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W e d n e s d a y s “come to the edge ... and fly” ISSN: 1550-3739 Issue 84 [July 13 - 19, 2005] www.blackberryspeak.com For The Supreme Court Nominees: ‘Hey, Don’t forget the Black Man’ Table of Contents page 2 BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine is the property of IEBB Media (www.iebbmedia.com). All rights reserved. News Table of Contents NEWS * For Supreme Court Nominees: ‘Hey, don’t forget the Black Man’ * The Supreme Court Nomination Process * With Other Newz (current news blurbs) IN OUR DIASPORA BUSINESS * Kobe, Boycotts, Hirings, Partnerships, ... SPORTS * The WNBA: These women got the game * ‘Sport Commentary ART & ENTERTAINMENT * It ain’t all hip hop: Musical gems of 2005 * Luther Vandross: The link to his hits * Film & Theater: The Color of Money: No Longer Black & White * Television: Gay is Red for Some, But definitely Green for others * Books: African American women are blowing up again this year HEALTH & BODY * News: Black Drug Gouges, Nigerian sickle cell, Children’s Insurance, New Aids restrictions, ... PEOPLE & NON PROFITS * Retirees & Baby Boomers Want to Give Back LIFESTYLE * We Speak: “In Search of Family” by Jane Ragland. Part 5 of 6. TRAVEL THE INTIMATE YOU * the idaberry commentary: ‘Wait, Just Whisper in My Ear: Ying Yang is Bang Bang LIFE ENRICHMENT * “My AHA Moment” * ‘Snapped’ by Cheryl Rainey - ‘Sometimes sistahs got a reason’ * ‘Living’ by Ronique SPIRITUALITY * The Strength of Brokenness * Books & Prayer RELIGIOUS NEWS * Islam is a Religion of Peace * Religions working together against Terror & Violence COLOR COMMENTARY For Supreme Court Nominees: ‘Hey, Don’t forget the Black Man’ When one sees the list of potential replacements for Justice Sandra Day O’Connor, the usual sticks out - old white males. Old white males who will be appointed by an old white male after confirmation by even older white males, with only a few exceptions. One Hispanic prominently mentioned, although opposed by conservative right groups, is Attorney General Alberto Gonzales. Two African-Americans mentioned include the No. 2 person at the Justice Department for much of President Bush’s first term, Larry Thompson, and recently approved after much controversy and a threat of filibuster, Judge Janice Brown. Reality check. No Hispanic has ever been nominated to be, so of course has never been, a Supreme Court Justice. With two African-American Supreme Court Justices, Thurgood Marshall, and presently Clarence Thomas, it is more likely than not a Hispanic would get the nod over another African American. Oh, please. You know we all count like this. Also consider that one, George, Jr. likes to prove he’s ‘his own man’ and not just daddy’s little bail out boy, which is a natural reaction for sons who bear their father’s moniker, two, that his father outsmarted all the liberals and especially African Americans when he nominated the least black man (Thomas) to replace the most respected black man (Marshall), and three, Bush has already put African Americans in key White House positions (hello, Rice & Powell & Thompson). Nevertheless, until the nomination is locked, stocked, and barreled through Congress, it’s a wide open game. And if you don’t put a man (or woman) on the floor, your team will never score points, or be considered. Here are the two African Americans Bush may consider, if you don’t read Yahoo News or MSNBC, and their chances. Judge Janice Brown: Considered not black enough by blacks, and a conservative dream by the right, Brown’s bio has been splayed across the pages for months as she fought to become a federal appeals court judge. Although her name is mentioned as a possibility, it is highly unlikely Bush would nominate her again and risk a filibuster or nuclear option. So let’s skip straight to ... Larry Thompson - A former federal prosecutor and defense attorney, as Bush’s Deputy Attorney General, Thompson was keenly involved with Bush’s post 9-11 decisions, from the Patriot Act, to Homeland Security, to the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq. As head of the Justice Department’s corporate crime task force he went after scandal laden En- BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [ Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005 ] blackberryspeak.com 2 News ron, Worldcom, Healthsouth, and their corporate officers. Thomas also was a member of that well-oiled legal team that got Justice Thomas confirmed, he suggested that Anita Hill suffered from erotomania, an abnormality related to sexual delusion. Thompson also fought diligently against drug trafficking while a U.S. Attorney in Atlanta. A precursor to Bill Cosby, in 1987, Thompson said black on black crime was not as much a problem of racism as it was the failure of values and institutions in the black community. In 1991 he took ‘black leaders’ to task for preaching the “politics of despair” whereby government assistance is advocated as a way for blacks to over their problems. He suggested the problems of “drug use, lack of respect for the law, kids having children too soon and fathers who were not taking their responsibility seriously” were being ignored. He was one of the highest-ranking African Americans in the Bush administration and if appointed to the court, would be the third African American justice. Despite his conservative stance, Thompson is respected by Democrats because he doesn’t wear that bad on his shoulder, and African Americans, because he’s fair. If Sen. Arlen Specter (R-PA), Chairman of the Senate Judiciary is correct in his assessment that Bush may go outside the judiciary for the appointment, Thompson’s stock will go way way up. Another name we float for judicial consideration, Georgia Supreme Court Justice Leah Sears. Acceptable to some Republicans, she was recently appointed a justice by Republican governor Sonny Perdue, Sears would also appease the critical South vote. Who the ultimate nominee will be is unknown. What is for certain, however, is although Bush is in his second term with little to lose, Congressional players up for reelection in 2006 or considering a bid for the 2008 presidency, will lift the game playing and rhetoric to interesting levels. Sources for Larry Thompson: Manhattan Institute Organization, Washington Post, New York Times. 3 “[T]he Senate should resist, if not refuse to confirm Supreme Court nominees who refuse to answer questions on fundamental issues. In voting on whether or not to confirm a nominee, senators should not have to gamble or guess about a candidate’s philosophy, but should be able to judge on the basis of the candidate’s expressed views.” Sen. Arlen Specter (R-PA), present Chairman of the Judiciary Committee, in his 2000 book, ‘Passion for The Supreme Court nomination process The President of the United States and generally, senior White House staff, put together a “short list” of candidates. Under Article II, section 2, clause 2 of the Constitution, the Senate will provide advice and consent to a judicial nomination. The President or White House staff will then meet with key Senators, particularly those on the Senate Judiciary Committee, and possibly the majority and minority leaders of the House and Senate to discuss the potential nominees, receive other names for consideration, and discuss possible challenges facing any specific nominee or the process in general. The candidate list is shortened and White House staff then analyze the candidates past judicial decisions, writings, speeches, employment history, and other information to develop a profile and to identify any potential obstacles to their successful confirmation. Once a nomination is made, it is assigned to the Judiciary Committee who holds a public hearing, then takes a vote on whether to report the nomination to the full Senate for debate and vote. A majority vote of the Senate is required to confirm a nominee. Beginning in 1948, the American Bar Association has evaluated candidates for the federal bench, including nominees for the Supreme Court, for their professional competence, judicial temperament, and integrity, after which a rating of “well qualified,” “qualified,” or “not qualified” is given. During his first term in office, President Bush informed the ABA that they would no longer be provided with the names of judicial candidates prior to their nomination. Nevertheless, once the name is made public, the ABA still provides the Senate and the public with an evaluation. BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005] blackberryspeak.com In Our Diaspora News W ith O t h e r N e w z If it helps the children, but limits the adults who help the children, what should be done? Brian Parnell, a white social worker from California, filed a federal civil rights complaint against The National Association of Black Social Workers after they refused him admission to their April conference in New Orleans. According to Parnell, the group’s Executive Director, Sandra Wheeler, basically told him his whiteness would inhibit the black participants from speaking freely. The tax exempt group’s bylaws also state the organization is for blacks. Parnell works in the San Francisco area where 70% of the children in foster care are black. Right Nation ...... So why did it disband after 1972? ‘Hit me Baby’ isn’t the only thing going retro. Black Democrats who formed the National Black Political Assembly in 1972 to establish a Black political agenda, say it’s time for baby to go back, back to Gary, IN where they met 33 years ago. Said Bill Lucy, the president and cofounder of the Coalition of Black Trade Unionists, to the Final Call, “I think, without question, the overwhelming majority of the Black voters still favor the Democratic Party and its Democratic policy platform. But I think that the fact of the matter is that we’ve got to have an agenda of our own that we will impress on the party as if to formulate its platform. We can’t keep having knee-jerk reactions.” An exact date to meet has not been set, but is expected to be held in March 2006. Final Call ...... Getting back to the admission of whites, Maryland’s Governor Robert Ehrlich, Jr. is still involved in a flap after he held a fundraiser at a golf club that critics say does not have any black members. Flapping with him is his African American lieutenant governor who is expected to run for Governor, Michael Steele, who told the Baltimore Sun it wasn’t an issue for him because he doesn’t play golf. In his defense, Ehrlich said several Democrats, who he would not name because they may not have known about the club’s membership, also held fundraisers at Elkridge Club. The Club has no formal restrictions against African Americans, did not release its membership list, but said several African Americans had played golf and eaten at the club. We presume the latter did not occur in a kitchen ...... Which explains why the Philadelphia school system is requiring students to take African American history. At the RainbowPush Coalition meeting in Chicago, Minister Louis Farrakhan told the attendees that a new educational paradigm was needed - “It’s natural that we would choose education over incarceration, but is the present form of education another form of incarceration?” With an educational system that has taught students that white is better, it is imperative that a new educational philosophy be built that frees us all “from that ravages of racism, sexism and all the other ‘isms’ that have impeded human development. Final Call NYC’s Haitians face new nightmare - kidnapping. According to the New York Daily News, in Haiti “since Aristide’s government was toppled last year, violence has claimed more than 700 lives and there are six to 10 reported kidnappings a day.” With one of the largest Haitian populations in the U.S., New York City finds more often than not, its residents are the ones asked for large sums of money in order for their family members to be returned safely. Felix Augustin, Haiti’s counsel general to New York, told the Daily News that there is little he can do except contact the Haitian police ...... According to editorial page editor for the Atlanta Journal Constitution, Cynthia Tucker, the problem in Zimbabwe is it’s leadership is bankrupt. In the past week Zimbabwe President Robert Mugabe expanded his urban razing to include ‘illegal’ garages, cottages, and chicken coops in order to provide new homes to ‘deserving Zimbabweans’ ...... In the Ivory Coast, 3 years of civil war have taken their toll as thousands have not only lost loved ones, homes or businesses, some have even lost the documentation to prove they exist, which would hopefully allow them to vote in upcoming elections. And although the independent election commission has said they will issue polling cards to help ease voting problems, the commission itself hasn’t been formed because of political squabbling. BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [ Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005 ] blackberryspeak.com 4 Business M inding O u r B i z n e s s The News We all know about dwb’s (driving while black). According to a Black Enterprise survey, 56% of us are regularly saan’ed (shopping as a Negro), while 46% have felt unwelcome in a store. Overall, 88% say discrimination is still a problem ...... Like the airline industry, Mickey D’s believes an updated employee uniform will keep their customers coming back, so they’re interested in seeing designs from Sean John (P. Diddy), Phat Farm (Russell Simmons), and others. Hey Mick, Simmons is a well known vegan, which explains his polite ‘thanks, but no thanks’ ...... Kobe is again the darling of Madison Ave., the people who tell us what we should be thinking and then pretend it’s what we said. Dropped after he was charged with sexual assault, which was later dropped itself, KB’s new Nike ad appears in Sports Illustrated. No word on whether former Kobe partner Sprite, whose ads center around hip hop, feel KB has enough street cred to pull back their audience. A Colorado Coalition Against Sexual Assault spokesperson told USA Today It would be a great inspiration to those young people if the endorsers were not only accomplished athletes, but also had a reputation for positive and ethical conduct.” ...... While the Essence Music Festival fared well over the Independence holiday weekend, the New Orleans Local Organizing Committee request to festival attendees to boycott the French Quarter in protest of recent racial incidents was not as successful. According to KATCTV New Orleans, bar and restaurant owners reported that if anything, business may have been up from recent years ...... U.S. workers under the age of 55, use at least 2 hours a day to do nonbusiness related activities such as surf the Internet and socialize with coworkers at a cost of $759 billion. Older workers waste 30 minutes a day. Replacing older workers with younger help to save a buck has truly paid off ...... Tribune Broadcasting, Allbritton Communications, and Fox Television, concerned with the high fault rates among African Americans, Hispanics and large households, have signed on to support the FAIR Ratings Act (for fairness, accuracy, inclusivity and responsiveness) which would force Nielsen Media Research to subject their people meters to accreditation by the MRC, which sets minimum standards for rating accuracy. Nielsen’s people meters have been attacked, then supported by various ethnic groups who claim their television interests are not represented in the surveys. Mediaweek Employment/Business partnerships: * Rose McKinney-James Joins the MGM Mirage board * Actor Morgan Freeman and Intel join forces for digital entertainment company * Former American Idol Kimberly Clark partners with women’s plus-size retailer Lane Bryant to appear in fall and holiday print ads and make personal appearances. Locke signed with Ford Models’ 12-plus division in February. * Former Houston mayor, Lee P. Brown, and Kase L. Lawal, chairman and chief executive officer of CAMAC International Inc., signed an agreement to acquire an approximately 21% interest in Unity National Bank, the only African-American owned bank in the state of Texas. Lawsuits: * 11 Black employees have filed suit against Walgreens for racial discrimination. * 10 shoppers file suit against Wal-Mart claiming their were targeted as shoplifters based on their race. 5 BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005] blackberryspeak.com Sports For the little press it’s gotten this season, one can count the ESPN highlights on one hand, one might think the WNBA, if not defunct, has joined the NHL in a lockout. But with new owners like the Washington Mystic’s Sheila Johnson, the WNBA’s first black and first female owner, and continued star presence from Houston Comet’s Sheryl Swoopes, the WNBA is thriving and selling tickets. In the first All-Star game in two years (the 2004 game was canceled due to the Olympics), we got a chance to see some of the best of the best in women’s basketball who proved experience still brings pleasure. Yolanda Griffith. In her 3rd year with the Sacramento Monarchs, Griffith joined the 3,000 career points club this year, and is posting her largest points per game, 18.8, this year. Lisa Leslie. She soars, she dunks, she’s Super Leslie who in 8 years with the WNBA’s Los Angeles Sparks continues to prove this center has game. Did you see her All Star game dunk with 17 seconds left in the game? The first player to reach the 3,000 points plateau, Leslie commentates for ESPN and was a member of the 1996 and 2000 Olympic gold medal teams. Sheryl Swoopes. Plagued by injuries in prior years, Swoopes at 34, is still not an elder stateswoman of the game. She is, however, as the top vote getting in the West, this year’s All Star MVP, as predicted by her 8 year old son Jordan. She’s led the league in steals and defensive plays. And in 8 years with the Houston Comets she can still run the floor and post up like the pro she is. Did we mention she is one of the hottest female athletes in any sport? Ta m i k a Catchings. The 3rd pick in the 2001 draft, the former Te n n e s see Lady Vol is one of only two Lady Vols to score 2,000+ points and pull down 1,000 rebounds. As a member of the Indiana Fever some feel Catchings has yet to live up to her hype, but with an average of 5 defensive, and 8 overall rebounds per game, she’s fever pitched to finally win that Defensive MVP award this year. BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [ Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005 ] blackberryspeak.com 6 Sports Bryan Burwell, St. Louis Post-Dispatch We need sports to endure the world’s violence Burwell appropriately begins by reminding us we hold sports up to standards expected of no one and nothing else. From raising our kids, to saving the economics of our communities, and giving us heroes, we also expect sports to, like the old Calgon commercial, ‘take us away.’ Take us away, within a 3 hour time span, from the existence of our everyday lives where there’s terror and horror and stresses that remind us of our own mortality and limitations. Yes, we ask too much of sports Burwell says, but yet, sports continues to meet our burdens. More important, it is a terrain where differences which normally pull us apart, disappear as we find common ground in the competitiveness of the spirit of sports. So whether it’s 7-7 or 9-11 or Munich, Burwell quotes the late St. Louis sportscaster Jack Buck, ‘the games will surely resume, sooner rather than later.’ Lynne Duke, Washington Post Mr. Coffee: How a Baseball Scion Put Down Roots In Africa, and Grew a Very Rich Blend “When I was younger, my dad didn’t let me play on the national level because he didn’t want me to be out there and exposed ... to you guys, basically.” Jeffrey Jordan, eldest son of former Chicago Bull Michael Jordan, speaking to reporters at the Nike All-America Camp in Indianapolis Jack Epstein, San Francisco Chronicle Baseball’s conscience finally gets his due Communist ties obscured Walnut Creek retiree’s success fighting racism in the sport “As virtually everyone knows, Jackie Robinson, the Negro Leagues star who joined the Brooklyn Dodgers in 1947, broke the color ban in baseball. But few Americans know that it was Walnut Creek resident Lester Rodney -- working as reporter, columnist and sports editor for the Daily Worker, the New York Communist Party newspaper -who prepared the ground, repeatedly referring to the ban as “un-American” and “the crime of the big leagues.” And from that introduction Epstein brings us a part of civil rights history few know or remember because, he believes, Rodney was a communist shunned not only by some of his fellow journalists, but also Robinson who was anti-communist. Nevertheless Rodney’s relentless columns excoriating baseball owners to integrate, publishing complimentary quotes about African American ballplayers from MLB players such as Joe DiMaggio, and which were published in black weeklies kept the spotlight on baseball’s racial disparities. Now 94, Rodney adds to his list of honors an induction into the Shrine of the Eternals, MLB’s alternative Hall of Fame, where he joins other baseball notables as Curt Flood, whose lawsuit challenging baseball’s reserve clause set the stage for today’s free agency. David Robinson was a Stanford student and a Harlem home builder. Now he is a coffee grower on his Tanzanian farm in Africa. And he will always be, Duke points out, not David Robinson, the former NBA star, but David Robinson, son of the former MLB star, Jackie Robinson. Which helps to explain how he became an activist of African American and Africa ideals, to lift ‘the race, as folks used to say in his father’s day,’ and followed those ideals back to his roots after his brother Jackie Jr., “addicted to heroin while serving in Vietnam, ... died in an automobile accident, while driving David’s car” in 1971. As part of the cooperative Mshikamano Farmers Group, Robinson is the groups’ marketing manager, and has placed their coffees in Atlanta and New York. Selecting a wife from the Wanyamwezi tribe, Robinson has been married for 15 years, and sired seven children. More importantly, he uses the family name to forge ties between two countries of people divided by slavery but still with perseverance to move on. Click Ad to Shop 7 BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005] blackberryspeak.com Art & Entertainment Music 1951-2005 Luther Rapper ‘Lil Kim, who wore more clothing to court in one outfit than she ever did in all her concert perThat voice formances ... together, is sentenced will never to 366 days in prison and fined $50,000 for lying to a grand jury investing a shooting outside be silent. New York’s Hot 97. Despite the public humiliation of Pamela Anderson when her private sex video was released, rapper Eve, like Paris Hilton before, learned nada, as her sex MP3’s of complete cuts video with her then boyfriend of two years and a ‘sexual toy’ from 10 of Luther’s albums hit the Internet, before she objected, so was then offered to the Star. R. Kelly, who has had his own sexual woes, takes heat to a Fahrenheit level with TP.3 Reloaded’s five-part serial drama Trapped in the Closet, a soap opera drama of the ricochet effect of infidelity that is riveting and butt funny, sometimes at the same time. And Bobby Brown, whose wife Whitney Houston let’s us know they have a very active sex life, which is good since they want another baby, gives Bravo their largest series debut numbers ever, with his reality show “Being Bobby Brown.” Even Miss Cleo couldn’t have foreseen that. In a week where the news was dominated by Live 8 and G 8 African aid, and terrorists bombing London, for the black music scene, the selling, being, and engaging in sex was #1 box office, as evidenced when a quick survey of 9 people proved only 2 knew a mistrial was declared in the Notorious Big civil trial. For those without ‘know’ the civil trial judge found the respondent (the city of L.A. via the LAPD) intentionally withheld critical evidence from the plaintiffs, the Wallace family, which is a big ‘no no.’ It’s also a no no if some other 2005 musical gems go unnoticed. Jazz: Sunshine Man, by Roy Ayers. He dominated the musical scene in the 70’s with ‘Everybody Loves the Sunshine,’ and that is the first cut on Ayer’s latest album. Smooth, mellow, with a Courvoisier voice, every cut r e minds you there is ‘gold in ‘dem ‘dar hills.’ Blues: Give Me Time, by Eddie Shaw She looks like Whoopie which explains why ‘keeps it down home and real’ with songs like “Bull Shit Blues,” Your Love,” and “Try Me One More Time.” Her voice is raw and most acoustically pleasing, but the sincerity and pain she conveys note makes this CD a pleasing post escapade after a long Satur- S h a w “I Need not the with each day night. Spoken Word: WDIA: History, The Music, The Legend The first black radio station in the US, located in Memphis, TN, this CD is the ‘Goodwill Station’s’ historical compilation of black life from the late ‘40’s. Includes Rufus Thomas - Pink Pussy Cat Wine, Honey Boy Thomas - MLK Poem, and Lynn White - Cheatin’ in the Next Room, along with show jingles R&B: The Message, Grandmaster Flash, “Don’t push me, cause I’m close to the edge. I’m trying not to loose my head. It’s like a jungle sometimes, it makes me wonder, How I keep from going under” ... was Grandmaster Flash’s “The Message.” That song, along with “It’s Nasty,” “Scorpio,” and four other cuts, reminds us why some folks will never go out of style. BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [ Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005 ] blackberryspeak.com 8 Art & Entertainment Film & Theater The Color of Money: No Longer Black and White New York Times While television makes breakthroughs with gay TV, the New York Times notes African American progress in Hollywood. No, there is still discrimination and opportunities closed to African Americans, but, said John Ridley, an African-American filmmaker who is writing and producing a “Barbershop” television series for Showtime Networks to the Times, “People look at Hollywood and say, ‘I wish it was changing here or there.’ But if I’d come in the business 10 years earlier, I wouldn’t be where I am today.” And where we are this month - 20th Century Fox’s “Fanatastic Four,” which took the top box office spot its debut weekend, was directed by African American Tim Story (“Barbershop), and white director Craig Brewer directs “Hustle & Flow,” a hip-hop inspired picture from Paramount Classics and MTV Films, featuring a largely black cast and Terrence Howard portraying a sympathetic pimp who wants to be a rapper. The road hasn’t been easy (Hollywood actually wanted to change Howard’s character to something more politically correct, like a postman) and “none of the big hits anchored by African-Americans this year were carried by women.” But marketing the film characters’ similarities to an ethnically diverse audience has shown ‘the money’ to Hollywood, and given common ground to us all. Television Gay is Red for some, but definitely Green for others The 2004 reelection of George Bush, Jr. as president was strongly propelled by ‘Red’ states proclaiming no to same-sex marriages, and over a dozen passing statutes prohibiting such. For some, it was a referendum backlash against that promiscuous card carrying ACLU liberals in Hollywood. Well, Red states, Hollywood got your message and further surmised since the election was oh so close, and the vitriol oh so high, ‘why, mixing this red and blue produces some serious green.’ Meet LOGO and “The Herndon Davis Reports.” LOGO is the newest cable channel from MTV Networks. Planned with more than 200 lesbian and gay films, an ongoing documentary series, newscasts tailored for a gay and 9 lesbian audience, and quality original shows and specials, LOGO is dedicated to a positive and honest reflection of gay America, and can appeal to and inform all lifestyles. Programming includes Round Trip Ticket - a globe-trotting travel magazine series that ditches the usual sites and well-worn paths to seek out entertaining and little-known alternatives. Paragraph 175 addresses an often overlooked consequence of the Nazi regime and documents the resilient and unspeakably cruel stories of the few remaining gay survivors of the holocaust, while the movie Flawless, starring Robert DeNiro, tells the story of tolerance and acceptance through Walt Koontz (Robert DeNiro), a bitter, homophobic security guard who after suffering a paralyzing stroke, receives singing lessons from his drag queen neighbor Rusty (Philip Seymour Hoffman) for singing lessons. The Herndon Davis Reports, hosted by its creator and namesake, is a one-hour long, black gay/lesbian BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005] focused, empowerment news program. A cross between the Chris Matthews Show (MSNBC) and the Oprah Winfrey Show, this new nationally syndicated show aggressively tackles a variety of socioe c o nomic a n d political issues impacting the gay/lesbian community, but from a distinctly black gay/lesbian affirming perspective. Herndon Davis, is a black and openly gay author and lecturer. In 2004, he self-published the spiritual empowerment book, Black, Gay & Christian, which challenged the status quo of homophobia within the black church as well as its scriptural interpretation of biblical text surrounding homosexuality. HDR broadcasts on DirecTV channel 227 and Comcast Cable TV101 in Southern California. blackberryspeak.com Art & Entertainment Books 1992: ‘We Did Get Along, ... and Very very Well’ by A. Renee’ West Okay, so it was the summer of the Rodney King riots, something of which I don’t make light since I lived in L.A.. But the surrealness of watching familiar buildings burn, including my law office, while Muslims sold bean pies on Crenshaw as the National Guard sat on tanks with their fingers on the trigger, was also combined with an unlikely ‘is this really happening’ ‘dag, Black women got it going on’ ‘it’s finally being recognized that we can read’ event - three novels written by black women were in the top 10 books Los Angelenos couldn’t get enough. Terry McMillan’s “Waiting to Exhale” was #1, Alice Walker’s “Possessing the Secret of Joy” was #6, and Toni Morrison’s “Jazz” came in at #8. I personally read all 3, although two I couldn’t get past page 3. Now, all 3 of these women, plus two of our other premier female African American writers, have must read summer fare. The Interruption of Everything, Terry McMillan (Viking Adult) McMillan has proven lately that her books are her life. The Interruption of Everything, may prove more fortuitous than McMillan knew. Marilyn Grimes, forty-four, wife and mother of three, has made a career of deferring her dreams to build a suburban California home and lifestyle with her workaholic husband, Leon. She also troubleshoots for her grown kids, cares for her livein mother-in-law (and elderly poo- dle, Snuffy), keeps tabs on her girlfriends Paulette and Bunny and her own aging mother and foster sister— and holds down a part- time job. Now with nothing to feed her passion and too too much on her plate, she’s ready to jump. She’s just not sure where, but in the end proves the detour is the path and living life “by the numbers” never quite adds up. 72 Hour Hold, Bebe Moore C a m p b e l l (Knopf Publishing Group) Keri Whitmore’s daughter is bipolar and getting worse. No longer is Trini the bright and beautiful young girl she once was, but there is hope. As Trini turns 18 she begins a successful, albeit shortterm, new treatment. Campbell guides us through the stigmas of mental illness in the black community, the challenges of dealing with the medical and insurance systems, and the 72 hour involuntary hold a facility can do, while introducing us to characters like her ex-husband, who can’t handle Trina’s illness. Babylon Sisters, Pearl Cleage (Ballantine Books, Inc.) Catherine Sanderson has it all: a fulfilling career, the home, and Phoebe, a beautiful, intelligent daughter on her way to Smith College who is old enough to ask ‘who’s this baby’s daddy.’ And not untypical, her father, B.J. Johnson, a renowned newspaper correspondent - the only man Catherine has ever loved - doesn’t even know about Phoebe. Back from Africa, though, he seeks Catherine’s help in cracking a story about a female slavery ring operating right on the streets of Atlanta. Add Miss Mandeville, a housekeeper turned tycoon, and her slick trick sidekick Sam, who want Catherine to staff her housekeeping business, but seem way too interested in Catherine’s connection to B.J., and a could have been trite novel turns explosive. Playing My Mother’s Blues, Valerie Wilson Wesley (HarperCollins Publishers) Dani Carter was seven, her sister, Rose, seventeen, when their mother Maria abandoned her family for a tragic ending love affair. Decades later, while her sister Rose pretends their mother didn’t exist, and her father paints her as the Devil, Dani uses an affair to emotionally escape her loveless marriage, which propels her to ask - exactly who was her mother? Finding Maria, now calling herself Mariah, answers some questions, but raises many more as Dani seeks to know what could possibly drive a mother to sacrifice what was dearest to her heart. Can’t Get Enough, Connie Briscoe (Doubleday & Company, Incorporated) The sequel to Briscoe’s P.G. County, Barbara Bentley, the grand dame of P.G. County, tentatively abandons the alcohol that served to soften the edges of her marriage to her bimbo-loving millionaire husband, Bradford. Sober a year, a part-time job as a real estate agent and the unexpected attentions of a handsome young colleague have done wonders for her ego. Meanwhile Jolene, Bradford’s ambitious, conniving ex-mistress, can’t get him to comment, after Jolene’s husband Patrick leaves her for Pearl. Did we mention African princess Candice has an unstable lover? BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [ Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005 ] blackberryspeak.com 10 Health & Body Headlines * Black Heart Drug Outpriced for Market. BiDil, NitroMed’s new heart drug for blacks, will sell for $1.80 a pill, a price much higher than analysts had expected and nearly double the cost of other heart-failure drugs which are not race related. For those with no prescription drug coverage, BiDil will be available for $25 a month, while poor patients without drug coverage will get the drug free. Not good enough, says some black physicians and medical groups which supported the drug’s approval by the FDA. Since a doctor must send in forms to qualify a patient for a free or low cost, too many may fall within that insurance quagmire of ‘slow approval’ or ‘under evaluation.’ Since BiDil is a combination of two generic drugs which costs under 25 cents a day, some heart specialists have indicated they will experiment with higher and lower doses or split generic pills to achieve similar results. New York Times * Cash Crunch Threatens Federal Children’s Insurance. According to the Congressional Research Service, depending on whether demand is low or high, six to 14 states will use up their share of federal money for the State Children’s Health Insurance Program which covers poor children during the 2006 budget year and 12 to 20 during 2007. Sen. Ted Kennedy, D-MA will sponsor a bill to add the allocated, but unspent, $1 billion which reverted back to the treasury on Sept. 30. USA Today People & Nonprofits Retirees and Baby Boomers Want to Give Back Seattle Times F ew question the excellent qualifications new NAACP Volunteerism has been an integral part of this country’s success. Teenagers are Candy Stripers. Adults become student mentors, and retirees use SCORE to pass on entrepreneurship greatness. With 76 million babies born between 1946 and 1964, the Civic Ventures of San Francisco and The MetLife Foundation — researchers from Princeton Survey Research Associates International, surveyed 1000 ethnically diverse baby boomers (BB’s). 1 . BB’s will not end their work life just because the workforce says they’re ‘age undesirable.’ However, most plan to work in fields different from their careers and do “work that improves their communities and gives their lives more purpose.” 2 . More women than men (50 percent to 28 percent) want the opportunity to help people in need; 70 percent of women said it’s very important that their job in retirement provide a sense of purpose (compared to 48 percent of men). 3 4 . African Americans are more altruistic than whites (63 to 47%) . BB’s aren’t all work and no fun. Over 50% want time for relaxation, travel and grandchildren and expect their workplace to accommodate flexibility. * Nigerians have sickle cell. In the throes of an HIV/AIDS epidemic, the Sickle Cell Foundation of Nigeria says its disease must be added to the country’s list of health threats. About 30 million Nigerians are carriers of sickle cell disease, while 2.4 million suffer from the disease. Yahoo News * Domestic NGO’s get new AIDS restrictions. Any organization operating overseas must now sign a pledge opposing sex trafficking and prostitution in order to receive federal funds. Although passed by a bipartisan Congress, some groups feel the legislation will negatively affect the trust they’ve set up with certain patients and thus defeat their success. Others fear funding will be cut off if foreign organizations with which they work do not agree to the pledge. CNN Florida Court upholds 11 BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005] blackberryspeak.com Travel “We sPEAK ...” In Search of Family Welcome to Montreal by Ann Brown by Jane Rag- land Fifth of a Six Part Series George Walton! George Walton! I reopened my telep h o n e Sevilla Lowe-Brown Merritt Cyrus book immediately, to search for Philly Waltons, and there it was – a George Walton resided in West Philly. In February 1994 we were in the midst of a blizzard, so I knew he had to be home. I called the number listed, praying silently it was a good number. He answered the phone and my mouth went dry. I introduced myself, telling him quickly that I wasn’t selling anything, just checking my genealogy, and asking him to bear with me for a few minutes. Anxious, I gave him the information I had acquired, then waited. He laughed. Then he said, “Yes, I’m your mother’s cousin George”. Oh my! He knew my mother well and was saddened to hear she was no longer with us. He told me all of my Aunt’s and Uncle’s names, verifying the facts I’d already collected. Jane Ragland Then, much to my delight, he gave me Cousin Frances’ number. He said I had to call her because ‘she knew everything about everybody.’ After saying goodbye to George I quickly dialed France’s number. We were in a blizzard remember! I was giving her something to do! My excitement levels had gone through the roof, so when Frances answered the phone I blurted everything out. To my delight, she was a wonderfully friendly, agreeable, knowledgeable person! She answered every question I had. She told me the names of our Great-great grandparents, maternal and paternal. We talked for hours. (Still do). Next Week – ‘Success’ Jane Ragland is Secretary to her large family, maintaining their bond through emails, letters and a family Web site; http://mybrownfamilywebsite.com, which she created and maintains. In her professional life, Jane is a new author, and creates personalized portrait sculptures, busts and masks from pictures of her clients using mixed media. raglandjs@msn.com It wasn’t my first visit to Montreal, but it was turning out to be the strangest. At Doval (or Pierre Elliott Trudeau International) Airport, my boyfriend and I step into an elevator and see scrawled on the door “Filthy Arabs Go Home.” I try to wipe it off but can’t. I ink over it. After hopping a bus and then the Metro into the Latin Quarter, Montreal’s Greenwich Village, it’s still too early to check into our hotel so we foot it to the main drag (St. Catherine St.) to sightsee and get food. Two policemen stop us and ask for ID. There’s been a luggage theft and we look suspicious - since it was so early in the morning. “Suspicious?” I ask. “You’re lucky,” was the response: “I am speaking in English. I could address you in French.” We prove our innocence. Finding a 24-hour McDonalds we take a booth. In the next booth we see a man shoot up drugs in full view of the staff and diners. Oh yeah, Montreal has a needle exchange program. But this is a bit much. Disgusted, we leave and try the mall across the street that is just opening. Eureka, breakfast, a table, and calm. Until a restaurant worker starts cleaning our table -- while we’re eating. When my boyfriend tells him to stop, he says something in French and storms off. A few seconds later the manager comes over. According to him we have either called the worker a “terrorist” or he called us one. Okay, 9-11 was four years ago, and my French is terrible, but I was speaking English, that ain’t that bad. I can’t speak for the restaurant worker. By the time we can check into our hotel, I’m ready go home. Luckily, the Four Points by Sheraton Montreal Centre-Ville wants us to try its new Sheraton Sweet Sleeper Bed, with a custom-designed top mattress with super soft bedding, and feather down and hypoallergenic pillows. I am too too tired so I don’t protest. Anyway, there’s always hope that things will look better when I wake up on another side of this comfy bed. Tip: Looking for a Montreal hotel away from the fracas? Stay at the quaint 48-room boutique Hotel Place D’Armes in Old Montreal, which gives you your own personalized business cards with the direct phone number to your room. You also get complimentary java, cappuccino and espresso any time, BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [ Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005 ] blackberryspeak.com 12 The Intimate You W the idaberry commentary ait, Just Whisper in My Ear: Ying Yang is Bang Bang Place the scene wherever you like to get it on or where you want to get it on (remember, some public displays of affection hold danger) ... and you’re left with 30 lines of, exhale, hot searing heat. The lyrics to the Ying Yang Twins song “Wait (The Whisper) are emailed to me at least five times a week. That is four more than the Michael Jackson jokes and five less than ‘Did you see Destiny’s Child’s BET Awards lap dance?’ And like with most hip hop songs, I’ll admit, until I saw the lyrics, I heard but did not heed the words. I’ll also admit, like with most hip hop songs, I could have been satisfied the rest of my life if I’d never seen the words. But it is a hot topic of conversation. My girlfriends cannot wait to tell me how disgusting the song is. ‘If a man came up on me talking like that, he’d never get some, let alone any.” My male friends quickly let me know they think the song is disgusting too ... while their tone feels me out to know, ‘Do I really think it’s disgusting? Am I a gamer? Just how freaky do you be woman? And since I got into an interesting discussion with a close male friend who seemed to doubt the sincerity of my take on the song, let me put pen to paper to hold me accountable for my words. To my girlfriends, y’all need to stop lying. To my male friends, let me give you some truth. Men want a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed. Women want a man in the streets and a freaky lover who loves them in the bed. So no, overall ‘The Whisper Song’ does not bother me. Yes, the words are pathetically tired and crass, but work them with me ... ... Replace either of the twins, Lord knows we have to do that, or the image of that one jeri curl Negro that’s always in the club, with the object of your desire. If you don’t have a man in or coming in your life, Taye Diggs or LL will suffice. Drop the repetitive need of the man to display the ‘brilliance’ of his 2nd brain, although I’m inclined to believe anyone who does this not only has one brain, or none, what he does have probably isn’t worth a play, splay, or display. Drop all references to thumbs, bats, and cats, of any form. 13 Women like heat. Men like women unabashedly unafraid of the power of that heat. “Hey how you doin lil mama? lemme whisper in your ear Tell you sumthing that you might like to hear You got a sexy ass body and your ass look soft Mind if i touch it? and see if its soft” ... he says to you as his lips slowly nuzzle the soft curves of your neck. “Naw i’m jus playin’ lets just say i can i’m known to be a real nasty A n d man And they say a closed mouth don’t get fed So i don’t mind asking for your head” ... he shyly says, more a question than a sureness of fact. In his eyes you see the twinkle he gets at the mere sight of you. A sly smile plays over his face as the tip of his tongue plays peek a boo across his lips. “we need to make our way to the bed” ... and the kitchen counter, and the couch, and the stairs, you think, as he majestically finishes out the song’s lyrics. Now tell me that visualization is not hot, and loud. Of course, not every hip hop song can be reduced so eloquently. Sweat dropping off the balls. Sorry, it doesn’t work for me. Maybe because, contrary to what some may think, I truly don’t have any balls, brass, plastic, or otherwise. But what I do have, like most of us, when truth is told, is imagination, which when coupled with hip hop like this gets the ‘creative’ juices flowing. Exhale. Hip hop has a deserved rap for the misogynation of women. But before we throw the baby out with the bath water because baby talks trash, let’s honestly lay out our honesty with ourselves, and each other. Who knows, we just might find it brings us mutual satisfaction. BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005] blackberryspeak.com S napped!! There’s a show on Oxygen called ‘Snapped’ about women who kill their husbands. I’ve only watched it a few times and am not particularly fond of it, but I have to say if I had been on the jury for Betty Broderick or Clara Harris, the jury, not them, would have been hung, although not literally. And before you snap, know that I am not advocating for anyone to break the law, or not be punished if they do. Just know that since extenuating circumstances are taken into account in the sentencing phase, we must recognize that sometimes a sister (they’re not Sistahs!) is pushed to do, what a sister needs to do. In these two cases, these women were pushed off a cliff … without a parachute. Take Betty. She waited tables to put her husband through law school. As he established his practice, she played the dutiful, supportive wife. When he became successful, she continued to put his needs first. When he decided to dump her he not only tried to hide their assets and leave her broke, he flaunted his new young chickie as he lived high on the hog. Betty Broderick shot her ex and his new wife while they were sleeping. In Clara Harris’ case her husband’s mistress was her, not his, employee. Yes ladies, Clara was literally paying a woman to screw her husband. Dag. And when she caught them coming out of a hotel room holding hands, her husband played her. Shooed her away like she was a stray dog. Clara Harris ran over her husband not once, not twice, but three times. Right now a woman somewhere is reading this and nodding, ‘Uh huh.’ Being screwed in and of itself isn’t enough to justify a woman going Lorena Bobbitt. And with the shortage of available brothers, women, let’s not kill men ‘just cause they pissed us off.’ But brothers, be clear. Add some extenuating circumstances and we will snap! So, the next time you hear a woman has swung a bat in her sleep or mistaken the accelerator for the brake, think long and hard how you would feel once you hear her circumstances ... Snap. Snap, snap. Snap, snap. Cheryl A. Rainey is an Entrepreneur, Motivational Speaker and Life Coach speakercoach@sbcglobal.net Life Enrichment A H A from erica I haven’t been feeling good physically [I’ve had horrible stomach aches and...um...other stuff but I’ll spare you the details] but mentally I’m doing great. I go through these phases...this cycle. Last week was depressed, blah, self-pity, self-loathing, gloomy, sour, despondent, and on and on. Not a pretty sight. This week is cheery, motivated, productive, confident, positive, generous, loving, self-assured and you get the picture. Such extremes. Up and down and up and down. I have this cute little book from Urban Outfitters [love that store!] called “How to Be Happy, Dammit: A Cynic’s Guide to Spiritual Happiness”. I came across page 28 and had what Oprah would call an “aha!” moment. There are two pictures. One of a little embroidered bear and then on the opposite page is the back of the embroidery with all the thread criss-crossing and dangling everywhere. It says “ Life may be compared to a piece of embroidery of which, during half of our time, we get a sight of the right side, and during the other half, the wrong. The wrong side is not as pretty...but it is more instructive; it shows the way in which the threads have been worked together to make the pattern.” So every few weeks I am just looking at the wrong side for a while. Everything looks ugly and flawed and chaotic and I don’t like it. But during that time is when I question myself and really analyze what I’m doing with my life. I just don’t do that in the most productive way. I get really down on myself. But those are the times when I drive home in the dark and just think and think and think and think. Those are the times I crawl inside myself and forget about the world and try to figure me out. Then I crawl back out and look at the right side. The side where things make more sense. The side that is pretty and enjoyable. The side where I take notice of the world and try to find my place in it. The time when I do yoga and clean and organize and read self help books and inspirational quotes. The time when I try to do nice things for people and motivate myself to be a better person. I get a little burst of energy...of life. I guess swinging back and forth isn’t so bad. It’s a good balance maybe. Not quite Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde but I am the devil and the angel sitting on my own shoulders. One week I am doubting myself and kicking myself and the next week I am patting myself on the back and thinking, “go me!”. Maybe it’s not exactly stable but it keeps me in check in a way. I’m blessed that I have a patient and loving husband even though I know I must drive him crazy sometimes. I have a lot to be thankful for and sometimes I forget that. There are so many trivial things that I get wrapped up in when I’m “looking at the wrong side” and I’m trying to figure out a way to reduce the negative crap. Because really there are only a handful of things that are GENUINELY important in my life and I don’t want to lose sight of them. BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [ Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005 ] blackberryspeak.com 14 Life Enrichment Living by Ronique I woke up this morning feeling rather good. When I opened my eyes there appeared white cotton fluffs scattered in the sky....................There standing tall, brown trunks with stems branching to form a Green Giant. ................................. I started to think about my life.................. Those moments I laughed, cried, became angry, scared, and lost touch with reality. ...........How about the day I danced on the dance floor and everybody watched as I popped, dropped, and shook. .................. Or, the moment I told someone I hated him or her and became angry at the world.................................... The past moments I lost a loved one or received a punch from someone’s fist, or words. Or, the day I felt pretty because I really looked in the mirror....................................What about the past times I was too nervous to face mankind. How about the day I had a boost of confidence because I realized my capabilities...............Beauty lemonade woman.....my mom comforted me when I was sad. And, dad oh daddies’ little girl, who else did I get my workaholic tendencies from...................... When I needed someone to talk to besides my parents, I can’t forget that person who opened their ear to listen to me go overboard and exaggerate about life problems. ..................Can forget those college days. Too much fast food and partying. The first time I received my new car. ............. No more catching the bus for me ......... What about the moments I regret........................I should have not performed that act. Life Wisdoms... This one thing we know is true ... - there is always someone willing to rain on your parade, as they stand under your umbrella. Kick ‘em to the curb. While I know myself as a creation of God, I am also obligated to realize and remember that everyone else and everything else are also God’s creation. Maya Angelou I don’t believe that life is supposed to make you feel good, or to make you feel miserable either. Life is just supposed to make you feel. Gloria Naylor One of the nicest realizations that I’ve come to over the past two years is that I’m finally learning to love all my selves. Wista Johnson, editor Remembering the past fills me with memories that gave me strength, wisdom, and perseverance to progress in life. The past has made me who I am ... today. I can not change it. I learn from it. To handle with care the new situations that come my way. So today I let go of past grudges, anger, vengeance, sadness, and troubles. Today I grow a little bit more. Today I come more into my full being where light becomes brighter and doubt becomes belief. Today I forgive myself. Today I notice how life takes you through stagnate stages but near the end of the road it all comes together. Today I know I will one day look back on and say I am glad I went, did, and done. Went on with my life. Did some positive changing in my life. Was done with the past. These random thoughts are brought to you by: “Tired of being down on myself.” 15 BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005] Yes! Yes! Yes! Not every friendship is for a lifetime. Some are for reasons, while others last a season. Do not be afraid to recognize a friendship for what it is, and move on. blackberryspeak.com Spirituality “A History of God: The 4000 Year Quest for Judaism, Christianity and Islam” by Karen Armstrong As soon as they became recognizably human, men and women - in their hunger to understand their own presence on earth and the mysteries within and around them - began to worship gods. Karen Armstrong’s masterly and illuminating book explores the ways in which the idea and experience of God evolved among the monotheists - Jews, Christians and Muslims. Weaving a multicolored fabric of historical, philosophical, intellectual and social developments and insights, Armstrong shows how, at various times through the centuries, each of the monotheistic religions has held a subtly different concept of God. At the same time she draws our attention to the basic and profound similarities among them, making it clear that in all of them God has been and is experienced intensely, passionately and often - especially in the West - traumatically. Some monotheists have seen darkness, desolation and terror, where others have seen light and transfiguration; the reasons for these inherent differences are examined, and the people behind them are brought to life. We look first at the gradual move away from the pagan gods to the full-fledged monotheism of the Jews during the exile in Babylon. Next considered is the development of parallel, yet different, perceptions and beliefs among Christians and Muslims. The book then moves “generationally” through time to examine the God of the philosophers and mystics in all three traditions, the God of the Reformation, the God of the Enlightenment and finally the nineteenth- and twentieth-century challenges of skeptics and atheists, as well as the fiercely reductive faith of the fundamentalists of our own day. Armstrong suggests that any particular idea of God must - if it is to survive - work for the people who develop it, and that ideas of God change when they cease to be effective. She argues that the concept of a personal God who behaves like a larger version of ourselves was suited to mankind at a certain stage but no longer works for an increasing number of believers. Prayer for Grace There is no one, O my Lord, who can deal bountifully with me to whom I can turn my face, and none who can have compassion on me that I may crave his mercy. Cast me not out, I implore Thee, of the presence of Thy grace, neither do Thou withhold from me the outpourings of Thy generosity and bounty. Ordain for me, O my Lord, what Thou hast ordained for them that love Thee, and write down for me what Thou hast written down for Thy chosen ones. My gaze hath, at all times, been fixed on the horizon of Thy gracious providence, and mine eyes bent upon the court of Thy tender mercies. Do with me as beseemeth Thee. No God is there but Thee, the God of power, the God of glory, Whose help is implored by all men. - Baha’i The Strength of Brokenness by Os Hillman The bows of the warriors are broken, but those who stumbled are armed with strength. ~ 1 Samuel 2:4 There is an oxymoron throughout the Bible. It says that brokenness is strength. How can this be? How can brokenness be strength? In order to use men and women to their fullest extent, the Lord has to break His servants so that they might have a new kind of strength that is not human in origin. It is strength in spirit that is born only through brokenness. Paul was broken on the Damascus road. Peter was broken after Jesus was taken prisoner. Jacob was broken at Peniel. David was broken after his sin with Bathsheba. The list could go on of those the Lord had to break in different ways before they could be used in the Kingdom. When we are broken, we see the frailty of human strength and come to grips with the reality that we can do nothing in our own strength. Then, new strength emerges that God uses mightily. God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble. Do not fear brokenness, for it may be the missing ingredient to a life that emerges with a new kind of strength and experience not known before. Pray for a broken and contrite heart that God can bless. Excerpted with permission from the book TGIF Today God Is First, by Os Hillman, copyright 2003, Reprinted by permission. For free daily email subscription to TGIF Today God Is First , visit www.todaygodisfirst.com or www.marketplaceleaders.org BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [ Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005 ] blackberryspeak.com 16 Religious News Merryl Wyn Davies, Sunday Herald Islam is a religion of peace... But how do we convince you? “After each atrocity, the Muslim community holds it breath and waits for the backlash,” says Davies. Terrorism is associated with Muslims. All Muslims. Worse, after each atrocity, society expects Muslims to condemn the acts of the extremists, as if, says Davies, any natural human reaction would not be condemnation. Muslims are peaceful and tolerant and Davies provides historical examples. She also points out that Muslims must take responsibility for ensuring Islam shows it is a peaceful and tolerant religion. “There is little point endlessly complaining about how misunderstood we are when by sheer thoughtlessness some of the good and decent people talk and behave in ways that confirm the very prejudices and stereotypes we object to... the traditional language of religion we use and the way we operate invokes images of war and defiance, emphasizes exclusivity, and prejudicially stereotypes nonMuslims. A mark, Davis wisely points out, that is not exclusive to Islam. All religions must acknowledge that invoketion of words like soldier and ‘marching to war’ although meant to move us to a path of peace, are also words terrorists invoke for their own brutal ends. Davies concludes that terrorists will not win when Muslims choose that they won’t, and make the rest of the world listen. Religions Working together Against Terror and Violence After 9-11 at the request of the United Nations, the World Conference on Religion and Peace invited two people from each country in the world and representatives of each religion to participate in a symposium to consider the responses religions can make to rejecting terrorism and promoting peace with justice. A synopsis of observations made by Gary D. Bouma. How many do we fit? 1. Each religion at its core promotes love, compassion and universal justice not only for its own adherents but for the whole world. 2. Each religion contains elements who do not promote love, compassion and universal justice but rather exclusiveness, hatred and distrust of those with whom they disagree and the use of coercion and violence to influence the world or change it according to their vision. These elements may promote themselves as being the purest form of their respective religions. Their views however are not consistent with those of the founders of their religion, nor a careful reading of their Scriptures. 3. Religiously legitimated anger, hatred and violence often arise from social and economic injustice and frustration with persistent and growing injustice. 4. The call for religions to promote ‘universal’ values is a promotion of the values found in the core of each religion, not the religion itself. 5. When wounded by terrorism or warfare, ultimately the only way forward is to forgive and find ways to live together in peace, even though it is extremely hard for the wounded to hear. You cannot wash out blood with blood, eventually you must make peace with your enemies. 6. Key observations about religion and dialogue: a. All religious traditions are dynamic - more like rivers than buildings. b. Each religion is complex and multi-vocal. c. Religious traditions are constantly changing in their relationships with each other. d. There is no dialogue between cultures or religions, only persons and groups. e. The aim of dialogue is not consensus, or conversion but understanding that enables relationship between those who remain different and retain their integrity. f. Dialogue will involve the voices of those who seek to understand. These may not be the loudest voices. Click Ad to Shop 17 7. Religions promote peace with ... a. Dialogue, talk, and being with each other. b. There can be no lasting settlement in the Middle East, particularly between Israel and Palestine, that does not address the religious issues involved. Jerusalem is sacred to at least the three Abrahamic religions. c. We must heal our past. There are wrongs, there is injustice. Repentance and reconciliation are key to the future. d. Groups and organizations that cut across our differences provide opportunities for us to work together while remaining different. BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005] blackberryspeak.com Color Commentary Great Columns Michael Tremoglie, FrontPageMagazine.com Racism’s Young White Victims Only blacks can be the victims of racist behavior because they do not control the institutions that were created and grown from discrimination and continue to perpetuate it to maintain their existence. Such was the thought of Marxist Herbert Marcuse. Such is the thought, according to Tremoglie, of Philadelphia’s media, police, and school district whose failure to deal with the racial harassment of two white students, Justin and Destiny, by black students propelled their mother, Shannon Berthiaume, to ram her minivan into the school’s front door. At this point she got the system’s attention - she was arrested and lost custody of her kids. Tremoglie opines if the ethnicity had been reversed, the school district would have done more than offer the students and transfer. The story would have been a front page serial for the city’s papers. And the police would have had no need to arrest Mrs. Berthiaume. As support for his argument Tremoglie points out that a few years ago, the city was all over the white mother who acted as a lookout while her neighbors vandalized the home of their new black neighbors. Tremoglie concludes that, “It is ironic that the very kids she was trying to protect, from being victims of racial hate crimes, are now in the custody of the same Philadelphia city officials who did nothing to protect them from racial hatred.” Anthony Asadullah Samad, Black Commentator Knowing The Difference Between A Conscious Black, A Negro and A Ni**a: Our Progress Depends On It “How is it that we can have so many Blacks doing well, yet have communities that are not progressing?” Because we don’t recognize who we are, and what many of us do, to counteract progress,” says Samad, and that’s why we have conscious blacks, Negroes, and ni**as. Conscious blacks make conscious choices about their behavior because they “understand that personal respect is tied to how others perceive the race.” Negroes so disconnect from being black they are only who society tells them they are. Ni**gas exploit their circumstances to ‘keep it real’ with the end result being an unreality as it perpetuates negative stereotypes of blacks. Samad concludes that until there are more conscious blacks acting in the best interest of the black community than there are Negroes or Ni**gas, the black community will continue to take regressive, and not progressive, steps. David Person, Huntsville Times Even today, civility counts “F the president,” said a bumper sticker, and Person concludes this crosses a line way past just a division of political parties or liberals and conservatives. And Person knows from whence he speaks. In his 19 years in the media, he admits he’s said a few uncivil things he wishes he could take back. He’s also been involved in some very animated debates, but the right to disagree does not give anyone carte blanche to be uncivil, or in the case of the bumper sticker, “give the ultimate diss to another human being while disparaging the most important office in our country and even the world.” Liberal leaning Person shares that during his four years on-air with conservative Brent Woodall they rarely agreed on the issues, but they did listen and respect each other’s right to their opinion. This is civility. And this civility has allowed them to this day to continue to listen and share even though they no longer live in the same city or work in the same booth. And that’s Person’s fear, the lack of civility shown by liberals and conservatives as they draw their lines in the sand will make it all the more difficult for us to “live together and make our nation work.” BlackBerrySpeak Urban News Magazine, Issue 84 [ Wednesday, July 13 - 19, 2005 ] blackberryspeak.com 18