Grand Wedding Cakes(TM) - Spring 2008
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Grand Wedding Cakes(TM) - Spring 2008
About us... Grand Wedding Cakes™ is published by the prestigious American Academy of Wedding Professionals™. CEO: Timothy Roberts President: Deborah McCoy CFO: Dino M. Gallo President: IT Division: Michael C. Gates To Contact Grand Wedding Cakes™ or the American Academy of Wedding Professionals™: PO Box 4091 Lantana, FL 33465 Email: Info@GrandWeddingCakes.com Email: Info@AA-WP.com Copyright © American Academy of Wedding Professionals™, 2008. All rights reserved. On the Cover: GWC’s featured wedding cake is created by Ron Ben-Israel, one of America’s premier cake designers. For more information about Mr. Ben-Israel and his fabulous cakes, please read our featured article. WARNING: ALL CAKE PHOTOS PUBLISHED WITHIN THIS MAGAZINE ARE THE SOLE PROPERTY OF THE BAKER, OR BAKING FACILITY AND/OR PROPERTY THAT FURNISHED THEM TO GRAND WEDDING CAKES™ MAGAZINE FOR PUBLICATION. 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All rights reserved. www.GrandWeddingCakes.com The Master of the American Wedding Cake: Ron Ben-Israel By Deborah McCoy Ron Ben-Israel is America’s wedding cake master whose incomparable culinary delights have made their appearance on shows like Oprah and Martha Stewart who gushes, “Ron Ben Israel does amazing sugar work… formed flowers—so perfect!” Ben-Israel’s studio in the SoHo district of New York City is one that reflects his culinary genius. His is the realm of the couture cake—the one of a kind variety that sets the trend for brides for the coming year. You do not bring a photo to Ben-Israel for him to copy. He designs the cake for “you” that others will copy… And like a one-of-a-kind wedding gown, his cakes are premium and pricey. Designing a wedding cake with Ben-Israel is like having your wedding dress created at one of the finest couture houses in Europe. It is an intricate process, whereby the designer delves into the heart and soul of the bride. What are her tastes? What colors are her favorites? What is the look of her reception site? What is the formality of the wedding? What about the wedding gown (Ben-Israel may even incorporate an edible version of the lace)? What are her bridesmaids wearing? What about the linens for her tables? What flavors are her favorites? What is her personality and her heritage? What is the look she wants to achieve? All of these factors, along with Ben-Israel’s guidance, will turn her wedding cake fantasy into reality. (continued) Ron Ben-Israel… Take a look at these photos and you will see that these wedding cakes run the gamut from the beauty of the ultra-traditional—to the whimsy of the “tipsy” cake—and no one does them better than Ben-Israel. The key is that there are no limits, just high standards. Where once a wedding cake was white, three tiered, and decorated with subtle sugar flowers— the cakes of today have no restrictions other than the baker’s skill and expertise. And here’s where Ron advises caution. Brides often cut photos from magazines of their favorite “designer” cake (or download and print a picture from a prestigious baker’s website) with the idea that their local baker will copy it, but take note. Cakes that appear in bridal magazines and on these websites are trend-setters, the most intricate cakes available from the best designers. It doesn’t mean that local bakers can’t copy the cake, but it’s up to you to make sure that they can. In other words, don’t be satisfied when a baker shows you photos of their work. Take the time to stop by at their place of business to look at cakes they’ve made. Make sure they have the expertise to do what you want. Ask Ben-Israel about what “makes the cake” and he will tell you that a primary factor is the ingredients—and he only uses the finest. He also warns that while others say they do—and claim they do on their websites, for example, it’s up to the bride to make that determination. In other words, it’s best to try a number of different bakers to taste their cakes. “The proof,” he says, “is in the pudding.” (continued) Ron Ben-Israel… As mentioned, Ben-Israel works closely with the bride, getting to know her, determining her personality and the type of wedding she will have, to establish the look of the cake—but there’s more. He must work with her to develop the taste of this once-in-a-lifetime culinary creation. He offers his clients 12 varieties of cake from which to taste—and if that doesn’t work for a particular client—he will create a flavor for her. He also relates cake flavors to season. For example, he works with seasonal, fresh berries for summer including citrus and passion fruit, Ohh Laa Laa! and will include a mix of flavors within the cake. But Ron’s cakes are always light due in part to the use of egg whites (rather than whole eggs) in his creations. And to maximize the impact of flavor, Ben-Israel uses only the most fragrant vanilla beans, the purist fruit “reductions,” and the finest liqueurs and specialty chocolates. When you try a Ben-Israel cake, you will immediately taste and sense the difference. But what about design?…. There’s no doubt that the wedding cake that fulfills the fantasy is the one that takes your breath away when you first gaze upon it. That’s because the wedding cake is the focal point of the reception—but Ben-Israel capitalizes on the idea. Instead of relegating the cake to the ballroom, or the place where dinner is served, why not take it a step further, literally… Have the cake appear in the lobby of the reception site to greet guests with gasps of awe when they first enter. Put your place-cards around the cake rather than a centerpiece… Once the guests exit for cocktails, move the cake into the ballroom (or the room where dinner is served). Use the cake to its fullest! An intrinsic factor in cake design is the place where it will sit—but it’s a factor that shouldn’t limit the bride’s vision. (continued) Ron Ben-Israel… Her reception room might look like the Palace of Versailles with gold gilt walls and mirrors, but it doesn’t mean that she can’t have a whimsical cake. A cake done in crazy, fun layers and off-balance can still pick up the beauty of its surrounding with regal color that reflects the room’s majesty, topped off by the elegance and delicacy of finely molded, hand-crafted sugar flowers. There’s also no doubt that a take-your-breath away Ben-Israel cake is due to the decorating. Just look at these cakes! Every flower, every ribbon, every bead is made by hand from sugar. Every part of a Ben-Israel cake is edible—and there are no artificial parts. Want a cake that looks like the Taj Mahal? Then Ben-Israel will make yours out of sugar. Every color of every cake is formulated for each bride. Every design is different. No two cakes are alike—and that’s what brides who go to Ben-Israel pay for. The cost of a wedding cake is determined by a number of factors: The ingredients, the size, design and amount of decorating required, the skill and expertise of the designer, and demographics. People, for example, who go to New York City to get a cake from a top “celebrity” baker as Ben-Israel know they’re going to pay much more than if they reserved a baker in Oshkosh. It’s not that the latter isn’t as skilled but it is a matter of overhead and “name”. Ben-Israel also negates the notion of the “cake in the backroom” philosophy to save money. Some brides, for example, will have an impressive—but small cake—made for their reception—but one that could never feed all the guests. To handle the overload, the baker makes a sheet cake that’s kept in the kitchen, (continued) Ron Ben-Israel… which is cut and served when the “real” cake is cut. The idea is that the bride saves money and the guests don’t know the difference. Ben-Israel counters by saying that a bride who has a smaller, formal wedding—say with 50 guests—rather than 150, will not necessarily wear a mini-dress. To him, the analogy is the same. Want to Make Your Own, Delectable Wedding Cake? Ben-Israel’s cakes are one-of-a-kind and brides who are fortunate enough to have him as their baker are lucky indeed! It’s just unfortunate to think that all the work and effort that goes into one of these great cakes, all of that butter and cream and the finest of fruits and chocolates, along with decorating extraordinaire—are gone with one sweep—the romantic cut of the bride’s and groom’s knife. Cake Tips from Ron Ben-Israel: * Go to a licensed baker. Walk the facility to make sure it’s clean—and welcoming. * Get a contract. Make sure everything is in writing. Ask about liability insurance. * Make sure the ingredients are what the baker/facility says they are. Taste different cakes from different bakers to know the difference. “The proof is in the pudding,” as Ben-Israel says. * Make sure the baker is capable of designing and executing your “dream” cake. Look at their cakes, not just photos. * Keep the cake “sleek” to keep decorating costs down. Contact: If you live in or near New York City or on the East coast and would like Ron to do your wedding cake, email him for information: Office@WeddingCakes.com And be sure to visit his website: www.weddingcakes.com Ron Ben-Israel 42 Greene Street (top floor/rear). By appointment. New York, New York 10013 212-625-3369 Try Ron’s Recipe (following)… Ron Ben-Israel's Lemon Genoise Wedding Cake with Optional Raspberries and White Chocolate Buttercream Frosting Pure lemon extract 1 1/4 teaspoons Pure vanilla extract 1/2 teaspoon LARGE whole eggs 4 (or 7 fl. oz.) (or 3/4 cup + 2 teaspoons) Granulated sugar 1/2 cup Sifted cake flour 1/2 cup Corn starch 7 TABLESPOONS Grated lemon zest 1 TABLESPOON A Very Light, Moist European Cake, 3 tiers (2 layers each tier) 1, twelve-inch tier; 1, nine-inch tier; 1, six-inch tier The twelve-inch and nine-inch tier will feed approximately 75-80. The top tier can be saved for your first anniversary! *One two-layer, twelve-inch round tier will feed 50 adequately. Before You Mix: Instructions (for all layers): * Preheat oven to 350 degrees. * Grease and flour the pans. (Ron says it's not necessary to use wax paper when baking Genoise.) One two-layer, nine-inch round tier will feed 30 adequately. Make either an extra nine-inch or twelve-inch round tier and keep it in the kitchen for extra guests, if necessary. To Make the Cakes (all layers): * Mix flour and cornstarch together. * Add vanilla and lemon extracts to oil. Storing: Ron advises that you don't freeze Genoise, although you * Place the eggs, sugar and lemon zest in a metallic mixing bowl may. (He never freezes any of his cakes!) This cake, however, will set over a pot of simmering water. Stir constantly until the sugar store well in the refrigerator, with the addition of syrup and icing, has melted completely and the mixture is warm and thin. (This for at least three days. (And, you may freeze it and the buttercream releases the oil in the zest and intensifies the flavor). if you choose [more about this later]). * Remove from heat and with an electric mixer (use the whisk attachment, if you have it), whip on high for about five minutes An Aesthetic Tip: Ron says that two-layer cakes smack of home until the egg mixture has tripled in volume (and the beaters leave baking. He suggests cutting each layer in half, horizontally, and marks in the stable and shiny foam). filling each layer with frosting that you stud with raspberries. (Each * Sift half the flour mixture over the whipped eggs. Fold to blend. tier, therefore, will have four cake layers and three layers of filling! Then sift the other half over the whipped eggs. Fold well to blend. Seven layers! Tres elegant!) Add the oil that's been mixed with the extracts. Fold until just blended. About The Recipes: * Fill pans 2/3 full. Genoise and buttercream use the same technique. Both call for * For very even cakes, use Magi-Cake strips. heating the eggs and sugar over hot water, and then whipping the mixture to achieve a high and stable foam. The other ingredients Baking Instructions (for all layers): are then gently folded in. The result: A very light and airy cake with * Bake the two, six-inch layers together. Bake the two, nine-inch creamy, melt-in-your-mouth frosting! layers together. Bake each 12-inch layer separately. Bake two, six-inch layers: 20 - 25 minutes Ron's Recipe for Two, Six-Inch Layers: Bake two, nine-inch layers: 25 - 35 minutes Ingredients: Amount: Bake each, twelve-inch layer: 30 - 40 minutes Vegetable oil 3 TABLESPOONS (continued) NOTE: Avoid opening the oven door. Wait until the allotted baking (or 1 3/4 cups) time is up. Open the door and look at the cake(s). If it doesn't Granulated sugar 1 cup appear done, re-close door and check again in five minutes. Sifted cake flour 1 cup * Genoise will shrink slightly from the sides of the pan and will be Corn starch 3/4 cup golden brown. Invert the cakes onto racks to cool. (After they're Grated lemon zest 2 TABLESPOONS completely cool, refrigerate for a few hours. This makes them easier to handle and to split into additional layers, if desired.) Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Follow directions for making six- * If Freezing: Wrap the cakes in a few layers of freezer wrap. inch layers. Fill the pan 2/3 full. Bake each layer for 30 - 40 Place them back in their pans for protection. Stack them in the minutes. refrigerator with large cardboard circles in between to prevent them Ron Ben-Israel's Lemon Syrup from being crushed. (Makes three cups, enough for three-tiered cake) Ron's Recipe for Two, Nine-Inch Layers: Ingredients: Storing: One month in an airtight container, refrigerated. Amount: Vegetable oil 6 TABLESPOONS Ingredients: Pure Lemon Extract 2 1/2 teaspoons Granulated sugar Pure Vanilla Extract 1 teaspoon Water LARGE whole eggs 8 (or 14 fl. oz.) Fresh lemon juice Amount: 1 cup 2 cups 1/2 cup (or 1 3/4 cups) Granulated sugar 1 cup Bring water and sugar to a boil in medium saucepan, stirring Sifted cake flour 1 cup constantly. Add lemon juice and cover. Remove from heat and let Corn starch 3/4 cup cool completely. Grated lemon zest 2 TABLESPOONS Before frosting, cut the top off the cakes with a serrated knife. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Follow directions for making six-inch Sprinkle both sides evenly with syrup. (Ron uses a new, clean layers. Bake for 25 - 35 minutes. hair-coloring bottle.) (If cake is frozen, allow to thaw completely before removing the top and sprinkling with syrup.) Ron's Recipe for ONE, Twelve-Inch Layer: Twelve-inch layers must be baked one at a time, so Ron says you Ron Ben-Israel's White Chocolate Buttercream Frosting* must mix the batter for each layer separately. You must make two This frosting is based on Swiss meringue that's used in European recipes to produce two layers (for one twelve-inch tier). This recipe bakeries, but Ron's is faster and easier to make! (*It's necessary will produce more batter than necessary to fill one pan. Fill the pan to make two recipes, separately, to provide enough frosting for only 2/3 full. Ron's three-tiered cake.) Ingredients: Vegetable oil Amount: Storing: One month frozen. One week refrigerated. 6 TABLESPOONS Pure Lemon Extract 2 1/2 teaspoons Ingredients: Pure Vanilla Extract 1 teaspoon LARGE egg whites (pasteurized) LARGE whole eggs 8 (or 14 fl. oz.) Amount: 8 (1 cup) (continued) Granulated sugar 1 1/2 cups * If you'd like, cut each cake layer into two layers with a serrated Unsalted butter, softened 1 1/2 pounds (6 sticks) knife. White chocolate, melted gently 3/4 pound (12 oz.) and cooled * Starting with the bottom, twelve-inch layer, spread the frosting in a thick, even layer over the top surface. Stud with raspberries (if you choose). Place the second part of the layer on top of the Beat the butter until smooth and creamy. Set aside. (Make sure first. Continue layering and filling the layers until the twelve-inch room is cool and that butter remains cool.) In a very clean and tier is complete. Cover and refrigerate until the filling is firm. grease-free metal mixing bowl, set over a pan of simmering water, * Continue the process with the nine-inch and six-inch tiers. put the egg whites and sugar. Stir constantly, until they're warm to * Frost the tiers according to directions in this chapter. the touch. Remove from heat. Beat with electric mixer on high until * If tiering the cake, follow the directions in this chapter. the egg whites are cool and hold peaks (they should be shiny). * Box and cover the cakes (see the directions in this chapter). With electric mixer on low speed, add butter slowly until blended. Add chocolate and beat until blended. Then mix on high speed to TWO DAYS BEFORE THE WEDDING (AND THE DAY BEFORE): lighten mixture. Re-beat as you frost the cake to maintain a smooth * RELAX AND ENJOY YOURSELF! texture. NOTE: If you freeze the buttercream, bring to room temperature before using to prevent curdling. Make sure the mixing bowl and beaters are also at room temperature. On a cold day, run the mixing bowl and beaters under hot tap water before proceeding. If the mixture begins to curdle while mixing, stop the mixer and suspend the bowl over hot water for a few seconds. Re-beat to maintain texture. Assembling the Wedding Cake: FIVE DAYS BEFORE THE WEDDING: * Make the cakes. (If the cakes are made and frozen, move to the refrigerator to defrost, overnight. Make sure they're completely thawed before sprinkling with syrup and frosting.) *Make lemon syrup, if you haven't already. FOUR DAYS BEFORE THE WEDDING: *Make chocolate buttercream frosting. Keep it in the refrigerator. (If you made it and froze it, move it to the refrigerator to defrost, overnight.) *THREE DAYS BEFORE THE WEDDING: *Cut the top off the cakes with a serrated knife. Sprinkle both sides evenly with syrup. (Ron uses a new, clean hair-coloring bottle.) If you’d like to make your own cake, or better yet, try Ron Ben-Israel’s delectable recipe, please see our Tips For Good Baking. plan your wedding with priority in mind! The American Academy of Wedding Professionals™ The Top Four: 1. Reserve Ceremony Site & Officiant 2. Reserve Reception Site (and caterer if applicable) 3. Reserve Entertainment 4. Reserve Photographer & Videographer *Groom should be researching & booking honeymoon. Next: 5. Reserve Florist 6. Order Invitations (once ceremony and reception sites are booked) Wedding Gowns/Formal Wear: • Wedding Gowns: Order six months before the wedding (or more). • Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Order five months before the wedding. • Men’s Formal Wear: Order two months before the wedding UNLESS THE WEDDING FALLS NEAR PROM TIME. • If it does, ORDER EARLIER! Rented Transportation: • Order two months before the wedding UNLESS THE WEDDING FALLS IN HIGH WEDDING SEASON (SUMMER) OR NEAR PROM TIME. • If it does, ORDER EARLIER! Wedding Cake: If wedding cake is NOT part of your caterer’s package, order from a private baker three months ahead of the wedding, UNLESS THE WEDDING FALLS IN HIGH WEDDING SEASON (SUMMER). If it does, ORDER EARLIER! Make-Up/Hair/Nails: Two months before the wedding, reserve your hair stylist, make-up artist and nail tech, UNLESS THE WEDDING FALLS IN HIGH WEDDING SEASON (SUMMER). If it does, RESERVE EARLIER! Marriage License: 30 DAYS BEFORE THE WEDDING CALL THE COURTHOUSE IN THE COUNTY WHERE THE WEDDING WILL TAKE PLACE TO FIND OUT ALL REGULATIONS FOR OBTAINING YOUR LICENSE! the final countdown checklist The American Academy of Wedding Professionals™ Five days before your wedding, call ALL vendors and participants to verify all arrangements including the date, place and time of your ceremony and reception, and the times service personnel are to arrive at the wedding and reception or have their goods delivered. Speak with the person who’s in charge of your wedding arrangements, no one else. Note the time and date you spoke with the person in charge, including: ♥ The ceremony officiant. ♥ The organist or choir director, or any musicians, etc. you’ve booked for the ceremony. ♥ The reception entertainment. ♥ The catering director, caterer or manager (of the reception). ♥ The party rental store, if applicable. ♥ The bakery or supermarket preparing the cake. ♥ The bridal shop, if you haven’t picked up yo NOTE: wedding gown and bridesmaids’ dresses. Check that you have contracts and/or receipts from all vendors/service personnel ♥ Formal-wear shop: Verify the order from sizes to and from management at your ceremony and reception sites. Do your contracts colors, to the number of suits/accessories. Confirm and/or receipts specify the correct date, time and place of your ceremony and the date and time for pick up and for a final fitting. reception? Are all costs included less deposits? Do you have cash, certified checks ♥ The photographer, videographer and florist. or money orders to pay the balance due, if applicable? (ALWAYS USE A CREDIT ♥ The hairdresser, make-up artist & nail technician. CARD IF POSSIBLE.) ♥ The limousine company: Call the day before and verify pick-up locations, addresses, and times. ♥ Check with the travel agent to ensure that all honeymoon plans are in order. If you made the plan verify them and check all travel documents, i.e., tickets, passports, visas, etc. ♥ Have you picked up your wedding rings? ♥ And finally, do you have a valid marriage license? bridal party duties American Academy of Wedding Professionals™ Maid/Matron of Honor: The bride’s closest friend or relative: There may be two maids or matrons of honor, or one of each, for example. (A matron of honor is a married woman.) • Helps the bride physically and emotionally during the wedding-planning process. • Throws a shower for the bride (which may be done in conjunction with bridesmaids). • Helps the bride dress for the wedding and pack for the honeymoon. • Keeps the groom’s ring for the bride. • Holds the bride’s bouquet during the ceremony (and adjusts her dress/veil). • Signs all pertinent documents as a witness. • Stands in the receiving line (if applicable). Best Man: The groom’s closest friend or relative: There may be two best men. • Helps the groom physically and emotionally during the wedding-planning process. • Throws a bachelor party for the groom (which may be done in conjunction with groomsmen). • Helps the groom dress for the wedding and pack for the honeymoon. • Keeps the bride’s ring for the groom. • Stands with the groom during the ceremony. • Signs all pertinent documents as a witness. • Presents the donation to the officiant in the groom’s name. • Gives the toast at the reception. • Returns the groom’s formal wear, if rented. (Bridal Party Duties...Contd.) Bridesmaids, Ushers/Groomsmen: Bridesmaids and groomsmen/ushers are close friends and relatives of the bride and groom. There may be four or more of each for a formal wedding, less for a semi-formal wedding. The numbers do NOT have to match. NOTE: Groomsmen are ushers! There should be one usher/groomsmen to seat every 50 guests. Flower Girls/Ringbearer: Flower girls: girls between the ages of four and eight. There may be as many as the bride chooses. Ringbearer: boy between the age of four and eight. There is only one ringbearer. Financial Responsibilities: The bridal party is responsible for all wedding attire including accessories and jewelry. They are responsible for transportation toand-from the wedding and all lodging. They are also expected to provide a wedding gift to the bride and groom and shower gift if applicable. 5 the rehearsal dinner… who’s invited? who pays? American Academy of Wedding Professionals™ It seems to us that rehearsal dinners have gotten out of hand. I mean, well, let’s put it this way: Everyone who is invited to the wedding is NOT invited to the rehearsal dinner—but I’ll bet you didn’t know that?!! Rehearsal dinners were traditionally a way for brides and grooms to relax and have a bite to eat with their bridal party after their rehearsal. It was a time for them to let their hair down with their closest friends and relatives and enjoy some much needed R & R before the wedding. It was also a time when the bride and groom extended gifts to their bridal party and to each other, as well as the hosts of the wedding—but that’s not what it’s become. Rehearsal dinners have turned into just another party—with lots of guests and lots of expense. But it doesn’t have to be that way! To keep your rehearsal dinner in perspective it’s best to know the rules. So who’s invited? • The bride and groom. • Their parents and grandparents. including the step variety. • The officiant and musicians (if NOT paid vendors). • The bridal party (include dates and/or spouses if the budget allows—or if they’re from out of town.) • The ringbearer and flower girl(s) and their parents. (The Rehearsal Dinner...Contd.) So who pays? • If both families are hosting the wedding, then both may share the cost. • If the groom’s parents aren’t carrying their share of the “wedding load”, which they • If possible, have the rehearsal and dinner two nights or more should, then they should pay. before the wedding and not the If the bride and groom host their own night before. You’ll appreciate a wedding, then both families may host the • NOTE: dinner. night of calm before the Or, if the families are hosting the wedding day. wedding, then the bride and groom may host the dinner. 6 the romantic meaning of flowers American Academy of Wedding Professionals™ White Carnation — remember me Carnation — pure love Daisies — share your feelings Holly — domestic happiness Honeysuckle — faithfulness Ivy — fidelity Purple lilac — first love White lilac — innocence Lilies — purity Orange Blossom — fertility, happiness Orchid — you are beautiful Red Rose — I love you White Rose — you’re heavenly Red and White Roses together — unity Violet — modesty tips for GOOD toasting… fresh flowers, cake decorating, Don’t let your toasts get out of hand, meaning they’re so long that and MONEY! they’re worse for your guests than reading War and Peace. American Academy of Wedding Professionals™ Traditionally, the best man is the only one who gives the toast-although others may do so. Here’s the rules: • The toast should last no more than five minutes. • It should never embarrass anyone. • The person giving it should be prepared. • For good luck, toast with only wine or champagne. Wedding cakes cost lots of money, no doubt about it. The basic rule of thumb is: The more the decorating the greater the cost. So how can you lessen the cost and end up with a gorgeous and great tasting cake? At AAWP, we advise our consultants to tell their clients to always get a superb tasting cake because when it comes to cake, that is the number one priority. And to keep the cost down, we advise that the cake be frosted plain—with the florist doing the decorating. Advise your florist that you’d like them to decorate the cake and they’ll bring the flowers to the reception to turn it into a masterpiece! The cost is minimal and the results spectacular. (Ask them to show you photos of cakes they’ve decorated. You’ll be surprised.) To make your cake even more memorable and romantic, use flowers that convey a message (see below). CAUTION: Flowers are treated with pesticides so it’s essential that they bring wax paper to put on the cake’s layers before decorating. 6 6 6 Cake-A-Lore™ ARIES: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? The ram is strong and the first sign of the Zodiac. Innovation is your second name and a cake that’s as daring and creative as you are should dominate your reception. Make it bright and sassy… don’t hold back! And don’t forget the cake beneath the frosting. It must send you to the outer limits of your imagination and thrill your taste-buds! Go for it! Color: Crimson Design: 1 Gemstone: Ruby 2 TRADITIONAL 3 4 Cake Flavor: Rum Flower: Geranium 5 6 7 8 9 10 WILD! HISTORY TIDBIT™ why a wedding cake? American Academy of Wedding Professionals™ The tradition of the wedding cake began long ago in ancient Rome. During the wedding ceremony the bride and groom were fed morsels of a wheat biscuit or roll. Symbolizing fertility, the biscuit was then crumbled over the bride’s head. The concept caught on, passed through the centuries, and was adopted by various cultures of the Western world. By the time it reached Elizabethan England, the wheat cake, a symbol of sharing and fertility had become more than just tradition. The Elizabethans stacked the rolls high and placed them on their reception tables as centerpieces, for all their guests to admire and enjoy. But it took those effervescent, pastry-loving French to envision that those simple wheat-biscuit centerpieces could be held together with sugar frosting (the forerunner of the tiered wedding cake). And OOOH! LA! LA! What they did to those rolls! The French, just like the princess who kissed the frog, “kicked up” the course wheat rolls and turned them into succulent, fine-textured cream-filled puffs, stacking them high while holding them in place with sticky, sweet caramel. Later, they used the heavenly wispiness of spun sugar to decorate the sumptuous, shiny, golden pastries. In France, a bride and groom may still request the croquembouche (translation: crunchy mouthful) for their wedding cake, a remnant of seventeenth-century tradition. The wedding cake embodies a sense of history, of happiness, fertility, plenty and good luck. It is tradition. Give it the respect it deserves. HISTORY TIDBIT™ why a groom’s cake? American Academy of Wedding Professionals™ Early American wedding cakes were fruitcakes, a tradition that the Pilgrims brought to America in the seventeenth century. It wasn’t until the 1800s with the advent of white flour, baking powder, and baking soda that the white wedding cake, as we know it, came to be. The traditional fruitcake, however, has withstood the test of time (and is still popular in many parts of our country). In fact, it’s this cake that evolved into the groom's cake. At the reception, it was traditionally cut, boxed, and given as favors to the guests. Legend has it those single guests, who placed the boxed cake under their pillow, would dream of their intended. Hence, it became known as dreaming bread. Traditionally, the groom's cake is placed beside the bride's and today it may come in any flavor or any shape that the groom desires (after all, it's his cake). The Possibilities Are Endless cutting a cake romantically! The bride, traditionally, first cuts the cake. The groom then protectively places his hand over hers, symbolically protecting her person throughout life. They then take a piece of cake, intertwine arms, and jointly feed one another. This custom comes from the ancient Greeks and Romans who believed that tasting cake simultaneously created a mystic bond between the couple, guaranteeing a happy union. freezing the wedding cake’s top layer for your first anniversary… here’s how… Most bakers advise against freezing the top layer of the wedding cake for the first year anniversary, but if you want to try it, here’s how. Wrap the cake in a few layers of plastic wrap. Then wrap it in a few layers of aluminum foil. Next, place the cake in three freezer bags, one on top of the other. (Remove as much air from the bags as possible.) Take the cake from the freezer the day before your anniversary and put it in the refrigerator. Remove from the refrigerator and let it come to room temperature before serving. IMPORTANT TIPS FROM CELEBRITY CAKE BAKER SYLVIA WEINSTOCK Excerpted from For the Bride by Deborah Mccoy Whether you’ve hired a private baker or “cake” is part of your package, it’s necessary to meet personally with the baker who will create the cake. Here's Sylvia Weinstock, that great celebrity cake baker’s, TIPS for success: 1. The size of the cake must relate to the size of the room: Tall ceilings, for example, require a tall cake. 2. The size of the cake must relate to the bride’s size and the groom’s: If they’re small people, the cake should not overpower them. If they’re tall, the cake should be also. 3. The cake must relate to its surroundings: If it's positioned in a formal, ornate room, the cake should be formal and ornate, too. If it's outdoors, surrounded by light and the beauty of colorful flowers, for example, the cake should also be colorful and vibrant. 4. The color of the cake must relate to room colors, not necessarily the bridal-party colors. Let's say your colors are hot-pink and white and the walls of the reception room are paisley, green, and purple. Would you want a fuchsia and white wedding cake? When in doubt, go white. 5. Take reception time into consideration: If it’s a late-evening affair, serve a lighter cake, like lemon. If the reception is early afternoon, serve a heavier cake like chocolate or carrot. NOTE: Decorating spells MONEY! The more intricate the decorating, the more expensive the cake. Imagination… don’t be talked into cake and dessert! it’s a waste of your money… Deborah McCoy. The American Academy of Wedding Professionals™ How many times have you heard, “It’s essential to have a dessert (besides cake). After all, no one eats the cake.” How in the word could guests eat cake if they’re stuffed with cherries jubilee after dinner? It’s time to put this in perspective. Most weddings these days feature a wedding cake and a dessert. Why? The wedding cake has been the traditional dessert at a There’s no reason to have a dessert after dinner if you reception for centuries and besides, the wedding cake is the focal have a wedding cake because the cake is dessert. point of the reception. Furthermore, a dessert served after dinner (other than your cake) is superfluous and one that costs you money! Here’s the solution: Instead of serving a superfluous dessert, end the meal with a light sorbet, for example, or strawberries dipped in chocolate (one per guest). If that proves too costly, put a good plate of chocolate mints on the table. (The repast should always end with something sweet.) Then take those dollars that you would have spent on cherries jubilee and upgrade your cake. Your guests, not stuffed with dessert, will love and appreciate your cake—the way they should! Make it so luscious that it “sings when you put it in your mouth…” as celebrity cake baker Sylvia Weinstock once told me. You are throwing money down the disposal if you purchase a wedding cake and then serve an opulent dessert with dinner. Who's going to have room to eat cake an hour or so later, no matter how good it is? By the same token, you throw money away if you purchase an inedible, tasteless "dumpy" cake. Who would want to eat it? REMEMBER: YOUR Cake Is The Last Hurrah! I've seen postings on the Internet about cutting the cake at the beginning of the reception. Why? Why waste good money on a beautiful cake only to have it ravaged at the beginning of the party? The cake is the focal point of the reception! It should be cut at the end of the evening no matter what! Cake-A-Lore™ TAURUS: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? Steadfast and true, you go with tradition and are so unwavering in your thoughts and ideals, it gives some the impression that you’re stubborn as a bull--no pun intended. The lover of good, rich food, your cake should be no different. Opulent and elegant, it should tower over your reception, the epitome of classicism and your good taste! Color: Green Design: 1 Gemstone: Emerald 2 TRADITIONAL 3 4 Flower: Violet 5 6 7 Cake Flavor: Vanilla 8 9 10 WILD! Cake-A-Lore™ GEMINI: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? A light-hearted, social butterfly, with lots of fun in your soul, your cake should mirror your whimsy. Light, airy, fun, it should be a design of your imagination. Since you love new experiences and world travel, maybe your cake should mimic the places you’ve seen and experienced--along with your new husband. The world is your oyster--or should we say--cake! Color: Yellow Design: 1 Gemstone: Agate 2 TRADITIONAL 3 4 Flower: Lily of the Valley 5 6 7 Cake Flavor: Genoise 8 9 10 WILD! 7 Cake-A-Lore™ CANCER: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? A total traditionalist, with a love of the past, your cake should be the ultimate culinary feat of classic excellence. Look in past bridal magazines and books to find the cakes of your ancestors. Focus on the beauty of that ten-tiered cake, topped by buttercream and glorious elegant, hand-crafted, edible sugar blooms. The cake itself? None other than fruit, its layers stuffed with the sensational taste of fresh, organic cream. Color: Pearly white Design: 1 2 TRADITIONAL Gemstone: Pearl 3 4 Flower: Larkspur 5 6 7 Cake Flavor: Fruit 8 9 10 WILD! 7 7 Baking your own cake… Think you’re as good as Betty Crocker??? Analyzing Cake Pans! Make sure your cake pans are constructed from aluminum, a highly conductive metal that has a dull finish. They are the best conductors of heat. Stainless steel pans are poor conductors as well as black metal pans which absorb heat too quickly. The Inspiration for the Three-Tiered Wedding Cake This is St. Bride’s Church, London, England and one of the oldest churches in Christendom dating from the seventh century. It’s obvious how the church’s spire influenced wedding cake design. Cake-A-Lore™ LEO: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? The Lion roars and the jungle knows who reigns! It’s the same for your cake! Make it a show stopper--the one-of-a-kind culinary delight that reflects your superiority as a person. Make it smile with brightness and radiate the warmth that you do. Make it tall and memorable--like the flower that represents your sign! Color: Gold Design: 1 Gemstone: Topaz 2 3 4 Cake Flavor: Lemon Flower: Sunflower 5 6 TRADITIONAL 7 8 9 10 WILD! T H E B E A U T Y O F C R Y S T A L Were Your Ancestors British? Then Give Your Cake A Toss… Out The Window It’s an old English custom for a bride to throw a piece on wedding cake out the window on her first visit to her family’s home after the wedding. If the cake plate broke she was guaranteed a happy future with her husband. How Much Does A Wedding Cake Cost? According to the Bridal Association of America, the average cost of a wedding cake in 2006 was $543.00. In 1963, a reception for100 to 300 guests at a club or hotel which included food, beverages, and the wedding cake, cost a whopping $4000.00. 7 The 10 Commandments of Elegant Wedding Planning By Deborah McCoy You must also study weddings—past and present. What makes some elegant, some not? What are the little touches that make them special? What's the look that you want to achieve? The only way you will glean this information, come to logical conclusions, and set attainable goals for yourself, is by learning I decided to write these “commandments” after years of about weddings. It's important to study and research bridal working with brides who wanted an elegant (synonym: magazines and wedding books. Go to the library and the expensive) wedding, but could not afford it. Hogwash! bookstores—and your best source for instant information? The Elegance does not relate to money, but to a state of mind. Internet! Contrary to popular belief, the words elegant and expensive are not synonyms. Every bride can have an elegant wedding, Learn about etiquette. This is Commandment Three. It's very the one she's always dreamed about. But she has to use her important. You cannot have true elegance without proper common sense; be practical; use her ingenuity; and make a etiquette; they go hand-in-hand. commitment to give her elegant wedding the time and attention it deserves and requires. A wedding is not a time "to have it your way." The precepts that guide a fast-food-restaurant chain should not be applied to Today, the majority of engaged couples pay for their own your wedding. Etiquette, over the years, has been modified to wedding. And if you're one of them, I will tell you that it's very adapt to our fast-paced lifestyle, but its tried-and-true rules and easy to get into trouble if you don't budget wisely. The idea is standards (that guarantee success) should never be ignored. As to spend only what you can afford—and not go into debt. I tell my clients: If you want to break the rules, know what the Being in debt is no way to begin married life. That's rules are. Then make an educated decision. Commandment One. The word etiquette is French, literal translation: ticket. And The photographer I work with was once hired by a bride who maybe it is. A ticket to a more gracious lifestyle, to more was so immersed in herself and her wedding that she forgot perfect speech and better manners, and of perfecting our own one important factor: she could not afford what she planned. style within the realm of good taste. It's also interesting to note After the reception, her husband wrote a bad check to a very that the synonym of the word etiquette is the word decorum. prestigious hotel in Palm Beach. The hotel had him arrested and thrown in jail. When the photographer called the bride to Decorum relates to the way we act, the way we behave—of make an appointment to create her album, the woman said living our life with courtesy toward others and with a sense of that she couldn't because her husband was "...on vacation." propriety; it is a lifestyle. Some vacation! Don't let this happen to you. We lightly interpret the meaning of the word etiquette to apply Commandment Two: Educate yourself. The more you know to the proper crossing of "Ts" and the dotting of "Is". Etiquette about the vendors, goods and services you'll need, the better and decorum—and they are one and the same—mean that we off you'll be. No one will pull the wool over your eyes. Study must exhibit decency and civility in everything we do. It's far all the books and information you can find. more complex than how to implement the proper wording on a wedding invitation. (continued) Commandments… Commandment Four: Read the contract, the fine print (and event on the same date and at the same time of day, for equal learn to adapt it). What is it about a wedding that makes or greater value. If not, and the wedding is canceled two people so trusting? The romance? The idea that nothing can go months or more in advance of the date of the affair (which wrong—(to me!?). A feeling of complete, blind faith in the gives the vendor time to book another event), the deposit may vendor? I have no idea... but I do know this: The majority of be applied to another party or occasion, if reserved within one brides, grooms, and their families sign contracts without year of the date of this contract." (The changes you make to reading them—let alone reading the fine print. This is the worst your contracts depend on your negotiating skills; it's always mistake you can make. better to get your money back, if possible.) Your contract is your only recourse should something go amiss. Part II of this commandment also relates to a contract. It's called To ignore it, or slough it off, is like committing a mortal sin in a receipt. Always get a receipt and make sure it's specific! wedding world. Let me give you an example. A couple once Don't walk out of a bridal shop, for example, with a receipt approached me for help. They hired a video company that that says: White wedding gown, size 10. Or, you may end up promised them the ultimate wedding video: completely edited, with a white wedding gown in a size 10, but not the one you special effects, music of their choice, the addition of baby and thought you ordered. Once again, you have no legal recourse honeymoon pictures, etc. But after the wedding, the company if your receipt isn't specific. Your receipt is your contract. Use it called the couple to say that all those extras they thought were to protect yourself. (This rule applies to all vendors, not just included, would cost hundreds of dollars more. The couple was bridal shops.) devastated. Commandment Six: More does not mean better—and more The first thing I did was examine their contract. It said nothing costs money! Elegant weddings are not vulgar, crass or about the added extras. The couple was caught dead to rights. overdone. They are subtle, tasteful and beautiful. Many brides They could not afford the additional expense and ended up like to feature large or life-size portraits of themselves (in their with an unedited tape of their wedding. They paid way too bridal attire) at their wedding. Others place monitors around much for a raw tape. They were had! the reception room that run videos of their love story. This is vulgar. A wedding is not supposed to convey a message to the If their contract had been specific, however, and included—in guests that says, I'm Queen for a Day, or, Look At Me! A writing—all of the things that they were promised, they would wedding is a life-celebration for all to enjoy. have had no problem with this vendor. He would have done what the contract specified. One of my brides, who spent a fortune on these portraits and videos (against my advice), ended up with a cash bar and a Contracts can also be modified and this is Commandment cocktail hour that featured one platter of cheese and crackers. Five. They are not written by God or etched in stone. If the The wedding was late afternoon and everyone was starving. cancellation policy states, for example, that you lose your deposit if you cancel the wedding—ask if you can adapt it— I attended her wedding. The topic on most of the guests' lips for example: "In the event of cancellation, the deposit is was her egomania, not the beauty or elegance of her completely refundable, provided that the vendor books another wedding. (continued) Commandments… The thousands she spent on portraits and videos should have Weddings are a time of happiness, family togetherness and been spent on her guests and her reception. inclusion. No matter what kind of relationship you have with your step-parents and/or step-families, it's time to put your Commandment Seven: Don't forget: You're the hosts! Some personal feelings aside. Don't take any actions which could budget-conscious brides and grooms opt for cash bars (guests hurt a family member (and step-parents are members of your pay for their own liquor) and dessert receptions (what you see family). Don't make plans, for example, that includes certain is what you get—dessert) in an effort to keep the cost down. immediate family members and excludes others. At a wedding, everyone is equal. Be sure that all parents (and grandparents) The wedding reception is the first party that a bride and groom are represented in some way, even a corsage or boutonniere host as husband and wife. Responsible, gracious hosts make will do. You'll be glad you did. sure that their guests are their first priority. Commandment Nine: Apply common courtesy to every aspect If you issued a formal invitation, inviting people to your home at of planning your wedding. Always put yourself in the other six o'clock in the evening, would you serve them a plate of person's shoes. pastries and charge them for their drinks? Would you blame your guests if they left early to get a tuna salad platter? Or left Let me give you an example. If you were invited to a dinner because they were insulted? Wouldn't you be? A wedding is party and you were seated across the room from your no different. If you issue an invitation to your wedding, you are husband, how happy would you be? Not very. So why do asking your families and friends to be your guests; they are not brides and grooms insist on seating their bridal-party members paying participants. A wedding is a celebration that you're at their table, without their dates and/or spouses? The result is hosting. It's up to you to impart good food, good drink (and not an empty bridal table, whose members are busy visiting their necessarily alcohol), and lots of goodwill to your guests. companions, who are seated elsewhere. It's only common courtesy to seat people with their dates and/or spouses, with Cash bars and dessert receptions are not the way to achieve people who will make them feel happy and relaxed. elegance or to impress wedding guests with your hospitality and graciousness. If you budget wisely and plan well, there's And finally, Commandment 10: Be pleasant and kind. Most no reason to have either. Be savvy, educate yourself, and take vendors and service people try to be as affable and as helpful the time to properly structure and budget for that elegant as possible with their wedding clients; after all, it's their wedding and reception of your dreams. With a little effort, you livelihood. In the same vein, you should be just as pleasant can do it affordably–and economically! when you meet with them. Commandment Eight: Don't forget the step-parents, include The customer has the option (and the advantage) of going everyone. In the U.S. today, the blended family has replaced elsewhere if he/she doesn't like the attitude of the vendor. the traditional family. For that reason, most of us have step- However, the vendor doesn't have that latitude. He can't say to parents and step-families and all the joy, or problems that may the client: "You're miserable and I'd prefer not doing business go along with them. with you." Although, many times, they'd like to. (continued) Commandments… A wedding vendor's reputation, for good or ill, spreads like wildfire in this business, but there's a flip-side to this coin. Wedding world is a small planet that's composed of a network of wedding vendors and professionals; they talk often and many times, share the same clients. For that reason, don't ever think that your attitude and deeds are above scrutiny or notice. The vendors I work with appreciate kind, caring customers and will break their back to please them. But a client's bad deeds or attitude may not go without retribution. Let me give you an example: I once worked with a young woman who had a very meanspirited mother (who was paying the tab). The mother had money, tried to control her daughter and made her life miserable. My friend, the catering director at the country club where the reception was being held, said this MOB (mother of the bride) was making her life unbearable. She called her twenty times a day trying to reduce the price and was abrasive (and she also didn't like the way she treated her daughter). My friend became so incensed with this woman that she charged her excessively. She made her pay for white-glove service and valet parking and cake cutting (items normally a part of the package deal), and anything else she could think of. This ugly woman, who wanted so much to pay less—paid more—and she never knew it. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "Character is higher than intellect." And Henry James, when his nephew asked him what he ought to do in life, answered, "Three things in human life are important. The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind." Truer words were never spoken. Apply them to every aspect of your life and every facet of planning your wedding--and things may turn out, better and more economical—and more elegant—than you ever expected! What Was It Like to Get Married When Henry VIII was King of England? At the time of Henry’s marriage to Anne Boleyn, his second wife, weddings had become raucous affairs. They normally took place on Sunday, in church, in the very early morning hours, usually before daybreak. Many of the guests, who started their celebration beforehand, arrived at the church drunk, clutching their musical instruments that they played with reckless abandon throughout the ceremony. When the service ended, the guests stormed the bride in hopes of pulling her garters from her legs (it was considered good luck to retrieve a piece of the bride’s clothing), a practice frowned upon by clergy, who were powerless to stop it. Afterward, the couple and their guests returned home, where they feasted and drank and played their musical instruments, usually harps and lutes for entertainment. After the consummation of the marriage, guests were invited into the bedroom for a drink to celebrate. The couple then drank wine from the “knitting cup”, one that symbolically bonded them together, to which a piece of fragrant rosemary (symbolic of remembrance) had been added. The party continued, with the guests singing dirty ballads and the men chasing after the women, while they played risqué games and ate and drank to their hearts’ content, long into the evening. Preliminary Wedding Budget After shopping for vendors, etc. for your wedding, put the average cost of each in column one. In column two, put the name of the person who will contribute or pay for the item and the amount paid or contributed and in column three put the amount you will budget for each. Engagement Costs: Engagement Ring Engagement Photos Engagement Parties - If applicable Ceremony Costs: Rental of Facility Officiant’s Fee Coordinator’s Fee(s) Organists and Musicians Flowers and Decorations Guest Book Wedding Programs Reception Costs: Estimated Number of Guests: _______ A. Food B. Liquor C. Extras: valet parking, linens, rental fees, baby-sitting services, etc. D Taxes, Service Charges, or Gratuities Entertainment Favors for Guests Flowers/Decorations Wedding Cake Bridal Wear, etc.: A. Wedding Gown B. Headpiece and Veil(s) Average Price Contributor and Amount or Cost Amount Budgeted Amount Contributed C. Alterations D. Accessories (shoes, slip, bra, etc.) E. Jewelry F. Hair, Make-up, Nails, Facial. Groom’s Wear: A. Rent/Buy Formal Wear B. Accessories: shoes; studs, etc. Gift Expenses: A. Gifts for Bridal-Party B. Gifts For Wedding Hosts C. Gifts Bride and Groom Give Each Other Rehearsal Dinner: Estimated Number of Guests:_________ A. Invitations B. Caterer/Restaurant Costs C. Flowers/Decorations The Other Essentials: Flowers for Bridal Party/Families Photography Videography Invitations Including Thank-You Notes, etc. Invitation Accessories: Printed Matches, Napkins, etc. Rented Transportation Wedding Rings Average Price Contributor and Amount or Cost Amount Budgeted Amount Contributed Average Price Contributor and Amount or Cost Amount Budgeted Amount Contributed Honeymoon Expenses Including All Costs: Travel, Lodging, Clothes, etc. Wedding Coordinator Marriage License Premarital Physicals, Blood Tests, if applicable Other Considerations: Wedding Cancellation Insurance Tipping: Maitre d’, Catering Director, Limo Driver Premarital Education— Non-religious and/or Religious Preservation of Bridal Gown/Veils Preservation of Bridal Bouquet Premarital Agreement: Lawyers’ Fees TOTALS ADD A 15% CONTINGENCY FACTOR: ________________ ADD APPLICABLE SALES TAX: ________________ TOTAL OF ESTIMATED EXPENSES: ________________ CAUTION: Weddings are paid for up-front, usually the week before. Many vendors will not accept credit cards or personal checks so prepare to pay with cash or certified check. 8 Cake-A-Lore™ VIRGO: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? With your highly discerning personality and your attention to detail, your cake should be far from haphazard. It should be very “neat” and symmetrical; no “tipsy” cake for you. Your practicality should shine through your cake and it should be admired for its classical elegance and simplicity--perhaps a plain fondant with some dazzling, intricate sugar flowers to top it off. Color: Taupe Design: 1 Gemstone: Sapphire 2 TRADITIONAL 3 4 Flower: Pansy 5 6 7 Cake Flavor: Pound 8 9 10 WILD! 8 8 Making Your Own Wedding Cake but Buttercream Got You Stymied? Many cake-baking experts know that making buttercream can be a daunting proposition for the novice, so many suggest buying prepared buttercream, especially if you don’t want to chance making your own or if time is of the essence. Be advised that it’s easy to use, but of course, there’s nothing like the real thing. To buy prepared buttercream: New York Cake Supplies www.nycake.com A Toast to the Bride And Groom: Always remember to forget the trouble that passes away, but never forget to remember the blessings that come each day. A Toast to the Bride from the Groom: Here’s to the prettiest, here’s to the wittiest, here’s to the truest of all who are true, here’s to the neatest one, here’s to the sweetest one, here’s to them all in one—Here’s to you! A Toast from the Bride to the Groom: Don’t walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don’t walk behind me, I may not lead; Walk beside me, and just be my friend… --Irish Want to Try a Ron Ben-Israel Cake? Here Are the Rules of Good Baking It's not hard to bake a good cake. But it's important that you adhere to the rules. Cake baking is an exact science so follow the recipe to the letter. Baking a cake is not like making soup. You can't add more salt while it's cooking to enhance the flavor. * Ingredients All ingredients should be fresh including spices and flavorings. If your condiments are a year old or are not fragrant, throw them away. Flour, baking powder and baking soda should also be fresh. Use only pure extracts, no imitation flavorings. All ingredients should be room temperature when baking. For the purpose of making a wedding cake--the most important cake you'll ever make--you are not going to substitute ingredients. You're not going to use Cool Whip in place of whipped cream, for example, or margarine for butter. This is one time when you're going to throw calories to the wind! (continued) Rules for Good Baking… When the recipe calls for: --butter, use only unsalted butter. --milk and cream, use whole milk and whipping cream (preferably pasteurized cream, not ultra-pasteurized. It can be found at organic-food stores or health-food stores). --cream cheese, use only regular cream cheese. --eggs, use only LARGE eggs. --sugar, use only white granulated sugar or preferably, superfine sugar. --brown sugar, use only regular light or dark-brown sugar. --flour, use only cake flour (not self-rising). * Put sugars (white and brown), flour, and cornstarch in tightly sealed containers to protect them from humidity. Store at room temperature. Buy nuts in health-food or organic food stores. Place them in freezer bags and freeze. Dried fruits should also be purchased in health-food or organic food stores. To plump them, cover with cold water and boil for a few minutes. Cool them completely before using them in a recipe. Cake-A-Lore™ LIBRA: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? The true romantic of the Zodiac, with an incredible sense of taste, color and design, your cake should be an expression of your artistic talents. Whether an incredible feat of culinary design--the Taj Mahal, for example, made from spun sugar and genoise--or a traditional cake that makes every other look tasteless, spare no effort on your cake. It represents the soul of your talent! Color: Pink Design: 1 Gemstone: Opal 2 TRADITIONAL 3 Cake Flavor: Strawberry Shortcake Flower: Rose 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 WILD! Cake-A-Lore™ SCORPIO: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? The fiery side of the Zodiac although your element is “water,” no one can dismiss a scorpion’s passion--which means that love is the foodstuff of your soul; you can’t live without it. Therefore, your cake must be inspirational, a mile-marker on the Yellow Brick Road of your love. Make it something you, your husband and guests will never forget! Color: Burgundy Gemstone: Garnet Flower: Rhododendron Cake Flavor: Chocolate Mousse Design: 1 2 TRADITIONAL When Women Didn’t Always Wear White An old, anonymous Victorian verse, told the fate of the bride, based on the color of her wedding gown. Married in white; you have chosen all right; Married in grey, you will go far away; Married in black, you will wish yourself back; Married in red, you wish yourself dead; Married in green; ashamed to be seen; Married in blue, he will always be true; Married in pearl, you will live in a whirl; Married in yellow, ashamed of your fellow; Married in brown, you will live out of town; Married in pink, your fortune will sink. 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 WILD! 8 White, Brides and Tudor England Queen Elizabeth I, the fashionable daughter of Henry VIII and Anne Boleyn, his second wife, began a tradition that has passed down to present generations. Elizabeth was Britain’s greatest monarch and was attractive with her fair-hair, light complexion, and flaming red hair. She also loved to wear white, which during her reign and because of her chastity, came to symbolize virginity (a color that later came to represent the virgin bride). What better color for Elizabeth, a woman who never married, and became known as the Virgin Queen? Because of Elizabeth, many brides chose to wear white at their wedding and the custom took hold. It’ s interesting to note that Mary Queen of Scots defied tradition and married the Dauphin of France in a white gown, in Paris, in 1558, even though white was the color of mourning for French royalty. 9 Cake-A-Lore™ SAGITARRIUS Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? The true free spirit of the Zodiac, your cake should be anything but traditional. Reach for the stars and make the galaxy your cake! You’re bigger than life and there’s no reason your cake shouldn’t be too. It should be filled with unique flavors that tickle the taste-buds, while its design should floor the senses! Color: Royal Blue Gemstone: Lapis Flower: Narcissus Cake Flavor: Passion Fruit Design: 1 2 TRADITIONAL 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 WILD! Marriage is a mistake every man should make. --George Jessel Cake-A-Lore™ CAPRICORN: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? The most practical sign of the Zodiac and probably the most conservative, everything you do is well thought-out, organized and planned. Your cake should be no different. Over-the-top is not for you, but quality is. You appreciate the fine things in life and for that reason, your cake should not be too rich, but just right… and beautiful but not opulent. Color: Forrest Green Design: 1 2 TRADITIONAL Gemstone: Diamond 3 4 5 Flower: Ivy 6 7 Cake Flavor: Carrot 8 9 10 WILD! 9 9 Why A Rehearsal Dinner? In the Middle Ages, it was believed that the clinking of glasses was reminiscent of the sound of bells, and bells, the type associated with churches, were thought to drive away evil spirits, even the devil. It was also believed that noise scared them off. For that reason, the rehearsal dinner, normally held the night before the wedding was a loud, boisterous affair, the louder the better. The participants clinked glasses, and even smashed them and their dinner plates, in an effort to keep evil at bay as they celebrated long into the evening. 9 God, the best maker of all marriages, Combine your hearts in one. —William Shakespeare Cake-A-Lore™ AQUARIUS: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? Because of the yin and yang of your nature--the polarity of your spirit, the free yet traditional anchor of your personality--your cake must be a mixture of you, your whimsy and your classicism. Your independence and your love of the eccentric should play a big role in your cake design--but don’t forget the part of you that stays fixed. Wow! What a cake! Color: Violet Gemstone: Amethyst Flower: Orchid Cake Flavor: Red Velvet/Raspberry Design: 1 2 TRADITIONAL 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 WILD! The Wedding Ceremony That Hasn’t Changed (Hardly) In Nearly 500 Years When Henry VIII broke from the Catholic Church, the new Anglican Church was formed and along with it came the Book of Common Prayer, the prayer book of the Reformers that also contained the new, required marriage ceremony. It’s not changed for close to 500 years, and was the one used when Diana Spencer married Charles, Prince of Wales, in 1981. The only difference in their ceremony was that the young woman did not promise to “obey” her husband, just like many of today’s modern brides. The Form of Solemnization of Matrimony (from the Book of Common Prayer) Wilt thou have this Woman to thy wedded wife, to live together after God’s ordinance in the holy estate of Matrimony? Wilt thou love her, comfort her, honour, and keep her in sickness and in health: and, forsaking all other, keep thee only unto her, so long as ye both shall live? The man shall answer, I will. Then shall the Priest say unto the woman, (continued) Book Of Common Prayer… Wilt thou have this Man to thy wedded husband, to live together after God’s ordinance in the holy estate of Matrimony? Wilt thou obey him, and serve him, love, honour, and keep him in sickness and in health: and, forsaking all other, keep thee only unto him, so long as ye both shall live? The Woman shall answer, I will. I [name] take thee [name] to my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part, according to God’s holy ordinance: and thereto I plight thee my troth. Then shall they loose their hands; and the Woman, with her right hand taking the Man by his right hand, shall likewise say after the Minister, I [name] take thee [name] to my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, cherish, and to obey, till death us do part, according to God’s holy ordinance: and thereto I give thee my troth. With this Ring I thee wed, with my body I thee worship, and with all my worldly goods I thee endow: In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen. 1 1 1 1 The First "I do?" The White House Marriage of Nellie Grant and Algernon Sartoris By Deborah McCoy Newspapers around the country proclaimed the news, the daughter of the President, Ulysses S. Grant, was married in a gala White House affair. The East Room was decorated in flowers, top to bottom. A wedding bell made of countless white camellias, and typical of the day (it hung over the bride's and groom's head during the ceremony), swung from a specially constructed floral arch while garlands of fresh greens and flowers swung in gentle ropes about the huge, majestic room. A platform, erected for the bridal party, stood at the far end and was covered by a rich Oriental rug, a gift from the Sultan of Turkey. Decked in fresh blooms, it was framed in potted plants and palms. The nuptials were dubbed, the wedding of the century, the Nineteenth Century, that is. Frank Leslie's Illustrated Newspaper featured a sketch of the ceremony on its front page, June 6, 1874. Ellen "Nellie" Grant, the President's daughter, was young, beautiful, beloved by her country, and was a child when her father was elected to the highest office in the land in 1869. She grew up in her father's opulent, grand White House, where uniformed servants fulfilled the family's every need and liveried footmen waited on them hand and foot. In the kitchen, the best European chefs spent their time whipping up culinary delights for their pleasure. The family lived more like royalty than Republicans and the Grants entertained extravagantly. The President and his wife were widely known for their trademark, twenty-nine course dinners, a common week-end happening at the White House. Nellie arrived at the White House a shy young girl and four years later, emerged an American Princess. She thrived on her family's, rich luxuriant lifestyle and eagerly helped her mother with entertaining and decorating, taking to the task like a duck to water. She was born into America's aristocracy, was pretty, sweet and well mannered and she had a distinguished heritage. Her father was not only President of the United States but was a distinguished Civil War Hero; and the Press and the public loved her. The blue-bloods and the elite, the politicians and the powerful, clamored for Nellie's attention. She was on the "most wanted" guest list and became a celebrity. A society party was not a society party without the President's daughter and although he insisted that she be properly chaperoned by one of her brothers, try as he might, Grant couldn't stop the gossip. The rumors of late nights and multiple suitors were flying. The Grants suggested a trip abroad to expand their daughter's horizons (and to dispel the gossip). Nellie was just sixteen and it was a whirlwind tour. At Buckingham Palace, she was presented to Queen Victoria, while her escorts about the city were American diplomats, living abroad. She dined and danced and lived like a princess. But the most eventful part of the trip for Nellie was the voyage home. She fell in love. (continued) The First “I Do?”… Algernon Charles Frederick Sartoris was on Nellie's ship. Sartoris was in his twenties, dashing, well-educated, rich, but an Englishman. His father was a member of British Parliament; his mother the sister of a famous actress. Nellie and Algy, as he was called, after spending a couple of weeks together onboard, walked off the gangplank in New York City madly in love. Their families and the country had other ideas. Algernon's family freely admitted he had a drinking problem; he spent too many nights with the boys and the booze. The President, meanwhile, was adamant in his resolve that his daughter was too young to marry. He flatly refused the young man when he asked for her hand. Besides, Algy was an Englishman and Grant couldn't stand the idea of his daughter living in a foreign country. The controversy became a hot debate from coast to coast, with the country backing the President. No one was good enough for Nellie! The young couple was defiant and continued to push their suit. When Nellie was eighteen and Algy was twenty-three, a heartbroken Grant caved in. The White House wedding was scheduled for May 21, 1874, with Mrs. Grant and Nellie in charge of the arduous task of planning the spectacular affair. They first went to New York City to purchase the future bride's extensive trousseau: numerous hats, silk dresses, skirts, blouses, shoes, undergarments, everything needed to complete a young, upper-class girl's wardrobe. Her wedding gown, also made in New York, cost an unbelievable $5,000 (in an era when the average American made $200 per year.) Nellie's gown was made of the finest, most expensive white silksatin and point-lace and featured a high neckline. The front of the tight bodice was filled with the same point-lace that (continued) 1 The First “I Do?”… decorated the skirt in swags, from side-toside, that formed the bustle at the back. The lace was edged by fresh greenery, white flowers, and even delicate, miniature oranges. The sleeves were long, slim at the shoulder and wide at the wrist. The bottom of the sleeves were heavily bordered in lace. The bride wore a white floor-length tulle veil that extended from a crown of white flowers, greens, orange blossoms, pearls and diamonds. Her bouquet consisted of a delicate pearl fan adorned with lace and white flowers; her shoes were silk. She must have taken her guests' breath away. The wedding invitations went out to threehundred guests, sent by a heartbroken President and Mrs. Grant (although only 125 attended). Close family and friends were invited plus the most prominent members of the aristocracy, government, and the military. The distraught parents of the bride, in a severe breech of etiquette, forgot to mention their daughter's or the groom's name on the invitation: The President and Mrs. Grant request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their daughter at the Executive Mansion on Thursday, May 21st, at eleven o'clock a.m. The morning of the wedding, the weather was warm and bright. The East Room, recently renovated by Mrs. Grant, was the picture of Greek architecture and design and was illuminated by gas-light, whose blue rays romantically danced off its gold and white walls. Floral monograms, featuring the bride and groom's initials, hung from the ceiling, while fireplaces and other unsightly necessities, were typically obscured by potted palms. The place was draped with flowers, floor to ceiling, and smelled so sweet it might well have been doused with perfume. (continued) The First “I Do?”… At eleven o'clock the ceremony began. The guests stood on either side of the aisle that was roped off by white satin ribbons. The forty-piece Marine Band played The Wedding March while the groom, not to be outdone by his bride, walked up the aisle carrying a floral bouquet of tuberoses, orange blossoms and pink buds. In the center was a banner containing one word, “Love". The eight bridesmaids were friends of the President's family. They wore identical white silk dresses; four carried bouquets of pink flowers and four carried bouquets of blue flowers. The first pair of maids marched down the aisle and stopped half-way. Then the next two began their walk and stopped a few feet beyond them and so on, until the last two stood at the foot of the dais. The bride walked down an aisle that was brilliantly appointed by her own attendants. The President was sad and teary-eyed. He was fast losing his precious daughter! The ceremony, conducted by Dr. O.H. Tiffany of the Metropolitan Methodist Episcopal Church, was brief. The Protestant wedding service, from The Book of Common Prayer, is one we've heard innumerable times, "Wilt thou have this woman (or man) for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health...." In Pearson's Magazine, March, 1906, in an article titled, Historic Weddings of the White House, there is an interesting observation about the vows of Nellie Grant and Algy. According to Pearson's, when Dr. Tiffany asked, "'Wilt thou take this woman to be thy wedded wife?' The groom '...got his verbs mixed and replied, 'I do.'" Did Algernon Sartoris, innocently, and by way of a mix up, begin a tradition that is still with us? How many brides and grooms have you heard utter the correct response, "I will"? Pearson's thought it enough of a faux pas to report it. Perhaps, they shouldn't have. "I do" is now a wedding tradition. The guests were awed by the brilliant array of the couple's numerous gifts, displayed on the second floor of the Executive Mansion. Their value was over $60,000, including one five-hundred-dollar lace-pocket handkerchief. The President and First Lady gave their daughter a diamond necklace, imported Brussels' lace, earrings and lesser gifts, and a check for $10,000. The wedding breakfast was sumptuous but not the usual for the Grants. (Was the President that displeased? Maybe. After the festivities, his wife found him in Nellie's room, sobbing.) At each guest's plate there was a menu printed on white satin that listed the breakfast's numerous delicacies, even Epigraphe la fleur, de Nelly Grant, named after the bride. As favors, guests were given boxed pieces of wedding cake. The tall, imposing, white cake, decorated with flowers, sat in the center of the dining table. Long streamers, leading from the cake to bowls of flowers situated at the table's opposite ends were stuffed with small flags reading, "Success to the President"; "Success to the Army"; "Success to the Supreme Court" and "Hail Columbia." After the opulent repast, the bride retired to change into her traveling clothes. She and Algy took the President's four-in-hand (a carriage driven by four horses) to the station. (continued) (The First “I Do?”…Contd.) The bells of the Metropolitan Church spewed forth the good news and one can only imagine the deep, cheering crowds that lined the way. Awaiting them was an extravagant Pullman car, designed for the Paris Exposition. Over-flowing with fresh flowers, greens and American and English flags, it whisked them to New York where they honeymooned at the Fifth Avenue Hotel. "Let 'em Eat Cake...." but That's Not All She's Known For... Marie Antoinette's Legacy No drink is better associated with a wedding than champagne, and no one liked to drink it more than Marie. She was so taken by its flavor that she designed a glass for the purpose, one whose shape followed the curve of her breast. Its classic design survived throughout the centuries and is still widely used today. A Toast To The Bride and Groom… Here’s to matrimony, The high sea for which no compass Has yet been invented. —Heinrich Heine The next day, a distressed President and his wife followed Nellie to New York and dined with the bride and groom at A.T. Stewart's palace on Fifth Avenue. The President and his son were then off for a visit to P.T. Barnum's. All were on hand the following day when darling Nellie and her new husband sailed for England. Post Script: Nellie's marriage to Algy was a disaster. She bore four children but inevitably divorced her husband and returned to her country where she was welcomed with open arms. America always loved its darling Nellie. 1 1 Cake-A-Lore™ PISCES: Based on your astrological sign--and your fiancé’s--what kind of cake should you have? You are a romantic, love the traditional, and admire beautiful things. Why should your cake look like the leaning Tower of Pisa? It shouldn’t. You have a very sensitive nature and soul with a tough backbone. And while your cake should be romantic and elegant, it should stand strong and tall--no wimpy cake for you! 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