Returning to Work
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Returning to Work
FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 In this issue: Returning to Work Christchurch Parents Centre Committee Christchurch South Parents Centre Committee Phone: (03) 360 3381 Email: chch.parentscentre@xtra.co.nz Website: parentscentre.org.nz/christchurch Facebook: facebook.com/ChristchurchParentsCentre Postal Address: PO Box 20439, Bishopdale, Christchurch Centre Address: 2/2 Leacroft Street, Bishopdale, Christchurch Postal Address: PO Box 33033, Barrington, Christchurch Website: www.parentscentre.org.nz/christchurch-south Facebook: www.facebook.com/ChristchurchSouthParentsCentre Email: chch.south@parentscentre.org.nz President Natasha Campbell natasha.chchparentscentre@yahoo.co.nz President (Acting) Liz McNeill chchsouthpc@gmail.com Vice President Kim Piercy Secretary Anita McKirdy Treasurer Emma Morar chchpc.treasurer@gmail.com Treasurer Mark Williams treasurer.cspc@gmail.com Office Co-Ordinator Kim Piercy chch.parentscentre@xtra.co.nz Membership Officer Tania Beynon membership.cspc@gmail.com Secretary Grants/Funding Gayleen Lidgett Fundraising/Events Louise Cameron babygearsale.cspc@gmail.com Membership Officer Office Co-Ordinator 360 3381 Volunteer Co-Ordinator [Vacant] volunteers.cspc@gmail.com Newsletter Co-Ordinator Charlotte Daines bumpsandbubs.cpc@gmail.com Pregnancy Education (Antenatal) Angela Edwards pregnancyeducation.cspc@gmail.com Newsletter /KiwiParent Distributor [Vacant] Baby & You Amberley Harding babyandyou.cspc@gmail.com Events Co-Ordinator [Vacant] chchpc.events@gmail.com Moving & Munching Carmen Stanton movingandmunching.cspc@gmail.com Marketing [Vacant] Hot Topic Nights Cat Helms hottopicnights.cspc@gmail.com Fundraising Co-Ordinator [Vacant] Funding Rachel Davies funding.cspc@gmail.com Parent Education Co-Ordinator Office Co-Ordinator chch.parentscentre@xtra.co.nz Online Administrator chch.south@parentscentre.org.nz General Committee Susannah Black Angela George Nikki Cattle Beth Schumacher Tania Stent Newsletter/Facebook Page Liz McNeill newsletter.cspc@gmail.com Email/KiwiParent Despatch Louise Cameron chch.south@parentscentre.org.nz Natasha Campbell natasha.chchparentscentre@yahoo.co.nz Christchurch Parents Centre is a non-profit voluntary organisation which relies on volunteers to carry out the work that we do supporting expectant parents, new parents and families. If you would like to join our Committee as a general role or to take on one of the vacant positions above, please contact Natasha. We would love to meet you and welcome you along to our very relaxed monthly dinner and committee meeting dates. If you are interested in one of our vacancies we would love to hear from you. Further detail available on our website. Please contact us via email or Facebook. Monthly meetings… did you know that all members are welcome at our monthly meetings? If you are interested in finding out what happens at a meeting, we would love to see you! BUMPS & BUBS From the Editor… Hello everyone! So, this edition we’re focussing on returning to work. As a solo-mum to my (almost 4 year old) Oliver, returning to work was a necessity, however I was conscious not to rush into it. I really struggled with the dilemma of needing to go back to work vs not really wanting to! I knew for it to be successful I had to make sure the timing was right thankfully I had the option to wait (just a little bit longer). While Oliver was very little I was able to continue dabbling in my Graphic Design work and “kept a hand in”. When he was 18mths I got offered a part-time, 2 days a week role which was fine and Oliver went preschool. Within 3 months I got offered a fulltime position - WHAT A SHOCK to the system that was! I had a mortgage that needed sustaining so the income was required, but within a few months it On the cover… Oscar (3.5yrs) and Archie (11mths) at Orana Park. FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 quickly became apparent that it wasn’t working. Unfortunately I had a boss who wasn’t understanding or supportive (even though I never took any time off) and the pressure was mounting. I managed to last 9 months before I couldn’t take it anymore - my relationship with Oliver was suffering and I was becoming a very grumpy mummy! I now have an amazing part-time job in a new company where my bosses and colleagues understand what it means to be a parent! I’m also able to continue to run my own graphic design business from home (working after Oliver has gone to bed). Our home life is much happier and the elusive worklife balance actually exists (most of the time!). If you are returning to work (or thinking about it) - good luck! Steph cpc.editor@gmail.com 4 5 6 9 11 12 14 16 18 19 20 20 23 CPC President Message CSPC Acting President Message Inspirational People: Louise Van Tongeren Feeling good and looking great when you’re a mum Committee Member Profiles Parent Education Courses Returning to work after maternity leave What do I need to think about when finding an ECE provider? Petite Kitchen Blog: Healthy Offerings Cover Baby Search & Newsletter Advertising New Arrivals! Noticeboard Member Discounts & Support Network Committee Vacancies… Christchurch Parents Centre Mum Susannah says “Oscar wanted to go in buggy and I refused to carry chubba so he took care of Archie. Not long after taking the photo he returned to walking complaining Archie was too heavy!” We’re seeking a photo for our next edition of Bumps & Bubs. See page 19 for more information. In this issue… Marketing Co-Ordinator Fundraising Co-Ordinator Newsletter/KiwiParent Distributor Christchurch South Parents Centre Funding Team Pregnancy Education and LP Co-ordinator Advertising & Marketing If you are interested in any of these vacancies, we’d love to hear from you To protect the privacy of our members and the new arrivals at Parents Centre it is preferred that your e-copy of ‘Bumps & Bubs’ is not forwarded onto others. Thank you for your consideration. 3 BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 President’s Message Natasha Campbell Christchurch Parents Centre stone. On the other, you really look forward to having your income and adult conversation back; well this is how I felt anyway. Hello and welcome back to another fun filled year. I hope you all got to have a well-rested break away from work and other commitments to spend some quality time with your families and loved ones. Over the Christmas holidays we said goodbye to Gayleen, our Office Coordinator. Thank you Gayleen, for all your hard work; we are glad you are staying on our committee as it wouldn’t be the same without you. Kim Piercy is going to take over the Office Coordinator role and be in the office on Wednesday and Thursday mornings and I will be in on Monday mornings. We are still on the hunt for some enthusiastic people to come join our awesome committee. If this sounds like it is too much of a commitment then we have a few small roles up for grabs. When I returned to work after having my first child, Stephanie was 10 months old and I attended preschool with her for the first week to make sure that she was going to settle and get used to the teachers. After a few days she was waving goodbye to me as if I was cramping her style. This made my return to work so much smoother than I had planned it to be. Marshall, my second child, was the same. He was 7 months old when I returned to work and wasn’t fussed - so long as he had a clean nappy and a full belly, he was good to go. Until I had my third child I didn’t realise how lucky I was to have such happy children when it came to child care. Emily (2y, 9mths) is a real mummy and daddy’s girl. I’m not sure if this is her nature or if it’s because up till now we have had no need to send her to These job titles are; • Marketing Co-Ordinator • Fundraising Co-Ordinator • Newsletter/KiwiParent Distributor We also have a friends of committee email list for one off events. If you would like so more information please send me an email to natasha.chchparentscentre@yahoo. co.nz Returning to work: My experience. Returning to work is something I believe every parent has mixed feelings about on one hand they don’t want to leave their precious little gem as you worry that they won’t cope without you or you are going to miss a mile- 4 preschool being a stay at home mum. On her own she has been struggling, so together we were both loving Kindergarten and I think the teachers loved having an extra set of hands. Unfortunately, this year, she is going to have to stay on her own, so please wish me luck and I will keep you updated on her progress. As you can see, really, all we can do is go with the flow and help our children feel loved and safe in any new environment, help them make a bond with the teachers and hope they have fun being a child and making fantastic painting for us as parents to treasure forever. Natasha BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 (Acting) President’s Message Liz McNeill Christchurch South Parents Centre Welcome to our first edition of Bumps and Bubs for 2015. I hope that you had fun filling the Christmas stockings and that there were plenty of fantastic family times had over the break. We are yet to have our first committee meeting of 2015, but when we do, we will be setting some goals for the year ahead, and looking at how we can best meet the needs of our community. In 2014, we were able to bring some quality speakers and seminars to our members, rebuild interest in our Baby and You parenting classes, gain a larger membership and continue to provide two extra Pregnancy Education classes (which are unfunded by the CDHB) through our own fundraising and grant applications. Unfortunately, every year we have to turn many expectant couples away because we can’t provide a class for them. This is very disheartening for us. South and South-West Christchurch is one of the fastest growing areas of the city, and Selwyn, which is part of our catchment, is the fastest growing district in New Zealand. We will continue to look to provide more classes (when we can source further funding) for parents-to-be because Parents Centre is often their first choice over other providers of Pregnancy Education. Continuing with the positives, we have two new Childbirth Educators training or beginning to deliver education, so, welcome to Amy and Jan who join Maria and Katrina, our current educators. We have a great editorial team who would love to get some feedback from our members and readers so we know what you want to read about and what we can do better. Every year, our team meets up to thrash out some themes for the year ahead, decide on regular features and do a general reflection on the past year. We are so fortunate to have the outstanding skills of our Editor, Steph Holt, who has worked tirelessly over the past two years to refine ‘Bumps and Bubs’ to our current professional A4-size magazine-styled newsletter. Please let us know if you would prefer to receive your newsletter by email – more cost effective for us and for the environment – but we are happy to still send out a hard copy if you request it instead. tion come true! We are a committed committee of ten, but we need some new faces and ideas and enthusiasm onboard. If you are interested in any of the below vacancies or would like to find out more about being on committee, please email us at chch.south@ parentscentre.org.nz or PM us on our Facebook page. We are open to welcoming any interested people to our meetings, so that you can see if our committee is the right place for you. This edition is about returning to work after taking a break for parenthood reasons. It is something that we all have to consider at various stages so we hope that you find something useful in these pages. I am beginning a part-time contract position this year having left teaching nearly five years ago. In the interim, I have been back in the classroom as a relief teacher, but the time had come to apply and get a job for 2015. Unfortunately, our younger son with multiple allergies, has now developed anaphylaxis, so that brings its own challenges and stresses. Not just at home, but particularly now that I am relying on his childcare teachers to follow an Anaphylaxis Action Plan should this awful happening repeat itself. I know that I will be on edge a bit for the first while, but I am looking forward to starting my new job and since I am only working for two days a week, I will still be spending a lot of time with him and his older brother, who is due to start school mid-year. Hmm, something else to juggle – school drop-offs and pick-ups… CHRISTCHURCH SOUTH PARENTS CENTRE Lastly, if you made the New Year’s resolution to become a volunteer, or give something back to the community… we would love to make that resolu5 Have a fabulous February! Liz McNeill VACANCIES Advertising & Marketing We have a new marketing initiative so we need a keen person to fit the bill. The right person would be involved in developing this further and extending our profile in the community. You would also work in conjunction with the newsletter teams at Christchurch South and Christchurch Parents Centres. Pregnancy Education & LP Co-ordinator This position involves liaising with our Childbirth Educators, advertising for /sourcing and communicating with Liaison volunteers for our Pregnancy Education classes; You won’t be required to take any bookings or communicate with the class attendees. Funding Team We require someone to join our funding team to assist with writing funding proposals and to source new avenues for fundraising. BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 INSPIRATIONAL PEOPLE MAKING A DIFFERENCE FOR PARENTS IN CHRISTCHURCH… Louise Van Tongeren …founder of the Facebook Page “The Under 5 Collective” www.facebook.com/chchunder5s Can you please tell us a bit about yourself – who you are, your family, your skills, hobbies etc… I’m Louise, I have two sons aged 3.5 & 1 and I’m currently at home full time with them. My husband and I are Christchurch born and bred, we love raising our sons here and discovering new adventures to take them on. I’ve worked in early intervention, early childhood music and as a professional singer on the side so my background is a little varied - but I love learning about children, parenting and all of the fun and chaos that comes with that! We love doing things with the boys - especially things that give them the chance to play in nature, and we also love getting out without them occasionally and trying out the new places popping up all over the city. It’s exciting to go out and end up somewhere we’ve never been - the one upside to having a slightly suspended social life! The page was set up in January 2013 – why did you create it and how did you choose the name? I was walking in Hanmer, and it came to me that it would be really helpful if my Facebook mum friends, and perhaps their friends, could join forces to share ideas and tips about what to do with our children in Christchurch, and keep each other up to date on what was open / closed / moving since the earthquakes. That night several hundred people joined and I realised I may have opened a can of worms haha. I only ever expected a couple hundred people, but I love that it has grown [currently liked by 8,500+], and while it’s not able to be the platform it could be given time and resources, I’m proud of the little it does manage to achieve. I chose the name because I wanted something that would immediately draw relevant people in when they saw it, and to try and portray the idea that 6 this is a forum where everyone can contribute. How do you come up with the posts? Do you have to be selective about what you post? I am actually pretty selective, as I want it to be highly relevant for parents of under 5s, but sometimes I just also really want to help someone out when they ask :) I think there would be a danger in it becoming a bit repetitive or general, and I guess when that happens, I will know that it has run its course. I love that it gives me a small outlet to think creatively, as that is one thing I miss from time to time being at home as a mum. I do try and steer mostly clear of known controversial topics simply because it then takes too much time to admin some of the less appropriate/helpful comments that I don’t want littering the page. I respect that everyone has differing opinions, BUMPS & BUBS I just don’t want to be the forum for that. There’s enough of a mummy war going on without giving it another platform! How much time would you spend a week managing this page? Hard to say! I’ve never really worked it out, it’s not as much as some people assume but more than I’d guess I’d say. I can schedule posts in advance which is enormously helpful. Often I will set a weeks worth in the weekend and then just check in once or twice at naptime or in the evening to make sure things are okay. Occasionally I throw my hands up and ignore it all for a day or two, and then inevitably I will get a message that almost moves me to tears and I am right back on board again. What have been some of the highlights for you? Do you have any favourite posts? Highlights would be the way we were able to reach out to people during earthquakes and let them know if things were open/closed/working - it meant a lot to me that I was able to do one small thing to help. I hadn’t been much help at all being due with a baby when the February quake hit, so it was nice to feel like I contributed something! I actually love that people tag their partners / friends in posts when they recognise something that they think their family or children would love. It is such a small thing, but it takes it from being just an online community to something in the real world, and I love seeing people feel inspired to take their children on an adventure, try something new or explore this city and its surrounds as a family. I also love that we have reunited a few children with their cuddlies, reached out to a handful of charities or families in need and hopefully helped make Christchurch seem like a great place to settle and raise a family for those choosing to stay or even move here. What has been the most challenging thing about it? I’ve learned a little about time management, and I have learned a lot about myself in this process. I guess one of the hardest things would be situations FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 that arise where I am sort of forced to sit by and keep an eye on posts if something negative is said. In general, the negatives are pretty few and far between and I can handle them as they arise. Do you have any goals for the Under 5 page? How long do you see yourself doing this or do you have other projects in mind? I always have projects in mind! For now, this page is really helpful for me as well - I get as much out of the ideas shared as anyone, so while I have under 5s at home I’d hate to see it disintegrate. It could be a lot more… we’ll see. My goal for this year is to work out where to take it next. What advice would you give to someone who is setting up a FB page similar to what you have created? Know exactly what you are doing before starting, with a vision of what you want to create in mind. Be clear about the kind of community you are creating within it and be very clear about your boundaries. Don’t be put off by the 1% - 99% of people appreciate the effort and are worth persevering for. What are some favourite things that you like to do with your children in Christchurch? The paddling pools created in the sand at Sumner Beach then playing at the beautiful Brownlee Reserve on top of Clifton Hill; the Canterbury Museum with the Discovery room for children (although I think we go just to gaze at the dinosaur); the city council paddling pools are a favourite in summer, we love the one at Abberley Park; catching the ferry to Diamond Harbour to go fishing or crab hunting further around in Charteris Bay; fishing and digging at Moncks Bay by the yacht club and picnics in beautiful places where the children are entertained simply by being in natural surroundings - like Deans Bush, Victoria park or Taylors Mistake. What is the one thing that you can’t live without? Husband and children aside - its a close call between wine and coffee. And grandparents. 7 What is one place in the world that you would like to visit and why? At the moment I am daydreaming about travelling through South America. In some of these dreams, we take the children to experience the vibrancy and music of the streets throughout the various countries that I’ve longed to visit since I was young. In other moments, we leave the children with their beloved grandparents for a couple of weeks and explore by ourselves! Maybe I will have to convince them to join us for a few days… A book or film that you would recommend to our PC members This is really boring but that last book I loved was Janet Lansbury’s Elevating Childcare. But if parenting books are cast aside, I would recommend The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night Time or the movie Once. If you had 2 childless, work-free hours, what would you do? Go for a run followed by a takeaway coffee, sitting on the beach, then a really long shower and sitting down with a magazine after a sweeping tidy away of toys and socks and sippy cups. Or meet a (hopefully also child-free) friend for a walk and a coffee. This is the first interview of an inspirational person in our community and we hope that this will become a new regular feature in ‘Bumps and Bubs’. If you know of someone who has made a difference for yourself, other parents or families please contact us! BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 For 20 Years PORSE has cared for babies and young children in New Zealand homes. Children love to play in a calm and predictable home environment where their play is unhurried and uninterrupted - just as they would if they were at home! Our low ratios allow children to form close attachments and secure relationships. Call 0800 023 456 or visit our website today to talk to a PORSE Consultant who can help you find a wonderful Educator to suit your family or discuss your career options with PORSE. 8 www.PORSE.co.nz BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 Feeling good and looking great when you’re a mum… This article is full of tips for Maternity Wear – whether it’s tops, pants or underwear you’re after, for work or home, for formal or casual, small or plus size, short or tall, this guide to maternity wear will prove invaluable. Gone are the days when maternity clothing meant tent-like dresses and oversized tees. Nowadays maternity clothes are stylish and practical – and with so many designers and stockists there is something to suit everyone’s taste. Like your pre-pregnancy wardrobe, how much you spend and what labels you choose to buy is up to you. There are plenty of New Zealand based maternity stores online and these are easy to find via a ‘Google’ search, but to save you some time we have asked our committee and likers on Facebook to share with us their finds so you can all benefit from this. So whether you’re buying second hand or new, there are plenty of places to find great looking maternity clothes and with a few basic pieces you can create a maternity wardrobe that really works. Make the most of your new body and buy something special that celebrates you, but remember to consider the following practicalities when choosing your maternity clothes. Maternity Tops A few basic tops are a useful addition to your maternity wardrobe, but they don’t have to be tent-like shirts which are 3 sizes too big. There are plenty of maternity tops available with flattering necklines and pleats and tucks which grow with your belly. Many also have double layers or discreet openings for easy breastfeeding once baby is born. When looking for maternity tops to wear, consider the following: What type of fabric is the top made of? The fabric should obviously be stretchy so that it grows with you, but it also needs to be breathable and quick drying. Like it or not, when you’re pregnant your body acts like a hot water bottle so you can often get sticky and sweaty. If you’re planning on wearing the top after baby is born, look for fabric that will absorb breast milk quickly and without leaving a mark. Even when using breast pads, you’re likely to have a few leaks over your breastfeeding months and if you’re in public it’s great if they disappear as fast as possible. Is the top ‘feeding friendly’? If you are buying maternity clothes, it is good to be able to use them after baby is born, so look out for tops which are feeding friendly. While it’s possible to breast feed in any top, it’s nice to be able to do so discreetly when you need to. There are some great feeding friendly tops on the market which allow you to feed your baby without baring your belly, back and boobs to the world. What sort of neckline / bust line does the top have? It’s not only your belly that grows when you’re pregnant it’s your bust as well! Look out for tops with a flattering neckline and make sure there is ample room across the bust and back for you to grow. 9 If you can still fit your pre-pregnancy tops, but have your growing belly showing as mid-drift, you can use a belly tube to disguise your tummy and give the effect of a layered top. Belly tubes can be bought from various fashion stores for around $30. Maternity Pants and Skirts Like it or not, you won’t still be wearing your favorite jeans when you’re 9 months pregnant and unless you’re one of the lucky few, you won’t be wearing them for a few months after baby is born either. A couple of pairs of plain cotton pants and a versatile skirt are essential items for a maternity wardrobe. You can dress them up with a pair of sparkly kitten heels and a beaded belt, or dress them down with a pair of sandals and a plain tee. When looking for maternity pants & skirts, consider the following: The key thing to consider when buying pants or skirts is what type of waistband they have. Obviously the waistband needs to be expandable, but it also needs to be comfortable. Wide Lycra bands are great and can be positioned over or under the belly, and drawstring waistbands also rate highly in the comfort stakes. Elastic bands may be expandable, but they can get uncomfortable, especially in the later months. Belly belts are a great way to make the most of your pre-pregnancy buttoned waistbands. They button onto your existing button to extend the waistband, and come with fabric panels which insert into the gap. They won’t make your pre-pregnancy clothes last all 9 months, but they are great for using with your favorite clothes in early to mid-pregnancy. You can find belly belts in specialist maternity stores for around $35-$40. BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 make sure that you are wearing an appropriate bra. • Mum 2B www.mum2b.nz There are two main bra choices during pregnancy: • Egg Maternity www.eggmaternity.com Maternity bras • Mrs Smith maternity www.mrssmithmaternity.co.nz Some maternity bras are suitable for both pregnancy and breastfeeding. Maternity bras are different to ordinary bras in that they have detachable flaps for easy feeding and extra support for a rapidly changing bust. Buying a maternity bra is a really personal experience – like normal bras you need to find one that is comfortable for you. Maternity Dresses One nice dress is good to have in your maternity wardrobe, especially over summer. On the days when you feel like a beached whale, dresses have a way of making you feel beautiful, so it’s definitely worth the investment. There are plenty of styles to choose from depending on whether you want to disguise your bump or enhance it, so don’t be tempted to buy an ordinary dress which is simply 3 sizes too big. The key things to consider when buying a maternity dress are the same as when you are buying a top: • Room to grow across the bust, back and belly • Breathable fabric • Feeding friendly If you’re only planning on buying one or two ‘going out’ outfits for your wardrobe, you will want to make sure they are versatile. Choose a dress that can be worn with or without a top, or one that has changeable straps. The classic 6-way dress has been around for years and is still rated as one of the ‘must haves’ by many pregnancy magazines. Maternity Bras For Those Special 9 Months As soon as you are pregnant your breast size will increase, so you must As maternity bras are designed to cater for a rapidly changing bust, if fitted correctly one size should see you through pregnancy and breastfeeding. Usually women wait until at least 20 weeks to move into maternity bras. You will need at least 2 maternity bras, and maybe an extra special one for when you want to feel sexy! Supportive, Sports Style Bra Alternatively you can wear a sports style supportive bra in pregnancy- get it fitted correctly, to allow your breasts to grow and your milk ducts to develop. Ensure that you never wear an under wired bra in pregnancy (at any stage) as these can affect the development of the ducts and glands that are vital for breast feeding. Then at around 36 weeks of pregnancy get fitted for your maternity bra, which will be suitable after the birth for feeding your baby. While there are lots of online stores which sell maternity bras, I suggest you get properly fitted before making any purchase. Any store which stocks standard lingerie will also stock maternity bras. Maternity bras range from $40, right up to $150 ish. Useful Sites • Breast mates www.breastmates.co.nz • HotMilk www.hotmilklingerie.com • LATCH – Nursing and maternity wear www.latchwear.co.nz 10 • 3 Bears Maternity www.3bears.co.nz • EZIBUY www.ezibuy.co.nz • Rock Your Bump www.rockyourbump.co.nz Retailers that sell maternity wear (Christchurch) • • • • • • • • EZIBUY Kmart Pumpkin Patch Jeans West JK’s Egg maternity LATCH – Nursing and maternity The fitting room BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 Committee Profiles… Meet two members of the Christchurch South Parents Centre: Tania Beynon & Amberley Harding Tania Beynon My name is Tania Beynon and I am currently the Membership Officer. I have been on the committee for nearly four years in various roles. My family consists of my partner Steve and our son Jesse who is nearly four. I became a Christchurch Parents Centre Volunteer because I wanted to give something back. As a new Mum I was inspired and supported by those running my Baby and You course that I wanted to help other new Mums. My favourite holiday destination is home on the West Coast where I can be found hanging with family in Punakaiki or out on Lake Brunner in Moana. My favourite book is Wuthering Heights or The Vintners Luck. The one thing I cannot live without is ‘my sleep’…my family would agree. What I love about Christchurch Parents Centre is the inspirational Mums I have met on the committee who are truly amazing in how much they give to others and the community. The one baby product I couldn’t have survived without was Jesse’s baby wrap - took a long time to convince him to give it up. My top tip for new parents is listen to your intuition…you are doing more things right than you realise. If I had two blissful, childless hours I would have a girl’s pamper session with my sister. Amberley Harding Hi, I’m Amberley Harding and I get to organise the Baby and You courses for Christchurch South Parents Centre. I have an amazing husband, Josh, who loves to cook and bake yummy goodies. My son Tobias has just turned 2 and makes me laugh every day with his mischievous personality. Tobias was born 10 weeks early due to me getting sick with pre-eclampsia toxaemia and was in the unit for 2 months. We also help out with the Neonatal Trust because of this special journey we went through. these nights and decided to join the committee last year. I’ll never say no to chocolate… unless I’m pregnant...! My favourite thing to do with my child/ favourite place to visit with my child is... Swimming! because… Tobias LOVES the water! We have really enjoyed our lessons at Bumble Bees Swim School (a perfect set up for babies and toddlers!!) I love seeing the enjoyment swimming and water play gives him. I am trained as, and have worked as a primary teacher. I’m currently working part time relieving as we grow our family (no, I am not currently pregnant!) The baby product that I couldn’t have survived without is... Lansinoh (natural nipple cream). Feeding for me was not a fun and easy experience and this product helped ease the pain for sure!! I became a CSPC volunteer because I started out helping with being a Liaison Person at the Antenatal classes for 2 reasons: 1) I never finished the course, and 2) there was a need, and I wanted to help out! I really enjoyed helping on What tips can you share with parents of premmie babies: first up: join a support group. The Canterbury Neonatal Trust is our local group and is on Facebook. Secondly: to take each day as it comes! You’ll have great days and 11 horrible days and many will try to understand what you are going through but it is just a totally different world! Accept help when you can, and focus on the progress that today brought. I am also happy to talk to anyone going through this journey too! If I had two blissful, childless hours I would want to sleep but probably end up cleaning as this is an impossible task with my busy boy! What I like the most about Christchurch South Parents Centre is that it is a friendly team to be a part of! Great support and great people! You should come find out at our next committee meeting! BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 Parent Education Courses 2015 Christchurch Parents Centre Baby and You (0 – 3 Months) Parenting with Purpose Wednesdays 10am – 12pm 4 March – 1 April 2015 22 April – 20 May 2015 Thursday 7:30 – 9:30pm 19 March – 23 April 2015 Consciously focusing on how you want to parent your child is the first step in developing a great relationship with them. This course encourages us to look at parenting styles and how we want to parent our children. This is a six week, two hour, evening course and all participants receive a workbook. Advice and tips on surviving and enjoying those first months with your newborn. This course runs one morning a week for five weeks and includes the following topics: • Sleeping, settling and feeding basics • Baby development and milestones • Baby massage • Life changes and how to cope with them • Car seats Course fee: $20 for members, $40 non members Course fee: $60 members, $80 non-members MUSIC AND MOVEMENT Term 1 Monday 9 Feb – 30 March & Thursday 12 Feb – 2 April Term 2 Monday 20 April – 29 June & Thursday 23 April – 8 October (*excludes 6 April EASTER, 27 April ANZAC) Moving and Munching (4 – 9 MONTHS) Thursdays 1pm – 2:30pm 5 & 12 March 2015 Exploring first foods and developmental stages for 4-9 months. This course is run over two sessions and includes the following topics: • Baby safety now they are mobile • Developmental changes • Introducing solids • Establishing good nutrition • How to prepare first foods • Age appropriate foods Course fee: $20 members, $40 non members NB: We don’t run classes on public holidays, so for those of you who wwould like to still attend that week can just come along to the Thursday session the week before or after the public holiday. Over 1’s: Monday at 10.30am and Thursday at 10.45am. Under 1’s: Monday 11.15am and Thursday 11.30am Dancing, singing, instruments and action songs make up some of the fun activities in this class. There are separate classes for babies aged 0 – 12 months. Classes are held each term. MAGIC MOMENTS Class fee: $30 members, $60 non members for a 10 week term. Note: Costs are adjusted according to the number of weeks in each term. Dates to be confirmed (check out web page for updates) Bookings are essential for all courses. For all bookings and enquires please phone 360 3381 or email chch.parentscentre@xtra.co.nz 12 BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 Parent Education Courses 2015 Christchurch South Parents Centre Baby and You (0 – 3 Months) Moving and Munching (4 – 9 MONTHS) BY1: 1 March – 20 April MM1: 11 & 18 February 2015 MM2: 13 & 20 May 2015 Feeding | Sleeping & Crying | Changes | Massage & Touch | Growth & Development | Health & Growth 7:30 - 9.30pm 7:30 - 9.30pm This course is for parents of babies 4-8 months of age. Two fun and informative evenings that will answer your questions on child development and feeding issues in the months that lie ahead. This course consists of six sessions that you attend with your baby. The structure of this course is relaxed and informal with time for questions. A great opportunity for new parents to meet other parents experiencing the same joys and challenges. Moving: A specialist discusses baby safety now that your child is mobile, the development of fine motor skills and how you can assist, how babies learn through play and age appropriate toys, the development of language and intellect and how you can stimulate this. Munching: A qualified Dietitian will discuss introducing solids, good nutrition for all ages, drinks, snacks and treats, teething and dental care, the child who won’t eat, iron rich foods and food allergies. FREE to Members; non-members $20. Bookings are essential. Please phone Carmen on 03 981 7799 or email movingandmunching.cspc@gmail.com Cost: FREE to Christchurch South Parent Centre Members and $30 for non-members. Bookings are essential. Please email Amberley Harding at: babyandyou.cspc@gmail.com or chch.south@parentscentre. org.nz Thank you to COGS for generously providing funding for these courses. Hot Topic Night We are thrilled to announce that the Cloth Nappy Lady is back again at Christchurch South Parents Centre Wednesday March the 4th 2015 at 6.30pm-8.30pm Venue: St Nicholas Church, 231 Barrington Street, Spreydon. Further details to be posted on our Facebook page and webpage or contact Cat Helms, Hot Topic Nights Co-ordinator, on hottopicnights.cspc@gmail.com 13 BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 Returning to work after maternity leave To return or not to return to work: that is the question… Perhaps you are considering returning to work after the birth of a child or additional children, thinking about extending your leave or resigning from your job so that you be with your children for longer. Whatever your decision, often making it is the hardest thing. I initially took maternity leave for 12 months when I had my first son, which extended to 18 months and by that stage I knew that I had to make a tough decision – to resign from a job that was stimulating and challenging or return to it but put our son into fulltime childcare. I was torn but I wrote my resignation letter. I didn’t become a mum until I was 40, so had had the chance to build a solid career in teaching since I was 22, plus had enjoyed a three year OE, but I was long overdue to have some time out from work. This was the most perfect reason. My thenBoss gave me some good advice about how easy it was to lose confidence in your ability once you have extended leave from the classroom – and she was right! I got back into relief teaching for two days a week fairly smartly, to ensure I didn’t find the transition back too difficult. My son started at a childcare centre for the two days that I was available to work. Then our second son came along and I repeated the same process. Now though, with registration problems looming due to being out of teaching for over four years, I have committed to a part-time position which luckily is only for two days a week. This means that I can have the best of both worlds – spend time with my boys and get back into the classroom – I know this is the right combination for me, so I guess it is about finding what works best for you. Sometimes it is not quite that easy though – you might have financial commitments, are a single parent, want to pursue your career – sometimes you have to go back to work because there is no other option. Thanks to Amy Wildash, from Whakatane Parents Centre for some of the ideas below about the considerations that you may need to make when deciding if, when and why to go back to work. What is your motivation – why are you returning to work? Paying the bills The answer to this question may seem obvious “to pay the bills” but try and be detailed and specific. Do you need to earn a certain amount? Could you manage on less? What are your family’s financial goals? Do you need to work to maintain financial security for your family? Enjoying your work For many women the issue is more complex. Be honest with yourself. If you want to return to your job, start a new career or retrain, then do it. We spend a large part of each day at work and it can become an important part of life, providing social networks, personal satisfaction, interest and stimulation and a sense of identity. Being a stay at home mum brings its own challenges and not everyone wants to do it. For many mums part time work offers the best of both worlds. Keeping current Depending upon your workplace, industry and career history you may be concerned about falling behind in terms of technology, work practices and that an extended absence may affect your longer term prospects. Options like part time work, job sharing and contract work might be viable alternatives to fulltime employment. 14 Impact upon family life Division of labour at home Many families will need to reorganise their household tasks when everyone is out of the house all day. Try to avoid doing everything yourself, no point in trying to be superwoman. Hours of work If you are going part time consider carefully the days and hours that work best. Some women like to have their working days spread throughout the week, others prefer to get them out of the way all at once. Does it make more sense for you to work fewer long days or several shorter ones? The hours that you work may influence the childcare options available to you. Working from home for some of the time might also be an option in some workplaces and this could give you more flexibility. Job sharing is also a possibility in many workplaces and can work very effectively. Flexible work options Don’t be put off if your employer has not previously embraced flexible work options. Be prepared to demonstrate the advantages of different options. If you have been working for your employer for at least 6 months you have a “right to request” flexible working arrangements. Your employer has a “duty to consider” seriously any requests from their employee. The Department of Labour website has a raft of useful information regarding how to approach your employer, including examples and templates of letters and forms to use. Remember this can also apply to your partner. Go to www.dol.govt.nz and click on the Employment Relations tab > Best practice > Work-life balance. BUMPS & BUBS A time to reflect and refocus Being on leave is a good time to reassess your career and life goals. Even if you think you will continue in the same role that you had before you may wish to alter your focus or look for opportunities to move into a different area. Bear in mind that if you change employer you may well lose benefits such as accumulated sick leave. Self-assessment and reflection is a challenging part of the process but time spent doing this allows you to move forward with greater confidence. A good place to start is to consider the following: Myself – I’m this kind of person? • What interests and motivates me? • What are my values? • What satisfies me? My assets – I have these to offer: • What is my knowledge base? • What personal and professional relationships do I have? • What are my best skills and attributes? • How do I learn best? My vision – I want this for me: • What does personal success look like for me? • What does career success look like for me? • What would be my ideal work place including things such as flexibility and hours? A good way to do this is to have a note book or whiteboard handy and to note ideas or thoughts when they come to you. Don’t forget that sometimes close friends and family members can offer useful insight. Don’t sell yourself short Many people, teens and adults alike fail to recognise the range of abilities that they have especially if these haven’t been officially “recognised” with a certificate or title. One way to address this is to brainstorm all the areas of a person’s life eg: education, work experience including part time and casual, hobbies, sport, community involvement, travel etc and then detail exactly what each area involved. For example playing in a netball team demands team work, commitment, physical FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 fitness and communication skills, being treasurer for the netball club requires attention to detail, accounts experience, high level of trust, communication skills, knowledge of organisations and procedures. Household and family management provides you with the opportunity to develop several skills including the following: • Evaluation, analysis and problem-solving skills • Skill in doing precise, detailed and accurate work • Book-keeping, budgeting and maths skills • Skill in organising and co-ordinating activities and other people. These are all skills and knowledge that are useful in the workplace and give a more rounded picture of you as an individual than a simple list of your work history. Building Skills Sometimes this exercise may reveal some gaps or areas where you would like to build your skills. There are many ways to do this. Investigate night classes or weekend courses run by local educational institutions, particularly in areas such as business or computing. Another great way to develop your skills is to volunteer in the community. Volunteering could be related to a sport or hobby or to a charitable organisation. In addition to valuable experience volunteering can also provide a foot in the door to a paid position and help you develop your networks. These are some of the transferable skills involved in volunteering. • Planning and organisational skills • Writing skills, including report writing • Problem solving • People and communication skills • Bookkeeping, budgeting and maths skills Playcentre, Parents Centre, Toy Library and Plunket are just some examples of organisations that are always welcoming volunteers. Consider also the local primary school and www.volunteeringnz.org.nz for other ideas and opportu15 nities. It may be that you have identified a need to retrain or go into formal study. Whilst you are having a career break might be a good time to do this. There are many ways to study these days: part time, on the job, online, onsite, block courses, night classes, correspondence etc. Check out www.studylink.govt.nz for information on loans and allowances. Don’t be discouraged if you don’t have the entry requirements for a course, get in touch with the provider, often they can assess your work and life experience and provide you with extra support if necessary. Your CV Once you have identified your skills, experience and knowledge a good place to keep all this information is in your CV. Careers NZ (www.careers.govt. nz) has some excellent tools to help you create your CV and once you have written a master CV you can adapt it to different job opportunities. Keep it straightforward and accurate. Have someone else check it out and proof read it for you. Remember you have a lot to offer, so have confidence and go for it. BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 What do I need to think about when finding an ECE provider? Thanks to Amy Wildash of Whakatane Parents Centre Today there is a wide range of childcare options for your child – independent, privately-owned centres, community preschools , kindergartens and schools based on educational philosophies such as Montessori or Rudolf Steiner. How can you decide which is the best place for your child/ren? There are a number of factors to consider when choosing the right place for your child. • Location of service – close to home or work • Hours and frequency of sessions. • Affordability including whether you can receive a subsidy for child care. • What is the expectation of your involvement as a parent? • Do you need or want to stay with your child? • What is their teaching philosophy? • Is there a waiting list? Talk to other parents, Plunket, Ministry of Education. Look at Education Review Office reports www.ero.govt.nz and at websites of service providers Visit your options • With your child when children are there • Make sure you speak to someone in charge. Here are some questions to consider asking or researching about on the internet: Day to day running of the Centre • Who operates / owns the centre? • Children / staff ratio? • Do one or two key teachers work with your child? • Staff qualifications? • Who are the relieving staff? • What professional development is undertaken? • How do they encourage learning? • How are under 2’s catered for? • How do they meet the needs of different children? • What is the daily routine? • How do they manage sleep? • What is their policy on behaviour guidance? • What is their policy on sick children? • How can parents have input into the service? • How do transitions between rooms/ onto school operate? Costs • What happens if your child is sick or on holiday? • Do you have to pay for public holidays even though you can’t attend? • Does the centre qualify for subsidies? • Are there extra donations required? Food • What does the centre provide? • What are the routines around food? • How do they cope with specific food needs/allergies? Sleep • When do sleep times happen? Are they flexible? • Where do they sleep? • Which strategies do the staff use? Indoor Play Area • • • • • • Range of play equipment? Safety? Sleep/rest areas? Hygiene? Messy play area? Reading area? Outdoor Play Area • • • • Safety Sand / water / carpentry? Supervision? Can they create their own play spaces Teaching Philosophy • Does the centre follow a specific philosophy eg: Montesorri, Rudolf Steiner etc 16 • Is the focus on learning through play or a more academic programme? • Is learning self-directed and child led or does is follow a set curriculum? What is the “feel” of the centre? • Are the children happy, busy, laughing? • Is the centre well cared for and open to whanau? • Is there plenty to do? • Is it safe and secure? • Are teachers warm, approachable and professional? • If choosing home based care, who are the other people that your child will come in contact with? • What activities will your child do outside the home? Tips for settling your child at a centre: • Talk to the staff • Begin with short periods of time to start with. • Tell your child when leaving and coming back. • Once you have said goodbye – go. • Have a regular routine. • Discuss any health needs, religious or cultural beliefs. • Try to be involved even for a few minutes at pick up or drop off. References & Useful Websites: www.minedu.govt.nz www.ohbaby.co.nz www.ero.govt.nz www.lead.ece.govt.nz www.montessori.org.nz www.playcentre.org.nz www.nzkindergarten.org.nz BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 17 BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 SOMETHING TO HELP WITH THE NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION… The Petite Kitchen Blog …treats us to some healthy offerings www.petite-kitchen.com prepared baking tray and knead slightly (it will be a little crumbly don’t worry). Place a piece of baking paper on top of the dough and using a rolling pin, roll out the dough to around half a cm thick. Remove the top piece of baking paper then using a knife, score criss cross lines in to the dough. Liz McNeill Was your New Year’s resolution to eat healthy foods in 2015 or to lose weight? This is a bit off the topic of our theme, this time which is returning to work, but food is something constantly on our children’s lips, faces, hands and on our minds as we try to conjure up something yummy that is also healthy, doesn’t take too long to make and doesn’t need unusual ingredients that we don’t have in the pantry. I have a favourite blog that I follow – many of you will have heard of Dr Libby and may have her new cookbooks – well, it isn’t her, though I have liked the recipes that I have been lucky to sample – no, I am referring to The Petite Kitchen blog. Eleanor Ozich’s daughter had severe eczema and mood swings, so after a visit to a Naturopath diagnosed her suffering from Gut and Psychology Syndrome (also known as GAPS) Eleanor set out to cure her through wholefoods. Her blog is filled with beautifully styled photos of sumptuously healthy (is that an oxymoron?) food that accompany the recipes. There are lots of gluten free and vegan options and both savoury and sweet recipes. You may need to add some different ingredients to your shopping list but it is worth taking a look at her blog and the photos of her gorgeous children. Here are a couple of recipes for starters: SUNFLOWER, SESAME & HERB CRACKERS These salty, crunchy, and incredibly delicious crackers are made purely out of sunflower and sesame seeds. I have added a little garlic and herbs for an extra taste kick. Feel free to add what ever tickles your fancy, let your tastebuds do the talking. Bake for 10-15 minutes, or until golden brown. Allow to cool completely, then using your hands, break along scored lines and serve. Makes around 20 crackers. Will keep in an airtight container for 1 week. These seriously must be the healthiest crackers I have ever tasted. The perfect snack when feeling a little peckish. • 1 cup sunflower seeds • 1/2 cup sesame seeds • 3 tsp garlic granules (I have also used 3 garlic cloves instead) • 1 tbsp dried herbs • 3-5 tbsp water • 1 tbsp olive oil • 1 tsp sea salt Preheat the oven to 180°C and line a tray with baking paper. Place the sunflower seeds , salt and garlic granules in to a food processor. Process on high for 2-3 minutes or until the seeds become a dense flour like consistency. Add the sesame seeds, dried herbs and olive oil, pulse to combine. With the food processor running on low, slowly start to add the water one tablespoon at a time. The mixture will start to come together in a dough like consistency. Transfer the mixture to the 18 ZESTY APRICOT, PUMPKIN SEED & LEMON FUDGE BALLS Here is a quick spring recipe to celebrate the weekend.... These brilliantly zesty apricot, pumpkin seed & lemon fudge balls are great little snacks and take 5 minutes to make! Simply add the following in to a food processor: • 1 cup nuts of your choice • ½ cups pumpkin seeds • 1 cup dried apricots, a drizzle of honey, • 1 cup shredded coconut • Zest and juice of one lemon. Process until the mixture starts to come together. Shape in to balls, and then roll in shredded coconut. BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 Do you have a Cover Baby? ? We’re seeking a cover baby for the next edition of Bumps & Bubs! To enter, please email your gorgeous photo* along with the first name of your baby/child, their age, parents’ names and where in Christchurch you’re from to bumpsandbubs.cpc@gmail.com or newsletter.cspc@gmail.com In the April / May 2015 edition we’ll be covering Sleep Please include “cover baby” in subject line. Submission deadline closes 5pm, 15th March 2015. Eligible to Parents Centre members only. Please note that by entering you give permission for Parents Centre to use the supplied photo on the cover of the newsletter. *good quality (high-resolution) in portrait orientation please. Advertise in Bumps & Bubs! ‘Bumps & Bubs’ Advertising Rates… Christchurch Parents Centres appreciate any offers of sponsorship/donations (which are tax deductable) to help our centres ensure they continue to reach parents in need of support, education and advice. Please do not hesitate to contact us if you would like to discuss any partnership outside of the opportunities mentioned here. Colour Advert Size Cost Per Issue Cost For 1 Year (6 Issues) Full Page (198 x 285mm, Portrait) $100 $480 Half Page (198 x 131mm, Landscape) $75 $360 One-Third Page (198 x 85.5mm, Landscape) $39 $186 Prices include GST Advertising Deadlines… To discuss sponsorship or advertising, please email bumpsandbubs.cpc@gmail.com or newsletter.cspc@gmail.com. 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All members will be able to have their birth announcement of their precious new arrival published in this section. Please send your announcement to bumpsandbubs.cpc@gmail.com. Bishopdale Friendship Pl aygrou N p g Supporout p every Breastfebreeadstfin t gr eeding peer suppor host a 2 We are thrilled to h Parents Centre. 2pm at Christchurc – 12 m d fro an ay rs sd le Wedne es, todd . All mothers, babi le da op sh Bi , et lco re t are we me. Leacroft St eastfeeding suppor br ire qu re o wh t other pregnant women simply want to mee u yo if e m lco we You are also very and a hot drink. the area for a chat in s um m ng di ee breastf CLC) will run a tion consultants (IB ta lac O PH ry bu er which will be Rural Cant the support group e sid ng alo c ni cli breastfeeding appointment only. 20 ew attendees are welcomed to a wonderfu playgroup for l caregivers an d pre-schoole rs. Wednesday 9: 30am-12pm Bishopdale Se venth-day Ad ventist Churc h, Breens Road $2 covers mo rning tea for the kids and a cuppa. Storage King are proud to support the Christchurch South Parents Centre. Mention where you saw this ad and receive 10% off on your storage and packing requirements from either of our two Christchurch stores! 980 Ferry Road 03 384 4801 444 Blenheim Rd 03 343 1500 www.storageking.co.nz BUMPS & BUBS FEBRUARY / MARCH 2015 Membership Discounts Support Network Thanks to these great businesses for offering great specials* to our members! Cheeky Monkeys 1020 Ferry Road P: 384 4430 www.cheekymonkeys.co.nz Book a party and receive a FREE personalised photo DVD of your child’s party! 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