Tifereth Israelight
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Tifereth Israelight
Av/Elul 5776/Tishrei/Cheshvan 5777 Sept/Oct/Nov 2016 The Rabbi’s Study TIFERETH ISRAEL CONGREGATION Raphael J. Kanter, Rabbi Nathaniel Schudrich, Cantor Kenneth A. Turkewitz, Executive Director Melynda Schudrich, Education Director Cheryl Zeoli, President The Greek conqueror Alexander the Great went to the sages of Israel to request the secret of life. Their answer was simple and to the point. Imagine that every moment you live is your last. It is a profound insight. Every moment is holy because every moment can be made special to be cherished and sanctified. EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Elizabeth Ackerman, Vice President Macy Korolnek, Vice President Eve Sky, Vice President Stan Sherman, Treasurer Susan Levin, Financial Secretary Pamela Lewis, Recording Secretary There is a popular saying “the past is history; the future is a mystery.” Today is a gift, that is why it is called the present. That is what the sages of Israel taught Alexander the Great. Hold onto every moment. Don’t miss that child's first step, the moment the child takes off on a bicycle, the first hit at the baseball game, their first Hebrew word, or that first moment of uttering the words “Shema Yisrael**.”. It is there. and then it is gone. Nothing lasts forever. We must fight to remain balanced and relaxed as time passes. As we age, we try to maintain dignity and grow in wisdom, even as our physical selves change and age. In the process we must prepare another generation for its responsibility. The wonderful Rabbi Avi Weiss wrote, "the greatest test of success can be seen in how well we foster transition of responsibility and control to the next generation.” It is the paradoxical teaching to hold with open arms. We must teach and prepare a new generation, and let them take over. That too is the teaching of the sages. CONTACT INFORMATION Telephone: (508) 997-3171 Fax: (508) 997-3173 Website: www.tinewbedford.org Rabbi Raphael J. Kanter rkanter@tinewbedford.org Cantor Nathaniel Schudrich nschudrich@tinewbedford.org Cheryl Zeoli cherylz59@comcast.net Kenneth A. Turkewitz kturkewitz@tinewbedford.org Melynda Schudrich mschudrich@tinewbedford.org We must appreciate the beauty of the moment and know that it is fleeting. It is a gift on loan from God. There is a prayer in the musaf service of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur called Hayom. Today may we be strengthened, today let us be blessed. Eight times it repeats the word Hayom—today. Today captures that understanding of living in the moment, appreciating it, and knowing that it is a gift from God. We don't own it. It is simply given to us on loan and for that we must be grateful. Carol Raposa-Farias cfarias@tinewbedford.org Carol Saltzman csaltzman@tinewbedford.org We want your Ar cle The next Tifereth Israelight is the Dec/Jan/Feb edition. If you have any material for inclusion, please make sure we receive it by October 27. Thank you. My colleague Rabbi Weiss tells the following description of his Hayom moment: "My Hayom moment for this year found me sitting with my wonderful siblings around my father’s bed as he passed from this world. Breathing heavily in those final days, saying our names individually, he mouthed with deep emotion what I believe were his final words: I love you. Even as we held him tight he was slipping away. And when I saw my father just a moment after he died, I broke out in uncontrollable tears—I did not want to let him go. It had taken me weeks to live the message of embracing with open arms—of holding on to the moment while also recognizing that as Abba died, he was "placed in God’s trust." Rabbi Weiss reminds us that the greatest teaching of the high holidays is the one that heightens our sensitivity to the present while appreciating its fleeting nature. The Tifereth Israelight is published 4 times yearly by Tifereth Israel Congregation 145 Brownell Avenue New Bedford, MA 02740-1654 (508) 997-3171 The Tifereth Israelight is informational and does not contain time sensitive material. Advertising is available. To find out more about placing your ad in the Tifereth Israelight, contact Ken Turkewitz in the Synagogue office. (The Rabbi’s Study continues on page 6) -2- State of the President Notes ...from the Cantor Have I got a committee for you! I am very excited to be Tifereth Israel’s new president. The past presidents have done a fantastic job, and I want to continue the trend. I NEED YOU! I have always been taken with the importance of light in Judaism. We begin the formal part of our Shacharit services with a blessing about light, and continue with a blessing thanking G-d for the Torah, which is our spiritual source of light. Shabbat, the most important day of the week, is surrounded by light. We welcome Shabbat with the lighting of candles and bid Shabbat farewell with the lighting of the Havdalah candle. I am very proud to be Jewish, and basically, that is why I accepted this presidency. I want our synagogue to flourish more. We offer a lot of different things, such as Friday night beach services (what a peaceful way to usher in Shabbat). The Rabbi has held joint classes with the church in Mattapoissett, and is continuing them this fall. Plus Adult Ed classes for everyone. We also offer well known speakers. And if you never had a Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremony, the Cantor has a class for that, too. There is so much that TI offers. But we need you to help it all be a success. We are the Chosen People; we all know that comes with a “price”. There is so much in the world that needs our help, but our synagogue could use it, too. I have been working on encouraging people to join some of our committees, and have been told more than once that I am relentless and could be like a pit bull, never giving up (no offense to pit bulls), but it’s only because I like TI. It is a big part of my life, and I want it to continue to thrive. In Judaism, light is portrayed and used in its physical and spiritual sense. With this in mind, I challenge the members of Tifereth Israel Congregation to begin doing a new mitzvah on a regular basis and bring Jewish light into your homes. Following are a list of possible suggestions. I have material available to teach you how to do any of the following mitzvot:. • • • • • If you’ve never been on a committee before or if it’s been a while, think about joining one * or two. We have many to choose from. From the Beautification Committee (if you have an artistic side), to Programming, to Investment, there is a committee for you at TI. The satisfaction of knowing you did something to help our community is well worth the time. • • • Light Shabbat candles on Friday night Make Havdalah at the end of Shabbat Bless your children on Friday evening Make Kiddush and Motzi at your Friday evening meal Have a Friday evening meal together with family and friends Say Grace After Meals Learn to lead a weekday service Say Shema before you go to sleep There is one other mitzvah that I would like to suggest; one for which I need your help. I am speaking of chanting from the Torah or chanting a Haftarah. Over the years, several people with these skills have moved from our community. I am looking for people who would like to learn the ancient art of chanting from the Tanach. I would like to build a group of individuals who will be able to chant from the Torah when I am away. I would also like to increase the number of individuals who can chant a Haftarah. If you have these abilities or would like to learn them, please contact me. It’s not as difficult a process as you might imagine. I am very enthusiastic about the next two years. I want to have many successful events. AND yes, that can only happen with your help. We can all work together to achieve this dream. Please either call the office (508-997-3171) or email me at Cherylz59@comcast.net and we can help you find the right committee. I look forward to seeing us succeed as a flourishing community. Nothing would make me happier than to sit with you and teach one of the above mentioned skills. I look forward to hearing from each of you! Dani and I wish you all a Happy and Healthy New Year. Always a time for good news! Simmon Tov u'Mazal Tov!! We'd love to share your simcha with the congregation ~ your news is very welcome! -3- Educationally Speaking From the Executive Director’s Desk School is just about ready to begin, and I begin my third year as the Educational Director at the Ziskind School of Judaism. It has been wonderful for me to teach and work in such a caring and warm community. I really feel that the families here have a strong connection. One of my roles in overseeing operations for Tifereth Israel is the care and maintenance of our building. Being in a 50-year old building means that there are many items that need to be taken care of, both on an ongoing basis, and as one-time projects. With that in mind, I’d like to update the congregation on some of the recent and near-term work going on in the building. We have some new activities planned for this year. One of our themes is Kesher— building bonds with our families. First is our Chevrah Potluck Shabbat. (Chevrah is a close-knit group.) The classes will get together for a Friday night Shabbat meal at a classmate's home; each family will bring a potluck item. My goal is that through sharing food and talk, these families will form a bond that will grow as their children continue to grow at the Ziskind School. This idea was suggested by one of our new Tifereth Israel families. I thought it was a wonderful idea and am so happy we are able to implement it. I am looking forward to being with the families in this informal and inviting setting. As Stan Sherman had reported, we planned to transform a room in the Sanctuary balcony into a new classroom (which can also double as an extra meeting room). This was necessitated by the rental of our school wing over the last few years to Our Sisters School. Our Ziskind School of Judaism has been squeezed for space over these last years, and this new classroom will help alleviate that problem. The room, previously used primarily as a document storage room, has now been cleaned out, and as of this writing, floor washing, wall painting, and the placement of a room-sized rug are imminent. Also in the works is the creation of an extension to raise the height of the balcony railing, and the purchase of classroom furnishings. Our goal is to have this room ready for use before the start of the new school year. The second activity involves our sixth and seventh grade students. Not only are they busy preparing for their B’Nai Mitzvah, but they also will be volunteering in the community. Once a month, they will be going to the New Bedford Jewish Convalescent Home and Gifts to Give. At the convalescent home, the students will be engaging in activities with the residents there. Whether it is creating a Jewish holiday art project or reading to the resident, they will be bringing joy. At Gifts to Give, the students will learn what it is like to give back to the community. In the past, we have helped clean the toys and check items to make sure they work and all the game pieces are there. We will also be collecting items to donate. Gifts to Give is a beautiful asset to our community. It helps families in need, not just with clothes, but also books and toys for every child. There is even a birthday project where each child receives a new age-appropriate toy and wrapping paper that is decorated by the younger students. I am looking forward to taking the students there and continuing a relationship between the Ziskind School and Gifts to Give. We welcome three new Madrichim to our school: Spencer Perez-Dormitzer, Jackie Mindlin, and Julia Rosenberg will be joining our strong team. Our Madrichim have always been instrumental in supporting the students and teachers in their studies. They are positive role models for the students and serve as mentors. They assist teachers with materials preparation, record keeping, and tutoring. They participate and encourage student participation during music, dance or t’filah sessions with great energy. They help involve students in the lesson and help keep individual students on task. Many times, they will work The late spring and early summer were dedicated to a significant clean-out effort in the building. The creation of a “document retention policy”, detailing how long different types of information need to be saved, gave us the guidelines for cleaning out the document storage room. Most of the paper in that room was sent to a shredding company; more recent documents were carefully stored elsewhere. And posters (both commercially made and home-made collections of TI pictures) were carefully culled, sorted, and stored elsewhere, as relevant. Beyond the paper-based objects, many other objects were sorted, and two full commercial-grade dumpsters were filled with trash. Though most of this is behind the scenes to congregants, it makes a big difference for our operations and our space flexibility. As we cleared out corners of the synagogue, we gathered up many pieces of art that have found their way here over the years. Much of it had previously been taken down to make room for other pieces or to give a cleaner look to the building. Other items had never been hung. We recently reconstituted a Beautification Committee (and thank you to those who have volunteered to serve on it). The committee reviewed the stock of artwork and available wall space, and made recommendations on placement of the pieces. We should soon see these going up on the walls. (Educationally Speaking continues on page 6) (Executive Director’s Desk continues on page 6) - 4- Sisterhood Projects –New & Old HIGH HOLY DAYS 5777 - SCHEDULE Sisterhood is looking to add a new fun event this fall. We’re planning to take advantage of some great local musical talent with an evening of entertainment and food. If you’re into the New Bedford music scene and would like to help us organize this event, please contact one of the Steering Committee members: Phyllis Bornstein, Cindy Yoken, or Marsha Onufrak. Selichot - 22 Elul, Saturday, September 24, 2016 Mincha/Ma’ariv/Havdallah 6:20 pm Discussion 7:30 pm Selichot Service 8:00 pm Our Book Club continues to thrive. Amid the wackiest presidential race ever and worldwide news of terrorists, it’s good to meet monthly at Sisterhood Book Club to discuss national and global events, with a Jewish perspective. Many of these books present historical background to provide context and help us to understand the challenges these characters face. Recently, we read Infidel by Ayaan Hirsi Ali, a true story of a woman raised in a strict Muslim family who escaped a forced marriage to eventually become a champion for women’s rights. The Museum of Extraordinary Things by Alice Hoffman took us back to the New York Coney Island freak shows and the Manhattan Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire in the early 1900s, two distinct types of tragedies. Saving Sophie by Ronald H. Balson offered a twisting tale of a widowed Jewish father who tries to rescue his beloved daughter after her Muslim grandparents have kidnapped her. So many themes relate to our world today and provide great discussions. Cemetery Service - 22 Elul, Sunday, September 25, 2016 Cemetery/Holocaust Service 11:30 am Erev Rosh Hashanah - 29 Elul, Sunday, October 2, 2016 Evening Service 5:45 pm Candleligh*ng before 6:05 pm First Day of Rosh Hashanah - 1 Tishrei, Monday, October 3, 2016 Morning Service Youth Services and Programs Tashlich at Bu1onwood Park Pond Mincha/Ma’ariv Candleligh*ng 9:00 am 10:30 am 4:30 pm 5:45 pm a4er 7:02 pm Second Day of Rosh Hashanah - 2 Tishrei, Tuesday, October 4, 2016 Tradi*onal Service 9:00 am Contemporary Service 10:00 am Mincha/Ma’ariv/Havdallah 6:05 pm New members are welcome to join the book club, usually the last Wednesday of each month at 2:00 PM at Marsha Onufrak’s home. Plan to join us for a good time and a little nosh whenever you can! Contact Phyllis Bornstein to be added to the email list, which will notify you of upcoming books, times, dates, and special events. Erev Shabbat Shuvah - 5 Tishrei, Friday, October 7, 2016 Kaballat/Mincha/Ma’ariv 5:45 pm Candleligh*ng 5:57 pm Meanwhile, TI Sisterhood is working with the synagogue to determine how we can best support its needs. Currently, we are looking at options for attractive room dividers that will also be functional in the large social hall to better utilize that space and create a warmer atmosphere. We will contact our members with more information and cost estimates in advance of a vote to purchase them. Shabbat Shuvah - 6 Tishrei, Shabbat, October 8, 2016 Shacharit 9:30 am Mincha/Ma’ariv/Havdallah 5:55 pm Erev Yom Kippur - 9 Tishrei, Tuesday, October 11, 2016 Shacharit 7:15 am Mincha 1:00 pm Kol Nidre 6:00 pm Candleligh*ng 5:50 pm Also, we’d love to lead another beautiful Sisterhood Shabbat service. If you are willing to organize this event, please contact one of the Steering Committee members. We’ll be happy to pitch in and help. Yom Kippur - 10 Tishrei, Wednesday, October 12, 2016 Morning Service 9:00 am Youth Services and Programs 10:30 am Yizkor (approximately) 11:30 am Break 2:30 pm “Jonah: A Book for a Presiden al Elec on” Mincha 4:15 pm Ne’ilah/Ma’ariv/Havdallah 6:00 pm Conclusion of Fast 6:48 pm Finally, after years of devoted service to Sisterhood, Barbara Gotlib is stepping down as a member of the Steering Committee. However, she will still send Torah Fund cards. Remember to mark special occasions with a Torah Fund card! Thank you to Barbara for giving so much of her time and energy to Sisterhood. With Claire Levovsky now in Natick, our Steering Committee is short two members. Please consider coming on board. We need your help! We’re always open to new ideas and suggestions! And please join Sisterhood again this fall! It’s a great way to stay connected with your Jewish roots and friends while supporting our beloved synagogue. -5- (Executive’s Director’s Desk continued from page 4) (The Rabbi’s Study from page 2) Another project we’ve been working on for a while has been the repair of the rear wall of the Sanctuary. The panels of the wall have been getting increasingly out of alignment over the years, making it difficult to open and close the rear doors at times, and sometimes making it difficult to keep some doors closed. The wall, which is designed to fully open and fold up into two alcoves at the rear of the Sanctuary, has not been opened in over a decade. Unfortunately, it needs to be at least partially opened in order to properly align the panels. Portions of the back corners of the carpeting have now been removed, allowing for the opening of the wall, and the wall alignment exercise will be proceeding shortly. The great sage Ibn Ezra said, "A person is concerned about the loss of money and not the loss of days. Money can be replenished; days cannot. That is the true meaning of Hayom. It is to realize that that our time is limited and we must be a steward of time, never allowing it to sweep us along. We must not sleepwalk our way in the world. We must live in the consciousness of Hayom. Ultimately, this is a call to take control of our lives and destiny, and live it on our terms, with an authentic sensibility. Those who live life fully never lose interest in the world. That is the teaching of Hayom, and may we be privileged to live our lives in such a manner. Cindy, Rebecca, Eli, and Micah join me in wishing you and your family a warm and lovely new year, 5777. Air quality can deteriorate with a 50-year old building. For both health and general usability reasons, we had the air quality in the building tested. I’m happy to say that the report came back indicating that tested levels of humidity, carbon monoxide, carbon dioxide, volatile organic compounds and mold “do not pose a health risk”. We’ll continue to make improvements for all our comfort. (Educationally Speaking from page 4) with students one-to-one or in small groups as directed by the teacher. And they stay involved in our school community, through high school. I have enjoyed seeing our Madrichim grow and mature and become great teachers. I've known them since before their B’Nai Mitzvah, and it has been a privilege and a joy to see them blossom. The compressors on the air conditioning systems that serve the Chapel and the Small Hall are both nearing the end of their operational lives. Replacing them with compressors of identical size is expensive and overkill for the size of those rooms. Replacing them with ones of smaller size present some compatibility problems with the rest of the air handling system. We are now embarking on a formal engineering study which will present us with options and recommendations. The goal is to have updated AC systems for these rooms fully in place before the summer of 2017. Our last project is a favorite of mine. It is called Hiddur Mitzvah. Hiddur Mitzvah is the mitzvah to make a beautiful object. I also believe that when we create beautiful objects, we should make them a part of home and our surroundings. Each class will be bringing their creativeness to the synagogue by making stepping stones. The classes will make one group stepping stone representing their class and one smaller stepping stone to take home. Lastly, I’d like to report on a project that has nothing to do with the age of the building, but really is a necessity based on the evolution of our society. As each year goes by, security becomes an increasing concern. We have now engaged with a contractor to install 11 security cameras around the synagogue (10 outside, including at all doors, and one inside at the juncture between the portion of the building that Our Sisters School uses, and the rest of the building). Live video will be available in our offices (and, among other things, will give us a view of who is at each door, and not just the front door, as we have today), and will be stored for a period of time on a Digital Video Recorder. Please come to see what our school is doing. We are very active, and it is truly wonderful. Shana Tova Umitukah~ Melynda, Nathaniel, David, Asher, and Ezra New Bedford USY Other cleanup and improvement projects in the building are in the works, as well. I will report on those, when they are further along or complete. This year, New Bedford United Synagogue Youth (USY) is ready to have a great time! We are prepared to increase our local, regional, and international participation in order to ensure that our very own New Bedford USYers can experience what USY has to offer: community, connections, and long-lasting memories. We have some new and creative ideas that we plan to execute this year, and we want as many people as possible to take part in them! To learn more about USY and how to get involved, please feel free to contact New Bedford USY president Julia Levin at(508) 916-8203. I’d like to wish everyone l’shana tova tikatevu Ken Don’t miss a word!! We are updating our email list. If you do not receive “as we end the week”, or if you have a new email address, please let us know. Thanks, Julia Levin -6- Let’s all shout ~ CHAI lights ~ Mazal Tov ! Tifereth Israel Family News Mazal Tov to Deborah & Stuart Forman on the birth of their grandson, Reid Alexander, son of Lacey & Seth Forman, in Ridgewood, NJ on June 22. We are proud to publicize the birthdays and anniversaries of our most precious members. Mazal Tov to Edith Pliskin, on the birth of a new greatgrandson, Chaim Simcha. Wishing them much health & happiness in the future! Mazal Tov to Heidi & David Gotlib on the marriage of their son, Jesse, to Bryna Brooks on July 10. And Mazal Tov to proud grandparents, Barbara & Aaron Gotlib. *** Virginia Hochman on her 100th birthday Goldie Gitlin on her 90th birthday Mazal Tov to Robbie Apfel & Bennett Simon on the occasion of the Bat Mitzvah of their granddaughter, Maya, in Oakland, CA this past Shabbat Barbara & Aaron Gotlib on their 65th wedding anniversary Mazal Tov to Renee & Stan Sherman on the marriage of Stan’s Daughter, Rebecca Sherman, to Matt Bial this past weekend. Cindy & Mel Yoken on their 40th wedding anniversary Mazal Tov to Janet Freedman & Andy Peppard on their granddaughter, Sofia Freedman Girioni, daughter of Elizabeth Freedman and Michael Girioni being called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on June 18 at Temple Shir Tikva in Winchester, MA. Renee & Stan Sherman on their 25th wedding anniversary *** Let us know of any milestones for our next issue. TODAH RABBAH Mazal Tov to Leslie & Dr. Jack Howard on the marriage of their daughter, Lauren, to Barry Silver, on May 29 in Newport RI. And a special Mazal Tov to grandfather Dr. Bertram Howard. We sincerely thank all our sponsors of Shabbat morning Kiddush in recent months! Mazal Tov to Edith Pliskin on the recent marriage of her son, Dr. Sandy Pliskin, to Lucia Watson. *** Drs. Roberta Apfel & Bennett Simon In honor of the B’Nai Mitzvah of three of their grandchildren Congratulations to Carol Raposa-Farias and Wayne Farias on the birth of their grandson, Oakley Oliver Farias, son of Rachel Smith and Jordan Farias. Marissa & Jason Perez-Dormitzer In honor of their son Spencer’s Bar Mitzvah Renee & Stan Sherman In honor of their 25th wedding anniversary Welcome to our Newest Members! Cathie & Larry Mindlin In honor of their daughter Jackie’s Bat Mitzvah Andrea & Dr. Alvin Marcovici & their family Co-sponsorship: Cindy & Mel Yoken In honor of their 40th wedding anniversary & Dr. Marc Weiner In honor of the birth of his granddaughter, Annabelle Grace Edith and Sophie Helfand - 7- ChanukaFest Beach Service The Year in Pictures Ziskind Lecture Tu B’Shevat Rabbi teaching Sacred Heart Class Building 50-year Anniversary ChanukaFest Rabbi Harold Kushner at Ziskind Lecture Rabbi Teaching at World Wide Wrap World Wide Wrap Purim Men’s Club Bowling Cantor Teaching Waiters at Torah Fund Luncheon Cantor with Ackerman Family at World Wide Wrap Ukulele Class Building 50-Year Anniversary -8- Rabbi Being Honored by Inter-Church Council Class with Mattapoisett Congregational Church Honoring Michele Koppelman at Torah Fund Luncheon Purim Purim Linda Wertheimer Building 50-year Anniversary Ziskind School Displaying Tikkun Olam Project at Visit with Jane Goodall Placing Flags at the Cemetery to Honor Our Veterans -9- Simchat Torah Men’s Club A joyous occasion The Men’s Club held its first Hearing Men’s Voices session on May 17 at Stan Sherman’s house. The next one is scheduled for September 15 at Ray Aghai’s house. Hearing Men’s Voices (HMV) is a program that engages men in Jewish life by building male relationships and extending Jewish community. Hearing Men’s Voices facilitates intimacy among men through dialogue. Men meet in groups to discuss common issues. The quality of dialogue can be rich and enjoyable. Join us to celebrate the end and beginning of the torah reading cycle We will honor these dedicated members as Chatan torah & Kallat Bereshit The Men’s Club also had a great time bowling on June 16. Ross Chartoff Rena Deneault In addition to the upcoming HMV session, the Men’s Club is also planning a get-together with food and liquor and entertainment in the succah on October 20—watch for details on this! The Men’s Club is looking into distributing FJMC Shoah Yellow Candles this spring, to be lit on erev Yom Hoshoa to honor those we have lost in the Holocaust. To do this, we’ll need a commitment from men to package up the candles and to distribute them. If you’re interested in helping, contact Ken Turkewitz. October 25, 9:30 am Luncheon to follow service Tifereth Israel Congregation Tax Deduction Car Donation Program Do you have a car that's no longer in use? Time to buy a new one? One car too many in the house for any reason? Donate your used vehicle to Tifereth Israel for a tax donation! Your car can be donated, regardless of the condition. Call the TI office to arrange for pickup. IF YOUR CAR SELLS FOR MORE THAN $500: The IRS allows you to claim a tax deduction of the amount the car sold for. Your tax-deductible receipt will be for the car's full sale price. IF YOUR CAR SELLS FOR LESS THAN $500: You can claim the fair market value of the car, up to $500. According to the IRS, it is up to you to determine the fair market value of your car. After it sells, TI will provide a letter verifying the tax donation. - 10 - New Tifereth Israel Lay Leadership jxÄvÉÅx àÉ]âwt|áÅ At the June 14 Tifereth Israel Annual Meeting, the congregation voted in new leadership and several new board members, and Rabbi Kanter subsequently installed them. Congratulations to all of our new officers, shown below with Rabbi Kanter. Welcome to Judaism is a four-semester course designed for a variety of adults with a desire for knowledge of Judaism: It provides Tifereth Israel members who feel they can use a greater introduction to Judaism, with the opportunity to fill gaps in whatever past education they’ve received, or provides background for those who don’t feel comfortable or conversant with certain aspects of their Judaism. The course is also designed for members of the greater New Bedford/Dartmouth community, both Jewish and non-Jewish, who would like to get a better understanding of the Jewish religion, culture, and history. (l-r): VP Macy Korolnek, VP Eve Sky, Treasurer Stan Sherman, Financial Secretary Sue Levin, Recording Secretary Pam Lewis, VP Liz Ackerman, President Cheryl Zeoli, and Rabbi Raphael Kanter This course, provided at no charge, will meet for eight one-hour sessions per semester, starting on Monday evenings at 7:00 pm, for a total of 32 sessions. All sessions will be held at Tifereth Israel Congregation. Ahavath Achim Yahrzheit Plaque Dedication After Ahavath Achim closed its doors, Tifereth Israel received their yahrzeit plaques, in order to continue the tradition of keeping that congregation’s loved ones in our community memories. We will be mounting them on a new display in our sanctuary, to match our own yahrzeit display. Semester 1: Spring 2016 Semester 2: Fall 2016 Semester 3: Spring 2017 Semester 4: Fall 2017 We will dedicate this installation in a brief ceremony on Sunday, September 18, at 11:45 am. The community is invited to join us as we honor the memories of our loved ones in such a fitting manner. The first semester is already complete, but students are welcome to join at any time. DEDICATION The list of instructors for this class includes: Manya Bark, Wendy Garf-Lipp, Rabbi Raphael Kanter, Cantor Nathaniel Schudrich, Rabbi Lawrence Silverman, and others to be announced. SEPTEMBER 18 11:45 AM Next Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class? We are collecting names for an upcoming adult B’nai Mitzvah class. If you’re interested (or don’t yet know if you’re interested, but it’s a possibility) or would just like more information, please contact Cantor Nathaniel Schudrich at NSchudrich@TINewBedford.org or call the office. There is no requirement to attend each class. Contact the synagogue office for a complete schedule and curriculum. - 11 - 19 Emil Barclay Anne Friedland Harry Wagner 20 E. Lainey Sack 26 Stefan Vadas Nelson Wasserman 27 Rose Alberts Jennie Glaser Barbara Alpert Carl Nerenberg Israel Alkalay 28 Rubin Nevins Charles Hull 30 Elsa Bronstein Deena Grossmann Grace Turkewitz 31 Philip Flink Harold Gartzman - 12 - INMEMORIAM We offer our sincere condolences to our members & their families Jane & Neil Meltzer, Dr. Daniel & Jane Abesh & their families On the loss of their beloved father, Dr. William Abesh Elaine & Leonard Kaner & their family On the loss of her beloved brother, Robert Blake Martha & Lee Hammel, Ling & Abe Novick & their families On the loss of their beloved mother, Florence Novick Arlene & Harry Gorban & their family On the loss of her beloved mother, Jane Potash Renee & Stan Sherman & their family On the loss of his beloved uncle, Fred Sherman Donald Barash, Judy Blumberg, Karin & Ron Taylor,, Michael & Emily Blumberg & their families On the loss of their beloved sister, aunt and great aunt, Esther Forman Cary & Debra Nebelkopf, Susan & Andrew Guskey, Ilene & Curtis Rawlins, Irwin Nebelkopf & their families On the loss of their beloved mother& former wife, Barbara Nebelkopf According to Jewish tradition, the anniversary of a dear one’s death is to be observed with honor to their memory. Kaddish is recited and the Yahrzeit light is kindled on the eve of the Yahrzeit day. We send notices of Yahrzeit dates to all those who have requested these reminders, as well as list the names on our quarterly Yahrzeit calendars. If you would like to be notified of these anniversary dates of your loved ones, please contact the TI office [508-997-3171] or office@tinewbedford.org. - 13 - [All donations received by August 5] GENERAL FUND For the kindness shown to us: by Mar y & Ger ald Fr anklin In honor of Cindy Yoken’s birthday: by Sue & Calvin Siegal, Phyllis & Neal Bornstein In honor of Renee & Stan Sherman renewing their vows: by Carl Superior In honor of the birth of Edith Pliskin’s new great grandson: by Rozzy & Norman Bernstein In honor of Martha Hammel’s birthday: by Esther Ann Price In honor of Betty & Alan Novick’s special anniversary: by Martha & Lee Hammel IN MEMORY OF Beryl Franklin, beloved daughter of Mary & Gerald Franklin: by Bar bar a Pear l & Mar tin Lipman Anita Asser, beloved mother of Judith Brown: by Sar a Ann Schoeman & Ruth Collins Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer and Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Shar on Feldman, Helen and Murray Goldberg, Barbara Friedland, Marion & Henry Wainer, Lorraine Krugman & Jim Shear, Dedham Middle School Sunshine Club, Janet & Robert Feingold, Charlotte Friedman and Wendy Friedman, Ronnie & Norm Glassman, Dr. & Mrs. David Young, Patty & Elliot Rosenfield Betty & Dr. William Abesh: by Natalie & Alan Eisen, J ayne & Peter Gandrup Robert Blake, beloved brother of Elaine Kaner: by Elaine & Len Kaner Florence Novick, beloved mother of Martha Hammel & Abe Novick: by Mar tha & Lee Hammel, Dena & Victor Hammel, Renee Hammel & Steven Hammel, Sara Fox, Harriet Dahlgren & Ruth Johnson, Ernestine Urken, Iris & Leon Reinstein, Esther & Bern Sobel, Anna & Michael Mello, Barbra Schron David Greene, beloved son of Drs. Barbara & Robert Greene: by Ronnie & Nor m Glassman Kenneth Shotlander, beloved brother of Joyce Glassman: by Patty & Elliot Rosenfield Jane Potash, beloved mother of Arlene Gorban: by Bar bar a Samuels YAHRZEIT FOR Beloved daughter Carol Kaner: by Elaine Elias Beloved father & grandfather Haskell Kivowitz: by Car ol & Jay Kivowitz & Family Beloved father Elias Asser: by Mae & Stanley Lipp Beloved father Sigmund Lipp: by Mae & Stanley Lipp Beloved father Jacob A. Horvitz: by Dr . Ber tr am Howar d Beloved mother Lena Benlifer: by Ar lene Benlifer Mindus Beloved father Harold Bornstein: by Neal Bor nstein Beloved father William Menkes: by Phyllis Bor nstein Beloved husband John Finzar: by Ellen Nelson Beloved mother Esther Robinson: by J udy Mar tin Beloved sister Beatrice Horvitz: by Bar bar a Gotlib Beloved son Jonathan Gotlib: by Bar bar a & Aar on Gotlib Beloved mother Annette B. Lipman: by Ken Lipman Beloved parents Gertrude & Max Blake: by Elaine & Len Kaner Beloved mother Bessie Portnoy Abesh: by Goldie Gitlin Beloved father Meyer Glassman: by Ronnie & Nor m Glassman Beloved father Jack Palter: by Ronnie & Nor m Glassman Beloved grandfather Saul Mickelson: by Char lotte Friedman and Wendy Friedman Beloved uncle Samuel Mickelson: by Char lotte Fr iedman and Wendy Friedman Beloved father Oscar Feuerstadt: by Ivy Feuer stadt & Barry Becken Beloved father Harry Shapiro: by Elaine Elias Beloved grandson Adam Levin: by Clair e & Fr ed Levin Beloved mother Shirley Levin: by Clair e & Fr ed Levin Beloved mother Mary Weitzman: by Dr . Stephen Weitzman Beloved mother Rose Mello: by Anna & Michael Mello Beloved aunt Theresa I Wollison: by Rebecca Holmes, J im Willison, Stacy Fournier, Seth Holmes, Wil Wollison Beloved wife Beatrice Wiegenfeld: by Isr ael Wiegenfeld Beloved mother Anna Greenstein: by Clair e & Thomas Friar Beloved mother Mary Weitzman: by Faye Weitzman Beloved father Louis Franklin: by Ger ald Fr anklin Beloved husband Matthew Tatelbaum: by Ida Tatelbaum Beloved parents Miriam & Sheldon Handler: by Mar k Handler Beloved mother Dorothy Salk: by Edwar d Salk KIDDUSH FUND Mazal Tov to Renee & Stan Sherman on their 25th wedding anniversary: by Ruth & Alan Ades, Bar bar a Samuels Mazal Tov to Stan Sherman on completion of a successful Presidential term: by Ruth & Alan Ades Mazal Tov to Goldie Gitlin on a special birthday: by Ruth & Alan Ades Wishing Cheryl Zeoli a fulfilling Presidential term: by Ruth & Alan Ades In honor of the Schudrichs’ new home: by Ruth & Alan Ades In honor of Cindy Yoken’s 70th birthday: by Ruth & Alan Ades Thank you to Sheldon Friedland for your kindness and gift: by Ruth & Alan Ades In honor of Goldie Gitlin’s 90th birthday: by Patty & Elliot Rosenfield, The Meltzer Family, Cindy & Mel Yoken In memory of Beryl Franklin, beloved daughter of Mary & Gerald Franklin: by Ruth & Alan Ades In memory of David Greene, beloved son of Drs. Barbara & Robert Greene: by Ruth & Alan Ades In memory of Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer & Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Ruth & Alan Ades Yahrzeit for beloved father Ray Sohn: by Ber nie Sohn Yahrzeit for beloved mother Edith Lansky: by Gail & Aaron Lansky Beloved father Ralph Meltz: by Sheila Galitsky Beloved brother Alan Meltz: by Sheila Galitsky Beloved father Phillip Foote: by Mar cy Foote Beloved mother Frances Stein: by Cindy & Mel Yoken - 14 - BUILDING FUND RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND In appreciation: by J udy Pollack In appreciation for the healing prayers: by Mer yl Russell In honor of the birth of Annabelle Weiner: by Bar bar a & Ronn Kaplan In appreciation of the rabbi’s comforting visit: by Ar lene & Harry Gorban In appreciation: by Leslie & J ack Howar d In honor of Rebecca Kanter winning a Fullbright Scholarship: by Ruth & David Glicksman In memory of Jane Potash, beloved mother of Arlene Gorban: by Rosi & Alan Geller In memory of Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer & Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Ida Finger Case & Family In memory of Norman Morse: by Bar bar a Dennis & Byr on Shuster Yahrzeit for beloved father Dr. Morris E. Rubin: by Rebecca E. Rubin Yahrzeit for beloved father & grandfather Dr. Morris E. Rubin: by Bar bar a, Eli, Sar ah & Ben Rubin Yahrzeit for beloved mother & grandmother, Hilda Wolitz: by Barbara, Eli, Sarah & Ben Rubin Yahrzeit for beloved father Norman Geller: by Rosi & Alan Geller IN MEMORY OF Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer & Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Pear ly Levine, Harriet & Larry Fletcher, Ruth & Bud Bier Betty Abesh, beloved mother of Jane Meltzer & Dr. Daniel Abesh: by J oyce & Mar k Eisenber g In memory of beloved mother Barbara Fink, in appreciation: by Car yn Ben-Ami, Ben Fink, Lisa Lewtan, Michael Fink PRESIDENTIAL ENRICHMENT FUND YAHRZEIT FOR Beloved mother Sophie Camhi: by Bunny Russo Beloved daughter Jill Dobson: by Phyllis Kr oudvir d Beloved husband Alan Graubart: by Myr a Gr aubar t Goldberg Beloved father Louis Winet: by Myr a Goldber g & J udy Winet Doris Graubart & Dorothy Grustin: by Myr a Goldber g Beloved father Samuel H. Cohen: by Linda C. Lane Beloved father Mortimer B Salkowitz: by Ronni Salkowitz Krause Beloved sister Sherry Salkowitz: by Ronni Salkowitz Kr ause Beloved mother Tillie Levow: by Helen Eisenber g Beloved wife Dorothy Siegel: by H. Ar nold Siegel Beloved mother Sara Zeitz: by Sandr a & Phillip Zeitz Beloved sister Helene Miller: by Sandr a & Phillip Zeitz Beloved husband Nathaniel Kleger: by Edith Kleger Beloved son Carlos Rodrigues Jr.: by Rosar ia Pinheir o Arteaga Beloved mother Ruth Prince Federman: by Bar r y Feder man Beloved father Robert Federman: by Bar r y Feder man Beloved son Richard Levine: by Pear ly Levine Beloved mother Selma Kisner: by Ellen & Ronald Kisner Beloved father Jack Singer: by Bever ly Zexter Beloved father Saul David Krause: by Ronni & Ir v Kr ause Beloved mother Jennie Rubin: by Ida Tatelbaum Beloved mother Julie Gorban: by Ar lene & Har r y Gor ban Beloved brother Warren Barclay: by Gilda Bar clay Avelar Beloved brother-in-law Sidney Rothstein: by Gilda Bar clay Avelar Beloved parents Elizabeth & Joseph Siegel: by H. Ar nold Siegel THE HANDLER FAMILY FUND In memory of Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer & Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Mir iam London In memory of Timothy, beloved son of Betty O’Connor: by Miriam London - 15 - In memory of Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer and Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Bonnie & Louis Silver stein In memory of Dorothy Victor: by Bonnie & Louis Silverstein Yahrzeit for beloved brother Bernard Silverstein: by Bonnie & Louis Silverstein Yahrzeit for beloved father Harry Silverstein: by Bonnie & Louis Silverstein Yahrzeit for beloved father Shokrolah Aghai: by Dr . Rahim Aghai ANNA M. & HARRY SILVERSTEIN FUND In memory of Herbert Andrew: by J ean & J oseph Silverstein THELMA & GEORGE SCHWARTZ KIDDUSH FUND In honor of Goldie Gitlin’s 90th birthday: by Car olyn & Mel Holland In memory of Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer & Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Car olyn & Mel Holland Yahrzeit for beloved father Barnet Smola: by Car ol Smola Yahrzeit for beloved mother Ethel Horowitz: by J ay Horowitz BETTY & DR. WILLIAM ABESH FUND In memory of Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer & Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Lor r aine Rudnick, Betsy Kaplan In memory of Betty & Dr. William Abesh: by Bonnie Feldman GOLDIE & EDWARD GITLIN FUND In honor of Goldie Gitlin’s special birthday: by Helen Weinshel In memory of Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer & Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Goldie Gitlin, Bar bar a & David Gr een, Mar ilyn & Mark Gitlin, Rebecca & Martin Eisenberg Yahrzeit for beloved husband Edward Gitlin: by Goldie Gitlin CANTOR’S MUSIC FUND ZISKIND SCHOOL FUND YAHRZEIT FOR Beloved mother Rose Nebelkopf: by Ir win Nebelkopf Beloved brother Jonathan Gotlib: by Heidi & David Gotlib Beloved father Saul David Krause: by Ronni & Ir v Kr ause Beloved father George Bernstein: by Linda & Lar r y Blacker Beloved father Julius Altman: by Edith Kleger Beloved son Carlos Rodrigues Jr.: by Rosar ia Pinheir o Arteaga Beloved friend Angela Contardo: by J oni Goldfar b Beloved aunt Rose Shnidman: by J oni Goldfar b Beloved father Mortimer Salkowitz: by Ronni Salkowitz Krause Beloved sister Sherry Salkowitz: by Ronni Salkowitz Kr ause Beloved sister Mildred Herstoff: by Paul Cher vinsky SCOTT DEREK MICKELSON SCHOLARSHIP FUND Congratulations & best wishes to Benjamin Shapiro on graduation from Nobles & Greenough School: by J udi & Jill Mickelson & Paul Cromwell Yahrzeit for beloved son Scott Derek Mickelson: by Stanley & Jill Mickelson & Kala Joblon In memory of Jacqueline & Steven Bonfiglio’s mother Josephine: by Kala J oblon & Stanley Mickelson In memory of Peter & Maria Ciccone’s mother: by Kala Joblon & Stanley Mickelson In memory of Noel Hill: by Kala J oblon & Stanley Mickelson Yahrzeit for beloved mother, mother-in-law, grandmother Lillian Mickelson: by Kala J oblon, Stanley & J ill Mickelson Yahrzeit for beloved mother Naomi Danis: by J er old & Jeanne Danis MINYAN BREAKFAST CLUB In honor of Goldie Gitlin’s special birthday: by Bar bar a Friedland, Bernice Russo, Avis Goldstein, Alvin & Barb Rubin, Andrea & Daniel Rubin Get well wishes to Ruth Meltz: by Sandr a Nisson In memory of Betsy Cooper: by Ther esa Poulin & Bar r y Shsuter In memory of Claire Goodman: by Ther esa Poulin & Bar r y Shuster Yahrzeit for beloved father Louis Chartoff: by Andr ea & Ross Chartoff Yahrzeit for beloved father Joseph Nisson: by Sandr a Nisson Yahrzeit for beloved grandfather Herman Nisson: by Sandra Nisson Yahrzeit for beloved grandmother Sophie Nisson: by Sandra Nisson In memory of Edna Zeman, Ralph Meltz and Alan Meltz: by Sandra Nisson Yahrzeit for my beloved mother Deanna Fels: by Stephanie Fels Yahrzeit for beloved brother-in-law Yehooda Barkhordari: by Dr. Rahim Aghai Yahrzeit for beloved son Jonathan Bor: by Susan & Aar on Bor Yahrzeit for beloved mother Esther Bor: by Susan & Aaron Bor JUDITH & ROBERT STERNS FUND JENNIE, MORRIS & ALVIN GLASER FUND In memory of Harriet Handler: by J udith & Rober t Ster ns In memory of Dr. William Abesh, beloved father of Jane Meltzer & Dr. Daniel Abesh, beloved brother of Goldie Gitlin: by Dor is Levine TORAH REPAIR FUND In honor of Ross Chartoff and Rena Deneault being honored as Chatan Torah and Kallat Bereshit: by Dr s. Robbie Apfel & Bennett Simon In honor of Renee & Stan Sherman on their 25th anniversary: by Car ol & Rober t Saltzman, Andr ea & Ross Chartoff, Cheryl Zeoli Yahrzeit for beloved husband Dr. Sidney Feldman: by Bonnie Feldman SIDDUR LEV SHALEM FUND In honor of Renee & Stan Sherman’s 25 wedding anniversary: by Andr ea & Michael Smith ROBIN ALBERTS FUND Yahrzeit for beloved parents Barbara & Norman Alberts: by Billie & Mark Alberts JOSEPH BLUM & MARY BLUM SCHWARTZ FUND PATRICIA R. & ELLIOT I. ROSENFIELD FUND In memory of Florence Novick, beloved mother of Martha Hammel & Abe Novick: by J essica Schwar tz In memory of Si Goldstein, beloved brother of Ruben Goldstein: by J essica Schwar tz & Daniel Schwar tz Yahrzeit for beloved mother Charlotte Britva: by Patty & Elliot Rosenfield Yahrzeit for beloved father Sidney Rosenfield: by Patty & Elliot Rosenfield - 16 - Sunday Morning Breakfast & Speaker SPONSOR A SHABBAT KIDDUSH NOVEMBER 6, 9:30 AM EDT Celebrating the special moments in your life with the community at a Shabbat Kiddush is a beautiful way to honor any milestone. You can make birthdays, anniversaries, and yahrzeits more meaningful by sharing them with your Tifereth Israel family. Joyce Antler You Never Call, You Never Write Joyce Antler is a social and cultural historian, with special interests in the history of American women; history-as-theater; the history of education, and women’s biography Mark the occasion with a $100 contribution to the weekly Kiddush, or sponsor a full Kiddush for only $400. In recognition of your generosity, the Israelight will include an acknowledgement of your gift and the reason for it. Delicious breakfast followed by our speaker, free of charge. These two options set a beautiful example of sharing and enriching the congregational experience and the warmth of Shabbat. Please contact the Tifereth Israel office to get more information about arranging your sponsorship. Plainville Cemetery Plots are available from Tifereth Israel for Plainville Cemetery on Old Plainville Rd., New Bedford. Current prices: Current Members: “Legacy” Members: Non-Members: $600 + $600 Perpetual Care $900 + $900 Perpetual Care $1,200 + $1,200 Perp. Care Call the synagogue office for details, including the distinction between Members and Legacy Members. The synagogue also maintains “Darkei Shalom”, an interfaith section, available at the cemetery. Inquire about details at the Tifereth Israel office. Payment plans are available on request. SHABBAT CANDLE LIGHTING Sept 2 Sept 9 Sept 16 Sept 23 Sept 30 6:57 pm 6:45 pm 6:33 pm 6:20 pm 6:08 pm Oct 7 Oct 14 Oct 21 Oct 28 5:57 pm 5:45 pm 5:35 pm 5:25 pm Nov 4 Nov 11 Nov 18 Nov 25 5:16 pm 4:09 pm 4:03 pm 3:58 pm Our General Fund Did you know that the General Fund is the source of funding for operating costs here at Tifereth Israel? While some funds are restricted to specific uses, the General Fund can be used for any need, whenever it arises. We appreciate your thoughtfulness when you make a donation. 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