The Church of the Nativity 210 Oak Grove Avenue

Photographs by Charlene Dorman
210 Oak Grove Avenue
Menlo Park, CA 94025
tel: (650) 323-7914
fax: (650) 323-3231
www.nativitymenlo.org
The Church of the Nativity
MASSES
Sundays Saturdays Weekdays Holy Days 08:00, 09:30, 11:30 AM and 05:00 PM
08:00 AM and 05:00 PM (Vigil)
07:30 AM and 05:30 PM
07:30 AM, 05:30 and 07:30 PM
SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION
Saturdays 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM (Opus Dei priest)
03:30 PM - 04:30 PM (parish priest)
(also by appointment)
BAPTISMS1st, 3rd and 5th Sundays of the month
(contact rectory 2 months in advance)
WEDDINGS Saturdays 11:00 AM and 02:00 PM
(contact rectory at least 6 months in advance)
PASTOR
Rev. Msgr. Steven D. Otellini
PAROCHIAL VICAR
Rev. Alner Nambatac
PERMANENT DEACONS
Rev. Mr. Dominick Peloso
Rev. Mr. Thomas Kelly
WEEKEND ASSISTANTS
Rev. Jerome Magat
Rev. Paul Maillet, S.S.
Rev. Gladstone Stevens, S.S.
SCHOOL OF RELIGIOUS EDUCATION
Mrs. Monica Hickam • (650) 804-2390
24-hour Eucharistic Adoration
HEARING LOOP ENABLED
FIRST READING
It is I who arm you, though you know me
not ... I am the Lord, there is no other.
Isaiah 45: 1, 4-6
RESPONSORIAL PSALM
For all the gods of the nations are things of
nought, but the Lord made the heavens.
Twenty-Ninth Sunday
in Ordinary Time
19 October 2014
Psalms 96
Repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar,
and to God what belongs to God.
SECOND READING
Our gospel did not come to you in word
alone, but also in power and in the Holy
Spirit.
Matthew 22: 21
1 thessalonians 1: 1-5
GOSPEL
Knowing their malice, Jesus said, “Why are
you testing me, you hypocrites?”
Calendar
Matthew 22: 15-21
SCHEDULE OF MASSES
AND INTENTIONS
WEEK OF 19 - 25 OCT
SAT 05:00 PM Priest’s intentions
SUN Masses
Priest’s intentions
MON 07:30 AM † Heleodoro Beltran
05:30 PM Stephen Waterford; Jennifer Lee
TUE 07:30 AM The Peloso, Munk and extended families
05:30 PM The Morey family
SUN
MON-FRI
MON-FRI
TUE
THU
SAT
SAT
SAT
SAT
07:00 PM
07:10 AM
05:10 PM
06:00 PM
06:00 PM
06:15 AM
07:40 AM
10:00 AM 12:00 PM
03:30 PM 04:30 PM
Holy Hour for Priests
Morning Prayer
Evening Prayer
Cenacles of Life Rosary
Perpetual Help Novena
Men’s Prayer Group
Morning Prayer
Confessions
(Opus Dei priest)
Confessions
(parish priest)
WED 07:30 AM † Paul Soares
05:30 PM † Donald Tasto
19 OCT
(Sunday)
THU 07:30 AM † Melvin Savage
05:30 PM † Janet Newman
20 OCT
(Monday)
09:00 AM
07:30 PM
07:30 PM
Bible Group
Legion of Mary
RCIA
(Tuesday)
09:30 AM
07:00 PM
Faith Formation
Faith Formation
FRI 07:30 AM The DeAraujo family
05:30 PM † Noreen Ferguson
SAT 08:00 AM Catherine;
† Marianne Salyer;
† Charlotte Lebeau;
† Joe Riley
21 OCT
22 OCT
(Wednesday)
07:00 PM
Confirmation Class
23 OCT
(Thursday)
11:00 AM
Please pray for those in need of physical or spiritual healing
Special Collection
There will be a second collection at all Masses
this week for World Mission Sunday.
ATTENTION PARISHIONERS EXPERIENCING
HEARING LOSS
Can’t hear the sermon or parts of the Mass? 21% of the American
public has some form of hearing loss.
Nativity Church has taken a BIG STEP forward to help our
parishioners who do have a form of hearing loss. People
with hearing aids can now turn on their T-Coil built into their
hearing aids. If you do not know if you have a T-Coil contact
your audiologist. If you do not have a T-Coil in your hearing aid
there will be Assisted Listening Devices in the rectory.
For more information please contact Bonnie Neylan
650/322-8645, 650/269-4635, or neylan5@comcast.net.
HEARING LOOP ENABLED
24 OCT
(Friday)
25 OCT
(Saturday)
The Thursday Group
Parish OfferINGS
WEEK OF
04-05 OCT
TOTAL:
$11,189
Annual Diocesan Appeal Progress:
2014 ADA Goal:
$25,390
$130,840
Saints and Observances
SOLEMNITY, FEAST, MEMORIAL • OPTIONAL MEMORIAL • OTHER
20 OCT (Saturday)
SAINT PAUL OF THE CROSS, Priest (1694-1775)
After receiving a vision, and while still a layman, Paul founded
the Congregation of Discalced Clerks of the Most Holy Cross and
Passion (the Passionists) in 1721 to preach about Jesus Crucified.
Paul was a preacher of such power that hardened soldiers and
bandits were seen to weep.
22 OCT (Monday)
SAINT JOHN PAUL II, Pope (1920-2005)
A member of the prepatory commission, Karol Wojtyla attended
all four sessions of Vatican II, and is said to have written Gaudium
et spes, the document on the Church in the Modern World. In
1960 he published Love and Responsibility. Pope Paul VI, delighted with its apologetical defense of the traditional Catholic
teaching of marriage, relied extensively on Archbishop Wojytla’s
counsel in writing Humanae Vitae. In 1978, Archbishop Wojtyla
became the first non-Italian pope since Adrian VI.
John Paul II is the most traveled pope in history, having visited
nearly every country in the world which would receive him. As
the Vicar of Christ he has consecrated each place that he has visited to the Blessed Virgin Mary.
23 OCT (Tuesday)
SAINT JOHN OF CAPISTRANO,
Priest (1386-1456)
John was governor of Perugia under King
Landislas of Naples. When war broke out between Perugia and Malatesta in 1416, John
tried to broker a peace, but instead his opponents ignored the truce, and John became a
prisoner of war. During his imprisonment he
changed vocations and became a Franciscan.
He was reported to heal by making the Sign
of the Cross over a sick person. After the fall
of Constantinople, he preached a Crusade against the Muslim
Turks, which he led at age 70 at the head of 70,000 Christian soldiers. He won the great battle of Belgrade in the summer of 1456,
then died in the field a few months later.
24 OCT (Thursday)
SAINT ANTHONY MARY CLARET, Bishop (1807-1870)
He founded the Congregation of Missionary Sons of the Immaculate Heart of Mary (the Claretians). Anthony became the Archbishop of Santiago de Cuba on 20 May 1850. He also founded the
Teaching Sisters of Mary Immaculate. He had the gifts of prophecy and miracles.
Ministry and Group News
NATIVITY MOMS AND DADS OF YESTERYEAR
Renew past friendships and make new ones. Join the Nativity
Moms and Dads of Yesteryear at Harry’s Hofbrau, 1909 El
Camino Real, Redwood City, on Tuesday, 11 November 2014, at
06:00 PM. For information only call Bonnie Neylan at 650/3228645.
EUCHARISTIC MINISTERS NEEDED
We are in need of volunteers to become Extraordinary Ministers
of the Eucharist for all Masses, but particularly the Sunday,
05:00 PM Mass. Training is easy and the rewards are great. If
you are interested, please contact Kerry Perez at kerrycperez@
gmail.com
EUCHARISTIC ADORATION
Nativity Church is open 24/7. The Blessed Sacrament is exposed for adoration and there is always
someone present in prayer. Won’t you join us by
signing up for your weekly Holy Hour? When
you sign up, you and your intentions share in the
grace of everyone who comes to visit. Come and
experience the dramatic presence of God in our
lives. Please consider the following hours as there
is no one currently assigned to them (or pick an
hour that works for you):
Monday: 02:00 PM (Prayer Partner)
Tuesday: 05:00 AM (Prayer Partner)
GUATEMALAN MISSION SALES
On 26 October 2014 Kay Sweeney will be at Nativity once again to
sell Guatemalan handicrafts. These crafts are made by indigenous
women in Guatelmala, who are part of the Kateri Tekakwitha
Mission Fund. The sales of these handicrafts help support and
educate these women. There will be information available on
how to support a scholarship for a young indigenous woman.
Check their website for more information at www.missionguatemala.org. Kay Sweeney is an Associate of the Sisters of
the Presentation in San Francisco. She works in Guatemala with
the Kateri Tekekwith Mission Fund helping these women develop
their talents through formal and informal education. The crafts
will be available in the O’Hare Center after the Sunday morning
Masses only.
You have never strayed too far for the Father’s forgiveness and grace.
Friday: 06:00 AM, 01:00 PM, 02:00 PM
Saturday: 11:00 AM, 04:00 PM
Thank you in advance for your generosity. The God who is not
outdone in generosity will certainly bless you and your intentions.
Call Mary Ellen Peloso (650/269-7794) to sign up.
Pregnant? Need Help? Please contact
the Juan Diego Society (408/258-2008),
the Gabriel Project (800/910-0191) or
Community Pregnancy Center (650/964-8093).
Announcements
OUR PARISH FAMILY
Please keep all of our newest members in your prayers,
as well as those who have preceded us to the Father.
BAPTISMS • Ivana Angelica, daughter of
Kevin Esparza and Nicole Layosa
• Nico Nalu, son of
Jonathan and Charo Lata
• Paul Conrad and John Henry, sons of
David and Gabriela Wehner
MARRIAGES • Hulises Barcelo and Alexandra Oceguera
PARISHIONERS •
DEATHS • Dolore Pearce
SPECIAL COLLECTION THIS SUNDAY
This weekend is World Mission Sunday. There will be a second
collection for the Society for the Propagation of the Faith. Your
prayers and generous support directly benefit the mission Church
in places like Mongolia where the young church is growing, filled
with zeal for the faith, but lacking in resources for its outreach
to families and those in need; your prayers and assistance help
to build new schools and churches, train catechists, run medical
centers, and provide for skill training classes and homes for
children with disabilities who are homeless. Please be generous.
Checks for all special collections should be made out to the
Church of the Nativity. In the memo line write the appropriate
reference for your donation, for example: World Mission Sunday.
2015: THE YEAR OF CONSECRATED LIFE
Pope Francis had declared 2015 The Year of Consecrated Life.
On Monday evening, 20 October 2014 there will be a special
Evening of Prayer at 07:00 PM at St. Mary’s Cathedral, 1111
Gough Street, San Francisco. This prayer service, presided over
by Archbishop Cordileone, will open the events of The Year of
Consecrated Life. Please join us for this special occasion.
In The Community
“SONGS OF IRELAND” CONCERT
Come and enjoy a concert of “Songs of Ireland”, presented by
Alexander and Luke Edward Harding Bradley on Sunday, 26
October 2014 at 02:00 PM at Nativity. This is a benefit for the
Nativity Music Fund - A free-will offering will be accepted.
HOLIDAY PIE SALE
Once again the members of the Corpus Christi Chapter of
Dominican Laity invite you to sample traditional, handmade
pies by Upper Crust on Sunday, 02 November 2014, after the
09:30 AM, 11:30 AM and 05:00 PM Masses. These delicious
gourmet pies are made using the finest, all-natural ingredients just
like you would make at home! We will take orders for Pumpkin,
Apple, Berry Supreme, Strawberry Rhubarb, and gluten-free
Peach and Pumpkin pies. All orders can be picked up on Sunday,
09 November 2014 after the 09:30 and 11:30 AM Masses only.
The pies come unbaked (frozen) and keep
perfectly in the freezer for 10-12 months for
fast and convenient baking any time! They
are great to tuck in the freezer for upcoming
holidays or to offer as gifts to friends and family. Upper Crust’s
“Bay Area Famous” traditional 8-inch pies are available to you
for only $20 each! Don’t miss this great opportunity to find out
more about the Dominican Laity and enjoy homemade-quality
pies this holiday season.
HOLY HOUR - HAPPY HOUR (H4)
Young adults in their 20s and 30s are encouraged join us for a
Holy Hour at the Church of the Nativity (210 Oak Grove, Menlo
Park) on Thursdays from 08:00-09:00 PM, followed by drinks
at 09:00 PM at a nearby pub of café. If you have any questions,
please e-mail holyhourhappyhour@gmail.com.
HUMAN TRAFFICKING EVENT
Trinity Church (330 Ravenswood Avenue, Menlo Park) will
host a public community event with focus on the trafficking
of women and girls, not only across the world but in our very
own communities. This free event on Saturday, 01 November
2014, 10:00 AM-12:00 PM – is a wonderful opportunity to come
together as a community to learn more and how to respond to this
issue. Expert presenters, global handmade products for sale, free
childcare and refreshments. RSVP required at www.eventbrite.
com. Enter Hearts For Justice in the search field to be directed to
the link.
The Society of St. Vincent de Paul’s Catherines’ Center, right
here in our community, serves local women impacted. To find out
more, please call 650/838-9800.
CONCERNED ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE?
Do you feel lost and alone? Are you hurt, frustrated or angry with
each other? Have you thought about separation or divorce? Are
you arguing or do you simply shut down? Does talking about it
only make it worse? Retrouvaille (Reh-trō-vī) is a lifeline for
marriages in trouble. Retrouvaille is not just for hurting couples
and welcomes all couples wanting to bring new life to your
marriage. Couples of all faiths and those with no faith tradition
are welcome and encouraged to attend. The ultimate goal of
Retrouvaille is solely to help save marriages.
Retrouvaille is not a retreat, marriage counseling, or a sensitivity
group. There are neither group dynamics nor group discussions on
the weekend. It is not a time for hurting; it is a time for healing.
For more information go to www.retrouvaille.org.
It’s not too late to register for the 07-09 November 2014 weekend!
THE HOLY FATHER’S
PRAYER INTENTIONS
From the Holy See
Each month His Holiness asks for general and missionary prayer intentions. For October 2014, the Holy Father’s prayer intentions are:
Universal:
Peace
That the Lord may grant peace to those parts of the
world most battered by war and violence.
Missionary: World Mission Day
That World Mission Day may rekindle in every believer zeal for carrying the Gospel into all the world.
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SYNOD OF BISHOPS ON THE FAMILY
(Vatican Radio: 11 October 2014)
Bishops and lay experts attending the Synod on the Family are
coming to the end of their first week’s work and moving into their
different language discussion groups for the second phase of their
meeting. With Pope Francis present at almost every session, a
vast variety of family issues have been under the spotlight over
the past five days. Supporting children of separated families,
reaching out to the widowed and lonely, and accompanying
couples searching for reconciliation and healing in their lives;
those are some of the practical questions being discussed in the
Synod Hall by participants who’ve come from all corners of the
globe to share their perspectives on the problems facing family
life today.
A hot button issue that emerged from the questionnaires ahead
of this Synod was family planning and the very high numbers
of Catholics who ignore the Church’s ban on artificial methods
of contraception. Alice and Jeffrey Heinzen (advisors on natural
family planning to the U.S. bishops’ conference) urged couples
to look again at the advantages of natural methods of fertility
regulation, which they say can now prove up to 99% effective, if
they are properly understood and practised.
After a summing-up session on Monday morning, participants
now move into 10 smaller groups where they must try and reach
some agreement to be presented at the end of this two-week
meeting. But as Canadian Fr. Tom Rosica underlined, this meeting
may be less about results and more about the radical new listening
method that Pope Francis has introduced.
Calendar of Novenas
19 OCT (SUN)
SEVENTH DAY: Pope Saint John Paul II
SECOND DAY: Saint Jude
20 OCT (MON)
EIGHTH DAY: Pope Saint John Paul II
THIRD DAY: Saint Jude
21 OCT (TUE)
NINTH DAY: Pope Saint John Paul II
FOURTH DAY: Saint Jude
22 OCT (WED)
Feast of Pope Saint John Paul II
FIFTH DAY: Saint Jude
23 OCT (THU)
SIXTH DAY: Saint Jude
FIRST DAY: All Saints
24 OCT (FRI)
SEVENTH DAY: Saint Jude
SECOND DAY: All Saints
25 OCT (SAT)
EIGHTH DAY: Saint Jude
THIRD DAY: All Saints
26 OCT (SUN)
NINTH DAY: Saint Jude
FOURTH DAY: All Saints
27 OCT (MON)
Feast of Saints Simon and Jude
FIFTH DAY: All Saints
28 OCT (TUE)
SIXTH DAY: All Saints
29 OCT (WED)
SEVENTH DAY: All Saints
30 OCT (THU)
EIGHTH DAY: All Saints
31 OCT (FRI)
NINTH DAY: All Saints
01 NOV (SAT)
Feast of All Saints
FIND THE NOVENA PRAYERS
St. Jude: www.ewtn.com/Devotionals/novena/jude.htm
All Saints’ Novena: www.piercedhearts.org/treasures/devotions/
Novenas/novena_all_saints.html
OTHER NOVENA PRAYERS
Infant Jesus of Prague (nine-hour): www.ewtn.com/library/
PRAYER/PRAGNOV.TXT
St. Therese “24 Glory Be’s” Novena: www.ewtn.com/Devotionals/novena/24_glory.htm
Novena for Priests: www.ewtn.com/Devotionals/novena/
priests.htm
Effecacious Novena to the Sacred Heart of Jesus: www.ewtn.
com/devotionals/heart/sh_novena.htm
Young Believers
With the ever-increasing use of email and texting, the abbreviation “OMG” has come into widespread
and common use (even appearing in advertisements for the California lottery at one time!). While
many people may regard this as “simply an expression”, it is in fact a blasphemy: you are
taking the Lord’s name in vain, in violation of the Second Commandment. Are you willing to
be a strong Catholic and obey the Commandments that our Creator gave us? Don’t use this
“phrase”, and encourage others to follow your good example (it’s a small sacrifice: offer it up
for the souls in Purgatory!).
The Church also offers us a partial indulgence if we say “Blessed be God” whenever we hear
God’s name taken in vain. So the next time someone texts you “OMG”, text them back “BBG”.
And when they ask you what it means, explain this whole situation to them!
OMG
Which of these coins would not have been in circulation
during the time of Jesus (first century A.D.)?
(HINT: there are 3)
www.pflaum.com/families3/
A
C
D
E
G
F
H
ANSWER:
(C): modern Japanese coin, (D) a British halfpenny from the reign of Henry V, (G) ancient
Chinese coin
The others are:
(A) a Judean bronze coin, (B) a Greek bronze coin (Apollo), (E) a lepton (the “widow’s mite”),
(F) a silver Roman denarius, and (H) a bronze Roman holed coin.
NATIVITY YOUTH MINISTRY NEWS
XLT Mid-Peninsula Encounter
Nativity Youth Ministry, along with St. Raymond, St. Denis, and
Sacred Heart youth ministries are excited to present the first-ever
XLT-Mid-Peninsula with 49ers head coach Jim Harbaugh,
on Wednesday, 22 October 2014, to be held at Sacred Heart
School. During XLT (“exalt”), teens from different Catholic
parishes come together to pray and worship. The night is divided
into three parts: praise and worship, a dynamic speaker, and
adoration of the Most Blessed Sacrament. Young people, 6th
grade and above, are invited to this special evening. To order your
tickets ($10/student), please go to www.eventbrite.com/e/xlt-midpeninsula-encounter-with-jim-harbaugh-tickets-12537178037.
Seating is limited. This is a youth-only drop-off event.
Teen Lectors and Eucharistic Ministers Wanted
About once a month, preferably during the 05:00 PM Saturday
Masses. Any young person who has been confirmed can
participate in these leadership roles. Those who feel comfortable
speaking in front of people can serve as a Lector. The role of
the Eucharistic Minister is particularly ideal for those who have
outgrown altar serving and who understand the reverence due to
Our Lord in the Eucharist.
If you are interested in any of these activities, or if you have any
questions, please contact Mark or Linda Basnage at tlbasnage@
gmail.com.
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YOUTH RALLY AND MASS
The Archdiocese of San Francisco is sponsoring a Youth Rally and
Mass on All Saints Day, Saturday, 01 November 2014, 10:00
AM-04:00 PM at St Anne of the Sunset Church, 850 Judah Street,
San Francisco. This will be an exciting, one-day experience of
community building, learning, prayer, and activities for Catholic
teenagers (grades 7 to 12) and their adult chaperones. There will
be a special focus on the lives of young saints. Strengthen your
relationship with God and celebrate Mass with Bishop Justice.
The fee is $10 per youth. To register: www.sforem.org/node/337
or contact Ynez Lizarraga, Associate Director of Youth Ministry
at 415/614-5654 or lizarragay@sfarchdiocese.org.