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Document 6588221
וירא פרשת published weekly by Anshei Lubavitch of Greater Miami in memory of Dr. Steve Barton - ישראל פרץ בן דוב Leaf Collecting Many folks from the East Coast to the Rocky Mountains have been going on nature walks, drives through the mountains, or strolls in parks these past few weeks to enjoy the change of colors and scenery that autumn affords. Kids in particular enjoy collecting the fallen autumn leaves. Sometimes it's for a school project (having to identify which leaves came from which trees?), an art project, or a personal project (trying to find leaves in as many different colors and shapes as possible?). Do you remember one of those "nature/art projects" that many of us did as kids? You took leaves and put them under a sheet of paper. With the edge of a crayon you rubbed the paper over the leaf and were able to recognize not only the shape of the leaf but even its main stem and veins. You couldn't rub it too lightly or too firmly, though, or it wouldn't work. Jewish life is like one big leaf collecting project if you consider that mitzvot are very much like leaves. They come in all different colors and shapes and sizes and textures. And, as Jewish teachings explain, just as no two faces are exactly the same neither are there two temperaments or opinions that are exactly the same. Thus, individuals are attracted to different mitzvot (commandments). But, despite one's propensity for a certain shaped or colored leaf, if the teacher said you had to collect ten different leaves you had to collect TEN different leaves. Similarly, though we might enjoy doing one mitzva over another mitzva, or five mitzvot rather than 13 mitzvot, when the Teacher says to collect 13, you gotta collect 13. Similar to the way we execute the art project, we should be neither too firm nor too light in doing these mitzvot, but should follow the rules and tread the middle path; if we don't then the project won't work. It's not a punishment either, it just won't work. Often people ask, "But isn't the main part of the mitzva the intent? After all, G-d desires the heart!" Intent and sincerity are a major part of the mitzva but not the main thing. The actual doing of the mitzva, and doing it according to the rules, is the major part. If you do it wrong, you won't get punished, it just won't come out right. Like the art project with the leaf which doesn't work if you rub too hard or too soft (or not at all), there won't be an image on the paper. And with the mitzva, if it's not done right there won't be an image on your soul, or on the environment, or on the world. That's not a punishment, it's simply a fact. Too little or too much, too light or too hard, too hot or too cold. If you don't do it right it just won't work. But, there's always next time to try again. Keep on collecting those leaves and those mitzvot. Enjoy them. Appreciate them. Have favorites that you especially treasure and look for at every opportunity. Eagerly anticipate the times of year when certain mitzvot are more readily available or easily discernible than at other times. Take a stroll, or a walk or a drive through the glorious colors and scents and textures of mitzvot every single day of your life. CANDLE LIGHTING TIME TORAH READING Friday, Nov. 7, 2014 BERESHIS 5:17 P.M. Vayera: 18:1-22:24 TO SPONSOR AN EDITION OF THE LUMINARY PLEASE CALL 305-532-1800 This week's Luminary is sponsored in memory of Harav Avrahom Yaakov ben Yisroel Mordechai Teitelbaum - אברהם יעקב בן ישראל מרדכי May his memory always serve as a great inspiration for his family, Talmidim, and all those who knew him. This week's Torah portion, Vayera, hints at a spiritual yet mundane aspect of Abraham and Sara's relationship. Our Sages of the Talmud teach: "How does a woman help a man?...If a man brings wheat, does he chew the wheat? If he brings flax, does he wear the flax? It follows, then, that she brings light to his eyes and puts him on his feet!" A person's mission in life is to elevate and refine the material aspects of the world, imbuing them with spiritual content. But man brings only wheat and flax, he is concerned with raw materials, with generalities. He is somewhat removed from the down-to-earth realities, the details. It is woman who transforms the wheat into food and the flax into clothing, who tangibly implements our lifetime mission. Abraham and Sara. Man and woman. When Abraham found out that his wife, Sara, was to bear a child, he prayed. From the lofty, detached viewpoint of his great saintliness he asked, "Would that Ishmael might live before You!" He hoped that Ishmael would continue to live in fear of and worship G-d. Abraham saw in Ishmael, future father of the Arab nations, the potential for living a G-d-fearing life. But Sara saw reality. She saw Ishmael's devastating influence in the home, particularly over her son Isaac. She demanded that Abraham remove the harmful influence of Ishmael from the home. Abraham could not find peace with the idea of sending his oldest son away. Although G-d had already informed Abraham that He would fulfill His covenant specifically and exclusively through Isaac, from Abraham's perspective it seemed that Ishmael should stay in the house. Only in his own home could Abraham hope to influence Ishmael in a positive manner. But G-d declared to Abraham, "In all that Sara says to you, listen to her voice, for in Isaac shall descendants be called to you." The commentator Rashi explains that this statement indicates that Sara's power of prophecy was superior to Abraham's. It was Sara, the down-to-earth woman, the foundation of the home, who recognized the harmful influence. And he sat at the opening of the tent in the heat of the day (Gen. 18:1) This is the mark of the true tzadik (righteous individual), who always sees himself "at the opening," i.e., the very beginning, along the path of righteousness. Considering himself still "outside" and far from spiritual perfection, he worries that his deeds haven't accomplished much... (Toldot Yaakov Yosef) For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him (Gen. 18:19) According to Rashi, "For I know him" is "an expression of love...for he who knows someone brings him near to himself, and knows him and understands him." Why did G-d love Abraham so much? Unlike other righteous people who lived before his time, Abraham understood that the objective in serving G-d is not to attain individual perfection through contemplation, but to actually have a positive effect on the world. G-d knew that Abraham would "command his children and household after him" to go in the way of the Torah, and thus loved him dearly. (Our Sages) And when he saw them, he ran to meet them (Gen. 18:2) "Receive every person with a cheerful countenance," declared Shammai, the great Torah Sage. Even if one bestows all the treasures in the world on another, if his face is angry, it is considered as if he gave him nothing. On the other hand, if a person greets his fellow in a friendly manner, even if he gives him nothing it is considered as if he gave him a great fortune. And Abraham drew near (Gen. 18:3) Rashi notes that Abraham approached G-d "to speak [with Him] in a harsh manner," to plead that He change His mind and not destroy Sodom. Abraham, the epitome of lovingkindness, nonetheless saw fit to go against his natural inclination and "speak harshly" with G-d! We learn from this that when it comes to saving lives, either literally or in the spiritual sense, a Jew must pull out all the stops and do all in his power, even if it goes against his very nature. (Likrat Shabbat) G-d rained upon Sodom and Gomora brimstone and fire...(Gen. 19:24) At the present time Sodom is in its ruined state. However, when Moshiach comes and evil will be completely removed from the earth, Sodom will return to its original state of blessing and beauty, as it says, (Ezek. 16) "And I will return the captivity of Sodom." (Sefer HaParshiot) And Abraham called the name of his son...Isaac (Yitzchak) (Gen. 21:3) In the Messianic age, it is specifically of Isaac that we will say "for you are our father" (a verse from the book of Isaiah). According to Chasidut, the name Yitzchak is an expression of laughter and delight; when Moshiach comes, the supernal joy and delight of our present service of G-d will be fully revealed. (Likutei Sichot, Vol. I) VISIT US ON THE WEB AT WWW.ANSHEILUBAVITCH.COM In his voluminous writings, the Previous Rebbe, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak, has documented the profound bond he had with his father, Rabbi Sholom Ber, known as the Rebbe Rashab. The following excerpts afford us a glimpse into the unusual childhood years which formed his towering personality. From the year 5647 (1887) [when the author was seven years old] until 5649 (1889) I did not see my parents, because throughout this time they visited various health resorts abroad. Only occasionally did they return home for a few days. My lifestyle during those two years made me forget my earlier memories of my father. The warm closeness which my father showed me from the summer of 5649 onwards erased all traces of the suffering which I had undergone as a result of my wanderings and difficulties in the preceding two years, and once again I recollected everything that I had seen and heard in the years before that period. On the Sabbath my father would pray at considerable length. He would go there when the congregational prayers began at about 9:30 a.m. The congregation finished at about 11:30 a.m. and he would complete his private devotions at about three or sometimes four. Usually, even those individuals who prayed at length had completed their prayers half an hour or at most an hour after the congregation had finished. At this age I recalled that when I had been a very little boy, still taught by Reb Yekusiel, I used to run to shul to hear my father at his prayers. At that time, though, my heart was sad: Why didn't my father daven fast like the whole congregation-like my uncles, for example? Once, in answer to my question, my uncle, Reb Zalman Aharon explained to me that my father wasn't able to read all those letters so fast. This made me really sad. Once, when I was little, I came to shul and found no one there but my father. He was facing the wall and entreating G-d for compassion. I was utterly unable to grasp why he entreated more than all other worshipers and why he was more in need of compassion than other people. Suddenly, my father wept intensely. My heart fell within me: no one was there in the House of G-d but my father, and he was weeping. I listened carefully and heard that he said "Shema Yisrael" and wept, and said "Hashem Elokeinu" and wept. Then, still weeping, he said from the fullness of his heart and in an awesome voice, "Hashem Echad." This time I could contain myself no longer. I went and asked my mother tearfully: "Why does father daven longer than everyone else? My uncle Reb Zalman Aharon says that father can't pronounce the letters quickly, but why can't he read quickly and properly? Besides, today I saw and heard him crying. Mother, come along with me and I'll show you that Father is crying!" "But what can I do?" replied my mother. "Can I send him to a teacher? Go and ask your grandmother. Perhaps she will be able to do something about it." Hastening to follow my mother's advice, I went to put my innocent question to my grandmother. "Your father is a great chasid and a tzadik," she said. "Before any single word leaves his mouth he first thinks of its exact meaning." As I now recall, her answer set my mind at rest. From that time on I related differently to my father, for I now knew that he was different from all other people. At every single step I began to see just who my father was. Other people talked, and talked excitedly; my father was silent most of the time, and when he spoke he spoke softly. In the course of one month in the summer of 5649 I became a different boy. My father showed me such closeness that I felt all the warmth of a father, all the love of a compassionate father. I went to sleep with the thought that now I, too, had a father and a mother to whom to say goodnight, and in the course of the following two years I completely forgot the bitter conditions under which I had previously lived. In the course of those next two years I attained understanding. I was now able to appreciate the great difference between my father and his brothers, that is, between his aspirations and theirs. For over a year now I had been listening to his discourses of Chasidic philosophy, standing behind my father as he delivered them. My father was expounding Chasidut and I was there to hear it. In the course of those two years the Sabbaths were holy and the festivals were devoted to prayer and joy. Every Sabbath I would listen to the Reading of the Torah while following attentively in a Chumash, and in the course of the day I would study the commentary of Rashi as well. Rosh Hashana of the year 5650 (1889) [when the author was nine years old] was the first Rosh Hashana on which I did everything like an adult. And from that day on I was a grown-up. OVER 90 TORAH PROGRAMS / 24 HOURS A DAY / ADULT & CHILDREN / CALL 305 - 531 - 8888 All is Well By: Dr. David Nesenoff I only remember his first name, Michel. We all sat at Rabbi Yossi Schildkraut's Shabbat table in S. Paolo, Brazil. There were families, friends and visiting businessmen. Michel, a father of four, had moved to Israel from Brazil; he was now back in Brazil just for a couple of weeks for some meetings. After the fish, meat, rice, beans, and saying l'chaim, we sang. Nigunim, melodies without words, songs with words, and then the old favorite "Jerusalem of Gold" crept into the medley. We smiled when Michel continued on after the first stanza; after all, who knows all the stanzas to that song? Michel sang all three, and the rest of us only joined in for the refrain, "Yerushalayim shel zahav." Then Michel quietly noted to all that the golden song about Jerusalem had been written right before the 1967 war and that following the battle an additional verse was added. He began to softly sing that final stanza in Hebrew, the words that captured an eternal moment of time when Jerusalem was once again home, "We have returned to the market, the cistern and the square; the shofar calls on the Temple Mount in the Old City." And Michel began to cry. The Shabbat table was still. His voice cracked and he paused. Soon, I was tearing as well. The reality of our people's history, legacy, frailty and future emerged right there among the challah crumbs and the tablecloth stained from my spilled wine. I was on a 10-day speaking tour in Brazil with audiences in S. Paulo, Curitiba and Rio de Janeiro, delivering the message of the Rebbe, "We are b'nai Yisrael; we are the children of Israel." Yes, children are eternal and that is why we have an eternal relationship with the land that G-d gave us. I have had the merit to offer my humorous presentation, laden with the Rebbe's words, in Australia, Ireland, England, Canada and throughout the entire United States. But there in Brazil, at that Shabbat table, the children of Israel did what children do. They cried. The Portuguese greeting "tudo bem" ("all is well") was uttered by all the shluchim during my journey to South America. These emissaries indeed fulfill their personal commitment to the Rebbe's vision of reaching every Jew in the world. And the Jewish souls they have found, collected and gathered are warm and searching and eager and questioning and learning and trying and struggling, but tudo bem, all is well. I must admit that although my Chabad global speaking tours have made me a seasoned traveler, I was a bit nervous prior to this trip to Brazil. When I arrived at the Miami airport departure gate as I waited for the boarding announcement, I noticed a white-bearded chasid sitting there. "Are you Chabad?" I asked. In a secretive manner he replied, "I try to be." He kept his cards close to his chest, not revealing very much about himself while he interrogated me. He then borrowed my phone to make some local calls; he had me watch his luggage while he left to pray; and upon his return presented his business card. The One Above quells our fears and protects us on our travels. My new flying companion was none other than Rabbi Shabsi Alpern, Brazil's head emissary. When I arrived in S. Paulo, Rabbi Dovid Goldberg shared with me some of the woes of the largest South American country that he now calls home. There is crime, corruption, and a high cost of living, but tudo bem, all is well. The Jews filled the synagogue that evening and they laughed and they cried and they laughed as I spoke. I am often told in various countries and in regions of the U.S., "The Jews are different here; their humor is different." But it is proven time and time again that the very first Jew who was born to Abraham and Sarah was not named "Sadness." His name, Yitzchak, meaning "laughter," still runs through our veins. Like children we cry; but like our very first of kin, we also all giggle and laugh the same. There was a brit while I was in S. Paolo. Rabbi Schildkraut mentioned that the parents of the baby and their siblings all met at his synagogue and they all married Jews as well; and there have been many brisim. I asked the "what ifs." What if the shul wasn't here? What if Chabad wasn't here? What if the Rebbe didn't send emissaries to Brazil? Rabbi Schildkraut, who is so loved for his personal genuine warmth, simply shrugged and answered me with his beautiful silent wide smile, that can only be translated as "tudo bem." His wonderful sons whom I met, Shmuli and Berel, obviously learned well from their parents who have successfully raised a family and a community while mastering a foreign tongue in a far off environment. To hear Rebbetzin Schildkraut tell a story in fluent Portuguese, one need not comprehend a word to thoroughly understand her enthusiasm and zest for teaching Judaism. Rabbi Yossi Schildkraut opined, "We shluchim (emissaries) stepped foot into these unchartered places not knowing what to expect, but I believe the Rebbe knew very well from the start what we would accomplish." Reb Yossi grinned under his full, wise, beard, "We shluchim said to the Rebbe that we have no experience; we don't know the language; we have no business skills; we are shy and not trained for this." And Reb Yossi said that the Rebbe answered, "Perfect, you are the right ones for the job, go." My missioin also continues as I travel and speak at Chabad centers and Jewish communities and institutions. Students lined up so respectfully to chat with me after my presentation at the Renascenca Jewish School in S. Paulo. One young man decided that he would now put on tefillin everyday; another student told me that he would "upgrade" his Shabbat observance. Three teenage girls told me how they were inspired and wanted to "do more Jewish." My speeches encourage the "doing" of Jewish and not just the "feeling" of Jewish. And so at Rabbi Schildkraut's Shabbat table, I wiped away the embarrassing tears from my eyes hoping no one would notice that I was also crying along with Michel. Perhaps Michel cried for missing his wife in Israel; perhaps he cried for missing his little ones back at home. Or perhaps he cried because we are indeed just children. We are forever the children of Israel who cry and yearn to return to the Temple in Jerusalem. And I am learning first hand that we will also return to our Temple Mount, our Judaism, our Torah and our mitzvot by way of Brazil ...and by way of all the foreign lands and sacred homes of all the Rebbe's emissaries. 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