March 2016 Flaming Chalice

THE
Newsletter
Starr King UnitarianUniversalist Church of
Hayward, California
March 2016
MING
CHALICE
FLA
Sunday Worship: 10:30 am
March Service Preview
Church Office Hours: Tues, Wed, and Thur;
9:30 am to 2:30 pm
Sunday, March13
Canvass Sunday
Why the World Needs Unitarian Univeralists
Rev. Joy Atkinson
On this Sunday, when most visits between
canvassers and pledgers will take place in the
afternoon, our Canvass Sunday service will
explore the value of Unitarian Universalism and
this UU community to each of us and to the world
at large. Suppose there were no religious
community like ours?
22577 Bayview Avenue
Hayward, CA 94541
Office Manager: Kelli Abatangelo
office@starrking.org
Website: www.starrking.org
Newsletter: newslettereditor@starrking.org
Parish Minister (Interim): Rev. Joy Atkinson
minister@starrking.org
Church President: Diana Dickerson
president@starrking.org
Home phone: 510-786-2922
Director of Religious Exploration: Allison Prout
dre@starrking.org
DRE Office Hours: Wed, Thurs; 10:30 am to 2:30 pm
March 6, 2016
Writing About Spirituality
Glenn Jacob and the Worship Committee
You may know that we have a few aspiring writers
here at Starr King. Join us today for a lay-led service
as we hear from a few of them talk about the
process, the craft, and the spirituality of putting
words on paper.
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Sunday, March 20
Palm Sunday
Cross and Crossroads
Rev. Joy Atkinson
The symbol of the cross is older than Christianity
and rich with layers of meaning. Join us as we
explore and celebrate Palm Sunday and the
“crossroads experiences” in our lives.
Sunday, March 27
Easter Sunday
Intergenerational Service
Hope Is the Thing With Feathers
Rev. Joy Atkinson
Join us as we celebrate Easter and hope with song,
story, and a homily. Our children will participate in
the service for an extended time and will then
enjoy an Easter Egg hunt.
What’s Inside
Sunday Services, 1
Birthdays, 2
Words of Joy (Minister’s Column), 3
President’s Report, 4
RE Plans and Announcements, 5
Notes from the Search Comm, 6
Special Activities, 7
March Calendar, 8
March Birthdays
Date
March 2
March 4
March 8
March 10
March 11
March 12
March 12
March 13
March 14
March 16
Name
Joey Murdach
Collin Carrell
Bill Hitchings
Audrey LePell
Ray Oducayen
Rebecca Parr
Darryl Ray
Margarita Jacob
Sara Wagner
Renee Ray
Date
March 17
March 17
March 19
March 22
March 22
March 24
March 26
March 26
March 28
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Name
Ruth Kuftin
Shea Robinson
Greg Kuftin
Karen Cook
Kelsie Kramer Stone
Cara Prout
Sherry Thomas
Maya Para
Brian Johnson
By
Joy Atkinson,
Interim Minister
Words of Joy
The late UU minister John Wolf expressed some of the reasons why we would want to support a Unitarian
Universalist congregation:
You want to support it because it has a free pulpit. Because you can hear ideas expressed there
which could cost any other minister his or her job. You want to support it because it is a place
where children can come without being saddled with guilt or terrified of some ‘celestial
peeping-tom,’ where they can learn that religion is for joy, for comfort, for gratitude and
love…You want to support a Unitarian Universalist church because it is more concerned with
human beings than with dogmas. Because it searches for the holy, rather than dwelling on the
depraved…You want to support a Unitarian Universalist church because it can laugh…You want
to support it because it insults neither your intelligence nor your conscience, and because it
calls you to worship what is truly worthy of your sacrifice.
For these and so many other reasons, we who enjoy the great heritage of religious liberalism need to support
our religious communities as generously as we can, so that we can continue to sustain vital and healthy
congregations that embody our Unitarian Universalist values, care for and serve our members, and bring our
message to the larger world.
As we move toward the annual pledge drive here at Starr King Church, which we will launch with a dinner on
March 12th—the night before Canvass Sunday—may you be mindful of the many gifts and blessings that this
congregation and its members bring into your lives: friendships and social connections, the religious education
of your children, learning opportunities and activities for adults, Sunday morning services that bring the
community together to celebrate life, care for one another, inspire action and provoke thought, and
opportunities for service to the larger community through and beyond the organizations we support—
community organizations such as South Hayward Parish, Family Emergency Shelter Coalition, Faith Alliance for
a Moral Economy, and the new Eden Area Interfaith Council. In supporting this congregation, you are
supporting and strengthening our unique Unitarian Universalist voice and our cherished principles of equality
and justice, world community and human dignity, the open quest for truth and meaning, the democratic
process, and deep reverence for the interconnected web of life on this fragile and beautiful planet.
Please consider making your annual pledge a generous one, to support the programs, activities, and values of
this congregation as it enters a new phase in its ongoing congregational life. Thank you in advance for your
support.
Joy
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President’s Report
February 2016
By Diana Dickerson
Hello fellow members and friends of the Starr King UU Church,
We are past the holidays and still looking for more water from el-naño-niño. Keep your fingers crossed that we
will at least get our average annual snow pack. We could sure use a break.
We have lots of activities planned this month in addition to our Sunday Services that offer a chance to catch
our breath and reflect. We have meditation, drumming, the ARMCA movie night, small group ministry, and we
have the group read discussion on the 27th. There is also the small business of running the church.
There are lots of things keeping us all busy. We will be preparing our reports for the Annual Congregational
Meeting. We will soon be announcing the date of the meeting and the deadline for reports to be included in
the report. Wow, is it that time again? It must be because all our tax people are working long hours trying to
find deductions.
Speaking of deductions the best one of all is to help the congregation.
Yes it will be the Canvas Kick-Off March 12. There will be a grand dinner and, hopefully, the rich desserts will
make it easier to dig into our pockets. I hope everyone realizes the importance of this event; we have big
dreams this year, and, while we know we can’t make all of them come true, we need your support to maintain
our staff and support the causes we believe in.
I know when I go to the store I can’t believe the cost of things (I used to accuse “old” people of that), and I
know a loaf of bread shouldn’t cost over 2 bits, but it does now. I know there are trips to be taken, toys to be
had, and for some a meal that can barely be afforded, but the church is valuable in my life and I know it is for
those who are reading these words. That is why I am asking you to consider upping your pledge this year;
please consider raising your pledge by 10%, 15%, or any amount you can. Please be generous, as we have
dreams and responsibilities to you and our community.
In Service Together,
Diana
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Religious Exploration—
Plans and Announcements
By Allison Prout
March RE Theme is Technology
This month we premier two Techshops for RE. The first will introduce Raspberry Pi computers. The second will
focus on software and basic programming with SCRATCH. Roy Dickerson, our tech guru, will spearhead the
effort to teach technology to our youngest and brightest.
The goal of these Techshops is to spark the imaginations of our young ones with technology. Raspberry Pi and
SCRATCH were designed to introduce computer technology to youth and to engage them in using skills that
will enable them to thrive in the 21st Century workplace. If our youth respond enthusiastically, we envision
organizing a SCRATCH Coding Club after church services on a monthly basis.
In keeping with the technology theme, we will take a field trip to the San Francisco Airport this month to get a
sneak preview of the new control tower. How does this relate to Religious Education? The ability to
communicate and operate in the modern world has been enhanced by technological advances. These serve,
above all else, to connect us to each other and the world around us. Simply put, technology is awe inspiring.
Live Your Values!
Allison
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Notes from the Search: Halfway Through
the Interviews
Your Search Committee is excited to report that we are halfway through the pre-candidate interviews. We
have two more, in early and in mid-March. Then we will be meeting the third week of March to identify our
final candidate.
We have been blessed with amazing candidates for our pulpit! The process has been intensive, the interviews
deep and wide, and the sharing personal and candid. We are keeping all of your needs, wants, and dreams in
our hearts and minds as we explore the possibilities with each of these ministers.
Each of the ministers we have spoken with has been extremely different from each other, except in the area of
intelligence, passion for ministry, insightful questions for us, originality, and commitment to the process. The
Search Committee has worked many hours to explore with these people whether there is a fit. We have at
times felt like we’d like to bring all of them home with us! 
However, we are narrowing in on our candidate. We feel in our hearts that we are close to finding that person
who will be working with all of us over the next many years. In fact, we will know who that person is in just
six weeks! By the second week of April, we will have settled on the candidate we will present to you for your
all-important assessment and, hopefully, approval.
Thanks for hanging in there with us!
Heidi Green and the rest of the Search Committee
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Special Activities
Hike on March 12
Let's do an 8 mile round trip hike to the former home of the Ukrainian preacher Agapius Honcharenko in a
rarely visited part of Garin Regional Park in Hayward. Bob and Sandy Simoni are leading the hike and will meet
with you at the Ziele Creek trailhead on Ziele Creek Drive at 10 am. Parking is FREE.
The first part of the hike is 4 miles mostly uphill through some woods, open hillsides, and part of a residential
neighborhood. Once the group arrives at the old farm, there will be a picnic lunch in the shade of some big
trees before exploring the area. (Bring your own picnic lunch and plenty of water).
The hike down will be on a slightly different route, and the group should be back between 2:30 and 3 pm. For
those who want to do a shorter hike of 4 miles round trip that has a lot less elevation gain, meet the group at
11 am at the halfway point on Carden Lane by the soccer field near the Stonebrae elementary school.
Contact Bob Simoni for further details at 510-205-2217.
Sandy Simoni on the hike in a previous year; Photo by Bob Simoni
Canvass Weekend: March 12 and 13
Starr King UU Church Canvass for the fiscal year 2016 (beginning in July) will be March 12 and 13. We’re doing
it a little different this year. Members will be contacted by fellow church members to arrange for canvass
visits. But first, dinner! Canvass begins with dinner on Saturday, March 12. Join us at 6pm for an evening of
food and fun to celebrate our community. On Sunday, worship service will focus on the canvass and its role in
nourishing the church. That afternoon, we’ll visit with each other to share our hopes, our visions, and our
financial commitments to support the church in the coming year.
Save the Date: Earth Day Fair Sunday, April 24
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For details about any of these activities, go to www.starrking.org/calendar, and let your curser hover over a
particular event.
March 2016
Sunday
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* 9:30 am Green
Sanctuary
* 10:30 am Worship
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Monday
Tuesday
2
3
4
*10 am Morning
Discovery
*7 pm Evening
Meditation
* 7 pm Board
* 7 pm Drumming
Circle
10
11
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* 7 pm Small
Group Ministry
* 6:30 pm Small
Group Ministry
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15
22
* 7 pm Small
* 10:30 am Worship Group Ministry
* Noon Hospitality
and Membership
* Noon Church
Bookstore Open
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27
* 10:30 am Worship
* Noon ARMCA
Common Read
Discussion
Friday
* 6 pm SGM
Steering Comm
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Thursday
1
* 10:30 am Worship
* Noon Peace and
Justice
20
Wednesday
* 6:30 pm Small
Group Ministry
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* Noon Small Group
Ministry
* 3 pm Pastoral
Care Committee
* 7 pm Evening
Meditation
* 7 pm ARMCA
* 7:30 pm SKIT
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12
* 10 am Hike at
Garin Park
* 6 pm Canvas
Kickoff Dinner
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17
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*10 am Morning
Discovery
* Noon Elderberries
* 7 pm Committee
Council
* 7 pm Evening
Meditation
* 7 pm Worship
Committee
* 7 pm RE
Council
* 5:30 pm
ARMCA Movie
Night!
24
25
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Saturday
19
26
* Noon Small Group
Ministry
* 7 pm Evening
Meditation
30
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* 1 pm Executive * 7 pm Evening
Committee
Meditation
Meeting
Starr King UU Church Ongoing Activities
Activity
Event Schedule
Church Bookstore
Open on the third Sunday of the month, after the service.
Drum Circle
Meets on the first Friday of the month, from 7 to 9 pm, in the Sanctuary. Open to all adults and mature children.
Evening Meditation
Meets every Wednesday, from 7 to 8 pm. Open to all.
Starr King Elderberries
Meets on the third Wednesday at noon. Bring your lunch. Open to all self-identified elders.
Morning Discovery
Meets on the first and third Wednesdays, from 10 to 11:15 am, in the Fellowship Hall. Open to all.
Meets twice a month for a predetermined number of months. Registration is required, and groups are open to
new members twice a year Contact sgm@starrking.org for more information.
Small Group Ministry
SKIT (Starr King Improv Troupe)
Meets on the second Thursday of the month at 7:30 pm. Open to all.
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