Winter 2016 - Womanspace
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Winter 2016 - Womanspace
Winter 2016 NEWS A publication of Womanspace, Inc., a non-profit organization serving adults and children in crisis. Inside This Issue: Womanspace Announces 2016 Barbara Boggs Sigmund Award Honoree: Co-host of the third hour of NBC News TODAY and Anchor of MSNBC’S NewsNation, Tamron Hall Womanspace is privileged to announce the 22nd annual Barbara Boggs Sigmund Award (BBS Award) honoree Tamron Hall, co-host of the third hour of NBC News TODAY and Anchor of MSNBC’S NewsNation, for her efforts to shine a light on domestic violence. Each year Womanspace honors a person of distinction who exemplifies the qualities of the event’s namesake, Barbara Boggs Sigmund. On Thursday, May 19, 2016, Hall will be honored at the Westin Hotel in Princeton for advocating passionately, both on and off air, for greater awareness of domestic violence. As part of TODAY’s “Shine a Light” series, a campaign to support worthy causes, Hall has raised more than $41,000 to help end domestic abuse. Hall is an award winning journalist who was inspired by her personal tragedy to help others. pace in 1977. Barbara’s leadership and her crusade against domestic violence have made a life-saving difference to the thousands of survivors served by Womanspace over the years. The Barbara Boggs Sigmund Award proudly represents that can do spirit, and honoring Tamron Hall is a true representation of that spirit. Hall addresses the issue of domestic violence with compassion, courage and a commitment to helping women and girls recognize abusive relationships. She also reminds us that domestic violence casts a wide net, impacting not only the intended victims, but also their sisters, brothers, mothers, fathers, children, friends and entire communities. Hall is firm that, “love doesn’t have to hurt,” and she is working diligently on ending the prevalence of victim blaming which overshadows real issue, putting an end to the violence. A letter from Pat Hart Take.” She has also hosted several special reports for MSNBC and NBC News, including “Making the Grade,” “Debating the Black Agenda,” several “Dateline” and “Rock Center” pieces, the 2012 London Olympics and “Education Nation: Teacher Town Hall,” which was nominated for an Emmy Award in 2011. Tamron also served as correspondent of the NBC News special “The Inauguration of Barack Obama,” which won an Emmy for Outstanding Live Coverage in October 2010. Ms. Hall was the recipient of TemBarbara Boggs Sigmund, was the mayple University’s prestigious Lew Klein or of Princeton and the first woman In addition to her role at MSNBC, Alumni in the Media award in 2010. freeholder in Mercer County. She was Tamron is co-host for the 9am hour of Tamron also is an active member of the driving force in founding Womans- the TODAY Show called “TODAY’S the National Association of Black Journalists. In addition, Tamron has been Womanspace, Inc. featured in several major publications Non-Profit 1530 Brunswick Avenue. and media outlets, including Ebony Organization Lawrenceville, NJ 08648 Magazine, Forbes, Uptown Magazine, U.S. POSTAGE (609) 394-0136 PAID Huffington Post, AOL Black Voices, TRENTON, NJ Women’s Health, Marie Claire and Address Service Requested PERMIT #1060 others. Tamron is a native of Luling, Texas, and she holds a Bachelor of the Arts degree in Broadcast Journalism from Temple University. Tamron is involved with several charitable organizations that strive to end homelessness and illiteracy, as well as others that fight continued on page 4 Recent Grant Awards Fall 2015 Training Princeton Art Museum Project with Womanspace Save the Date- BBS 2016 BBS 2016 Sponsorship Form Domestic Violence Awareness Month Recap COL Launch recap Community Giving January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month Holiday Donation Needs Upcoming Events Mercer County 24-Hour Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Hotline (609)-394-9000 Text Message Hotline available 24/7 for the deaf and hard of hearing at (609)-619-1888 NJ Statewide Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-572-SAFE Counseling & Support Services (609)-394-2532 Recent Grant Awards In the world of non-profits and in the world of domestic and sexual violence there is always so much work to do. So how do you decide what makes a project a priority with the potential to accomplish great things? Although tempting, it isn’t following the money. Too often the money is attached to other agendas so it is welcome and wonderful but sometimes you have to take a risk, start a project and let your work convince funders of it’s efficacy. I believe that the correct answer grows out of recognizing a critical unmet need. Once that need is identified an effective project requires committed community partners who share similar goals and visions. None of us can do this work alone. Our Deaf Advocacy Project (DAP) is both an essential model project and one that meets the criteria to do great things. No such project exists in the state and only a small number of similar type projects exist nationwide. The Deaf Community is a huge valuable and productive presence in New Jersey and deserves access to the same critical services as the hearing community. The project consists of the most amazing partners…first and foremost the volunteers pictured. They dedicated 80 hours to training on domestic and sexual violence. Traveling from all over the state they attended Wednesday evening and Saturday morning sessions for three months. They rock! Our committee partners that worked for a year and a half to create the model, all of whom volunteered their time to attend regular meetings. The NJ State Department of Human Services, Division of Deaf and Hard of Hearing supported interpreter services for all our organizational meetings; in addition, the NJ Association on the Deaf; Womanspace staff were key in providing accessible training; the NJ Coalition to End Domestic Violence and the NJ Coalition Against Sexual Assault. We thank Lawrence Township Community Foundation for a grant to purchase accessible communication devices and Black Rock Financial for a grant to pay interpreters for the 80 hours of training and to those who donated privately or to our GoFundMe page. Special thanks to the Ewing Township Police Department who generously provided the space for this training. Small support netted huge results because of the commitment of so many excellent individuals. The DAP project volunteers will offer support to deaf individuals who are victims of domestic and sexual violence. It is very meaningful when someone from your own community steps up to be a presence, without judgment, when you need one most. I am grateful for a community that gives of themselves the way our partners in this project have given. I feel fortunate every day to have met this team of advocates who will change the way we do our work here in NJ forever, ensuring that every victim and survivor feels validated and welcome when they reach out for help. Verizon Wireless Hopeline $10,000: Verizon Hope Line® gave a $10,000 grant to Womanspace for our crisis intervention teams-- Domestic Violence Victim Response Team (DVVRT) and Sexual Assault Response Team (SART). These teams have enabled us to have specially trained volunteers available twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week, to respond to requests from victims who have been taken to municipal police stations or hospitals immediately following an incident of domestic violence or sexual assault. Thank you Verizon for your continued support! Church and Dwight $10,000 for General Operating Support: Church & Dwight recently awarded Womanspace with a $10,000 grant for general operating support for the essential programs that we provide to Mercer County. Womanspace is grateful for local partners that understand the vital need to serve survivors and their children. Thank you Church & Dwight! Empire Beauty School $834 for General Operating Support: Thank you to Empire Beauty School for the $834 donation in general operating support to help the families impacted by domestic violence, sexual assault and human trafficking. Whole Foods Market Princeton Nickels for Non-Profits $1,492 for General Operating Support: Womanspace was honored to have been chosen by Whole Foods Market- Princeton, to be last quarter’s Nickels for Non-Profit designated Organization. Each customer that brings in reusable bags receives .05 cents for each bag. The customer then has the option to donate their refund(s) to Womanspace for that quarter. Womanspace received a grand total of $1,492. Thank you Whole Foods Market Princeton for supporting Womanspace. First Presbyterian Church of Dutch Neck $500 for General Operating Support: Womanspace would like to thank the First Presbyterian Church of Dutch Neck for the $500 grant for general operating support. We are extremely grateful for their ongoing support to our organization. Sucharow Family Charitable Fund at the Jewish Community Foundation of Greater Mercer $1,500 for General Operating Support: Thank you to the Sucharow Family Charitable Fund at the Jewish Community Foundation of Greater Mercer for the $1,500 in general operating support. Princeton Area Community Foundation $5,000 for General Operating Support: Thank you Princeton Area Community Foundation for making Womanspace the recipient of $5,000. This grant will support the innovative programs provided through Womanspace to benefit survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault and human trafficking. Princeton United Methodist Church $600 for general operating support: Womanspace is grateful for the $600 donation from Princeton United Methodist Church for general operating support. Operating support enables Womanspace to direct funds where they are needed by covering any program funding gaps. Murphy & Hoffer $1,000 for general operating support: Thank you to Murphy & Hoffer for giving Womanspace $1,000 for general operating support. This supports the agency’s operations as a whole rather than a particular project, allowing Womanspace to use it in the area of greatest need. Patricia M. Hart, M.S.W., LCSW Executive Director Church and Dwight presenting Womanspace with a $10,000 donation. 2 Womanspace’s Deaf Advocacy Program Continues to Flourish Womanspace is excited to announce the completion of our first ever Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Response Team training with Deaf advocates. Victims of domestic violence and sexual assault need to be able to access protective and supportive help immediately when they are in crisis. For those victims who are Deaf or hard of hearing, who feel further isolated, it becomes even more critical that services are immediately available to protect and support them during a crisis and beyond. Womanspace has been working in partnership with the NJ Association for the Deaf, NJ Department of Human Services, Division of Deaf and Hard of Hearing, NJ Coalition for Battered Women and NJ Coalition Against Sexual Assault and developing a pilot program that will ensure that victims and survivors in the Deaf and Hard of Hearing community can easily access critical domestic violence and sexual assault program services. Just like our current Domestic Violence Victim Response Team and Sexual Assault Response Team (DVVRT & SART), these individuals were trained by Womanspace, Inc., Mercer County, New Jersey and law enforcement agencies. DVVRT and SART volunteers are trained to meet with victims of domestic violence and sexual assault at police stations and hospitals to provide information and support at the time of a reported in- cident or upon request. DVVRT and SART team members are volunteer victim advocates who have received extensive training and work with police departments in local municipalities to respond to reported incidents of domestic violence. All 12 munici- palities in Mercer County have active teams that provide this essential service to victims in their communities. Advocates provide crisis intervention, counseling, emotional support, information and referrals to the victims and their significant others. Princeton Arts Council Project Our Transitional Housing Program has recently been benefiting from the generous talents of several University students from the Arts Council of Princeton. While our adult clients are participating in our staff run group therapy, the students have been engaging with our clients’ children by creating special art projects. Most recently, the Arts Council provided art supplies for the children to learn about and explore the creation of portraits through various mediums. The University students have been able to cater their program to the children’s various ages and abilities allowing for everyone to have fun participating in the sessions. This service has been made available to our families once a month and the children are always looking forward to their next visit with the students. A special thanks to the following Princeton University Students for volunteering with Womanspace: Hadley Newton, Margot Yale, Liani Wang, and Sarah Cho. We truly appreciate all of your help. 3 continued from page 1 domestic abuse. She has been recognized by Day One, a New York-based advocacy group for victims of domestic violence, for her work and support of their efforts. She wrote a personal account of her sister’s death for theGrio. com in 2010, which garnered praise from several outlets for its honesty and attention to the often-overlooked issue of domestic and dating violence. We hope you will join us for an extraordinary evening with Tamron Hall. Information on how to purchase a ticket, sponsorships, advertising and all questions about BBS will be posted on our website (www.womanspace.org) very soon. Your support of this event ensures that much needed services are provided to women, children and men who suffer from interpersonal violence. 4 Barbara Boggs Sigmund Award Event Committee Joan Bartl Jennifer Brandt Debbie Cacciabaudo Pam Clarkson Linda Cooper Danielle Coppola, MD Patricia Hart, Executive Director Ellen Kemp Ruth Miller Lauren Nazarian, Director of Development Rose Nini Joanne Coppola Jan Noonan Landis Eaton Susan Pilate Denise Taylor Joyce Rappeport Dana Fraytak Troiano Fran Zeitler CHECK OUT Womanspace's New Website! We are proud to announce the release of our newly designed website. The website has been designed to reflect the needs of our clients, donors, and members. Immediately you will notice the contemporary menus, user friendly navigation and access to all the information you need, quickly and efficiently. Take a look at our upcoming events, news, education and training, and all the services we have to offer here at Womanspace! Find us at www.womanspace.org Barbara Boggs Sigmund Award Honoring Tamron Hall Womanspace is privledged to honor Co-Host of NBC'S TODAY and anchor of MSNBC'S NewsNation, for her efforts to shine a light on domestic Violence. Presenting Sponor: Janssen Research & Development, LLC Womanspace Founder, the late Barbara Boggs Sigmund Thursday, May 19, 2016 – Westin Princeton - 5:30 - 9:30 PM Diamond Sponsor: $12,500 (only one available) 2016 BBS Honoree Tamron Hall Individual Ticket Opportunities • Premier seating for 16 people (2 tables) with table signage Individual Ticket - $160 Table of Ten - $1,600 ______ # of Tickets • Premium Full color Ad in Program Journal Inside-Front Cover • Exclusive introduction to the honoree Advertising Journal Sponsorship Opportunities (Please note that sponsorships will be recognized • Recognition during program at event in the program journal provided we receive your registration and art(high resolution pdf or eps file) by April 15, 2016 • Inclusion in event publicity and advertising Ad Journal Cover Page Sponsor: $3,500 Full Page Journal Ad: $500 • Option to display corporate banner within guidelines • Logo prominently displayed for one year on Womanspace website home page with link to • Premium color full-page ad (inside back cover • B/W full-page ad OR inside front cover, if available) sponsor website • Seating for 4 people Half Page Journal Ad: $300 • Exclusive introduction to the honoree Platinum Sponsor: $10,000 • B/W half-page ad • Name featured on materials and media, • Premier seating for 12 people with table signage including posters, newspaper ads, website, • B/W full-page ad in program journal with gold border Business Card Journal Ad: $150 event invitation*, and Womanspace Facebook • Exclusive introduction to the honoree • B/W ad page and newsletter • Formal recognition during program at event • Inclusion in event publicity and advertising Ad Journal Gold Page Sponsor: $1,500 Ad Journal Friend: $100 • Option to display corporate banner within guidelines • 1 line name listing • Name featured on materials and media, including posters, newspaper ads, website, event • B/W full-page ad with gold border • Seating for 2 people invitation*, and Womanspace Facebook page, twitter and newsletter • Acknowledgment in the program journal, • Logo inclusion on the step & repeat backdrop event invitation*, event signage, and newsletter Gold Sponsor: $7,500 • Prime reserved seating for 10 people with table signage • B/W full-page ad in program journal with gold border • Exclusive introduction to the honoree • Recognition during program at event • Inclusion in event publicity and advertising • Option to display corporate banner within guidelines • Name featured on materials and media, including posters, newspaper ads, website, event invitation*, and Womanspace Facebook page, twitter and newsletter Silver Sponsor: $5,000 • Reserved seating for 10 people with table signage • B/W full-page ad in program journal with silver border • Exclusive introduction to the honoree • Recognition during program at event • Inclusion in event publicity and advertising • Option to display corporate banner within guidelines • Name featured on materials and media, including posters, newspaper ads, website, event invitation*, and Womanspace Facebook page, twitter and newsletter Bronze Sponsor: $3,500 • Reserved seating for 8 people with table signage • B/W full-page ad in program journal • Exclusive introduction to the honoree • Recognition during program at event • Inclusion in event publicity and advertising • Option to display corporate banner within guidelines • Name featured on materials and media, including posters, newspaper ads, website, event invitation*, and Womanspace Facebook page, twitter and newsletter Benefactor Sponsor: $1,000 Ad Journal Silver Page Sponsor: $1,000 • B/W full-page ad with silver border • Acknowledgement in the program journal, event invitation*, event signage, and newsletter Donation Opportunity I/We cannot attend the event but would like to make a tax-deductible donation in the amount of $ ____________ Payment Information *Please note that sponsorships will be listed in the invitation provided we receive your registration by February 9, 2016. Send ad/copy submissions and any questions to: Lauren Nazarian: lan@womanspace.org (609) 394-0136 • Digital File Formats: Adobe pdf or eps • Full Page: 8.5 x 11 inches • Half Page: 8.5 x 5.5 inches • Business Card: 3.5 x 2 inches Please return your Womanspace sponsorship form along with your check (payable to Womanspace, Inc.) or credit card payment information to: Lauren Nazarian, Director of Development, Womanspace, Inc., 1530 Brunswick Avenue, Lawrenceville, NJ 08648. Credit card payments can also be faxed to (609) 396-1093. Name for Recognition Purposes: _______________________________________________________ Business Name: ___________________________________________________________________ Contact Name: ____________________________________________________________________ Title: ___________________________________________________________________________ Phone:__________________________________________________________________________ Email: __________________________________________________________________________ Address: ________________________________________________________________________ City: ______________________________State: ______________Zip: ______________________ Total Amount of Sponsorship: $ _________________ Check Enclosed Credit Card Payment • Seating for 4 people • Acknowledgment in the program journal, event invitation*, event signage, and newsletter Type of Credit Card (circle one): MasterCard / Visa / Amex / Discover Patron Sponsor: $500 Name on Credit Card: ___________________________ Signature: _________________________ • Seating for 2 people • Acknowledgment in the program journal, event invitation*, event signage, and newsletter Credit Card Number: ____________________ Exp. Date: ____________ Today's Date:___________ Womanspace is a licensed charitable non-profit 501(c)(3) tax-exempt organization. Thank you for your generous support and committment to Womanspace and the thousands of women, children, and men served each year. 5 Domestic Violence Awareness Month History The month of October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM). It evolved from the "Day of Unity" held in October 1981 and was established by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV). The purpose of this day was to connect advocates across the nation who were working to end violence against women and their children. The Day of Unity soon became an entire week dedicated to a range of activities carried out at the local, state, and national levels. The activities varied across the communities, but they all shared the common themes of mourning those who have died Womanspace Staff supporting Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) by wearing purple at our DVAM Launch event. because of domestic violence, celebrating those who have survived, and connecting those who work to end violence. Today, these three main themes remain a key focus of Domestic Violence Awareness Month events. The first Domestic Violence Awareness Month was observed in October 1987. The first national domestic violence toll-free hotline was created during that same year. In 1989, the U.S. Congress passed Public Law 101-112 designating October of that year as National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Such legislation has passed every year since with the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence providing key leadership in this effort. Every year, the Day of Unity is celebrated on the first Monday of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Womanspace Paints the town Purple for Domestic Violence Awareness Month Hopewell Public Library Hickory Corner Public Library Lawrence Township Public Library West Windsor Public Library 6 Twin Rivers Public Library Robbinsville Public Library Communities of Light™ Launch Event Womanspace would like to thank Raoul and Carlo Momo, owners and operators of the Terra Momo Restaurant Group, for being our Honorary Co-Chairs for Communities of Light 2015. In recognition of National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Womanspace launches our campaign each October and culminates with a countywide lighting of luminaries in December. This fabulous event was held at D&R Greenway Land Trust in Princeton, NJ where many Womanspace supporters joined us on October 27th for a meet and greet with the Momo brothers. The program was included great food and drinks. Thank you to everyone who came out to support Womanspace at our launch event. Womanspace is grateful for the support of our sponsors: Doctors Express Urgent Care, Terra Momo Restaurant Group, PNC Bank, Capital Health, Mason, Griffin & Pierson, Callaway Henderson Sotheby’s, The Bank of Princeton, Peeq Media, Knipper Healthcare Marketing Solutions, Princeton Printers, Moxie Woman Magazine, McCaffrey’s Food Market, Witherspoon Media, Princeton Orthopaedic Associates and Times of Trenton. Don’t forget to light your luminary candles at dusk on Monday, December 7, along with hundreds of people and scores of organizations and community groups throughout the 12 municipalities in Mercer County. The lighting of luminaries throughout the county is our unique way of increasing local awareness of both the ongoing presence of domestic and sexual violence in our community as well as the Womanspace mission to serve its victims at the moment of crisis and throughout their journey of healing. Each year, business and civic leaders in every municipality support Womanspace during the campaign and especially on December 7th. No time to get to the store to get your luminaries? You can purchase virtual luminaries and help us spread awareness of domestic violence and sexual assault through your Facebook status, your Twitter feed or by sending an email to your friends. Sending a message of hope and support can make all the difference. When you purchase a $10 virtual luminary, you will receive an email of the virtual luminary to download or cut and paste. Make sure to share it with all of your contacts on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Thank you to Raoul and Carlo Momo for being Womanspace’s 2016 Honorary Co-Chairs for Communities of Light! Carlo Momo with Womanspace’s Board President Kristin Keller, Executive Director, Pat Hart, Development Director, Lauren Nazarian and Raoul Momo. Executive Director Pat Hart with Raoul Momo, Maria Dominguez, and Development Director Lauren Nazarian. Womanspace Sponsor Laura Fabbro, from the Doctors Express Urgent Care and volunteers enjoying a night out on the town. Sal and Debbie Cacciabaudo with Board member Linda Cooper and Dan Loughner. Board Members and Womanspace supporters, Ed Schmierer, Ruth Miller, and Cindy Berger. Luminaries lit alongside the street at D&R Greenway Land Trust. Thank you to everyone who attended our COL Launch Event! mestic violence and sexual assault through your Facebook status, your Twitter feed or by sending an email to your friends. Sending a message of hope and support can make all the difference. When you purchase a $10 virtual luminary, you will receive an email of the virtual luminary to download or cut and paste. Make sure to share it with all of your contacts on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and send out an email blast to spread the awareness across Mercer County and beyond! We hope to “light” up everyone’s social media pages and emails and we encourage you to share your virtual luminaries from now until the lighting date on December 7th. No time to get to the store to get your lu- minaries? You can purchase virtual luminaries and help us spread awareness of domestic violence and sexual assault through your Facebook status, your Twitter feed or by sending an email to your friends. Sending a message of hope and support can make all the difference. When you purchase a $10 virtual luminary, you will receive an email of the virtual luminary to download or cut and paste. Make sure to share it with all of your contacts on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and send out an email blast to spread the awareness across Mercer County and beyond! We hope to “light” up everyone’s social media pages and emails and we encourage you to continued on page 8 send out an email blast to spread the awareness across Mercer County and beyond! We hope to “light” up everyone’s social media pages and emails and we encourage you to share your virtual luminaries from now until the lighting date on December 7th. No time to get to the store to get your luminaries? You can purchase virtual luminaries and help us spread awareness of domestic violence and sexual assault through your Facebook status, your Twitter feed or by sending an email to your friends. Sending a message of hope and support can make all the difference. When you purchase a $10 virtual luminary, you will receive an email of the virtual luminary to download or cut and paste. Make sure to share it with all of your contacts on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and send out an email blast to spread the awareness across Mercer County and beyond! We hope to “light” up everyone’s social media pages and emails and we encourage you to share your virtual luminaries from now until the lighting date on December 7th. No time to get to the store to get your luminaries? You can purchase virtual luminaries and help us spread awareness of do- 7 Client Appreciation Dinner 2015 Annual Meeting Twice a year Womanspace staff hosts a client appreciation dinner at our transitional housing and safe house location. During domestic violence awareness month we like to show our clients how much we care about them by hosting a get together filled with food, fun, and laughter. We want our clients to know that we are here for them every step of the way. Womanspace welcomes our new board members, Anita Moore and Denise Taylor! Pictured with Executive Director, Pat Hart and Board President, Kristin Keller. Womanspace Board Members at our Annual Meeting. Back row from left to right: Anita Moore, Ingrid Reed, Denise Taylor, Kristin Keller, Chris Bukosky, and Meaghan Cannon. Front row left to right: Ed Schmierer, Rose Nini, Pat Hart, and Frances Zeitler. Womanspace staff being honored at the Annual Meeting for their outstanding service over the years. We truly appreciate your dedication to helping victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. Thank you! From left to right: Donna Zytko, Kaila Most Clark, Susan Victor, Regina Smith, Jenay McAllister, Evangela Williams, Pat Hart and Isabel Medina De Rivera. Communities of Light™ — continued from page 7 Womanspace would like to say thank you to Christine’s Hope for kids for the generous donations of Halloween goodie bags for the adults and children at our safe house. Left to right: Lauren Nazarian, Director of Development and Gina Vinch, Public Relations and Development Associate. 8 On Thursday, October 8th, Hazen Medical Spa in Princeton, NJ had their grand opening event and donated all of the proceeds to Womanspace. For $25 attendees could purchase raffle tickets, for a chance to win the ultimate beauty package worth over $5,000. This event was a huge success providing Womanspace a profit of nearly $2,000 to provide potentially life-saving services to victims/survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, dating violence, stalking, and human trafficking. Thank you Hazen Medical Spa for supporting Womanspace during Domestic Violence Awareness Month! share your virtual luminaries from now until the lighting date on December 7th. No time to get to the store to get your luminaries? You can purchase virtual luminaries and help us spread awareness of domestic violence and sexual assault through your Facebook status, your Twitter feed or by sending an email to your friends. Sending a message of hope and support can make all the difference. When you purchase a $10 virtual luminary, you will receive an email of the virtual luminary to download or cut and paste. Make sure to share it with all of your contacts on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and send out an email blast to spread the awareness across Mercer County and beyond! We hope to “light” up everyone’s social media pages and emails and we encourage you to share your virtual luminaries from now until the lighting date on December 7th. No time to get to the store to get your luminaries? You can purchase virtual luminaries and help us spread awareness of domestic violence and sexual assault through your Facebook status, your Twitter feed or by sending an email to your friends. Sending a message of hope and support can make all the difference. When you purchase a $10 virtual luminary, you will receive an email of the virtual luminary to download or cut and paste. Make sure to share it with all of your contacts on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and send out an email blast to spread the awareness across Mercer County and beyond! We hope to “light” up everyone’s social media pages and emails and we encourage you to share your virtual luminaries from now until the lighting date on December 7th. 100% of the proceeds raised from the sale of luminary kits directly benefit client programs and ensures that no victim is ever turned away. Services include emergency shelter, counseling, court advocacy, victim assistance, and transitional housing. Each luminary kit costs only $10 and includes supplies and safety instructions for assembling 6 luminary displays to cover 150 linear feet. January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month New Jersey Human Trafficking Statistics Human trafficking is a form of modern slavery that occurs in every state, including New Jersey. The NHTRC works closely with service providers, law enforcement, and other professionals in New Jersey to serve victims and survivors of trafficking, respond to human trafficking cases, and share information and resources. Learn more about human trafficking in New Jersey by browsing the hotline statistics, resources, and local events listings below. Total statistics from 12/07/07 to 6/30/2015. Since 2007 Total Calls: 2,113 Total Cases: 558 Total Victims - Moderate: 535 Total Victims - High: 611 Cases categorized as “High” contain a high level of indicators of human trafficking. Cases coded as “Moderate” contain several indicators of human trafficking, or resemble common trafficking scenarios but lack core details of force, fraud, or coercion. Sex trafficking is a form of modern slavery that exists throughout the United States and globally. Sex traffickers use violence, threats, lies, debt bondage, and other forms of coercion to compel adults and children to engage in commercial sex acts against their will. Under U.S. federal law, any minor under the age of 18 years induced into commercial sex is a victim of sex trafficking—regardless of whether or not the trafficker used force, fraud, or coercion. The situations that sex trafficking victims face vary dramatically. Many victims become romantically involved with someone who then forces or manipulates them into prostitution. Others are lured in with false promises of a job, such as modeling or dancing. Some are forced to sell sex by their parents or other family members. They may be involved in a trafficking situation for a few days or weeks, or may remain in trafficking for years. Victims of sex trafficking can be U.S. citizens, foreign nationals, women, men, children, and LGBTQ individuals. Vulnerable populations are frequently targeted by traffickers, including runaway and homeless youth, as well as victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, war, or social discrimination. Sex trafficking occurs in a range of venues including fake massage businesses, via online ads or escort services, in residential brothels, on the street or at truck stops, or at hotels and motels. As you read this, millions of women, men and children around the world are subject to the harsh reality of being trafficked. Awareness of human trafficking has gathered momentum in recent years and is now one of the key issues being addressed by governmental bodies both internationally and in the United States. In November, the Walk Free Foundation estimated that globally nearly 36 million people live as slaves, have been trafficked into brothels, or forced to work for little or no pay as victims of debt bondage or servitude by birth (2014 Global Slavery Index Report). Recently, President Barack Obama declared January as Human Trafficking Awareness Month. Reprinted from http://sharedhope.org/2015/01/23/ human-trafficking-awareness-month-take-action/ Reprinted from https://polarisproject.org/sex-trafficking Key Statistics • Since 2007, the National Human Trafficking Resource Center hotline, operated by Polaris, has received reports of 14,588 sex trafficking cases inside the United States. • In 2014, the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children estimated that 1 in 6 endangered runaways reported to them were likely sex trafficking victims. • Globally, the International Labor Organization estimates that there are 4.5 million people trapped in forced sexual exploitation globally. • In a 2014 report, the Urban Institute estimated that the underground sex economy ranged from $39.9 million in Denver, Colorado, to $290 million in Atlanta, Georgia. Reprinted from sex-trafficking https://polarisproject.org/ 9 February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month Dating violence can happen to any teen in a romantic, dating, or sexual relationship, anytime, anywhere. But it doesn't have to happen at all. Learn how to prevent teen dating violence and to promote healthy relationships with the CDC's online resources. Did you know that in a recent national survey, 1 in 10 teens reported being hit or physically hurt by a boyfriend or girlfriend at least once in the 12 months prior to the survey? Additionally, 1 in 10 teens reported they had been kissed, touched, or physically forced to have sexual intercourse when they did not want to at least once by someone they were dating. Unhealthy relationships can start early and last a lifetime. Teens often think some behaviors, like teasing and name calling, are a "normal" part of a relationship. However, these behaviors can become abusive and develop into more serious forms of violence. That is why adults need to talk to teens now about the importance of developing healthy, respectful relationships. Dating violence can have a negative effect on health throughout life. Victims of teen dating violence are more likely to experience symptoms of depression and anxiety. They might also engage in unhealthy behaviors, such as using tobacco, drugs, and alcohol. Additionally, teens who are victims in high school are at higher risk for victimization during college. CDC's Division of Violence Prevention is leading the initiative, Dating Matters®: Strategies to Promote Healthy Teen Relationships. Dating Matters aims to promote respectful, nonviolent dating relationships among youth in high-risk urban communities. The comprehensive approach will build upon current evidence-based practice and experience to reduce the burden of teen dating violence. Dating Matters supports efforts to implement prevention strategies in schools, with families, and in neighborhoods. The Dating Matters Capacity Assessment and Planning Tool (DM-CAPT) is an online system that helps local health departments and their school and community partners assess and monitor their capacity for implementing a comprehensive teen dating violence initiative. Dating Matters is currently being implemented in middle schools and Talk to teens about the importance of developing healthy, respectful relationships. neighborhoods across Chicago, Illinois, Baltimore, Maryland, Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, and Oakland, California. For more information about each of these communities, view the Dating Matters grantee profiles. Understanding Teen Dating Violence Dating violence is a type of intimate partner violence. It occurs between two people in a close relationship. The nature of dating violence can be physical, emotional, or sexual. • Physical—This occurs when a partner is pinched, hit, shoved, slapped, punched, or kicked. • Psychological/Emotional—This means threatening a partner or harming his or her sense of self-worth. Examples include name calling, shaming, bullying, embarrassing on purpose, or keeping him/her away from friends and family. • Sexual—This is forcing a partner to engage in a sex act when he or she does not or cannot consent. This can be physical or nonphysical, like threatening to spread rumors if a partner refuses to have sex. • Stalking—This refers to a pattern of harassing or threatening tactics that are unwanted and cause fear in the victim. Dating violence can take place in person or electronically, such as repeated texting or posting sexual pictures of a partner online. Unhealthy relationships can start early and last a lifetime. Teens often think some behaviors, like teasing and name calling, are a “normal” part of a relationship. However, these behaviors can become abusive and develop into more serious forms of violence. How does dating violence affect health? Dating violence can have a negative effect on health throughout life. Youth who are victims are more likely to experience symptoms of depression and anxiety, engage in unhealthy behaviors, like using tobacco, drugs, and alcohol, or exhibit antisocial behaviors and think about suicide. Youth who are victims of dating violence in high school are at higher risk for victimization during college. Who is at risk for dating violence? Factors that increase risk for harming a dating partner include: 10 • Belief that dating violence is acceptable • Depression, anxiety, and other trauma symptoms • Aggression towards peers and other aggressive behavior • Substance use • Early sexual activity and having multiple sexual partners • Having a friend involved in dating violence • Conflict with partner • Witnessing or experiencing violence in the home Why is dating violence a public health problem? Dating violence is a widespread issue that had serious long-term and short-term effects. Many teens do not report it because they are afraid to tell friends and family. • Among adult victims of rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner, 22% of women and 15% of men first experienced some form of partner violence between 11 and 17 years of age. • Approximately 9% of high school students report being hit, slapped, or physically hurt on purpose by a boyfriend or girlfriend in the 12 months before surveyed. How can we prevent dating violence? Where can I learn more? The ultimate goal is to stop dating violence before it starts. Strategies that promote healthy relationships are vital. During the preteen and teen years, young people are learning skills they need to form positive relationships with others. This is an ideal time to promote healthy relationships and prevent patterns of dating violence that can last into adulthood. Many prevention strategies are proven to prevent or reduce dating violence. Some effective school-based programs change norms, improve problem-solving, and address dating violence in addition to other youth risk behaviors, such as substance use and sexual risk behaviors.8,9 Other programs prevent dating violence through changes to the school environment or training influential adults, like parents/caregivers and coaches, to work with youth to prevent dating violence. CDC’s Dating Matters: Strategies to Promote Healthy Teen Relationships www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/datingmatters National Dating Abuse Helpline and Love is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 or text 77054 or www.loveisrespect.org National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) National Sexual Violence Resource Center www.nsvrc.org How does CDC approach prevention? CDC uses a four-step approach to address public health problems like dating violence. Step 1: Define the problem Before we can prevent dating violence, we need to know how big the problem is, where it is, and who it affects. CDC learns about a problem by gathering and studying data. Step 2: Identify risk and protective factors It is not enough to know that dating violence is affecting a certain group of people in a certain area. We also need to know why. CDC conducts and supports research to answer this question. Step 3: Develop and test prevention strategies Using information gathered in research, CDC develops and evaluates strategies to prevent violence. Step 4: Ensure widespread adoption In this final step, CDC shares the best prevention strategies and may provide funding or technical help so communities can adopt these strategies. Reprinted from http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/ teen-dating-violence-factsheet-a.pdf Womanspace Donation Needs for December Holidays 2015 Cultural sensitivity is greatly appreciated when purchasing toys, personal care & hair products, and clothing items since we serve women and children of all races. Gift cards allow the freedom that most of our clients have not experienced. Women are able to get what they need for themselves and their children. (Target, Wal-Mart, Phone, Gas, Grocery, Kmart, Sears, Dicks Sporting Goods, Michaels, A.C. 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Please do not gift wrap presents. Please drop off **UNWRAPPED holiday donations between the weeks of December 1st – 18th. Please contact Althea Jones at (609) 394-9000 with any questions. Drop off location is 1530 Brunswick Ave, Lawrenceville - Monday through Friday between 9:00 a.m. and 4:00 p.m. If you’d like to make a monetary donation or a corporate in-kind donation, please contact Lauren Nazarian, Director of Development, at (609) 394-0136 or via email: lan@womanspace.org. Womanspace served over 11,000 adults and children this past year We thank you in advance for your kindness and generosity! Counseling and Support Services Drop-In Groups 1530 Brunswick Avenue, Lawrenceville, NJ 08648 Women’s Drop-In Support Group Monday evenings 6-7 pm, Thursdays 1-2 pm This confidential group offers support and information on coping with the effects of unhealthy relationships. • • • • • • • • • Your relationship is NOT healthy if: You are frightened by your partner’s temper You are afraid to disagree with you partner You have to justify every place you go and everything you do Your partner puts you down or humiliates you You are being hit, kicked, shoved and pushed by your partner Your partner forces you to have sex You don’t see family/friends because of your partner’s jealousy Your partner has threatened to hurt you, himself or herself if you leave No commitment or pre-registration required. Call 609-394-2532 for more information. Mi Hermana, Mi Amiga El grupo de apoyo, Mi Hermana Mi Amiga NO se reunirá los martes de 6:00-7:00 pm hasta nuevo aviso. Safe Mothers, Healthy Children A psycho-educational support group for victims of domestic violence who are involved with Division of Child Protection and Permanency Group Topics • What is Abuse? • Safety Planning for You and Your Children • Impact of Domestic Violence on You • Impact of Domestic Violence on Your Children • Self-Advocacy • Healthy Self • Healthy Children • Healthy Relationships Referral Process Safe Mothers, Healthy Children is a psycho-educational support group designed for clients who have been recommended by their DCP&P worker to seek “Domestic Violence Counseling.” Intake paperwork will be completed during the first session. Participants can join the group at any time, but must complete all 8 topics in order to comply with their DCP&P case plan. There is no fee for this group. TUESDAYS: 6:00 PM – 7:00 PM Legal Clinic Available morning and evening hours • Do you have questions about restraining orders, custody, support, alimony, divorce, separation or visitation? • Can’t afford to meet with an attorney? • Confused about your legal rights? • Need options? Attorneys are available by appointment to provide you with 35 minutes of legal consultation. Sliding scale fee. For more information contact 609-394-2532. 11 December 7- COL lighting December 14Barnes & Noble Book Fair January- Human Trafficking Awareness Month February- Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month February 1, 3- Rider University's Vagina Monologues February 11, 12, & 13- Princeton University Vagina Monologues- Directed by Azza Cohen February 12 & 13- Princeton Theological Seminary Vagina Monologues, 7:00 PM shows May 19- Barbara Boggs Sigmund Award honoring Tamron Hall For more details visit: www.womanspace.org Womanspace salutes our event sponsors If you are in immediate danger, call 911. If you are being hurt by your partner, it is NOT your fault. You deserve to be safe and healthy. For help and information anytime, contact: Womanspace 24-Hour Hotline www.womanspace.org 1-609-394-9000 Text Message Hotline for Deaf and Hard of Hearing 609-619-1888 National Domestic Violence Hotline www.ndvh.org 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) New Jersey 24-Hour Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-572-SAFE (7233) National Sexual Assault Hotline www.rainn.org 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline www.endabuse.org www.loveisrespect.org www.thatsnotcool.com 1-866-331-9474 TTY 1-866-331-8453 Womanspace, Inc. Board of Directors Kristin Marvin Keller, President Christopher Bukosky, Vice President Joyce Rappeport, Treasurer Paula Figueroa-Vega, Secretary Linda Cooper, Past President Joan Bartl Maeve E. Cannon, Esq. Meaghan Cannon Maryann Chibbaro Dr. Danielle Coppola Dana Fraytak Troiano, Esq. Rose Nini Jigna Rao Ingrid Reed Ed Schmierer, Esq. Chief William Spain, Ret. Frances Zeitler Womanspace affirms its commitment to cultural competency. We recognize and value the ethnic, religious, and racial richness of our communities, and encourage mutual respect and understanding among all people. True excellence in our organization and communities results from identifying, serving, and enlisting the participation of all people who represent this rich diversity. NJCBW Womanspace News is published quarterly by the Development Office. Correspondence and News may be sent to: Development Office, Womanspace News, 1530 Brunswick Avenue, Lawrenceville, NJ 08648 www.womanspace.org Winter 2016