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The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter
Published by the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire Volume 34, Number 4 December 2013 Kislev-Tevet 5774 Brotherhoods Share Breakfast Federations Activate Typhoon Response Gathering of the Brotherhoods at Temple Adath Yeshurun By Sol Rockenmacher and Steve Soreff Manchester -- For the first time in recorded history, a joint program brought together the Temple Adath Yeshurun Brotherhood, the Southern New Hampshire Jewish Men’s Club (SNHJMC), and the Etz Hayim Men’s Group. By all accounts, it was a wonderful affair. The event was held in the social hall of Temple Adath Ye- Calendar 4 Campaign Dollars at Work 5 Your Federation at Work 7 Israel 8 International 11 From the Bimah 12 Book Review 13 Film Buzz 14 Education 15 Mitzvahs 16 Opinion 17 Obituaries 18 Recent Events 19 Just for Fun 20 Tributes 21 Business & Professional Services 22 jewishnh.org We Are on Track! By Roberta Brayer, Campaign Co-Chair Momentum is growing for the 2013-14 Jewish Federation of new Hampshire Annual Campaign. Our numbers have improved this year, and the number of donors has increased. We are on track to meet our goals. If you have not already made your pledge, it is not too late to do so. There are significant tax benefits to paying your pledge before the end of the year. Also, you might want to consider an IRA rollover, in which the monies taken out of your IRA do not create a taxable incident to you; however, you cannot take a tax deduction if the transfer is made directly to the Federation. Please consult your financial advisor for more information on how you can do this. On Sunday, December 8, we will hold a Super Sunday phonathon from 9:30 AM to 12:30 PM. Please mark your calendars and save the date. Our volunteers will be calling, and we hope you will receive their calls in a spirit of generosity and commitment. Daniel Levenson, our new Executive Director, has made great strides in reaching out to the Jewish community throughout the state. People have been responding favorably to his efforts to bring the Federation mission and values to their communities. We hope his outreach will help turn the tide for a successful campaign. End-of-year giving, IRA rollovers, Super Sunday -- We are working hard to make this year’s campaign a success. Please join us and do your part. Together, we do extraordinary things! The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Jewish Federation of New Hampshire 698 Beech Street Manchester, NH 03104 3 Change Service Requested Federation Voices shurun (TAY) on Sunday morning, Oct. 20. David Penchansky of TAY was the MC. The event began with a plentiful breakfast. Then Jay Madnick from Etz Hayim, Michael Lipkind from SNHJMC, and several members of TAY Brotherhood discussed their recent and planned activities. It was refreshing to hear of all those initiatives for both the Jewish and non-Jewish communities. Brotherhoods continued on page 3 The Jewish Federations of North America are mobilizing a communal response to the super Typhoon Haiyan, which has wrought widespread destruction in the Philippines. JFNA has opened a mailbox for Federations to support relief efforts by the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (JDC), which is raising funds for relief efforts. JDC is consulting with local officials, the Filipino Jewish community, and global partners to assess the evolving situation on the ground in the Philippines, where one of the strongest storms on record has wrought widespread destruction. More than 10,000 people are feared dead, with reports of ocean surges as high as trees. The central city of Tacloban on the island of Leyte is among the worst hit on the Pacific nation. The Federation-supported JDC has led relief efforts for previous storms in the Philippines, and helped support the local Jewish community in a nation that sheltered 1,000 European Jews fleeing the Nazis during World War II. “Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Filipino people suffering from this terrible storm’s unimaginable destruction,” said Cheryl Fishbein, chair of JFNA’s Emergency Committee. To contribute, visit https://secure-fedweb. jewishfederations.org/page/contribute/phillipines or send a check to Typhoon Haiyan Relief Fund, The Jewish Federations of North America, Wall Street Station, PO Box 148, New York, NY 10268. Jewish Federations have a proud tradition of supporting the Jewish communal response to disasters around the world and at home, raising tens of millions of dollars for emergency assistance and longer-term aid. Most recently, Federations supported the national response to severe flooding in Colorado. In recent years, Federations responded to tsunamis in Japan and southeast Asia, the Haiti earthquake, and Hurricane Katrina in the Gulf Coast. PERMIT NO. 1174 MANCHESTER, NH PA I D US POSTAGE ORGANIZATION NON-PROFIT CONGREGATIONS JRF: Jewish Reconstructionist Federation URJ: Union for Reform Judaism USCJ: United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Volume 3, Number AMHERST DOVER MANCHESTER CONGREGATION BETENU Nathan DeGroot (Rabbinic Intern) 5 Northern Blvd., Unit 1, Amherst Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 886-1633 www.betenu.org Betenu@nii.net Services: Friday night Kabbalat Shabbat services at 7:30 PM Saturday morning twice a month, 9:30 AM TEMPLE ISRAEL Rabbi Samuel R. Seicol 36 Olive Meadow Lane, Dover Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 742-3976 www.dovertemple.org templeoffice@dovertemple.org Services: Friday night services at 7 PM For monthly Saturday services and holiday worship, please check the website. CHABAD LUBAVITCH Rabbi Levi Krinsky 7 Camelot Place, Manchester Orthodox, Chabad (603) 647-0204 www.Lubavitchnh.com rabbi@lubavitchnh.com Services: Shabbat Services Saturday morning at 9:30 AM Sunday morning minyan at 9 AM BETHLEHEM HANOVER BETHLEHEM HEBREW CONGREGATION 39 Strawberry Hill Road PO Box 395, Bethlehem Egalitarian-Conservative, Unaffiliated (603) 869-5465 www.bethlehemsynagogue.org davegoldstone1@gmail.com Services: Contact for Date/Time Info President Dave Goldstone (415) 587-0812 or Eileen Regen – (603) 823-7711 Weekly Services: July through Simchat Torah Friday: 7:30 PM; Saturday: 9:30 AM CHABAD AT DARTMOUTH COLLEGE Rabbi Moshe Gray 22a School Street, Hanover Orthodox, Chabad (603) 643-9821 www.dartmouthchabad.com chabad@dartmouth.edu Services: Friday Evening Shabbat services and Dinner Shabbat morning services Call for times CLAREMONT TEMPLE MEYER DAVID 25 Putnam Street, Claremont Conservative (603) 542-6773 Services: Generally the second Friday of the month, 6:15 PM, April to November. CONCORD TEMPLE BETH JACOB Rabbi Robin Nafshi 67 Broadway, Concord Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 228-8581 www.tbjconcord.org office@tbjconcord.org Services: Friday night - 7 PM Saturday morning - 9:30 AM DERRY ETZ HAYIM SYNAGOGUE Rabbi Bryna Milkow 1½ Hood Road, Derry Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 432-0004 www.etzhayim.org office@etzhayim.org, rabbi@etzhayim.org Services: Fridays 8 PM, First Friday Family Service 6 PM followed by dinner, Shabbat morning 3x/month PAGE 2 UPPER VALLEY JEWISH COMMUNITY Rabbi Edward S. Boraz Roth Center for Jewish Life 5 Occom Ridge, Hanover Nondenominational, Unaffiliated (603) 646-0460 www.uvjc.org uvjc@valley.net Services: Friday night Shabbat services at 6 PM, led by Dartmouth Hillel Saturday morning Shabbat services at 9:30 AM, led by Rabbi Boraz KEENE CONGREGATION AHAVAS ACHIM Rabbi Amy Loewenthal 84 Hastings Avenue, Keene Reconstructionist, Affiliated JRF (603) 352-6747 www.keene-synagogue.org rabbi.ahavas.achim@gmail.com Services: Fridays at 7:30 PM See calendar on website for early Fridays and for Saturdays TEMPLE ADATH YESHURUN Rabbi Beth D. Davidson 152 Prospect Street, Manchester Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 669-5650 www.taynh.org templeadathy@comcast.net Services: Shabbat services the first Friday of the month at 6 PM All other Friday nights at 7 PM with some exceptions. Alternating Shabbat services or Torah study Saturday mornings at 10 AM TEMPLE ISRAEL Rabbi Eric Cohen 66 Salmon Street, Manchester Conservative (603) 622-6171 office@templeisraelmht.org Services: Friday night 7:15 PM Saturday 9:30 AM Mon. - Fri. 7 AM daily service/minyan NASHUA TEMPLE BETH ABRAHAM Rabbi Jon Spira-Savett 4 Raymond Street, Nashua Conservative, Affiliated USCJ (603) 883-8184 www.tbanashua.org rabbi@tbanashua.org office@tbanashua.org Services: Friday night services 8 PM 1st Friday family service 7 PM Saturday morning 9:30 AM Mon. - Thur. minyan 7:30 PM PORTSMOUTH LACONIA TEMPLE B’NAI ISRAEL Rabbi Hannah J. Orden 210 Court Street, Laconia Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) 524-7044 www.tbinh.org marshatbi@hotmail.com Services: Every other Friday night at 7:30 PM The New Hampshire TEMPLE ISRAEL Rabbi Samuel Barth (Visiting Rabbi) 200 State Street, Portsmouth Conservative, Affiliated USCJ (603) 436-5301 www.templeisraelnh.org office@templeisraelnh.org Services: Friday, 7:30 PM Saturday, 9:30 AM Tues. minyan 5:30 PM Temple Israel has a fully licensed M-W-F preschool. Jewish Reporter %&$&.#&3 2013 Kislev-Tevet 5774 4JWBO5BNNV[ 5773 Published by the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire with financial support of the Greater Seacoast UJA Campaign 698 Beech Street Manchester, NH 03104 Tel: (603) 627-7679 Fax: (603) 627-7963 Editor: Fran Berman Layout and Design: 5JN(SFHPSZ Advertising Sales: 603-627-7679 thereporter@jewishnh.org The objectives of The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter are to foster a sense of community among the Jewish people of New Hampshire by sharing ideas, information, experiences and opinions, and to promote the agencies, projects and mission of the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire. The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter is published monthly ten times per year, with a deadline for submissions of the 10th of the month before publication. There are no February or August issues. An “Upcoming Event” (Calendar) submission for those months should be submitted by December 10th or June 10th, respectively. 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If you have questions The New Hampshire Jewish regarding Reporter kashrut please by consult rabbi.Publications is overseen the your JFNH The NewMerle Hampshire Jewish Reporter Committee, Carrus, chairperson. is All overseen by the JFNH inPublications materials published The New Committee, Merle Carrus, chairperson. Hampshire Jewish Reporter are ©2013 Jewish All materials published in The New Federation of New Hampshire, all rights Hampshire Jewish Reporter are ©2013 Jewish reserved, unless noted Hampshire, otherwise. all rights Federation of New reserved, unless noted otherwise. Shabbat Candle Lighting Times: (Manchester) Dec. 6 Dec. 13 Dec. 20 Dec. 27 3:53 PM 3:54 PM 3.56 PM 4:00 PM Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Strategic Planning Begins Early in November a large group of board members and staff of Jewish Federation of New Hampshire gathered at our Manchester building to update the strategic plan of JFNH. The session was well attended by community members representing a wide variety of age groups and a diverse mix of geographical locations around the state. There is still work to be done to complete the strategic planning process, but the meeting was a productive step in the right direction. One recurring message at the strategic planning retreat was that we need to do a better job reaching out to Jews in the Dan Cohen president@jewishnh.org President’s Message state who are either teens or young adults. It is critical that teens and young adults be engaged in Jewish life in New Hampshire. Another recurring message was that we need to find ways to engage Jews in the state who are not affiliated with a temple. The trend in our country is that people are participating less than previous generations in religious activi- ties, and Jews are no different. With this knowledge, JFNH needs to fund effective programs that reach out to Jews throughout the state no matter what level of religious activity exists in their household and engage them in the Jewish community. JFNH does not want to encourage the trends that are happening in our country against religious affiliation, but we must recognize that they exist. A third message received at the retreat was that JFNH needs to work harder to reach Jews throughout the state wherever they may live. In the coming months, the board of JFNH will continue to analyze the re- sults of the community survey and utilize the results to continue work on our strategic plan. Our mission statement is under review, and we are developing a vision for the coming years. The allocation of our resources will be looked at closely in the next month with a board session dedicated solely to the issue of our Manchester building planned for December. I thank everyone in the community for their input in the online surveys. Everyone’s voice is important, and broad participation was encouraged. If you want to share your thoughts on the future of JFNH, please contact me. Together, We Really Can Do Extraordinary Things Some of you may recognize that the title of my column this month is drawn from this year’s Annual Campaign theme, but it’s also an idea that I got to see in action firsthand this past week in Israel. Over eight days in Jerusalem, where I attended both the Jewish Agency for Israel Annual Assembly and the Jewish Federations of North America General Assembly, I had the opportunity to not only meet lay and professional leaders of Jewish organizations from across the United States, Canada, and Israel, but to see the amazing strength and productivity that comes from working together. Such cooperative efforts are injecting energy into the discourse about what it means to be Jewish in the 21st century and proving that when different groups within world Jewry can set aside their differences, real change can happen in Jewish communities of all shapes and sizes. Just like our annual JFNH campaign, which seeks to raise not only money but awareness of both the work the Federa- Daniel E. Levenson dlevenson@jewishnh.org Executive Director tion does and the ways in which all Jews in New Hampshire are connected, there are small Federations across the United States and Canada that are engaged in similar projects. In my conversations with the presidents and directors of other small Federations, I heard comments that echo many of the same challenges we are working to address here in the Granite State, including a strong desire to connect with Israel in a cost-effective way and a need for resources to bolster Jewish identity and education in children and young adults. In this column I would like to share just one idea that I picked up in Jerusalem that I think has the potential to impact Jewish life here. Given the general level of concern re- Brotherhoods Share Breakfast Brotherhoods continued from page 1 The featured speaker was Daniel Levenson, executive director of the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire (JFNH). Daniel reviewed the programs that are available through JFNH for Jewish youth in New Hampshire. These include the PJ Library, preschool program, campership support, and support for Israel experiences and for Hillel programs. As a climax to the program, the audience was treated to a few numbers by the cast of Annie, by the Manchester Community Players, including TAY’s Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Brooke Flanders. The get-together was long overdue, and participants look forward to more events of this kind in the future. For more information or to join one of these groups, contact Jay Madnick (jay@madnick.info) at Etz Hayim Synagogue, Michael Lipkind (mhlipkind@comcast.net) of SNHJMC, or Sol Rockenmacher (rockenmacher@ comcast.net) or David Penchansky (docpen@comcast.net) at Temple Adath Yeshurun. The New Hampshire garding the results of the Pew Survey on Jewish life, I thought I would tell you about one of the wonderful initiatives that was showcased in Jerusalem, which was the Masa program of the Jewish Agency for Israel. This is a project designed to help Jewish young adults, ages 18-30, spend six months to a year fully immersed in an Israel experience program, providing not only a significant grant to help defray the cost of tuition, but offering additional resources for participants to learn about Israel and Jewish identity while attending the program. One of the great things about this project is its flexibility: Masa partners with over 200 programs and organizations to offer participants an incredible range of topics to explore, places to discover, and ways to connect with the modern country of Israel as well as thousands of years of Jewish history. Masa participants do everything from studying Jewish texts in modern Yeshivas or interning in Israeli government offices to studying art at the world-renowned Bezalel Academy or teaching English in public schools. I have to admit that when it comes to Masa, I’m a bit biased, since I participated in their leadership program when I lived in Jerusalem in 2009, which led to some volunteer work for the Jewish Agency. I think this experience was also instrumental in helping to me gain a clearer picture of modern Israeli society, since the Masa programs do not shy away from showing the many challenges that modern Israel faces, from urban poverty to badly needed educational reform. When I was in Jerusalem I spoke with a senior staff person at Masa and told him a little about our community and how much interest there is in Israel, and over the next few months I will be working with the Masa staff in New York to figure out ways to let young people in New Hampshire know about this phenomenal opportunity. This is just one example of one conversation I had in Israel, and one idea that I am bringing back with me, and I am confident that with a successful annual campaign, measured not only in dollars raised, but in ideas gathered and bonds strengthened, we will have many opportunities together to continue to build the Jewish community of New Hampshire by combining our collective resources and sometimes looking outside our own borders to the rest of the Jewish world, for ideas such as the Masa program, that will bear fruit at home. Take the call on Super Sunday, December 8, to support the Jewish community of New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 3 Monday, December 2 Thursday, December 5 Ultimate Chanukah Game Night! Seniors Forever Young Chanukah Party 5¬7 PM, Holiday Inn, Brown Ave, Manchester Chanukah Game Night for the entire family. Mega video game truck and good ol’ fashioned board games. Menorah lighting, sufganiyot, latkes, and crafts. $36/family. RSVP to Chanchie@LubavitchNH. com or on Facebook. More information: Chanchie or Rabbi Krinsky, 647-0204 or Chanchie@ LubavitchNH.com. 12 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester More information: Bud Baron at salesconsultantsnash-man@att.net. Sisterhood Meeting 7 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester Tuesday, December 3 Brotherhood Chanukah Party 4:45 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester Gelt and dreidels, latkes, hot dogs, desserts, and surprises. Come join in the fun. Free to all families with a Jewish connection. Reservations and more information: 669-5650, templeadathy@comcast.net, or www.taynh.org. Tai Chi for Seniors Jewish Federation of NH, Manchester More information: Jim Winner at 926-4953 or jwinner1@comcast.net. Volunteers needed -- you help will ensure a successful JFNH campaign. More information: 627-7679 or info@jewishnh.org. 4 PM, Temple Israel, Dover More information: 742-3976 or www.dovertemple.org. 7:30¬8 PM, Carpenter St, Manchester Once an evangelical pastor, Yaakov Parisi shares the fascinating story of his lifelong journey to becoming Jewish. $10 suggested donation. More information: Rabbi@LubavitchNH.com or 647-0204. 2¬3:30 PM (ages 4-7) and 3:40¬5:30 PM (ages 8-10), JFNH, Manchester Jewish kids can have fun in a welcoming, warm environment, and best of all get to spend time with Jewish peers! This year we focus on JewCrew “Kids Care to Make a Difference.” Each month the kids do a fun activity, craft, or trip, all while making a difference in the community and world. $15 per meeting, or $100 for the year. The club will also meet on Jan. 12, Feb. 9, March 9 and April 6. Sign up at LubavitchNH. com/JewCrew. More information: Chanchie@ LubavitchNH.com. Friday, December 6 Tuesday, December 10 Tuesday, December 17 Tai Chi for Seniors Tai Chi for Seniors 6 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester More information: (603) 669-5650, templeadathy@ comcast.net, or www.taynh.org Jewish Federation of NH, Manchester More information: Jim Winner at 926-4953 or jwinner1@comcast.net. Jewish Federation of NH, Manchester More information: Jim Winner at 926-4953 or jwinner1@comcast.net. Pot Luck Dinner and Shabbat Service led by pre-Bar/Bat Mitzvah class Thursday, December 12 Wednesday, December 18 Breakfast with the Rabbi “Magnetic Power of Organizational and Personal Brand”- NH Jewish Professional Network Hadassah Meeting 1 PM, Jewish Federation of NH, Manchester More information: Michele Bank at michele.bank@ gmail.com or 488-5657. End of Chanukah Religious School Party Family Shabbat Service and Potluck Dinner 6:20 PM pot-luck dinner, 7 PM service, Temple Israel, Dover More information: 742-3976 or www.dovertemple.org. (Post) Chanukah Community Latke Party 11 AM, Temple Israel, Dover More information: 742-3976 or www.dovertemple.org. A Pastor’s Journey to Judaism 10 AM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester More information: 669-5650, templeadathy@ comcast.net, or www.taynh.org. Saturday, December 7 Brotherhood Meeting Annual Chanukah Party Torah for Tots 6:15¬8 PM, Temple Beth Abraham, Nashua Deli, latkes, sufganiyot, and family entertainment. Bring your menorah. Adults (13 and older) $15, children (4-12) $8, Children (3 and younger) free. More information: 883-8184. 9 AM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester, Story, craft, and snack. Free to TAY members, $18 for non-members. More information: 669-5650 or www.taynh.org. 7 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester More information: (603) 669-5650, templeadathy@ comcast.net, or www.taynh.org Jewish Heritage Night at the Celtics 9:30 AM, Temple Israel, Manchester More information: 622-6171 or office@ templeisraelmht.org. 7:30 PM, TD Garden, Boston, MA Celtics vs. Milwaukee Bucks! Must have tickets in advance. This offer is not valid at the TD Garden Box Office. More information: Steve Hutchinson at (617) 854-8060. Wednesday, December 4 Chanukah Blood Drive 11 AM - 6 PM, Red Cross Blood Center, 425 Reservoir Ave., Manchester Walk in donors are welcome. Call to schedule an appointment: 1-800-REDCROSS. Temple Israel/Religious School Chanukah Party 5 PM, Temple Israel, Portsmouth Bring your chanukiyah for a community-wide candle lighting on the last night of Chanukah. Latkes, cider, dreidels, gelt, and more. Info: 436-5301, templeoffice@templeisraelnh.org. Chabad’s JewCrew Kids Club Junior Congregation NH4Israel Dinner Dance 6 PM, Temple Israel, Manchester Let’s celebrate Jews and Christians working together in mutual support by attending our fun Dinner Dance, with kosher food and dance music! Free! We are selling items to raise money for Sderot, Israel and Christians United for Israel. More information: NH4Israel.org. Documentary: Jews on Broadway 7 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester Bring a dessert. More information: 669-5650 or www.taynh.org. Sunday, December 8 Super Sunday Phonathon 9:30 AM¬12:30 PM, Jewish Federation of NH, Manchester Saturday, December 14 5:30-7 PM, Chen Yang Li, Bedford Registration 5:15 PM, full buffet 5:40 PM. Presenter, Dianne Durkin, Pres/CEO, Loyalty Factor, Inc. $16 per person. Reservations requested at 627-7679 or info@jewishnh.org. More information: Suze Scholl at sfscholl@aol.com. Sunday, December 22 TBI Deli Dinner and Magic Show 5 PM, Temple B’nai Israel, Laconia Magic happens when real Jewish deli food and a magic show by Jimmy Goren meld at a happy event for adults and kids of all ages. Rabbi Hannah Orden will open the show by briefing us on some very cool Jewish magicians! Cost: $20 adults, $10 under 12, $60 maximum per family. Reserve by Dec. 7 by contacting Irene at 267-1935 or itg2@metrocast.net. Cantorial Concert: From Bimah to Broadway 7 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester This cantorial concert will trace the connection between Jewish music and Broadway theater with Cantors Shira Nafshi and Eric Contzious. More information: 669-5650 or www.taynh.org. Etz Hayim Synagogue, Derry More information: 432-0004 or www.etzhayim.org. Tuesday, December 24 Brotherhood Mitzvah Program Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester More information: 669-5650, templeadathy@ comcast.net, or www.taynh.org. Wednesday, December 25 Brotherhood Mitzvah Program Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester Volunteer in the community on Christmas Day. More information: 669-5650, templeadathy@comcast.net, or www.taynh.org. Sunday, December 15 Southern New Hampshire Jewish Men’s Club Breakfast 9:30 AM, Temple Beth Abraham, Nashua For more information: www.snhjmc.org or thesnhjmc@comcast.net. Book Club Meeting Thursday, January 2 Hadassah Meeting 1 PM, Jewish Federation of NH, Manchester More information: Michele Bank at michele.bank@ gmail.com or 488-5657. Keeping you connected Do you live in Keene, Laconia, Bethlehem, Hanover, or another NH community and want to help produce the Jewish Reporter? eNEWS We are looking for people all over the state who are interested in writing about their local Jewish community. jewishnh.org To get involved, contact thereporter@jewishnh.org Save the date: Good Deeds Day, March 9, 2014 PAGE 4 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 My Summer at a Jewish Girls Retreat Camp Pembroke: A Great Experience By Sarah Hoskin By Abby Asch I would like to thank the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire for giving me a camp grant. The camp that I went to is Jewish Girls Retreat. It is a three-week Jewish girl’s overnight camp in Albany, NY. Something that I liked a lot at Jewish Girls Retreat was Shabbat. Every Friday night there was Kabbalat Shabbat and a meal that included singing and delicious food. There were also fun Shabbat activities on Saturday. You could be in chorus, drama, or storytelling, and chorus and drama would perform near the end of Shabbat. Other activities were funny skits and singing of nigunim. During the week, one of my favorite activities was art clubs. There were many different clubs, and you could choose a different one each week. I was in Duck Tape Art, Jewelry Making, and Sew a Stuffed Animal. There were also performing arts clubs. I was in dance and I performed in the yearly Jewish themed movie that the camp produces. Other activities included swimming and going on trips. The first time I heard about Camp Pembroke, I was really excited to go. I was 10, and it was my first time going to sleep away camp. At the beginning of the summer, I went camp shopping and before you could say, “Off to Camp Pembroke!” I was packed and ready to go. My mom and I stayed at a hotel the night before, then we drove a bit more and we were there. Instantly, I knew I was at home. A warm welcome started my great experience at camp. I was in awe of how well this camp works together to reach their goals. Everything from the gum rock to the beautiful sunsets on the lake was memorable. My favorite part of camp was my loving bunk. They always looked after me. My bunk (and I mean all of us, including the counselors) were not morning people, but we all got up because we Sarah Hoskin enjoying activity time at the Jewish Girls Retreat Another cool thing about Jewish Girls Retreat was that I had the opportunity to meet girls from all over the United States. There were also a few girls from other countries. I even had a roommate who came all the way from Alaska. Going to Jewish Girls Retreat was an amazing experience, and I am looking forward to going again next summer. Sarah Hoskin, is the daughter of Nathan and Allison Hoskin of Rye, NH. She is a sixth grade Hebrew school student at Temple Israel of Portsmouth were excited to start a fun, new day. Every day we had electives (activities chosen by us) and bunk activities. My favorite elective was waterskiing. I got all the way around our ginormous lake! At the end of every week, we had Shabbat. It was a festival of singing, dancing, and just pure joy. The following morning we had Saturday morning services in the beautiful pine grove. Then we had a day of rest. Camp flew by so fast that pickup felt like drop off. Everyone was sad to leave, but we all knew that next summer the fun will begin all over again. Thank you to the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire for the camper scholarship that made my summer at Camp Pembroke possible. Abby lives in Exeter with her parents, Jennifer Marx Asch and Alex Asch. She attended Camp Pembroke with a scholarship from JFNH. Seniors Forever Young Enjoys Monthly Events Seniors Forever Young, like the Red Sox. is on a winning streak of successful events. In June the group had its Annual Barbecue, where 50 seniors ate bountifully, sang, and danced to the great dynamic musical talents of Marlena. In July the group enjoyed a cruise of Boston Harbor on the Spirit of Boston, where the luncheon buffet was fantastic, and the dance music and entertainment were great. During September the group traveled to the Boston Museum of Science to view the Dead Sea Scrolls and enjoyed lunch at the No Name Restaurant on the Boston Fish Pier. It was an enlightening and enjoyable trip. On the last day of October Seniors Forever Young went on a combination foliage, lunch, and shopping trip. The group lunched at Milford High School’s culinary department, where the food and the service were outstanding, and then they traveled to Brookdale Fruit Farm for farm fresh apples, honey, etc. On Sunday, Nov. 10, they vanned to Portsmouth to view Two Who Dared: The Sharp’s War, a film sponsored by the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire and the New Hampshire Jewish Film Festival. It was a stimulating film, Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Eileen Resnick, Roberta Silberberg, and Renee Brenner visit a farm stand during the foliage, lunch, and shopping trip on Oct. 31. and the speaker after the film got rave revues. A short trip to the Common Man Restaurant topped the evening off with an excellent meal. The group looks forward, in the next two months, to its Chanukah party, a concert, a New Year’s Eve afternoon party, and a trip to the Boston Museum of Fine Arts to see the Sargent Watercolor exhibit. All seniors are invited to join Seniors Forever Young, whose members say, “We want to put a smile on all seniors’ faces.” For additional information, contact Bud Baron at salesconsultants-nashman@att.net. The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 5 My Israel Experience By Hannah Cook The NFTY (North American Federation of Temple Youth) L’Dor V’Dor trip was one of the most amazing experiences I could have ever asked for. We flew into Prague, Czech Republic, to start our journey. Four counselors greeted us (three Israeli and one American), who would be our caregivers and best friends for the summer. We spent the first week in Europe learning about the history of the Jewish people. We visited three concentration camps: Terezin, Auschwitz, and Auschwitz-Berkenau. Visiting the camps was one of the hardest things that I will ever do, but the impact it left on me I will never forget. And there is no better way to experience it than with other Jewish teens, who are there to support you. Visiting Auschwitz-Berkenau had the largest effect on me, because it put many things in perspective. It was the first time in my life I have realized how I cannot take what I have for granted. That experience definitely matured me and helped me want to do better in the world. After a long week learning how European Jewry was destroyed, we finally flew to Israel. One of my most vivid memories from the trip was our first day we walked from our hotel, through the old city of Yaffo (right next to Tel Aviv), onto a small hill, which overlooked the Tel Aviv shoreline. I turned to my friend and said, Hannah Cook with friends in Israel “I can tell Israel is the place for me. I just love the smell of the air.” After a week where the lack of Judaism was ubiquitous, Israel felt like the most comforting place in the world. We headed off to the Negev desert, where we spent four nights. We slept under the stars and hiked very early in the morning. It was a great bonding experience. Some of the climbs we did were so challenging that we had to rely on one another not to fall. We spent the time midday in Eilat, on the Red Sea. We went snorkeling, swimming, and shopping. It truly felt like paradise. After the Negev, we went to the Dead Sea. That was one of my favorite parts of the whole trip. It was special floating in the Dead Sea with my best friends, our bodies clad in mud. It was an unparalleled feeling to float without any effort. But my favorite part was being with all of my Jewish friends, experiencing things for the first a S ve, , e p t D ona ho S at jewishnh.org/save Shop for your favorite products and brands, at your favorite stores, or find competitive products from other retailers and manufacturers. Save money, using comparative shopping, hot deals and more. And generate funds for the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire. PAGE 6 The New Hampshire time together. I especially loved our Havdalah on the beach, because Havdalah always feels special, but it felt extra special being in such an amazing place with people who mean so much to me. Then we went to Jerusalem. My whole group held hands and was blindfolded as we stepped off the bus. When we were told to open our eyes, we could see the whole city of Jerusalem, and the Judean hills. It was the most breathtaking view. It also felt like one of the most holy places in the world to me. Our whole group sang prayers together. This was one of the first moments when I realized how important Judaism is to me. I felt like I found my place. That night we went camel riding, which was definitely one of the highlights of the trip. We stayed at the Bedouin campsite, and woke up at 3 AM to hike Mount Masada. Our trek up the mountain was in the dark, but I thought it looked cool anyway! I stopped to take a picture, and Hillel (the leader of our unit of four groups) said, “Hannah, you just wait. If you think that is a beautiful view, you are in for a treat.” And of course, he was right. We spent a few hours on the top of Masada, and as time passed the sunlight changed. When I first saw the fiery-pink ball appearing over the mountains in the distance, I was amazed that you could look right at the sun without it hurting your eyes. I could feel how special Masada was, not because of the amazing history or the beautiful castle built by Herod the Great, but because my friends and I could take the perfect selfie. I know it sounds ridiculous, but something about being that close to the sun, and being so happy with the people I was getting so close with over the past few weeks, I felt so close to God. After that, we drove up north, to the wonderful Arab city of Acco. I loved how Jewish Israel felt, but it was also wonderful to see how other religions could love it too. We had a really fun night out on the town. We enjoyed our last moments with our friends before we split off into our Chavayah (four day- Jewish Reporter long specialty experiences). I did Yam el Yam, a four-day hike across Israel, from the Sea of Galilee to the Mediterranean. It was an incredible experience. I met many amazing people from various URJ camps (Harlem and Crane Lake especially). After four days of a lot of hiking, we went swimming in the Mediterranean Sea. Although we were all dirty and tired, each one of us felt accomplished. The swim in the Mediterranean felt like a celebration. For the days following Chavayah, we stayed at a youth hostel on the Sea of Galilee. I had the incredible experience of having my sixteenth birthday in Israel! That day was one of the most amazing days of the whole trip. Six Israeli teenagers joined our group to travel with us for the next week. From the second we met, I knew I would love them. They made a huge poster for me that said “Mazal Tov Hannah” and happy birthday!!! We went banana boating on the Sea of Galilee and had fun getting to know the Israelis, who felt like our instant friends. They visited the Lebanon and Syria borders with us. They added so much to our discussions, even though they did not have great English. They helped me feel integrated into Israeli society, instead of just being an American tourist. I owe great thanks to them for making me love Israel so much. I still keep in touch with some of them, and they are helping me learn Hebrew, which will be useful to know when I go back. Overall, there was no other way I would have wanted to spend my summer than in Israel. I want to thank my parents and the JFNH for enabling me to have this experience. A day does not go by when I don’t think about the lessons I learned and the lifelong friendships I made on the trip. I am so thankful for the experience I had, and I cannot wait to go back to Israel. It really is the holy land. Hannah, the daughter of Terri and Jim Cook, lives in Hanover. She received an Irving and Bernice Singer Israel Experience grant from the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire. Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Why I Support the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire By David Salzberg, Co-Chair, JFNH 2013 Campaign Committee I am a volunteer, and I support the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire. Would you consider joining me? You might ask: What’s in it for me? I might answer: Extraordinary things! Please let me explain. A few years ago, I too wondered what was in it for me. I wasn’t sure how the Federation fit into the landscape of Jewish life in my community or the role it played across the state. Now I know! My family and I have benefited in so many extraordinary ways, including: • The Federations supports the reli- gious school where my kids thrived and stayed involved through high school. • The Federation sponsored the Shlicha, who enriched our connection to Israel by connecting with us. These young adults related to the temple youth with genuine warmth and love. (This program has been suspended this year, and we must all act to restore it!) • The Federation provided grants to help send my kids to Israel to study and establish their own Jewish identities. • The Federation has provided generous grants to support programming including musical performances and other fundraisers for my synagogue, Temple Beth Jacob in Concord. Recent programs included Noah Aronson, Yids on Broadway, and Cabaret Night with Rebecca Fletcher. • The Federation offers the Jewish Professional Network, monthly meetings with food, drink, networking, and a steady stream of speakers and topics of interest to the business community. In addition to all of this, the New Hampshire Jewish community statewide benefits from the Federation, which speaks with one voice on behalf of all Jews, and responds urgently to anti-Sem- itism. I can’t leave out the Jewish Film Festival, and, and, and. There are too many wonderful programs to mention! I can’t imagine what our Jewish lives would be without the Federation. The New Hampshire Jewish community is vibrant and alive. The Federation is actively working to update the strategic plan, to ensure it is a strong and relevant force for our community statewide for years to come. Super Sunday, December 8, is just around the corner. Please answer the call and help us continue to do these extraordinary things. Your generous support is so greatly appreciated. Now, would you consider joining me? Learn to Apply Magnetic Power in Business and Life at JPN Bedford -- All are invited to join members of the NH Jewish Professional Network on Wednesday, December 18, to listen to Dianne Durkin, President/CEO of Loyalty Factor, Inc., speak about “The Magnetic Power of Organizational and Personal Brand.” The business networking group will meet at Chen Yang Li in Bedford, with registration starting at 5:15 PM. A fee of $16 is requested from all attending. Durkin is an experienced corporate executive, consultant, dynamic speaker, author, and trainer who will explain a new approach to attract customers who will be committed to your brand and service and thus ensure financial bottom line success. She will focus on the key elements that create emotional connections that drive revenues and growth. Durkin will explore the four types of customers and the concomitant loyalty programs that will be effective catalysts for each group. She will talk about the engagement and empowerment that create productivity and profitability, and the statistics that demonstrate the return on investment of customer loyalty and engagement. Finally, she will discuss the individual magnetic features that can be used to take responsibility and control of your organization or special position and personal growth. Loyalty Factor is a New Hampshire company located in Portsmouth. Dianne Durkin has authored The Loyalty Factor: Building Employee, Customer and Brand Loyalty and The Power of Magnetic Leadership: It’s Time to Get R.E.A.L. She holds a BS in mathematics from Rivier University and an MS in mathematics from Duquesne University. For additional information about NH Jewish Professional Network or the upcoming presentation, please contact Suze Scholl at sfscholl@aol.com or 603880-4730. The Yom Kippur War: NH4Israel Hears a First-Hand Account By Ken Kowalchek Manchester -- On November 6, Emil Campeanu, a member of NH4Israel, related his first-hand experience in Israel during the 1973 Yom Kippur War at the group’s biweekly meeting. Yom Kippur War. At that time, he and his family were new immigrants to Israel, and he was a teen below the age of military service. He related his innocent perceptions of the war going on about him and, given the elapsed time since the war, and declassified military archives and video footage, was able to present a complete if brief history of the war within the evening’s time constraints. Emil pointed out that the war was really a continuation of the 1967 War: the famous Khartoum Conference’s Sept. 1, 1967, declaration of “no peace with Israel, no negotiations with Israel, no recognition of Israel.” This said, the Arabs began to rebuild their armies and en- Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 (left to right) Dr. Yeshayah Artsy (A war veteran who fielded questions), speaker Emil Campeanu, and Pam Colantuono gines of war to take back what Israel won in the 1967 war. Although Israel was aware of the re-armament, its over- The New Hampshire confident general staff was not too concerned about the Arab arms buildup. They told the public to “trust us” until the sirens wailed at the Arab armies’ invasion of Israel on Yom Kippur. Concealed in the trust that led Israel’s high command to do little in the face of an increased Arab invasion was Kissinger telling Israel in 1973 that America would give Israel “not even a single nail if you attack preemptively.” The Arab armies invaded on Oct. 6, and America started resupplying Israel over a week later on Oct. 14. Israel suffered initial setbacks during the first two days of reserve mobilization. Indeed, it appeared to many observers that Israel was near defeat. One Arab commander could have proceeded unhinarmies suffered losses over six times greater in the Yom Kippur War. The aftermath is an ongoing struggle against a hostile world. And the hostility is not only from radical Jewish Reporter Mohammedans who call for Israel’s eradication as if it were a cancer, but also from elements within Western civilization who see Israel as an illegitimate state. Yet, as recounted by Emil, it seems not only that the hand of G-d was again with Israel in its 1973 war for survival but also that Israel showed the world that its ordinary citizens from all walks of civilian life would don their reserve uniforms and pick up arms to successfully save their nation from annihilation. With the exception of holiday conflicts, NH4Israel hosts biweekly talks with refreshments at Manchester’s Temple Israel (TIM) at 6:30 PM on alternate Wednesdays. If other venues and weekdays are scheduled, the change will be publicized in advance as well as posted on the calendar of events at NH4Israel. org. NH4Israel guest speakers at TIM generally address current issues surrounding the state of Israel. PAGE 7 Masa Israel Journey Celebrates 10 Years Jerusalem -- Prime Minister of Israel Benjamin Netanyahu and Chairman of the Executive of The Jewish Agency for Israel Natan Sharansky addressed 3,000 Masa Israel Journey participants at a 10year celebration in Jerusalem on Nov. 14. “This year, a record 11,000 young people will participate in Masa Israel Journey, a partnership of the Government of Israel and The Jewish Agency. You have dedicated a year of your lives to live in Israel,” Netanyahu said. “You came here from many lands to this land, and this is your land. This is your home. Israel is always your home. This is the meaning of Masa.” During his speech, the Prime Minister invited his son, Avner, onto the stage along with his fellow participants in Garin Atid, a Masa Israel Journey program that is a partnership between the Tzofim (Israel Scouts) and Young Judaea, in which young Israelis and Jews from abroad spend the year living together. A record 11,000 Jewish young people from 62 countries will participate in long-term Israel experiences this year as part of Masa Israel Journey, a joint project of the Government of Israel and The Jewish Agency, which is celebrating its tenth anniversary this year. This marks a significant increase from the 4,000 participants from 30 countries who arrived in Israel during the program’s inaugural year. Masa participants spend between a semester and a year in Israel in more than 200 programs, including professional internships, volunteer experiences, academic Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu poses with his son, Avner, and fellow participants in Garin Atid, a program in which young Jews from Israel and abroad live together as part of Masa Israel Journey, a partnership between the Government of Israel and The Jewish Agency for Israel. courses, and Jewish study programs. Masa Israel Journey was established in 2004 by the Government of Israel and The Jewish Agency in an effort to strengthen the Jewish identity of young people around the world and deepen their connections to Israel. The initiative enables young Jews between the ages of 18 and 30 to spend a significant period of time in Israel in a vast range of programs. Some 86,000 participants from 62 countries have participated in the program thus far. “All of you are part of this family, part Every Beat Counts for Hadassah Manchester -- Hadassah has a national heart health program entitled Every Beat Counts. It educates women about the risks, prevention, and detection of heart disease, the number one cause of death among women in the United States and worldwide. Cardiovascular disease kills more women than men in the United States, and women present symptoms differently than men. During the Manchester Chapter of Hadassah’s last meeting on November 7, some of the statistics of heart disease and women were discussed. Also discussed were some breakthrough research accomplished at Hadassah Medical Organization’s Heart Health Institute in Jerusalem. In the coming months, the group will continue to discuss women, heart diseas,e and prevention. PAGE 8 The next chapter meeting will be on Thursday, December 5, at 1 PM at the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire. The meeting we include a drawing for a gift certificate to a restaurant of choice. The money raised will be sent to the Hadassah Medical Organization in Ein Kerem, Jerusalem. To get a ticket, contact Linda Feinberg at lhfeinberg@myfairpoint.net or 645-6762. The Hadassah Book Club is currently reading Day After Night by Anita Diamant, which will be discussed on Thursday, January 23, at 7 PM at the Federation in Manchester. All are invited to attend. For more information about Hadassah, contact Michele Bank, chapter president, at michele.bank@gmail.com or 488-5657. The New Hampshire of this country,” Sharansky said. “The Masa Israel Journey experience strengthens and enriches the participants themselves, the State of Israel, and the entire Jewish people. The 86,000 young people who have experienced life in Israel through Masa will make up the core of Jewish leadership for decades to come. All of you are young leaders of our people.” Masa Israel Journey has a significant, measurable impact on the Jewish identity of young people from around the world and strengthens their ties to Israel. According to a study conducted by sociologists Steven M. Cohen and Ezra Kopelowiz, 92% of Masa alumni say they feel a sense of belonging to the Jewish people, 85% say caring about Israel is an important part of their Jewish identity, 82% say raising their children as Jewish is important to them, 79% say being Jewish is important to them, 71% say they have engaged in Jewish educational activities since returning from Israel, 64% say they have volunteered in a Jewish organization since returning, and 45% say they have considered becoming Jewish communal professionals. “The apparent impact of Masa Israel is profound in ALL areas of Israel-related and Jewish engagement,” Cohen and Kopelowitz concluded. Masa participants have contributed some one million volunteer hours to Israeli society, strengthening the Israeli education system, working with at-risk youth, helping new immigrants become acclimated to their new home, serving in Israel’s socioeconomic periphery, and contributing in a range of other ways. In addition, thousands of participants contribute their professional expertise to the Israeli economy, working in high tech incubators, startup companies, venture capital firms, government ministries, and a variety of other workplaces. Some 20% of participants opt to make Aliyah (immigrate to Israel) upon completing the program. Being Accepted as a Boston Diller Teen Fellow By David W. Grossman Nashua -- After declaring “Next year in Jerusalem!” so many times at Passover, I decided it was finally time to realize this aspiration. I have belonged to Temple Beth Abraham in Nashua since the day I was born; however, I had only briefly explored the Jewish community outside of New England. I have lived in New Hampshire since birth but have never been to Israel. After Passover last year, I began to look for a high school program that would include a trip to Israel. I was lucky to discover Boston Diller Teen Fellowship. Diller Teen Fellowship is a 15-month Jewish youth leadership program that explores tikun olam, Jewish identity, and a connection to Israel. I was one of 20 Boston-area teens who were selected last spring, and I am the only fellow from Jewish Reporter New Hampshire. Candidates accepted as fellows receive a $7,000 Fellowship and participate in twelve Sunday workshops, three weekend retreats, a 10-day seminar with the Haifa Diller Teen Fellows in Boston, and a three-week trip to Israel in the summer. During the three-week summer trip, we will travel throughout Israel with our Israeli counterparts. We will participate in the Diller International Teen Leadership Congress with fellows from all 20 Diller communities and spend a week engaging in community service in Israel. Back home, our fellowship culminates in the creation of a social justice project benefiting our local communities. I have been very fortunate to be chosen as a Diller Teen Fellow. The experience has had a strong impact on me even after just one month. Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 AIPAC in Wine Country By Brian Grodman Columbus Day weekend translates to leaf peeping in New Hampshire. However, AIPAC (American Israel Public Affairs Committee) held its annual summit meeting in California’s Napa Valley over this long weekend, which I was thrilled to attend for a fourth time, this year with my sons Adam and Jesse and my nephew Justin. Politics, business, war, and wine were all discussed. Secretary of State John Kerry began the conference by stating that he hoped the 1,300 attendees were “drinking wine better than Manischewitz!” He then proceeded to mention that Iran is an existential threat to Israel and said that “no Israel-Palestinian deal is better than a bad deal.” He concluded his speech with a declaration that “Israel has every right to defend herself.” Steve Grand explained from the podium that he was told eight years ago by his doctors that he was going to die from a blood disorder. However, Israeli-produced drugs saved his life, and he is living well as he continues to take this medication. Coincidentally, earlier in the week two Israelis won the Nobel Prize in chemistry. A campus activist from UC-Santa Barbara, Danielle Dankner, discussed the anti-Israel hostility on the college campuses and the strong BDS (boycott, divestment and sanctions) movement. She led the fight to defeat the most recent BDS vote. As an aside, my son Jesse was instrumental in defeating a similar anti-Israel BDS vote at Stanford earlier in 2013. Lord David Trimble (1998 Nobel Peace Prize recipient) and Aaron David Miller gave an update on the peace process, while stating that the last serious Israel/ Palestinian negotiations were in Camp David in 2000. The Rev. Dr. Dee Dee Coleman, from a Detroit Baptist church, was fervent in her exclamation that “the people of Israel must live” and “Am Yisrael chai!” She then implored attendees “not to let the news fool you, and Iran must not make nuclear weapons!” She concluded her 10-minute speech with “God bless America and God bless my beloved Israel!” For the second year, I attended a breakout session regarding Iran with Ambassador Brad Gordon. He was ambassador to the Nuclear Arms Proliferation Treaty. Sixty-five percent of Iranians (under 25 years old) are unemployed. In Iran, 700 people signed up to run for president, and the ayatollahs allowed eight to compete. Two candidates dropped out, and Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Adam, Justin, Brian, and Jesse Grodman at the AIPAC Summit. Hassan Rouhani “won” the election. He also stated that it takes only a few weeks to raise uranium enrichment from the 3.5% that Iran states it requires to the 90% needed for weapons grade. In another breakout session, we learned that each of Israel’s Iron Dome missile costs $100,000, while a Katyusha rocket costs only $3,000. Of the 500 rockets launched against Israel in November 2012, 70 made their way past Israeli defenses. The California speaker of the House, the Massachusetts undersecretary of state for homeland security, and the Oracle CFO all explained how Israel has greatly assisted in their respective activities. Israel has more Nobel Prize recipients and start-ups per capita than any other country. Israel’s emergency first responders constantly span the globe before others. Renowned author Daniel Gordis exclaimed that “a free press is in retreat across the globe” and asked “would a Palestinian state bring more freedom -or less?” He ended his plenary speech with the famous quote that is engraved on the U.S. Korean War Veterans Memorial: “Freedom is not free.” The AIPAC government affairs expert explained that the Egyptian peace treaty basically states that “nothing bad comes out of the Sinai, and Israel will stay out of the Sinai.” He noted that Al Qaeda is now in the Sinai, which is extremely dangerous. Hamas is attempting to control this region and this group is an offshoot to the Muslim Brotherhood. Saudi Arabia opposes the Brotherhood and has been assisting the Egyptian military. The The New Hampshire border between Sinai and the Negev will, regrettably, be active in 2014. I was fortunate to attend a breakout session that dealt with the U.S.-Israel relationship since 1948, by each U.S. president. The Soviet Union was the first country to recognize the State of Israel, and during the ensuing War of Independence the Israelis were flying Nazi-made Messerschmitts while the Arabs were flying British-made Spitfires. Czechoslovakia and the USSR were the first countries to provide arms to the newly established State of Israel. France was the next country to assist during the 1956 Suez War. Thus, the United States was late in this regard. The lecturer stated that the 1979 Camp David Accords with Egypt is the most important peace treaty. When queried on the perceived anti-Israel bias in the U.S. State Department, the answer was that this bias is diminishing, and we must keep in mind that there are 22 U.S. ambassadors to Arab countries while only a single ambassador to the Jewish State. We were fortunate to hear from a retired U.S. Air Force navigator who flew three missions aboard a C5 cargo plane bringing supplies to Israel during the 1973 Yom Kippur War, after President Nixon told his staff to “send everything that can fly.” This veteran mentioned that this was a highlight of his military career. Sen. Lindsey Graham (R-SC) left the embattled Congress for one day to give a passionate pro-Israel speech before turning around and flying back to Washington. He joked that AIPAC was the “last place on the planet that Democrats and Republicans speak together -- and say the same thing!” Sen. Graham stated that if you truly believe the phrase “Never again,” then you must let your congressmen know how you feel. The final plenary speech was made by newly minted Israeli ambassador to the United States, Ron Dermer. This was his first official speech, and he stated that Iran insists on domestic enrichment capability because that is the only way to obtain weapons grade material. For example, Canada and Mexico import their uranium because they purely have an energy focus, not weapons. Ambassador Dermer has Michael Oren’s large shoes to fill. This conference is chock full of information regarding the Israel-U.S. relationship. Delegates learn about business opportunities, political machinations, medical advances… all while schmoozing with passionate patriots and Zionists. It was extra special sharing this experience with the next generation of Grodmans. L’Dor v’dor. The next AIPAC Summit will be in Dallas over the Oct. 18, 2014, weekend. I will look for you there. Brian Grodman, an active Zionist, lives in Manchester. America’s Only Serious Television Cable Network covering the panorama of Jewish life Available on Roku and Online at: WWW.SHALOMTV.COM ————— Metrocast channel 246 ————— Metrocast and Comcast On Demand Jewish Reporter PAGE 9 PAGE 10 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Hungarian Anti-Semitism on the Rise By Norma Roth I wanted to share this with readers of the Reporter, some of whom are surely of Hungarian descent as I am and may have grave concerns over relatives living in Budapest as well as all Jews in Hungary and other European countries. Virulent antiSemitism has started in Hungary and needs to be publicized. Ivan Fischer, a first-class conductor of the Budapest Festival Orchestra who has also been principal conductor of the Washington National Symphony, has written an opera as a rebuke to what the New York Times describes as the “growing tolerance of anti-Semitism in today’s Hungary.” That opera, “The Red Heifer,” was reviewed in the Times on Oct. 20. I have relatives in Hungary, and my concern about increasing anti-Semitism there causes me no end of grief. There was a bit of a flash in the news recently about the extremist minority party putting forth a resolution calling for the creation of lists of Hungarian Jews in the legislature be- cause they pose a “national security risk.” Fortunately, there was enough international outcry to take that off the table. But what is happening today in Hungary continues to worsen. It is a combustible situation. Yes, from what I understand, there is a strong Jewish community, but we have heard that before. When I wrote Journey to A Dark Past, Hungary, Vienna & Prague, Land of My Ancestors, I included poems about the silence and emptiness of the streets of Budapest (the Pest side, where so many of our people lived, was the main Jewish neighborhood). I hadn’t realized how eerie it was. I have read since that some travel sites highlight that area as being still relatively untouched since World War II and therefore interesting for tourists. However, that depends on perspective, doesn’t it? Some of the poems I interspersed throughout Journey Into A Dark Past touch on the all-but-overwhelming sadness I felt staying in that neighborhood without our people, and the eeriness of the resemblance of that Jewish neighborhood to the neighborhood in which I grew up in the Bronx, NY. It was good to learn that the World Jewish Congress held its Plenary Assembly in Budapest in May of this year, with 600 participants from around the Jewish world and 200 journalists in attendance. The meeting raised international awareness about the growing neo-Nazi problem, and the government has pledged to respond. But we must also note that recently, in Hungary, the far-right Jobbik, which regularly stokes fear of Jews and Roma and recently held a rally against the World Jewish Congress assembly in Budapest, is the country’s third-largest party and is growing in strength. I remain very fearful for the Hungarian Jewish people today. One American cousin now living in South America wrote this about the announcement of Ivan Fischer’s new opera, which reflects Hungary’s renewed and not-to-be-ignored mounting prejudice to- A GIFT FROM THE JEWISH FEDERATION OF NEW HAMPSHIRE JEWISH BEDTIME STORIES & SONGS FOR FAMILIES wards the Jews today -- and he is so right. He remarks, “It’s the type of intellectual contribution that’s effective in combating anti-Semitism...but it’s unlikely that the message will permeate Hungarian society. It’s also necessary that the press get involved and start naming names and pointing fingers.” And so it has, and so it must! Norma Roth lives in Lincoln, NH. To read more on this subject: R. Donadio, “An Opera Fights Hungary’s Rising Anti-Semitism: Ivan Fischer’s Opera ‘The Red Heifer’ Addresses Prejudice.” New York Times, Oct. 20, 2013. R.S. Lauder, “Ronald S. Lauder on the Crack-Down on Neo-Nazis in Europe.” World Jewish Congress, Oct. 9, 2013. www.worldjewishcongress.org. Help your children’s sense of Jewish identity grow strong during [OLPYÄYZ[`LHYZ :PNU\WMVY;OL713PIYHY`HUK `V\»SSYLJLP]LHMYLLOPNOX\HSP[` JOPSKYLU»ZIVVRVY*+LHJOTVU[O [OH[^PSSLUYPJO`V\Y1L^PZOMHTPS` YLSH[PVUZOPWZ ;OL713PIYHY`PZMYLLMVY[OLÄYZ[ `LHY^P[OHTPUPTHSKVUH[PVU YLX\PYLKLHJO`LHY[OLYLHM[LY -\UKLKI`[OL1L^PZO-LKLYH[PVU VM5L^/HTWZOPYLP[»ZHNPM[ [OH[^PSSUV\YPZOH1L^PZOSPML MYVT[OLZ[HY[ Visit us today www.jewishnh.org Sign up today at The PJ Library JV1L^PZO-LKLYH[PVUVM5L^/HTZWOPYL 698 Beech Street 4HUJOLZ[LY5/ www.jewishnh.org Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 11 Why Be Jewish? Why be Jewish? We live in a time when answering this question has become of central importance. The results of the Pew Research Center’s survey of American Jews hardly came as a surprise. We have known for some time that increas- ing numbers of Jews are assimilating, marrying non-Jews, and drifting away from synagogue membership and support of Jewish causes. In A Letter in the Scroll, Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, Chief Rabbi Emeritus of SOCIAL SERVICE PROGRAM Free and confidential Emergency financial assistance 603-627-7679 Aging and eldercare issues Lifeline devices Linkage and Referral PAGE 12 The New Hampshire Rabbi in the House Rabbi Hannah Orden Temple B’Nai Israel, Laconia Great Britain, addresses the question: Why be Jewish? Rabbi Sacks writes: “I cannot hide my sense that something is wrong with Jewish life today…. It is not only that young Jews are disengaging from Judaism at a rate virtually unprecedented in history…. It is rather an inescapable feeling that we have somehow lost the script of the Jewish story.” Rabbi Sacks quotes the Baal Shem Tov, who said that the Jewish people are a living Torah scroll and every individual Jew is one of the letters in the scroll. He spins out the Baal Shem Tov’s idea: “A letter on its own has no meaning, yet when letters are joined to others they make a word, words combine with others to make a sentence, sentences combine to make a paragraph, and paragraphs combine to make a story…. If every Jew is a letter, each Jewish family is a word, each community is a sentence, and the whole Jewish people at any one time is a paragraph. The Jewish people throughout time constitute a story.” We might think that if a letter drops off here or there, even a few words, or a whole paragraph, the story will still make sense. So, what’s the big deal if we lose some letters or words as individuals drift away from Judaism, as parents decide not to raise Jewish families, as syna- Jewish Reporter gogues close their doors or merge with other congregations? And this is the power and beauty of the metaphor of each Jew being a letter in the Torah scroll: A Torah scroll that has even one missing letter is invalid. It is considered defective and cannot be used. We need each letter in the scroll. In America we value our individuality and our ability to make choices; however, Judaism presents us with a different view. Judaism says that to be a Jew means that our individual lives have meaning because we are part of the story of a People dedicated to certain ideas. In the words of Rabbi Sacks: “Jewish faith continues to be the courage to see the world as it is… knowing that the evil, cruelty and injustice the world contains are neither inevitable nor meaningless but rather a call to human responsibility… a call to build a society that honors the human person.” At the end of the book Rabbi Sacks answers his own question: “Why am I a Jew? Not because I believe that Judaism contains all there is of the human story…. Not because of anti-Semitism…. Not because I think Jews are better than others…. Rather, I am a Jew because, knowing the story of my people, I hear the call to write the next chapter…. I cannot be the missing letter in the scroll.” If the Jewish story is not complete without the unique contributions of each individual Jew, then we must find ways to reengage the Jews who have drifted away, ways to help them join their letters with ours to make words, sentences, and paragraphs. For the Jewish story to continue, we need all of the letters in the scroll. Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Book Review Reviewed by Merle Carrus Preserving the Past: A Blessing or a Curse? A Guide for the Perplexed, by Dara Horn When my children were growing up, I took pictures of every event in their lives and recorded every milestone in a book so that nothing would be lost to faulty memory. It has become a fascination with people in my baby boom generation to trace our roots. We look for the story of our family’s past, our connection to our history. In Dara Horn’s new book, A Guide for the Perplexed, she takes this concept of people recording every aspect of their lives and expands it. Her protagonist, Josie Ashkenazi, is a software prodigy who has invented an application that records everything everybody does in their daily lives. She calls the computer program the Genizah. This includes not only the important events that we are afraid we will someday forget, but every mundane activity. In one example, she has recorded every activity she and her daughter do so that in the morning when her young daughter cannot find her shoes, they just need to play the recording and see where she left them the night before. The book takes on three different journeys based on this obsession with preserving the past. First, we are introduced to Josie’s sister Judith, who works for Josie’s company. In a modern version of Jacob and Esau, the jealous sister arranges for Josie to fly to Egypt and sell the computer program to the Alexandria Library. In Egypt, Josie is abducted and presumed dead by the family she left behind in America. Judith then steals her sister’s husband and daughter. Layered over this story line, we learn the story of Solomon Schechter, a Cambridge professor, who goes to Palestine to retrieve a medieval archive, the Genizah, hidden in a Cairo synagogue. He brings back bags of papers that have been left in an attic in the old synagogue for centuries. A genizah is a synagogue store room for documents that for religious reasons cannot be destroyed. He takes on two assistants, and they read through the mundane history of congregants from a millennium ago: marriage certificates, divorce decrees, and letters written by people long gone. Among the papers Horn imagines are the papers of Moses Maimonides or the Rambam, the 12th century Jewish philosopher and physician. His actual book, The Guide for the Perplexed, explores the relationship between faith and reason. Horn creates the fiction that Schechter finds draft copies of this famous book and copies of letters the Rambam exchanged with his brother. The three journeys are connected as Josie reads Maimonides’ Guide to the Perplexed in her prison cell and Schechter finds the manuscripts in Cairo. Josie wrestles with the value of memory and the possibility of not really being in control of her life. Maimonides says, “We choose what is worthy of our memory. We should probably be grateful that we can’t remember everything as G-d does, because if we did, we would find it im- possible to forgive anyone.” Schechter comes to similar conclusions as he realizes that sometimes it is not best to remember every detail of the past. The Rambam struggled with the paradox of destiny versus free will, and in Dara Horn’s A Guide To The Perplexed, all of the characters are struggling to see if they are in control of their lives or if there is a higher power that has the final say. Dara Horn has written three other novels: In The Image, The World To Come, and All Other Nights. She has won many awards, including 2003 National Jewish Book Award, the 2002 Edward Lewis Wallant Award, and the 2003 Reform Judaism Fiction Prize. She has taught courses in Jewish literature and Israeli history at Harvard, Sarah Lawrence College, and City University of New York, and lectured across North America and Israel. She lives in New Jersey with her husband and four children. It is on the rise again in some parts of Europe, but especially of great concern... Virulent Anti Semitism: The past illuminates what the future may hold in Hungary Journey Into A Dark Past, Land of My Ancestors: Budapest, Vienna & Prague Jo by Norma Roth Author Norma Roth narrates a personal journey to the land of her parents’ birth, a land they left behind before the th Nazi Holocaust. In 1979, the author makes her first trip with her aging parents to “see the beauty of their homeland.” There are momentary lapses from her parents: hints, slips of th the th tongue (“neighbors, occupying homes of those returning from the concentration tr camps asked: “Why have you returned?” says her mother). Haunted b by these words she makes a second trip in 1999, to finally confront “truths” that sshe could not face before. This time she finds that the incredible beauty of these lands cannot mask the fall of tthese nations into barbarism. “It is with a sense of awe that I recommend this book, hoping and ABOUT THE AUTHOR Norma Roth is a lawyer, educator and writer. Other publications include: t'FBS5SFNCMJOHBOE3FOFXBM t"HJOH(SBDFGVMMZ8JUI%JHOJUZ *OUFHSJUZ4QVOL*OUBDU"HJOH %FmBOUMZ Learn more about Norma Roth by visiting www.NormaRoth-Books.com. Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Available at believing that it will have a significant and historical impact upon readers.” —Bettie Corbin Tucker “The beauty of the book is that it seamlessly intertwines both a spiritual journey and a physical one, both involving one woman’s quest for understanding her parents, ancestors, the historical events which framed their lives, and ultimately her identity as an American Jew.” —Gail Yager, Editor The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Cambridge, MA www.Harvard.com and Order today for your Kindle! PAGE 13 No Place On Earth: An Unusual Holocaust Documentary By Nora Lee Mandel No Place On Earth (Magnolia Pictures, 2012) is an unusual Holocaust documentary, and not just because you can see it outside the New Hampshire Jewish Film Festival on DVD. This extraordinary true story of the saving power of family ties is dramatically told by the dynamic people who lived and uncovered it, and it compellingly reenacts how devoted coopera- tion kept an extended family alive in extreme circumstances. Matriarch Esther Stermer realized Nazis were cutting off her small town in western Ukraine, and insisted her comfortably settled family prepare for the worst. She pushed her sons and nephews to find and stock a hiding place in caves they had poked around in as children. As the brutal hunt for Jews escalated in 1942, she organized the flight and descent of her mishpachah -- 38 parents, toddlers, grandparents, cousins, spouses, in-laws and siblings -- into an astounding hibernation. Down one cave, frighteningly, heart-breakingly raided when they were betrayed in 1943, then deeper into a second cave never entered before, Esther bucked them up and marked the Jewish holidays. In a 1960 memoir for her grandchildren, We Fight To Survive, she hand wrote in Yiddish, “We knew that our family would always be loyal to one another.” After 511 days underground, they emerged in 1944 as ghosts who had forgotten the sun, facing locals who didn’t want to remember them. The spirited survivors, now 74 to 92 years old, are proud and lively (Englishspeaking) participants. For Saul Stermer, then in his early twenties, and Sam, then 16, their late older brother Nissel looms like a superhero with incredible strength, determination, and McGyver-like ingenuity. Their nieces, Sonia Dodyk, then 10, and her sister Sima, then six, vividly recall their hunger, chores, and childish feelings. Hungarian actors (in actual caves near Budapest) realistically relive the described ordeal. The expressive face of Katalin Lábán, as Esther, goes beyond historicism, and the hulking Balázs Barna Hidvégi, as Nissel, demonstrates nocturnal forays for food, fuel, air pockets, escape routes -- and a horse. Meticulously, the overlaid dialogue is in the original languages; a child actor speaks fluent Yiddish. The film unfolds as a mystery uncovered by American cave explorer Christos Nicola, a righteous gentile who saved the family’s story. In 1993, Nicola was one of the first outsiders to travel into post-U.S.S.R. Ukraine’s extensive caves and found a millstone, buttons, Yiddishetched cup, shoe, key, plate shards, chisel, and (surprise) graffiti with names dated 1943, supporting rumors that Jews hid there. Even cavers today would battle bats, hypothermia, toxic smoke, water shortages, malnutrition, claustrophobia, and disorientation in that setting. Nicola finally located the family in North America for a 2004 National Geographic article, with photographer Peter Taylor, where director Janet Tobias discovered them, then Nicola and Taylor described their ordeal in a 2007 book, The Secret of Priest’s Grotto: A Holocaust Survival Story (Kar-Ben Publishing, 2007). In a moving climax, Nicola leads the survivors to their (Jew-free) village and caves, with excited grandchildren experiencing an oft-told tale. For nonagenarian Saul, sensual memories return when he requests darkness: “Now I know where I am. Now I feel good.” A closing montage of the expanded family tree over 66 years is inspiring proof that family continued to be the pillar of their lives. LIGHTS! CAMERA! EXPOSURE! BECOME A FILM FESTIVAL CORPORATE SPONSOR TODAY The 6th Annual New Hampshire Jewish Film Festival premieres on March 27–April 6, 2014, a celebrated NH tradition, draws 1,400 plus attendees statewide JFNH offers its Film Festival Corporate Sponsors a wide array of benefits: X The opportunity, to connect with the statewide Jewish community and general public. X Sponsors receive broad exposure in a multitude of print and broadcast media channels. X Introduce your business to the NH statewide Jewish community during the largest Jewish cultural event of the year. Contact us today! We offer a comprehensive Film Festival Corporate Sponsorship program to fit your company’s strategic objectives. For more information, please contact: Linda L. 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By surveying his career and writings,” says Rosen, “we will explore his teaching on becoming a soul on fire.” Avraham (Alan) Rosen PhD is the author or editor of 10 books, most recently The Wonder of Their Voices: The 1946 Holocaust Interviews of David Boder (author) and Approaches to Teaching Wiesel’s Night (editor). Two edited collections are due out in the coming year: Elie Wiesel: Jewish, Literary, and Moral Per- Alan Rosen spectives and Literature of the Holocaust. Rosen was a research fellow of the Fondation pour la Mémoire de la Shoah and has held fellowships at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and Yad Vashem. He has taught at universities and colleges in Israel and the United States and he lectures regularly at Yad Vashem’s International School for Holocaust Studies. Born and raised in Los Angeles, Alan lives in Jerusalem with his wife and four children. Alan Rosen is the Betty Wilkenfeld Scholar at the Sydney Jewish Museum. Being a Jewish Leader By Jonathan Dickens, MAJEd/MAJCS When I was asked to write this piece, I accepted it with a certain amount of reservation -- not because I did not want to write the piece, but because I did not have a clue how to approach the topic because I did not really know what it meant to be a Jewish leader. Typically, when I think of a Jewish leader, I think about rabbis, cantors, and rich philanthropists who keep our community organizations afloat. Last time I checked, being 26 years old, having three part-time jobs, and being a student does not put me in any of those categories. This made me rethink what I considered a Jewish leader to be. After many hours of dwelling on the subject, I came to the conclusion that a leader is only a leader if people who follow him or her. So what makes a Jewish leader? I believe that Jewish leaders are people with three attributes: They are relatable, they have a strong Jewish identity, and they give back to their community. When dealing with youth, the above attributes are paramount. If the leader is not relatable, the youth will not connect with him (or her), and therefore he will not be effective. If the leader does not Local Fulbright Scholar Presents Workshop in DC possess a strong Jewish identity, then he can’t be expected to instill one in the community’s children. Finally, if the leader does not give back to the community, then he is demonstrating that he does not view himself as a member. Here in New Hampshire, where the Jewish community is very small, it is important to realize that leaders can be found everywhere. The question remains, however, are the leaders that are homegrown effective? Chances are, they are very effective. They just need to be cultivated. Therefore, my challenge to each and every Jewish community here in New Hampshire: Cultivate your youth so that they “hatch” into great Jewish leaders. If your children have a connection to the community outside of the place where they had their Bar/ Bat Mitzvah, then they may stay and keep the New Hampshire Jewish community alive. Dr. Ackerman enjoying the view during a reception at the U.S. Department of State. Dr. Ann T. Ackerman, Associate Professor of Education, Rivier University, recently co-presented the workshop “We Don’t Bite – They Don’t Bite: Examining and Dismantling Predisposed Concepts of Culture” at the 36th Annual Fulbright Conference in Washington, DC. Ackerman’s Fulbright study took place in Greece and Bulgaria in 2008. Ackerman recently co-authored “A Time Machine to the Past: Using Primary Sources in the Social Studies Classroom,” a chapter in National Survey on the Status on Social Studies: Views from the Field (Information Age, Oct. 2013); and “Getting the Story Right -- Develop- ing Critical Analysis Skills Through Children’s Literature,” in the September/ October 2013 issue of Social Studies and the Young Learner. Ackerman is a former editor of the NH Jewish Reporter and a member of the Nashua Board of Aldermen. Fulbright is a prestigious award program for scholars, educators, artists, and students sponsored by the U.S. Department of State Bureau of Educational and Cultural Affairs. Established in 1946, the Fulbright Program awards highly competitive, merit-based grants for international educational exchange and study. Jonathan Dickens grew up in Nashua. A longtime member of Temple Beth Abraham, he earned a BA in Judaic Studies at SUNY Albany, and MAs in Jewish Education and in Jewish Communal Service at Gratz College. He currently teaches grades 5, 8, and 9 and advises USY at TBA. www.jewishnh.org Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 15 L’Dor V’Dor: A Bar Mitzvah Film Project Portsmouth -- Douglas Greenston is not your typical bar mitzvah student. After all, how many preteen boys have a 90-year-old girlfriend? When Doug thought about preparing for his bar mitzvah and pursuing a mitzvah project, he thought about the older members of Temple Israel in Portsmouth he has come to know while attending services and participating in temple activities, and he decided that he wanted to get to know them better. So he embarked on a major project: filming interviews with about 15 of those he calls the “wiser” members of the community. The interviews were filmed at the temple or in people’s homes over several months, with the assistance of his parents. While making the film, Doug became especially close with several community members, including 90-year-old Estelle Israel, whom he developed a major crush on. Doug has continued to visit her and many of his other new friends since the filming was completed. After many weeks of intensive editing of nearly 20 hours of interviews, the 35-minute film, L’Dor V’Dor, debuted in the Temple Israel Social Hall on Sunday, Oct. 27, before about 60 people, including many of the interviewees. Several of the subjects had proudly invited family and friends to the showing. Those in attendance were invited to make donations to a fund to help support the Lunch Bunch, a monthly Temple Israel luncheon for seniors. Each interview included a standard set of questions. However, the answers were anything but standard, reflecting the unique personalities and perspectives of the participants, who ranged in age from their 70s to their 90s. Topics included favorite childhood memories, how children today are different than they were years ago, favorite moments in one’s past, unfulfilled wishes, the definition of “hope,” and questions for God. The answers and the interactions between Doug and his subjects elicited Doug Greenston and Al Spaien, one of the congregants interviewed in Doug’s movie, share a light moment. laughter, tears, and finally, enthusiastic applause from the audience. Doug looks forward to celebrating his bar mitzvah with friends and family in early Decem- ber. He will donate copies of the film to the Temple Israel library so that others in the community can enjoy the wisdom that it captured. Mitzvah Program Seeks Volunteers Manchester -- The annual call for volunteers has begun for the Temple Adath Yeshurun Christmas Mitzvah Program. This program, in existence for over 30 years, was created to help the temple’s Christian neighbors at Christmas time. In taking over certain functions, the Jewish community allows those observing Christmas to enjoy their holiday with their families. Activities for this year’s Mitzvah Program include: 1. Delivering Meals on Wheels on Christmas Day. 2. Taking charge of the information desks at both Elliot Hospital and Catholic Medical Center on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. 3. Running the Bingo event at the Manchester Veterans Administration Hospital on Christmas night. 4. Delivering lunch and refreshments to the police and fire stations in Manchester and Bedford on Christmas Day. 5. Preparing, serving, and cleaning up meals at the local soup kitchen, New Horizons, on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Anyone interested in volunteering should call Sol Rockenmacher at 232-3477 or e-mail rockenmacher@comcast.net. Alex Dube, recent Bar Mitzvah at Congregation Betenu, with his brothers and sister after rehearsing his Torah portion for the students at the Betenu religious school. Congratulations to Betty and Don Moskowitz of Londonderry, who recently received a Spirit of NH award from Volunteer NH for their many years of service with the Sonshine Soup Kitchen in Derry. PAGE 16 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Letters to the Editor He Got It Wrong Dear Editor, It was interesting reading “The Future of Frumkeit in Lancaster, PA” (in the November Reporter). However, the first paragraph has a glowing error. The writer states, “most years my wife and I take our four children to Hershey Park. The park, which is in Lancaster, PA...” I grew up in Harrisburg, PA and I can guarantee you Hershey Park is not in Lancaster, but in Hershey, PA. I think Mr. Troy rode the roller coaster too many times and became dizzy. As always, I enjoy the Reporter. Gary Seidner Pembroke J Street Approach Superficial The opinion writer, J Street vice president Alan Elsner, in the October edition of the Jewish Reporter, should have read Rabbi Robin Nafshi’s column before writing so disparagingly about opponents of his employer, J Street. In August of 2012, Alan M. Dershowitz wrote for the Gatestone Institute that J Street “is making it more likely that Israel and/or the United States will have no choice but to take military action against Iran’s nuclear weapons program.” Dershowitz, a highly regarded Middle East scholar for decades, believes only a credible threat paperweights of military action by the United States will deter Iran from moving forward with its nuclear program. In a recent e-mail, Jeremy Ben-Ami, J Street’s president, urges his followers to undercut the Obama policy of promising Israel to attack Iran if the Islamic state crosses the red line. Ben-Ami urges his members to demand President Obama stop threatening military action against Iran and that “the drums of war” be silenced. J Street should get out of the business of telling Israel how to balance her most daunting existential challenge regarding the security of her citizens. It should stop undercutting American policy with regard to Iran. As an organization that claims to be both pro-Israel and pro-peace, it should recognize that its superficial approach to this complex problem is bad for peace, bad for Israel, bad for world Jewry and bad for American efforts to prevent a nuclear Iran. Linda McGrath Hampstead Forum.” I have produced this program in Massachusetts for the past eight years and have recently moved to Manchester. I have been accepted by the Nashua community access TV stations in Derry, Londonderry, Bedford, and Manchester to use their studios to conduct interviews of veterans. My program is also being shown in these stations. I am asking for your help to get the information about this program and my show to your readers and any others in the area who might be willing to help us by giving an interview. The Veterans History Project is a living history done by video interviews that are then played on the local community access TV, and a copy is sent to the Library of Congress to preserve the true history of our men and women who have served our country at some point in our history. Every branch of service, rank, and job is important. This is open to all men and women veterans who played a part in our military history. For more information or to schedule an interview, please contact me at Seabeebob43@aol.com or 232-2691. Bob Stevens Manchester Letters to the Editor may be sent to thereporter@jewishnh.org. Letters must be signed with full name and address. Calling All Veterans My name is Bob Stevens. I am a WWII Seabee, and I am working with the Library of Congress on the Veterans History Project. I also have a TV show called “The Veteran’s imagination is more important than knowledge. The place that inspires a love for Judaism and Learning. Twenty-five years of Educating Children in Manchester Preschool Kindergarten NOW ENROLLING - quoted from Albert Einstein contemporary crafts · judaica unique gifts & jewelry · cards & accents home accessories · artsy wearables complimentary gift packaging A major focus of the Jewish Federation Preschool is the development of the child socially, emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually. We maintain a very low student to staff ratio, thus guaranteeing that every child receives consistent individual attention. We recognize the uniqueness of each child, the importance of responsibility and commitment for each child, the need to develop creative and inquiring minds, and the importance of a warm, loving positive and accepting classroom. 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The parshah discusses the very first purchase of a burial site with our father Abraham purchasing a plot for his wife Sara. In the opening words of this portion, it describes the life of Sara by stating that her years were 100 years 20 years and 7 years. Our commentaries question the redundancy of the word years after each number instead of saying 127 years. The common answer is that she never got old. Until her very last day her life was fully active and productive. In many ways this describes Dr. Stahl. His soul was taken just a few days shy of his 87th birthday, and for those of us who knew him, he was always on the go, always busy, and always had something to do. You would probably not describe Dr. Stahl as a religious man, perhaps one more on the cultural side. But I maintain he was a deeply religious man in many ways. He was always concerned about Jewish continuity; When our building campaign began, he was the first to respond and in- cluded a note with his pledge -- to help secure Judaism for further generations. We studied Talmud weekly. Dr. Stahl enjoyed the many angles and opinions of our sages and of course was not shy in offering his own. And for close to 10 years week in and week out even when he was traveling abroad we would touch base every Friday afternoon and extend Good Shabbos wishes. I cannot tell you on how many occasions he would bail out our minyan by being the 10th, despite the fact that at times it was physically difficult for him to get up and out. We discussed many issues in the later years, including life after death or life after life. Perhaps he was more religious than some would think. Many of us knew Dr. Stahl as an accomplished pianist. One Wednesday morning as I stood by the door before our Talmud study session I could hear him masterfully playing the piano. I commented about how beautiful the piece sounded. He insisted no, no, no, to his keen musical ear he needed the piano tuned. I told him it was a waste of money as it sounded splendid, but he insisted it needed tuning every few months. If I can sum up his life of 87 years, I would say he saw everyone as a musician. In his life there was the string section, Dr. David Stahl with his brother, Bob Stahl, and Rabbi Levi Krinsky in the sukkah woodwind section, brass section, percussion section, and of course piano and harp. He knew the distinctive notes and the need to play in concert. You see, because he was the “conductor,” he tried to bring out the best in everyone he ever met, to perfect their given tone so that the world would be a more harmonious world. He knew the politician, car mechanic, sales clerk, mailman, carpenter, scholar, and layman, always trying to fine tune their given note, their G-d given ability. I would say he saw the world as one big symphony. It was music to his ears. Each and every one had his/her music to play. May his memory be for a blessing. May his symphony continue to be heard for generations to come. Dr. David G. Stahl Support the JFNH Campaign on Super Sunday, Dec. 8 Together we do extraordinary things! PAGE 18 The New Hampshire Dr. David G. Stahl, 86, passed away on Oct. 20. He was born in Manchester on Nov. 1, 1926, the son of Samuel and Sadie (Flaxman) Stahl. Dr. Stahl served in the US Navy during WWII. He graduated from Dartmouth College in 1947 and from Tufts University School of Dental Medicine in 1951. He married Barbara Jaffe on July 7, 1951. He joined his father’s dental practice in Manchester in 1952, and spent the next 50 years providing dental care to a wide community of patients. Dr. Stahl was active in the Manchester Jewish community, having been a member and past president of Temple Adath Yeshurun and a member and past president of the Jewish Federation. A tireless patron of the arts, music, and education in Manchester and throughout New Hampshire, Dr. Stahl was a founder of The Derryfield School and instrumental in the renovation of the Palace Theatre. He was involved with the NH Symphony, Manchester Historic Association, NH Historical Society, The Currier Museum of Art, the World Affairs Council of NH, NH Charitable Foundation, NH Dental Society, Manchester Dental Society, and many other organizations. Dr. Stahl played the piano from age 6 and was a subscriber to the Boston Symphony Orchestra for nearly 60 years. He is survived by four children: Susan Hardy and her husband Richard, Nancy Wilsker and her husband Roy, Sarah Stahl and her husband Harry Foster, and John Stahl and his wife Elisabeth; ten grandchildren: Julia and Alex Hardy; Rebecca, Elizabeth, and Benjamin Wilsker; Daniel and Rachel Foster; and Jenna, David, and Jessica Stahl; two brothers: Robert Stahl and Norman Stahl and his wife Sue; and a sister-in-law Carolyn Friedman. He was preceded in death by his wife, Barbara, in 2004. The funeral service was held on Oct. 22 at Temple Adath Yeshurun in Manchester, with burial in Manchester Hebrew Cemetery. Memorial donations may be made to the charity of your choice. Jewish Reporter Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 Want to see your organization’s photos here? Send them to thereporter@jewishnh.org. Noah Aronson leads a song session with the third grade class and his third grade helpers, Julia Katz and Sammi Goldblatt. Temple Beth Jacob students leading the hand motions to Noah Aronson songs at the school-wide concert! Measuring ingredients for pumpkin pie in the Early Learning Center at Temple Israel Portsmouth Children at The Early Learning Center, Temple Israel Portsmouth, mixing the batter for pumpkin bread Federation executive director Daniel Levenson and Temple Adath Yeshurun president Lee Hill (photo by David Rosenzweig). Kislev-Tevet 5774 • December 2013 The New Hampshire Members of TBI in Laconia gathered in the Sukkah for a Shabbat Dinner. Jewish Reporter The congregation at TBI celebrated Simchat Torah by unrolling the whole Torah . PAGE 19 ( y ) Jewish Stars 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 Across Famous Jewish Movies Down Find each of the following words. 2 6 7 8 10 12 13 14 Silverman Streisand Picon Greenberg Allen Bruce Meir Brooks 1 3 4 5 9 11 13 Koufax Sandler Spitz Crystal Dangerfield Buttons Burns Keeping you connected eNEWS jewishnh.org Planning a party or event ? 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