Family News - Ronald McDonald House
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Family News - Ronald McDonald House
Ronald McDonald House Charities of Greater Cincinnati Family News Winter Edition 2011 Milhous Family Finds Comfort, Stability During Stay by Michelle Crawley “For the past seven months, this House has been a source of comfort and stability for my family, a home away from home, a family away from family.” – Heidi Milhous For families traveling to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center for world-class care, “normal” life is uprooted and sacrifices are made to do whatever it takes to save their child’s life. Dave and Heidi Milhous of Akron know this. In November 2008, their oldest daughter Hannah, age three, was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia. Hannah underwent five rounds of chemotherapy in Akron and was in remission for only six months when her cancer returned in December 2009. She had two more rounds of chemotherapy before the family came to Cincinnati Children’s in April for a bone marrow transplant. The family settled in at our Ronald McDonald House within days of their arrival in Cincinnati. During their stay, Dave Milhous underwent a grueling schedule to balance work in Akron with time in Cincinnati. He would work seven 13-hour days to have seven days off. While he was working, Hannah’s siblings, Sydney 2010 Friends of the House ...................................................2 2010 Facts & Figures . ..........................................................4 (now 18 months) and Camryn (now 3 years), would live with Heidi’s mom in Pennsylvania. When Dave would finish the work week, Heidi’s mom would drive the girls to Akron. Dave and the girls would then drive down to Cincinnati, joining Heidi and Hannah. They would stay the week at Ronald McDonald House before Dave would drive five hours to Heidi’s mom’s house in Pa., dropping off Sydney and Camryn. Dave would then drive another two hours to Akron for his work week. This commute continued for seven months until Hannah was discharged on October 27. Most people can’t imagine the full impact that having a sick child has on a family. Of course there is the terror and uncertainty that comes with the illness itself, and then navigating through the treatment options and medical bills. What will Christmas be like away from home? . ...................2 Along with an incredible amount of support from family and friends, Heidi says they also appreciated the volunteers and staff at the House, who welcomed them with open arms. This kindness and hospitality really helped the family through their ordeal. “Everyone at Ronald McDonald House had such big hearts. They took care of everything you can think of,” she says. “Of course we loved the home-cooked meals every day, and they really treated us like family. It also helped ease the financial strain on our family, as staying in a hotel would have been such a burden. If we didn’t have this place, I honestly don’t know what we would have done. The House provided comfort and stability, and our girls enjoyed being here.” By making Hannah’s treatment the family’s focus for all of those months, and by relying on their faith and support from others, the Milhous family was able to put their emotions aside and endure the sacrifices that come with having a sick child. Today Hannah is a cancer-free five-year-old. The Milhous family celebrated the holidays at home in Akron, feeling truly blessed. “We will never forget what the Ronald McDonald House of Cincinnati has done for our family.” “If we didn’t have this place, I honestly don’t know what we would have done. The House provided comfort and stability, and our girls enjoyed being here.” Jacklynn supports RMH – one pull tab at a time ................4 Cincinnati – This is Your House . .........................................4 Up 38%: Red Tie Gala nets $370,000 . ...............................5 Züg Media Artfully Tells RMH Story....................................5 Ronald McDonald House Benefits from the Initiative of Others .........................................................5 The impact of your support ..................................................6 A Lasting Friendship - A Legacy of Caring ...........................6 Thank You from our Executive Director................................7 Adopt a family and double the impact of your gift ...............7 Save the Date.........................................................................8 Our Mission: Ronald McDonald House provides an affordable “home away from home” for families and their children seeking medical treatment at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center, regardless of their ability to pay. Our Vision: To offer all the comforts of home to every family with a hospitalized child. Winter Edition 2010 Friends of the House Ronald McDonald House is fortunate to receive annual cash donations and donated products and services from very generous corporations. Champion: $20,000 + Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center Cincinnati Zoo & Botanical Garden The Coca-Cola Company Ideopia McDonald’s Cooperative of Greater Cincinnati PNC Bank Procter & Gamble Standard Textile, Inc. Louis Trauth Dairy What will Christmas be like away from home? Holiday traditions and much, much more… It’s hard to be away from home and family during the holidays, and it’s especially hard when you’re worried about a very sick child. But thanks to you and other caring friends, our families had a place to call “home” for the holidays. Partner: $10,000 - $19,999 Accenture, LLP Affordable Contractors Camargo Rental The Cincinnati Enquirer The Cincinnati Mine Machinery Co. Corvus Janitorial Systems of Cincinnati Dillard’s Duke Energy Emery Oleochemicals Frost Brown Todd, LLC Hyde Park Landscape & Tree Service, Inc. Jaguar Land Rover Cincinnati Klosterman Baking Company Macy’s, Inc. Merrill Lynch Wealth Management Newport Aquarium On Your Feet, LLC Prestige AV & Creative Services Rough Greenhouses Hal Welge Building Contractor, Inc. Lisa A. Woods Custom Draperies Supporter: $3,000 - $9,999 Aegis Protective Services American Contracting Services Anneken, Huey & Moser Arnold Printing Avon Products, Inc. Best Buy BrandSource BrownCOW Technology, Ltd. CCHMC - Department of Anesthesia CCHMC - Department of Otolaryngology CCHMC - Department of Radiology CCHMC - The Heart Institute CCHMC - Medical Staff Chastang’s Tile & Marble, LLC Chemed Corporation Cincinnati Bell Cincinnati International Wine Festival, Inc. Color Brite Creative Media Concepts Cumulus Radio Continued on page 3 2 Santa’s Workshop Your support of our annual Ronald’s Workshop brought tears to the eyes of our guest parents. Thanks to all the generous donations of toys and gifts, every se ou H family had the opportunity to ald nald McDon First Christmas at Ro choose up to six gifts for each of their children. Our staff and volunteers set up a mini store here in the House, and parents “shopped” for each of their children without having to leave their child’s side or worry about the cost of presents. Volunteers then wrapped the gifts, and they all appeared outside each guest family’s door (along with presents for Mom and Dad) on Christmas Eve. For many, there would have been no gifts on Christmas morning without your support. Share a Night 2010 Each year we ask you to share a night with a Ronald McDonald House family by making a gift of $25, and you generously respond. We celebrated Share a Night’s total of $155,713 on December 6 at our annual Share a Night Open House, presented by Macy’s Foundation. With a countdown from all in attendance, the lights came on and filled the House with holiday cheer. Guest families, supporters, staff and volunteers enjoyed Christmas carols from the School for Creative and Performing Arts’ second graders, Nancy’s Hallmark’s train display, House tours, refreshments and visits from Santa and Ronald McDonald. Day after day of seasonal fun • Musical performances by the Cincinnati Boychoir, Jumbie Jammers Steel Drum Band, the Music Lady and others. • The Cincinnati Kinderballet staged a full production of the Nutcracker in our lobby. • Holiday card and ornament making, and an afternoon decorating gingerbread houses provided a chance for holiday crafting, as did snowman sculpturing Winter 2011 Will Santa find me at Ronald McDonald House? brought to us by the Cincinnati Museum Center. • Magic by Frik & Frak, comedy by Bet Stewart of Intuition Theatre and a stilt walker from the Amazing Portable Circus • Visits from Ronald McDonald, Santa, Mr. Redlegs, Queen City Storm and others • Valenti, Mitchell’s and Paul Mitchell salons treated our moms to free haircuts and Merry Christmas! manicures, and students from SHI Massage calmed frazzled nerves by giving full body massages. Erin Schwartz and Naima Shaw came in for their regular visits providing chair massages and manicures. • Visit from the Harlem Globetrotters Thanksgiving Dinner by Palomino Restaurant Palomino Restaurant staff and volunteers invaded our kitchen on Thanksgiving and prepared a delicious feast for our guest families. The meal marked Palomino’s 10th anniversary of serving Thanksgiving dinner at Ronald McDonald House. Christmas Eve Dinner by HoneyBaked Ham and the Hoeh family HoneyBaked Ham and volunteer Etta Hoeh and family provided a delicious Christmas Eve meal for families living at Ronald McDonald House. Christmas carols played as 200 guests enjoyed delicious HoneyBaked ham and turkey and home-cooked sides, dishes and desserts. Etta and her family serve Christmas Eve dinner every year at our House in loving memory of her son Jeff, who passed away in March 1989 from Hodgkin’s disease. “It’s our family’s way of celebrating Christmas. By ‘paying back’ what was done for us when Jeff was hospitalized, it feels like Jeff is still with us, touching lives. We love seeing the families laughing and having a good time,” said Etta. Santa is following us Facebook. Are you? on 2010 Friends of the House Supporter: $3,000 - $9,999 -continued Deloitte & Touche Dr Pepper Snapple Group Duke Realty Corporation dunnhumbyUSA Evelo/Singer/Sullivan Group at Merrill Lynch Freund Freeze & Arnold GBBN Architects Georgia-Pacific Corporation Richard Goettle, Inc. Goodwin Lighting Services Great American Insurance Co. - Bond Division HDR Engineering, Inc. Heidelberg Distributing Co. Hills Communities Hyatt Regency Cincinnati Innergreen Johnson Investment Counsel, Inc. John R. Jurgensen Co./Valley Asphalt Corp. KDM P.O.P. Solutions Group Kenwood Country Club Kilroy Restaurants, Inc. The Kroger Co. La-Z-Boy Furniture Galleries Live Nation Worldwide M & M Restaurant Supply Manitowoc Foodservice Group McDonald’s MBA, Inc. Messer Construction Company Middletown Journal Nancy’s Hallmark and their generous customers Neat, Redpath & Spaeth Wealth Management Group Neyra Industries, Inc. Patheon Pharmaceuticals, Inc. The Plant Trolley, Inc. Ridin’ On Motorcycle Magazine See’s Candies Bryan W. Stephens, CPA Toshiba America Medical Systems Ultimate Jetcharters USA Today - Cincinnati Valenti Salon & Spa Team and their generous clients Village Green Properties Waste Resource Management, Inc. Western & Southern Financial Wolf Creek Company Wood, Herron & Evans, LLP Züg Media Although every attempt is made to accurately report all of our donors, errors can occur. We apologize for any misspelling or omission. Please contact Shirley Wuske at (513) 636-9304 or swuske@rmhouse.org with corrections. 2 3 Winter Edition You provided a “home away from home” for 1,219 families and their critically ill children in 2010 Jacklynn supports her Ronald McDonald House friends – one pull tab at a time Nine-year-old Jacklynn Hancock of Southgate, who lived at our House when she had surgery at Cincinnati Children’s, has spearheaded a collection of pull tabs in memory of Cris Painter, who passed away in July 2010 from an inoperable brain tumor. Jacklynn and Cris became friends while both were living at Ronald McDonald House. • You helped care for 1,219 families from 38 Ohio cities, 48 states and 27 countries. • The average length of stay at our House is 23 days, but we serve a number of families who live at our House for months. • We are full every night with an average wait list of 30 families. We had to turn away 853 families last year due to a lack of space. • Most Frequent Medical Conditions Served 1. Colorectal Procedures 2. Bone Marrow Transplant/ Hematology/Oncology 3. Trachea Procedures/Airway Reconstruction 4. Neonatal Intensive Care Unit/Intensive Care Unit 5. Cardiology • The average cost of caring for one family for one day is $90, but we only ask families to make a donation of $25 per day. On average, our families are able to contribute $11.24 per day (which includes third-party payments). • Thanks to your support, no family is ever turned away due to an inability to contribute to the cost of their stay. • You and other generous volunteers provided families with 723 home-cooked meals and 566 activities in 2010. Thank You ! 4 Jacklynn has placed a jar in her third-grade classroom at It’s al St. Frances Cabrini, encouraging other students at her school to collect and donate pull tabs. There is a picture of her and Cris on the front of the jar. tab at a time! l about helping, one Jacklynn suffers from a malformation of blood vessels and continues to receive treatment at Cincinnati Children’s at least three times a year. But instead of dwelling on her own condition, Jacklynn chooses to help her other friends living at Ronald McDonald House – one pull tab at a time. To find out more about our pull tab program, please visit our website at www.rmhcincinnati.org and look under “Ways to Donate.” Over $16,500 was raised in 2010 from collection and recycling of pull tabs. Cincinnati – This is Your House Your support keeps our doors open While Ronald McDonald House is grateful for our strong partnerships, our House is neither owned nor fully funded by McDonald’s or Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center. We do not receive any governmental funding, and we are not a United Way agency. Approximately 87% of our operating revenue is provided by you and other generous individuals, corporations and foundations in our community. Without our House, families would usually sleep in the hospital lobby, their child’s hospital room or even their cars, as most families cannot afford a hotel for weeks or months – especially under the financial stress of mounting medical bills. Your support allows us to care for families regardless of their ability to pay. Thank you, Cincinnati, for keeping 1,219 families together last year at a time when it mattered most. Winter 2011 Up 38%: Red Tie Gala nets $370,000 You could hear a pin drop as tears welled up in the eyes of our 600+ guests as they viewed our new House video created by Züg Media’s Steve Zugelter. As the video ended and the voice of auctioneer David Reynolds was heard, the crowd responded with a record-breaking contribution of over $140,000 to sponsor families at our “home away from home.” Co-chairs Chrissie Blatt and Daphne Jurgensen and their talented and tireless committee made sure our guests were treated to a beautiful and magical event. The evening featured a message from Cincinnati Bengal Dhani Jones, dinner, dancing to KellyRed and the Hammerheads, and a surprised Bob Anning as three of his grandchildren presented him with the Lifetime Achievement Award. A special thanks to our supporters for making this year’s Red Tie Gala a night to remember: Presenting Sponsor PNC; Platinum Sponsor Macy’s, Inc.; Emery Oleochemicals; Jaguar Land Rover Cincinnati; Ideopia; Kroger; Camargo Rental; Accent on Cincinnati; Merrill Lynch Wealth Management Group; Prestige A/V & Creative Services; Goodwin Lighting Services; Züg Media; Reynolds & Buckley Fundraising Auctions; and Arnold Printing… and last but certainly not least, our “retiring” co-chairs Chrissie Blatt and Daphne Jurgensen. We are forever grateful for the many ways in which they support our House and carry out our mission. Artfully Tells RMH Story Every cause benefits from a great storyteller, and we found ours in Steve Zugelter. Steve produced beautiful, moving videos about our Ronald McDonald House for our 2009 and 2010 Red Tie Galas. Best of all, since he was so drawn to our mission, he donated his time and many talents. We use Steve’s videos throughout the year as a compelling way to introduce potential new supporters to our charity. (The most recent one can be viewed at www.zugmedia.com.) Steve’s company, Züg Media, has earned a reputation for their innovative, high-impact productions and media campaigns. Züg Media counts Procter & Gamble, Hoxworth Blood Center and ESPN among their many clients. If your company is looking to leverage the power of video and social media, we invite you to contact Steve at info@zugmedia.com. Please share with him that you, too, are a friend of our Ronald McDonald House! Ronald McDonald House Benefits from the Initiative of Others 2010 Outside Fundraisers raise over $65,000 We are grateful for the generous support we receive from local groups and individuals who host their own fundraisers to benefit our House. We are pleased to recognize and thank the following groups who raised more than $1,000 for our House and guest families: $10,000 + $1,000 - $4,999 Dillard’s Thanksgiving Day Race ABATE of Ohio -Destination Cycle Safe Great American Insurance Group Hoxworth Blood Center Macy’s Inc. – Bag Hunger Marge Gallagher Fall Classic Nancy’s Hallmark Ken Neyer, Sr. Memorial Golf Outing Jenna & Zack Stephan/Robbie Slack Memorial Tennis Tournament Gary and Theresa Studer Family Fundraiser $5,000 - $9,999 Cincinnati International Wine Festival Evelo/Singer/Sullivan Group of Merrill Lynch Four Bridges Country Club - Flash Swim Team Miami Trails Residents – Loveland Turpin Hills/Mason Middle School Valenti Salon & Spa Team & their generous clients Village Green Properties If you or your group would like to hold a fundraiser to help care for families living in our House, please visit our website at www.rmhcincinnati.org or contact Shawnie Dukes at sdukes@rmhouse.org. 5 Winter Edition The impact of your support is revealed in the words of our guest families Our guest families’ feedback is important to us. 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(financially and ity that you have here has touc gift of hospital ur prayers will include you all.” Thanks again. O Mary Elizabeth Cobb and Iva Lou Yoder: A Lasting Friendship - A Legacy of Caring Mary Elizabeth (“Betty”) Cobb and Iva Lou (“Babe”) Yoder met in nursing school just after World War II. They then worked together at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center. Their friendship and their careers – Betty in the E.R. and Babe in the O.R. – would span a lifetime. Even though Betty and Babe have since both passed away, Betty’s care for children, for others and for her best friend continue to live on. Betty’s life began with many struggles in her native Covington. She put herself through nursing school and would even walk over the bridge from Latonia to save on bus fare. Financial hardship left an indelible mark on Betty and made her keenly sensitive to caring for others in need. Neither Betty, nor Babe, ever married. They were like sisters – they were “family.” To honor this deep bond and because she was older, Betty made specific provisions in her will and trust to help support Babe through the end of Babe’s life. Betty also made bequests to several causes important to her, including our Ronald McDonald House. Her career at Cincinnati Children’s brought her face to face, every day, with families struggling to cope with the emotional 6 and financial burdens of a sick child. She was greatly comforted to know that many out-of-town parents would be well cared for at Cincinnati’s Ronald McDonald House. In making her estate plans, Betty wished both to take care of Babe and to take care of the causes dear to her. Her plan included charitable gifts at two separate times. A portion of the gifts to charity were made immediately upon her death in 2001, and the remainder was distributed upon Babe’s passing in late 2010. Betty’s generous planned gift in 2001 helped us expand from a 21-bedroom House to a 48-bedroom House. Her trust’s recent gift in 2010 will now help us continue to provide health, hope and a “home away from home” for 78 families each day. Just as Betty Cobb chose to do, you, too, can make a lasting difference. Wills, life insurance policies and retirement plans all provide easy ways for you to care for your loved ones and ensure that our House remains open to care for families for generations to come. To learn more about ways to remember Ronald McDonald House Charities of Greater Cincinnati in your estate plans, please contact Director of Planned Giving Tracy Monroe at tmonroe@rmhouse.org or (513) 636-9703. Winter 2011 Thank You from our Executive Director Dear Friends: For many reasons, 2010 was a year to remember. In addition to providing health and hope for over 1,200 families, this was the year when we reached our goal of having 78 sponsors for 78 rooms! Our room sponsor program invites friends to adopt a room – and all the families who call it “home” – for gifts of $3,000 (small room), $5,000 (medium room) or $10,000 (long-term suite). On December 29, our generous volunteers reached their goal of raising $10,000 to adopt the final unsponsored room in our House. Our very first Volunteer Annual Fund was led by our beloved volunteer Don Freed, who asked his fellow volunteers to join him in adopting a long-term suite. Our 375 Guest Services Volunteers devote over 26,000 hours of service each year to our House. As Don explains: “We are greeters, housekeepers, communicators, creators, handymen/women. Just as we do at our own houses, we do it all. Overlaying all of this is the heart we have for the families we serve.” We are truly grateful to our 40 annual room sponsors who renewed their support and to our 38 new room sponsors who adopted a room for the first time this past year. As a room sponsor, you provide more than just a room – you help underwrite the cost of providing our guest families with a good night’s sleep, home-cooked meals and the ongoing support from caring volunteers, staff and other families with ill children who share the same hopes and fears. Rooms become available each year for adoption. If you are interested in our Annual Room Sponsorship Program or our new Adopt a Family Program, please contact Development Director Jill Miller at (513) 636-9679 or jmiller@rmhouse.org. From our families to yours, we wish you much health and happiness in the new year. Fondly, Jennifer Goodin Executive Director NOW is the best time to give. Why? Your gift automatically DOUBLES! Adopt a family and double the impact of your gift The H.B., E.W., and F.R. Luther Foundation, a long-time supporter of our House, has generously offered to match each “Adopt a Family” gift dollar-for-dollar up to a total of $100,000 through December 31. You can help us bridge the gap between what our guest families are able to contribute (about $11/day) and the total cost of caring for a long-term family ($90/day) when you make a gift of $3,000 to adopt one long-term family, $5,000 to adopt two long-term families or $10,000 to adopt three long-term families. We Need You More than half of the 78 families who live at our Ronald McDonald House are long-term patients. The goal of our program is to provide each long-term family in need of supportive housing with a comfortable bedroom and all the comforts of home – plus a local support network – so they can fully focus on the healing of their child. Without our House, families would be forced to sleep in the hospital lobby, a child’s hospital room or even their cars, as most families cannot afford a hotel for weeks or months – especially under the financial stress of mounting medical bills from years of on-going treatment. Our families also have to continue to pay for mortgage/rent and all of their ongoing expenses back home, so your support of their stay at Ronald McDonald House truly eases their minds. Adopting a long-term family makes the perfect gift and provides a unique opportunity to honor friends and loved ones such as your children, your anniversary, a birthday, clients, your parents, employees or the memory of a relative or friend. Benefits to You Ronald McD raise over $10,on00ald House volunteers 0 to adopt a room . In appreciation of your generous gift toward our “Adopt a Family” program, we will place a recognition plaque on our beautiful “Adopt a Family” recognition wall located in our main family room – a room all of our visitors and guest families frequent (bronze, silver and gold plaques differentiate gifts of $3,000, $5,000 or $10,000). If you are interested in adopting a family and doubling the impact of your gift, please contact Development Director Jill Miller at jmiller@rmhouse.org or (513) 636-9679. Thank you! 7 NONPROFIT Ronald McDonald House Charities U.S.POSTAGE PAID Cincinnati, OH Permit No. 9772 OF GREATER CINCINNATI 350 Erkenbrecher Avenue Cincinnati, OH 45229 Phone: 513.636.7642 Fax: 513.636.4887 Email: sdukes@rmhouse.org www.rmhcincinnati.org If you receive an extra newsletter, please pass it on to a friend or let us know so we can correct our database. If you know someone who would like to receive our newsletter, please send us their name and address. If your name and address shown on the mailer panel of this newsletter are not correct, please let us know by contacting Shawnie Dukes at sdukes@rmhouse.org or 513-636-7642. Thank you! How many families did you help care for in 2010? How did your gift impact Hannah’s life? The answers to these questions and more featured inside. Save the Date June 13 - Golf Classic October 1 - Red Tie Gala November 24 - Thanksgiving Day Race December 5 - Share a Night Lighting Ceremony For more information, please visit our website at www.rmhcincinnati.org or contact RMHC Events Manager Tracy Carl at tcarl@rmhouse.org or (513) 636-5551. Now cancer-free, five-year-old Hannah rules! visit our website at www.rmhcincinnati.org