Meditation: Breaking Old Habits
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Meditation: Breaking Old Habits
January 2016 vol. 6 no. 1 M e d i tat i o n : B r e a k i n g O l d H a b i t s “When the importance of some form of meditation is pointed out to us, we often think we are being told about an esoteric, high-level, Buddhist practice, something largely unnecessary for ordinary folks. We imagine that meditation is an add-on for the elite and the few; and largely pursued by those who are already introverts. We are all well practiced in a repetitive way of thinking -- and the problem is not what we think nearly as much as our universal entrapment in our own compulsive way of thinking. The problem only becomes clear when we fully realize that we are all victims of the mind and its hard wiring. To clarify, the problem in meditation is not the what of our thoughts but the how of our thoughts. How do we receive the moment? Or do we receive it all? Maybe we attack it, push it away or deny any moment that asks something of us. We all must see these deep unconscious patterns or we are minimally free or conscious. Jesus puts it this way, "Be careful how you see!" and in another place, "Be careful how you hear!" If we do not take ownership and responsibility for our inner processes (largely Alexian Brothers Senior Ministries carries out the healing mission of the Catholic Church through the Alexian Brothers ministries by identifying and developing effective responses to the health and housing needs of those we are called to serve. unconscious tendencies to fear, judge, eliminate, di smiss , atta c k, merge, take control, pull back and endless variations on these which are eventually "second nature" to us), we quite simply do not see reality or truth -- or others -- at all. BY REV. RICHARD ROHR Many of us resist meditation because we think we are being told not to value the mind and its capacity for reason, logic and necessary judgments. That is not the point of meditative practice at all -- in fact, authentic meditation will sharpen and deepen these very faculties, along with purifying our emotional responses -- by getting "us" out of the way with our obsessive and repetitive, even narcissistic and therefore unhelpful, reactions. Without some depth of spirituality, most of us are indeed totally predictable. We cannot act with freshness or freedom; we largely re-act with our dominant mammalian brain in the same old way over and over again, even when it is not working for us. When we change our how, normally our what takes care of itself. And we will naturally move toward compassion, patience, understanding, forgiveness and inner freedom. We will learn to operate by our "first nature" instead of the learned, largely unconscious, "second nature" responses. 3 4 7 9 Online Rehabilitation Help Sleep & Alzheimer’s Disease Coffee's Redemption? Immigration & the Catholic Church Meditation teaches us Start small with 3-5 minutes (or less) New data collected (see below) from users shows that most beginner meditators started with 3-5 minutes. Even three minutes can feel like a long time when you first start meditating, so you could even start smaller. For example, paying attention to the sensations of taking 3 breaths. Understand what meditation can do for you if you have issues with stress, anxiety, irritability or overthinking a grownup way of thinking. I wonder if this is what St. Paul was referring to when he told the Corinthians who were "speaking in tongues" (a momentary surrendering of the logical left brain function) that they must not remain children in their thinking, that there is a "grownup way of thinking" (1 Corinthians 14:20). I think meditation teaches us a grownup way of thinking. Ian McGilchrist states much the same in his contemporary study, The Master and His Emissary. He posits that the right brain was meant to be the master that first received the full context and meaning of a moment, and the left brain was meant to help us place this larger experience inside of words and seeming "logic" so we could communicate it to others. It was meant to be the emissary of the master. But after the printing press was developed and books were published, the left brain took over. McGilchrist states that our entire civilization has now turned the original prototype upside-down, and we begin with supposedly left brain logic and argumentative words -- staying on a perpetual hamster's wheel that we cannot move beyond. I honestly believe that meditation is the only way to get off the hamster's wheel, and to stay off it. So here are our choices: we can practice meditation, speak in tongues or stay in perpetual non-dual states of deep love and immense suffering (which is normally impossible). So the best ongoing way for most of us is to quite simply meditate every day.” Here are five meditation tips for beginners that will help overcome the problems of lack of appeal and seeming too daunting. Start small with 3-5 minutes (or less) New data collected (see below) from users shows that most beginner meditators started with 3-5 minutes. Even three minutes can feel like a long time when you first start meditating, so you could even start smaller. For example, paying attention to the sensations of taking 3 breaths. Meditation is a great way to increase your resilience to stress. If you have anxiety it will help reduce your general tendency towards physiological over arousal and calm your nervous system. In therapy practice, the clients who've found meditation the most helpful have generally been people who are prone to unwanted overthinking. Meditation can help with irritability partly because it helps you learn how to recognize you're having irritable thoughts before you've blurted them out in ways that end up generating stress for you. Understand the principles of meditation Beginning meditators often think the goal of meditation is to get to the point that they can focus without becoming distracted. A more useful goal is becoming aware of when your mind has drifted sooner. Another useful goal for meditation beginners is being able to redirect your attention back to your point of focus without criticizing yourself. Do meditation your own way Since walking helps people concentrate and reduce distractions, a meditation that involves walking can be a great place to start. One method is a 10 minute walking meditation involving 1 minute of paying attention to each of (1) the feeling of your body walking, (2) the feeling of your breath, (3) the sensations of air or wind on your skin, (4) what you can hear, and (5) what you can see. During the open awareness portion, if your attention drifts to past, future or evaluative thoughts, briefly go back to one of the points of focus to stabilize your attention. Reduce All-or-Nothing Thinking Realistically, there are only a small amount of people who will be willing to meditate on a regular basis. Another approach is to do formal daily practice of meditation (such as the walking meditation) for an initial period, and then start incorporating meditation into your day in informal ways. 382 respondents to an optional survey. days ONLINE RESOURCE HELPS PATIENTS THROUGH REHABILITATION Not many things in life are certain, but odds are you will unfortunately face at least one health event that requires hospitalization and, following that, rehabilitation. While hospitals provide an array of helpful rehab services, most people prefer to get well in the comfort of their own homes. Although beneficial in the recovery process, home care can also have its own distinct obstacles. 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The goal, according to ARN is to get patients who have a disability to a point that they are, once again, as self-sufficient as possible and able to live a full life. “My clients have been through acute rehab and are back in their communities,” Susan Wirt, a former president of ARN, told The American Nurse in an interview. “I figure out how they can be well and healthy despite their chronic conditions,” she said. www.res tartreco very.org Indeed, rehabilitation nurses effectively manage complex health care issues; collaborate with other professionals and disciplines such as occupational or speech therapists; provide patients and caregivers with needed education; set patients’ goals that maximize independence; and establish plans of care that maintain optimal wellness, according to the ARN. “Advocacy is also a huge role for us,” Michelle Camica, MSN, CRRN, and former president of ARN, told The American Nurse in the same interview. “We serve as the patient’s advocate when addressing issues with other members of the health care team and sometimes with a patient’s own family. We always want to make sure patients are getting the right care in the right place at the right time,” she said. For more information, please visit the website. A LEXIAN H EALTH & R EHABILITATION C ENTER Enriching Lives through Person Centered Care Compassionate and superior service is the hallmark of Alexian's Health & Rehabilitation Center. Services include rehabilitation following orthopedic or other surgery, extensive nursing care and specialized memory care for Alzheimer's Disease and other dementia. Alexian Village provides quality service with the intimacy and friendliness of a homelike environment. Please call Amie Alioto, (414) 507-7941 or Cindy Telford, (414) 507-6536 for more information and a tour. S LEEP - THE M ISSING D EMENTIA L INK? Mom was right after all. Getting a good night's sleep may prove even more important to long term health than our parents realized. Scientists already have documented connections between sleep loss and memory problems which explains why many schools are starting classes later. But a growing body of research is exploring links among sleep deprivation, sleep disturbance and Alzheimer's disease, the most common form of dementia. The number of Alzheimer's patients is expected to double by 2020, due primarily to the increased longevity of the baby boomer generation. More than 50 million Americans suffer from sleep disorders, which can be debilitating, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Poor sleep is a common symptom of Alzheimer's patients, particularly those suffering moderate to severe forms of the cognitive disorder. Physicians treating Alzheimer's patients say they often awaken in the middle of the night and wander or remain awake at night and sleep during the day. Researchers still haven't established whether the poor sleep causes Alzheimer's or is only a symptom of the incurable disease. But Dr. Erik Musiek, an assistant professor of neurology who practices at Washington University in St. Louis said there has been a paradigm shift in understanding the relationship between sleep and the incurable disease which affects 5.3 million Americans. He said scientists have known for years that people with Alzheimer's have problems with sleep and disruptions in their circadian rhythms, which are governed by the internal biological clock that regulates the timing of periods of sleep and wakefulness. A LEXIAN V ILLAGE "We don't yet believe that sleep loss causes Alzheimer's. But if you were predisposed to get it at 85, it's possible that sleep disturbance might make it likelier that you would get it much earlier, at age 65 or 75." Dr. Sigrid Veasey, a professor of medicine at the University of Pennsylvania's Center for Sleep and Circadian Neurobiology in Philadelphia, Musiek said researchers have observed that sleep deprived mice have greater amounts of betaamyloid plaque forming in their brains. Betaamyloid and tau are proteins that accumulate in the brains of Alzheimer's patients and are toxic to nerve cells. "We don't yet know what kinds of sleep problems predispose you to Alzheimer's. We do know that people who sleep too little or too much are at risk," Musiek said. Washington University's center researchers are trying to understand how circadian rhythms control betaamyloid levels in the brain, he said. "If we can give drugs that improve sleep and lower levels of betaamyloid, maybe those patients won't get those harmful plaques or get Alzheimer's later in life. We're looking at sleep as a potentially modifiable risk factor." OF MILWAUKEE Enriching Lives Through Vibrant Community Living Discover for yourself the freedom and enjoyment of retirement living at Alexian Village. Redefining "retirement" is Alexian Village's specialty. Fitness programs, multiple activities, outings, fine dining and the fellowship of community living await you. Please call (414) 357-5105, Mary B. Krenzelok, extension 5554, (mkrenzelok@AlexianBrothers.net) or Sean Brittman, extension 5569 (sean.brittman@alexianbrothers.net) for more information and a tour. A Personal “Sleepless” Story Barb Ziemba, 69, of Chicago's Bridgeport neighborhood, is caretaker for her husband of 50 years, John Ziemba, 75, a former design engineer diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease four years ago. "He sometimes awakens in the middle of the night, turns on the lights in the kitchen and bathroom and tries to start his day," she said. "I wake up, take him by the hand and lead him back to bed. It disrupts my sleep more than his. I try to catch a nap during the day but often I can't and just have to keep going." Sometimes, the mother of four said, caring for her husband "is like having a 180 pound baby." Ziemba, who lost her job with a health care real estate investment trust in 2008 and now cleans homes for extra cash, said she can't afford to go without sleep. Her husband is one of an estimated 5.3 million Americans afflicted with Alzheimer's, the most common form of dementia. Physicians treating Alzheimer's said that in the moderate or severe stages, patients often sleep poorly, awakening in the middle of the night and wandering, or remaining awake at night and sleeping during the day. "If I'm taking a nap and no one else is home, there is an issue of safety because I don't know if he'll roam the streets," Ziemba said. "So I always have to be on alert, and that's very stressful." Dr. Concetta Forchetti, a neurologist with Alexian Brothers Neurosciences Institute said many Alzheimer's patients have sleep apnea, a breathing disorder that causes sleep disruptions. She said studies have shown people with sleep apnea who average less than six hours per night have a higher risk of cognitive impairment. "When they do awaken at night, it is dark, and there are noises, so some become agitated and frightened. It's a serious problem often making it unsafe for them to be at home. The reversal of the day/night cycle is common." Forchetti, who has treated Alzheimer's patients for more than 26 years, said falling asleep usually isn't the problem; it's having interrupted sleep. Forchetti said researchers understand that sleep has a restoring function. "Biologically we don't still have a comprehensive explanation for why we sleep. This is still an understudied territory." But answers can't come fast enough for Barb Ziemba. "It's disheartening," she said. "It's scary how many people have Alzheimer's. And its impact on families can be devastating." To enhance the health of sleep, get regular aerobic exercise, eat a healthy diet, avoid alcohol, and don't eat or drink too soon before going to bed. zzz Exposure to light, even from television and cellphones can impact circadian rhythms and confuse the brain and your body’s clock, so eliminate as much light as possible in your bedroom. zzz Take sleep seriously. Organize your next day before going to bed. Look at the humidity and temperature of the room and adjust accordingly. Cooler is generally better than warmer. zzz If you wake up frequently at night, try to write down your habits and think about what you're doing whether it's napping during the daytime, awakening too early or some other cause. Examine your sleep positions. zzz If you have trouble sleeping attributable to sleep apnea or poor breathing, see a physician. zzz Don't stay up too late. Aim for a consistent bedtime in a dark room. Bright light in the morning resets your circadian clock, so upon waking, open the windows and turn on the lights. A calorie rich breakfast helps synchronize your body’s clock. Call (414) 357-5105, extension 5712 to schedule an appointment, unless otherwise noted. Take advantage of these services offered conveniently at Alexian Village on the ground floor of the Health & Rehabilitation Center, 9255 N. 76 Street. Audiologist Jeanne Rivera & Pam Gjertson Tuesday, January 19, 9:00 a.m. - Noon Optometry Thursday, January 14, call for an appointment Podiatrist Dr. David LaBadie, Friday, January 8, 8:00 a.m. - Noon Dentists Dr. Charles Hajinian & Dr. Stacy Hajinian-Michels, Tuesdays at Alexian Village. Call (414) 259-9400 to schedule an appointment. Psychiatrist Services Jeannette Wade, Behavioral Solutions, Friday, January 15, 9:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. Dr. Bruce Rowe, MD, Tuesday, 9:00 - 11:00 a.m. Pat Noonan RN, CNS, Monday, Tuesday and Thursday, 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Call (414) 270-8150 to schedule an appointment. Dr. Ismail Quryshi, MD Thursday, 1:00 - 4:30 p.m. Call (414) 874-1201 to schedule an appointment. Physical, Occupational and Speech Therapies. Call (414) 357-5105, extension 5745. THE SANDWICH GENERATION S UPPORT G ROUP Discuss critical issues, share solutions and offer encouragement. Join us on the third Monday in the Clubhouse, 9255 N. 76 Street. Monday, January 18, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. GRIEF S UPPORT G ROUP Meets Monday, January 4 in the Private Dining Room, 10:30 a.m. Questions, call Alexian’s chaplain, Jessi Smedal, (414) 357-5105, ext. 5524. EXPIRED MEDICATION Only One Proper Disposal Method! CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP Find encouragement and listening friends at Alexian Village’s support group, the first Thursday in the Clubhouse, 9255 N. 76 Street. January 7, 2:00 - 3:30 p.m. Please RSVP to (414) 357-5105, extension 5759. Any expired or unused medications can be dropped off in the Health Services Department (L1, West Building) Thursday, January 21. Alexian residents and Club Alexian members are welcome to use this service. A LEXIAN A SSISTED L IVING Enriching Lives Through Neighborhood Living Designed for socializing and safety, the Village Square & Courtyard offer attractive choices. The Village Square offers four cozy neighborhoods and the Courtyard is in the heart of Alexian Village. Activity specialists offer stimulating and enjoyable daily programs. Spacious private rooms make assisted living at Alexian Village an ideal choice for seniors. Please call Carrie Hensel, Administrator for more information or a tour, (414) 357-5105, extension 5800 or (chensel@AlexianBrothers.net.) C OFFEE: F ROM V ILLAIN TO V ICTOR showing a reduction as high as 67%. May Protect You From Alzheimer’s Disease Several studies show that coffee drinkers have up to a 65% lower risk of getting Alzheimer’s disease. May Lower The Risk of Parkinson’s Parkinson’s disease is the second most common neurodegenerative disease, right after Alzheimer’s. People who drink decaf don’t have a lower risk of Parkinson’s. Coffee drinkers have up to a 60% lower risk of getting Parkinson’s disease. Appears to Have Protective Effects on The Liver Many diseases can lead to a condition called cirrhosis in which the liver has been largely replaced by scar Can Improve Energy Levels and Make You Smarter After you drink coffee, the caffeine is absorbed into the bloodstream. From there, it travels into the brain. In the brain, caffeine blocks an inhibitory neurotransmitter called adenosine. When that happens, the amount of other neurotransmitters like norepinephrine and dopamine increases, leading to enhanced firing of neurons. Coffee Can Help You Burn Fat Did you know that caffeine is found in almost every commercial fat COFFEE IS ONE OF THE HEALTHIEST BEVERAGES ON THE PLANET. Period. burning supplement? There’s a good reason for that caffeine is one of the very few natural substances that have actually been proven to aid fat burning. Several studies show that caffeine can boost the metabolic rate by 3-11%. Can Drastically Improve Physical Performance Caffeine stimulates the nervous system causing it to send signals to the fat cells to break down body fat. But caffeine also increases epinephrine (adrenaline) levels in the blood. This is the “fight or flight” hormone, designed to make our bodies ready for intense physical exertion. Caffeine makes the fat cells break down body fat, releasing them into the blood as free fatty acids and making them available as fuel. May Lower Your Risk of Type II Diabetes For some reason, coffee drinkers have a significantly reduced risk of developing type 2 diabetes. The studies show that people who drink the most coffee have a 23-50% lower risk of getting this disease; one study tissue. It turns out that coffee may protect against cirrhosis. People who drink 4 or more cups per day have up to an 80% lower risk. Can Fight Depression and Make You Happier It is incredibly common and about 4.1% of people in the U.S. currently meet the criteria for clinical depression. A Harvard study published in 2011, women who drank 4 or more cups per day had a 20% lower risk of becoming depressed. Drinkers Have a Lower Risk on Types of Cancer Coffee appears to be protective against two types of cancer - liver and colorectal. Liver cancer is the third leading cause of cancer death in the world while colorectal cancer ranks fourth. Studies show that coffee drinkers have up to a 40% lower risk of liver cancer. One study of 489,706 individuals found that those who drank 4-5 cups of coffee per day had a 15% lower risk of colorectal cancer. A LEXIAN A DULT D AY S ERVICES Enriching Lives Through Connections Try a day for free! Stimulating conversations, simple exercises, complete lunch along with fun and laughter await your loved one at Alexian Village's Adult Day Services. Take advantage of your time for personal obligations knowing that your loved one is safe, secure and enjoying life among new friends. Please call Fran Lange, Assistant Director, (414) 357-5105, extension 5759 (flange@AlexianBrothers.net) for more information and a tour. Does Not Cause Heart Disease and May Lower The Risk of Stroke It is often claimed that caffeine can increase blood pressure. This is true but the effect is small (3-4 mm/Hg) and usually goes away if you drink coffee regularly. However, the effect may persist in some people so keep that in mind if you have elevated blood pressure. That being said, the studies do not support the myth that coffee raises the risk of heart disease. In fact, there is some evidence that women who drink coffee have a reduced risk of heart disease. May Help You Live Longer Given that coffee drinkers are less likely to get many diseases, it makes sense that coffee could help you live longer. In two very large studies, drinking coffee was associated with a 20% lower risk of death in men and a 26% lower risk of death in women, over a period of 18 -24 years. Is The Biggest Source of Antioxidants in The Western Diet For people who eat a standard Western diet, coffee may actually be the healthiest aspect of the diet. That’s because coffee contains a massive amount of antioxidants. In fact, studies show that most people get more antioxidants from coffee than both fruits and vegetables - combined. I will not bore my boss by with the same excuses for leaving early. I will think up new ones I will do less laundry and use more deodorant Stop exercising. Big waste of time Read less. Makes you think too much Get further in debt Wait around for opportunity to knock Focus on the faults of others Mope about my faults Procrastinate more, starting tomorrow Believe politicians Start being superstitious Use Plants As Air Purifiers At Home Yep, and our expert blogger Bruce Lubin tells us that specific varieties that do a great job are rubber trees, corn plants, bamboo palm, fichus, gerbera daisies, English ivy, peace lily and philodendrons. Use Newspapers To Clean Windows: It's true. The fibers that make up newspaper are much denser than paper towels. This allows them to absorb liquids and they won't fall apart as easily, says our blogger Chris Barnes. Microwave Sponges To Keep Them Clean Yes! Putting your dirty scrubbers in a dish of water and a little lemon juice and zapping them at a high temperature will kill bacteria, making them less likely to spread germs as you're wiping up. Use Peanut Butter To Remove Chewing Gum This creamy spread will take out sticky wads that get stuck to your shoes and other places. Just add a couple of tablespoons to the spot and scrub it off completely with a wire brush. Unclog Your Drain With Alka Seltzer If your clog's not too severe, this is a trick for the books. Drop four tablets and a bit of vinegar and flush with boiling water. Remove Carpet Dents With An Ice Cube This sounds super weird, but there is truth to it! Leave it in the stubborn hole for a while, then fluff it with a fork to get the fibers looking good as new. Fill A Hole In The Wall With Soap Yes, if you're fixing a tiny nick or nail hole in a white wall with a similar color bar of soap, this will work. Rub the bar in a circular motion over the hole until it's filled in. Iron Using Aluminum Foil This tip actually will allow you to smooth both sides of your garment at the same time. Great, right? Use Walnuts To Remove Furniture Scratches This is one of our favorites. Remove the nut from its shell and rub it over marks in the wood. The oils from the nut will penetrate the surface, fixing the blemishes. J USTICE FOR I MMIGRATION IN 2016 & B EYOND “The Catholic bishops seek to awaken their people to the mysterious presence of the crucified and risen Lord in the person of the migrant and to renew in them the values of the Kingdom of God as proclaimed by Jesus.” This was the hope of the American and Mexican Bishops in their 2003 joint Pastoral letter: Strangers no Longer – Together on the Journey of Hope. Twelve years later, reflected Bishop Manz, Auxiliary Bishop of Chicago, not only have we failed to pass a comprehensive immigration reform bill, in many ways we have regressed in our responsibility to “Welcome the Stranger”. Reflecting on Matthew 25, he said, gives us the strength to carry on. Our advocacy in this effort, according to Archbishop Cupich is critical because ”In neglecting the immigrant, we begin to lose something of our soul as a nation. The world will measure what we say about liberty and justice against our actions, so, if we want liberty and justice, let us give liberty and justice,” and he stressed the need to continue to frame the debate about migration issues in moral terms to encourage the general population to take a step back and see the dignity and value of these people. With that introduction, the Justice for Immigrants National Convening in Chicago began with over three hundred participants from 64 dioceses. What followed were presentations on: the future of Immigration Reform, Immigrant Integration – Responding to the Call of Pope Francis, Protecting Children and Families from Central America, and Confronting the Immigrant Detention System. There were Skill Workshops and time for Strategy Sessions and What’s Next Breakout groups. Common themes throughout the conference were the importance of building political power, getting out the vote for the next election, and encouraging people to contact the White House, their Senators and their Representatives on all issues affecting immigration. MAJOR CONCERNS & RECOMMENDATIONS INCLUDE the lack of immigration judges and the number of migrants, including young children, who are not provided the legal representation the role of for-profit prison agencies in the immigrant detention system should be curtailed and strictly monitored the need to make more transparent the relationship between communities (e.g. Eloy, AZ) and Homeland Security and how they enter into contracts with private prisons the importance of putting an end to family detention; all centers are run by either GEO or CCA, both for profit corporations the elimination of mandatory detention in all but the most serious criminal and national security cases asking congress to support supplemental emergency funding for the Syrian refugee crisis Archbishop Cupich of Chicago said, “For instance we need to be honest about something that is seldom reported – our country benefits from the toil, taxes, and purchasing power of a large number of undocumented workers (8 million), yet we do not at the same time offer them the protections of the law. The moral issue here is that we cannot have it both ways – exploit and use these people without honoring their God-given rights. The basic sense of fairness is very much alive in the American spirit and we should appeal to it as we talk to others about immigrants.” FURTHER INFORMATION AND PROPOSED ACTIONS can be found at www.justiceforimmigrants.org www.usccb.org/about/migration-and-refugee-services/ Club Alexian Travels to the Grand Geneva Resort On Saturday, November 28, a group of us traveled to Lake Geneva. When we arrived at the Grand Geneva Resort, a step on guide gave each of us a type of 3D glasses. As darkness descended, we headed back into town to see the lights with our “glasses.” My glasses made “snowmen” out of each and every street lamp and parking lot light. We then went to view the beautiful light displays at the Grand Geneva. We sang the song “The Twelve Days of Christmas” as we viewed a depiction of each verse. There were many other wonderful scenes displayed. Reindeer jumping a river, Santa playing golf etc.. Back to the main entrance of the resort for the pause that refreshes and to view the gorgeous decorations in the lobby. Most of us went upstairs to view a very creative display of gingerbread houses. There were log cabins, ice skating rinks, hills, sleds, houses - all made from edible candy, cookies, crackers and other edible objects. Since this was before our dinner, we were tempted to snack but we behaved. A delicious steak dinner with a shrimp, cooked carrots, mashed potatoes, role and butter were served. Dessert was a rich brownie with a yummy raspberry sauce and a chocolate candy cane. The show, A Christmas Portrait, was a delightful ninety minute presentation of a variety of Christmas music with many beautiful costume creations. There were at least seven costume changes. The performers came down into the audience a couple of times, once for singing, and once for dancing. Our own Jean was brave enough to dance with one of the guys. The music included secular and sacred selections. To cap off the evening, after the performance everyone was treated to tea and cookies. Thanks to Jean for another well organized and enjoyable trip, and to Lance for our safe travels both ways. Nancy Vose, Alexian Club Member Upcoming Events Description Creative Writing Mondays, January 4 & 18, 9:30-11:00 a.m. Everyone has a story to tell! Nancy Martin, the instructor is happy to help you share it. Let us know if you will plan to attend. Each session is $5.00. RSVP by 1/3. "Comfort Crafters" Creating lap blankets for Alexian Village and Horizon Home Care & Hospice. All levels of knitting or crocheting are welcome. Supplies are provided. Comfort Crafters meets weekly on Monday afternoons in the Clubhouse from 1-3 pm, come as you are able. Lunch & Bingo Wednesday, January 6, 13 & 20 Noon lunch is $5.00; Bingo at 1:00 p.m. is free. Win cash prizes, RSVP by 1/4, 1/11 & 1/18 Audibel Hearing Screening & Cleaning Wednesday, January 13th, 9:00 a.m.-Noon, in the Health Center Clinic. This service is free regardless of where your hearing aids were purchased. No appointment is necessary. Marcus Noon North Shore Cinema Friday, January 8th, the “Young at Heart Movie” is “Joy” You can reserve your $2.00 movie pass by calling: 414-357-5105, ext. 5867. The passes are distributed on a first call, first serve basis. You may pay and pick up your pass during regular business hours at the Clubhouse or the Health and Rehabilitation Center reception desk. On occasion the preselected movie may be pulled from the theatre before the scheduled Young at Heart Movie date. In that instance pass holders are welcome to choose a movie of your choice on the same day as the scheduled “Young at Heart Movie,” between 10 am & 2 pm. New! How about a game of Hand and Foot? Monday, January 11 & 25, 10-Noon Starting in January on the 2nd & 4th Monday from 10 until noon, in the Clubhouse a beginner class/group for begins. Call Jean Boothby for more details: 414 357 5105, Ext 5867. RSVP by 1/8. Chess Club, Clubhouse Monday, January 11 & 25, 10:00 a.m.-Noon Bring a friend, all are welcome! (If you have a chess board and chess pieces, feel free to bring them). A library of Chess books is now available to you. Please feel free to peruse the selection of books and check them out. Memory Minders Tuesdays: 1/12 & 1/26 These one hour sessions will highlight and provide instruction on various cognitively stimulating games and activities with an emphasis on challenging your brain in a fun, engaging and social environment. $5.00 per session. Space is limited, RSVP by 1/10. A Stitch in Time Quilting Bee state and the District of Columbia. AARP Foundation Tax-Aide is offered in cooperation with the IRS. Free tax return preparation to be offered at Alexian Village Clubhouse, 9255 N 76 St. Milwaukee, WI. 53223. Every Thursday from 9am to 2pm. February 4, 2016 through April 15. Please call Jean Boothby at 414-357-5105, Ext 5867, after January 2 to schedule an appointment. (Must have an appointment.) Thursday, January 14th, 1:00-4:00 p.m. Those interested in quilting, (this includes beginners and experienced quilters) are invited to attend. Bring your stitch work and ideas. You do not need to be a Club member to participate. RSVP by 1/12. Book Club Thursdays, January 21, 2:00-3:30 pm This month’s book is, “People of the Book,” by Geraldine Brooks. Please call 414-357-5105, ext. 5867. RSVP by 01/19. Cord Weaving Tuesday, January 26, 4:00 pm Artistic Creations class features cord weaving. This weaving process was prominent with the southeast coast of Native Americans. They often used " sweet grass". We will be using clothesline and color yarn to create a coil basket. So, plan to break free from the clutches of winter and plan to attend Tuesday, January 26, from 4-6:30 pm, a light meal will be provided. $20.00 RSVP by 1/21. Lunch & Movie, Wednesday, January 27, “Testament of Youth,” Noon lunch is $5.00; the 1:00 p.m. movie is free. Enjoy lunch followed by a free movie. RSVP by 1/25. AARP Tax-Aide Program is free to taxpayers with low and moderate income, with special attention to those 60 and older. Through a cadre of trained volunteers, AARP Foundation Tax-Aide has helped low- to moderateincome individuals for more than 40 years in every Feb. 1 & 15 Creative Writing, 9:30 – 11 am Feb. 9 Home Instead: How to provide In-Home care in a Budget Crunch covers what types of in-home care you can receive, how to gather information and shop around for a provider and how each option is usually paid for. We will look at creative solutions for financing home care to help you and your loved ones develop a plan for in-home care necessities. This program will discuss the differences between Home Care, Home Health Care and other supplementary services you can use to receive inhome care. RSVP by 2/3. Feb. 9 & 23 Memory Minders, 1-2 pm. RSVP 1/10. Feb. 16 Concept Therapy to offer an Introduction/ Health Fair with a focus on the importance of strengthening and supporting good balance and what can be done to maintain it. 10-11:30. Further details will be forthcoming. Feb. 18 Book Club, 2-3:30 pm; the book is, “Boston Girl,” by Anita Diamant. Feb. 21 Sign up NOW for the “Legends in Concert” Fireside Theater. We depart the Clubhouse by 1:00 pm. RSVP by 1/20, $80.00. March 3 Tour of the LaLune Furniture Factory & the Florentine Opera Center. We depart the Clubhouse at 9:30 am to tour the LaLune Factory, then walk next door to the Florentine Opera Center for a tour and a sneak peek of an actual rehearsal. Lunch will be at the The RSVP HOTLINE is (414) 371-7811 C LUB A LEXIAN Enriching Lives Through Connections Enjoy the growing list of benefits and opportunities by joining "Club Alexian." Membership is free! Please call Jean Boothby (414) 357-5105, extension 5867 (jboothby@AlexianBrothers.net) for more information or visit us at www.ClubAlexian.com. Coquette Café. The all-inclusive fee is $30.00. RSVP by 2/24. April 15 &16 Space is limited for an overnight trip to Mt Horeb & Madison to experience the UWMadison Marching Band Spring Concert at the Kohl Center on Friday 4/15. Saturday 4/16 will be a day filled with site seeing and tours, with a meal sandwiched in between at Ella’s Deli. All-inclusive fee is: single room-$290.00, double room-$225.00. A deposit of $50.00 will hold your seat. Call 414-3575105, ext. 5867 to make your reservation. The RSVP HOTLINE is (414) 371-7811 Business Partner Spotlight (262) 225-7978 Receive 10% off all services P.O. Box 208, Sussex, WI. 53089 www.seniorcarewaukesha.com Our newest Club Alexian Business Partner is “Seniors Helping Seniors” providing in-home, nonmedical supportive services to seniors. The business concept is unique - all of their caregivers are retired seniors themselves. They will provide a host of services such as light housework, laundry, transportation, personal care and grooming, pet care, companionship, and even things such as lawn care and small home repairs. Basically, anything that will support a senior remaining independent. Because their caregivers are retired seniors themselves, they form close relationships through shared experiences, and these relationships create a close bond of caring. Since the caregivers are also going through the aging process, they understand and have a greater compassion for their clients. WISCONSIN CITIES Sobriquets An s w e r s Across 4) RICHLANDCENTER 6) EPHRAIM 7) WAUPUN 9) RACINE 10) BARABOO 12) MADISON 14) PESHTIGO 15) BOSCOBEL Down 1) WATERTOWN 2) GREENBAY 3) MANITOWOC 5) EAUCLAIRE 8) ALGOMA 11) RIPON 13) TILDEN “Seniors Helping Seniors” can meet the needs of the aging community in Waukesha County and western and northwestern Milwaukee County. As a bonus for Club Alexian members, they offer a 10% discount on all of their services. Call Carol or Karl Ralian at 262/225-7978 for more information or to schedule a meeting. 18 Creative Writing 9:30-11:00am Comfort Crafters, 1-3pm Sandwich Generation Support Group, 6:30 7:30 pm 25 Hand & Foot Chess Club 10-Noon Comfort Crafters, 1-3pm Comfort Crafters, 1-3pm 11 Hand & Foot Chess Club 10-Noon Comfort Crafters, 1-3pm 4 Creative Writing 9:30-11:00am MONDAY 26 Memory Minders 1-2pm, Clubhouse Artistic Creations 4-6:30pm, Cord Weaving 19 12 Memory Minders 1-2pm, Clubhouse 5 TUESDAY Noon- 3 pm “Testament of Youth” 27 Lunch and Movie, 6 Home Instead to Sponsor Bingo Lunch and Bingo Noon -2pm 13 Audibel Hearing Screen & Clean 9-Noon Lunch and Bingo Noon -2pm 20 Lunch and Bingo Noon -2pm WEDNESDAY All events are held in “The Clubhouse,” unless noted. 22 Club Council meeting 9:30- 10:30 am 15 8 Marcus Noon Theatre Movie, “Joy” 1 Happy New Year!!! NO Lunch & Classic FRIDAY January 2016 21 Book Club, 2:00 – 3:30 pm “People of the Book,” by Geraldine Brooks 14 Club Quilters 1-4pm 7 Alzheimer’s Support Group, 2-3:30pm THURSDAY Enriching Lives Through Connections J ANUARY IS G LAUCOME A WARENESS M ONTH Primary open-angle glaucoma gives few warning signs until permanent damage has already occurred. If you experience any symptoms of glaucoma, go to the emergency room or seek care at an eye doctor's office right away. Glaucoma is usually caused by abnormally high pressure inside the eye that can damage the optic nerve. It can rob you of your sight, sometimes slowly but sometimes frighteningly quickly. So what are the symptoms of glaucoma that you should be aware of? According to the Mayo Clinic, the two most common types of glaucoma have completely different symptoms. Symptoms of primary open-angle glaucoma include gradual loss of peripheral vision, usually in both eyes, followed by tunnel vision in the advanced stages. Symptoms of acute angle-closure glaucoma include eye pain accompanied by nausea and vomiting, a sudden onset of visual disturbance, often in low light, blurred vision, halos around lights and reddening of the eye. Sometimes the cause is unknown, but symptoms of glaucoma can result from an eye injury or other eye conditions, certain medications, inflammation, a tumor, advanced cataract or diabetes. It's important to get regular eye exams and to be alert to the symptoms of glaucoma, because prompt treatment can help prevent progression. Nutrition Combining supplements and lifestyle changes, you will "see" the difference. 1. When you plan your food try to make it as colorful as you can, eat different food every day (especially kale every day). 2. Eat fresh vegetables every day. There is no way to replace fresh with frozen, canned or dried vegetables. 3. Take a good vitamin/mineral supplement like MicroAcupuncture Vision Support and in addition to that you should take 1200 mg of Lecithin a day (this helps with your cholesterol buildup). 4. Take a good fish oil to maintain good blood quality we recommend Supra Krill from the cold pole waters. 5. Exercise every day, drink plenty of water, and be lean with the salt. Glaucoma starts with plaque build up in the arteries. 6. You can get vision field scannings, this will map the area and severity of the damage you have. You can also have an amsler grid to check for changes and a near visual acuity card to check your vision in reading distance (18”) on a regular basis. 7. Keep up with your regular appointments with your ophthalmologist. WISCONSIN CITIES Sobriquets Across 4) From Farming to Frank Lloyd Wright 6) The Pearl of the Peninsula 7) Prison City 9) Kringle Capital of the World 10) Circus City of the World 12) Madtown 14) Home of the Great Fire 15) Birthplace of the Gideon Bible Down 1) Home of the first kindergarten in America 2) Titletown, USA 3) Shipbuilders 5) Horseradish Capital of the World 8) Trout & Salmon Capital 11) Birthplace of the Republican Party 13) Halfway Between the North Pole and the Equator (Answers on bottom of page 12) Non Profit Org. US Postage PAID Milwaukee WI Permit No. 178 ALEXIAN VILLAGE OF MILWAUKEE 9301 N. 76 Street Milwaukee, Wisconsin 53223 is published monthly by Alexian Brothers Senior Ministries 9301 N. 76 Street, Milwaukee, Wisconsin 53223 Subscription is free. (414) 355-9300 All articles are reprinted with permission The contents of the Alexian Chat are for informational purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health providers with any question you may have regarding a medical condition. Honoring an 800 year Alexian Brothers Tradition and 35 years in Milwaukee