about feeding your babies. You may need to both breast and bottle feed your babies. Breastfeeding Breastfeeding more than one baby is possible. Be patient with yourself and your babies while you learn to feed more than one at a time. • Eat healthy foods, drink plenty of water, and have some help at home so you can rest, while you build up and maintain your milk supply. • Talk to your bedside nurse or lactation consultant about positioning when breastfeeding. A special breastfeeding pillow, which fits around your waist, allows two babies to lie on either side of your breasts and feed together. • Start off breastfeeding one twin at a time until breastfeeding is going well. When each baby can latch on correctly, you can then begin to breastfeed both babies at the same time. • If one baby has a stronger sucking reflex, have that baby breastfeed first. This helps with milk flow and makes feeding easier for a twin who has a weaker sucking reflex. • Nursing both babies at the same time saves you energy and time. Breast compressions can be done to help your baby with a weaker sucking reflex to feed better. • You may find it easier to put your babies on the same feeding schedule so you can rest while they are sleeping. You may choose to breastfeed one child and bottle feed the other and switch at the next feeding time. If you choose to feed them separately, and one cries while feeding the other one, offer a pacifier, rock the infant in an infant carrier, or try singing. 25 For more in depth information on breastfeeding refer to the InJoy booklet, Understanding Breastfeeding: Your Guide to a Healthy Start. Bottle Feeding By holding the babies close to you and making good eye contact, you can have the same feeling of closeness while bottle feeding as with breastfeeding. If your babies eat slowly, ask your nurse to show you other holding positions and ways to help your babies eat better. • If you have room in your refrigerator, try to make enough formula for at least 24 hours. Mix the formula and place it in a pitcher with a closed lid, or pour the formula into bottles and store them in the refrigerator. • If you pour the formula into bottles, only pour the amount the babies are taking at each feeding to reduce waste. You will also need at least 8 bottles per baby for a 24 hour period. • Warm the formula before giving it to your babies. The safest way to heat a bottle of formula is to run warm water over it until it is room temperature. Always check the temperature first before giving a bottle to your baby. Shake a few drops on your inner arm. The formula is ready when it no longer feels hot or too cold. I MPORTANT: Do not use the microwave to warm the bottles. This can create hot spots that can burn your baby’s mouth. 26 Diapers Choose whatever type of diaper, disposable or cloth that best meets your needs. Using cloth diapers can save money, but having access to a washer and dryer is necessary, and washing them will take lots of time. Pre-folded diapers, 2 dozen for each baby, will get you through at least two days. Some parents choose disposable diapers because they require less work. Infant Seats or Chairs At about six months of age, you can begin to use infant seats or chairs when your babies have good head support, this will allow them to explore their world. This also allows the babies to interact with each other when they are placed side-by-side or face-to-face. Stroller There are several types of strollers to choose from: • A side-by-side stroller has the babies lie or sit next to each other. • A seated front-to-back stroller allows the babies to lie down, or sit up at various levels. • In a face-to-face stroller, the babies sit facing each other • Umbrella strollers that are attached can be used when your babies are sitting up and have good head support. A stroller that holds more than one baby allows you to shop with your hands free and enjoy walks during nice weather. Consider how much space you have in your car when selecting strollers. Try out the strollers in the store to see how it collapses and make sure it will fit in the car. Always secure your babies with the stroller seat belt. Toys Babies born together learn to share and take turns earlier and more easily than do single children. It is not necessary to have two of each toy. However, each baby should have one toy to play with. • As your babies get older, you may decide that each child should have his or her own toys and a separate place to store them. • Consider dividing the toys and storing them in plastic laundry baskets to rotate their playing time. Store some, and play with others, and rotate toys every few months. Brothers and Sisters The birth of more than one baby at the same time can be hard for other children in the family. Sisters and brothers soon learn that the babies tend to attract attention wherever they go. They also need lots of work that takes much of mom and dad's time. Here are some tips: • Introduce big brother and sister to visitors first, before introducing the babies. Talk about the brother or sister’s recent accomplishments. • When your child needs you, spend five minutes of your time. This will be more helpful than spending an hour when it is a better time for you. • Plan special times with grandparents, friends, or relatives to give the brother or sister a chance to feel special. • Spend time alone with the other children and do one-on-one activities, like reading a story or taking a walk. Use sitters or friends to watch the babies for you. • Talk to your older children about their feelings. Try to keep calm and understand that behaviors such as wetting, thumb sucking, and nail biting are short term responses to the stress of having new siblings. 27 Helpful Hints • It can be hard to remember everything the first few weeks. Do not trust your memory, write it down. Keep several lists. − In the first few weeks, write down the babies’ feedings and number of wet and dirty diapers for 24 hours. − Keep a shopping list of must have supplies for babies and the family − Keep a list of questions and concerns for you or your babies' doctor − Write down dates of milestones such as, social smile, babbling, sitting, crawling, etc. You may want to use a first year calendar. − Simplify your housework. Do not try to clean your house in one day. Clean one room a day and break it up into small jobs. Accept help with cleaning. Do not feel you have to do it alone. • More than one baby is much harder to keep an eye on than a single baby, as they can go in opposite directions quickly. Make your home as safe as possible. Safety gates and play pens provide safe play areas. Post emergency phone numbers such as the Poison Control Center by each phone. 28 • Rest when your babies sleep during the day. Having more than one baby means having more feedings during the night, unless you feed them together. Put older siblings down for naps or quiet time so you can rest, too. By resting or sleeping when your babies sleep during the day, you can reduce the stress of the daily routine. • Swings may also be helpful when your babies need to be soothed. If the babies become upset, 5 to 10 minutes in the swing has been shown to be a calming effect. • If you have identical or fraternal babies who look alike, you may worry about how to tell them apart. Use a different color nail polish on a toe nail or stitch initials in a piece of their clothing to help identify them. Soon after birth, you will not have problems, as even identical babies have differences. Breastfeeding More Than One Baby Mothers may choose to breastfeed each baby one at a time. Some mothers prefer to feed both babies together. This is more successful if you wait until each baby latches well and you are comfortable with breastfeeding. A sitting position may be easier when starting. Football hold supported by pillows Cradle hold/football hold combination Side lying position with mother sitting up Side by side position with mother lying down 29 Bottle Feeding Your Baby The American Academy of Pediatrics or AAP recommends breast milk (human milk) for the first year of life and beyond. Pumping breast milk for bottle feeding is an option. If there are medical reasons to use an iron-fortified infant formula to feed baby, your doctor will help you to choose a product. Getting Started 1. Wash your hands well with soap and water for 20 seconds or use an alcohol-based hand sanitizer, such as Purell® before feeding your child or handling formula. 2. Feed your baby when there are signs of hunger, such as putting hands to mouth, or tongue moving. This may be every 2 to 4 hours. If your baby sleeps longer than four hours, wake your baby for his or her feeding. Plan to feed your baby at least 8 to 12 times in 24 hours. abies who are given breast milk B may be hungry faster than babies using infant formula. Breast milk is easier to digest. 3. Relax, sit down, and make yourself comfortable. Hold your baby in a semi-upright or side lying position while feeding. 4. To get your baby's attention, stroke the upper lip or cheek with your finger or with the tip of the bottle’s nipple. Your baby's head will turn and mouth will open in response to the stroking. When you place the bottle nipple in your baby’s mouth, your baby should begin sucking. 5. Hold the bottle at a slight incline so the top of the bottle fills completely with breast milk or formula to prevent baby from swallowing air. If your baby is drinking a bottle of mixed formula, make sure to throw away any leftover mixed formula within one hour. Do not put it back in the refrigerator or reuse it. 6. Burp your baby every ½ to 1 ounce from the bottle. Try burping if your baby wants to stop eating too soon. Burping helps your baby get rid of the extra air in the stomach. Air causes a baby to feel full and not comfortable. A small amount of breast milk or formula may come up when burping and this is normal. 7. Allow your baby to decide when he or she has had enough to eat. Do not force your baby to finish a bottle. Towards the end of a feeding, baby may fall into a light sleep. You may still notice some sucking movements. This is just a reflex and does not mean that the baby is still hungry. Let your baby suck on your finger or a pacifier. Hold your baby close and talk softly during the feeding. Skin to skin contact can be done during feeding. Your baby will enjoy the warmth and feel of your skin. For more information, please ask your nurse for the handout Skin to Skin Contact for Your Baby. our baby is taking _____milliliters (mls) every ____hours today. If you are Y not sure how much your baby is eating talk with your doctor or nurse. 30 Common Questions about Formula How long is breast milk or formula needed for a healthy diet? It is needed at least the first year of life. Do not add anything to the bottle formula, including honey, sugar, cow's milk, or cereal unless directed by your doctor. The doctor will tell you when you should start solid foods and cow's milk. What types of formula should I give my baby? Your baby's doctor will suggest what formula he or she believes is best for your baby. Always check the expiration date on the label, do not use expired formula. • Ready-to-Use Formula – This formula comes in ready-to-feed 2 ounce or 4 ounce bottles or cans. If you buy the cans, pour the formula into a sterilized bottle. You need to supply your own sterilized bottle nipples. They do not come with ready to use products. Use within 48 hours and throw away any leftover formula. • Powdered Formula – powdered formula costs less than ready to use or liquid concentrate, but it takes the most time to prepare. Mix 1 scoop of powder for every 2 ounces of water, or as directed by your doctor if your baby has special nutrition needs. F or example, if you need to make 4 ounces of formula, use 4 ounces of water and add 2 scoops of formula. You will need sterilized bottles and nipples ready to fill after mixing the formula. Use within 24 hours of mixing and throw away any leftover mixed formula. • Liquid Concentrate Formula – Concentrate will cost you less but you must read the mixing directions on the label. Mix the concentrate with equal amounts of water. For example, if you want 4 ounces of formula use 2 ounces of concentrate and 2 ounces of water. You will need to have ready, sterilized bottles and nipples after mixing the formula. Use within 48 hours and throw away any leftover mixed formula. 31 What type of bottles and nipples should I use to feed my baby? No one type of bottle or nipple is better than another. Your baby will help you decide which one is best by how they are able to use it. There are several you may want to try. All infants should be on a low flow or slow flow nipple unless your doctor tells you to use another kind of nipple. Can I change formula if my baby does not like it? Do I need to sterilize bottles and nipples? Treat formula like a medicine. Call your baby's doctor before changing the brand of formula. Do not change the brand because of a coupon or ad for another brand. If you think your baby does not like the formula or your baby has problems digesting it, call your baby's doctor. Yes. Health care providers recommend sterilizing bottles and nipples by placing them on the top rack of your dishwasher. If a dishwasher is not available, check with your doctor or nurse on sterilizing bottles and nipples. Common signs to watch for when babies have problems with formula are: • Vomiting right after the feedings • Recurring diarrhea (loose stools) or constipation (hard stools) • Frequent bouts of crying after feedings • Signs of colic with a firm, enlarged and tender tummy right after a feeding • Fussy behavior and/or waking at night • A rough, rash on the face and around the rectum (opening for bowel movements) • Frequent colds and/or ear infections Talk to your baby’s doctor if you see any of these signs. 32 What is the safest way to heat a bottle of formula? • The safest way to heat a bottle of formula is to run warm water over it. • Do not place a bottle in a pan of water on the stove and bring it to a boil. This destroys the protein in the formula and is too hot for baby to drink. • Do not microwave formula. Microwaving causes uneven heating. The bottle may feel cool to you, but the formula inside can be very hot and burn your baby. • Always check the temperature first before giving a bottle to your baby. Shake a few drops on your inner arm. Formula is ready when it no longer feels hot or too cold. Other Safety Tips • Do not let baby drink a bottle of formula lying flat. Feeding a baby in this position increases the chance of ear infections and choking. Decay of baby teeth and jaw problems are also common if you feed in this position. • Do not lay a baby down with a propped bottle. Propped bottles increase the risk of choking. • Know how to use a bulb syringe. Sometimes babies choke when you are feeding them. Your nurse will show you how to use the bulb syringe to suction your baby's mouth and/or nose. • Do not give your baby homemade formula. Formula made from cow's milk (fresh or evaporated) does not have the same nutrients as commercially made formula. Babies cannot digest cow's milk. 33 Bottle Feeding More Than One Baby 34 Feeding both babies supported by pillows Feeding one infant in parent's lap and the other in carrier or car seat Feeding both babies in infant carriers or car seats Feeding one infant in parent's lap while supporting the other infant in a car seat or infant carrier Essentials for Multiples Quantity Items Clothing 4 to 5 each Onesies T-shirts 4 to 5 each Terry sleepers and/or blanket sleepers (depending on the season) 4 to 5 each Kimono gowns 5 pairs Socks/booties 1 each Bunting/Hats/Bonnets 10 to 12 Small drool bibs 4 to 5 each Outfits 2 dozen Cloth diapers for burping 1 Hamper 2 boxes Baby detergent 1 to 2 bottles Stain remover for clothing 1 to 2 bottles Stain remover for carpet Bedding 1 Cradle/bassinet (optional) 1 each Crib 1 each Bumper pad 2 each Mattress covers (waterproof) 2 to 3 each Crib sheets 2 to 3 Waterproof pads 2 to 3 Crib blankets 6 to 8 each Receiving blankets Bath Items 1 Baby bathtub 2 to 3 each Hooded bath towels 5 to 6 Baby washcloths 1 to 2 bottles Baby soap 1 to 2 bottles Shampoo 1 to 2 bottles Powder 1 to 2 bottles Lotion 35 Essentials for Multiples Quantity Items Diaper Items 4 Waterproof lap/changing pads 2 to 3 packs Jumbo/mega disposable diapers 8 dozen Cloth diapers (if no disposables) 3 to 4 each Diaper covers (for cloth diapers) 2 to 3 boxes Baby wipes 1 to 2 Diaper pails 1 Changing table Feeding Items for Breastfeeding 1 Double electric breast pump 4 to 5 Nursing bras 1 box Breast pads (cloth or disposable) 1 box Plastic liners (4 and 8 ounces) 6 to 8 each Bottles ( 4 and 8 ounces), rings, nipples, caps 1 Bottle/Nipple brush Health Items 1 Cool mist humidifier 1 each Thermometer 1 each Bulb syringe 1 Diaper rash ointment 1 each Acetaminophen drops 1 Infant nail clippers/scissors Cotton balls/ Q-tips® 36 Essentials for Multiples Quantity Items Assorted Items 1 Large diaper bag 1 Comb and/or brush 1 each Infant carrier type car seat 1 each Infant head support rest 1 to 2 Front carrier (optional) 1 Nursery monitor 1 each Musical mobiles (optional) 1 to 2 Baby swings (optional) 1 each Bouncy seats (optional) 1 to 2 Night lights 1 Stroller (twin/triplet) 1 Cordless telephone and answering machine Baby toys (activity gym, rattles, mirror, teethers, and the like) For Later 1 each Convertible car seat (T-bar/5-point restraint take up the least room) 1 each High chair 10 to 12 Feeding bibs 1 each Booster chair 1 each Backpack-type carrier 1 to 2 Baby gates 1 to 2 Play yards 1 each Exersaucer, jumping seats (optional) 1 each Child proofing gadgets (socket covers, cabinet locks, corner cushions) Feeding utensils, bowls, sippie cups (no spill) 37 New Baby Resources for Parents Preparing for Multiples: The Family Way by Cindy Carter ISBN 978-0-9890337-2-5 For more information on caring for yourself and your newborns see the Injoy booklet, Understanding Mother & Baby Care: A Guide to the First Two Weeks. This book provides general information for families expecting more than one baby. In addition, here is a list of books and DVDs on topics that teach new parents about their baby. These are available at public libraries, bookstores, and from online vendors. Books And Baby Makes Four: Welcoming a Second Child Into Your Family by Hilory Wagner, ISBN 0-380-79505-1 Advice from pediatricians, psychiatrists, obstetricians, midwives, parents and childbirth educators. Includes special activities to share with the first child during the last few weeks of pregnancy. Beyond One: Growing a Family and Getting a Life, by Jennifer Bingham Hull ISBN 978-1-58-005104-0 The author writes about the first three years of life with two children, providing tips, insights, and comic relief. Eat, Sleep, Poop: A Common Sense Guide to Your Baby’s First Year by Scott W. Cohen ISBN 978-1-43-911706-4 Cohen, a pediatrician, gives practical advice to parents of infants while sharing his own sometimes comical first year as a father. 38 Show Dad How: The New Dad’s Guide to Baby’s First Year by Shawn Bean ISBN 978-1-61-628111-3 In a series of nearly wordless, highly informative, often hilariously illustrated, step-by-step activities, dads-to-be learn how to do dozens of useful tasks. The Everything Parent's Guide to Raising Siblings: Eliminate Rivalry, Avoid Favoritism, and Keep the Peace by Linda Sonna ISBN 1-59337- 537-9 Written by a child psychologist. Discusses all parts of sibling relationships. Twice Blessed: Everything You Need to Know about Having a Second Child – Preparing Yourself, Your Marriage, and Your Firstborn for a New Family of Four by Joan Leonard ISBN 0-312-25430-X What to expect as the family grows from three to four during the first weeks after baby’s birth and through the first year. Welcoming Your Second Baby by Vicki Lansky ISBN 1-931863-44-X Practical tips and advice including “how I did it” suggestions from real moms. DVDs Bringing Baby Home DVD publisher Liandrea Company 71 minutes This DVD covers birth to six months with demonstrations on daily activities such as diapering, bathing, and breastfeeding. It also discusses basic health concerns including colic, jaundice, fever, and vaccine reactions. Growing Green Babies publisher Gaiam Americas 100 minutes This program offers parents pre- and post-natal advice, as well as a guide to creating a green nursery, holistic medical and nutritional tips, and organic recipes. Also included is a guide to sustainable living cleaning products, cosmetics, diapers, and other home goods. Preparing for Parenthood publisher New Screen Concepts 30 minutes Host Whoopi Goldberg talks about prenatal care, how to prepare for a baby’s birth, and how and where to get parenting help. Taking Care of Baby: Tips and Techniques publisher Snowden Media 25 minutes This DVD is aimed at parents as well as teen babysitters. Clear demonstrations show how to hold and lift, diaper, bathe and feed babies. Basic home medical care of babies is also explained. In English and Spanish. To Be a Father publisher New Screen Concepts 30 minutes. Hosted by Ray Romano, this film shows how fathers can actively participate in the healthy development of their newborn babies and young children. Phone Apps Total Baby App This app can track all of your baby's "events" such as, diaper changes, naps, milestones, and doctor visits. The app includes timers and reminder alarms. Baby Kicks App This app helps you keep track of your baby's movement during pregnancy. As soon as your unborn baby starts moving you can start tracking your baby's kicks, add notes, see how he or she is growing each week, and share this with others by email. Websites American Academy of Pediatrics http://www.healthychildren.org The AAP is a national professional association. “Healthy Children” is their website for parents. Here you will find parenting tips, free brochures, news, and health topics affecting children from birth through 21. Girls Health http://www.girlshealth.gov This is part of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. It is for girls 10 to 16 years old and their parents. It focuses on health and social topics that girls are concerned about and helps motivate them to choose healthy behaviors. The message is positive and supportive. 39 Kids Health http://kidshealth.org This highly respected website has three sections: one for parents, one for children ages 6 to 13, and one for teens, ages 14 to 19. Age appropriate articles on health and social topics, written by experts, are supported by related articles and websites. Child and teen sections have interactive quizzes and news feeds. Readers can sign up for e-newsletters. Lamaze International www.lamaze.org This website has pregnancy, birth and baby rearing information, online chat and newsletters, and locations of childbirth classes. March of Dimes www.marchofdimes.com This website is dedicated to improving the health of babies by preventing birth defects, premature birth and infant mortality. The sections “Pregnancy” and “Newborn” are aimed at parents. Includes online videos, a blog and an e-newsletter. In English and Spanish. Medline Plus http://medlineplus.gov A service of the U.S. National Library of Medicine, this website is a portal to trustworthy websites about all health topics. Use the search box for “pregnancy,” “parenting,” “siblings,” “multiples,” etc. In English and Spanish. National Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Coalition www.hmhb.org Doctors, nurses, and teachers provide prenatal and infant care information in the “You & Your Family” section. 40 National Responsible Fatherhood Clearinghouse www.fatherhood.gov This is a service of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Click on the tab “For Dads” to find tips and information about being a father. In English and Spanish. Understanding and Raising Boys www.pbs.org/parents/raisingboys This is an online guide from the Corporation for Public Broadcasting (PBS). There are links to online videos, articles, and question and answer sections from health experts. Women’s Health http://www.womenshealth.gov This site offers information and links about pregnancy, childbirth, and caring for a newborn. Once at the site, click on A-Z Health Topics then P then Pregnancy. New Baby Resources for Children These books and DVDs are available at public libraries, bookstores and from online vendors to help teach children about new siblings. Books for Children A New Brother or Sister, ages 4-8 by Charlotte Guillain ISBN 1-432-94813X Colorful photos help siblings-to-be learn what happens when baby is born, what he or she will be like and need, and how to help care for baby. Pictures of baby equipment and resources for parents to find out more are included. Arthur and the Baby, ages 4-8 by Marc Brown ISBN 0316129054 I’m a Big Brother, ages 2-5 by Joanna Cole ISBN 0-06-190065-6 The famous aardvark is not sure he is happy about the new baby in the family. When he is asked to help with the baby, Arthur feels much better. Told from a new big brother’s point of view, the book shows how each child is important in the family. Includes a "Note to Parents” that suggests how to talk with older children about the changes that are coming. Baby Baby Blah Blah Blah!, ages 5-8 by Shipton and Chessa ISBN 0823422135 When her parents tell her that they are expecting a baby, Emily makes a list of pros and cons. Baby on the Way, ages 4-8 by Sears and Kelly ISBN 0-316-78767-1 This book focuses on things an older child can do that the baby can't, and how to make friends with the baby. Big Sister Now: A Story about Me and Our New Baby, ages 2-4 by Martha Topol ISBN 1-59147-243-1 A girl learns to cope now that she is no longer the baby in the family. She finds out that she can do things to help that baby cannot. End of the book includes tips for parents about sibling rivalry. Brand-New Baby Blues, ages 2-5 by Anne Beier ISBN 978-0-06-053233-8 Rhyming book about a new big sister’s frustrations about having a baby brother and how she learns to look forward to his growing up to be her playmate. Cornelius P. Mud, Are You Ready for Baby?, ages 3-7 by Barney Saltzberg ISBN 978-0-76-363596-1 I’m a Big Sister, ages 2-5 by Joanna Cole, ISBN 0-06-190062-1 Told from a new big sister’s point of view, the book shows how each child is important in the family. Includes a "Note to Parents” that suggests how to talk with older children about the changes that are coming. Little Rabbit’s New Baby, ages 5-7 by Harry Horse ISBN 978-1-56145-431-0 A family expands from one rabbit-child to four when triplets are born. Happy, loving chaos in a cozy home. Look at Me!, My New Baby, Waiting for Baby, and You and Me, ages 2-4 by Rachel Fuller Various ISBNs This series of four books is for toddlers awaiting and adjusting to the birth of a new sibling. They cover pregnancy, welcoming baby, and learning to play and live together. New Brothers and Sisters, ages 6-8 by Elizabeth Raum, ISBN 1-4329-0825-1 Teaches children what to expect from their new brother or sister, how to help their family prepare and how to tell adults when they need help. Cornelius, a little pig, realizes he is not quite ready for the new baby in his house. 41 On Mother’s Lap, ages 0-3 by Ann Herbert Scott, ISBN 0-618-05159-7 A little Inuit boy discovers there's room for himself and his baby sister on their mother's lap. Our New Baby, ages 5-9 by Jen Green ISBN 9-7807-49675-004 Features children of different races and ethnic backgrounds who are expecting a new baby in their own families. Peter’s Chair, ages 2-5 by Ezra Jack Keats ISBN 0-670-06190-5 A classic book about an AfricanAmerican family. Peter has a new baby sister, and everything is changing. His cradle, crib, and high chair have been painted pink. Peter's going to save his little blue chair even if he has to run away to do it. What to Expect When Mommy’s Having a Baby, ages 2-5 by Heidi Murkoff ISBN 0-06-053802-3 Pregnancy and parenting expert Murkoff helps children and parents prepare for the birth of a new child. Where Do Babies Come From?, ages 3-6 by Angela Royston and DK Publishing ISBN 0-7894-0579-2 A simple introduction to development. The focus is not on the reproductive act, but on how a baby duck, a kitten, and a human grow inside the mother and are born. The book has multi-racial and ethnic photos. 42 DVDs Hey, What About Me?, ages 5-9 publisher Goldhil Media ISBN 1594430004 Three children and their baby siblings demonstrate games, lullabies, and bouncing rhymes that can be done with a baby. Brothers and Sisters, ages 4-8 publisher Nickelodeon ISBN 1415756279 Kids learn about relationships between siblings, welcoming new family members, and working out conflicts between sisters and brothers. Features Dora the Explorer and Blue. That New Animal, ages 3-6 publisher Weston Woods ISBN 054538639X Based on a popular book, two dogs learn to adjust when a baby comes home. Three Bears and A New Baby, ages 3-8 publisher Sony Wonder, ISBN 0738925349 Sesame Street characters help a little bear adjust to having a new baby sister. Multiple Baby Resources and Books Dayton Mothers of Twins Club: The Dayton Mothers of Twins Club was founded in 1943 by Ann Franklin. It is the oldest of its kind in the United States, and was designed to meet the needs of a mother of multiples, both emotionally and socially. Please go to their website at www.daytontwinsclub.com for more information. Mothers of Twins Club: Annual membership includes monthly meetings with speakers, playgroups, parties, and early access to semi-annual clothing and equipment sale that is open to the public. Go to their website at www.cmotc.org or email cmotchmoderator@gmail.com for more information. Mothers of Multiples East Columbus: Members have access to monthly meetings with speakers, group activities, monthly newsletter, and a semiannual clothing and equipment sale. Both moms and expecting moms are welcome at the monthly meetings. For more information go to their website at https://www. facebook.com/mothersofmultiples or email membership@ecmom.org La Leche League: Provides meetings and access to leaders for breastfeeding help and information. Call 1-800-LaLeche or go to www.lllohio.org/groups/ columbus.html for meeting and leader contact information in Columbus and surrounding cities. Ohio Federation Mothers of Twins Club: Provides a monthly support group for parents. Go to their website at www.ofmotc.org for more information or call (614) 261-8369. Twins Magazine: A subscription magazine for parents published 8 times a year. For more information on subscribing go to www.twinsmagazine.com or call (888) 558-9467. Twins Day Festival in Twinsburg, Ohio. An annual festival held the first weekend in August to celebrate all multiples. 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