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! # " % ! % ! % & % ) #" * % % % #% % ' % *$ * & +* # ( # ( 2 i Woman i November 2014 ADVERTISEMENT Look 10 years younger in 1 hour “ ‘The Hour Lift’ facelift now most popular cosmetic procedure –– lasts for 10 years “ The result will last between five and 10 years, depending upon the patient. BY SALLY RUMMEL Dr. Eric Seiger Skin & Vein Center She eats right, she works out and takes care of herself every day. She wants her face to reflect this same youthful vitality that they rest of her body shows. That’s why one local 69-year-old woman, who asked to remain anonymous, is in the pre-op area of the Skin and Vein Center in Fenton for “The Hour Lift,” a mini-facelift procedure that’s becoming more and more popular. “We’ve been doing these for about 15 years, but they’ve become much more mainstream now since makeover shows on TV began to glamorize them about 10 years ago,” said Dr. Eric Seiger, board certified dermatologist and cosmetic surgeon. “It’s not a ‘taboo’ thing anymore.” Dr. Seiger estimates he has done between 2,500 and 3,000 of these procedures, on women as young as 24 and for a couple who was each 86 years old. “I’d say the median age for this surgery is about 58, and 95 percent of my patients are women. The result will last between five and 10 years, depending on the patient.” The difference is between The Hour Lift and a regular facelift is that The Hour Lift involves cutting the skin and tightening the facial muscles, rather than moving the facial muscles, rather than moving the facial muscles. The areas are primarily improved by a facelift are the jowls, cheeks and neck. There’s a huge difference in recovery time price. “It’s the difference between a three-day recovery and a two-week commitment,” said Dr. Seiger. The price is also a huge factor in a person’s decision to undergo this procedure. Dr. Seiger says he used to charge $3,800, and he cut the price to $2,900 when the economy changed a couple of years ago. A full facelift will cost between $6,000 and $15,000 –– depending upon the scope of the procedure. These elective cosmetic procedures are not covered by insurance. “The number one thing that patients say to me is, ‘I don’t want to look 20 years again. I just want to look in the mirror and be able to look as good as I feel inside. I want to feel refreshed,’” said Dr. Seiger. For the 69-year-old patient who was waiting for her procedure, The Hour Lift was not only for her own self-esteem, but also for her success in the business world. “A youthful appearance validates your professionalism,” she said. “This is how we get measured for our success.” A patient is prepped for a mini-facelift at the Skin & Vein Center in Fenton. Dr. Eric Seiger is assisted by nurse Amy Sowers and resident physician Kate Johnson. Originally published in the Tri-County Times, Fenton, MI 48430 Dated: September 23, 2012 Thinking about having ‘The Hour Lift’? Here’s what to expect: Q: What happens before the procedure? A: Prior to surgery, you may be given a medication to help you relax. Local anesthesia is then administered to minimize discomfort. Q: How long does the procedure take? A: One to 1½ hours. Q: What actually happens during the “One Hour Lift?” A: Dr. Seiger makes a short incision and gently lifts the tissues under the skin, removing the excess skin and tightening the muscles. He then drapes the overlying skin, leaving the patient wrinkle-free with a firm, more youthful jaw line. Q: What can I expect during recovery? A: Post surgery, patients wear an ice-containing head garment for 24-48 hours. They are likely able to shampoo and wear make-up the day after surgery. Sutures will be removed in six to eight days, resuming normal activities within three days. Q: Does it hurt? Will I bruise or swell? A: Approximately 85 percent of patients experience no bruising. There is minimal pain, controlled with oral medication. Q: How long will the results last? A: Look five to 10 years younger, with results lasting usually five to 10 years. Q: Can I talk to anyone who has had the procedure? 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However, for the many thousands of men and women who served this county, it’s a special time to reflect on their sacrifices and successes. It’s an opportunity for us all to honor and salute the men and women who have served our Susan country in the armed Rosiek forces. This edition of Hometown Life Woman features three amazing female veterans – Carol Ann Fausone of Canton, Lauren Medina of Livonia and Nicole Bundas of Redford. Reporter Robin D’Angelo profiles the women, detailing their reasons for serving and their experiences in the armed forces. Sharing their stories with Woman readers is our way of saying “thank you” for their service. Also inside today’s Woman are stories on fashion and makeup as the holidays approach. Be sure to check out Barbara Deyo’s column on holiday makeup tips. And don’t miss the story on Nikki Mattison of Plymouth, a young entrepreneur who is taking fashion to the street via her mobile boutique. As always, I welcome your comments and suggestions for upcoming editions of Woman. Have a happy Thanksgiving. Be sure to come back in December for a special holiday gift guide inside Hometown Life Woman. Susan Rosiek publisher srosiek@michigan.com Let others know about your personal finances W hat would happen if you had to suddenly take over the management of your partner’s, children’s or parent’s money or finances? One of my clients recently felt ill, so he went to the emergency room. While examining him, doctors found what they thought to be cancer. He was immediately admitted, a biopsy was completed and he was scheduled for surgery a few days later. If everything went well, he would be discharged in 10 days. That night I received a call from his wife, who was understandably distraught Paula and in a panic. Her Swain husband handled the management of their money. He paid the bills. She had no clue what needed to be paid or how it was paid. Fortunately for us, he was able to communicate with me. He told me where his passwords and account numbers were kept, which bills were paid automatically and which needed to be paid by check. Working with his wife, we made sure all of the bills were taken care of. It was one less thing she needed to worry about. What if he was incapacitated and unable to communicate? It got me thinking. Do I know all my husband’s passwords? Does he know mine? I don’t have a clue about my adult children’s finances. What about my mom? Although all my loved ones have a durable power of attorney in place, which gives someone the authority to handle their finances if they were incapacitated, will the appointed person know where to begin looking for the necessary information? Here are some things you should know, or know where to find, if you have to step in and take care of another person’s finances. » Have they named a durable power of attorney to manage their finances? Who is it? If it is not you, then the appointed person needs to be notified. If there is no POA, you’ll have to petition the court for guardianship of that person, which will allow you access their accounts. » Where do they keep their financial records? Where are their statements? The majority of my statements are delivered electronically. After I review them, I delete them. Most financial institutions archive statements, so I will always have access to my old statements. Since I delete my statements, it would be pretty difficult for my POA to find them. A lot of my clients have a binder with all their statements. They keep it in a locked safe or filing cabinet. Where is the key kept? » Where are their accounts? What are the account numbers? What are their passwords? Bank accounts, credit cards, mortgage company, investment accounts, etc. » What are their monthly expenses? When do they need to be paid? How are they paid – automatically or by check? » Where does their income come from? Direct deposit? An actual check? » Do they have an accountant or financial planner? You may need to contact them. I know if I asked my children for this information, chances are they’ll say “none of your business.” They don’t want me to know their finances and I am not sure I really want to know. I remember what is like to be in my 20s and how I handled money. I wouldn’t want my parents to know how foolish I was with money. It definitely goes both ways. If they were to ask me, I am not sure I would share it with them. Your POA doesn’t need to know your personal financial information today. They do, however, need to know where it is kept in the event you are incapacitated and they need to step in for you. If you are married, have a POA for a loved one or have appointed someone to be your POA, sit down and have a conversation. I suggest making a binder with the above information, keeping it up to date and in a safe place. You don’t have to share your binder, just let them know where it can be found. My message in life and through this column is aimed directly at women. I am dedicated to walking you though the steps that you need to make to take control of your financial future and help prepare for a secure retirement. Paula Swain, CFP®, is a financial consultant at Swain Financial, LLC, 1225 S. Main Street, Plymouth. Contact her at 734-738-6300. Securities offered through LPL Financial, Member FINRA/SIPC. The opinions here are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. Consult with an adviser about your specific situation. Dr. Masri and his highly skilled staff will be providing the latest orthodontic procedures to correct and enhance your dental and facial appearance in a new state-of-the-art clinic. 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On any given day, I can go on Facebook and see photos of people wearing Madison Boutique items and that really makes me feel like I’m on the right track. I’ve put my time in with a lot of jobs I didn’t feel this way about. Some days I’d still rather lay in bed and watch Ellen and do nothing, but that’s how I know that what I do is actually work.” hen Nikki Mattison’s friends needed something stylish to wear for an important occasion, they didn’t head to the mall. Instead, they came to her closet. “I’ve always been a shopper and I’ve always been that person that people called to say, ‘You have to come shopping with me!’ if they were planning a girls night out or looking for something to wear to a wedding,” the Plymouth resident said. A graduate of Canton High School and Eastern Michigan University, Mattison originally planned on teaching high school English, but later transitioned to marketing and event planning. Unsatisfied with that career path, she decided to make the leap into what those who knew her best had been telling her for years was her true calling – fashion. “I’d always wanted to open a boutique of my own, so I did a bunch of research and saved money,” she said. Mattison opened her online shop, Madison Boutique, in 2012, intent on creating a shopping experience that would offer quality, trendy designs for women – clothing unique enough to be noticed, but versatile enough to wear every day. “You’re not going to get your club wear from me, but you can get a really great sweater, a statement necklace, fleece leggings ... items you could wear on a date or to class or to work, stuff that can do double duty,” she said. “Who can afford to have two closets?” Feeling the love Taking it to the street This past July, Mattison decided to try something different: Take her everexpanding closet on the road with the first mobile fashion truck in Michigan. The bright mulberry-toned vehicle not only contains every item in Mattison’s inventory, but has been outfitted with a changing room, benches, lighting, a sound system and air conditioning for a true boutique experience. Mattison takes the truck to community events such as the Plymouth Fall Fest and also caters to private parties. “You get 10 of your girlfriends together, drink some wine and come shop 6 i Woman i November 2014 Nikki Mattison of Plymouth in her mobile fashion truck, the first in Michigan. and try things on,” she said. “I really don’t even have to try to sell it – they’re all encouraging each other to buy this or that. It’s so much more impactful, because peer pressure wins. “One of the best parts about having the truck is that I get to go to where the crowds are. Instead of opening a store and waiting for people to come to me, I can go to a festival and they are ready for me.” Mattison left her previous corporate job in March to devote herself to the boutique full time and, indeed, it has become a full-time job. She adds new items to her inventory every day, travels to apparel shows for purchasing and attends regular photo shoots in order to keep the website updated with her latest buys. Some of the Madison Boutique’s most popular items are her drawstring tunics in a variety of colors, as well as print scarves, ponchos and hooded knit sweaters and jackets. Chunky, bold necklaces, bracelets and other accessories complete her ensembles. “Anything Aztec is in right now and I have a lot of red plaids, things in shades of wine and olive. Also, people love cream-colored anything,” she said. “I try to specialize in cozy, cute stuff.” Jennifer Albers-Smith of Wixom wrote on the Madison Boutique Facebook page, “Love the clothes from Madison Boutique. I started buying items in December and haven’t stopped. I get so many compliments and am really pleased with the fit and quality of the items, all for a great price.” Customer Harmony Faust wrote, “I always feel great and get compliments when I wear my Madison Boutique buys. Nikki has impeccable taste so even if something is a little out of my normal comfort zone, I tend to scoop it up now anyways and never regret it.” As the Madison Boutique continues to grow, Mattison acknowledges that the complexities of owning a small business still make her nervous. However, she credits her friends and the popularity of social media for helping to spread the word. “My friends have been fantastic,” she said. “I have several who are small business owners and they really reached out to me when I started. When you own your own business, you put so See BOUTIQUE, Page 12 ardenviews Holiday Open House Saturday, November 8th 10:00 to 5:00 pm •E igh Decorated Trees in Elegant, Eight C on Contemporary & Traditional Styles •$ $50.00 50. Gift Certificate Drawings E Every ver Hour •H Holiday ol Cookies and Music 117 E. Main St. • Downtown Northville 248-380-8881 Woman i November 2014 i 7 VETERANS DAY 2014 Female veterans share their stories of service By Robin D’Angelo, Contributing Writer “I knew it would teach me character.” » Lauren Medina “I needed a better way to support my kids. I saw the opportunity for college.” » Nicole Bundas “There was something in me that wanted to serve.” » Carol Ann Fausone Three female veterans – three stories. LAUREN MEDINA Lauren Medina, 28, of Livonia decided to join the U.S. Air Force at age 19. “My grandpa was in the Royal Canadian Air Force and my cousin was in the Navy. I really looked up to both of them and I knew it was something important to do,” she said. After six weeks of basic training in San Antonio, she was enrolled in the Air Force’s medical technician program in Florida. “It was very challenging in many ways, but my biggest challenge was trying to figure out how to live away from my family,” she said. “At the beginning, it was physically and mentally demanding, but I think it made me a stronger woman. “I know I’m capable of doing things I never thought I would be. I never thought I’d be crawling in the mud. I don’t think anybody thought I could do what I did. I chose to be there, so I knew I had to be strong and 8 i Woman i November 2014 complete it.” Medina said when she was struggling with the distance and loneliness, she often thought about her grandpfather, “because he was so strong,” as well as her cousin and her fellow soldiers on foreign soil. “A lot of people I knew were getting deployed and many of them had kids, but there I was in Napa Valley,” she said. “That made me realize I had nothing in the world to be down about. You have to put it in perspective.” At completion, Medina was transferred to the David Grant Hospital on the Travis Air Force Base in Fairfield, Calif., where she cared for wounded men and women returning from overseas. “We were the stop between Ramstein Air Base (Germany) and their final base and meeting those men and women was one of the greatest experiences I’ve ever had,” she said. “Many still had major injuries and they would stay in our unit for wound care. They were just glad to be back on American soil and they wanted to talk about home. They like talking about going home, rather than where they were coming from. Most soldiers want to talk about anything but that, really.” She finished her service in 2010 and then was faced with the challenges of transitioning back to civilian life – the biggest being finding employment. “When you get out, sometimes what you do doesn’t transfer over to the civilian side, so I couldn’t perform the same things I did in the military,” she said. “My duties were similar to a licensed vocational nurse, but on the outside I was a basically a licensed EMT. “It can be very difficult to figure things out when you get back and people who were in for longer than I was have even bigger issues. You have all this military training, but then you get out and you don’t have anything and, I’ll tell you, these are the best people you’ll ever work with. You can’t slack off in the military – you can’t take a day off, you can’t be late.” Medina, now a student at Wayne State University, will graduate this winter with a major in apparel design. She continues to stay in touch with most of her former colleagues, many of whom are still in the service. “It’s cool that you develop such close friendships with the people you serve with,” she said. “I have never regretted my choice to join. “It really was one of the best experiences and best choices I ever made in my life and I will always be proud of it. I work harder and I know the value of working and not giving up.” NICOLE BUNDAS Nicole Bundas of Redford enlisted in the Army National Guard in 2007 as a way to carve out a better future for herself and her two young sons. “I was going through a divorce at the time and it hit me that I needed a better way to support my kids,” she said. “I was working as a preschool teacher and I saw the money for college, plus there was an enlistment bonus. I saw it as an opportunity.” She attended nine weeks of basic training in South Carolina and from there went to Fort Meade, Md., for 12 weeks of advanced training in public affairs, journalism and photography. “It was hard and different and exciting, all at the same time,” she said. “I was older than most of others who I enlisted with, so that was a little harder, as well as leaving my two boys at home. But that only made me work all the harder, because I had something to work for. I knew I had to complete it and do a good job.” Bundas knew she would be required to attend training once a month, but when the call came in that she was to be deployed before she had even left her training in Maryland, she was stunned. “That was very abnormal. Usually you come home and wait for your unit to take its turn,” she said. “It was October and they told me I’d get to come home for a couple of months – and then I was leaving for Iraq. With two little boys at home, that was definitely not what I wanted to hear. “I was sobbing hysterically on the Nicole Bundas served in Iraq as an embed specialist in charge of working with the civilian media. phone with my sergeant and he kept saying, ‘I understand.’ I always knew deployment was always on the table, but I never expected it to happen so quickly.” For two months, she spent as much time as possible with her children, while at the same time attending a flurry of extra training in order to prepare for Iraq. “I wasn’t just sitting at home doing nothing – I had to go through all of the premobilization stuff,” she said. “I spent weeks at Camp Grayling in northern Michigan getting to know my new unit.” Once overseas, Bundas became an embed specialist in charge of working with the civilian media. “My job was to get all of their information, get them through security, get them incountry and hook them up with a specialty unit that they could stay (with) for multiple days,” she said. “I then had to track them to see what kind of news articles they were putting out and make sure that they actually were putting them out. “I arranged all of their travel while they were there and made sure they were following the rules. We held weekly press conferences and I also did a little of my own stuff as a journalist. I have to say, it really gave me an appreciation for what the civilian media do. I signed up to serve, but these people were willing to risk their lives to tell our stories.” Bundas said she was glad to be a part of the good stories that were told – the stories that gave the families of soldiers a different perspective than the negative aspects that are most often portrayed. “People worry,” she said. “They see all the negative things, but rarely to do they get to see this or that amazing thing that their son, daughter, husband or wife is accomplishing over there. “I wanted them to have that peace of mind, to see that their family members were doing great things and they were making a difference.” Bundas said she saw many instances of heroism, but added, “There were other times that were absolutely horrifying. You’re in a foreign country in a time of war.” She recalled an element of disbelief at times, thinking of the transition from her former life to the life of a soldier. “One year before, I was doing circle time with toddlers and changing wet Pull-Ups and now I’m carrying a weapon and worrying about if I will make it to tomorrow,” she said. “Thankfully, I was in a safer area. I had a cellphone, I could Skype with my kids and I could call them. There were moments when it got scary and I questioned whether I had made the right decision.” The most difficult part of deployment, by far, was the separation from her children – what Bundas describes as the universal struggle of military moms. “As a mother, you always want to be the one to take care of them when they’re sick or be there when the good things happen, especially when they are so little,” she said. “That was the toughest thing for me, when they would call and say they didn’t feel well or that this great thing happened that I missed.” Returning home was not without its struggles, either. Units that had been together every moment for an entire year suddenly find themselves separated and scattered across the state, left to See VETERANS, Page 14 Woman i November 2014 i 9 Black Friday, Cyber Monday are part of holiday shopping culture “There are so many good sales on Cyber Monday, especially if you know what you are looking to purchase,” said Bolton, the mother of four grown children. Bolton said she is usually shopping for specific brands: J. Crew, Orvis and more. She appreciates the opportunity to purchase high-quality clothing items at fantastic savings. “The one thing to remember about online shopping, though, is that if you see it, you need to buy it right then. Otherwise it will be gone,” Bolton said, acknowledging that she finds herself doing more of her Christmas online each year. Bolton is not alone. Carol Margiotta, a Commerce Township resident and employee at the Acorn Tree in Milford, said that she does the majority of her holiday shopping online. “I don’t like to fight the crowds and I can shop at leisure in my own home,” said Margiotta, who noted the majority of her shopping is for her grandchildren. Free shipping and the convenience of having purchases delivered right to her By Jill Halpin Contributing Writer I t may be a relatively new event, but Cyber Monday – when consumers turn to their laptops, iPads and other mobile devices looking for online sales – is here to stay. Once just an electronic follow-up to Black Friday – the day after Thanksgiving, when many retailers actually start to make profits or “go in the black” – Cyber Monday is now its own tradition, said Ed Nakfoor, a Birmingham-based business retail specialist. “There are many Internet-only retailers and a lot of ‘web-only’ specials,” offered by traditional retailers that make Cyber Monday hard to ignore, Nakfoor said. According to Mike Bernacchi, University of Detroit-Mercy marketing professor, Cyber Monday sales are expected to increase 11-15 percent this year, versus roughly 5-8 percent for traditional retailers Black Friday. Consumer holiday spending is expected to grow by 5 percent overall this year, with a record 56 percent of people planning to do some online holiday shopping, according to the National Retail Federation. Tara Bolton is one shopper you won’t find out battling the crowds in an effort to find the best deal this Black Friday. Instead, the Beverly Hills resident will be celebrating the long Thanksgiving holiday visiting with friends and family in northern Michigan, leaving the jostling masses of bargain-hungry shoppers to their sport. Bolton will join a growing legion of shoppers who will shop in the comfort and privacy of their own home Monday, following the Thanksgiving holiday weekend. LO-0000218873 Featuring: Norwegian, Swedish, Danish, Icelandic and Finnish Imports and Crafts, Baked Goods, Pasties, Hand woven Rugs, Decorative Arts, Pottery, Lavender soaps and lotions, Crafts and more….. Enjoy Scandinavian lunch while listening music by Finnfolk 10 i Woman i November 2014 Here is a list of stores and opening times for Thanksgiving and Black Friday: » Macy’s, Best Buy and Walmart all plan to open at 6 p.m. Thanksgiving Day. » Meijer is open 24 hours and will remain so for the Thanksgiving holiday. » Twelve Oaks Mall will open at 8 p.m. Thanksgiving. » Somerset Mall will open at 8 a.m. Black Friday. » Westland Mall will open at 8 p.m. Thanksgiving. » Briarwood will open at 6 p.m. Thanksgiving. » Laurel Park will open at 6 p.m. Thanksgiving, as will Carson’s. Von Maur at Laurel Park will open at 9 a.m. Black Friday See SHOPPING, Page 12 SCANDINAVIAN BAZAAR SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2014 10 AM – 4 PM Public at Welcome Finnish Center Association 35200 W. 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(2ND FLOOR) BIRMINGHAM, MI 48009 (248) 203-1222 | WWW.DEYOSTUDIO.COM LO-0000218326 )' * %.$ ($ -* )/$** %%( % / )%%*$ "$) &%+$ /(% ,/ ) +""/ "% -* ( * /% )*+% &"0$ $ % / (%)) *($$ +"" *# )#"" (%+& %( &()%$" *($$ ,"" +)*$ !(, (%/ $ *%.$($ %# /%(%%#%# All that glitters is not necessarily gold A Red lips and full brows – big, bold and gorgeous – are still the rage. Bold color sweeps all across the lid and screams “celebrate!” What’s in for beauty this holiday season s the sun starts to set earlier in the horizon, the darkening sky mirrors our makeup palette. The colors of this holiday season are rich, warm and illuminating – just like the setting sun. And, yes, you can glitter all the gold you want to. It’s in. Metallic eyes and metallic lips are all the rage. But don’t limit yourself to silver and gold. Try a rich jewel-toned eye, paired with a bold berry lipstick. Or maybe a smoky brown eye, matched with a glittery bronze gloss. Or course, the nude eye and rich red lip is al- Barbara Deyo ways a classic and sure winner. Be sure to apply your eyeliner and don’t be shy – lined eyes are in. Smoldering and toasty, just like cozying up to the fire. Speaking of red lips – OK, this may be my favorite – Allure magazine says, “True cherry lips – glossy or matte, creamy or sheer – are sexy and totally audacious.” Thank goodness: I just cracked open my third tube of “Cherry Red” lipstick (by Deyo, of course) and I was so happy to hear that it’s still in. 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It legitimizes what I’m doing.” ‘Forget the rules’ Lauren Devine, co-owner and stylist at Salon Forte of Northville, is responsible for the hair and makeup of the models used in Madison Boutique photo shoots. “I get most of my clothes from Nikki now and I always get tons of compliments,” Devine said. “They are trendy and accessible and they are wearable for every woman – that’s what makes it so successful. The fashion truck contains every item in the Madison Boutique’s inventory and is outfitted with a changing room, benches, lighting, a sound system and air conditioning. “Nikki really does try to have a diverse collection – she’s not just shopping for herself. She keeps the 20-year old, 30-year-old, 40-year-old in mind. 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The “tradition” aspect of Black Friday is not to be taken lightly, Nakfoor said. “There are a lot of people who like being in the frenzied masses,” he said “For them, it’s all part of the holiday fun.” DEYO Continued from Page 11 The colors of this holiday season are rich, warm and illuminating. Wear your wine for the holidays. Well, you can drink it, too, but I’m talking about eye shadow. From deep velvety garnet to sheer shimmery magenta, wine is where it’s at this season. Layer varying depths of color to create a rich, sophisticated look. Lashes, lashes and more lashes. You can’t have enough lashes this time of year. This means layering up some lash primer with coats of your favorite lengthening and thickening mascara. This also means applying some falsies yourself, or treat yourself to a set of luxurious lash extensions. However, you have to do it – do it. Fresh cheeks are in this season, cheeks that flush like you just came in from a stroll in the crisp evening breeze. For lighter skin, try applying a rosy color to the apples of your cheeks to make your face come aglow. Darker complexions, try a reddish bronze to brighten up the cheeks. Pops of color on the eyes is one trend I keep seeing that requires some chutzpah to pull off. And I mean pop. And I mean color. But hey, what better time than the holidays to try it out? Red, blue, green, pink – bold color sweeps all across the lid and screams “celebrate!” This may not be right for everyone, but it washes off. Why not give it a try? Full brows – big, bold and gorgeous – are still the rage, which is music to my tweezers. Not to say unkempt, because that’s never a good look. Keep your brows neat and clean and trimmed – at all times, whenever possible, holiday season or not. Amen. I have always said that there really are no rules when it comes to makeup. Sure, read up on the trends; try some out if you wish. It’s the holidays, after all – live a little. Do what makes you feel good and forget the rest. 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LO-0000217702 800 Get Slim | mwlc.com mwlc.com/woman Woman i November 2014 i 13 VETERANS Continued from Page 8 return to civilian life without the benefit of that tightly-knit support system they had come to rely on so heavily in Iraq. “They have shared everything that’s been going on in your life for the past 365 days and been with you every moment,” Bundas said, choking up. “Then, all of a sudden, they’re gone. “You’re excited to be home and be with your loved ones, but the people in your unit have also become your family. I’m on the east side, but my unit is stationed in the Battle Creek area. We went from 24 hours a day to one weekend a month.” Bundas said because suicide is increasingly prevalent among returning servicemen and women, members of her unit made an effort to keep in close contact after coming home. “You come back and you’re going through things, reintegrating with your parents or your spouse,” she said. “We made sure we called and talked to each other. It’s been five years and we still do that. Most of us, our contracts have expired, but we don’t want to lose one of our brothers or sisters.” Although finding employment can also be a struggle for veterans, Bundas was hired at the VA Hospital in Ann Arbor several months after her return. “I was very lucky in that respect, but at the same time it was a hard transition from being told 24 hours a day what to wear, what to do and how to breathe to now making all of these decisions ... not just for me, but for two other little people who were depending on me,” she said. “I still see the struggle our veterans go through 14 i Woman i November 2014 every day. The biggest thing is that we keep supporting them after the homecoming. I have watched so many people get that initial support, but after a while it dies down. We can’t forget. It’s bad enough that we are losing them when they deploy; we don’t want to lose them when they come home.” Bundas said she found support by joining a female veterans group at the Ann Arbor VA, which provides guidance through everything from breast cancer to posttraumatic stress disorder. “I do have bad days, but there is so much support out there and I have taken the opportunity to get it,” she said. “They know what’s going on for female veterans and I tell my friends that they need to be a part of it. I don’t care if you had the best deployment ever – it’s important that you’re there and talking.” Since her return, Bundas is still employed at the VA, has purchased her own home and now has a 4-year-old girl. “I’ve accomplished so much and I never would’ve been able to do these things without my time in the service,” she said. “If you asked my older son, he would tell you he’s thankful mommy joined the Army. It was hard on him, because he was old enough to know what was happening, but he has also seen the benefits. “Serving was the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but the things I gained from it outweigh the hardship and I am appreciative of all the good things that happened and that everyone in my unit made it home. That was the best news. Did I personally go out and save anyone’s life? No, but I made sure that the stories of people who did were told.” CAROL ANN FAUSONE Carol Ann Fausone of Canton, took her oath with the U.S. Air Force in 1977. She has since devoted her life to the service of her country – not only rising through the ranks to become the first female brigadier general in the history of the Michigan National Guard, but making it her mission to help veterans secure the education, benefits and health care they are due. Fausone said her grandfather, a World War I veteran, inspired her to enlist with his stories and his great love of country. “There was something in me that wanted to serve my country and I knew I wanted to be a nurse,” she said. “It kind of fit, because nursing can be done in the air and on the ground and that’s how I got there. “It’s a lot different today in that women are more recognized. In the state of Michigan, I believe we have about 45,000 female veterans, which was unheard of back then. Women always had certain roles, but now they can have any role, really. We have female fighter pilots, female security police. It’s an issue of what’s in your heart and your leadership abilities and that’s something the men go through, too.” Fausone said a few of the most problematic issues facing both female and male veterans today are accessibility to health care and affordable housing. “I am passionate about these issues,” she said. “Our veterans should not be treated in cookie-cutter fashion. We need to listen to their issues and help them – not just the veterans, but their families. Our families have sacrificed while we served. “We are trying to help our women who are homeless, but the number keeps going up and when children are involved that is very difficult. Sometimes our veterans have trouble reaching out, especially women, because they tend to take care of everyone else before they take care of themselves.” In addition to her military service, Fausone was the director of nursing at St. Mary Mercy Hospital in Livonia and oversaw the ER at St. John’s in Detroit and Macomb County. As for what she credits with her rise through the ranks, Fausone stresses the importance of leadership and problemsolving. “Some of the ceilings have been broken for women today – there’s a three-star and a four-star (general) out there,” she said. “You can aspire, but it still starts with you and your roles and leadership.” Throughout her career, Fausone was singled out for responsibilities that she says were “out of the norm” – as vice commander of the medical squadron at Selfridge, for example, and later the medical commander. “That wasn’t heard of,” she said. “With Carol Ann Fausone of Canton took her oath with the U.S. Air Force in 1977, rising through the ranks to become the first female brigadier general in the history of the Michigan National Guard. traditional roles, it was always a physician who was the commander and predominantly they were male. I broke that ceiling.” She was later one of several females around the country to be selected as medical commander at a national level and was responsible for 45 units at Langley Air Force Base in Virginia. From 2001-05, she served as the assistant for mobilization and reserve affairs, where she developed and implemented health care programs, policy and operations for the department. From 2003-11, she was the assistant adjutant general of veterans affairs for the Michigan Department of Military and Veterans Affairs. Fausone’s passion for veterans rights continued after her retirement from the service, when she promptly created The Veterans Advocate, LLC in order to guide veterans and their families in securing their benefits. Her husband Jim, an attorney, provides legal aid to veterans and their families at Legal Help for Veterans, PLLC. “Whether I am helping our veterans or my constituents, I have an entire toolbox of resources after all these years,” she said. “My dream would be to be queen for a day and make changes to these rules, to change why it takes so long to get an answer for a grant. The VA is working on it, but there are still issues out there. “I’m a fix-it person. I love challenges and issues – that’s been my whole life. As an ER nurse, we had to make decisions quickly and take care of people and whether it’s in my business, the military or on the campaign trail, when people come up to me with an issue, they know I care. I know if I look behind me, people are going to follow.” g r in ve rv r o S! Se fo AR u E yo 4 Y 3 LO-0000215938 Woman i November 2014 i 15 New FACE New BODY G I F T C E R T I F I C AT E S LASER TREATMENTS Have the beautiful body you used to have! 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