Welcoming Deacon John Krenson - Christ the King Catholic Church
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Welcoming Deacon John Krenson - Christ the King Catholic Church
Christ The King Church, Nashville, Tennessee Volume 16, Issue 2, Spring 2014 ~ Lent Welcoming Deacon John Krenson J By Patty Carroll Farmer ohn Krenson has returned home and the Christ the King family welcomes him as our newest deacon. John is a parent, Plant Manager for Nashville Chemical and Equipment, and a Colonel in the Tennessee Army National Guard. Now he adds pastoral duties at Christ the King to his extensive list of responsibilities. Deacon John is a Nashville native, baptized and confirmed at Christ the King Parish. His family lived on Lombardy Avenue until he was 12 years old. He attended Christ the King, walking to school every day with his younger brother, Jay. John graduated from Father Ryan High School, following his older brother, Eddie. He graduated from Marquette University where he majored in political science. Thus, John attended Catholic schools from kindergarten through college. A benefit of attending a Jesuit university, according to John, was exposure to their philosophy, particularly the directive “to find God in all things.” John and his wife, Carrie, have been married for 21 years. They are the proud parents of two adopted children, 13 year old Dasha and 12 year old Evan, who are “a great joy and blessing to us.” Dasha attends St. Ann’s Catholic School and will be a freshman at Father Ryan next year. Evan is in the 5th grade at Benton Hall Academy. John’s journey to the diaconate began when Father Bill Fleming suggested that he enroll in a newly announced Diaconate Formation class. John was then a Cathedral parishioner and active in many of its ministries. Father Fleming assured him that he would not be ordained until the last day of the four-year program and that there would be plenty of time to make a final decision. “I figured that the worst that could happen is that I’d get a good education in my faith, so I went for it,” laughed Deacon John. Ordained in 1999, he was assigned to the Cathedral, except when on active military duty. He transitioned to Christ the King after his return to Nashville in 2012 from the U.S. Army War College in Pennsylvania where he completed a Masters in Strategic Studies. John has been in the National Guard for 28 years. He has been on active duty five of those years, including service in Afghanistan and Iraq. Military deployments twice placed him on the Gulf coast where he assisted victims of Hurricanes Katrina and Gustav. Dealing with “loss and devastation was a moving and critical Continued on p.2 JOHN GREEN NANCY ROHLING From the Editor’s Desk.........................2 Considering Lent..................................2 A Reflection from Father Dexter .........3 School News.........................................4 Second Grade Service Project.............6 Mardi Gras 2014...................................6 Rock Youth Ministry.............................7 Women’s Council Hosts Diocesan Meeting ...............................8 Sweet Sounds at Songwriters’ Night...8 Winter Retreat......................................9 Father Jerry Brings His Life Experiences to The Priesthood..................... 10 Another Successful Boots & BBQ....... 11 News from our Haiti Twin Parishes.... 11 Milestones in Faith............................. 12 Continued from p.1 H Happy Spring! A rather grey, cold and long winter is finally giving way to spring buds, fuzzy tree branches, and my personal favorite... longer daylight hours—woo hoo! This lent I signed up to receive daily email reflections from Fr. Robert Barron, author of the book and dvd series Catholicism, and founder of the media ministry Word on Fire. In a recent post he introduced me to a new term by Hans Urs von Balthasar: theo-drama. To quote Fr. Barron: “This is the drama written and directed by God and involving every creature in the cosmos. On the grand stage that is the created universe, we are invited to “act,” to find and play our role in God’s theater.” He goes on to say, “The problem is that the vast majority of us live in the “ego-drama.” We think we are the directors, writers, and above all, stars of our own dramas. We’re convinced the cosmos provides a pleasing backdrop to our own performance. Other people function as either our supporting players or our villains, against whom we shine all the brighter.” He then shares a story about St. Thomas More in a scene from A Man for All Seasons, where he tries to cheer up a young man who petitioned Thomas More for a position in King Henry VIII’s court but instead was offered the role as a simple teacher. The young man is disappointed and More attempts to cheer him up by saying he’d be a really good teacher. Here, I quote again: ““And if I were, who would know it?” The patient More explains: “Yourself, your friends, your pupils, God—pretty good public, that!” He then reminds him “that it profits him nothing to play even the biggest part in the ego-drama if he misses his role in the theo-drama. The key is finding the role that God has designed for you, even if it looks like a bit part” Fr. Barron summarizes “the profoundly spiritual truth that the only audience worth playing for is the divine audience, and the only drama worth acting in—even in the smallest role—is God’s.” May we be the stars of our own theo drama as we wind down our Lenten journey. Joan 2 experience in my spiritual formation as well as in my military career,” explained Deacon John. John shared that the destruction along the coast had the same smells and feel as combat. “What I found amazing is that the locals we were sent to protect found ways to serve us. For example, we would be operating a checkpoint, and they would show up with food for us. That was something very small in the big picture and yet that was seeing God in all things.” Christ the King is blessed to have wonderful deacons and will be further strengthened by the addition of John Krenson. His depth of first-hand experiences has prepared him for pastoral ministry with individuals and families through their own challenges and opportunities in life, whether working through infertility and adoption, recovery from a loss or disaster, visiting the sick or homebound, marriage preparation or finding God in our lives whatever we are experiencing. Welcome home, Deacon John. W Considering Lent By Carolyn Goddard L ent, I think, is about naming and seeking to have removed any obstacles in my being that keep me from doing God’s will, from living as God intends for me to live. My father used to say I could mess up a one car funeral. I am not sure that is true, but I sure can tie myself up in mental knots. How do I know the will of God? Aren’t I susceptible to rationalizing that my will is really God’s will? How can I know what life I am intended to live? What if I need to make a decision and don’t feel I have discerned God’s will? Should I just make a leap of faith? Recently I read a line that cut through my self inflicted confusion. Thomas Keating says “God’s will for you is to manifest God’s goodness and infinite tenderness in your life right now.” This quote cut off my chasing around the question of God’s will. For a moment the path seemed straight forward. I know that if I consciously open my heart to God on a regular basis, God’s goodness will touch me. The natural consequence of having that experience is an ability to offer grace to others. So maybe it is not so hard to do God’s will after all. But there is still an expectation or two that I need to let go of. I tend to believe that everyone else is also called to manifest God’s goodness and infinite tenderness - especially toward me. I want to remember that Fr. Keating’s line spoke to me, that is is my job to pray “for knowledge of God’s will for me and the power to carry that out.” I don’t need to concern myself with how others are doing or not doing God’s will. The other expectation I struggle against is my notion that, if I am doing God’s will, I will be happy and all will be right with the world. I want to remember that Jesus lived in loving relationship with God but, as Clay Railey once told me, “his life was not a peach.” Living as Jesus lived generally brings problems—sometimes even crucifixion. I don’t like this insight—but it stares me in the face every time I enter our sanctuary. This Lent, I want to be open to “God’s goodness and infinite tenderness” as it comes to me in so many ways—the wag of my dog’s tail, the smile on my friend’s face, the smell of my daughter’s hair, the sound of my son’s voice, the trust my mother puts in me, the feel of sunshine and breeze on my skin. I want to soak in grace—not simply for my own sake but so that it will naturally flow out from me unfettered. Gracious Love, please guide me this Lent—away from expectations of others, away from desire for rewards —closer to you. Amen. W Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 A Reflection from Father Dexter Coming to Our Senses tentive, we find the race has taken us far away from home, far from our hearts, far from where we began. And we wonder how we came to be here. Sin, that original disobedience, that refusal to hear and heed the whisper of God within us, dulls our senses, just as too much wine will dull our ability to think, and we lose our way sometimes, little by little, without even knowing when we first began to stray. At Mass one Sunday, when we least expect it, something happens—the scriptures speak to us, or a song brings us back to ourselves—and we, like the young man in the gospel, “come to our senses” and realize that we are missing out on the food that we need to live. The young man’s hunger brings him to his senses about his relationship with his father. It is the young man’s hunger that causes him to ponder what he has done; it is his hunger which moves him to sadness over his selfishness. Of A mong the reasons I like running is that, at the end of a long race, my senses seem to be sharpened. Food tastes better, music sounds better, and my eyes see more clearly—the world around me is more peaceful, more colorful, more vibrant. All in all, everything seems better. A part of this experience, of course, is the body’s being released from the exhausting stress of running—a stress which makes it near impossible to appreciate immediate smells and sights and sounds. Much the same can be said for the spiritual life. The stress of work and of the day and of relationships can sometimes suppress our senses and leave us inattentive to all that is good and beautiful around us. We simply haven’t the time or the energy to attend to it. And so we go on each day, each month, without thinking much of our daily failings to love, to treat others with respect, to take the time with family and friends that these relationships require. We can’t give much thought to our failing to do what is just and right for our neighbor, to our failing to help when we have the means and ability to do so. And then, one day, after days and months of being inat- Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 At Mass one Sunday, when we least expect it, something happens – the scriptures speak to us, or a song brings us back to ourselves – and we, like the young man in the gospel, “come to our senses” and realize that we are missing out on the food that we need to live. course there is the still the business of turning around and going back to make things right. And that is a hard business. But it can’t happen unless we first come to our senses. Lent is a time for us to turn around, to look around and see that God, in spite of our great sense of need, has provided us with every good thing. Over the course of a year the race of life can leave us with little time—or perhaps desire—to taste, to see, to feel, to hear, to smell. And yet it is in these things, these senses, that we experience God. The fullness of the spiritual life can be celebrated only when our senses are all fully engaged, when we stop the race, breathe deeply and take in all that God has prepared for those who love. W 3 By Kathy Reese 4 CTK Champions: 7 & 8th grade Girls PHOTOS BY JEANETTE VOGT W ith more than half of the school year completed, things are hopping at Christ the King School. One of the highlights of the winter quarter is Catholic Schools Week, which took place during the last week of January. This year’s theme was Catholic School: Faith, Knowledge, and Service. As always, the week was filled with learning and fun and service projects. The week began on Sunday, January 26 with families serving as greeters and gift bearers at all the Masses. The 8th grade girls made a spectacular banner that was displayed across the choir loft in the church. Every student and teacher signed the banner thanking the parish for its continued support of the school. The banner was visible to everyone as they left the church. Monday and Tuesday focused on service. The classes recognized those who service the area around the school including mail carriers, trash collectors, police officers, and firefighters. Each class selected one group and made cards and cookies for these important people. Beginning on Monday and continuing through the week, students brought in new or gently used books that were donated to Book ‘Em, a Nashville-based organization that collects books to give to children and teenagers who might not have access to books. On Tuesday volunteers who are not parents were recognized at Mass and received a blessing and a St. Vincent de Paul medal from Father Dexter. After Mass students attended a Vocations Panel. The panel was CTK Champions: 7 & 8th grade Boys comprised of Father Dexter, Sister Ann (Dominican), and Sister Naomi (Daughters of Charity), who spoke about religious vocations; Lucia Huskey, who discussed music vocations; and Chis Lopez, who represented married life and youth ministry. In two groups (pre-K through 4th grade and 5th grade through 8th grade) the students brought their questions to the panel. Concerning religious life some of the students wanted to know when the participants knew they had a vocation and if they grew up in a religious family. Wednesday was Teacher Appreciation Day. The faculty and staff were treated to a delicious luncheon pre- pared by the Catholic Schools Week Committee along with the Home and School Association. Volunteers watched over the teachers’ classes so that they could enjoy a leisurely lunch with their associates. After this wonderful repast, the annual faculty/8th grade basketball game was held. The 8th graders wore tee shirts with Class of 2014 and their nicknames written on them. The teachers’ tee shirts disJed DeKalb played the year they were in 8th grade. The referees this year were alumni John Woodman and 4th graders Jack Rohling and Patrick Warner. These two students won this honor by way of a Crown Affair Auction item. Jack was impressed by the performance Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 of the two teams saying that “both teams made amazing shots, and they acted like the shot was just a lay-up.” Asked if he would referee next year, Jack’s reply was a definite “Yes!” The game was great fun, and, by the way, the students won. Thursday was devoted to recognizing the important role of parents. The students could wear their favorite pajamas to school. A portion of the day was spent with the students making cards and gifts for their parents, and as a special gift for the parents (and students), there was no homework Thursday night. Catholic Schools Week concluded on Friday with Student Appreciation Day. This was an out-of-uniform day for the students, and they were treated to popcorn and soda. A special gift was provided by Father Dexter’s friend Jere Matty, who is the STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Mathematics) Outreach Coordinator at Arnold Air Force Base near Tullahoma. Jere brought the Discovery Dome, which is an inflatable combination planetarium/IMEX that stands 25 feet high. Each class experienced exciting displays ranging from the night sky showing planets, stars, and constellations to dinosaurs and much more. All in all, Catholic Schools Week was a huge success. On Tuesday, February 18, the 7th and 8th grade classes attended Catholic Day on the Hill. They toured the Capitol and visited the chambers where the legislature meets and votes. They also met with Tre Hargett, the Secretary of State of Tennessee whose children go to CKS. Ten students participated in a debate on the death penalty covering both sides of the issue. Seventh grader Aisy Nix shared her opinion that “if you keep the death penalty, you are playing God.” When asked what she learned from this venture, Aisy found it interesting that limestone, a natural resource, was used to construct the Capitol. While downtown, the students went to Mass at St. Mary’s Catholic Church. According to Aisy, they were surprised to learn that they would receive Holy Communion kneeling at the altar rail. Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 On the technological horizon, we have an update on the set of iPads that were bought recently. These iPads have seen plenty of use. Pre-K and Kindergarten have been practicing writing letters and sight words. In 1st and 2nd grade, students are working on place values using virtual manipulatives; meanwhile, 3rd graders are using the iPads to work on math facts, taking AR tests, and using the online Thesaurus. Fifth graders are making use of the music app on the iPads, and 6th grade students are solving problems with a chess game. Students in 7th grade researched for their culture fair projects. In the 8th grade students were able to take a virtual tour of the Vatican. Some other new items being implemented in some of the classrooms include a document camera which takes the place of the overhead projector. The document camera can project objects or pages on to a white board. Fourth grade teacher Nicole Heyer’s classroom does not have a smart board, so she uses a mimeo device which attaches to a dry-erase board and makes it interactive like a smart board. In another important area, the Drama Club, under the guidance of Mrs. Wellborn, is working hard on an adapted version of Romeo and Juliet. Students in grades 4 – 8 tried out for the various roles in the play. The following students will be performing these roles: Audrey Heinemann (7th grade) as Juliet, Anna Cate Burke (7th grade) as Romeo, McKenzie Mathew (7th grade) as Lady Capulet, Hayden Zenor (5th grade) as Lord Capulet, and Ellie Bryan (4th grade) as the nurse. A performance is scheduled for Friday evening April 4. And finally, we will end on a congratulatory note. Both 7th and 8th grade basketball teams (boys and girls) won their respective tournaments. The girls’ team, coached by Mark Vance and Bill O’Bryan, were undefeated in the regular season and were tournament champions. The boys’ team, coached by Dan Catignani and Chuck Curran, won 10 out of 12 regular season games and were also tournament champions. What a great season for both teams! Congratulations! W Catholic Schools Week Traditions Faculty posing as students during Catholic Schools Week 5 2nd Grade Service Project By Elizabeth Wehby T his year the 2nd Grade has really been in touch with the parish through their service project. They have been writing letters to the homebound parishioners that are part of the Pastoral Care Ministry. The 2nd Grade teacher, Miss Sarah Osborne, came up with the idea as she was looking through the bulletin over the summer. She wanted to do a service project that would get the students involved with the parish. She talked to the Christ the King Principal, Sherry Woodman, who helped her get in touch with Margaret Emsweller, the head of the Pastoral Care Ministry. Margaret Emsweller told Miss Osborne that she wanted to have students make cards for the parishioners. She visited the 2nd Grade at the beginning of the year and the students gladly dove into their first letters. This service project has helped the 2nd graders with their study of the sacraments. They have learned about the importance of being active members of the Church. Most importantly the students have been able to experience the positive feeling of helping others. They are able to share empathy with people that are not able to be as active in engaging with others as they wish they could be. The 2nd graders write letters about once a month especially around the holidays. Most of the letters include a note with a drawing. The students started writing to the same parishioner every time, but as the Pastoral Care Ministry grew, the students have begun writing to different parishioners. Most importantly the students truly enjoy the service project. They put great effort into their letters, and some of them have even received letters in return. Miss Osborne says that every time she hands students response letters that they have received, their faces light up. This gives the students confidence that what they are doing is really making a difference. Of course the students do not expect letters 6 JEANETTE VOGT Christ the King school 2nd grade class back; they just want the parishioners to know that they are being thought of and prayed for as second grader Caroline M. expressed, “I feel happy that people know we are praying for them and hope they feel better.” Cooper M. added, “I like getting to draw them a picture.” A final thought that sums up the overall feeling of the group was noted by Catherine D. who stated, “I like that we make people feel better.” If you know someone who would enjoy receiving a card from Miss Osborne’s 2nd grade class, please send his or her name and address to sarah.osborne@ctk.org. W Elizabeth Wehby is a 7th grade student at Christ the King school Mardi Gras 2014 BOB TRUE Young and old alike enjoyed the festive atmosphere of Christ the King’s annual Mardis Gras celebration held on March 1st. The tables were decorated in the traditional Mardis Gras colors of yellow, purple and green. Beads and masks adorned every table and the authentic Dixieland band was the hit of the party. Drinks, delicious catfish,sausage stuffed chicken, red beans and rice, jambalaya, salad, bread, gumbo, King cake and an incredible bread pudding made for a truly “Fat Tuesday”. Thanks and gratitude to all the chefs and volunteers who make this annual party one of the best! If you haven’t experienced Mardis Gras at CTK, then mark your 2015 calendar now so you won’t miss out! Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 ROCK Youth Ministry: Building a Foundation By Cris Lopez, Youth Director “What is Apollos, after all, and what is Paul? Ministers through whom you became believers, just as the Lord assigned each one. I planted, Apollos watered, but God caused the growth. Therefore, neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who causes the growth. The one who plants and the one who waters are equal, and each will receive wages in proportion to his labor. For we are God’s co-workers; you are God’s field, God’s building. According to the grace of God given to me, like a wise master builder I laid a foundation, and another is building upon it. But each one must be careful how he builds upon it, for no one can lay a foundation other than the one that is there, namely, Jesus Christ.” 1 Corinthians 3:5-11 I remember when my parents were building their first home and experiencing the anticipation as the foundation was being laid down. It seemed like an eternity that they were simply mapping out the area and then slowly allowing the cement to slowly cure over time. I thought to myself, “If it takes this long just to create the floor it must take forever to build the walls.” However, once the foundation was set the walls came up very quickly and what was once just the floor became our home. I think we are experiencing a similar anticipation in the building of our youth program. We want a home for our youth in this church and are excited about creating one. Unlike a home Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 CRIS LOPEZ Middle school youth group We are God’s coworkers and our youth are our field. It is time to build a strong foundation for others to build upon. that is built for you, our youth program is built from our own hands. We are God’s co-workers and our youth are our field. It is time to build a strong foundation for others to build upon. We have been slowly building a foundation the past 5 months for our youth program. We have seen subtle growth and have expanded youth ministry activities to include middle school teens, yet there is still much work to be done in establishing a good foundation for our youth. We need workers in the field to help us build this foundation. Some of you have a gift for working with teens and sharing your faith. It is important that we communicate the love of Jesus Christ to our teens and it begins with people who are willing to minister to them. Ministering to our teens can take shape in various ways from pro- viding a meal for our youth ministry gatherings, to making phone calls and sending emails, to chaperoning and sharing testimonies. Parents we need your help by encouraging your teens to come to our youth events, and encouraging your teens to bring their friends. It is time to build a home for our youth. How will you help? Middle school youth ministry meets from 12:30pm-2:30pm every Sunday in the ROCK room. High school youth ministry meets from 7:00pm-9:00pm every Sunday in the ROCK room. W To volunteer contact Cris Lopez, cris.lopez@ctk.org or 512-299-5572. For a full calendar of events visit: www.rock.org. 7 Women’s Council Hosts Diocesan Meeting F ebruary 1st found the Christ the King Women’s Council busy preparing for the Nashville Diocesan Council of Catholic Women (NDCCW) annual winter meeting. As host council, Christ the King was responsible for coordinating reservations and registration, provision and preparation of a continental breakfast and a buffet lunch, as well as planning the liturgy for Mass. Women from throughout the diocese as well as Bishop David Choby and Father Kevin Dowling, Spiritual Director for NDCCW, were in attendance. The business meeting, presided over by Diana Miller, a member of CTK Women’s Council and president of the Nashville DCCW, was held after a breakfast of pastries, fruit, coffee and orange juice. Bishop Choby addressed the women on the importance of Amendment One, which will appear on the ballot on No- By Susan Murphy vember 4, 2014. The amendment is designed to give the Legislature the power to enact laws restricting abortion, such as requirements for parental notification and waiting periods. Laws like these have been declared unconstitutional in both federal and state courts. Therefore, a constitutional amendment is the only legal way to enact them. and winter centerpieces, and laid out a buffet of salad, rolls and a chicken and wild rice casseroles prepared by our ladies. Brownies made of three different types of chocolate were prepared by Marjorie Collins, official baker for Christ the King Women’s Council. Guest speaker Hallie Bishop, Adoption Counselor from Catholic Charities Women from throughout the diocese as well as Bishop David Choby and Father Kevin Dowling, Spiritual Director for NDCCW, were in attendance. The business meeting was followed by Mass presided by Father Kevin Dowling. Christ the King women planned the liturgy and participated in the Mass as cantor, lectors, Eucharistic ministers, altar servers and gift bearers. During Mass, volunteers transformed the West Wing with white tablecloths Caring Choices, then gave a presentation titled “Adoption, Not Abortion.” After guests departed, the women of Christ the King put the kitchen and West Wing back in order bringing an end to a very busy day that was enjoyed by women from all over the Diocese of Nashville. W Sweet Sounds at Songwriters’ Night The sounds of Music City filled our gym when some of Nashville’s most famous songwriters performed on our stage to benefit CKS Children’s Tuition Assistance Fund. Natalie Hemby, D. Vincent Williams, Alicia Michilli and our very own, Rhonda Formby entertained a crowd of about 200 parishioners. Father Dexter and his teacher, Stefan played the finale. The event netted just over $30,000 which gave us a good start toward our goal of $90,000 this year. Special thanks to the songwriters who donated their time and their talent. Also, special thanks to Jerry Wigger, our Master of Ceremonies. — Valerie Cooper Songwriter’s Night Chair 8 Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 Women’s Council Winter Retreat T By Patty Carroll Farmer he annual Winter Retreat sponsored by Christ the King Women’s Council was held on Saturday morning, January 25th, following 8:30 Mass. Approximately 50 women gathered in the Parish Hall for breakfast and spiritual guidance. Parishioner Robin M. Jensen was our speaker. Robin is a Luce Chancellor’s Professor of the History of Christian Art and Worship at Vanderbilt University where she teaches courses in both the Department of the History of Art and the Divinity School. Robin led us through a slide show presentation exploring the imagery in our beautiful stained glass windows in the church nave and along the choir loft. Robin provided the biblical reference for each window and pointed out the historical and spiritual symbols employed by the artist(s). Similar images or details found in classical paintings and sculpture, architecture and Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 history may have served as inspiration in the designs. Robin noted the many recurring symbols in the windows. One such image is the fleur de lis which appears in every window in the church. The fleur de lis is a French symbol for royalty referencing Christ the King, but it is also a Trinitarian symbol based on the three petals of the lily. Another recurring image is the phoenix. It is traditionally used as a symbol for the Resurrection, having risen from its ashes to live again. One is featured in the Resurrection window in the church nave and another is inside the crown over the crucifix. By sharing her knowledge and insights, Robin has gifted us with a deeper understanding of the symbolism and artistry in our stained glass windows and has transform them from decorative features to true religious symbols to ponder and inspire. W 9 Father Jerry brings his life experiences to the priesthood By Valerie Cooper F ather Jerry Strange has joined Christ the King as a “Priest in Residence” while also serving as Special Assistant to the Bishop. He is with us on a four month assignment and is working on some varied and vital projects for the diocese. Ordained less than three years ago, Fr. Jerry considered the priesthood from an early age but his path initially took a different turn. He married, became a father and a music teacher in the public school system in Nelson County, Kentucky. However, twenty years later and no longer married, the call came again loud and clear during a prayer. Two vocational directors in two different dioceses in Kentucky cautioned that he should wait. But God kept calling and he followed that call to Nashville where he met with Stephen Wolff (vocational director at the time). It seemed that God wanted him to be a priest here. Growing up, his mother prayed the rosary everyday with her children, three boys and two adopted girls. His father, a Korean war veteran and Kentucky National Guard Warrant Officer, never went to church until one day his brother announced “I want to stay home and watch cartoons with Dad”. Since that day, he became a regular at Mass and he converted to Catholicism soon after. Fr. Jerry is amazed at the power that children have on our faith and feels a great responsibility toward them by giving them the faithful tools to form their minds early. Catholic education and youth ministry are his passion. “We are losing our youth. Christ the King is fortunate to have an average age of 35 but many parishes are growing old. We must engage our youth— not with words but with our actions.” Youth ministry has a need of qualified leaders with solid educational backgrounds. These ministers must be 10 “alive with the Spirit and know their faith. We must challenge the thought of our youth. Kids will ascend to the expectations we provide. Organizations such as FIAT and Fraternus are good examples that help with youth formation. You really only have to reach some kids. They in turn teach each other and derive their strength from each other.” Fr. Jerry began his career as a professional musician before turning to teaching. He came to believe that it is the psychology of music and its therapeutic effect on those to hear it that is its greatest gift. “Music expresses what we can’t express. That is why it is so important to our liturgy.” He studied liturgy during college and has an advanced degree in liturgy. His new challenge is “Special Assistant to the Bishop” due in part to his Master’s Degree in Liturgical Studies from the Liturgical Institute at Mundelein, Il. He will be advising on the liturgical architecture of some of the new buildings yet to be constructed in the diocese. “The buildings themselves can manifest God even without art with their columns, their windows etc.” He is also working on two ori- entation handbooks—one for new priests and one for new pastors. “The seminary does not teach priests how to be pastors of a parish. Such things as risk management, insurance, schools etc. are completely foreign yet a pastor has responsibility for them. A pastor ultimately needs to be a good delegator. It is his hope that the handbooks will offer our new priests some guidance in these areas. He loves to teach us in his homilies and is amazed by the work of the Spirit. “People sometimes approach me after Mass to thank me for something I said. Then I realize that I did not actually say that at all. But that was what they heard – or what the Spirit thought they needed to hear.” Father Jerry’s fondest memory is of his ordination at Cathedral of the Incarnation in May, 2011. He was blessed to have his entire family there together —“the only time ever or since,” and it brought him special joy on that blessed day. His gratitude for his new vocation and his devotion to our youth becomes apparent when you talk to him. But there is still another new chapter in his life—his first grandson, just 5 weeks old. W Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 Another Successful Boots & BBQ By Michelle Barber A great time was had by all 330 parents, parishioners and friends at last month’s annual A Crown Affair Boots & BBQ where everyone was encouraged to sport their favorite western boots. We “kicked off” the evening with a lovely Patron’s Party, the largest attendance ever for the event. After a spirited live auction and a bite of delicious barbecue, everyone two stepped onto the dance floor for a bit of boot scootin’ to the live music provided by local band, Next Of Kin. We met our fundraising goal of $45,000.00. A big CKS Raider thank you to all in attendance, our leadership team, and sponsors: Committee Members Co-Chairs: Caitlin O’Connell, Beth Long, Mary Hobeika PR/Graphic Design:Suzanne Lynch Auction: Marnie Heinemann, Christy Cullison, Shannon Keisling Patron Party/Entertainment: Elaine Bryan, Carmen Smith, Stacie Timmons Registration: Margaret Pyburn, Tammy Gober Check-out: Karen Zenor Decorations: Trina Estepp, Cydney Numnum Catering/Food: Kate Dumas, Christy Frakes Fulfillment: Virginia Deckbar Logistics: Kim Hulse Beverages: Terri Francescon, Jennifer Halloran Classroom Art Projects: Gretchen Darr Event Sponsors Title Bryan & Myers, Inc. Contractors Worcester & Elaine Bryan Platinum Barbara and Mike Barrett Donnelly Timmons Construction Dustin & Stacie Timmons Edley’s BBQ, Catherine and Will Newman Jeff Estepp LLC, Jeff & Trina Estepp Rehab Resources and Consulting, D News From Our Haiti Twin Parishes By Dave Kuhlman Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014 uring Pere Dorcin’s visit to Christ the King last fall, we took up a special collection after all weekend Masses to benefit his project to construct a rectory for the parish at Pilette. Thanks to your generosity, we were able to send him $8,560! He tells us that this has enabled him to start construction on the second floor of the building. His short term goal is to be able to move in to rooms on the first floor even before the entire rectory is complete. This will enable him to stay in Pilette and avoid a dangerous trip to Cap Haitian where he is currently living. In January, we were able to send Pere Jutsley at Roche-Plate and Pere Dorcin at Pilette $4,669 each. This money is from the envelope collection. Every Ellen Rueff Strunk Vandenbergh Insurance, David & Heather Vandenbergh Gold Daniel Catignani David and Caitlin O’Connell HearCare Sammi Grello & Michael Kaye Michael & Cydney Numnum Omar & Mary Hobeika Muse Boutique and Algeria Mexican Restaurant & Tequila Bar, George & Sabrina Haddad NovaCopy Sunrise Contracting, Brett & Connie Wesnofske Silver Brackman Land Surveying, David & Sallie Brackman Christ the King Women’s Council Corner Pub, Jeremy & Krisi Palmer Deckbar Real Estate, Rick & Virginia Deckbar Knights of Columbus St. Cecilia Academy other month, there is a special envelope in our packets designated for our Twin Parishes. We have asked the two pastors to use the bulk of this money for Catholic education in each parish. Thanks, again, for your generosity. In case you missed the announcement, Pope Francis appointed Haiti’s first cardinal in early January of this year. He selected Bishop Chibly Langlois of Les Cayes. Cardinal-designate Langlois is currently the president of the Haitian Bishop’s Council and was formerly the Bishop of the Fort Liberte Diocese where our Twin Parishes are located. In appointing Haiti’s first Cardinal, Pope Francis continues to emphasize the Church’s concern for the poor and underprivileged. W 11 December 2013 -April 2014 WEDDINGS Gregory Michael Kane and Suzanne Frances Dunning BAPTISMS Ryker Mobley Brice Donald Ashworth Cox III Geoffrey Lloyd Dennie Margaret Parkes Formosa Alicia Lynne Nickols Gilliam Brandon Scott Gilliam Jackson Wilder Gould Emily Charlotte Hinson Lisa Marie Howington Peter and Angie Brown Greg and Meredith Schiefer Marty and Kristy Vaughn John and Louise Bryan Erin Schroeder Matt and Tricia Wall Wil and Lauren Caldwell Michael and Linda Sherman Will and Mary Warren Gordon and Pamela Chenery Whitney Slovick Joe and Pat Waters Kate Daniels Courtney Smith Arlyn and Grace Wernke Liz Diekman Maggie Smith Chase and Monica Wright Hank and Deirdre Fuerst Matthew Tidwell Steve and Lindsay Wright Marilyn Gautreau Rick and Courtney travis Matt and Lori Zakrewski Mike and Debra Geiger Lauren Golen Jason and Shannon Hall Rand and Trish Hastings Steve and Whitney Hegedus Lucy Elizabeth Jennings Christina Hickey Sarah Christine Riggan Sam Higinbotham Chester Archie Russell Jimmy and Michelle Hiller Peter Aloysius Sechrist Madalene Houchin Conrad Burkhalter Smith Megan Jenkins Finnian Thomas Solinsky Ann Velma Johnson Brennan Virginia Williams Eric and Carina Jolly Josephine Ruth Zemba Nick Leonard NEW PARISHIONERS Mark Matson Matthew McDowell Patrick and Carla McNally Bill and Marisa Adair Adam and Andrea Melia Armond Agassi Jean Mezera Linda Bodfish Katherine Osborne Jessica Bowman Cristin Quinn Katie Boyd Amanda Rohwedder Kenneth and Sara Brice Don and Susan Roy 12 Volume 16, Issue 2, Spring 2014 Published at Christ The King Catholic Church 3001 Belmont Blvd., Nashville, TN 37212 Parish Office 615.292.2884, ext. 300 Pastor Father Dexter Brewer Editor Joan Rotert Art Director Suzanne Lynch Contributors Michelle Barber Valerie Cooper Patty Carroll Farmer Carolyn Goddard Dave Kuhlman Cris Lopez Susan Murphy Kathy Reece Nancy Rohling Jeanette Neuhoff Vogt Elizabeth Wehby The Cloister is a community publication and we welcome any news or stories that Christ the King parishioners would like to contribute. Writers for assignments are also always needed. Please contact Joan Rotert with your news, photos or interest in being a contributor at jbrotert@comcast.net. Volume 16, Issue 2 l Spring 2014