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Channing Channel March 2015 Channing UUC 405-340-1213 President’s Corner Why attend a church if you don’t believe in a god? I was once a Christian, so I thought of church as a place to worship God. But after much thought and study, I have become an atheist. So why attend church? First it’s a place where most of my friends are. But beyond that there is a spirit here that is special! Everyone is concerned about others. When we hear the Joys and Concerns of others, we share in those joys as well as their concerns. We help each other in any way we can. We also learn about how to help others in our community. Seldom does a week go by when Harriette does not let us know about something in which we can participate to help raise funds for a worthy cause. Throughout this newsletter, you will find quotes or info on 18 notable UU women from our past. Lydia Marie Child (1802–1880) Inside this issue: Community Outreach 2 Margaret Fuller (1810–1850) Speaker & Music Schedule 3 Forum Schedule 4 Joys & Concerns 4 Group Info 5 Sasha Photos 5 15 Things about Pat 6 Pledge Dinner 7 Did You Know 8 Pledge Dinner Ideas 8 I said at the beginning I am an atheist. In what other church would I feel safe in expressing that belief? I love our Unitarian Universalist church! Calendar 9 WOKUU 10 Why You Should Not be a UU 11 Ostara Celebration 12 Pat Hervey February Choir Program 13 Our monthly potlucks are an opportunity to get to know each other better. Sharing a meal is actually a binding process! Our weekly speakers share their insights about how to live our lives. It is illuminating to hear their various ideas on a single theme. Co-President If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it. Margaret Fuller Lucy Stone (1818–1893) Page 2 March 2015 Channing Channel Community Outreach with Harriette Porter T here are some interesting things going on at First Unitarian Church OKC that we are invited to attend: Sunday, March 1 at 3pm—Kiya Heartwood an ing or chanting, readings, and periods of siaward winning singer-songwriter and guitar lence providing a very reflective atmosphere. player in concert. Kiya serves up lively songs Monday, March 16 at 5:30pm— Mosaic from two of the oldest traditions of folk music: Group—This is a group of members constorytelling and political broadside. cerned with social injustice and striving for equality and to achieve a bal-ance at all levels Sunday, March 15 at 3pm — Taize Worship of society. Service —This is a low-key service with sing Charity Fundraising in OKC is starting with an explosion of events in March. March 5— Payne Brain Games Trivia Fundraiser at Quail Creek Golf and Country Club— 6-9pm. Dinner at 7pm—Team Trivia, wine pull auction, raffle, etc. Benefits Payne Center training teachers to prevent reading problems and remediate dyslexia. March 5—Boots and Blues at IOA Gallery, 706 W Sheridan 69pm. Food, Wine and Beer Tasting. Benefits Prevent Blindness Oklahoma March 7—Red Tie Night Grand Ballroom of Cox Center at 6p12am. Benefits Oklahoma AIDS Care Fund. March 10—Celebrity Wait Night Hideaway Pizza, 901 N Broadway, OKC at 5:308:00pm, OK Sports legends wait tables at Hideaway for tips to support Upward Transitions, a program to help the homeless and less fortunate. March 27 Allied Arts ARTini 7:30pm at OK Farmers Public Market. Benefits Allied Arts supporting the Arts in OKC. March 28—OK Heritage Land Run at 8am, Gaylord-Pickens OK Heritage Museum, 13th and Classen, 0k, 5k, 1mi-fun runs through Heritage Hills and Mesta Park. Benefits OK Heritage Association and the Gaylord-Pickens Museum. March 28—OUHSC Health Dash at 9am, OUHSC campus—13th and Lincoln, OKC. Benefits the Clinic on the Move, a mobile clinic by Good Shepherd Ministries. March 28—The Great Amazing Race Oklahoma at 3pm, 1501 W Covell Rd, Edmond. Adults Charity Races and Walks. and Kids, KG-12 grade in teams March 6—Omelette Party March 8—Strides of March half of 2 competing in this National Eggsquisite House of FaberRace Series Mary Wollstonecraft marathon and Dogwood 5k gEGG at Chevy Bricktown supporting (1759–1797) Dash at 8am, Lake Stanley Events Center 7pPediatric 12am. Benefit OKC Museum of Draper. Benefits OKC Metro Alliance's Firstep recovery pro- Cancer. Art gram. Channing Channel Page 3 March 2015 Speakers: March Theme is Women Liturgist for March is Sharon Lancaster March 1: Anna Holloway Drag: Because it teaches us about gender— March 8: Scot Harvey Wide, Wide Mercy Service was cancelled due to bad weather. :( Images of male and female in our culture, and the words we use to describe everything, deeply affect how we both experience the world and how we limit the experiences of others. Anna will discuss drag and language about the divine as ways we still minimize the feminine. Scot will explore contributions to our movement of Unitarian and Universalist women, including Elisabeth Cady Stanton, whose "Woman's Bible" created quite a stir in the nineteenth century. " The canon law, the Scriptures, the creeds and codes and church discipline of the leading religions bear the impress of fallible man, and not of our ideal great first cause, "the Spirit of all Good," that set the universe of matter and mind in motion, and by immutable law holds the land, the sea, the planets, revolving round the great centre of light and heat, each in its own elliptic, with millions of stars in harmony all singing together, the glory of creation forever and ever." March 15: Lay Speaker (s) March 22: Donna Compton Better Here Than There; Better Now Than Then; But It Ain’t Good Yet! March 29: Catherine Shearer Palm Sunday Celebration Women in Western culture have come a long way on the road to equality and empowerment. However, many forces still threaten the status of women as full human beings, with both volition and moral responsibility. Not all of these threats are external- some of the things being said publicly by radical right politicians and preachers are so outrageous one would think they were from a satirical journal like the Onion. And many young people today have no idea that they are standing on the shoulders of women and men who sacrificed their fortunes, reputations, and even their lives to win new freedoms for women. What theology underlies the idea of equality? How do we continue to improve the status of women and protect these hard-fought benefits? Musical Note From Peggy Payne Our theme for March is Women and the piano selections in our services will be written by women, or by men who were inspired by a woman to write. So often the dedications have no clarification today of who the name belonged to, but the music is no less inspired or captivating. Several already come to mind…..come and hear what I gather together for us! Julia Ward Howe (1819–1910) Page 4 March 2015 Channing Channel Forum Topics for March 2015 March 1st—Welcoming Congregation: Bisexuality. There are many issues held Forum Presenters in common by members of the LGBT, or Acis, Community. Whereas coverage of issues for Lesbians and Gays are reasonably understood, those of the Bisexual members are not. Just what is Bisexuality, how is it expressed, and what disconnects exist between the Lesbians/Gays and Bisexuals? March 8th—Evangelism for Unitarian Universalist: There is a need for a meth- od, or approach, that UUs can use to spread the ideal of UU to the wider community. This forum will start with the presentation of a paper Dana Spears wrote for a recent class at St Paul. This presentation is to seek additional ideas on how this may be accomplished. Dana Spears March 15th & 22nd—Welcoming Congregation: Community Outreach. For the church to continue to be a viable element in Edmond and surrounding areas it must attract and retain new members. Outreach to the wider community is important to accomplish this and should acknowledge our welcoming nature. Harriette Porter March 29th—Environmental Justice Sunday program from UUA." Learn about the Blue Bucket campaign to conserve water and appreciate how critical water issues are also justice issues in much of the world from California to Africa." Maria Mitchell (1818–1889) Rene Lane, a friend of Nancy Jefferis and Elouise Bell was supposed to have surgery on her jaw, however pre op tests showed a blocked carotid artery and that had to be resolved first. Pam Dizikes shared with us that she is having a health scare. After a few agonizing days of waiting, tests revealed it was not the return of cancer! Jana Leslie's mom has been moved to an assisted living center. She is still depressed. Steve Pace has a friend Mary A. Rice Livermore (1820–1905) whose toddler daughter has a hole in her heart that will need to be dealt with soon. MaryLee Welch had surgery on her toe and travel is difficult for her at the moment. Elaine Welch and Glenda Purcell have lost their respective jobs. Anna Holloway is seeking consultation for possible RA. Please keep these people in your thoughts. Kay's Aunt Trish Wescott is having cancer treatment and she requests healing energy for her. On a Happier Note…. Joy and Concerns Linda Gray's friend from ABLE died and this is a significant loss to both Linda and ABLE. Hal Yocum says he will be a grandpa (again) to a grandson in June. Elouise Bell and Nancy Jefferis announced they will wed in April!!!! March 8th—2:AM Channing Channel Welcome Sasha Bridget Kazura Page 5 March 2015 Channing Groups Channing Women’s Lunch Tuesday March 10th, 11:30 AM at Lemongrass, Modern Thai Cuisine, 253 S Santa Fe, Edmond. For more info and to say you’ll be there email Miss Lucy at lalmitra@cox.net . Stitchers will meet at the home of Kathleen Joslin at 1:30 p.m. on Saturday, March 14th. Contact Pat Hervey for more information. Labyrinth Walk meets at the First Methodist Church on Monday, March 16th, 2015 from 6:00 PM8:00 PM. Come and enjoy this ancient form of meditation. Someone is always there to explain if you have never experienced a labyrinth walk before. Book Group is scheduled for Tuesday March 17th at 2:00 pm at Pat Hervey’s home. The book for March is Trans Atlantic by Colum McCann. Choir will practice every Wednesday evening from 7:30 to 8:30. Frances Ellen Watkins Harper (1825– 1911) Judith Sargent Murray (1751–1820) Dorothea Dix (1802–1887) Elizabeth Blackwell (1821–1910) Page 6 Channing Channel March 2015 15 Things You May Not Know About Pat Hervey I once wanted to be a journalist. I married my high school sweetheart. I I attended four different high schools, and was valedictorian when I graduated. In college I majored in Math, minored in English. My career was teaching high school math. came to Channing an agnostic and became an atheist after much conI love to play Scrabble and templation. It is good to other word games. be in a safe place where I can y favorite trip acknowledge that! was to Glacier I read several books a week. ( Too bad I cannot recall national park. My I strongly dislike what I read a week later!). sons and I rented a housework. That is Among my favorites is the evident if you visit my cabin outside the Three Pines mystery series by home! park. We took several Louise Penny. I have held every hiking trips there, went I used to enjoy sewing, but I no office Channing ofcanoeing, saw as much longer have the patience for fers! I think everyas we could in five it. Why is that? Can someone tell one should try at days. My sons did me? My favorite food is least one. You most of the cooking! dark chocolate. learn a lot about I have two sons, neither of whom is what goes into Did I mention my married, so no grandchildren. keeping Channing son Greg gave me Bonus tidbit: Pat will be 75 going. his 2001 BMW?!! years old on St Patrick’s Day! Happy Birthday Pat! M Channing Channel Page 7 March 2015 Title: Please Give at the Annual Pledge Drive or What We Can Learn from a Purple Dinosaur? A nyone who has been around children in ships, and provide for the good of everyone. the past 20 years can probably sing “The Barney Song” by heart. “I love you, you love me. “We’re a happy family.” Ever since I became a member of Channing three years ago, I have always thought of the We’re a happy family. people around me as my With a great big hug and a adopted family. I embrace kiss from me to you, this community that will acWon’t you say you love me cept me for who I am, even if we don’t see eye to eye. Or if too?” we don’t see each other very often, there will always be a It is so simple and straight- smile to welcome me back. forward, and that is the best This family also teaches me so m a n y way to get a things, imagine a world m e s s a g e It pains me like overacross to coming young chil- without my Channing family, adversity d r e n . Adults, on the other hand, or prejudice, working togethlike to read into things. It er for a common goal, and the may be simple on the surface, joy of giving. We all come but it could mean just about from different places, but it’s anything. I’m going to tell amazing how much I think of you what this simple song Channing as a home away means to me about my Chan- from home (and not just because it used to be a home). ning fam-i-ly. Joining you at Channing, whether it be for service on “I love you”: Yes, I do love Sunday or spring clean-up, you, all of you. always makes me happy! “You love me.” We share our lives during joys and concerns every Sunday, because we know that this group of people cares about what happens to us. Then we connect with each other over goodies after service as we elaborate on our lives. We do what we can to support our members, friends, and the community around us, because we know how important it is to look after each other, sustain relation- “With a great big hug and a kiss from me to you...” I love hugs. It’s a simple gesture, but one that is sometimes overlooked. A hug lets a person know that you value their presence and miss their energy field interacting with yours. I know some people aren’t huggers, so I think a nice handshake would do as well. As for kisses, I bought some Hershey’s on sale after Valentine’s Day. “Won’t you say you love me too?” During the annual pledge drive, we ask members to support the church. THAT is a really broad phrase. ‘Support the church’ means so much more than paying the bills. It should really say ‘value the church.’ It’s hard to place a value on how much my Channing family means to me. It pains me to imagine a world without my Channing family, without a sanctuary where I can escape the confines of everyday life. It’s where I am free to be the person I am, even if I haven’t figure out who that is yet, and that you are helping me discover. Ask yourself, “How much do I value my Channing family?” How much can you give to help provide a home for the spirit we foster within our community? How much of yourself can you give to bring in new members? Do you remember how you felt before you found Channing or UU? Wouldn’t you like to share the delight you felt when you joined a group that brings happiness to your life? Don’t worry. I won’t subject you to Barney songs at the pledge dinner (probably), but you will be singing this in your head for the next few days. As you do, think about what it means to you . Briana Greenemeyer, Finance Committee Chair Where’s the money? Next page... March 2015 Page 8 Where’s the Money? As you think about how much you can pledge for the 2015-2016 year, here are a few reminders of where money might be waiting. Your tax return – If you get a tax return, you could earmark a certain percentage or dollar amount for your pledge. Or if you didn’t get a return, donating might help you get one next year! Birthday presents – Have you ever given a birthday present to Channing? This might be the year to start. Coffee – How much did you spend on breakfast this morning? What if you added one more breakfast to your budget? If you gave an extra $2 a week, that would be $104 a year! If every member did, it would be over $4000 extra! So, instead of that nice round number, add $8 when you write down your monthly pledge. Estate planning – If you are setting up a will or trust, please keep Channing in mind as a possible beneficiary. Channing Channel Olympia Brown (1835–1926) Not only is March National Women’s History Month, it is also... Irish American Month Music in Our Schools Month National Craft Month National Frozen Food Month National Irish American Heritage Month- designated He who never sacrificed a present to a future good or a personal to a general one can speak of happiness only as the blind do of colors. Olympia Brown Abigail Adams (1744–1818) Louisa Alcott (1832–1888) by Congress in 1995. National Nutrition Month National Peanut Month Red Cross Month Social Workers Month Clara Barton (1821–1912) Mark Your Calendar! Our Spring Clean up is set for April 25th, 2015 Page 9 March 2015 Channing Channel See Community Outreach on page 3 for more info on some of the activities included here. They are in purple M a rc h 2 0 1 5 Sun Mon 1 Kiya Heartwood— First Church Tue Wed 2 3 4 Choir Pract. 7:30 Anna Holloway Evie Eskridge’s BD Pot Luck 8 Spring Ahead 2:AM Strides of March Run 9 15 Lay Speaker(s) Board Meeting 16 Mosaic Group —First Church 17 Book Club — 2pm Pat Hervey’s BD Liz Duncan’s BD 22 10 Celebrity Wait Night Women’s Lunch Group Scot Harvey Taize Worship Service—First Church Thu 23 24 Donna Compton Catherine Shearer 30 31 6 World Book Day Omelet Party Boots & Blues Sue Anne CombyYoung’s BD Natalie Campos’s BD 12 13 18 Choir Pract. 7:30 25 7 AOK Campquest/ FreeOK fundraiser 4-11pm Red Tie Night 14 Stitchers—1:30 Sydney Wiechmann’s Nancy Myer’s BD BD Choir Pract. 7:30pm Spring Equinox 5 Sat Choir Pract. 7:30 CC Deadline CUUP's Ostara Celebration 6-9pm 29 11 Trivia Fundraiser Fri Bob Welch’s BD 19 Co-Op Pick up 5-7pm 20 21 Harriette Porter’s BD 26 27 ARTini 28 Land Run OUHSC Health Dash Amazing Race—OK March 2015 Page 10 Beatrice Potter (1866–1943) Channing Channel Local UU Group Now Formed: Western OK UU May Sarton (1912–1995) Elizabeth Palmer Peabody “The little flower that opens in the meadows lives and dies in a season; but what agencies have concentrated themselves to produce it! So the human soul lives in the midst of heavenly help.” ―Elizabeth Palmer Peabody Susan B. Anthony (1820–1906) The Western Oklahoma Unitarian Universalist Conference (WOKUU) represents the UU congregations of the western part of Oklahoma. Its purpose (for now) is to promote interaction between congregations, the sharing of resources, the exploration of new ideas, and the strengthening of common faith. Representatives of each congregation meet at 7 pm on the fourth Thursday of each month at First Unitarian Church of Oklahoma City to discuss various topics of importance to our congregations. WOKUU congregations are: A First Unitarian Church of Oklahoma City (http:// www.uuokc.org/) BLE Community Based Services is offering Easter lilies to decorate Channing's sanctuary for Easter Sunday. Unitarian Church of Stillwater (https://sites.google.com/site/ stillwaterunitarianchurch/) They are $12.00 each and can be planted in your yard or donated back to the church grounds after Easter. Channing Unitarian Universalist Church in Edmond (http:// www.channinguuc.org/) Channing Church has supported ABLE for the last twelve years, for which we are truly thankful. West Wind Unitarian Universalist Congregation (http:// wwuuc.blogspot.com/) Sign-up sheet is in the church entryway. Orders close on Sunday, March 29. Unitarian Universalist Church of Lawton (http://uulawton.org/) Channing Channel March 2015 Page 11 Why You Should NOT Be a Unitarian Universalist—Part 1 By Rev. Dr. Tony Larsen — Olympia Brown Unitarian Universalist Church, Racine, WI (Reprinted with permission) (Edited for space) S tarian Universalist if you support the Nazis or omebody I met recently described the Unithe KKK or any other group that believes in optarian Universalist Church as a place that welpressing people. We may be open in this church comes Christians, Jews, Agnostics, and even a - but we're not that open. We are closed to German Shepherd or two. He was trying to be things like closure. That is, we are closed to funny, and I laughed. But behind his remarks movements or groups that close people off. And was an unwarranted assumption - that anybody when we say our church has freedom of belief, can get in here. And behind that myth is anothwe mean that in a limited way. You are free to er one: that we don't stand for anything. believe whatever you want here - but only as long as it helps My friends, not You should not be a Unitarian Universalist if you live a caring everyone can be a Unitarian Uni- you support the Nazis or the KKK or any oth- and humane life versalist. Not er group that believes in oppressing people. - or at least doesn't prevent everyone should you from living a be a Unitarian Universalist. Because the first cricaring life. That's a very real limitation on freeterion for getting into this church is: you've got dom of belief. So when someone says, "What do to know how to sin. That's very important to us; Unitarian Universalists believe?" and you anand not everyone knows how to do it. We don't swer, “Oh, we believe whatever we want to." want people here who never do wicked things. That’s not quite true. There are a lot of things We don't want people here who are holier than we do not believe in. We don't believe in limiting thee or thou. We don't want people who have made it in the salvation department and are just people because of their race or color, for example. We don't believe in restricting people on the waiting around to get picked up. Because peobasis of gender. We don't believe in excluding ple with too much heaven in them are hell to people because of disability. We don't believe in live with. denying rights to those whose personal preferNow don't get me wrong. If there were any perence or lifestyle is different from the norm, so fect human beings around, we might let them long as that lifestyle doesn't infringe on other in. But since there aren't any, anyone who people's rights. We don't believe in destroying claims he/she doesn't do wicked things is either the environment. We don't believe that injustice trying to fool others, or trying to fool themand poverty are just unfortunate accidents that selves. It is the nature of the human to be evil as we don't have any responsibility to do something well as good. And you should not be a Unitarian about. There are some very definite limitations Universalist if you're not willing to admit that on freedom of belief in this church, and those about yourself. are some of them. These are rather different The second criterion of reason for not being a from the limitations of belief in some other Unitarian Universalist has to do with our intol- churches. erance of intolerance. You should not be a Uni(To be continued in April’s Channel.) Page 12 Channing Channel March 2015 Ostara Celebration—March 22nd Join us as we celebrate Ostara with a potluck supper, ritual and community! This is a family friendly event, so children are welcome. Starts at 6pm. Channing CUUP's (Covenant of Unitarian Universalist Pagans) is a welcoming place for those people who identify with the Pagan path and want to explore, participate and educate themselves. Channing CUUPs is a family based group of eclectic pagans who recognize all Pagan traditions. We gather to celebrate the major Sabbats eight times a year and see this as a time for fellowship, learning, and connecting ourselves with the turning of the Wheel. Our rituals include both the God and Goddess as we recognize the natural balance in life. Hope to see everyone there! guages use a variant of What is Ostara? Rituals "Pascha," a Greek adoption of Ostara is a Neopagan festival Pagans celebrate Ostara with celebrated on the spring equi- the Hebrew for Passover, for various rituals celebrating fertilthe Christian holiday.) nox, which is between March 19 ity, nature and new growth. and March 22 in the Northern The Germanic words Eostre Egg races, egg hunts, egg eatand Ostara probably come from Hemisphere. On the spring ing and egg painting are comthe same root as "East," the di- mon activities. A man and a and fall equinoxes, day and rection of the rising sun. They woman might be chosen to act night are of equal lengths. Ostara celebrates the coming of are not etymologically related out the roles of Spring God and to the word estrogen, which spring, new growth and fertiliGoddess, playing out courtship comes from the Greek oistros, ty. and symbolically planting seeds. meaning "frenzy." History and Etymology The English monk and historian Bede (d. 735) recorded that the Anglo-Saxon goddess Eostre had a festival lasting several days, and that this name was adopted in England for the Christian holiday of Easter, which falls on the Sunday after the full moon following the spring equinox. The Neopagan holiday of Ostara is also known as Lady Day, Egg Day, or Alban Eiler (Druidic). Meaning For Wiccans and some other Pagans, Ostara is the day when the Goddess and God (variously identified as Mother Earth and the Green Man or the Young Maiden and Sun God) join in Eostre has since evolved into "Easter" in English and "Ostern" sacred marriage. The Goddess in German. The word "Ostara" will conceive, and give birth in nine months. The increased comes from the German mygrowth and strength of nature thologist Jacob Grimm (d. in the spring is due to the rising 1863), who said this was the Old High German name for the power of the Goddess and God. Easter festival. (All other lan- Neopagans also celebrate by eating fresh spring foods like sprouts, dandelion greens, and nettles. Some undertake a fast during this period, to clear away the toxins of the winter. Many Wiccans plant an herb garden (for later use in spells) on Ostara. Home altars might feature spring flowers, seeds, jasmine or flowery incense, and the gemstone of jasper. Anonymous. "Ostara (Spring Equinox)." ReligionFacts. 28 February 2015 - See more at: http://www.religionfacts.com/ neopaganism/festivals/ostara.htm Channing Channel March 2015 O n Sunday, February 22nd, the Channing Choir presented a program on “Awareness.” Each member relayed stories, poems and even a quilt presentation to illustrate their idea of Awareness. It was very entertaining. Pictured above: Evie Eskridge, Harriette Porter, Pam Dizikes, Jana Leslie, Steve Pace, Nancy Jefferis, Pat Hervey, Walter Eskridge, Wayne Leslie. Liturgist was Briana Greenemeyer. Page 13 March Goodies 2800 West 15th Street, Edmond, OK 73083-2382 405-340-1213 emailus@channinguuc.org Church of the Open Mind and Open Heart We’re on the web at: channinguuc.org Channing UU Church P.O. Box 2382 Edmond, OK 73083-2382 Contributed by Melody Joyce Quote of the Month March1st—Pot Luck March 8th—Katherine Williams March 15th—Eva Mahoney March 22nd—Open March 29th—Jana Leslie The Channing Channel is the monthly newsletter of Channing Church, a UU congregation in Edmond, Oklahoma 2800 W 15th Street, Edmond— 324 NW 164th Street, OKC Newsletter Editor: Eva Mahoney Newsletter deadline is the 25th of preceding month Email: wnyokie@cox.net Church Officers 2014-2015: Co-Presidents: Betty Rasmussen, Pat Hervey; Co-Presidents-elect: Liz Duncan, Eva Mahoney; Secretary: Elouise Bell; Treasurer: Nancy Jefferis; Trustees: Walter Eskridge, JT Hawk, Briana Greenemeyer, Hal Yocum