early sex - NCR
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early sex - NCR
Issue No.1, Series of 2014 x e s y l #ear trending in the metro Its key challenges to adolescent health and youth development in Metro Manila B everly, 18 years old, tenderly caresses her two- year old child as she puts her to sleep. As she lovingly stares upon the angelic face of a tiny human being within her arms, she often pray that her child be spared of the fate she has unintentionally taken. thecityZens The CityZens is a periodic publication of the Commission on PopulationNational Capital Region (PopComNCR) that discusses various emerging population issues as they relate to development concerns in Metro Manila. CityZens indicate “people or citizens living in the city.” This issue focuses on the demographic issues among adolescents and youth in MetroManila in the context of increasing incidence of teenage pregnancies in the region. While Beverly now considers her child as the best thing that ever happened to her life, she often wonder what could have happened if she did not give in to her boyfriend’s demand for sex after their high school graduation. The feeling of regret is persistent but she has to live by it with the lessons that life has given her especially now that she’s raising the baby alone. Beverly’s experience is increasingly becoming a familiar life story among young people particularly in Metro Manila. More and more adolescents and youth in the region have begun childbearing and forced to be parents at a time when they would have been busy enjoying adolescence and achieving their dreams and aspirations. The latest series of the Young Adult Fertility and Sexuality Study (YAFSS, 2013) of the University of the Philippines Population Institute (UPPI) and the 2013 National Demographic and Health Survey (Philippine Statistics Authority) has captured this alarming phenomenon. The incidence of teenage pregnancy (among girls aged 15-19 years) in the region tripled in the past decade – from 6.2 percent in 2002 to a high 17.7 percent in 2013. Around 13.9 percent of them are currently mothers. This proportion of teenage pregnancy in the region is the third highest in the country. one in five people in Metro Manila is an adolescent... 2010 Census on Population and Housing The 2013 NDHS likewise affirms the high incidence of teenage pregnancy. In Metro Manila, around one in every four (24%) young people aged 15-24 years have begun childbearing. Motherhood at a very young age entails a risk of maternal death that is much greater than average, and the children of young mothers have higher levels of morbidity and mortality (ICPD PoA, 1994). Early childbearing continues to be an impediment to improvement in the educational, economic, and social status of women. Overall for young women, early marriage and early motherhood can severely curtail educational and employment opportunities and are likely to have a long-term, adverse impact on their and their children’s quality of life. engaging into Sex Too Early The high teenage pregnancy in the region is directly attributed to the high incidence of sexual engagement at a young age. According to the 2013 YAFSS, two in five (41%) young people (15-24 years old) in Metro Manila have engaged in premarital or early sex - the highest incidence in the country. This proportion is higher than the national figure with 32% and significantly increased from 31% in 2002. The narrowing gap between the sexual experience of teenage boys and girls is also an emerging concern. In 2002, the YAFSS recorded a 21 percentage of young women who had premarital sex and 42 percent among the boys. After a decade,however, the gap between boys and girls narrowed to 35 percent among girls and 48 percent among boys. This means that young teenage girls are getting more vulnerable to unintended and risky pregnancy. THE METRO YOUTH TODAY! • Nearly 7 in 10 young people engaged in sex for the first time without protection from STI and pregnancy • Almost half of the youth have read pornographic materials • 2 in 3 youth have watched x-rated movies or videos • 1 in 3 youth have visited pornographic sites from the internet • i in 5 youth is in living-in arrangement the highest in the country 2 Source: 2013 YAFSS, UPPI what can be done? Teenage pregnancy is caused by the confluence of complex variables ranging from invidual to societal factors. This alarming phenomenon among urban young people takes a peculiar context expecially within the backdrop of heightened access to information. As such, a multi-dimensional and multi-sectoral approach to young people’s health and development is needed. Some of the key interventions that can be done in the region to prevent young people from too early pregnancy include the following: • Provision of comprehensive sexuality and reproductive health education in the formal and informal educational system as provided in the Responsible Parenthood and Reproductive Health Law (RA 10354); Adolescent Health and Youth Development teenchat The Adolescent Health and Youth Development (AHYD) TeenChat is an interactive interpersonal communication activity that uses peer-to-peer approach to inform and educate young people (aged 10-19 years) who are in and out of school on matters related to their health, sexuality, and wellbeing. It is patterned after the U4U Teen Trail of the Center for Health Solutions and Innovations (CHSI), a project under the UNFPA 7th Country Programme. The TeenChat uses interactive approaches such as games, videos, info-panels, structured • Provision of appropriate health services in adolescent-friendly health facilities especially among sexually active and pregnant adolescents; • Continuing capacity-building of young people in the school and out of school on life skills, values formation, and leadership skills; • Enforcement of laws that protect young girls and boys from sexual violence, exploitation, and abuse; • Provision of economic skills and opportunities especially for poor young people for them to continue their education; and • Enactment of local policies and programs supportive of the formation of healthy lifestyle and positive behaviors among young people (e.g. curfew, training, employment, and participation in governance) learning activities,and other forms of entereducate approaches to engage young people in understanding key messages on: • • • the changes that are happening to their bodies as they grow and the need to nurture and protect it from harm; love and relationships including skills in preventing early pregnancy and responsible sexuality; and life planning and other life skills. 3 A TeenChat Experience “Wala man akong pamilya, Tinuring nila akong pamilya” said Karen Derf Oraa, a 12 year old resident of DSWD Nayon ng Kabataan, as she describes her experience in Nayon ng Kabataan, a place where she considers a home. As a child abandoned by her biological mother, she longs for a family she can call her own. Life may have been painful for her as a child but she gets strength from these experiences to be stronger and determined to make her own trail. Sa ganitong activity, natututo kaming umiwas sa pagbubuntis ng maaga...at piliin ang During the first ever TeenChat activity in Metro Manila, Karen was selected as a facilitator, an experienced she would forever cherish. She is most grateful to Nayon ng Kabataan and PopComNCR for providing her an avenue to expand her horizons through the TeenChat. aming pangarap... Karen She recalled that she was very excited and, at the same time, anxious of what about to happen during the activity. She was nervous at the start but the activities during the training gave her enough self-confidence and, more importantly, lessons that she can live by. “Sa TeenChat, natuto akong irespeto at mahalin ang sarili ko. Dapat gawin ang lahat para sa pangarap at huwag hayaang mawala sa mga maling desisyon. Ito ang maise-share ko sa ibang kabataang tulad ko.” As Karen engaged with her peers and young people during the TeenChat in Quezon City as part of the Kalusugan Pangkalahatang Roadshow, she recalls the feeling of happiness while she interacted with her fellow youth. The greatest challenge she had was “kung paano makisama sa ibang kabataan lalo na sa mga hindi intersado.” She trusted herself with the thought that “para sa kanila din itong ituturo ko,” she said. As the activity ended, she felt so proud of what she has accomplished together with the other young facilitators. “Masarap palang magshare ng mga aral sa katulad kong kabataan. Sana natuto sila tulad ko at gawin nila ito sa buhay nila. Sana may ganito pang activity na pwedeng samahan,” Karen shared as the group was wrapping up. Karen dreams of becoming a teacher someday to be able to teach and reach out to the children like herself. She summarized her experience with TeenChat with her message, “sa ganitong klaseng activity, hindi lang namin matutunan ang pag-iwas sa maagang pagbubuntis pero higit sa lahat, natuto kaming pillin ang aming pangarap.” Simple as it may seem, she wishes to be an instrument in educating the youth and believes that this experience is one that she will treasure and share to her students someday. 4 Source: 2013 YAFSS, UPPI MyHAWC Marikina Youth Health and Adolescent Wellness Center A house away from home. A house where young people can express themselves and be informed and equipped with appropriate information and skills on matters related to their health and wellbeing. This is what the Marikina Youth Health and Wellness Center, simply called MYHAWC (pronounced as MyHouse), aims to be. Its beginnings Alarmed by the increasing incidence of teenage pregnancy and other health issues among young people in Marikina City, the City Health Office embarked on a strategy that aimed to empower adolescents and youth to make them productive citizens and individuals. Together with key stakeholders from the legislative, executive, and the barangays, the city agreed to build a “house” that would cater to the health and social needs of the young people. It started as a Sangguniang Kabataan (SK) project. The 16 barangays contributed to raise a TeenHealth Quarter (THQ) in Sta. Elena Health Center under a franchise mode operated by the Foundation for Adolescent Development (FAD). During its start-up phase, the Marikina THQ provided health services and appropriate information on responsible sexuality and reproductive health to young people in school as well as in the community. It included the training and mobilization of peer educators who have been mainstreamed in the health system of the city. After the FAD franchise expired, the Marikina City government opted to continue its operation independently under the name Marikina Youth Health and Adolescent Wellness Center. The center transferred to much bigger place located at the third floor of the new Marikina City Health Office. It is now operated and sustained by staff from the CHO and by volunteer peer educators. Services Offered The MYHAWS continues to provide services and information on sexual and reproductive health and other development needs of young people. It specifically provides regular various medical and counseling services to include dental care, pap smear, pregnancy testing, skin care, and maternal health care, among others. The center also provides skills enhancement training not only on health and sexuality-related concerns but also some technical and vocational courses in collaboration with different stakeholders. Just recently, the MYHAWC partnered with PopCom-NCR in the launching and conduct of the series of TeenChats in two high schools in the city. Together with the its partners and stakeholds, the MYHAWC will continue to serve as a home for young people where health and wellbeing is ensured. 5 AHYD in the Metro connecting with urban young people! NCR COntestant bagged the third place in the 2014 national PopQuiz What’s the Idea? Young people constantly make choices and decisions as they grow up. Teenage pregnancy is all about taking decisions and making choices that have life long impact on their lives. If young people are provided with accurate information and appropriate life skills that they need to survive in life and to pursue their aspirations, they can make the right choices and decisions. MyDream, MyChoice! advocacy is about enabling young people to build their dreams and making right choices for them to pursue them. Adolescence is full of choices and believing that they can make the right decisions is recognizing the positive values and potentials that are inherent among young people. By enabling them to build their dreams, all they need is the right information and skills for them to achieve them! creating connection MyDream,MyChoice!, a strategy under the Adolescent Health and Youth Development Program of PopCom-NCR, is a network of young people and adult with the shared goal of empowering adolescents and youth in making the right decision. It uses the social network and interpersonal events to connect with as many young people in the Metro to creat a community of healthy and empowered youth. The network is moderated by Online Peer Educators who connects young people region and nationwide to positive messages about self-awareness and respect, love and relationships, gender equality, parental relationships and other young people’s concerns. 6 Joemari Olea, a senior high school student from Canumay East National High School, Valenzuela City, the regional contestant from the National Capital Region, bagged the second runner up during the 2014 National Population Quiz (PopQuiz) held last April 7-9, 2014 at Columban College, Olongapo City. The national PopQuiz is a strategy that aims to increase the knowledge and awareness of young people on contemporary population and development issues in the country and around the world. The PopQuiz has been mainstreamed as part of the National Festival of Talents of the Department of Education. This competition showcases intellectual skills and depth of awareness on various population and development concepts and issues. The 2014 National PopQuiz was topped by Janela Dayrit of Tarlac National High School followed by Raniel Verano of Taysan National High School, Batangas. With his wits and talents, Jomari from NCR landed on the third place, a significant peat that was competitively pursued by other contestants from 17 regions in the country. Jomari was assisted by his trainer Ms. Charlyn S. Dela Cruz and Dr. Leilanie M. Mendoza, Education Program Supervisor of Valenzuela. 2015 Regional PopQuiz to empower young people. The trained SSG officers with guidance from their advisers will be further Last October 3, 2014, the Metro Manila 2015 mobilized as online and interpersonal advocates in Regional Population Quiz was conducted in the City the promotion of key messages on adolescent health of Valenzuela in collaboration with the Divisions and youth development in the region. of City Schools-Valenzuela and DepEd-NCR. The Regional PopQuiz was held with the theme: “Investing in Young People.” It was conducted in parallel with other competition events particularly the On-the-Spot Poster-Making, Essay Writing, and Jingle Writing. Sixteen contestants from the Division of City Schools in the NCR competed in the PopQuiz where Richmond Roi B. Rodriguez from F. Torres High School in Manila was declared champion and will represent the NCR in the 2015 National Population Quiz. Empowering the Supreme Student Reaching out to poor adolescents Government (SSG) and teacher-advisers on AHYD “Sex is not love!” This is one of the most significant messages that repeatedly echoed among the officers of the Supreme Student Government (SSG) from the various high schools in Mandaluyong City. In a three-day interactive training on AHYD held on October 27-29, 2014 in Tagaytay City, the officers and advisers of SSG embarked on an adult-youth partnership to deepen their appreciation and skills on life skills-based adolescent health and development issues and concerns. The risks facing young people today converge around the poor adolescents and youth. As such, they need appropriate information and services more than the average young people. Recognizing the need to reach out to young people among poor families, POPCOM-NCR in collaboration with DSWD-NCR conducted and interactive Adolescent Health and Youth Development (AHYD) session among children and young people who are beneficiaries of the DSWD’s Comprehensive Program for Street Children and Street Families, held on May 21, 2014 at Island Cove, Binakayan, Kawit, Cavite. The activity was called Family Camp for Homeless Street Families in Metro Manila with the theme “Pamilyang the Filipino, Tanging Yaman” which gives acknowledgment to the contributions of each Filipino family in nation building. The training specifically provided participants with knowledge and skills on the different threats and risks facing the urban youth particularly teenage pregnancy; the different life skills young people need to develop for their growth and survival; and the key actions that can be done in their schools Some 118 teens with ages ranging from 12-17 years old from five LGUs in Metro Manila namely: Parañaque, Manila, Quezon, Pasay and Makati, were provided with different information on AHYD through interactive activities. As a teenager, I can see my fellow youths’ capabilities at a higher perspective than how adults can. I see their principles, their patriotic ambitions, and their insights. You are asking us why we should invest on the youth...simple, because we are the future, and we are wide-eyed witnesses of the present state of the Republic. We yearn a different future ...and a better life. we are worthy of investments Benjamin C. Fontanilla III Marikina High School October 03, 2014 First Prize Winner Essay Writing Contest PopCom & DepEd October 3, 2014 We are capable of many things, great things! Just water and barren lands and we can feed the country. Karen Francisco, one of my favorite authors, has written a very mind-blowing novel about a fictional country under a state of calamity. With her book, I realized how ambiguous we are, trying to solve corruption, not knowing there are monsters more threatening lying ahead. And yes, Ms.Francisco is a youth just like me. Most would say we are senseless, and we only yearn liberty in the form of rebellion. I beg to differ, we can strive for excellence! Just look at the literacy chart from year 2000 to present, there are more or less 10% added to the literate citizens, and that is one proof of progress. You may see us at an eagle’s perspective, small, feeble and incapable of doing things for change and innovation, but we can’t stop with that judgment. We just need your support. To simply the answer to ‘Why?’...like it or not, we are the future and without your investment, the future would be comparable to the Sahara or the Arctic, barren and a waste. The chances are uncertain, but the fruits of progress are worth the risk. Now to answer how. “Education is the key to success.“ Or so they say. If a country yearns a clear future, it must be an educated nation. To date, no one has proven that wrong, from the first school in Athens to the UP Diliman, Univeristy of Sto. Tomas, and De La Salle University, progress was evident. If an investment is present, let it be for educating the young. Money and structures aren’t always the sole investments. Sometimes, the best investment is not food for the mouth but wisdom for the heart. Moral values must be invested in youth, or all will go to the trash bin. Take a rock for example, a boy with a greedy heart will use the rock to break his neighbor’s window, however a boy with a generous heart will use the rock as a cornerstone and build a house for the homeless. If an investment comes deeply from the heart, and is morally beneficial both to the state and to the youth, then there is no need for enumeration. God gave his wisdom to know how to spend our money and time generously, and He gave us courage to the risk. At the end of the day, we can all consider a second to think. You may grab the nearest chair, make a coffee and try to decipher the code we need to innovate. We all have problems and that won’t disintegrate, one of them is the obscurity of the nation’s future, the fear that we might end up at the peak of a hill and stop, look back, and walk down, because it’s the end of the path, and that is possible if we don’t consider a solution. I want to end this piece with a story, a boy is asked by his father to buy him something from the store. Upon reaching the store, the boy was robbed and beaten badly. He had no money and wasn’t in any way capable of buying what his father asked him to buy, he was afraid of the punishment his father will do. When he was on his way home, he decided to simply not let his father see him, so he climbed the call attempting to head straight to his room. Then the bruise in his leg ached, and he slipped, and hit the floor with a painful crack. Listen to this, the father never intended to punish him, yet the boy punished himself. Maybe the lesson is that the solution isn’t always escaping the risk, but trying to face the future boldly through a risky solution. With this, I end it with a challenge: Do you trust us enough to take the leap?