Supporting Sexual Health Throughout the Lifespan
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Supporting Sexual Health Throughout the Lifespan
Supporting Sexual Health Throughout the Lifespan Patty Cason MS, FNP-BC UCLA School of Nursing Disclosures-Cason • Merck: Expert Forum; HPV Vaccine, Speaker; Gardasil, NuvaRing, Nexplanon • Teva: Advisory board; ParaGard, Speaker; ParaGard Objectives • Demonstrate incorporation of reproductive life planning into motivational interviewing contraceptive counseling Learning Objectives • Explain the health benefits of addressing sexual function with reproductive age women • Identify factors that may affect sexual function postpartum • List 4 cornerstones to sexual health • Discuss 2 methods for strengthening the pelvic muscle Gender and Sexual Preference Neutrality This presentation is intended for use with any type of pairing and variation of partnerships Best Site http://www.the-clitoris.com A Gentle Shift in Paradigm We are passionate about: • Safer Sex • Protecting our patients from STIs, unplanned pregnancy, IPV, cervical cancer • Condoms • Condoms • And then just one more A Gentle Shift in Paradigm We are passionate about: • Safer Sex • Protecting our patients from STIs, unplanned pregnancy, IPV, cervical cancer • Condoms • Condoms • And then just • one more A Gentle Shift in Paradigm • Every day we see all the bad effects from having sex • Considering what we see every day sometimes we may start to feel like… Maybe sex is really bad! Condoms are great but so is semen • Females having sex without condoms were less depressed & depression scores went up as the amount of time since their last sexual encounter increased. • Semen may antagonize depressive symptoms. • Even a short period of exposure to sperm seems to offer protection against development of preeclampsia Einarsson JI, Sangi-Haghpeykar H, Gardner MO. Sperm exposure and development of preeclampsia. Am J Ostet Gynecol. 2003; 188(5): 1241-1243. Gallup GG, Burch RL, Platek SM. Does Semen Have Antidepressant Properties? Arch Sex Behav. 2002; 31(3): 289-293. Let’s take a moment to re-focus the lens The data say that having orgasmic sex: • Extends lifespan • Is excellent for cardiovascular health • Makes you look 7-10 years younger Seldin DR, Friedman HS, Martin LR. Sexual activity as a predictor of life-span mortality risk. Pers Ind Dif. 2002; 33(3): 409-425. Davey Smith G, Frankel S, Yarnell J. Sex and death: are they related? Findings from the Caerphilly Cohort Study. BMJ. 1997; 315(7123): 1641-1644. Palmore EB. Predictors of the longevity difference: a 25-year follow-up. Gerontologist. 1982; 22: 513–8. Davey Smith G. Pearls of wisdom: eat, drink, have sex (using condoms), abstain from smoking and be merry. Int J Epidemiol. 2010; 39(4): 941-947. Bassett R, Bourbonnais V, McDowell I. Living long and keeping well: elderly canadians account for success in aging. Can J Aging. 2007; 26(2): 113-126. Gavrilova N, Tessler Lindau S. Sex, health and years of sexually active life gained due to good health: evidence from two US population based cross sections surveys of ageing. BMJ 2010; 340: c810. Drory Y. Sexual activity and cardiovascular risk. Eur Heart J Supp 2002; 4: H13-H18 Buettner D. The Blue Zones: 9 Lessons Living Longer from the people who have lived the longest. Washington, D.C.:National Geographic Society, 2008 CVD • Frequent sexual intercourse = no increase in risk of strokes. • Frequent sexual intercourse = protection from fatal coronary events. • Frequency of orgasm for females protective against mortality. Seldin DR, Friedman HS, Martin LR. Sexual activity as a predictor of life-span mortality risk. Pers Ind Dif. 2002; 33(3): 409-425. Ebrahim S et al. Sexual intercourse and risk of ischaemic stroke and coronary heart disease: the Caerphilly study J Epidemiol Community Health 2002;56:99–102 Oxytocin • A hormone released during physical intimacy (from warm touch to sexual arousal and intercourse.) • Related to lower stress reactivity. • Lower pain sensitivity. • Faster wound healing. • Relaxation. Let’s take a moment to re-focus the lens Having satisfying sex: • Keeps your vagina plush* • Is terrific for your relationship* • Makes you a happier person *if you have one Sprecher S, Cate RM. Sexual satisfaction and sexual expression as predictors of relationship satisfaction and stability. In: Harvey JH,Wenzel A,Sprecher S, editors. The Handbook of Sexuality in Close Relationships. Mahwah, NJ: Erlbaum; 2004 Leiblum S, Bachmann G, Kemmann E, Colburn D. Swatzman L. Vaginal Atrophy in the Postmenopausal Woman: The Importance of Sexual Activity and Hormones. JAMA. 1983; 249:2195-2198. And best of all Sex: Promotes world peace Tantric Wisdom How often? How often do you eat, sleep or exercise? Having more sex increases libido Whatever your baseline, increasing to more frequent orgasmic sex is likely to be beneficial Cornerstones to sexual health • Prioritization of daily (or consistent) sexual practice • “sex positive” attitude • Appreciation that sex is a healthy activity • Good sex begets more sex Cornerstones to sexual health • Awareness of, control over, and strength in pelvic muscles – AKA “core,” PC muscles, pelvic floor • Daily exercise or healthful physical activity Aschkenazi SO, Goldberg R P. Female sexual function and the pelvic floor. Expert Rev Obstet Gynecol. 2009; 4(2): 165-179. Bortz WM, Wallace DH. Physical fitness, aging, and sexuality. West J Med. 1999; 170(3): 167-169 Cornerstones to sexual health • Self knowledge and awareness of subjective erotic and sexual sensations • Communication with partner(s) Cornerstones to sexual health “Sexual agency” The ability to say: – “yes” – “no” The ability to: – Initiate sexual interaction – Explain what you like (or show) • and ask for it… nicely Patients Think We Won’t/Can’t Help 76% 71% 68% Provide no treatment Dismiss Uncomfortable problem Marwick C. Survey says patients expect little physician help on sex. JAMA. 1999 June 16;281(23)2173-4. Lubricants “Any sexual problem on earth can be resolved with some combination of communication and lubrication”* *Common wisdom For Sex – Water Soluble Sexual Lubricants For Sex – Not Water Soluble Medicalization of FSF/FSD Does … Kaschak E, Tiefer L. A New View of Women's Sexual Problems. Binghampton, NY: The Haworth Press, Inc., 2001. Bancroft J. The medicalization of female sexual dysfunction: the need for caution. Arch Sex B e hav 2002;31(5):451-455 Kaschak E, Tiefer L. A New View of Women's Sexual Problems. Binghampton, NY: The Haworth Press, Inc., 2001. Sexual problems due to socio-cultural, political or economic factors A. Ignorance and anxiety due to inadequate sex education, lack of access to health services, or other social constraints 1. Lack of vocabulary to describe subjective or physical experience 2. Lack of information about human sexual biology and life stage changes 3. Lack of information about how gender roles influence men’s and women’s sexual expectations, beliefs, and behaviors 4. Inadequate access to information and services for contraception and abortion, STD prevention, and treatment, sexual trauma, and IPV Kaschak E, Tiefer L. A New View of Women's Sexual Problems. Binghampton, NY: The Haworth Press, Inc., 2001. Sexual problems due to socio-cultural, political or economic factors B. Sexual avoidance or distress due to perceived inability to meet cultural norms regarding correct or ideal sexuality, including: 1. Anxiety or shame about one’s body, sexual attractiveness, or sexual responses 2. Confusion or shame about one’s sexual orientation or identity , or about sexual fantasies and desires. Kaschak E, Tiefer L. A New View of Women's Sexual Problems. Binghampton, NY: The Haworth Press, Inc., 2001. Sexual problems due to socio-cultural, political or economic factors C. Inhibitions due to conflict between the sexual norms of one’s subculture or culture of origin and those of the dominant culture D. Lack of interest, fatigue, or lack of time due to family and work obligations Sexual problems relating to partner and relationship A. Inhibition, avoidance, or distrust arising from betrayal, dislike or fear of partner, partner’s abuse or couple’s unequal power, or arising from partner’s negative pattern of communication B. Discrepancies in desire for sexual activity or in preference for various sexual activities C. Ignorance or inhibition about communicating preferences or initiating, pacing, or shaping sexual activities Kaschak E, Tiefer L. A New View of Women's Sexual Problems. Binghampton, NY: The Haworth Press, Inc., 2001. Sexual problems relating to partner and relationship D. Loss of sexual interest and reciprocity as a result of conflicts over commonplace issues such as money, schedules, or relatives or resulting from traumatic experiences such as infertility or the death of a child E. Inhibitions on arousal or spontaneity due to partner’s health status or sexual problems Kaschak E, Tiefer L. A New View of Women's Sexual Problems. Binghampton, NY: The Haworth Press, Inc., 2001. Sexual problems due to psychological factors A. Sexual aversion, mistrust, or inhibition of sexual pleasure due to: 1. Past experiences of physical. Sexual or emotional abuse 2. General personality problems with attachment, rejection, co-operation, or entitlement 3. Depression or anxiety Kaschak E, Tiefer L. A New View of Women's Sexual Problems. Binghampton, NY: The Haworth Press, Inc., 2001. Sexual problems due to psychological factors B. Sexual inhibition due to fear of sexual acts or of their possible consequences, e.g., pain during intercourse, pregnancy, STD, loss of partner, loss of reputation Sexual problems due to medical factors A. Pain or lack of physical response during sexual B. activity despite a supportive and safe C. interpersonal situation, adequate sexual D. knowledge, and positive sexual attitudes. Kaschak E, Tiefer L. A New View of Women's Sexual Problems. Binghampton, NY: The Haworth Press, Inc., 2001. Uterus Urethral Sponge Shaft of Clitoris (G-Spot) (Body or Corpus) Bladder Head of Clitoris Vaginal Canal Legs of Clitoris (Crus/Crura) Vestibular Bulbs Anal Canal Perineal Sponge Pudendal Nerve External Genitalia Clitoris Vestibular Bulbs Outer Aspect Urethral Sponge Top Layers of Muscle © Center for the Intimate Arts 2010 Deeper Muscles Vagina Anus Deeper Aspect of Urethral Sponge Perineal Sponge Bladder Pelvic Nerve © Center for the Intimate Arts 2010 Times When Sexuality Needs Extra Support ASK--Offer Help Perimenopause Postpartum Post op; particularly breast or gyn surgery Medical issues Infertility Major life events; financial, death, relationship • Adolescence • Menopause • • • • • • Have Referrals Available • • • • For individual therapy For couples or sex therapy Particular books or videos For IPV Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) Reproductive Health Safety cards can be ordered from: http://fvpfstore.stores.yahoo.net/reproductive-health-safetycards.html URL link to short PSA video on You Tube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6wqUuN8J0k&feature=player_embedded ©2011 Futures Without Violence Formerly Family Violence Prevention Fund 43 ©2011 Futures Without Violence Formerly Family Violence Prevention Fund Pregnancy Pregnancy Discuss • Anatomic, physiologic, and sexual changes common in pregnancy. • Likelihood that it is safe to continue sexual activity through pregnancy. • Perineal massage to minimize perineal trauma. • Evaluate for depression. Postpartum “Since the baby was born our sex life is non-existent” • Chronic loss of sleep • Abundant close physical contact from newborn • Overwhelmed, no time • Postpartum depression • Major shift in family dynamics • 50% will be post op Leeman L. Sex After Childbirth Postpartum Sexual Function. Obstet Gynecol 2012;119:647– 55. Assess • Symptoms of urinary or anal incontinence. – Pelvic floor strengthening • Mood changes. • Perineal lacerations/repair. • Consider mode of delivery. Breastfeeding Breastfeeding • • • • • ↑ prolactin, ↑ oxytocin ↓ estrogens ↓ progesterone Vagina can be like post-menopause Often diminished drive Can be arousing in up to ½ of women Avery MD, Duckett L, Frantzich CR. The experience of sexuality during breastfeeding among primiparous women. J Midwifery Womens Health 2000;45:227–37. Breastfeeding • Arousal feelings may make some women uncomfortable. • Uterine contractions with orgasm → “milk eject”/”letdown” reflex. – Nurse before sex • Discussion to normalize these responses. Encourage • • • • Communication. Making time for intimacy. Adding lubricant. Increase sexual activity as tolerated. – Without breast play • More partner involvement. – getting up to bring the newborn into the bed for feedings • Rest is very sexy. How does strengthening the pelvic floor help? “Sometimes it hurts when my partner thrusts too deep inside of me” “I can’t feel very much sensation since the baby was born” “It always hurts when he first goes inside, then I get used to it” “My husband says it doesn’t feel as good as it used to” © Center for the Intimate Arts 2010 How does control of the pelvic floor help? • Control over the PC muscle means a woman can relax it when she chooses to in order facilitate initial penetration. • With PC muscle control a woman can tighten to minimize the “pounding” sensation from deep thrusting. • The erectile tissue is able to be more stimulated as the PC muscles contract around it. Franklin E. Pelvic Power: Mind/Body Exercises for Strength, Flexibility, Posture, and Balance for Men and Women. Hightstown, NJ: Princeton Book Company, 2002. Biofeedback & PELVIC FLOOR MUSCLES • Biofeedback training is effective in training voluntary pelvic floor muscle contraction • Biofeedback: – A clinician, nurse, therapist, or the patient inserts a monitoring probe into the vagina or places adhesive electrodes on the skin outside the vagina or rectal area – As the patient contracts the correct pelvic floor muscles, it is demonstrated on a monitor Herderschee, R, Hay-Smith, E J, Herbison, G P, et al. (2011). Feedback or biofeedback to augment pelvic floor muscle training for urinary incontinence in women. Cochrane database of systematic reviews, (7), CD009252-. In the Office “Feedback” Clinician Exam • Can she contract? (find the muscles) – Can chart this as “contractility” • Is she also tensing her thighs, buttocks or abdominal muscles? Touch them • How strong is the contraction? • How long can she hold it? – This tells you where to advise her to start in her home exercises • Have her return in prn or in 5-6 weeks to re-check Herderschee, R, Hay-Smith, E J, Herbison, G P, et al. (2011). Feedback or biofeedback to augment pelvic floor muscle training for urinary incontinence in women. Cochrane database of systematic reviews, (7), CD009252-. Home Exercises Holding contractions • The muscles are slowly tightened, and held to a count of 5-10 sec • At first, the patient may only be able to hold the contraction for 1-2 sec • Progress slowly over a period of weeks to a goal of 10 second holds, 20 second rests between holds Vaginal Weights; Graduated • Weighted vaginal cones can be used to help strengthen the pelvic muscle. • The cones come in sets that vary in weight. • The tapered end is inserted into the vagina • As the muscles get stronger, progress to a heavier cone. Vaginal Weights for PC strengthening Vaginal Weights Late adolecence: Development of Female Sexuality • Ask directly if they have had an orgasm yet • Open ended questions about their sexual adventures so far • Let them know that most women learn how to have an orgasm at first by themselves, then with a partner’s hands or mouth (or both) Facts on American Teens’ Sexual and Reproductive Health Guttmacher Institute January 2010 Reyna VF, Farley F. Is the teen brain too rational? Scientific American Mind. 2006–2007;59-65. Powell K. How does the teenage brain work?. Nature. 2006;442(24):865-7 “I don't know if I've ever had an orgasm” • Start with the basics • Explain or show her where her pleasurable anatomy is • Outline a plan together • If she has a partner, help her or them determine a strategy for their intimacy during her “program” Shaft of Clitoris (Body or Corpus) Head of Clitoris (Glans) Urethral Sponge (G-Spot) Vestibular Bulbs Legs of Clitoris (Clitoral Bulbs) (Crus/Crura) Vaginal Opening Perineal Sponge © Center for the Intimate Arts 2010 Pre-orgasmic • Privacy! • Start with self exploration; looking in the mirror (if she’s comfortable) touching to learn where things are. • Progress to self touch for pleasure. • Add any erotic tools; toys, Eros device, clitoral stimulants, books, videos. • Women respond to “aural” arousal. Most Intriguing 21st Century Vibrator Will using a vibrator make it impossible for me to have sex with a partner? • It will teach your nerve pathways how to go from A-Z. • You can use a vibrator with your partner. Clitoral Stimulants EROS Clitoral Therapy Device Pre-orgasmic→Orgasmic • Let her know that the “self critic” or the ”observer” is always hovering around • It’s worse with a partner • But it does a good job of keeping orgasms away even when we’re all alone Pre-orgasmic→Orgasmic • Let her know that the “self critic” or the ”observer” is always hovering around • It’s worse with a partner • But it does a good job of keeping orgasms away even when we’re all alone Pre-orgasmic→Orgasmic • Explain that once she finds what feels good she should continue doing whatever it is – Then do it harder – Or maybe faster – She can try: • Contracting the PC muscle • Bearing down • Moving her head or feet © Center for the Intimate Arts 2010 Orgasmic • Once she can have an orgasm by herself → practice non-penetrative play with her partner (or penetrative play if she is has liked penetration for orgasm already) • Show and tell her partner how Orgasmic→ Penetration • Once she can have an orgasm with a partner, she can transition to using the same kind of stimulation technique to include penetration if she wants to • Penetration in addition to external stimulation as needed • Coital alignment Coital Alignment • To make clitoral contact possible during coitus. • Basic physiological alignment that provides consistent and effective stimulation for female coital orgasm Aaron PP. The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT): An Overview of Studies, Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 2000:(26):3, 257-268 Eichel EW. The technique of coital alignment and its relation to female orgasmic response and simultaneous orgasm. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy 1988:(14):2;129-141 The Position Combines the: a. “Riding high” variation of the missionary posture b. With genitally focused pressure-counterpressure stimulus applied in the coordination of sexual movement © Center for the Intimate Arts 2010 © Center for the Intimate Arts 2010 “With permission, from A New View of A Woman’s Body by the Federation of Feminist Women’s Health Centers.” Illustrations by Suzann Gage. Care of the vulva/perineum No Products • Wash with water after urinating or defecating • Non-alcohol hypo-allergenic baby wipe if no access to water • No soap, body wash, body creams • No residue of detergent or fabric softener on underwear Natural Beauty Cleansing Bar •pH of 4.5 •500 IU of Vitamin E •No soap or detergent •Made by Nature’s Plus Dysparunia: Whom to Ask Any woman who is: • Perimenopausal • Postpartum • On DMPA • Post op for gyn surgery or breast CA surgery • Complaining of pelvic pain • Postmenopausal Dysparunia: What to Ask Arousal? Orgasm? Pain in vulvar or vaginal area—examine when asking/showing Is the pain with deep thrusting? New or long standing? Related to a certain partner? What else is going on in her life? Introital or Vaginal Problem: Solution: Fissure– look closely No penetration until healed Lubrication; consider albolene If chronic evaluate further Anatomic: endometriosis implant, vaginal septum, hymenal restriction, vaginal stricture Repair, surgery, tx endometriosis s/p episiotomy or laceration scar +/- granulation tissue/polyp Ablation/silver nitrate, massage s/p vaginal surgery check for mesh exposure, suture material, granulation tissue, fistula, adhesions Withagen MI, Vierhout ME, Hendriks JC, Kluivers KB, Milani AL. Risk Factors for Exposure, Pain and Dyspareunia After Tension-Free Vaginal Mesh Procedure. Obstet Gynecol. 2011; 118(3): 629-636 Edwards L. Vulvar fissures: causes and therapy. Dermatol Therapy. 2004;17(1):111–6. Introital or Vaginal Problem: Solution: Atrophic changes Lubricant, Luvena, Topical estrogen Vulvar pain syndrome: vestibulodynia, vulvodynia, pudendal neuralgia Complex solutions: rx, refer to a specialist, physical therapy, biofeedback, consider myofacial origin Lichen sclerosis, lichen planus, Biopsy; evaluate, topical steroid rx Vaginitis Tx as appropriate Inadequate lubrication or arousal Add lubrication +/or address arousal issue Deep Problem: Solution: Endometriosis, adenomyosis OCP, DMPA, LNG IUS, GnRH agonist, androgen, aromatase inhibitor Retroverted/flexed uterus Relaxed musculature Patient education; Pelvic muscle strengthening, select coital position S/P pelvic surgery Assess orgasmic response, check for complications Pelvic or rectal mass; cyst, tumor, fibroid, adhesions Assessment and treatment Interstitial cystitis, IBS, IBD, diverticulitis, PID, UTI Assessment and treatment Inadequate lubrication or arousal Add lubrication +/or address arousal issue Falcone T, Lebovic DI. Clinical Management of Endometriosis. Obstet Gynecol. 2011; 118(3): 691-705 Basson R. Clinical Updates in Women’s Health Care: Sexuality and Sexual Disorders. ACOG 2003;11(2):22-32. Vital Vulva • Lubricant for daily use or “as needed” • Not just for sex…makes a dry vulva happy MoonMaid Botanical Skin Care “I used to want sex all the time but now I have no sex drive. Is there a pill that will help?” Ask for more information: • Any pain? • Relationship issues? • Life stressors? • Does she get aroused when she has sex? • Does she have an orgasm? PDE-5 inhibitors for women? • Can they increase desire or arousal in women by improving blood flow to the female genitalia? • Studies found PDE-5 inhibitors did increase genital blood flow in women • Did not result in any real increase in desire or arousal >placebo • PDE-5 inhibitors did improve sexual function >placebo in women who had satisfactory sex lives before developing sexual problems after starting an SSRI antidepressant Nurnberg HG, Hensley PL, Heiman JR, et al. Sildenafil treatment of women with antidepressant-associated sexual dysfunction: a randomized controlled trial. JAMA 2008; 300:395-404. Bupropion • SSRI antidepressants can ↓ desire/orgasm • Bupropion works differently than SSRIs • May be a good antidepressant option for women with depression who are concerned about or have sexual side effects on SSRIs MR Safarinejad et al. A randomized, double‐blind, placebo controlled study of the efficacy and safety of bupropion for treating hypoactive sexual desire disorder in ovulating women. BJU Int 2010; 106:832. Drugs for Female Sexual Dysfunction. The Medical Letter. Vol 52 (Issues 1353/1354). December 13/27, 2010 Clayton AH, Warnock JK, Kornstein SG, et al. A placebo-controlled trial of bupropion SR as an antidote for selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor-induced sexual dysfunction. J Clin Psychiatry 2004;65:62–67. Moll JL, The Use of Monoamine Pharmacological Agents in the Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction: Evidence in the Literature J Sex Med 2011;8:956–970 Bupropion • Nondepressed pts with desire and arousal difficulties have improved sexual functioning bupropion > placebo • More study needed MR Safarinejad et al. A randomized, double‐blind, placebo controlled study of the efficacy and safety of bupropion for treating hypoactive sexual desire disorder in ovulating women. BJU Int 2010; 106:832. Drugs for Female Sexual Dysfunction. The Medical Letter. Vol 52 (Issues 1353/1354). December 13/27, 2010 Clayton AH, Warnock JK, Kornstein SG, et al. A placebo-controlled trial of bupropion SR as an antidote for selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor-induced sexual dysfunction. J Clin Psychiatry 2004;65:62–67. Moll JL, The Use of Monoamine Pharmacological Agents in the Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction: Evidence in the Literature J Sex Med 2011;8:956–970 Consider a Contract “If you can get me aroused, I’m all for it!!” • Both partners agree that if one of them has the motivation and bravery to initiate a sexual encounter, the other one will (at least) give it a try. • It doesn’t mean that they will always have sex, or even the kind of sex the initiator intended • But the initiator can expect their partner will be open to the idea • Fear of rejection is a huge turn-off Fun Video • http://www.ted.com/talks/mary_roach_10_th ings_you_didn_t_know_about_orgasm.html What ever happened to pubic hair • A brazilian as a rite of passage? • Increase sensation or feel more numb by exposure? • The endangered species REPRODUCTIVE LIFE PLAN (RLP) RLP: What is it? • A self-assessment of her life goals • Goals in several broad categories – Education – Work/Career – Family Planning • We assist or guide as needed RLP: Purpose • To reveal our clients genuine intentions regarding reproduction • So she absorbs what is most important to her • So that she can: – obtain necessary information – make choices – adhere to her plan – fulfill her own goals. • Ambivalence is expected RLP: How does it help? • It shows how motivated she is to become pregnant or prevent pregnancy • Once this is clarified we can begin the process of offering appropriate interventions • Contraception or not • Highly effective or not • Preconception Care • Life goals prior to planned pregnancy Sample RLP questions: Do you want to have (more) children? (Someday?) If so: When? (Or how old would you like to be?) How many children would you like to have? How long do you want to wait between pregnancies? How would you feel if you were to become pregnant over the next few months? • What are you hoping to accomplish before then? • • • • Discovering clients true motivations • The point of a RLP is to get substantive information from our clients about what is motivating them so we can help them make better choices • The client is the one who will make the choices MOTIVATIONAL INTERVIEWING (MI) Motivational Interviewing with contraception counseling • Saves time • Effective • Client centered When is MI not needed? A patient says: “Give me the most effective method you’ve got!” MI has been used for • • • • • • Addiction counseling and treatment Contraception counseling Behavior change Diabetes self management Weight loss Medication adherence MI: the approach Start from a place of respect Guiding not directing Not “me vs. you” rather…“us together on the same side” Help patients feel motivated by having them verbalize their own reproductive and life goals • Identify what is personally meaningful or of value to the patient rather than those things that we as the HCP think are most important • • • • MI: the benefit • Reduces frustration with the patient and subsequently ourselves • Removes our ego… – “I need to make this patient do what’s good for her.” – “I want to protect her from an unnecessary unplanned pregnancy!” – “If can’t get through to my patient, I fail.” • Our morale as HCPs will be exhausted without success Ineffective strategies Taking sides in the patients ambivalence • Threatening bad outcomes; – “You’ll get pregnant if you don’t ...” – This gets their attention but doesn’t work for behavior change • Giving advice assumes this person simply doesn’t know enough. • To offer one idea after another = exhaustion Accept ambivalence • MI elicits behavior change by helping clients explore and resolve ambivalence. • Expect, find, accept and show ambivalence • Also called developing discrepancy • Just showing the discrepancy is a powerful way to help patients make better choices Ambivalence On one hand we want to accomplish our goals Rewards Obstacles On the other are many obstacles Motivation for contraceptive use • With perfect use of contraception – 1 year, – 3 years, – 5-10 years, – 20+ years…what will happen?? • The best case scenario... Nothing! Obstacles • All contraceptive methods have potential side effects • Fear of negative health effects • Risk for unplanned pregnancy is theoretical • Perception of risk is not fully rational and is based on past life experience---ask Obstacles • Contraceptive sabotage by a partner • Logistical constraints – Cost – Wait times – Work schedule – Transportation – Childcare Obstacles Intermittent/inconsistent sexual partnering • Believes she doesn’t need contraception (today) • Ask specific details of what she did and when • Ask if she intends or would like to be sexual with someone in the next month, year… two years CASE STUDIES Sandy 16 yr old G1 P0 TAB 1 RLP: • Wants to get pregnant now • Ask about her life goals • Find something about her behavior that is “mature” and refer to it • Review PCC (insert reality) • Demonstrate that you believe she is in charge of her own life Rather than tell her she’s too young: • “You will be a wonderful mother some day…and to be an even better mother, what would you like to accomplish before you have a baby? (or in addition) ” • “Sounds like you’ve given this some thought (or “you are obviously smart”), what are some ways you see yourself handling this?” Maria BMI 31 22 year old G2 P0 TAB 2 student RLP: • Wants children one day. At least 3 years from now. Wants to be married, finish school. She’s clear that she is not willing to have another abortion • Prior DMPA (gained weight), very concerned that hormones cause weight gain. Mostly has used withdrawal and doesn’t believe she has ever gotten pregnant that way Maria • “You said that you are using the pull out method now. And on the one hand you feel that if you get pregnant you would continue the pregnancy, yet you also are pretty sure you don’t want to have a baby right now. Do I have that right?” • “What would you like to accomplish before you have a baby? And what else?” (Refer to RLP life goals) Maria • “If delaying pregnancy until you finish school is very important to you, would you be interested in using one of the top tier methods?” • “Since a lot of women who rely on their partner to “pull out” get pregnant, would you like to talk about pre-natal vitamins and other things that are important to do to prepare for pregnancy?” Understanding objections • If we listen well enough to where the resistance has come from we can develop discrepancy (describe the ambivalence) Confidence Ruler Melanie Gold DO 0 Least 2 4 6 8 10 Most Quantitative: “A ruler” “Think of how you feel about getting pregnant right now and then see if you can tell me where you fall on a scale of 1-10. 1 being that it would be the worst thing you can imagine, and 10 being that it would make you the happiest you could possibly be.” Demonstrate Ambivalence in Maria • “a 2” • “Why would you say you aren’t you a lower #?” • “I’m not ready for a baby but I know that I won’t have another abortion because I am an adult and having a baby wouldn’t be the absolute worst thing in the world” • “Why do you think the # might not be higher?” • “I really want to wait a few more years!” Or qualitative questions: • “How would you feel if you got pregnant now?” “How ready are you?” “How important is it to you to avoid pregnancy?” Repeat or rephrase examples “Let me make sure I understand you.”? • “So on one hand you don’t want to get pregnant…do I have this right? Yet, you are not using birth control. How does this fit in with your not wanting to get pregnant?”…Her reply uncovers the ambivalence Make it real • “On one hand you really want to get pregnant in the future, but not right now, and on the other hand, it sounds like a part of you would like to have a baby now? Do I have that right?” • “Have you discussed this with your partner? Do you plan to tell him? How do you think he would react?” Information sandwich Illicit/provide/illicit model Sandwich the statement that gives the information you want Maria to have between two questions that are relevant to her: • I: “How have you been feeling with your IUD?” • P: “Even though you don’t feel different, we know that your IUD is working to keep you from getting pregnant before you are ready” • I: “What do you think of that?” What now? Open ended… • What do you think you will do? • What birth control are you thinking can help you... (fill in with her stated goal)? • What do you see as your options? • Where do we go from here? • What happens next? Rather than: • Do you have any questions? • Do you understand? Final steps • Plan for obstacles; they have great intentions but they return to their lives once they leave the office • Close the deal –Operationalize same day IUD placement –Ask “How do you feel about this” –Plan concrete next steps QUESTIONS References for MI • ACOG Committee Opinion: Motivational Interviewing: A Tool for behavior Change; 423; Jan 2009. • Barnet B et al. Cost-effectiveness of a Motivational Intervention to Reduce Rapid Repeated Childbearing in High-Risk Adolescent Mothers Arch Pediatr Adolesc Med. 2010;164(4):370-376 • Barnet B et al. Motivational Intervention to Reduce Rapid Subsequent Births to Adolescent Mothers: A Community-Based Randomized Trial Ann Fam Med 2009;7:436-445. • Gold Melanie et al. Motivational Interviewing Strategies to facilitate Adolescent Behavior Change. 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