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What All Parents Need to Know Wakefield Teens Health Health and and Safety 2014 INSIDE: Superintendent Letter E-Cigs • Sun Safety Marijuana Trends & Signs Social Host Liability • HEALTHY EATING Resource Guide • Prescription Drugs 2WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 W Wakefield Youth Health and Safety ake-Up (Wakefield Unified Prevention Coalition), along with the Town of Wakefield, Wakefield Public Schools, Wakefield Police Department, Mass in Motion Melrose/ Wakefield and The Wakefield Item partnered to create the first annual Wakefield Youth Health & Safety guide. The goal is to provide parents with useful health & safety information, tips and resources, concentrating on topics such as alcohol, tobacco, and drug use pre- vention, healthy eating and active living, bullying, cybersafety, etc. Parents play a large role influencing their teen’s decisions. Research demonstrates that youth who clearly per ceive parental disapproval of risky behavior are more likely to avoid or delay that risky behavior. We want parents to understand truths and myths of underage drinking and growing dangerous trends such as use of e-cigarettes. It is also crucial that parents are informed about their legal role when it comes to underage drinking. Social Host Liability Laws are written and enforced to protect parents and youth. Fortunately the Town of Wakefield has many resources to help keep our youth safe and provide them with help when it is needed. We are proud that many area businesses and organizations have contributed to the production of this guide. 100% of the proceeds of this guide will go to support programs that provide healthy alternatives for Wakefield youth; information about applying for this funding will be available in early May. Parents are welcome to get involved and become part of the solution, for more information, please contact Catherine Dhingra, Wakefield Health De partment (339) 219-4034 cdhingra@wakefield.ma.us or Kara Showers, MelroseWakefield Mass in Motion (781) 979-4123 kshowers@ cityofmelrose.org Wakefield Daily Item ESTABLISHED 1894 ~ PUBLISHED MONDAY-FRIDAY 26 Albion Street, Wakefield, Massachusetts 01880 Published by: THE WAKEFIELD ITEM CO., PRINTERS AND PUBLISHERS, WAKEFIELD, MA 01880 P - (781) 245-0080 • F - (781) 246-0061 Advertising Director - Joseph Morrissey Ads@Wakefielditem.com Circulation Director - Tom Tine Circulation@wakefielditem.com News - Gail Lowe glowe@wakefielditem.com www.localheadlinenews.com Proud Sponsor of Wakefield Youth WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 Letter from the Superintendent T he Wakefield Public Schools is committed to supporting a healthy Wakefield! We know that learning cannot occur without nurturing the physical, emotional and social well being of our students. Naturally, academics are at the core of our work, but we must not ignore the pressure, stress and temptations that our children face in and outside of our schools. We have taken a number of steps to provide additional resources to address these concernsadjustment counselors at the middle school, establishing the role of a system-wide Health, Wellness and Athletics Director and actively seeking funds/partnerships to provide counseling at the elementary level. We are also reexamining the role of our district-wide crisis team and exploring the development of a safety team to educate our system on best practices. We have also worked with Parent 3 Partnership to host speakers and presenters that can educate all of us on the challenges faced by our children. In order to optimally support the needs of our students we know we need community collaboration. More than ever, we need the partnership of our town leaders, law enforcement and health agencies to ensure that our children grow and develop into productive citizens of Wakefield. Thus, we are thrilled to be a part of the Wakefield Youth Health & Safety Guide. We are fortunate to have so many engaged families who crave information about best supporting their children. This resource is practical and relevant, intended to guide parents as they work with their children to- remain alcohol, tobacco and drug free; eat healthy; remain active and conduct themselves with character and integrity. We are grateful to the businesses and organizations that have participated in the creation of this valuable resource. It speaks volumes about Wakefield’s commitment to the next generation! With appreciation, Stephen Zrike 4WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 Want to protect your teen from smoking? Don’t forget to talk about E-cigarettes! Here is what parents need to know about E-Cigs and E-Hookah An electronic cigarette (e-cig) is a cylinder shaped metal and plastic tube attached to or containing a cartridge of liquid nicotine. When activated, a battery heats the liquid nicotine, creating a vapor which is then inhaled. Rather than ingesting nicotine through “smoking” a combustible cigarette, a user “vapes” the vaporized liquid nicotine. l E-cig use among teens is sky rocketing l Most kids who use e-cigs do not smoke cigarettes l E-cigs contain nicotine which makes them highly addictive. We don’t know what else they contain! l E-cigs and e-hookah are not regulated by the FDA l E-cigs come in fruit and candy flavors so they are especially appealing to kids l Advertising of e-cigs is unregulated — slick, racy and cartoon-type ads are appearing on TV and in the media l Wakefield has banned the sale of e-cigs to anyone under 21. There is a bill pending in the State Legislature to ban the sale to minors statewide. Now that you have the facts, talk to your teenager about this. Find out their perceptions and remind them of your household rules. Contact Maureen Buzby, Mystic Valley Tobacco Alcohol Program, 781.979.4158, mbuzby@cityofmelrose.org for more information. Dedicated to tomorrow’s Wakefield Today WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 5 6WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 T Everyday steps to sun safety eenagers are under pressure to conform in many ways. Tanning can be one of those expectations. Help your child understand that tanning is unsafe. Teach teenagers about self-tanners, keep the sunscreen bottle in view, make sure the bottle is included in their outdoor sports bags, etc. To lower your family’s skin cancer risk: l Use sunscreen daily with an SPF of 15 or higher and both UVA and UVB protection l Avoid tanning and UV tanning booths l Cover up with clothing, including wide-brim hats and UVA and UVB-blocking sunglasses For more information, visit www.skincancer.org, www.cdc. gov/chooseyourcover, http://mfne.org/ WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 Marijuana Trends & Signs: What Parents Need to Know 5 • 37% of Wakefield High students reported having used marijuana in their lifetime (2011 YRBS) • Today’s marijuana is 300% to 800% stronger than in the past. The national average of marijuana’s THC content in 1978 was 1.37%, in 1998 4.43%, and in 2012 12.3%. • THC stays in brain (primarily fat) for a very long time. Half life of 50% every 7 years Effects: l Can be mood altering, can cause paranoia l Alters sensorial perception l Lack of motivation and lazy attitude l Chronic fatigue l Negatively impacts the brain’s ability to store and retrieve of information Signs of Use: l You find eyedrops in your teens clothes or in the wash. l You find bongs, pipes, or rolling papers. l Your teen uses a lot of incense, mouth wash, and air fresheners. l Small burns or yellow stains on the thumb and index finger caused by marijuana residue. l Sudden drop in academic performance. Your teen went from A’s and B’s to C’s and D’s. l Your teen seems dizzy, has red blood shot eyes, and dilated (large) pupils It’s not worth it 8WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 Social Host What is Social Host Liability? It means that you can be held financially responsible if your child or underage guest injures or kills another person after your child or guest drinks alcohol in your home or other property you control. What will it COST you? 1) Can I be sued if my child or teenage guest at my home drinks alcohol and harms another person? YES. Under the principle of social host liability, you can be held financially responsible if your guest harms or kills another person after having consumed alcohol at your home. 2) Why should I be liable for the criminal or negligent acts of my guests? If your guest was under age 21 and you allowed him/her to consume alcohol, you committed a crime. Violation of a criminal statute is powerful evidence that you were negligent (failed to do what is required, careless) 3) If your child’s friends drink in your home when you are not there… Your child may be charged criminally for allowing minors to drink alcohol at your home. If you do not give permission to your child to allow drinking at your home, you might not be civilly liable. Even if you claim that you did not know your child’s guests would be drinking, it may still be up to a jury to decide whether you are civilly liable. 4) If my guest caused the injury and we both get sued, why should I have to pay? If an underage guest who drinks alcohol at your home injures or kills someone, you and that guest could be sued and found liable. You could be forced to pay the entire judgement if the underage guest cannot afford to pay. Recent judgements in these cases have been over $1,000,000. Social Host WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 st Liability . . . whoever furnishes alcohol for a person under 21 years of age shall be punished by: l Fine of up to $2,000 l Imprisonment for up to a year; l Or BOTH It’s not worth it The law in Massachusetts is clear . . . “Furnish” shall mean to knowingly or intentionally l Supply l Give l Provide to; or l Allow to possess alcoholic beverages on premises or property owned or controlled by the person charged. Frequently Asked Questions Does the Social Host Law apply to people who are not yet 21 years of age? Yes. The Massachusetts Court of Appeals has ruled that “whoever” means exactly that- the law applies to everyone. What should I do if one of my child’s underage friends brings alcohol into my home and starts drinking? Call the child’s parents and/or call the police. Can I avoid liability by renting a hotel room for my daughter’s prom or graduation party? NO. Since you control the hotel room, the Social Host Law applies. Will my homeowner’s policy cover the costs of litigation and any judgement against me or my child? Probably Not. If you are charged criminally, your policy will not apply. If it does apply, the limits of your policy will likely be too small to cover the legal fees and substantial damages awarded for death or catastrophic injury. Information prepared by: Richard P. Campbell, Campbell Campbell Edwards & Conroy, Professional Corporation One Constitution Center, Boston, MA 02120-2025 (617)241 www.campbell-trial-lawyers.com st Liability 9 10WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 Underage Drinking: Myth vs. Reality Myth: Underage drinking? Not MY child. Reality: In recent national student surveys, the trend of underage drinking decreasing is reversing. Alcohol use amongst 9th to 12th graders is increasing. Do not be afraid to approach your child if you suspect they are drinking. Myth: Only "troubled" kids drink. Reality: Yes, youth who are under extreme pressure from the challenges of life are likely to experiment with alcohol. But on the other hand youth who are or may seem "well adjusted" are also drinking and heavily Youth troubled or not are constantly facing various problems everyday such as: peer pressure, pressure to do wel1 in school, etc. With that being said be sure to make sure your child knows that you are there to help them not only when they are under pressure but also if they simply need to talk because alcohol is not going to help them. Myth: Underage drinking can't be that bad...I did it and I turned out just fine! Reality: You may have dabbled in underage drinking but think about this: do you really want your child to make the mistakes that you once made? Keep in mind underage alcohol use can delay the development of your child's brain. Myth: If I forbid my child to drink they probably will only want to drink more. So should I even bother? Reality: The answer is YES! Do NOT underestimate the influence you have on your child. But also do NOT be afraid to be forward with your child. Tell them why you don't want them to drink and how underage drinking can affect their lives. Myth: My child is drinking now but soon they'd grow out of it. Reality: If your child is drinking now do NOT assume that they will just "grow out of it". Children that have early drinking habits in middle and high school usually increase their alcohol intake in college. Half of males and a third of females who drink heavily as adolescents are still drinking heavily at 30. Myth: My child is going to be annoyed when I talk to them about drinking. Reality: When talking to your child let them speak as much as you do and show them that you want to know their feelings and don't be discouraged by their facial expressions and body language. For more information visit: www.theantidrug.com WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 Eat Better. Move More. T hink you have to give up all your favorite foods to eat better? Think you have to join a gym and work out for hours every day to be healthier? You don’t! You just need to make a few simple changes, like parking further away and drinking an extra glass of water a day. Yes, it is that easy! · Replace one snack a day with low fat or fat free dairy, mini carrots with hummus or fresh fruit. · Replace one drink a day with water or skim or 1% milk. · Keep on moving! Tossing a ball around the yard or at a park, walk the family dog together or pull weeds or plant veggies in the garden. For more ideas, visit www.mass.gov/massinmotion, www.MiMmelrosewakefield.com Every day, there are more healthy food and drink options available for Melrose and Wakefield families. These small businesses are voluntarily promoting healthy menu items and products. Please visit and support them. Healthy Dining Eateries Healthy Markets Boston Yogurt, 963 Main St, Wakefield 7-‐Eleven, 193 Albion St, Wakefield Cappa’s Trackside Kitchen, 1 Grove St, Melrose Bob’s Market, 163 West Wyoming Ave, Melrose Dockside, 1099 Main St, Wakefield Carousel Variety, 436A Water St, Wakefield Laurie’s 9:09 Gastro-‐Diner, 33 Tuttle St, Wakefield Common Market, 301 East Foster St, Melrose Petrone’s Pizza, 438 Main St, Melrose Fast Freddie’s, 950 Main St, Wakefield Phuket, 21 Princess St, Wakefield Melrose Shell, 860 Main St, Melrose Tooba’s Café, 35 Essex St, Melrose Wakefield Sunoco, 493 Salem St, Wakefield West Wyoming Market, 49 West Wyoming St, Melrose 11 12WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 Be Aware of What Your Kids are Doing Online Talk with your kids about cyberbullying and other online issues regularly. • Know the sites your kids visit and their online activities. Ask where they’re going, what they’re doing, and who they’re doing it with. • Tell your kids that as a responsible parent you may review their online communications if you think there is reason for concern. • Have a sense of what they do online and in texts. Learn about the sites they like. Try out the devices they use. • Ask for their passwords, but tell them you’ll only use them in case of emergency. • Ask to “friend” or “follow” your kids on social media sites or ask an- other trusted adult to do so. • Encourage your kids to tell you immediately if they, or someone they know, is being cyberbullied. Explain that you will not take away their computers or cell phones if they confide in you about a problem they are having. Sponsored by: WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 13 14WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 Resource Guide Mental Health Services Riverside Outpatient Center, Wakefield 781-246-2010 www.riversidecc.org Hallmark Health Community Counseling Services, Melrose, Medford, Malden 781-979-3315 http://www.hallmarkhealth.org/BehavioralHealth/Psychiatric-Services.html Arbour Counseling, Woburn, Malden 781-322-1503 www.arbourhealth.com/counseling.htm Psychological Care Associates, Stoneham 781-646-0500 www.psychologicalcareassociates.org Substance Abuse Prevention/Treatment WAKE-UP, Wakefield 781-246-6375 http://www.wakefield.ma.us/public_ documents/wakefieldma_health/SAPC Riverside Outpatient Center, Wakefield 781-246-2010 www.riversidecc.org Substance Abuse State Hotline 1-800-327-5050 MA Substance Abuse Education and Information Helpline http://www.helpline-online.com Mental Health Groups Hallmark Health Melrose/Wakefield Hospital 781-979-3000 WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 Arbor Counseling Services, Woburn North Shore Medical Center 781-581-9200 Lawrence Memorial Hospital Behavioral Health Services, Medford 781-306-6000 Community Counseling Services Lawrence Memorial Hospital, Medford 781-338-7270 15 Suicide Prevention Samaritans http://www.samaritanshope.org/index.php Samaritans statewide toll free: 877-870-4673 Samariteens: 800-252-8336 24hr helplines: 617-247-0220 Local Support Groups Al-Anon Family Groups of MA Church basement at St. Athanasius Church 300 Haverhill Street, Reading Meetings every Wednesday night from 7:30 to 8:45 PM, 508-366-0556 or ldcofma@aol.com Families Anonymous, Medford 800-736-9805 www.familiesanonymous.org Parents Helping Parents, Parents Anonymous, and Parental Stress Line 800-632-8188 www.parentshelpingparents.org Health and Wellness Mass in Motion, Melrose/Wakefield 781-979-4123 http://mimmelrosewakefield.com Wakefield Police Department http://wakefieldpd.virtualtownhall.net Anonymous tip line: 339-219-INFO (4636) Burbank YMCA, Reading http://www.ymcaboston.org/burbank Melrose Family YMCA, Melrose http://ymcametronorth.org/locations/melrose Respond, Inc. www.respondinc.org Ph: 617-625-5996, 24hr: 617-623-5900 Boys and Girls Club of Stoneham, Wakefield 781-438-6770 http://www.bgcstoneham.org/wakefield.aspx Wakefield Alliance Against Violence http://www.waavonline.org/ Wakefield Recreation Department, Wakefield 781-246-6389 http://wakefieldrec.net Violence/Bullying/Suicide 16WAKEFIELD TEENS HEALTH & SAFETY 2014 PRSRT STD US POSTAGE PAID WAKEFIELD MA PERMIT NO. 3 Nonmedical use of prescription and over-the-counter medicines remains a significant part of the teen drug problem. According to the 2012 Monitoring the Future survey, about 50 percent of high school seniors said that opioid drugs other than heroin (e.g., Percoset, Vicodin) would be fairly or very easy to get. So, what’s in your medicine cabinet? KNOW THE FACTS: WHAT CAN YOU DO: Prescription drug abuse can lead to serious medical Secure all of your medication problems, addiction, and even death. Please dispose of unused prescription drugs 24/7 at Despite what many people believe, misusWakefield Public Safety Building ing prescription drugs is NOT safer than 1 Union St. Wakefield, MA 781-246-6321 misusing illegal drugs. Rx medications can have dangerous short- and long-term health consequences when used incorrectly or by someone they were not preMonitor your child’s prescription for scribed to. ADHD medication or other drugs Most teens and young adults obtain prescription drugs they abuse from friends and relatives, sometimes without their knowledge (i.e. parents & grandparents) The most commonly abused prescription drugs are opiate painkillers (such as Percocet, OxyContin, and Vicodin), sedatives used to treat anxiety (such as Xanax, Klonipin, and Valium), and stimulants commonly prescribed to treat ADHD (such as Adderall, Ritalin, and Concerta) Start talking to your children NOW about the dangers of prescription drug abuse; children are beginning to experiment with prescription medications as early as 6th grade