the art of living
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the art of living
Happy 2014! How can I possibly be writing you this letter with greetings for the start of yet another year? How is it that 2013 has possibly come and gone so quickly? Doesn’t it seem like just a short time ago we were ringing in 2013 with new hopes and aspirations? Yes, I realize I am getting older and I do recall as a child hearing my grandparents talk about how much faster each year seemed to pass, but really I don’t think they saw time move as fast as it seems to now. And, let’s face it, there are still the exact amount of hours in each day and days in each year, so how is that it really does feel this way? With all that we have at our fingertips, our world today makes it too easy for us to stay on the treadmill of life 24/7. In so doing, I think each minute blends into each hour, hour to day and day to week and before we know it, we have moved at what feels like lightning speed through 365 more days! I don’t know about you, but this is how my 2013 has been. As I have begun to think about this letter and my plans for 2014, making the best use of my time, while stopping to enjoy the moments seems to be top of mind. We have experienced another record year of achievement here at jdouglas and several of our reps have reached new highs in their respective territories. Greg Lewis, our representative for the West Coast and Central region of Florida, is a finalist for the prestigious ARTS Award, which will be presented in Dallas on January 18. This is especially gratifying to me, as Greg and I have worked together for over 21 years and have, basically, grown up together, sharing in so many moments, both highs and lows. As well, several of our manufacturers are finalists, too, and I am looking forward to being with them on this special evening of recognition. There is so much to be grateful for and much to anticipate! In November, several of us from jdouglas were part of a trip to Maui, sponsored by one of our vendors as a reward for top sales which included representatives from across the country. It was so nice to be with friends that I have developed over the years in the industry, in a beautiful setting with time to really visit and learn more about each other, rather than just passing in the halls of market every three months, chatting briefly and running off to our next meeting! We even had time to do yoga each morning together! In the past 30 days I have experienced two very significant events in my life, the launch of a retail store and a milestone birthday, shared with family and friends, and I wouldn’t trade those moments for anything in the world. There are so many other great things that I could share with you but, as always, it has not all been perfect and glamorous. There has also been loss, as two of my very dear friends passed away after valiant battles with cancer. This too was a great reminder to me that life is fleeting and that we really do have to cherish each day, but specifically the moments! when I am consistent, I find that there is a laser focus on all other things. Many people actually refer to the new year as a book that we are starting to write or, at least, a chapter in our book of life. So, why not put those words into action and begin to journal about some of the following: What would you like to attract into your life this year? What particular area of growth do you want to place your focus? What character defects would you like to release? What do you want your volume of business to be this year? What would you like to attain, big or small? Where do you want to travel? What problems do you want to get resolved? In what way do you wish to approach your business differently this year? What new category of business would you like to add to your mix? What resources are you going to tap into for the first time or which ones are you going to delve into deeper? What can you do to enrich others’ lives? How can you help the community in which you live? There are endless questions that you might consider as your mind spins! You will note that many of the examples of questions I presented to you begin with the word, “what?”. Last week, a dear, dear friend addressed the jdouglas team as part of my fabulous surprise birthday celebration. She talked about how in almost every circumstance, there are three questions that arise…. “What?”, “How?” and “Why?”. The first two are the easy ones, when you really think about it and those are the ones we quickly rush to answer, but Joanna challenged us to think each time of “why?”. Why do you want your volume of business to grow? Why are you waiting to help the community in which you live? Why do you want to release a character defect? Why do you want a new category of business... and on and on, why? So, as I begin to make my list of goals for 2014, I kept thinking about why I wanted these things and I noticed a shift. The things that I could unequivocally answer “why” to were the ones I am most passionate about and the ones that ultimately benefit many more people than just me. I see that by approaching with this question first, I have great clarity in how I want to use my time and that if applied consistently, I might actually have the time this year to slow down and savor more moments in my life that are the most meaningful and not feel that I am fighting the clock. I encourage you to first of all put your thoughts on paper and then ask yourself “why” as you dig deep into your mind to see what you would like to have happen in 2014. I think that by doing this, you are affirming that you are genuinely interested in experiencing life at its fullest in the year ahead. the art of li v ing Many of you know that I journal avidly, writing constantly about what I want to accomplish, bringing the dreams in my head to paper, regularly referring back to these pages to keep my eyes focused on where I want to head and tweaking as these ideas lead to new and even bigger ones. I have seen for years the power that is in the words that I write, as I believe getting them from mental picture to paper gives them a life of their own and enhances the process of evolvement. When I am at my worst, I usually realize that I have slowed in my journaling; and likewise, I hope you will have this experience and that you can reflect back a year from now and in the words of a favorite quote, realize how it feels to “Enjoy the gift of an ordinary day.” All the best to you and yours in 2014! 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