Building a Jewish Identity - Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El
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Building a Jewish Identity - Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El
Nov-Dec 2013 | Cheshvan-Kislev-Tevet 5774 THE CENTER OF OUR JEWISH COMMUNITY Shabbat Spirituality B’nai Mitzvah Meaning & Purpose Family Holidays Social Action Israel Building a Jewish Identity 2 REFLECTIONS “Judaism is a religion of deed and not creed.” Rabbi Howard Needleman Judaism is not found in your genes J udaism is a religion of deed and not creed. It is not based on a principle of allegiance to a stated set of beliefs other than God is one, but grounded in the reality that our actions are what matter in leading a life of holiness and sanctity. It is for this reason that I believe that the essence of ‘who is a Jew’ is not found in your genes, but in how you wear them. For some, Judaism is based solely on DNA, a hereditary trait that is passed on from mother to child. Our science has taught us much about our genetic makeup. We know that the entirety of our DNA code can be determined through the tiniest part of our physical bodies. A small sample of our saliva can give us a genetic mapping of who we are. Yet, this oversimplification of Jewish identity lacks the breadth and understanding of religion, culture, and peoplehood as the foundation of our community, especially in the twenty-first century. Indeed, that genetic map will never be able to look into our souls and tell us who we are. One of the hallmarks of Reform Judaism has always been our acceptance of change and welcoming of others within our spiritual homes as equals. This was first represented in different ways over time, for example introducing mixed seating in the sanctuary during the 19th century, to the welcoming of women as equal partners in our religious lives in the 20th century. Today, both men and women hold positions of leadership in our congregations as both Jewish professionals and lay leaders. Moreover, as our understanding of the world continues to expand, so too do our spiritual homes. Our 21st century Reform movement continues to evolve and treat all of its’ members equally, whether or not you were born of Jewish parents, are an interfaith family, Jew by choice, member of the LGBT community, or have special needs. There is a place for all of us. By expanding our door wider to let others in, we grow stronger in our love of God and our love of each other as human beings. In the Talmud, tractate Shabbat, it is recorded that a certain heathen came before Rabbi Shammai and said to him, ‘Make me a proselyte, on condition that you teach me the whole Torah while I stand on one foot.’ Thereupon he repulsed him with the builder’s cubit which was in his hand. When he went before Rabbi Hillel, he said to him, ‘What is hateful to you, do not to your neighbor: that is the whole Torah, while the rest is the commentary thereof; go and learn it.’ JEWISH IDENTITY TODAY RABBI’S I do not resent someone who only defines Jewish identity only through matrilineal decent; I only wish that they could see the full breadth of our people. I do not resent someone who only counts men as full partners in our religious life; I only wish that they could hear the full chorus of Jewish voices rising together in prayer. I do not resent someone for having a narrow door to their religious community; I only wish that every house of worship would be as welcoming and open as possible. I do not resent those who see their religious life as only existing within the walls of a synagogue; I only wish that they could see the entire world and all who live in it as the truest abode of our faith. Our religious community is founded on the principle that we are defined as a people of faith, drawn together by a shared religious history and hope in tomorrow. We understand that our core religious values do not cease to exist when we leave the synagogue, but begin when we enter into the world around us. L’ shalom, Rabbi Howard Needleman 3 Who Am I? T he title character of the book/movie/musical “Les Miserables” Jean Val Jean asks himself the question “who am I”? Although hidden from the world, with a secret identity, at his core, he remained true to himself. Truth be told, many of us ask the same question. We’re so busy playing different roles; parent, spouse, friend, professional etc. and are required to change identities in the blink of an eye that it’s confusing and easy to lose sight of our true identity. At the time when many of us grew up, members of a synagogue were to a great extent a homogeneous group with similar identities and aspirations. Being Jewish was mostly centered around traditional Jewish holidays and celebrations with a strong commitment to Israel. The Temple was a focal point, where Jews could meet other Jews in a world that wasn’t always embracing of our community. With the total integration of all faiths, traditions, those without a religious belief, and forward movement towards one human family, many of the reasons that Jews identify with our community today have disappated. This is true for generation x, y, and especially the millenials. The changing face of Judaism present us with a wonderful opportunity for inclusivity and ability to contribute to the greater good of our wider community. Being Jewish is becoming less about ethnic and cultural similarities, shared experiences, or even the food we like. Being Jewish, I believe is aspiring and helping to effectuate a greater vision for humankind through the eyes of our tradition, practice, and spiritual experience. Pink Shabbat, MLK Shabbat, and Green Shabbat as well as our commitment throughout the year to social action and social justice typify our commitment to tikkun olam. Chanukah has become a holiday where we endeavor to increase light throughout our community, encouraging our children to bring gifts to those children in need. Pesach epitomizes our commitment to justice and freedom while Tu B’Shevat, our organic garden, and green building reminds us of our commitment to our planet. Join us in building our 21st century identity as a forward thinking, sophisticated, and spiritually enlightened community. Cantor Mark Goldman 4 “Being Jewish, I believe is aspiring and helping to effectuate a greater vision for humankind through the eyes of our tradition, practice, and spiritual experience.” Cantor Mark Goldman Building Jewish Identity As an Israeli that grew up in Israel, I never really had to think about this issue of Jewish identity because there wasn’t any other option; I was just born that way. However, now that I live in the Diaspora, my wife and I are making our own “Jewish home” for our family and trying to raise our kids with a “Jewish identity”, a relationship with G-D and Torah, the love of Israel, and a deep connection with the Jewish people. Now that we live in America as a part of the Diaspora, we see how important it is and the work it takes. Here at Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El, we are striving to make it easier for families to help build their own “Jewish identities” through all of our programs, services, and commitments to service and social action. Our Temple staff meets each day and brainstorms on the best and DVIR WEISS most enjoyable ways to educate our kids and involve our adult congregants in our Temple. We hope our hard work Executive Director makes it easier for all of us to build and maintain our “Jewish identities.” But, we can always use the help of our congregants. We welcome your input. Let us know what else can we do; where we need to improve and what we did well and not so well. This is our collective Temple and the more we know and the more input we have from you, the better job we can do for all of us. We hope that you will take advantage of the beautiful and inspirational services, participate in our phenomenal social action projects, and enjoy being at our home since it really is your home too! Lehitraot, Dvir 5 WELCOME PRAY NOVEMBER 15TH AT 7:30 PM SHABBAT New Member Shabbat Moustache Shabbat Come welcome those who have chosen Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El as their spiritual home! Please join us as we bless our newest members under the chupa as they formally join our spiritual community and home. Oneg to Follow Mo-vember is an annual, month-long event to raise awareness of men’s health issues. Nov. 22nd Join Rabbi Needleman and our staff in growing a moustache starting November 1 to help raise awareness to men’s health issues. So join us in growing a “Sweet Stache” and engaging in conversation about men’s health and embracing our spiritual, physical and mental well-being. Building our Jewish Identity here has been a real buzz around Temple Kol Ami T Emanu-El over the past few months. We have begun to settle into the New Year with a sense of knowing who we are and where we are going. We have been speaking of the newness of so many things around our great Temple, our campus and our Congregation. Rabbi Needleman has been “officially” installed as our Spiritual Leader. With him now being here almost 6 months, he has begun to establish himself firmly in our midst. He is beginning to get a feel for the lay of the land. With that being said, he has begun to lead us on our journey into the 21st century as a Temple Family. Our journey will be filled with many new things to learn. Judaism in America is changing. We can no longer sit back and expect our people to grow stronger from generation to generation. We no longer have to worry about the genocide that consumed a large part of our people during the horrors of the past century. Yes, the Holocaust is in the past, but we are now living in an age that we, as Jews, must be very careful about inflicting a dangerous precedent upon ourselves. It has slowly been happening all around us. Perhaps you have not noticed. Our lives are very busy and we have assimilated very well into our American society. What could never be accomplished by the pogroms and persecution by our enemies seems a reasonable peril to our survival by way of voluntary assimilation and a seemingly self-chosen rejection of our heritage. Here are a few ominous signs, taken from the Pew Research Center’s Report, of what has been ever increasing over the past few decades. • While 56 percent of the general public say that religion is very important in their lives, the same is true for only 26 percent of American Jews. Entrusted by God with the task of serving as “a light unto the nations,” we Jews have tragically become doubly more secular than those amongst whom we live. • Thirty-two percent of Jews born after 1980 — the so-called millennial generation — identify as Jews of no religion, compared to 19% of baby boomers and just 7% of Jews born before 1927. Overall, 22% of US Jews describe themselves as having no religion, meaning they are much less connected to Jewish organizations and much less likely to be raising their children Jewish. • A growing proportion of American Jews say they are unlikely to raise their children Jewish or connect with Jewish institutions. The proportion of Jews who say they have no religion and are Jewish only on the basis of ancestry, ethnicity or culture is growing rapidly, and two-thirds of them are not raising their children Jewish at all. • The study finds that intermarriage rates appear to have significantly increased over the past fifty CALVIN HELITZER years. Nearly 60 percent of Temple President Jewish respondents who have been married since 2000 say they have a nonJewish spouse. Just over 40 percent of those married in the 80s have a non-Jewish spouse. That number is just 17 percent for those married before 1970. While I can’t take credit for the above statistics, they are true and many of our trusted Jewish organizations are taking note. It should be a wakeup call to us all. While it is true that our Jewish people have been written off throughout the millennium, those who predicted our early demise were very mistaken. People have been writing our obituary from the beginning of time. As a matter of fact, a very famous Jewish historian, Simon Rawidowicz said it quite well. He called us the “ever-dying People”. We always stood on the precipice of extinction - only to amaze onlookers with our super-human ability to persevere and to contribute in unparalleled fashion to creating a more civilized world. It is now our time to make a difference. The research that has shown us what is happening can be used to re-build our Jewish identity for the generations to come. Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El can, and will be, the physical plant that helps strengthen and build our future. We have the tools, with our Clergy, our Staff and our Temple Family to make a difference. The Pew Research Center’s Report is a challenge to what many of us have been noticing over our lifetime. Jews are resourceful. We have always found a way to make a commitment to our traditions. Our identity has a long and rich history behind it. The challenge we are facing requires us to make a meaningful commitment to these traditions and the faith of our past. Retuning ourselves to our Jewish identity will add another link to the chain that has stretched through time for close to 6,000 years. Now is the time to listen to the research and use what we have here at Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El to make a difference to our lives and the lives of our children and our children’s children. Join me and help build our Jewish identity. B’shalom, Calvin It’s a Small World After All his past summer we spent a few days in the Berkshires with our T dear friends, Susan and Bob Schneider. Staying at a wonderful Bed and Breakfast, we were eating a delicious home-cooked breakfast when a young (40 +/-) couple walked in. They sat and, of course, in those homey and comfortable quarters, we shared where we were from. They said that they lived in a city called Parkland, in Florida. We noted that we lived in Plantation and Weston. Hearing that, she mentioned right away that she became a Bat Mitzvah at Temple Kol Ami in Plantation. Bob asked her “Do you remember the Rabbi?” She quickly recalled “Rabbi Harr.” Bob followed up by asking her if she would recognize him these many years later. She said, “I think so.” Then, apparently looking at me more closely, she shrieked: “Oh my God!” Hugs followed. Thus, “Jewish Geography” once again held sway. Further, since she recognized me after those DR. SHELDON J. HARR many years, it is obvious as well that I haven’t aged a bit since her Founding Rabbi Emeritus Bat Mitzvah! No matter where we are, it always seems as if we are bumping into someone! This especially happens when we have travelled to Israel. At the Wall. On Shabbat at Hebrew Union College. Having a drink and a snack at the King David Hotel overlooking the Old City. Walking along the beach in Tel Aviv. At the Carmel or the Machane Yehudah Market. No matter where (as well as in countries other than Israel), we seem to bump into someone we know or at the very least has only a few degrees of separation from us. That Disney World ride is so very right: “It’s a small world after all.” They should have added – especially if you’re Jewish! ECUMENICAL INTERFAITH THANKSGIVING SERVICE Sunday Evening, November 24th at 7pm, the Plantation Association of Clergy will be hosting its annual ECUMENICAL THANKSGIVING SERVICE. This year the Service will be held at the Plantation United Methodist Church, 1001 NW 70th Street, Plantation. Participating in the Service, along with the clergy from various Churches, will be our Clergy; Rabbi Needleman, Cantor Goldman, and Rabbi Harr. Rabbi Needleman will be delivering the Thanksgiving Message. Rabbi Harr will be introduced as the new President of the Plantation Association of Clergy. Additionally members of our choir will join the choirs from the churches, participating in the music. This is a wonderful and important community event . Everyone is most welcome to attend. Happy Thanksgivukkah! Wondering what to cook this year? Here are a few great recipes from our amazing in-house caterer, VIP Caterers. Sweet Potato Latkes with Apple Compote 2 medium sweet potatoes ½ Spanish onion 3 whole eggs ½ teaspoon cinnamon ½ teaspoon nutmeg 1½ tablespoons of brown sugar ½ cup all purpose flour or matzo meal ¼ cup vegetable oil for frying Directions Shred sweet potatoes and onion. Rinse the potato under cold water, then strain them with a colander. Lay potatoes on a paper towel to drain excess water. In a large bowl, combine sweet potatoes, onions, eggs, sugar, matzo meal, cinnamon and nutmeg. Gently mix well by hand. Heat oil in a large heavy skillet to 375 degrees. Scoop from the mixture (about 2 tablespoon per latke) and drop in hot oil. Cook about 2-3 minutes on each side until golden brown. Drain them in a paper towel or cooling rack. Serve with homemade applesauce and/or sour cream. Best Apple Cake Ever! ½ cup stick margarine, softened 1½ teaspoon vanilla extract 6 ounces block-style regular or low-fat cream cheese, softened (about 3/4 cup) 2 large eggs 1½ cups all-purpose flour 1½ teaspoons baking powder ¼ teaspoon sea salt 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon 3 cups chopped peeled Rome apples (about 2 large) Cooking spray Preheat oven to 350°.  Beat 1½ cups sugar, margarine, vanilla, and cream cheese at medium speed of a mixer until well blended (about 4 minutes). Add eggs, 1 at a time, beating well after each addition. Combine flour, baking powder, and salt. Add flour mixture to creamed mixture, beating at low speed until blended. Quick Homemade Apple Compote 8 Granny Smith apples 1/2 cup unsweetened apple juice Cinnamon and Sugar to desired sweetness 3 whole cloves Preparation: QUICK VERSION 1. Peel, core and slice apples. Put apple slices in a large pot. Add bottled apple juice to barely cover apples. Since the apples give off liquid, start out slow with the apple juice. More can be added later if needed. 2. Add cinnamon sugar to desired sweetness. Add cloves. 3. Cook on medium-high heat until the apples are chunky. If you like it smoother, cook longer and add more liquid. Combine ¼ cup sugar and cinnamon. Combine 2 tablespoons cinnamon mixture and apple in a bowl, and stir apple mixture into batter. Pour batter into an 8-inch spring form pan coated with cooking spray, and sprinkle with remaining cinnamon mixture. Bake at 350° for 1 hour and 15 minutes or until the cake pulls away from the sides of the pan. Cool the cake completely on a wire rack, and cut using a serrated knife. 9 Adult Jewish Learning November/December 2013 Lunch and Learn with Cantor Goldman An on-going series of lessons on various topics including the Torah portion of the week, current events and more! Light lunch provided November 14 - Healing in Judaism Find out what our tradition says about the healing of our bodies and mind. Participate in a powerful healing service. December 18 - The Future of Judaism in North America Explore some of the newly released data, research, and think tank-material Yoga Shalom With Cantor Lisa Levine “The Yoga Cantor” Tuesday, February 11, 2014 promptly at 7:00pm Registration begins at 6:30 pm Yoga Shalom is a unique experience combining two powerful disciplines of Jewish prayer and yoga practice. Yoga Shalom will help you relax and nurture your mind, body and spirit. Yoga Shalom can be done either in a chair or by bringing your own yoga mat. Cantor Lisa Levine received her BA at UC Irvine and her Masters in Sacred Music at Hebrew Union College Jewish Institute of Religion. Cantor Lisa studies and teaches yoga and is the creator of “Yoga Shalom”, a unique Jewish embodiment-of-prayer worship Book/CD/DVD was published by the URJ. Lisa is the Cantor of Temple Shalom in Maryland. A Worship Experience for Body and Soul To RSVP to any of the above adult education options or to ask any questions please contact: Lisa at (954) 472-1988 • lpearlman@tkae.org 10 Adult Jewish Learning November/December 2013 Torah on Tap -Thursdays November 14th, 7:30 pm with Rabbi Needleman At Barnes & Noble, 591 South University Drive, Plantation Jewish learning in a relaxed atmosphere! A new and interesting way to study sacred stories or discuss current events affecting the Jewish community. Join your clergy at a local hang-out and learn some Torah at the same time! Jewish Film Series Feel free to bring your lunch! Wednesday, November 6th, 12 pm, “Kike Like Me” “Kike Like Me” With “Gentleman’s Agreement” as his jumping off point, Jamie Kastner asks who’s a Jew, and does it matter. He’ll answer the question, “Are you Jewish?” with a yes to see how people react. Brooklyn’s Hassidic community embraces him and gives him a bar mitzvah. He visits Pat Buchanan who ends their conversation abruptly when Kastner presses Buchanan on whether all Jews are alike. He travels to Israel, London, Paris, Berlin, and Krakow talking to Jews about how they are seen by others and asking non-Jews what they think of Jews. He then goes to Auschwitz where he refuses to be a tourist. He ends the trip at his local bagel shop. Virtually everywhere, he finds irony and prejudice. Tuesday, December 10th, 12 pm, “A Life Apart” Thursday, January 9th, 12 pm, “Shanghai Ghetto” The Gift of Shabbat: 5 Rabbis Share Join the Conversation! Moderator: Rabbi Akiva Mann, Institute of Jewish Knowledge and Learning Panel: Rabbi Howard Needleman, Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El Rabbi Michael Gold, Temple Beth Torah/Tamarac Jewish Center, Rabbi Andrew Jacobs, Ramat Shalom, Rabbi Yossi Kastan, Brauser Maimonides Academy Temple Beth Torah Tamarac Jewish Center, 5700 NW 94th Avenue, Tamarac, FL 33321 Sunday, November 17, 2013, 1:00 to 3:00pm In a life of 80 years, there are 4,160 days of Shabbat. Almost 11.4 years of your life can be lived in Shabbat. Are you making the most of this gift? 11 EARLY CHILDHOOD “Children are born with tremendous potential and capability to learn in all developmental domains.” Stacey Katz STACEY KATZ Early Childhood Director “What is learned in Early Childhood is absorbed in the blood”. – Avot de Rabbi Natan 24 C hildren are born with tremendous potential and capability to learn in all developmental domains. Infants and toddlers are like sponges eager to soak in new information. Their brains are being molded by experiences. This time of exploration, experimentation, cognition and the development of social skills is also a crucial time for instilling a strong Jewish identity. In addition to impacting Jewish family practice, a Jewish early childhood program serves as a gateway for additional Jewish education for the child and family including involvement in Synagogue and community life for young parents. More times than not, I have parents telling me they haven’t been back in a temple since their bar or bat mitzvah. Non-active Jews are now becoming active. They are celebrating Shabbat and holidays in their homes as a result of the Jewish education their children are learning in school. Just recently my daughter began college at the University of Florida. Her roommate was a friend she met in TKAE’s Early Childhood Program sixteen years ago. Their friendship along with many of her close friends today started through our program and lasted through religious school, confirmation and post confirmation. Though they all attended different secular schools for middle and high school, their values and Jewish identity stems from their early years of learning. From the time they started school, they were able to identify with Judaism and keep those values they learned early on. Last month my daughter called to tell me she would be attending Yom Kippur Services at UF’s Hillel with her friends made from her early years at TKAE. I then realized one of the best decisions I could have made was beginning my children in a Jewish Early Childhood Program and giving them the opportunity to continue with their Jewish education. This was the start of their Jewish Identity. New Toddler Class Beginning January 6th, 2014. (Birthdates between September 2011 - August 2012) Registration Continues For All Other Levels! Please call the Early Childhood Office at (954)472-8700 for details. 12 Religious School is our goal and obligation to create in our children a positive relationship with IishtJudaism and God. It is also our goal to nurture within each child an ethical Jewworldview, to look at the world through “Jewish eyes” so to speak. Through these moral obligations our educational curriculum is focused on four primary areas that we believe will make a significant impact on our children’s Jewish identity: TORAH Our students will find themselves in the center of our Jewish stories. Torah is an ongoing dialogue between the text and its students. Torah is real in our daily lives; it goes with us wherever we are. SOCIAL ACTION / SERVICE – In Jewish tradition it is an obligation to be engaged in “Tikkun Olam” – Repairing the World – which teaches us that we have a duty to help make our world a better place. Throughout the year, we not only teach “Tikkun Olam” but we collectively experience it through various social activities, whether it be a beach clean-up or working at our organic garden to provide food to local food banks. ISRAEL – The state of Israel plays an important role in the lives of the Jewish people. We are committed to building knowledge and connections with our homeland. HEBREW LANGUAGE – Our Hebrew curriculum is created with the understanding of the realistic goal of supplementary Jewish education of limited time. Hebrew is taught creatively, on a self-based progress method, in different levels of Hebrew knowledge. We challenge our children from study of prayers to Modern Hebrew and conversational skills. SIMONA SKLASH Religious School Director “Tikkun Olam - teaches us that we have a duty to help make our world a better place.” Simona Sklash A teacher takes a hand, opens a mind, and touches a heart. TKAE Religious School and Gesher Program teachers are professional, energetic and committed educators. We affirm the power of Jewish learning to create and deepen Jewish identity and commitment from early age into adulthood. RELIGIOUS SCHOOL STAFF GESHER STAFF 13 my jewish identity To Be a Jew Happy to be Jewish by Noah Celler by Brooke Schwartz & Anna Wilentz I am blessed to be a Jew, there aren’t that many Jews in the world. It takes pride and effort to be a Jew. Every Sunday I go to Hebrew School. I love learning about the history and culture of Jews. Every day I thank Adonai for my blessed life and family. Another thing that makes a Jew is a Bar/ Bat Mitzvah. This occasion represents the adulthood of a young woman or man which is very important in a Jewish person’s life. Every time I go to Temple for a service, it makes me feel special about my culture, it also is really fun to recite the prayers and learn new ones. Just remember if you are a Jew that means you are special, and just always be thankful to your peers and even Adonai. We are happy to be Jewish because we get to have a Bat Mitzvah. Reading from the Torah makes us feel special in so many different ways. Going to Hebrew School for all of these years has made a difference in our Jewish life. Standing on the Bimah in front of all our friends and families is a true accomplishment for us. Receiving our Talit will be an amazing experience for us, we will always cherish our Bat Mitvah Day forever! OUR BAT MITZVAH GIRL JACEY KATZ - November 16 - Jacey Eden Katz is currently in 7th grade at University School. Previously she attended TKAE through 3rd grade. Jacey loves to play tennis, basketball, and softball. Jacey loves all family events and is very excited to share her Bat Mitzvah with her family and friends. Jacey’s Mitzvah project will be raising funds for the Make-A-Wish Foundation. Make-A-Wish grants the wish of a child diagnosed with a life-threatening medical condition. Jacey believes this is an extremely important cause because she likes to believe that this organization makes a difference in the lives of children who are in pain. She loves to see people be happy and Make-A-Wish creates smiles every day for children. Jacey is looking forward to sharing her passion for this cause during her Bat Mitzvah weekend. PLEASE SUPPORT OUR ADVERTISERS FREE College Planning Workshop Learn HowTo Pay For College in This Economy. presented by PETER RATZAN College Funding Specialists, Inc. Find Out More and Register Online at: CollegePlanningAdvice.com The Center of Our Jewish Community Come join Miss Cindy formerly of NSU’s Parenting Place for an hour of stretching, singing, dancing and bonding. Enjoy bubbles, parachute, sensory activities, storytelling, and more. Experience our fantastic indoor playroom while making new friends. Our program is open to anyone regardless of Temple affiliation. Walkers: Tuesdays 9:15AM – 10:15AM Non-Walkers: Thursdays 9:15AM – 10:15AM $5.00/per class - Temple Members are Free Call TKAE’s Early Childhood Program today to register!!! (954)472-8700 YOUTH PROGRAM he mission of any Youth T Director is to help their youth develop and build a strong Jewish Identity… In rural areas, such as my previous home of Peoria, Illinois coming to Temple and being a part of the youth group was truly the only option for teens to be a part of the Jewish community. Here in South Florida there are many options. For a lot of youth, JOSH SIMON they go to school with other Youth Director Jewish kids and a lot of their friends are Jewish. That is a great start to building a Jewish identity but it is only a start. Studies show that there are three things that build Jewish identity in children outside of the home: taking part in Youth group, going to camp, and travelling to Israel. #TKAE YOUTH When you first glance at the very full schedule of events that we have going on here within the Youth Program at TKAE, the Jewish “Connection” may not seem readily apparent. A night of bouncing on Trampolines at Off the Wall, Playing Laser Tag, or an afternoon at Rainforest Café and video games may not seem like Jewish activities. However each and every one of those programs helped towards building the Jewish identity of the participants. Our kids know that these events are a part of the Temple and they know that it is a Jewish event. Additionally, at many of these programs we have and will point out Jewish values and ideas that tie in. As I drove 1,500 miles from Illinois to Florida this summer, I was lucky enough to have the chance to spend a couple days at the Union for Reform Judaism’s Camp Coleman in Cleveland, Georgia. What an amazing place this is… I was able to walk around and see the different groups immersed in study, worship and fun. Much like youth group programming in the synagogue, the teaching of Jewish values are intertwined with the programs in a way that the kids rarely realize they are learning. There is really no greater way to build a Jewish identity than to spend part or all of the summer at a Jewish Summer Camp. Camp Coleman is that place and I hope as you look at options for the upcoming summer you consider sending your child to Coleman. And of course, Israel. Sending our kids to Israel may be the greatest way to build their Jewish identity. Spending a summer or even a full semester in Israel is a way for our children to walk in the steps of history. Instead of reading about Israel, taking trips to Israel allows them to see the Western Wall, the Dead Sea, Masada and others with their own eyes. I went on a trip to Israel as a high school senior and it was one of the greatest experiences of my life. The North American Federation of Temple Youth (NFTY) sponsors trips to Israel over the Summer for teens in the 10th-12th grade. After high school graduation, your child is eligible to go on the free Birthright trip. You must be between the ages of 18 to26 years old and have never traveled to Israel on an organized trip. If you would like more information about NFTY in Israel or Birthright, please contact me at the Temple office and I will provide you with brochures and real-life experiences about these amazing trips. Building a Jewish identity for our children is the most important thing we can do. It will help to ensure that the Jewish people will live on L’Dor V’Dor : from generation to generation. YOUTH PROGRAM CALENDAR November 3rd KATONTY Bowling 12:30-2:30pm November 8th MiSTY Shabbat 6:30-10:00pm November 9th KAFTY Progressive Dinner and Movie 6:30pm November 15th KAFTY Shabbat 6:30 pm November 17th MiSTY Pool Party 3:00-5:00 pm December 7th KAFTY & MiSTY Chanukah Party 7:00-9:30 pm December 20th KAFTY Shabbat 6:30 pm The brand new youth lounge will be open every Tuesday before Religious School from 3:00 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. Come do homework, watch T.V. or just hang out with your youth group friends. OPEN YOUTH E LOU NG THE Camp Coleman Presents DAILYSHOW Rabbi Needleman To support Reform Jewish Youth Engagement, we invite you to an evening of comedy and song November 16, 2013 8:00 pm Josh Simon Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El 8200 Peters Road, Plantation, FL 33324 Dvir Weiss Cantor Goldman Celebrity Scoop night at Maggie Mooʻs to benefit TKAE Youth Programs Wednesday November 20th 6-10pm for ages 18 and up The Center of Our Jewish Community Patti Linsky Recording Artist, Songwriter and Alum of URJ Camp Coleman Performing excerpts from her one-woman show “Altar EGO” Adam Lowitt Four-time Emmy Award Winner Standup Comedian and Alum of URJ Camp Coleman 20% of all sales will be donated to TKAE Youth Programs Beth Schafer Acclaimed Jewish Singer Songwriter Leader of Congregation, Temple Shir Shalom in Oviedo, Florida C ome ou t a Yo u r Te n d S u pp o rt Br ing m p le a n d yo u r f r ie n d s 2571 S. University Drive, Davie FL 33324 954-382-1677 For ticket information go to www.campcoleman.org and click on Broward County Camp Coleman 2013 Event (under Quick Links) All proceeds will go toward the Broward Coleman Scholarship Fund Saturday Night December 7th KAFTY and MiSTY Chanukah Party 7:00-9:30 pm Chanukah may be over but the fun isn’t, KAFTY and MiSTY are teaming up for a fun evening of Chanukah activities. They’ll be dreidel, latkes, and even a gift exchange 17 Chanukah, Friday Light Live! November 29 6:30 pm You bring the menorah and we’ll supply the candles Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El's Annual Chanukah Shabbat! Festival Of 1000 Lights! Oneg to follow! ALL IN THE FAMILY The Florida Broward Region Hadassah Women of the Year luncheon is honoring Arlene Harr as Pine Island Ridge Woman of the Year 2013. She will be feted on Sunday, December 8th at the Westin Fort Lauderdale Hotel. Her son, daughter-in-law, and grandson are so very proud of her! Rabbi Harr has been asked to be the Chairman of the Plantation Association of Clergy, a group of mainstream Churches and Synagogues in Plantation whose Pastors, Reverends and Rabbis endeavor to serve the community and represent its “spiritual side.” Mazel Tov on the engagement of Adam Rickel, son of Jill and Robert Rickel, to Elana Kanel, daughter of Robin and Amir Kanel of Palm Beach Gardens, FL. A May wedding is planned at Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El. Mazel Tov to Norah Ash on her marriage to Mark Harris. Norah is the daughter of Robert Ash and the late Brandee Ash. Rabbi Harr officiated at their nuptials in Hingham, MA. Rabbi Harr has been invited to deliver the prestigious Rabbi Nathan M. Keller Memorial Lecture, at Temple Anshe Emet of New Brunswick, New Jersey, over the forthcoming Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. weekend. This important lecture was established in memory of Rabbi Keller’s service to his Congregation and to the larger Jewish and secular community. Ida Stone’s 100th birthday is on December 9th, 2013 Ida Stone is celebrating her 100th birthday on December 9, 2013. She joined our temple with her husband Eddie Stone when they moved to Cooper City in 1979. Ida was Co-President of the Seniorhood for four years and has served the Temple in many capacities. Ida received the Sadie Scribner Award in 1987 and the Presidents Award in 2009. She has two daughters, Elaine Litvak (Baris) and Diane Hart (Walter). She has four grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren. Ida’s heart has always been with our temple and she has always told her children if she won the lottery she would pay off the Temple’s mortgage! Ida’s wishes are to receive her birthday blessing from Rabbi Harr at services this December 13th. Friends and family will be there to celebrate this special evening with her. MEMBERSHIP My Dear Friends and Fellow Congregants, I hope that everyone had a very happy, healthy and sweet New Year, and that you are eagerly planning for the Chanukah/Thanksgiving Turkey and Latkafest that is just around the corner! Our Temple has spent almost 40 years establishing and building on it’s Jewish Identity in Broward County, and the process and progress continues on a daily basis. A major event in the life of our Temple took place on July 1st as Rabbi Howard Needleman took over the pulpit as the new Senior Rabbi of Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El. Although there is a new Spiritual Leader of our Congregation, the Jewish Identity of our Temple continues to be consistent with past themes of Community, Family, a Commitment to Life-Long Learning, Tzedakah and Tikkun Olam. The High Holiday services and recent special services such as Simchat Torah and the first ever “First Fridays” casual Shabbat were a testament to the commitment of our Clergy, staff and members to make Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El the Beacon of Light of the South Florida Jewish Community. On November 1st and 2nd, we will officially welcome Rabbi Needleman and his family to our Temple Family with an Installation service and Gala Reception, as we pass the Torch from our past to our future. The Gala Committee has been preparing for several months for what should be a very exciting, fun-filled weekend and we look forward to sharing it with all of you. Our Founding Rabbi Emeritus Sheldon Harr and Fern Harr built a strong foundation, establishing our Jewish Identity with tremendous vision and dedication, and our future looks bright as we move forward and pass the torch to Rabbi and Beth Needleman. Following the Gala festivities, we will be holding a special “New Member” Shabbat service on November 15th, which will include a reception prior to services for all our new temple members. Invitations will be sent and more specific information will follow. B’shalom, Rob Rickel VP Membership New Members TO Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El new member spotlight Alec and Brandon Messeroff Brandon and I are very excited to be part of the TKAE family, and we truly appreciate the warm welcome we have received from all. As a single parent with a 10 year old son, life places many demands on your time, and after our prior synagogue closed a few years ago, we drifted from temple life. With Brandon now entering Bar Mitzvah years, it was important to make the time to not only find a warm, welcoming place of worship for us, but to also get him back into a good Jewish Educational Program. We are delighted that he is now enrolled in 5th grade Hebrew school at TKAE, and is enjoying his studies and making new friends. We live in Davie, although Brandon attends New Horizons Elementary School in Wellington. My background is accounting and finance, and presently I own and operate a “Green” Conservation Company located in Dania Beach, that retrofits buildings and facilities with today’s energy-saving technologies. Brandon and I look forward to being at home with our new synagogue family at TKAE. Welcome To Our New Families Jennifer, Joseph, Joshua & Justin Maxwell Josua, Kimberly & Carter Weiss Irwin & Ruth Hirtz Rob, Allison, Jackson, Jordan, & Charlie Sepielli Ariana, Ethan & Jeremy Taylor Bradley, Rachel & Ryder Ross Netanel, Ayelet, Litav & Maylee Maor December 20th 7:30 pm t a b b a h S p u p o P r e v E First Come join us on the blacktop for a chill evening of drinks, nosh and Shabbat goodness! Shabbat never tasted so good! Dinner, non-alcoholic drinks and dessert $8.00 per person BYOB too! Meet in the Parking Lot of TKAE and pull up a chair! For reservations, please visit www.tkae.org or call the Temple office 954-472-1988 Brotherhood Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El hat a difference a year makes. As of this summer we have on board our new Senior W Rabbi and have rebranded our Brotherhood. My message for the remainder of 2013 for Brotherhood and Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El is “get involved any way possible”. Becoming the president of Brotherhood has made me realize that there are too many congregants and potential new temple members that are looking for more than they are currently getting out of their temple. I truly believe that the New Brotherhood will be able to offer events and activities that will help everyone connect and become more active in our community on both, a spiritual and social aspect. It did not take long to realize the dedication that Rabbi Needleman has for our Temple and community and I look forward to him deepening his relationships with all of our temple members through Brotherhood’s social events. In closing, I encourage each and every one of you to get involved in any capacity and I promise it will make a difference. Gary Burwick Brotherhood President Sisterhood Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El W e are approaching the new year with so many interesting and exciting programs for everyone and that includes our Sisterhood at TKAE. Many thanks to everyone who helped make our First Chai Tea such a success. I heard that some new friendships began and isn’t that just what it’s all about?? Please check all of the upcoming events because there is something for everyone. Our Day and Evening Book Clubs can suggest new material to stimulate our minds, Simona Sklash will be leading Rosh Chodesh which will surely lead us to enhanced spirituality, and of course just for fun we have Bingotini. Check out all of the calendars and mark the dates that interest you. Remember to bring at least one friend because we love new members! B’Shalom, Francine Wiener Sisterhood Calendar Thursday, November 7th at 7:30 PM - Board Meeting Tuesday, November 12th from 5:00 - 9:00 PM - Wine & Cheese Boutique Kickoff Wednesday, November 13th from 9:00 - 1:00 AM - Holiday Boutique Thursday, December 5th at 7:00 PM - Board Meeting Thursday, December 5th at 7:30 PM - Bingotini Tuesday, December 17th at 11:00 AM - Daytime Book Club at Posnack JCC Tuesday, December 17th at 7:30 PM - Evening Book Club at Temple SENIOR FRIENDS S enior Friends are delighted to welcome Rabbi Howard Needleman and his wife Beth, and children Noah and Abby to our Temple family. We’re looking forward to your participation in our group and in the lives of our senior friends. Your warmth, kindness, and consideration are much appreciated. We wish you every success and a long, meaningful, and wonderful future in our community. Mazel tov and congrats! Adele Grodsky Senior Friends President SENIOR FRIENDS Calendar Sunday, November 3, 2013 - 1:30PM Chapel Movie ‘A Cantor’s Tale’ with Special Guest Cantor Mark Goldman Sunday, December 1, 2013 - 1:30PM Chapel with Special Guest Rabbi Needleman SENIOR FRIENDS Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El 22 Jewish Inspired Jewish Identity Y I I X R P D T S T M G G O F P E O P L E H O O D I A G Z J C X T A M Y H L O Y R K L R G A Y K H L P A E C P E F K O J N O A N N D X A X L L F K U B T K O T O I Y R G T I K Q E N O E W N E L C S Q M G Y H A Q R S A P O R J I C L I B H P Y Z I T V W U U Q T I O M V C J U A K A D E Z T C Y N Y C X A T G U A L M K P L H S T T N G Q L I P I I E X F U F Z J L C C S M P R A Y E R C C F A V O M E J I I B B A R X P F W E J T O B Z Z B U H T U Q X Q C K ADONAI ETHNICITY OLAM RABBI TIKKUN CANTOR ISRAEL PEOPLEHOOD RELIGION TZEDAKA CULTURE JUDAISM PRAYER TEMPLE Doing Good Together. at TKAE. W Our Social Action Committee e welcome any and all TKAE members to our committee! Our ages range from young to old. We volunteer and care about many different organizations and causes but we share a common vision of, tikkun olam, making the world a better place! We are passionate and care about the poor, the homeless, our seniors and children who need our help and those suffering from illness. We care about education, promoting health and wellness and environmental stewardship. We believe that social change can only happen at a collective human level. We invite you to join us for our next social action committee meeting. For more information, call our office at 954.472.1988. Our faith as Jews is not privately held within the walls of our temple, but, rather, publicly shared with the world we live in. Rabbi Howard Needleman Meet Our Committee Chairs Liz and Ken Ross K en and Liz Ross have been Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El members for 14 years. They have two beautiful daughters, Chloe and Sophie, who both attended TKAE’s Pre-school and Hebrew school since they were toddlers. Additionally, both of their daughters celebrated their B’Nai Mitzvah at the Temple as well as their confirmations. Liz and Ken strongly feel that service to others through social action is the most important job we have as human beings. They have been involved with many causes throughout the years and always bring their girls along with them. They both believe that this has helped to instill in them their value of social activism. They are both very excited to be working with our Temple Clergy as well as the Social Action committee to help Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El become the most caring temple in Broward! An update on our Environmental Action: O ur TKAE Garden represents the commitment our temple has to both the environment and our community social action. It is one of many ideas and we hope that it inspires you to make changes or adopt ideas, products, and ways of living that are both greener and more sustainable. Interested in Jewish sustainable programs? Look to COEJL, HAZON and Jewcology to help. In an effort to continue to responsibly reduce our carbon footprint and live responsibly, we would like to expand our environment action committee. Please call our temple office if you are interested in participating. Check us out on our website at tkae.org A little about our History: Many of our congregants may not know just how environmentally friendly our synagogue is, so here are a few facts we thought we would share: • In 2005 we established a “green committee” with our youth director who had come directly from COEJL. (Coalition on the Environment and Jewish Life). • By 2006, we had transformed our schools and synagogue environment by eliminating toxic chemicals in our cleaning supplies and began using only environmentally friendly cleaning supplies. • The following year, we incorporated only post consumer paper products and energy efficient lighting • In 2008 we started our very first small organic garden using exclusively non-gmo seeds. • In 2010, we doubled the size of our garden. • In 2011, our day school incorporated the garden projected into our full curriculum and won a garden award at the Fairchild Tropical Challenge. • In 2012, we had our very first congregation-wide Religious School TuB’Shevat Celebration out at the organic garden where TKAE families planted seeds for the new harvest. SHABBAT ON THE GREEN JAN 10 • 7:30 PM Enjoy a special Shabbat experience in Gan Shalom, our beautiful meditative garden. 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Katz David & Sandra Farkas.....................................in memory of June Farkas Sheldon & Carmen Seltzer.....................in memory of Bernard Soberman Faith & Marty Sperry..................................in memory of Raymond Sperry Saul & Beth Kravec..........................................in memory of Miriam Rush Judy Trop..........................................................in memory of Clarice Ginn Irene & Hank Meyer......................................in memory of Lloyd Schwartz CANTOR’S DISCRETIONARY MUSIC FUND Edee Wollin & Robert Linett……...................in memory of Bernard Wollin Nancy & Stuart Feiner.............in honor of Hayley Landman’s Bat Mitzvah Nancy & Stuart Feiner...................in memory of Ronald Helf, Marvin Helf, Joni Helf, Laura Helf & Cele Perlmutter Nancy & Stuart Feiner...................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Julia & Bruce Goldner.............................in memory of Bernard Soberman Talenfeld & Zobel Families..................................in memory of Terry Zobel Irene & Hank Meyer...........................................in memory of Rose Meyer Howard & Judith Cohen...................................in memory of Lillian Gilfarb ELIZABETH SHOSHANNA HARR YOUTH SCHOLARSHIP FUND Martin & Ellen Fishman………........……………in memory of Clarice Ginn Elaine & Baris Litvak…......................................…in memory of Hope Taft Minette & Paul Brown....................................in memory of Mollie Gersten CHILDREN’S LIBRARY FUND Mara & Kenny Wurtenberger.........................in memory of Mollie Gersten Irene & Hank Meyer...................................in memory of John F. Kennedy YOUTH GROUP FUND Lynn & Alan Buhler.........................................in memory of Evelyn Buhler Lesley & Philip Dubs....................in honor of the wedding of Norah Ash & Mark Harris Paul & Fern Schneider..................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Elana Schramm.............................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Joan Schwartz...............................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Liz & Ken Ross..............................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Jennifer & Stuart Kapp..................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Saul & Beth Kravec.......................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Cara & David Pollack.....................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Julia & Bruce Goldner....................................in memory of Mollie Gersten The Dagen Family.........................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Beth Ann & Peter Krimsky.............................in memory of Mollie Gersten Lori & Calvin Helitzer & Family......................in memory of Mollie Gersten Bob & Sheila Berke.......................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Lisa & Brian Pearlman...................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Abby & Gregg Wilentz...................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Stephanie & Michael Wurtenberger...............in memory of Mollie Gersten Toni & Leon Weissberg..................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Dvir & Sharon Weiss.....................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Jason & Debi Chalik......................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Jay & Marilyn Wilde.......................................in memory of Mollie Gersten Rise & Herb Yevelson....................................in memory of Mollie Gersten MONA ALBERT EARLY CHILDHOOD FUND Morton Albert & Family……...............................in memory of Mona Albert CAPITAL CAMPAIGN Linda & Harlan Kuritzky....................……in memory of Marvin A. Kuritzky HANNAH “HONEY” SCHWARTZ SENIOR FUND Judy & Chuck Gelpey.............................................in memory of Hope Taft Senior Friends........................................................in honor of Yosl Broder DARRELL SCOTT FAGELSON RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND Barbara & Michael Apter.................................in memory of Beatrice Apter Elizabeth Shoshanna Harr Memorial Youth Scholarship Fund Through the generosity of our Temple members and Liz’s family throughout the years, the Temple is able to assist in the funding for our high school teens to attend a meaningful study/experiential mission to Israel. Programs eligible for scholarship grants include NFTY in Israel, High School in Israel, March of the Living and others of a similar type. Please call or leave a message (ravsjh@tkae.org) for Rabbi Harr or Lisa Pearlman (lpearlman@tkae.org), requesting an application form. Upon completing the form, please return it to Rabbi Harr. These grants are only for children of members in good standing of TKAE. Please remember that these requests for grants must be made no less than two months in advance of the specific program and cannot be used to reimburse already-paid expenses. G TZEDAKAH rowing up in Brooklyn, New York to Orthodox parents, Temple life has always been a major part of my life. As a young adult, the concept of Tzedakah has always been in the forefront of my heart along with volunteerism. As I grew into Adulthood, and as a wife, going through all phases of Judaism, from Orthodox to LESLEY DUBS Conservative to Reconstruction Financial Secretary and finally Reform, the term is the same....TZEDAKAH! Translation, to do good deeds and give of oneself in kind and or donation. Whether you donate $5.00 or more, all funds are gratefully accepted and appreciated. Donations are used to either assist individuals, as well as Temple, Jewish and Communal Projects. IN MEMORIAM Sincere condolences are extended to our bereaved congregants and families of the late: 2013-2014 EXECUTIVE BOARD Temple President: CALVIN HELITZER Vice President of Administration: JONATHAN STREISFELD Vice President of Membership: ROB RICKEL Dr. Hartley A. Schwartzberg Husband of Barbara Schwartzberg Father of Jason, Jordan & Danielle Grandfather of Kira, Lexi, Zoe & Miranda Vice President of Education & Youth: KIM LIEBERMAN Miriam Rush Mother of Joel Rush Treasurer: CARA POLLACK Barry Fisher Husband of Marcia Fisher Father of Andy Fisher and Denise Zuckerman Grandfather of Zach, Joey, Julia, Matt & Alexa Mollie Gersten Mother of Lesley Dubs Mother-in-Law of Philip Dubs Grandmother of Russell Dubs Vice President of Ritual: CINDY HARRIS Financial Secretary: LESLEY DUBS Recording Secretary: KAREN SHIEKMAN Vice President of Ways and Means: GARY ELZWEIG BOARD OF DIRECTORS BEVERLY BACHRACH LINDA GENDLER CHARISMA GOODMAN ROBYN GOTTLIEB GIGI GREENE COREY HELLER CRAIG PACKER ART PHILLIPS PAUL SCHNEIDER HOWARD TALENFELD DANIEL WEINGER STEVEN WELLINS SENIOR STAFF HOWARD NEEDLEMAN Senior Rabbi rabbineedleman@tkae.org MARK GOLDMAN Cantor cantormg@tkae.org DVIR WEISS Executive Director dweiss@tkae.org STACEY KATZ Early Childhood Director skatz@tkae.org SIMONA SKLASH Religious School Director simona@tkae.org JOSH SIMON Youth Director jsimon@tkae.org DR. SHELDON J. HARR Founding Rabbi Emeritus ravsjh@tkae.org 30 10 NO GESHER VETERAN’S DAY Monday 25 18 11 4 26 7:00pm – Ecumenical Interfaith Thanksgiving Service at Plantation United Methodist Church NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL 12pm – Jewish Family Services Food Delivery 3pm – Open Youth Lounge 6:30pm – Religious School & Confirmation 19 12 3pm – Open Youth Lounge 5pm – Holiday Boutique 6:30pm – Religious School, Confirmation & Post-Con 7PM – Membership Committee Meeting 3pm – Open Youth Lounge 5 6:30pm – Religious School & Confirmation 7pm – Rosh Chodesh w/ Maynu Peter & Simona Sklash Israeli Dancing Tuesday 27 10am – Yoga with Melanie NO EARLY CHILDHOOD NO GESHER 5pm - Brotherhood Panther’s Game EREV CHANUKAH 10am – Yoga with Melanie 6-10pm – TKAE All-Stars at Maggie Moos Ice Cream & Treatery 7:15pm – Introduction to Judaism 20 13 9am – Holiday Boutique 9:30am – Grandparent’s Day at Early Childhood 7:15pm – Introduction to Judaism 10am – Yoga with Melanie 6 12pm – Jewish Film Series – “Kike Like Me” 7pm – Brotherhood Board Installation Dinner & Poker 7pm – Social Action Meeting 7:15pm – Introduction to Judaism Wednesday CHANUKAH DAY 1 THANKSGIVING NO EARLY CHILDHOOD NO GESHER 28 6pm – Federation Horizon’s Leadership Meeting 6pm – Executive Board Meeting 7pm – General Board Meeting 21 14 7 12pm – Lunch & Learn w/ Cantor Goldman – Healing in Judaism 7:30pm – Torah on Tap w/ Rabbi Needleman at Barnes & Noble 7:30pm – Sisterhood Board Meeting Thursday CALENDAR OF EVENTS 9am - Religious School 2pm – Children’s Harbor Party 24 9am - Religious School 10am – Wedding of Jason 17 Gilson and Robin Miller 10:30am – BPHI Soup Kitchen 11:30am – B.A.R.T. Meeting 1pm – The Gift of Shabbat: 5 Rabbis Share-Temple Beth Torah-Tamarac Jewish Center 3pm – MiSTY Pool Party NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL 11am – Ronald McDonald House 3 9am - Religious School 12:30pm - KATONTY Bowling Party 1:30pm - Senior Friends Meeting Movie “A Cantor’s Tale” 2pm - Women of the Wall th 25 Anniversary Event at Tradewinds Park Sunday 8 1 6:30pm –Chanukah Friday Light Live – FESTIVAL OF 1000 LIGHTS – Latkes & Vodka to Follow 29 CHANUKAH DAY 2 NO EARLY CHILDHOOD NO GESHER 7:30pm – Moustache Shabbat Services – Mo-Vember 8:30pm - Oneg 22 15 6:30pm – KAFTY Shabbat (Dinner, Service & Dessert) 7:30pm – New Member Shabbat - Welcome. Pray. Shabbat. 8:30pm - Oneg 6:30pm – MiSTY Shabbat (Dinner, Service & Dessert) 7:30pm – Shabbat Services 8:30pm - Oneg 6pm – Cocktail Reception and Rabbi Needleman’s Installation Service Friday 9 2 16 CHANUKAH DAY 3 30 23 8:00pm – Camp Coleman Presents - The Daily Show – An Evening of Comedy & Song 10:15am – Bat Mitzvah of Jacey Katz 6:30pm – KAFTY Progressive Dinner & Movie 7pm – Rabbi Needleman’s Welcome Gala Saturday November 2013 31 1 15 8 9 2 10 3 24 9:15am – PTO Meeting 17 11am – Daytime Book Club at Temple 3pm – Open Youth Lounge 6:30pm – Religious School & Confirmation 7PM – Evening Book Club at Temple 12pm – Jewish Film Series – “A Life Apart” 3pm – Open Youth Lounge 6:30pm – Religious School & Confirmation & Post-Con NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL CHANUKAH DAY 6 Tuesday 4 5 12 th 26 12pm – KAFTY at NFTY-STR Winter in Orlando 25 19 4pm – KATONTY Program & Dinner 6pm – Executive Board Meeting 7pm – General Board Meeting 10am – Yoga with Melanie 10am – Christmas Serving at All Saints Soup Kitchen 18 10am – Yoga with Melanie 12:00pm - Lunch & Learn w/ Cantor Goldman - The future of Judaism in North America 7pm – Board of Education Meeting 31 1 2 6:30 – “First Friday” Shabbat 7:30pm - Oneg 3 7:30pm – Shabbat Services 8:30pm - Oneg 27 20 7:30pm – Pop-Up Shabbat Services on the Blacktop 8:30pm - Oneg URJ Biennial in San Diego URJ Biennial in San Diego 13 WINTER BREAK - NO EARLY CHILDHOOD, GESHER OR RELIGIOUS SCHOOL 30 6 6:30pm – 5 & 6 Grade RS Family Shabbat 6:30pm – “First Friday” Shabbat 7:30pm - Oneg th Friday 7:30pm – Shabbat Services 8:30pm – Oneg URJ Biennial in San Diego 7pm – Sisterhood Board Meeting 7:30 - Bingotini CHANUKAH DAY 8 Thursday 10am – Yoga with Melanie 11 10am – Yoga with Melanie 7:15pm – Liheyot Meeting CHANUKAH DAY 7 Wednesday WINTER BREAK - NO EARLY CHILDHOOD, GESHER OR RELIGIOUS SCHOOL 23 16 7pm - TKAE presents Poker Night & Monday Night Football th Ida Stone’s 100 Birthday! CHANUKAH DAY 5 Monday CALENDAR OF EVENTS 29 22 URJ Biennial in San Diego 9am - Religious School 10:30am - BPHI Soup Kitchen 9am - Religious School NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL 1:30pm – Senior Friends Meeting – Special Guest Rabbi Needleman CHANUKAH DAY 4 Sunday 10:15am – Bar Mitzvah of Mason Lichstrahl URJ Biennial in San Diego 7pm – KAFTY & MiSTY Chanukah Party Saturday 4 28 21 14 7 December 2013 Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El 8200 Peters Road Plantation, FL 33324 954-472-1988 www.tkae.org NON-PROFIT ORG U.S. POSTAGE PAID Ft. Lauderdale, FL PERMIT NO. 1985