Body fix the wrong answer for teens
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Body fix the wrong answer for teens
Scribblings June 08 From the Editors Dear Supporters, Good to be in touch with you all again - and a special welcome to all our new subscribers. In this issue: WFA in the Media Events Submissions Shame File Action Wins! News Briefs Submissions Recommended Reading Quotable Quotes Hmmm From You! Donate WFA in the Media Singer Marcia Hines has the pleasure of meeting WFA supporter Emma Palandri at the Women’s Showcase in Perth, at which WFA had an exhibition booth in March. Women’s Forum Australia The last three months have been a rollercoaster ride filled with events, submissions, media, grassroots campaigning against advertising which demeans women and children (and even having some wins!) and work on our next two research papers (pornography, work/family balance). www.womensforumaustralia.org We are pleased to announce that we found ‘the woman for the job’. Misty de Vries took up the position of Chief Operating Officer this month. Previously our ACT coordinator, Misty has a Misty de Vries background in finance, IT, and administration, and we welcome her enthusiasm and commitment to WFA. Melinda Tankard Reist & Katrina George Body fix the wrong answer for teens Melinda Tankard Reist Sydney Morning Herald, May 9, 2008 they have a problem with? A study published late last year found one in four 12-year-old Australian girls expressed a desire to have plastic surgery. Between 5 and 10 per cent of young women want to look like the former Big Brother contestant Krystal Forscutt, a Queensland surgeon says. Forscutt has the bowling ball look favoured “I can’t see any reason why a child … would by readers of Zoo magazine. A recent Sunday Mail investigation found a 20 per need to expose their intimate body parts to cent increase in inquiries from teenage girls strange adults for the sake of fashion or a for plastic surgery. Botox is being pitched trend,” the Minister for Community Servto young women as a “preventative” against ices, Kevin Greene, said. wrinkles. Seventeen-year-old girls have It’s a good move. But if the Government is reportedly had the treatment in Sydney. serious about addressing the issue of body Meanwhile, a Mission Australia national modification in young people, it needs to survey of 29,000 young people aged 11 to demonstrate it doesn’t think fake breasts, 24 found body image their most important celebrity-style noses or nerve-paralysing issue. A study last year found one in five poison injections are a good idea for young girls aged 12 and 13 regularly used fasting people, either. and vomiting to lose weight. While Queensland will ban cosmetic proSelf-hatred has become a new rite of passage cedures for under-18s, “we’re not heading for teenage girls, fuelled by a culture which in that direction”, a spokeswoman for the idolises thin, sexy bodies. Sexualisation of NSW Health Minister, Reba Meagher, said children - the subject of a Senate inquiry recently. - also contributes. Children learn early that Why not? Which part of teenagers, boob their bodies need to be “hot” to be acceptable. jobs, and botulinum toxin injections don’t The Iemma Government has announced a ban on intimate body piercing on children and teenagers. If you’re under 16, you won’t be able to get rings and studs through your nipples or genitals and any other piercings will require parental consent. Page 1 WFA in the Media Give this ad the boot Melinda Tankard Reist, ABC Unleashed, March 7, 2008 Not rape - just boys acting up Melinda Tankard Reist, On Line Opinion, February 28, 2008 Controversial Pictures (Miley Cyrus photo shoot) TODAY, Channel Nine, May 1, 2008 Womens Forum Welcomes Changes to Advertising Code Lateline, ABC, April 17, 2008 Controversial Website (re Miss Bimbo game) TODAY, Channel 9, March 26, 2008 Sam’s boys told ‘it’s more than a game’ Real Footy (The Age Online), May 30, 2008 Women’s group welcomes Sam’s “benching” from Footy Show So governments need to take action to stop cosmetic surgery entrepreneurs cashing in on the body angst epidemic. Surely there are better uses for $10,000 than mammary enhancement. Can’t we offer girls more than an aspiration to be Miss Silicone 2008? Success in life is not to be found in liposuction and breast implants. In fact, British research has even found a disturbing connection between breast enlargement and suicide. Cosmetic surgery can mask underlying needs. A patient may need a counsellor, not a surgeon’s knife. Dr Andrew Keegan, president of the NSW branch of the Australian Medical Association - which supports a total ban - said he was worried teenagers were seeking physical solutions to what may be psychological problems. “If you’ve got low self-esteem, then you have to have your self-esteem improved - you don’t need some kind of reconfiguring,” he said. The vice-president of the Australasian College of Cosmetic Surgery, Colin Moore, said he just wondered “why the hell we need it [a ban]”. The magazine Cosmetic Surgery (all 266 pages of it) can be found in newsagents alongside women’s magazines. It’s full of swollen breasts in the “breast artistic gallery” and features on “vaginal rejuvenation”. A new book by a Florida plastic surgeon expands the market further. The My Beautiful Mummy picture book, designed for under8s, is the perfect cosmetic surgery primer. Written by Dr Michael Salzhauer - depicted in the book as a buff, square-jawed hero - it tells the story of a little girl whose mother gets re-made. Makeover mummy explains: “You see, as I got older, my body stretched and I couldn’t fit into my clothes any more. Dr Michael is going to help fix that and make me feel better.” She ends up with a flat stomach, alarmingly pert breasts, and her nose done. Her nose, she explains, will appear “different, my dear - prettier!” Maybe her little darling will want a pretty nose, too? Research shows girls are very influenced in how they view their bodies based on how their mothers feel about their own. The provision of cosmetic surgery to minors has gone unregulated for too long. Teenagers don’t need facelifts, they need heart, mind and spirit lifts. They need the opportunity to develop social and emotional resilience in an often troubling and confusing world. AAP, May 29, 2008 Sam Newman told to take break from The Footy Show Herald.com.au, May 29, 2008 No boob-jobs until 18 Sunday Times (Perth), 11 May 2008 Critics want ‘soft porn’ billboard outlawed here Girls, unprotected Melinda Tankard Reist, Mercatornet, May 8, 2008 The insertion of long-acting contraceptives into the bodies of young girls does not protect them from sexual abuse. It sets them up for greater exploitation. Footy Show boycott threat The Age, May 23, 2008 The director of... Women’s Forum Australia, Melinda Tankard Reist, said a wider boycott would have broad support. “This is definitely worth us doing,” she said. “The program has caused a great deal of hurt to a lot of women and if The Footy Show can’t respond in a proper manner, then maybe they will respond when they start losing money.” Courier Mail, April 19, 2008 Porn Again Helena Adeloju, Mercatornet, April 17, 2008 “The report takes a self-selecting sample of porn users who say porn is good for them and doesn’t give them a negative view of women. Well, they would say that. Who is checking this?” - Melinda Tankard Reist Our letter to The Footy Show’s advertisers and sponsors can be read on our website: www.womensforumaustralia.org or contact us for a copy. See also: Branding Girls for Sex Melinda Tankard Reist, On Line Opinion, May 6, 2008 Page 2 Scribblings March ‘08 The sluts-r-us approach to childhood play Melinda Tankard Reist, On Line Opinion, May 8, 2008 “What do you want to be when you grow up darling?” a mother asks her little girl. “A Bimbo!” she replies enthusiastically. Forget dreams of your precious daughter growing up to be Prime Minister or solving world poverty. Young girls are being given the message that their ultimate aim in life is to be a bimbo… Letters to the Editor (unpublished) IT IS INTERESTING to see so-called “pro-choice” commentators squirm over new movies that show unplanned pregnancy resulting in joyous birth. Perhaps Adele Horin’s article “Teen pregnancy made easy with a bit of Hollywood gloss” (SMH, 29/3/08) should have read “Teen abortion made easy with a bit of abortion propaganda.” While the movies in question may be idealistic in nature, it is possible to have your baby and have a good life. Young women can overcome adversity, make good decisions for themselves and their child and become educated. What stands in their way? Not their babies, but discrimination. A culture that in its collective abandonment of women says “You made your choice, now live with it” and even “You should have had an abortion.” “Young women can overcome adversity, make good decisions for themselves and their child and become educated. What stands in their way? Not their babies, but discrimination.” Young women – like all women - need friendship, family support, healthcare, access to resources, education and employment and protection from abusive partners. Sadly these are often lacking and that limits real choice and may ultimately lead to an abortion. Horin mentions the pressure once faced by young mothers to relinquish their child for adoption. What about babies forcibly taken from women at abortion clinics today? I had my first child when I was 16 and I remember too well the pressure to terminate. I was told by my boyfriend, friends and family to Women’s Forum Australia “get rid of it.” I went to a Family Planning clinic where a counsellor told me that my baby was a “piece of tissue” and so “why won’t you have an abortion?” She told me that my body would be ruined and that my parents were too old to look after me. She didn’t respect my choice, she did everything to undermine it. I withstood this pressure and gave birth to a healthy baby boy – he is now 12. As a 15-year-old, I was told “You’re stupid to have this baby.” Horin’s repeated suggestions that “smart” women have abortions (and dumb women have babies?) reveals how little we have progressed. WFA in the Media New regulations protect children in the media, Advertising authority moves to stop sexualisation of children ABC News, April 17, 2008 Glossy fake’s real appeal The Mercury, April 5, 2008 Talking self-esteem Wanneroo Times (WA) March 18, 2008 Self-harm epidemic Sunday Times (WA), 16 March 2008 Senate inquiry into use of sexed-up children in ads Sydney Morning Herald, March 13, 2008 Players obliged to undergo refresher course in sexual etiquette. Melinda Liszewski, Brisbane, March 31, 2008 Irish Times, March 5, 2008. WHO IS DEFINING “News” at News Limited these days? ...Melinda Tankard Reist, director of Women’s Forum Australia, asked: “What’s next: teaching men not to bash women over the head with a club and drag them into a cave by their hair?” On today’s page one banner of The Australian is the larger pointer: “NEWS RED ALERT Feathers and lace in the Latin look” featuring a model in red sparkly push up bra and feather boa. The “news” (p7) is about a “racy underwear” fashion show in Colombia complete with model in see-through negligee. An earlier “News” pointer was to a story about a “glamour makeover” for some rich bloke’s racing company, with a large photo of him surrounded by models, one pouring champagne into his mouth. The paper was stuffed full of real news today, not least being (p9) “Burma keeps US aid flights on hold”. This story also featured semi naked bodies, except they were dead. They may not have looked as sexy on the front page alert, but surely lacy bras and undies are not “News”? Melinda Tankard Reist, Canberra, May 9, 2008 Media Releases Law Reform Commission abortion report ignores the real needs of women June 1, 2008. WFA welcomes benching of Sam Newman May 29, 2008 Women’s Forum Australia launches worklife balance research following Families Week May 26, 2008 WFA welcomes end of legal action against Australia Institute May 7, 2008 PM and Opposition Leader Support Get Real Forum in Tasmania this weekend April 3, 2008 Page 3 Events Get Real! Forums Our Get Real forums in WA and Tassie in March and April were a great success. Special thanks to our local organisers in those states. Here are some pics: Get Real! event at World Youth Day The global launch of Faking it will take place at our Get Real! event at World Youth Day, Friday July 18 from 8pm-10pm at the Sydney Convention and Exhibition Centre Hall 4 Bayside Auditorium on Darling Harbour. We’d love to see you there. If you’d like to pre-register or help our Sydney organising committee, contact Erica Schuman on 0414 690 487 or email erica.schuman@womensforu maustralia.org. Shame File Dr Lucy Tatman, Coordinator of Gender Studies at the University of Tasmania, launches Faking it in Hobart Ambra Hosiery company Ambra is doing its bit for the pornification of the culture. This billboard was erected last month in a prominent advertising space in Brisbane (it’s already been up in Melbourne and Sydney). These soft-porn images of women’s semi-naked backsides demonstrate once again how little Horseland “I’ll be taking my daughters and my money elsewhere until they can present a more complex, imaginative and interesting view of your customers” - Lara Kirk You wouldn’t think a company which specialises in products for horses and riders would attract Shame File’s attention. Unfortunately it has. WFA supporter Lara Kirk from NSW has written to Horseland (April 14, 2008): respect advertisers like Ambra have for whole women. Let them know what you think. reason many mothers like myself go to the considerable effort and expense of getting our daughters involved in riding is that it gets them away from the constant pressure they’re under to conform to a shallow, narrow, hollow view of what being a girl is all about, i.e. your success and worth as a person will be determined by how sexually provocative you can learn to be. I think your advertising firm has seriously misjudged their market. They have certainly alienated me. I’ll be taking my daughters and my money elsewhere until they can present a more complex, imaginative and interesting view of your customers”. “Hi, I’m a young mother with young daughters who LOVE horses and whose favourite shop is Horseland. We won’t be going back to Horseland however while the current Dublin “FlexAppeal” advertising campaign is running [depicting young teen girl in red, pouting while flexing a riding crop as though Lara hasn’t had a response. Contact Horsepreparing for a sado-masochistic act]. The land. ING Direct And this complaint from another WFA supporter, Clivia Frieden, also from NSW (April 20, 2008): “Regarding the competition in ‘The Juice Autumn 2008’. Page 4 Julie Gale from Kids free 2b Kids in full flight at the Perth “Get Real!’ forum. While I am happy with my ING accounts, I am VERY disappointed to see your organisation contributing to and even encouraging the objectification and mutilation of women in our society by suggesting we set up accounts for cosmetic surgery and give them names such as “My new nose”. How would Scribblings March ‘08 Mr Drok (pictured at the top of Juice) feel if we took it for granted that he needed his nose or his chin reduced?” As a result, I will be looking around for another comparable account to transfer my money into. If you’re an ING account holder, you may also wish to add your views. “How would Mr Drok feel if we took it for granted that he needed his nose or his chin reduced?” Unilever: But wait, there’s more! We’ve told you before about Unilever’s disrespect for women through products which target boys, using the hyper-sexed Boom Chicka Wah Wah’s. We’ve made the point that their Dove self-esteem program for women and girls is undermined by ads which depict women as raving sex maniacs after getting a whiff of Lynx. But wait, now there’s even more reasons to boycott Lynx and other brands such as Dove (accused of air-brushing even the women in its “real beauty” campaign, see: http://enlighteneducation.edublogs.org/) and Impulse (advertising for “Tease” scent tells girls how to be “naughty but nice” and “play the game” (www.myimpulse.com.au/). When a boy goes to the AFL website to check out the footy scores on the weekend, what greets him just below the score box? A woman in tight green satin dress, provocatively posed, cleavage displayed. Visitors to the site are invited to click on the image to get a look at her lower body, undies revealed. All to promote Lynx to teenage boys. You’d think the AFL had had enough attention, with the anti-women antics on the Footy Show and its DVD to teach players not to have sex with women without their consent. Can’t a boy just enjoy football without this? Loula In the ruling, senior member Richard Horsfall stated: The Advertising Standards Board got something right when it upheld complaints about the shocking Loula ad featuring an image of a murdered woman in the boot of a car). In April, the Board told WFA members that the ad breached the Advertiser Code of Ethics. Kittens Car Wash Forced to Shut Down The Victorian Civil and Administrative Tribunal (VCAT) has instructed Kittens Car Wash in Melbourne to close immediately. In its May 13 ruling (Glen Eira City Council v Jinne Pty Ltd), VCAT found that the operators were using the land for cross-promoting their sexually explicit venues, for which they did not have a permit. Women’s Forum Australia Let the AFL and Unilever know what you think. “…when all these matters are considered together with the use of 5-6 skimpily clad girls for car washing, in addition to the 2-3 male staff, I find that the whole activity constitutes a dominant and separate activity like a performance or a show to promote the Kittens Clubs. The conduct of the girls shown by the evidence and the photos is the most prominent aspect of the operation and the impact on the public realm is shown by the strength of the public reaction. The site is designed to link its identity to that of the clubs, to attract new customers to the clubs and to reinforce the connection of existing club customers. The intention of the operators is clearly demonstrated by the website and reinforced by the showing of erotic videos to customers waiting for their car washing to be completed…” Action Contact the following organisations: Ambra Ambra Corporation PO Box 9046 Scoresby 3179 Victoria Free call: 1800 634 876 Phone: (03) 9764 0222 Fax: (03) 9764 1662 Online: www.ambra.net.au Advertising Standards Board Online: www.adstandards.com.au Write to: The Advertising Standards Bureau Level 2, 97 Northbourne Avenue Turner ACT 2612 Let QLD State and Federal MPs know what you think as well. Horseland Horseland Pty Ltd 8 Moncreif Rd Nunawading Vic 3131 Ph: 03 98450600 Email:info@horseland.com.au ING Email: juice@ingdirect.com.au Unilever Sarah Clarry Corporate Social Responsibility & Communications Manager Unilever Australasia 20 Cambridge St Epping NSW 2121 Phone: (02) 9869 6321 www.unilever.com.au AFL The Commissioners AFL House Telephone 03 9643 1999 Postal Address GPO Box 1449 Melbourne 3001 www.afl.com.au The Footy Show (Ch.9) Contact us for list of sponsors. Page 5 Black Douglas Whiskey billboard Did you complain about something? Did you get the outcome you wanted? Let us know! News In Brief Submissions WFA contributed a submission to the Senate Standing Committee, Environment, Communications and the Arts inquiry into the sexualisation of children in the contemporary media environment. We also gave evidence at the hearings in Melbourne in May. Katrina George, in her role as lecturer in law at University of Western Sydney, and as a Director of WFA, provided two submissions to the Senate Standing Committee on Legal and Constitutional Affairs re its Inquiry into the Rights of the Terminally Ill (Euthanasia Laws Repeal) Bill 2008. If you wish to receive a copy of these submissions and the transcript, please contact Sara, ph: 0448 597 114. The Advertising Standards Board dismissed complaints against a billboard for Black Douglas Whiskey which depicted men flashing their backsides in a sign of victory. However, the complaint was upheld by the Alcohol Beverages Advertising Code Adjudication Panel (ABAC) as breaching sections (a) and (a)(iii) of the code by “failing to present a responsible approach to the consumption of alcohol through the association of the product with offensive behaviour” and “through the depiction of a Coles and mags Julie Gale heard from Coles Customer Relations on March 17 in response to her complaints about soft porn magazines at kid’s eye level at her local Coles store. “The magazines have now been moved,” Katie at Customer Relations informed her. (She didn’t say where they had been moved to). Divide between mothers a fallacy choices that the rest of us take for granted. FASHIONING policies to improve conditions for working mothers at the expense of stay-at-home mums, or vice versa, is a false construct because most women switch readily between the two, social commentators said yesterday. Skinny stars drive mums to diet As some non-working mothers complained Wayne Swan’s budget discriminated against them by means-testing the Family Tax Benefit (B) at a $150,000 income limit while also increasing the non-means-tested Child Care Tax Rebate from 30 to 50 percent, a broader debate emerged about whether Kevin Rudd’s agenda overtly favoured working over stayat-home mothers. The Australian, May 16, 2008 Crisis cuts choices for the disabled …There is a crisis in accommodation services for people with a disability. The Auditor-General’s report Accommodation for People with a Disability confirms what people, service providers and families and carers already know — substantial government investment is urgently needed to tackle the untenable shortage in accommodation and other support services… They do not have ready access to community services, respite care, in-home support, aids and equipment and recreation. Many people are being denied the support that will enable them to live everyday lives with the Page 6 statue of men baring their backsides and the association of offensive behaviour of this kind, which is commonly linked to immoderate alcohol consumption.” The Age, March 14, 2008 Middle-aged women are developing eating disorders to emulate youthful looking celebrities such as Madonna and Teri Hatcher, experts warn… Eating Disorders Foundation chief executive Amanda Jordan said women as old as 70 were being treated in Australia, but it was more common in those in their late 30s to 50s. An Australian study published in the journal PLoS One last month found the average age of developing an eating disorder in women was now late 30s to early 40s… The Age, March 17, 2008 Study targets ‘toxic’ cyberbullying THE West Australian Government will spend $400,000 on a world-first five-year study into cyber-bullying, amid growing concern about the damaging effect on children being targeted by abusive text messages, emails and degrading digital photos. Education minister Mark McGowan said yesterday that up to 15 per cent of WA students were victims of “vicious” cyber-bullying, which was generally anonymous and had potentially dire consequences. The Australian, March 10, 2008 Scribblings March ‘08 Royal college warns abortions can lead to mental illness offered through insurance giant ING, is the first of its kind in Australia, possibly the world… Women may be at risk of mental health breakdowns if they have abortions, a medical royal college has warned. The Royal College of Psychiatrists says women should not be allowed to have an abortion until they are counselled on the possible risk to their mental health… Alarming maternal death rate for indigenous women The Royal College of Psychiatrists recommends updating abortion information leaflets to include details of the risks of depression. “Consent cannot be informed without the provision of adequate and appropriate information,” it says. The Sunday Age, April 27, 2008 Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander women are almost three times more likely to die while pregnant, during labour or up to six weeks after giving birth than non-indigenous women… An AIHW report released today says 65 maternal deaths occurred in Australia between 2003 and 2005, with one woman dying for every 11,896 births…Alarmingly, there were 7.9 deaths per 100,000 non-indigenous women, compared with 21.5 deaths for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander women… The controversy intensified earlier this year when an inquest in Cornwall heard that a talAAP, May 2, 2008 ented artist hanged herself because she was overcome with grief after aborting her twins. Kids’ sex in school ‘not Emma Beck, 30, left a note saying: “Living sign of abuse’ is hell for me. I should never have had an abortion. I see now I would have been a SOCIAL workers did not believe Aboriginal good mum. I want to be with my babies; children as young as seven who were simuthey need me, no one else does.”… lating sex in the classroom after watching pornographic films at home were victims of The Sunday Times, March 16, 2008 child abuse. Jail for teacher who made student pregnant Recommended Reading Artistic crowd the real philistines Miranda Devine, Sydney Morning Herald, May 29, 2008 Art or not, it’s still exploitation Steve Biddulph, The Age, May 28, 2008 Prejudices stripped bare Andrew Bolt, Herald Sun, May 28, 2008 Moral backlash over sexing up of our children Miranda Devine, Sydney Morning Herald, May 22, 2008 Common misconceptions Book Review: ‘The Porn Report’, by Alan McKee, Katherine Albury and Catharine Lumby, fails to debunk current misconceptions about pornography. Antonella Gambotto-Burke, On Line Opinion, April 1, 2008 …In her impact statement, the victim, now 25, said she had suffered “years of guilt and disgrace” following her abortion. “It is not merely the fact that he abused his power, it is more the fact that he took me to the fertility clinic and allowed me to be put through such physical distress and years of psychological shame,” she said. Ted Mullighan’s…report on the Anangu Pitjantjatjara Yankunytjatjara lands found the APY communities were suffering from an epidemic of pornography…”Pornography on the lands is rife,” one teacher told the inquiry. “You can’t help but think that the kids -- and the adults for that matter -- have this incredibly skewed view of sexuality, and also of what happens in the white world.” Rape in Brisbane: just between friends Courier Mail, April 18, 2008 The Australian, May 7, 2008 Insurer to cover birth defects EXPECTANT mothers will soon be able to insure unborn babies against pregnancy complications, birth defects and death. Mothers whose children have disabilities such as blindness and deafness or other congenital malformations - including spina bifida, Down syndrome and cleft palate - will receive $50,000 under an insurance policy launched this week…The baby cover, Women’s Forum Australia Truth and myths of sex slavery Helen Pringle, On Line Opinion, April 11, 2008 Caroline Norma, On Line Opinion, March 18, 2008 Mickey Mouse Operation, Forget Miley Cyrus. Check out Disney’s Chinese underwear ad. Daniel Brook, Slate, April 29, 2008 www.slate.com/id/2190209/ ?source=cmailer Want to read this newsletter on line? Go to www.womensforumaustralia.org and you’ll find this newsletter plus links to all these articles. Let us know if you’re now on line so we can add your email address to our records. Page 7 Quoteable Quotes From You! “INSTEAD OF A WHITE, female journalist, imagine that the Footy Show mannequin had been mocked up to be a Jew, a Muslim, an Aborigine or a disabled person. Do they think that would have been a fair go’? If not in those cases, why is it OK in the case of Wilson? THANK YOU FOR your work in highlighting the unacceptable nature of Sam Newman’s behaviour... I am due to have my first child this coming August, and it’s people like you - pushing for positive change - that make me less worried about the challenges and worries that I know I would have, as a mother, if my child is a girl. Using the same reasoning, why hasn’t this been a much bigger cause of outrage in the media and community? It’s because symbolic and actual violence and disrespect towards women is accepted like a silent, beige wallpaper backdrop to Australian life, public and private”- Michael Costello, The Australian, May 9, 2008 “YET IT IS now clear that over the last two years, the Australian public has woken from its apathy and has become restive over the exploitation of children by the marketers and purveyors of popular culture. We should not be surprised that this disquiet has boiled over in response to the Henson exhibition” - Clive Hamilton, Crikey, May 26, 2008 “KIDS DESERVE TO have the innocence of their childhood protected. I have a very deep view of this. For God’s sake, let’s just allow kids to be kids” - Prime Minister Kevin Rudd, quoted in The Australian, May 26, 2008 (To sign a letter of support to the PM for his response to the Henson photos, go to: www.bravehearts.org.au) Many many thanks, Karen, May 30, 2008 THANK YOU FOR this magnificent work and giving us a voice! Dr Christina Gatzastras, April 25, 2008 MY THINKING HAS been revolutionised since that night [“Get Real!” Bunbury]. I’ve become so much more aware of the way women are portrayed in the media and I feel more confident about speaking to people about it. Thanks heaps. Kate, March 27, 2008 I ATTENDED THE Get Real Forum in Perth and was very impressed and inspired to do what I can to encourage young women to feel good about themselves, to challenge the status quo and not just accept the way things are. You had fantastic speakers and did such a fabulous job of presenting the issues in a very thorough way, backed up entirely by research. I want to do more! Jacqui Homer, March 9, 2008 Hmmm... Donate!!! Recommended Reading (cont’d.) Culture of Misogyny Marie Cocco, TruthDig.com, May 6, 2008 …There is a link between the horrific violence committed against the women of the captive Austrian family and the apparent abuse of teenage girls in Texas, and it is the same unbroken chord that connects them tangentially — but significantly — to Hannah Montana’s fall from grace. When women and girls are routinely viewed as objects, they are dehumanized. They can be seen as chattel or animals, until someone uncovers a horror so complete that we recoil from it. Yet every day around the world, women are still sold into marriage, shunned for their husbands’ adultery, and raped as sexual assault is used as an instrument of war. No, the degradation we have seen…provides a chilling reminder that history itself, with our own culture of sexism and misogyny feeding it, still consigns women to fates no man would wish upon himself. HOW DO YOU decide who to marry? (written by kids, email post) WE CONTINUE TO rely on the financial help of our supporters. If you’d like to contribute, donate online or send your donation to: GPO Box 555, Canberra City, ACT 2601. CONTACT US: Page 8 “You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming.” -Alan, age 10. By Mail PO Box 555, Canberra City, ACT 2601 By Email enquiries@womensforumaustralia.org Online www.womensforumaustralia.org Scribblings March ‘08