in memoriam - East Barnet Old Grammarians
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in memoriam - East Barnet Old Grammarians
East Barnet Old Grammarians December 2013 Newsletter IN MEMORIAM ANN HARRINGTON Ann's brother, Alan Harrington (1953-1959), writes: "Peter Smee’s photo on page one of the EBOG Newsletter for June 2013 has prompted me to send you the sad news that my sister, Ann Woolmer (neé Harrington1948-1954), died in Barnet Hospital on 2 September 2012 after a long battle against breast cancer. She is survived by her husband, four children, four grandchildren and a great-grandson. Ann also appears, sitting next to Miss Stranz, in Terry Griffiths’s photo on page 10 of the September Newsletter". ANGUS JOHNSTON Mike Brazier reports that EBGS Headmaster from 1961-1970, Angus Norman Johnston CBE, passed away peacefully in a Nursing Home on 15th October 2013 after a short illness aged 91. Donations can be made in his memory to Prostate Cancer UK and Macmillan Cancer Care, care of Peasgood & Skeates, 45 Moorfield Rd, Duxford, Cambridge CB22 4PP. In the September 2010 Newsletter John Lambert (1960-1968) wrote: "Mr Johnston was a fine musician, and saw to it that music flourished. Under his guidance, the first instrumental lessons took place at the school (yours truly had a bash on the clarinet) and the school orchestra was formed in which he played the second fiddle. Under Angus Johnston's leadership, Music A-Level was offered, and I was lucky enough to participate. I was never a bright pupil, but, thanks to the maximum help from the school, scraped into The Royal Academy and Kings College London to read music". LEN BREWER (1942-1947) Len's daughter, Penny Brewer, writes: Our wonderful father, friend and colleague, Len Brewer left this world peacefully on Tuesday morning, 22nd October; you who know him well will agree that being ill didn't suit his strong physical and mental personality plus his love of humanity and fun! (Ed. note: by an amazing coincidence an EBOG and former schooldays girl friend of Len's, the late Pat Hobbs, worked for TWA in Los Angeles at the same time as I did. However, since we were in different departments and rarely spoke to each other, she and I didn't discover this common bond until we met at a TWA reunion some years later.) BRIAN E. W. CROSS (1942 – 1947) John Gubbins writes: It is sad to report that Brian died in August this year (2013) following a long period of rather poor health. Brian enjoyed a successful school life during difficult war years. He was a regular member of the school soccer team which at that time enjoyed much success against other local school teams. On leaving school in 1947 Brian was conscripted into the army for National Service during which time he was drafted to Tripoli and as a result of a friendship he made in the army, on demobilisation, he started work for a company of industrial roofing engineers remaining with them for the major part of his working career. There was only ever one girl for Brian and that was class mate Lilian Shepherdson. They were happily married in 1954 and set up home in Bickley, Kent where they enjoyed a happy family life with their three children. Following retirement Brian and Lilian moved to Lanhydrock, Cornwall. Sadly in 2002 Lilian died but Brian stayed on in the bungalow they had shared together. Brian travelled widely over the years on business and pleasure with the result that he and Lilian assembled a very wide circle of friends with whom he kept in contact for the rest of his life. His 80th birthday was testament to this when over the course of a day nearly 100 friends from far and wide gathered at his sons’ house to celebrate. 1 Brian battled bravely with health problems for many years but he always remained cheerful always happily exercising that capacity he had for long conversation and in depth discussion. He will be missed by many old friends. DON GOSNELL Brian Addinall (1948-1953) writes: Having just attained the age of 80, Don has died after a slow decline, bravely borne. He attended EBGS about 1944 to 1948/9, where he was a great friend of the late Terry Cheetham. When he left the school, with five fellow keen cyclists, all six rode their bikes all the way to the South of France and back using their schoolboy French, avez-vous des lits pour six?, which they all remembered throughout their lives. Their names might ring bells with some people:- Don, Terry, Brian Saxton, Johnny Hardman, Roy Craig, and Alan Addinall. SCHOOL PLAY 1961 - THE CRUCIBLE Maxine Elvey (1958-1965) sent this photo of the 1961 production of Arthur Miller's "The Crucible". One thing that singled it out was the starring performance of Pete Freeman, who rose to much greater things under his stage name of Paul Freeman. He had a leading role as the 'baddie' in Raiders of the lost Ark and has had many other highlights. 1947 entry year group at the 2012 Reunion: Joan Rawlings (née Morford), Malcolm Butson, Dave Vincent, Editor Brian, Brian Barnett 2 EBGS MEMORIES OF THE 1950'S From Tony Dix to repeat his question. I must have satisfied him somehow as I started in the First Year in September. Here is a photo of what the well-dressed, second-year nerd was wearing in 1956! Yes, short trousers were worn until the third year and NHS glasses were not yet in imitation of John Lennon. Back row: Martin Block and Pete Mcarthur. Front row: Me, Paul Hercus, Geraldine Stevens, Roy Bailey and Linda Marquese It was quite a change from Primary School, particularly going from the top class in the junior school to bottom of the heap in the Grammar School. The whole social structure was more formal, from the prefects at the top of the pile, through the Sixth Form with certain privileges and down through the years. The house system imposed a further artificial structuring of the population. Boys were still addressed by surname. Rick Stevens, Carol Bjorck, Geraldine Stevens, Mick Colle and Martin Block Each day started either with a full assembly in the hall or a house assembly in smaller rooms. The full assembly began with the staff, wearing their black gowns, filing onto the stage. They remained standing until the Head arrived, taller than any of them, trailing his enormous gown behind him. He led the assembly, reading notices and announcements and finally the prayers, reading and hymn. At the last stage the school atheists, maths teacher Mr Wankling and chemist Mr Bremner, ostentatiously left the platform. Mr Wankling was one of the few outrageous characters on the staff. He drove a scooter and spent one My first visit to East Barnet Grammar School was for interview in Spring 1954. I soon found myself facing the monumental figure of Mr Clayton who questioned me on my understanding of a text I had read before the interview. Unfortunately, though I understood the text, which involved the early history of London Bridge, I could barely understand what the Old Man was saying, since he spoke with his clasped hands in front of his mouth and I frequently needed to ask him 3 lesson in silence staring malevolently at one of its wheels which he slammed on the table in front of the class. According to the local paper he and French teacher Mr Gilby were once stopped by the police when riding the scooter up Barnet Hill, celebrating the end of the school year by singing in an inebriated manner. He wore a hammer and sickle badge in his lapel to indicate his communist beliefs and was member of a Morris Dance group to maintain contact with the working class. Eventually he left the school to get married in middle age to the head mistress of a girls school in Jersey. I met him some years later in Southgate in the shop where I had a holiday job. His wife and young baby were with him but mischievously he confided to me that he had married mainly for the cheap cigarettes in Jersey. just missing Mr Flitcroft’s head. (RB later became principal of a college in Tyneside so I hope his students were more docile than he was!) ‘Jack’ Taylor taught maths. He was a good teacher, albeit with some practices which would have got him in trouble nowadays. A favourite punishment was to stand behind his victim in front of the class while twisting the miscreant’s cheeks. As the worst performer in any athletic field it may seems surprising that I have great gratitude to Mr Viney. Having heard of too many cases where PE teachers take pleasure in tormenting the weaker performers, I appreciate his constant encouragement and absence of any criticism. He, as always on special occasions, wore his Loughborough Jacket and white trousers, showing that he had been through the best sports college in the country. In the war he had been a commando and occasionally came out with stories from that time. I remember one in which during parachute training a member of his battalion suffered a parachute failure and ‘made a hole just big enough to bury him in’. It amazes people when I tell them that the top class took GCE’s in four years, but this was achieved by giving us only a year each of Music, Art and Woodwork. This sacrifice was made with the intention of giving a third year in the Sixth Form to take Scholarship A-levels, but from a straw poll taken during the big reunion in 1987 it was not considered a great advantage in practice. Luckily, I discovered music for myself and married a musician and since retirement I have taken up drawing with enthusiasm. I fear no woodwork skills have ever been developed. Looking back, I regret that I was very little involved in the life of the school. I was the only boy that year to come from Brunswick Park Primary School and so did not have a ready-made group of friends. I have a copy of the school magazine for 1954 and there is an impressive range of clubs and other groups, nearly all of which I did not join. As the person least likely to be chosen for any athletic or sporting activities so I also ignored the games community of the school and attempted to avoid any timetabled exercise also. However, membership of the Photographic Society has led to my having a number of pictures of school life, some of which are included in this article. They are from around 1960 and show some of my fellow Sixth Form Science pupils. In the Sixth Form we had the privilege of using the terrace during breaks and lunchtime. The black half gowns show who is a full prefect. Coming through the school, badly behaved pupils were told that they would never amount to anything, starting with not rising to the highest status in the school. However, in an attempt to modify their behaviour, the worst miscreants were elevated to From the left, Roy Bailey, Mick Warr, Martin Block (unfortunately now deceased) and me Ed. note: I sent some of Tony's photos to friends of mine and one of them sent me this picture of what students in her American High School class were wearing in 1956) Mr Flitcroft was a very young maths teacher who had great trouble controlling our class which was know for its ‘liveliness’. He got so angry in one class that he hurled the wooden handled board rubber at R** B***** who threw it back, striking the blackboard and 4 outclassed his contemporaries. By an outrageous stroke of ill fortune he lost one leg, I think from bone cancer. (Ed. note: sadly, John eventually passed away from this) Alan Coren was writing for the school magazine but not yet showing his full comic talent which led to his career as a writer and editor of ‘Punch’. By the way, concerning your comments on the House system in the last Newsletter, it was still in full swing when I left in 1961 and anyone who says otherwise is one of those swinish types from Juniper or Vialou. (Ed. note: as a proud and loyal former member of Vialou House, I take extreme umbrage at this comment.) prefecthood while the goody-goodies (like me!) were overlooked. In fact, our protests did lead to a change of policy but I think I drew from this possibly the best lesson from the school that in Life you should not expect to be appreciated for what you do (or don’t do). Among other teachers, Mr Salamé who taught German, stood out for me. He had written the first radio course for German beginners and had much material from this work which benefitted us. I enjoyed the language and can still make myself understood in simple German. Two pupils further up the school when I joined the first year were John Allamand and Alan Coren. Allamand was an extremely talented athlete who far LETTERS Brian, Nothing really much to report other than I met up with Mike and Beth Wearing last week for lunch they are over from Nova Scotia catching up with friends and family. It was great to see them both and indulge in 'old' memories. Unfortunately Brian and Sheila Crow were on this occasion unable to join us so we will try to plan something for next year. EBOG's seem to be spread around the world nowadays which probably explains why several old friends were not able to attend the super reunion in 2012. Regards, Alan Burgin (1949-1955) alanburgin@btopenworld.com I'm in the yellow t-shirt After leaving school I joined Marks & Spencer as a Management Trainee. Seven years later, married with two daughters, I went to work for the OK Bazaars (1929) Ltd. for two years working mainly in Cape Town and Port Elizabeth. Not happy with the prevailing political cloud of apartheid, we came home to England eventually spending 26 years with Birds Eye Foods in Sales, later in Sales Development. On an early retirement I turned to something completely different, spending some years working at Nottingham Crown Court as a Court Usher and later in the Office on a part time basis. Now, as a "young" old fart I enjoy the world of antiques, walking holidays and playing scrabble with my lovely second wife, Luise. Hoping that someone out there will remember me. Final memory of Mr Yates: "If you want to play about, boy, you can get outside!" Good luck, Norman "Nat" Simler (1948 - 1952) Tel: (0115) 926 2354 20 Patterdale Rd, Woodthorpe, Nottingham, NG5 4LQ No e-mail Brian, I've recently been contacted by my old school chum, Terry Griffiths, who asked me what I can remember about my days at East Barnet Grammar School. In a flash of nostalgia I see smart maroon uniforms, boys with quiffs and girls in gym slips. Happy days unless you queued for a caning from Mr Clayton, the Headmaster. Can anyone remember the School trip to San Sebastian in 1951?. Classmates I can remember included Eddie "Wally" Prentice, Ian "Sloppy" Gilson, Gerald Monk, Alan Pedder, Johnny Murrells, "Dubby" Baldwin, Michael Stokes, Michael Twilley, David Coke, Terry Griffiths, William Rundle, Brian Clarke, David Vincent, Molly Everett, Molly Giles, Valerie Gilbert, Norma Skinner, Barbara Thompson, Doreen Arnold, Pamela Patterson, Eileen Miller, Margaret Harland and Carol Davis. Teachers I remember with affection: Mr Thurman - Maths, Miss Williams - English, Mr Yates Economics, Mr Halliwell - History. 5 Hi Brian Another sunny day here in Oz, 25 degrees today and we've only just come out of winter! Your piece about Houses sparked a memory as I think it was during my era in the late 70's when the system finally ran out of steam. My year was the second intake of the comprehensive system (1971+) Teachers of the day would probably confirm this was a difficult time at the school. By the time we made it to the Senior High School (then at Chestnut Grove) the House system was crumbling. I remember Alan Viney pulling his hair out at the lack of interest in the House Football Tournament around 1976 and I think it was at this time it was finally abolished, something that displeased me as any excuse for a game of football was worthy as far as I was concerned. always willing to volunteer somebody else's time and labours! Geoff Weston (né Biddle) (1952-1958) geoff.weston2@btinternet.com Hi Terry (Boyce) and Brian Terry, you'll remember me; Brian I'm not sure if we met, but that's old age for you. Anyway, this is Peter Hurt, still fondly known as The Gul in some parts. I attended the 40th anniversary reunion of the Class of 65 earlier this year and I'm told there is an account of it in one of your newsletters. I can't seem to open them on the website. Is it possible you can add me to your email mailing list? In perusing the EBOG site, I had a good look at the 75th reunion photos and you certainly had a lot of memorabilia there! Is there anything left by any chance? I'd love to buy something; it would go well with the old school tie which I still have. Sad to see that Angus Johnson passed away but he obviously had a good innings. He lived round the corner from me in Byng Rd (I lived at The Avenue). I've been told that Vern Leonard lives out here somewhere (Melbourne?) and Derek Finch I last heard of in Adelaide many moons ago. I'm now on the Gold Coast, still working, and hoping against hope that we beat you Pommie bastards and regain the Ashes! I left England's fair shores at the end of 1975 and have been back on three or four occasions, even living and working there for about 18 months in the 90s. Our 40th reunion was great and credit goes to Chris Wheeler and the gang for organising it, and to Chris and to Louise Power (nee Hoffman) for tracking me down! With the wonders of email these days I am now in touch with Chris, Robert Hunt, Ian Welch and Brian Tilley occasionally. Louise and Doj (Ian Graham) have kept in touch by letter all this time. It's amazing how strong the links still are and I reckon that reunion was one of the best nights of my life. Hope to be over for the 50th! Good to see you looking so well, Terry, and I always remember you as a nice guy with a smile on your face. Hope to hear from you and regards to all who may remember me. Cheers for now. Peter Hurt margiepeter@bigpond.com L-R Jeremy Smee, Gary Green, Vern Leonard, Dean Brazier On a different note, a few of the EBOZ boys enjoyed a few beers in the sun at Darling Harbour in Sydney recently. Present were Gary Green, Vern Leonard, Dean Brazier and Jeremy Smee, I was lucky enough to join Dean on a corporate freebie to The Bledisloe Cup Union match at Olympic Park afterwards to see The All Blacks thrash The Wallabies, seems the home country can't win at anything these days. How times change! All the best, Jeremy Smee (circa 1972-1978) jmsmee@hotmail.com Dear Brian, Another excellent newsletter, clearly a labour of love! As a member of that august group who find computers just a little tiresome, I have been struggling with the Alumni website as a person locator. I'm wondering if a brief "where is so & so?" box could be introduced in your pages. In my case, I would like to ask "where is" Robert (Bob) Berry (circa 52/58)? He lived in Totteridge, was part of our illustrious skiffle group and has proved impossible to locate thus far. Yes, I'm Dear Brian I am very conscious that I have had two e-mails from you and have yet to reply. I can't take the pressure these days! Len Brewer: I was sorry to learn of his passing. He was in my year at School and he was a member of a 6 the sporting fields. There always has to be a winner or loser in life! To write about the School Houses and the Inter-house sporting competitions - forget about the points from academic sources or deducted for detentions - I. and many others I hasten to add, had a fair share of these and, so, had to make up points in other fields. The competition between JUNIPER (the best), Hadley and Vialou, on the playing fields were as vital a part of School life in my day as were the academic achievements of others. Life is competitive and I feel the School was right to encourage competition both in the Classroom and on the Playing fields. Even today many Old Students that I meet will refer to these Inter-House activities and the competitive element that it encouraged. Mike Brazier (1941-47) mike.brazier9@btinternet.com very good School Football 1st XI. I think he played for a time with the Old Students Football Club but eventually moved South London way and we rather lost touch. Although I know that he retained a keen interest in both the School and the Association. The Association Newsletter: What a challenge from the Editor who e-mailed me to say - "I normally don't publish opposing opinions to mine." but gave me the option to do so. It surprises me that an admitted road runner (of some repute I am lead to believe) should want to belittle the contribution that sporting contests, and individual efforts on the sports field made. The idea of Inter-House competitions, in those days, was to involve every member in supporting their House in some way, by gaining points either academically or on Pam Coxen's Spanish Diary drizzled in, until it has a mayonnaise type texture. We tucked straight into this before the salads arrived, usually consisting of lettuce, tomato, cucumber and sliced red onion, I added lashings of olive oil from the cruet, to mine. With 3 choices for each course, it takes some time to decide. Neil selected tortilla, a Spanish omelette, whilst I chose creamy leek soup for the second course. By this time my stomach was telling me I had nearly reached my limit for lunch-time consumption, but there was main course and dessert still to come. As I am almost completely vegetarian I chose a tomato ravioli, almost envious of Neil's brocheta de chorizo con champiñones, put simply a kebab of Spanish sausage and mushrooms. We had to pass off the rest of the menu and finish our meal with ice cream and coffee. This is one restaurant definitely benefitting from the recession, that won't be closing it's doors. Here is my recipe for tortilla. You need a couple of good sized potatoes, scrubbed well, skins left on, and this is where I cheat; I pop them into the microwave and cook till nice and soft. One onion, peeled and chopped finely, then put into a medium sized frying pan with a generous spoonful of olive oil, cook till soft but try not to 'brown' them. Whisk 4 or 5 eggs and season to taste. Here I sometimes cheat again and add a bit of curry powder (how terribly British), slice up the cooled potatoes and mix with the cooked onions in the pan (add a little more olive oil if needed), pour the eggs over the potato mixture, prod to make sure the eggs are evenly spread, and cook gently , I usually put a lid It is a known fact that when times are economically bad, the Spanish raise their prices in shops and bars, etc. causing trade to drop even further, resulting in more and more establishments closing down along our Paseo de Mediterraneo and shopping centres. One delightful restaurant, situated on the beach, with an old fishing boat outside, which they now use as a barbeque in which to cook sardines, the aroma alone sufficient to draw you inside, does seem to have found the answer. From Monday to Fridays they have produced a 4 course menu for only 7.50€ (£5). You could not cook it at home for this. Saturdays and Sundays it is a little more expensive, but the menu is greater for weekenders. Yes it is Spanish managed, but we understand that it has been owned for several years by a well known British Soap Star. From 1pm until 4pm the waitresses are rushed off their feet. The menu changes every day, and after 6 visits you are offered a free bottle of champagne too. The other day we went along at 1pm, in order to sit as close to the waves as possible, and to admire the birds, little boats and beach. At 2pm the week before I counted as many as 50 people enjoying the same view and tables getting scarce. We ordered a beer and a bottle of water (these you do have to pay extra for). They arrived very soon, with a basket of fresh, warm bread and a bowl of home made "ali-oli", this is a delicious concoction of garlic crushed to pulp with olive oil and lemon juice 7 November. We had one little thunderstorm a week ago, but all over in a few hours. This photo of sunset was taken from our garden on the 4th of November. over the pan to help the procedure. When you are happy that the eggs are set, you can either risk, flipping the tortilla over in the pan, or do as I do, pop the pan under the grill to brown the top, you could even sprinkle some parmesan on it if you wish. Turn onto a serving dish, cut into 4or 5 slices and serve with, crusty bread, and a scrummy salad. I am rambling on a little this time but cannot end without a mention of our glorious weather, yes, midNovember still getting into the 80's early afternoon, and I am still swimming 250 metres a day in the pool. But it has been a very strange year, going back to September 2012 when we had the terrible floods and storms that claimed lives within a mile of out home. This was followed by a very wet and cold winter, when our olive crops were severely damaged, which will be noticeable, affecting prices of olive oil in the shops before too long. Summer did not start until early June, followed by the coolest July in my memory. We really thought we had got away with it this year, I had not even thought about air-con. All that changed in August, into the 100's, and so it lasted through September, October and into Happy Christmas everyone. Pam xx catherine.capper@gmail.com MEMORIES OF THE WAR YEARS From James Gilman the house was always filled with babbling noise. Auntie also had a fox fur cape, something I'd never come across before and was in awe of, representing as it did the ultimate aura of Hollywood-style glamour, along with her 'best dress' by Norman Hartnell, the Queen's dressmaker. Every new dress subsequently purchased became a Norman Hartnell dress by the simple expedient of having its label changed for the more impressive one. She also ate grapes -- a luxury fruit during wartime, which I'd never come across before -- and ate these peeled, just like they did in Hollywood films. Not surprisingly, Auntie Hilda was the only one of my aunts not to have become a Salvation Army officer, which probably accounted for quite a lot. Cousin Doug must have had his own life changed quite considerably by this sudden influx of relatives, but he took it all very well. He taught me how to scour the gutters for cigarette cards, to add to my growing collection gleaned from Uncle Alf's 40 a day habit (from which he eventually died). Doug let me use his air rifle, with which we'd take pot shots from the bedroom window at the row of circular cigarette tins (Uncle bought his fags by the hundred) disguised as Red Indians lined up along the top of the rear garden fence, together with the occasional intruder cats. He let me read his 'Hotspur' comic, so much more exciting than my own 'Champion' whose 'Rockfist Rogan RAF' , a fighter pilot who was also a champion boxer, couldn't compare with the 'Hotspur's' thrilling stories such as At Christmas 1940 we had a large turkey, one of whose legs Uncle Alf kept for weeks afterwards. He would ambush us with this as we entered a room, holding up the leg and, pulling its tendons, make its foot claw away at our faces, leaving us shrieking in gleeful horror. Auntie Hilda eventually gave it to their Scotch terrier, Mick, who wouldn't go near it, being as scared of it as we were. Mick was put out into the back garden every day to do his stuff, and it became my daily task to clear up after him when I got in from school. To encourage me in this ritual, Uncle Alf christened me 'The One Great Scorer' (after a favourite poem of his) and kept a score sheet on the kitchen wall on which I was required to enter each day how many of Mick's deposits I'd cleared up, getting a bonus sweet on each day I managed to enter a score higher than the daily average. At least it got me intimately acquainted with the garden. Uncle had an alternative name for me: 'R G', short for 'Rumble Guts'. It was all very different from life in Middlesbrough. Auntie Hilda had a 'daily', Mrs. Kettle, a cheerful soul who cleaned for her, having first removed her false teeth in case she lost them, as a result of which 8 consummate accuracy. I found that my schoolmates spoke Bournemouth, a civilised language indistinguishable from proper English, unlike Yorkshire, and so I had no difficulty fitting in with them and spent a happy year at Alma Road. We had no bombs falling on Bournemouth during that first year of the war, but there was one piece of exciting good luck for me and my friends. One night a lone German plane dropped a land mine -- like a bomb, but descending slowly by parachute -- which took it upon itself to land squarely on our school. We were overjoyed at the sight that met our wondering eyes next morning; the school engulfed by its own rubble, with a hastily written message in chalk on a blackboard at the gate announcing SCHOOL CLOSED. Disbelieving of our extraordinary good luck, our little hearts sang with joy as we skipped our way back home, thanking Herr Hitler over there in Berlin for his generous gift that day. Of course, other premises were soon found for us, but we all agreed that that wasn't Hitler's fault -- he'd done his best for us. What did surprise me, however, was that on a brief return visit to Bournemouth and my old school in the 1990s, they were still talking to their pupils about the landmine that dropped that day, some 55 years earlier. I expect it was the only time the school had hit the headlines and, as such, generated cherished memories. I had a friend, Alan Crabbe, with whom I often used to walk to school and back from his house in Alma Road near the Odeon Cinema. Alan taught me an invaluable lesson one day on the way home from school. He stopped suddenly, pointed down to the pavement, and announced that there was a whole secret underground world below the ground we were standing on, full of tunnels and people working away. I was astounded, and disbelieving of such a possibility. He then told me there was an entrance to this hidden world in his garden, and on reaching his house he showed me a metal trapdoor in the ground in a corner of his back garden. "If you pull that open, there's a ladder going down into one of the tunnels!" Dumbfounded and excited at this revelation of a secret entrance into fairyland, I told Uncle Alf when I got home. He roared with laughter, and explained to me all about the sewerage system and its access via manhole covers in virtually every street. The aura of magic faded rapidly from my desolated imagination, but it taught me one thing: that there was much more to the world than appeared on the surface, and it left me with a lifelong fascination with what lurks beneath the cracks in our everyday experience of life. Looking back to that memorable year and with the trauma exorcised by my eventual reintegration with my family, I seem to recall endless days of sunshine spent on the beach or walking in the Winter Gardens, ''The Boy Who Broke The Siegfried Line' about a boy spy, ''The Hairy Sheriff about an ape who became a Wild West sheriff, 'Buckshot Drives The Death Coach' another Wild West tale, and 'Lost Boys On The Whirling Planet', about a class of schoolboys marooned on an alien planet. Every Sunday was celebrated with a traditional Sunday dinner. With Uncle first sharpening his carving knife and then wielding it with great skill, the meal was washed down with limitless glasses of 'Corona' fizzy pop, of which Uncle had a whole crateful delivered each week. We all lived in the large kitchen, which had its own toilet together with a sink upon which Grandma would sit me to wash my neck each Friday, convinced that otherwise it would never see the sunlight. The dining room hosted its own billiards table on which, on Saturday evenings, we would all take our turn under Uncle's guidance. It also hosted an electric gramophone, the first I'd ever seen, with a large collection of 78 rpm shellac records so precious they weren't allowed to be played with the customary steel needles. Oh no; we had to use special thorn needles, sharpened periodically on a special little gadget incorporating strip of sandpaper and silvery bits that moved up and down. There was also a Front Room which had its own chilly atmosphere, being used literally only at Christmas when occupying it felt like filing into church. On Sundays I was packed off to Sunday School at The Salvation Army, armed with my collection money with which I'd buy an ice cream, sit myself on a fence opposite the Hall, and walk back home when the children all filed out. This was my calculated response to the unfairness of Joan being allowed to stay at home and help with the dinner preparation. That Christmas of 1939 we had a lovely Christmas tree, courtesy of a lorry off whose back it fell just as Auntie was walking past She was good at acquiring things, returning home one day with a fresh egg which she'd found on the local post-box lying under the little metal flap which she'd lifted to take out a stamp she'd just paid for. My school, Alma Road Primary School, was a good two miles away from our house, the other side of a busy main road, yet I was expected to walk there and back every day, it being taken for granted that any 7 year-old was big enough to do so on his own. My reward was to be allowed to walk along the same route and across the same main road on Saturday mornings to go to the Odeon Cinema Children's show, where we watched such memorable films as 'Six-Shootin' Sheriff', in which all the goodies wore clean white Stetsons and won the fair lady, while all the baddies had dirty black ones and spat with disgust at losing the same fair lady. In this way was morality together with the desirability of cleanliness of clothing inculcated into my young life, along with a burning desire to learn to spit with 9 childhood there, so 'Deep Purple' immediately brings back the house in Bournemouth and my year there as an evacuee. To hear the opening lines ' When the deep purple falls / Over sleepy garden walls' is to be instantaneously transported back into the garden behind Auntie's and Uncle's house just as dusk is falling, back in 1939. Why this should be so, and what I'm doing there, I have no idea. Perhaps I'm pursuing the ghost of Mick the terrier in an effort to improve my score for the day. Or perhaps I'm just hoping to retrieve that touch of magic which brightened my young life at the time, and which I could have done with in much of the rest of that life. Whatever it is -- thank you Uncle Alf, Auntie Hilda, and cousin Doug, for such happy memories. travelling into the centre of town for one halfpenny on a big yellow trolleybus, gaily dropping acorns into the brims of ladies' hats below as Joan and I stood on the bridge crossing one of the Chines or wooded valleys intersecting the town, and walking Mick the terrier with cousin Doug through the pine woods at the top of our road, woods which seemed to magically extend for ever because we never managed to reach the end of them on our walks, taken up as these were with much climbing of trees and collecting of fir cones. It was Noel Coward who once remarked that it was strange how potent 'cheap music' was. If J. Alfred Prufrock in T S Eliot's poem of that name measured out his life with coffee spoons then my life, it seems to me, has been measured out by songs. Just as 'Rainbow On The River' immediately brings back Tsingtao and my LETTER FROM CONNECTICUT from Valerie Kent née Dodd immigrants as possible new citizens and not aliens, and to elect representatives and senators that were out to serve rather than to disrupt the government, have come to naught. This week on public television they are running programs every night about the life of Kennedy, how he became president and how he died. There are still people who do not believe that Lee Harvey Oswald was the sole killer of the President. The programs are very well done and nothing is whitewashed. One gets to see what it takes to become a President, how one has to bend one’s morals and manipulate individuals as well as groups of people to win the office. It is very discouraging, but after living here for so long I have become accustomed to politics and politicians. To my fellow East Barnet alumni it must seem as if we in America have lost all sense of control of our government this past year, and that is how is seems to us too. But this is what democracy means -- one man, one vote, and the majority wins. The good thing is that we are constantly changing our ideas and ideals here, particularly as the population mix changes, and there’s always a different group in power from one year to the next so if you wait long enough your party will get their turn. I have been voting since 1975 and there really is no choice for me. Only once did I vote for a Republican, and that was Gerald Ford because I thought he was a good man since nobody could find anything criminal about him! After Richard Nixon, he seemed like a bargain. Now we have a Democratic president, who I voted for, who is having a tough time. One can blame the Republicans all one likes for making life difficult for him, but he has to take some blame for himself. The roll November is the saddest month in New England. The leaves are almost all fallen and need to be raked, the trees are bare, the weather is getting colder and for me, it seems, that death is on our minds. This Monday was Veterans’ Day when we think about those who died for our country or were injured, and we are also remembering President John F. Kennedy, who was assassinated 50 years ago on November 22nd. Finally, personally speaking, this is the month I lost my husband, two years ago, so maybe that colors everything. Most people who were alive when Kennedy was shot remember where they were and what they were doing on that fateful day. I was riding in a car with my husband from Hertford to Stevenage, to visit one of his cousins and her family that evening. We were young, only 25 years old. We were listening to the radio when the music was interrupted by an announcement that President Kennedy had been shot in Dallas, Texas, and it was possible that he had died. The broadcast continued and we learned that this was indeed true. It seemed too horrible to contemplate, but we knew America in the Sixties as a violent country, with lots of problems with poverty and civil rights, so in one way we were not totally surprised. We could never have imagined that fifty years later we would be living in that same country, the United States, and would have been here for more than 45 years. Along with a vastly improved standard of living and a very interesting and fulfilling life, the violence, the poverty, and the distrust of the government would become so commonplace to us that we no longer thought we could do anything about it. Efforts to make laws governing gun control, to feed the poor, to treat 10 out of the Affordable Health Care Act (Obamacare) was a disaster. He says that “nobody could be madder than he is” but that doesn’t make me feel any better. I can only hope that the next two years of his presidency improve and he leaves feeling that he has accomplished something. There is so much to do, so many people living on the edge of poverty: eating in soup kitchens, living on food stamps (which have now been cut by the Republicans) and looking for work without any hope. On the other hand, the stock market is going up daily and the top one per cent of the nation is getting richer and richer. I can barely read the Real Estate section of the New York Times any more because the prices are so outrageous. None of them seem real to me, and the gap between the poor and the rich is wider than it has ever been. What does this all mean to those of you living in Britain? I am coming home for Christmas and will hear from my relatives in Barnet what life is like there. They already tell me not to even think about coming home to live permanently because I would find it too difficult to adjust and the price of property is even worse than in the U.S. with less value for money. I guess when I watch re-runs of “Doc Martin” every Saturday night I am looking at a fantasy world. This looks like the Britain I knew in the Sixties, as though nothing has changed. Even November in England I remember as a place of fireworks and fun. Tell me that I’m not wrong, that there are still places in Britain where such a life exists. Valerie Kent née Dodd (1949-1954) kents-at-home@att.net Israel Diaries 8 from Roni Hermony née Marsha Cannon Not much of it is good. For example my niece had a baby just over a year ago. My sister told me that if you wanted bed linen or a pillow you had to bring it with you and if you wanted the bathroom, make sure someone was beside the bed to guard your possessions. I remember that my parents, well, I don't think I'll go there… Suffice it to say that when my father got run over and his ankle was crushed, he was neither operated on nor did he get a plaster cast. "You are a pensioner – go home and rest – it will heal (eventually)!" He walked with a stick for the rest of his life. Here not all is rosy. I waited a year for this operation and received it only because someone cancelled. I had a date for next March. I have no idea how long I will have to wait for the left hand …. When I had a hole in the macula (left eye center of the retina where all the light collects) I had to wait over 6 months and by then, pertaining to eye surgery, it was a serious business. Having written that I must say that I did get the best surgeon in the field and except for the transparent scar in the center of my left eye vision, which I rapidly learned to ignore, I have put all that behind me and I see better than my husband with or without my glasses. Like most services in various countries all the services have their advantages and disadvantages – long waits etc., but no complaints about the treatments. Doctors and nurses strike occasionally and they are right – their pay is absurd for the hours and devotion to the profession – but as it is popular to say today – at the end Recently I underwent surgery on my right hand. Brian, our revered editor, suggested that I write an article this time comparing the Health services in Britain and Israel.. So let me share: My typing is very slow and I am correcting a lot of typos. I am using my ring finger on my right hand and all the fingers on my left. My hands are not in the regular position and I tap the wrong key. The funny thing was today when I caused the security exit in a shop to go crazy because of the Titanium pins in my two first fingers. It rang bells and whistles!!! The finger op is called Arthrodesis. I also had the osteoarthritic bone in my thumb removed – Trapezectomy, I guess because the bone removed is trapeze(wedge) shaped. The pin removal was quite traumatic...it was not as short as the diagram and projected beyond my thumb under the plaster cast. Recently, 2 months after surgery, I started cooking again, occasionally, not a lot of chopping and last week I started driving too, short distances. I didn't realize, when I had the surgery, what a long healing period would be involved and I am still doing physiotherapy. I know very little about the British Health services except what I have heard from my relatives. 11 of the day – I am not dissatisfied with the service I receive from the Health service that I subscribe to. A short article this time. More stories from my history next time. Happy Thanksgiving, Seasons Greetings to you all and Happy Hanuka too, Roni Hermony (1958-1963) Israel THE CLAYTON DIARIES 5-5-1951 TO 8-5-1951 Transcribed by Brian Warren (1951-1953) Executive examination. She placed 28th and is now working for the Ministry of Supply in the newly-formed European Purchasing Commission. Almost a month later Mr Huffer accepted the vacant History post. Mr. Hughes gave a lecture on South America to the Senior Society. 85 East Barnet Carnival Brochures were sold and the profits went to the Sports Fund. On the 14th of May the HM discovered a burglary in which Mr Vialou's gifts of coins and medals had been stolen. Wall Hall Training College sent nine Chinese Malayan educationists for a day's visit to the School. On the 1st of June the lights were not working and there was a gas leak in the Domestic Science Room. Later in the month the September intake of boys and girls were measured for their school uniforms and on the 6th of June the H.M. spoke to 3rd and 4th year pupils about the choice of optional subjects. On the 13th of June Dennis Hodges and Brian Stanley appeared in the Boy Scout Pageant produced by Ralph Reader at the Royal Albert Hall. Early in the new term swimming lessons began for 1st year girls. In the Hertfordshire Schools' Athletics Meeting John Wrighton won the 220 yards in 24 seconds and David Shott the 880 yards in 2 minutes 7.6 seconds. Alan (Ben) Brown won the Long Jump with a jump of 17' 7½". At the Barnet and District Secondary School Sports Meet EBGS boys won the Mather Cup for the 5th year in succession while the girls' team came 3rd. During the term Dennis Hicks gave tennis coaching. On the 1st of May Latin teacher, Miss Weavers, attended the rehearsal for the opening ceremony of the Festival of Britain. Two days later she sang with the London Philharmonic Choir at the opening. On the 5th of May the Old Boys' Football AGM was well attended. The officials elected for the following year were President: Mr. Clayton, Secretary: R. Wilkerson and Match Secretary: K. Jelley. The Clubman of the year was J.A. Dearman. At the University Presentation Day on the 8th of May at the Albert Hall, Miss Lehmann was awarded an M.A. and Mr Wankling an M Sc. On the same day Mr Russell of the Headmasters' Employment Committee gave an evening lecture on careers for Grammar School boys attended by about 60 boys and their parents with Mr Clayton in the chair. The Old Boys Cricket Club dance was held on the 26th of May with the Jan Beuscher Band and Rex Faulkner as M.C. Peter Sore, when playing for Cockfosters 2nd XI against Bowes Park took 6 wickets for 7 runs, including 5 wickets in 5 balls in one over! R.W. Postlethwate stumped all 3 wickets for a hat trick. On the 2nd of June there was a reunion of former students and staff. There was a cricket match followed by a dance in the evening. Former student, Beryl Clark, gained her ARCM for piano playing at the Guildhall School Of Music. Vernon Jones won the Henderson Open Scholarship for pianoforte at the same institution. Peter Chapman gained MB, BS (University Of London) at St. George's Hospital. Peter Hurst and Geoffrey Bowne took a Chemistry Honours course at Regent Street Polytechnic. Iris Hyde, B.A., passed the Civil Service Please send Newsletter contributions to Brian Pritchard brianfpr@roadrunner.com 12
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