School Loop increases parental involvement Sideline saboteurs
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School Loop increases parental involvement Sideline saboteurs
the hub january 31, 2014 davis high school Davis Idol contenders prepare for finals Check out BlueDevilHub.com for coverage of tomorrow’s debate tournament Culture 13 School Loop increases parental involvement KATIE LEE / IC With so much pressure to get into a good college, parents are more involved than ever in their child’s grades. Add School Loop to the mix and things can get out of hand, adding stress to students’ lives. Junior Jamie Bautista says her parents check the School Loop parental emails daily to see all of her grades, and were in the habit of emailing teachers over disputes regarding her grades. “[School Loop] makes it a million times easier for them to check my grades which in turn makes the conversations about my grades at home more frequent.” Bautista said. “When I’m at home I just want a break from school and stress for a little bit and talking about more grades at home makes it impossible to relax.” Although School Loop can be very helpful towards the end of the semester to get real time updates on grades, at the beginning of the school year or of a new semester, having only a few assignments in can be a cause for stress. Senior Destina Agar says her parents aren’t as involved, but that when she only has a few grades put into her School Loop account, her parents can stress her out. “In Comp/Lit, the first thing we did this semester was an in-class essay on a nine point scale,” Agar said. “I scored a five, so when it was put in School Loop my grade in the class was an ‘F’ because it was the only thing [inputted].” “So of course my mom saw it and immediately freaked out because she thought I was failing English, and I had to explain to her that it was the only assignment in there.” Sophomore Nathan Hassid’s parents are involved in checking his grades on By Thomas Oide HUB Staff School Loop with the daily emails and on his online profile, but he welcomes their involvement in his studies. “[My parents’ involvement] affects me positively because ever since my parents have been checking my grades, they have started going up,” Hassid said. “I think it’s better if parents are involved because it makes it so the students want to work harder to keep up their grades.” Junior Louis Pak agrees with Hassid: he thinks parents’ involvement with their kid’s grades through School Loop is a good thing, but only to a certain extent. “Honestly, I think it’s good and bad,” Pak said. “If the kid isn’t committed to his or her grades, then it’s important for parent involvement. If it’s a kid that knows what he or she is doing, then excessive parent involvement will probably just be a nuisance.” School Loop’s parental emails aren’t the only way that parents are involved with their kid’s grades. Junior Nikki Bayar has her parents check in with her the old school way: they ask her in person once a week how she’s doing on her tests and homework, which works out well for her. “I love having my parents involved with my school work,” Bayar said. “It keeps me on track when they always asks me about my upcoming tests and assignments.” “When parents see that you’re not doing as well as you normally are, they can help you get back on track, which is really helpful,” Bayar said. Senior Izzy Leamon likes the School Loop system much better than Zangle or the old school way of checking grades, but she’s the only one checking it, not her parents. Leamon said her One soccer-playing junior at DHS says her parents yell at her at each game for small mistakes that she makes on the field, even if the team is winning. When she plays defense, her parents often admonish her when she doesn’t try to get up the field and play an attacking role. Her parents knowingly call out instructions to her that are contradictory to what the coach is saying. She’s not alone. Paul Salitsky, a sports psychologist at UC Davis, said that youth athletes feeling pressure from parents is a growing trend across the nation. “There is increasing evidence that more of a negative influence is proliferating through youth sport,” Salitsky said. “And we’re seeing the effects of that on a lot of levels: a lot of kids are quitting sports a lot earlier than they probably would because of parental pressure.” The junior, who asked not to be named, says that her parents’ presence affects her greatly at games. It has come to the point where she no longer wants her parents to attend games because she feels more at ease without them there. “I feel like when I’m in the game, I start thinking about what [my parents] will think about certain things that I do on the field,” she said. “I kind of freak out, because I already have pressure from my teammates, and coach and myself to do well, so that pressure doesn’t allow me to think clearly during a game, which makes me make really stupid mistakes.” Another DHS sophomore, who also requested anonymity, has played one sport for virtually his entire life and has been held to a high standards by LOOP continued page 2 The HUB 314 W. 14th St Davis, CAlif., 95616 More news and sports every day at BlueDevilHUB.com opinion 10 -11 Parents can negatively impact athlete performance Where is the line between concerned and overbearing? By Riley Donahue HUB Staff Face-off over value of Student Government Sideline saboteurs RAPH HUB G vol. 88/issue 6 his parent. In the summer, when it is too hot to train outside, his father makes him watch instructional videos and train indoors to maintain his skills. “It wouldn’t be as fun to play anymore because I wouldn’t feel comfortable on the field,” one DHS sophomore said. “I knew if I lost [the ball] my dad would get mad, so I was playing more nervously than playing for fun. So I wasn’t 100 percent focused on playing; I was focused on what my dad would have to say after the game.” In some cases, this pressure to perform can go as far as degrading the relationship between parents and players. The soccer playing junior finds it hard to have a normal conversation with her father as most of their conversations turn into debating about what happened during a game. “[The pressure] affects my relationship with my father because we have a lot of conversations that are about my performance on the field, so that basically means that we’re yelling at each other,” she said. “I’m not as close to him as I used to be, and I feel like we don’t take as much joy doing sports activities together as we used to.” And these high pressure parents don’t just affect their own athlete, they can affect the entire team as well. Jason Dal Porto, an assistant coach for the men’s varsity soccer team and a coach at the Davis Legacy Soccer Club, has observed that parents apply pressure on their children to perform at a high level between the ages of 8-13 and has noticed that the performance of his players is greatly affected by parental pressure. “If the parent doesn’t think that the kid is working as hard as he or she can, you can see the negative effects,” Dal Porto said. “The kid will start crying, and as soon as the emotions come out, their performance drops big time.” PARENTS continued page 2 february at a glance FEB. 7 FEB. 21 BReak The ReCoRD niGhT • 7 p.m. in north Gym spRinG DanCe • • “Barnyard Boogie” free admission FEB. 11 FEB. 27 eleCTions assemBly open house 2 News January 31, 2013 A new year to celebrate Chinese New Year Student Government Elections By Ellen Finn HUB Staff Sophomores and juniors seeking leadership positions will address their fellow classmates at the official election assembly on Feb.14, hoping to win votes. Here is a quick peek at some of what candidates seeking school-wide positions have to say. A month after the world welcomed in 2014, Chinese New Year welcomes in the Year of the Horse. Festivals in Chinese communities around the world celebrate the start of the new lunar year on Jan. 31. The 31st is actually the end of the a 15-day celebration known as the Spring Festival. Many preparations must be made before the parades and festivities break out on New Years day. It begins with a complete cleaning of the house to take out the old and welcome in the new, according to Chinese teacher Angela Cheung. The house is then decorated, most commonly in red to symbolize good luck. On the eve of the New Year, a family dinner is a chance for relatives to gather from all over and enjoy dumplings and fish, as these two dishes represent prosperity heading into the New Year. For junior Kurtis Lavelle, this is the best part of the tradition. He and his family gather at a relative’s house in San Francisco. “It’s a great time to catch up with relatives and enjoy food that I don’t get to eat too often,” Lavelle said. The fireworks and parades that are associated with the holiday were originally meant to ward off evil, and the first person who launches the fireworks in the New Year will receive good luck. The Chinese Club will also have a celebration at lunch today in the quad to give everyone in school a chance to experience part of the longstanding tradition. According to Bjian Varjavand, vice president of the Chinese Club, many activities will be available, including a chopsticks competition and an opportunity to learn about Confucius and Chinese traditional philosophy. I think everyone can find something they enjoy,” said Varjavand. Finally, red packets with small gifts of money are handed out, a practice believed to ward off evil from the young and keep them healthy. ASB President Candidates Annie Leck Jeff Stark “I am running for ASB President because after being in leadership classes for the past four years and finding my passion in leadership, I am ready to take my skills to the next level and hope to help our school by doing so.” ASB VICE PRESIDENT CANDIDATES Tina Simpson “I’m running for ASB Vice President because I wanted to contribute to the school and student government in a greater way, and I believe I can do a great job in the position of ASB Vice President. I really want to make this year the one to beat.” Scan here for more Chinese New Year coverage on BlueDevilHUB.com “It will be a really good race! It’s an important school position and I hope that all of our classmates find the time to vote. I’d really like to be able to serve the student body next year.” DANIELLE NEWMAN/ HUB PHOTOS By Skyler Blume News Editor Maya Gilardi “I’m really interested in have an influence on campus and in continuing to participate in Student Gov.” Warmth Drive supports domestic violence victims By Maddy Shippen HUB Staff The Feminism Club ended its Warmth Drive today. The club accepted all cold weather clothes, including coats, sweatpants, sweat shirts, blankets and towels. All donations went to the Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence Center, or SADVC, in Woodland. The SADVC has been in Yolo County since 1977, providing people with a safe place to go in case of abuse. They provide a shelter for women and children, a 24-hour crisis line, support groups and counseling. The shelter consists of 25 beds, which are packed throughout the year. Additionally, the sexual assault team collects various daily necessities to donate to the shelter to help provide for those in need. All of the donations from DHS will be used primarily for women and children escaping from abusive relationships or households who do not have access to the basics. The Warmth Drive was presented to the club by Noelle Averett, who held a very personal attachment to this fundraiser. Averett’s aunt was a victim of domestic violence and passed away a couple of months before Av- erett was born, which spurred her in her attempt to battle abuse. “I really wanted to help out people in her position, so it doesn’t end up for them the way it ended for my aunt,”Averett said. The Feminism Club publicized this event by making posters, posting on Facebook and putting bulletins in the announcements. President Claudia Shebloski was one of the many club members preparing for the Warmth Drive and feels strongly about giving back. “I think the Warmth Drive will help our community, so the Warmth Drive is going to help victims of domestic assault and violence,” Shebloski said. The club has collected about four large boxes of clothing, blankets and towels for the Warmth Drive, which can make a meaningful impact to those in need. “I’m really glad I’ve been able to do this knowing that I can make others’ lives even slightly better has made all the work totally worth it,”Averett said. Averett hopes that this drive proves to people that there is no need to be intimidated by the term “feminism” and that the club does a lot of good for the community. ANNA VERDIGUEL/ HUB PHOTO ILLUSTRATION In this photo illustration a student drops off much needed supplies at the Warmth Drive collection box in the office which will go to victims of domestic abuse. PARENTS: Pressure on athletes in sports LOOP: Overbearing KATIE LEE / HUB GRAPHIC parents pose problems for students from front page parents don’t check her grades at all, and she finds that freedom to be helpful to her grades and stress levels. “My parents always want me to [do] my best, but they let me define what my best is,” Leamon said. “I love that because it means I don’t have to be stressed about meeting their expectations and it lets me do what I want to do.” Bautista says that parents will oftentimes stress her out by telling her that the path she’s on will keep her from getting into the colleges that she wants to get into. “As for my happiness level,” Bautista said. “I guess it makes me less happy and more annoyed. Annoyed that they make my tests such a big deal when in actuality they aren’t.” can negatively affect performance from front page Parents screaming instructions from the sideline can distract coaches as well, because it’s often the wrong thing to say. “I’d be lying to you if [parents] didn’t affect me,” Dal Porto said. “It distracts me. For example, if I’m coaching a game and I’ll hear comment from a parent on the sideline that is completely the wrong thing to say to the player at that time. I’ll think about it for a couple seconds, and in a couple seconds a game can be drastically changed.” Dal Porto has also witnessed high-pressure parents affect the team chemistry. On some of the teams he has coached, there are parents who offer to pay their children for scoring goals, which negatively impacts the team’s ultimate goal: winning the game. Dal Porto remembers a rivalry between parents about whose child was being paid the most for goals. “When the kid is supposed to pass the ball, he isn’t thinking about the assist, he is thinking about the 20 dollars he’s gonna get for the goal,” Dal Porto said. “So he’s gonna be selfish and try and score the goal, when he really should’ve passed the ball.” Junior Kimmy Siu, who has played women’s varsity volleyball for the past two seasons, confirmed that observation. “The parents didn’t affect me, but I know they affected other people,”Siu said. “There was a lot of tension, especially with our coach being fired and rehired; a lot of parents were really angry with the program.” Salitsky believes that the primary source of the pressure young athletes feel comes from parents’ desire for their child to earn college scholarships. “I think sometimes these club coaches sell things to the parents like, ‘Your kid will more likely get a college schol- arship [...] if your kid plays on this team,’” Salitsky said. “It’s hype because the number of college scholarships is so miniscule compared to the amount of kids playing youth sports.” Which brings up the question: what is the right amount of parental involvement in sports? “If after a season or a couple of months, they’re not into it anymore, you need to reevaluate the situation,” Salitsky said. “Or maybe at the beginning of every season parents have a talk with their kid about what their goals are, if they want to keep playing, and what they want to get out of it.” That is exactly what happened to a junior, who requested anonymity, at DHS. He says, in the past, his father made him do medicine ball work and sprint with a 20 lb. weight vest in two-minute intervals in order to get him stronger. His father also yelled at him during and after matches, which affected the way he played. However, he was able to change the way his parents acted towards him after confronting them. He was able to have a conversation with them about the pressure he felt, and the expectations his parents had of him. “We just had a talk, and I told them that I loved the sport, but I had trouble dealing with the pressure that they were putting on me,” he said. “You can only take and channel so much of it, and you start to break yourself down.” After he talked to his parents, the way they treated him completely changed. “There was this one match, and I played really hard and I barely lost,” he said. “And [my dad and I] talked afterwards, and he said, ‘It doesn’t matter that you lost, you played a great match, and I’m very proud of you.’ After that, I realized that I just had to do my very best and excel.”