A Walk Down Memory Lane
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A Walk Down Memory Lane
A Walk Down Memory Lane A collection of writing and reminiscence of memories and musings Compiled and edited by D E Baruch A Walk Down Memory Lane The collection of writing and reminiscence project was funded by: Wolverhampton City Libraries And ABCD Partnership 2 A Walk Down Memory Lane Contents Acknowledgements Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group Introduction Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group ‘We Left Home’ Why We Came England Has Been Kind to Me Day Out at Bantock House Housing Johnny’s Story First Impressions ‘The First Snow’ Working In Wolverhampton Church and Socialising Church Socialising Sayings Our Philosophy Reflections ‘When I Close My Eyes’ Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group Photo Gallery 3 4 5 6 8 10 13 14 16 17 18 19 21 22 23 25 26 27 28 A Walk Down Memory Lane Acknowledgements Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group Special Thanks to: Dorothy Baruch - Poet/Writer and Workshop Leader Bantock House Museum Dave Finchett –Photographer Libraries Without Walls project is Funded by the ABCD Partnership and Wolverhampton Libraries and Information Service For more information about the project contact: Tina Campbell: Library Link Worker All Saints Learning Hub, All Saints Road, Wolverhampton. WV1 1EL. Email - tina.campbell@dial.pipex.com 4 A Walk Down Memory Lane Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group Compilation of stories, proverbs, memories and reflections Introduction The writings in this collection tell the stories of Blakenhall Seniors and Friends Group. They are memories of arriving in Wolverhampton between early 1950s and late 1960s. Sometimes a story takes the individual back to childhood at which time he/she talks about growing up, especially in Jamaica. When this happens the story is included in the collection. The group also talked about proverbs or adages that they remember and how over the years they now understand their meanings. These have been included in the hope that they will not be forgotten. The stories and memories are not historical facts but individual’s memories and stories; there is no verification of facts or alteration of inconsistencies. The group provided its own editing by reaffirming ideas and stories until they all agreed or were all satisfied with a story or proverb. The collection is written in their words or is based on the words and expressions they provided. The writings follow the format in which the stories are told. Members of the group told their stories to writer and poet D E Baruch over three days. They told of their fears, concerns, surprises, and the process of adjusting to a new, cold and sometimes unfriendly country. The memories are sometimes painful and sad but overall there have been happy times. The work follows their arrival to the present. Everyone present over the three days willingly contributed on the understanding that some things would not be recorded. 5 A Walk Down Memory Lane Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group The Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group started in June 2004. Prior to this there was the Blakenhall and St. Peter’s Group. That group ran for seventeen years. When it was disbanded this new was formed. Some of the people who attended that group are now a part of the Blakenhall Group. Ivan Maxwell is one of the original members. The group aims to provide recreational, social, cultural and educational activities for the elderly and housebound African Caribbean residents who live in and around the area. ‘After the work they allow us to have tea’ The Chairman, Tony Bunsie adds that ‘above all, the central objective is to get the Caribbean community involved in its own destiny’. There are over 20 members in the group and it is constantly growing. They recruit new members through advertisement in the local and electronic media, through word-of-mouth and at social events that they hold. They are on the internet so people can always find out about them. They meet every Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Some of their activities are Sewing, Crafts and socialising. They frequently run courses and usually have qualified teachers to teach 6 A Walk Down Memory Lane Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group the lessons. In November two lectures will be offering courses in Cake Decorating and Fashion and Design. Tony was emphatic that everyone, irrespective of age or race is welcome to attend the group. ‘The men behind the ladies’ ‘That is why we are called Seniors and Friends’. A sample of Ruby’s work’ 7 A Walk Down Memory Lane We Left Home’ Poem by D.E. Baruch We left home for the Mother Land Enoch came, saying We need aid. The posters beckoned “Come to England Work in the mines We need drivers for the buses And nurses for the sick”. We left our homes for the Mother Land Children pulling at our skirts Knowing we would be gone Five years we said Then we’ll be back Things will be better then No need to cry, Mama not going to stay long, Just to help the Mother Land. We left our homes for the Mother Land 8 A Walk Down Memory Lane We Left Home’ Poem by D.E. Baruch “Land of Plenty” Frost and snow. “Land of Plenty” Go back, you black! Land of Plenty You took our jobs Land of Plenty Forty long years… Still seeking the Mother Land. We Left Home was written by D E Baruch using the words of the Blakenhall Group. ‘I came because my mother said it would be good for me to go to England. I came in 1955 and I have always lived in Blakenhall. We moved about three times but always in the same area.’ Lena Woodstock 9 A Walk Down Memory Lane ‘Why We came’ By Tony Bunsie I came in 1958. I was only ten years old. My parents were already here and I yearned to be with them. I went to Dudley Road School. It isn’t a school anymore. I was the only black boy at the school. ‘I had a terrible time at school’. I was teased because I was black and they saw me as someone different. The other children asked stupid questions like ‘how did you manage living in trees? It was just silly’. Sometimes I had problems understanding the teachers and the other children. It was Wolverhampton and part of the Black Country that spoke in a different way. When I didn’t understand what the teachers said they thought I was dumb but it was just the way they spoke. They were not very helpful. When I went to college things were different. The 10 A Walk Down Memory Lane ‘Why We came’ By Tony Bunsie lecturers cturers treated you like an equal. When you asked questions they answered. They treated you with respect, like you were a person. Things got better and now I feel more British than Jamaican because I have spent most of my life in this country. 11 A Walk Down Memory Lane Why We came’ By Daisy Streete In 1961 I came to my husband. That was my reason for coming to England. I left six children behind and it was heart breaking. We had no plans about how long we would stay. As soon as I got here I went to work. My first job was at Parkfield Hospital. It was the TB hospital. It isn’t there anymore. I didn’t work there for long because I fell pregnant and my husband didn’t like me working there with me being pregnant. After having the baby I didn’t go back there but it was sad because the Matron liked me and recommended that I became an Ambulance driver. I didn’t tell her I was pregnant until it was time for me to take my medical. Then I had to tell her. After that I went to work at the Women’s Hospital at West Park. It is now West Park Hospital. ‘Living in England was hard. Living condition was hard but things are better now’. 12 A Walk Down Memory Lane England Has Been Kind to Me By Ivan Maxwell When I came to England in 1955 I was forty years old. I lived at Penn Road with a friend. We came together on the ship. I only worked for twenty five years and for all of those years I worked at British Rails. In my twenty five years there, I was never sick and I was never late. They gave me an award for that. I made £7 1shilling a week. ‘In those days things was cheap and a little bit of money went a long way. Sixpence could buy you almost a whole cow’s liver’. In 1960 I trust (credited) my house. I can’t say I buy it because I didn’t pay for it cash’. In was in Whitmore Reans and that is where most of the children were born. When it got too small, there were nine of us living there, social services said we had to buy a bigger house or get a Council house. I told them I was too old to buy another house so the Council gave us a six bed roomed house. England has been kind to me. 13 A Walk Down Memory Lane Day Out at Bantock House Tina welcoming the Group’ We enjoyed the tour. This is our first visit because we didn’t know such a beautiful house was right on our doorstep. I am sure we will visit it again 14 A Walk Down Memory Lane Day Out at Bantock House We listened to Helen who was our guide for the morning. Bantock House is a lovely house with a beautiful garden but Being on television is even better 15 A Walk Down Memory Lane ‘Housing’ Johnny’s Story I came here in 1956. We travelled for twenty one days on the ship. It cost £75 on the ship and £85 on the plane. The ship landed in Portsmouth and I headed straight for Wolverhampton. At first the whites wouldn’t rent to us so when you found a place lots of us stayed there. I shared a room with five other people. We rent our beds for £1 2shillings and 6pence a week. People worked shifts so when one set was at work in the day another set would be sleeping and each of us paid for the rented bed. When two of us shared the same bed, we still paid separately, the same £1 2s 6p. In 1960 I got married and moved to a room. Just one room for me and my wife. We had no bathroom and the toilet was outside. In the winter you could see the icicle hanging from the water cistern. When I just came the men told me that sometimes it was so cold that when you tried to pee it would freeze before it hit the toilet. I have never seen that but I know that you wouldn’t go unless you really had to. It was so cold. We went to the public baths to get a bath. We paid half a crown to use the baths. The only way for us survive with the housing situation was to buy our own houses. We drop pardner and when the money came in one of us would buy a house and move out of the room we shared. 16 A Walk Down Memory Lane ‘Housing’ First Impressions When We First Saw the Houses The houses in Jamaica were single-floor dwellings surrounded by open areas for gardening. Usually the front area had a flower garden and at the rear there would be a vegetable garden with lots of fruit trees. People who lived in the country had wide open spaces, England was a shock to the new arrivals. What I Saw Coming into town I saw the factories Low and even they lined the streets I was certain of work In this my new home What lovely factories my companions stated They are coolie barracks, Ready for the workers. Army barracks said another They’ve just finished a war In this our new home Some sweet lady in her hobble skirt Minced her way to the door You are all wrong They are factories with lovely net curtains In this our new home. All was out done when the elderly statesman spoke I see a single house each side of the street So I know there’ll be plenty For those who will work In this our new home Back where I come from Only the rich can afford Such grand houses. The people have much I’m sure they will share In this our new home But they were all wrong The barracks, the factories Was to be our new home. For they were the houses And few were landlords In this our new home ‘What I Saw’ written by D E Baruch using the words of those attending the Group 17 A Walk Down Memory Lane First Impressions The First Snow by D E Baruch Oh it was so beautiful! And someone answered, But it was so cold. The dark places were covered in white And someone replied, But the fog soon followed. Oh it was horrible! I hated wearing that big heavy coat And the big winter boots. But the night was beautiful All covered in white. I thought it was good I went straight back to bed But my husband woke me up. It is morning, we must leave for work. Nobody works when it snows, At home, we don’t work in the rain Then it was not so good. I went to work and I soon learned to cope. The day that I came no sun shone. The First Snow’ was written be DE Baruch using the words of those who attend the Group. 18 A Walk Down Memory Lane Working In Wolverhampton By Emiline Fannell In Jamaica I was a dressmaker but when I came to my husband in 1957 I worked for a short time at Clarke's Brothers Paint Shop. Leaving my three children behind was devastating but I only intended spending two years here and my husband said he’d spend three. I have lived in this country for forty eight years. I worked for twenty one years as a nurse at Burton Road Hospital in Dudley. That hospital is no longer there. Shortly after I came here I got pregnant and gave birth to twins. I disliked living in rooms so shortly after having the babies we bought our home. It wasn’t very easy buying a home then, because whites didn’t like having blacks living beside them. Our neighbours were white and they weren’t very kind especially to the children. The saddest thing for me was watching my children play in cramped spaces. In Jamaica there was always space to play and places to roam. Though some people weren’t accepting or friendly to us the police were always kind and helpful. 19 A Walk Down Memory Lane Working In Wolverhampton By Girley James I came to my partner in December 1960 and we were married early the next year. I didn’t go out to work because we owned a grocery store. My husband has always been self-employed. After the children grew up I went back to college and trained as a Social Care Worker. That became my occupation until I retired. 20 A Walk Down Memory Lane Church and Socialising Church Most of the churches were not welcoming to us. If we went to one of these churches we would be encouraged not to come back or when we went back the following Sunday, the seats were taken, reserved for others or peoples names would be placed on them. Most of the churches we have today started in someone’s front room. Later on we rent school halls. Many of our children were christened or baptised by Pastor Brown when he held Sunday services at Old Hall Street School which he rented for Sunday services. Today our churches are still growing and we are welcomed into all churches. 21 A Walk Down Memory Lane Church and Socialising Church When we went to the pub we stayed in one corner and the whites stayed in another. We never mixed. We worked together and got on well at work but after work if they saw us on the streets or in the pubs they wouldn’t speak to us. We didn’t have much time for socialising but when there was a wedding we would all be there. We didn’t wait for an invitation. If someone heard there was a wedding he would find out where the party would be held and everybody would turn up. It didn’t take long to full a house when someone got married. Weddings was the most important social event that we held. Not long after coming here we realised that if we wanted entertainment we had to provide it for ourselves. Soon almost everyone owned a Blaupunkt Radiogram. This was the beginning of our Blues parties. They were called Blues parties in honour of the Blaupunkt Radiogram. No one organised a party. It was understood that on a Saturday evening back home music would be playing while the men had a few drinks and played dominoes. We missed home. To ease the homesickness someone would play a few records on his radiogram while he had a drink and that was all it took to have a room full of people. They had a drink and listened to the music or danced if they felt like it. That was the Blues party and how we entertained ourselves. 22 A Walk Down Memory Lane Sayings Nuh cut yu cloth before yu measure it. ‘Never cut your cloth before you measure it’. Be sure of what you are doing before you start. One-one cocoa full basket. If you put a little away, you will eventually have enough Nuh put all yu egg in a one basket. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Always have a backup plan. A nuh fi de want a tongue why cow nuh talk. It’s not for the want of a tongue why cows do not speak. It’s not everything you see or hear you should repeat. Nuh count yu chicken before dem hatch. Don’t count your chickens before they are hatched. Wait for the result before you use it. A man never know de use a ‘im behind ‘till boil bruck out pon it. A man never knows the use of his behind until he gets a boil on it. You never realise the value of something until you’ve lost it. 23 A Walk Down Memory Lane Sayings Dawg with to much yard go a bed widout dinner Dog with too many homes goes to bed without dinner If you have too many homes you will go hungry Eberyday bucket da go a well one de bottom mus drop out Everyday the bucket is taken to the well, one day its bottom will fall out The more chances you take the more likely it is that you will get caught A nuh de same dey leaf drop inna water-battam it rotten It’s not the same day that a leaf falls into the water that it rots. Whatever you do it will eventually catch up with you Hard ears pickney dead a sun hot Hard ears child will die in the hot sun. Disobedient children will get into trouble Yu have to tek de ruff wid de smooth You have to take the rough with the smooth Learn to take the bad times as well as the good times 24 A Walk Down Memory Lane Our Philosophy We Want the Young Ones to Remember…. Use all opportunity offered to you. Lena Woodstock Get an education. Behave yourselves. Esperanza Smith Make use of everything. Emiline Fannell Education. Education. Education! Tony Bunsie Don’t run with gangs, there is a better way. Johnny McKenzie To achieve you must work hard at it because Rome wasn’t built in a day. Merdel Faulkner 25 A Walk Down Memory Lane Reflections When we first came to England most of us came directly to Wolverhampton. We came with the intention of spending five years, then we’d go home. All of us that are here today have lived in Wolverhampton between forty and fifty years. We have lived here longer than we have lived in Jamaica. It was hard when we first came. The weather and the people were cold. We missed our homes, our loved ones, our children and fresh fruits and vegetables. We had our children here and those we left behind we sent for them. Over the years we have given much to the country and we have seen some big changes The weather is better. The people are more accepting of us. Our children get a good education and better opportunities than we had. Even the houses are better, they have central heating. We don’t need paraffin heaters anymore. We have proper bathrooms, no need to rely on our basins and pails or tin bathtubs when we need a wash. The place looks a lot better especially here in Blakenhall where they have pulled down some of the buildings that were unattractive. So much is going on. Wolverhampton is not a bad place to live. Our children and grandchildren are here and we know this place better than we know Jamaica. We call both countries our home. 26 A Walk Down Memory Lane When I Close My Eyes Poem by D E Baruch When I close my eyes Lay me in this country My soul will not be here And I will not need this frame So when I close my eyes Lay me quickly down to sleep When I close my eyes Lay me close to loved ones Who have gone before In this place I have made my home Remember when I close my eyes Do not place me on a plane For that home I will not know Lay me quickly here to rest In this place I call my home ‘When I Close My Eyes is written by D E Baruch based on the words and certainty of the group that when they die they wish to be buried in England. Girley has the final say on the matter: ‘If they take our bodies to Jamaica our duppies won’t be free to walk about. Them don’t know Jamaica well enough, but if they bury us in England the duppies know Blakenhall and can walk free.’ 27 A Walk Down Memory Lane Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group Photo Gallery Enjoying the work and having a good yarn’ 28 A Walk Down Memory Lane Blakenhall Caribbean Seniors and Friends Group Photo Gallery ‘Tina wanted to join the group so she bribed the group with Tea and biscuits’. Esperanza loves been a part of the group. 29 30